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Speaker 1: It fits in with Her with Kate podcast.

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Speaker 2: With Kate Richie Here Getting Your Monday started on Nova.

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Speaker 3: My mom and dad went to a wedding in India

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Speaker 3: a while ago. It's like a week long celebration, like

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Speaker 3: an Indian wedding. Is what I would have loved to

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Speaker 3: have had, because when it starts, it goes and it goes,

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Speaker 3: and it goes like.

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Speaker 2: A festival of the people, isn't it.

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Speaker 3: Especially if you're settling in for three days and you

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Speaker 3: are marrying into the into India's richest family.

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Speaker 4: That that stresses me out. Three days of festivities. Imagine

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Speaker 4: getting yourself ready for three days.

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Speaker 5: It's just like Coachella.

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Speaker 3: Mate, You're right, but I.

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Speaker 4: Wear the same outfit on the first day as I

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Speaker 4: do on the third. Name.

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Speaker 3: I'm worried about a lunch that rolls into dinner today,

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Speaker 3: as I should be. Anyway. The wife her name is

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Speaker 3: is an It and Brini and you can try harder

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Speaker 3: than that. And ed.

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Speaker 6: Is this is this the one where Rihanna performed?

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Speaker 3: Well, this is the big one, yeah, because they had

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Speaker 3: has this included in the fifteen hundred Guest Fits Your

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Speaker 3: Spot on Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, Avanka Trump.

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Speaker 4: She was there as well and representing the Trump representation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Baron was busy.

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Speaker 4: Do you know what did someone put They put up

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Speaker 4: a photo the other day? Baron six foot eight, he's

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Speaker 4: a beast and he the child? Yeah, Baron, and he's

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Speaker 4: where is he from?

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Speaker 6: Is he Romanian? Is he is the mother? Is she Romanian? Tommy?

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Speaker 4: Someone saying, get a ball in his hand. That guy

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Speaker 4: could be a beast on the basketball.

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Speaker 3: Really, let's do some Baron research place.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Baron is Donald and Mullenia's and Mullenius from.

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Speaker 3: I thought she was Malania.

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Speaker 6: Yeah she is, of course.

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Speaker 3: She's from How quick working she's from Slovenia. My favorite.

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Speaker 6: She would be an amazing rebounder under the ring.

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Speaker 3: Get him under the ring. What I love about this

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Speaker 3: is NB. She got up to the bride, the bride.

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Speaker 3: Let's go with the bride, mate the bride. She got

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Speaker 3: up to say a couple of words. Now we all

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Speaker 3: know the pressure of a wedding speech, especially if you're

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Speaker 3: marrying into this family and you've got fifteen hundred guests

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Speaker 3: of high profile individuals, And the thing is, she didn't

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Speaker 3: exactly right it herself. So she's Millenia Trump. She's got

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Speaker 3: a favorite movie called Shall We Dance featuring Susan Sarandon

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Speaker 3: and Richard Gere. Beautiful movie that most that recent one. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: the two thousand and four Hollywood film Shall We Dance,

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Speaker 3: which I watch all the time, and Gladiator is not on,

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Speaker 3: But there's a wedding speech in that, and she has

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Speaker 3: decided just to copy the speech from the movie. Listened

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Speaker 3: to this. In a marriage, you're promising to care about everything.

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Speaker 7: But when you find somebody, you find somebody to promise

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Speaker 7: you to care about everything.

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Speaker 3: The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the

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Speaker 3: mundane things, all of it, all the time, every.

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Speaker 7: Day, the good, the bad, the beautiful, the board, the sad,

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Speaker 7: the mundane.

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Speaker 3: You're saying, your life will not go unnoticed because I

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Speaker 3: will notice it.

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Speaker 7: You say, I will see you every day. Your life

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Speaker 7: will not go unnoticed because I will notice it.

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Speaker 3: Your life will not go on witnessed because I will

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Speaker 3: be your witness.

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Speaker 7: Your life will not go on witnessed because I will

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Speaker 7: witness it.

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Speaker 6: Well you, But no, I don't mind that.

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Speaker 4: That's I say lyrics from songs to Beja all the

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Speaker 4: time with them.

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Speaker 6: Off as my own.

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Speaker 4: Do you yeah, what do you go, so Romeo and

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Speaker 4: Juliet from Dire Straits.

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Speaker 6: I say to bj all the time, I can't do everything,

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Speaker 6: but I do anything for you.

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Speaker 3: Isn't meat loaf?

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Speaker 2: Brian Adams with a with Kate WHICHI podcast. I've got

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Speaker 2: a big story here about relationships for you.

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Speaker 5: It's a bit of a list.

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Speaker 2: If you want to keep your relationship on track, grab a.

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Speaker 3: Biro, guys. I mean, they all go off track every

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Speaker 3: now and then, don't they.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, they do.

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Speaker 2: I mean, but I think there are some pretty standard

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Speaker 3: That's I didn't know.

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Speaker 5: I was like, why is he going with the pen?

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Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, I've instructed somebody to get

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Speaker 2: a Biro.

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Speaker 5: That's a watch.

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Speaker 3: That's a that's a Rolex watch.

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Speaker 5: And I didn't ask you to do that.

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Speaker 3: Ready.

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Speaker 2: Now, look, if you have arguments within a relationship, if

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Speaker 2: you can do it well, that doesn't mean you have

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Speaker 2: an unhealthy relationship. It's actually it's actually very good. Disagreements

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Speaker 2: a normal and in fact, according to a study, couples

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Speaker 2: who argue effectively are ten times more likely to have

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Speaker 2: a happy relationship in the long term.

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Speaker 3: Is it because you think once we've had an argument.

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Speaker 3: If we can get through that, well, we're going to

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Speaker 3: get through them.

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Speaker 2: If we don't fall out over it, you can argue effectively.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that means, oh, you have a big

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Speaker 2: blow up and then you kind of kiss and make up,

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Speaker 2: and that's the YO usually of an unhealthy relationship.

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Speaker 6: Nick Cave wrote about this.

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Speaker 4: He's got a great website called the Red Right Hand Files.

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Speaker 6: Tommy, you've been on that before.

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Speaker 4: It's a great sun And someone was asking about a relationship,

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Speaker 4: even if it's a friendship or a marriage, when it

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Speaker 4: comes to arguing, and.

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Speaker 6: He wrote this beautiful answer.

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Speaker 4: Our truest and deepest relationships allow us the freedom to

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Speaker 4: voice an opinion without fear of it being detrimental to

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Speaker 4: the partnership. And he said, it's actually good. You want

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Speaker 4: someone to challenge you. You don't want someone that just

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Speaker 4: agrees with you all the time.

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Speaker 2: And that you're still lovable even when you're honest.

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Speaker 3: What doesn't need to be confrontation. I think that's the

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Speaker 3: important point.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, so here we go. I'll run through this.

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Speaker 2: I mean, and if you're saying these things, maybe have

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Speaker 2: know that's not a good one to go in with. No, no, no, no, Okay,

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Speaker 2: this one you care about something or someone more than me.

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Speaker 2: I mean that's one that's somebody feeling absolutely neglected and

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Speaker 2: maybe left out. But rather than saying it like that,

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Speaker 2: just say this is how I'm feelings.

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Speaker 3: What season starts.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, look over here, look over here for a

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Speaker 2: little bit. You never listen. I don't think you were

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Speaker 2: You never listen.

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Speaker 5: You've got to say, I find it.

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Speaker 6: Hud to.

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Speaker 4: Me that she has to pick times. She knows my

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Speaker 3: What for listening is for listening just talking to you

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Speaker 4: Ryan, Those is painted she would if there's something important

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Speaker 4: she has to do something or go away, she goes,

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Speaker 4: I know, I have to pick my time.

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Speaker 3: Oh, to get it across the line, can we try

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Speaker 3: to book you from six to nine each day.

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Speaker 2: Is the worst time? Okay, that's not true. You're being ridiculous.

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Speaker 3: You're being ridiculous.

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Speaker 6: That's a tough one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is just like before when you did such and.

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Speaker 3: Sight you drag up something from the past.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean habits do form, don't they. And

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Speaker 2: history says you're doing this because you've done it before

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Speaker 2: and there's nothing changing.

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Speaker 3: Would you ever have anything from the past and bring

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Speaker 5: Would you ruminate?

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Speaker 3: Would it let you? Would you scar be scarred and

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Speaker 3: then bring it up?

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Speaker 4: Well, Kate documents it. She's got in her notes on

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Speaker 3: Steve left towel on floor. It's old on February sixteen,

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Speaker 3: twenty eighteen. I said this late in the afternoon.

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Speaker 5: Don't joke about it.

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Speaker 2: It's very important to document things sometimes, especially when somebody's

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Speaker 3: I know what you mean. And I've been in arguments

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Speaker 3: a microphone in here recording.

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Speaker 2: But you say that, and that's something else.

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Speaker 3: You should be able to playback what you just said

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Speaker 3: so it can make sense because you're losing your mind, because.

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Speaker 2: You do start to think you're losing your mind. So

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Speaker 2: sometimes just a little note every now and then is important,

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Speaker 3: How big is the book she's written?

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Speaker 6: Now you've been ridiculous?

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Speaker 1: This is the Fits and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast.

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Speaker 2: I think personal hygiene is incredibly crucial important, and I

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Speaker 2: think that bad personal hygiene from a distance looks a

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Speaker 2: bit spunky. Well, look at him, he's been working.

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Speaker 3: Hard all day. Stay over there, though, But.

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Speaker 5: Let's be honest.

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Speaker 2: If that person happens to be your husband and then

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Speaker 2: they come home, it's not as appealing when you're washing

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Speaker 2: their clothes and their shoes and then having to crawl

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Speaker 2: into bed with them if they haven't had a shower.

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Speaker 3: The smell so bad too. Sometimes you just can't get

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Speaker 3: rid of it. And I reckon it even goes, but

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Speaker 3: you can still you're still damaged by the smell. He's

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Speaker 3: still the impact is well like Butcher's and.

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Speaker 2: People that work at the fish markets and things like

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Speaker 2: delicious Belinda in Thanks Fits, Belinda in Bondai, What do

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Speaker 2: you think about this not showering business morning everybody?

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Speaker 8: Well, I think it's rather a turn.

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Speaker 6: On, Belinda. Is he is he more of a bo

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Speaker 6: kind of a rhema?

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Speaker 4: So does he go out to work all day and

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Speaker 4: come home with that strong bo Is that fragrance?

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Speaker 8: Yes, it's under the arms and we need to this

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Speaker 8: this beastly manly smell that and he's in construction.

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Speaker 6: So he comes sweaty and he can build.

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Speaker 8: And the day he can do more than build cake.

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Speaker 3: The day outside of you are and hand home blind.

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Speaker 4: If he's a Greek man, Belinda, is he hairy shoulders,

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Speaker 4: hairy back?

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Speaker 6: Is he everywhere?

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Speaker 8: No, he's not one of those hairy apes.

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Speaker 5: Does he smell like garlic as well? Belinda?

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Speaker 8: I do garlic.

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Speaker 2: You're a good cook, aren't you, Belinda? And you feed

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Speaker 2: him up and you look after him at the end

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Speaker 2: of the day.

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Speaker 8: I come over from real cake.

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Speaker 3: You're just up the hey, Belinda, Can I ask what

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Speaker 3: is the longest he's been without a shower?

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Speaker 8: It's not really without a shower. He does shower. It's

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Speaker 8: just that he doesn't use the odor into under the arm.

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Speaker 8: So even though you shower, your stalk's got that smell

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Speaker 8: where look it?

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Speaker 5: I do get it. Yeah, you're lying on somebody's chest

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Speaker 6: But that smells mine. He's mine.

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Speaker 6: The show?

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Speaker 4: Sure?

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Speaker 5: No, I've just told a story about them being a

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Speaker 6: With Cape Richie podcast talk about cash? Cash is king

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 4: This is the thing and you know it's really hard

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Speaker 6: Launer that money. But do you know what it still

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Speaker 4: When you think of cash now, really the only time

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Speaker 6: Can you give me a cheaper price? Is that fair

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Speaker 3: Cash is here? You're right, it could be the pokies,

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Speaker 5: But what do you say?

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Speaker 2: Do you say, Okay, I can if you come and

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Speaker 6: You I'll give you an example.

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Speaker 3: Cash is mate o.

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Speaker 6: I'll give you an example.

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Speaker 4: So we're doing a reno on the kitchen, right, And

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Speaker 6: So I went through a.

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Speaker 4: Mate of a mate, right, So when you've always got

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Speaker 4: And you know what, you go, Wow, I'm getting a

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Speaker 6: I'm saving four thousand dollars just by getting cash. Now,

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Speaker 4: We needed to get this done, had to get this

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Speaker 4: So I said, yeah, sweet, no worry, thinking I thought

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Speaker 3: Do on the mine. No no, no, no.

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Speaker 4: I thought that they put that through as cash whip.

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Speaker 3: Dollars cash from the bank.

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Speaker 4: And Kate, I've never gone to the bank and asked

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Speaker 3: Oh come, sometimes you have to order the money. You

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Speaker 6: No, so this is.

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Speaker 3: Dodgy one.

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Speaker 6: He's the dodgy one, exactly right.

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Speaker 5: He's so dodgy.

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Speaker 2: The kitchen's probably worth eight you.

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Speaker 5: Know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: But anyone sells it in like I could do it

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Speaker 5: But he sold it in like it's a buck.

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Speaker 3: Because you know what they sometimes do. They'll go all right,

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Speaker 3: I have the title. I just need to obviously pay

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Speaker 6: But you know I paid it, and that's the thing.

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Speaker 4: I thought, I'm getting a deal here, and I thought

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Speaker 4: I help you today, Sarah? And I said, can I

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Speaker 4: and she looks at me and goes, what for? And

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Speaker 4: Cops will be involved. Where is this money going?

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Speaker 2: The bank allowed to ask you what you're withdrawing your money.

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Speaker 6: For, That's what I thought. I didn't think they would

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Speaker 2: Well, if it's cash sitting in a bank, maybe if

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Speaker 3: This became a bit of a video prior to Christmas,

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Speaker 6: Well I thought.

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Speaker 6: Down on the ground but no, they gave me the cash.

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Speaker 4: But then that drive home to the guy who was

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Speaker 6: Do I go really slow just in case the cash

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Speaker 3: I mean you could say to him I'll give you

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Speaker 6: Do you know what he did?

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Speaker 3: Tell me?

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Speaker 6: Because I said, what do you want the cash for it?

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Speaker 6: He goes, oh, mate, seriously, this is our this is

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Speaker 3: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? So we need the can.

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Speaker 3: You should have just hosted the party, bring him here

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Speaker 4: And all the blakes that were helping him were going, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's going to be a big one this year.

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Speaker 3: You should come along with ITZI good love everybody.

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Speaker 1: This is the Fitz and Whipper with Cape Ritchie podcast.

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Speaker 3: Fitz, you said to me when you found out that

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Speaker 3: I was heading to see the Skyblowers, you wanted a

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Speaker 3: full match report from me because you know I love

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Speaker 3: the World game, mate, You know I love the round ball.

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Speaker 6: That's your first game you've been to, isn't it.

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Speaker 3: No, we went, We flew to London together, mate, to

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Speaker 3: go and watch.

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Speaker 4: We were dead for the Royal wedding and we were

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Speaker 4: lucky to get tickets to go see Chelsea. Can I

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Speaker 4: also say that before the game even finished.

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Speaker 6: You wanted to get out of the heat.

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Speaker 3: And I love it, I think. Do you know what

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Speaker 3: I think? Because I've got the European background because my

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 6: Switzer one don't even have a good st mate.

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Speaker 3: They played in the World Cup. Thank you very much.

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Speaker 3: But great to see the sky Blues get up made

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Speaker 3: over the Adelaide United Two to one was the result.

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Speaker 3: Fabia Adelaide United, Fabio games. How good is he made?

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Speaker 3: The Brazilian slotted his ninth for the season. So good

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Speaker 3: to see him find.

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Speaker 6: The back of the minute again.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, how did you get into the rooms afterwards?

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Speaker 6: How did that happen?

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Speaker 3: Mate? Do you want the story about the rooms afterwards?

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Speaker 3: Or do you want it like an understanding of the game.

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Speaker 3: I'm giving a Rundown. Lopez scored for Adelaide in the

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Speaker 3: for the Blues, just Jordan Courtney, great striker and Corey Holman.

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Speaker 3: Oh mate, what a night at Alli. Answer was, I

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Speaker 3: mean against.

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Speaker 4: The I for you merchandise as well, and I hope

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Speaker 4: you paid for all the stuff that you're wearing, because

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Speaker 4: if I found out that you got that for free,

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Speaker 4: I would be a bit disappointed because you need to

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Speaker 4: support the sky Blows.

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Speaker 3: You're going to die. You're going to die when I

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Speaker 9: I mean this, and I know that if you'd been there,

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Speaker 9: you would have loved every second of this disaster.

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Speaker 6: Okay, all right, so you're right, someone kicked a ball

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Speaker 3: I don't know a lot about it. I don't know

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Speaker 3: a lot about soccer. And I was up front and

451
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Speaker 3: honest and everybody that I met there, I said, you know,

452
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Speaker 3: I followed a bit of AFL, but I don't really

453
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Speaker 3: follow soccer. But this is great and kids love it

454
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Speaker 3: and we're learning together. So I had all the catchphrases down. Anyway,

455
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Speaker 3: we were lucky enough to be invited into the rooms afterwards,

456
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Speaker 3: got out on the ground, got out on the pitch.

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Speaker 3: But in the rooms, the boys were there and they

458
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Speaker 3: wanted They had their had the Sydney f CA shirts

459
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Speaker 3: on and hats and they wanted some signatures. I look

460
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Speaker 3: around the rooms. There's only one bloke that I can recognize,

461
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Speaker 3: and we've had him on this show before because he

462
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Speaker 3: saved a goal against Peru to get us into the

463
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Speaker 3: World Cup.

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Speaker 6: Andrew red Redmon.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what a legend, absolute legend. Everybody remembers the gray.

466
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Speaker 3: We're very dancing on.

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Speaker 6: The spot, very distinct too. Has he still got his beard?

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Speaker 3: Still got his beard? He's still got his beard? Now?

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Speaker 3: Can I just also add before this social disaster that

470
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Speaker 3: I'd had about five beers. They just kept turning up.

471
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Speaker 3: I was sitting down on the seat trying to watch

472
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Speaker 3: the game in the sunshine, and everyone went want you

473
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Speaker 3: want to be So the beers had been flowing. So

474
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Speaker 3: seeing Andrew Redmain there, I thought, I've got to get

475
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Speaker 3: his signature and I went over there. He's sitting there

476
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Speaker 3: after the game and he's got his shirt off, he's

477
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Speaker 3: just in his under So he's got a couple of

478
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Speaker 3: guys sitting each side to him, I said, ted, jack, boys,

479
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Speaker 3: we're going to go and meet Red Main. He's the king.

480
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Speaker 3: So I walked over, knowing that his name is Andrew Redmain.

481
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Speaker 3: I walked over and I said, Eddie, how are you mate?

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Speaker 6: He's the active name of course is empty empty Table.

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Speaker 6: Who are my friend?

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Speaker 4: This world? See that he'd want to Oscar for the

485
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Speaker 4: theory of everything?

486
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Speaker 6: Didn't he?

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Speaker 3: I think he did?

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Speaker 9: He did, And anyway, I don't know if Andrew Redmain

489
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Speaker 9: knew who I was.

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Speaker 3: There was two guys either side. They just started piling

491
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Speaker 3: and I thought they must have gone, oh where, he's

492
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Speaker 3: a fun guy. How good is this guy? Andrew Redmain

493
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Speaker 3: would have been thinking this guy is an absolute whit.

494
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Speaker 3: So then okay, just if you wouldn't mind mate some

495
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Speaker 3: signatuism for the boys. And so confident because I'd had

496
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Speaker 3: a couple of beers. I was so confident with my

497
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Speaker 3: Eddie on the way in that at the end I

498
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Speaker 3: shook his hand again and I went great to catch up.

499
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Speaker 3: Eddie had empty Table. Then I had a moment, you

500
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Speaker 3: know when you go something just doesn't feel right about this.

501
00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 3: So in the rooms, I.

502
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Speaker 9: Googled Redmone and I went, oh, man, lowered the sky

503
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Speaker 9: blue cap and just wandered.

504
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Speaker 3: Out the door.

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Speaker 6: Gave yourself a red car.

506
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Speaker 3: This is the Fits and with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

507
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Speaker 4: My wife is a notorious anti hanger upper on the phone,

508
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Speaker 4: Like just doesn't hang up the phone at the end

509
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Speaker 4: of every conversation Kate, to the point that if I'm

510
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Speaker 4: at the gym, or if I'm walking the dog or

511
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 4: something like that, and I'll have my head pods in,

512
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 4: I will say to her, Okay, now it's time for

513
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 4: you to hang up, because I can't go to my

514
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:42,919
Speaker 4: pocket to hang up the phone.

515
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 2: Guess everybody else's job to do the hanging up a ring.

516
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 6: Yes, never does it.

517
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 4: She's really selfish in that sense, never hangs up the phone.

518
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 5: Maybe she loves you, maybe she just can't better.

519
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 2: Feel like she's kind of giving you the red big

520
00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 2: red buttons see you later.

521
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 4: So she had a girls tip on the weekend down

522
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 4: in Melbourne, right, a couple of her best friends that

523
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 4: she went to school with, and they, you know, they

524
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 4: go to markets and a few restaurants and cafes and

525
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 4: they have a great time and I get sent I

526
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 4: get sent photos.

527
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:15,400
Speaker 6: Hey we're at these markets.

528
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Speaker 5: Can you not be that guy, Can you not be?

529
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 2: You're reminding me of someone whatever, guy on the plane. No,

530
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 2: I'm not going to say who, but you are reminding

531
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 2: me of the people who just think that when girls

532
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 2: have time out with it's so sad.

533
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 3: Let's rag on our nun.

534
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 4: No, ok okay, This story continues because this is these

535
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 4: are the conversations that you ladies are having when you're

536
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 4: going away on girls oh weekend.

537
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Speaker 5: So you tell us what we're talking about.

538
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 6: So yesterday she went away for a few days.

539
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Speaker 4: Yesterday, she's on the way to the airport in Melbourne

540
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:52,359
Speaker 4: with her friends in the car, right, and I'm mowing

541
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Speaker 4: the lawn out in the backyard.

542
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Speaker 6: So I see it on my watch.

543
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 4: My watch pops up and it's BJ So I turned

544
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Speaker 4: the lawn mower off and I take the call.

545
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 6: On my eyewatch. Right, So then I go in and.

546
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 4: Just see what the kids are doing. She's going, oh,

547
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,959
Speaker 4: how's everything. On the way to the airport, I'm going

548
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,680
Speaker 4: to be landing at six o'clock. Having a conversation. I said,

549
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 4: sweet honey, looking forward to seeing you.

550
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 6: We really missed you. Blah blah blah.

551
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 4: Then Notorious doesn't hang up and I'm so then I

552
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 4: just leave it on my watch as I'm walking into

553
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 4: the house, and I can hear everything that she's saying

554
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 4: in the uber with the girls giving us a.

555
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:31,399
Speaker 6: Call, and I hear this, there's a pause, and then

556
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 6: I hear this. I can't believe he's survived.

557
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,920
Speaker 4: Would have would have would have thought that I would

558
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 4: have got multiple emergency calls by now.

559
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Speaker 6: But apparently the kids are doing okay.

560
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Speaker 4: And then I hear the girls laughing in the background,

561
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Speaker 4: and then how's this cake? She goes to her phone

562
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Speaker 4: and she can check a camera that we've got in

563
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Speaker 4: the backyard. She she's with the girls and I hear

564
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Speaker 4: them laughing, and then she goes, oh, look.

565
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Speaker 6: The kids are playing. The kids are playing cricket just

566
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Speaker 6: outside the door.

567
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Speaker 3: There.

568
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Speaker 6: He's not even doing anything.

569
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Speaker 2: So we said he was mowing the lawn.

570
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 5: But another likely story.

571
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Speaker 3: This is really good gear.

572
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 6: I love it.

573
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,160
Speaker 4: And then I've done the you know what I've done.

574
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 4: Have a great flight, honey hung up?

575
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 2: And did she try and call you? Did she have

576
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:23,200
Speaker 2: a flight?

577
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 6: She didn't. She didn't call me.

578
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 4: I mean when she got home, there was an embrace

579
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,120
Speaker 4: and she no, no, she had.

580
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Speaker 6: A bit of a laugh about it. Afterwards she said

581
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Speaker 6: it was there was no malice in it. We were

582
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 6: just having a bit of a joke.

583
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 4: It's the girls, and that's why I talk like that, okay,

584
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 4: because the girls.

585
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 5: Were you actually offended? Was there a little part of

586
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 5: you that was like.

587
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 6: Oh, it was a little bit.

588
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 3: You know, you don't pay me out of the girls

589
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 3: behind my back. I would love so women doing that

590
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 3: when it happened to me. Fits when Lisa and I

591
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,640
Speaker 3: first got together and she thought she'd hung up the phone,

592
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 3: I could hear her talking to my to her best

593
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,199
Speaker 3: friend Kelly, She's going, oh, yeah, but he's such a

594
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 3: good kisser and he's so beautiful.

595
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 5: God, you're an idiot, you know. I can you not

596
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 5: say that?

597
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 2: But there's nothing more exciting is that than having somebody

598
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 2: accidentally leave a message on your phone and knowing you've

599
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:14,399
Speaker 2: got two minutes.

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00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 6: I'm so enthralled.

601
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 2: It's like edge of your Sea, anything like the like

602
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 2: it trumps every great thriller. Denzil Washington see you later.

603
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 4: In the voicemail and then everyone that's in the room

604
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 4: you go to everyone, shut up, shut up, because.

605
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 2: You can't, I know, because you can't quite hear and

606
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 2: there's a rustle and it might be in the.

607
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 5: Pocket, and then you can just tip into a.

608
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 2: Conversation and you're praying for something really bad.

609
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Speaker 1: This is the Fitz and Whipper with cap Ritchie podcast.

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Speaker 3: Ftzy Weber, Kate Richie here for your Monday morning. Good morning, Sydney.

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Speaker 3: Give us a call.

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Speaker 2: If you went on a date with somebody who pretended

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Speaker 2: to be someone else, completely okay. I mean maybe you

614
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 2: didn't need to get to the date, but you're at

615
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 2: a bar, or you're out and about and mingling, and

616
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 2: somebody told you that there was something far more impressive,

617
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 2: impressive than they actually were. Well, but in saying that

618
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 2: you don't need to make up stories, I think let's

619
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 2: be honest. The best thing you can be is yourself.

620
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 3: That's boring, that's really boring. I was over season. I

621
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 3: was single at the time with a mate, and he

622
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 3: went to a group.

623
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Speaker 6: Of no ways.

624
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 2: I couldn't thought that he was single, and he sold

625
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 2: the We called him a mate, the mate called him

626
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Speaker 2: something else.

627
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 3: And he sold into a group of girls that I

628
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 3: was like Steve Irwin, but I instead ran a dolphin

629
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 3: sanctuary for baby dolphins and looked after wildlife which country

630
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 3: were you. We're in the US, and it worked a

631
00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 3: treat and they thought you were a dolphin. Yes, yes,

632
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 3: that's exactly right, Jess.

633
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 2: Maybe does it confuse and it just was saying that

634
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 2: you acted like a dolphin, one of those really pesty

635
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 2: dollars other dolphins that they should No, I.

636
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 3: Wasn't one of those pisty dolphins.

637
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Speaker 4: Is it okay to put up a photo of yourself

638
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 4: ten years earlier?

639
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 3: Nope?

640
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 5: I think it is.

641
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 2: If it's a mistake and you haven't got around to

642
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 2: updating your photo.

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Speaker 4: Well, come on these other radio shows around here that

644
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 4: you remember they used photos from.

645
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Speaker 3: Tom fIF twenty years ago. That's ridiculous when you see those.

646
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Speaker 6: Pictures in a dating profile.

647
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Speaker 4: There's always one photo in your photos on your phone

648
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,360
Speaker 4: that you really rate yourself out. You go, geez, the

649
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 4: like's really good on that one. You know what, who

650
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 4: cares if it's two thousand and four.

651
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Speaker 6: Oh, I know, I'm putting it out.

652
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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not fat with a red face now.

653
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 3: But it doesn't matter. And it's always the photo.

654
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Speaker 2: You know, when your friend thinks that they look good

655
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:01,080
Speaker 2: in a photo, because quite often you taking it on

656
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 2: your phone and they keep messaging you to send it.

657
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 2: You know those photos we took down in front of

658
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 2: the you know the story the harbor bridgels up.

659
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Speaker 3: They couldn't flip.

660
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 2: Did you send it? And then when you don't, they like, hey,

661
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 2: can you send that photo?

662
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 3: Just a reminder when you see people on Instagram and

663
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 3: they have like a smile that they only do for Instagram.

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Speaker 3: The girl that used to work here, she did this

665
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 3: thing with her face which looked nothing like her, and

666
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 3: it looked better than she actually doesn't realize. Oh so

667
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 3: she mastered what she mastered what her look was, and

668
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 3: then on Instagram to her she look nothing like that

669
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Speaker 3: mask on meaning right along, we haven't got to the story.

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00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,479
Speaker 3: We actually haven't got to the story.

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Speaker 2: This whole conversation and this story came off the back

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Speaker 2: of an interview that Drew Barrymore, who I absolutely like

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Speaker 2: a door.

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Speaker 3: Happened to her.

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Speaker 2: I mean they're calling it catfish, but basically someone just

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Speaker 2: pretended to be someone they weren't.

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Speaker 3: This is her.

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Speaker 10: This guy on my dating app said he was the

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Speaker 10: quarterback for the Los Angeles Rams. So I wrote to

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Speaker 10: him and I was like, oh my god. I went

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Speaker 10: to the first practice game. I was so frustrated being

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Speaker 10: a girl from Los Angeles who loves football, and like,

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Speaker 10: we didn't have any teams, and then we got two

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Speaker 10: teams and it's nice to meet you.

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Speaker 3: My name is Drew.

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Speaker 10: He was not the quarterback for the La Rams. He's

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Speaker 10: a musician. That thought he was being cute. I was

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Speaker 10: excited to talk about that. I had been at the

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Speaker 10: coliseum and then the guy was like, hey, Drew Ski,

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Speaker 10: and I was like, I.

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Speaker 3: Hate you, Drewski. Eski lied to me and then called

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Speaker 3: me Drewski.

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Speaker 4: I'm not into he was a musician because she's playing

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Speaker 4: it with musicians.

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Speaker 6: She went out with the drama with the Strokes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, well that's the thing.

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Speaker 2: It's not that she doesn't like musicians.

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Speaker 3: It's just this long Well that's not.

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Speaker 2: What he said, and you can't I don't think you

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Speaker 2: can use it as an excuse. Oh I thought I

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Speaker 2: was being cute when basically you were lying.

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Speaker 3: To get the girl to the day. He used to

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Speaker 3: lie and he would say he'd be at a bar,

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Speaker 3: a nightclub, and he'd say, why don't we all go

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Speaker 3: back to my place for a spa?

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Speaker 6: Right, I've got a great line.

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Speaker 3: I've got a spa on the rooftop at home. Why

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Speaker 3: don't we all go back to my place for a drink. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: he didn't have a spa or a rooftop or a

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Speaker 3: rooftop either. Did he have an apartment, Yeah he did,

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Speaker 3: But they'd all go back there and go all right,

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Speaker 3: where's the spa? Oh God, no, not so spar I'm

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Speaker 3: so sorry.

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Speaker 5: Don't you think that if somebody is don't come back.

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Speaker 3: For a spa, that's weird in itself. That's a red

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Speaker 3: flag for tom. Right, he'd be single and I would

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Speaker 3: go up. Tom would be meeting a girl, and then

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Speaker 3: I would turn up and say the drinks and I'd

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Speaker 3: say that, I'd say, so she could hear. Hey mate,

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Speaker 3: good to see you. How is the charity work you

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Speaker 3: did today?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Very that would help you, man, I go, oh, that's

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Speaker 3: so kind that, Oh you did that today after the

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Speaker 3: big donation you made last month.

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Speaker 2: You know what's really funny when you tell these stories

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Speaker 2: about Tommy is that you act as though he needs

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Speaker 2: all the help, and all of the other people out

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Speaker 2: in the world know that it's that you're the.

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Speaker 3: Sad friend. It's not really the sad friend. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I would talk tom Up like there was no one

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Speaker 3: else on the planet like it. And he is now

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Speaker 3: happily married thanks to me. And what a hero, What

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Speaker 3: an absolute hero. Sits in Whipper with Kate Ritchie is

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