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Speaker 1: I'm Anna and I'm Matt. Let's jump in weird afternoon.
Speaker 1: We're in the podcast quite late today, are we?
Speaker 3: And you're actually super late today. Actually I couldn't.
Speaker 2: I thought we weren't going to bring this up, but
Speaker 2: I mean I should expect nothing. Les.
Speaker 3: Let's throw you under.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually had an event this morning, which is
Speaker 2: why I'm like full glam. I don't think I've ever
Speaker 2: had this much makeup on in the podcast studio before.
Speaker 2: It feels like a lot. You know, when you were like,
Speaker 2: actually you wouldn't know because you're not a girl. But
Speaker 2: when you get like eyelash extensions put on, I feel
Speaker 2: like I'm wearing like shutters, like blinkers. Yeah, like you
Speaker 2: know how like racehourses get like the little blinkers.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they look good, they look like they normally do anyway.
Speaker 2: I've been under a lot of stress at the moment.
Speaker 2: And I was on the phone to Matt on the
Speaker 2: way to this podcast, and I got like very sidetracked,
Speaker 2: and I typed in the wrong suburb and I drove
Speaker 2: like thirty minutes.
Speaker 1: The wrong way.
Speaker 3: So you texted, you typed in the address, yeah, but
Speaker 3: the wrong Actually you order it auto field and then
Speaker 3: you clicked on the wrong run. Yeah, I've done this before.
Speaker 3: And like when or when you go the wrong place,
Speaker 3: when you're running late, and how anxious and like just
Speaker 3: like you want you want to cry, like you're like fuck,
Speaker 3: like I've got to be somewhere, and especially so stressed.
Speaker 1: I was so stressed.
Speaker 2: Like me and that were both like we're thirty minutes
Speaker 2: away from the podcast, so even thirty minutes blah blah blah.
Speaker 2: And then like ten minutes, when I was ten minutes
Speaker 2: away from the wrong suburb, I was like, this cannot
Speaker 2: be right.
Speaker 3: I don't know where's the West Gate.
Speaker 2: This is a problem with Google Maps because sometimes you
Speaker 2: rely on them too heavily and you just haven't like
Speaker 2: you just don't take your surroundings in it all.
Speaker 3: I'll speak for yourself. I'm nav match. I would have
Speaker 3: told pretty quickly that I'm not going in the right direction,
Speaker 3: but yeah, I can understand it. That would be that
Speaker 3: would have been so stressed. I would have been like, yeah,
Speaker 3: pretty stressed. How are you feeling now that we're.
Speaker 1: Here, I'm feeling good. I have my periods. I've got
Speaker 1: like a bit of stomach cramps.
Speaker 3: Have you had any panetle?
Speaker 1: Not yet? You did get me some order.
Speaker 3: Do you have a heat pack?
Speaker 2: I wish I had a heat pack. There's been a
Speaker 2: lot going on in my life.
Speaker 1: As you know. We put in an offer for a
Speaker 1: house on the weekend. Yeah, I like to talk.
Speaker 3: Us through an offer. What does this? So you just go,
Speaker 3: I'm going to offer you this much.
Speaker 1: So we put in an offer subject to finance.
Speaker 2: So over the past like forty eight hours, it has
Speaker 2: been the craziest, biggest rush to get all of our
Speaker 2: finances in order and to like get the approval. We
Speaker 2: have a broker, so they've been kind of helping us
Speaker 2: navigate this.
Speaker 1: It's so weird. I used to hear people.
Speaker 2: Talking about all of these terms like brokers and conveyancers
Speaker 2: and all of this, and I just had no idea
Speaker 2: what anyone was talking about.
Speaker 3: And now a lot of people right now listening.
Speaker 2: Like people are probably listening being like going straight over
Speaker 2: their head, like it would go over my head. But
Speaker 2: it's like, once you actually are buying a house, all
Speaker 2: of this stuff starts to like just make sense, makes sense.
Speaker 3: I've felt it because I'm obviously.
Speaker 1: Not start to connect.
Speaker 3: And you're like, aha, I'm obviously like like looking like
Speaker 3: looking at stuff as well, and I've got a broker's number,
Speaker 3: but I'm just like, how do you even like what
Speaker 3: do you say to it? Hey, I'm looking at buying?
Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you do?
Speaker 3: Yeah? And what do they say? Congrats?
Speaker 2: They say, yeah, like let's get your finances in order,
Speaker 2: let's go to three bags and find like the best
Speaker 2: in itself like daunting. Yeah, it's so full on, Like
Speaker 2: it's so full on. Anyway, we found a house that
Speaker 2: we love. It's well, when I say a house, it's
Speaker 2: a unit, but it's.
Speaker 1: Like so cute.
Speaker 2: I said to you that we initially were looking for
Speaker 2: like a three bedroom, two bathroom. This is a two bedroom,
Speaker 2: one bathroom, so it's technically a downsize, but it's going
Speaker 2: to be our own place. So we were kind of like, well,
Speaker 2: maybe we have to downsize first, but yeah, all my
Speaker 2: fingers and toes across, I really really want them to say, yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm head over heels, like I'm like second day all
Speaker 2: in type of vibe.
Speaker 3: What you're going to do, like what you're going to renovate,
Speaker 3: where your furnish is going, and all that sort of stuff.
Speaker 1: I've mentally already moved in.
Speaker 3: So like we could get a really upset in a
Speaker 3: week or Sofie, you could get.
Speaker 2: A devastated an I've already cried over a house. I
Speaker 2: don't know if I've told the podcast that, but there
Speaker 2: was just yeah, there was this other house that we
Speaker 2: loved and a day before the auction, it's old, and
Speaker 2: we were like going to the auction and like going
Speaker 2: to bed, and.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was just devastated.
Speaker 2: So and I cried and my dad was like, that
Speaker 2: is a bit of an overreaction, and I was like
Speaker 2: I had mentally moved in, so I didn't want to mentally.
Speaker 1: Move in again.
Speaker 3: People say the house stuff when they're like, you didn't
Speaker 3: even have it, so what are you upset about?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like I manifested that I was living
Speaker 2: the dream in that house, a bed for me, and like.
Speaker 3: I didn't have it, and then partner was with the
Speaker 3: time was like, I was like, why are you upset
Speaker 3: you didn't have the job? And I was like, I
Speaker 3: was like, no, but I had it in my mind.
Speaker 3: But I was doing it in my mind. I'd woken
Speaker 3: up every day and was going to work. Do you
Speaker 3: know what I mean.
Speaker 2: I didn't technically have it, but mentally I had it. Well,
Speaker 2: it's such a thing, like it's such a big life change.
Speaker 2: Like to be honest, and I've told you this, I
Speaker 2: never thought I was going to be able to afford
Speaker 2: to buy a house ever, And it was only when
Speaker 2: our rent went up that I was like, well, my
Speaker 2: rent is now so expensive that to buy a house,
Speaker 2: it's not even that much more So that's kind of
Speaker 2: the reason why we've even been pushed into potentially buying
Speaker 2: a house if we get this one.
Speaker 3: I can see that as well. Like I've been thinking
Speaker 3: about it as well recently, and I never thought about
Speaker 3: it before either. But like now they're not actually starting
Speaker 3: to like, you know, knuckle down and say if you're
Speaker 3: like fuck, you could actually like I've never saved my
Speaker 3: whole life. Yeah, Like when I say safe, like I've
Speaker 3: never actually focused on it. Like I've just been like,
Speaker 3: you know, go out live my life, and now that
Speaker 3: I'm focusing on it much, g's like I could actually
Speaker 3: really do this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you can, and it's so exciting. If I
Speaker 2: get the unit that we've put in an offer for,
Speaker 2: are you going to try and look somewhere close to
Speaker 2: me so we can be in neighboring suburbs.
Speaker 3: This why you keep sending me or.
Speaker 2: Okay, sending that Like I know his like price range,
Speaker 2: so I keep sending him like potential like apartments in
Speaker 2: the area because I'm like, it would be so easy,
Speaker 2: like we work together, you know, we could go go
Speaker 2: for coffees.
Speaker 3: And like you know, I've been looking at him and
Speaker 3: there were some good ones. There was none that really
Speaker 3: I moved into mentally, So once I see one that
Speaker 3: I've moved into mental we might go from there. Yeah. See,
Speaker 3: but it's a nice area, so maybe you know.
Speaker 1: Fingers crossed for me, put all of like the good wishes.
Speaker 2: Into the atmosphere for me because I need all the
Speaker 2: prayers I can get.
Speaker 3: We all have our fingers and toast crossed for you.
Speaker 1: How was your weekend?
Speaker 3: Ah, the weekends? What did I get up to oh
Speaker 3: I went. So I had a nice staycation on the weekend.
Speaker 3: I was lucky enough to be put up at the Marriot,
Speaker 3: so good time.
Speaker 1: Do you know what's funny about you? Going to the Marriott?
Speaker 1: Is okay?
Speaker 2: So Matt obviously is at a hotel and you can
Speaker 2: tell from his stories that he's with someone, right, there's
Speaker 2: no tripod, there's no tripod there.
Speaker 1: There's like a girl's hand in there.
Speaker 2: And like the question marks were like coming in hot
Speaker 2: Like my dms were like, doesn't have a new girlfriend?
Speaker 2: Who's the girl that Matt's with? And I was like,
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm going to leave that to Matt
Speaker 2: to tell everyone on the podcast.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was getting a bunch as well from people
Speaker 3: asking me. But it I was actually with Jen. Me
Speaker 3: and Jen I thought, you know, what a better place
Speaker 3: to go? We haven't we actually haven't slept in this
Speaker 3: like in the same bed for like a while now.
Speaker 3: So we were like, let's just go to the hotel
Speaker 3: and see how it is, and you know, you have
Speaker 3: a nice dinner and it was a really nice time.
Speaker 3: I was the whole time. I remember I came on
Speaker 3: here and I said, last time we went away, I
Speaker 3: was like focused. I was too busy on thinking at
Speaker 3: the time was going to end in my own heads
Speaker 3: like oh fuck, like we need to do this when
Speaker 3: you do that, We've got all these plans, like we're
Speaker 3: only here for a limited time. I literally made a
Speaker 3: conscious effort when we walked in and just be like,
Speaker 3: all right, go with the flow. Whatever happens happens. I'm
Speaker 3: not gonna be stressed out about time and enjoy the moment.
Speaker 3: So I had a really nice time. We had like
Speaker 3: a nice dinner, we woke up, went into the pool,
Speaker 3: had a bath at night.
Speaker 1: It was really nice, very lovely, very romantic.
Speaker 3: It was very romance.
Speaker 2: So there's no new girlfriend on the scene or no
Speaker 2: new lady on the scene.
Speaker 3: He was with Jen, just with Jen having a nice
Speaker 3: time away, and it was very nice to have that
Speaker 3: time together. I really appreciated it having.
Speaker 1: Some quality time together.
Speaker 3: So how was you a weekend down?
Speaker 2: So obviously I've had a lot on my plate with
Speaker 2: obviously doing all the finance and putting the offer into
Speaker 2: the house, and then with putting an offer into a
Speaker 2: house means that like I'm trying to make sure my
Speaker 2: apartment's good because I'm gonna give notice to say that
Speaker 2: I'm leaving, so like doing like lots of stuff.
Speaker 1: There's a lot of our plate.
Speaker 2: We also have a special announcement coming with the podcast,
Speaker 2: so there's lots.
Speaker 1: Going on behind the scenes.
Speaker 2: So on the weekend, Michael and I were like, we
Speaker 2: literally just want to do nothing, Like we want to
Speaker 2: chill the fuck out.
Speaker 1: I don't want to be stressed at all.
Speaker 3: So good is a nothing weekend? Nothing weekend is what
Speaker 3: I want having in the last couple and it's not good.
Speaker 1: It's bliss.
Speaker 2: So we decided to do nothing, and on on Saturday
Speaker 2: night at about five pm, Michael was like, should we
Speaker 2: go to the movies? Like we don't have to like
Speaker 2: talk to anyone, we can still be anti social and
Speaker 2: just be us. And then I was like, why don't
Speaker 2: we go to the drive in movies because obviously you
Speaker 2: know you're in your car, you're in your own space
Speaker 2: driving before I think when I was like.
Speaker 1: Eighteen on like a date, very very very long time ago.
Speaker 3: It's a very common for dates. I used to go
Speaker 3: there when I was younger as well, take girls.
Speaker 1: Some days they were the drive ins are awesome, awesome.
Speaker 2: So we got there, we were seeing the Little Mermaid
Speaker 2: amazing movie, or like should I say from what I
Speaker 2: saw of it, it was an amazing movie because an
Speaker 2: hour into watching the movie, Michael tried to turn on
Speaker 2: the car and our battery was flat.
Speaker 1: Which.
Speaker 2: Was so annoying because we were like, we just want
Speaker 2: to be like incognito in the car.
Speaker 3: So the radio wasn't working anymore. The battery had died.
Speaker 2: No, so the radio was still going, so we tuned
Speaker 2: into whatever radio station the movie was playing on, and
Speaker 2: we turned the car off because we were thinking in
Speaker 2: our heads like that's going to save the power. But
Speaker 2: what you're supposed to do is keep the car ignition
Speaker 2: switched on the.
Speaker 1: Whole time, So keep the car right, keep the car running.
Speaker 3: Yeah, is that not right? Yeah it is. I think
Speaker 3: you meant to like restart it every now and then,
Speaker 3: like during the movies, because I went, we didn't do
Speaker 3: that and it battery lasted? Can't I did it did last?
Speaker 3: I think maybe you just maybe your battery was on
Speaker 3: its way out, maybe because I've had to die before
Speaker 3: when I was younger, that was in my old first car.
Speaker 2: It's just so annoying, like we just wanted to do nothing,
Speaker 2: and then like from there, we're like going to each
Speaker 2: like all the staff memories, being like our batteries died,
Speaker 2: and they're like, oh fucking these are the idiots of
Speaker 2: the night.
Speaker 3: But isn't there some like a message you there's like
Speaker 3: where I go, there's like this teenager with like a
Speaker 3: trolley walks around and it just starts like you literally
Speaker 3: just like your jump starts your car for you and
Speaker 3: go for the next one.
Speaker 2: Well funnily enough, so they gave us a little portable
Speaker 2: radio to finish the movie.
Speaker 1: But we missed like a strong like.
Speaker 2: The whole yeah, the whole middle main section of what
Speaker 2: was happening.
Speaker 1: We missed it. But the start and the end were great,
Speaker 1: but I will rewatch it.
Speaker 2: But yeah, when the credit started rolling, there was like
Speaker 2: five different cars that wouldn't start, so there was like
Speaker 2: a there was a bunch of us, Like it kind
Speaker 2: of made us feel better because we were like, we're
Speaker 2: not complete morons, but also we still are morons.
Speaker 1: And yeah, they just came along and like jumps out
Speaker 1: at everyone's car.
Speaker 2: But I was like, surely when you're buying your tickets,
Speaker 2: they could just be like just a reminder to do
Speaker 2: this and this and be careful because people's batteries die
Speaker 2: like a little PSA, a little reminder maybe.
Speaker 3: At the start when before the movie starts. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: that's probably pretty.
Speaker 2: Small, you know what I mean, instead of like having
Speaker 2: the remedy, like, let's like help people to not get
Speaker 2: to the place where they need to jump start, you know, that.
Speaker 3: Would make sense. Well, last time I went to the drivings.
Speaker 3: It's actually pretty sad. The drivings around the corner from
Speaker 3: mine are actually closing after like forty years or something.
Speaker 3: So I went there to check it out. Went to
Speaker 3: Jena and I wait a couple of weeks ago and
Speaker 3: watch The Pope's Exorcism horror horror. I love fucking horrors.
Speaker 3: And we're sitting there, we're getting comfortable. We've got the
Speaker 3: you know how they give you the radio station to
Speaker 3: tune into. Yeah, so we've tuned into the radio station.
Speaker 3: We're still trying to get comfortable sort of watching it.
Speaker 3: And I was like listening to the radio and I
Speaker 3: was like watching it, but they have and I could
Speaker 3: hear other people's radios at the same time, so I
Speaker 3: was like, what's playing on our radio? Is this like
Speaker 3: around sound? It was like really weird. I was like,
Speaker 3: what's going on? And turns out they' giving us the
Speaker 3: wrong radio station. And the moment I realized was because
Speaker 3: Twilight had been playing in it. I heard the guy go,
Speaker 3: you know when he goes your local bella or whatever
Speaker 3: he says, and I was like, what the fuck that's Twilight.
Speaker 3: And then we've been listening to Twilight, but we could
Speaker 3: sort of hear something just it was really confusing that
Speaker 3: so for something that's been running operational for so long,
Speaker 3: I mean, they have not mastered the art of the radio.
Speaker 2: I heard Twilight playing on the radio, I'd moved the
Speaker 2: car and head over to Twilight.
Speaker 3: I love Do you love Twilight?
Speaker 1: It's so good.
Speaker 3: I'm not a fan of Team Edward or a team Acob.
Speaker 3: I do like vampires probably better than where Wolf Team Edward.
Speaker 3: Spoiler for anyone who wins, Yeah, I don't know. It
Speaker 3: wasn't there a winner if you're a team you see
Speaker 3: I've ever seen Spirelin. All right, So my recommendation for
Speaker 3: the week is so my talk about nothing weekends. I
Speaker 3: walked in and my sister and her boyfriend were having
Speaker 3: a nothing weekend, a nice glass of red wine and
Speaker 3: they were doing a Paint by the Numbers, So it's
Speaker 3: from Kmart. Apparently it's really cheap for anyone that wants
Speaker 3: to get it. And you have a picture and then
Speaker 3: they give you paint and the pictures have different numbers
Speaker 3: and then it correlates with the paint color and you
Speaker 3: dip it in and you paint it. So they brought
Speaker 3: to each little do they know that it takes for
Speaker 3: ever to do just one, like it's an actual process
Speaker 3: to do it. So they gave me one. My ADHD
Speaker 3: didn't get me too far. I got like halfway quarter
Speaker 3: through and I was like, yeah, I'm done with it.
Speaker 3: I'm good. But it was very therapeutic when I did it.
Speaker 1: How big is it?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 1: Are we talking like a little a four piece of paper?
Speaker 3: Three?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: So bigger?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Bigger? Yes, around a three. It was very therapeutic.
Speaker 3: While I was doing we had like some nice music
Speaker 3: playing classical music. They were chatting to show. I was
Speaker 3: just sort of painting, cracking jokes here and there.
Speaker 1: That's such good therapy.
Speaker 3: Yes, that's my recommendation. Go out and get Paint by Numbers.
Speaker 1: Love that.
Speaker 2: I definitely will try that out. My recommendation is a
Speaker 2: recommendation I've already given, but like, I'm just loving the
Speaker 2: ultimatum on Netflix so.
Speaker 3: Much, following on from last week.
Speaker 1: So last week was it? Last week I gave that?
Speaker 2: I think I was saying band a pump rules last week,
Speaker 2: I think.
Speaker 1: But I have given the ultimatum.
Speaker 2: Already, but I thought the whole season was out, but
Speaker 2: it's not. So they're kind of like drip feeding new episodes.
Speaker 2: So they just gave us a couple more episodes. I
Speaker 2: was watching them and fuck, it's so good. And my
Speaker 2: best friend Sarah, after listening to the podcast, has given
Speaker 2: the ultimatum agoat and she's like, oh my god, it's
Speaker 2: so good, Like there's so much to talk about, so
Speaker 2: give it a watch.
Speaker 1: I would love to chat about this show with you, Matt.
Speaker 1: It's so good.
Speaker 3: It's just like, no, all right, maybe I'll go home
Speaker 3: and watch it.
Speaker 2: This one's a lesbian edition one, because there's a straight
Speaker 2: version and there's a lesbian one.
Speaker 1: So this is a lesbian one and it's just so good.
Speaker 2: So season two yeah, Funnily enough, there's actually a girl
Speaker 2: there who's in a couple and she was like, I'm
Speaker 2: a boobs girl, and I was.
Speaker 1: Like, oh my god, it's mad but in lesbian form.
Speaker 3: All Right, I'm gonna all right, I'll watch an episode
Speaker 3: because you've been nagging me to do this, so I'm
Speaker 3: going to get.
Speaker 1: On and do it.
Speaker 2: Put it in the notes and make sure you follow
Speaker 2: through because I really want to talk to you about this.
Speaker 3: Alrighty Then, okay, guys, so let's jump into our hotline.
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Speaker 1: Please leave us a message on our hot line after
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Speaker 3: So this hot line is anonymous, a.
Speaker 4: Bit of a conundrum, and I'll be your help on
Speaker 4: this month. So my birthday is coming up and my
Speaker 4: boyfriend was so sweet enough to buy me a new
Speaker 4: outfit for my party, and God, love him, love the consideration,
Speaker 4: but unfortunately it's just not for me. And he doesn't
Speaker 4: do this for me often, and he's very excited about
Speaker 4: the concept of me wearing.
Speaker 2: This outfit for my birthday, but it's just not it.
Speaker 3: So what do I do?
Speaker 4: Thank you?
Speaker 3: So much?
Speaker 1: Oh God?
Speaker 2: Oh no?
Speaker 3: Look, to start off, have you ever had a boyfriend
Speaker 3: or partner by you an outfit to it?
Speaker 1: Not that I can think of, so on honest.
Speaker 3: So on the weekend obviously, you know you're staying in
Speaker 3: a hotel room. Jenna and I were talking and I
Speaker 3: was like, you know what, I'll buy you a sexy outfit. So,
Speaker 3: because she was saying like she didn't have time to go,
Speaker 3: and I was like, well, I've got some time. So
Speaker 3: I went to sexy Land and I was having a
Speaker 3: browse around and she was like, I'm so nervous. She
Speaker 3: was like, I don't like, I don't know. She goes,
Speaker 3: I know you're what your little kinks are. She's like,
Speaker 3: there's gonna be so many straps and all this sort
Speaker 3: of stuff, and I was like, no, no, I know
Speaker 3: what you like, so I'll try to figure something out.
Speaker 3: I ended up getting her. What she said was actually
Speaker 3: she was surprised. It was quite conservative. It wasn't as
Speaker 3: slack she thought I was going to go, and I
Speaker 3: was like, no, I wanted you to feel comfortable in it.
Speaker 3: Like there's nothing worse than if, like, you get an
Speaker 3: outfit I could imagine and you're not comfortable in it
Speaker 3: and you're not going to be fully into the sex.
Speaker 3: So the moral of what I'm thinking is next time
Speaker 3: I'm going to go out there and get her something
Speaker 3: a bit more raunch.
Speaker 1: I don't even know where this stories come from. I
Speaker 1: think Matt just wanted to let us know.
Speaker 3: The partner so like that was that was perfect timing
Speaker 3: that that actually happened after this weekend.
Speaker 1: I just bought someone correct outfit.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but she seemed cool that she put full trust
Speaker 3: in me and I got her a nice Yeah.
Speaker 2: Okay, but an outfit to wear in the bedroom is
Speaker 2: a little bit different than an outfit that you have
Speaker 2: to wear to a birthday party, Like that's fucked.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So, like, has anyone ever bought you clothing that you
Speaker 2: didn't want to wear?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I would say some girlfriends have, yes.
Speaker 1: Okay, And how did you go about that?
Speaker 3: I've never hadn't forced me to wear it, so I've
Speaker 3: sort of, like, you know what I mean, been like,
Speaker 3: oh but what about this? Actually? No, to be fair,
Speaker 3: one of them was very forceful, and I think that
Speaker 3: I did wear a lot of tied gye stuff at
Speaker 3: that eraror of my life. Do you know exactly what
Speaker 3: I'm talking about there?
Speaker 1: I did know what you're talking about.
Speaker 2: Look, I kind of feel bad for this anonymous caller
Speaker 2: because his boyfriend has bought him an outfit. The boyfriend's
Speaker 2: obviously extraordinarily excited for him to wear this, and now
Speaker 2: he's like, fuck, what do I do? What does he do?
Speaker 3: I think what he does is we always say communication
Speaker 3: is key, but this will really hurt his partner. So
Speaker 3: I think that he looks at the outfit. Well, this
Speaker 3: is what I would do. Look at the outfit and
Speaker 3: see how you can like adapt it, but you can
Speaker 3: make it your own thing. Maybe you get rid of
Speaker 3: the pants and you substitute the pair of pants that
Speaker 3: make you feel comfortable, or a shirt, do you know
Speaker 3: what I mean.
Speaker 2: Look, I'm just gonna say it. If my partner bought
Speaker 2: me an outfit that I didn't like and it was
Speaker 2: for my birthday, there's just no way I would wear it.
Speaker 1: I would have to. They'd have to take the blow.
Speaker 3: You'd just tell Michael straight up.
Speaker 1: I would just say. This is what I'd say.
Speaker 2: I love you so much and I am so grateful
Speaker 2: that you have gone out of your way to buy
Speaker 2: me this, and I think it's so sweet.
Speaker 1: But I've already got it. Outfit.
Speaker 3: Finish it off with the compliment. This compliment, sandwich, You
Speaker 3: got to finish it off with another compliment.
Speaker 1: Mild life.
Speaker 2: I mean, I had a friend of mine, her boyfriend
Speaker 2: bought her this piece of jewelry and she like did
Speaker 2: not like it. And she initially said she liked it,
Speaker 2: and then eventually she had to be like, I'm sorry,
Speaker 2: like I can't wear this in everyday life, and it
Speaker 2: was returned.
Speaker 3: I think that for this is a message for guys
Speaker 3: out there, don't it's very hard to buy jewelry for
Speaker 3: a partner. I feel like.
Speaker 2: It's hard to buy clothing and jewelry and shoes for
Speaker 2: a partner because style is very specific.
Speaker 3: I know, like I didn't even realize that some girls
Speaker 3: are gold and some girls are silver jewelry and.
Speaker 1: Some girls are rose gold.
Speaker 3: Did you know that there's another you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like I'm like, I was like, okay, you just don't
Speaker 3: wear Yeah.
Speaker 2: You know, I've had an ex boyfriend buy me a
Speaker 2: gold piece of jewelry when I was wearing silver, and
Speaker 2: I was like fuming.
Speaker 1: I was like, how are this this is the way?
Speaker 1: Send it back? Get the money back for ten Yeah.
Speaker 3: I reckon a jewelry and that you sort of I
Speaker 3: don't know a better idea. Here's my oh I would
Speaker 3: do actually, i'd say, dearly beloved, Look, this is a
Speaker 3: great outfit. Maybe another time I would wear that, but
Speaker 3: I just don't. I'm not feeling it this weekend. Maybe
Speaker 3: we should go shopping together and get something together.
Speaker 2: The thing is, and this is kind of like sex, right,
Speaker 2: like in the bedroom, if they're doing something that you
Speaker 2: don't like, you have to tell them otherwise they're going
Speaker 2: to keep doing it.
Speaker 1: And like outfits, if you.
Speaker 2: Don't like the outfit, you have to put a stop
Speaker 2: to it, otherwise they could keep shopping for you.
Speaker 3: The next thing, you know, you've got a bunch of
Speaker 3: skinny like jeans with rips for the.
Speaker 2: Rest of it, you know what I mean, Like they're
Speaker 2: three seasons behind, and you're like, that's unwearable.
Speaker 3: I wonder if the boyfriend has complete bad fashion like
Speaker 3: he does as well, or you just it's just something
Speaker 3: that's not his flavor.
Speaker 2: Okaybe he's just like gone out on a limb and like, look,
Speaker 2: it's hard, right because I'm imagining myself being the boyfriend.
Speaker 1: But then again, I have good taste, so I feel
Speaker 1: like I will buy anything ship. But if the boyfriend
Speaker 1: has like made like a muck up, like it would.
Speaker 2: Be hard to hear. Sorry, I'm not gonna wear this slash.
Speaker 2: I don't like it, but also like he probably needs.
Speaker 1: To hear it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think, like I said, compliment sandwich, So I
Speaker 3: give him a compliment, tell him you don't like it,
Speaker 3: and then give him another compliment or maybe reason with
Speaker 3: him and say let's go together.
Speaker 1: The general, I love you.
Speaker 3: That as I from a guy, that would probably definitely work.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, just like, let's just.
Speaker 3: Take the mind say anything and just go and police
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