1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: It fits in and whipper wrap up of the week, 2 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: Tom She's done that before. But before we get into 3 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: the rat okay, because Ali's going to be going up 4 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:10,720 Speaker 1: against Sarah, we need to talk about parental guidance in 5 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:13,120 Speaker 1: the Fitzgerald House at the moment. Sunday Night at His Back, 6 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: seven pm on Channel nine, Alison Lane, do. 7 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 2: You know what I love about the show? And sure 8 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 2: the topics are covered, but at the same time, everybody 9 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 2: in that role as a parent believes in their mind 10 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 2: that they're doing the best job possible, Like this is 11 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 2: the number one way forward. 12 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 3: And the spoiler, right is at the end we reveal 13 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 3: that I'm actually the perfect parent. 14 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 4: And everything they're doing is wrong. 15 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 2: But you've got the title. 16 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 1: As long as you're confident, it doesn't matter what style 17 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:44,520 Speaker 1: of parenting that you have. You know what, if that's 18 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 1: the way that you want to raise your kids, that's 19 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 1: your choice. I don't think there's any right way of 20 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 1: doing it, is there? 21 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:51,959 Speaker 3: Look I don't reckon so and I reckon That's what's 22 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 3: great about the show, is it you just look at 23 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 3: all these different styles. I think most of us sit 24 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 3: there and watch them like I'm a little bit of 25 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:58,920 Speaker 3: column a. I'm a little bit of that. Sometimes I 26 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 3: do that, which I didn't do that so much, And 27 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 3: I don't think most of us have really thought about 28 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 3: it as to what type of parent we are. And 29 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:07,680 Speaker 3: I mean I'm a very different parent from one child 30 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 3: to the next, because you know, one day I like one, 31 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 3: I don't like the other, and then you know that changes. 32 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 2: You have a clear fail that stands out in your mind. 33 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 4: Where you're going to say favorite. 34 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 3: That's always anothers both those questions with yes, But what. 35 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 2: Was the moment where you went, God, I will learn 36 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 2: from that because that didn't go to plan. 37 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what sending the two year old into 38 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 3: the pool the other days we only just got a 39 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 3: pool before I put the vest on. Okay that she's 40 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 3: got no fear right, and then I'm sort of getting 41 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 3: towers and. 42 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 4: Under and it wasn't long, It wasn't long. 43 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 3: But it is that that feeling, that feeling stomach where 44 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 3: I just took my offer in the pool. 45 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: What about the free range parents who don't believe in 46 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 1: floaties and you know what, the kids can whim and 47 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: they they learned how to swim early, but they just 48 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 1: threw them in the pool and just were there with 49 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: them the whole time. 50 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 4: The two year old can swim. 51 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 3: And I actually blame the Free Ranch parents way scouting 52 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 3: nearly drowned the other day because you know, that's what 53 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 3: they showed me on the show, and I thought, I'll 54 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 3: just introduce that to my kids. 55 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:17,079 Speaker 4: No, actually, you're right, it wasn't a fail at all. 56 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 4: Let's turn this around a new narrative learning. 57 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 5: The biggest What do you reckon is the biggest learning 58 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 5: from the show for you, look. 59 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 4: For me, I reckon for my husband. 60 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:32,399 Speaker 3: I've talked about a lot of just being a lot 61 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 3: more aware and in the moment. 62 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 4: I think when we're in the momenting, that's been a 63 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 4: big thing. 64 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 3: I think when you know, especially that witching out and 65 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 3: it's all busy and I'm trying to prep for the 66 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 3: show the next day, Mike's just walked in and checking 67 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 3: work emails or whatever, just phones down, and in that 68 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 3: time when with the kids to be really really present, 69 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 3: and their behavior is so much better. 70 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 4: Witching ours not as witchy. 71 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: No, do you know what? 72 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 2: Nothing's powerful too, and we all have kids is finding 73 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 2: time to do some one on one. So it might 74 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 2: be that there's madness when there's three and it's impossible 75 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 2: to divide and conquer because of the numbers if you've 76 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 2: got three kids in my situation, but just to be 77 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,240 Speaker 2: one on one with them and go, hey, Ted, just 78 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:13,519 Speaker 2: you and I go into the park. Yeah, it's really 79 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 2: I think the growth sing you. 80 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 4: Half an hour a week if you can with just 81 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 4: one of your kids. 82 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 2: I love it. 83 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,399 Speaker 3: It is so important though, and that's what I think, 84 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 3: and we hope everyone takes from this show that just 85 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,679 Speaker 3: a to celebrate. However, your parents realize we're all doering 86 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:28,239 Speaker 3: the best and that's why actually love about all the 87 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 3: parenting styles on the show, even the ones that I 88 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 3: don't quite connect with. 89 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 4: They love their kids. They're really thinking. 90 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 3: About it and they want to churn out the most 91 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 3: you know, wonderful human. 92 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 4: Beings they can. So they're given it a crack. 93 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 1: So I mean what I think the biggest thing of 94 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: all has been the kids around strangers and which you 95 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 1: know what a great topic in the Fitzgerald House is 96 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 1: that we've been talking about it because we've been speaking 97 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: it to the boys all the time. But you know what, 98 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: to see it actually happen the puppy one in the 99 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: playground because one always loved dogs. I think that would 100 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: have all of them for sure. That really freaked me out. 101 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: So that that has been a real lesson I think 102 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 1: for all Australians, just to reinforce the kids how danger 103 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: it is to talk with strangers. 104 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 3: Ok it is, But what was really interesting about that, 105 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 3: Like our nature parents, they're the ones who lived in 106 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 3: the tent, they said, oh, we've never talked to our 107 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 3: kids about this because we don't want them to be 108 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 3: scared of adults and think that they're all dangerous. And 109 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:23,600 Speaker 3: their kids actually then hang on before I go, yeah, 110 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 3: I want to see the puppy, but I'm just going 111 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 3: to go tell the person I'm more. And that's come 112 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 3: about without them having that stranger danger conversation. I'm still 113 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 3: not okay to leave and go to orian conversation because 114 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 3: you know, my son I watched the start of the 115 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 3: show and my four year old went, oh, mummy, you 116 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 3: don't go with strangers. 117 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 4: Because they might be bad. Like, yeah, mate, unless I've 118 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 4: got a puppy. Yeah it's okay. I I think that 119 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 4: is the thing. Most kids probably would. 120 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 1: You've done this before, but you're up against Sarah. 121 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 4: Now, this is kind It's. 122 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: A tough one and Sarah's pete sorry. 123 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 4: In my hair, I thought it was slower. 124 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 3: To be clear, I would never have agreed had I 125 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 3: known it was Sarah. Because it was I thought it 126 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 3: was whipper. I mean, you've always win. That is not 127 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:09,600 Speaker 3: true to the point where I haven't even practiced the well. 128 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 3: I practiced to the wrong song because I heard this 129 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 3: and went, oh, yeah, I love this song, and then 130 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 3: I couldn't look it on my phone at the same time, 131 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 3: so I looked at I. 132 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 4: I lined up Fresh Prince of bel Air. 133 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 2: You're kidding me? 134 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 4: Yeah this Yeah. To be clear, when I practiced, it 135 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 4: didn't work. So it doesn't matter. It doesn't really matter 136 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 4: what song you put to. 137 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 1: All right, do you want Sarah to go first? Or 138 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: do you want to go first? 139 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 4: I'd like Sarah alright the way. 140 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: She's the host of Parental Guy at Sunday night, seven 141 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: pm on Channel nine. It's time for. 142 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 2: I love it when you have matter on Friday. Don't 143 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:50,799 Speaker 2: know how much Dad web ways later. 144 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: On we're doing a bit of m You can't. 145 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:01,919 Speaker 5: Touch this, so I'm going first. I know how fast 146 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 5: it is. My heart's going many lyrics. 147 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 4: Here we go. 148 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 2: You should this? 149 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 4: I did? You did don't talk to me. 150 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 5: I whoa, whoa, Allison Langton here to get schooled in 151 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,479 Speaker 5: the wrapping Kingdom. You call TV the toughest game, but 152 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 5: when ratings tank, your show remains radio. And these two 153 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 5: more substance in a toddler's poop was working with a 154 00:06:23,520 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 5: man with just one suit. 155 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 4: Stay on his good side or you'll get the boot. 156 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 5: Is that true? Still makes a good read on the 157 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 5: loop hosting the Carols with DC because he stays more 158 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 5: sober than Dickie. 159 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 4: Parental guidance your next goal. Bosses make you plug all 160 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 4: the holes less than your child. Surely that doesn't apply 161 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:47,839 Speaker 4: to cut. I'm just giving you the win. I'm just 162 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 4: walking out. 163 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 3: It was so I'm taking mine at like half pace. 164 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 5: Tom told me this morning we could do that, and 165 00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 5: I'd already written it. 166 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 2: That is massive. 167 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:04,920 Speaker 1: Flow it down, Allie, if you want to for sure, 168 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: that was too. I couldn't understand a word you were saying. 169 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 2: Massive. 170 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 4: God, this is going to take me until Sunday. 171 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 2: Okay, here we go, Here we go, here we go. 172 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: You've got this. 173 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 3: Yes, it's been quite a big ear for me. Procal 174 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 3: like it's weekend to Bernie. 175 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 4: Good to see you. 176 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 3: Face to face with his wrapptor. I'll deliver, don't worry. 177 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 3: I thought Sanitizer aka Dickie's livers money is a big, 178 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 3: big shock because he's chasing more sponsors than we do 179 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 3: on the block. He burps at home without any permission, 180 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 3: and your wife wishes your backside was aiming for net 181 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 3: zero mission In common between Fitzie and Meat that is, 182 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 3: we're both completely down knees. But I ruined time on 183 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:02,679 Speaker 3: that fourful hydro boils stuff is missing millions of goals 184 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 3: with tries to row two k's. But it doesn't matter 185 00:08:06,760 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 3: because every time he gets in it just sinks underwater. 186 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 3: And he exercised for Whipper does come with some caution 187 00:08:13,880 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 3: because it looks like you just ate the whole awesome force. 188 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 4: Sarah loves a hubby because he's such a catch. But 189 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 4: why Sarah is sending me her audition for maps Let 190 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 4: it go? Sam? 191 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 3: Gary is a good guy, and when he has that 192 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:34,680 Speaker 3: give musk on, you can barely hear him cry. 193 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 2: Gary, No, Gary Wood? Oh wow? I mean, who's gonna 194 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 2: judge this? Tommy step up? There can only be one winner. 195 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:47,679 Speaker 2: Tommy to the microphone. 196 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 4: I think you went a bit too fast there. 197 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:51,559 Speaker 3: It's allus. 198 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 2: A precision based on Speed World. 199 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 3: Ask Tom, I share the glory Sarah, because awesome sister's 200 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 3: got to stick together. 201 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 1: Well, you both did really, really well. You can go 202 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 1: check that out on the fifteen weepper Instagram account and 203 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 1: also check out Parental Guide at Sunday night at seven 204 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 1: pm on Channel nine. 205 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 4: Love you, Ali, thanks for coming, Fits and Whipper