1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:07,801 Speaker 1: Apogae Production. 2 00:00:23,201 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 2: Welcome back to you another episode of am I Mad 3 00:00:25,641 --> 00:00:29,041 Speaker 2: Mom Podcast? The content that just keeps on giving children. 4 00:00:30,081 --> 00:00:32,641 Speaker 2: I was talking to someone the other day and they 5 00:00:32,801 --> 00:00:35,281 Speaker 2: had I think, like a twenty year old and an 6 00:00:35,361 --> 00:00:39,881 Speaker 2: eighteen year old, and they were like, they need us 7 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:43,681 Speaker 2: more now and cost us more money than they did 8 00:00:43,721 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 2: as kids. In my mind, I'm checking out at eighteen. 9 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:50,841 Speaker 2: I'm like, that's me done. I've already worked out what's 10 00:00:50,921 --> 00:00:52,681 Speaker 2: the rest of the school fees going to be like 11 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:54,841 Speaker 2: for one more year and then that's all done. 12 00:00:55,041 --> 00:00:57,121 Speaker 1: Ye No, apparently not. 13 00:00:58,081 --> 00:00:59,961 Speaker 2: They say kids for even longer. 14 00:01:00,161 --> 00:01:03,761 Speaker 3: I know, but I think it's because it comes from 15 00:01:03,801 --> 00:01:07,041 Speaker 3: like our learnings come from exactly that you and I 16 00:01:07,561 --> 00:01:10,401 Speaker 3: at eighteen, tapping out, See you later, Mum and dad. 17 00:01:10,521 --> 00:01:12,401 Speaker 1: I'm out of here. I'm going to take on the world. 18 00:01:13,401 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 3: I was moving cities, I was doing I was as 19 00:01:16,321 --> 00:01:19,121 Speaker 3: fast as I possibly could to go and you know, 20 00:01:19,681 --> 00:01:22,041 Speaker 3: just get out there and see what life's all about. 21 00:01:22,241 --> 00:01:26,001 Speaker 3: And then nowadays, I think obviously it's different. They all 22 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,401 Speaker 3: want to stay as long as they can because it's 23 00:01:28,521 --> 00:01:31,321 Speaker 3: cheaper and it's too expensive on the real world part, 24 00:01:31,481 --> 00:01:31,961 Speaker 3: and you just. 25 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 2: It's also really hard to get rentals now like it 26 00:01:35,161 --> 00:01:36,401 Speaker 2: used to be super easy. 27 00:01:36,481 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: Now it's hard to get rentals. 28 00:01:37,721 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 2: It's more expensive, it's impossible to get on the property ladder, 29 00:01:41,961 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 2: like where they. 30 00:01:42,481 --> 00:01:46,921 Speaker 1: Going to be fucking living in our house? And the fish. 31 00:01:47,200 --> 00:02:00,121 Speaker 1: I'm not even joking, absolutely not. Am I a bad 32 00:02:00,201 --> 00:02:04,761 Speaker 1: mum for not knowing when to stop? This would be 33 00:02:04,761 --> 00:02:05,921 Speaker 1: like a insight. 34 00:02:06,201 --> 00:02:09,001 Speaker 3: We talk about it on here a lot, and I'm 35 00:02:09,121 --> 00:02:11,721 Speaker 3: just trying to edge in on the fact that this 36 00:02:11,801 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 3: is going to be all about. 37 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:14,681 Speaker 1: A four of my parenting. 38 00:02:15,401 --> 00:02:18,321 Speaker 3: I get on this role in this spin of like 39 00:02:18,481 --> 00:02:24,601 Speaker 3: my brain can't understand why you're not getting it, no 40 00:02:24,641 --> 00:02:27,441 Speaker 3: matter how many times we've come up with this, and 41 00:02:27,721 --> 00:02:30,601 Speaker 3: no matter how many times I'll say, there's same thing 42 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,761 Speaker 3: over and over again. And I sometimes get to the 43 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:37,241 Speaker 3: point where I'm so sarcastic or I'm so on a 44 00:02:37,281 --> 00:02:41,041 Speaker 3: spin that I can't stop the spinning, so meaning like 45 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,441 Speaker 3: repetitive over and over, but you're not getting it, but 46 00:02:44,481 --> 00:02:46,921 Speaker 3: you're not getting it, like and just fucking just stop, 47 00:02:47,001 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 3: rach it is getting you nowhere. She's actually zoned out. 48 00:02:51,601 --> 00:02:54,201 Speaker 3: She doesn't fucking give a shit at this stage. But 49 00:02:54,281 --> 00:02:59,281 Speaker 3: it's just something in myself, especially solo parenting for you know. 50 00:03:00,001 --> 00:03:01,481 Speaker 1: Ever, ever. 51 00:03:03,041 --> 00:03:05,201 Speaker 3: That it's been a really big eye open few me 52 00:03:05,321 --> 00:03:06,761 Speaker 3: and my parenting. 53 00:03:06,361 --> 00:03:08,841 Speaker 1: That I've gone, oh, I really need. 54 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 3: Some help with changing that, because I also know where 55 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,361 Speaker 3: it comes from in terms of like my own childhood, 56 00:03:15,401 --> 00:03:18,801 Speaker 3: Like this is like deep like my own childhood, my own. 57 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:20,881 Speaker 1: Parents, their behaviors. 58 00:03:21,041 --> 00:03:23,161 Speaker 3: Now I look at it and go, fuck, you are 59 00:03:23,201 --> 00:03:25,321 Speaker 3: acting just like said person. 60 00:03:26,161 --> 00:03:27,761 Speaker 1: And so this. 61 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:31,161 Speaker 3: Comes off the back of and I know that you're 62 00:03:31,321 --> 00:03:33,481 Speaker 3: going to go, ah, yeah, I get it, But this 63 00:03:33,561 --> 00:03:36,881 Speaker 3: comes off the back of week two and high school 64 00:03:37,201 --> 00:03:41,561 Speaker 3: first day back into week two and oh, sorry, lost 65 00:03:41,601 --> 00:03:46,561 Speaker 3: my lunchbox. Now not just the lunchbox, but then the 66 00:03:46,561 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 3: cold packs that you've just bought recently because we're going 67 00:03:49,201 --> 00:03:52,521 Speaker 3: into a new year containers and the containers that were 68 00:03:52,561 --> 00:03:55,281 Speaker 3: in there, and then also the bag that it goes 69 00:03:55,321 --> 00:03:56,681 Speaker 3: in because that's brand new. 70 00:03:57,361 --> 00:03:59,721 Speaker 1: It's brand new school like school year, brand new. 71 00:03:59,921 --> 00:04:03,241 Speaker 3: Two weeks in Katie, I was just like, but how 72 00:04:03,761 --> 00:04:07,161 Speaker 3: And she looked at me like, because I just didn't 73 00:04:07,161 --> 00:04:09,881 Speaker 3: have any room in my bag. No, but when you're 74 00:04:09,921 --> 00:04:11,481 Speaker 3: left this morning, you had the same stuff in your 75 00:04:11,481 --> 00:04:14,081 Speaker 3: bag and it fit. Then when I put it in there, 76 00:04:14,161 --> 00:04:16,681 Speaker 3: it fit perfectly actually just sat. 77 00:04:16,441 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: In there, right nut spot. She goes, well, you know 78 00:04:20,001 --> 00:04:22,041 Speaker 1: it might be in Christie's car. You could check. 79 00:04:23,081 --> 00:04:25,561 Speaker 3: Yeah, sure, how about I go and check to see 80 00:04:25,561 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 3: where your fucking lunchbox is because you've lost it. 81 00:04:28,081 --> 00:04:32,161 Speaker 2: Oh we've got a lost lunchbox too. Two weeks in 82 00:04:32,241 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 2: to school. And I only noticed. I wasn't told that 83 00:04:35,801 --> 00:04:39,481 Speaker 2: the lunchbox was missing. I only noticed because on the 84 00:04:39,561 --> 00:04:43,001 Speaker 2: kitchen bench before they went to school that morning, Amelia 85 00:04:43,481 --> 00:04:47,561 Speaker 2: as got my bottle bag that I take wine to 86 00:04:47,761 --> 00:04:53,721 Speaker 2: people's houses in and I'm like, what are you taking that? 87 00:04:53,761 --> 00:04:55,561 Speaker 2: For sure it's got my lunch in it. I was like, 88 00:04:55,561 --> 00:04:59,281 Speaker 2: why because I had lost my lunchbox. Oh, so you 89 00:04:59,281 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 2: lost your lunchbox. Now you're taking my stuff so you 90 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:05,001 Speaker 2: can then lose to school and you're not going to 91 00:05:05,041 --> 00:05:06,801 Speaker 2: tell me about the lunchbox. And what about the containers. 92 00:05:06,961 --> 00:05:09,961 Speaker 2: Containers drive me crazy. I don't know, containers gets all 93 00:05:10,401 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 2: the freaking time. 94 00:05:11,761 --> 00:05:15,841 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, this particular lunch box when I like, it's 95 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:17,481 Speaker 3: like almost like a bento box. 96 00:05:17,521 --> 00:05:19,641 Speaker 1: But you know, you go out of your way to. 97 00:05:19,641 --> 00:05:22,041 Speaker 3: Be like a nice mom, and I got them for them, 98 00:05:22,081 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 3: and they've lasted a year and we're now in the 99 00:05:24,801 --> 00:05:27,121 Speaker 3: second year of having these, and they're good quality ones. 100 00:05:27,161 --> 00:05:29,961 Speaker 3: They're not just a quick disposable one anyway. It's come 101 00:05:30,001 --> 00:05:32,681 Speaker 3: home for a whole year from primary school. But we 102 00:05:32,801 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 3: have one weekend to high school. Oh we could try Christy. 103 00:05:36,401 --> 00:05:38,801 Speaker 3: It might be in her car, might have taken it out. 104 00:05:38,641 --> 00:05:41,521 Speaker 2: But it's the like the zero fox given and like 105 00:05:42,201 --> 00:05:43,721 Speaker 2: I was like, I don't ye, will just buy me? 106 00:05:43,721 --> 00:05:45,521 Speaker 1: And I just like having a box of matches. 107 00:05:45,521 --> 00:05:47,121 Speaker 3: I don't know if this is right, but it was 108 00:05:47,201 --> 00:05:49,281 Speaker 3: like she's sitting there just like with the box matches, 109 00:05:49,281 --> 00:05:51,121 Speaker 3: and she's flicking them and throwing them at I mean, 110 00:05:51,161 --> 00:05:53,601 Speaker 3: like just to see how far the fucking fuel of 111 00:05:53,641 --> 00:05:55,681 Speaker 3: the fire could run, like like that analogy. 112 00:05:55,761 --> 00:05:56,161 Speaker 1: It's good. 113 00:05:56,281 --> 00:05:59,281 Speaker 3: And then the fire I just kept burning bigger and 114 00:05:59,281 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 3: bigger and bigger and bigger, and all of a sudden 115 00:06:00,961 --> 00:06:04,041 Speaker 3: it's fucking bush fire. And that is me just yelling 116 00:06:04,081 --> 00:06:05,721 Speaker 3: at her in this car, going. 117 00:06:05,481 --> 00:06:07,361 Speaker 1: What the fuck is wrong with you? 118 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:11,241 Speaker 3: Why can't you just see that it fits when you 119 00:06:11,401 --> 00:06:12,361 Speaker 3: left this. 120 00:06:12,361 --> 00:06:15,481 Speaker 2: Morning fish, she can be bothered to move stuff around 121 00:06:15,521 --> 00:06:17,921 Speaker 2: in there because they don't put stuff back in neatly. 122 00:06:18,201 --> 00:06:20,561 Speaker 1: No, just like when they go for a sleepover. 123 00:06:21,361 --> 00:06:23,521 Speaker 2: I would always and I don't do this now because 124 00:06:23,521 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 2: they're old enough, but I would always fold everything nicely 125 00:06:26,481 --> 00:06:27,761 Speaker 2: and it would fit in there neatly. 126 00:06:27,961 --> 00:06:29,481 Speaker 1: Yeah, just fucking screw up. 127 00:06:29,601 --> 00:06:32,681 Speaker 3: Yeah no, So for me, like she always does her 128 00:06:32,721 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 3: own bag, but like lunch bag at the moment, I 129 00:06:36,201 --> 00:06:40,561 Speaker 3: have been really cautious of just going like, hey, I'm 130 00:06:40,601 --> 00:06:44,401 Speaker 3: just letting you know that this laptop, she's not going 131 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:47,001 Speaker 3: to be replaced, and if it does get replaced, it's 132 00:06:47,041 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 3: coming out of your account. And I'm just letting you 133 00:06:49,521 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 3: know that this is not going to be a drill. 134 00:06:52,161 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 3: I'm actually really, really really serious on this. Because cover 135 00:06:55,841 --> 00:06:58,441 Speaker 3: on the laptop, so there's a cover then that goes 136 00:06:58,521 --> 00:07:02,001 Speaker 3: inside the you know, like a laptop bag kind of thing, right, 137 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 3: and now their school bag has even got a section 138 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 3: at the back. Would she's a little bit more padded 139 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:08,841 Speaker 3: that sits flush on their back, but it just all 140 00:07:08,841 --> 00:07:10,201 Speaker 3: you have to do is pull it open and your 141 00:07:10,241 --> 00:07:13,521 Speaker 3: laptop fits straight in there. So then when I open 142 00:07:13,601 --> 00:07:15,961 Speaker 3: the bag up, like it's not in that far, it's 143 00:07:16,001 --> 00:07:19,921 Speaker 3: not even in the fucking case. It's just thrown in again, 144 00:07:20,121 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 3: think about that analogy. Now she's got the whole box. 145 00:07:22,841 --> 00:07:26,441 Speaker 3: Imagine just throwing that in. I just like, what is 146 00:07:26,481 --> 00:07:27,081 Speaker 3: wrong with you? 147 00:07:27,241 --> 00:07:28,561 Speaker 1: Like I was on a roll, Katie. 148 00:07:28,601 --> 00:07:30,361 Speaker 3: And now going back to the whole point of this, 149 00:07:30,801 --> 00:07:33,761 Speaker 3: I just needed to stop. I needed to stop going 150 00:07:33,801 --> 00:07:37,161 Speaker 3: on about the same thing. I needed to stop reiterating myself. 151 00:07:37,201 --> 00:07:39,361 Speaker 3: I needed to stop. I just needed to stop. I 152 00:07:39,361 --> 00:07:42,361 Speaker 3: should just pull the car over and got out of 153 00:07:42,401 --> 00:07:46,081 Speaker 3: the car and screamed like an actual psychopath, and then 154 00:07:46,161 --> 00:07:48,521 Speaker 3: just got back in the car and just let it 155 00:07:49,001 --> 00:07:52,001 Speaker 3: sink in as we drove home. Because then she says 156 00:07:52,081 --> 00:07:54,401 Speaker 3: to me, it should be in Christie's car. So then 157 00:07:54,441 --> 00:07:57,321 Speaker 3: I'm ringing Christy and I leave her a message that 158 00:07:57,361 --> 00:08:00,201 Speaker 3: would have been so abrupt, not towards her, but just 159 00:08:00,241 --> 00:08:02,881 Speaker 3: going let me know if Gracie's lunchbox is in there, 160 00:08:02,961 --> 00:08:05,921 Speaker 3: and then no word back from Christy. Something probably not. 161 00:08:06,441 --> 00:08:08,961 Speaker 3: Finally speak to Christy at about like eight o'clock last night. 162 00:08:09,041 --> 00:08:10,681 Speaker 3: She's laughing her head off, which she said, it's not 163 00:08:10,721 --> 00:08:13,201 Speaker 3: in the CARDA. I'm really sorry, she said, but you 164 00:08:13,201 --> 00:08:16,441 Speaker 3: should try Translink tomorrow and they'll have a lost property. 165 00:08:16,521 --> 00:08:18,401 Speaker 3: So you just have to ring Translink. They'll put you 166 00:08:18,441 --> 00:08:19,841 Speaker 3: through to the lost property and then you have to 167 00:08:19,921 --> 00:08:21,761 Speaker 3: drive to the depot to the lost property to. 168 00:08:21,681 --> 00:08:23,241 Speaker 1: Pick it Katie on the bus. 169 00:08:23,281 --> 00:08:25,841 Speaker 3: Yeah, because that's what Grace is how she rounded it 170 00:08:25,881 --> 00:08:28,201 Speaker 3: off to me like it was like a look and 171 00:08:28,241 --> 00:08:30,241 Speaker 3: if it's not with Christy, it could just be on 172 00:08:30,281 --> 00:08:30,921 Speaker 3: the bus. 173 00:08:31,521 --> 00:08:33,481 Speaker 1: That's what she said to me. Worst case scenario, Man, 174 00:08:33,601 --> 00:08:34,481 Speaker 1: it's just on the bus. 175 00:08:34,681 --> 00:08:37,601 Speaker 2: Yeah, we have had AirPods left on the bus. They're 176 00:08:37,641 --> 00:08:41,121 Speaker 2: pretty good. I called them up. They found them, and Katie, 177 00:08:41,161 --> 00:08:41,921 Speaker 2: it's my time. 178 00:08:42,521 --> 00:08:46,761 Speaker 3: I don't have time to sit ringing Translink to go 179 00:08:46,841 --> 00:08:48,201 Speaker 3: to Translink. 180 00:08:47,641 --> 00:08:48,961 Speaker 1: To pick it up from their lost property. 181 00:08:49,161 --> 00:08:50,921 Speaker 2: And the thing is that you want her to care 182 00:08:51,041 --> 00:08:53,721 Speaker 2: enough to be putting in the effort to be doing 183 00:08:53,721 --> 00:08:56,161 Speaker 2: that stuff, and she's not because she doesn't care because 184 00:08:56,201 --> 00:08:57,081 Speaker 2: it's not her money. 185 00:08:57,121 --> 00:08:57,681 Speaker 1: She didn't buy it. 186 00:08:57,881 --> 00:09:00,121 Speaker 3: And that's what all she gave me all the way 187 00:09:00,161 --> 00:09:02,921 Speaker 3: through it. So rounding back to what I needed to do, 188 00:09:03,201 --> 00:09:05,601 Speaker 3: like I said, get out of the car screen, act 189 00:09:05,761 --> 00:09:08,321 Speaker 3: like a psychopath, kick the wheel or something, and then 190 00:09:08,361 --> 00:09:11,521 Speaker 3: get back in and just just stop, Rachel, just stop. 191 00:09:11,601 --> 00:09:13,161 Speaker 2: Where were you when you got out of the current 192 00:09:13,281 --> 00:09:14,281 Speaker 2: screen to tell me it. 193 00:09:14,241 --> 00:09:15,121 Speaker 1: Was a popular place. 194 00:09:18,481 --> 00:09:22,401 Speaker 3: Tell me everyone around I literally think about like literally 195 00:09:22,441 --> 00:09:25,601 Speaker 3: blood boiling, and I just had to stop. I just 196 00:09:25,641 --> 00:09:28,121 Speaker 3: had to Rachel repeating herself is not going to work. 197 00:09:28,121 --> 00:09:30,161 Speaker 3: It's not going to change the situation. It's not going 198 00:09:30,201 --> 00:09:32,801 Speaker 3: to bring the lunch box back. She's actually not giving 199 00:09:32,841 --> 00:09:35,561 Speaker 3: a fuck about this at the moment, but she will 200 00:09:35,641 --> 00:09:37,401 Speaker 3: later went. I just said to her, Okay, if we 201 00:09:37,481 --> 00:09:39,321 Speaker 3: don't get it back, I said, just giving you a 202 00:09:39,401 --> 00:09:42,841 Speaker 3: roundabout figure fifty for the lunchbox ice box would be 203 00:09:42,921 --> 00:09:44,801 Speaker 3: like ten to twelve dollars. If I'm getting it from 204 00:09:44,841 --> 00:09:48,041 Speaker 3: came out in the lunchbox that's inside of it would 205 00:09:48,041 --> 00:09:49,921 Speaker 3: be another forty. I said, So that's one hundred out 206 00:09:49,921 --> 00:09:51,921 Speaker 3: of your account, just letting you know, so I can 207 00:09:52,001 --> 00:09:53,001 Speaker 3: replace it tomorrow. 208 00:09:53,241 --> 00:09:55,601 Speaker 1: Just an if why, She's just like, you're taking out 209 00:09:55,601 --> 00:09:56,161 Speaker 1: on my account. 210 00:09:56,201 --> 00:09:59,121 Speaker 3: I said, well yeah, I said, that's how we learn responsibility. 211 00:09:59,321 --> 00:10:02,641 Speaker 3: You keep banging on about just trust me, mam, I'm responsible. 212 00:10:03,481 --> 00:10:06,401 Speaker 2: Yeah, if it makes you feel any better. My girls 213 00:10:06,441 --> 00:10:10,361 Speaker 2: also don't use their laptop cases, okay. And then they 214 00:10:10,441 --> 00:10:15,881 Speaker 2: walk around over the tiles with a naked laptop and 215 00:10:15,961 --> 00:10:19,361 Speaker 2: I'm like, God, all that takes for you to drop 216 00:10:19,361 --> 00:10:21,841 Speaker 2: that on the floor, Yeah, and it's smashed. 217 00:10:21,481 --> 00:10:24,281 Speaker 3: My thing with Graceie has been I've used your girls 218 00:10:24,281 --> 00:10:25,041 Speaker 3: as an example. 219 00:10:25,161 --> 00:10:25,481 Speaker 1: Sorry. 220 00:10:25,521 --> 00:10:29,401 Speaker 3: Girls might have added a bit of GST on the 221 00:10:29,481 --> 00:10:31,921 Speaker 3: story and said that they paid for their own laptops, 222 00:10:32,281 --> 00:10:34,961 Speaker 3: but I was like, just it's not going to happen. Yeah, 223 00:10:35,001 --> 00:10:37,921 Speaker 3: this is your time to really step up. You want 224 00:10:37,921 --> 00:10:39,281 Speaker 3: to be in high school, you want to be treated 225 00:10:39,321 --> 00:10:41,441 Speaker 3: like a high schooler, you want to do all of this. 226 00:10:41,601 --> 00:10:43,761 Speaker 3: I said, I understand that it's a long day at school, 227 00:10:43,961 --> 00:10:46,041 Speaker 3: but these are the small things that make up the 228 00:10:46,041 --> 00:10:46,681 Speaker 3: big picture. 229 00:10:47,081 --> 00:10:51,881 Speaker 2: Insurance is actually not helpful. I mean it's helpful, but 230 00:10:51,961 --> 00:10:53,961 Speaker 2: it's actually not helpful when you try and teach them 231 00:10:54,001 --> 00:10:58,801 Speaker 2: a lesson because both girls have had their laptops replaced 232 00:10:58,841 --> 00:11:03,721 Speaker 2: over the years, and both were water damage. Liquid damage, 233 00:11:04,041 --> 00:11:07,041 Speaker 2: that's the biggest problem. And then it would cost more 234 00:11:07,081 --> 00:11:09,961 Speaker 2: to fix the laptop than just replace it. Both were 235 00:11:10,001 --> 00:11:14,401 Speaker 2: covered under insurance, which is great but annoying at the 236 00:11:14,401 --> 00:11:18,441 Speaker 2: same time because nothing they get a brand new laptop. 237 00:11:18,641 --> 00:11:20,481 Speaker 3: Yeah, your excess at the end of the day is 238 00:11:20,481 --> 00:11:22,841 Speaker 3: going up. They just go, it's all right, yeah. 239 00:11:23,041 --> 00:11:24,121 Speaker 1: He's with that. Anyway. 240 00:11:24,201 --> 00:11:26,761 Speaker 2: That does whine me up that you claim on the 241 00:11:26,801 --> 00:11:30,081 Speaker 2: insurance that you've paid for you've paid every month for 242 00:11:30,201 --> 00:11:33,561 Speaker 2: your insurance and then the minute you claim, they bung 243 00:11:33,601 --> 00:11:34,281 Speaker 2: it out because. 244 00:11:35,641 --> 00:11:37,801 Speaker 1: More of a high risk. 245 00:11:37,961 --> 00:11:41,401 Speaker 3: Why because my child's built water on their laptop. Yeah, 246 00:11:41,601 --> 00:11:45,681 Speaker 3: speaking of high risk insurance claims. My coffee machine is 247 00:11:45,721 --> 00:11:50,641 Speaker 3: like dead, flat out gone right. Why because the cockroaches 248 00:11:50,841 --> 00:11:52,881 Speaker 3: ate the board that runs it. 249 00:11:53,161 --> 00:11:54,681 Speaker 1: Yeah, ricking, that's claimable. 250 00:11:54,881 --> 00:11:57,881 Speaker 2: No, and you know why I know that's claimable. You 251 00:11:58,361 --> 00:12:01,761 Speaker 2: had the exact same thing happen with our air conditioning units, 252 00:12:01,761 --> 00:12:04,561 Speaker 2: and they went, oh, it was gecko damage, So they'll 253 00:12:04,601 --> 00:12:05,561 Speaker 2: cover for animals. 254 00:12:05,721 --> 00:12:09,721 Speaker 1: They don't cover for animals. What about kids? They fucking animals. 255 00:12:09,761 --> 00:12:11,401 Speaker 1: They broke my laptop, You covered that.