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Speaker 1: Alrighty, Jake, tell me how you would feel in the

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Speaker 1: situation we have an event coming up and I am

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Speaker 1: coming to pick you up. I text you I'm five

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Speaker 1: minutes away. You have forgotten about said event, and you're like,

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Speaker 1: oh shit, I've got to get ready and I'm not

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Speaker 1: going to tell all of you that I've forgotten. So

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Speaker 1: you go to your line to pick up your clothes

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Speaker 1: and then they went and you're like, oh shit, so

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Speaker 1: you got to go to your wardrobe and pick them

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Speaker 1: up last minute. And I get here. I'm like, bit peep,

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Speaker 1: I'm here, and You're like, oh my god, I'm still naked.

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Speaker 1: What do you do? How do you feel? Welcome back

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Speaker 1: to stimulated everybody?

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Speaker 2: My first thing I do is I forgot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. First thing, Yeah, yeah, I forgot. We're going to

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Speaker 1: be late. You'd be like, oh, come in, We've got

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Speaker 1: a brainstorm a yeah yeah. I'd be like, or I

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Speaker 1: would just maybe I wouldn't tell you, And then when

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Speaker 1: I come out and be like, sorry, I shouldn't. That

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Speaker 1: gets any guy out of anything I saw on the

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Speaker 1: Patreon log. Your dog put my text in there. You

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Speaker 1: picked me up, You picked me up for an event

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Speaker 1: from an event, and I actually said. I was like,

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Speaker 1: give you five, and you put it in the vlog

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Speaker 1: forgot I did that. I edited that you're a dog.

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Speaker 1: You're a dog.

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Speaker 2: But first up on the menu today, Alie, all right,

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Speaker 2: I'm hungry.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you that much.

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Speaker 2: I'm hungry.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Actually, my tummies rumbling.

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Speaker 2: I haven't eaten since brecky a few shapes.

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Speaker 1: That's usually how the break between breakfast and lunch works.

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Speaker 2: But I would like you to blind rank these things

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Speaker 2: in the honeymoon phase exciting.

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Speaker 1: I can't do that.

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Speaker 2: We've got the top five.

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Speaker 1: Do you want me to close my eyes? Okay, your eyes,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to write down your heads here, okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: Okay, blind ranking the constant smiling.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, simple start. I do like that, and it

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Speaker 1: does go underappreciated.

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Speaker 2: Three three, all right, smile at number three.

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Speaker 1: I put that in a smart position to start too.

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Speaker 2: You've got yeah, you've got up. Let's go. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I've seen these videos on TikTok, the late.

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Speaker 2: Night phone calls slash face times.

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Speaker 1: Ooh, I'm not a big fan. No, not late night. No, okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna get to sleep. Oh really five for me? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Have you never gone through like, no, I've gone through it.

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Speaker 2: Oh you have gone through it.

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Speaker 1: You don't really like it. It's like like not my highlights, No,

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Speaker 1: definitely five yeah right, I always you love it.

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Speaker 2: I always just think, like when it is I'm a

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, it is cute and it does feel good,

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Speaker 1: but I'm glad I found someone who also really appreciates

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Speaker 2: I know, I don't see now the best and I've

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Speaker 1: You don't do it.

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Speaker 2: It's a two minute phone call or a text message.

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Speaker 1: And now that we lived together, last night, I wasn't

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Speaker 2: And then I remember, and I was like shit. I

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Speaker 2: Because he lived together.

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Speaker 1: We say you weren't like this, We say pookies forever

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Speaker 1: with before Pooki's forever. Yeah, how he spelled ever ev okay,

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Speaker 1: I might try it Pookies forever. Yea. Before this episode

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Speaker 2: When you do it? Do pookies five ever?

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Speaker 2: But just I don't know longer than four.

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Speaker 1: He's getting weird. Now you ruined it. It was cute.

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Speaker 1: It was cute. Stop getting get trying to get involved

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Speaker 2: Okay, blind wrecking things in the honeymoon phase. The sex one.

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Speaker 1: Has a case with my friend. Okay, So you've got one, three, three,

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Speaker 2: Okay, yearning to be with them, two yearning number two.

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Speaker 2: I know I went big in my vocab. Okay, this

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Speaker 2: Last one knowing you love them but you can't say it.

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Speaker 1: Oh damn it. So I've only got four, So we

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Speaker 1: five and number five you've got the late nightphone calls.

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Speaker 2: At number four, knowing you love them but you can't

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Speaker 1: So so I don't want to company hate because not

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Speaker 1: gonna lie. The sex in the honeymoon phase is the

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Speaker 1: If I was being wholesome, I would put number four

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Speaker 1: everyone could admit that sex in the honeymoon stage is unbeatable.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty happy that I have two honorable mentions.

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Speaker 2: Honeymoon phase things in the honeymoon phase, daydreaming of your

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Speaker 2: future together. Oh yeah, didn't quite make the top five cards.

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Speaker 1: Really that would have gone my five? Okay, okay, last one.

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Speaker 1: Honeymoon phase things trying to keep your hands to yourself. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: number one of sex. But what about seeing them naked?

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Speaker 1: Because that's good, Like just normally it's still good. Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: You know how there's like an Lives the Honeymoon. There's

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Speaker 1: Me the first time, and like drooling, there's like me

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Speaker 1: the six thousands time drooling. Do girls have any equivalent? No?

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Speaker 2: Really, guys look bad naked. What if they have a

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Speaker 1: It's not the equivalent, is it. No.

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Speaker 2: I feel bad that girls don't get you experience that.

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Speaker 1: We need something, yeah, like beautiful to look at, because

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Speaker 2: Been a manscape.

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Speaker 1: It needs to go on down there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's cold, never good to look at.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't look Bums don't look good because they're also hairy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's all just growne's flat.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it flix to gass me up and pretend to

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Speaker 1: there's nothing pass.

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Speaker 2: He just can't lie.

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Speaker 1: Like there's no feeding even lately, there's no feeding my delusion.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't work, man, it just doesn't work, all right, Jake.

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Speaker 1: In relationships, a lot of people say a lot of things,

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Speaker 1: do they? No, they do not, And they're people we

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Speaker 1: don't like. No, we heard them, Yeah, we hate them.

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Speaker 1: So this is what actions speak louder than words. Let's

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Speaker 1: see if you get this quote, smart casual, I'm picking

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Speaker 1: So I wanted to dissect this a little bit, so

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Speaker 1: Smart Casual obviously right in middle ground, right Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: To be fair, smart Casual brought spectrum, give us something else.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's what I was thinking. So what do

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Speaker 2: Where what's what's the date? What would require a lazy fit?

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Speaker 1: Like ice cream? Ice cream? Well? Maybe I would I

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Speaker 1: True, and you're kind of getting like not that kind

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is what I'm wearing, picking up at seven

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Speaker 1: Okay, what actions speak louder than words? The sidewalk rule,

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Speaker 1: Oh facts, do you do it? Yes? All the time,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm good now today. I like it's just something

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Speaker 2: So it's kind of like I've done it heaps.

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Speaker 1: Could I can I make Could I make a joke?

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Speaker 1: and I can't drive.

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Speaker 1: I don't think splitting driving is a common thing.

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Speaker 1: One, cute, good, it's cute. Three guys. You know. I

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Speaker 1: Of course, Jake's like Jack said, I did to buy

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Speaker 1: My last one. This was very individualized, but I thought

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Speaker 2: That's honeymoon FaceTime shit, that's connection. That's honeymoon face touch

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he asked.

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Speaker 1: He asked his girlfriend Beft to sleepover, and then she's like, nah,

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