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Speaker 1: His response was super vague, M not sure, what are

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking about not seeing you ever have about that.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be a fucking penpal.

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Speaker 3: Hello, guys, welcome to today's episode. Another little Dilemmas coming

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Speaker 3: to you. Feel like your girls love this, we love

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Speaker 3: chatting about it. So Girl's Guide again this week is

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Speaker 3: a little dilemma.

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Speaker 4: So let's get into our unsolicited advice and hear what's

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Speaker 4: going on in all of your lives.

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Speaker 1: Okay, dilemma number one.

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Speaker 3: Hey, girls, I'm facing a bit of a dilemma, so

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Speaker 3: I could use your advice.

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Speaker 1: I match with this.

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Speaker 3: Guy on Hinge and he seemed really promising since he

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Speaker 3: started the conversation first. We exchanged Instagram after a day

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Speaker 3: of chatting, and he asked for my Snapchat.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a red flag.

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Speaker 3: If someone's asking for your Snapchat and you're on Hinge

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Speaker 3: and you're over the age of eighteen, what the fuck?

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Speaker 2: I just don't.

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Speaker 4: I do not have any need or des I to

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Speaker 4: never add me on it. I just think it shows

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Speaker 3: I thought he might asked him meet, since he was

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Speaker 3: initially making all the moves. After a week of snapping,

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Speaker 3: I had just started to ask when we're hanging out

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Speaker 1: His response was super vague, like, M not sure, what

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking about not seeing you? Ever, how about that I.

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Speaker 1: Don't want to be a fucking pen pal.

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Speaker 3: By the way, this guy is a new AFL draft pick,

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Speaker 3: so I wonder if he's enjoying the attention to the

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Speaker 3: other girls.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I can say right now, yes.

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Speaker 1: Yes, he just likes a validation.

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Speaker 3: I noticed that he updated his hinge photos, which is fine,

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Speaker 3: but it adds to my confusion. When we talked about plans,

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Speaker 3: like maybe we can do something on the weekend after footy,

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Speaker 3: which I guess is fair, But then it just ended there.

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Speaker 3: I'm not sure whether this is going or what to do.

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Speaker 3: You both have experience with guys in the AFL.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so I'd love to hear your thoughts. He

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Speaker 4: Okay, So if a guy's going to do the whole

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Speaker 4: maybe maybe after footy.

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Speaker 2: I just say, fuck it off right there.

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Speaker 4: I know first hand how it feels more when I

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Speaker 4: I'm going to tell you ninety percent of the time

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And like I'm not too stereotype girls and I'm

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Speaker 3: not too stereotype boys. But in the AFL, they do

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Speaker 1: He's really small world.

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Speaker 2: Especially everything in Melbourne.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they do thrive off attention and they do like attention,

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Speaker 4: And I feel like, because I've never had that kind

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Speaker 4: really know what to do with it. This isn't everyone.

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Speaker 4: This is just some of them, and they kind of.

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Speaker 1: Kind of know their girls will be on their hands

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Speaker 1: and eat they fuck people.

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Speaker 4: Around a bit because they quite frankly can there'll always

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So I just think if he's being so vague, you're

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Speaker 3: And he's probably not that special either, Like, don't romanticize it.

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Speaker 2: Like, let's be honest.

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Speaker 1: They have their weekends.

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Speaker 2: Full girls crawling on their knees, girls.

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Speaker 3: Crawling on their knees to them. They can't do much

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Speaker 4: Now, it's that boys boys boys culture, which I think

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Speaker 3: Like obviously there's great things about them, and they're great aspects,

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Speaker 4: And there's a lot of great guys, don't get me wrong,

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Speaker 4: But I'd say for the general sense, especially the new ones,

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Speaker 2: It's not going to be worth it. So yeah, Adam Lilis, Hi, ladies.

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Speaker 4: Quick dilemma and major advice needed. I've been in a

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Speaker 4: let's call him Joe. Hey, Joe, Hey Joe, Let's see

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Speaker 4: what you did wrong?

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Speaker 3: Joe?

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Speaker 1: What have you done to my girl?

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Speaker 4: However, I've been kind of falling out of it lately

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Speaker 4: and I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 2: A bit of a backstory.

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Speaker 4: We got together mid twenty twenty two, fell completely head

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Speaker 4: for a while. Six months later we got back together

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Speaker 4: and now we've been together for another nine months. Okay,

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Speaker 4: ce me being me again. I feel like I want

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Speaker 4: how I'm feeling and don't know whether it's the right

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Speaker 4: and make a work with him.

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Speaker 3: Love you, guys, I think you should take away the

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Speaker 3: nice things for me, Like you're almost doing him a

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Speaker 3: and like letting him know where you feel.

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Speaker 2: I think remove the present girl, yeah, because that's not.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you can love someone and have so much

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Speaker 3: and that present tense, Like if you're having those feelings,

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Speaker 3: if I was dating a guy and he had those

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Speaker 1: I think that would hurt me.

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Speaker 4: More than you're also dragging them along in a sense subconsciously.

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Speaker 4: I'm not saying you're doing it intentionally, but like, if

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and maybe he's not right for you, Like you

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Speaker 3: do say that he's amazing guy, and I'm sure he is,

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Speaker 3: but like yes you have UNI and yes you have.

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Speaker 1: All that, but that's life as well.

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Speaker 3: Like, if you're still feeling that way, life happens. And

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Speaker 1: And that's okay.

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Speaker 3: You can appreciate him that he's a good person and

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Speaker 3: that he's done all these amazing things, but maybe your

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Speaker 3: time with him is just up and that's why it's

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'd recommend just talking to some friends, family, maybe

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Speaker 4: Don't do it over text, don't give him a call.

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Speaker 4: I just think open. I just want to let you

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Speaker 4: know how I'm feeling. I'm feeling really overwhelmed with my

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Speaker 2: Like it's not you, it's.

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Speaker 3: Me, Like I just don't feel like this is making

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Speaker 2: Just think it's too much.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm doing a disservice to you from living your

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Speaker 4: I'm sure it won't be easy. But I'm sure it

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Speaker 4: be honest.

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Speaker 2: Yes, always, Honesty is the best policy. Ladies and a.

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Speaker 1: Lucky Last dilemma number three.

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Speaker 3: I recently broke up with my boyfriend around four months ago,

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Speaker 1: Memories would get me better.

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Speaker 3: He tried to convince me how how good we were

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Speaker 3: and what he's willing to do to be together again.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be with him.

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Speaker 3: I've fallen out of love with him after the arguments

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Speaker 3: in their way I felt in the relationship. However, I'm

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Speaker 4: If you had a lot of arguments and you've fallen

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Speaker 1: You know, constantly need to remind yourself of the like the.

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Speaker 4: Bad times, because the way someone acts after a breakup

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so as challenging.

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Speaker 4: As it is, you kind of have to remember why

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Speaker 4: So I know it's probably hard to stick to your guns.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, and you can. You just got to be

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Speaker 3: And be like, yeah, you're doing all those nice things

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Speaker 3: and we might not have been.

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Speaker 2: At that point.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, you constantly have to remind yourself.

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Speaker 3: And sometimes you do have a beautiful break like relationship

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Speaker 3: need to remind yourself that you're not those people now

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Speaker 3: and the relationship will not be the same.

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Speaker 1: How you do you need to go off?

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Speaker 3: You need to completely cut all contact with him, obviously,

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Speaker 3: I think for his benefit as well, that he needs

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Speaker 2: You need to lay down the law as well.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if you've been saying to him like, oh,

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Speaker 4: be like I'm I've fallen out of love with you, yeah,

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Speaker 4: and not need to get.

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Speaker 1: A certain hard facts.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because and that's hard because like sometimes it is

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Speaker 3: you and that you're really important to them, but like

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Speaker 3: you need to save him as well, and they need

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Speaker 3: he should be showing into himself, and you just literally

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Speaker 3: just need to Like this is what my mum always says,

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Speaker 3: is like if you're meant to be, and you say

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Speaker 3: it to me all the time, like nothing will pass

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Speaker 3: you if it's meant to be. If you guys guys

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Speaker 3: are meant to be together in the future, like it

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Speaker 3: won't pass you.

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Speaker 1: But you need to like go on your own.

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Speaker 2: And nothing that's yours will pass you by.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So even if you fuck everything up, if they're

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Speaker 4: meant to be yours, it will work on men.

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Speaker 1: So, but a shit situation.

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Speaker 3: Obviously, you still have a lot of care for him,

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Speaker 3: and like seeing him go through that is really hard,

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Speaker 3: but it's not your responsibility anymore.

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Speaker 4: You just say to tell him the truth. That's the

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Speaker 4: only thing you're kind of responsible for now is to

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Speaker 4: tell him the truth, and hopefully you can he can

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Speaker 4: start moving forward.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I pray for you.

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Speaker 2: That's a shit situation. But good luck, girl. Go on

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Speaker 2: a holiday or something and block him.

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Speaker 1: But that's a week.

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Speaker 3: Little three dilemmas for today's episode, Little cheeky boys all

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Speaker 3: the time, messing around.

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Speaker 4: We love you, guys, and we also love to hear

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Speaker 4: what kind of little girls guys you want.

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Speaker 2: So if there's anything you're looking to hear.

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Speaker 3: Or about a topic you want to hear, let us know,

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Speaker 3: let us know, we can chat about it.

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Speaker 2: Always dissected, do I seect it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: We love you so so much, and we'll see you

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Speaker 3: guys again next Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: I love you, Bye bye,