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Speaker 1: Appolgie Production. Welcome to She Rises, Freaky Friday, Sex, Go Secrets, Horror, Scandalous, Mysterious.

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Speaker 2: Wild Daddy Shoe Edition. Oh right, off, my no, I'm

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Speaker 2: just kidding now it is Oh my gosh, so welcome

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Speaker 2: back to Freaky Friday. If you haven't listened to any

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Speaker 2: Yes, more details the better, and we literally this isn't

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Speaker 1: Because there's so much more to us than just personal development. Yes,

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Speaker 1: there's multitude of different sides to us that exist, and

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Speaker 2: For all of that freaky sides of you to come forward.

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Speaker 2: It's stories that we would just like, you know, we've

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Speaker 2: sed so many of our personal stories, but we have

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Speaker 2: to hear all of yours, yeah, and then give our

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Speaker 2: unsolicited advice to it. It's or like respective, or like

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Speaker 2: how would you handle that? Today we're talking about daddy issues.

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Speaker 2: This is a very short submission, but we thought it's

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Speaker 2: a really cool conversation to have. So this girl wrote in,

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, here we go. I have a thing for

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Speaker 2: older men. There's just something about a silver fox. I

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Speaker 2: just can't help myself.

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Speaker 1: Dating join the choirs too literally, so good. I love

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Speaker 1: this submission because it's almost like whoever it is that

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Speaker 1: wrote this in wrote oh wow, here we go, laughing

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Speaker 1: face and it's almost like this naughty unspoken thing that

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Speaker 1: would like almost like she might or heat my feel

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Speaker 1: like they can't speak about it.

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Speaker 2: Love that because it's like why not older men?

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Speaker 1: Why not far Yeah, what's the judgment.

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Speaker 2: That you might have?

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Speaker 1: What is the assumptions that you make on other people

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Speaker 1: who were dating older? For an example, like we went

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Speaker 1: out for dinner last night and we saw a man

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Speaker 2: Five year age gap. Probably it was pushing it.

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Speaker 1: Like she was very beautiful, very young, and he was

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Speaker 1: like he looked like he was pushing sixty.

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Speaker 2: He's about to get a walking stick like he was on.

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Speaker 2: And then I was like, is she an escort and

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Speaker 2: he's an older man? We had a wedding ring on,

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Speaker 2: and so did she.

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Speaker 1: She had like, you know, big beautiful rock on her finger.

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Speaker 1: And I kept leaning too. Actually, I was like I

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Speaker 1: can't look away, Like I was so interesting, so intrigued

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Speaker 1: by their dynamic that I was like, I wonder what

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Speaker 2: Know the story. Yeah, is that rude to go up

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Speaker 2: to somebody and be like, so, can you tell us

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Speaker 2: about you too? They must be used to it, though,

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Speaker 2: oh for sure. And like who knows what daddy issues

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Speaker 2: come into play of wanting an older man. But I

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Speaker 2: can speak on behalf of myself. I've always preferred to

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Speaker 2: date older. Even when I was a teenager, I would

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Speaker 2: be more attracted to older men. I was never interested

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Speaker 2: They were little school boys. Yeah, the way they interacted

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Speaker 2: and I have a nine year age gap, and I

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Speaker 1: My take on that is I've always felt like I've

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Speaker 2: But I just found the maturity level is just so different.

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Speaker 2: There's a big, big age gap. It was just something

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Speaker 1: Had all these judgments and yeah, I remember thinking to myself,

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Speaker 1: and like there'd be this huge age gap.

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Speaker 1: Something changed and I started dating a silver box. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Like what you just said, like the.

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Speaker 1: Games that younger men sometimes not saying everyone obviously that's

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Speaker 1: a generalized comment, right, not everyone, but the men that

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Speaker 2: I remember when you first told me about him and

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Speaker 2: how old? Like forty two? I was like mmmm yeah,

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Speaker 2: like it's a big age cap. I was like, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: the younger men, but I feel like in their thirties

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Speaker 2: But I do feel like a man in his forties

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Speaker 1: Oh and just like take the reins and like let

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Speaker 1: me be that feminine flow. Yeah, Like hello, Tatiana's like

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Speaker 2: It's so good, you know, funny. I just find it.

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Speaker 1: In the beginning, I rejected it, like I rejected him

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Speaker 2: Once you let go, hey, it was like, yeah, oh,

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Speaker 1: But it was like, was it that or was I

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Speaker 2: Yeah? You know, so interesting. And it's also for you

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Speaker 2: your emotional intelligence and maturity is of a forty year old,

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Speaker 2: because you've done so much work on yourself and you've

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Speaker 2: been through a lot of trauma which forces you to

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Speaker 2: look at different things from a different lens, from a

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Speaker 2: And when I could do it again, the big generalization,

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Speaker 2: like I Taylor my coach, Yeah he's thirty four. Yeah

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Speaker 2: he acts like an eighty year old in a good way.

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Speaker 2: He's so much wisdom. He's the most grounded, emotionally intelligent, aware, soulful,

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Speaker 2: They're rare.

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Speaker 1: And it's not to say that I haven't dated younger

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Speaker 1: did one of my ex partners and won't name names,

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Speaker 2: He was exactly my age.

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Speaker 1: And I was iffy about the age then too, because

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Speaker 1: But not about that, it's not at all.

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Speaker 2: It's just connection, Like age doesn't determine connection. It's like

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Speaker 2: it's different. But I feel like I've gotten a lot

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Speaker 2: a big age gap with kids, and a lot of

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Speaker 2: people have said, like, aren't you concerned they're not going

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Speaker 2: to be as close I was like what comes up

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Speaker 2: to you, Like, why would you say that? They're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I want to have my kids close together, because that

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Speaker 2: means they're going to be close, and age means close connection.

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Speaker 2: That's what age does not mean connection. I've got an

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Speaker 2: older brother that's eighteen months apart from me. I've got

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Speaker 2: a younger brother that's six years apart, and I'm close

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Speaker 2: with my younger. Age does not equal connection. Connection is

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Speaker 1: Really, I just I've always loved her. Like my literally

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Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, I got it.

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Speaker 1: When I was eighteen and I was like, oh, Angelina

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Speaker 2: that's where like I feel like every teenager had her

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Speaker 1: Loved Megan Fox when she was in Transformance, but I.

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Speaker 2: longer Freaky Fridays. Thanks for joining us.

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Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed this episode. And if you have

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Speaker 1: any submissions, please don't hesitate. We're gonna put the link

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Speaker 1: below in the description so you can put your Freaky

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Speaker 1: Friday submissions in there. And please, the more detail the better,

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Speaker 1: Like we want your juiciest, worst horror stories, freaky terrifying stories,

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Speaker 1: so that we can come on here, we can gas

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Speaker 1: bag and we can give you out perspective and just

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Speaker 1: let up the hand.

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Speaker 2: Little chats Yea, she has a shame, have some fun,

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Speaker 2: laugh whatever. Yeah, and we'll see you on Monday sounds

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Speaker 2: good bye bye,