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Speaker 1: Hi everyone, Happy Tuesday. I'm so sorry for like kind

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Speaker 1: of the low energy. I shouldn't just wom me a

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Speaker 1: bucket or a bowl, a glass bowl because I said

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Speaker 1: I was going to vomit. Really not feeling good today

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Speaker 1: any but you've got a shot when you need to.

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Speaker 1: I fucked my back, not to self. Don't jump off

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Speaker 1: a climbing frame when you're twelve years old and break

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Speaker 1: you back and you're still going to suffer for the

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Speaker 1: rest of your life. And anytime I like do something

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Speaker 1: like slightly poor form at the gym, I'll fuck my back.

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Speaker 1: And that's exactly what I've done today. So I feel

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Speaker 1: like I'm going to vomit. And we're also going through

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Speaker 1: your guys as dating horror stories today, so like that's

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Speaker 1: going to even make me like probably vomit even more

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Speaker 1: and also put me off dating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, summer like anxiety and oh fuck, but they're all done,

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Speaker 2: like we are looking back on these horror stories.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we've all grown and learn. Also side note

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Speaker 1: that clip of last week's episode, Dude, I've had more

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Speaker 1: pressed men in my life telling me being like, well,

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Speaker 1: I've been called a lesbian multiple times, which again, if

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Speaker 1: I was a lesbian. Don't use that as an attack.

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Speaker 1: It's not a bad thing. I like chicks, which honestly

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Speaker 1: would be so much more preferable at this rate, because

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Speaker 1: you you're all diabolical. Second, like the amount of people

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Speaker 1: now and they just go because I said, like, communicate

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Speaker 1: with me daily. Yeah, I now get like a message

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Speaker 1: every morning from like three guys being like just my

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Speaker 1: daily communication. Hey you just checking in? This is my

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Speaker 1: daily communication. I was like, this was not what I

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Speaker 1: was warrantying.

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Speaker 2: I actually went through the podcast dms last night for submissions,

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Speaker 2: because that's how we receive them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's mostly men now.

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Speaker 1: Oh fuck catching Oh were they mad?

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Speaker 2: No? No, that fine, But they're pitching for you to

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Speaker 2: be in their life. Oh yeah, pretty extended period of

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Speaker 2: time or forever.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's get up a few Actually, let's pull up

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Speaker 1: some messages. This guy actually said something kine interesting. Let's go.

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Speaker 2: And also, if you haven't watched a cliar, we'll in

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Speaker 2: start it right here.

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Speaker 1: Males only larding my life. If you communicate with me

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Speaker 1: every day, you don't act nonchalant, you text your ex,

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Speaker 1: you're out. If you don't have a job, you're out.

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Speaker 1: If you party every weekend with no purpose, You're out.

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Speaker 1: If you don't have a license, you're out. If you

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Speaker 1: like every girl's fucking bikini picks on Instagram, you're out.

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Speaker 1: If you're not romantic, bye bye. If you don't play dates,

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Speaker 1: bye bye. If you're not clear with what you want,

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Speaker 1: au revoir loser. If you aren't like that, come into

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Speaker 1: my life in twenty twenty six. I'm just trying to

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Speaker 1: come into your life as that mad but you're making

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Speaker 1: it extremely difficult.

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Speaker 2: Okay, sorry, yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Will make it difficult. Where's some other ones, just in

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Speaker 1: case you check your DMS. I'm a very schalant man

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Speaker 1: who's very much in love with you. I would love

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Speaker 1: to take you out for dinner one night. Flowers and

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Speaker 1: jury included the bundle a massive engagement ring.

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Speaker 2: Okay mate, It's so funny you can tell the different

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Speaker 2: types of guys, like this is the ones jumping down

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Speaker 2: your throat, then this is the ones jumping to your DM.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Samantha slash sam. I hope this message finds you well.

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Speaker 1: I thought i'd communicate with you starting today. One, how

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Speaker 1: would I describe myself? Incredibly schillan? Two? Don't even know

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Speaker 1: my ex's number? Three, I'm a teacher. Four I party

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Speaker 1: with purpose, but not every weekend. Five I have a license.

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Speaker 1: Six The only peaks I like of yours are not

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Speaker 1: the bikini ones. Seven I'm romantic as fuck. I've already

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Speaker 1: planned our first eight crime regards Harry.

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Speaker 2: There's some goodies going around.

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Speaker 1: I want you and nothing else. Twenty twenty six is

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Speaker 1: the year of Cam and Sam.

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Speaker 2: Cam love a rhyme.

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Speaker 1: Well, they've all like disappeared, But I honestly I looked

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Speaker 1: at my story replies and I got eighty six story replies,

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Speaker 1: and I'm honestly thinking, like majority of them are men.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would think so based off your podcast DMS.

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Speaker 1: That's it's fucking crazy. But also them, some of them

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Speaker 1: and I have a rolelex. What you bring to the table.

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Speaker 2: I know, and like they are so pressed that they

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Speaker 2: will now just go for your voice. That's because I'm

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Speaker 2: getting all the notifications. I was like, what is going on?

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Speaker 1: Like what are some diabolical things that people said? But

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Speaker 1: all the girls are like coming back at them. It's

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Speaker 2: They're writing at dawn. Yeah, I think I did read

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Speaker 2: I honestly, I think it's been a bit of anxiety,

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Speaker 2: to be honest, because yeah, it's been a wealth of notifications,

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Speaker 2: but like the girls have just been so succinct and

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Speaker 2: it's nothing about emotions. Yeah, it's nothing about how they

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Speaker 2: want to treat their partner. This is all that matters.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And I'm like, also that least is like bare minimum. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like it's not even like diabolical, Like I'm not even

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Speaker 2: Because there's also been like some hate comments saying, girl,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like everyone's like bare minimum, bro, And I'm like

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Speaker 1: we all agree. Yeah. Someone goes, why do girls just

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Speaker 1: think we even want to be in their lives anymore?

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Speaker 1: by forty Okay, wait, someone said something really bad about me.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you list your attributes and see if you

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Speaker 1: can achieve a man of high caliber and see what

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Speaker 1: you achieve? Okay, And then yeah, someone was like, she

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Speaker 1: has great friends, she's like successful, she has her own career,

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Speaker 1: she has her own money. Like everyone's like a man

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Speaker 1: doesn't want a woman with a career. What are we

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Speaker 1: in the nineteen fucking forties?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but why are you in my comments arguing that

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Speaker 2: you don't want me? If you apparently don't want me, Yeah, and.

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Speaker 1: You follow me and if I check the dms, you've

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Speaker 1: told me you love me and you want my fucking

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Speaker 1: foot picks.

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Speaker 2: So and there is chat history of them.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you've been trying to slide into the DM since

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty four. Mate, how's that going for you? Anyway,

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Speaker 1: we're diving into some dating horror stories today. I don't

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Speaker 1: have any dating horror stories at the moment.

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Speaker 2: I have like an old one. He's a bit random.

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Speaker 2: Was when I was living in Sydney. I think I

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Speaker 2: just met this guy online and we went to one

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Speaker 1: Was good, just seeing dumplings. Chop Stick's first date.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I kind of just there's some blind confidence, okay

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Speaker 2: going in anyway, I think I still have this guy

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Speaker 2: on Instagram, like nothing diabolical happened, But it was more

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Speaker 2: so the fact he spent the whole date he had

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Speaker 2: and I'm just like, okay, cool, Like why are we

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Speaker 2: talking about this so much? He's like, honestly, i'd really

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Speaker 2: Like I want to go to Europe. I have some

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Speaker 2: other places in mind, not my priority. I can show

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Speaker 2: you how to sign up right now. Okay, so you

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Speaker 2: just get this paid here for an hour, tried to

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Speaker 2: scout me to join this American camp and be a supervisor.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, are you getting commissioned?

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be a boys scout mate, please.

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Speaker 2: But what's the interest here for you? Do you recommend

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Speaker 2: it that much? Or you're just trying to get like

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Right, it's like an interview.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I kind of like cut that off early.

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Speaker 2: I think there have been some others, but none that

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Speaker 1: I haven't been on. The only diabolical day I've really

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Speaker 1: up stairs skov vodka. Yeah, but I think I've told

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Speaker 1: that story in the pot. I think I told that

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Speaker 2: I think I was on happy hour randomly, oh, random place.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've done that was pretty diabolical. I wonder if

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Speaker 2: Surely I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I un followed him the other day though, because his

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Speaker 2: Is he known?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, but like he's someone who would

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Speaker 1: like check. Yeah, he's not like a big influencer. Everyone's

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Speaker 1: also like, don't date influencers, Sam, don't date influencers. I've

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Speaker 1: never dated an influence. No, I've never dated an influence.

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Speaker 2: Sure, someone else may be in the public eye.

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Speaker 1: I've doated an athlete.

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Speaker 1: Also, but like I now like don't even like I

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Speaker 1: done it once. Like there was this TikTok that came

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Speaker 1: El doing doing this like YadA, YadA, YadA, and then

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Speaker 1: it just goes Sam Gugenheimer moves to Sydney and dates

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Speaker 1: an NRL player.

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Speaker 2: Oh ah, I was like, so niche, I want to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was so weird. She was like, and she

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Speaker 1: just said it so nonchalantly. She was like, Sam Gunheimer

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Speaker 2: I was like, okay, tea me next to alex El. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I was in an Australian the count Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I can troult to you. I've got it. She's

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Speaker 1: mentioned me in it.

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Speaker 2: I'm dead.

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Speaker 1: But I was also like, is that why people always

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Speaker 2: I ain't, and I wouldn't rule it out, but like

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't see you with NRL.

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Speaker 1: I just think that like NRL doesn't have like a

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Speaker 1: very good name, they're quite renowned to be a little

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Speaker 1: like a little cheating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and kind of thing. Yeah, very different type.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I just like a wag in Australia is not

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Speaker 1: for me, Yeah, that's anymore.

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Speaker 2: That's the thing you kind of dabbled. But what I

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Speaker 2: was going to say without sounding bitchy at all, like

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Speaker 2: no negative connotations here, But you can see people that

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Speaker 2: have been wags for Ueres, so I guess you can

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Speaker 2: kind of envisage that life. You've had a taste of it,

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Speaker 2: and they're probably like Okay, no.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just like I'm not interested in like dating you,

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Speaker 1: like if you have an AFL players into my dms,

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Speaker 1: like I won't be replying, yeah, and which are like

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Speaker 1: to like sound all arrogance they do. But I'm also like,

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Speaker 2: And that's say messy because there's so much like cross pollinations. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Anyway, this is the chick. Her name Sarah Rose Olivia Dean.

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Speaker 3: To Win New Artists Beyond Saint Drama, Sam Guggenheim and

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Speaker 3: Brandon Flynn's literally Beyonce and Sam movester City in dates

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Speaker 1: Yeah, who the fuck is Sam Goog?

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Speaker 2: That's a great that's a great crowd to be here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and Bill Barker sentered to him, he goes you

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Speaker 2: Won't put it as a clip, just in case.

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Speaker 2: And this is fun. Do not get pressed in the comments.

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Speaker 1: This is all fun and games. I'm into musicians.

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Speaker 2: Now I feel like I'm missing something I don't.

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Speaker 1: I've also come to realize I don't have a type.

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Speaker 1: I just like good looking people. That's fair because all

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Speaker 2: There's like a difference between your ideal man of what

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Speaker 1: Like I also said I'd never go for a.

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Speaker 2: Blonde eat my words hello.

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Speaker 1: So it could be eating my words with an NROL player.

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Speaker 1: No no, no, no no, but.

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Speaker 1: But if you see, we're on the joke. All right,

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Speaker 2: Ok. I'm going to start with a biggie. I dated

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Speaker 2: I mistook obsession for affection. Rookie error. He loved me

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Speaker 1: Wait, this is making me sorry anxious? Like is this

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Speaker 1: about me? A disease is happening to me? Right now? Wait? Okay, sorry.

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Speaker 2: Over time I realized I was dating someone who needed

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Speaker 2: He had endless feelings but zero solutions. Every conversation turned

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Speaker 1: I know you're so self aware. You're very emotionally intelligent.

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Speaker 2: He'd promise change the way the way people promised to

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Speaker 2: Nothing ever followed, just the same cycle, breakdown, apology, hope, disappointment, rinse, repeat.

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Speaker 2: I was exhausted from being patient with someone who never learned.

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Speaker 2: The worst part wasn't the fighting. It was how small

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Speaker 2: I became. I stopped trusting my instincts. I started apologizing

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Speaker 2: I loved him, but loving him felt like drowning quietly

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Speaker 2: who didn't want to fix anything. He called it giving up.

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Speaker 2: I call it survival, And honestly, the piece after him

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Speaker 2: forward just a month postbreaker, and I'm the happiest I've

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Speaker 2: make you sacrifice your own life and happiness. Love you

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Speaker 1: GPT because that's chat GPT coded so much. And if

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Speaker 1: He saw a really confident, outgoing girl, a beautiful girl

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Speaker 1: and dating someone like that is turmoil, is full turmoil, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Honestly, it's really hard in those dynamics as well, because

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Speaker 1: that's like not half the things of what Bobby said.

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Speaker 1: It's like that didn't make equivalent, so it's like that's

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Speaker 1: what you yet then yearned for. Yeah, Wow, god, men,

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Speaker 2: This is a very short one, but had to include

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Speaker 2: and he quite literally shut himself. What how do we

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Speaker 1: How does it manage himself? Did he what did you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but like what position? Surely was enough warning for

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Speaker 1: How was it like smell? Oh my god, imagine some

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Speaker 1: That would be my end. And like, actually, I think

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Speaker 1: I would be like, oh my god, it's so chill.

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Speaker 1: what just happened. Yeah, But if I had been seeing him,

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Speaker 1: you must have an upset something.

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Speaker 2: There's like a nice mix here.

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Speaker 1: See, I thought I interpreted that being like her name's

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Speaker 2: A couple of days.

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Speaker 1: Dumbledore called her hall.

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Speaker 2: Okay, a girl called Dumbledore shot. A couple of days later,

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Speaker 2: and saw he had been messaging this girl for weeks

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Speaker 2: one am, two am, three am, classic all after he

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Speaker 2: I pulled him up on it, but I gave him

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Speaker 2: flooded texts, just conversations in brackets. Still fucked up, bro.

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Speaker 1: You shouldn't be having conversations with other.

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Speaker 2: Women, and why are they getting deleted? A couple days later,

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Speaker 2: I didn't say anything. I left it.

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Speaker 1: I thought, Man, you're so much better than me.

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Speaker 2: You're leaving a lot.

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Speaker 1: Girl, Dude, I would go insane.

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Speaker 2: I would get in and I'm pretty.

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Speaker 1: Chill, like I would label myself. And if you're not

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Speaker 1: I'm a pretty chill person when it comes to that

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Speaker 1: he was at an address I didn't know. You bet

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Speaker 1: your ass. I would fucking spiraling.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I wouldn't get aggressive, but I'd get in

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Speaker 1: I would do a drive by for sure. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: Lily would be in that car with me and we'd

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Speaker 2: A drive back Vinie too.

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00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:13,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Vini's on Speeder.

434
00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:16,919
Speaker 2: A couple days later, at one am, I didn't say anything.

435
00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,359
Speaker 2: I left it. I thought maybe he had to do

436
00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:22,200
Speaker 2: a job or pick something up for work. He did

437
00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:25,480
Speaker 2: late shifts some days until I saw it there again.

438
00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:30,240
Speaker 2: The next night. I stayed watching for three hours. He

439
00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:33,200
Speaker 2: was there for three hours. Oh my god, your patience

440
00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:36,720
Speaker 2: needs to be studied. After lots of argus, he's your therapist,

441
00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:40,600
Speaker 2: You're legit. After lots of arguing, he tells me he

442
00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:46,720
Speaker 2: was at his dealer's house. Perfect, I asked. I asked

443
00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:48,800
Speaker 2: a couple of people if they recognize the address, and

444
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:52,280
Speaker 2: no one does. Fast forward to my actual birthday. I

445
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,960
Speaker 2: get a dry, two sentence message, and I knew our

446
00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:58,280
Speaker 2: relationship was done, but I didn't think he would actually

447
00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:00,760
Speaker 2: break up with me on my damn birthday. He tells

448
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:02,560
Speaker 2: me to meet him at a park and he ends

449
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:04,320
Speaker 2: up with me pretty much saying that I'm the.

450
00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:07,000
Speaker 1: Problem, perfect, my fucking god.

451
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:09,399
Speaker 2: A few days later, he goes to a birthday party

452
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,520
Speaker 2: and I get told he got dropped off at the

453
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 2: same thing address he had been at when I called

454
00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 2: him there. Turns out he was cheating on me with

455
00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:19,639
Speaker 2: that girl and now he is engaged to her and

456
00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:23,160
Speaker 2: expecting a baby. Fuck off, it's been a year since

457
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 2: we ended.

458
00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:34,160
Speaker 1: Fuck off? Fuck off? What that is that is up

459
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:40,240
Speaker 1: there with? Like nah? Like nah with honestly good riddance.

460
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:42,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely, wo fucking luck to.

461
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 1: That woman because it's always how it starts, is always

462
00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:49,640
Speaker 1: how it ends. But it's so and I swear by that. Yeah,

463
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:53,080
Speaker 1: if you get into relationship because you are the other woman,

464
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,960
Speaker 1: or you know that that man has a girlfriend and

465
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 1: you've been cheating, like he's been cheating on his girlfriend

466
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:02,400
Speaker 1: with you, do not expect security in that relationship because

467
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:06,199
Speaker 1: you're validating what he's doing to another girl and you

468
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 1: openly know that, and then you're just gonna go think

469
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:11,960
Speaker 1: he's not going to do that the same thing to you, babe.

470
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:14,120
Speaker 1: He's going to cheat on you. Yeah, he is gonna

471
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 1: cheat because he hasn't learnt the consequences of his actions

472
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,120
Speaker 1: because he's just bunny hopped to you, and.

473
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,359
Speaker 2: You're also setting the standards.

474
00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, and my young.

475
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:25,639
Speaker 2: Girlfriend, I will take you on with open arms. Okay,

476
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 2: enjoy when that happens to you. The scariest part is

477
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:31,400
Speaker 2: like when you have girlfriends and they're like, I think

478
00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:33,240
Speaker 2: he's doing this, but I'm not sure, or what if

479
00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:35,679
Speaker 2: he ends up doing this and you're like, no, no

480
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 2: human would do that. But then you read stuff like

481
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 2: this and you're like, ah, people are capable.

482
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:45,520
Speaker 1: Oh and that poor baby, I know, poor baby just

483
00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:47,439
Speaker 1: gone into a life like that.

484
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 2: Okay, So our next one. A month after breaking up

485
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:53,920
Speaker 2: with my first boyfriend of three years, I somehow agreed

486
00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:56,440
Speaker 2: to go on a one week trip with him, still

487
00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:59,160
Speaker 2: questioning that joyce on the first actually that.

488
00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 1: Is sw something up. I'd be like, it's a breakup holiday.

489
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 2: I so get that vibe from you. I feel like

490
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:06,159
Speaker 2: you've said it once. You're like, why not?

491
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 1: Yeah? Once? Actually with my ex, we'll gotta go to

492
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 1: Barley together, just randomly.

493
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,400
Speaker 2: What was I doing that should have been documented?

494
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 1: Thank god it didn't happen.

495
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:18,479
Speaker 2: On the first day he disappeared for forty five minutes

496
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 2: for a work call. Later, he randomly asks what tradey

497
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:24,920
Speaker 2: car I liked, and when I said the middle one,

498
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 2: he goes, oh, is that what the new guy you're

499
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:31,639
Speaker 2: talking to? Drives? I said yes because it literally was

500
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 2: that set him off, and he casually drops at his

501
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 2: work call. Was actually with the girl he's seeing, who.

502
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:40,719
Speaker 1: A week after the breakup? How are you guys? Or

503
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 1: is it a month?

504
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 2: Yeah? A month? But stood and both of them like

505
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:45,880
Speaker 2: usually one moves on.

506
00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 1: A little bit of a competition. Though, Yeah, even if

507
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 1: I wasn't speaking to someone, and my ex asked if

508
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,200
Speaker 1: I was speaking to someone, you bet your ass.

509
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 2: Somewhere plenty of people my dms are fool. That set

510
00:23:58,080 --> 00:24:00,400
Speaker 2: him off was actually with the girl he's seeing, who

511
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,199
Speaker 2: had just found out he took his ex on a

512
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,199
Speaker 2: trip and was apparently at home crying. I felt so

513
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,280
Speaker 2: bad for her because she thought she was in an

514
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 2: exclusive relationship.

515
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 1: Meanwhile, okay, one, first of all, I don't think we

516
00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:14,879
Speaker 1: should be feeling bad. That is your ex boyfriend and

517
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 1: you went on a trip together with him, Like, clearly

518
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 1: you're not over each other, You're both trying one up

519
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 1: each other. That like you're competitive, but you both have

520
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:24,880
Speaker 1: voluntarily agreed to go on a holiday together. You still

521
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:25,400
Speaker 1: love each other.

522
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're still swinging your dicks around.

523
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and tell me you didn't have sex on that holiday,

524
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 1: like you, but you.

525
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:35,840
Speaker 2: Definitely did multitasking at its worse, it cured my feelings

526
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 2: towards him instantly. Truly closure in its fineness, that.

527
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:43,400
Speaker 1: Actually probably is a good way to get over someone. Hey,

528
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 1: let's lock ourselves on a holiday around people we don't

529
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 1: know after we've broken up, Yeah, and end up hating

530
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 1: each other.

531
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 2: Well, it's probably that thing of like they ended because

532
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:55,440
Speaker 2: they couldn't resolve things, and they like get day one

533
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 2: into this holiday and they're already going at it again.

534
00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 2: They're like, yeah, hey, this probably isn't gonna work.

535
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, that's kind of a smart thing to do.

536
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,400
Speaker 2: Interesting though very interesting way to get closure.

537
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, message all my last situation. Should we book holiday?

538
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 1: I'm actually really good at closure though, like all the

539
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 1: people I've seen, I've like never felt the need to

540
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,160
Speaker 1: like get closure again or like reach out.

541
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like there's been a few like stray scenarios,

542
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:25,440
Speaker 2: but they're obviously a lot more comp like.

543
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 1: My ex for sure, but that was like I was

544
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 1: emotionally manipulated. It was a big and that was like

545
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:32,440
Speaker 1: a big thing and that was like a big part

546
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:35,399
Speaker 1: of my life. But like definitely people I've dated for

547
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,919
Speaker 1: like months on end, like once we're over, I'll not like,

548
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:42,120
Speaker 1: you'll never hear from me. Love. It's something I've really

549
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 1: trained myself to do.

550
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:47,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're quite talented and actually cut yeah, cut done.

551
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 2: You need to teach me you have a boyfriend, just

552
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:52,400
Speaker 2: anyone in life.

553
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll never hear from me again.

554
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,400
Speaker 2: You need to teach me how to cut my boyfriend off.

555
00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:00,880
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not being that. Please.

556
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 2: My house is three minutes swea for a tree please, No,

557
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 2: not doing that alrighty Hey Sam, love love listening to

558
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 2: the potty each week. Thanks for helping me get through

559
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 2: my morning.

560
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 1: I feel like I've been really savage and cut through

561
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 1: it today. Feel like I'm being a bit of agn.

562
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 2: No, it's a dry day, you, Papa.

563
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,199
Speaker 1: I just A'm really worried. I'm being a bit now.

564
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 2: I'm enjoying the vibe.

565
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, just really worried. No, okay, I'm not being

566
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 1: a cunt.

567
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 2: And guys like she's sat crouch like holding her stomach.

568
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm really uncomfortable, but.

569
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 2: So we're thankful for her being.

570
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just don't have patience for men today, so

571
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 1: it's probably not the good episode to do.

572
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 2: Heysat. Thanks for helping me get through my morning cardio

573
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:40,560
Speaker 2: at the gym. I just love listening to you and Blake.

574
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 1: Oh thanks, Wait, I get listen to a morning cardio.

575
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:45,760
Speaker 1: That's so cute.

576
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:49,479
Speaker 2: Teach me. I have so many horror dating stories from

577
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 2: when I was eighteen to twenty, but here are too

578
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:55,640
Speaker 2: that usually get people talking. First one, I was seeing

579
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 2: a guy for about four months when I was still

580
00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,879
Speaker 2: in year twelve. He was a couple of years older

581
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:01,480
Speaker 2: and lived at least a narrow away.

582
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: I would have thought you liked That would have been

583
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 1: such a cool thing for you. Oh my god, seeing

584
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,399
Speaker 1: a guy in year twelve, couple years old, he's probably

585
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 1: got a license, you are. If that was me, I

586
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 1: would have thought I was so cool.

587
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 2: And she one hundred percent would have been like, yeah,

588
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:15,120
Speaker 2: I'm in a long distancing at.

589
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 1: The Yeah, it's we're working through it. I love that

590
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 1: when you're eighteen just doing that stuff. Yeah, Like I

591
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 1: don't really know what's going on, but he's got a license.

592
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 1: You know, We off for drives, We get pizza, Inka Dad.

593
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 2: I always had to drive to him, and every time

594
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:33,920
Speaker 2: you had your license, doue, And every time I got there,

595
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:37,919
Speaker 2: I was never allowed inside. Naiven Me thought he was

596
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 2: mysterious and that it would be special when he finally

597
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,920
Speaker 2: let me in, that's really sweet. Eight months later, at UNI,

598
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:47,120
Speaker 2: I became friends with the girl I stalk her socials

599
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 2: and her profile pick is the guy I was seeing

600
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 2: no kissing her cheek. She tells me she has a

601
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 2: boyfriend of two years and they lived together. Makes sense

602
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 2: why I couldn't go in. She didn't believe my story

603
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 2: and the friendship didn't last. Oh my god.

604
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 1: Wait, I don't get girls like that.

605
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's sad.

606
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 1: It's like why why if like in that situation, what

607
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,959
Speaker 1: am I getting out of telling you a lie? Like

608
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: I've randomly just met you at UNI. It's not like

609
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 1: we're long term friends and I have got information that's

610
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 1: overlapping with your relationship that you've just told me about.

611
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:30,919
Speaker 1: What sane person's got to make up a story like that?

612
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, and like telling her with positive intent? Yeah? Fun

613
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 2: it's then.

614
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 1: Her choice what she wants to do with it. But

615
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 1: don't say that you don't believe me, because what am

616
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 1: I doing telling you that? Then?

617
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,239
Speaker 2: Yeah? And why would I want to insert myself in there?

618
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 1: Yeah?

619
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so ecky. Second story. I met a guy

620
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 2: in a cafe in early twenty twenty. He said he

621
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 2: was twenty two. I was eighteen. We saw each other

622
00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 2: every weekend overtime. Things didn't add up, owned house, had

623
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 2: two degrees, a full time career. I found his twin

624
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 2: brother on socials and saw a birthday post from twenty

625
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 2: twelve saying our twenty first for context, I was eleven

626
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 2: in twenty twelve, So he lied about his age. I

627
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 2: screamed at him on the phone, and he blocked me.

628
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 2: I'm now twenty four and have been with a guy

629
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 2: for over three years and couldn't be happier. Just gives

630
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 2: you a laugh. I hope twenty twenty six is your year.

631
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 1: Twenty twenty six is my year. I have a really

632
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 1: good feeling about this year.

633
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 2: Holy shit, though, dude.

634
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 1: I don't get people that lie about their age. So

635
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 1: I know this person. I knew them quite well actually,

636
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:42,719
Speaker 1: and I was like, at an event with someone when

637
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 1: they were talking about how they were talking to this

638
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: person that's just like, yeah, I'm talking to someone, YadA, YadA, YadA.

639
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, do I know them? She's like yeah,

640
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: very well. And I was like really, like really well,

641
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: and they're like yeah. I was like how old is he?

642
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 1: And she's like twenty six. I was like, I don't know,

643
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: that's twenty six, and I'm like really close with like

644
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 1: I'm twenty three, like twenty six. I was like just

645
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:09,320
Speaker 1: sitting there the whole time being like, who the fuck

646
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: am I closer with? That's twenty six?

647
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 2: Throng with my memory?

648
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, what turns out it's twenty three. It's my age.

649
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,239
Speaker 1: I was like, babe, no, he's twenty three, because no, no,

650
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 1: he showed me his passport. I go, I can guarantee

651
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: you on my life that this man is not twenty six.

652
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 2: And was his passport like in person because he can

653
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 2: do it anything.

654
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 1: I was like, he's not twenty six. And then he

655
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 1: came out with all of his eves after I'm like,

656
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: we should have believed the fact that he's a pathological

657
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: liar because the first thing he told you is that

658
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: he was twenty six.

659
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 2: Also so rogue.

660
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: That man has ruined my life and I now I'm

661
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 1: not friends with him. Got him out, I cleaned him out.

662
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 2: Okay, I want to know him after, not to be

663
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,360
Speaker 2: ageless whatsoever. But I do find it funny, like aging

664
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 2: yourself out by find people do it the exact officer.

665
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 1: Like say that they're younger, they're younger. Yeah, but that's

666
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 1: what that guy did.

667
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 2: Ah, right, so he did he but like because the girl.

668
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 1: Was a bit older, he made himself because so the

669
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: gap wasn't long.

670
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

671
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 1: But I'm like, dude, why, I just don't understand about

672
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: lying about your age. No, Like you can't. You can't

673
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 1: keep up that up, Like what if that's like your

674
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 1: wife or your husband like that is then you're you're

675
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 1: like emergency contact and you don't even know their age. What?

676
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:30,239
Speaker 2: No, thank you.

677
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: I don't get I really don't get that. You got

678
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: to start off every relationship with the truth.

679
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 2: Okay, this one's a little bit funny. Okay, just a

680
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 2: little bit. I feel bad, Holy say it's funny, but

681
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 2: we get there. So I've got a few first date

682
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 2: horror stories, but this one potentially takes the cake. It's

683
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:55,239
Speaker 2: a Friday night. I finished work, home to shower and

684
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 2: put a cute outfit on.

685
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 1: Sigh.

686
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 2: My friend drops me to the wine bar we're meeting at.

687
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 2: The date is going well. We've had a few drinks,

688
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 2: and by this point I can tell I can handle

689
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 2: my alcohol better than him.

690
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 1: Oh but that's interesting.

691
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 2: Between hopping into a few other wine bars and a

692
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 2: few more drinks, the date is coming to an end

693
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 2: and I can tell this man is absolutely fucked. I

694
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 2: offer for him to crash at mine, big mistake, and

695
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 2: he does a lease. He pays for the uber.

696
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 1: Don't tell you've once in your bed.

697
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 2: We get home and straight into bed, and I'm planning

698
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 2: on going straight to sleep, but one thing leads to

699
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 2: another and we start kissing. Next minute, he sprints out

700
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 2: of bed and power chucks all over my floor. Another ick. No,

701
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 2: he doesn't even clean us and heads straight for the shower. No,

702
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 2: I'm looking at the mess he's made. Don't have no

703
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 2: idea how on earth I'm going to clean up. I

704
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 2: grab a bunch of towels and try to scoop it up,

705
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 2: throw the towels away and mop in the morning. Once

706
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 2: he's finished his lovely shower, he gets back in the

707
00:32:56,320 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 2: bed and starts to kiss me again. Ah, this man

708
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:03,719
Speaker 2: has no toothbrush here. I roll over and go to sleep.

709
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 2: The next day, he's not even embarrassed and won't order

710
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 2: an uber home even after my stay there.

711
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 1: Stay. Yeah, it's like I didn't want you, hear mate,

712
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 1: please go?

713
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 2: So I drive the man home myself. And yes, I

714
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 2: did go on a second day. Honestly, when I saw

715
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 2: that last line, I think we need to do a

716
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 2: full episode on Like, yes, I went on the second day, Like.

717
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 1: How how did you do that? Yeah? I hope you

718
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 1: had really good chemistry.

719
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, the sex could have been good.

720
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: They didn't have sex. They were kissing and then he vomited.

721
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 2: True, they're on their way.

722
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:47,080
Speaker 1: Yeah great, maybe you wanted more from that kiss before

723
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 1: the vomb I've had someone probably in my bed. Actually,

724
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 1: I think it's like enough star. I think maybe I've

725
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 1: told it on the podcast before. It was so funny,

726
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:58,160
Speaker 1: like all love and respect to him, like he my

727
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 1: ex had just air live poor boys, dirty laundry or

728
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: I don't know if I should say this. It's funny.

729
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 1: It's funny, it's lighthearted. The girls get it.

730
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 2: It's for podcasts.

731
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 1: It's podcast people. He had like a Christmas party or

732
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 1: something like that. And he was a notorious for a

733
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 1: crimp vodka kind of guy, or like a red lemonade

734
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 1: vodka kind of guy.

735
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 2: Great.

736
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 1: And we used to have like a lock code on

737
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 1: my house. And I used to live at Melbourne Grandma,

738
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 1: so it was like quite close to Chapel Street and

739
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: everything like that. I don't live there now, so you

740
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 1: guys don't need to worry about like my location. But

741
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 1: I always used to lose my key and it had

742
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,720
Speaker 1: a certain master lock because it was a school house.

743
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: So my dad gave up on like me having my

744
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 1: own key, and we had like a padlock at the

745
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 1: door and you could enter the key. He obviously knew it.

746
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 1: And I told him like, if you're going out, like

747
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 1: that's fine, Like I don't care, do whatever you want,

748
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 1: but like, do not come back to my house at night.

749
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: Do not. I will be asleep. Go home to your

750
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 1: own house. And he lived like past Bryon at that point.

751
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 1: I was like, go home to your own house. Jack

752
00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: and Mickey's house, Like do it, go home your life.

753
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 2: Do not come to my house catch it tomorrow?

754
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 1: Why at three am? I just big fucking human in

755
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: my fucking bed, and I was like, whatever, pretended to

756
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 1: be asleep because I didn't want him to annoy me.

757
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 1: Like do you know when like a drunk person comes

758
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 1: in and you're dead sober and they're just like annoying,

759
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:17,880
Speaker 1: Just like I want to talk to you.

760
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 2: Sign of life is exciting.

761
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, I'm just gonna pretend to be asleep.

762
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 1: I just hear like a spew noise. I have white

763
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:30,279
Speaker 1: linen sheets, and I hear just like dripping it all

764
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 1: down the side of my bed. I go, did you

765
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 1: just vomit in my bed? He no, No, goes to

766
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 1: the bathroom. He's like, I was just going to I

767
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:40,880
Speaker 1: was just going to you. And I was like, he

768
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 1: goes to the bathroom. Am I lying better? My?

769
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:45,280
Speaker 2: Oh no?

770
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: I look up, turned the tortron red red everywhere. You

771
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 1: fucking brick.

772
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 2: See. I couldn't even clean that.

773
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: I don't think I cleaned it, but I rubbed his

774
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 1: back while he was sick of the see like again

775
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 1: like if you love someone, you don't really care about it,

776
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 1: like I would still look after you. Yeah. I was

777
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 1: annoyed that my sheets were stained, but I wasn't annoyed

778
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:07,880
Speaker 1: that you like vomited, like you can't help that.

779
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it would have been nice if you took my warnings,

780
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 2: but yeah, yeah, can't tell that.

781
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 1: And I think it's maybe because I wanted to be

782
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 1: a nurse and a paramedic and everything like that, Like

783
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 1: I'm just more worried that you're going to be okay,

784
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,319
Speaker 1: Like I don't care about that stuff. Yeah, yeah, like

785
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: that stuff doesn't gross me out.

786
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 2: I only have like one spewing in the room story.

787
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,239
Speaker 2: It's only ever happened once. Like I'm the best at

788
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 2: spewing where you're meant to. Actually, I've never done on

789
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:34,280
Speaker 2: a bed, in a car and a thing. I randomly

790
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 2: got really wine drunk one night and no one goes

791
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 2: to bed at like nine pm, and I think it

792
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 2: was my housemate's birthday and I already had a few

793
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 2: drinks and then she rocks up at home and I'm

794
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 2: just like, let's keep it going, girl, And then I

795
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:47,839
Speaker 2: definitely hit a point. I'm like I need to go

796
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 2: to bed. Them laying in bed and I'm like starting

797
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 2: to spin. I'm like, I see where this is going. No,

798
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 2: my housemate was using our bathroom, so I'm just laying

799
00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 2: staring at the room. It's okay, I hold for a

800
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 2: little longer. Now I need to try a new positions.

801
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,799
Speaker 2: So I'm lying on my bedroom floor like crouched down,

802
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 2: just trying to stop it. And it just appeared. And

803
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 2: Noah woke up to me, like the noises.

804
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 1: You can't help be heaving noises. You can't help it.

805
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 2: Oh, it's so vulnerable.

806
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 1: Oh so and then you get like the hot and

807
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:22,359
Speaker 1: cold sweats and like oh, You're like, oh my god,

808
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 1: I can't do this, Like I'm started sweating, and you

809
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:26,799
Speaker 1: get like so worked up by it. It's like getting

810
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 1: an injection. You just like get so worked up by

811
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 1: the possibility of something, like the anticipation that you didn't

812
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 1: know what's going to happen at any second.

813
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 2: Okay, So I'll move on to our last one. Not me,

814
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 2: but my best friend had been on a few dates

815
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 2: with this guy and she was seeing him for maybe

816
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:49,919
Speaker 2: five weeks. Love that's the best friend and not her. Yeah,

817
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 2: she was already She was away with the girls one

818
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 2: weekend and hadn't texted him good night one night because

819
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 2: she wasn't really on her phone.

820
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: I'm not a good night texter. No, I was just

821
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 1: carry on the conversation in the next day, I think

822
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 1: it's necessary.

823
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 2: Oh, I accidentally fall asleep and the rest is history.

824
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:04,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

825
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 2: He got super pissed and told her he can do

826
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:11,240
Speaker 2: better than her. Women are easily replaceable and she should

827
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 2: treat him better. What and if she has time to

828
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 2: talk to her friends, she has time to text him.

829
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 1: This mate listens to way too much of entretate.

830
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 2: They weren't even dating. No no, so she ended things.

831
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 2: He then backtracked, became desperate, and he wouldn't stop texting

832
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,320
Speaker 2: her even after she asked him to stop.

833
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 1: Of course I was oldest time.

834
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, she blocked him. He had written multiple handwritten letters,

835
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 2: pages each and put them in her mailbox at one am,

836
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 2: two nights in a row.

837
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 1: Why do I love that?

838
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:49,359
Speaker 2: You're like I want someone like he's got me bad.

839
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 1: I want to go there, But it would be nice.

840
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:54,640
Speaker 2: If you're doing it for good reason. We love it.

841
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 2: It's like I think someone commented on one of your

842
00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,720
Speaker 2: reels once. I think you said that you want flowers

843
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 2: but only gotten them.

844
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 1: As an apology.

845
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but it's so true.

846
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have only ever gotten glouces an apology. Besides

847
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: one guy he won me files for my birthday and

848
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 1: rocked up to my house because he meant he had

849
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 1: fixed my distressure. That was a stalker.

850
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 2: So he put in her mailbox one am, two nights

851
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 2: in a row, saying she should come back. He can

852
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:25,280
Speaker 2: treat her how she wants, should be a great wife

853
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 2: and mum for him, for him, and that her vision

854
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 2: of man is distorted and she doesn't know what a

855
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:35,280
Speaker 2: real man is. God, this is where really.

856
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 1: Sees he really doesn't know what he wants.

857
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 2: He's so confused about ten pages of gas lighting. He

858
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 2: gave her a deadline to contact him, and it got

859
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:46,839
Speaker 2: to the point she texted him saying if he didn't

860
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:49,760
Speaker 2: stop putting letters in her mailbox, should contact the police.

861
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 2: We never heard from him again. Six months later, he

862
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:56,239
Speaker 2: sees her on a hinge, likes her and leaves her

863
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 2: a message telling her to come back.

864
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 1: What. Wow, have some power. Yeah, this woman is a powerful,

865
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 1: hot woman.

866
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, give your best friend a hug and keep her close.

867
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 2: Clearly hasn't moved on, and that's the short version.

868
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:15,879
Speaker 1: Imagine how many other women he'd be doing this too. Yeah,

869
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 1: he'd be This is like a common thing from him.

870
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's probably doing the rounds at one A. Yeah, locks, fuck,

871
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 2: it's scary.

872
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 1: I want someone to yearn over me like that though.

873
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, and again for good reason, but good reason.

874
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:33,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want something like dangerous to happen, but

875
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:36,279
Speaker 1: it'd be nice to be like, fuck, like I really

876
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 1: keep him up at night.

877
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think like men especially understand like the

878
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:43,879
Speaker 2: uncomfort behind my gus.

879
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I yeah, I probably shouldn't joke about that would

880
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,399
Speaker 1: be incredibly uncomfortable, especially because he knows where she lives

881
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 1: and stuff like that, Like it would if I actually

882
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 1: was in that position, I'd be really no.

883
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:56,840
Speaker 2: But like even where was I going with?

884
00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 1: I wish I could tell you guys some a story

885
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 1: about this man that was in my life, but I

886
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 1: feel I would cancel his business and everything like that.

887
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: And I'm just like not going to be that person online.

888
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 1: But like the stuff that he did towards me made

889
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 1: me so uncomfortable. I ended up running into him.

890
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:17,239
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so my god.

891
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, like if you know the whole law blake, like

892
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 1: and if I spoke about it, I would ruin his business. Yeah,

893
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 1: but like I ended up having to stop going there

894
00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. But I bumped into him and

895
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 1: I'm not even joking. When I saw his like he

896
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 1: mean real life, I like my heart sunk, like to

897
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 1: my fucking ass, Like I was so so anxious, like

898
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 1: I couldn't get out of car, Like I was like,

899
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 1: oh my god, I cannot, I cannot, I cannot, because

900
00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 1: he used to make me feel so incredibly uncomfortable and

901
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: like he never got the hint, Like I would tell

902
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:51,839
Speaker 1: him so many times, I never even once gave him

903
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 1: an opportunity to think that it was going to be

904
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 1: anything else but a professional relationship.

905
00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:56,359
Speaker 2: I stand by that.

906
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like in my messages, I'd be like, this is

907
00:41:58,719 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 1: strictly professional.

908
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:01,799
Speaker 2: You got chat cheepe i.

909
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 1: It was all chatchyptea coded. I have a viral TikTok

910
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:06,919
Speaker 1: about the messages he would send me because it would

911
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:10,359
Speaker 1: make my heart drop. Yeah, and like, yeah, I saw

912
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 1: him in real life and I literally like was going

913
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 1: to like be sick.

914
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's your first time seeing him outside of

915
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 2: the situation. I remember when we were going through this,

916
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 2: I was like gravely concerned for you every single week.

917
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was this time last year.

918
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 2: It was really scary, and it was the point I

919
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 2: was making is like with the obsession part, Like when

920
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 2: I read stories like this, like I'm reading it out loud,

921
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 2: like my heart's racing. I'm like, yeah, is this going

922
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 2: to end? And this seems like there's no stops. For

923
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 2: some people, it's.

924
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 1: Because it's like sometimes I've literally made up this like

925
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 1: ideology in their head that they've convinced themselves that it's

926
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 1: like actually happens to Like when they're like that person

927
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 1: isn't then doing what they've timelined or made up in

928
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 1: their head. It's like the story's going wrong. But it's like, no,

929
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 1: this was never happening. This is never a thing.

930
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:54,879
Speaker 2: No, because you were painting it out and the responses

931
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 2: back were just like it was like a fantasy land.

932
00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 2: It was oh no, but we can do this, and

933
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 2: you're like no, no, no, like I clearly painted out

934
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 2: to you, it's a no, this is it? Yeah.

935
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:06,920
Speaker 1: Like BRO would buy me like massage vouchers and stuff

936
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 1: like that, and I would never use them obviously because like, no,

937
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:14,799
Speaker 1: well I'm going to use a message writer and they're

938
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 1: gonna call you and be like she's getting a message

939
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 1: right now. That is like that at to that point,

940
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 1: Like that's how scared I was to like, do like

941
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 1: be around.

942
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 2: That, and was her appointment times on it like would

943
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:26,919
Speaker 2: he buy yeah?

944
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:29,399
Speaker 1: Okay, but I was like, I don't trust this man.

945
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's a whole like owing something to him exactly.

946
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 1: I don't like the feeling of owing. That's why I

947
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 1: don't like people paying for me, and that's why I

948
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 1: like those things. I just don't like people like feeling

949
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 1: like I'm owed.

950
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think it's a bit of a trap

951
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 2: people sat yes, no one in particular.

952
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 1: But anyway, girls, love you so much. I'm so sorry

953
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 1: if I was a bit cunty today. I'm really kind

954
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 1: of stressed out about my responses. You're so sick.

955
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 2: I promise you were good.

956
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 1: Okay. I just feel so sick and I'm very low

957
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 1: energy because I'm gonna go get a massage seeing my alesterios.

958
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:04,360
Speaker 1: She's a woman, so it's okay. But yeah, I'm going

959
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 1: to try to fix my back and get back on track.

960
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 1: But I love you all very very much, and I'll

961
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 1: see you next Tuesday. Now, bye bye,