WEBVTT - ANNA'S BABY GENDER REVEAL: IT'S A..... 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.600 Hi, I'm your uncle Matt, and I think you are 0:00:02.640 --> 0:00:03.040 a boy. 0:00:04.040 --> 0:00:14.360 No big bite. 0:00:14.480 --> 0:00:19.640 Where's Your Head At? Is a podcast that talks all things. 0:00:19.720 --> 0:00:23.000 Hold on a sec, let's give this a refresh. 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:24.680 Hi. 0:00:25.079 --> 0:00:27.720 I'm Anna and I'm Matt, and we are now too 0:00:27.760 --> 0:00:30.680 newlywed not to each other. 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Yes, and 0:01:06.319 --> 0:01:09.000 when you bude into this cupcake, it's going to reveal 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:10.959 the gender of the baby. 0:01:11.200 --> 0:01:15.959 I've done some some in the mirror like reactions. 0:01:15.360 --> 0:01:20.000 Like practice, practice, so I'll be don't want to let 0:01:20.080 --> 0:01:20.400 us down. 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:22.000 I don't want to let everyone down. And we want 0:01:22.000 --> 0:01:24.119 the real and the TikTok to look good, so I'll 0:01:26.120 --> 0:01:27.479 I'll do some good reaction. 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:30.720 Don't do a fake reaction. I actually want to like 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:32.039 genuine reaction from you. 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:34.039 Well, when you told me you're pregnant was like a 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:38.559 genuine reaction. I had no idea find Zero was even 0:01:38.600 --> 0:01:39.080 going on. 0:01:39.400 --> 0:01:41.840 You were like, weren't we talking about this in this episode? 0:01:41.880 --> 0:01:43.119 I really wanted to talk about that. 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:46.760 Yeah, yeah, that was That was a funny one. That 0:01:46.840 --> 0:01:49.240 was good. Oh yeah, I was complaining about we weren't 0:01:49.240 --> 0:01:50.520 talking about I feel like you. 0:01:50.480 --> 0:01:54.000 Need to surprise me, like you're getting a lot of surprises. Okay, 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:55.880 Zero want some surprises. 0:01:55.920 --> 0:01:58.560 Okay, Well i'll tell you what this is a surprise then, Okay, Okay, 0:01:58.600 --> 0:01:59.040 let's do it. 0:01:59.200 --> 0:01:59.840 I'm excited. 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:04.680 So I'm obviously very heavily into my American football not playing. 0:02:04.720 --> 0:02:06.440 Don't worry, I'm not trying to surprise for me or 0:02:06.480 --> 0:02:08.600 you for everyone. 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:09.399 Okay. 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:13.600 I So we have a league of fantasy football, and we. 0:02:13.520 --> 0:02:16.000 Know describe a listener of the podcast. 0:02:16.080 --> 0:02:19.079 We know you know. Fantasy football is real players play 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:22.400 a real game for our fake league, winning fake points 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:24.480 for real winners. It's a hard to examin but there's 0:02:24.480 --> 0:02:27.640 the whole thing to it. I in the second back 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:29.640 end of the season did very poorly with like the 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:33.160 wedding and Honeymoon didn't make many trades got at the 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:35.239 better of me. My players started to flop. I was 0:02:35.240 --> 0:02:39.080 getting really annoyed. Thought I drafted very well. The loser 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:41.320 of the league's punishment. 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:43.080 Are you the loser of the league? 0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:46.920 Okay? The loser of the punishment is they need to 0:02:46.919 --> 0:02:49.799 do a stand up act at a like a local 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:52.640 stand up comic. What the word like? 0:02:52.680 --> 0:02:53.400 A comedy show? 0:02:53.480 --> 0:02:56.040 Comedy show? Yeah, so the loser is so I didn't 0:02:56.040 --> 0:02:59.120 come last. I was in the game, and the loser 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:02.760 has to do that. I scored one hundred and thirty 0:03:02.800 --> 0:03:06.760 seven point nine eight and my opponent, Trent, scored one 0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:10.519 hundred and thirty six point six eight, So I lost 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:15.280 by one, sorry, by one point thirty. Now I'm the 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:17.720 vice commissioner of the league, and I said, to be 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:20.520 a good sport, I will do an act as well. 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:23.600 Because you've always wanted to do one. It's not even 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:26.720 a punishment to you. You've literally you probably came up 0:03:26.720 --> 0:03:29.399 with the punishment knowing that you weren't. 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:30.080 Going to do well. 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:34.280 So everybody, it's we've spoken about dates. I'll put it 0:03:34.320 --> 0:03:36.360 on my Instagram, I'll put it on the podcast. It 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:40.160 would be probably halfway between super Bowl and Draft night, 0:03:40.160 --> 0:03:41.800 I'm going to do a standup act in Melbourne. 0:03:41.920 --> 0:03:44.280 I'll probably be giving birth, so I don't know if 0:03:44.320 --> 0:03:45.880 time to make it. 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:48.000 I'll try and make it then before you have birth 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:50.280 or after? Yeah, so I right. 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:54.480 May ideally okay before really may. So basically my surprise 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:56.200 is that you're doing a comedy. 0:03:57.160 --> 0:03:59.160 How could you ask for anything else? Because you honestly 0:03:59.160 --> 0:04:02.200 asked for a vetters for happy? I am, I am, 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:04.320 I'm really happy. I am having going to come down 0:04:04.520 --> 0:04:07.120 one hundred cent. She's excited for it. That's or maybe 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:09.000 a little bit nervous. I'll be all right. 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:12.920 I like the thing is is the one thing about 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:16.200 Matt if I feel like you guys know Matt, but 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:19.000 just more a little more insight, is he doesn't really 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:22.320 get embarrassed. And he says to me that I feel 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:24.680 like other people would get embarrassed about and you just 0:04:24.720 --> 0:04:28.160 have no shame, no nothing like Michael says, you would 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:31.279 be like great salesman in the eighties. 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:33.520 Eighties. 0:04:33.760 --> 0:04:36.559 Why is that you're so rogue, so roque? 0:04:36.600 --> 0:04:39.159 Yeah, I probably good time. 0:04:39.760 --> 0:04:41.720 He's got the more going on as well, guys. I 0:04:41.800 --> 0:04:42.760 feel like a. 0:04:42.720 --> 0:04:45.400 Great salesman in the eighties that I was a great 0:04:45.400 --> 0:04:48.000 salesman in like twenty twenty something, I did. 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:49.120 Well, you are a good salesman. 0:04:49.160 --> 0:04:50.200 Soot it. 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:51.799 But yeah, no, just a bit roque. 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:53.440 The boys are laughing. They're saying, you know, it's not 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:54.800 just going to be usset. There's going to be like 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:58.120 people coming to watch a stand up show. I'm going 0:04:58.160 --> 0:05:00.440 to be doing it. So that was my side surprise 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:02.240 for you. What to give it to. 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:05.360 Your Do you want to give me the cupcake? 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:05.799 Okay? 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:11.160 So should I start by saying that this cupcake is 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:15.720 a homemade cupcake? Well, it's well not homemade, it's col's bored. 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:21.080 But for all of my other cupcake reveals, I basically 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:24.320 put an order into a proper cupcake shop and they 0:05:24.400 --> 0:05:27.120 had either pink or blue in the middle. 0:05:27.160 --> 0:05:27.599 Oh my god, I. 0:05:27.600 --> 0:05:28.520 Almost gave it away. 0:05:29.440 --> 0:05:30.520 I almost said it. 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:33.440 Okay that I didn't imagin't pick up on xing some 0:05:33.560 --> 0:05:34.599 daydream lancets. 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:35.880 You were talking. 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:43.760 Anyway, So this morning I went to cold and got 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:48.920 some food dye and our producer has kindly done something 0:05:48.960 --> 0:05:51.080 with it. So you need to look like at me, 0:05:51.480 --> 0:05:54.400 and then you're gonna open it and I'm also going 0:05:54.400 --> 0:05:56.599 to do a video, so I'm going to film you 0:05:57.360 --> 0:05:59.480 whilst doing it. So this is how it has to go. 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:02.320 So do you want to be called uncle Matt? Which 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:02.760 is Matt? 0:06:03.080 --> 0:06:05.320 Uncle Matt? I sound like I have a kid show. 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:11.720 So you're gonna say, Hi, I'm your uncle Matt and 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:15.000 I think you're a and then I buy it. Yeah, 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:16.400 so you have no You have to say I think 0:06:16.400 --> 0:06:19.080 you're a what do you think is a boy? And 0:06:19.120 --> 0:06:22.400 then you bite it and then show without looking. No, 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:24.440 you can look and then you'll know the answer. 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:27.280 Okay, we'll have food die all over my teeth. 0:06:27.960 --> 0:06:29.599 Because it's like a lot of food. 0:06:31.080 --> 0:06:32.479 All right, let's do it now. You made me a little 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:33.760 bit nervous that it's like all official. 0:06:33.839 --> 0:06:37.080 Here is the cupcake. Let me get my phone ready. 0:06:37.040 --> 0:06:38.839 Yeah, so I'm looking at the cupcake now. There is 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:41.160 no evidence of any color and it so Blake's done 0:06:41.200 --> 0:06:42.839 a really good job at that. 0:06:43.600 --> 0:06:44.920 Okay are you ready? 0:06:45.080 --> 0:06:45.359 Yes? 0:06:46.240 --> 0:06:49.839 Don't look at the bottom because it's in the bottom. Okay, Hello, 0:06:50.040 --> 0:06:54.840 what do I say You're going to so they say Hi, 0:06:55.080 --> 0:06:57.200 I'm your uncle Matt and I think you're a. 0:06:57.520 --> 0:07:00.919 Okay, Hi, I'm your uncle Matt, and I think you 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:01.559 are a boy. 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:03.560 No big bite. 0:07:07.200 --> 0:07:14.520 Spirit for boy. It's a congratulations. Congratulations. 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:18.320 That is a lot of food die and Matt is 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:19.640 currently Oh. 0:07:19.600 --> 0:07:25.679 My god, congratulations. I had a feeling in my stomach 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:26.960 that you were going to have a boy. I don't 0:07:26.960 --> 0:07:29.080 know why, I just saw it. And you want you 0:07:29.120 --> 0:07:31.600 want a boy? I think to as the oldest. Like 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:33.120 I said in last week's episode. 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:35.640 It's because you're the eldest and so like your mum 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:37.360 had a boy first, So I feel like you want 0:07:37.400 --> 0:07:38.440 what you had kind of thing. 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:41.320 Yeah, I will. Yeah, well I want like I've got 0:07:41.320 --> 0:07:43.880 Wolf obviously as my stepsum but like Wolf is like 0:07:43.920 --> 0:07:47.160 you're mini me exactly. Yeah, And it's like you know 0:07:47.200 --> 0:07:49.480 it's I like, I feel happy for Michael. He's going 0:07:49.520 --> 0:07:50.320 to have that experience. 0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:54.240 Yeah, Staple's name. Let me see your teeth now, it's 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:55.120 just like a tinge of blue. 0:07:55.520 --> 0:07:56.320 I'm going to finish this. 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:57.240 Is it good? 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:00.320 Your tongue is so blue. 0:08:02.720 --> 0:08:06.920 I mean, I don't mind a cupcake in the morning. 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:11.760 That is fully stuffy with this cupcake. So anyway, it's 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:17.600 a boy. We were so excited to find out, genuinely 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:20.880 when we did the gender reveal. So we did it 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:23.400 and we had a big cake and we did the 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:28.239 cut the glasses in the cake, and we both said 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:30.560 before we were like, it's definitely a girl. Like there 0:08:30.640 --> 0:08:33.120 was nothing inside of me that even thought. 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:34.959 It could be except for the actual baby. 0:08:35.200 --> 0:08:37.079 Except the actual baby. 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:38.439 I'm a boy. 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:39.080 Yeah. 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:41.080 And then literally when we put it in, I was 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:44.640 so shocked, Like my reaction was genuine, like when I 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:47.040 told you that I was pregnant. I had the same 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:50.400 genuine shock of like, what, it's a boy. 0:08:50.640 --> 0:08:53.360 Really? There was no intuition, no, like. 0:08:53.440 --> 0:08:57.319 No mother's intuition. I mean, I will say that six 0:08:57.360 --> 0:08:59.960 months prior to even trying to get pregnant, I had 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:03.520 the most vivid dream and I literally saw myself holding 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:06.120 a baby boy. And I literally woke up that morning 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:08.120 and was like to Michael, I know that our first 0:09:08.120 --> 0:09:10.240 baby is going to be a boy. But when we 0:09:10.240 --> 0:09:14.400 were trying every month, I was like, it'll be a boy. 0:09:14.480 --> 0:09:16.880 And then the month that we actually got pregnant, I 0:09:16.920 --> 0:09:18.839 said to Michael, if it's this month, I think it. 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:19.520 Could be a girl. 0:09:20.640 --> 0:09:22.480 So it was boy boy, boy, boy boy, And then 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:24.280 just randomly I thought it. 0:09:24.200 --> 0:09:28.280 Was a girl, and I do you have names. The 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:32.000 name's locked in, The name's locked in. Locked won't say 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:36.960 it on the podcast? Would you tell me? No? No, no, 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:38.319 you don't want to say. Why is that? 0:09:39.160 --> 0:09:42.360 I mean, I think I just want it to be 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:45.319 a bit of a surprise. Maybe I'll tell I think 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:47.240 it's a bit of more. It's nice as a surprise. 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:48.560 Maybe I'll give some clues out. 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:52.160 Yeah, but then someone guesses, but I won't. 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:55.120 Confirm or deny. Maybe I can confirm if someone says it, 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:57.920 but not like this is the name. 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:02.120 It did. So we spoke about this on the phone today. 0:10:02.280 --> 0:10:04.520 Was there any like the wife's tales that you feel 0:10:04.520 --> 0:10:05.160 came true? 0:10:05.960 --> 0:10:09.760 Literally, none of the wives tales came true. Like the 0:10:09.840 --> 0:10:12.600 reason why I was so confident when we did this 0:10:12.720 --> 0:10:16.720 gender reveal is because every single wife's tale, everything that 0:10:16.760 --> 0:10:20.560 I was feeling was girl, girl, girl, girl, girl, Like 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:25.240 there was nothing. Oh, I think the baby's heart rate 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:29.480 was one forty five, and they say that under one forty. 0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:33.640 I don't know something along those lines, but it was 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:36.440 so close to one forty. And it's like lower as 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:40.720 one gender, higher as another. But yeah, all of the 0:10:40.760 --> 0:10:43.960 wives tales are bre So if you're pregnant and looking 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:46.680 at the Wife's Tales. None of them worked for me. 0:10:47.040 --> 0:10:48.920 Michael was telling me the whole time. He's like, you 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:51.720 can't trust these, like they're not scientifically proven. And I 0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:52.600 was like, yes, do you care. 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:54.240 Did you say an old Greek lady came up to 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:55.200 you and said you've got a boy? 0:10:55.440 --> 0:10:58.520 Yeah, so our neighbor. Actually I think. 0:10:58.400 --> 0:10:58.920 She's a witch. 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:03.199 No, I feel like the Greeks just have that intuish shado. 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:07.360 So yeah, our neighbor. She's this beautiful Greek woman. And 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:09.880 she came up to me and touched my tummy and 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:12.920 she's like, congratulations on your little boy. And I was like, 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:15.240 did I tell you that? And she's like, no, I 0:11:15.240 --> 0:11:16.920 can just tell by the shape of your tummy. And 0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:19.880 I was like, but it's so funny because what the 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:22.920 internet says about my tummy is that I'm having a girl. 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:25.120 Like the look of my tummy to me, looks. 0:11:24.880 --> 0:11:25.360 Like a girl. 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:25.880 Yeah. 0:11:25.960 --> 0:11:29.200 Look, But even the receptionist here at Nova was like, 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:31.880 I think I can tell it's a boy by the shape. 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:33.040 She did say something that. 0:11:34.480 --> 0:11:34.800 I know. 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:37.040 I know the wives tales, I don't know how true 0:11:37.040 --> 0:11:39.280 they are, guys, I know that we love we love 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:42.600 old I loved an old wife tale until well. 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:44.840 We've spoke in the last episode about conspiracy theories. I'll 0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:46.600 get into it, but as soon as someone starts getting 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:51.600 into it, I'm like, come on, like, there's nothing like. 0:11:52.040 --> 0:11:54.720 It's fun to participate in. I will say that it 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:55.600 is fun, but when. 0:11:55.520 --> 0:11:59.040 Song gets passionate and actually believes it, You're like, like, 0:11:59.120 --> 0:12:02.000 come on, come on on, the FBI to do with that? 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:03.760 Literally. 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:07.800 So yeah, anyway, we're having a little boy. I'm so excited, 0:12:08.559 --> 0:12:09.400 so excited. 0:12:10.240 --> 0:12:13.400 I'm excited for you. Amazing. Yah, I get him into wrestling? 0:12:13.880 --> 0:12:15.960 What am I getting into wrestle? I don't know When's 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:19.800 uncle Matt takes him to wrestling. That's so crazy though. 0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:24.120 I feel like twenty twenty four we weren't stressed out 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:26.680 about the baby at all, and then twenty twenty five 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:29.800 hit and we've been like, is our house speak enough? 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:32.320 Like we live in a two bedroom house. We like, 0:12:32.360 --> 0:12:35.480 where's the stuff that obviously the baby's nursery is my 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:38.080 current makeup room. So I'm like, where is all my 0:12:38.160 --> 0:12:41.760 makeup room stuff gonna go? Where's do we have enough 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:44.640 of space here? We need a new car because we 0:12:45.280 --> 0:12:48.360 share a car. Michael and I and it's a low car, 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:53.200 and Michael's sister has been like they've hurt that both 0:12:53.240 --> 0:12:56.360 of them have hurt their back from like getting in 0:12:56.400 --> 0:12:58.720 and out of the car. I mean you, Timmy has 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:00.600 a high car. Will you guys have a high time 0:13:00.840 --> 0:13:03.280 so you wouldn't be breaking your back, But yeah, going 0:13:03.360 --> 0:13:07.200 low to get the bag just like so much. I 0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:09.520 just think that the whole pregnancy feels so much more 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:13.080 real now that it's a boy. And also now that 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:17.680 it's this year, the baby comes this year, It's it's 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:19.760 very close, it's very incoming. 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:24.320 Very close. Like it's halfway halfway, aren't you. Yeah, well 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:26.000 about your makeup room though. 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:28.520 Babies halfway halfway this week. 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:30.720 Having a child is about sacrifice, So you'll have to 0:13:30.760 --> 0:13:31.880 sacrifice your makeup room. 0:13:32.080 --> 0:13:34.200 Yeah no, I think I'm gonna have to just downside, 0:13:34.240 --> 0:13:37.480 get a smaller one and just put it somewhere random 0:13:37.520 --> 0:13:38.160 in the house. 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:39.720 We're all fit. 0:13:40.080 --> 0:13:41.480 Do you need a makeup thing? 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:42.000 Yeah? 0:13:42.200 --> 0:13:43.840 So we're are we going to do my makeup? I 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:47.160 sit on there every morning if I'm doing makeup, or 0:13:47.160 --> 0:13:48.360 at least to brush my hair. 0:13:48.600 --> 0:13:53.160 Foreign foreign thing. I don't understand that first. Real problems, 0:13:54.760 --> 0:13:57.480 problems just a girl. Should we get into today's episode. 0:13:57.640 --> 0:14:02.280 Let's do it and we're friends. 0:14:02.679 --> 0:14:03.440 We are friends. 0:14:03.480 --> 0:14:06.440 We are friends, but you've got to admit, like with 0:14:06.640 --> 0:14:10.080 like me moving up to the Gold Coast, you've been pregnant, 0:14:10.120 --> 0:14:13.640 me having a fa like literally a family, adopted family 0:14:13.679 --> 0:14:15.880 almost what you can call that? How do you call it? 0:14:15.960 --> 0:14:16.240 Built in? 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:18.640 Built in family? That's the word. Got built in family. 0:14:18.720 --> 0:14:22.680 Now it does get hard to hang out and socialize with, 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:25.520 you know, your friends at this age as well. I 0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:28.800 feel like you know, I'm working nine till five each day, 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:30.960 get home, I want to go gym. You got to 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:33.160 spend time with your wife, quality time with her and 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:35.200 the kids and all that. It gets hard to make 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:37.080 time and prioritize seeing. 0:14:36.840 --> 0:14:40.600 Your friends one hundred percent. I think, how old are 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:41.040 you now? 0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:44.520 I'm twenty nine, so you're thirty this year thirtieth? 0:14:45.240 --> 0:14:46.200 Are you having a thirtieth? 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:48.920 Yeah, that's the plan. Nothing a couple of months away. 0:14:49.640 --> 0:14:53.960 I wanted to do what July the fourth. I wanted 0:14:53.960 --> 0:14:55.160 to do white Christmas. 0:14:54.840 --> 0:14:57.280 In July in Gold Coast or in Melbourne. 0:14:57.880 --> 0:15:00.440 I haven't sought that far ahead, but Tammy's. 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:00.600 Keep in mind. 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:03.560 I'll be like with a baby, I might have to 0:15:03.720 --> 0:15:06.840 here because it'd be like what my friendship circles here? Yeah, 0:15:06.960 --> 0:15:09.200 you know what I mean. Like, but I want to 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:10.320 do a white Christmas in July. 0:15:10.480 --> 0:15:11.280 It's so fun. 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:13.640 Yeah, Tammy wasn't two about it, Like as you have 0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:16.400 like white Christmas trees, white Christmas decorations, like we all 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:18.600 wear Christmas jumpers, have like a roast dinner. 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:19.920 That sounds fun. 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:22.120 Yeah that she I don't know, maybe she has something 0:15:22.160 --> 0:15:24.040 else planned. We'll touch on that later. 0:15:24.360 --> 0:15:26.520 We'll touch back on that. But my point is is 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:29.400 that we are now I'm going to say, you're in 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:30.440 your thirties now, yeah. 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:31.920 Them, and you've been saying you're in your thirties for 0:15:32.000 --> 0:15:32.840 about two years. 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:36.200 Let's just actually accept it because this year you will 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:39.840 be thirty, will be thirty. I'm thirty two. I'll be 0:15:39.880 --> 0:15:44.600 thirty three in April as well. No, we're getting on. 0:15:44.800 --> 0:15:49.320 So I think friendships in your twenties are so different 0:15:49.800 --> 0:15:51.880 to friendships in your thirties. And I think that we 0:15:52.080 --> 0:15:56.480 both realized that. I think in the past like three 0:15:56.520 --> 0:15:59.680 to four kind of years, we've kind of spoken about 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:01.800 it here in there. Obviously, I had a friendship breakup 0:16:02.680 --> 0:16:06.360 last year. Which was super challenging and difficult, but I've 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:08.640 just kind of let that go now and I'm just like, 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:11.320 you know, it was obviously not meant to. 0:16:11.240 --> 0:16:14.120 Be apart from well, we'll get into all that sort 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:14.720 of stuff. 0:16:14.440 --> 0:16:17.080 But yeah, you grow apart from friends. But I think 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:20.400 that there's also different tiers of friends that you have. 0:16:20.600 --> 0:16:23.520 So like, you're kind of and this sounds like bad, 0:16:23.560 --> 0:16:25.440 but you have kind of like your eighteen which is 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:28.240 the closest of the closest people to you who you 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:31.040 don't want to lose out of your life. I agree, 0:16:31.240 --> 0:16:35.120 And then you'll have like a B tier of friends, 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:35.720 the B team. 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:39.000 I would always I would always say growing up, my 0:16:39.040 --> 0:16:41.160 mates would always say like you'd say, oh, mates for them, 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:43.160 and you'd be like, they just a disco mate. You 0:16:43.200 --> 0:16:44.600 there's something that you just meet out. 0:16:44.720 --> 0:16:46.840 You might talk to you when you're out your clubbing friend, 0:16:47.400 --> 0:16:49.920 You're not gonna like, you know, you'd say blah blah, 0:16:49.920 --> 0:16:51.960 and you know, he's just a mate that's like a 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:53.880 Clayton's through mates and you know you chat to him 0:16:53.880 --> 0:16:54.800 at a club or something. 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:56.600 You know you're not gonna get a coffee with them 0:16:56.680 --> 0:16:57.320 during the week. 0:16:57.560 --> 0:16:59.800 I mean, you might if you were like, but yeah, 0:16:59.880 --> 0:17:03.680 you have to really like force enforce that friendship, make 0:17:03.760 --> 0:17:04.840 it happen, make it happen. 0:17:04.920 --> 0:17:08.640 Yeah. Well, we both had this come up last year 0:17:08.840 --> 0:17:13.800 with our wedding invites, right, we both saw where people 0:17:13.960 --> 0:17:18.879 fall into and what category category frame they are. And 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:21.640 obviously I had a lot of people that I would 0:17:21.680 --> 0:17:23.400 want to avite and I'm sure you did, but they 0:17:23.440 --> 0:17:26.120 weren't in that original because we obviously half to lose 0:17:26.160 --> 0:17:28.879 to each they weren't in my top like fifty people. 0:17:28.920 --> 0:17:31.679 And I was like, so it's kind of hard, like 0:17:31.680 --> 0:17:33.320 you said, like you've got to figure out that at 0:17:33.320 --> 0:17:35.000 this age as well, where the tears fall. 0:17:35.160 --> 0:17:37.399 And it's also do you know what, I think this 0:17:37.480 --> 0:17:40.200 is such a big thing when you do hit your thirties. 0:17:40.240 --> 0:17:43.400 I feel like you go through these big milestone events 0:17:43.440 --> 0:17:47.040 like Matt was saying, the wedding or the engagement party 0:17:47.119 --> 0:17:50.360 or having a baby, and you kind of look around 0:17:50.560 --> 0:17:53.400 and you have to really evaluate, like am I going 0:17:53.440 --> 0:17:56.040 to pay two hundred dollars for this person's head at 0:17:56.040 --> 0:17:59.520 my wedding? Are they have I spoken to this person 0:17:59.600 --> 0:18:02.800 in the past six months or as someone who's pregnant 0:18:03.359 --> 0:18:06.040 has has this friend checked in on me to see 0:18:06.040 --> 0:18:10.119