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Speaker 1: It's the City and with her with Kate Lyki podcast

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Speaker 1: Where Did You Wake Up After a Big Nine? Out

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Speaker 1: thirteen twenty fourteen. I think drinking culture has changed now.

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Speaker 1: It's not as bad as it used to be, but

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Speaker 1: there's still I think you've got to learn.

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Speaker 2: Your lesson at some stage.

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Speaker 1: When you're a young person and you first start drinking,

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Speaker 1: there is a moment where you probably go a little

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Speaker 1: bit too far.

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Speaker 3: When it hurts you don't forget well.

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Speaker 1: For me, it was out in the front of Saint

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Speaker 1: Pats and Patrick's in the city there, right next to

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Speaker 1: where the Apple Store is now, just off George Street.

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Speaker 1: But I woke up on a Monday morning because some

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Speaker 1: Pats used to go off on a Sunday night.

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Speaker 2: I used to dominate the dance.

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Speaker 1: Floor there, and unfortunately I thought i'd have a little

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Speaker 1: kit before I went home, and I was woken by

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Speaker 1: a businessman. Okay, it's Monday morning, mane, it's quite busy

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Speaker 1: at here. I'd get up and jump into that cab

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Speaker 1: over there.

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Speaker 3: Don't you one of the recruits for the Sydney Swans.

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Speaker 2: I'll let them know it's happened to a Gold Coast trader.

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Speaker 2: You have listened to this.

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Speaker 4: Imagine waking here a sky high slumber on the edge

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Speaker 4: concrete ballast at the top of a thirty three story tower, and.

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Speaker 5: Then blacked out and then broke up at the top

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Speaker 5: of the train.

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Speaker 4: A night at the casino ending with a twenty three

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Speaker 4: year old gambling with his life at the top of a.

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Speaker 2: Crane at the top of a crane.

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Speaker 1: Ooh, thirty three stores stories high. The next morning, right

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Speaker 1: the workers started. They didn't know he was there, so

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Speaker 1: they'd already started work on the crane before they found him.

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Speaker 4: Work started here at five point thirty this morning, the

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Speaker 4: crane operating for two hours before anyone even knew there

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Speaker 4: was someone asleep up there. Once they realized, they turned

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Speaker 4: the crane so if he did fall, it would be

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Speaker 4: ten meters not one hundred.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's very kind of that's a good effort. They

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Speaker 3: then hung him from a cable and used him as

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Speaker 3: a wrecking ball to knock down an apartment block.

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Speaker 1: They finally caught up with Kegan Hi Kegan Verho, a

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Speaker 1: Gold Coast tradey.

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Speaker 2: This is what he had to say.

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Speaker 4: Sparky says he withdrew cash seven times from an ATM

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Speaker 4: that night.

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Speaker 2: Not once was anyone like, hey, are you okay?

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Speaker 4: He is now self banned from the casino, and he

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Speaker 4: Hope's others see this terrifying image as their wake up call.

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Speaker 3: There's the phone.

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Speaker 2: Job self banned?

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Speaker 3: When did you put a self burn on yourself the casino?

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Speaker 3: It's fine with you coming in, but you've had to

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Speaker 3: sit your self down, look into the mirror and go

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Speaker 3: self banned.

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Speaker 2: Put a self ban on myself for two weeks. I'll

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Speaker 2: be back at JUPI. It's very very soon.

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Speaker 3: Who's going to regulate that.

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Speaker 2: One fits in with her?

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Speaker 5: With cap Ridgie podcast.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about at first, so be so on. There's

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Speaker 1: a few couples that have gone. I don't know names.

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Speaker 1: They're gone, they're over. They did well to stick around

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Speaker 1: this long, to be honest with you, because we all

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Speaker 1: know that after the wedding, you can tell straight away

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Speaker 1: that they're not going to stick together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to focus on he knows, Oh jaded dog?

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Speaker 2: It is? It is.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's just unbelievable that people like sign up

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Speaker 1: to this and then and then afterwards get really angry

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Speaker 1: when they're edited wrong on the show.

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Speaker 2: You know exactly what they're going to do.

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Speaker 1: I want to focus on a lovely couple, though the

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Speaker 1: older couple. Fifty seven year old Marina went on the

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Speaker 1: show and she was aligned with Tony, who's fifty three

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Speaker 1: years of age. I mean, Tony wore the they put

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Speaker 1: up next to each other. Tony wore this suit the

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Speaker 1: other night to the dinner party that had roses all

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Speaker 1: over it. And it was the same suit that Timothy

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Speaker 1: Challomay wore to an awards ceremony.

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Speaker 3: You also got married in the Marone velvet or the

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Speaker 3: burgundy velvet, you might say.

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Speaker 2: Fits.

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Speaker 3: He looked like a magician on the night, Tony, and

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Speaker 3: that says he're in brackets too. They're having some.

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Speaker 1: Issues, yes, well they did at the start, right, and

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Speaker 1: then they agreed.

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Speaker 2: Marina sort of said, look, there's a couple of.

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Speaker 1: Things that I have to change, and one of them

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Speaker 1: is when I talk to you, I've got to stop

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Speaker 1: pointing at you all the time. And then she said,

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Speaker 1: let's try to make this work. And they really put

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Speaker 1: in the heart yards, which is great. So at the

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Speaker 1: commitment ceremony last night, when it was time to sit

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Speaker 1: down just to see how the new relationship was going,

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Speaker 1: Marina Tony said I'm having a great time, and I'm

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Speaker 1: thinking I think it's going really really well. And Marina

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Speaker 1: just had one thing that she had to point out

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Speaker 1: that she wasn't enjoying in the relationship.

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Speaker 2: Have a listen to this.

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Speaker 5: I want him to be a gentleman. But of Austin,

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Speaker 5: do not fist putney and he still does it. Of

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Speaker 5: asting to stop headlocking me and he still doesn't.

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Speaker 3: What she's not twice year old son?

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Speaker 6: What a headlock as in like Wrestling Federation half Nelson did.

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Speaker 3: It puts a woman in a headlock.

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Speaker 1: It's a proper hit as a bit of a come on,

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Speaker 1: let's go, let's go out for a romantic I've got.

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Speaker 3: Your beauty annoying? Would that be not.

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Speaker 6: To There's a time and place if you know what.

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Speaker 6: I'm exciting boys, but not like that.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but even the this bump is a cold moment

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Speaker 3: between two people, especially when it's meant to be your wife.

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Speaker 2: Thirteen twenty four ten.

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Speaker 1: What is the immature thing that your partner does for

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Speaker 1: you at home that you're a bit over because the

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Speaker 1: fist pump as well?

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Speaker 2: Like I mean, honestly, like if you've you know, we've

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Speaker 2: just dropped the kids off at the school. Fist pump

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Speaker 2: gat effort. You're a legend. Yeah, it's just it's cheesy.

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Speaker 6: Can I can I add something to this? I think

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Speaker 6: it's actually a break up a ball offense.

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Speaker 3: Do you really think? Yeah, it's a true reflection.

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Speaker 6: It's cold, Yeah, just cold, only if only if you

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Speaker 6: don't like the fist bumps.

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Speaker 3: Some people might.

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Speaker 6: But if you say don't do that and they keep

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Speaker 6: doing it, see you pack your bags.

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Speaker 3: Not to mention the headlock. I mean it's been three hours.

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Speaker 3: If you can just loosen the grip a bit, that'd

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Speaker 3: be great.

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Speaker 6: And can I add to that? My personal vendetta against

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Speaker 6: people that's every time you're yawning stick.

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Speaker 3: Their finger, honestly, is that.

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Speaker 6: If you're, if you're, if you know me, you get

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Speaker 6: one chance to do that, that's it, And then I

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Speaker 6: get one chance to say, you do that again, and

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Speaker 6: I'm deleting your number, and then when it happens again,

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Speaker 6: I forget you as quickly as I do the people

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Speaker 6: that have left the Marredith person experiment.

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Speaker 1: I feel like this phoner is directed at the wives

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Speaker 1: out there, because men are the immature ones. But ladies,

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Speaker 1: what does your man do at home. Is it a

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Speaker 1: fist palm? Is it a headlock? What's the little bit?

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Speaker 3: Is it a Dutch.

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Speaker 2: Michelle's giving us to kill? Michelle? What do you do

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Speaker 2: to your partner? That's a little bit immature.

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Speaker 5: I've got to love the old jump scare. And it's

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Speaker 5: not only the partner. I do it to the kids.

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Speaker 2: You do it hilarious?

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Speaker 5: Yep.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what the jump scary is the best? Michelle?

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Speaker 5: I'm five foot nothing, my husband's six and a half

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Speaker 5: foot and the kids are taller than I am as well,

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Speaker 5: so I'm really not in their line of sight. And

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Speaker 5: it makes it so easy to hide behind a covered

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Speaker 5: door or to hide behind the kits encounter, and especially

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Speaker 5: when they've got cups of drinks in their hands, trying

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Speaker 5: to care about the best.

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Speaker 3: It's so worse the valuable Michelle, are you filming these like?

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Speaker 3: Have you got your phone out and making sure that

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Speaker 3: you capture the reactions to.

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Speaker 5: I really should because it is so rare.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we need to. We need a montage from you

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Speaker 3: by the end of the week. Place challenge, miss thank.

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Speaker 2: You, Michelle? Can I ask as well?

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Speaker 1: Because whippers very easy, easily scared, like you just have

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Speaker 1: to walk around a corner and he will jump back

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Speaker 1: like a full foot.

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Speaker 2: Is your husband the same yeah?

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Speaker 5: Here, which makes it even funny because I can literally

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Speaker 5: walk out of the room before him and then just

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Speaker 5: hide behind the door so unaware of the fact I'm

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Speaker 5: about town him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he feels the back of his pants.

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