1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,281 Speaker 1: Apologie Production. 2 00:00:10,641 --> 00:00:16,721 Speaker 2: Welcome to She Rises, Freaky Friday, Secrets, Horror, Scandal and 3 00:00:16,881 --> 00:00:20,481 Speaker 2: Mysterios Smild Freaky Friday. 4 00:00:20,681 --> 00:00:23,401 Speaker 1: It's your favorite alter ego, Stephanie and Tatiana. 5 00:00:23,601 --> 00:00:25,561 Speaker 3: We have another submission for you. Don't forget. 6 00:00:25,561 --> 00:00:27,721 Speaker 1: These are all anonymous, so if you have anything you 7 00:00:27,721 --> 00:00:29,081 Speaker 1: want to bring in, we'll leave the link in our 8 00:00:29,161 --> 00:00:29,841 Speaker 1: description box. 9 00:00:29,881 --> 00:00:31,081 Speaker 3: Then let's get into it. 10 00:00:31,241 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 1: Excited all right, Today's submission. 11 00:00:33,681 --> 00:00:35,201 Speaker 3: Here, he goes, give me the goods. 12 00:00:35,921 --> 00:00:38,001 Speaker 1: When I was single, I worked somewhere and kind of 13 00:00:38,081 --> 00:00:40,841 Speaker 1: liked a guy from another company we worked with. Time 14 00:00:40,881 --> 00:00:42,600 Speaker 1: went on and I met someone new, and I had 15 00:00:42,601 --> 00:00:46,321 Speaker 1: a baby, etcetera, etcetera. About two years later, I realized 16 00:00:46,321 --> 00:00:47,801 Speaker 1: the guy I had a crush on out of me 17 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 1: on Snapchat, but I never accepted at the time as 18 00:00:50,441 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: I didn't realize who it was. Long story short, we 19 00:00:53,921 --> 00:00:57,041 Speaker 1: spent some time chatting here and there and occasionally flirting. 20 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 3: Ooh. 21 00:00:58,361 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 1: He now has a partner, as do I, and we 22 00:01:00,921 --> 00:01:03,961 Speaker 1: have stopped speaking naturally, although when we were speaking we 23 00:01:04,081 --> 00:01:05,201 Speaker 1: did both say. 24 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:07,161 Speaker 3: How we liked each other, et cetera. 25 00:01:07,601 --> 00:01:12,241 Speaker 1: Shit, even though I'm ool, even though I'm fairly happy, 26 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:13,441 Speaker 1: that would. 27 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 3: Fairly I don't know. 28 00:01:14,401 --> 00:01:18,481 Speaker 1: Even though I'm fairly happy in my relationship, I cannot 29 00:01:18,521 --> 00:01:20,561 Speaker 1: get this guy out of my mind and really just 30 00:01:20,601 --> 00:01:23,041 Speaker 1: wish he would message me, as I'd love to chat. 31 00:01:23,081 --> 00:01:26,041 Speaker 1: As wrong as that is, as I wouldn't message him first, 32 00:01:26,121 --> 00:01:27,801 Speaker 1: How can I stop thinking about him? 33 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:28,401 Speaker 3: Lock him? 34 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:30,921 Speaker 1: His dad and I must have mutual Facebook friends. So 35 00:01:31,081 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: comes up in my suggested friend's list and his dad has. 36 00:01:34,121 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 3: A picture of him in it. Even the dad is 37 00:01:37,081 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 3: hot too, Stop it, saucy girl. 38 00:01:41,041 --> 00:01:43,601 Speaker 1: Yeah, but also you're in a relationship and so is he. 39 00:01:43,801 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: How would you feel if your husband wanted to reach 40 00:01:46,761 --> 00:01:49,041 Speaker 1: out to a girl or he was hoping another girl 41 00:01:49,041 --> 00:01:51,721 Speaker 1: would reach out to him. Yeah, there's something missing in 42 00:01:51,761 --> 00:01:53,001 Speaker 1: your relationship, even. 43 00:01:52,841 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 2: The fairly good I'm my girl, there's something to look 44 00:01:55,561 --> 00:01:57,201 Speaker 2: at here because it's just for you to I mean, 45 00:01:57,241 --> 00:01:59,001 Speaker 2: the fact that you even think the dad is attractive. Like, 46 00:01:59,081 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 2: don't get me wrong, you can look it's so fine, 47 00:02:00,881 --> 00:02:03,281 Speaker 2: and you're allowed to think that people are attractive. But 48 00:02:03,401 --> 00:02:06,561 Speaker 2: also it's like, really, honey, in that sexual energy of yours, 49 00:02:06,561 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 2: if it's like you're not getting it from your relationship, 50 00:02:08,281 --> 00:02:10,961 Speaker 2: it's not permission to reach outside. It's actually permission to 51 00:02:11,001 --> 00:02:13,801 Speaker 2: like look within and go to that relationship and go, Okay, 52 00:02:13,841 --> 00:02:14,441 Speaker 2: what do we fix? 53 00:02:14,481 --> 00:02:17,041 Speaker 3: How do we fix what's broken? What's missing? There's something 54 00:02:17,081 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 3: in there. 55 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:20,401 Speaker 1: From my experience, and I've been with Steve for seventeen 56 00:02:20,481 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: years now, when we are connected, our needs are getting met, 57 00:02:24,481 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 1: when we're feeling so in love or communicating beautifully, it's 58 00:02:27,401 --> 00:02:28,161 Speaker 1: like tunnel vision. 59 00:02:28,201 --> 00:02:29,001 Speaker 3: I don't look at men. 60 00:02:29,161 --> 00:02:31,761 Speaker 1: Yeah, there has been times throughout our seventeen years, and 61 00:02:31,761 --> 00:02:34,081 Speaker 1: Steve and I have spoken about this openly where if 62 00:02:34,121 --> 00:02:36,481 Speaker 1: we're not connected and we're in a Yucky's phase or 63 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:38,841 Speaker 1: we're not getting our needs met, the eyes start to wander. 64 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:41,401 Speaker 3: Of course, we've never cheated, but like I start to wander. 65 00:02:41,481 --> 00:02:43,521 Speaker 1: And we've spoken about this openly, and I think it's 66 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 1: a really healthy conversation to have because I never want 67 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:47,921 Speaker 1: his eyes wandering, So I'm always making sure that I'm 68 00:02:47,921 --> 00:02:50,641 Speaker 1: fulfilling his needs and we're communicating and checking and where 69 00:02:50,641 --> 00:02:53,361 Speaker 1: our love languages are at. So I just feel like, 70 00:02:53,401 --> 00:02:56,921 Speaker 1: you're not fully in this relationship. And I feel for you, 71 00:02:57,001 --> 00:03:00,081 Speaker 1: and I feel for your man, but put yourself in 72 00:03:00,121 --> 00:03:02,441 Speaker 1: your partner's shoes. How do you feel if he was 73 00:03:02,481 --> 00:03:04,921 Speaker 1: feeling like this would you appreciate him coming to you 74 00:03:04,921 --> 00:03:07,121 Speaker 1: and saying, hey, babe, fuck, I'm just not feeling really connected, 75 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,881 Speaker 1: or we're not having sex, or I don't know if 76 00:03:10,041 --> 00:03:10,961 Speaker 1: someone's just missing for me. 77 00:03:11,041 --> 00:03:12,441 Speaker 3: Do you want to talk about it? You want him 78 00:03:12,441 --> 00:03:13,041 Speaker 3: to do that for you. 79 00:03:13,081 --> 00:03:15,361 Speaker 1: So I feel like you need to pour more into 80 00:03:15,361 --> 00:03:17,881 Speaker 1: your relationship and stop looking outside for it. 81 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:20,241 Speaker 2: This is definitely one of those things as well, Like, 82 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, you're choosing to be 83 00:03:21,441 --> 00:03:24,121 Speaker 2: committed to your partner, right, You've chosen that, You've chosen that, 84 00:03:24,201 --> 00:03:26,361 Speaker 2: and so it's like it's your responsibility as a partner 85 00:03:26,401 --> 00:03:29,521 Speaker 2: to starve out anything that kind of builds elsewhere, like 86 00:03:29,601 --> 00:03:33,201 Speaker 2: emotional connections, physical attraction, whatever it is with somebody else 87 00:03:33,281 --> 00:03:36,361 Speaker 2: or outside of that union dynamic that you've built. It's 88 00:03:36,441 --> 00:03:39,321 Speaker 2: literally your responsibility to starve out anything that is there. 89 00:03:39,401 --> 00:03:42,081 Speaker 2: And also, as while it's not dismissing the fact that 90 00:03:42,121 --> 00:03:44,161 Speaker 2: you might feel this way, there's nothing wrong with that, 91 00:03:44,201 --> 00:03:46,361 Speaker 2: but it's also going, Okay, what is it about this 92 00:03:46,401 --> 00:03:48,561 Speaker 2: person that you're fantasizing about? What is it about this 93 00:03:48,601 --> 00:03:50,721 Speaker 2: person that is drawing you in? Because there's a way 94 00:03:50,801 --> 00:03:53,801 Speaker 2: that you're feeling from this other person that you're not 95 00:03:53,841 --> 00:03:56,321 Speaker 2: getting in your relationship, but because you get it with 96 00:03:56,361 --> 00:03:58,401 Speaker 2: that person, it's like enticing for you to want to 97 00:03:58,441 --> 00:04:00,201 Speaker 2: go there, but you're not going to be proud of 98 00:04:00,241 --> 00:04:02,401 Speaker 2: yourself about it later. So just getting clear on what 99 00:04:02,441 --> 00:04:05,161 Speaker 2: that actual thing is that it's making you feel, and 100 00:04:05,161 --> 00:04:07,921 Speaker 2: then going okay, having that conversation with your partner and going, 101 00:04:07,961 --> 00:04:09,361 Speaker 2: this is what I'm meeting in the relationship. 102 00:04:09,401 --> 00:04:10,681 Speaker 3: How can we cultivate this together? 103 00:04:11,281 --> 00:04:13,961 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you can feel and think something but not 104 00:04:14,081 --> 00:04:16,121 Speaker 2: have to make it mean something. And that's a really 105 00:04:16,121 --> 00:04:18,721 Speaker 2: important thing to note. But it's just how much are 106 00:04:18,761 --> 00:04:21,201 Speaker 2: you entertaining these thoughts because if you give them weight, 107 00:04:21,401 --> 00:04:23,481 Speaker 2: trust me, your mind will run with them and you'll 108 00:04:23,481 --> 00:04:25,841 Speaker 2: make up an entire story around how you should leave 109 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:27,801 Speaker 2: your partner and this is the person for you. But 110 00:04:27,921 --> 00:04:30,361 Speaker 2: maybe it's not that. It's just the feeling that you're 111 00:04:30,401 --> 00:04:33,280 Speaker 2: wanting to chase that's making you feel good about yourself 112 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:35,921 Speaker 2: that you can look at and implement into your current relationship. 113 00:04:36,001 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: But I would not be adding on Snapchat, I would 114 00:04:37,961 --> 00:04:41,281 Speaker 1: not be inviting messages. Now you're encouraging that in there, 115 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:43,841 Speaker 1: and that is like what's your intention behind that? Like 116 00:04:43,841 --> 00:04:46,281 Speaker 1: that's for example, he did message you and said, hey, 117 00:04:46,561 --> 00:04:48,281 Speaker 1: how are you doing? You look really happy right now? 118 00:04:48,361 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: What have you been up to? You start initiating this 119 00:04:50,681 --> 00:04:54,241 Speaker 1: conversation back and forth? What's the outcome you want? Is 120 00:04:54,281 --> 00:04:55,921 Speaker 1: this going to be a couple of messages or are 121 00:04:55,921 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: you thinking about cheating? And where your energy goes, energy flows, 122 00:05:00,761 --> 00:05:03,321 Speaker 1: So why you're putting energy into this other guy who 123 00:05:03,481 --> 00:05:07,121 Speaker 1: was also in a relationship. You're starving out your current relationship, 124 00:05:07,121 --> 00:05:09,001 Speaker 1: and of course that's going to start to break down. 125 00:05:09,681 --> 00:05:11,161 Speaker 1: How are you going to feel when that starts to 126 00:05:11,161 --> 00:05:12,961 Speaker 1: break down, or how is your partner going to feel 127 00:05:12,961 --> 00:05:15,121 Speaker 1: when he finds out that you are excited? 128 00:05:15,201 --> 00:05:15,561 Speaker 3: I don't know. 129 00:05:15,601 --> 00:05:17,241 Speaker 1: I'm assuming because we don't have a lot of context. 130 00:05:17,401 --> 00:05:20,041 Speaker 1: Maybe you are just wanting to feel more desired and 131 00:05:20,081 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: more wanted and more sexual, and maybe you're not getting 132 00:05:22,761 --> 00:05:25,601 Speaker 1: that in your relationship. But once again, that's your responsibility 133 00:05:25,601 --> 00:05:28,841 Speaker 1: as an adult and as a partner, is to devote 134 00:05:28,841 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: a partner to go to your husband and say, hey, 135 00:05:31,561 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 1: stop feeling it here. 136 00:05:32,481 --> 00:05:33,161 Speaker 3: I don't know if it's a. 137 00:05:33,081 --> 00:05:35,801 Speaker 1: Sexual energy, or you're distressed with work, or we're both 138 00:05:35,801 --> 00:05:37,921 Speaker 1: in our own heads, but I'm just not feeling connected. 139 00:05:38,001 --> 00:05:39,681 Speaker 1: How do we bring that back in more because I 140 00:05:39,681 --> 00:05:41,041 Speaker 1: don't want to have a wondering eye, and I feel 141 00:05:41,041 --> 00:05:44,281 Speaker 1: like I do like be honest. Yeah, sometimes honesty all 142 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: the time. I think honest communication is kind communication. 143 00:05:47,481 --> 00:05:49,241 Speaker 3: Yeah, you say that often. I love that you say that. 144 00:05:49,281 --> 00:05:50,961 Speaker 3: And it's important as well that. 145 00:05:51,041 --> 00:05:53,121 Speaker 2: These sorts of things are a really slippery slope if 146 00:05:53,121 --> 00:05:56,361 Speaker 2: you entertain them right and in a relationship, anybody given 147 00:05:56,361 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 2: the opportunity, there's always an opportunity for something bad to 148 00:05:58,761 --> 00:06:01,481 Speaker 2: go wrong right, for bad something bad to happen, But 149 00:06:01,521 --> 00:06:04,681 Speaker 2: in a relationship is about preventing those things from escalating. 150 00:06:05,041 --> 00:06:07,561 Speaker 2: I mean, it's like anybody in the right situation can 151 00:06:07,961 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 2: be capable of anything, but you don't want to be 152 00:06:10,201 --> 00:06:12,601 Speaker 2: that person, and you're not choosing to be that person. 153 00:06:12,801 --> 00:06:15,881 Speaker 2: So how can you prevent things like this from happening 154 00:06:15,921 --> 00:06:17,961 Speaker 2: where you don't end up being the person who cheats, 155 00:06:18,081 --> 00:06:19,721 Speaker 2: Where you don't end up being the person who's out 156 00:06:19,761 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 2: of integrity and doing the wrong thing by the person 157 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:24,761 Speaker 2: that you say that you love. It's about foreseeing the 158 00:06:24,841 --> 00:06:27,361 Speaker 2: future and going, Okay, where is this behave you're going 159 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:29,481 Speaker 2: to land me? And am I going to be proud 160 00:06:29,521 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 2: of that? That's the biggest thing. If you can anchor 161 00:06:32,481 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 2: into that, I promise you you'll stop doing what you're doing. 162 00:06:34,961 --> 00:06:35,121 Speaker 1: One. 163 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:37,841 Speaker 3: I just know i'd feel physically ill if I was 164 00:06:37,921 --> 00:06:39,841 Speaker 3: entertaining that. I would not be proud of who I am. 165 00:06:39,921 --> 00:06:42,481 Speaker 3: I would feel sneaky. Sneaky? Are you doing something wrong? 166 00:06:42,561 --> 00:06:44,321 Speaker 2: Like you're doing something wrong by the people you love? 167 00:06:44,641 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: Ask yourself morally, where you're at. Is that someone that 168 00:06:46,961 --> 00:06:49,641 Speaker 1: you want to be? Probably not, so I would be 169 00:06:49,641 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: investing a lot more into my relationship. And there also 170 00:06:51,841 --> 00:06:53,921 Speaker 1: might be questions of are you guys aligned anymore? 171 00:06:54,081 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 3: Is it just not? There? Is your chapter done with 172 00:06:55,921 --> 00:06:57,481 Speaker 3: that partner? But I don't know. 173 00:06:57,601 --> 00:07:00,041 Speaker 1: I would rather, I've always said Steve, I would rather 174 00:07:00,201 --> 00:07:03,241 Speaker 1: him hurt my feelings in the moment of coming to 175 00:07:03,241 --> 00:07:04,921 Speaker 1: me and being honest and saying I've got a running 176 00:07:04,921 --> 00:07:07,521 Speaker 1: oh I'm not feeling attracted to you or things are 177 00:07:07,521 --> 00:07:09,601 Speaker 1: missing for me. Then him go and cheat on me 178 00:07:10,041 --> 00:07:12,361 Speaker 1: or do something outside the relationship and I find out 179 00:07:12,401 --> 00:07:15,401 Speaker 1: like that because me, then the trust is broken and 180 00:07:15,481 --> 00:07:17,521 Speaker 1: the lack of communication it's very hard to come back 181 00:07:17,521 --> 00:07:19,401 Speaker 1: from a repair. Whereas if you're hurt an upset, but 182 00:07:19,441 --> 00:07:21,481 Speaker 1: you've got something to change and work on. You can 183 00:07:21,521 --> 00:07:23,561 Speaker 1: go and do that together, and it only builds a 184 00:07:23,561 --> 00:07:25,961 Speaker 1: stronger foundation of trust, which I think is so important 185 00:07:25,961 --> 00:07:26,801 Speaker 1: in a relationship. 186 00:07:27,681 --> 00:07:29,281 Speaker 2: I think as well, then when you do what you 187 00:07:29,321 --> 00:07:31,521 Speaker 2: just said, you also can go wow, I did everything 188 00:07:31,521 --> 00:07:33,081 Speaker 2: I could to make this relationship work. 189 00:07:33,241 --> 00:07:34,281 Speaker 3: And then once you've. 190 00:07:34,321 --> 00:07:36,281 Speaker 2: Gone through all the options, at least you can if 191 00:07:36,361 --> 00:07:39,081 Speaker 2: you decide you're not happy, you can go wow, I 192 00:07:39,121 --> 00:07:41,801 Speaker 2: actually tried everything, and I feel okay to leave now 193 00:07:42,201 --> 00:07:44,841 Speaker 2: if that's the direction you want to go in. But again, 194 00:07:44,961 --> 00:07:47,281 Speaker 2: not shaming yourself or judging yourself for the fact that 195 00:07:47,321 --> 00:07:49,321 Speaker 2: this has come up and you're in this situation. It's 196 00:07:49,441 --> 00:07:52,201 Speaker 2: really about what you choose from this moment on. That's 197 00:07:52,241 --> 00:07:53,361 Speaker 2: all you need to focus on. 198 00:07:53,561 --> 00:07:57,721 Speaker 1: There was a past Freaky Friday submission and she had 199 00:07:57,881 --> 00:08:00,561 Speaker 1: gone that step further and cheated. It was ages ago 200 00:08:00,961 --> 00:08:02,921 Speaker 1: and the guilt she felt and then she wanted to 201 00:08:02,961 --> 00:08:05,521 Speaker 1: go back and try again, and she was like it 202 00:08:05,641 --> 00:08:08,121 Speaker 1: just was not worth it. She've had so much regret 203 00:08:08,161 --> 00:08:10,041 Speaker 1: and so much shame. So that's just something to think about, 204 00:08:10,121 --> 00:08:11,721 Speaker 1: like you said before, thinking about who you want to 205 00:08:11,761 --> 00:08:13,641 Speaker 1: be and how you would feel if that happened. And 206 00:08:13,721 --> 00:08:16,121 Speaker 1: also I just think put yourself in his shoes, shoes 207 00:08:16,241 --> 00:08:18,201 Speaker 1: and your partner's shoes. You would hate for him to 208 00:08:18,201 --> 00:08:18,681 Speaker 1: be doing this. 209 00:08:18,641 --> 00:08:20,481 Speaker 3: With another woman. Would you break you? 210 00:08:20,841 --> 00:08:22,401 Speaker 1: Yeah, you feel like you're not good enough or your 211 00:08:22,441 --> 00:08:25,041 Speaker 1: insecurities come up, you'd just if you got it'd be 212 00:08:25,121 --> 00:08:27,761 Speaker 1: so sad. So why would you want to inflict that 213 00:08:27,801 --> 00:08:29,921 Speaker 1: on another humor? Yeah, yeah, but they mean. 214 00:08:29,881 --> 00:08:32,401 Speaker 3: To think about appreciate it. We appreciate the honesty. 215 00:08:32,561 --> 00:08:34,201 Speaker 2: And yeah, if you have anything else you want to 216 00:08:34,201 --> 00:08:35,921 Speaker 2: bring in, feel free to write another submission. 217 00:08:35,961 --> 00:08:36,841 Speaker 3: We'd love to hear from you. 218 00:08:37,001 --> 00:08:39,401 Speaker 2: But if anybody else has any submissions like this, we 219 00:08:39,401 --> 00:08:42,161 Speaker 2: would love to hear from you. Bring all the stories in. 220 00:08:42,241 --> 00:08:43,361 Speaker 3: It doesn't have to be like this. 221 00:08:43,441 --> 00:08:45,281 Speaker 2: It can be your own unique story, and that's what 222 00:08:45,321 --> 00:08:47,401 Speaker 2: we want to hear. We want to hear what's authentic 223 00:08:47,441 --> 00:08:49,081 Speaker 2: to you and anything that you've got that you want 224 00:08:49,081 --> 00:08:50,161 Speaker 2: to share or get off the chest. 225 00:08:50,361 --> 00:08:54,001 Speaker 1: And the more details, the more context. 226 00:08:53,641 --> 00:08:54,561 Speaker 3: The better. We love it. 227 00:08:54,721 --> 00:08:57,041 Speaker 1: Yeah, we love the details because it helps us understand 228 00:08:57,041 --> 00:08:59,161 Speaker 1: the situations, what's going on, and this is kind of 229 00:08:59,201 --> 00:09:01,561 Speaker 1: stuff we would talk about in our friendship or without 230 00:09:01,601 --> 00:09:04,281 Speaker 1: other girlfriends or whatever. So the more context and details 231 00:09:04,481 --> 00:09:04,841 Speaker 1: the better. 232 00:09:05,121 --> 00:09:07,481 Speaker 2: Just remember like you're getting Stephanie and Tatiana's like raw 233 00:09:07,561 --> 00:09:09,401 Speaker 2: on his thoughts, like you're going to hear it straight, 234 00:09:09,441 --> 00:09:11,681 Speaker 2: no bullshit, no fluff, no, none of that stuff. 235 00:09:11,481 --> 00:09:12,321 Speaker 3: As we work for each other. 236 00:09:12,481 --> 00:09:15,481 Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, so good, thanks for joining us, guys, see 237 00:09:15,481 --> 00:09:15,961 Speaker 1: you next week. 238 00:09:16,001 --> 00:09:17,361 Speaker 3: Bye,