1 00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:02,200 Speaker 1: We're not trumpies. 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 2: Oh my god, no, no, no, no Trump. I'll throw 3 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:12,880 Speaker 2: Trump over a fucking wall. Hello, welcome back to hear 4 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 2: me out. I'm your host, Easy Armatage, and I am 5 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:20,600 Speaker 2: in a not so good food. Last time we recorded Blake, 6 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 2: it was here with me. Hello. Hello. The whole first 7 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 2: half of the episode, sadly we didn't get Blake's mike, 8 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 2: and like it was actually probably one of my favorite 9 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: intros we've done in a while. 10 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: I felt really comfortable, like almost too comfortable. 11 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 2: It was we were angry, I had some stuff, but 12 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 2: you know what, I'm actually having a bit of a 13 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 2: shitty day. So the first half of this app is 14 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:45,199 Speaker 2: going to be me unfiltered, quite honest, quite upset. But 15 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 2: we're going to try and redo some of the things 16 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 2: that we spoke. 17 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 1: About, recreate the magic. 18 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 2: Recreate the magic, which isn't always easy. But I just 19 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 2: want you to know of it does sound ever so 20 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,959 Speaker 2: slightly disconjoined? Was that the right word. 21 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: I think today? 22 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not. I'm not in the mood, so it's 23 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 2: not the right word. Keep it to yourself. But if 24 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 2: it does sound slightly disconnected between the first half and 25 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 2: the second, that's. 26 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,479 Speaker 1: Why so, and I'm going to try my very fucking 27 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 1: best to make it so. 28 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 2: Be patient, maybe to get the vibes going. We get 29 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 2: straight into a little update on the summer. I ten, 30 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:26,199 Speaker 2: and because I'm in a bad mood, I'm really gonna 31 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 2: just take all my anger out on Belly this week. 32 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I feel like we're kind of nice to it. 33 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're nice to it yesterday and today we're not 34 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 2: going to be so nice. Basically, this is spoilers for 35 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 2: anyone who hasn't seen it, So if you have not, 36 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 2: if you're not up to date, episode eight is what 37 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 2: we'll be talking about when this comes out. Episode nine 38 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 2: will be coming out. I want to change the date 39 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 2: my podcast releases so I can give you weekly the summer. 40 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 2: I turn pretty updates that aren't like a week behind. 41 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 2: But basically, Belly is getting on a plane to Paris. 42 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 2: She sees Conrad and I know that fucking bitch is 43 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 2: not going to give me what I want and turn 44 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 2: around and look at him. She is going to turn 45 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 2: away and with that plane, and I hate her for it. 46 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 2: All my angers going towards Bellie. 47 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 1: I think she'll entertain it for a little moment, but 48 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:10,959 Speaker 1: we know she likes a danglar carrot, make us think 49 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: she's finally going to do it. 50 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:13,919 Speaker 2: She's finally gonna come to her senses and walk towards 51 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 2: the guy and go, hey, Conrad, I didn't get married, 52 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 2: letting you know I'm not married, and I'm going to Paris. 53 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, see, oh, but I know that woman is 54 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 2: going to gough. Let me just go find myself in Paris, 55 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 2: and she's going to turn away. And all I can 56 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 2: hope and pray for is that Conrad sees her before 57 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 2: she gets on the plane. 58 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: It's going to be like this little monologue in her 59 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: head and she's like, it's time to choose me, like. 60 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 2: I'm choosing Summer. We were saying last week that we 61 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 2: will allow Jenny Hahn, the writer and who she's directing it, 62 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 2: to give us a twenty minute Max Paris montage No more, 63 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 2: no more. If I wanted to see someone in Paris, 64 00:02:57,000 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 2: I would watch Emily in Paris. I need it to 65 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 2: be quick, quick, little bits and pieces, and then I 66 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 2: want to see Conrad's letter. 67 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: Coming because we saw Paris coming. We've known about this. 68 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 1: Why Paris, Like. 69 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 2: I know she's on Paris. I don't need to see it. 70 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:15,519 Speaker 2: Emily has Emily's got Paris covered, So I just want 71 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 2: it to be a montage. I'm concerned it's going to 72 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 2: be a whole episode on Paris. No, Like, okay, I'm 73 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 2: really worried that the letter from Conrad comes to at 74 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 2: the end of next episode, and then it's like a 75 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 2: whole episode of Paris, like Meeting finding Herself, a whole 76 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 2: episode of Bellie finding herself in Paris. Like, I actually 77 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 2: don't care for that. 78 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: No, and then they're going to introduce new characters, new friends. 79 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 2: I love interest. I don't give a fuck. 80 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: We have committed three years to this and. 81 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 2: Were only I need at least I need that. Yeah, 82 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 2: I need more than just two episodes. A little French 83 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 2: painter that like gives her meets her at a cafe 84 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 2: and sits down. I can't, I don't care. I don't. 85 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: I'm not even going to get into like how she 86 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: meets this new guy, but she's still gonna like walk 87 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: past him on the street. He'll like accidentally bump into her. 88 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, well she's I reckon. She's going to be sitting 89 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 2: staring off into the fucking distance at some Parisian cafe, 90 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 2: drinking a fucking latte, and this guy is gonna go hello, 91 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 2: like ella, f Karen, how do you say milady or something? 92 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 2: And sit down? And then she's anyway, and she's going 93 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 2: to entertain it for far too long for my liking, 94 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 2: and that's gonna ruin the whole episode. So basically, we're 95 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 2: going into episode nine with a bad vibe, and. 96 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: The vibes are always bad because that that girl. 97 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:46,280 Speaker 2: That girl pushes my buttons in every way, shape or form, 98 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 2: like the summer that belly finds no one and ends 99 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,679 Speaker 2: up alone, Like that's what I want, give me, Conrad, 100 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 2: But that's all I feel like we need to touch on. 101 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 2: I'm just infuriated by her. And oh my god, I 102 00:04:58,240 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 2: get to watch your time. 103 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:00,679 Speaker 1: I know we're. 104 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 2: Recording this on the night is it? Does it come 105 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 2: out on Wednesday? 106 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 1: Eight pm? Wednesdays? Oh? Eight PM's crazy? Why eight pm? 107 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: I was actually watching nine pm. 108 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 2: So annoying, Like I'm lucky, I've got a bed late. 109 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 1: Literally, Nine Perfect Strangers was on Prime as well, and 110 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: they released eight pm every Thursday. Sounds weird. Give me midnight. 111 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 2: Midnights like Wednesday night midnight, Like yeah, give me drop 112 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 2: it in the morning. So I can watch it whenever 113 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 2: I have fucking time droughout the day. No. 114 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 1: No. 115 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 2: Finding out that it's coming out tonight has changed my 116 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 2: dinner plans because initially I was going to make a 117 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 2: MALEI spoon Swedish meeple some shit that was good for 118 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,719 Speaker 2: my body, not good for my soul. And now I 119 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 2: am going to make home made pizza so I can 120 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:44,679 Speaker 2: really enjoy the episode while eating something. 121 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: I like, I feel like you did this last episode 122 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 1: as well. Yes, it's like, no, it's a week you're allowed. 123 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 2: To stay the summer. I done pretty night is enjoy 124 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 2: yourself night. 125 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, but bearing in mind you can eat pizza any 126 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: day of the week. 127 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 2: I can, and I do once. I accidentally I ate 128 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 2: it two days ago. I'm not like it's like a 129 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:04,239 Speaker 2: weekly treat for me. This is a regular. 130 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 1: When I moved to Melbourne, it was like a week 131 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 1: where I had to live it to of friends in 132 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: Sydney as I was finishing off my time in Sydney 133 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: and I ordered a pizza one and I was like, Oh, 134 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 1: you're not doing bad. This is a third pizza three 135 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 1: nights in a row. And I was like uh, and 136 00:06:19,320 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 1: it literally clicked. I was like don't call that out. 137 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 2: No, you don't ever call out people's eating habits. 138 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: I have. 139 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:26,919 Speaker 2: I've done it on like it's like a protein base, 140 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 2: so like I don't feel is like, oh, I'm reading 141 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 2: pizza like every second day. Yeah, and like if you 142 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 2: do do that, go you go crazy. But like I 143 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:37,839 Speaker 2: need to somewhat not counteract all the exercise I do 144 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 2: by ingesting that level of carbs every night. AnyWho, we 145 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 2: were also talking on New Zealand. I am going to 146 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 2: New Zealand next week, next Tuesday, so it's in less 147 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,679 Speaker 2: than a week now. This comes out tomorrow. Like I said, 148 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:58,719 Speaker 2: I need some serious fucking advice. I'm going for Snowmachine 149 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 2: the festival, which which is like you ski during the 150 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 2: day and then there's like stages up the mountain, and 151 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 2: then at night you go home get ready, and then 152 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 2: there's we're saying at a hotel, and then there's like after 153 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 2: parties and events and everything, and it'll be so much fun. 154 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 2: I can't wait. What the fuck do I wear? So 155 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 2: during the day day stages, obviously I'll be in my 156 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 2: snow what I'm skiing, and you know that's fine. Am 157 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 2: I wearing jeans? Am I with thermals under it? Am 158 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 2: I wearing tracksuits to people wear trend's coats or is 159 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 2: it more like bombers and puffer jackets? Vibe like how dressy? 160 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 2: What type of shoes am I wearing? Am I wearing 161 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 2: snow boots? Am I wearing normal boots not high heel boots? 162 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 2: I'm not stupid, I'm wearing runners. What do I do? 163 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: I'm panicked. I've never been in the snow or stayed. 164 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 2: There, right, So he's like, what are you going to do? 165 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: And I run very cold, Like yeah, I said this yesterday, 166 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 1: I say it again. I wear animals every day. 167 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 2: It's crazy, that's crazy behaving. I run hot, but like, 168 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 2: I'll be in the snow, so I can't be like, yeah, 169 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 2: I guess. 170 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 1: The cracks of what I'm saying. If I'm in the snow, 171 00:07:58,560 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to look good. 172 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I am. Yeah, but I also want to 173 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 2: fit in and I don't want to be like wearing 174 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 2: a fucking leather trench coat and everyone's like, what the 175 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 2: fuck is wrong with that? 176 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: It's a different type of trip. 177 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's definitely more casual, and I think I'm happy 178 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 2: for that, Like it'll be warm, cozy, but it's like 179 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 2: when you're walking around at night going home, apparently it's 180 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 2: like four degrees, but then you're in these bars and 181 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 2: stuff where it's going to be really hot, So I'm like, 182 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 2: what level of clothing do I wear? 183 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: So true, it's my only reference point is like movies. 184 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: But for example, move the club and the pups that 185 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 1: you go to in the snow they all actually a fireplace, and. 186 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't think there's a bit of American. 187 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 2: I think it's very American, but I think my question 188 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 2: is are people kind of stiffing the cold for those 189 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:45,320 Speaker 2: walks home and more dressing for like the temperature that 190 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 2: will be in the bars. I've tried to do research, 191 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 2: but I'm surprisingly not finding many snow machine outfits on tiptop, 192 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 2: Like I don't know why. It's not like BTV and 193 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 2: stuff where people like post all their outfits. Like people 194 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 2: are not doing any of that. So I don't even 195 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,599 Speaker 2: really know what's going on. So if anyone's going to 196 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:03,200 Speaker 2: be there, great, say hi, come find me, but I 197 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 2: really need to know what you're wearing. 198 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 1: That's my in advance. 199 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, we've got like two New Zealand listeners out there, so. 200 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 1: Please, we re recorded that part for you. 201 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 2: You know, literally, I've re recorded because I fucking need advice. 202 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:21,960 Speaker 2: So if you're listening to it, text me asap, send 203 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 2: me photos. I we'll know what people have worn on previously. 204 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 2: Is I just need to know what the vibe is 205 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:27,199 Speaker 2: because I'm really, really, really scared and they just want 206 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 2: to look cute. Okay, guys, so we're going to get 207 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 2: into our weekly hear me out. My hear me out? 208 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 2: Is hear me out? Men should not have a shirtless 209 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 2: selfie as their first photo on a dating profile ever, 210 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 2: and second part part two, if there is any shirtless 211 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 2: gym selfie in the dating profile, it's also an immediate no. 212 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 2: I don't care what positioning it's at. Agreed, Yeah, I 213 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 2: don't mind. I like, quite frankly a shirtless photo within 214 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 2: a dating profile. But I think that's to be said 215 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 2: about people that put it first. Like if I put 216 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 2: a photo in my bikini's first time on a dating profile, 217 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 2: I feel like it's just like not necessarily, it doesn't 218 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 2: need to be first. That's very much like look at me, 219 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:09,680 Speaker 2: look at my body. 220 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 1: No, And it's all about the user experience, like you 221 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 1: want to take them on a little bit of a journey. 222 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:17,680 Speaker 1: So yeah, you want almost like your second best photos 223 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 1: your first. 224 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:21,439 Speaker 2: Really, I like, because you don't want to see, oh wow, 225 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 2: they look so hot and then be like, yeah, no 226 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 2: they're not, and they're like, oh I'm intrigued. Oh whole 227 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 2: they're really hot. Look at them in a suit. All 228 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 2: they've got friends, personality, drinking bars, like drinking stuf relevant, 229 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 2: but it's in like they're just like enjoying themselves with 230 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 2: some friends. And then maybe the fourth photo could be 231 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 2: a nice photo of you, like on a beach with 232 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 2: your friends or bending down fucking making sound castles. I 233 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 2: don't care. Do not take a shirtless mirror selfie or 234 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 2: to know? 235 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: No? 236 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 2: And I think that's across the board for a lot 237 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 2: of females. 238 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 1: But the thing is, if you're actually swiping through and 239 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 1: you do come to a shirtless photo after seeing really 240 00:10:57,120 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 1: nice ones, after being like, oh I'm interested. That amazing, it's. 241 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:03,679 Speaker 2: A little like plus yeah, But if it's taken yourself 242 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 2: in a mirror, it's a no. 243 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 1: You're not writing on the abs. Yeah, you're writing on 244 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 1: the potential and the app Yess how amazing is that? 245 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? And I do actually really think that Boys Boys 246 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 2: prompts on Hinge is actually something I pay a lot 247 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 2: of attention to if there's personality, definitely, like if people 248 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 2: go what's a green flag? I look out for red flags, 249 00:11:25,920 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 2: like babe, find some new material. 250 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: I would almost argue the prompts are almost just as. 251 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 2: They really are, because if I see a really good 252 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:37,079 Speaker 2: looking guy, but I look at their prompts and they've 253 00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 2: got those basic stocks downard answers like what's something I 254 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:43,359 Speaker 2: don't like pineapple and pizza, I'm like, you have no personality, 255 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 2: and I'm not going to say yes, like shut out, 256 00:11:45,720 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 2: not to say my prompts are fucking amazing, Like I 257 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:48,840 Speaker 2: don't even know. 258 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 1: But it needs to signal. It's like how much you 259 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 1: speak as well, because obviously I'm not on dating apps anymore, 260 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: but when I was, if I would see a guy 261 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 1: with like one word for his prompts, I'm like, okay, 262 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 1: so I'm about to match to a fucking hard. 263 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like there's no point, like I'm going to be 264 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 2: matching to a wall, Like we're going to struggle with 265 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 2: this conversation. It's gonna get nowhere, we're gonna end up 266 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:10,080 Speaker 2: not talking again, Like there's no point. I just won't 267 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:10,320 Speaker 2: do it. 268 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 1: It's a hard part. 269 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:18,319 Speaker 2: But what's my typical sunday gym and walk? No? Like, great, 270 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 2: if you go to the gym, absolutely, like people don't 271 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 2: work on themselves, that's amazing, But like people, a lot 272 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:26,319 Speaker 2: of guys actually make it quite a lot of their 273 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:29,680 Speaker 2: profile that they're like healthy and fit. Like that's really 274 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 2: good on you, but you now seem boring to me, 275 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 2: And bear in mind there is a lot of very 276 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 2: non boring people that work out. But it's like, if 277 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 2: you make it your whole fucking dating profile, I'm like, 278 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 2: what the fuck's the point and actions? 279 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: Honey, just show us that you're fit. 280 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, great, show me a little shirtless fucking photo of 281 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 2: you by the pool with your mate. I would love 282 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 2: to see it, but I don't need to hear the 283 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:53,199 Speaker 2: your typical sunday is the gym? No, because I don't 284 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 2: want to wake up on a Sunday and you'd be like, bye, girl, 285 00:12:56,080 --> 00:13:00,839 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go what man think I was a 286 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 2: fine girl. 287 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: Queen, So let's hope not. 288 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's have that or they're probably on the wrong 289 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:13,840 Speaker 2: app grinder. 290 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 1: Probably one of my actions of your axes but. 291 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 2: I just think, yeah, if you've got shirtless gym photos 292 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 2: on your dating profile, delinte it. Or if you have 293 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 2: a shirtless photo, first move it down. 294 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 1: So agreed. So I have a different hime out this week. 295 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:33,719 Speaker 1: Yes please, I actually used a different. 296 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 2: One, but we need to change it up. All. 297 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 1: Okay, this one's a bit more personal to me. 298 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 2: We're like angry at the world right now. Like I know, guys, 299 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 2: we love you like whol we angry. We're like, I 300 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 2: used a different one last week, but it's like, these 301 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 2: guys did not do this to us. Sorry. 302 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:50,960 Speaker 1: So yeah, if you were a regular at a cafe, 303 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 1: the barista should not make that clear or make it 304 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 1: obvious to you. 305 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 2: You reckon. So I think there's something nice in people 306 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 2: remembering what you. 307 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 1: Get, I know, and there's a way to go about it. 308 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 2: Okay, give me an example. 309 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: I have a new coffee shop in Richmond and it 310 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 1: is my Saturday joy to the point now I do 311 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:13,319 Speaker 1: go twice today. I'm like, okay, the first one hit, 312 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 1: let's go back for round two. I went back for 313 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: the second time on Saturday. 314 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 2: Is that the one around this corner? Well really is. 315 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 1: I'm weirdly in love with her. Yeah, it's crazy, and 316 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:25,280 Speaker 1: the woman just appears from under the counter and she's like, 317 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: you're back. 318 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:31,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, don't make me feel stupid. You're getting coffee, not 319 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 2: fucking pizza. I think it's different if I'm a regular, 320 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 2: like uber Hits Order or something, and then I sometimes 321 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 2: I have gotten a message from people to work at those. 322 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 2: I like, you get that past a lot. Yeah, I do, 323 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 2: I do. It's not yeah, I don't think there's I've 324 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 2: never been a regular at a coffee shop because I 325 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 2: just make coffees at home like someone intends to get 326 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 2: them out. But I definitely have been regulars at bars, 327 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 2: and I actually quite enjoy it because they always give 328 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 2: me free drinks. 329 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 1: This is great. You can become royalty there and as 330 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 1: can you at a cat. 331 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 2: I was fucking no. I I'll never say that I 332 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 2: was royalty. But there was a bar, my favorite bar 333 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 2: in the fucking world. I'm actually not going to tell 334 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 2: you guys, because last time I did that now I 335 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:18,240 Speaker 2: can't even get a resume. But my favorite bar I 336 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:19,880 Speaker 2: used to go to all the time. They would like 337 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 2: move people, they had like a lot. It wasn't because 338 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 2: of social media or anything. It was just because I 339 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 2: went there so much. I had some of some friends 340 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 2: that were similar, like they just knew them and would 341 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 2: always help us therefore. 342 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 1: Get tables, so you kept them afloat. 343 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they'd like full like move people off the 344 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 2: table sometimes. And I fucking loved it, Like I could 345 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 2: go there whenever, and I went there fucking three times 346 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 2: a week, like if I was ever getting drinks before anything, 347 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 2: that was where I was going. 348 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. 349 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 2: I woke up the other day, I'm out in front 350 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 2: the chit goes, can I have your idea? I'm like, 351 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:50,560 Speaker 2: excuse me, like I hadn't seen it before, and obviously 352 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 2: now they're checking id's that's fine whatever, Like I didn't mind. 353 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 2: But then there's the guy that was always helping me. 354 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 2: It doesn't work there anymore. Now I can never get 355 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 2: a table, and I'm so sad because I'm like, that 356 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 2: was my favorite bar right now I don't have one. 357 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 1: You're back to the bottom line. 358 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 2: I'm back to the bottom of the barrel. And I'm like, 359 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 2: I actually put in grunt work to get that status there. 360 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 2: I drank so much at your permoise and you're not 361 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 2: giving me a table, And. 362 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 1: It does go beyond just buy like I put. 363 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 2: On and I knew all the stuff, Like I like, 364 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 2: like I didn't know all the stuff. I just like 365 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 2: I was always there and I always bring people there, 366 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 2: and I'm like, I loved the vibe and the energy there, 367 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 2: and now I'm like, I actually can't get a table there, 368 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 2: and I'm like, that's fine, Like I'm not It's what 369 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 2: I believe me when I say I do not mean 370 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 2: this in any way that it's like I have an 371 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 2: Instagram following and that's why they gave me a table. 372 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 2: It was more just that I went there so much 373 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 2: that I knew some people there and they would always 374 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 2: help me get the table because like they knew me. 375 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:46,400 Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't think he works there anymore. And 376 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 2: now they always ask for my idea and they make 377 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 2: me put my name down and I'm like, so, i 378 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 2: haven't been there in like four weeks now, and I'm 379 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 2: planning on going tomorrow, okay with Cara and Silk. And 380 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 2: by the time this comes out, some of you will 381 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 2: be listening fucking pray for me that I'm sitting at 382 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 2: that bar with a fucking wine in my hand, because otherwise, actually, otherwise, 383 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 2: what what do I can to do? 384 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 1: I'll just fucking drink on my bedroom. 385 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 2: Anything to give. We'll see how we go, but I'll 386 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:19,920 Speaker 2: update you on whether I can get a table. It's 387 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 2: just like the problem with the places I end up 388 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 2: always liking is that you can't book. If I could book, great, 389 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 2: there would be no fucking issue. But I can't book 390 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:30,439 Speaker 2: at this place. So it's like you just kind of 391 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 2: have to hope and pray. But it's going to be 392 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 2: a Thursday tomorrow, so I'm like, maybe I can go 393 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:36,399 Speaker 2: sit down, make some connections with the new staff and 394 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 2: build up my report again. 395 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 1: And before we get into advice, yeah, lad's finish on 396 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 1: a beautiful listener. Hear me out and it's a couples 397 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 1: that post a lot together. Something seems sus they're not happy. 398 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 1: They're not. 399 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 2: I actually really agree with you. I think it also, however, 400 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:57,680 Speaker 2: plays across in two people. I think people that feel 401 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 2: the need to regularly post saying how happen they are 402 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 2: there's something going on beyond the surface, Like I almost 403 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 2: think it's a way to brag, but it's only really 404 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 2: benefiting them because we're all like, do you need to 405 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:11,120 Speaker 2: tell us you're happy every five minutes? If you actually are. 406 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:14,200 Speaker 2: It's different going like I've hit a really good spot 407 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 2: in my life, I'm feeling really good and leaving it 408 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 2: at that. But if you need to post multiple times 409 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 2: a fucking week saying that your life's incredible now, it's like, 410 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:22,679 Speaker 2: are you actually fucking happy? Because why do you need 411 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 2: to tell us? It annoys me And I think it's couples. 412 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:28,040 Speaker 1: Of the same. Yeah. I think it's a big reassurance thing, 413 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:30,720 Speaker 1: especially for like couples, and it always seems like there's 414 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 1: one in the partnership that is like lasting so much more. 415 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:36,639 Speaker 1: I was saying to you that I've been with my 416 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:39,159 Speaker 1: boyfriend for almost four years now and he's made it 417 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:41,919 Speaker 1: on like one of myne of your clothes, Yeah, and 418 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 1: like one of my girlfriends was like, girl, you're acting 419 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:46,600 Speaker 1: like you're fucking single. Yeah. No, I'm just not truthfully 420 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 1: that happy with any of the photos we have. Yeah, 421 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:51,159 Speaker 1: And it's not necessary, No, But I've never felt like 422 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:53,760 Speaker 1: I'm missing out on anything not sharing him. 423 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. Bear in mind, though, like people posting their partner 424 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 2: is not an issue at any means. I think there's 425 00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 2: a certain way that they post it, which I think 426 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 2: most of you listening will probably understand. I don't really 427 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:04,399 Speaker 2: know how to describe it, but you can kind of 428 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 2: just see. 429 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:07,119 Speaker 1: I can describe it like if you're. 430 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:08,800 Speaker 2: Going to an event and you're posting your partner. Great, 431 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:11,120 Speaker 2: But it's like there's a certain I think it's more tiktoks, 432 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 2: i'd say, than Instagra. 433 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:16,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, or the anniversary one. It's like, dear Joe, we 434 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:21,200 Speaker 1: traveled mountains together. Yeah, speaks with Truss. 435 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 2: Like, what are you talking about? 436 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:25,320 Speaker 1: We're not across your fucking shit. 437 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 2: But now we know you've had some troughs, so tell 438 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:31,639 Speaker 2: us you're in one now. Yeah. I think I wonder 439 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 2: whether there's someone like, for example, so Sofi doofha. I 440 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:37,879 Speaker 2: think she obviously has done a really good job at 441 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:40,120 Speaker 2: keeping a new relationship quite private, and I think that's 442 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:45,440 Speaker 2: completely fair enough and understandable considering the amount of public 443 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:46,200 Speaker 2: opinion that. 444 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 1: Her last time just interest. 445 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I completely understand it, and I really I 446 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 2: do respect it. I don't I'm not saying that people 447 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:54,400 Speaker 2: that post their partners it's a bad thing by any means. 448 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:56,960 Speaker 2: I wonder I'm on sure as to what I will 449 00:19:57,000 --> 00:20:00,679 Speaker 2: do with my next relationship and whether I'll be posting 450 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 2: my partner. But I definitely like, my whole intention is 451 00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:06,000 Speaker 2: to have a partner that doesn't have anything to do 452 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 2: with social media, Like it's happy to maybe be in 453 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 2: mine or but I want them to have like their 454 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 2: own job, their own career, and not like start. You know, 455 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:17,199 Speaker 2: sometimes partners can gain followings due to their partners, you 456 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:19,120 Speaker 2: know what I mean, and then start getting their own 457 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 2: brand deals. Obviously, that's whatever anyone wants to do. Like 458 00:20:22,160 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 2: I'm not judging anyone. I'm more saying what I would want. 459 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 2: I wouldn't want it to be like that. 460 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:29,440 Speaker 1: It would just hard, it'd be hard to trust. 461 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:31,119 Speaker 2: Because then you're doing brand deals together and stuff. I 462 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,399 Speaker 2: then think it also becomes a work thing, and I'm like, 463 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 2: I want, I do really want my partner to be 464 00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 2: my private partner this time, because it's like I really 465 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 2: hope that my next person is my person, you know, 466 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 2: twenty five now, it would be a nice time to 467 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:46,280 Speaker 2: maybe meet the guy that I'm then going to like 468 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 2: date for a couple of years and then marry. I'm 469 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:52,320 Speaker 2: gonna find him in New York on Wall Street. Apparently 470 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 2: this may be an untrue fact, but my friend Annabelt 471 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 2: always says it, and like I actually I probably need 472 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 2: a fact check it Approximately one in every twenty four 473 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:03,640 Speaker 2: York City residents are millionaires, which is pretty fucking good. 474 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:06,400 Speaker 2: But I just think, I don't know, there's something about 475 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 2: the fact that I've decided I'm going to New York 476 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 2: next year. My plan is like three months, then Europe 477 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 2: then three months, so all up, I'll probably be away 478 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 2: for like seven or eight I know, but I'm like, 479 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,199 Speaker 2: fuck finding a man here. Like I'm just like, I 480 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 2: really feel like New York's going to be so good 481 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 2: for me in the sense I do feel very stagnant 482 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 2: in my life right now. Like my life is incredible 483 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:30,600 Speaker 2: and I'm so grateful for it, but I think there's 484 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:32,680 Speaker 2: something about seeing so many people around you in love 485 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 2: and like I'm like, I just want something different. Like 486 00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:38,119 Speaker 2: what I'm living and what I'm experiencing right now is 487 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 2: not bad, it's amazing, and I'm so incredibly lucky to 488 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:42,159 Speaker 2: have it. But I'm like, I'm young and i'm single, 489 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 2: and I can like right now, do you know what 490 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 2: I mean? There's nothing holding me back from doing it, 491 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 2: and I'm like, I really feel like maybe I'll meet 492 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 2: my man there and if one of don'ty Borrow's a millionaires. 493 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 2: I'm just going to walk up and down Wall Street 494 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:53,879 Speaker 2: in a cute little dress. 495 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 1: You don't need to pay for accommodation, Go up and down. 496 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:01,280 Speaker 2: It made me like I was these videos the other 497 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,360 Speaker 2: day and it actually made me like a really hopeful 498 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,679 Speaker 2: for love. And I it was a girl called Grace 499 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:09,320 Speaker 2: Beverly and she's just gotten married and she posted a 500 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:12,640 Speaker 2: video talking about her wedding mows and it's her obviously 501 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 2: talking to her partner, and they're quite long. They were 502 00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:18,919 Speaker 2: so beautiful that I actually cried and I was like, 503 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:21,919 Speaker 2: I mixed, how excited for a love like that? And 504 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 2: she said she's from London. She met her partner he 505 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 2: lived in New York and that's why I'm like, I 506 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 2: could meet a man like that. This is my plot, 507 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 2: do you know what I mean? And she says the 508 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 2: most beautiful things, like one of her lines, she was like, 509 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 2: my heart feels safer in your hands than in my 510 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 2: own body. And I'm like, I actually wrote that down, 511 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 2: like I have a little like fucking wedding mao, like 512 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 2: dot points just to like inspire me for my own 513 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:47,639 Speaker 2: wedding one day. But if you want a little it 514 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 2: just made me excited. It actually made me hopeful and 515 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:53,119 Speaker 2: like not sad, like not jealous, Like, yes, I'm jealous. 516 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 2: He looks incredible and she looks so happy and they 517 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 2: both seem like a perfect fucking couple. But she doesn't 518 00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:59,399 Speaker 2: like blast him all over her feet either. And I 519 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,440 Speaker 2: think that's tied into like what we were saying earlier, 520 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,440 Speaker 2: that there's something weirdly sus about couples that feel the 521 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 2: need to put each other online all the time. 522 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I understand some people might feel weird about 523 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:14,639 Speaker 1: wedding content, but I just find weddings like inspiring and beautiful. 524 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:15,520 Speaker 1: This is what I want. 525 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 2: And it's like even being single, like there is an 526 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 2: aspect of like, oh I want that, but I'm like, 527 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get that, you will, And like hearing how 528 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 2: much how safe and loved that girl felt like it 529 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 2: just made me so excited to get that myself. And 530 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,440 Speaker 2: like I've refused to accept anything less like and I 531 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 2: was like, oh, you're so picky. I've been single for 532 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 2: four years. I'm like, I've been through two really hard 533 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 2: relationships and I'm going to be that way because I 534 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 2: don't want to do that heartbreak again. Absolutely, you know, 535 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,200 Speaker 2: so I will wait, and you know, maybe a man 536 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,159 Speaker 2: in New York will sweep me off my feet, and 537 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 2: I hope so I feel it in my bones. A 538 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 2: million A millionaire one would be nice, but I do 539 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 2: feel it in my bones that maybe I'll meet someone 540 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 2: over there that's going to be my person, which is 541 00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:56,640 Speaker 2: weird because Americans didn't think, but not that I say, 542 00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 2: I didn't think, like it's already fucking happened, but I 543 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:02,119 Speaker 2: really anyway, I'm just being hopeful and I'm manifesting this 544 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,679 Speaker 2: for myself. And if you want something to manifest for 545 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 2: that checks video. The vowels are really really fucking beautiful 546 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:11,160 Speaker 2: and I would recommend. All right, guys, So what we're 547 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 2: doing this week, we're calling it help me Out. I know, 548 00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:15,480 Speaker 2: we did a lot of dilemmas back in the day 549 00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 2: on the Just for Girls account and I love doing 550 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,639 Speaker 2: that and I wanted to do something similar here, but 551 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:21,880 Speaker 2: we needed a funky, cool name for it. I came 552 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,639 Speaker 2: up with it. She did, I did? I told you, 553 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 2: no one knows, and I'm like, I never come up 554 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,399 Speaker 2: with anything creative, which is why why West I'm saying 555 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 2: that with such like I came up with it. Like 556 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 2: a brat, but I usually like handball. All my fucking 557 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:39,360 Speaker 2: creative needs off to blake. And I was like, well 558 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 2: it's called hear me out. Let's do help me out. 559 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,639 Speaker 2: So we've gotten some dilemmas from you guys, and we're 560 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,400 Speaker 2: going to be going through them and I can't wait. 561 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 2: So we're going to be getting into your problems instead 562 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 2: of mine. Let's go, all right, help me out. Earlier 563 00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 2: this year, I got out of a long term, three 564 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:58,680 Speaker 2: and a half year relationship after finding out my boyfriend 565 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 2: had been cheating on me. I hate men. Why do 566 00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 2: they suck? Feel's sister? But boys suck? Men are wonderful 567 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,320 Speaker 2: and we'll find one. It's been a long year with 568 00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 2: a lot of growth and personal development, and honestly, I'm 569 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:14,440 Speaker 2: doing well now. Being single has been such a new experience. 570 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,640 Speaker 2: Though with the extra time on my hands, I got 571 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 2: involved in my local football club, helping out. I know 572 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,400 Speaker 2: you're probably thinking, but honestly, it's been so fun. Bro. 573 00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:26,119 Speaker 2: If I could become a fucking what are they? Oh 574 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:31,359 Speaker 2: my god, what a boy? No? Yes, but the people 575 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:36,520 Speaker 2: that massage the football at a local football club, like 576 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:38,199 Speaker 2: for my first like job or something that would be 577 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,680 Speaker 2: so fun like, I would love that. I totally get 578 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,840 Speaker 2: why you've done it. The boys have all been so 579 00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,360 Speaker 2: lovely to me, treating me like a little sister. It's 580 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 2: been nice being around guys who are kind and not slimy. Anyway, 581 00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 2: here's my conundrum. There's one guy I just can't help 582 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,360 Speaker 2: but have a crush on, sister. Why else you work 583 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,120 Speaker 2: at a local football club. It's where you pick your man. 584 00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,080 Speaker 1: Are you coming here for work? Yeah? 585 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 2: Come on, he's attractive. We get along so well, but 586 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,639 Speaker 2: all the other guys are strictly friendship vibe, so I 587 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 2: can't tell if he feels the same towards me or 588 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 2: if he's just being friendly like they are. I think 589 00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:10,800 Speaker 2: maybe because I'm attracted to him, I'm reading into things. 590 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 2: I also feel like my radar with this stuff is 591 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 2: so off, and it's been a while since I've been 592 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 2: back in the game. So my question is, how do 593 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:19,760 Speaker 2: I figure out if there's something more? How do I 594 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 2: make it clear if there's anything more without ruining the friendship. 595 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,399 Speaker 2: There's definitely been flirty moments, lots of eye contact, but 596 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:27,400 Speaker 2: I feel so out of my depth. Any advice would 597 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,000 Speaker 2: be amazing. That's on the success of the podcast. You're 598 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:33,480 Speaker 2: the best, Thanks, honey, all right, I don't think you 599 00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 2: read things wrong. I think if there's that eye contact 600 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 2: and that flirty vibe there generally is especially if you 601 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,640 Speaker 2: don't feel like you're getting that anywhere else. I think 602 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 2: he's probably feeling very similarly to you, where all that 603 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:46,879 Speaker 2: eye contact and those flirty vibes is his way of 604 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:50,120 Speaker 2: figuring out whether you're interested, because you also are there 605 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:51,960 Speaker 2: with a whole bunch of other guys that he might 606 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 2: be like. Maybe she likes one of them. So I 607 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:58,640 Speaker 2: think hopefully you're already following him on Instagram. I would 608 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:01,520 Speaker 2: say step one is following him on Instagram. Step two 609 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 2: is reply to one of his stories and get a 610 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:08,399 Speaker 2: conversation going that way, and if he continues to ask 611 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 2: you questions. I think it's an easy way to tell 612 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,639 Speaker 2: is if a boy is continuing the conversation through asking 613 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 2: you questions, meaning they want to keep it going, Whereas 614 00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,520 Speaker 2: if they kind of reply something short that ends it, 615 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:24,040 Speaker 2: then leave it there. But I'd say just reply to 616 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:25,680 Speaker 2: his stories. Don't like his stories because a lot of 617 00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:29,880 Speaker 2: people don't see story likes. I think they're basically pointless. Yeah, 618 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:33,199 Speaker 2: I'd say try and get a convot going through a 619 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,879 Speaker 2: follow and a story reply and see that way, and 620 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 2: then it's like, if he's giving you nothing back, great, 621 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:42,000 Speaker 2: you were just being friendly And I don't think the 622 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,680 Speaker 2: friendship will be ruined through that. But I think that's 623 00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 2: a good way to gauge interest, is by starting a 624 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:50,480 Speaker 2: conversation like that. Hear me out. I've been with my 625 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,400 Speaker 2: boyfriend for almost a year. He's the sweetest, kindest guy. 626 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 2: I truly can't fault him. He treats me like a princess. 627 00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:01,399 Speaker 2: Luck you nah, good on you, girl, I'm sure you 628 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 2: deserve it. Prior to being with him, I was on 629 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 2: and off with a girl I never labeled my sexuality 630 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,760 Speaker 2: because she's the only girl I've ever liked. She was toxic, 631 00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 2: had no drive in life, and was quite the opposite 632 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:13,680 Speaker 2: of me. My issue is I can't stop thinking about her. 633 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 1: Girl. 634 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,359 Speaker 2: I will start, I will before I finish this. I 635 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,760 Speaker 2: will start by saying that toxicity gets your adrenaline up 636 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 2: and it like makes you excited. But it's like you'd 637 00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:28,560 Speaker 2: almost like those butterflies that people always say, like when 638 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 2: you're with someone that is toxic, you get these butterflies 639 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 2: and excitement but it's like that's not true love. Love 640 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 2: is like safe and calm, and it's like, I think 641 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 2: that's why you're thinking about her because you have all 642 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 2: this like adrenaline an emotion when you think about her 643 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,120 Speaker 2: because of everything you went through with her. But that 644 00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,640 Speaker 2: doesn't know. I'm gonna say right now, I'm gonna I 645 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:51,280 Speaker 2: hope this doesn't end with anything bad. But you are 646 00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:55,000 Speaker 2: not no this girl. You don't ever want to be 647 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 2: with someone with no drive anyways, No, okay, I'll continue, 648 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:02,000 Speaker 2: No yever. I see her at our sports club. It's 649 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 2: unintentionally flirty. A few months ago, she told me she 650 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:06,520 Speaker 2: feels the same way, and I'm still in her mind 651 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 2: and even admitted that I'm the best kiss she's ever had. 652 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 2: She's been in a relationship since with the vibe is 653 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:15,680 Speaker 2: still there. No, no, no, again. I don't speak to 654 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 2: her now, but the season is over, so I won't 655 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 2: see her again. But she's still on my mind. What 656 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 2: do I do? My boyfriend is an angel, Everything aligns. 657 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:28,880 Speaker 2: He's so driven. I can't get her out of my head. Yeah, no, sorry, 658 00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 2: I think that's just gonna take some time. You know, 659 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 2: it was my exos. There's still moments where sometimes something 660 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 2: will remind me of them and they get in my 661 00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 2: head like they were very toxic, and it takes a 662 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 2: really long time for me to get over it because 663 00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 2: of all those intense highs and intense lows. And that's 664 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 2: probably something you experienced with this girl. But the right 665 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:48,600 Speaker 2: person will never make you feel those intense lows, you know, 666 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 2: So no, stay with your angel boyfriend. That girl seems 667 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 2: like bad fucking news. And I think the moment you 668 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 2: end up with your boyfriend to be with her, she'd 669 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 2: end up fucking you over again, and then you may 670 00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 2: struggle to get your amazing partner. So I'm just going 671 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:04,600 Speaker 2: to say get over it in the kindest way possible. 672 00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 2: I know it's hard, but I believe that you're with 673 00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 2: a guy that's amazing. 674 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:10,760 Speaker 1: So I'm just going to quickly jump in there, go on. 675 00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 1: Since we're watching the Summer I turned pretty yes, do 676 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 1: you think she can be with him while still having 677 00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:17,840 Speaker 1: this other girl in her head? 678 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 2: I think she can get over it. I understand it's hard, 679 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 2: and I think there's always that thing of what if 680 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 2: and the people you can't have you are almost weirdly 681 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 2: drawn to more A lot of the time. Yeah, but 682 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 2: there's a reason you love the person you're with, and 683 00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 2: there's a reason you're with that person, you know. 684 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 1: I think we should acknowledge that maybe there's. 685 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,200 Speaker 2: Maybe he's not the guy for you if you're thinking 686 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 2: about someone else. But I definitely don't think that girl's 687 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:40,520 Speaker 2: the girl for you either. 688 00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think it's just like obviously so very 689 00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 1: different between a girl and the guy, Like they're very 690 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:50,720 Speaker 1: different relationships. It might just be something that she's working 691 00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 1: through as well. 692 00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, maybe it's, you know, kind of showing 693 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 2: you that you may your sexuality, you may be by 694 00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:59,480 Speaker 2: or something. But I don't think that girl is a 695 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:00,120 Speaker 2: person for you. 696 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 1: And I think a healthy boyfriend would be way better 697 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:07,160 Speaker 1: for you to navigate your sexuality than an unhealthy girlfriend. 698 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean totally. And yeah, maybe 699 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:13,600 Speaker 2: you're wondering. I may mean that he isn't the guy, 700 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 2: but I definitely don't think she is either. Good luck. 701 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:19,960 Speaker 2: I feel like that is a hard thing to think about, 702 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,040 Speaker 2: but I feel like if you are in a happy relationship, 703 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 2: like navigate it with him. Hiz. He loving your podcast. 704 00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:29,880 Speaker 2: I've been supporting it for the past three years and 705 00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:31,920 Speaker 2: look forward to it every week. This stuff is so 706 00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:33,840 Speaker 2: nice here. I think you guys under ustmate. Putting that 707 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:35,760 Speaker 2: like a little bit in like makes me so happy. 708 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,280 Speaker 1: And can I add just on like play ground end, 709 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 1: We're just sitting here and I like editor when I 710 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,080 Speaker 1: get back to the office, so like there's not much interactions. 711 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 1: Like hearing out stuff is really sweet. 712 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so lovely. Something I'm really struggling with is 713 00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 2: finding solid friends in my twenties. I've graduated school a 714 00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:53,200 Speaker 2: few years ago, and I feel like my friends have 715 00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:56,960 Speaker 2: outgrown each other. I honestly feel so lonely. I work 716 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,040 Speaker 2: a nine to five Monday to Friday, and once the 717 00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 2: weekends come up, feels like every day is the same. 718 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 2: I'm very lucky to have my boyfriend. He's been so 719 00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 2: supportive of me, but I still wish I had some 720 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,440 Speaker 2: good girlfriends. Sometimes I overthink and tell myself I should 721 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,120 Speaker 2: be grateful for what I've got. But this has really 722 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 2: bothered me the past two years, and they don't know 723 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,160 Speaker 2: who to talk about it anymore. How do I stop 724 00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:17,360 Speaker 2: this constant thought? I have every day love you so much. 725 00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:23,280 Speaker 2: I want to give good advice, but I think I 726 00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 2: have been lucky that I did a lot of sports, 727 00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:27,480 Speaker 2: and I had a lot of friends through that, and 728 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:33,280 Speaker 2: I did change friendship groups in when I was I 729 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 2: think nineteen or twenty actually, and it was just through 730 00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,520 Speaker 2: one girl that I really really liked and she then 731 00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 2: kind of introduced me to everyone, and I'm now like 732 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 2: really close with now. I'd say, even having your partner 733 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 2: is amazing, and that's so nice to have such a 734 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 2: crutch like that. But even if he has friends that 735 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,920 Speaker 2: maybe have other partners and you can kind of get 736 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 2: close to his his friend's girlfriends and his friend's partners 737 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 2: and stuff like that is a nice way to make friends. 738 00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 2: And then I think even just having finding maybe one 739 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:07,600 Speaker 2: girl like that, she might have a whole other group 740 00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:09,760 Speaker 2: of friends, and then you end up finding through those 741 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:11,600 Speaker 2: groups the people that you connect to more. And I 742 00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 2: think it almost grows like a tree, like the branch 743 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,600 Speaker 2: has kind of come off, and you find like different 744 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 2: groups through that, or you could maybe join I know, 745 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:24,400 Speaker 2: my mum's started joining hottery classes and she has pickleball 746 00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 2: and stuff and she's made new friends from there. I 747 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:28,800 Speaker 2: don't know if like hobbies like that is something you'd 748 00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:31,480 Speaker 2: be interested in, but little things like that where you 749 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 2: can find like like minded girlfriends and even if, like 750 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:36,960 Speaker 2: I said, just one can lead to a whole different 751 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 2: group of friends that you end up becoming really close with. 752 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:42,920 Speaker 2: It's not easy, and I think there's so many people 753 00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 2: struggling with that that even if you reach out to 754 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 2: people online like they might be feeling the exact same 755 00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 2: and it could be the start of something like an 756 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:56,360 Speaker 2: amazing friendship. But yeah, it's definitely not something that you're 757 00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:56,880 Speaker 2: alone in. 758 00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:00,000 Speaker 1: I'm just going to jump in clean. Recently, I always 759 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,040 Speaker 1: say recently, but it's been two years now, but I 760 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:03,680 Speaker 1: moved from Sydney to Melbourne. 761 00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:04,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, how did you go with that? 762 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 1: I it's really funny because everyone said that Sydney is 763 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:11,359 Speaker 1: a clique place, whereas I much find Melbourne to be clickie. Yeah, 764 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,560 Speaker 1: I think it's a big It is clique. It's a 765 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:16,440 Speaker 1: big country town in a way. Sydney is a lot 766 00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 1: more international and there's people from all different areas where 767 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,720 Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people in Melbourne Melbourne centric, 768 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,120 Speaker 1: Like even on nights out, I met a lot of 769 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:28,760 Speaker 1: my friends in Sydney on the dance was in the area, 770 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,719 Speaker 1: you know, Whereas in Melbourne people go out in their 771 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:35,320 Speaker 1: set established groups. It's not much wriggle room. The boyfriend 772 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 1: point is really great. I moved. My boyfriend was originally 773 00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:40,239 Speaker 1: from Melbourne, who had a lot of Melbourne friends. Now 774 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:41,840 Speaker 1: I catch up with some of his girlfriends and he 775 00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,840 Speaker 1: doesn't even know about it. Yeah, I'm actually going to 776 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:46,600 Speaker 1: a concert in November with some of his girlfriends. He 777 00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:52,279 Speaker 1: didn't even get an invite. Yeah, so that's an easy way. Work. Easy, Yeah. 778 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:54,799 Speaker 2: Work. It's like, is there any even like maybe one 779 00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:57,239 Speaker 2: girl you like from work you can go with a 780 00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 2: couple of her friends, and it's like, you never know, 781 00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,080 Speaker 2: one of her friends might become your new best friend. 782 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,439 Speaker 2: Like I feel like you can't almost need to pull 783 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 2: on the connections you have with other people in a 784 00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,680 Speaker 2: sense sometimes And like I went out with my friend 785 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:10,600 Speaker 2: Angel the other day. She brought a couple girls she 786 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,880 Speaker 2: knew from work, and then I feel like I'm friends 787 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 2: with them now too. Yeah you know, so, Oh it's 788 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,760 Speaker 2: definitely not easy, but it comes to just a point of yeah, whoever, 789 00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,280 Speaker 2: bring whoever, like, kind of try and make the circle 790 00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:23,640 Speaker 2: you're meeting with wider. 791 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:27,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think just like kind of removed this 792 00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,839 Speaker 1: seeing of friendships in your twenties and how important they 793 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:32,400 Speaker 1: are and what it should look like, because I. 794 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:34,320 Speaker 2: Don't think I was having a partner in your twenties 795 00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,400 Speaker 2: also something that's amazing, and it's like that's something that 796 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 2: I'm struggling to find myself. So it's like we've each 797 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,879 Speaker 2: got maybe one of the two, do you know what 798 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:45,640 Speaker 2: I mean? So it's yeah, I wish I could give 799 00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:48,000 Speaker 2: more solid advice or maybe how I did it. But 800 00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,600 Speaker 2: I think because yeah, I'm actually not friends with really 801 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,040 Speaker 2: anyone that I went to school with anymore, I'm I'm lucky. 802 00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,360 Speaker 2: I have a legro who I've known since I was 803 00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:58,360 Speaker 2: a kid, and then my friend Georgie kind of introduced 804 00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,399 Speaker 2: me to the group I'm in now. So I have been, 805 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 2: I guess, blessed in the fact that I am able 806 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:05,279 Speaker 2: to find friends. I don't even know if maybe you 807 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,680 Speaker 2: have a sibling like I now consider a lot of 808 00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:11,440 Speaker 2: my sister's friends my friends through going out with her 809 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:15,160 Speaker 2: and her girlfriend. So maybe if you have a sibling 810 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 2: or even a brother that has girlfriends and you're a 811 00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:20,879 Speaker 2: similar age, that might be somewhere you can start as 812 00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:22,680 Speaker 2: well and just putting a bit more effort into those 813 00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:24,040 Speaker 2: relationships as well. 814 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, and like you don't have to. You don't have 815 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:28,439 Speaker 1: to be the first one to meet someone that owned 816 00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:31,279 Speaker 1: a friendship. Like one of my girlfriends she's just moved 817 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:34,840 Speaker 1: to Europe. I actually met an amazing group of girls 818 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,919 Speaker 1: at her farewell and we got along like a house 819 00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:38,560 Speaker 1: on fire. We're going to catch up in a few months. 820 00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just come. I think it also comes to 821 00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:42,880 Speaker 2: putting in effort, Like if you meet someone at something 822 00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:46,319 Speaker 2: like that, message them, follow it up, you know, try 823 00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:48,759 Speaker 2: and establish a friendship there, because I feel like you 824 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,480 Speaker 2: would meet a lot of people you know around but 825 00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:53,520 Speaker 2: you would just think, oh, they were a really nice girl. 826 00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,920 Speaker 2: But like that's just all they is. Follow it up. Yeah, 827 00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:58,040 Speaker 2: you know, put yourself out there. And I know that's 828 00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,719 Speaker 2: a lot easier said than done, but I feel like 829 00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,160 Speaker 2: there's no harm in giving it a go. All right, 830 00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,359 Speaker 2: help me out. One of my close friends has an 831 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:10,399 Speaker 2: obsession with my boyfriend. Bruh. I've experienced this. They ended 832 00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:15,439 Speaker 2: up sleeping together behind my back. That was really fun. Luck, 833 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:19,400 Speaker 2: So let's get into it. She touches him inappropriately, constantly 834 00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:23,760 Speaker 2: texts him, always talks about him all the time, invites 835 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:28,040 Speaker 2: him to her house. No, no, No, No, he's always 836 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:29,399 Speaker 2: trying to hang out with him, even one on one. 837 00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:31,640 Speaker 2: These are all like red flags this girl is not 838 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:32,920 Speaker 2: your friend. You should not be friends to that. 839 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:33,920 Speaker 1: Like. 840 00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,480 Speaker 2: No, I've told her so many times to back off, 841 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,719 Speaker 2: and she does, but only for a few days. No. 842 00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:45,839 Speaker 2: I actually can't stand the fucking So. The challenging thing 843 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,520 Speaker 2: about this stuff is you cannot control a anyone. 844 00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:49,120 Speaker 1: No. 845 00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,120 Speaker 2: You can tell them again and again and again that 846 00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:54,239 Speaker 2: you do not appreciate something and you do not like it, 847 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,080 Speaker 2: but you cannot stop them from doing it. 848 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 1: And there's a bit of personal pr in it. We 849 00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,040 Speaker 1: don't want to come across so satic and be like 850 00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:05,040 Speaker 1: fucking miss fuck off. Yeah, you know see, you kind 851 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,200 Speaker 1: of have to go about it respectfully for your own But. 852 00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,239 Speaker 2: Then it's like they think you're a doormat, so they 853 00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,160 Speaker 2: just go you know what, I'd rather deal with a 854 00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:16,120 Speaker 2: little talking too from Betsy and keep talking to John. Yeah, 855 00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,959 Speaker 2: fuck off. I hate girls like this. I actually will 856 00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 2: say that I hate girls that don't respect boundaries of 857 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:25,200 Speaker 2: other people's relationships. My boyfriend thinks they're just friends. Well, 858 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 2: your boyfriend needs to pull his head out of his ass, 859 00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:29,719 Speaker 2: because this girl's acting in appropriately and it started to 860 00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:33,000 Speaker 2: back away because of how uncomfortable I am. That is good. Still, 861 00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:35,360 Speaker 2: she doesn't take the hint. I don't really speak to 862 00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:37,200 Speaker 2: her anymore. I'll just say hi if I see her. 863 00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:38,799 Speaker 2: But she's in the same friendship group as me, so 864 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 2: I can't fully avoid her. She truly drives me insane 865 00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:43,719 Speaker 2: and has caused so many arguments in my relationship. I 866 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:47,879 Speaker 2: don't know what to do. I don't look. I think 867 00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:50,600 Speaker 2: it's great that your boyfriend backs off. I think your boyfriend. 868 00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:55,080 Speaker 2: I think because she's not listening to you, your boyfriend 869 00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,400 Speaker 2: actually probably needs to set a boundary in a sense 870 00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 2: now out of respect for you, not respond if she 871 00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:04,439 Speaker 2: texts him, not ever hang out one on one with her. Yes, 872 00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:08,160 Speaker 2: it's like not ideal that this girl is causing arguments 873 00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 2: or getting involved, but it now becomes a point where 874 00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:11,640 Speaker 2: you kind of need to set some sort of boundary 875 00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:14,160 Speaker 2: with her because she's not listening to you. So, yeah, 876 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:17,280 Speaker 2: your boyfriend seems like he's willing to make those changes 877 00:39:17,320 --> 00:39:20,359 Speaker 2: to keep you happy. Just later on the law, don't 878 00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:24,480 Speaker 2: text her, don't respond her, Like I just think the 879 00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,440 Speaker 2: boundary has been crossed, and it's like, this is kind 880 00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:28,239 Speaker 2: of the only solution now, especially if she is in 881 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,520 Speaker 2: your friendship group, cut the bitch off. 882 00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:33,440 Speaker 1: I find the theme with the this happens a lot. 883 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:37,239 Speaker 2: It happens a fucking Also the amount of fucking submissions 884 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,480 Speaker 2: we get about shit like this, and it drives me 885 00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,920 Speaker 2: up the wall because I've had a similar experience and 886 00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:47,200 Speaker 2: there was so little I could do to prevent it 887 00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:49,400 Speaker 2: whilst all trying to keep the peace, and then I 888 00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:52,480 Speaker 2: would lose my shit and everyone would be like, what 889 00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,560 Speaker 2: is he doing? Like I'd say, if people look back 890 00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,840 Speaker 2: on who I was in my first relationship, or is 891 00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:02,080 Speaker 2: he with a psycho? Psycho? That's all I get. I'm like, 892 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,759 Speaker 2: the combination of having a friend like that and having 893 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:07,440 Speaker 2: a boyfriend who wasn't loyal to me and didn't listen 894 00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,799 Speaker 2: to me like your boyfriend at least seems to be 895 00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:13,000 Speaker 2: doing made me fucking crazy And like, no, I don't 896 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:14,600 Speaker 2: think that's who I am. I definitely don't think that's 897 00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:16,839 Speaker 2: who I'm going to carry into my next relationship. But like, 898 00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,279 Speaker 2: I got so down on myself because of how people 899 00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:22,000 Speaker 2: made me feel. I think you're allowed to have boundaries, 900 00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:26,480 Speaker 2: You're allowed to feel threatened by someone that's fucking actively 901 00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,960 Speaker 2: trying to get with your partner, you know. And you're 902 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,239 Speaker 2: not crazy for laying down the law, you know. And 903 00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:33,480 Speaker 2: I don't handle it how I did. 904 00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:37,239 Speaker 1: But and it's nice to see some onus on the guy. Yeah, 905 00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,560 Speaker 1: and I'm glad this guy is stepping up because every 906 00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:42,440 Speaker 1: time it comes into our inbox. For example, I know 907 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:46,400 Speaker 1: female friendships are very complicated and sticky, but it's like 908 00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:49,040 Speaker 1: it almost becomes this thing that the two women need 909 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,640 Speaker 1: to figure out. Yeah, it's like, hey, no, he has responsiblity. 910 00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:53,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I think a lot of the ones we 911 00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,560 Speaker 2: get is that her boyfriend the partner will be like, oh, 912 00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,279 Speaker 2: he thinks they're just friends, and he doesn't. He thinks 913 00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:01,200 Speaker 2: I'm being insane. So at least you're partners. Hearing you 914 00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:04,719 Speaker 2: is uncomfortable gets it. If he's uncomfortable, great, he needs 915 00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:07,279 Speaker 2: to lay something down and boundaries himself then, you know, 916 00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:11,360 Speaker 2: because I am sure if it was his friend, you 917 00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:13,520 Speaker 2: would do that and be just you just probably wouldn't 918 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,440 Speaker 2: reply if his friend texted you, And I think he 919 00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:17,239 Speaker 2: needs to start doing stuff like that. She'll get the 920 00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:20,000 Speaker 2: hint eventually, like if she thinks there's no inn and 921 00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,680 Speaker 2: it's an unbreakable fucking wall that she can't penetrate. She 922 00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:27,799 Speaker 2: will start so create that wall. Guys, don't let her 923 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:29,440 Speaker 2: fucking any any. 924 00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:30,520 Speaker 1: Build it, build it. 925 00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:36,239 Speaker 2: Build that wall. We're not Trumpies, Oh my god, no no, no, 926 00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:42,360 Speaker 2: no Trump. I'll throw Trump over a fucking wall. Hey, guys, 927 00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:44,840 Speaker 2: that was today's episode. We have so many other dilemmas, 928 00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:47,000 Speaker 2: so if yours didn't get read out tonight, we will 929 00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:49,560 Speaker 2: listen to your help me out on next week's episode 930 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:51,879 Speaker 2: for a part two. But I love you, and thank 931 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,560 Speaker 2: you and thanks all the little messages. They mean so 932 00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:57,839 Speaker 2: much to me. And I feel like side note, even 933 00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:00,319 Speaker 2: starting like I would call this my business. I guess 934 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,880 Speaker 2: in a sense, I know it's not like your average business, 935 00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:05,440 Speaker 2: but I think I always was so down on myself 936 00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:09,040 Speaker 2: onto whether I could do something on my own, because 937 00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:12,560 Speaker 2: I've always called myself really lazy, you know, just like 938 00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,920 Speaker 2: I never had much drive. So I feel like now 939 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,160 Speaker 2: creating this, I feel like it's become something now and 940 00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:20,240 Speaker 2: I just even feel like I'm really proud of myself 941 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,040 Speaker 2: for being able to do it on my own. And 942 00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:24,319 Speaker 2: I'm not even on my own, like soe, I fucking 943 00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:26,960 Speaker 2: write hand mat, But I just want to thank you 944 00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:29,520 Speaker 2: guys all for the support, because I couldn't and wouldn't 945 00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,359 Speaker 2: be able to do it without you guys listening every 946 00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:33,920 Speaker 2: week and tuning in and sending me in all your stuff. 947 00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,799 Speaker 2: So thank you. I'm very very grateful and I love 948 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:38,640 Speaker 2: you on other seaty next week. Hi,