WEBVTT - "I HATE the Outfit My BF Bought Me - How Do I Tell Him??" || HOTLINE

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to the Where's Your head At?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Anna and I'm Matt. Let's jump in weird afternoon.

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<v Speaker 1>We're in the podcast quite late today, are we?

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<v Speaker 3>And you're actually super late today. Actually I couldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought we weren't going to bring this up, but

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I should expect nothing. Les.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's throw you under.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I actually had an event this morning, which is

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<v Speaker 2>why I'm like full glam. I don't think I've ever

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<v Speaker 2>had this much makeup on in the podcast studio before.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels like a lot. You know, when you were like,

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<v Speaker 2>actually you wouldn't know because you're not a girl. But

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<v Speaker 2>when you get like eyelash extensions put on, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm wearing like shutters, like blinkers. Yeah, like you

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<v Speaker 2>know how like racehourses get like the little blinkers.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they look good, they look like they normally do anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been under a lot of stress at the moment.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was on the phone to Matt on the

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<v Speaker 2>way to this podcast, and I got like very sidetracked,

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<v Speaker 2>and I typed in the wrong suburb and I drove

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<v Speaker 2>like thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>The wrong way.

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<v Speaker 3>So you texted, you typed in the address, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 3>the wrong Actually you order it auto field and then

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<v Speaker 3>you clicked on the wrong run. Yeah, I've done this before.

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<v Speaker 3>And like when or when you go the wrong place,

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<v Speaker 3>when you're running late, and how anxious and like just

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<v Speaker 3>like you want you want to cry, like you're like fuck,

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<v Speaker 3>like I've got to be somewhere, and especially so stressed.

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<v Speaker 1>I was so stressed.

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<v Speaker 2>Like me and that were both like we're thirty minutes

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<v Speaker 2>away from the podcast, so even thirty minutes blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 2>And then like ten minutes, when I was ten minutes

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<v Speaker 2>away from the wrong suburb, I was like, this cannot

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<v Speaker 2>be right.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know where's the West Gate.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a problem with Google Maps because sometimes you

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<v Speaker 2>rely on them too heavily and you just haven't like

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<v Speaker 2>you just don't take your surroundings in it all.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll speak for yourself. I'm nav match. I would have

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<v Speaker 3>told pretty quickly that I'm not going in the right direction,

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<v Speaker 3>but yeah, I can understand it. That would be that

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<v Speaker 3>would have been so stressed. I would have been like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>pretty stressed. How are you feeling now that we're.

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<v Speaker 1>Here, I'm feeling good. I have my periods. I've got

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<v Speaker 1>like a bit of stomach cramps.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you had any panetle?

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<v Speaker 1>Not yet? You did get me some order.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you have a heat pack?

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<v Speaker 2>I wish I had a heat pack. There's been a

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<v Speaker 2>lot going on in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>As you know. We put in an offer for a

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<v Speaker 1>house on the weekend. Yeah, I like to talk.

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<v Speaker 3>Us through an offer. What does this? So you just go,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to offer you this much.

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<v Speaker 1>So we put in an offer subject to finance.

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<v Speaker 2>So over the past like forty eight hours, it has

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<v Speaker 2>been the craziest, biggest rush to get all of our

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<v Speaker 2>finances in order and to like get the approval. We

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<v Speaker 2>have a broker, so they've been kind of helping us

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<v Speaker 2>navigate this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so weird. I used to hear people.

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<v Speaker 2>Talking about all of these terms like brokers and conveyancers

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<v Speaker 2>and all of this, and I just had no idea

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<v Speaker 2>what anyone was talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>And now a lot of people right now listening.

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<v Speaker 2>Like people are probably listening being like going straight over

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<v Speaker 2>their head, like it would go over my head. But

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, once you actually are buying a house, all

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<v Speaker 2>of this stuff starts to like just make sense, makes sense.

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<v Speaker 3>I've felt it because I'm obviously.

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<v Speaker 1>Not start to connect.

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<v Speaker 3>And you're like, aha, I'm obviously like like looking like

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<v Speaker 3>looking at stuff as well, and I've got a broker's number,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'm just like, how do you even like what

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<v Speaker 3>do you say to it? Hey, I'm looking at buying?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what do you do?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? And what do they say? Congrats?

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<v Speaker 2>They say, yeah, like let's get your finances in order,

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<v Speaker 2>let's go to three bags and find like the best

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<v Speaker 2>in itself like daunting. Yeah, it's so full on, Like

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<v Speaker 2>it's so full on. Anyway, we found a house that

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<v Speaker 2>we love. It's well, when I say a house, it's

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<v Speaker 2>a unit, but it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like so cute.

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<v Speaker 2>I said to you that we initially were looking for

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<v Speaker 2>like a three bedroom, two bathroom. This is a two bedroom,

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<v Speaker 2>one bathroom, so it's technically a downsize, but it's going

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<v Speaker 2>to be our own place. So we were kind of like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe we have to downsize first, but yeah, all my

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<v Speaker 2>fingers and toes across, I really really want them to say, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm head over heels, like I'm like second day all

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<v Speaker 2>in type of vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>What you're going to do, like what you're going to renovate,

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<v Speaker 3>where your furnish is going, and all that sort of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I've mentally already moved in.

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<v Speaker 3>So like we could get a really upset in a

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<v Speaker 3>week or Sofie, you could get.

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<v Speaker 2>A devastated an I've already cried over a house. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if I've told the podcast that, but there

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<v Speaker 2>was just yeah, there was this other house that we

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<v Speaker 2>loved and a day before the auction, it's old, and

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<v Speaker 2>we were like going to the auction and like going

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<v Speaker 2>to bed, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was just devastated.

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<v Speaker 2>So and I cried and my dad was like, that

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<v Speaker 2>is a bit of an overreaction, and I was like

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<v Speaker 2>I had mentally moved in, so I didn't want to mentally.

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<v Speaker 1>Move in again.

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<v Speaker 3>People say the house stuff when they're like, you didn't

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<v Speaker 3>even have it, so what are you upset about?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was like I manifested that I was living

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<v Speaker 2>the dream in that house, a bed for me, and like.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't have it, and then partner was with the

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<v Speaker 3>time was like, I was like, why are you upset

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<v Speaker 3>you didn't have the job? And I was like, I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, no, but I had it in my mind.

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<v Speaker 3>But I was doing it in my mind. I'd woken

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<v Speaker 3>up every day and was going to work. Do you

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<v Speaker 3>know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't technically have it, but mentally I had it. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>it's such a thing, like it's such a big life change.

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<v Speaker 2>Like to be honest, and I've told you this, I

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<v Speaker 2>never thought I was going to be able to afford

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<v Speaker 2>to buy a house ever, And it was only when

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<v Speaker 2>our rent went up that I was like, well, my

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<v Speaker 2>rent is now so expensive that to buy a house,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not even that much more So that's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>the reason why we've even been pushed into potentially buying

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<v Speaker 2>a house if we get this one.

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<v Speaker 3>I can see that as well. Like I've been thinking

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<v Speaker 3>about it as well recently, and I never thought about

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<v Speaker 3>it before either. But like now they're not actually starting

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<v Speaker 3>to like, you know, knuckle down and say if you're

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<v Speaker 3>like fuck, you could actually like I've never saved my

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<v Speaker 3>whole life. Yeah, Like when I say safe, like I've

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<v Speaker 3>never actually focused on it. Like I've just been like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, go out live my life, and now that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm focusing on it much, g's like I could actually

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<v Speaker 3>really do this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and you can, and it's so exciting. If I

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<v Speaker 2>get the unit that we've put in an offer for,

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<v Speaker 2>are you going to try and look somewhere close to

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<v Speaker 2>me so we can be in neighboring suburbs.

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<v Speaker 3>This why you keep sending me or.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, sending that Like I know his like price range,

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<v Speaker 2>so I keep sending him like potential like apartments in

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<v Speaker 2>the area because I'm like, it would be so easy,

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<v Speaker 2>like we work together, you know, we could go go

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<v Speaker 2>for coffees.

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<v Speaker 3>And like you know, I've been looking at him and

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<v Speaker 3>there were some good ones. There was none that really

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<v Speaker 3>I moved into mentally, So once I see one that

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<v Speaker 3>I've moved into mental we might go from there. Yeah. See,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's a nice area, so maybe you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Fingers crossed for me, put all of like the good wishes.

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<v Speaker 2>Into the atmosphere for me because I need all the

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<v Speaker 2>prayers I can get.

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<v Speaker 3>We all have our fingers and toast crossed for you.

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<v Speaker 1>How was your weekend?

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<v Speaker 3>Ah, the weekends? What did I get up to oh

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<v Speaker 3>I went. So I had a nice staycation on the weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>I was lucky enough to be put up at the Marriot,

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<v Speaker 3>so good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what's funny about you? Going to the Marriott?

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<v Speaker 1>Is okay?

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<v Speaker 2>So Matt obviously is at a hotel and you can

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<v Speaker 2>tell from his stories that he's with someone, right, there's

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<v Speaker 2>no tripod, there's no tripod there.

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<v Speaker 1>There's like a girl's hand in there.

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<v Speaker 2>And like the question marks were like coming in hot

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<v Speaker 2>Like my dms were like, doesn't have a new girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 2>Who's the girl that Matt's with? And I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I'm going to leave that to Matt

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<v Speaker 2>to tell everyone on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I was getting a bunch as well from people

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<v Speaker 3>asking me. But it I was actually with Jen. Me

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<v Speaker 3>and Jen I thought, you know, what a better place

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<v Speaker 3>to go? We haven't we actually haven't slept in this

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<v Speaker 3>like in the same bed for like a while now.

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<v Speaker 3>So we were like, let's just go to the hotel

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<v Speaker 3>and see how it is, and you know, you have

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<v Speaker 3>a nice dinner and it was a really nice time.

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<v Speaker 3>I was the whole time. I remember I came on

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<v Speaker 3>here and I said, last time we went away, I

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<v Speaker 3>was like focused. I was too busy on thinking at

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<v Speaker 3>the time was going to end in my own heads

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<v Speaker 3>like oh fuck, like we need to do this when

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<v Speaker 3>you do that, We've got all these plans, like we're

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<v Speaker 3>only here for a limited time. I literally made a

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<v Speaker 3>conscious effort when we walked in and just be like,

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<v Speaker 3>all right, go with the flow. Whatever happens happens. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not gonna be stressed out about time and enjoy the moment.

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<v Speaker 3>So I had a really nice time. We had like

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<v Speaker 3>a nice dinner, we woke up, went into the pool,

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<v Speaker 3>had a bath at night.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really nice, very lovely, very romantic.

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<v Speaker 3>It was very romance.

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<v Speaker 2>So there's no new girlfriend on the scene or no

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<v Speaker 2>new lady on the scene.

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<v Speaker 3>He was with Jen, just with Jen having a nice

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<v Speaker 3>time away, and it was very nice to have that

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<v Speaker 3>time together. I really appreciated it having.

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<v Speaker 1>Some quality time together.

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<v Speaker 3>So how was you a weekend down?

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<v Speaker 2>So obviously I've had a lot on my plate with

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<v Speaker 2>obviously doing all the finance and putting the offer into

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<v Speaker 2>the house, and then with putting an offer into a

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<v Speaker 2>house means that like I'm trying to make sure my

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<v Speaker 2>apartment's good because I'm gonna give notice to say that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm leaving, so like doing like lots of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of our plate.

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<v Speaker 2>We also have a special announcement coming with the podcast,

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<v Speaker 2>so there's lots.

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<v Speaker 1>Going on behind the scenes.

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<v Speaker 2>So on the weekend, Michael and I were like, we

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<v Speaker 2>literally just want to do nothing, Like we want to

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<v Speaker 2>chill the fuck out.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be stressed at all.

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<v Speaker 3>So good is a nothing weekend? Nothing weekend is what

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<v Speaker 3>I want having in the last couple and it's not good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's bliss.

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<v Speaker 2>So we decided to do nothing, and on on Saturday

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<v Speaker 2>night at about five pm, Michael was like, should we

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<v Speaker 2>go to the movies? Like we don't have to like

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<v Speaker 2>talk to anyone, we can still be anti social and

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<v Speaker 2>just be us. And then I was like, why don't

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<v Speaker 2>we go to the drive in movies because obviously you

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<v Speaker 2>know you're in your car, you're in your own space

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<v Speaker 2>driving before I think when I was like.

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<v Speaker 1>Eighteen on like a date, very very very long time ago.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a very common for dates. I used to go

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<v Speaker 3>there when I was younger as well, take girls.

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<v Speaker 1>Some days they were the drive ins are awesome, awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>So we got there, we were seeing the Little Mermaid

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<v Speaker 2>amazing movie, or like should I say from what I

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<v Speaker 2>saw of it, it was an amazing movie because an

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<v Speaker 2>hour into watching the movie, Michael tried to turn on

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<v Speaker 2>the car and our battery was flat.

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<v Speaker 1>Which.

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<v Speaker 2>Was so annoying because we were like, we just want

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<v Speaker 2>to be like incognito in the car.

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<v Speaker 3>So the radio wasn't working anymore. The battery had died.

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<v Speaker 2>No, so the radio was still going, so we tuned

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<v Speaker 2>into whatever radio station the movie was playing on, and

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<v Speaker 2>we turned the car off because we were thinking in

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<v Speaker 2>our heads like that's going to save the power. But

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<v Speaker 2>what you're supposed to do is keep the car ignition

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<v Speaker 2>switched on the.

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<v Speaker 1>Whole time, So keep the car right, keep the car running.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, is that not right? Yeah it is. I think

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<v Speaker 3>you meant to like restart it every now and then,

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<v Speaker 3>like during the movies, because I went, we didn't do

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<v Speaker 3>that and it battery lasted? Can't I did it did last?

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<v Speaker 3>I think maybe you just maybe your battery was on

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<v Speaker 3>its way out, maybe because I've had to die before

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<v Speaker 3>when I was younger, that was in my old first car.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just so annoying, like we just wanted to do nothing,

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<v Speaker 2>and then like from there, we're like going to each

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<v Speaker 2>like all the staff memories, being like our batteries died,

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<v Speaker 2>and they're like, oh fucking these are the idiots of

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<v Speaker 2>the night.

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<v Speaker 3>But isn't there some like a message you there's like

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<v Speaker 3>where I go, there's like this teenager with like a

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<v Speaker 3>trolley walks around and it just starts like you literally

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<v Speaker 3>just like your jump starts your car for you and

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<v Speaker 3>go for the next one.

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<v Speaker 2>Well funnily enough, so they gave us a little portable

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<v Speaker 2>radio to finish the movie.

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<v Speaker 1>But we missed like a strong like.

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<v Speaker 2>The whole yeah, the whole middle main section of what

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<v Speaker 2>was happening.

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<v Speaker 1>We missed it. But the start and the end were great,

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<v Speaker 1>but I will rewatch it.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, when the credit started rolling, there was like

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<v Speaker 2>five different cars that wouldn't start, so there was like

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<v Speaker 2>a there was a bunch of us, Like it kind

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<v Speaker 2>of made us feel better because we were like, we're

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<v Speaker 2>not complete morons, but also we still are morons.

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, they just came along and like jumps out

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<v Speaker 1>at everyone's car.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was like, surely when you're buying your tickets,

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<v Speaker 2>they could just be like just a reminder to do

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<v Speaker 2>this and this and be careful because people's batteries die

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<v Speaker 2>like a little PSA, a little reminder maybe.

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<v Speaker 3>At the start when before the movie starts. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that's probably pretty.

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<v Speaker 2>Small, you know what I mean, instead of like having

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<v Speaker 2>the remedy, like, let's like help people to not get

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<v Speaker 2>to the place where they need to jump start, you know, that.

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<v Speaker 3>Would make sense. Well, last time I went to the drivings.

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<v Speaker 3>It's actually pretty sad. The drivings around the corner from

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<v Speaker 3>mine are actually closing after like forty years or something.

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<v Speaker 3>So I went there to check it out. Went to

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<v Speaker 3>Jena and I wait a couple of weeks ago and

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<v Speaker 3>watch The Pope's Exorcism horror horror. I love fucking horrors.

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<v Speaker 3>And we're sitting there, we're getting comfortable. We've got the

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<v Speaker 3>you know how they give you the radio station to

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<v Speaker 3>tune into. Yeah, so we've tuned into the radio station.

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<v Speaker 3>We're still trying to get comfortable sort of watching it.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like listening to the radio and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like watching it, but they have and I could

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<v Speaker 3>hear other people's radios at the same time, so I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, what's playing on our radio? Is this like

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<v Speaker 3>around sound? It was like really weird. I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>what's going on? And turns out they' giving us the

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<v Speaker 3>wrong radio station. And the moment I realized was because

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<v Speaker 3>Twilight had been playing in it. I heard the guy go,

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<v Speaker 3>you know when he goes your local bella or whatever

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<v Speaker 3>he says, and I was like, what the fuck that's Twilight.

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<v Speaker 3>And then we've been listening to Twilight, but we could

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<v Speaker 3>sort of hear something just it was really confusing that

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<v Speaker 3>so for something that's been running operational for so long,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, they have not mastered the art of the radio.

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<v Speaker 2>I heard Twilight playing on the radio, I'd moved the

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<v Speaker 2>car and head over to Twilight.

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<v Speaker 3>I love Do you love Twilight?

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<v Speaker 1>It's so good.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not a fan of Team Edward or a team Acob.

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<v Speaker 3>I do like vampires probably better than where Wolf Team Edward.

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<v Speaker 3>Spoiler for anyone who wins, Yeah, I don't know. It

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't there a winner if you're a team you see

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<v Speaker 3>I've ever seen Spirelin. All right, So my recommendation for

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<v Speaker 3>the week is so my talk about nothing weekends. I

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<v Speaker 3>walked in and my sister and her boyfriend were having

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<v Speaker 3>a nothing weekend, a nice glass of red wine and

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<v Speaker 3>they were doing a Paint by the Numbers, So it's

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<v Speaker 3>from Kmart. Apparently it's really cheap for anyone that wants

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<v Speaker 3>to get it. And you have a picture and then

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<v Speaker 3>they give you paint and the pictures have different numbers

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<v Speaker 3>and then it correlates with the paint color and you

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<v Speaker 3>dip it in and you paint it. So they brought

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<v Speaker 3>to each little do they know that it takes for

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<v Speaker 3>ever to do just one, like it's an actual process

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<v Speaker 3>to do it. So they gave me one. My ADHD

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<v Speaker 3>didn't get me too far. I got like halfway quarter

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<v Speaker 3>through and I was like, yeah, I'm done with it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm good. But it was very therapeutic when I did it.

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<v Speaker 1>How big is it?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Are we talking like a little a four piece of paper?

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<v Speaker 3>Three?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>So bigger?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Bigger? Yes, around a three. It was very therapeutic.

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<v Speaker 3>While I was doing we had like some nice music

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<v Speaker 3>playing classical music. They were chatting to show. I was

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<v Speaker 3>just sort of painting, cracking jokes here and there.

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<v Speaker 1>That's such good therapy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, that's my recommendation. Go out and get Paint by Numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>Love that.

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<v Speaker 2>I definitely will try that out. My recommendation is a

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<v Speaker 2>recommendation I've already given, but like, I'm just loving the

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<v Speaker 2>ultimatum on Netflix so.

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<v Speaker 3>Much, following on from last week.

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<v Speaker 1>So last week was it? Last week I gave that?

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<v Speaker 2>I think I was saying band a pump rules last week,

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<v Speaker 2>I think.

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<v Speaker 1>But I have given the ultimatum.

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<v Speaker 2>Already, but I thought the whole season was out, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's not. So they're kind of like drip feeding new episodes.

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<v Speaker 2>So they just gave us a couple more episodes. I

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<v Speaker 2>was watching them and fuck, it's so good. And my

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<v Speaker 2>best friend Sarah, after listening to the podcast, has given

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<v Speaker 2>the ultimatum agoat and she's like, oh my god, it's

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<v Speaker 2>so good, Like there's so much to talk about, so

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<v Speaker 2>give it a watch.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to chat about this show with you, Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so good.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just like, no, all right, maybe I'll go home

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<v Speaker 3>and watch it.

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<v Speaker 2>This one's a lesbian edition one, because there's a straight

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<v Speaker 2>version and there's a lesbian one.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is a lesbian one and it's just so good.

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<v Speaker 2>So season two yeah, Funnily enough, there's actually a girl

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<v Speaker 2>there who's in a couple and she was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a boobs girl, and I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh my god, it's mad but in lesbian form.

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<v Speaker 3>All Right, I'm gonna all right, I'll watch an episode

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<v Speaker 3>because you've been nagging me to do this, so I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to get.

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<v Speaker 1>On and do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Put it in the notes and make sure you follow

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<v Speaker 2>through because I really want to talk to you about this.

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<v Speaker 3>Alrighty Then, okay, guys, so let's jump into our hotline.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, you've reached Anna and Nutt.

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<v Speaker 3>We can't get to the phone right now, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Please leave us a message on our hot line after

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<v Speaker 1>the beep.

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<v Speaker 3>So this hot line is anonymous, a.

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<v Speaker 4>Bit of a conundrum, and I'll be your help on

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<v Speaker 4>this month. So my birthday is coming up and my

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<v Speaker 4>boyfriend was so sweet enough to buy me a new

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<v Speaker 4>outfit for my party, and God, love him, love the consideration,

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<v Speaker 4>but unfortunately it's just not for me. And he doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>do this for me often, and he's very excited about

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<v Speaker 4>the concept of me wearing.

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<v Speaker 2>This outfit for my birthday, but it's just not it.

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<v Speaker 3>So what do I do?

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 3>So much?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh God?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no?

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<v Speaker 3>Look, to start off, have you ever had a boyfriend

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<v Speaker 3>or partner by you an outfit to it?

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<v Speaker 1>Not that I can think of, so on honest.

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<v Speaker 3>So on the weekend obviously, you know you're staying in

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<v Speaker 3>a hotel room. Jenna and I were talking and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, you know what, I'll buy you a sexy outfit. So,

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<v Speaker 3>because she was saying like she didn't have time to go,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, well, I've got some time. So

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<v Speaker 3>I went to sexy Land and I was having a

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<v Speaker 3>browse around and she was like, I'm so nervous. She

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<v Speaker 3>was like, I don't like, I don't know. She goes,

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<v Speaker 3>I know you're what your little kinks are. She's like,

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<v Speaker 3>there's gonna be so many straps and all this sort

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<v Speaker 3>of stuff, and I was like, no, no, I know

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<v Speaker 3>what you like, so I'll try to figure something out.

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<v Speaker 3>I ended up getting her. What she said was actually

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<v Speaker 3>she was surprised. It was quite conservative. It wasn't as

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<v Speaker 3>slack she thought I was going to go, and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, no, I wanted you to feel comfortable in it.

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<v Speaker 3>Like there's nothing worse than if, like, you get an

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<v Speaker 3>outfit I could imagine and you're not comfortable in it

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<v Speaker 3>and you're not going to be fully into the sex.

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<v Speaker 3>So the moral of what I'm thinking is next time

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to go out there and get her something

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<v Speaker 3>a bit more raunch.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know where this stories come from. I

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<v Speaker 1>think Matt just wanted to let us know.

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<v Speaker 3>The partner so like that was that was perfect timing

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<v Speaker 3>that that actually happened after this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I just bought someone correct outfit.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but she seemed cool that she put full trust

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<v Speaker 3>in me and I got her a nice Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but an outfit to wear in the bedroom is

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit different than an outfit that you have

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<v Speaker 2>to wear to a birthday party, Like that's fucked.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So, like, has anyone ever bought you clothing that you

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<v Speaker 2>didn't want to wear?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I would say some girlfriends have, yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And how did you go about that?

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<v Speaker 3>I've never hadn't forced me to wear it, so I've

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<v Speaker 3>sort of, like, you know what I mean, been like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh but what about this? Actually? No, to be fair,

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<v Speaker 3>one of them was very forceful, and I think that

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<v Speaker 3>I did wear a lot of tied gye stuff at

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<v Speaker 3>that eraror of my life. Do you know exactly what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm talking about there?

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<v Speaker 1>I did know what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I kind of feel bad for this anonymous caller

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<v Speaker 2>because his boyfriend has bought him an outfit. The boyfriend's

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<v Speaker 2>obviously extraordinarily excited for him to wear this, and now

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<v Speaker 2>he's like, fuck, what do I do? What does he do?

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<v Speaker 3>I think what he does is we always say communication

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<v Speaker 3>is key, but this will really hurt his partner. So

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<v Speaker 3>I think that he looks at the outfit. Well, this

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<v Speaker 3>is what I would do. Look at the outfit and

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<v Speaker 3>see how you can like adapt it, but you can

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<v Speaker 3>make it your own thing. Maybe you get rid of

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<v Speaker 3>the pants and you substitute the pair of pants that

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<v Speaker 3>make you feel comfortable, or a shirt, do you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, I'm just gonna say it. If my partner bought

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<v Speaker 2>me an outfit that I didn't like and it was

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<v Speaker 2>for my birthday, there's just no way I would wear it.

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<v Speaker 1>I would have to. They'd have to take the blow.

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<v Speaker 3>You'd just tell Michael straight up.

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<v Speaker 1>I would just say. This is what I'd say.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you so much and I am so grateful

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<v Speaker 2>that you have gone out of your way to buy

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<v Speaker 2>me this, and I think it's so sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>But I've already got it. Outfit.

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<v Speaker 3>Finish it off with the compliment. This compliment, sandwich, You

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<v Speaker 3>got to finish it off with another compliment.

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<v Speaker 1>Mild life.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I had a friend of mine, her boyfriend

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<v Speaker 2>bought her this piece of jewelry and she like did

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<v Speaker 2>not like it. And she initially said she liked it,

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<v Speaker 2>and then eventually she had to be like, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>like I can't wear this in everyday life, and it

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<v Speaker 2>was returned.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that for this is a message for guys

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<v Speaker 3>out there, don't it's very hard to buy jewelry for

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<v Speaker 3>a partner. I feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard to buy clothing and jewelry and shoes for

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<v Speaker 2>a partner because style is very specific.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, like I didn't even realize that some girls

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<v Speaker 3>are gold and some girls are silver jewelry and.

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<v Speaker 1>Some girls are rose gold.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you know that there's another you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'm like, I was like, okay, you just don't

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<v Speaker 3>wear Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I've had an ex boyfriend buy me a

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<v Speaker 2>gold piece of jewelry when I was wearing silver, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like fuming.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, how are this this is the way?

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<v Speaker 1>Send it back? Get the money back for ten Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I reckon a jewelry and that you sort of I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know a better idea. Here's my oh I would

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<v Speaker 3>do actually, i'd say, dearly beloved, Look, this is a

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<v Speaker 3>great outfit. Maybe another time I would wear that, but

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<v Speaker 3>I just don't. I'm not feeling it this weekend. Maybe

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<v Speaker 3>we should go shopping together and get something together.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing is, and this is kind of like sex, right,

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<v Speaker 2>like in the bedroom, if they're doing something that you

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<v Speaker 2>don't like, you have to tell them otherwise they're going

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<v Speaker 2>to keep doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>And like outfits, if you.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't like the outfit, you have to put a stop

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<v Speaker 2>to it, otherwise they could keep shopping for you.

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<v Speaker 3>The next thing, you know, you've got a bunch of

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<v Speaker 3>skinny like jeans with rips for the.

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<v Speaker 2>Rest of it, you know what I mean, Like they're

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<v Speaker 2>three seasons behind, and you're like, that's unwearable.

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<v Speaker 3>I wonder if the boyfriend has complete bad fashion like

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<v Speaker 3>he does as well, or you just it's just something

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<v Speaker 3>that's not his flavor.

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<v Speaker 2>Okaybe he's just like gone out on a limb and like, look,

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<v Speaker 2>it's hard, right because I'm imagining myself being the boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>But then again, I have good taste, so I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I will buy anything ship. But if the boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>has like made like a muck up, like it would.

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<v Speaker 2>Be hard to hear. Sorry, I'm not gonna wear this slash.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like it, but also like he probably needs.

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<v Speaker 1>To hear it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think, like I said, compliment sandwich, So I

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<v Speaker 3>give him a compliment, tell him you don't like it,

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<v Speaker 3>and then give him another compliment or maybe reason with

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<v Speaker 3>him and say let's go together.

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<v Speaker 1>The general, I love you.

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<v Speaker 3>That as I from a guy, that would probably definitely work.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean, just like, let's just.

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<v Speaker 3>Take the mind say anything and just go and police

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<v Speaker 3>fans down.

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