WEBVTT - Revealing our biggest failures 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:03.720 Hey guys, it's Hailey here. Right before you start this podcast, 0:00:03.800 --> 0:00:05.160 I just want to tell you, first of all, we 0:00:05.240 --> 0:00:08.399 love you, thanks for listening. But second of all, Lauren 0:00:08.640 --> 0:00:11.600 had her baby, Yes, she did, a little baby gurnie 0:00:11.680 --> 0:00:16.200 girl called Florence, And this podcast we recorded right before 0:00:16.600 --> 0:00:20.240 she was sliced open, So enjoy. She will talk about 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:24.160 nesting and we're actually going to open up about some crazy, big, 0:00:24.640 --> 0:00:27.760 wild mistakes we have made as business owners together. And 0:00:27.880 --> 0:00:31.320 next week, next week you will hear the first ever 0:00:31.400 --> 0:00:34.880 podcast with Lauren as a mum of two, with little 0:00:34.920 --> 0:00:38.320 Florence on our lap. So sit back, relax and enjoy. 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:43.640 Love you ad A lady and lady, A lady, ad lady. Hello. Hello, 0:00:43.840 --> 0:00:46.879 is Hailey Pierson here and my bestie Lauren de Chez Roy. 0:00:46.920 --> 0:00:50.159 How are you? I am very well? And Betty the 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:51.199 dog she's also here. 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:52.879 Oh she just loves this curling up. 0:00:53.040 --> 0:00:56.160 She nestles her little nose into your fanny every single 0:00:56.160 --> 0:00:59.160 podcast every week. Yeah safe space, Yeah, she loves it's warmth. 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:02.920 We're besties, we're business partners. We're the creators of Adelaidy, 0:01:03.000 --> 0:01:05.840 Haloes Hay and Hay Lawsy Media and we do everything together. 0:01:05.959 --> 0:01:10.640 Except bang. All right, Peerson, what have we got today? 0:01:10.640 --> 0:01:11.360 On the shopping list? 0:01:11.520 --> 0:01:15.960 We are talking about some of our epic failures in business. 0:01:16.000 --> 0:01:17.920 Oh yeah, and we want to kind of lift the 0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:21.200 curtain because we are best friends, but we also run 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:25.000 a business together and have for ten years, multiple businesses really, and. 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:27.200 Running a business for us is like a marriage. We 0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:29.440 have to make sure it's streamlined and there's good respect, 0:01:29.760 --> 0:01:32.000 good communication, and we don't bang. 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:34.199 And we don't bang. That would make it really messy. 0:01:34.240 --> 0:01:36.039 It would make Yeah, it's too messy, but I would 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:37.120 if you needed me to. 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:40.080 That's really nice. You know, I've done it one time 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:41.600 and what happens. 0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:43.200 So that's coming up. 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:47.440 And also I am in full nesting mode and I 0:01:47.520 --> 0:01:50.520 just kind of want to break down nesting because Magpie, yep, 0:01:50.640 --> 0:01:53.040 it is a thing. It is a real thing. 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:55.880 Yeah all right, well, the Member of the week, I 0:01:55.920 --> 0:01:58.560 just wanted to quickly share this with you because it's 0:01:58.640 --> 0:02:00.840 kind of like a nesting thing as you prepare to 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:04.120 have your child and you don't know that your future 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:06.680 baby will be a dictator like your other child. Yeah, 0:02:06.720 --> 0:02:09.240 because I also have a dictator. I have a lord 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:11.400 in my house, Alfie, like I pray have to be 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:14.960 bowed down to him every morning, and I just want 0:02:15.000 --> 0:02:16.520 to just lift the curtain of what it's like at 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:19.200 my house in the morning. If I wake my child, 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:23.360 if I don't wake my child up, alfie, he yells 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:25.440 at us that I didn't wake him up early enough, 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:27.320 and then he refuses to go to school because I 0:02:27.400 --> 0:02:28.720 was my fault that I didn't wake him up. 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:29.680 I can see that. 0:02:29.880 --> 0:02:31.760 So this morning I went in there. I gave him 0:02:31.760 --> 0:02:33.720 a kiss. This morning, darling, all right, time to get up, 0:02:33.800 --> 0:02:36.799 let's go. Doesn't do it. Twenty minutes later, our feet 0:02:36.840 --> 0:02:39.040 get out of bed. It's time to get up. And 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:42.320 then I hear from his room, mom yelling at me. 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:45.119 Is not going to get me out of bed. I'm 0:02:45.160 --> 0:02:48.840 sorry if you yell, I'm staying in bed. I need 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:52.640 a better wake up. So I walk him there, Good morning, darling, 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:55.359 I love you so much. Time to get up now. 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:57.680 And then he goes thank you, and then gets up 0:02:57.680 --> 0:02:58.320 and has a shower. 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:03.000 What why do you and I both have dictated children? 0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:05.960 And and do you know what? I bowed down to 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:08.600 it too, Like Jimmy's always like just let him do it, 0:03:08.639 --> 0:03:12.280 like stop doing everything for him. But I just do 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:14.520 it like I'd made him his breakfast, I made him 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:17.240 his lunch the rap. I know for a fact he'll 0:03:17.240 --> 0:03:18.880 complain about the chicken in the rap because it was 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:21.359 a little bit too wet, like I should have dried it, 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:23.600 like patted it more dry with them because it was 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:25.679 too much mayonnaise. And he'll say, it's too wet. 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:26.960 You should have done that? Why would I? 0:03:27.000 --> 0:03:28.680 And then he'll throw out his apple because they might 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:30.560 be like slightly bruised. 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:32.560 Oh my gosh, I'm with Olphie. Do I need to 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:33.320 adopt your child? 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:36.680 You would have been this is the thing. I wasn't 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:38.320 likee this. You were that child. 0:03:38.320 --> 0:03:40.160 I was that child, Like if mum bought the wrong 0:03:40.200 --> 0:03:42.800 prec for my panini, it was over. 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:44.840 Oh my god, will you that little quick child? Did 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:47.240 you have a little like kalamato olives and some domades? 0:03:47.320 --> 0:03:49.920 Yeah, I'd have like tatamara and fetta in a panini, 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:52.800 or I'd have like precto sundried tomato and Gilsberg. And 0:03:52.800 --> 0:03:54.800 if she bought like not the Sun done it Daniella, 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:58.200 which is like the expensive aged one, I could tell 0:03:58.680 --> 0:03:59.920 don't be skimping on preci. 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:03.040 You were that kid in school that a dormardy fell 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:05.680 out of his school bag. What's that on the ground. 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:06.720 It's just my dominey. 0:04:06.840 --> 0:04:08.680 I was like the boy where I'd cut up my 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:09.320 own salami. 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:13.520 I had my own little meat slas it would have 0:04:13.720 --> 0:04:15.520 no thinner mom thinner. 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:17.839 Like my dad when he goes to Romeos at Mitcham, 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:20.840 I swear they must all dodge because he goes, I'll 0:04:20.880 --> 0:04:23.920 have a kilo of thanks. I'll come back in twenty minutes. 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:26.400 I want it extra thin, and then he like makes 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:29.320 them hold it to the light. He goes thinner, thinner, 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:31.880 he doesn't thinner, all right, I'll be back in twenty 0:04:32.160 --> 0:04:34.440 Yes See, I wish I was like that. I wish 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:36.960 I could be more demanding, would be a tile. But 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:39.080 I feel bad. I don't want to put them out. Sorry, 0:04:39.080 --> 0:04:40.360 but yeah, that was a. 0:04:40.279 --> 0:04:41.080 Big part of life. 0:04:41.160 --> 0:04:43.800 And if it's thick, Dad doesn't enjoy it. He likes 0:04:43.880 --> 0:04:46.920 lots of slices thin. And the fact that they hold 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:48.919 it to the light. I'm like, I'm so sorry, and 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:51.720 they know it's my dad, Like that'll be when they 0:04:51.720 --> 0:04:53.279 grow up, And can I just say as well? Speaking 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:57.720 of Dictator, yesterday, Sophia was just on another level like 0:04:57.800 --> 0:05:00.400 Burg and I were like, when she gets her period 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:03.760 one day, we're all running like boarding school or living 0:05:03.760 --> 0:05:04.680 with grandber Yeah. 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:06.599 Yeah, boarding school, but you'll live like two k's away. 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:10.520 Yeah exactly. She literally said to Bergo, oh my god, 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:13.520 and he just was stunned. She goes, are you the parent, 0:05:13.680 --> 0:05:15.080 and he goes, yeah, I am the parent. She goes, well, 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:16.200 maybe you should act like it. 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:22.520 She did not say that. She did yep, five five. 0:05:22.720 --> 0:05:23.840 I'm actually scared of her. 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:24.800 I'm so scared of her. 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:26.240 But he should be the parent. What was he doing 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:28.040 that wasn't he was parent being an idiot, not being 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:28.479 a parent. 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:31.520 He was having good tangrum about something. 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:34.280 She didn't eat her eggs. She didn't eat her eggs. 0:05:34.360 --> 0:05:37.039 She didn't eat her eggs that we bought from you know, 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:39.680 handsome Max of delicious eggs, and then they went cold. 0:05:40.040 --> 0:05:42.680 And then she goes, these eggs are cold. My well, 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:44.760 maybe if you'd eaten them twenty minutes ago when we 0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:45.719 bought them they were hot. 0:05:45.760 --> 0:05:47.680 But she doesn't want you to heat them up because 0:05:47.680 --> 0:05:49.839 then they won't taste the same. No, yeah, they'll be 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:50.240 too hot. 0:05:50.440 --> 0:05:52.440 And so then Bergo was stressing, like, eat your eggs 0:05:52.440 --> 0:05:55.080 and she was just getting so angry at him, and 0:05:55.120 --> 0:05:57.840 she turns like she's a Gemini. Yeah, she goes from 0:05:57.880 --> 0:06:01.320 happy little Sofia to like crazy little Sophia. And then 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:03.800 she said that, and I was like, we're done, Like 0:06:03.880 --> 0:06:06.600 this baby has to be calm. 0:06:06.920 --> 0:06:09.920 Well, they say the second one is the crazy one. No, 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:11.320 I know they do. 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:11.800 I can't. 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:13.880 They do say that. Everyone's in the room's nodding. My 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:18.800 second one's the wild one. They always say the second one. No, No, 0:06:20.120 --> 0:06:22.360 I feel like you have a plastic baby. Anyway, there's 0:06:22.360 --> 0:06:24.480 a little man. So if you have a little dictator child, 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:29.400 welcome to the dictatorship. Welcome. Let's go into what you 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:30.800 want to talk about. Nesting. 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:33.720 Yes, oh my gosh, did you go through this when 0:06:33.760 --> 0:06:34.400 you were pregnant? 0:06:34.480 --> 0:06:37.679 Nesting? Yeah? When you say nesting, you mean just getting 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:40.200 everything ready for the baby in your house, right, yes. 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:43.200 And it's like the end of pregnancy. You have this surge, 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:46.400 like this massive surge of energy. And I was looking 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:48.080 into it because the last couple of weeks, every time 0:06:48.120 --> 0:06:50.839 I buy something, every time I do something, I go 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:53.640 to bedroom, it's nesting. It's nesting. You wouldn't understand and 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:55.640 He's like, it's nesting a thing. So I was like, 0:06:56.440 --> 0:06:57.480 let's google nesting. 0:06:57.560 --> 0:06:58.320 What does it say? 0:06:58.400 --> 0:07:03.320 And it's actually a proper thing, a biological thing that happens. 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:06.560 It's not just a social construct. Just like birds, cats 0:07:06.560 --> 0:07:10.680 and dogs prepare sheltered areas for their litters, humans experiences 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:16.160 innate protective instinct to secure their environment. So your hormones 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:20.400 surge and late pregnancy hormonal shifts are widely believed to 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:24.160 trigger this sudden burst of energy. Deep cleaning, nursery prep 0:07:24.520 --> 0:07:27.560 washing clothes. Like yesterday, there was eight errands. We had 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:30.520 to go to eight different places yesterday so I could 0:07:30.560 --> 0:07:33.880 collect everything because in my brain, I have to get 0:07:33.920 --> 0:07:35.960 this nursery ready, even though she's not going to be 0:07:36.000 --> 0:07:36.760 in her nursery. 0:07:37.000 --> 0:07:38.320 I needed to tell you what's going on in my 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:41.880 brain at the moment. This is just my brain. Because 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:44.040 you're nesting and you're doing all your errands, and you're 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:46.920 outdoing things. I'm picturing you as a as a human 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:49.040 bird with a big beak, and every time you would 0:07:49.080 --> 0:07:51.040 get the things from your errands, you'd deal with your beak, 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:53.800 and then you come home and you make the bed. 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:59.760 If you I can't help it. That's what's happening in 0:07:59.800 --> 0:08:01.840 my You're me to buy a bird, so do you. 0:08:02.520 --> 0:08:04.000 I'll buy a bird suit to actual mess. 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:05.880 You don't have hairs anymore. I'm just looking at you 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:07.400 as a giant magpie. 0:08:07.440 --> 0:08:09.320 Am I like the fat bird that you painted once 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:13.080 upon a time? Am I the which I? 0:08:13.280 --> 0:08:20.520 Just? I had? Shrike shrink? Get a little suit? Sorry, continue, 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:21.680 I just can't get out of it. 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:23.480 I bought the fat bird. I've got your print ready 0:08:23.520 --> 0:08:24.000 to go into it. 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:25.600 Not a fat bird? What is it? 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:26.239 What's it called? 0:08:26.400 --> 0:08:28.880 It's a fat is a fat bird? That's missus Fatso 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:36.240 I bought business fats over the nursery. Oh, I should 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:41.200 have just done a self portrait. I'm sorry. Continue with. 0:08:41.760 --> 0:08:44.720 I just needed to let you do. Now I can't because. 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:47.120 Now I'm imagining myself going to get bird sticks. Yeah, 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:48.720 like getting little sticks with my beak. 0:08:48.920 --> 0:08:51.120 Yeah, you got a huge beak. What are you trying 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:53.000 to say about my Okay, so tell me you bought 0:08:54.160 --> 0:08:54.920 that ridiculous? 0:08:55.080 --> 0:09:00.559 Yes, I have gone wild and hormones rushing everything that's happening. 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:04.640 That the nursery thing is funny because when you actually 0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:06.800 think about it, babies don't need anything I spoke to 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:08.560 a lady the other day. She came early, she didn't 0:09:08.600 --> 0:09:10.320 have anything ready, and her baby slept in a drawer 0:09:10.320 --> 0:09:12.280 for a bit. It doesn't matter, Hey on. 0:09:14.240 --> 0:09:15.960 A draw Oh she literally said that to me. 0:09:16.000 --> 0:09:17.600 But maybe she was joking. But I don't know. 0:09:18.400 --> 0:09:20.640 I don't think she would. I think, I mean, there's 0:09:20.720 --> 0:09:22.680 time where you have a baby and someone can rush 0:09:22.679 --> 0:09:25.560 out and get a cot Oh, I don't like. I 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:27.959 think she's probably not. It was a joke, like she 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:30.280 was extending and going, my baby slept in a drawer. 0:09:30.400 --> 0:09:32.320 Oh well, it made me feel better about myself because 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:35.760 I was like, I've got a pascinet, bitch. So she 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:37.360 didn't sleep her child in a drawer. 0:09:37.400 --> 0:09:39.920 No, I don't think the baby slept in a drawer. Okay, 0:09:40.080 --> 0:09:42.040 but I mean it's a good alternative. 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:43.880 Yeah's are but it makes sense? 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:46.360 Yeah, does it? No? 0:09:46.360 --> 0:09:54.400 No, you can just fascinate. Yeah, the pete. You get 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:56.320 all your baby stuff ready. You gotta get all the bottles, 0:09:56.320 --> 0:09:58.760 and you gotta wash them and get everything ready. 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:00.880 Have you got everything? Go your bottles? 0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:03.440 Yeah, got all that. And then we're moving the nursery 0:10:03.559 --> 0:10:05.920 like Sofia's playrooms, going into the nursery and the other 0:10:06.000 --> 0:10:08.920 day we're selling a big king sized bed, but we're 0:10:08.920 --> 0:10:10.959 gonna put it on Marketplace, put a couch and make 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:13.440 that the playroom. We're taking off all the sheets to 0:10:13.440 --> 0:10:16.319 take the photos in my nesting era, I'm like barking 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:17.080 orders at Burgo. 0:10:17.520 --> 0:10:19.920 This needs to move, that needs to move, that needs 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:20.360 to go there. 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:24.360 He's just like, And then I'm putting the sheets back 0:10:24.400 --> 0:10:26.400 on the king sized bed, the mattress, to protector and 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:29.720 everything because I can't have mess because I had to 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:31.440 take the photos of the bed to sell and then 0:10:31.480 --> 0:10:34.240 put everything back. And I'm trying to put like, you know, 0:10:34.440 --> 0:10:36.840 the sheets on a king sized mattress. It's very heavy. 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:38.760 It's as well, yeah, you. 0:10:38.720 --> 0:10:40.640 Can actually cause you to go into labor yep. 0:10:40.679 --> 0:10:42.000 Trying to do it all properly, and then I was like, 0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:43.400 can you just help me with this corn. I couldn't 0:10:43.440 --> 0:10:45.480 quite put the sheet on. He goes, did you even try? 0:10:46.920 --> 0:10:50.160 He didn't say that, yeah, oh my god, my jaws 0:10:50.200 --> 0:10:50.640 on the floor. 0:10:50.720 --> 0:10:54.000 Yeah right, And I was like, he's joking. 0:10:54.120 --> 0:10:57.160 I did try. This is the little things I swear. 0:10:57.240 --> 0:10:59.160 But then I don't understand I can't lift a king 0:10:59.240 --> 0:10:59.840 sized mattress. 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:03.000 Now you have an entire human being inside of you. 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:05.680 But I'm also barking orders, so I do feel bad. 0:11:05.720 --> 0:11:07.679 It's like one time he slightly snapped it me. 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:09.679 What's kind of funny is when you tell me your 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:13.440 side of the story. I'm always like, yes, sister, I'm 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:16.400 on your side. He's an asshole. But then I hear 0:11:16.440 --> 0:11:18.520 his side and it's like you would have been speaking 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:20.240 to him so rudely. 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:25.679 Because I don't know where my dictator child gets her 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:26.439 dictatorship from. 0:11:26.520 --> 0:11:26.920 That's weird. 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:28.880 I just like I think about it all the time. 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:31.000 Where did you get that from? 0:11:31.280 --> 0:11:35.000 Okay, so when you're nesting, are you feeling are you 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:37.120 doing the weird cleaning thing where you see a mark 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:39.040 on the wall and suddenly everything has to be clean. 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:40.680 Yeah, Like I'm thinking, I need to do the pantry, 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:42.360 I need to get out my clothes, I need to 0:11:42.400 --> 0:11:44.920 clean out Sophia's room. It's like the baby has to 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:48.840 come home to this idea of perfectness which doesn't really exist. 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:51.600 But also the baby can't see into Sofia's cover. 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:54.080 It's not about that. I think it's about having a clear, 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:56.880 clean house, which gives you a clean mindset. To come 0:11:56.920 --> 0:11:59.680 home because you know it's going to be absolutely chaos. 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:02.240 Everything else around is gonna be chaos. But if you 0:12:02.280 --> 0:12:04.920 can control your house and make sure it's clean and nice, 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:07.600 and I think it's a maternal thing to make sure 0:12:07.600 --> 0:12:09.800 that you know you're a provider and a protector. 0:12:09.920 --> 0:12:12.080 And yes, and the space is all clean, and I 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:14.000 just I don't know about you and what Jimmy did, 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:17.160 but like always forward thinking, like I've gone and bought 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:19.960 the size four onesies and the three onesies and all 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:22.880 the clothes and getting all the like the little thing 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:25.920 to put all your nappies and stuff in. Yeah, all 0:12:25.920 --> 0:12:27.800 that sort of stuff. And then he's like, why are 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:29.160 you buying so much stuff? 0:12:30.400 --> 0:12:32.760 Because who else is going to buy it? Yeah? 0:12:32.960 --> 0:12:35.959 Because our child needs clothes, our child needs things. He's 0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:38.040 literally bought two car seats and a box of wipes 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:42.640 and goes, oh, I've done my job, do you. I 0:12:42.679 --> 0:12:44.000 was just getting more annoyed. 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:46.160 To Okay, So if you look at it, if you 0:12:46.240 --> 0:12:48.080 didn't buy all this stuff, what does a baby got 0:12:48.200 --> 0:12:49.360 a car seat? Yeah? 0:12:49.400 --> 0:12:51.360 Cool, we'll just drive around twenty four seven. 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:53.280 But you need to lift, you need to help out. 0:12:53.360 --> 0:12:57.240 Did Jimmy buy clothes and stuff. No, no, actually no 0:12:57.320 --> 0:13:01.080 he did not what It's always led by us because 0:13:01.120 --> 0:13:04.480 I think it's just our role. It's the same as 0:13:04.480 --> 0:13:07.320 when you go home. Jimmy's role is outside. I don't 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:10.200 even think about the lawns. That's his role. A gardener. 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:11.959 My role. You have a garden. 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:14.920 Yes, somebody's doing well. 0:13:15.160 --> 0:13:16.080 Someone's doing well. 0:13:17.320 --> 0:13:21.120 His name's Wayne Greg is it my dad? Wayne? Person 0:13:21.200 --> 0:13:22.880 just comes over you and do a little whipper snippers, 0:13:23.520 --> 0:13:23.800 But you. 0:13:23.800 --> 0:13:26.000 Know, like it's your I guess it's your role to 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:30.120 go right, I'm gonna nail this because you don't trust 0:13:30.120 --> 0:13:31.920 anybody else to do it, so you have to do it. 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:33.840 I am going to nail it. But we're also working 0:13:33.920 --> 0:13:37.440 full time, have a child, doing everything, and in my 0:13:37.559 --> 0:13:41.000 head it is so structured of like these little things. 0:13:41.040 --> 0:13:42.240 So I had to go buy the prince and then 0:13:42.240 --> 0:13:43.840 I have to go buy the frames, and then I 0:13:43.840 --> 0:13:45.360 had to go to the shop and buy something else, 0:13:45.400 --> 0:13:47.000 and then I need to buy that that that like 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:50.480 everything is listed in my head. And then I went 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:53.560 and bought like all these silly like candle because I 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:56.079 needed to put these knickknacks on the buffet. So one 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:58.319 day when someone walks in there, they're like, oh, wow, 0:13:58.360 --> 0:14:01.079 you've got this beautiful yellow buffet with these nice little candles. 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:03.880 I saw the candlelarbras that you bought for the baby's room. 0:14:04.200 --> 0:14:06.120 My first reaction to someone who's quite more but I 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:07.959 don't see the danger in everything, is that they actually 0:14:08.000 --> 0:14:10.800 are a weapon. They are like in the game Cludo, 0:14:11.320 --> 0:14:13.280 you were killed with a candlestick, like that was part 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:17.640 of it. And it's a giant, heavy candle that when 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:20.360 your baby is doing tummy time that could easily just 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:23.520 like fall on their head and kill them. Also, having 0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:27.760 a giant, unstable, cheap candle in your room with the 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:32.520 fire is a big fire hazard. Yeah, but I'm always 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:36.520 on your side, except for those candlearbrahs. But the nursery 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:37.840 imagine her coming home. 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:39.840 Going Look, I'm sorry to be in pain, but I'm 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:41.119 just wondering when my candle. 0:14:42.760 --> 0:14:47.480 Like they're literally half a meter tall. So maybe I'm taking. 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:48.920 Nesting to a whole new level and I'm just buying 0:14:48.920 --> 0:14:49.400 shit for me. 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:54.120 Yes, that's what you're doing. Ah, you're camine. Everything looks amazing. 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:57.080 Oh and it's just so chig trolley. I feel my trolley. 0:14:57.320 --> 0:14:59.040 That's so good. There. 0:14:59.080 --> 0:15:02.600 It is nesting. That is my last little bit of pregnancy. 0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:04.280 I swear I'm never going to talk about it again, 0:15:04.400 --> 0:15:06.720 because next time I speak to you, I will have 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:07.360 the baby. 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:09.480 You'll be sitting you're sitting on the egg right now 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:12.240 as a bird, yes, And then the baby will be 0:15:12.280 --> 0:15:14.640 chirping and the egg will crack. A little baby in 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:16.760 certain name will arrive. Should be here. 0:15:16.840 --> 0:15:18.600 I love her so much, and you'll get to hold 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:19.720 her during the next podcast. 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:23.520 Then we can talk about bathing story. Oh my god, 0:15:23.520 --> 0:15:28.880 this is so exciting. Oh, sympathy bebes ah my baby. Alrighty, 0:15:29.000 --> 0:15:34.960 we are about to raise the curtain on our business. 0:15:35.360 --> 0:15:38.520 If you're a small business owner, what we're about to 0:15:38.560 --> 0:15:41.520 say might make you feel a little better about your 0:15:41.520 --> 0:15:44.560 own life, because when you start a business, oh my god, 0:15:45.080 --> 0:15:47.640 so many things happen and nobody else knows because you 0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:48.680 hide it from everybody. 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:51.600 You pretend everything's fine. And I have to say, with 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:55.280 our business, the best things there's always been you. I've 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:58.520 always had someone else. So when I'm firing up, or 0:15:58.520 --> 0:16:01.080 I'm angry, or I'm sad, or the world is ending, 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:03.160 or I don't know. 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:08.440 COVID happens, Yep, you always pre back, I actually couldn't. 0:16:09.000 --> 0:16:10.920 I'm not cut out to have a business if I 0:16:10.920 --> 0:16:13.520 didn't have you, if I didn't have someone to lean. 0:16:13.400 --> 0:16:16.080 On, And both of our brains are different. Owning a 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:19.640 business is really isolating. It's really hard. It can be 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:21.560 really stressful, and it can be really lonely. 0:16:21.760 --> 0:16:26.200 The pressure of making sure that all your stuff are 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:28.400 and you know, you have all these people relying on you, 0:16:28.480 --> 0:16:30.920 their families, all that kind of stuff. But what we 0:16:30.960 --> 0:16:32.960 thought we'd do, there's so many perks too, because I 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:36.080 love it doesn't feel like work like it does, but 0:16:36.120 --> 0:16:38.280 it doesn't like I love what I do so much. 0:16:38.480 --> 0:16:40.480 But over the years of us being in business together 0:16:42.160 --> 0:16:44.440 eleven years now, there's been a few things that have 0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:47.760 happened that, like, not heaps, but a few things that 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:50.320 have happened that we'd go, oh, yeah, let's not tell 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:51.200 anyone that happened. 0:16:51.800 --> 0:16:54.160 Let's let that not put that in a podcast. 0:16:54.640 --> 0:16:57.800 But that's what's gonna happen today because we are unhint. 0:16:57.680 --> 0:17:00.360 And we are over share is a. 0:17:00.280 --> 0:17:02.360 Few little things that have happened that you wouldn't have 0:17:02.400 --> 0:17:07.440 known about. What. Let's start with something little. We print 0:17:07.440 --> 0:17:11.160 a magazine right our ade Lady magazine goes all over 0:17:11.200 --> 0:17:13.880 South Australia forty five thousand copies twice a year. Yep, 0:17:14.040 --> 0:17:18.800 it's amazing. It's a beautiful, glossy Matt magazine. 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:20.720 Do you know when we started as well, it was 0:17:20.760 --> 0:17:23.360 a really stressful time. We launched a magazine when three 0:17:23.359 --> 0:17:28.960 other print publications stopped printing, So that happened on the Monday, 0:17:29.000 --> 0:17:31.560 I think, and we came out launching a magazine on 0:17:31.600 --> 0:17:33.320 a Wednesday. But this has clearly been like a year 0:17:33.359 --> 0:17:36.280