WEBVTT - #1947 Speaking Of Vasectomies - Dr. Cam McDonald

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<v Speaker 1>Doctor Cam, your big stud, Welcome back to the probably

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<v Speaker 1>less of a stud today than yesterday morning, to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>but we'll dive into that.

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<v Speaker 2>Doctor Cam. Welcome back to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Kate be Harps. And there's no test to say I'm

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<v Speaker 3>less of a stud right now. It could come in time.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that that is true, Well we might as well

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<v Speaker 1>just open the batting with that.

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<v Speaker 2>We were.

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<v Speaker 1>This was not You didn't jump on and say I

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about this. You were just telling me

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<v Speaker 1>and I said are you brave enough? And you went, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>if we have to. But so we're recording this on

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<v Speaker 1>Tuesday the twenty second and yesterday the twenty first.

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<v Speaker 2>You had a little bit of work.

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<v Speaker 1>Done downstairs in the underbelly of you. You had a sectomy.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just spit it out, Harps.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you feeling like?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 2>It's so? It's what is at one o'clock? Now? What

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<v Speaker 2>time did you get that done?

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<v Speaker 4>I got it done one thirty yesterday. It's the most

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<v Speaker 4>surreal experience because you book.

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<v Speaker 3>A half hour session.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, oh, surely this is some sort of

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<v Speaker 4>like the doctor gets to know me type situation because

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<v Speaker 4>I booked a half hour session and you walk in

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<v Speaker 4>there and they give you a little video and he says, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>we'll do this this, and this is like oh okay,

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<v Speaker 4>oh it's all happening in a half hour appointment. So

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<v Speaker 4>you get in, you have five minutes of shaking hands

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<v Speaker 4>with the man, and then it's It's just what I

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<v Speaker 4>was so fascinated by was he's done thousands of these

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<v Speaker 4>because he's a vasectomy specialist. What is the order that

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<v Speaker 4>he will do this in that he's obviously learnt over time.

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<v Speaker 4>That creates the greatest amount of comfort, greatest amount efficiency,

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<v Speaker 4>all of that sort of stuff. I just love looking

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<v Speaker 4>at all of that as a process. But anyway, so

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<v Speaker 4>we talked about that later. So you're in, it's he

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<v Speaker 4>explained it to you. You jump down and then he

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<v Speaker 4>just does the things. It's like a one millimeter less

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<v Speaker 4>than a one millimeter incision and the whole thing's done

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<v Speaker 4>about fifteen minutes, so.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like the incision is like the other end of

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<v Speaker 2>a matchstick.

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<v Speaker 4>Less I would say, almost, Yeah, I guess I guess that,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I don't know how he does it, but there

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<v Speaker 4>is the Chinese bit of local anesthetic.

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<v Speaker 3>I just loved his language with this as well, he goes.

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<v Speaker 4>Just a bit of anesthetic, like that you're going to

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<v Speaker 4>instead of you're going to feel a prick.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just a bit of anesthetic. I really well, I

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<v Speaker 3>like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to feel a bit of a prick, and

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<v Speaker 1>so is he ish form haunt intended.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, I'm like you in that.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, I'm fascinated with The whole thing is thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's got to meet you, talk to you, try

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<v Speaker 1>to some you know, I'm sure you're pretty okay with it,

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<v Speaker 1>but some guys would be borderline hysterical.

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<v Speaker 2>I would think, probably me included. So you've got to

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<v Speaker 2>do all the.

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<v Speaker 1>Interpersonal stuff and the social stuff and the be the

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<v Speaker 1>doctor or in the patient stuff. They get to know

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<v Speaker 1>you as much as you can, watch the video, do

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<v Speaker 1>an operation, and then be out thirty twenty nine and

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<v Speaker 1>a half minutes later.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>It's so fascinating as well, because this is the most

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<v Speaker 4>personal I've ever been with a man ever.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, like I've never never granted the access that

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<v Speaker 3>this guy had, and.

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<v Speaker 4>You walk out at the end of it, and it's like,

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like I've got a real bond with this dude.

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<v Speaker 3>But he's doing tent of them that day. I guess

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<v Speaker 3>I was just thinking about what, like, he's got a fine,

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<v Speaker 3>we now have a.

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<v Speaker 4>Connection, because there was really no connection. But for me,

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<v Speaker 4>it's like, man, this is like one of the biggest

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<v Speaker 4>moments of my reproductive life, the end of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, that was fascinating.

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<v Speaker 4>But even just yeah, just jump up on you on

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<v Speaker 4>the table with your clothes on. I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's when I got my wheels turning. It's like,

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<v Speaker 4>what is he up to here? And he goes, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>now just take see those shorts, just take them down

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<v Speaker 4>to your ankles.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just the language of it all.

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<v Speaker 4>It's it's so fascinating anyway. And then he's just he's

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<v Speaker 4>just spraying it with antiseptic for about a minute.

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<v Speaker 3>Like just with a big, a big home spray.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, So you drenched in antiseptic by the time that

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<v Speaker 4>it starts.

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<v Speaker 3>And then and.

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<v Speaker 4>Then I look, there's just this background tension in your

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<v Speaker 4>body because you're waiting for, you know, the slaughter to begin.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I just start said, mate, I was just thinking,

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<v Speaker 4>as he's going starting the process, how did you get

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<v Speaker 4>into this? Like he just just fell into us, and

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<v Speaker 4>you can't just fall into something.

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<v Speaker 3>Like this, you know what I mean, so fascinating.

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<v Speaker 4>Like just a heterosexual guy just doing for sectomies all

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<v Speaker 4>day long like that, that to.

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<v Speaker 3>Me blows my mind. He goes, yeah, I just had

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<v Speaker 3>a bit of a knack for it.

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<v Speaker 4>And so apparently you to be thousands of people doing viseectomes,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, maybe maybe two a month, and now there

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<v Speaker 4>are twelve vseectimists that do thousands, Like there's like two

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<v Speaker 4>and a half the sectimists that do eighty percent of

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<v Speaker 4>the vasectoms in Queensland.

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<v Speaker 1>I want the guy that does all of them. I

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<v Speaker 1>want the busiest guy. I want the most skilled, the

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<v Speaker 1>most experienced, the most relaxed. I don't want the dude

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<v Speaker 1>who's doing me to be a little bit uptight while

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<v Speaker 1>he's fucking cutting into my nuts.

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<v Speaker 4>He's been doing them for fifteen years. I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm feeling real good at the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Normally, did you feel did you feel compelled? Sorry, did

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<v Speaker 2>you feel compelled to talk?

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<v Speaker 1>Like would you have felt if you just lay there

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<v Speaker 1>and didn't talk to him, would you have felt weirder?

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<v Speaker 4>No? No, he was very comfortable, So that definitely made

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<v Speaker 4>it more comfortable, and I know that.

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<v Speaker 3>You've always got the choice to talk or not.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm probably just I was just so curious. I'm just

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<v Speaker 4>so curious as to why he would decide to do this.

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<v Speaker 4>And I found halfway through that conversation I relaxed. So

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<v Speaker 4>the talking for me probably helped. Yeah, yeah, rather than

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<v Speaker 4>just trying to feel everything like it was a good distraction.

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't it amazing when you're around somebody who has a

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<v Speaker 1>very high level of skill or competence or mastery at

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<v Speaker 1>something that you've never done, and then you try, like

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<v Speaker 1>they make it look so easy. And I'm not talking

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<v Speaker 1>about trying and aseexting me on someone, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're like, oh god, this person, this is so easy

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<v Speaker 1>for them. And so that's that, you know, whatever, ten

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<v Speaker 1>thousand hours. I'm sure it's more or less depending on

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<v Speaker 1>the skill and the individual and all of that, but

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<v Speaker 1>there is definitely a level of you know, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess this is a dumb analogy, but for me, I

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<v Speaker 1>started riding motorbikes when I was five and I still

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<v Speaker 1>ride most days of my life, right, so it's whatever

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<v Speaker 1>that is fifty five years of riding motorbikes.

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<v Speaker 2>So For me, it's just.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, I'm obviously subconsciously aware of what I'm doing, but

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<v Speaker 1>riding a motorbike is to me way easier than driving

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<v Speaker 1>a car.

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<v Speaker 2>And I can drive cars okay as well.

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<v Speaker 1>But when I'm teaching someone to ride a motorbike, which

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<v Speaker 1>I've done probably fifty times, where I'm like, oh, okay, yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess when you've got to clutch here in a

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<v Speaker 1>front bake a break over here, and a rear break

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<v Speaker 1>over here, and a gear change here, and you've got

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<v Speaker 1>the indicators down here, and like none of that shit

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<v Speaker 1>you can look at like you can't look away from

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<v Speaker 1>the road, and it's not like in a car where

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of almost in your line of sight. A

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<v Speaker 1>lot of it obviously not the pedals, But I realize

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<v Speaker 1>how difficult it is to ride a motorbike. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>talking about a scooter, but a motorbike with gears and

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<v Speaker 1>clutch and you know, people don't even realize most people

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<v Speaker 1>they have or non motorcyclists don't realize they have two

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<v Speaker 1>different brakes, right, one for the front wheel for the

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<v Speaker 1>back and yeah, and then you I teach someone, I'm like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is not easy this is actually really complicated, but

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<v Speaker 1>I've done it ten million times. Yeah, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess it's a version of that.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, it's the and it's probably I.

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<v Speaker 4>Have the same type of experience now and I'm explaining

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<v Speaker 4>precision health for the first time. You have to go

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<v Speaker 4>back to the first time you presented it, when all

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<v Speaker 4>of the brand new information was brand new to you

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<v Speaker 4>as well, and you were really excited just about sharing

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<v Speaker 4>the really really basic stuff. And that's definitely a lesson

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<v Speaker 4>that I've learned too, is there's so much that needs

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<v Speaker 4>to be stepped out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I think.

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<v Speaker 1>That for somebody like you or me, who's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>among other things, educators, where you're helping people, you're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to help people to help themselves. So you want to

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<v Speaker 1>make the information as user friendly but also accurate, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>as possible. And if I just start banging on about

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<v Speaker 1>like I get asked probably three times a week, what

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<v Speaker 1>is your PhD about? And how I answer that question

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<v Speaker 1>can determine whether or not there's total engagement and curiosity

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<v Speaker 1>and revelation and awareness or just complete fucking bamboozlement. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, okay, all right, well give me one minute

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll give you the very user friendly it's still

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<v Speaker 1>this is what it is, but let me explain it

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<v Speaker 1>in a way where not only you'll get it. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's not because people are dumb that they can't get it,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, it's just a different language. Like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>akademia is just a different language.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, yeah, you know the idea of when you

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<v Speaker 4>get into research, you realize how long it's going to

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<v Speaker 4>take to understand the entire body of literature, because you know,

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<v Speaker 4>the PhD I did was a Mega three in exercise

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<v Speaker 4>in women completing breast cancer specifically on lean body mass

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<v Speaker 4>and seer reactive protein.

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<v Speaker 3>So any other outcome you need a brand new study.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just it's yeah, so yes, and then the specificity

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<v Speaker 4>of it all, it's crazy. It's all changing that we're

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<v Speaker 4>going away from randomized control trials. The new evolution will

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<v Speaker 4>only be personalized algorithms. That's where it's going to be,

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<v Speaker 4>no more RCTs in time.

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<v Speaker 2>That's well.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>The other thing too is I don't want to get

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<v Speaker 1>on anything near a high horse. But you know, when

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<v Speaker 1>people go to me, I've done my research. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>used to say that, I go I've done my research,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, no, I haven't.

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<v Speaker 2>I've watched four fucking videos on YouTube.

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<v Speaker 1>You know where you think, Oh, obviously I did some

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<v Speaker 1>research with my first degree in all of that, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to be sound like a bloody academic whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, it's like, oh yeah, it's And then even

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<v Speaker 1>you realize that what a lot of people are saying,

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<v Speaker 1>who do have allegedly some level of credibility and qualification,

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<v Speaker 1>you still can't take that as gospel either. You've still

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<v Speaker 1>got to go away and go because these guys have

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<v Speaker 1>both got PhDs and they're saying quite different shit about

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<v Speaker 1>the same subject matter.

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<v Speaker 2>And then you go, I wonder if either of them

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<v Speaker 2>are selling anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, they both are. See what are they selling? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>they have a program? Oh I wonder if that research

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<v Speaker 1>that they were telling me about kind of lines up

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<v Speaker 1>with what they's you know, And so you just got

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<v Speaker 1>to be I think you've got to pay attention.

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<v Speaker 2>But you've got to be wise, You've got to be discerning.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got to hopefully learn how to definitely not become

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<v Speaker 1>a you know, a guru in reading academic literature, but

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<v Speaker 1>at the least try and understand a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>what you're opening the door on, so that you know

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<v Speaker 1>when people are bullshitting you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well yeah, just and knowing what you don't know

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<v Speaker 3>as well.

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<v Speaker 4>That's probably the you know, when I came out of dietetics,

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<v Speaker 4>and I saw this in a lot of my medical

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<v Speaker 4>friends as well. I went through through living on campus

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<v Speaker 4>with a bunch of med students as I was studying

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<v Speaker 4>xphiz and you would come up to it, like one

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<v Speaker 4>of these graduated doctors now, and I'd be coming from

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<v Speaker 4>dietetic land and I'd say, oh, yeah, this seems to

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<v Speaker 4>work for that. Oh, there's no evidence for that that

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<v Speaker 4>they've done a day of nutrition in their life, but

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<v Speaker 4>because it's this is where and I was like that

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<v Speaker 4>as well as a dietitian, I know, you just got

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<v Speaker 4>to eat five vegs to fruit. Everyone's got to have

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<v Speaker 4>this many grains and that solves all of our problems.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's like, well, what.

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<v Speaker 4>About this person over here that did this diet and

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<v Speaker 4>got the most amazing results ever, was like, dah.

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<v Speaker 3>Not real.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, you just get you get trained to discard

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<v Speaker 4>the individual, which was yeah, and that the granularity of

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<v Speaker 4>all of that is just it's almost impossible to fathom

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<v Speaker 4>and that that's why that's why AI is say, bloody good,

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<v Speaker 4>that's why it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Going to be brilliant.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean also, like in the same conversation, the amount

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<v Speaker 1>of people who have come to me over the years

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<v Speaker 1>who have gone on my doctor said I shouldn't squat

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<v Speaker 1>or deadlift, and I'm like, Okay, the people again, this

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<v Speaker 1>is people with no injuries. I'm going why because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to get injured. I'm like, well, you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>get injured if you fucking don't you know you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to get or there's a there's more of a chance,

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<v Speaker 1>like if we squat intelligently with good technique and with

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<v Speaker 1>very light weights, and the same with deadlifting, or the

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<v Speaker 1>same with any you know, it could be a range

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<v Speaker 1>of compound movements or even isolation movements, but we do

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<v Speaker 1>it the right way with the right kind of intensity

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<v Speaker 1>and sets and reps and volume and workload. But bah,

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<v Speaker 1>bah bah, you're actually just going to build a functional, strong,

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<v Speaker 1>healthy body, not to mention you know, your skeleton and

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<v Speaker 1>the cognitive benefits and all of that stuff. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and we love, we love doctors, and we need doctors,

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<v Speaker 1>and doctors are great, but doctors do zero days of

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<v Speaker 1>exercise programming in their course, Like exercise prescription is not

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<v Speaker 1>part of what they study, and so it's funny that

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<v Speaker 1>they would prescribe x other than saying listen, exercise is good.

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<v Speaker 1>But then to be then to specifically tell people what

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<v Speaker 1>they should or shouldn't do in terms of individual movements

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<v Speaker 1>in the gym.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's curious.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, absolutely, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>And because they have the authority right now, and there's

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of good reason for them to have authority,

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<v Speaker 4>particularly on emergency medicine and all of those types of things.

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<v Speaker 3>It's from medication perspective, it's.

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<v Speaker 4>People get limited, and then you have cowboys that make

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<v Speaker 4>a very compelling argument for something crazy, and then you've

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<v Speaker 4>got the people in the middle that are riding the

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<v Speaker 4>conservative fence. And it's really really hard to be a loud,

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<v Speaker 4>rational voice in the conversation around health.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a game of absolutes. It's either this absolutely works

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<v Speaker 3>or it absolutely doesn't.

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<v Speaker 4>And only even in a long form you know, podcasting

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<v Speaker 4>and things like that where you can actually really get

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<v Speaker 4>into it, people still just take away the simple details

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<v Speaker 4>and the reels that come out of them are quite absolute.

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<v Speaker 4>In the recommendations that are provided, so it's it's yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it's very, very difficult to know that you're actually working

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<v Speaker 4>with the right information.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's kind of like when somebody like Craig Harper

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<v Speaker 1>says on a podcast, doctors aren't really trying to prescribe

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<v Speaker 1>exercise specifically, and then people go, oh, what do you

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<v Speaker 1>have against doctors? I'm like, did you fucking listen to

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<v Speaker 1>what I said? I love doctors, don't most things don't

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me. I'm a dickhead. If it's a medical condition,

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<v Speaker 1>if it's any you know, but if it's actually how

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<v Speaker 1>to write an exercise program for an individual based on

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<v Speaker 1>their current kind of needs and goals and physiology, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>actually trained, very well trained for that. They're not, which

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<v Speaker 1>is not to say they're not brilliant and important.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, they're great.

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<v Speaker 1>But just like I wouldn't want him or her to

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<v Speaker 1>build my barbecue out of bricks because they're not fucking

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<v Speaker 1>trained for that, you know. I want the brick layer

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<v Speaker 1>with the skills to come to my joint to build

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<v Speaker 1>the barbecue, not the surta gin.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking of exercise, I'll go and you're going to tell

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<v Speaker 2>me something.

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<v Speaker 3>Just one last comment.

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<v Speaker 4>Similarly, the doctors are under quite a bit of pressure

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<v Speaker 4>to know it all because the patient's expected, and that's

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<v Speaker 4>that's one of the other factors that they come in

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<v Speaker 4>fex Me, let's go, I've got ten minutes to sort

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<v Speaker 4>my life out, and you're going to fix me. So

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<v Speaker 4>that's an additional pressure that's been placing into what were

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<v Speaker 4>you going to say?

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<v Speaker 2>One percent?

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, like honestly, and I'm not being I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not saying that smooth. And I think doctors are great.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I've got a doctor who's my doctor. I

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<v Speaker 1>love my doctor who's a little bit like did you

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<v Speaker 1>ever see that show House?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that TV? Do you know?

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<v Speaker 1>He was like a like a medical sleuth, like a

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<v Speaker 1>medical detective.

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<v Speaker 2>My dude's really good. He'll just sit there and he

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<v Speaker 2>gives you long appointments.

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<v Speaker 1>You pay for them, but and he will just work

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<v Speaker 1>through everything methodically and ask you brilliant questions.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no urgency.

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<v Speaker 1>And then like I went in there, I've got this

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<v Speaker 1>thing where I don't know what you think. You might

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<v Speaker 1>have an opinion. You're a doctor, different kind, but you're

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<v Speaker 1>a doctor. So I have this thing where my ear

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<v Speaker 1>is one or the other and sometimes both block. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's you station tube dysfunction. That's my self diagnosis,

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<v Speaker 1>right anyway, So I went into him and I said, look,

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<v Speaker 1>this is and it's not painful and it's not life threatening.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a fucking annoyance, especially when I'm on stage talking,

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<v Speaker 1>when it's like I'm talking a room full of people

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<v Speaker 1>and I've got a bucket on my head and i

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<v Speaker 1>can hear my own voice coming back. It's not coming back,

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<v Speaker 1>but it seems like it's coming back in my own head.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's so it makes it very hard to be

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<v Speaker 1>really good at what you do because it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>massive in the moment distraction.

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<v Speaker 2>And so he just sat there and just.

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<v Speaker 1>Walked me through all this stuff, of these potentials, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we finished and he goes, all right, so here's

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<v Speaker 1>our plan. It's a five step plan starting from now.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what we're doing.

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<v Speaker 4>And he just.

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<v Speaker 1>Mapped out this whole. I'm like, you're good, Yeah, you're good,

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<v Speaker 1>like and he went, we're going to start with this.

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<v Speaker 1>If that doesn't work, then we're going to do this.

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<v Speaker 1>If that doesn't work, you're going to go get this done.

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<v Speaker 1>If that doesn't work, you know, there was this whole

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<v Speaker 1>contingency and it made total sense, and I went, Fuck,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad. I'd rather pay two hundred bucks for you

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<v Speaker 1>than one hundred bucks or for somebody else who you know, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just you get the right person, whether or not

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<v Speaker 1>they're a dietitian or an exercise physiologist or a medical

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<v Speaker 1>doctor or a you know whatever whoever sectimist, Like there's

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<v Speaker 1>within reason, you know, there's no price that's too high

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<v Speaker 1>if they're great at what they do.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking of exercise, you were telling me that.

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<v Speaker 1>You've you've been doing a deep dive for the last

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<v Speaker 1>seven weeks and you're kind of in getting in really,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you're always in good shape, but you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you've maken a bit of ground and a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a breakthrough over the last while.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, i'd have you because the last two or three years,

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<v Speaker 4>my body has been a bit odd.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just been not responding the way that it used to.

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<v Speaker 4>And I know that we did an episode on the

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<v Speaker 4>retreat and the release of all of the things.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, following that, I've.

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<v Speaker 4>Had about six centimeters come off my waist. There's obviously

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<v Speaker 4>some sort of background stress that was released at that time,

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<v Speaker 4>and it is fascinating and I've just but I started

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<v Speaker 4>at the same time I started at the gym. Normally,

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<v Speaker 4>I would never pay for a gym just because I'm

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<v Speaker 4>a tight ass and.

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<v Speaker 3>This, but this guy is running.

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<v Speaker 4>It's fifty five dollars a week, which I think is

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<v Speaker 4>absolute extortion for a gym membership. However, it's turned out

0:19:58.400 --> 0:20:01.200
<v Speaker 4>to be the greatest of investments I could have ever made.

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<v Speaker 3>It's it's just small group.

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<v Speaker 4>There's no anywhere between six to twelve, six to ten

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<v Speaker 4>people on it in an hour block.

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<v Speaker 3>He has a five thirty, six thirty nine.

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<v Speaker 4>O'clock class, and the six thirty class just fits my

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<v Speaker 4>schedule perfectly, like nothing really seems to interrupt it. Forty

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<v Speaker 4>five minutes and I'm going five days a week and

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<v Speaker 4>he's got a couple of upper body, a lower body,

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<v Speaker 4>a mobility and then an all body session. I am

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<v Speaker 4>in Heaven's two hundre meters down the road, so I

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<v Speaker 4>just go.

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<v Speaker 3>I do the workout it and.

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<v Speaker 4>Even still because when I met him, I said, mate,

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<v Speaker 4>my body it needs higher rep range.

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<v Speaker 3>It's better in a lactic acid space.

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<v Speaker 4>And we've just been doing a bunch of heavy eccentric

0:20:46.720 --> 0:20:48.440
<v Speaker 4>work to start with, which is not ideal for my

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<v Speaker 4>body first thing in the morning. But I'm just getting

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<v Speaker 4>on with it and doing the thing. But it has

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<v Speaker 4>been so good to be consistent. And I will say

0:20:57.240 --> 0:21:02.480
<v Speaker 4>that this guy I haven't met, he's twenty six. He

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<v Speaker 4>is a standout human, stand out him. He's just a

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<v Speaker 4>great dude. He's got it seems like no ego, but

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<v Speaker 4>a really healthy sense of self. I look at him, go,

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<v Speaker 4>She's like, I can take some lessons from you, mate,

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<v Speaker 4>Like just the he won some Brazilian jiu jitsu competition

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<v Speaker 4>for Queensland, like a couple of weekends ago.

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<v Speaker 3>So man, how is your weekend? He goes, Yeah, good man.

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<v Speaker 4>I competed, came first, and I was just I was

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<v Speaker 4>just observing, like what energy is coming along with him,

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<v Speaker 4>just announcing that he's comforst There was nothing there.

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<v Speaker 3>Was just this is just the way that it is.

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<v Speaker 4>And it just so happens that I did this, And

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<v Speaker 4>I'm actually pretty happy that.

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<v Speaker 3>I came first.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, mate, if I had.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm virtually not even there now, I'd be gloating a little.

0:21:47.320 --> 0:21:50.359
<v Speaker 4>Bit for sure, that I've been blown away by this

0:21:50.480 --> 0:21:53.720
<v Speaker 4>dude and his physical intelligence, like the way that he

0:21:53.880 --> 0:21:58.959
<v Speaker 4>understands his body moves, his body demonstrates movement. Ah, it's

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<v Speaker 4>it's profound, and he's done just a really good job

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<v Speaker 4>at setting up the program.

0:22:03.359 --> 0:22:06.080
<v Speaker 3>It's designed and the class is full of forty to

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<v Speaker 3>fifty year olds.

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<v Speaker 4>It is designed for those bodies where every scap retraction

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<v Speaker 4>is overemphasized, every activation is really it becomes the difficulty

0:22:17.280 --> 0:22:20.440
<v Speaker 4>in the movement is to really use those stabilizers correctly.

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<v Speaker 4>And that it's just been because normally I just try

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<v Speaker 4>and flog myself by how many push ups can I do?

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<v Speaker 4>How many pools can I do? It's been so good

0:22:29.320 --> 0:22:32.560
<v Speaker 4>for intelligent movement. It's exactly what my body's needed. And

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<v Speaker 4>it's like it's just changed in the last six or

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<v Speaker 4>seven weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been brilliant, but also one that's amazing well done

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<v Speaker 1>and great to see that or great to hear that

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<v Speaker 1>you love it and that you're getting results. But also,

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<v Speaker 1>apart from the actual programming and the movement that you're doing,

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<v Speaker 1>how great is it to be an environment with another

0:22:54.400 --> 0:22:58.359
<v Speaker 1>human that you really like, Like the energy is different.

0:22:58.400 --> 0:23:01.000
<v Speaker 2>You could be doing the exact same thing. Shit environment.

0:23:01.400 --> 0:23:04.399
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it's dark and dank, and it's not I

0:23:04.400 --> 0:23:07.040
<v Speaker 1>don't know, you know, you just like I fucking hate

0:23:07.080 --> 0:23:10.439
<v Speaker 1>going to that gym. It's like there's a cafe the

0:23:10.440 --> 0:23:13.000
<v Speaker 1>cafe go to every morning. I walk past literally eight

0:23:13.080 --> 0:23:15.560
<v Speaker 1>or nine cafes to get to this cafe because I

0:23:15.720 --> 0:23:19.040
<v Speaker 1>just love the energy in that cafe, you know, I

0:23:19.200 --> 0:23:20.240
<v Speaker 1>like being in that place.

0:23:20.240 --> 0:23:22.639
<v Speaker 2>There's something energetic that works for me.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't surprise me about the jiu jitsu thing, though,

0:23:27.080 --> 0:23:28.959
<v Speaker 1>because I've got a bunch of friends who do jiu

0:23:29.040 --> 0:23:32.240
<v Speaker 1>jitsu and I'm mentor a young guy who's has his

0:23:32.280 --> 0:23:34.879
<v Speaker 1>own jiu jitsu academy. Is a second dan black belt,

0:23:34.880 --> 0:23:38.960
<v Speaker 1>which there are not many takes typically ten years if

0:23:39.000 --> 0:23:41.720
<v Speaker 1>you train consistently to get a black belt in jiu jitsu.

0:23:42.359 --> 0:23:45.520
<v Speaker 1>It's considered the hardest belt to get in any martial

0:23:45.600 --> 0:23:47.679
<v Speaker 1>art as far as I know.

0:23:48.640 --> 0:23:50.120
<v Speaker 2>It might be some weird.

0:23:51.359 --> 0:23:55.360
<v Speaker 1>Like mystical martial art somewhere, but in terms of all

0:23:55.359 --> 0:23:58.359
<v Speaker 1>the general martial arts, and he's the same. He's just

0:23:58.520 --> 0:24:03.440
<v Speaker 1>like this big, goofy gent giant. He's a school teacher,

0:24:03.600 --> 0:24:06.359
<v Speaker 1>he's married, he's got two kids, and he could kill

0:24:06.359 --> 0:24:10.159
<v Speaker 1>everybody in the gym. But it just he is like

0:24:10.280 --> 0:24:15.439
<v Speaker 1>Humphrey be Bear. He's like six', four gentle, giant you,

0:24:15.480 --> 0:24:19.359
<v Speaker 1>know and but very like a lot of those dudes.

0:24:19.400 --> 0:24:24.080
<v Speaker 1>Are it's very much about respect and honor and self

0:24:24.080 --> 0:24:30.159
<v Speaker 1>awareness and self control and. Humility and when they start

0:24:30.200 --> 0:24:33.000
<v Speaker 1>from a white belt and they just they just grind

0:24:33.000 --> 0:24:37.040
<v Speaker 1>and they spend years on the. Mat there's not many

0:24:37.320 --> 0:24:38.680
<v Speaker 1>that the fat heads don't get.

0:24:38.720 --> 0:24:40.400
<v Speaker 2>Through they kind of get.

0:24:40.440 --> 0:24:43.879
<v Speaker 1>Culled if you've got a, big fat, ego you're going

0:24:43.960 --> 0:24:46.840
<v Speaker 1>to get strangled by, someone and you're going to learn

0:24:46.880 --> 0:24:47.920
<v Speaker 1>your lessons.

0:24:48.720 --> 0:24:52.520
<v Speaker 4>And strangled by people that are much smaller and seemingly much,

0:24:52.600 --> 0:24:54.080
<v Speaker 4>weaker but they just know.

0:24:54.040 --> 0:24:55.800
<v Speaker 3>Exactly where to do things and how to do.

0:24:55.760 --> 0:24:55.800
<v Speaker 2>It.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, yeah it's, Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah it's always been a wants me to investigate that

0:25:03.240 --> 0:25:05.560
<v Speaker 4>part of my, life But i'm just too much of

0:25:05.960 --> 0:25:06.680
<v Speaker 4>a computer.

0:25:06.840 --> 0:25:11.080
<v Speaker 3>Soldier it just hasn't warranted a physical prowess.

0:25:11.119 --> 0:25:16.800
<v Speaker 1>Yet tell me About so you've lost six centimeters around

0:25:16.840 --> 0:25:19.919
<v Speaker 1>your waist and you said that off the back of

0:25:19.960 --> 0:25:23.080
<v Speaker 1>this kind of moment that you had on this retreat

0:25:23.160 --> 0:25:26.640
<v Speaker 1>where if you missed, it everybody have listened to our last,

0:25:26.720 --> 0:25:29.040
<v Speaker 1>chat but like a big emotional release and you had

0:25:29.040 --> 0:25:31.919
<v Speaker 1>this moment and this kind of you correct me IF

0:25:31.920 --> 0:25:34.600
<v Speaker 1>i fuck it, up but kind of awakening or this.

0:25:34.720 --> 0:25:40.359
<v Speaker 1>Moment what's the between that, moment that emotional, release or

0:25:41.560 --> 0:25:45.360
<v Speaker 1>that moment in time and the six. Centimeters what's the

0:25:45.400 --> 0:25:46.840
<v Speaker 1>physiology that's leading.

0:25:46.880 --> 0:25:47.359
<v Speaker 3>That is it?

0:25:47.480 --> 0:25:50.119
<v Speaker 1>Cortisol is it you're end the crime system in? General

0:25:50.240 --> 0:25:53.720
<v Speaker 1>is it something? Else what's the why is one causing

0:25:53.840 --> 0:25:55.080
<v Speaker 1>or correlating with the? Other?

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<v Speaker 4>Yep so what was IF i had to put some

0:25:59.480 --> 0:26:02.120
<v Speaker 4>physiology into. It by the way that my brain is set,

0:26:02.200 --> 0:26:06.879
<v Speaker 4>up there was like a constant fear of failure going

0:26:06.920 --> 0:26:10.000
<v Speaker 4>on in my, brain and so When i'd project, Forward

0:26:10.720 --> 0:26:13.919
<v Speaker 4>i'd be really, motivated but Then i'd also fear.

0:26:13.720 --> 0:26:14.280
<v Speaker 3>That it's going to.

0:26:14.320 --> 0:26:18.320
<v Speaker 4>Fail and so there's this constant state of heightened neural.

0:26:18.359 --> 0:26:22.760
<v Speaker 4>Activity and for, me that activates the sympathetic nervous system

0:26:23.359 --> 0:26:27.880
<v Speaker 4>and the sympathetic nervous, system then it will.

0:26:27.680 --> 0:26:30.119
<v Speaker 3>Do a couple of. Things, chronically it will release a

0:26:30.119 --> 0:26:30.320
<v Speaker 3>bit of.

0:26:30.359 --> 0:26:33.679
<v Speaker 4>Cortisol but what it does to the tissue is that

0:26:33.760 --> 0:26:38.680
<v Speaker 4>it will prioritize storing fat around your, belly and it

0:26:39.359 --> 0:26:44.040
<v Speaker 4>will break down muscle tissue to, fuel like to provide

0:26:44.080 --> 0:26:46.760
<v Speaker 4>more fuel to liberate more fuel into the, body and

0:26:46.920 --> 0:26:49.119
<v Speaker 4>it will also break down more fat tissue and have

0:26:49.160 --> 0:26:50.919
<v Speaker 4>more fat circulating around your blood as.

0:26:50.960 --> 0:26:52.880
<v Speaker 3>Well but if you're then not moving.

0:26:52.680 --> 0:26:55.600
<v Speaker 4>Very, well WHICH i wasn't BECAUSE i just couldn't get

0:26:56.200 --> 0:26:57.760
<v Speaker 4>my brain into a space WHERE i could do it,

0:26:57.800 --> 0:27:02.439
<v Speaker 4>consistently that then relates to high cholesterol, levels higher truglys,

0:27:02.440 --> 0:27:06.439
<v Speaker 4>strides WHICH i. Had high cholesterol levels weren't, crazy but

0:27:06.480 --> 0:27:08.800
<v Speaker 4>they are definitely. Higher And i've always been pretty, healthy

0:27:08.840 --> 0:27:12.560
<v Speaker 4>and my diet was on, point AND i did probably

0:27:12.600 --> 0:27:16.880
<v Speaker 4>two months of perfect diet and my body just did

0:27:16.920 --> 0:27:19.919
<v Speaker 4>not shift at. ALL i was sitting seven to eight

0:27:19.960 --> 0:27:25.240
<v Speaker 4>kilos heavy THAN i ever. Had and, yeah and so

0:27:26.200 --> 0:27:29.560
<v Speaker 4>As i've come out of, that there's now less neural

0:27:29.600 --> 0:27:33.720
<v Speaker 4>activity that's being over, activated which Means i'm going into better.

0:27:33.760 --> 0:27:37.600
<v Speaker 3>Recovery i'm not projecting with, anxiety.

0:27:37.680 --> 0:27:43.280
<v Speaker 4>So there's less of that, breakdown and that's then obviously

0:27:43.640 --> 0:27:46.919
<v Speaker 4>allowing the fat tissue to be. Used and THEN i

0:27:46.960 --> 0:27:48.760
<v Speaker 4>also got my head into a space Where i'm now

0:27:48.800 --> 0:27:54.120
<v Speaker 4>moving a lot. Better that's combining with whatever is being

0:27:54.160 --> 0:27:57.320
<v Speaker 4>Released i'm. Using so And i'm putting a priority on

0:27:57.359 --> 0:27:59.680
<v Speaker 4>my muscles Because i'm doing the type of strength training that.

0:27:59.720 --> 0:28:00.560
<v Speaker 3>Allowed to do.

0:28:00.600 --> 0:28:04.600
<v Speaker 4>That so the focus of my body has gone From

0:28:04.880 --> 0:28:06.880
<v Speaker 4>i've just got to mentally get through this and keep

0:28:06.960 --> 0:28:09.359
<v Speaker 4>dumping fuel on the fire and keep burning that, muscle

0:28:10.920 --> 0:28:14.480
<v Speaker 4>whereas now, it's, hey we need that, muscle and there's

0:28:14.480 --> 0:28:15.560
<v Speaker 4>actually not a bigger fire.

0:28:15.600 --> 0:28:19.720
<v Speaker 3>Anymore so it's there's a conservation.

0:28:19.160 --> 0:28:22.240
<v Speaker 4>Of, muscle and then there's a use of the fat tissue,

0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:24.800
<v Speaker 4>instead and then you're not having the cortisole release as,

0:28:24.840 --> 0:28:27.160
<v Speaker 4>well so it's able to target the stuff that's going.

0:28:27.200 --> 0:28:29.159
<v Speaker 3>On and then Since i've checked my just checked my

0:28:29.160 --> 0:28:32.080
<v Speaker 3>bloods last, week it's like my.

0:28:32.200 --> 0:28:35.480
<v Speaker 4>Thyroil even THOUGH i didn't have a problem functionally, FUNCTIONALLY

0:28:35.480 --> 0:28:37.920
<v Speaker 4>i had a problem with my. Thyroid actually it's gone

0:28:37.960 --> 0:28:41.960
<v Speaker 4>back to exactly where it needs to. BE i cholesterol

0:28:42.040 --> 0:28:46.040
<v Speaker 4>levels going back to. Normal there's just been a significant physiological.

0:28:46.120 --> 0:28:48.800
<v Speaker 4>Change and a skeptic could just say you started exercising,

0:28:48.840 --> 0:28:50.800
<v Speaker 4>more so that's what's made it.

0:28:50.840 --> 0:28:52.040
<v Speaker 3>Happen but there has.

0:28:52.000 --> 0:28:56.200
<v Speaker 4>Been just my, motivation my, willingness my mental, energy just

0:28:56.240 --> 0:28:58.560
<v Speaker 4>the optimism THAT i, have the space That i'm.

0:28:58.600 --> 0:29:00.360
<v Speaker 3>Holding it's just, very, very very.

0:29:00.360 --> 0:29:03.200
<v Speaker 4>Different and that changed BEFORE i got really regular with

0:29:03.240 --> 0:29:06.160
<v Speaker 4>the exercise as, Well so it's a combination of. Things but,

0:29:06.920 --> 0:29:09.120
<v Speaker 4>yeah that's that's HOW i would explain what's going.

0:29:09.160 --> 0:29:10.160
<v Speaker 3>On love.

0:29:10.200 --> 0:29:13.800
<v Speaker 1>It you spoke in there, somewhere maybe towards the start about.

0:29:13.960 --> 0:29:18.720
<v Speaker 1>Fear like fear can be, useful obviously serves a, purpose

0:29:18.920 --> 0:29:24.480
<v Speaker 1>it can also be destructive and debilitating and. Crippling and

0:29:25.080 --> 0:29:27.480
<v Speaker 1>you know this IS i don't know if this is

0:29:27.480 --> 0:29:28.760
<v Speaker 1>in your, wheelhouse doesn't.

0:29:28.760 --> 0:29:29.600
<v Speaker 2>Matter we're just having a.

0:29:29.680 --> 0:29:33.520
<v Speaker 1>Chat tell me about, Fear tell me about your thinking

0:29:33.560 --> 0:29:36.920
<v Speaker 1>around that when like for, Yourself Like i'm scared of,

0:29:36.960 --> 0:29:39.360
<v Speaker 1>them you, know WHEN i talk to, blokes or not just,

0:29:39.400 --> 0:29:41.320
<v Speaker 1>blokes but people in a room in. General BUT i

0:29:41.400 --> 0:29:43.400
<v Speaker 1>like it WHEN i talk to blokes can go, well

0:29:43.400 --> 0:29:45.520
<v Speaker 1>of Course i'm scared of shit BECAUSE i feel like

0:29:45.600 --> 0:29:46.760
<v Speaker 1>it gives them permission to.

0:29:46.800 --> 0:29:47.960
<v Speaker 2>Go oh Thank god for.

0:29:48.000 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 1>That me, too because us, blokes we don't want to

0:29:50.640 --> 0:29:52.680
<v Speaker 1>be you, know we're out for. Males we're not scared of,

0:29:52.680 --> 0:29:55.400
<v Speaker 1>anything which is. Bullshit we're scared of every fucking second.

0:29:55.440 --> 0:29:58.000
<v Speaker 1>Thing we just don't want you to know because we

0:29:58.040 --> 0:30:02.440
<v Speaker 1>want you to think much better than we actually, are you. Know,

0:30:03.480 --> 0:30:06.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah so tell me about you and fear and how

0:30:06.240 --> 0:30:09.720
<v Speaker 1>you within the three sixty kind of.

0:30:09.720 --> 0:30:11.760
<v Speaker 2>Paradigm you talk about.

0:30:11.480 --> 0:30:16.200
<v Speaker 3>That, Yep so well it's.

0:30:16.280 --> 0:30:18.600
<v Speaker 4>START i guess there's going to be it's going to.

0:30:18.600 --> 0:30:23.440
<v Speaker 4>Start there's going to be a, input an input of

0:30:23.720 --> 0:30:27.000
<v Speaker 4>some sort of stimulus, something and it gets coded for.

0:30:27.040 --> 0:30:29.080
<v Speaker 4>Something an example would be you're walking along a bush

0:30:29.120 --> 0:30:32.880
<v Speaker 4>track and you see a long brown thing out of

0:30:32.880 --> 0:30:33.360
<v Speaker 4>the corner of your.

0:30:33.400 --> 0:30:35.400
<v Speaker 3>Eye because your peripherle vision isn't, perfect.

0:30:36.240 --> 0:30:39.640
<v Speaker 4>You're, amgdala which is your it's like a big emotional.

0:30:39.720 --> 0:30:43.200
<v Speaker 4>Responder it's going to just take the rough particles of

0:30:43.200 --> 0:30:45.360
<v Speaker 4>that and it's going to apply a few meanings to.

0:30:45.400 --> 0:30:49.040
<v Speaker 4>It and if you're an outdoorsman and you and, you

0:30:49.040 --> 0:30:51.680
<v Speaker 4>you've got a terrarium with seventeen brown snakes and you're

0:30:51.720 --> 0:30:55.920
<v Speaker 4>kissing them each, morning your response to that is going to, be,

0:30:56.000 --> 0:30:57.080
<v Speaker 4>oh a new.

0:30:57.120 --> 0:30:58.280
<v Speaker 3>Friend you, know it's going to be.

0:30:58.360 --> 0:31:01.520
<v Speaker 4>Excitement but for most people it's going to be holy,

0:31:01.560 --> 0:31:04.200
<v Speaker 4>crap that's a. Snake i've got to quicken my speed.

0:31:04.240 --> 0:31:06.600
<v Speaker 4>Here and then actually it turns out to be a,

0:31:06.600 --> 0:31:09.040
<v Speaker 4>stick but that doesn't. Matter but the idea is that

0:31:09.080 --> 0:31:14.720
<v Speaker 4>you're taking rough data and you're creating a story out of,

0:31:14.720 --> 0:31:16.440
<v Speaker 4>that and then this is where it gets really.

0:31:16.280 --> 0:31:17.720
<v Speaker 3>Interesting is that.

0:31:19.240 --> 0:31:23.240
<v Speaker 4>Some people will send that message to their, adrenals some

0:31:23.280 --> 0:31:25.760
<v Speaker 4>people will send it to their, cortex which is the

0:31:26.040 --> 0:31:28.120
<v Speaker 4>front part of their brain or the prefront of, cortex

0:31:29.080 --> 0:31:33.200
<v Speaker 4>and other individuals will send it to their digestive. System

0:31:33.520 --> 0:31:35.840
<v Speaker 4>and this is where it gets really interesting in.

0:31:35.800 --> 0:31:36.680
<v Speaker 3>How we respond to.

0:31:36.720 --> 0:31:40.880
<v Speaker 4>Stress so you'll have the more introverted, people so people like,

0:31:40.960 --> 0:31:44.520
<v Speaker 4>me and we call them crusaders and, sensors and they

0:31:44.520 --> 0:31:49.480
<v Speaker 4>develop with a more, powerful a more dominant prefrontal, cortex

0:31:49.600 --> 0:31:52.480
<v Speaker 4>more dominant, cortex and they rely on their cortex a

0:31:52.480 --> 0:31:54.280
<v Speaker 4>lot more to manage all the stuff that goes on

0:31:54.320 --> 0:31:56.600
<v Speaker 4>in their. Life and so that's WHY i talk about

0:31:56.600 --> 0:31:58.840
<v Speaker 4>me where it's LIKE i have a bigger sympathetic drive from.

0:31:58.840 --> 0:32:01.400
<v Speaker 4>Outside so you've got some people that they send that

0:32:01.480 --> 0:32:04.440
<v Speaker 4>amygdalic message of fear and it goes up to their

0:32:04.480 --> 0:32:07.800
<v Speaker 4>brain where they start going something's. WRONG i have to

0:32:07.880 --> 0:32:13.160
<v Speaker 4>comprehend it, mentally and that's where anxiety, occurs like fear

0:32:13.240 --> 0:32:15.440
<v Speaker 4>of what's going to happen, next and there's like a

0:32:15.480 --> 0:32:18.600
<v Speaker 4>whole cycling and that's when you can trigger off lots

0:32:18.600 --> 0:32:21.280
<v Speaker 4>of different thought, Processes like WHEN i felt this fear

0:32:21.320 --> 0:32:25.360
<v Speaker 4>before it meant That i'm not going to be included or.

0:32:25.400 --> 0:32:29.280
<v Speaker 4>Whatever and so this one little bit of input from

0:32:29.280 --> 0:32:31.720
<v Speaker 4>someone giving you a funny little, look or getting a

0:32:31.720 --> 0:32:35.480
<v Speaker 4>particular mark on an assessment that you've handed, in or

0:32:35.680 --> 0:32:37.720
<v Speaker 4>getting a bit of feedback from a, team that's just

0:32:37.800 --> 0:32:41.160
<v Speaker 4>not so great that for me and a couple of

0:32:41.200 --> 0:32:43.800
<v Speaker 4>other types of people that will stimulate the cortex and

0:32:43.840 --> 0:32:45.760
<v Speaker 4>make them. Overthink and they are often the type of

0:32:45.760 --> 0:32:47.200
<v Speaker 4>people that go through their life to, say, oh you

0:32:47.240 --> 0:32:48.680
<v Speaker 4>just thinking about this too. Much you just got to

0:32:48.680 --> 0:32:51.080
<v Speaker 4>get out of your, brain and they. Do but it's

0:32:51.120 --> 0:32:53.400
<v Speaker 4>also the place that they house the most. Power so

0:32:53.520 --> 0:32:56.480
<v Speaker 4>them thinking through it is actually really helpful because they

0:32:56.600 --> 0:32:58.360
<v Speaker 4>articulate their feelings as.

0:32:58.480 --> 0:33:00.680
<v Speaker 3>Thought and so if they for those.

0:33:00.480 --> 0:33:06.600
<v Speaker 4>People framing it mentally framing it is really really important to, say,

0:33:06.600 --> 0:33:08.880
<v Speaker 4>Oh i'm walking in the. Bush there's a chance there's a,

0:33:08.920 --> 0:33:11.840
<v Speaker 4>snake and this is WHAT i do WHEN i see a.

0:33:11.880 --> 0:33:14.520
<v Speaker 4>SNAKE i pause to make sure what it, is and

0:33:14.560 --> 0:33:17.760
<v Speaker 4>THEN i make my follow the steps to avoiding a

0:33:17.760 --> 0:33:19.959
<v Speaker 4>brown snake or whatever it might. Be and that's how

0:33:19.960 --> 0:33:23.160
<v Speaker 4>they would process their. Fear whereas do you want to

0:33:23.200 --> 0:33:24.200
<v Speaker 4>jump in, there jump me to keep?

0:33:24.200 --> 0:33:26.120
<v Speaker 2>Going, no, no that's, good that's.

0:33:26.120 --> 0:33:28.160
<v Speaker 4>Cool and then the second kind of, person just to

0:33:28.240 --> 0:33:29.640
<v Speaker 4>keep it in three groups to make it nice and,

0:33:29.680 --> 0:33:31.320
<v Speaker 4>simple they're going to stimulate their.

0:33:31.320 --> 0:33:33.120
<v Speaker 3>Adrenals so they're going to be.

0:33:33.240 --> 0:33:36.480
<v Speaker 4>The type of person that goes into hyper reactive, mode

0:33:36.960 --> 0:33:38.600
<v Speaker 4>and that is you've stimulated.

0:33:38.640 --> 0:33:41.800
<v Speaker 3>Me Now i'm, reacting and its action.

0:33:42.040 --> 0:33:47.880
<v Speaker 4>Reaction it is adrenaline plus musculoskeletal, system so it's action without.

0:33:47.920 --> 0:33:51.520
<v Speaker 3>Thinking it's amygdala. Adrenals and so this is.

0:33:51.480 --> 0:33:54.520
<v Speaker 4>The type of person that's just more likely to jump

0:33:54.520 --> 0:33:58.880
<v Speaker 4>on the snake or just, sprint or if they get bad,

0:33:58.920 --> 0:34:01.960
<v Speaker 4>feedback they're more like to, say if you none of

0:34:01.960 --> 0:34:03.200
<v Speaker 4>this is, TRUE i hate you.

0:34:03.240 --> 0:34:05.840
<v Speaker 3>All, like just do something and not even think about.

0:34:05.880 --> 0:34:08.799
<v Speaker 4>It or it's also the type of person that if

0:34:08.840 --> 0:34:10.640
<v Speaker 4>you give them, challenge they, go, WHATEVER i can do

0:34:10.640 --> 0:34:12.120
<v Speaker 4>it faster than, you and then they just do it

0:34:12.200 --> 0:34:12.719
<v Speaker 4>because they're.

0:34:12.800 --> 0:34:15.160
<v Speaker 3>Competitive so there's.

0:34:15.239 --> 0:34:20.719
<v Speaker 4>A musculo skeletal response and it bypasses the. Cortex and

0:34:20.760 --> 0:34:23.920
<v Speaker 4>then you have another person and this so that person

0:34:24.120 --> 0:34:26.960
<v Speaker 4>they're called the activator and, connector and then we have

0:34:27.080 --> 0:34:30.480
<v Speaker 4>the guardian and the, diplomat and there's a little bit

0:34:30.520 --> 0:34:32.200
<v Speaker 4>of cross over, here but this is just for the

0:34:32.200 --> 0:34:35.120
<v Speaker 4>purpose of this story right. Now this is where you'll

0:34:35.120 --> 0:34:39.360
<v Speaker 4>get a in their stress. Response they have a dorsal vaguel.

0:34:39.400 --> 0:34:41.920
<v Speaker 4>Response and from if you understand a little bit about

0:34:41.960 --> 0:34:45.640
<v Speaker 4>the vagus, nerve there is healthy activation of the vagus,

0:34:45.719 --> 0:34:48.040
<v Speaker 4>nerve which Is i'm, calm relaxed with friends and this is,

0:34:48.080 --> 0:34:51.040
<v Speaker 4>wonderful And i'm digesting my food and this is a

0:34:51.080 --> 0:34:54.400
<v Speaker 4>really lovely. Environment i'm feeling very open and LIKE i

0:34:54.400 --> 0:34:57.040
<v Speaker 4>want to connect with. People that's a healthy vegas nerve.

0:34:57.080 --> 0:35:00.319
<v Speaker 4>Response and then you have that's ventral. Vaguel and there's

0:35:00.360 --> 0:35:04.120
<v Speaker 4>the dorsal vaguel, response which is essentially a stress response

0:35:05.080 --> 0:35:08.759
<v Speaker 4>that shuts your body down into a. Freeze and so

0:35:09.239 --> 0:35:13.600
<v Speaker 4>the way that they'll experience it is their digestive system

0:35:13.640 --> 0:35:15.800
<v Speaker 4>will rear up like it will actually.

0:35:15.440 --> 0:35:19.400
<v Speaker 3>Create irregularities in their digestive.

0:35:19.440 --> 0:35:24.319
<v Speaker 4>System their face will actually, freeze so their voice will

0:35:24.400 --> 0:35:24.839
<v Speaker 4>change as.

0:35:24.840 --> 0:35:26.440
<v Speaker 3>Well this is all dorsal vaguel.

0:35:26.520 --> 0:35:30.440
<v Speaker 4>Response so you'll have someone turn around their stiff as

0:35:30.480 --> 0:35:34.680
<v Speaker 4>aboard and they'll, say, um there's a snake over, There

0:35:34.719 --> 0:35:35.160
<v Speaker 4>like their.

0:35:35.120 --> 0:35:38.399
<v Speaker 3>Voice has, changed face has. Changed, now what's so fascinating about?

0:35:38.440 --> 0:35:41.799
<v Speaker 4>This and you'll know this from public speaking when diplomats,

0:35:41.840 --> 0:35:45.120
<v Speaker 4>particularly and that they have this response because they're fighting

0:35:45.160 --> 0:35:48.600
<v Speaker 4>between the first and the last, one which is their

0:35:48.600 --> 0:35:50.640
<v Speaker 4>nervous system goes a million miles an hour and their

0:35:50.680 --> 0:35:55.600
<v Speaker 4>digestive system like shuts, off so they're in this like paralysis.

0:35:55.600 --> 0:35:58.360
<v Speaker 4>Analysis when you're public speaking in front of these, people

0:35:58.960 --> 0:36:03.160
<v Speaker 4>their face is, lank almost, tense and you care, thinking,

0:36:03.239 --> 0:36:04.600
<v Speaker 4>oh what AM i saying wrong to this?

0:36:04.640 --> 0:36:06.239
<v Speaker 3>Person and they're one of the first people to come

0:36:06.320 --> 0:36:06.600
<v Speaker 3>up with the.

0:36:06.640 --> 0:36:09.440
<v Speaker 4>Affter the session to say, great session got so much

0:36:09.440 --> 0:36:10.719
<v Speaker 4>out of, That and that's Because.

0:36:10.960 --> 0:36:14.360
<v Speaker 2>I've had that happen so so many. Times this person

0:36:14.480 --> 0:36:16.800
<v Speaker 2>fucking hates. Me, YES i loved.

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:19.680
<v Speaker 4>It. Yeah so when they're taking on new, information it

0:36:19.800 --> 0:36:23.040
<v Speaker 4>actually creates a stress response for them because they're trying

0:36:23.080 --> 0:36:27.000
<v Speaker 4>to fit it into the tree of knowledge that they

0:36:27.040 --> 0:36:30.359
<v Speaker 4>have and they need time to process. It in while that's,

0:36:30.400 --> 0:36:34.799
<v Speaker 4>happening they, freeze and so they get a physiological. Freeze

0:36:35.360 --> 0:36:38.000
<v Speaker 4>their digestive is a little bit, off and their face

0:36:38.120 --> 0:36:41.800
<v Speaker 4>actually Shows i'm not, Happy i'm not. Comfortable and normally

0:36:41.920 --> 0:36:45.279
<v Speaker 4>what's fascinating about this as well is this was.

0:36:45.239 --> 0:36:48.080
<v Speaker 3>A signal to our community that this person's in.

0:36:48.080 --> 0:36:51.080
<v Speaker 4>Trouble but right, now if you see somebody like that

0:36:51.160 --> 0:36:52.759
<v Speaker 4>and they've got a freezed face and they're in a

0:36:52.760 --> 0:36:54.880
<v Speaker 4>team meeting because you're doing a, presentation you, think.

0:36:54.960 --> 0:36:56.040
<v Speaker 3>What the hell is wrong With?

0:36:56.160 --> 0:37:00.280
<v Speaker 4>Jane you, know you're not, thinking, Oh jane Was gane

0:37:00.360 --> 0:37:02.160
<v Speaker 4>was in a free state and there was a state

0:37:02.200 --> 0:37:02.960
<v Speaker 4>of alarm on her.

0:37:03.000 --> 0:37:06.239
<v Speaker 3>Face so, yes that's a fascinating.

0:37:06.280 --> 0:37:08.480
<v Speaker 4>Thing so some people when they get, stressed they'll go

0:37:08.560 --> 0:37:12.400
<v Speaker 4>into adrenaline and they deal through, action and they process

0:37:12.480 --> 0:37:16.680
<v Speaker 4>their adrenaline through. Movement another person they actually need to

0:37:16.719 --> 0:37:19.160
<v Speaker 4>go away by themselves and they need to process it

0:37:19.200 --> 0:37:22.319
<v Speaker 4>and reprioritize and think through it and get structure and

0:37:22.360 --> 0:37:24.759
<v Speaker 4>get logic and get a frame of mind around, it

0:37:25.040 --> 0:37:31.200
<v Speaker 4>whereas somebody else actually needs to, breathe you, know four seconds,

0:37:31.200 --> 0:37:34.480
<v Speaker 4>in eight seconds. Out that then puts them into a

0:37:34.520 --> 0:37:40.160
<v Speaker 4>healthy vaguel response that isn't a free spont. Response so

0:37:40.239 --> 0:37:43.239
<v Speaker 4>THAT'S i, mean when we're talking about, fear obviously it's

0:37:43.560 --> 0:37:46.480
<v Speaker 4>all of this inputs coming in in the same. Way

0:37:46.520 --> 0:37:50.800
<v Speaker 4>what you determine is, fear well determine on the experiences

0:37:50.800 --> 0:37:52.279
<v Speaker 4>that you've had in your life and various things like.

0:37:52.320 --> 0:37:54.759
<v Speaker 4>That but how you process that fear is going to

0:37:54.760 --> 0:37:57.080
<v Speaker 4>be quite. Different and this is why some people are

0:37:57.120 --> 0:38:00.439
<v Speaker 4>they just so great in an. Emergency i'm not great

0:38:00.520 --> 0:38:03.520
<v Speaker 4>in an. Emergency i'm. Okay BUT i sit with my

0:38:03.760 --> 0:38:07.759
<v Speaker 4>activator friends and they are just dang bang, dang like

0:38:07.800 --> 0:38:10.279
<v Speaker 4>as soon as the shit HiT's the, fan they are

0:38:10.360 --> 0:38:13.280
<v Speaker 4>just they've already solved the. Problem it's the most amazing

0:38:13.320 --> 0:38:15.480
<v Speaker 4>thing to see. Ever and they're so certain about their

0:38:15.480 --> 0:38:18.799
<v Speaker 4>decisions because they're not thinking about, it Whereas i'm going into,

0:38:18.960 --> 0:38:21.919
<v Speaker 4>okay there's seven different things that this could be going.

0:38:21.920 --> 0:38:23.840
<v Speaker 4>On i've got to be working through what's the highest

0:38:23.840 --> 0:38:25.400
<v Speaker 4>priority one blah blah, blah bah blah and so on

0:38:25.719 --> 0:38:30.000
<v Speaker 4>seconds behind, them whereas somebody else they're just they become,

0:38:30.040 --> 0:38:33.640
<v Speaker 4>passive they retreat completely into their into a freeze. Response

0:38:33.680 --> 0:38:36.839
<v Speaker 4>so that's that's the that's the framework that we're normally working.

0:38:36.880 --> 0:38:39.680
<v Speaker 1>With it's, funny so so many things out of that

0:38:39.760 --> 0:38:44.839
<v Speaker 1>for me one AND i just think this is How i'm.

0:38:44.840 --> 0:38:51.080
<v Speaker 2>BUILT i don't think it's any, UH i don't know

0:38:51.200 --> 0:38:52.040
<v Speaker 2>Anything i've really.

0:38:52.040 --> 0:38:54.760
<v Speaker 1>Developed but when my training partner had a cardiac, arrest

0:38:54.760 --> 0:38:55.360
<v Speaker 1>do you remember this?

0:38:55.480 --> 0:38:58.759
<v Speaker 3>Story did you know THAT i know of the story

0:38:58.800 --> 0:38:59.360
<v Speaker 3>but it remind me.

0:38:59.719 --> 0:39:03.000
<v Speaker 2>Ay so he dropped dead in the, gym literally right

0:39:03.080 --> 0:39:03.600
<v Speaker 2>and we were.

0:39:03.680 --> 0:39:06.680
<v Speaker 1>Training he did a set of, chins came, down fell

0:39:06.719 --> 0:39:09.120
<v Speaker 1>on the, floor went on his hands and. KNEES i

0:39:09.160 --> 0:39:12.839
<v Speaker 1>thought he was having some kind of, seizure which kind

0:39:12.880 --> 0:39:18.160
<v Speaker 1>of was his heart was, ceasing cardiac. Arrest, Dead and

0:39:19.600 --> 0:39:22.360
<v Speaker 1>so it took me a minute to figure out what was.

0:39:22.360 --> 0:39:26.200
<v Speaker 1>Happening not a, minute probably ten seconds to go. On

0:39:26.360 --> 0:39:28.960
<v Speaker 1>now he's Had i'd enough it was a heart attack

0:39:29.080 --> 0:39:32.080
<v Speaker 1>or cardiac. Arrest but the bottom line was his heart had. Stopped,

0:39:32.080 --> 0:39:34.719
<v Speaker 1>obviously people have heart attacks without their heart, stopping but

0:39:35.080 --> 0:39:37.160
<v Speaker 1>his heart had, stopped and all this shit THAT i

0:39:37.200 --> 0:39:40.520
<v Speaker 1>won't describe for the listeners was going. On and so

0:39:41.719 --> 0:39:44.160
<v Speaker 1>AND i, mean it's not like it was, fun but

0:39:44.360 --> 0:39:47.839
<v Speaker 1>within you, know ten, Seconds i'd turned him.

0:39:47.880 --> 0:39:49.799
<v Speaker 2>Over he was on face. Down i'd turn him.

0:39:49.840 --> 0:39:52.560
<v Speaker 1>OVER i got him into a position WHERE i could

0:39:52.560 --> 0:39:54.839
<v Speaker 1>work on, him AND i was working on. Him but

0:39:54.920 --> 0:39:58.879
<v Speaker 1>what was interesting for me WAS i didn't feel out

0:39:58.880 --> 0:40:02.680
<v Speaker 1>of control at any. AGE i didn't feel you, KNOW

0:40:02.719 --> 0:40:05.000
<v Speaker 1>i didn't feel, calm BUT i didn't FEEL.

0:40:06.239 --> 0:40:09.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what the word is like extreme.

0:40:09.200 --> 0:40:12.239
<v Speaker 1>STRESS i was just very very, focused and there was

0:40:12.280 --> 0:40:14.839
<v Speaker 1>about another twenty people in the gym and nobody would

0:40:14.880 --> 0:40:18.720
<v Speaker 1>come and. Help, yeah everybody else was freaked the fuck.

0:40:18.760 --> 0:40:21.319
<v Speaker 1>Out and by the, WAY i don't think this is

0:40:21.480 --> 0:40:24.839
<v Speaker 1>any kind of accolade for, me BECAUSE i think it's

0:40:25.040 --> 0:40:30.600
<v Speaker 1>just HOW i am And i'm very grateful for. That but,

0:40:30.800 --> 0:40:35.359
<v Speaker 1>yeah AND i guess one of the other THINGS i

0:40:35.400 --> 0:40:36.000
<v Speaker 1>wanted to.

0:40:36.040 --> 0:40:38.799
<v Speaker 2>Ask or as SOMETHING i wanted to ask around this is.

0:40:40.200 --> 0:40:42.000
<v Speaker 1>You, know it's, like we do have the way that

0:40:42.040 --> 0:40:44.600
<v Speaker 1>we naturally respond to different, things or our body or

0:40:44.600 --> 0:40:48.360
<v Speaker 1>our brain or our mind or, whatever our kind of

0:40:48.400 --> 0:40:50.440
<v Speaker 1>automatic response to whatever the.

0:40:50.400 --> 0:40:52.120
<v Speaker 2>Stimulus is or stimuli.

0:40:52.280 --> 0:40:55.640
<v Speaker 1>Are but it's in our interest sometimes to be able

0:40:55.680 --> 0:40:58.319
<v Speaker 1>to change that because we Need we. Can't IF i

0:40:58.400 --> 0:41:03.520
<v Speaker 1>keep responding this, WAY i can't do. Life and my

0:41:03.600 --> 0:41:06.279
<v Speaker 1>one last boring story is WHEN i. MOVED i moved

0:41:06.280 --> 0:41:09.920
<v Speaker 1>To Western australia WHEN i was nineteen years, old Which

0:41:10.000 --> 0:41:11.719
<v Speaker 1>i'm pretty sure you don't know this, story AND i

0:41:11.760 --> 0:41:15.279
<v Speaker 1>worked on what's called an aluminium, refinery was the aluminium

0:41:15.280 --> 0:41:19.319
<v Speaker 1>refinery for a, year, yeah as a trades, assistant and

0:41:19.320 --> 0:41:23.120
<v Speaker 1>then an unlicensed rigor which is working on. Heights AND

0:41:23.200 --> 0:41:25.680
<v Speaker 1>i wasn't terrified of, heights BUT i didn't love. THEM

0:41:25.680 --> 0:41:30.399
<v Speaker 1>i was probably average and then. Over and so WHEN

0:41:30.440 --> 0:41:37.160
<v Speaker 1>i the first, day like my godfather was a he

0:41:37.239 --> 0:41:39.360
<v Speaker 1>was in, management there was three thousand men on this.

0:41:39.520 --> 0:41:41.640
<v Speaker 1>Site it was fucking it was as big as a.

0:41:41.680 --> 0:41:43.600
<v Speaker 1>Town it was just dirt.

0:41:43.320 --> 0:41:48.560
<v Speaker 2>And trucks and generators and fucking wild wild. Men no.

0:41:48.760 --> 0:41:52.719
<v Speaker 2>Women it was just the Wild. West and my godfather,

0:41:52.840 --> 0:41:56.440
<v Speaker 2>said when your supervisor asks you if you're afraid of,

0:41:56.520 --> 0:42:00.960
<v Speaker 2>heights say. No and when they ask you where you're,

0:42:00.960 --> 0:42:04.000
<v Speaker 2>from do not Say. VICTORIA i went. Cool that was

0:42:04.040 --> 0:42:08.040
<v Speaker 2>his two bits of, advice. Right they fucking Hated, Victorians

0:42:08.760 --> 0:42:11.480
<v Speaker 2>and SO i SAID i was From, tazzy WHICH i

0:42:11.480 --> 0:42:13.239
<v Speaker 2>lived In tazzy for a long time as a. Kid

0:42:13.280 --> 0:42:16.719
<v Speaker 2>SO i got away with. That and but, yeah the

0:42:16.760 --> 0:42:19.879
<v Speaker 2>first DAY i had to climb up the side of

0:42:20.040 --> 0:42:23.640
<v Speaker 2>a Great WHEN i say great, BIG i mean fourteen

0:42:23.760 --> 0:42:27.640
<v Speaker 2>stories high tank which was built to contain gas which

0:42:27.640 --> 0:42:29.120
<v Speaker 2>hadn't been operationalized.

0:42:29.200 --> 0:42:33.279
<v Speaker 1>Yet but it didn't have you know how they have

0:42:33.680 --> 0:42:37.080
<v Speaker 1>ladders welded to the tank or that whatever the welded

0:42:37.120 --> 0:42:39.040
<v Speaker 1>and the cage around it didn't have that.

0:42:39.160 --> 0:42:41.040
<v Speaker 3>Yet, yeah it.

0:42:40.920 --> 0:42:42.960
<v Speaker 1>Had the, well it Had, sorry it had the, ladder

0:42:43.000 --> 0:42:45.960
<v Speaker 1>but it didn't have the safety shit around. It and he,

0:42:46.000 --> 0:42:48.360
<v Speaker 1>goes your, team so you work as a team of,

0:42:48.400 --> 0:42:53.120
<v Speaker 1>three a welder and a welder and a boiler maker

0:42:53.239 --> 0:42:56.560
<v Speaker 1>and a trades. Assistant i'm the trades. Assistant he, goes

0:42:56.560 --> 0:42:59.080
<v Speaker 1>you're working with these two guys up the. Top rob

0:42:59.120 --> 0:43:02.400
<v Speaker 1>And benny go up in introduce yourself AND i go

0:43:02.400 --> 0:43:06.680
<v Speaker 1>go up and he, goes, YEAH i go how how

0:43:06.719 --> 0:43:07.319
<v Speaker 1>DO i get?

0:43:07.400 --> 0:43:10.560
<v Speaker 2>Up and he's, like what do you. Mean it's, like,

0:43:11.000 --> 0:43:11.440
<v Speaker 2>well there's a.

0:43:11.520 --> 0:43:14.880
<v Speaker 1>Ladder so it's one hundred and forty feet, high, mate

0:43:15.200 --> 0:43:19.120
<v Speaker 1>like fourteen stories and there's. Nothing if you, fall you,

0:43:19.239 --> 0:43:23.800
<v Speaker 1>fall you just fu, yeah like you're just. Dead so we.

0:43:23.680 --> 0:43:27.200
<v Speaker 2>Are the guys that make it safe for. Everyone SO

0:43:27.320 --> 0:43:34.200
<v Speaker 2>i climb up fourteen, stories fourteen, stories carrying like a

0:43:34.239 --> 0:43:36.200
<v Speaker 2>tool belt and all this, shit AND i get to the.

0:43:36.239 --> 0:43:41.440
<v Speaker 2>Top my heart rate was fucking nine. THOUSAND i was

0:43:41.719 --> 0:43:44.799
<v Speaker 2>the most Scared i've ever, like not even. Close i'd

0:43:44.840 --> 0:43:47.160
<v Speaker 2>never been anywhere near that scared in my.

0:43:47.239 --> 0:43:49.879
<v Speaker 3>Life oh my. God six months.

0:43:49.640 --> 0:43:53.520
<v Speaker 1>LATER i was walking around on, rsj's which are steel,

0:43:53.560 --> 0:43:59.800
<v Speaker 1>beams like they were, Footpaths Like i'd been completely whatever

0:43:59.800 --> 0:44:04.000
<v Speaker 1>it is is my. Responses i've been. DESENSITIZED i, MEAN

0:44:04.040 --> 0:44:06.520
<v Speaker 1>i was still very aware how dangerous it, was but

0:44:06.600 --> 0:44:11.320
<v Speaker 1>the fear and all the accompanying physiological you, know events

0:44:11.360 --> 0:44:13.440
<v Speaker 1>in my, body they'd all but.

0:44:13.640 --> 0:44:19.480
<v Speaker 2>Disappeared. Wow then it's just, like, OH i, MEAN i

0:44:19.480 --> 0:44:23.120
<v Speaker 2>don't know if everyone could like to we all have

0:44:23.200 --> 0:44:27.760
<v Speaker 2>the capacity to, change because, REALLY i, mean it's about

0:44:27.800 --> 0:44:29.440
<v Speaker 2>how you interpret whatever that.

0:44:29.600 --> 0:44:32.359
<v Speaker 1>Is, like fear is an individual, response as is all

0:44:32.400 --> 0:44:33.920
<v Speaker 1>of the physiology that goes with.

0:44:33.960 --> 0:44:37.360
<v Speaker 4>It, Right, YES i would say that everyone's got a

0:44:37.400 --> 0:44:42.160
<v Speaker 4>capacity to deamplify that stress response and to normalize themselves within.

0:44:42.200 --> 0:44:46.719
<v Speaker 4>It but then there's a difference between that and some

0:44:46.760 --> 0:44:51.560
<v Speaker 4>people enjoying the sensation of that risk as. Well so

0:44:51.840 --> 0:44:54.520
<v Speaker 4>some people and the reason that they would enjoy, it,

0:44:55.080 --> 0:44:59.320
<v Speaker 4>yeah is because and as we have sort of summized

0:44:59.360 --> 0:45:01.960
<v Speaker 4>through our years of, interactions you're probably in between the

0:45:01.960 --> 0:45:06.479
<v Speaker 4>activator connector piece and the. Andres you actually have more

0:45:06.600 --> 0:45:10.719
<v Speaker 4>access to, steroids so you produce more, steroids and so

0:45:10.800 --> 0:45:13.200
<v Speaker 4>when you get into a place that requires, steroids which

0:45:13.200 --> 0:45:16.160
<v Speaker 4>is when you're at, risk you've got a capacity to

0:45:16.280 --> 0:45:19.560
<v Speaker 4>hold them, on whereas somebody. Else we talk about the dipmat,

0:45:19.560 --> 0:45:23.520
<v Speaker 4>again they are high pos steroidal and so are, sensus

0:45:23.920 --> 0:45:28.400
<v Speaker 4>so they. Can't they would go into a significant exhaustion

0:45:28.960 --> 0:45:32.040
<v Speaker 4>after that exposure to that level of. Stress they wouldn't

0:45:32.040 --> 0:45:35.840
<v Speaker 4>recover as fast and they would have less tolerance for

0:45:35.880 --> 0:45:40.560
<v Speaker 4>that state of. Petrification, essentially whereas somebody with the strongest

0:45:40.600 --> 0:45:43.960
<v Speaker 4>deroidal structure and ability to create, it they've got, YE

0:45:44.080 --> 0:45:45.600
<v Speaker 4>i can make, that AND i could make that, again

0:45:45.640 --> 0:45:49.440
<v Speaker 4>AND i could make that, again so everybody could de

0:45:49.560 --> 0:45:50.319
<v Speaker 4>amplify the.

0:45:50.400 --> 0:45:53.320
<v Speaker 3>Response but then some people physiologically aren't.

0:45:53.080 --> 0:45:56.879
<v Speaker 4>Built to be able to sustain the background risk that's

0:45:56.920 --> 0:45:58.600
<v Speaker 4>going on as. Well and this is why you'll see

0:45:58.600 --> 0:46:01.759
<v Speaker 4>people that, SAY i don't walk around on. BUILDINGS i

0:46:01.800 --> 0:46:05.120
<v Speaker 4>work from home in a very dimly lit room which

0:46:05.160 --> 0:46:08.000
<v Speaker 4>is nice and calm and, warm where there's zero, risk

0:46:08.480 --> 0:46:12.000
<v Speaker 4>because my adrenals just can't tolerate more than twenty minutes

0:46:12.040 --> 0:46:14.839
<v Speaker 4>of stress at the. Time so, yeah, yeah and, yeah

0:46:14.960 --> 0:46:18.520
<v Speaker 4>that's fascinating, though just the impact of. EXPOSURE i was

0:46:18.560 --> 0:46:19.880
<v Speaker 4>sweating while you were telling that.

0:46:20.080 --> 0:46:22.400
<v Speaker 3>Story was all over.

0:46:22.920 --> 0:46:24.200
<v Speaker 2>One other quick, one not as.

0:46:24.239 --> 0:46:26.920
<v Speaker 1>Exciting BUT i did security FOR i don't know three

0:46:26.960 --> 0:46:28.600
<v Speaker 1>and a half or four years WHEN i was younger

0:46:28.600 --> 0:46:30.560
<v Speaker 1>WHEN i got back To. Melbourne so from like twenty

0:46:30.600 --> 0:46:33.799
<v Speaker 1>to twenty, FOUR i worked in pubs and clubs AND

0:46:34.239 --> 0:46:36.480
<v Speaker 1>i didn't drink, right SO i never really went to.

0:46:36.560 --> 0:46:39.719
<v Speaker 1>PUBS i definitely never went to. Clubs BUT i was

0:46:39.760 --> 0:46:48.080
<v Speaker 1>working in nightclubs and doing. Security AND i remember the first,

0:46:48.320 --> 0:46:51.880
<v Speaker 1>well definitely the first few weeks just BEING i. Reckon

0:46:52.239 --> 0:46:55.080
<v Speaker 1>LIKE i worked from like nine till, three like fantastic,

0:46:55.120 --> 0:46:58.920
<v Speaker 1>hours like three nights a, week so and you've just

0:46:59.080 --> 0:47:01.399
<v Speaker 1>your job is just to make sure people don't fuck

0:47:01.480 --> 0:47:03.160
<v Speaker 1>up too much and to get rid of people who

0:47:03.239 --> 0:47:04.799
<v Speaker 1>are fucking, up and to you, know.

0:47:04.800 --> 0:47:05.520
<v Speaker 2>It's not a fun.

0:47:05.640 --> 0:47:09.799
<v Speaker 1>Job and LIKE i was quite big and strong at

0:47:09.800 --> 0:47:12.279
<v Speaker 1>that stage and young and dumb and full of you

0:47:12.320 --> 0:47:15.000
<v Speaker 1>know what and all of that. Shit but for the

0:47:15.080 --> 0:47:17.440
<v Speaker 1>first MONTH i reckon every night WHEN i was in,

0:47:17.480 --> 0:47:20.880
<v Speaker 1>There my heart rate just just being there was probably

0:47:20.880 --> 0:47:22.360
<v Speaker 1>a hundred just being in the.

0:47:22.440 --> 0:47:24.160
<v Speaker 3>Room, yeah just a.

0:47:24.200 --> 0:47:26.840
<v Speaker 1>Hundred, right and then anything, happens then you're up to

0:47:26.880 --> 0:47:33.080
<v Speaker 1>one sixty one eighty and. Escalate BUT i remember at the,

0:47:33.160 --> 0:47:36.440
<v Speaker 1>start like a week in thinking BECAUSE i lived with a,

0:47:36.480 --> 0:47:38.040
<v Speaker 1>guy we shared a, house and he did. It he

0:47:38.080 --> 0:47:40.719
<v Speaker 1>was a big he was a fucking, unit, Right so

0:47:40.760 --> 0:47:44.319
<v Speaker 1>he wasn't really he wasn't really afraid of too. Much

0:47:44.360 --> 0:47:48.080
<v Speaker 1>And i'm, Like i'm afraid this is this is this

0:47:48.160 --> 0:47:52.879
<v Speaker 1>is fucking. Terrifying but, anyway and then fast forward six.

0:47:52.960 --> 0:47:56.719
<v Speaker 1>Months you, know it wasn't my natural habitat by any,

0:47:56.760 --> 0:47:58.040
<v Speaker 1>means but all.

0:47:57.840 --> 0:47:59.040
<v Speaker 2>Of that stuff had.

0:47:59.080 --> 0:48:01.560
<v Speaker 1>Gone you, KNOW i could be in the middle of

0:48:01.600 --> 0:48:06.919
<v Speaker 1>altercations AND i was relatively calm and in control and

0:48:07.800 --> 0:48:11.839
<v Speaker 1>drunk aggressive or high aggressive people or fuck wits or

0:48:11.920 --> 0:48:12.680
<v Speaker 1>the stuff.

0:48:12.400 --> 0:48:14.040
<v Speaker 2>That used to you.

0:48:14.040 --> 0:48:17.480
<v Speaker 1>Know and, AGAIN i wouldn't recommend it to, anyone but

0:48:17.520 --> 0:48:20.840
<v Speaker 1>for me who grew up like in the, country going

0:48:20.880 --> 0:48:25.440
<v Speaker 1>to a private school WITH i, mean my childhood was

0:48:25.480 --> 0:48:28.919
<v Speaker 1>so innocent and. Boring and Then i'm in the city

0:48:28.960 --> 0:48:31.400
<v Speaker 1>And i'm in nightclubs and there's gangs and there's, this

0:48:31.560 --> 0:48:33.960
<v Speaker 1>and there's. That i'm, like oh, fuck this is a different.

0:48:34.040 --> 0:48:39.160
<v Speaker 2>World BUT i think you acclimate or you, know there

0:48:39.160 --> 0:48:41.840
<v Speaker 2>are some things you probably don't want to acclimate or adapt.

0:48:41.880 --> 0:48:44.640
<v Speaker 3>To but, YEAH i, remember that's exactly what.

0:48:44.680 --> 0:48:48.040
<v Speaker 4>Happens THAT'S i think where the Natural this is where

0:48:48.040 --> 0:48:51.680
<v Speaker 4>the nature versus nurture. Thing you're talking about nurturing like

0:48:51.840 --> 0:48:54.359
<v Speaker 4>in you surround yourself with the environment and a if

0:48:54.400 --> 0:48:58.520
<v Speaker 4>you can. Adapt but that's because it's also in your

0:48:58.640 --> 0:49:03.680
<v Speaker 4>nature to be somewhat comfortable in slightly heightened, circumstances like

0:49:03.800 --> 0:49:06.640
<v Speaker 4>even public. Speaking it's a slightly heightened. CIRCUMSTANCE i know

0:49:06.680 --> 0:49:08.279
<v Speaker 4>everyone's into public, speaking.

0:49:08.040 --> 0:49:09.640
<v Speaker 3>As we know whereas.

0:49:09.760 --> 0:49:12.799
<v Speaker 4>What and this is the fascinating thing about it is

0:49:12.800 --> 0:49:16.720
<v Speaker 4>THAT i would say it's a very important life lesson

0:49:16.800 --> 0:49:19.160
<v Speaker 4>is that you don't have to want to or enjoy

0:49:19.280 --> 0:49:22.480
<v Speaker 4>acclimating to all the things that everybody else, does because

0:49:22.719 --> 0:49:24.040
<v Speaker 4>there would have been a bunch of people in your

0:49:24.080 --> 0:49:27.279
<v Speaker 4>position that never acclimated and they would have dropped out

0:49:27.320 --> 0:49:30.560
<v Speaker 4>after two, months and they wouldn't have because their body

0:49:31.160 --> 0:49:33.479
<v Speaker 4>just wouldn't have enjoyed. It and their body, says, hey

0:49:34.320 --> 0:49:37.759
<v Speaker 4>when you give a particular, nurture the nature will. Act

0:49:38.080 --> 0:49:40.920
<v Speaker 4>and your nature was that of a. THING i can handle.

0:49:40.960 --> 0:49:42.439
<v Speaker 4>THIS i can get to a point WHERE i can handle,

0:49:42.480 --> 0:49:45.239
<v Speaker 4>it whether it be your own sort of search for

0:49:45.280 --> 0:49:51.360
<v Speaker 4>growth or just your capacity. Anyway but some individuals physiologically

0:49:51.360 --> 0:49:54.920
<v Speaker 4>don't adapt as. Fast their body, says this feels. Awful

0:49:55.239 --> 0:49:58.000
<v Speaker 4>you hate, This go and do something else with your.

0:49:58.000 --> 0:50:00.600
<v Speaker 4>Life and this is gets back to that conversation purpose

0:50:00.640 --> 0:50:03.759
<v Speaker 4>that we. Had some bodies are not designed to be

0:50:03.800 --> 0:50:07.359
<v Speaker 4>in a heightened, state particularly when there's a physicality that's

0:50:07.400 --> 0:50:11.360
<v Speaker 4>associated with it as, well and it's really violating for

0:50:11.400 --> 0:50:12.919
<v Speaker 4>them to be in that state for a long, time

0:50:12.960 --> 0:50:14.759
<v Speaker 4>and their body will send them lots of signals to,

0:50:14.760 --> 0:50:15.520
<v Speaker 4>say this.

0:50:15.600 --> 0:50:17.279
<v Speaker 3>Is not your, purpose this is not your.

0:50:17.320 --> 0:50:20.799
<v Speaker 4>Purpose and even if they were to go that extra six,

0:50:20.840 --> 0:50:22.920
<v Speaker 4>months they might get, there but it still wouldn't be

0:50:22.920 --> 0:50:24.759
<v Speaker 4>as natural as it is rather some other. People and

0:50:24.760 --> 0:50:28.479
<v Speaker 4>this IS i think that's so important that you don't

0:50:28.480 --> 0:50:30.480
<v Speaker 4>have to be afraid of, everything but you do not

0:50:30.560 --> 0:50:34.560
<v Speaker 4>have to brush your fear in every little thing to

0:50:34.640 --> 0:50:37.879
<v Speaker 4>feel like you, can you, know completely unlock your potential as.

0:50:37.880 --> 0:50:40.120
<v Speaker 3>WELL i think that's very.

0:50:40.200 --> 0:50:44.240
<v Speaker 4>Important but having a framework OF i can navigate myself

0:50:44.280 --> 0:50:46.400
<v Speaker 4>through fear is absolutely essential for.

0:50:46.440 --> 0:50:47.839
<v Speaker 3>Growth All, Right.

0:50:47.760 --> 0:50:49.640
<v Speaker 1>I've got a fun question to finish. On So i've

0:50:49.680 --> 0:50:53.600
<v Speaker 1>been listening to What i'm out and. ABOUT i tried

0:50:53.880 --> 0:50:57.000
<v Speaker 1>not to listen to, academic bloody stuff or you. Know

0:50:57.040 --> 0:51:00.680
<v Speaker 1>i'll listen to a podcast some like something my numbing or,

0:51:00.719 --> 0:51:03.880
<v Speaker 1>funny or audio books And i've never.

0:51:03.760 --> 0:51:05.440
<v Speaker 2>Listened to fiction in my.

0:51:05.520 --> 0:51:08.759
<v Speaker 1>Life until about six months, ago Because i'm, LIKE i

0:51:08.760 --> 0:51:13.000
<v Speaker 1>don't do fiction ONLY i only acquire. Knowledge i'm too

0:51:13.000 --> 0:51:16.440
<v Speaker 1>smart to listen to. Fiction like, Now i'm a FUCKING

0:51:16.800 --> 0:51:19.279
<v Speaker 1>i love. It So i've listened all these. Books i'm

0:51:19.320 --> 0:51:22.440
<v Speaker 1>listening to this book at the moment Called The Terminal.

0:51:22.480 --> 0:51:24.799
<v Speaker 1>List there was a, movie which the movie wasn't, great

0:51:24.840 --> 0:51:27.400
<v Speaker 1>but the book's really well, Known The Terminal, list.

0:51:29.080 --> 0:51:33.680
<v Speaker 2>And the main character in the, book his Name's James.

0:51:33.680 --> 0:51:37.360
<v Speaker 1>Reese, anyway the book also is written by A navy,

0:51:37.360 --> 0:51:44.600
<v Speaker 1>seal so the details. Fantastic but, anyway it's like in

0:51:44.760 --> 0:51:47.040
<v Speaker 1>all of these operations and, stuff they talk about the

0:51:47.040 --> 0:51:50.600
<v Speaker 1>preparation and execution and performing under pressure and like the

0:51:50.960 --> 0:51:55.120
<v Speaker 1>the stuff that probably humans just shouldn't have to do

0:51:55.280 --> 0:52:00.480
<v Speaker 1>or have to, see you, know war. Stuff but that's

0:52:00.520 --> 0:52:02.680
<v Speaker 1>the world we live, in where this, is for better or,

0:52:02.719 --> 0:52:05.359
<v Speaker 1>worse like it or, not it is part of the

0:52:05.400 --> 0:52:06.120
<v Speaker 1>reality of.

0:52:06.840 --> 0:52:08.200
<v Speaker 2>Life and so for.

0:52:08.200 --> 0:52:13.680
<v Speaker 1>These elite you, know special ops kind of, operators they

0:52:13.760 --> 0:52:15.640
<v Speaker 1>need to be the calm in the. Chaos they need

0:52:15.680 --> 0:52:18.040
<v Speaker 1>to be able to do shit That i'd fall apart

0:52:18.360 --> 0:52:20.480
<v Speaker 1>even thinking about. Doing they need to be able to do,

0:52:20.520 --> 0:52:23.440
<v Speaker 1>it you, know inside. Out back to, front eyes closed

0:52:23.880 --> 0:52:30.080
<v Speaker 1>and keep their heart rate at. Sixty so my question is, sensor, activator, crusader, guardian,

0:52:30.239 --> 0:52:36.040
<v Speaker 1>diplomat connector in the pH D by the, WAY pH three,

0:52:36.120 --> 0:52:39.600
<v Speaker 1>SIXTY i should say health. TYPE i just described go

0:52:39.680 --> 0:52:42.080
<v Speaker 1>check them out if you haven't done so. Yet which

0:52:42.120 --> 0:52:44.360
<v Speaker 1>one of those is going to make the best special?

0:52:44.400 --> 0:52:48.399
<v Speaker 1>Operator who's going to make the Best Seal team six?

0:52:48.520 --> 0:52:56.759
<v Speaker 4>Leader it's going to be a, crusaders diplomats or guardians

0:52:56.960 --> 0:53:01.319
<v Speaker 4>are generally going to be the best, leaders and in

0:53:01.360 --> 0:53:06.759
<v Speaker 4>that particular, environment there's no limitation to an activator or

0:53:06.800 --> 0:53:11.400
<v Speaker 4>a connector doing it as. Well but their natural state

0:53:11.480 --> 0:53:14.400
<v Speaker 4>is to be more impulsive and to want more, freedom

0:53:15.160 --> 0:53:19.840
<v Speaker 4>and that can sometimes make them not want to be

0:53:20.320 --> 0:53:20.760
<v Speaker 4>the top.

0:53:20.760 --> 0:53:21.600
<v Speaker 3>Guy they want to.

0:53:21.520 --> 0:53:24.279
<v Speaker 4>Be able to be the guy that follows just just

0:53:24.440 --> 0:53:27.600
<v Speaker 4>runs and does. Things so there's a natural inclination for

0:53:27.680 --> 0:53:30.839
<v Speaker 4>them to be to take more risk and sometimes that

0:53:31.080 --> 0:53:33.279
<v Speaker 4>you need a more considered head for the leader as

0:53:33.320 --> 0:53:36.600
<v Speaker 4>far as they're selecting. Them but there's a particular type

0:53:36.600 --> 0:53:38.840
<v Speaker 4>of crusader it would need to be a number eighty

0:53:38.920 --> 0:53:42.799
<v Speaker 4>five on the circle and then and the reason for

0:53:42.840 --> 0:53:46.399
<v Speaker 4>that is because that type of crusader is physically much.

0:53:46.440 --> 0:53:49.680
<v Speaker 4>Bigger So i'm a seventy five And i'm eighty kilos

0:53:49.719 --> 0:53:52.240
<v Speaker 4>one hundred and seventy nine. CENTIMETERS a typical eighty five

0:53:52.760 --> 0:53:57.719
<v Speaker 4>would be you, know ninety to one hundred kilos and

0:53:58.280 --> 0:54:01.560
<v Speaker 4>six for. Three they've just got a much bigger upper,

0:54:01.560 --> 0:54:05.120
<v Speaker 4>body much more resilient body for the demands that are.

0:54:05.160 --> 0:54:08.600
<v Speaker 3>Required the other type is the diplomat as.

0:54:08.640 --> 0:54:12.360
<v Speaker 4>Well the diplomat they've got that, strength they've got much stronger,

0:54:12.440 --> 0:54:14.240
<v Speaker 4>legs they've naturally got a stronger.

0:54:14.280 --> 0:54:15.760
<v Speaker 3>Body they would.

0:54:15.600 --> 0:54:19.120
<v Speaker 4>Need a particular diplomat that they would need with a

0:54:19.160 --> 0:54:22.600
<v Speaker 4>really good athletic. Background they need particular. Collagen diplomats generally

0:54:22.640 --> 0:54:28.279
<v Speaker 4>have more flexible, collagen so you'd need a diplomat with

0:54:28.440 --> 0:54:32.480
<v Speaker 4>tighter collagen without that coal, variant so that they don't

0:54:32.480 --> 0:54:34.560
<v Speaker 4>get the soft tissue injuries because they're much like we

0:54:34.640 --> 0:54:37.440
<v Speaker 4>see in sports. Athletes if you've got the particular collagen,

0:54:37.520 --> 0:54:39.759
<v Speaker 4>genes you'll just you'll get softissue injuries from all of

0:54:39.840 --> 0:54:41.799
<v Speaker 4>the volume that they. Do so it need to be

0:54:41.840 --> 0:54:44.520
<v Speaker 4>a particular, diplomat and the reason why it'd select them

0:54:45.040 --> 0:54:48.880
<v Speaker 4>is that they've got a fantastic order orderliness and structure

0:54:49.000 --> 0:54:52.399
<v Speaker 4>and they're, considered and if you have a, combinat you'd

0:54:52.440 --> 0:54:56.840
<v Speaker 4>need an activatory element to their mind because everyone's not

0:54:56.880 --> 0:54:59.920
<v Speaker 4>just one. Type you would need a diplomat with athletic

0:55:00.200 --> 0:55:04.440
<v Speaker 4>body like tight, collagen strong, collagen and an activator, mindset

0:55:04.440 --> 0:55:08.760
<v Speaker 4>and that would essentially give them the ability to make

0:55:08.920 --> 0:55:11.759
<v Speaker 4>decisions in the, moment because a diplomat normally would need more,

0:55:11.760 --> 0:55:14.200
<v Speaker 4>time so you need that little. Variation and then for a,

0:55:14.239 --> 0:55:18.600
<v Speaker 4>guardian you'd be looking at a guardian with a more crusadery.

0:55:19.520 --> 0:55:24.440
<v Speaker 4>Secondary because the guardians are. Incredible they're very very, strong highly,

0:55:24.520 --> 0:55:27.520
<v Speaker 4>protective and that's very very, good but you would need

0:55:27.719 --> 0:55:33.200
<v Speaker 4>the strategic mission over people. Mentality AND i know that

0:55:34.040 --> 0:55:36.120
<v Speaker 4>at the end of the day they drag everyone they can,

0:55:36.160 --> 0:55:38.640
<v Speaker 4>out but ultimately the mission is more important than the

0:55:38.680 --> 0:55:41.920
<v Speaker 4>man and that's something that the guardians naturally would struggle

0:55:41.920 --> 0:55:44.040
<v Speaker 4>with because they would form a family bond with the

0:55:44.080 --> 0:55:45.040
<v Speaker 4>people around them as.

0:55:44.920 --> 0:55:48.600
<v Speaker 3>Well so they would be incredible for extrication.

0:55:48.120 --> 0:55:50.319
<v Speaker 4>And making sure everyone gets, home but when it comes

0:55:50.360 --> 0:55:52.840
<v Speaker 4>to mission or, people you would need a crusader element

0:55:52.880 --> 0:55:54.319
<v Speaker 4>which outcomes over.

0:55:54.360 --> 0:55:58.080
<v Speaker 3>People so that would be my. Diagnosis you would not have.

0:55:58.040 --> 0:56:02.040
<v Speaker 4>A sensor in sas they actually stopped sensors.

0:56:01.600 --> 0:56:03.480
<v Speaker 3>Going to war In World War.

0:56:03.520 --> 0:56:05.759
<v Speaker 4>TWO i don't remember those photos where they were taking

0:56:05.840 --> 0:56:09.799
<v Speaker 4>measurements of the thorax guys blowing their chest up as.

0:56:09.719 --> 0:56:10.080
<v Speaker 3>Much as they.

0:56:10.120 --> 0:56:14.680
<v Speaker 4>Could they knew, that they knew that a person with

0:56:14.719 --> 0:56:18.919
<v Speaker 4>a smaller thorax sort of the mid, chest they knew

0:56:18.920 --> 0:56:22.120
<v Speaker 4>that they had a much higher likelihood OF ptsd coming,

0:56:22.160 --> 0:56:25.840
<v Speaker 4>home like eighty percent rate versus someone with a thicker,

0:56:25.920 --> 0:56:29.319
<v Speaker 4>thorax much. Less and that's because the thinner thorax the

0:56:29.360 --> 0:56:33.000
<v Speaker 4>sensor much more sensitive than, noise much more sensitive to

0:56:33.360 --> 0:56:36.640
<v Speaker 4>like much less. Strong actually they've got smaller muscle, belly

0:56:36.719 --> 0:56:40.560
<v Speaker 4>so carrying thirty kilos plus their, gun they would break

0:56:40.640 --> 0:56:42.960
<v Speaker 4>a lot faster as. Well like they're just not built for,

0:56:43.040 --> 0:56:48.439
<v Speaker 4>combat the. Sensors so, yeah fascinate, Anyway so that's where i'd.

0:56:48.440 --> 0:56:51.000
<v Speaker 4>Go and even based off the special forces THAT i,

0:56:51.040 --> 0:56:54.799
<v Speaker 4>know they seem to be like The in, fact the

0:56:54.800 --> 0:56:57.320
<v Speaker 4>ones THAT i do know are crusaders within that range

0:56:57.719 --> 0:57:00.920
<v Speaker 4>or diplomats within that, range or guard within that. Range

0:57:00.920 --> 0:57:04.120
<v Speaker 4>but then there's a few activators and connectors THAT i

0:57:04.160 --> 0:57:05.480
<v Speaker 4>know of as well that just get stuck.

0:57:05.480 --> 0:57:08.640
<v Speaker 3>In so that's My, wow it is.

0:57:08.880 --> 0:57:09.160
<v Speaker 2>There it.

0:57:09.200 --> 0:57:13.680
<v Speaker 1>Is so you're thinking about becoming AN elead, operator covert,

0:57:13.719 --> 0:57:14.720
<v Speaker 1>operative a government.

0:57:14.760 --> 0:57:19.080
<v Speaker 2>Assassin you just got you your. Guidebook, hey how can

0:57:19.120 --> 0:57:21.840
<v Speaker 2>people connect with? You find, you follow you all that? Stuff?

0:57:21.880 --> 0:57:22.960
<v Speaker 2>Cam thank.

0:57:23.000 --> 0:57:26.680
<v Speaker 4>You probably easiest way is to search doctor car McDonald

0:57:26.840 --> 0:57:31.280
<v Speaker 4>Shay shae on the internets or doctor car McDonald on.

0:57:31.320 --> 0:57:35.120
<v Speaker 4>LinkedIn please make a. Friend and if you're interested as

0:57:35.120 --> 0:57:39.200
<v Speaker 4>a health professional to learn about the science or corporate

0:57:39.200 --> 0:57:42.920
<v Speaker 4>well being or. Schools while it's doing a lot of this.

0:57:42.920 --> 0:57:44.960
<v Speaker 4>Stuff all of the stuff we said about stress is

0:57:44.960 --> 0:57:47.160
<v Speaker 4>actually relevant for students in, class which no one is,

0:57:47.160 --> 0:57:51.160
<v Speaker 4>considering and even through the gym's all of that sort of.

0:57:51.200 --> 0:57:56.800
<v Speaker 4>Stuff so if we've got information and applications for, everybody be.

0:57:56.920 --> 0:57:59.200
<v Speaker 2>The app Butter, cup all, right, mate we appreciate.

0:57:59.240 --> 0:58:01.960
<v Speaker 1>You we'll say goodbye off, are but look after that

0:58:02.080 --> 0:58:07.840
<v Speaker 1>scrotum of yours and that that testical region and we'll chat.

0:58:07.880 --> 0:58:09.120
<v Speaker 3>Again appreciate.

0:58:09.160 --> 0:58:09.360
<v Speaker 2>It