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Speaker 2: The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself Audie Clark aka Mummy,

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Speaker 2: And Odi is Mummy because he is the one you

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Speaker 2: and you guys listening are the baddies. Let's go. It

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Speaker 2: actually worked pretty well. Welcome back, guys. We've got a

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Speaker 2: cars for all the video watches, they're sick in my opinion.

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Speaker 1: If you guys have only ever listened to the podcast.

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Speaker 2: They got to nowhere reading or dilemma. Yeah, we're reading

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Speaker 1: We're reading off our phones and now for a long

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Speaker 2: Upgrades, Baby, upgrades. But first Monday episode where we're not

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Speaker 2: wearing headphones because we're trying to predict our hearing. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: The zone, Yeah, but really gets you on the zone.

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Speaker 2: It's about the journey, jake, not the end destination. Already, guys,

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Speaker 2: So yeah, and the community over there, the chats, the

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Speaker 2: Facebook five star, we love you all. Yeah, slow but

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00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:18,639
Speaker 2: ig question of the week, Jake, this is something I

432
00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 2: think you like love.

433
00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:23,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, are really looking forward to I am not gonna

434
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:24,199
Speaker 1: lie game for this one.

435
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. The IG question was hills you're willing to die on? Yeah?

436
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:31,480
Speaker 2: What are you badies dying on? What's the hill you're

437
00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 2: willing to die on? There were some good ones. I'm

438
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,160
Speaker 2: not gonna lie. We know the hill where both willing

439
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,160
Speaker 2: to die on? Is that girls and guys can't be

440
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 2: best friends? Emphasis on best Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah,

441
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:46,359
Speaker 2: have you seen any effective heells I'm willing to die on.

442
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,360
Speaker 1: Because you had one really good one where and where

443
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 1: it was there's a difference between hanging out.

444
00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 2: In quality time?

445
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, girlfriend, And like heaps of people agreed, but you disagreed.

446
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:59,159
Speaker 1: I disagreed, Yeah, in the time. And then I just

447
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:02,120
Speaker 1: was like kind of reading comments and then I feel

448
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 1: like it's not that hard to put a label on it.

449
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 2: Let's let's make this quality time and put her phones away.

450
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 2: And I think sometimes you do need a label things.

451
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:13,120
Speaker 2: Here's a hill I'm willing to die on. I think

452
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,880
Speaker 2: it is necessary to ask her to be your girlfriend.

453
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:19,359
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm on that hill. Yeah. I think that

454
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 2: because it's planned a flat, because it's will you be

455
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 2: my girlfriend? It's five words, Yeah, to make her a

456
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:28,640
Speaker 2: hill I'm willing to die. And it's calling a day

457
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,920
Speaker 2: to date. It's not a hangout. Yeah, we're going on

458
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 2: a data I like that. Yeah, there we go the

459
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 2: day of the date. Yeah, don't say let's hang out.

460
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:41,879
Speaker 2: You're mean to go first? Yeah, you go, you go hills.

461
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:45,360
Speaker 2: You're willing to die on a hill where men don't exist.

462
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 2: I don't think she quite got the question, but I

463
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 2: liked it still, that's yeah, yeah, straight to the point.

464
00:23:58,920 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 2: I see.

465
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 1: Okay, this one, this one's kind of facts. What's the

466
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 1: hell you're willing to die on? Women are better politicians

467
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 1: and country leaders. No war has been caused by a woman.

468
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 2: I like that. I hope that they did their research. Yeah,

469
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,640
Speaker 2: and not just saying yeah, well I think so. I mean,

470
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be surprised if there was been zero wars

471
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 2: caused by women. Oh yeah, I think I think the

472
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 2: world would be a completely better place if it was

473
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Speaker 2: run by women, for sure. I can't argue that we've

474
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 2: had a we had a women prime minister. Yeah. What

475
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:44,200
Speaker 2: was her name again? Julia Gillard? Julia Can I'm good? Yeah,

476
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 2: where that come from? Man? You are good? Well. I

477
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 2: can think of when I think of prime ministers is

478
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 2: Kevin Rudd when he was planned handball and he fell over.

479
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,399
Speaker 2: You know what. The only another thing I think about

480
00:24:56,400 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 2: with prime ministers. For some reason, Tony Abbott comes to

481
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 2: my head. Maybe I don't think he was prime minister

482
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 2: for very long now, No, it was only like one thing.

483
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 2: I don't really know how he didn't do a full term,

484
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure, and for some reason, like The reason.

485
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,200
Speaker 1: Is because he was mad into surf life saving I think.

486
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:17,440
Speaker 1: Oh and there was just for so many photos of

487
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:19,360
Speaker 1: him just in budgy smugglers and a cat.

488
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 2: Good on him doing swim. Well, what's the Prime minister? Now?

489
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 2: How much we know about Albanisi? He bought a house

490
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 2: at Copa, which is literally five minutes from where we're

491
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 2: recording right now. Yeah, it was pretty funny.

492
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 1: And for some reason there was this big kind of

493
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 1: thing about how expensive the house was.

494
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,159
Speaker 2: Oh. Yeah, well he's a baller. He's also you know,

495
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 2: he's fixing all the man roads near where we live

496
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 2: to get to his house. That's why that is? Who

497
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 2: told you that? Because that is so not for Daily Mail.

498
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,160
Speaker 2: I mean the same people that wrote an article about me. Yeah.

499
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 2: I don't know, mate. Look it's like yellow taxi theory.

500
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 2: Start looking at the roads and it's all from colors

501
00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 2: to a vocal drive. Yeah, all the way the main

502
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,679
Speaker 2: road to his house. Here's the thing though, right, so

503
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 2: I think about how slow councils are. Yeah, okay, it's

504
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 2: coming from the big doc man. Think about how slow

505
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 2: counsels are and how slow our council in particular is. Yeah,

506
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,120
Speaker 2: that would have been proposed ten years ago. Oh yeah,

507
00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 2: this guy bought a house last year. No way they're

508
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 2: doing this for our council. Censer Coast Cancer Council is

509
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:28,159
Speaker 2: the most in debt council in all of Australia, the

510
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:31,159
Speaker 2: most corrupt. Weally one hundred and ten million dollars in

511
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 2: debt for like the Markers, we're corrupt. Bro oh right.

512
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 2: I think I might agree with this one. Hills you're

513
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 2: willing to die on airlines should disclose where kids are sitting.

514
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 2: Screw privacy, stay away from me facts. When you're logging

515
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 2: your seats online, it says okay for a little kid

516
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:56,959
Speaker 2: or you know how there's so there's first class, business, class,

517
00:26:57,040 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 2: premium economy, we've said, and then there's a economy, and

518
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 2: then usually there's like so there's economy, some bathrooms, and

519
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 2: then another last cabin of economy. I think one cabin

520
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 2: should be dedicated where you can choose if you have kids.

521
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 2: The only bad thing about that is like imagine they

522
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 2: run out of seats and then you're fully in the

523
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,719
Speaker 2: kids section, and it is it is what it is.

524
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,680
Speaker 2: Say that's the yeah, yeah, that's the nature of the beast.

525
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 2: I think that's the nature of the beast, and Right

526
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 2: Air or jet Star should do something like that. The

527
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 2: budget airlines what I mean, Hey, they love controversy like

528
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 2: Right Air especially right What is a hill you're willing

529
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 2: to die on? Men are fucking dumb. Men are fucking

530
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 2: dumb when it comes to social relationships, meaning social relationships

531
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:52,640
Speaker 2: like online, I guess interesting like how to go about it?

532
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 2: I think I think it just being like hills I'm

533
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 2: willing to die on? Men are fucking dumb. Pause period,

534
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 2: Stop right there, Men they're just fucking Yeah. I agree

535
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 2: with that bit. I no, I can't argue with that.

536
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 2: But when it comes to social relationships social situations, I'm dumb,

537
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:11,400
Speaker 2: Like I can admit that. I wonder if that means

538
00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 2: if they just think that men are done because they

539
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:15,880
Speaker 2: maybe she's implying like how they flirt online and reading

540
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:17,640
Speaker 2: between the lines, like dudes can't do that at all

541
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:19,679
Speaker 2: social relationships, Like she's saying, come over me. He's like,

542
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do. Or maybe she's saying

543
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:26,880
Speaker 2: because social social relationship would be no, like zero sexual

544
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 2: relationship or zero romance or something. Maybe, but men always

545
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:36,239
Speaker 2: think that there is yeah maybe lines let y, yeah,

546
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 2: all right, hills you're willing to die on, and I

547
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:43,480
Speaker 2: stand on this hill. Marcha is fucking disgusting and tastes

548
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 2: like pond water. It tastes like grass. It tastes like that.

549
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god, its like grass. Every single time Beth

550
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 2: gets a march and you want something, you want something,

551
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 2: you want some No, I'm all good, I know it.

552
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 2: And the flavor laughs. We go to this place in Bondi.

553
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 2: It's called Harry's. It's renowned for its march, the canned marcher.

554
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 2: Beth says that marcher tastes great.

555
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 1: Okay, now, I'm pretty sure the reason it tastes great

556
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: is because it's five percent marcher, the rest blueberry, the

557
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: rest strawberry, whatever flavor you get, all right, now, that's why.

558
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 2: It tastes good. Every other place Beth has got a marcher. Gross,

559
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 2: this is not a good marcher. I'm pretty sure that's

560
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 2: just marcher. Yeah. And what you're getting from Harry's it's

561
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 2: not marcher. I think it's because it looks cool. People

562
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 2: are doing it for the look. Is it a foot

563
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 2: it's just sugar. Yeah, I'm pretty sure this it tastes

564
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 2: like the blueberry ones there are the syrupy sugar. It

565
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 2: tastes like if I mowed the lawn. Yeah, I used

566
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 2: to mow lawn. It tastes like the smell of mowing.

567
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,479
Speaker 2: MANE got the clippings and brooded in a tea and

568
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 2: tastes bast terrible.

569
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 1: That is a good one, though. Okay, what the hell

570
00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 1: you're willing to die on? You should be able to

571
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 1: sleep a different room to your partner if you want space, yes,

572
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 1: just in general, if you.

573
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 2: Have the room. Oh yeah, if you have the room,

574
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 2: I reckon. You should convert your little office into like

575
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 2: a spare single bed and move your office. I've been

576
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 2: trying to think about how to fit it in there.

577
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 2: I just don't know. This is your roommate. Listen to

578
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 2: the pod. No kick her out? All right, hells you're

579
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 2: willing to die on? Men could never birth a baby? Facts?

580
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 2: Are you kidding? God gave its strongest soldiers the hardest challenge,

581
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,479
Speaker 2: and that's women. Yeah, I'm selling like appreciative of that.

582
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 2: Like what they go through is insane, like I remember,

583
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 2: but it's literally insane. All this chat about from men

584
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 2: saying it takes two to make a kid cool, Who's

585
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 2: saying that or you did. Who's saying that? Okay, okay, okay,

586
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 2: This is like saying, so let's say I plant a

587
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 2: flat Yeah all right, but who's watering it? I put

588
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 2: some fertilizer on it. The earth and the flower are

589
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 2: doing all the work. And then like, that's like me

590
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 2: saying without me, without me, are you serious?

591
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 4: Broke? Women grow a human being with a brain, eyeballs, teeth,

592
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 4: a skull, a heart that beats blood in their stomachus.

593
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, and technical term push it out there? Would you not? Crazy? Yeah? Crazy?

594
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: I don't know how someone couldn't appreciate that, but yeah,

595
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:41,360
Speaker 2: I'm telling you they get. God gave its hardest challenge

596
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 2: to its strongest soldiers. My girlfriend's quiet teach. She's five

597
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 2: foot three, she's so devo and twins running my family

598
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 2: and it missed me. And I love the joke, like saying,

599
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:53,680
Speaker 2: she's just treading it. She's like, if I have twins,

600
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 2: I might diet explode. She's not a big person. You'd

601
00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 2: be surprised that the human body can. Yeah. Yeah, I

602
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 2: just like to play on imagine too. Imagine like one's crazy,

603
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 2: and imagine two things growing in there that's crazy. Imagine

604
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 2: triplets Oh, the body is capable of crazy things. My

605
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 2: biggest fear is having two kids, right, and then going,

606
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 2: you know what, I do want a third? And then

607
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 2: it's and then it's twins. Yeah, and so now you've

608
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 2: got four twins? Are your stepmom mate step mom? Yeah?

609
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 2: So when I'm not blood related at all, and so

610
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 2: I have I don't think I have any because my

611
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 2: mum's a twin. Yeah, what the hell you're willing to

612
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 2: die on? People who say expresso instead of espresso should

613
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 2: pay a fine Expresso that this one grinds my gears.

614
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 2: I don't drink coffee and I say that you say

615
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 2: expresso express. That's insane, that one drinking though. It's like

616
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 2: when people say Pacific instead of specific. It grinds my y.

617
00:32:58,440 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 2: Brought instead of bought. That one's kisses me off. I'm

618
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 2: glad that pisses you off, because if it didn't, I

619
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 2: would have walked out there. I brought a new TV. No,

620
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 2: where'd you bring it from?

621
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 1: I saw something I saw fuck it a TikTok video

622
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 1: and it was a girl and she wrote on the.

623
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 2: Screen how she wrote blah blah blah blah blah, like

624
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 2: I brought him as in that she bought him. She

625
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 2: spelt it as broad. Yeah, so that means she genuinely

626
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 2: thinks the word is broad and not bought. And I

627
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 2: want to know what school she went to so I

628
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 2: can shut it down. I feel like they're there and there.

629
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 2: I will give a little bit of lenience. They're there

630
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 2: there one d confusing thing. Ever, Also, if you spell yo,

631
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 2: you are, but what but you meant you are, I'll

632
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 2: give you that as well. You're in a rush, that's fine,

633
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 2: I know what you mean. Yeah, but if you say

634
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 2: broad instead of bought, I'm going to pull you up

635
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 2: on it every time. Yeah. And if I don't pull

636
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 2: you up on it, just know that our friendship has

637
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 2: been ruined at that single moment and we're never talking

638
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:09,919
Speaker 2: to you again after this conversation. So specific of you, oh,

639
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:15,399
Speaker 2: specific and specific alright, here's me. Yeah, okay, this one's

640
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 2: interesting and I agree Hill's you're willing to die on.

641
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 2: A good man is an average woman, doesn't smoke or drink, works,

642
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 2: takes care of the family, et cetera. Very eye opening.

643
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 2: Say again, a good man is an average woman. It

644
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 2: doesn't smoke or drink like that's the expectation of a

645
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 2: good man doesn't smoke or drink, works and takes care

646
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 2: of the family, et cetera. Yeah, no, bare minimum needs

647
00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 2: be brought up. Yeah wow, bare minimum for the modern man.

648
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 2: Yeah down, I like that a lot.

649
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 1: What's who you're willing to die on? One direction of

650
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 1: the greatest band our generation we'll ever see and no

651
00:34:55,360 --> 00:35:01,800
Speaker 1: one will ever compare one deeper life direct uh recipes Liam?

652
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, but a one direction reunion in Liam's honor? Yeah yeah, yeah,

653
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:10,360
Speaker 2: yes Styles, Oh yeah, Hary. I always forget he's in

654
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 2: it because he's made his own career. Louis Tomlinson zaying

655
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 2: Harry Styles, the blonde one's name is you would be

656
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 2: a great girl, dad, because you get so invested in

657
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:23,319
Speaker 2: Like I still like him and appreciate it, but I

658
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:26,360
Speaker 2: just don't get invested. What's the blonde one's name? I

659
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 2: don't know. You ask him the wrong person, Harry, Louis

660
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 2: Liam passed away, blondey not. My first girlfriend's favorite one

661
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 2: was a blonde one and I remember it. What are

662
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 2: you thinking about her? Because she had a weird obsession

663
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,280
Speaker 2: with him her room and it's just like a poster

664
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:49,399
Speaker 2: forget if they fun no horrent, You're the man. You're

665
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:49,799
Speaker 2: the man.

666
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 1: What the hell you're willing to die on that? Amarantha

667
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 1: and Tamlin were mates. No one can change my mind.

668
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 2: Oh but why wouldn't he sleep with her or pick her?

669
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 2: We're finding out mates are just given out like this

670
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 2: in the book. They're not as important as they make it. Yeah, mates,

671
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 2: you're one mate, she's mine. He didn't. He just doesn't

672
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 2: want to be her mate. Yeah, well, Favor is hotter,

673
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 2: but also she isn't a genocidal maniac. Yeah, but TAM's

674
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 2: a bit. Craig Gray, Yeah, was crazy also, To be fair,

675
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:33,280
Speaker 2: both manipulates. Maybe maybe he didn't really know they were mates,

676
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,719
Speaker 2: or he didn't want to accept it, but he was

677
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 2: more than happy to be her little pet under the

678
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 2: mountain and do nothing to try and say Favor off

679
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 2: his powers manned, they were diminished.

680
00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 1: Risk your life for the risk your life for the

681
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:49,799
Speaker 1: one you love. Quotations By the way, audience listening not

682
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:50,759
Speaker 1: watching book.

683
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:54,239
Speaker 2: Club, plug already my last one, and this one's a

684
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 2: good one to finish on hills you're willing to die on?

685
00:36:57,239 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 2: Sorry without change is manipulation? Oh damn you, I was

686
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 2: going with you do it? Sorry with that change is manipulation. Yeah,

687
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 2: it's like you're saying so because that's what you want

688
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 2: to hear, that's what the person wants to hear, but

689
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:19,840
Speaker 2: you don't do anything to change them. I'm it's like,

690
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 2: I'm sorry I cheated on you, then you continue the

691
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 2: cheat easy example.

692
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 1: Obviously, Hey, maybe the person was actually feeling sorry that

693
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 1: they cheated but couldn't help him.

694
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 2: I'm kidding, ding kidding. I like it.

695
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 1: Okay, I I got a few more, but I'm gonna

696
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 1: choose one.

697
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 2: Here's the best. Let me just ah, I got some

698
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 2: good ones.

699
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:46,279
Speaker 1: I'm going to smash these out, So I'm just going

700
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 1: to do a couple. What's the hell you're willing to

701
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 1: die on? Men's bathrooms do not need to be the

702
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 1: same size as women's bathrooms. Certainly can't argue with that.

703
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 2: That was it bigger.

704
00:37:58,120 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 1: What's the hell you willing to die on? Men get

705
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 1: sensitive about their height, which is the reason it matters

706
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 1: to some women.

707
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 2: Oh I never thought of that, neither. What's how you're

708
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 2: willing to die on? If a man bangs on about

709
00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 2: his toxic X, he's probably a toxic one. But we

710
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 2: know that two more. If a man what the hell

711
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 2: you're wanting to die on. Women should yell at men more? Okay, sure,

712
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 2: I mean if you want to, what's who you're willing

713
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:24,720
Speaker 2: to die on? Men should start in jail? What should

714
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:26,919
Speaker 2: Men should start in jail and work their way out

715
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:31,399
Speaker 2: like monopoly, three rounds of dice. You're born in jail.

716
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 2: You just gotta work your way out. We have proved

717
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 2: you that you're you're a nice guy. You go into society,

718
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 2: letting prove without mal intent. As soon as you turn eighteen,

719
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 2: you get like three years going to work your way

720
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:48,839
Speaker 2: out of here. Facts, bro, turn eighteen, three weeks in jail.

721
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 2: All right, prove to us you have no mal intent. Yeah,

722
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,919
Speaker 2: you're not toxic. Yeah, I said what many wouldn't get out.

723
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 2: That's exactly why you should do it. Exactly why you

724
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 2: should do it. Yeah, okay, that was interesting, batties. It

725
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 2: is time for dilemmas. If you would like to send

726
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:15,879
Speaker 2: in a dilemma for us to help you out with,

727
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 2: it will be linked in the description of this video,

728
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 2: or it will be in the link in our Instagram bio.

729
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 2: And it's all anonymous completely. Sure, there's an option to

730
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 2: say don't be anonymous, but we fucked up and it's

731
00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 2: all anonymous. Anyways, that was me. It doesn't matter. Yeah,

732
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 2: I think so too. Okay. My partner and I have

733
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:42,919
Speaker 2: been together ten months. He's been absolutely lovely and had

734
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 2: no doubts about this man since I met him. For context,

735
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 2: very much a giving person and acts of service is

736
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 2: his love language. We'll run a bath and pour me

737
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 2: a wine when I get to his without asking. Oh. However,

738
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 2: it took him a long time to say I love you,

739
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:02,920
Speaker 2: and I had questioned it a few weeks ago because

740
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 2: there was something in my gut saying something wasn't right.

741
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 2: He told me that he loved me, but was not

742
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 2: in love with me. I asked him what he meant.

743
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:20,759
Speaker 1: I asked him what he meant by that, because to me,

744
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:23,839
Speaker 1: that makes me feel like I'm just a placeholder and

745
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 1: he is waiting for the right person. He couldn't really

746
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 1: give me an answer as to what he meant, and

747
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:29,840
Speaker 1: I'm still very confused.

748
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 2: He says he still wants to.

749
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 1: Keep going with our relationship, but I have a lot

750
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 1: of doubt creeping in. Should I cut my losses seeing

751
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 1: as it's early on, or is it worth sticking it out?

752
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 2: Say it again? The love thing. He loves me, but

753
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:50,320
Speaker 2: he's not in love with me. That means absolutely nothing.

754
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:55,360
Speaker 2: That's a crazy thing to say. Also, oh it hurts me. Also,

755
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 2: is there a difference between loving someone and being I mean,

756
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 2: I love you, but I'm in love with Beth? He's

757
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 2: saying something to keep her there. He's saying what she

758
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 2: wants to hear. Kind of Yeah, he's as saying nothing.

759
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 2: Man woy like to say, I'm not ready to say

760
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 2: I love you yet, and she can deal with that

761
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 2: as she wants. Things men do to try and hide

762
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:24,879
Speaker 2: their toxicity. M They'll say I love you, but I'm

763
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 2: not in love with you. Is the craziest statement ever,

764
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 2: as grin as my years. Who's saying this and getting

765
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 2: away with girl fuck him off? Eight Even this guy's

766
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 2: just not mature enough to like say that I'm not

767
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 2: in love with you or yeah, I think that's what

768
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 2: it is. He doesn't want to hurt your feelings. I mean, yeah,

769
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:49,879
Speaker 2: I reckon, I think that I don't. I just feel

770
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 2: like there's no You should have walked out as soon

771
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 2: as he said it. You should have because I think

772
00:41:56,520 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 2: the other solution he could have had is had conversation

773
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 2: and said, look that you don't know if you love

774
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 2: them yet, but don't say I love you, but I'm

775
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 2: not in love with you. Because he say nothing, say

776
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:09,719
Speaker 2: I'm not ready to say it yet. So because I

777
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 2: believe with the timeline wise they have been saying I

778
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 2: love you. And then she just asked one day a

779
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 2: few weeks ago, like, oh, I think she just asked,

780
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 2: how come it took you so long to say it?

781
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then he said, ah, because I love you,

782
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 1: but I'm not in love with you?

783
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:28,959
Speaker 2: Fuck off? A Yeah, I just I think you should

784
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:32,359
Speaker 2: cut your losses. That word that, those three words I

785
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:35,839
Speaker 2: love you, holds so much value in a relationship. That's

786
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:39,879
Speaker 2: like the strongest emotion anyone can have. He's playing with that.

787
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 2: Let me I know in love? Fuck off? Stupid? No,

788
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 2: I agree, Yeah, I think that also the part where

789
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 2: she says that she has a bad feeling in her gut,

790
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 2: trust that thing should be the best advice you've ever

791
00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 2: gotten from your own gut. Yeah, it doesn't feel good

792
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 2: in there. Your gut knows something your brain can't comprehend. Hey,

793
00:42:57,440 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 2: gut nos, Yeah, it's weird. Yeah, people talk about feelings.

794
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 2: Trust it. Your gut's telling you something. Don't confuse it

795
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 2: with nerves. But your gut's telling you something.

796
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, in this scenario, like I don't know,

797
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 1: if you were to go on a roller coaster and

798
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: your guts like this is gonna fucking crash.

799
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,719
Speaker 2: Maybe ignore your gut. Then we like glass half full

800
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 2: situations like cut your ties if you want to. And

801
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 2: it's only ten months. It's not like it's three yearsy

802
00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 2: in and he's saying that shit. Yeah yeah, Like ten

803
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 2: months is like it's an okay amount of time to

804
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,799
Speaker 2: see someone, figure out if you like him or not,

805
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 2: or if I'm in love with you, and be like, bitch,

806
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:34,640
Speaker 2: figure out yourself. I'm moving on. Like yeah, honestly, sorry,

807
00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 2: that's happening to you. Yeah, I say, sad, How should

808
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 2: how should she break up with him? I don't know,

809
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 2: I reckon, Just don't jump straight to break up. Be

810
00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:48,759
Speaker 2: like this isn't good enough, man, I think jump straight

811
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:50,799
Speaker 2: and breakup. See what we have to say. I like

812
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:52,359
Speaker 2: to put him in his place before you break up

813
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 2: with him now, but put him in his place with

814
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 2: the breakup true true maybe yeah, yeah, get out of him,

815
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:58,759
Speaker 2: like what the fuck do you mean, dude, and then

816
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 2: break up of him like this isn't on? Yeah, breakup

817
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 2: bringing what is the best way to toxically break up

818
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 2: some Obviously, there's the healthy wag want to be Oh yeah,

819
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:14,240
Speaker 2: this guy's a dog. We don't like him. Okay. Text

820
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:19,839
Speaker 2: text is crazy, We're done. Text is absolutely insane. Well

821
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:23,360
Speaker 2: he said that, that's insane. I'm trying to think of

822
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 2: a way right for her to get him to say

823
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 2: I am in love with you and her go to

824
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:38,440
Speaker 2: little too late. Yeah, so okay, what's that Birdie song?

825
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 2: You only know your lover when you let her go facts.

826
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:46,879
Speaker 2: Block him on everything, just straight up without even telling him.

827
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 2: Just act like everything's fine. Block him on everything, and

828
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 2: then see what sort of effort he goes to to

829
00:44:56,400 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 2: get in contact with you. And yeah, I don't know,

830
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:03,400
Speaker 2: I reckon. Just go and just wait to see what

831
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 2: he says next time you're with him and you're leaving

832
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 2: just like, oh, by the way, I've had a realization

833
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 2: you're not good enough for me, and you're not doing

834
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:13,240
Speaker 2: the bare minimum someone should do in a relationship.

835
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: It sounds like, oh, well true, I was gonna say.

836
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 1: Sounds like he does a lot of really good things,

837
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 1: but there's this one thing but this one thing's insane.

838
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:22,520
Speaker 2: He is insane. I don't think he has the emotional

839
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 2: maturity to be in a relationship to say something like that.

840
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: I would actually like you to dump him, And I

841
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 1: would also like you to put an update in the dilemmas.

842
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 2: And titled update I die dumped him. Yeah, all caps,

843
00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 2: titled the update I dumped him and put it in

844
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 2: the dilemmas. Yeah. I've always been very conscious of like

845
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 2: who I say I love you too, and when I

846
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:48,919
Speaker 2: say it and I actually want to feel it. Yeah. Yeah,

847
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 2: I feel like some guys really do throw thinking about

848
00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:54,560
Speaker 2: some of our friends, dude do say it just to

849
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 2: like say it and make their partner happy when they

850
00:45:57,440 --> 00:46:01,439
Speaker 2: don't actually feel it, which is terrible sometimes, I think. Men,

851
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:07,360
Speaker 2: let's say it's been a while and your girlfriend that

852
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:08,879
Speaker 2: you've been with for a little while, you haven't said

853
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 2: I love you yet.

854
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 1: She does ask, right, she does, just maybe talk about

855
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:18,880
Speaker 1: love or something, and you're just a little too afraid

856
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,840
Speaker 1: to say, I'm I'm very happy.

857
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 2: Yeah that's what he should say, I'm very very happy.

858
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 2: But I don't want to. I don't want to say

859
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 2: something that I don't want hundred percent mean Okay, that's

860
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 2: exactly what we should do, and I don't. I don't,

861
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:36,400
Speaker 2: but also don't say like I can see myself falling

862
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 2: over you, because that's giving a false hope. Right. Yeah,

863
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:41,239
Speaker 2: So I think if even though it's been a little while, like,

864
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 2: is there a cutoff? You know? I feel like if

865
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:45,239
Speaker 2: you've been together for a year and she says, what

866
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:48,439
Speaker 2: about this love? I think the cutoff is individualized. Okay, yeah,

867
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 2: because like some people want to be asked to be

868
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 2: their girlfriend after a month, Some'm like three months, some

869
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 2: like six. Like I think it's unique to the person.

870
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:57,759
Speaker 1: No, I think asking to be girlfriend definitely, But is

871
00:46:57,760 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 1: there is there an amount of time where you are

872
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: like if it's some I should know, Like I kind

873
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 1: of I don't know if there's a hot take or not.

874
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 2: I feel like you kind of know within Because here's

875
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:09,879
Speaker 2: the thing is, you can you can fall in love

876
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 2: with someone even though you don't fully know them yet. Yeah,

877
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 2: it's fine. You learn a lot about someone in six months,

878
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 2: or you learn a lot about someone in four months

879
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 2: when you start dating and you spend so much time

880
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:22,480
Speaker 2: with them. Yeah, well it's interesting though. So we date,

881
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 2: we date, and we see that woman as potentially being

882
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 2: O forever person to get married to him. Some people

883
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:32,280
Speaker 2: date to date, yeah, like they become boyfriend and girlfriend

884
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 2: and he especially dudes just date and they don't see

885
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 2: that any thing, whereas we only date with I'm not

886
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 2: going to date someone I don't want to or potentially

887
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 2: think I can marry like that. I look at it

888
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 2: more of a yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah we got When

889
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 2: I started dating my girlfriend, like very early on, I

890
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 2: knew like I could fall in love with you soon.

891
00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeahah yeah, whereas some dudes like, oh I'm

892
00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,879
Speaker 2: dating you, yeah maybe maybe I don't know. I reckon

893
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 2: I'm going to say something crazy. I think there should

894
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:02,880
Speaker 2: be a cutoff for how long it takes him to

895
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:06,840
Speaker 2: say I love you. And also here's the thing, you know,

896
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:11,600
Speaker 2: I think if you a man should ask the girl

897
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 2: to be his girlfriend. Right, if you want to ask

898
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 2: him to be a boyfriend, by all means to go

899
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 2: for it. But I mean, I'm more than happy to

900
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:19,040
Speaker 2: say that. I think the guy should ask the girl.

901
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 2: But when it comes to I love you, I don't

902
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 2: think that any gender has more of a role. No, no,

903
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 2: and who says it first? But if you say I

904
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:34,400
Speaker 2: love you, and he doesn't love you yet, should you

905
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 2: break up? Maybe? Also, like I don't know, this might

906
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 2: be slightly philosophical. Might be the verb you can see

907
00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 2: in someone's eyes if they love you or not. You

908
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 2: really can, like you know, like you can see it

909
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:49,879
Speaker 2: even live like your parents. You can see the love

910
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 2: a relationship. You can see it way more in a

911
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 2: relationship if that person does love you. When you're having

912
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 2: those conversations on a day, you can see if there's

913
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 2: love in your eyes. And if you can't see that,

914
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 2: which I think you probably can't see, yeah, fuck him off. Yeah,

915
00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 2: go with your gun. Yeah that's what your gut knows,

916
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 2: that feeling, but you don't want to accept it. I

917
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 2: think that's what helped because you kind of have to

918
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 2: go to a breakouts so scary. That's relateable. Yeah, through

919
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 2: breaksleft for shit? Shit all right? Up next is my

920
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:17,160
Speaker 2: dilemma title? Am I being selfish? Or is he? Hey, guys,

921
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:20,720
Speaker 2: I am in desperate need of your help and advice asap.

922
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 2: My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly a

923
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 2: year now and have been friends for about five years

924
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 2: before we started dating, and early on into our relationship,

925
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:31,200
Speaker 2: my boyfriend had told me he was moving to the

926
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:35,320
Speaker 2: Netherlands in exchange for hockey for nine months with his friends.

927
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 2: I made it very clear to him that I was

928
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 2: not interested in committing to a long distance relationship due

929
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:44,920
Speaker 2: to past trauma with my father in Brackets, which I

930
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 2: openly told him how much this all affects me. I

931
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 2: suggested we end things and at that point so we

932
00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:53,399
Speaker 2: both didn't get hurt. He then a few weeks later

933
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 2: told me he has decided to defer going away by

934
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 2: a year so we could both finish our degrees. I

935
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:01,520
Speaker 2: am studying nursing and very much want to work in

936
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 2: the UK for experience, and also can work in Europe,

937
00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 2: but have to do a special course beforehand. So by

938
00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 2: him deferring leaving had meant I could either move with

939
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:13,799
Speaker 2: him or had the ability to visit him, as I

940
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:16,439
Speaker 2: don't until I graduate at the end of this year,

941
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 2: and with nursing I have full time prack and must

942
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 2: attend all my classes. In Brackets, I have no life.

943
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 2: See now this takes us to the present. Two nights ago,

944
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 2: in my bed, my boyfriend randomly blurted out that he's

945
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 2: still going to the Netherlands and he's moving in September.

946
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 2: This was all quite a shock to me, and I

947
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:38,799
Speaker 2: felt quite upset. We further spoke about it the following day,

948
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:40,880
Speaker 2: and turns out he had dropped one of his units

949
00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:44,160
Speaker 2: at UNI weeks ago, which was his prack units, as

950
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 2: he knew he wouldn't be able to attend his prack.

951
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 2: I had been asking about his prack units, and he

952
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 2: knew he wouldn't be able to attend his prack because

953
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,000
Speaker 2: he dropped out. And I had been asking him when

954
00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 2: he was starting, and getting him ready and helping him

955
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:57,920
Speaker 2: and all that business, but he'd just been lying to me.

956
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 2: I had also been trying to book a holiday and

957
00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 2: he had an excuse not to go. He had excuses

958
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 2: not to go, which overall felt like he didn't want

959
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:08,320
Speaker 2: to experience traveling with me to these places. But turns

960
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 2: out he just knew he wasn't going to be here

961
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 2: for the holidays. I don't know how I feel about

962
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:15,919
Speaker 2: this at this point. I know how much hockey means

963
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 2: to him, but he used to live in Ireland with

964
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 2: his friends for hockey. I don't know if I'm being

965
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 2: selfish thinking he has already made and had these experiences

966
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:24,919
Speaker 2: with hockey. But I don't want to hold him back.

967
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 2: He went away for a month at the beginning of

968
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 2: the year to Japan when I was on prack and

969
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:31,720
Speaker 2: it was extremely hard. So I feel like I already

970
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:33,720
Speaker 2: know how I feel while he's going to be away,

971
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 2: and I question what will happen if I want to

972
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:38,799
Speaker 2: move to the UK after my grade program. Is it

973
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 2: wrong for me to ask him to stay? Am I

974
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 2: being selfish for wanting him to stay and support me?

975
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 2: Or is he being selfish after I set boundaries at

976
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 2: the beginning of our relationship? Why do I feel so

977
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 2: sad and betrayed for him doing something he wants to do? Who? There? Okay?

978
00:51:56,320 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 2: I think that this is a crazy valid And the

979
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 2: reason I say valid is because the way she says

980
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 2: she feels at the end is so she said, I

981
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 2: want him to stay, but I also want to support him.

982
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 1: I wanted to do it, he wants to, Like, why

983
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:16,319
Speaker 1: do I not want him to do something that he

984
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:19,440
Speaker 1: wants to do. That's such a valid thing, right, yeah,

985
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 1: because she would be feeling so so torn?

986
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 2: But big butt? But the biggest thing here is at

987
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 2: the start of the relationship, you said I'm not doing

988
00:52:35,040 --> 00:52:38,480
Speaker 2: long distance, bro, I'm not doing it. You told him why,

989
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:39,760
Speaker 2: it's everything right.

990
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:44,080
Speaker 1: And so plans were made where you wouldn't have to

991
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:52,360
Speaker 1: and then he decided to change those plans without telling

992
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 1: you for weeks and then he just drops it like,

993
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I'm actually going.

994
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 2: That's crazy. This is manipulation at its core. So you

995
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 2: have a valid reason to leave him. Yeah, okay, you

996
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 2: have a valid reason to feel what you're feeling. You

997
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:12,880
Speaker 2: have a valid reason to feel the way you're feeling.

998
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 2: You have a valid reason to leave him. But here's

999
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:19,400
Speaker 2: the situation, and here's the cards you have been dealt.

1000
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 2: He's going, Okay, you need to make a choice of

1001
00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:25,720
Speaker 2: whether or not you want to be with him. Obviously,

1002
00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:27,160
Speaker 2: if you stay with him, you're allowed to be mad

1003
00:53:27,200 --> 00:53:32,440
Speaker 2: at him. But the fuck I need to know, Like

1004
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 2: what he is saying in this situation. Is he saying,

1005
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 2: why are you supporting me with what I want to do?

1006
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 1: Is he the one that's making her feel this way?

1007
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:43,640
Speaker 1: Because if so, you guys are not right for each

1008
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 1: other because he doesn't care about you at all.

1009
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 2: I think he doesn't care about her at all. In

1010
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:49,839
Speaker 2: the fact that he's just molded this situation to work

1011
00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 2: around him, and he's manipulated the situation to work around

1012
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:56,359
Speaker 2: his life and doesn't care about the repercussions of him

1013
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:58,960
Speaker 2: going to have fun playing hockey while her feelings are

1014
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 2: going to be really say, missing him, and he doesn't

1015
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:04,560
Speaker 2: really care. I think that's really toxic, and that's just

1016
00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:06,359
Speaker 2: like a kick in the guts. But it's also like, yeah,

1017
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 2: fuck you, I don't think I should be with you.

1018
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 2: You didn't appreciate what I said at the start, being

1019
00:54:11,160 --> 00:54:13,440
Speaker 2: open about how I feel about long distance, And he's

1020
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:15,399
Speaker 2: probably just like in the back of his head, Oh, yeah,

1021
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:17,719
Speaker 2: it'll be right, he'll be right, he'll be right. Nah,

1022
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:20,239
Speaker 2: it's right. Yeah, it's not right at all. I think

1023
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 2: it's terribly toxic. And like, although like it might be

1024
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:26,399
Speaker 2: hard to see it his manipulation, it definitely is and

1025
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 2: he's probably not giving him an excuse by any means.

1026
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:32,720
Speaker 2: Maybe done it unconsciously, but he's still done it. He's

1027
00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:39,520
Speaker 2: the thing, right, if someone manipulates you unconsciously, I think

1028
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:44,479
Speaker 2: that even though they didn't mean to do it, they're

1029
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 2: just a manipulating person. That yeah, they're just a manipulative person.

1030
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:52,839
Speaker 2: And so that's the hardest thing to accept. Well, he's

1031
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:55,440
Speaker 2: manipulated you to get his way. Yeah, which you agreed

1032
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 2: on verbally wasn't going to work for your relationship. But

1033
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 2: he's manipulated the situation to work for him, and he's

1034
00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 2: just got you for nine months all Basically he didn't stay,

1035
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:04,799
Speaker 2: she didn't stick to his word. Yeah, you don't want

1036
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 2: a man who's not a man of his word. He

1037
00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 2: said one thing, did another, did another. Hate women? So yeah,

1038
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie big grim dilemmas, but I think

1039
00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 2: you know the answer about it is completely saying it.

1040
00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:23,520
Speaker 2: I'll say it. Yeah, dump him, I'll say it. Yeah.

1041
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:26,880
Speaker 2: And like we said before, breakups are super super hard,

1042
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:30,400
Speaker 2: but like him doing this should make a breakup easier

1043
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:32,920
Speaker 2: because you're like, what a terrible person? Yeah it sucks, Yeah,

1044
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:35,800
Speaker 2: you learn something about people, Like the breakups are extra

1045
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 2: high when like, I don't know, did they break up

1046
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:41,920
Speaker 2: on amicable terms and there's no real reason for a

1047
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:44,279
Speaker 2: breakup maybe, But like if he's done something like this,

1048
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:46,440
Speaker 2: it's like the quivalent. It's similar if someone cheats, it's

1049
00:55:46,440 --> 00:55:48,200
Speaker 2: easier to get over him, It's what I'm trying to say. Yeah,

1050
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 2: because you hate him, Yeah, so much easier to hate someone. Yeah, right,

1051
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 2: it's so much easier. It's slightly harder because he's only

1052
00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 2: done this. But it's not even. It's not even and

1053
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 2: only he's done this.

1054
00:55:56,800 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 1: Like if you guys were just breaking up because you've

1055
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:00,840
Speaker 1: come to terms of the fact that you're just not

1056
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:03,959
Speaker 1: right together. But yeah, that's what you You have love

1057
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:05,799
Speaker 1: for each other and you both want the best for

1058
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 1: each other, and you're leaving each other.

1059
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:10,160
Speaker 2: That's what it's hard. That's a hard breakup for this,

1060
00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:13,360
Speaker 2: and you think that it's an easy breakup, But the

1061
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 2: easy breakups are the ones where there's just the best

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Speaker 2: reason to do it. Also, let's go toxic. How good

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Speaker 2: is he at hockey? Yeah? Wait, how good is he?

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Speaker 2: Is he going to be in the NHL? Yeah, if

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Speaker 2: we're talking about ice hockey, and pretty so if we are,

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Speaker 2: I don't think he is. If we're talking ice hockey,

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Speaker 2: because Netherlands is another place that plays it. If he's

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Speaker 2: going to make the NHL, maybe, but she said his mates,

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Speaker 2: Like was he planned his hockey with his team with

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Speaker 2: his friend? Like, tell you right now, this motherfucker is

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Speaker 2: not making the NHL. Yeah, because by the sounds of it,

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Speaker 2: you're in university and most of the time if you're

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Speaker 2: in UNI. He starts bast you know, if you're in

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Speaker 2: the NHL. It's like any professional sports, you know. And yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think, not gonna lie. Okay, okay, okay, not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: I think it's kind of a nick.

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Speaker 1: Like I think it's kind of a nick that he's

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Speaker 1: going to nether to the Netherlands as I'm assuming an

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Speaker 1: adult because you're in the university to play play an

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Speaker 1: amateur like maybe semi professional, probably not university hockey league

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Speaker 1: with his friends, and he's in it, like I am

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Speaker 1: assuming what you guys would call it a committed relationship.

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Speaker 2: I think that's the biggest dick, so crazy give it

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00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 2: up to pick a girl. Wow, he's the type that

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Speaker 2: is always going to pick hockey over his current girl.

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Speaker 2: He's the type that injured his knee. Yeah, but if

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Speaker 2: he didn't, yeah that if he didn't, he would have

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Speaker 2: made it. Unfortunately, guys, the episode is ending. But until

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Speaker 2: that happens, we have a few things to do. First thing,

1090
00:58:12,120 --> 00:58:14,640
Speaker 2: big comments of last week's episode. If you want to

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00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:16,480
Speaker 2: get them read out, just start commenting and we'll get

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Speaker 2: to them. Yeah, I'll go first, Megan said, listening to

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Speaker 2: the when you got to go segment whilst mid run

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Speaker 2: nearly created my own story dangerous game that is, that

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00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:30,560
Speaker 2: is a dangerous game. It would have had you thinking

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Speaker 2: about it too. You probably didn't even feel the need

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Speaker 2: to pooh. But then but then her story being out

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Speaker 2: and about going for a walk with the kid and

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Speaker 2: then you thinking imagine if that happened to me, probably

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Speaker 2: made you think, oh, actually can't have to go. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's what I would. I would, I would expect he would.

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Speaker 1: Hailey said it didn't dawn on me that Australia had

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00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 1: Hannah Montana until Jake serenaded us at the start Montana song.

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Speaker 2: Even though it's the same person. I think it's a

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Speaker 2: malo sar. Yeah, she's the cause career. I love Hannah Montana. Ay,

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Speaker 2: did you you know I loved it ten on a Saturday.

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Speaker 2: Did you know Hannah Montana only had two seasons? What

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Speaker 2: it feels like there was ten. I feel like I

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Speaker 2: watched five hundred episodes of that show and every episode

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Speaker 2: was different. I loved every Saturday morning at like seven

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Speaker 2: thirty eight o'clock Hannah Montana was on, and then I

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Speaker 2: KLi ready it was the best ever Hannah Montana. Hannah Montana.

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Speaker 2: I am telling you, please be wrong. Oh okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: what four seasons? Still? How many episodes? There is? Ninety

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Speaker 2: eight episodes altogether. That's a fair few. It's okay, look,

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Speaker 2: that's a fair few. But I guarantee you I've watched

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Speaker 2: all of them. Yes, oh bro, all right, Vicky said,

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Speaker 2: great episodes. Guys couldn't stop laughing. Thank you very much,

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Speaker 2: Alexandra Peronne. The joke about diffusing a disagreement slash argument

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Speaker 2: clap clap also to explain diffuser. It depends on your hair,

1121
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Speaker 2: but it makes the force of the airflow from the

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Speaker 2: hair dryer gentler, and is used more commonly to dry

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Speaker 2: curly or wavy hair. It can also add volume to

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Speaker 2: the roots of your hair for people with long, heavy hair. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I was guessing the female products and there was that

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Speaker 2: the thing, the hair dryer attachment, and had a good

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Speaker 2: joke and I said, I thought it added volume, and

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Speaker 2: then we found out it was a diffuser. She said

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Speaker 2: it actually difus the situations. Man, man, man. That was

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Speaker 2: good for men. But now it's time for a baddie

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Speaker 2: to sign off the episode. If you want to get

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Speaker 2: a call from us, be sure to sign up. Yeah,

1133
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Speaker 2: be sure to answer the phone, but also sign up

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Speaker 2: links in the description and it's also linking by on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: Today we are calling Kiara. Hello, it's only in Jake

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Speaker 2: from the Rolated This podcast. Hi.

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Speaker 3: Way, that's such fun.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's me. How's it going?

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Speaker 3: Everything is?

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Speaker 2: We are at the end of an episode and we

1141
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Speaker 2: have called you asking if you could please sign off

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Speaker 2: the episode. Is that okay?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, okay. I was not ready for this, but

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Speaker 3: I actually read maybe someone else as well. I actually

1145
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:23,720
Speaker 3: read this sentence the other day, which says anxiety occurs

1146
01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:33,200
Speaker 3: when there is many choices and unclear priorities. It is

1147
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Speaker 3: actually the fact, isn't it. So Yeah, I invite people

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Speaker 3: that suffer from anxiety to think about that.

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Speaker 2: You might have just helped a lot of people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, hopefully I have a good night.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, used to ye, I was pretty sicky. I love

1152
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Speaker 2: when we put them on the spot and they absolutely

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Speaker 2: turn up. I just read this the other day. I'll

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Speaker 2: tell you what I know where she read it about

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Speaker 2: not how bad he's we love you, stay bad.