1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: Coming up on relatables. What's underrated when it comes to 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: sexy time? When he breathes into your ear. 3 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:09,040 Speaker 2: Or neck, you like the heavy, like the hot breath. 4 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 2: The women like that hot breath. 5 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 3: Five minute missionary when you both finish is the best 6 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 3: feeling in the world. 7 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: And like it can't be planned Relatable Relatables podcast. 8 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 4: It'sposedly by myself Jake Creg aka Daddy, and my partner 9 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 4: in crime is Alry Call like aka mummy and Odd 10 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 4: is mummy because um, you guys always about to find 11 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 4: out because I'm going to come to him with just 12 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 4: maybe a confession, like maybe you go to your mom 13 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 4: for confessions. 14 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, hopefully, hopefully, and hopefully I can give some good advice. 15 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: And Jake is daddy because he turns up at the 16 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: right time. Is that the opposite of a daddy? I 17 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:04,680 Speaker 1: think a running joke is it's the opposite of a dad. 18 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:07,400 Speaker 1: Let's change the norm a good dad. 19 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go. 20 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 5: You guys are the baddies. 21 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 2: Welcome in. 22 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 4: If it's your first time here, this is going to 23 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 4: be maybe pretty telling of who is who? 24 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I'm kind of enough. You've done something I. 25 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: Don't know it's probably best if I tell them we 26 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 1: didn't set yourself then. 27 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 2: No, no, no. 28 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 4: Also, if you're new here, something you'll find out is 29 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 4: that my life is basically just one big long poo with. 30 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 2: Breaks in between. 31 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 1: Heard someone say that on the podcast, and I thought, 32 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: I'm stealing that your life is one big long pooh. 33 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 2: We've there's some short breaks in between. 34 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, on the topic of poo quickly, I'll get it 35 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 4: my story in a second. Beth told me that, So 36 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 4: she's like, you need to stop sitting on the toilet 37 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 4: for so long because. 38 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 2: You can get him as I've heard this. 39 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 5: Is it true? 40 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 2: I hope not. 41 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 4: And the one reason I don't think it's true is 42 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 4: because i'd have one. 43 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 2: Okay, so this morning I had a bit of a morning. 44 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 4: Okay, I am, I'm driving along, got Darcy with me 45 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 4: and your pet sausage dog, my pet sausage dog. 46 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 2: She's actually just right down next to sleeping. She must 47 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 2: sit in my lap. What a pretty rude If you 48 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 2: ask me, maybe this is why, and I did, maybe 49 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 2: this is why. 50 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 4: Actually I did kind of question if I should tell 51 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:49,880 Speaker 4: this story or not. But it's going to be a 52 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 4: good lesson for me and a good lesson for all 53 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 4: the baddies that are like me. 54 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 2: No, okay, Yeah. So I was driving and I live 55 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,800 Speaker 2: in Sydney, keep in mind, and we record the podcast 56 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 2: on the Central Coast. It's an hour and a half drive. 57 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 4: I live in the Inner West, so I have to 58 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 4: drive thirty minutes to the freeway. And when I left, 59 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 4: I was like driving along and there's like two separate 60 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 4: times where I can choose to go and take toll roads, 61 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 4: and the toll roads at the time of day that 62 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 4: I left today save me about five minutes. 63 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 2: And so I thought, I'm not going to pay the money. 64 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 2: It's twenty bucks. 65 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I thought, I'm gonna pay twenty bucks to 66 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 4: say five minutes. 67 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 2: I'll just take the. 68 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 4: Normal way and I'll just you know, meander around. And 69 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 4: so there's a lot of main roads you take and 70 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 4: they're all pretty much three lane going each way. And 71 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 4: so there's this intersection that I come up to a 72 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 4: pretty big intersection where I need to turn left, and 73 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 4: so I always, you know, about like two kilometers in advance, 74 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 4: I just go into the far left lane, just always do. 75 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 2: It's almost like muscle memory by now. 76 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 4: And I pull over into the left lane I'm getting there, 77 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 4: and then I'm about I'm only probably like five hundred 78 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 4: meters from this turn, and I can see there's like 79 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 4: maybe ten cars stopped in front of me, like full 80 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 4: like stopped stopped, and then it goes down into a 81 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 4: hill and up so you can see the road ahead 82 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 4: and there's no cars there, and I'm like, okay, weird. 83 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 4: I wonder why the person at the front is stopped. 84 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 4: So I drive and I actually just stay in this lane, 85 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 4: thinking like sometimes I risk it. Sometimes I think it's 86 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:18,839 Speaker 4: a bus or something stopped, and so I pull up 87 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 4: and I come to a full stop. I'm probably the 88 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 4: tenth or eleventh car, and then a car stops behind me. 89 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 4: And then in this situation, I'm like, oh, I need 90 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 4: to wait for them to go. So they pull out 91 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 4: and go I check right. I'm like, oh sweet, it's 92 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 4: my turn. I blinker on pull out to go right. 93 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:44,279 Speaker 4: Some guy in front of me, very very last second 94 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:47,720 Speaker 4: decides he's gonna go, and so I split second went 95 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:50,159 Speaker 4: before him. So I was pretty committed, and so I 96 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 4: was gonna pull out literally, so I'm when the far 97 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 4: left there's three lanes. 98 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 2: I was gonna pull out just into the middle right 99 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:55,919 Speaker 2: because I didn't. 100 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 4: Want to pull off all the way so I could 101 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 4: go boom, was gonna pull out in the middle. I go, 102 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 4: this guy pulls out into the middle, and I if 103 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 4: I keep going, I'm gonna hit him. And so I 104 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 4: keep going to the right to pull out into the 105 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 4: far right lane. 106 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 2: I hear a beeph. My car hits another car. It's 107 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 2: like a small Twitter Corolla thing. 108 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 4: It like fully hits it right, not hard enough to 109 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 4: veer either of us off path. Yeah, but it like 110 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 4: it like obviously hits it. 111 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 2: Like you could hear it. I could feel it, like 112 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 2: it wasn't like nothing jaulty happened because I was going 113 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 2: pretty slow. And then so beeps stops. 114 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,239 Speaker 4: I hit the car at the front of my car, 115 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 4: and I was like fuck fuck. And so it's a 116 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 4: woman driving and she pulls over and she comes down. 117 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 2: She's like what's going on? And I'm like, pull up 118 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 2: to the left. Pull up to the left. 119 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 4: And so this is a very busy road. Pretty much 120 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 4: straight away we create a traffic djram okay, and so 121 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 4: I'm like, fuck, I'm so sorry. 122 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 2: Just pull over to the left. Pull over to the left. 123 00:05:58,120 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 2: She can't pull out. 124 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 4: So the original car that was stopped that had that 125 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:05,360 Speaker 4: small little ten car traffic jam that I was in, 126 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:10,479 Speaker 4: they were still stopped, and so far left lane stopped, 127 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 4: far right lane stopped because. 128 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 2: Me and this girl I just hit. And then the 129 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:14,840 Speaker 2: middle lane's the only one going. 130 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 4: So the guy that pulls out in front of me 131 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:19,599 Speaker 4: watches this happen drives off. I was like, fuck you, 132 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 4: and so to be fair, like it's it's not his fault, 133 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 4: like I just didn't think quick enough in the situation. 134 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 2: I just kept going, and so he drives off, and 135 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 2: then there's just cars, cars, cars, cars, cars. 136 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 4: And she's I said to her, like, pool far left, 137 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 4: like we need to get far left, so the two 138 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 4: right lanes are good, and she couldn't come out, so 139 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:39,359 Speaker 4: she couldn't get out right, and so she wouldn't start 140 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 4: driving either to like, so there was just a full 141 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 4: lane in front of her that was just like free. 142 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 4: So I get out of my car, run to a thing, 143 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 4: and I'm like, there's a petrol station up there. 144 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 2: Just try to get there and I'll meet you there. 145 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 4: And so she does that, she drives off and then 146 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 4: we meet at the petrol station and basically and just like. 147 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I had to the damage of Mike. 148 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 4: I was actually quite minimal, but so like heard the 149 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,159 Speaker 4: passenger door, backseat door on the same dark. 150 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 2: So I just got really fucking scratched. And I was like, 151 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 2: I was like, that definitely wasn't there before. Wasn't she 152 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 2: goes now that wasn't there. I was like, fuck, so 153 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 2: I had a full accident. 154 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 4: Guys, well you're okay accent, and I just said to her, 155 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 4: I was like, I was like, look, let's exchange details, 156 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 4: take photos. 157 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 2: He's a fake name. No, no, I didn't. I felt terrible. 158 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 4: And so then and so basically I said, look, just 159 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 4: he's like I just took fut of my license, like 160 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 4: he got numbers and stuff, and then took photos of 161 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 4: my car her car, so we both have all each 162 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 4: other's details. And I said, just like I said, obviously 163 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 4: I'm going to pay for all your damage. I I 164 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 4: apologize and stuff. I felt terrible. I said, obviously I'm 165 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 4: going to pay for your damage. I said, just yeah, 166 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 4: please let me know how much it is. I'll send 167 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 4: you the money straight away. And I was like, if 168 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 4: you need to get a high car, I'll pay for 169 00:07:58,440 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 4: that and stuff. I felt terrible. 170 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, that sort of just like sinks. Yeah, and I 171 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 2: was just like, fuck, that's so annoying. Yeah, I felt 172 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 2: bad because I'm dancing in the car too. Was she ok? Two? 173 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 2: She was fine through it being impact. That's good. No, no, no, 174 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 2: it wasn't a big impact, but okay. 175 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 4: And so what the follow up questions from you? I 176 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 4: don't want to answer, but I know there is a few. 177 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:23,239 Speaker 4: But wait, I have one more thing to say. Yeah, 178 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 4: so I notice right, So, while so when it first happened, 179 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 4: the person that the front of my car, it's kind 180 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 4: of hard because like, she technically did hit me, but 181 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 4: it was my fault. 182 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:37,439 Speaker 2: You pulled out. 183 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 4: But like, so I say, I hit her. So so 184 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 4: the woman I hit or like scratched. So she pulls 185 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 4: up and stops, and I pull it behind her and stop. 186 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 4: And I notice the person that causes the original little 187 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 4: ten car piloup. The their hazards are on, right, it's 188 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 4: just an suv, so their hazards are on. 189 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 2: And it was it was a woman. 190 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:02,079 Speaker 4: And I see her look and and she looks over 191 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 4: and she's. 192 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 2: Like or gets in her car drives off. I was thinking, 193 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 2: why were you stopped in the first place? 194 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: I thought she had broken down this random stuff in 195 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 1: her car, Yeah, drives off. 196 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 2: I was like, it's weird. This was preventable, so it 197 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 2: wasn't even like yeah, broken down car or anything. 198 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 1: I thought maybe like this woman and someone else had 199 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 1: had a rear ending or something, but like can't really 200 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 1: happen there. 201 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 2: And so maybe she was broken down and stopped. 202 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,079 Speaker 4: But like she goes, shit, I need to get off 203 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:37,959 Speaker 4: this road because I've just accidentally like caused someone else 204 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 4: to cause an accent whatever. 205 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 2: Again, I don't want to put any blame on anyone. 206 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:43,439 Speaker 2: It was my fault. And so then she. 207 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,199 Speaker 1: But she drove off, and I was like, dang it, 208 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 1: why the fuck didn't you just like it made it 209 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: worse because it was an avoidable thing. 210 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, how much damage do you reckon? 211 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 2: It would cost a fix you did? 212 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 4: I have a photo of it, and I don't know 213 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 4: if like I probably shouldn't put it on the poll 214 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 4: show me and put. 215 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 2: It out there. 216 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 1: I can show you because I also say I have 217 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:07,599 Speaker 1: a funny story to follow that you probably already know 218 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 1: what I'm gonna say. 219 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 2: Oh, okay, okay, that's good. 220 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 4: It's just like I just am not too sure if 221 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 4: it's bad enough I think that the two doors might 222 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 4: need to be replaced, which is unfortunate for me. 223 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 1: If it's the two doors, I would say it's a 224 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 1: lot of scratching. I think that can be I think 225 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 1: that's fixable. I would say it's like almost a grand 226 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 1: sway for them. 227 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:29,640 Speaker 2: It's definitely not written off. Yeah, it's not written off, 228 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 2: no way, no. Yeah. And so if it's like two 229 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 2: thousand dollars in under, I'm actually happy. Yeah. If it's 230 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 2: hitting five grand, I'm gonna be like, God, damn. 231 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,320 Speaker 1: This is so bad. He's Jake has just got a 232 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 1: brand new car. We put his car on the business. 233 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: I messaged him like two weeks ago and I said, 234 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,839 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, did you get insurance. 235 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 2: For your car? 236 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: I was like, just making sure he put it on 237 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 1: the business because we'll claim it as an expense. 238 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:54,559 Speaker 2: And he voice messages me. 239 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 5: Back here like, oh, yeah, I did. 240 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 1: I just did the one you got to do to 241 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: transfer it over, which is third party insurance, which only 242 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 1: covers you. 243 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 2: So two weeks. 244 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 1: Ago and you're like, oh, I better get on comprehensive 245 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 1: because your car's worth like fifteen grand. 246 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:09,319 Speaker 2: And if you had comprehensive car insurance, you just. 247 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:10,199 Speaker 5: Have to pay the excess. 248 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, so this is what I wanted to get to. 249 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 2: So this is something I knew you would have pointed out. Right. 250 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: Hopefully it's less than the excess, but usually the excess 251 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:20,960 Speaker 1: is like anywhere from five hundred to a thousand. 252 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, look, fingers crossed. So I was worried that you 253 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 2: were going to say, like, have you got the insurance? 254 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:29,080 Speaker 2: I knew you had third party. 255 00:11:28,800 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 4: And so yeah, and so the answer is no, I 256 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 4: haven't done it. And this is the question I didn't 257 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 4: want answer. But here's the thing, right, So I called 258 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 4: Beth after it happened. 259 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I drove. I like, after I exchanged you 260 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:45,439 Speaker 2: don't know what it did. After I exchanged details with this, 261 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 2: she was actually very nice. It was nice about it. 262 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 2: She was just like, be safe, and I was like, 263 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 2: I'll try, please, I'll try. I'm so sorry. But anyway, 264 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:58,079 Speaker 2: so I called Beth, and but I drove for a 265 00:11:58,120 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 2: while and I. 266 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 4: Was just like, I I you shook. After a I 267 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 4: was I was listening to a podcast. I turned it off, 268 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 4: had to just like I ended up putting music on 269 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 4: because I couldn't listen to the podcast because I was 270 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 4: just rethinking every decision. 271 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 2: I've made that morning. 272 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 4: So one of the things that has actually annoyed me 273 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 4: the most is the fact that I didn't want to 274 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 4: pay twenty dollars in tolls. 275 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 1: When I should have just paid twenty dollars in tolls. 276 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 2: But hindsight's a bitch. 277 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:25,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, hindsight is a bitch. And also who knows. It's 278 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 4: like maybe if I went tolls that day, I would 279 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 4: have ended up in a three car pile up and died. Yeah, 280 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 4: Darcy would have died with me. 281 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 5: Is that glass half fool? 282 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:33,079 Speaker 1: Is that. 283 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 2: So it's like I'm alive. Yeah, that's it, I'm alive. 284 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 2: That's so like my car, genuinely, I it's less than 285 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 2: five hundred dollars damage. Okay, well that's good, I'll show you. 286 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 2: I'll show your PHONEO my car. 287 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 1: It's annoying though, because it's just a new car, and 288 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 1: like you had a bloody shitty little Gets which was 289 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 1: like two thousand dollars. 290 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 2: I know, and also know. 291 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 4: What I also was thinking was like I nearly drove 292 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 4: the Gets here today because I'm going to sell it 293 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:55,680 Speaker 4: pretty soon. There's couple people that are interested, and so 294 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 4: what I wanted to do was drive it on the 295 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,559 Speaker 4: freeway to charge the battery up real nice. And so 296 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 4: I was going to drive the Gats and guess what 297 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 4: if I drove the gets she I wouldn't have hit 298 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 4: her because it's shorter. 299 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:13,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. True. I was like, what the it is? But 300 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 2: you play replay it in your head and you can't 301 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:15,839 Speaker 2: do anything. 302 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, so that's my car. Oh that's just one panel. 303 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:20,559 Speaker 4: Your car's not bad at all. Yeah, my carsin not 304 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:24,080 Speaker 4: bad at all. So like I'm hoping that, Yeah, I'm 305 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 4: really hoping. 306 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 2: That you can that out. 307 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll easily be able to change a panel whatever, 308 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 4: but I just really hope hers isn't like the whole 309 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 4: doors need to be replaced. 310 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 1: But AnyWho, Yeah, a little bit of a big morning. 311 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 1: So I've had you played the cards cool when you 312 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: came here. 313 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 4: Firstly, I know, I had the rest of the rest 314 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 4: of the drive to think about it, and I was 315 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 4: just like, I need to pretend that nothing happened. 316 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:47,960 Speaker 2: So when so when I first got here and you 317 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 2: came up. 318 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:50,960 Speaker 4: I was like, please don't go to the other side 319 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 4: of my car because you would have noticed and like 320 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:54,200 Speaker 4: what happened to. 321 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 2: Be like always there? 322 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god, but oh my Oh yeah, I was, 323 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 1: I was devo. Well yeah, shit happens, but at least 324 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:05,079 Speaker 1: you're safe, that's. 325 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 2: The main thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, what have Maybe we 326 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 2: should say something, say something. 327 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 4: About studio baddies. 328 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:18,839 Speaker 1: I hope you are impressed, because, to be fair, there's 329 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 1: quite a lot of effort to move everything and set 330 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 1: everything up. We're in a brand new studio which is 331 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 1: now in my parents' bare bedroom. We're big time guys. 332 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 1: It should sound absolutely crisp. If you're not on video, 333 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 1: go check it out because I'm quite impressive how it's 334 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 1: turned out. 335 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 2: We've got new really nice lowgoes. 336 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 1: Behind us, which is super cool, and new chairs, but 337 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 1: we've got the same bones. 338 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's smaller and more intimate, so we like it better. Yeah, 339 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 2: and it was a long process in the end. 340 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 1: So our last studio has a Jake hate sentimental things, 341 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 1: but has a sentimental place in my heart. 342 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 4: See, I've never understood like, okay, mate, mate, I disagree. 343 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:03,800 Speaker 4: So I understand into mental value, but I also don't 344 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 4: really understand it at all. 345 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 1: So our last studio, we were in for probably two 346 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:13,359 Speaker 1: and a half. 347 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 2: Years, had to be Actually, even Timeline's ruined in my head. 348 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 1: Jake renovated his dad's garage and yeah, sorry, so and 349 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 1: we had to move out because it's getting knocked. 350 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 2: Down actually as we speak, yeah today. 351 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 1: As we're recording, so that studio is no longer and 352 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 1: we had to move over here, which is a big effort. 353 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 1: But in the end, it's just a lot of organizing. 354 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: It's like a lot of stuff, and we had a 355 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 1: lot of stuff in the other studio was a lot bigger, 356 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 1: so we've had to sort of make everything a bit smaller, 357 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 1: which I kind of like for the intimate conversations. 358 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, which is really really cool. 359 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 1: But now I'm happy. So hopefully everyone enjoys this. Let 360 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 1: us know what you think in the comments. If you're 361 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: like the new studio, it's pretty similar. It looks similar 362 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: to you, but to us is very different. 363 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 4: It is different to us, it'll be a little bit different. 364 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 4: For the bad is where are you going with the 365 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 4: cinement of anything? 366 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 1: But oh, the sentiment of value in a sense was 367 00:15:58,560 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: I was going to say, the old studio had. 368 00:15:59,920 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 2: A sentimental place in your heart. Yeah, a big place 369 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 2: in my heart. 370 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 1: And it's getting knocked down, which makes me a little 371 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: bit sad, like I said to it, So Jake's dad 372 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 1: didn't charge as any rent for being there for three years, 373 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 1: very lucky position to be in. And I said to him, 374 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, should we get him something? And 375 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 1: like his dad's in a good position, so like he 376 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 1: probably can buy everything that he wants. So I was like, oh, 377 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 1: should we like get get something off the wall and 378 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 1: frame it and say thanks for letting us use the 379 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 1: studio as like a sentimental thing for us. 380 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 2: And he's like, now you won't give a fuck. What's 381 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 2: the garage that we should do? 382 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 4: That? 383 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 2: We would keep that, But what am I going to do? 384 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 4: Give him a fucking piece of broken wolf from our 385 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:37,600 Speaker 4: studio and be like, thanks for letting us use your 386 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 4: studio rent free for fucking two and a half three years. 387 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 2: Here's a piece of the studio for you to have 388 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 2: had like a little message at the bottom and frame it. 389 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 2: What's he going to do with it? 390 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 1: I reckon, I reckon, you should ask your dad and 391 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 1: come back to the studio if he would have liked that, 392 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 1: because I reckon. 393 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 2: He's proud of you. I also had around me. But 394 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 2: I guarantee you he would throw it away. 395 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:00,760 Speaker 5: Are you going to see him? 396 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 2: Why he's here? On? The coast. I could go se 397 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 2: him today. 398 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 1: Maybe if you do see him, can you please ask 399 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 1: him that recorded I got to ask you a question 400 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: that'll be honest. 401 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 5: He would be like, yeah, I would like that would 402 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:11,400 Speaker 5: be like what that's so weird. 403 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 4: This would be so ready to cap this. Pretend you're 404 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 4: my dad on the phone. Yeah, Yo, what's up? 405 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:22,920 Speaker 2: So hey, you're hoping a good day and stuff. I 406 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 2: just wanted to ask you a random question. 407 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:25,919 Speaker 4: Actually, Audio and I had a bit of a bit 408 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:27,440 Speaker 4: of a disagreement the other day, and he'll be. 409 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:30,679 Speaker 2: Like, oh, yeah, that's setting it up for bad news. 410 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 4: No. I like to make I like to draw stories out, 411 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:36,160 Speaker 4: and he'd be like, oh, okay, okay, that's not good. 412 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 2: And then I woulday, oh, so you should say that 413 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 2: you have said, oh that's no good. 414 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:44,719 Speaker 4: So basically it was on the topic of like sentimental value. 415 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:47,960 Speaker 4: And he said, oh, as a gift to your dad 416 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:50,399 Speaker 4: for you know, letting us have the studio for three years. 417 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 2: He was saying, maybe we should just. 418 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 4: Like knock a bit of the wall down and like 419 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:56,239 Speaker 4: frame it, give him a nice little note just to 420 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 4: like say thank you for the studio for three years. 421 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 4: And then I said, you will be half that you 422 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 4: would hate that. She just wanted to know how you 423 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:05,479 Speaker 4: would really feel about that. 424 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:09,480 Speaker 2: This would be him. Yeah, I don't know what I 425 00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 2: do with that. 426 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 5: So that's where you get it from. 427 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:17,919 Speaker 2: I might get the lack of cinema sentimental? Are you 428 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:18,640 Speaker 2: from him? Yeah? 429 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 4: Maybe because he's big on He's where I got the like, 430 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:27,680 Speaker 4: my favorite hobby is to throw things out? 431 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,959 Speaker 2: Yeah? Is that from him? That's definitely from him? Like 432 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 2: he'll collect things. Yeah, see, so I'm sentimental. Yeah, and 433 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 2: you're throwing out e that's what it's like. What's the 434 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:40,240 Speaker 2: opposite of centemon? Wrong out? 435 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 4: So because he'll he'll collect things over the years of 436 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 4: living in a place, maybe get to the point where 437 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:49,200 Speaker 4: he's moving or having a big cleaning day and. 438 00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 2: He will just throw away perfectly good items. Really you're saying, 439 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:55,720 Speaker 2: that's where I get it from. 440 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:58,639 Speaker 4: And so to me, like right now, Beth and I 441 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 4: are prepping a month an advance to move. We're moving 442 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:05,120 Speaker 4: actually to my parents place in Queensland, lucky luckily enough, 443 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 4: and they have a grainy flat that we're going to 444 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 4: live in. And it's lucky to like be rent free, 445 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:11,440 Speaker 4: try and get ahead in life, just for like a 446 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 4: one year or whatever. See, if we like the Gold 447 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 4: Coast and Beth and I are going through stuff of 448 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 4: what we're going to keep, we're going to sell. Beth 449 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:24,199 Speaker 4: and mental, she's not I wouldn't say Beth's sentimental, but 450 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 4: she's like more what's the word, like she would prefer 451 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,200 Speaker 4: to sell stuff then to throw it away. 452 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean. Yeah, so like making 453 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:41,280 Speaker 2: the most. Yeah, she's she sees opportunity. Yeah, and so 454 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 2: you see a problem and. 455 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 4: See, yes, I see I see a problem. I see 456 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 4: an annoyance. Like Okay, So for instance, there's a couple 457 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 4: of things where I'm like. 458 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:52,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, we will sell that. 459 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:55,680 Speaker 4: Obviously TV don't want that because there's one and it's 460 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:56,200 Speaker 4: pretty old. 461 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:57,600 Speaker 2: Now I can get a new one when we move out. 462 00:19:58,119 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 4: So TV is going lounge, going those things we don't 463 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 4: need because we have we will have them and then 464 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 4: we will get new ones. 465 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 466 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:11,200 Speaker 4: But so I bought on Amazon two three months ago 467 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 4: a plot bar just some at home workout. 468 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 2: I remember this for like one sixty yeah sixty bucks. 469 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:18,879 Speaker 2: Did you use it? 470 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:21,679 Speaker 4: And so I've probably used it like ten times? Yeah, 471 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 4: maybe about ten times, and I stopped. So she's been 472 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 4: upstairs on my rooftop. And so Beth was like, oh, 473 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:31,679 Speaker 4: what do you want to do with the thinger? 474 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 2: And then the pullot bar? 475 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:34,879 Speaker 4: And I also have an inversion table okay, like the 476 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:36,400 Speaker 4: thing that you hang upside down on for your back 477 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 4: used it once. 478 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 5: Well this is your problem too, used buying random ship. 479 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:44,760 Speaker 4: AnyWho, She goes, what do you want to do with them? 480 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 4: And I said, oh, I'm just gonna put them on 481 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:46,920 Speaker 4: the street. People can take it. 482 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, busy bird, I do that easy. 483 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:53,440 Speaker 5: I do that too, but with like shit stuff, I don't 484 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 5: want to see. 485 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:55,360 Speaker 2: These things are perfectly fine, perfectly fine. 486 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 4: Sorry, And and she was like, no, Na, like we'll 487 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:01,119 Speaker 4: sell them and and behold she puts them up and 488 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 4: within the first day they both sawd we made it 489 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:04,200 Speaker 4: was fifty bucks each. 490 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 2: But like, if she didn't do that, I was not 491 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 2: doing that. 492 00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:11,359 Speaker 4: And also the only reason my car is going to 493 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 4: be sold because of her as well, it gets yeah, 494 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 4: because she's bugging you to do it. 495 00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 2: What's she's organizing? Oh, she's organizing it. I'm actually I 496 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:19,760 Speaker 2: sound like a terrible boyfriend. What would have you done 497 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:21,679 Speaker 2: if you didn't sell it when you moved to Queensland? 498 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:23,760 Speaker 2: You know what? I kept telling her, you're. 499 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:24,439 Speaker 5: Gonna hate load it up. 500 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:26,239 Speaker 2: You know you're gonna hate I kept telling her. I 501 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 2: was like, hmm. 502 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 1: She goes like, we need to sell it this month. 503 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 1: But if you don't sell it, I was like, I'll 504 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 1: just get on your sell it. 505 00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:36,399 Speaker 2: He likes those times. 506 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:38,119 Speaker 5: Yeah, take a fucking commission, I was. 507 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 2: That's what I said. 508 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 5: I said, I'll give him money. 509 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 2: I said, he can keep like those things. Also, what 510 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:45,399 Speaker 2: I said, though, is he'll definitely get the most value. 511 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 1: But that's a compliment to you, by the way, maybe, 512 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:51,959 Speaker 1: And I was gonna drive it up one day and say, 513 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:53,200 Speaker 1: this is yours, man, yours to sell. 514 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:56,240 Speaker 2: You can keep half genuinely like to not do something 515 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:57,520 Speaker 2: like that. That is to me, it's such. 516 00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 5: A but that's like me, it's like two and a 517 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 5: half thousand dollars. 518 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 2: I know it's actually a lot. 519 00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 1: I know. 520 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:03,399 Speaker 4: We had someone offer, so I put it up for 521 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:05,919 Speaker 4: three six and someone offered one thousand, five hundred to 522 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:06,320 Speaker 4: pick up. 523 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 2: And I said, oh, I said to best, I was like, honestly, 524 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:11,399 Speaker 2: if they pick it up today, they can have it. 525 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,560 Speaker 4: And she goes, oh, sure, you don't want more, and 526 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 4: she like doesn't take my answer. For an answer, She's like, 527 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:16,359 Speaker 4: she wants more. 528 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 6: Yeah. 529 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:19,240 Speaker 2: I was like, that's fair. Yeah. So then she said 530 00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 2: to the lady, how about two replying on your phone? 531 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 4: No, it's on best Facebook marketplace and no. But for 532 00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 4: a reason my Facebook MicroPlace. I did listen on my 533 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,679 Speaker 4: Facebook marketplace and for some reason, I've been flagged. 534 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:34,880 Speaker 1: I just realized I'm three point seven stars. Yeah, dude, 535 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 1: I'm like one star. 536 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:38,679 Speaker 2: Fucking I don't know why. 537 00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't even get a review. It was just 538 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 1: zero point five stars. I'm like one star on Facebook marketplace. 539 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: And it's like says something like I couldn't pay for advertisements. 540 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,879 Speaker 1: And it also wasn't getting shown to anyone because I'm flagged, 541 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 1: and it wouldn't say why I'm flatted? 542 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:51,600 Speaker 5: What do you mean doing your daddy dog? 543 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:55,560 Speaker 2: Good question. I don't know. Maybe it thinks I'm a 544 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 2: bot now or something. 545 00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:01,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, but yeah, And so I think the lady ended 546 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,439 Speaker 4: up having one thousand, seven hundred and fifty and I 547 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 4: was like, yeah, do it. Yeah, And then Beth said, 548 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 4: she gets she gets home from work, and she was 549 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 4: talking to the lady while she was at work. She 550 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 4: gets home, she goes, oh, yeah, she originally messaged saying 551 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 4: she can do one thousand, seven hundred and fifty because 552 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:18,240 Speaker 4: she'll borrow two hundred fifty dollars from her daughter. And 553 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 4: I was like, God, please, why did she give it 554 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:22,160 Speaker 4: to her for fifteen hundred dollars? 555 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:22,920 Speaker 5: Is she telling you that? I? 556 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:24,359 Speaker 2: No, I got guilt tripped. I was like, give it 557 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 2: to a fifty to fifteen hundred. I would have said, 558 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 2: that's probably what she was thinking. I would have said 559 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 2: fuck off. Yeah. I would have been like, I don't 560 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 2: need to know your life details. You can't afforty, you 561 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 2: can't have it. See. No I felt about it. I 562 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 2: was like, let her have the car. I was like, 563 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,200 Speaker 2: you can have it, honestly, don't even take it, don't 564 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 2: even give you money. I tell you what. Facebook marketplace 565 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 2: makes people lose their morals. Eh, that's so fucking true. 566 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:52,680 Speaker 3: Facebook Marketplace makes a human become an animally in animal row. 567 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 2: Literally. 568 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,679 Speaker 4: We put the TV up for Beth put so you 569 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 4: and I bought it ages and ages ago for twelve 570 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:03,040 Speaker 4: hundred bucks brand new twenty twenty two. Beth originally puts 571 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 4: it up for seven hundred and so I said, well, 572 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,159 Speaker 4: put it seven hundred too much, So she put it 573 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,119 Speaker 4: up for five hundred and someone is gonna come pick 574 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 4: it up. But she's got messages. People are savage. Right, 575 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:16,400 Speaker 4: someone goes and researchers a twenty twenty two model. Right, 576 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 4: they haven't sold all of them in store, so you 577 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 4: can get a brand new one for seven hundred and 578 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 4: thirty dollars. They sent Beth that screenshot and that's all 579 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 4: and then they said I'll pick up today for two 580 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,440 Speaker 4: fifty question mark because ours is used for five hundred, 581 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:30,520 Speaker 4: and I was thinking it, just. 582 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 2: Go get the brand new one. Yeah that was twelve 583 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,479 Speaker 2: hundred down to seven thirty or whatever. I was like 584 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 2: what people were crazy on that? Is it available? Is 585 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 2: it available? Is it available? That's all it is? Is 586 00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 2: it available? 587 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,800 Speaker 4: And then some guy was supposed to un pick it up, 588 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 4: and then he never came, and Beth was like he 589 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,400 Speaker 4: come and he goes, oh, I just haven't sort of transport. 590 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, what they tell you their last story too, leave 591 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 1: me alone legit, Like, just. 592 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 2: Don't like we're trying to sell our old podcast chairs. Yeah, 593 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:57,840 Speaker 2: what's storry with that? Weird? 594 00:24:57,920 --> 00:24:59,640 Speaker 1: She goes, is it available? And I was like yeah, 595 00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:02,080 Speaker 1: She's like where you're located? And I said where I 596 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:04,520 Speaker 1: live and she lives like ten minutes from here, and 597 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,400 Speaker 1: she goes, okay, I'll take them. She's like, oh, i'm 598 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:09,159 Speaker 1: moving though, I can't pick them up till next week. 599 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 1: If they're still available, then I'll come get them, or 600 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,879 Speaker 1: can you deliver? And I was like, I've got a 601 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,120 Speaker 1: ute and hard deliver and she's like I was like, oh, 602 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 1: I can deliver it to you. She's like, I'm happy 603 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:20,360 Speaker 1: to pay you a little fee. 604 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 2: And I'm like, she doesn't bargain me at all, but 605 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:24,879 Speaker 2: so I'm like, I assume so unless I get there 606 00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 2: and she's going to bargain in pers that's insane to do. 607 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, I don't mind. 608 00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 1: I was like, it's ten minutes away, I can happily 609 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 1: drop it there. So got to do that, savo. But 610 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,360 Speaker 1: she's like she like cohersed me into fucking dropping them there. 611 00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,680 Speaker 2: That is so funny. But round circle. So new studio. 612 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:47,040 Speaker 1: Everyone get insurance, get insurance. But you're moving to your parents. 613 00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 1: I'm moving in with my girlfriend. I wanted to say 614 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,679 Speaker 1: before we move on. Actually, I remember when I was 615 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:56,399 Speaker 1: eighteen nineteen, if I knew I was going to be 616 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:59,119 Speaker 1: twenty six, same with you living with your parents or whatever. 617 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,920 Speaker 2: I would have thought I was loser, yeah. 618 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:05,960 Speaker 1: But now we are losing no, no, no with the economy, dude. 619 00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 1: And like, actually, like you said, your point with getting 620 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,040 Speaker 1: ahead in life, setting for a house deposit or whatever, 621 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 1: setting up your and best future. Yeah, I kind of 622 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 1: just want to like normalize if you can. Obviously not 623 00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 1: everyone's in the same position to being able to lean 624 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:23,400 Speaker 1: on your parents a little bit. Oh yeah, I feel yeah, 625 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:25,160 Speaker 1: I feel people still give people a lot of shit 626 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,879 Speaker 1: for doing that. Really, Yeah, I reckon heaps because it's like, oh, 627 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 1: I'm so independent, but then like you're just also just 628 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,919 Speaker 1: not really doing anything. Yeah, and like some people have 629 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: to be in that position, but some people aren't. They 630 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,680 Speaker 1: trying and do that, And I'm like, yeah, I mean yeah, 631 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:43,119 Speaker 1: I guess, like, I mean, maybe it stems from a 632 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,920 Speaker 1: bit of jealousy, because even when I was thinking about 633 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 1: saying it at the start, I was like hesitant in 634 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,520 Speaker 1: my head to say, like, oh, I'm in my parents' 635 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:51,120 Speaker 1: fair bedroom. 636 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,920 Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I guess who's the baddies don't judge, oh, no, 637 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 4: judge exactly. 638 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 2: But there was something in my mind which was saying. 639 00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:00,080 Speaker 1: Like, oh, that's not that's not fucking successful like you 640 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 1: think we are for somebody. 641 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, fair, fair fair maybe like well, I mean, 642 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,280 Speaker 4: I guess in all honesty, like the podcast doesn't actually 643 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 4: make I would say enough money comfortably to have a 644 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 4: studio that's like one we properly rent somewhere here and 645 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:18,720 Speaker 4: the studio that we probably rent on the Gold Coast 646 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,080 Speaker 4: and pay out wages. Like I guess, like I've been 647 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,359 Speaker 4: I've figured out just through doing this and looking at 648 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:30,159 Speaker 4: places to rent for the studio, like people that start 649 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 4: a business that straight away has a few employees and 650 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:40,480 Speaker 4: straight away has to rent an office and like you're 651 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:46,400 Speaker 4: instantly having these humongous overheads, and so I just it's 652 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:50,720 Speaker 4: just must be so scary. Yeah, especially have to make money, 653 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:54,199 Speaker 4: like right now you and I don't actually have to 654 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:54,879 Speaker 4: make money. 655 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 2: But do you think that which is lucky? Some people 656 00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:01,560 Speaker 2: use that as motivation. Do you think that's good or so? Yeah? 657 00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 4: Or Devil's Advocate is like it would motivate you because 658 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:05,679 Speaker 4: it's like, well, we have to make money to do this, 659 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:07,040 Speaker 4: so then we got to work hard. 660 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 2: A stress a stress free life is a good life. 661 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:10,960 Speaker 5: Fucking stress. 662 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 4: I think I was seventeen when when I nearly got 663 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 4: red pilled, right, red pilled meaning red pilled meaning like 664 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:26,560 Speaker 4: fucking hour for male shite, don't sleep any of that 665 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 4: type of stuff like grind life, that type, like you know, yeah, 666 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:35,639 Speaker 4: like red pilled, And so I remember being like, fuck, 667 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 4: you know, like you just you have to work so 668 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 4: so hard to get money to be happy type of thing. 669 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 4: And obviously you do need to work hard to do well, obviously, 670 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 4: but I'm telling you right now, I am one hundred 671 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 4: percent doing everything in my power to do the least 672 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:53,160 Speaker 4: possible and have the most. 673 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 5: Yeah. 674 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 2: Well, I guess that's kind of like work smarter and 675 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 2: not harder. I mean, I guess, well, I want a 676 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 2: normalize hating work. Oh yeah, everyone hates work. Yeah, you 677 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,040 Speaker 2: hate what we do. I don't hate what we do. 678 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying though, was like, I don't hate 679 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,320 Speaker 4: what we do, but like I do, I would I 680 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 4: will say this the admin side of things. The admin 681 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,720 Speaker 4: side of things is like, so I would prefer to 682 00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 4: do this and do nothing. Yeah, like this part of it, 683 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:20,640 Speaker 4: you know what I mean? 684 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 1: This hour thing is the hour thing is the best 685 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 1: thing we get to do exactly, and. 686 00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:28,600 Speaker 2: Then everything on the on, the on the back end. 687 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:31,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, I would much prefer to do nothing then do that. 688 00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:33,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, this than that. 689 00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 1: It is funny how we get brainwashed in a sense 690 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 1: of like Grint, you die. And I had a realization 691 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 1: as well, We had a realization about rending a sense 692 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 1: of like humans are greedy, Yeah, very greedy creatures in 693 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: like every aspect, Like simple example being I was driving 694 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 1: in the gym today and like I was at the 695 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:54,440 Speaker 1: very end of emerged lane. Yeah, this really nice BMW 696 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:57,959 Speaker 1: to start speeding up, doesn't let me insane And I 697 00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 1: was just like, I was like, what the I have 698 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 1: a massive car, I'm waiting to get in politely, and 699 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:06,160 Speaker 1: this guy's almost like you're a fucking And it just 700 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:08,200 Speaker 1: made me think how greedy people are, and is a 701 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:11,520 Speaker 1: sense of the economy, Like now housing has become a business, 702 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,040 Speaker 1: it shouldn't be that. It should be a roof over 703 00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 1: your head. Greedy people trying to make the most out 704 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 1: of everything work. Everyone's trying to fucking leverage themselves, especially 705 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 1: with those outpha red peol blokes. They're trying to leverage 706 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 1: themselves to get on top of sucking bla la la la. 707 00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 1: They're just fucking scam artists. And they call it sales. 708 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 2: They're call it success. The scam artists and they call 709 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:34,880 Speaker 2: it sales. I work in sales. I'm a consultant for 710 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 2: a sales to become coaches to coach coaches, like I 711 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,800 Speaker 2: coach you, but you like not to work. But I 712 00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 2: also like to like. I like to like. I like 713 00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:50,000 Speaker 2: to think we are very I don't know if I'm 714 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 2: being tone deaf as well, No, no, no, it's not tone deaf. 715 00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:57,240 Speaker 2: I'm trying to say, like, happy to there's enough success 716 00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 2: for everyone around you. 717 00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not going to put ourselves like someone to 718 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:01,560 Speaker 1: put someone else down. 719 00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:03,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, actually that's a good point. 720 00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 4: I think maybe with me, it's like I don't think that, Like, obviously, 721 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:10,280 Speaker 4: everyone wants a lot. 722 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:12,440 Speaker 1: Of money because it's how our society is, and money 723 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:13,719 Speaker 1: brings like freedom and stuff. 724 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:17,040 Speaker 4: But I think I've kind of shifted from wanting to 725 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:21,520 Speaker 4: be super successful, and not even long ago, someone did 726 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:23,680 Speaker 4: make a comment to saying like why is success so 727 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,280 Speaker 4: important to Jake? Maybe that made me change my mind. 728 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,920 Speaker 4: I don't know, but like I think I've shifted from 729 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 4: wanting to be like super successful to just wanting to 730 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:33,840 Speaker 4: be super relaxed. 731 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:36,560 Speaker 2: I just want to be contempt with what I do. Yeah, 732 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 2: make enough money to live, which is a contempt. Contempt. 733 00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:47,600 Speaker 2: Everyone knows what I mean. Contempt is contempt. You want 734 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,160 Speaker 2: to be content with what is the I can't wrap 735 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:51,920 Speaker 2: my head around. You want to be content with what 736 00:31:52,080 --> 00:32:07,640 Speaker 2: you want to Seriously, I nearly died today. 737 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 4: Okay, baddies, welcome back to ins and Outs of the week. 738 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 2: Let's do it all right. 739 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 4: I'm thinking we're going to start with outs as per usual, 740 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 4: and I've been thinking about this one for a while. 741 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:23,720 Speaker 2: Two minute voice notes. This is very hypocritical coming from you, 742 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 2: my friend. I'll send them, but I don't want to 743 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 2: receive them. 744 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I get a message from Jake, a voice message 745 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 1: from Jake, and it's like la la la, la la la, 746 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:33,920 Speaker 1: And then I'll get to two minutes. He's like, oh sorry, 747 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,720 Speaker 1: I just realized this was two minutes fifty three and 748 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:37,680 Speaker 1: you had to listen. 749 00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:41,280 Speaker 2: To the whole thing. Waste another fifteen seconds. Hypocritical of 750 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 2: me and selfish of me. But I also don't want 751 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,360 Speaker 2: to receive them. I'll try my best. I'll try and 752 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,480 Speaker 2: stop something. Thank you. They break them up into two 753 00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 2: one minute. 754 00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 1: Okay, Jake, Now ins You've heard it before and I 755 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:54,000 Speaker 1: will say it again. 756 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 2: Perfect Ted. 757 00:32:55,800 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 4: They're healthy energy drinks. Mate, my fridge fully stocked. There's 758 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,080 Speaker 4: so many like March. I wanted drinks out there with 759 00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:05,840 Speaker 4: dark packaging and like random ingredients I don't even know. 760 00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:08,480 Speaker 1: Right, That's why Marissa created a perfect Head. They're March 761 00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:10,800 Speaker 1: of powered energy drinks. Weren't even made with us guys 762 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:12,880 Speaker 1: in mind, and they actually slap made. 763 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 4: I agree, And all natural ingredients as well. Apple rosberry 764 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:17,640 Speaker 4: is my current faith. 765 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:20,760 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm more of a juicy peach man myself. Where 766 00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,120 Speaker 2: do you get yours? I get it from Cole's man. 767 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:26,560 Speaker 2: You know that, mate, Do not tempt me with a 768 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 2: good time. You can get both flavors. There baddest time 769 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:38,600 Speaker 2: for ig question of the week. 770 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:40,480 Speaker 4: But before we get into that, I would like to 771 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 4: give a quick plug to the one and only Relatables Patreon. 772 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 2: Patreon. 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You will be getting messaged by us. 813 00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:35,239 Speaker 2: To receive some merch. I like the name. Where did 814 00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:37,400 Speaker 2: people come up with these Instagram handles? 815 00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:40,040 Speaker 1: I don't know, well, that one's like only footprints, like 816 00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,160 Speaker 1: is that it might not be going off only man, 817 00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:42,600 Speaker 1: you know what. 818 00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,960 Speaker 2: I want to go? I actually think I want a 819 00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:45,920 Speaker 2: cool one. Yeah. 820 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:47,799 Speaker 4: So if we think about there is some pretty cool 821 00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,240 Speaker 4: ones out there, like Drake's Champagne Puppy. 822 00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:54,160 Speaker 2: No, yours is like endless Pooh. 823 00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:56,960 Speaker 4: It's not a bad idea, but you should make it 824 00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 4: like your brand nearly Yeah, that is your brand. 825 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:04,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I did come up with but that's our joint. 826 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,759 Speaker 4: That's the polic I want my individual on to be 827 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:11,800 Speaker 4: something sick like you know, Scott Dissick, he's from He's 828 00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:13,600 Speaker 4: he used to he was married to court. 829 00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:17,600 Speaker 2: Okay, quick, educate you quickly. Okay, you quite like Scott Dissick. 830 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:22,360 Speaker 4: He's Actually you wouldn't like him as a person, but 831 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:23,640 Speaker 4: you like him on reality TV. 832 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 2: He's hilarious, is he? 833 00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 4: So he was married to Courtney Kardashian for quite a while, 834 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,320 Speaker 4: has a few kids with her, and so he's always 835 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:34,880 Speaker 4: been part of that Kardashian show and he's just the 836 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:40,719 Speaker 4: funniest human alive. But his he has an Instagram and 837 00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:43,600 Speaker 4: his name is Lord Dissick. He's always called himself the 838 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 4: Lord and like on ironically too like like genuinely he 839 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,960 Speaker 4: thinks he's like the Lord. So his is his Lord Dissick. 840 00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 4: And then actually, wait a second, I feel like, how 841 00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:56,960 Speaker 4: did you not know who Scott Disick was? 842 00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,759 Speaker 1: I don't know who it is still after your explanation, 843 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:01,560 Speaker 1: I'm not in with Kimmy kay. 844 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 2: That's that is me to give Audie a bit of 845 00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:09,560 Speaker 2: a fucking education, and anybody Lord Farquad, then that's what 846 00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:10,000 Speaker 2: you want. 847 00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:11,719 Speaker 5: That's where you could be. 848 00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:17,680 Speaker 2: I know who that is, all right. 849 00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 4: The question i G Question of the week is what's 850 00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,239 Speaker 4: underrated when it comes to sex? 851 00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:23,960 Speaker 5: And I actually tell you a story first. 852 00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:27,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, so, baddies, as you know, each week we put 853 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,279 Speaker 1: an i G Question up on Instagram, which Jake and 854 00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:30,880 Speaker 1: May have access to relatables account. 855 00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:35,120 Speaker 2: Every once in a while, I'll see this dude reply to. 856 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:36,040 Speaker 5: Our own question. 857 00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:40,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, because because relatables follows me. 858 00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:45,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, the very toll I see Jake Craig has replied 859 00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:49,239 Speaker 1: this fucking loses like it because sometimes he puts the 860 00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,200 Speaker 1: question up too, and then he replies to it. 861 00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:55,040 Speaker 2: This los is replying to his own question, what. 862 00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:55,200 Speaker 4: Do you mean? 863 00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:56,560 Speaker 2: I want to I want to be involved. 864 00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:58,879 Speaker 1: So I wanted to start, and I got two back 865 00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,320 Speaker 1: to back, and I think you will have one similar alright, 866 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:05,480 Speaker 1: So what's underrated when it comes to sexy time missionary 867 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:09,520 Speaker 1: because he's so handsome five minute missionary and you both finish. 868 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:14,080 Speaker 3: Five minute missionary when you both finish is the best 869 00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,040 Speaker 3: feeling in the world. 870 00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:19,439 Speaker 1: And like it can't be planned, No, no, not at all. 871 00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:22,200 Speaker 1: It's normally dependent on the woman's side of things. 872 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,720 Speaker 2: You know what I did, the build up and stuff, 873 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:26,560 Speaker 2: because then she's like finishing, like thank god. 874 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,200 Speaker 4: But attention needs to be involved with that one that 875 00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:32,600 Speaker 4: what I love is a quickie, so like five minute 876 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 4: missionary quikie where pants are. 877 00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,759 Speaker 2: Off but shirts are on, shirts on, so it's like 878 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:39,920 Speaker 2: proof of a quickie. That's crazy. We didn't you never 879 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,239 Speaker 2: had seuching the shirt on. I always take my shirt off. 880 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:43,919 Speaker 2: I've had sex with my shirt on. No, I feel 881 00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:47,279 Speaker 2: like we need to pooh you look you would look 882 00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:50,439 Speaker 2: like you keep your shirt on. How can you say 883 00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:53,360 Speaker 2: you feel like? What are you talking in her shirt? 884 00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:54,160 Speaker 5: Or like brah. 885 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,960 Speaker 2: Either on? I feel like that's just lazy your shirt 886 00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:00,520 Speaker 2: wiki bro. 887 00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:03,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, still it takes get involved one second to take 888 00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:06,759 Speaker 1: and involved ching. 889 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 2: I'm just saying what I like. It's bloody on path 890 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:22,520 Speaker 2: for today. I'm surprised. I'm surprised you don't have those 891 00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:23,800 Speaker 2: undies with the hole out the front. 892 00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,279 Speaker 1: I've never tried that, so you don't have to take 893 00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:29,640 Speaker 1: your never ever tried that stick it from the glen. 894 00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,560 Speaker 4: I've actually never tried that. Al Right, what's underrated when 895 00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,920 Speaker 4: it comes to sex? Having water breaks? 896 00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:40,719 Speaker 1: I think let's leave that underrated. That's not right, leave 897 00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,040 Speaker 1: it as over rad Yeah, who wants water breaks? 898 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:46,279 Speaker 2: It's a good press, just a good point. What are 899 00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:49,960 Speaker 2: you doing? Like town, Wait one second, is he penis 900 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:56,160 Speaker 2: still in? And you're like yeah, alright, let's go back 901 00:39:56,200 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 2: to how is that underrated? That is not under rate? 902 00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:03,239 Speaker 2: That should actually not be involved in sex at all I. 903 00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:07,759 Speaker 1: Think anatomically speaking, the exchange of saliva sort of is 904 00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:09,839 Speaker 1: there's a there's a reason you don't need water. 905 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:12,000 Speaker 2: You've got double type in there. 906 00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:14,480 Speaker 5: Well, that makes sense to me. 907 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:16,560 Speaker 2: There must be a lot of water in saliva. 908 00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:19,520 Speaker 1: It's gonna be Yeah, you got two peoples too. Maybe 909 00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:22,440 Speaker 1: you're kissing isn't good? Sometimes sometimes you can have sex 910 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:26,080 Speaker 1: without kissing. I like to kill like, I saw quite 911 00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:27,319 Speaker 1: a bit. I don't think I chose one. 912 00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:29,719 Speaker 4: But a lot of people said, like, kissing while having 913 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:31,400 Speaker 4: sex underrated. 914 00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:33,680 Speaker 2: I think it's that. I also would say it's underrated, Like, 915 00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:36,120 Speaker 2: I think that's what you mean. I don't know. 916 00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:38,400 Speaker 4: Sometimes I feel like maybe even in like you're definitely 917 00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:39,600 Speaker 4: kiss leading up and then. 918 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:44,280 Speaker 2: I suppose different positions, Yeah, different positions. Pretty it depends 919 00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:44,759 Speaker 2: on the sash. 920 00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:47,200 Speaker 1: But because sometimes if you're with your girlfriend you're making love, 921 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:48,520 Speaker 1: there's a lot of kissing. But then if you're just 922 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,040 Speaker 1: gonna the poundtown, yeah there's not. 923 00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 2: Kissing in that. 924 00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,319 Speaker 1: But most of the time, if it's your girlfriend, you're 925 00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:56,000 Speaker 1: making love true for at least the start of it. 926 00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, is it me? 927 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,640 Speaker 1: What's underrated? When it comes to sexy time? When he 928 00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:06,240 Speaker 1: breathes into your ear or neck. You like the heavy, 929 00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:07,360 Speaker 1: like the hot breath. 930 00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,879 Speaker 2: The women like that hot breath. Yeah. 931 00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:17,320 Speaker 1: I remember when I was like eight een, I just 932 00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:20,719 Speaker 1: get like heaps, like aware of my breath, Like I'm 933 00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:23,319 Speaker 1: breathing too. When I was like eighteen, the thing that 934 00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:24,880 Speaker 1: I thought was the best about sex was. 935 00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:25,879 Speaker 2: When you're breathing. Match. 936 00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:28,240 Speaker 3: I used to think that was the best thing everised 937 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,200 Speaker 3: to be, Like, oh, what about when you're breathing mattress 938 00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:30,719 Speaker 3: up with us? 939 00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:33,200 Speaker 1: I remember thinking that and trying it and ship and 940 00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:37,400 Speaker 1: thinking of the man, God. 941 00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:37,879 Speaker 2: That's fun. 942 00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:39,120 Speaker 5: It's taking in oxygen. 943 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:44,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so good. What's underrated when it comes to sex? 944 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:49,360 Speaker 2: Sucking nipples? Oh, I feel like it depends on the person. 945 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:50,400 Speaker 2: Some people, yeah. 946 00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:54,440 Speaker 4: Sen sensy nips, Yeah, some people don't. Some people can 947 00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:55,040 Speaker 4: take a bit of. 948 00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,719 Speaker 2: Like teeth involved. Oh, I've never done that. 949 00:41:57,760 --> 00:41:59,600 Speaker 4: I feel like sucking on a nipple is like a 950 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:03,000 Speaker 4: prime thing for just every human because both men and 951 00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:04,480 Speaker 4: women alike just sucked on. 952 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:06,000 Speaker 2: The to live. 953 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,080 Speaker 5: Back in the day, that was our light source of life. 954 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:10,120 Speaker 2: What's underrated when it comes to sexy time? 955 00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:11,160 Speaker 5: Scheduling? 956 00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:19,000 Speaker 2: It underrated to be Okay, if you're scheduling scheduling, If 957 00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:22,759 Speaker 2: you're scheduling it in a sexy way, then I would 958 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:26,160 Speaker 2: say that's underrated. Yeah, so like, how do you schedule 959 00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:28,160 Speaker 2: in a sexy way? There? I don't know, Like, I mean, 960 00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:29,560 Speaker 2: I'm technically at work right now. 961 00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:31,000 Speaker 4: I can message him better, Beth and be like when 962 00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:32,239 Speaker 4: I get home, you better be fucking ready. 963 00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:34,359 Speaker 2: You know what. I'm like, get the four play going now. 964 00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:35,800 Speaker 2: So it's like semi schedule. 965 00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:39,040 Speaker 4: But also yeah, but like if I was to say 966 00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:41,200 Speaker 4: to Beth, like, how does what's your schedule looking? 967 00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:42,560 Speaker 2: Like? Do you reckon like maybe. 968 00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:46,440 Speaker 1: Six thirty pm tonight we have a session, It's like 969 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:47,560 Speaker 1: like that's that's the only time I have. 970 00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:49,040 Speaker 5: It's like, that's not sexy. 971 00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:52,840 Speaker 2: Sheldon from Big Bang Theory. Yeah, he definitely schedules it. 972 00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:56,400 Speaker 2: He schedules his bonus. There's no way he doesn't. I 973 00:42:56,440 --> 00:43:02,960 Speaker 2: wish I could do. Those things are unpredictable. What's underrated? 974 00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:06,239 Speaker 2: When it comes to sex? Asking for consent? Oh, that 975 00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:09,160 Speaker 2: is underrated. Yeah, even when you have a girlfriend. 976 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:13,200 Speaker 1: I consent consistently throughout. Yeah, that's really good. Like I 977 00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:14,520 Speaker 1: feel like it's kind of sexy to be. 978 00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,440 Speaker 4: Like, is this all right? Yeah, or you know, like, 979 00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,920 Speaker 4: are you okay with this? Like or can I like 980 00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:19,720 Speaker 4: asking for consent? 981 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:21,360 Speaker 5: Can I suck on your nipples? 982 00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:25,359 Speaker 2: Yeah? It's like a nipples might be like yeah, can 983 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,839 Speaker 2: I put a finger in your bum? I mean, don't 984 00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:30,520 Speaker 2: you need to ask? Well, I'm just saying they are 985 00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:34,839 Speaker 2: examples what definitely ask? All right? I wonder if you 986 00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:35,799 Speaker 2: know what this is? 987 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:40,280 Speaker 1: What's underrated when it comes to sexy time? Rage baiting 988 00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:41,920 Speaker 1: so sexy when it's done. 989 00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:46,319 Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, I am going to say yes to that. 990 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:50,280 Speaker 4: And you know who would be amazing at that? Who Zayden. 991 00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:52,680 Speaker 4: He's definitely pretty good. 992 00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:54,440 Speaker 1: I like it on it too, and I like when 993 00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:56,640 Speaker 1: it's done to me. That is why I would say 994 00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:57,160 Speaker 1: I can't. 995 00:43:57,440 --> 00:43:58,720 Speaker 2: I wouldn't call it rage bating. 996 00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:03,600 Speaker 1: I would call it likeasing playing with your food. Yeah, 997 00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:05,440 Speaker 1: I can have tot as fuck And they kind of 998 00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:07,160 Speaker 1: like they have a little smirk because they think they're 999 00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:13,239 Speaker 1: doing something like that, and so I and then and 1000 00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:15,720 Speaker 1: then either one of us say like this is pretty 1001 00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:16,960 Speaker 1: like I do. 1002 00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:19,480 Speaker 2: I do love it when it's like yeah, like just 1003 00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:20,120 Speaker 2: put it in there. 1004 00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:24,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, like around what's underrated when it comes to sex? 1005 00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:27,600 Speaker 4: Your man moaning and whimpering in your ears? 1006 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 2: Whimpering? What is whimpering? That's like I talk about yearning, 1007 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:35,880 Speaker 2: isn't whimpering. I finally got you want so sad? 1008 00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:40,560 Speaker 4: Just actually I've always wanted to, Like, I feel like 1009 00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:42,759 Speaker 4: on TV shows, I've seen this quite a bit as 1010 00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:47,200 Speaker 4: a joke, but is it common for people, particularly men, 1011 00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:48,680 Speaker 4: to cry when they come. 1012 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:51,080 Speaker 2: Please? 1013 00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:52,359 Speaker 5: You be doing this? 1014 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:52,680 Speaker 4: Oh? 1015 00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:57,680 Speaker 3: No, I'm not, because I have, but I've seen shows. 1016 00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:00,960 Speaker 5: Not saying that's common at all. Why didn't like tears 1017 00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:02,719 Speaker 5: of joy or like, I can't believe it? 1018 00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,640 Speaker 2: He just did this? Like does it? 1019 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:07,840 Speaker 4: So? I just was, for some reason was under the 1020 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:11,040 Speaker 4: impression for quite a long time that, like, sometimes. 1021 00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:12,759 Speaker 2: Men will cry when they can't. No, I don't think so. 1022 00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:14,480 Speaker 2: I've never heard a story of it. No, I don't 1023 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,520 Speaker 2: think so. I feel like that would be really uncomfortable 1024 00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:17,760 Speaker 2: for the woman in the situation. 1025 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:22,200 Speaker 1: Very yeah, unless it's like but it's also like, I 1026 00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:24,920 Speaker 1: don't know, emotional, it's a lot of emotions coming to 1027 00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:25,480 Speaker 1: the surface. 1028 00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:27,960 Speaker 4: I feel like the only time men cry is to 1029 00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:31,680 Speaker 4: like manipulate hot take. Yeah, I guess that might be 1030 00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,279 Speaker 4: a hot take, but it's the only time a man 1031 00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:35,959 Speaker 4: cries to manipulate the station. 1032 00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,320 Speaker 2: Cheat on their girlfriend, and they cry because they regret 1033 00:45:38,360 --> 00:45:38,719 Speaker 2: what they did. 1034 00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:42,120 Speaker 5: Oh, yeah, you know what I mean. 1035 00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:44,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, I understand that, like men have. 1036 00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:46,799 Speaker 4: I don't want to say they have a handle on 1037 00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:52,200 Speaker 4: their emotions because they actually don't, but like they suppress 1038 00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,759 Speaker 4: crying and the only time they'll let it out is 1039 00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:57,279 Speaker 4: when they've done something so bad that's going to like 1040 00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:00,800 Speaker 4: maybe disrupt some of their life, so they'll cry to 1041 00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:01,520 Speaker 4: try and get out of it. 1042 00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:03,080 Speaker 2: I feel like that's what they do. I see what 1043 00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:04,920 Speaker 2: you're talking about. I don't know, am I guilty of this? 1044 00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:10,080 Speaker 2: Probably remember hope. 1045 00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:14,239 Speaker 1: DoD but also oh, not giving them any sort of excuses. 1046 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:18,239 Speaker 2: No, they're probably not consciously doing it. Yeah. 1047 00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:20,040 Speaker 4: See that's and so that's what makes I feel like 1048 00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:22,479 Speaker 4: it's worse if you're not conscious that you're doing it. 1049 00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:24,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, because they're just doing it because they think they're 1050 00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:29,280 Speaker 1: actually sad. But yeah, they're unconsciously manipulating the situation. 1051 00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:34,440 Speaker 4: What's worse manipulating someone knowing you're manipulating them, so you're 1052 00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:39,080 Speaker 4: well aware or is manipulating someone but you're not actually 1053 00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:40,920 Speaker 4: aware you're manipulating them because. 1054 00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:47,680 Speaker 2: Like you genuinely think that you are right. I'm going 1055 00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:51,399 Speaker 2: to say, live to the comments. Yeah, yeah, fair. 1056 00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:55,920 Speaker 1: If you're consciously manipulating someone, that's worse because if you're 1057 00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:58,600 Speaker 1: unconsciously doing it, deep down, something's gone wrong in your 1058 00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:01,600 Speaker 1: life that you think this is right. Okay, like at 1059 00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:03,560 Speaker 1: least you think you're doing the right thing or you 1060 00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:06,439 Speaker 1: think this is real. Whereas like if I'm consciously knowing 1061 00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,200 Speaker 1: that I'm manipulating the person in front of me. 1062 00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:11,200 Speaker 2: I feel like that's way worse. Okay, yeah, I'll agree 1063 00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,000 Speaker 2: with you, but I mean I can be swayed. 1064 00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:16,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, it's underrated when it comes to sexy time. 1065 00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:22,360 Speaker 2: Dry humping. Oh yeah, I love a good dry same. 1066 00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:24,479 Speaker 1: At the start and you both that's when our clothes 1067 00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,800 Speaker 1: are on. Yeah, the dry humping stage. 1068 00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do like that. Yeah. Maybe I feel like 1069 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,399 Speaker 2: because when you're younger, you're like, just get everything. Half 1070 00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:34,240 Speaker 2: the dry humbing goes a long way. 1071 00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:41,799 Speaker 4: I even just not in jeans. Jeans will restrict a 1072 00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:44,319 Speaker 4: lot of feeling. Yeah, even with a dry arm, and 1073 00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:46,480 Speaker 4: it's just not comfortable. Yeah, no, I would agree. 1074 00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:48,760 Speaker 2: Okay, it's my last one. And this is a question 1075 00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:52,280 Speaker 2: because I don't know what this is. What's underrated? 1076 00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:56,080 Speaker 4: When it comes to sex, this this, this woman said 1077 00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:57,160 Speaker 4: the oyster. 1078 00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:01,759 Speaker 2: Hmmm, let me think, do you know what that is? 1079 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:03,000 Speaker 2: Because I don't. 1080 00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,719 Speaker 1: The only thing I'm definitely wrong. I also think I know, 1081 00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,640 Speaker 1: but you go. The only thing I can think of 1082 00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:11,920 Speaker 1: is golly in the mouth. 1083 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:15,799 Speaker 2: Because spitting in the mouth, that's what you can think of. Well, 1084 00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:21,439 Speaker 2: oyster looks like a golly, so what else could it be? 1085 00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:25,400 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, what I'm thinking is like is maybe calling 1086 00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:28,080 Speaker 4: a vagina sometimes to. 1087 00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:32,920 Speaker 2: Be called a clam, and then the oyster is the. 1088 00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:37,239 Speaker 1: No But clams and oysters are two different things. It's 1089 00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:41,959 Speaker 1: like saying, oh yeah, a clam and then the pearl. 1090 00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:45,880 Speaker 2: Is the clip. So what's an oyster? Leave it in 1091 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:46,280 Speaker 2: the comments. 1092 00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:48,880 Speaker 1: If you've got a noister, let us know salt a salty, 1093 00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:50,480 Speaker 1: briny delight. 1094 00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,000 Speaker 2: Okay, my last one was underrated. 1095 00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:58,000 Speaker 5: When it comes to sexy time, sweaty sex. 1096 00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:01,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, sometimes if you lean into a sweaty session, then 1097 00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:02,399 Speaker 4: it's good. 1098 00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:06,280 Speaker 1: I remember when we went to Bali before I asked 1099 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,560 Speaker 1: Cassidy to be my girlfriend, I was sweating like a pig. 1100 00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:12,840 Speaker 1: So you're telling so you asked her while you had sex, 1101 00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:14,640 Speaker 1: asked her, what do you mean? 1102 00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:16,960 Speaker 2: What we were trying to say is that you asked 1103 00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:19,000 Speaker 2: her while you're having sex. I don't know what you 1104 00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:20,000 Speaker 2: mean because you just. 1105 00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:22,960 Speaker 1: Said before I asked Cassidy with my girlfriend. Yeah, yeah, 1106 00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:25,560 Speaker 1: I was sweating like a bit. Yeah, So does that 1107 00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:29,240 Speaker 1: mean that you asked her during Yeah, because. 1108 00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:31,120 Speaker 2: I actually know that you didn't know. I mean it's 1109 00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:33,160 Speaker 2: because I know that you did it. That's are lying 1110 00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:33,959 Speaker 2: to me about how. 1111 00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:37,000 Speaker 1: When me and my girlfriend were just in the talking 1112 00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:40,560 Speaker 1: stage and having a lot of sex, I was very 1113 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,000 Speaker 1: sweaty and what you're not anymore. 1114 00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:43,399 Speaker 5: Not as much. 1115 00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:46,480 Speaker 2: We're in fucking Bali and you know when you're in 1116 00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:49,879 Speaker 2: that stage and you're doing your bark is gone. 1117 00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:53,279 Speaker 5: No not maybe I got fit up, but I'm got it. 1118 00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:55,560 Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm saying. I was just really 1119 00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:58,359 Speaker 2: pretty humid. Yeah, it was like I think we'll stand 1120 00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:00,319 Speaker 2: there like a villa was mid my e one was 1121 00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:02,919 Speaker 2: mid now. Yeah, I still wanted to have sex. Yeah, 1122 00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:05,400 Speaker 2: I mean fair sometimes. I mean a bit of sweat 1123 00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:08,680 Speaker 2: never stopped anyone. You definitely. It's funny though, because I've 1124 00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:09,480 Speaker 2: always said, because like. 1125 00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:11,680 Speaker 1: When we're doing the deed and like I'm sweaty, she 1126 00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:12,920 Speaker 1: doesn't really get sweaty. 1127 00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:16,720 Speaker 2: Yeah you, she says a cop you're sweat. 1128 00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:18,319 Speaker 1: But no she loves it then, but then she won't 1129 00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,280 Speaker 1: touch me if I go through a run or something vallid. 1130 00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:25,000 Speaker 4: It's valid because like I feel like sex sweat. It 1131 00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:30,080 Speaker 4: doesn't smell like boh, true, it's the same thing. Why 1132 00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:30,759 Speaker 4: doesn't it smell like? 1133 00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:34,520 Speaker 1: It probably does, but you're in it, so it doesn't. 1134 00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:35,920 Speaker 1: You know, when you're in a room you stink and 1135 00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:38,479 Speaker 1: then you walk out of it nose blind, Yeah, yeah blind. 1136 00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:40,520 Speaker 2: It's like when you have cass X in it. Then 1137 00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:47,240 Speaker 2: you're like, oh, so sex does have a smell. Yeah, 1138 00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:54,400 Speaker 2: that's a good que baddies. 1139 00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:58,600 Speaker 4: Time for the dilemmas segment, and if you want to 1140 00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:00,520 Speaker 4: submit a dilemma, it will be the link will be 1141 00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:05,080 Speaker 4: in the description. They're all anonymous, even if it asks 1142 00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:06,640 Speaker 4: you if you want to be anonymous or not. But 1143 00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:09,720 Speaker 4: we don't know anyway, even if you say you don't mind, 1144 00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:10,520 Speaker 4: we don't know. 1145 00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:13,520 Speaker 2: So it's a good system. AnyWho, I got a title 1146 00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:15,560 Speaker 2: from mine My. 1147 00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:21,840 Speaker 4: Boyfriend and his Wandering Eye, Oh tough one. My boyfriend 1148 00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:25,000 Speaker 4: twenty four and I twenty four. Sorry, so the int 1149 00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:25,720 Speaker 4: he doesn't. 1150 00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:26,280 Speaker 2: Have a lazy eye. 1151 00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:30,160 Speaker 5: I was thinking, he has a lazy eye, but he's 1152 00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:31,040 Speaker 5: looking at other girls. 1153 00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:36,960 Speaker 4: That would be a pretty good excuse, I guess, But 1154 00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:40,520 Speaker 4: he doesn't have a lazywhere you are going my boyfriend 1155 00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:42,719 Speaker 4: and I so. My boyfriend twenty four and I twenty two, 1156 00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:45,759 Speaker 4: have been together for about a year now. Over the 1157 00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,000 Speaker 4: past few months, I have been noticing that my boyfriend 1158 00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:52,440 Speaker 4: has wandering eyes. His head literally turns for most girls 1159 00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:54,560 Speaker 4: that walk by us when we're out in public together, 1160 00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:59,200 Speaker 4: and I mean full head turn. One time, we were 1161 00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:02,560 Speaker 4: walking back into my apartment and a girl was walking 1162 00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:05,640 Speaker 4: out of the building wearing somewhat revealing clothing, and my 1163 00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:09,960 Speaker 4: boyfriend literally stopped in his tracks and stared long enough 1164 00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:12,160 Speaker 4: to not even notice I was already inside with the 1165 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:14,040 Speaker 4: door shut. 1166 00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:15,040 Speaker 2: That's embarrassing. 1167 00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:17,640 Speaker 4: At that point, there had already been enough times where 1168 00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:20,000 Speaker 4: I convinced myself I need to bring it to his attention. 1169 00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:23,920 Speaker 4: But his excuse was I was staring because I was 1170 00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,279 Speaker 4: trying to see what kind of shoes she had on, 1171 00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:31,560 Speaker 4: and basically was saying I was making things up that 1172 00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:32,320 Speaker 4: didn't happen. 1173 00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:35,640 Speaker 2: And listen, I get it. If occasionally you see an 1174 00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:37,840 Speaker 2: attractive person and you can't help but stare. 1175 00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:40,960 Speaker 4: But it's gotten to the point where it's making me 1176 00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:44,360 Speaker 4: feel like I'm not enough for him. Oh he also 1177 00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:48,399 Speaker 4: has these two girl best friends I know, and they 1178 00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:51,400 Speaker 4: flirt with him, literally in front of my face, touching 1179 00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:54,920 Speaker 4: his arms, his hair, complimenting him, but he says he 1180 00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:57,919 Speaker 4: doesn't see it. One time, we even had a date 1181 00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,799 Speaker 4: planned and before the date, he was hanging out with 1182 00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:03,759 Speaker 4: his girl best friend and completely forgot about our date 1183 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:06,240 Speaker 4: until it was an hour after we were supposed to meet. 1184 00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:08,840 Speaker 4: The last cherry on top is that I recently found 1185 00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:11,760 Speaker 4: out that he still has polaroid pictures of his ex 1186 00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:14,239 Speaker 4: and they are nude photos. He doesn't know that I 1187 00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:16,959 Speaker 4: know he has them. They broke up six months before 1188 00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:18,640 Speaker 4: we started dating, and I think it's weird that he 1189 00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:21,080 Speaker 4: still has them. I really love this man. He's the 1190 00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:23,040 Speaker 4: first person I've ever been in love with. Do I 1191 00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:25,040 Speaker 4: break up with him? Do I bring up the nudes? 1192 00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:27,480 Speaker 4: Do I try to make him understand the way he 1193 00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:28,240 Speaker 4: makes me feel? 1194 00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:31,640 Speaker 2: Help me? Please before you answer, Jake. 1195 00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:36,759 Speaker 1: I think Jake could absolutely spit a bar for both 1196 00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:37,960 Speaker 1: these dim dilemmas. 1197 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:40,040 Speaker 2: Okay, so let me read mine, dang Okay, this is 1198 00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:41,960 Speaker 2: We've never done this. We didn't plan this. Okay, we've 1199 00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:43,160 Speaker 2: never done this before. It's crazy. 1200 00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:46,319 Speaker 1: Hey, guys, I'm both nervous and interested to potentially hear 1201 00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:48,640 Speaker 1: your opinion on this topic that has come to the 1202 00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:51,239 Speaker 1: surface of my relationship. I've been dating this guy for 1203 00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:53,400 Speaker 1: about nine months now, and I always knew he watched 1204 00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:55,799 Speaker 1: porn and did his own thing. I've never had an 1205 00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:58,239 Speaker 1: issue with that. I'm a busy girl and sometimes I 1206 00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:01,920 Speaker 1: generally don't have the energy for anything in the bedroom. 1207 00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:06,359 Speaker 1: My dilemma is his obsession with screenshotting random women on 1208 00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:09,920 Speaker 1: social media that he likes the look of, particularly women 1209 00:54:10,040 --> 00:54:13,040 Speaker 1: in active wear. I always knew he did this, but 1210 00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:15,480 Speaker 1: I assumed he'd stop once we started dating. 1211 00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:16,719 Speaker 2: He didn't. 1212 00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:19,480 Speaker 1: At first, he never really let me see him do it. 1213 00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:21,800 Speaker 1: Now he does it all the time on the couch 1214 00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:24,960 Speaker 1: in bed while we're talking, and I really don't like 1215 00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:27,359 Speaker 1: the feeling it gives me. Not only do I find 1216 00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:29,920 Speaker 1: myself comparing my body to these girls, but it also 1217 00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:33,680 Speaker 1: makes me feel gross, like he's objectifying these women without 1218 00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:37,040 Speaker 1: their permission. I don't know if I'm overacting, if this 1219 00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:39,479 Speaker 1: is normal or what I should do. It's also given 1220 00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:42,200 Speaker 1: him an unrealistic idea of what a woman should look like, 1221 00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:45,560 Speaker 1: and I can feel myself confident slowly dimming. Please give 1222 00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:48,359 Speaker 1: me your brutal, honest opinions, because I think I might 1223 00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:52,560 Speaker 1: have rose colored glasses on. Oh and he casually told 1224 00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:56,960 Speaker 1: me he deleted six thousand, seven hundred screen shots the 1225 00:54:57,000 --> 00:55:02,160 Speaker 1: other day and that wasn't even all of them. 1226 00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:02,600 Speaker 2: WHOA. 1227 00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:13,960 Speaker 4: Okay, Um, I'm going to say something, and this is 1228 00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:16,200 Speaker 4: advice for both baddies, and then we can delve deeper 1229 00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:16,879 Speaker 4: into each one. 1230 00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:19,680 Speaker 2: But I think that the. 1231 00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:22,640 Speaker 4: Hard truth that needs to be said to both baddies 1232 00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:26,839 Speaker 4: is that you don't love this man. 1233 00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:29,400 Speaker 2: You love the version of him that you see in 1234 00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:29,839 Speaker 2: your head. 1235 00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:38,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that is what's making you stay, because you 1236 00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:40,600 Speaker 4: love what he could be, not what he is. 1237 00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:44,719 Speaker 1: I would say too, before we dive into each one individually. 1238 00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:50,080 Speaker 1: They're completely disrespecting you. Yeah, and she said she's got 1239 00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:51,120 Speaker 1: rose colored glasses on. 1240 00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,600 Speaker 2: Both of you do. No one should do this to 1241 00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:58,040 Speaker 2: their partner who they love. No. The worst thing ever. Insane. 1242 00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:02,560 Speaker 4: Okay, So my one, I just want to point out 1243 00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:03,840 Speaker 4: a couple of things that he's doing. 1244 00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:04,879 Speaker 2: Maybe that could help. 1245 00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:07,440 Speaker 1: I thought you're one he's doing it, he's like he 1246 00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:09,560 Speaker 1: doesn't even care or just neither one of them do 1247 00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:12,160 Speaker 1: to be fairy doing it right in front of um. So, okay, 1248 00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:16,640 Speaker 1: A couple of things I would say is number one 1249 00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:22,839 Speaker 1: is it's pretty fucking like weird for him, Like not 1250 00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:24,600 Speaker 1: I don't want to take you out of the situation, 1251 00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:27,160 Speaker 1: but just like it's pretty weird that he does just 1252 00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:31,640 Speaker 1: stare at women, even if he's single. Again, like you said, 1253 00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:34,160 Speaker 1: you understand seeing someone supertractive and staring for a second, 1254 00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:35,600 Speaker 1: but it's like, I didn't think that. It sounds like 1255 00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:38,120 Speaker 1: this guy just straight up stops and just stares at women. 1256 00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:42,000 Speaker 1: Like it's probably creepy for it's probably fucking scary for 1257 00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:43,239 Speaker 1: the woman being stared at. 1258 00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:51,520 Speaker 2: Now. Secondly, he is what's the word is it invalidating? Yeah? 1259 00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:56,280 Speaker 4: He invalidated how you felt. He said that you're making 1260 00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:59,839 Speaker 4: things up. Yeah, you saw it with your own art. 1261 00:56:59,880 --> 00:57:02,200 Speaker 2: And excuse. I was checking out what her shoes were. 1262 00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:05,759 Speaker 2: She's wearing women's shoes. Yeah, are you going to go 1263 00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:06,560 Speaker 2: buy those shoes? 1264 00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:09,160 Speaker 1: It's a terrible excuse anyway, Like you don't look at these. 1265 00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:11,840 Speaker 1: If you like those shoes, you'll be like, hey, Sarah, 1266 00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:12,759 Speaker 1: what shoes do you reckon? 1267 00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:15,480 Speaker 2: They are? I like them? I like them? Who stops 1268 00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:18,560 Speaker 2: in their tracks to stare at shoes? Yeah, exactly. He's 1269 00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:20,000 Speaker 2: just been caught in a line and he said that 1270 00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:20,560 Speaker 2: on his feet. 1271 00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:24,920 Speaker 4: And then the girl best friends thing, Yeah, that was 1272 00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:29,280 Speaker 4: on top. First of all, the girl best friend's thing 1273 00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:35,040 Speaker 4: is like a man and a woman can't be best friends. Sorry, baddie, 1274 00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:37,400 Speaker 4: it's just time and time again. It's just been proven 1275 00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:39,520 Speaker 4: right and right and right and right and right. And 1276 00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:45,320 Speaker 4: I still am undecided whether or not my opinion on 1277 00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:48,600 Speaker 4: this that my take on this situation of men and 1278 00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:53,120 Speaker 4: women can't be best friends is toxic or not. I 1279 00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:55,040 Speaker 4: just don't think it can happen. I don't even I 1280 00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:58,760 Speaker 4: don't think it's immature. I don't know. Maybe it is, 1281 00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:01,040 Speaker 4: but I just am yet to have a really good 1282 00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:02,240 Speaker 4: explanation from someone. 1283 00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:05,560 Speaker 2: No and connecting all adults with this man. 1284 00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:11,280 Speaker 4: So again he says that he doesn't like see the 1285 00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:13,480 Speaker 4: women his two girl best friends floating with him, when 1286 00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:17,000 Speaker 4: they obviously are clearly invalidating how you feel. 1287 00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:19,520 Speaker 2: Again the second time he's invalidated how you feel? Why 1288 00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:22,240 Speaker 2: do you want to stay with him? I hate him already? Yeah, same. 1289 00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:22,880 Speaker 2: I hate this guy. 1290 00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:27,600 Speaker 4: And then so we've also found out that he has 1291 00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:30,920 Speaker 4: polaroid pictures of his ex and they are nude photos. 1292 00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:34,800 Speaker 4: Now he doesn't know that you know that he has them. 1293 00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:35,720 Speaker 2: Where's the life? 1294 00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:43,480 Speaker 1: So no, no, where we go relatables University girl, you 1295 00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:45,640 Speaker 1: know what to do? Break up with this man because 1296 00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:47,880 Speaker 1: he doesn't deserve to be with you, to be with anyone, 1297 00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:53,400 Speaker 1: because he's immature, he's disgusting. He sees women as objects, 1298 00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:57,560 Speaker 1: he objectifies them, looks at them. And I don't even 1299 00:58:57,560 --> 00:58:58,600 Speaker 1: think it's worth a conversation. 1300 00:58:58,680 --> 00:58:59,800 Speaker 2: I think you say, break up with him? 1301 00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:03,200 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, No, definitely, in my opinion, there's no going 1302 00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:04,720 Speaker 4: back from this and put it down to learning. 1303 00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:06,080 Speaker 2: Put it down to learning. 1304 00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:09,120 Speaker 4: I think one thing maybe I would want to prepare 1305 00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:12,760 Speaker 4: you forward the breakup is that he is going to 1306 00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:14,440 Speaker 4: try and convince you that you're crazy. 1307 00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:15,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1308 00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:17,000 Speaker 4: I think that he's going to try and convince you 1309 00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:19,280 Speaker 4: that you are overreacting to each thing. 1310 00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:22,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. And I also. 1311 00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:27,040 Speaker 4: Unfortunately think that his two girl best friends obviously have 1312 00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:30,000 Speaker 4: a little crush on him, and or maybe one of 1313 00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:33,000 Speaker 4: them does, I don't know. And unfortunately I do think 1314 00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:35,240 Speaker 4: that they're going to take his side, which sucks, but 1315 00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:36,600 Speaker 4: I guess they're not your friends. 1316 00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:39,480 Speaker 1: It hurts though, because he'll probably get with one of 1317 00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:41,720 Speaker 1: them and that will hurt. But then also it's kind 1318 00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:44,360 Speaker 1: of confirmation that you were right. Yeah, so just be 1319 00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:49,320 Speaker 1: prepared for that. So look, I think, don't even bring 1320 00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:50,000 Speaker 1: up the nudes. 1321 00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:51,640 Speaker 4: Don't even try to make him understand the way he 1322 00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:55,640 Speaker 4: makes you that like he makes you feel, because I 1323 00:59:55,680 --> 00:59:59,120 Speaker 4: would say, the only time I would say like yes 1324 00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:01,400 Speaker 4: to making someone I'm just like to saying you make 1325 01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:03,040 Speaker 4: me feel this way and trying to make them understand 1326 01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:05,160 Speaker 4: is because like I guess, not everyone sees the same way, 1327 01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:10,480 Speaker 4: and so like obviously just it just seems to me 1328 01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:14,120 Speaker 4: like in this situation, it's not going to matter because 1329 01:00:14,120 --> 01:00:17,640 Speaker 4: you've tried that before, and so I think that you're 1330 01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:20,240 Speaker 4: just going to be constantly made to be to feel crazy. 1331 01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:24,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I guess people try and tell each other 1332 01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:27,640 Speaker 1: how they're feeling in a sense of closure, but like 1333 01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:30,200 Speaker 1: you can close this door yourself. Yeah, the answer is 1334 01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:32,520 Speaker 1: right there. Like if the news thing is a cherry 1335 01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:34,840 Speaker 1: on top of it, that's just it's just click. 1336 01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:40,960 Speaker 2: And then to my one, this is fucked. This is batterie. 1337 01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:42,320 Speaker 1: You need to hear this break up of this man 1338 01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:45,160 Speaker 1: right now he's screenshotting other women in front of you 1339 01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:47,040 Speaker 1: is just insane. 1340 01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:52,920 Speaker 2: My question would be is, oh, wait, yeah, so sorry creepy. 1341 01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:56,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's creepy right, like you're saying without like he's 1342 01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:59,000 Speaker 4: screenshotting these women without their consent. Just because it's posting 1343 01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:01,480 Speaker 4: online doesn't mean you can screenshot and wank off to it. 1344 01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:04,920 Speaker 2: That's insane. That's probably what he's doing. Yeah, obviously got 1345 01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:08,040 Speaker 2: seven hundred screenshots of women. 1346 01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:09,480 Speaker 5: What's he doing? 1347 01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:13,680 Speaker 2: A I was just going not embarrassed. Yeah, it's become 1348 01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:17,520 Speaker 2: so normalized in his brain. Men, I swear men don't 1349 01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:20,000 Speaker 2: have an embarrassment bone in their body. Sometimes this one's. 1350 01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:22,120 Speaker 1: Fucked what she has road colored glasses on? 1351 01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:25,120 Speaker 2: Girl? Get out asap? Well, I mean, first of all, 1352 01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:29,800 Speaker 2: take them off. Second of all, would you. 1353 01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:36,560 Speaker 4: Want to tell your children about what your father does? 1354 01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:41,080 Speaker 2: Would you be proud to be with your children's father 1355 01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:43,840 Speaker 2: if you had kids with this man? Fuck no? Would 1356 01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:46,959 Speaker 2: you be happy to tell your parents about what he's doing? 1357 01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:49,840 Speaker 2: Fuck no. Would you be happy to tell your best 1358 01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:53,080 Speaker 2: friend about what he's doing? Fuck no, it's sibling. You'd 1359 01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:53,760 Speaker 2: be ashamed. 1360 01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:59,160 Speaker 4: Unfortunately, you would be embarrassed for staying with him, which sucks, 1361 01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:01,800 Speaker 4: But like, you need to ask yourself these questions, like. 1362 01:02:03,720 --> 01:02:07,280 Speaker 2: This is fucked. Yeah, it's a bit revolting even. 1363 01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:09,800 Speaker 4: So I think, yeah, you could, like both of these 1364 01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:13,000 Speaker 4: girls could, sorry, both of these women could easily break 1365 01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:17,160 Speaker 4: up with these boyfriends without even an explanation of why. 1366 01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:18,920 Speaker 2: Like the explanation is, I don't want to be with 1367 01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:20,880 Speaker 2: you anymore. It's setting up boundaries for yourself too. 1368 01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:24,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, you need to have Yeah, you need to have standards. Yeah, 1369 01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:26,520 Speaker 4: not that you don't have standards, but like you need to. 1370 01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:30,720 Speaker 4: Like a lot of people, will I think be like, oh, 1371 01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:32,680 Speaker 4: you know, I've been with him for a year, so 1372 01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:34,120 Speaker 4: why would I not try and push through this? 1373 01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:35,880 Speaker 2: Or he does so many other things right and he 1374 01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:39,120 Speaker 2: just does this one thing. Yeah, like this things. 1375 01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:40,720 Speaker 5: Crazy, This seks insane. 1376 01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:43,919 Speaker 2: What would you What would you tell your friend who's 1377 01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:45,400 Speaker 2: going through this? Each one? 1378 01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:47,560 Speaker 4: If you tell your friends that's going through this exact situation, 1379 01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:49,480 Speaker 4: you would say why are you with him? 1380 01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:51,280 Speaker 2: You'd be like what the fuck? Yeah, don't let this 1381 01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:59,520 Speaker 2: happen to you. That is it's time for comments. 1382 01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:01,440 Speaker 1: If you want to get your comment read, simply comment 1383 01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:02,840 Speaker 1: on the episode you are listening to. 1384 01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:05,120 Speaker 2: I have Spotify Sophie. 1385 01:03:06,120 --> 01:03:08,480 Speaker 1: She has a lot of a's in her use her name. 1386 01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:14,120 Speaker 1: She said, yes, cigarettes after sex. Also, I think every 1387 01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:17,080 Speaker 1: girl has a sexy playlist they have made or saved 1388 01:03:17,120 --> 01:03:17,800 Speaker 1: that they would. 1389 01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:19,720 Speaker 2: Want to play during the deed. I used to have 1390 01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:22,520 Speaker 2: one makes you feel better about it, doesn't it? To 1391 01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:24,760 Speaker 2: have one? Yeah, I've never had one. A I used 1392 01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:25,520 Speaker 2: to have one? I I. 1393 01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:29,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, I used to have one of cigarettes after sex 1394 01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:33,080 Speaker 4: in there play that shah. I mean, I don't know 1395 01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:35,640 Speaker 4: if I've ever really actually played it. Though I did 1396 01:03:35,680 --> 01:03:36,760 Speaker 4: just make an album called like. 1397 01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:38,840 Speaker 2: Sexy Time, I don't know if I ever actually played. 1398 01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:41,240 Speaker 1: Underrated during sex during the deed, He's like, wait up, 1399 01:03:41,480 --> 01:03:44,880 Speaker 1: let me set the mood play She could be careful, 1400 01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:58,280 Speaker 1: you don't put it on shuffles. 1401 01:03:51,960 --> 01:04:00,000 Speaker 2: Forget all right. I got YouTube Jacqueline Underscore twenty four. 1402 01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:02,920 Speaker 2: She said, as a woman, this is so refreshing. 1403 01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:04,800 Speaker 4: To hear your perspectives about these topics. Thank you for 1404 01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:07,640 Speaker 4: being so open and honest and not being afraid to 1405 01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:09,720 Speaker 4: call out men when they are in the wrong. I 1406 01:04:09,720 --> 01:04:12,360 Speaker 4: believe this is many favorite episode Let's Go that was 1407 01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:14,360 Speaker 4: in regards to their male loneliness epidemic. 1408 01:04:14,600 --> 01:04:17,040 Speaker 2: Thank you, Jacque, thank you very much. 1409 01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:18,800 Speaker 1: It's time for one of you baddies to sign off 1410 01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:21,480 Speaker 1: the episode and I need some redemption for myself. 1411 01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:25,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, we got some freshies, I hope. So what fucking up? 1412 01:04:25,360 --> 01:04:28,360 Speaker 2: What I feel like? Karen? We called but maybe didn't 1413 01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:29,280 Speaker 2: Nan she didn't pick up. 1414 01:04:29,720 --> 01:04:31,920 Speaker 1: But baddies, if you want to get called by us, 1415 01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:33,920 Speaker 1: probably more than once. The link will be in the 1416 01:04:33,960 --> 01:04:36,360 Speaker 1: description to sign off an episode. Today, we're going to 1417 01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:37,520 Speaker 1: try call Remia. 1418 01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:38,200 Speaker 2: Hello. 1419 01:04:38,640 --> 01:04:42,240 Speaker 1: Hello, is that Remiya? Yeah, it's Audio and Jake from 1420 01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:43,280 Speaker 1: the Relatables podcast. 1421 01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:43,880 Speaker 2: How's it going? 1422 01:04:44,680 --> 01:04:45,680 Speaker 6: There's no way? 1423 01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:46,280 Speaker 3: Good? 1424 01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:47,280 Speaker 1: How are you there? 1425 01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:50,240 Speaker 2: This way? There is yes way. Question one is have 1426 01:04:50,360 --> 01:04:51,160 Speaker 2: we called you before? 1427 01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:52,960 Speaker 1: No, you have not. 1428 01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:55,640 Speaker 5: Question two is would. 1429 01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:58,800 Speaker 2: You be okay to sign off the episode for us? Oh? 1430 01:04:58,840 --> 01:04:59,240 Speaker 2: My god? 1431 01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:00,000 Speaker 1: Absolutely? 1432 01:05:02,560 --> 01:05:05,160 Speaker 6: This was I was like, I've been listening to the previous, 1433 01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:08,160 Speaker 6: like from the last few months episodes, and there was 1434 01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:10,760 Speaker 6: a girl the sign of the podcast and she said, 1435 01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:15,160 Speaker 6: what you don't change, you choose, and I decided that 1436 01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:17,320 Speaker 6: this was going to be like my motel for the year, 1437 01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:19,560 Speaker 6: and I've been going by it. So I just want 1438 01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:21,840 Speaker 6: to remind about it is what you don't change, you choose. 1439 01:05:22,280 --> 01:05:26,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really good spitting the bar. Yeah, let's take 1440 01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:29,000 Speaker 1: that into twenty twenty six. Well, thank you very much 1441 01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:31,920 Speaker 1: for signing off the episode and enjoy. 1442 01:05:31,680 --> 01:05:32,439 Speaker 4: It you guys. 1443 01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:34,120 Speaker 2: Hey, thank you, Yeah you too. 1444 01:05:34,240 --> 01:05:35,680 Speaker 3: Have a great day. 1445 01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:40,240 Speaker 2: Yes so far. We love y'all.