Speaker 1: Matt, you are looking absolutely glowing today. What's your secret?
Speaker 2: Well, Anna, I've been using this new hydrating tanning myss
Speaker 2: called Goldy B with two e's.
Speaker 1: I have to check it out. I've never heard of it.
Speaker 2: Go to their instagram.
Speaker 1: I want the fairy tale, I want the prince charming
Speaker 1: she how.
Speaker 2: Do I put?
Speaker 1: This?
Speaker 2: Isn't a fan of my kissing style with a.
Speaker 1: Boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's in a
Speaker 1: trash bit. He's non recyclable. Catching him up.
Speaker 2: I love being love, I love love? Shall I say?
Speaker 2: How are we? Hell?
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Speaker 1: Okay, hello everyone, we have we have a very social
Speaker 1: guest in the studio today. We have Matt's beautiful fiance Tammy.
Speaker 3: Hello.
Speaker 2: Hi everyone, am welcome beautiful Tammy.
Speaker 3: Happy to be here here.
Speaker 1: It's so nice for you to be in Melbourne. And
Speaker 1: it's actually the weather has turned up today. It's boiling
Speaker 1: for once.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's sunny today. The weather.
Speaker 4: He is so up and down I never really used
Speaker 4: to come to Melbourne because the weather's just a bit
Speaker 4: crazy for me.
Speaker 2: But having times you've been to Melbourne before you started dating.
Speaker 3: Before I started dating you. I think I came once or.
Speaker 2: Twice, however, and have you been a couple of times?
Speaker 2: So we just came back from the local pub. We
Speaker 2: walked down and went and had a what would you
Speaker 2: call it a loosing the whistle shot of the quire.
Speaker 1: Don't out us if we're going to do it. It
Speaker 1: tends to be a secret.
Speaker 2: Oh no, everyone knows. Yeah, So we're feeling a little
Speaker 2: bit good at the moment.
Speaker 3: Feeling good.
Speaker 1: We're also going to the Australian Open tonight's with Michael. Yes,
Speaker 1: little double days nice.
Speaker 2: Tammy's ever been to the tennis obviously.
Speaker 3: Really.
Speaker 1: You're in for a treat. It's gonna be so fun.
Speaker 2: Do you know anything about tennis?
Speaker 3: No? Not really. I know that like love means zero,
Speaker 3: love is.
Speaker 2: What we have, baby does not mean zero. Here. No,
Speaker 2: I don't know the rules unless I'm actually sitting there
Speaker 2: watching it, then I like, remember the rules. Okay, It's
Speaker 2: not something that I just think about every day today today,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Well, look, you guys are recently engaged. How is the
Speaker 1: love bubble going? Because you guys are so in love,
Speaker 1: it's honestly so beautiful to see.
Speaker 3: It's really good.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're very much in love. The love bubble hasn't
Speaker 2: worn off. I don't think it ever will. You know,
Speaker 2: they say the honeymoon stage. I just don't want the
Speaker 2: honeymoon stage to end, and I don't think it will.
Speaker 1: I don't think it will either. I don't believe the
Speaker 1: honeymoon stage should end. I think if you keep like
Speaker 1: working at things like you should be able to like
Speaker 1: maintain it.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean it's just about communication, isn't it. And
Speaker 2: I think that we're really good at that. We've recently
Speaker 2: discovered our what's the word for him? Figured out that
Speaker 2: Tammy's avoidant and.
Speaker 3: I that's my attachment stop and yeah.
Speaker 2: And I'm anxious, so like when there's something that.
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to avoid and it's just like.
Speaker 2: Coming out. We found like a happy medium.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we figured that out.
Speaker 2: We figure that out.
Speaker 3: Very much in love and super happy.
Speaker 2: Yes, very happy. I met my match, our soulmates. Yeah,
Speaker 2: we tell each other all the time, my soulmates.
Speaker 4: You guys, I actually like you never thought soulmates was
Speaker 4: the thing, but I actually do now really, so until
Speaker 4: you met Matt, you just literally like I was like,
Speaker 4: like soulmates, Nah, but I think we're like supposed.
Speaker 3: To be together.
Speaker 2: I agree. I said that. I think that like we're
Speaker 2: always going to meet at some point and this is
Speaker 2: going to happen inevitably.
Speaker 1: Guys, Like, literally both of you are melting my heart.
Speaker 1: I'm so obsessed. Let's take it back, shall we, to
Speaker 1: the beginning, to the beginning, because right now you're so
Speaker 1: happily in love and in the love bubble. But let's
Speaker 1: take it back to that very first DM that Tammy
Speaker 1: received from Nat. Take me through like your thought process
Speaker 1: when that came through, because obviously I'm sure you get
Speaker 1: heaps of dms.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I usually like I won't open dms, I
Speaker 4: won't really look at them. But he had been coming up,
Speaker 4: you guys have been coming up in my for you
Speaker 4: on TikTok like heaps, and I always just like swipe
Speaker 4: past and really like looked much into it. But I
Speaker 4: just I just always thought he was really really handsome. Yeah,
Speaker 4: and I saw I like I knew about your guys podcast,
Speaker 4: and I just always thought he was really cute, and
Speaker 4: I was like and when I saw his message, it
Speaker 4: sort of stuck out to me, and I was like,
Speaker 4: you know what I'm gonna.
Speaker 3: I'm going to open it.
Speaker 4: And then I just gave it a little love her
Speaker 4: like yeah.
Speaker 1: And.
Speaker 4: Then I was like, oh, he'll message me now, because
Speaker 4: like that was sort of me opening the door.
Speaker 2: And then I did it. Nothing did it like what? Yeah,
Speaker 2: I didn't. I was just like, Okay, she liked it.
Speaker 1: And then what happened, Okay.
Speaker 2: I guess i'll see because I invited you to the
Speaker 2: live show and I was like, well, I guess i'll
Speaker 2: see you there.
Speaker 3: I wasn't actually like planning on coming.
Speaker 2: I think she was planning.
Speaker 3: I was. I was just opening the door for you
Speaker 3: to like make a move, make a move.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I didn't obviously like I didn't and then yeah,
Speaker 2: a bit slow and then you had to yeah. Oh.
Speaker 4: I was in Sydney with my little sister Ava, and
Speaker 4: I was going to dinner with a bunch of friends
Speaker 4: and I was like, I'm gonna because I thought you
Speaker 4: lived in Sydney. I didn't know you were in Melbourne.
Speaker 4: So I was like, I'm going to see what he's
Speaker 4: up to. And I was like you in Sydney and
Speaker 4: my sister was like, I was like, like, these guys
Speaker 4: really cute. So I messaged him and she was like no,
Speaker 4: why She was like.
Speaker 3: You know, now, yeah, thanks, they like best friends.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I give a about that.
Speaker 4: But so I just pretended that I didn't message you,
Speaker 4: but I like, secretly, while THEODT I was with her.
Speaker 3: I was like, you know what, I'm just not going
Speaker 3: to tell her.
Speaker 1: Do you think the fact that Matt had sent you
Speaker 1: a message and then you liked it and then he
Speaker 1: didn't message that made you think about him?
Speaker 3: All?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: No, I feel like that definitely made me like what
Speaker 3: the hell? Because I'm not really so I was like,
Speaker 3: excuse me, I love it.
Speaker 2: Well, No, I just like I said to you, I
Speaker 2: was not really dating at the time or anything like that.
Speaker 2: I was just like, you know, I've invited you nicely.
Speaker 2: I just didn't think of it.
Speaker 4: I mean, neither was I. I had sort of like
Speaker 4: sworn off dating. I'd been on some like not great dates,
Speaker 4: so I was like, I'm not dating and then I
Speaker 4: don't know if something was just like pulling me to you.
Speaker 4: It's the chiktok algorithm.
Speaker 1: If it, where's your head and speed? And the rest
Speaker 1: is history. So let's talk about the first date because
Speaker 1: obviously you weren't in Sydney.
Speaker 2: And then so we started texting each other for a
Speaker 2: week and then I was just like I'm saying to you.
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know if she gets my
Speaker 2: sense of humor, like I know, how like crude or
Speaker 2: how like you know, how far I can go. I
Speaker 2: was like, you know, it's early day. So then I
Speaker 2: messaged her. Remember I left the studio and I was like,
Speaker 2: I'm just going to message her and say, hey, here's
Speaker 2: my number. I give me a buzz when you're not busy.
Speaker 2: And then what did you think?
Speaker 1: When I yeah, what did you think of?
Speaker 4: Like I went into the office and I was talking
Speaker 4: to all the girls, and I was like, why does
Speaker 4: this guy want to call me? Like I don't like,
Speaker 4: I just thought it was a bit strange that he
Speaker 4: wanted to call me. And then I was like, oh,
Speaker 4: maybe he's going to ask me to go on his podcast.
Speaker 4: So I was like, I was like, I thought maybe
Speaker 4: he didn't get that I was trying to flirt with him.
Speaker 4: And then he was just going to like turn it
Speaker 4: into like not not that. Yeah, So I was like,
Speaker 4: hopefully he realized I'm like hitting on him and he's
Speaker 4: not about to he's going to ask me on a date,
Speaker 4: not to go on in his podcast.
Speaker 3: And then yeah you did.
Speaker 2: Yeah you called me, and then I missed your first call.
Speaker 2: Actually I was washing my car and then I called
Speaker 2: you back and then we spoke for like over an hour,
Speaker 2: and then yeah, the rest were I asked her and.
Speaker 3: Then he just randomly booked flight.
Speaker 4: Was that the first day where he just sent me
Speaker 4: like his flight confirmation to come to the Gold Coast?
Speaker 4: And I was like, yeah, presumptuous, but that's a bit much.
Speaker 4: I mean I thought it was like a bit asumptuous.
Speaker 4: I was like, what if I was busy, but.
Speaker 2: Well you were busy with me?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought it was. I thought it was really.
Speaker 2: Where she had another day? Did I say something like that?
Speaker 2: Because I remember I sent you the flight itinery And
Speaker 2: then you're like, oh, you're actually calming or something after
Speaker 2: mind you like telling me to come, and then you're
Speaker 2: like you actually coming, yeah, and then you're I was like, fuck,
Speaker 2: do you reckon? She's got another date on it? Just
Speaker 2: like crash crash the day and then yeah, so I
Speaker 2: flew up that weekend.
Speaker 1: I thought it was cute. I liked the decisiveness. And
Speaker 1: then for the first date, tell me everything. I want
Speaker 1: to know everything.
Speaker 2: I did say, Like, you said you wanted to go
Speaker 2: somewhere for dinner, didn't you? So I let you book
Speaker 2: That was because I wasn't familiar with the Gold Coast.
Speaker 2: Obviously if it was Melbourne, I would have organized that,
Speaker 2: but you said you wanted to try somewhere or something,
Speaker 2: so we went there. Well, I booked bowling because I
Speaker 2: felt like bowling was a bit better than going to
Speaker 2: the movies. And then we ended up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we didn't want to sit in a movie and
Speaker 4: not be able to talk and get to know each other.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but then we're at dinner and talking and like
Speaker 2: your conversation was so good and that we ended up
Speaker 2: we're not going like talking through.
Speaker 3: Yeah, dinner was really good.
Speaker 4: Like you, I'm really shy and nervous when I first
Speaker 4: meet someone. It made me feel really comfortable and like,
Speaker 4: you know, when you sort of just don't want the
Speaker 4: night to.
Speaker 3: End, like I've been on dates.
Speaker 4: I've been like can be over like I just want
Speaker 4: to go home, but it was like the opposite of that.
Speaker 2: Yes, so we so right through. That's really nice. I
Speaker 2: was the same way.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we had a first kiss.
Speaker 2: About that.
Speaker 1: Tell tell us about the first.
Speaker 4: It honestly was like probably like my dream first kiss,
Speaker 4: Like it was really it was really cute, it was hot,
Speaker 4: it was hot, like we had just been obviously getting
Speaker 4: along really well and like, I don't know, I just
Speaker 4: was super super attracted to him. And then I just
Speaker 4: remember I went to the bathroom and I was like
Speaker 4: texting all my girlfriends and I was like, I literally
Speaker 4: just want to make out with this guy. I was
Speaker 4: like he's so hot, he's so funny, like we're getting
Speaker 4: along so well, and I was like telling them how
Speaker 4: much I just wanted to kiss him. And then I
Speaker 4: came out of the bathroom and he was walking down
Speaker 4: like towards where the bathrooms are, and he literally just
Speaker 4: like grabbed me and kissed me.
Speaker 3: And I was like he just like read my mind.
Speaker 2: Like it's very hot.
Speaker 1: That is like a movie moment. We felt like, I
Speaker 1: was yeah.
Speaker 2: Because we stopped and the like I like sort of
Speaker 2: yeah started.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and sparks flying.
Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely stopped around you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I definitely felt the sparks. Yeah, guy, And then
Speaker 2: we just kept chatting. I think We've got another drink
Speaker 2: and kept chatting.
Speaker 1: And then the night kind of wrapped up.
Speaker 2: And then yeah, we went back to the hotel, had
Speaker 2: a couple of drinks there, and then we the next day,
Speaker 2: actually I.
Speaker 3: Came and got a coffee.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I messaged you and I was like, hey, I've
Speaker 2: got some time to kill you want to come get
Speaker 2: a coffee?
Speaker 1: And this is before your flight back to the.
Speaker 2: Only flew in for the night.
Speaker 1: So then I was like, big gesture.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wasn't dating at the time, and I was like,
Speaker 2: you know, what do I have to lose, Like, I'm
Speaker 2: going to go meet this really hot girl which sparks
Speaker 2: like the conversation has been flowing so well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and how is the chat in the morning?
Speaker 2: It was good. Did we make it out in the morning, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I think so. Yeah, I think we were. I think
Speaker 2: we're cuddling at the cafe in the boothie.
Speaker 1: It's so cute because when you do meet someone who
Speaker 1: you're just like meant to be with at the moment
Speaker 1: you meet them, even like the phone conversation when you
Speaker 1: first talk to them, you just like don't want to
Speaker 1: get off the phone or you don't want to stuff
Speaker 1: hanging out with them, and it just like meshes so
Speaker 1: well and it's just the best feeling in the whole world.
Speaker 2: Were you nervous before the first day.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I definitely was a bit nervous.
Speaker 2: What was your first impression of me?
Speaker 4: I thought you were very tall. I answer like, I
Speaker 4: was instantly very attracted to you. I was like, wow,
Speaker 4: he's a tall man.
Speaker 2: I remember in the elevator, didn't I say something like
Speaker 2: am I wearing something of yours?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Because I was just staring at you. You're nice to
Speaker 4: look out baby.
Speaker 2: Thanks.
Speaker 4: And then I thought you were really funny and I
Speaker 4: thought you were sweet, like it was really good.
Speaker 2: Were you nervous Yeah, I was nervous. Yeah, like good nervous,
Speaker 2: like butterflies nervous. And I remember that when you first
Speaker 2: walked off, I was like, shit, she's hot, because you
Speaker 2: know when you like say people on Instagram and that
Speaker 2: and you're like oh, and then you see you in person,
Speaker 2: like I feel like you're hotter like in person and
Speaker 2: you're hot. You are.
Speaker 3: Thanks.
Speaker 1: You guys are just a hot couple. Together like a
Speaker 1: very hot couple. Like that's all you're getting from me.
Speaker 1: So you started dating obviously long distance relationships still long
Speaker 1: distance relationship kind of how is that going? Because that
Speaker 1: must be a challenge.
Speaker 4: I'm not cut out for long distance. I hate it
Speaker 4: so much.
Speaker 2: Literally, it sucks. Like when it comes rough, it's like
Speaker 2: when you've got like a I was saying the other day,
Speaker 2: because I'm still working obviously here in Melbourne, and then
Speaker 2: like you finish the day at work and you just
Speaker 2: want to go home and like just you know, cuddle.
Speaker 4: Like I thought it would get sort of easier, like
Speaker 4: I would get more used to it or it would
Speaker 4: get easier. But I feel like the more, like the
Speaker 4: longer we've been together, I want to be with you
Speaker 4: more and more like it's making it harder, Like it's
Speaker 4: getting worse and worse.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I need you with me.
Speaker 2: Granted that we haven't spent a week.
Speaker 3: We've we've never spent a week apart.
Speaker 2: Yeah well yeah, sorry, Yeah, we haven't spent longer than
Speaker 2: a week apart since the first first it's the first day. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I think what's the longer it's done? Like maybe six days,
Speaker 2: five days?
Speaker 3: Yeah, probably five days.
Speaker 2: Five days, I reckon. Yeah, not that long.
Speaker 4: At all, but that is still too long, too long,
Speaker 4: too long.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I really don't like it.
Speaker 4: We like have had time, so we'll like fall asleep
Speaker 4: on FaceTime and cut.
Speaker 1: That is so cute.
Speaker 2: Not the same A lot of face.
Speaker 1: We missed the one big part of relationship, which is
Speaker 1: the physical intimacy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we faced time a lot though.
Speaker 1: You guys are always on face time? Yeah, is that
Speaker 1: your like go to method of communication?
Speaker 4: Well, that's how like I face time everyone, Like I
Speaker 4: faced time all my friends, my employees, I faced I
Speaker 4: literally everyone.
Speaker 2: I don't I didn't before you, but yeah.
Speaker 4: Well, I just feel like it's good, like being able
Speaker 4: to see the person you're talking to, and like having icons.
Speaker 2: I started calling it and sometimes in my family.
Speaker 4: I'm just so used to it now if someone calls
Speaker 4: me normally, I feel like it's so strange to me.
Speaker 4: So was that first call you had with Matt really
Speaker 4: weird because it would have it was.
Speaker 2: A bit weird for me, like because it was you're
Speaker 2: hiding in your car as well.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Well my kids are like all screaming insides. I'm like,
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna take this out yelling shouting kids in
Speaker 4: the background.
Speaker 2: When I missed the first friend call. Did you then
Speaker 2: get out of the car and walk back inside.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then I like went back out to my car.
Speaker 2: Oh that's cute.
Speaker 1: And then from there there must have been like an
Speaker 1: official chat. Did you guys have an official chat to
Speaker 1: make it like boyfriend and girlfriend?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Do you want me?
Speaker 3: Yeah? It was really cute how you asked me.
Speaker 2: So you shoot, Tammy was down in Melbourne and we
Speaker 2: had a picnic on the beach. It was cold as oh.
Speaker 3: My gosh, it was freezing because it was like.
Speaker 2: A sunset and then like the sun's setting and it
Speaker 2: got like real cold.
Speaker 3: Freezy, like yeah, I don't know what is with Melbourne weather.
Speaker 2: That was So it was nice while we were.
Speaker 3: It was beautiful and then for sunset.
Speaker 2: And then it just went cold, you know how it
Speaker 2: is here. Yeah. And then so Tammy, from like the start,
Speaker 2: like even when we would staying like I'd coutch the
Speaker 2: Gold Coast and all that, You'd ask me heaps of
Speaker 2: questions like you should google like a different what do
Speaker 2: you call them? Like questions to ask Yeah.
Speaker 3: Just like you know, getting to know.
Speaker 2: Like we had the like, well, yeah, so you bought
Speaker 2: a box of cards. It's like questions to get to
Speaker 2: know your partner. So she was like that's so cuye. Yeah,
Speaker 2: we're going through them while we're sitting there at the
Speaker 2: picnic and like what was one of them? Like what
Speaker 2: concept would you want to see? Stuff like that? Like
Speaker 2: how would you react to this all this lot of staff?
Speaker 2: What's your just getting to know like your future partner?
Speaker 2: And then we got like halfway through the game. We've
Speaker 2: been playing for a while and then it was my
Speaker 2: turn and I picked one up and I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: I was like, this is a good one. And You're
Speaker 2: like what is it? And I was like, will you
Speaker 2: be my girlfriend?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 1: So you made one up?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: It was so cute. That's really cute.
Speaker 1: I don't know that I have never heard.
Speaker 2: And then I was like, well you be my girlfriend?
Speaker 2: And then you were to say yeah, you said yes,
Speaker 2: it was.
Speaker 3: It was really sweet. Were you expecting it?
Speaker 4: I mean I was expecting it sort of. About some
Speaker 4: point I knew we were going to end up together.
Speaker 2: It was a cute way.
Speaker 3: It was very sweet. It was very shit.
Speaker 1: Had you guys said I love you at that point?
Speaker 3: Yeah? You had lived pretty much that day, Yeah, that day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so before time you met my family.
Speaker 1: Do you guys think it's awkward to say I love
Speaker 1: you to someone for the first time because I feel
Speaker 1: like it's so awkward.
Speaker 2: Well, I feel like I feel like it's opod when
Speaker 2: you don't get it back.
Speaker 1: If I guess, that would be worse.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I just I think like every time
Speaker 4: I was looking at you, I was just thinking in
Speaker 4: my head, Yeah.
Speaker 2: Didn't something happened when you were going to say it
Speaker 2: one time or something or doing something? What was it?
Speaker 2: We were sitting having a drink at the bar and
Speaker 2: you were like, what do you say? I don't want
Speaker 2: to say it or something. I was like, don't worry,
Speaker 2: I feel the same way. Yeah, I feel the same way.
Speaker 4: I was just very like, I feel like our connection
Speaker 4: was just so like instant, so it was it's really
Speaker 4: easy to fall in love with you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the same. And that's right because I knew what
Speaker 2: you were going to say, and I was like, you
Speaker 2: don't have to say it. I feel the same way.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I had to describe the connection that I see in
Speaker 1: front of me right now, I would say it's very magnetic,
Speaker 1: like you guys are so drawn to each other it's
Speaker 1: really beautiful.
Speaker 4: Well, like the same person Yeah, we always make jokes
Speaker 4: that we're like.
Speaker 2: The same twinning that same personality, same like sort of
Speaker 2: like yeah, a lot the same. Like I feel I
Speaker 2: could be really goofy we're tell me and she like
Speaker 2: accepts my like goofy side I have.
Speaker 3: Really if you start as well.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so like I can be silly and I can
Speaker 2: do goofy stuff and like just gets it, and I
Speaker 2: feel like I get her as well.
Speaker 1: Yeah I love that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I don't know someone like when me do stuff,
Speaker 2: like it's not like like she gets it. She doesn't
Speaker 2: frown on it. Like I don't know, like should I say,
Speaker 2: how well.
Speaker 3: That's weird.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we just do like we just do weird stuff. Yeah, weird.
Speaker 2: We just get each other. Yeah, that can.
Speaker 1: Just be beat just beat what people can just imagine
Speaker 1: what she said.
Speaker 4: But it's not what they probably think though it's probably.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that's what you want in a relationship, right,
Speaker 1: You want someone who you can just be yourself with,
Speaker 1: be silly with, be goofy with, like not judge each other,
Speaker 1: just like have fun.
Speaker 2: Well that's it. Like even that thing that it's going
Speaker 2: to be It's like, that's like, don't.
Speaker 1: You think it's so weird how he says beef.
Speaker 5: It's bp say how you say it beat what you
Speaker 5: say I'm saying, I just I love you or something.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but even that, like that's not like that's fun.
Speaker 2: And then there's other stuff that happened as well that
Speaker 2: are sort of like that. I say, oh, like this
Speaker 2: should be funny or this would be hot or this,
Speaker 2: and it's like, you know, he's like, yeah, let's do it,
Speaker 2: and you're like cool, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Like fun It's like you guys are on the same way.
Speaker 3: Yeah, double areas.
Speaker 1: You guys met had the best first date ever movie
Speaker 1: moment kiss followed by like this little WorldWind romance shall
Speaker 1: we say? That led to I love yous and being
Speaker 1: in an official relationship. And then I guess for you, Tammy,
Speaker 1: with such a huge platform, I guess like the question
Speaker 1: of do I launch this into the public, And I
Speaker 1: know that was kind of taken away from you guys
Speaker 1: because there was videos of you guys that were caught together,
Speaker 1: like at our live show on one of your dates.
Speaker 1: What was that process like?
Speaker 4: Because I've had very public relationships obviously very public breakups
Speaker 4: and it's not fun to go through. So I was
Speaker 4: just sort of like my next relationship, I'm not like
Speaker 4: posting anything about it, like I don't want it in
Speaker 4: the public or anything like that. But then like I'm
Speaker 4: just so obsessed with you that I was just like,
Speaker 4: you know what, fuck it, Like, let's I just wanted to,
Speaker 4: like shot, like I'm so in love and I'm so happy,
Speaker 4: and I just wanted to like it's such a like
Speaker 4: a nice thing, like I love love and I shouldn't
Speaker 4: have to.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's sort of hard though as well, when we're
Speaker 2: hanging out so much and doing stuff. Yeah, both putting
Speaker 2: stuff off it like because obviously I post on social
Speaker 2: media as well, like so like we're posting at the
Speaker 2: same place and it's like we're taking video or content
Speaker 2: of each each other and stuff like that, and we
Speaker 2: couldn't post it.
Speaker 1: Well, you guys annoyed when other people kind of took
Speaker 1: that hard launch away from you or was it just
Speaker 1: kind of like it is what it is.
Speaker 3: I mean, it is what it is.
Speaker 2: Not so much them taking it away. It was more
Speaker 2: that like it would have been nice to Yeah.
Speaker 4: It would have been nice for us to choose when
Speaker 4: we wanted to sort.
Speaker 2: Of share it with the public and have that.
Speaker 4: Just keep it christian us for as long as we
Speaker 4: wanted sort of.
Speaker 2: Thing, yeah, not have the public pressure, like yeah, so
Speaker 2: early on like almost like you know what I mean,
Speaker 2: near the start of us getting to know each other,
Speaker 2: that would have been different. And then like you know,
Speaker 2: I mean, but I guess it is what it is.
Speaker 2: It wasn't like you know, it wasn't detrimental.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then obviously you guys did soft launch it,
Speaker 1: hard launch the relationship. By the way, what was the
Speaker 1: public reaction? I guess to Matt.
Speaker 2: People are fun people.
Speaker 4: People is just like there's a lot of miserable people
Speaker 4: out there that just like, I don't see why so
Speaker 4: many people are so negative about it.
Speaker 3: I really don't understand.
Speaker 2: I don't understand why they think we care.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like I really could not care less. It's like,
Speaker 4: why do they care so much? Like either be happy
Speaker 4: for us or move on with yours.
Speaker 2: I've always said, imagine actually commenting on something neative, like
Speaker 2: imagine just sitting there and doing that.
Speaker 1: I can't imagine it. I actually just can't.
Speaker 4: And I know what they're trying to achieve as well.
Speaker 4: It's like, what do you like, what do you get
Speaker 4: out of this? Like it doesn't make you feel better
Speaker 4: about your own life and.
Speaker 2: Someone people that are so happy and actually don't give
Speaker 2: a shit about what you're saying either, like we laugh
Speaker 2: about something, like most of them that we read, if
Speaker 2: we read it, we laugh like ahaha, yeah yeah, and
Speaker 2: we're just gonn to keep the receipts anyway.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I mean I just sort of can't wait
Speaker 4: for everyone to just get over it and.
Speaker 3: Like, because I mean, we're going to be together. Like
Speaker 3: people will get over it eventually, I'm sure, but I think.
Speaker 2: They don't have to and if they don't fucking.
Speaker 1: Fault, like yeah, so they're still quite negative even now,
Speaker 1: would you say.
Speaker 4: Well, you know what, in the very beginning, it was
Speaker 4: obviously overwhelmingly negative, like a lot more negative than positive.
Speaker 4: But the amount of like positive like DMS and stuff
Speaker 4: like that that I get now is like I think
Speaker 4: as well for people trying to like stick up for
Speaker 4: me because they see like the hate and stuff as well,
Speaker 4: So that's been really nice.
Speaker 3: So I feel like it's honestly like more positive now.
Speaker 1: That's sometimes I feel like people just say a negative
Speaker 1: comment because obviously it's a big platform. So they're like
Speaker 1: I want to say, like something wild, so it.
Speaker 4: Gets like the comment back and then hers gets more
Speaker 4: Like I would rarely comment back to one who I
Speaker 4: commented back to someone about something, and then like my
Speaker 4: comment will obviously like blow up and then they'll just
Speaker 4: delete them.
Speaker 3: Or what some people do.
Speaker 4: Is like I'll reply to someone and I'm like polite
Speaker 4: and nice, but then they'll be like, oh my god,
Speaker 4: I didn't mean like that, or like just I'm like,
Speaker 4: don't comment something rude, stick to your guns. But usually
Speaker 4: I just you know, ignore everything like whatever. People can think.
Speaker 3: What they want.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess some random comments on mine, like I've
Speaker 2: seen a few of them, and people are weird.
Speaker 3: So weird.
Speaker 2: I just don't get it, Like I couldn't do it,
Speaker 2: Like I just don't, like I said, like you think
Speaker 2: of zingers to comment on like tiktoks and that, you know,
Speaker 2: like if something something something wishy, like I never would comment,
Speaker 2: Like I have mates and stuff that send me tiktoks
Speaker 2: and and they go read the comments and I'm like, no,
Speaker 2: like who cares comments, you know what I mean. So
Speaker 2: if you are commenting on stuff, we don't give a ship.
Speaker 4: No, I'm getting a lot of nice we read the
Speaker 4: nice ones.
Speaker 2: You obviously, do you taken the nice ones?
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I feel like it's easier to sort of
Speaker 4: take on board the negative ones. But I think I'm
Speaker 4: just because I've obviously been on Instagram stuff for so long,
Speaker 4: so I'm sort of good at like not listening to
Speaker 4: the negative ones.
Speaker 3: Now I'm just like taking you as well.
Speaker 2: Yeah I did notice that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you did say that that you.
Speaker 2: Don't take on the negative stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I think I've just grown a thick skin with it,
Speaker 4: and I've just like to told myself, like it's not me,
Speaker 4: it's them, Like if they are so negative, like they
Speaker 4: have something going on, you know.
Speaker 1: Is there any comment that someone will or could say
Speaker 1: to you that does cut deep? Is there something that
Speaker 1: hurts a specific like source spot that they sometimes can
Speaker 1: like push you over the edge because it's it's must
Speaker 1: be so hard.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't say like something that just like really hurts.
Speaker 4: But more so that is annoying. Is stuff being like
Speaker 4: oh her, poor kids. It's like you literally know nothing
Speaker 4: about my kids day to day life.
Speaker 3: My kids are.
Speaker 4: Very happy, they're very loved. They're like, it's just it's
Speaker 4: it's frustrating when they think like they can say anything
Speaker 4: about my kids, like you literally have no idea.
Speaker 1: That's awful.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it pisses me off a bit.
Speaker 2: But that and then yeah, they say about you being
Speaker 2: a mum, like you're a great mum.
Speaker 4: So I mean yeah, I feel like mostly I get
Speaker 4: good comments about like my parenting and stuff like that,
Speaker 4: but it's like people don't actually know like my day
Speaker 4: to day life my kids.
Speaker 2: They don't know, like, well, what do you put on Instagram?
Speaker 2: Like what a story? A story is what like fifteen to.
Speaker 3: Twenty Yeah, it's like that's just like a little glimpse.
Speaker 2: Into it, you know, like thirty seconds. And then people,
Speaker 2: if they know you, like.
Speaker 1: This like chemsen their whole day, Like how.
Speaker 2: Much more it happens in a day?
Speaker 1: Yeah totally.
Speaker 4: But it's like, yeah, like my kids are very happy,
Speaker 4: very while taking care of Obviously I didn't plan on
Speaker 4: like the breakups and things like that, but it's just
Speaker 4: the way it turned out, and you just make the
Speaker 4: most of like what you're given kind of thing. Absolutely,
Speaker 4: and I'm very happy now and I'm sure they'll the
Speaker 4: benefit from seeing me happy as well.
Speaker 1: One hundred percent. So you guys decided to take your
Speaker 1: first couple's trip to the beautiful mold Ives. What kind
Speaker 1: of sparked that idea? Like where did the whole mold
Speaker 1: Ive's trips come from?
Speaker 4: Well, I was actually planning on going. I was planning
Speaker 4: on going with my two little sisters.
Speaker 2: There's another reason for ava.
Speaker 1: So they got the boo.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we sort of wanted to go, like somewhere.
Speaker 2: We wanted to go somewhere.
Speaker 3: I thought, why don't we just.
Speaker 2: And it was sort of like, yeah, I'll go, let's
Speaker 2: do it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and got.
Speaker 2: Thrown around a couple of times, and then it got
Speaker 2: closer and you're like, do you want to come? And
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, I can come. Let's get let's go.
Speaker 2: It would be fun. And then I thought it would
Speaker 2: be good, like early on as well, to go on
Speaker 2: a couple's trip to you know, get that over there,
Speaker 2: we go, see how we go.
Speaker 1: We could just get it.
Speaker 2: Over you know, get it out of the way, see
Speaker 2: how we go. Because I don't have one of the
Speaker 2: things that people were like, Judge, it's like a test. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I've never thought of it like that.
Speaker 1: I never have I reckon it is it's a test really,
Speaker 1: like some sometimes I can get the eck from people,
Speaker 1: like on holiday, I'm like, you nearly got the.
Speaker 2: Eck for me at the Star. No, I did it stressed?
Speaker 3: Oh about the proposal in generally really get the ick.
Speaker 3: I just couldn't understand why you were so obsessed with
Speaker 3: the weather.
Speaker 4: I was like, it's still a beautiful place, Like if
Speaker 4: it rains, it's still beautiful, Like get over it and
Speaker 4: move on.
Speaker 2: Literally every half an hour going and staring out off
Speaker 2: the balcony into the distance. Yeah, wondering.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know how I didn't put two and
Speaker 3: two together.
Speaker 2: Well yeah, how did you not? Yeah did you guess
Speaker 2: it at all or anything?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 4: Literally not not in the slightest So no suspicion. I
Speaker 4: thought maybe if anything, he was going to like plan
Speaker 4: like I don't know, like a dinner or like, I
Speaker 4: don't know, something cute and romantic, not a proposal like
Speaker 4: that was definitely not so she had no idea.
Speaker 2: Did you have any idea? Like when we were walking.
Speaker 4: Over, well, I thought like you just planned a cute,
Speaker 4: romantic surprise dinner, which I thought was so sweet, Like
Speaker 4: I almost started crying, like I thought it was so beautiful.
Speaker 3: I wasn't expecting it.
Speaker 4: And then when you got down on one knee, I
Speaker 4: think I almost passed out. I was so like shocked,
Speaker 4: and then you thought out the ring, Like as soon
Speaker 4: as I saw the ring, I was like, I I
Speaker 4: sort of blacked out at that point. Yeah, like it
Speaker 4: was all very surreal. Yeah yeah, And then I think
Speaker 4: we just both spent a lot of the evening crying.
Speaker 3: Like there was a lot of tears. It was very emotional.
Speaker 4: It was very romantic, like probably the most romantic time
Speaker 4: of my life.
Speaker 3: It was. It was it was magical.
Speaker 2: We both said that like we don't remember what was said.
Speaker 2: As soon as I got on one knee, Like I remember,
Speaker 2: I remember like before saying what I was saying about,
Speaker 2: you know, and wanted to all that sort of stuff.
Speaker 2: And then we both agreed, we're sort of happy that
Speaker 2: like those two people have that moment.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like in that moment, in that moment forever.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it was just because all I remember was
Speaker 2: as soon as I got one knee and I started talking,
Speaker 2: like I started select here and I was like choking
Speaker 2: up and like crying.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna start crying.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I didn't think I was going to. I
Speaker 2: didn't think I was going to cry. I didn't think
Speaker 2: so I mean, you cry, But I didn't think think
Speaker 2: I was going to.
Speaker 1: Like I just like.
Speaker 2: Rehearsed in my head and like thought what I was
Speaker 2: going to say, and I thought about the moment over
Speaker 2: and over again. I was like, you fine, But then
Speaker 2: like I don't know about how what other guys are
Speaker 2: like with Then as soon as you're actually in that
Speaker 2: moment and you get down on one knee and it's
Speaker 2: like real, it's like, yeah, I just started hearing up
Speaker 2: and crying.
Speaker 1: It's so emotional just hearing you guys talking about it.
Speaker 3: Literally like so perfect.
Speaker 1: It was.
Speaker 3: Everything about that whole trip was like very romantic, very Yeah.
Speaker 3: It was beautiful.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was the best trip holiday I have ever
Speaker 2: been on, the best time in life.
Speaker 1: Guys, I'm actually gotting when you're getting hearing, I'm like
Speaker 1: I'm getting a bit trying.
Speaker 3: To keep it together.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then we just spent the rest of the
Speaker 2: trip just in our love bubble.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: It's just like so cool when you meet your person
Speaker 1: and I just feel like going from like boyfriend and
Speaker 1: girlfriend to engage. It just feels like a different level
Speaker 1: of closeness, don't you guys agree?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so nice.
Speaker 2: It just made sense as well, Like everyone's like saying
Speaker 2: stuff like oh they're rushing all that sort of stuff,
Speaker 2: but like.
Speaker 3: It's just it's just like when you know, you know,
Speaker 3: like it just feels so right, it makes sense. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it just it feels yeah, like we just know we
Speaker 3: want to be together forever.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and we just yeah, it's not going to waste time. Yeah,
Speaker 2: wasting time?
Speaker 1: Yeah, why would you? Yeah, when you know, you know,
Speaker 1: I feel like at our age as well, Like I
Speaker 1: mean we're all roughly around the same age. I'm a
Speaker 1: little bit older, but I think things move quicker definitely.
Speaker 4: Well I think maybe you just have like you have
Speaker 4: just learnt the past and stuff, so you just know
Speaker 4: like what you want more, you know.
Speaker 2: Like yeah, you know, I said from the start, So
Speaker 2: a lot of the things Tammy said, like remember if
Speaker 2: we're going back, like should ask me questions that when
Speaker 2: we were together, and she'd ask me a lot of
Speaker 2: like what are you looking for in a partner? And
Speaker 2: I was like, I've done a lot of self work
Speaker 2: and a lot of stuff like working and like thinking
Speaker 2: about that sort of stuff before I met Tammy. And
Speaker 2: I don't sound selfish, and but like we've said on
Speaker 2: this podcast before, like when you're dating, you have to
Speaker 2: be a little bit selfish, you know what I mean,
Speaker 2: because at the end of the day, you're finding who
Speaker 2: you want to be with. And I said, I said
Speaker 2: from the start, like I'm looking for how they make
Speaker 2: me feel, because I've been in relationships where they don't
Speaker 2: make me feel good. And I was like, that's what
Speaker 2: I'm looking for. And Tammy, Yeah, it makes me feel good.
Speaker 2: I feel good about myself. It makes yeah, I feel
Speaker 2: good when I'm with you. So I knew what I
Speaker 2: was looking for and that's what I found.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I feel the same.
Speaker 4: I just feel like I sort of have like expectations
Speaker 4: and how I want to be treated and like the
Speaker 4: type of person I want. And I feel like he's
Speaker 4: definitely like treats me perfectly and he's so amazing and
Speaker 4: I feel very lucky.
Speaker 1: You guys are just each other's person, really and truly.
Speaker 2: It's getting really emotional.
Speaker 3: Who did you.
Speaker 1: Guys call first when you like announced the engagement? Who
Speaker 1: are you calling?
Speaker 2: I don't know I didn't really call anyone.
Speaker 3: The reception the Wi Fi wasn't that great. I was
Speaker 3: like messaging people like photos.
Speaker 2: Like that, a lot of them. Like I said before,
Speaker 2: my dad got upset because I didn't call him. But
Speaker 2: I remember calling like mom and it was like, really shit,
Speaker 2: wasn't the Wi fi? Like he couldn't really see much
Speaker 2: in that so like and I felt as well, like everyone,
Speaker 2: like I told everyone before what I was doing anyway,
Speaker 2: like I told your family as well, Like I told
Speaker 2: people what I can't even believe that that I told.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I just had no idea about any of this.
Speaker 2: Well, I only got a coffee obviously with Amy and
Speaker 2: told her. I snuck around the house and told everyone else.
Speaker 4: At one point, I was walking downstairs and him and
Speaker 4: Ava and Style were talking and Ama was just like.
Speaker 3: Oh, And I was like, what are you guys talking about?
Speaker 2: Cover it up?
Speaker 3: I don't remember, like what the excuse for.
Speaker 1: You.
Speaker 2: We're in her office as well, and all the girls
Speaker 2: in her office stuff having lunch downstairs and you're in
Speaker 2: the gym, and I was with them and I was
Speaker 2: showing him photos of the ring, and I remember.
Speaker 1: The whole office knew Yeah, really, I just you know me.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited and I love Yeah. And then I
Speaker 2: remember someone said it's massive or something and you walked
Speaker 2: in and you're like, what's that And I was like,
Speaker 2: no clue, no clue, and I was like yeah, and
Speaker 2: I cracked her. What's the word joke? Inappropriate joke and refect?
Speaker 1: Oh god?
Speaker 4: So did he do well with the ring, because yeah,
Speaker 4: the ring is perfect. She's like amazing. Like as soon
Speaker 4: as he was getting down on one knee, I was
Speaker 4: like in shock. But then when we like showed the ring,
Speaker 4: Oh my god, like it's stunning. It's honestly like my
Speaker 4: dream ring.
Speaker 3: It's perfect.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I came to he was there with me
Speaker 2: when we did it. Well, I was saying to Tanging
Speaker 2: the other day, I can't wait to wear my band,
Speaker 2: Like I just want to wear that.
Speaker 1: So like I think I saw you with a ring on,
Speaker 1: and I thought you had a wedding band on.
Speaker 2: The other thing was yeah, I think some A couple
Speaker 2: of people commented that, Yeah, I'm really excited to wear
Speaker 2: my wedding band just to you know. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Let everyone knows jealous, Yeah.
Speaker 2: Most jealous you get to wear a ring at the
Speaker 2: moment I can't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want Michael. I want to ring on him
Speaker 1: to let everyone knows everyone. Okay, so you guys are engaged,
Speaker 1: happily engaged wedding planning. Is that happening. Matt's kind of
Speaker 1: spilled the beans that there's going to be a wedding
Speaker 1: this year.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. As Timmy keeps saying, it's whose wedding
Speaker 2: is it?
Speaker 3: It's yours baby? No, that's been a bit of a groom,
Speaker 3: so has he. I feel like he's very like into
Speaker 3: the wedding planning more than I would have.
Speaker 2: More than I thought.
Speaker 3: We barely just started, and I feel like he's like,
Speaker 3: what's this, what's that? What's like?
Speaker 2: What do we do?
Speaker 3: I'm like, whoa babe?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say, And then he has all these
Speaker 4: like suggestions and stuff, and I'm like, I mean, I'll
Speaker 4: take them on board, but i'll get back to you
Speaker 4: spend business days.
Speaker 3: I wasn't expecting you to be so.
Speaker 2: And then I don't know, like a meeting of the
Speaker 2: wedding planner.
Speaker 3: You're a meeting with the wedding plan tomorrow and I
Speaker 3: was like fixciting.
Speaker 2: Yeah. I originally was like, I'm not going to go
Speaker 2: it's not you know, I don't need to be there,
Speaker 2: it's not for Black. But then I'm like, no, I
Speaker 2: want to go. Yeah, I was always want to.
Speaker 3: When did you not want to go?
Speaker 4: I think I thought you weren't getting harm and then
Speaker 4: you let me know that that you were definitely coming.
Speaker 2: I've had some suggestions at a faum pretty sure Black
Speaker 2: in case I do get him over the line.
Speaker 1: I mean, this is a good thing. Michael has absolutely
Speaker 1: no interest, Like he is like really leaving it up
Speaker 1: to me. I'm like, hello, I can use a little
Speaker 1: bit of help here.
Speaker 2: I don't want this all to be I honestly didn't
Speaker 2: think i'd have an interest. Like I always said, I'll
Speaker 2: just rock up and say my vows, and I do
Speaker 2: and that's it. But like, I don't know, Like it's
Speaker 2: so fucked hit my tiktoks now just wedding algorithm.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm on vow talk. I'm like, how to write
Speaker 1: your vowels properly?
Speaker 3: Really? Yeah, I've already started writing so bad, have you?
Speaker 2: I've got my main points. I want to hear it, tam.
Speaker 1: I gonna have to compare notes.
Speaker 3: I was like, when I was writing out, I was
Speaker 3: crying so I feel like I'm going to.
Speaker 2: I'm going to be a mess on our Yeah. When
Speaker 2: I did my ones, I was I was tearing enough.
Speaker 1: Is it going to be a big wedding a small wedding?
Speaker 1: What are we thinking.
Speaker 3: It's gonna be like one hundred and twenty people? So
Speaker 3: I think good size. That's a really good size.
Speaker 2: I realized it. I was thought it was going to
Speaker 2: be hard putting people down, but it's actually.
Speaker 1: Not putting people down, like cutting people.
Speaker 2: No, But I just I was like, all right, if
Speaker 2: I hadn't hung out with you in the last X
Speaker 2: amount of years, like you know, my mum said she
Speaker 2: can't even like she doesn't even know half the people
Speaker 2: at her wedding now, And I was like, I want
Speaker 2: to keep it to like my nearest and dearest share
Speaker 2: that moment, Like I'm not going to invite people that
Speaker 2: haven't come through my life and they come out of
Speaker 2: the woodwork. Trust me, a lot of people have.
Speaker 1: I'm not surprised.
Speaker 2: They're coming out.
Speaker 1: And everyone loves the wedding as well. Like people if
Speaker 1: people know like they're going to be in the vicinity
Speaker 1: and there's a wedding going on, they're like, why.
Speaker 3: Would I not.
Speaker 4: Get some free food and some entertainment. Love weddings as well.
Speaker 4: Just the like vibe in the air at weddings is
Speaker 4: always so nice.
Speaker 2: It's haven't we I mean too as well too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm really excited about ours and yours. Yes,
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, you guys will go to my wedding together.
Speaker 1: Love will be in there.
Speaker 2: He should we just a lofe and.
Speaker 3: Take over.
Speaker 1: The day after that?
Speaker 2: I like proposed before I should probably propose.
Speaker 1: He's like, I'll take I'll take the back of this.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: I was like, it's fine. Yeah, is a better choice?
Speaker 2: Definitely?
Speaker 1: Have you guys picked like a date and venue or
Speaker 1: is that like not happened yet.
Speaker 2: We've got some front runners.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we've got a few venues we're looking at. Wait,
Speaker 4: we don't think we're even going to tell our guests
Speaker 4: our venue. I think we're going to like have a
Speaker 4: meeting point and just bring everyone on buses. So it's
Speaker 4: a little little surprise.
Speaker 1: I love that idea, so exciting.
Speaker 2: We have a date, Yeah, we have a date that
Speaker 2: we want that we want to have a told some
Speaker 2: people to save it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have blocked that week out and I was
Speaker 1: lucky enough to get to see Tammy's dress on New
Speaker 1: Ye's Eve. She showed it to me. It's very beautiful.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's my perfect dress. Really, I don't want to
Speaker 3: say in front of you.
Speaker 4: I've never gotten a wedding dress before. I've never planned
Speaker 4: a wedding before. I've never you know, yeah, never gone
Speaker 4: all of this stuff before, so and.
Speaker 2: On that people like comment stuff and all that sort
Speaker 2: of stuff, And.
Speaker 3: I don't really care. I've been engaged three times.
Speaker 4: Get over it as well, I call her than Yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm collecting the stones stones.
Speaker 2: She's got her own gauntlet color.
Speaker 1: I mean it's a good thing. Right, Like when I
Speaker 1: was twenty nine and hadn't been engaged at all, I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm offender that I haven't been proposed to. Yeah, like,
Speaker 1: I mean she's a catch. Of course she's gonna.
Speaker 4: You know, I don't know why people have such a
Speaker 4: problem with it, Like I don't, and I'm so what's
Speaker 4: their problems? But yeah, I've never like started planning a
Speaker 4: wedding before. So, yeah, this is all very exciting.
Speaker 1: Are you guys nervous at all?
Speaker 2: That's what she meant when she said grooms the other
Speaker 2: day I was sort of, what did I say? I
Speaker 2: called you up? Have you found anything else out about
Speaker 2: the venues?
Speaker 3: Like He's very just like hounds me about I want that.
Speaker 2: I'm like, like, I didn't think.
Speaker 1: I like, I'll let you know.
Speaker 3: I'm like, why are you so? And he was like
Speaker 3: send me the wedding player's number, this that older. I'm like,
Speaker 3: just let me do it.
Speaker 2: I honestly didn't think i'd be that invested. I didn't
Speaker 2: think that I am I want like. I didn't think.
Speaker 2: I think I'll chill out a bit more. One you're
Speaker 2: going to get.
Speaker 3: Work, You're going to be like full no by the
Speaker 3: end of it.
Speaker 1: Why don't you focus on things like you know, your suits,
Speaker 1: like your grooms men. Maybe you can make them a
Speaker 1: little buck.
Speaker 2: But what we said that because obviously till you did
Speaker 2: a bridesmay thing and I've picked my groomsman and I've
Speaker 2: told him and I was like, well, I'm to do
Speaker 2: a dinner or something with them. But I was like,
Speaker 2: what do you like, what do you get the guys?
Speaker 3: Guys?
Speaker 1: Do that? Probably not? Maybe just take them to the pub.
Speaker 2: Like what would you get them? Like, I was thinking
Speaker 2: like cotholics for the day, that's yeah.
Speaker 3: Nice.
Speaker 1: Nice to get them engraved.
Speaker 2: Maybe get them in graved with m Z.
Speaker 1: We collecting back at the end.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Tammy Sekowski that ring that rolls off the tongue.
Speaker 3: Yeah, will you change your name? Yeah? I think you.
Speaker 2: I love that, I said, I don't.
Speaker 1: It does sound nice, Actually.
Speaker 2: I said, I understand if you don't want to.
Speaker 4: It's like none of my kids have my last name,
Speaker 4: so it's like I'm not trying to you know, like yeah,
Speaker 4: so it's not like I'm trying to hold on to
Speaker 4: it for a reason.
Speaker 2: Like that's true, but your brand is your name.
Speaker 3: Yeah, obviously my like brand, but you'd keep it.
Speaker 4: But yeah, I can still Yeah, like people can call
Speaker 4: me whatever they want, but yeah, it'll be Tammy's.
Speaker 2: That's that's exciting. But back to the grooms. And I
Speaker 2: didn't know what to give them, so I think if
Speaker 2: anyone's got any ideas, let us know.
Speaker 3: Haven't you already asked?
Speaker 2: But like, I want to do something. I want to do, like,
Speaker 2: you know, give them something at least like what what
Speaker 2: would we wear T shirts or something on the day.
Speaker 1: I don't know, likes Peter Alexander face my.
Speaker 2: Face printed off? You do you probably won't make the
Speaker 2: video wedding video. I want them walking with my face.
Speaker 2: You guys can have my face, makes more sense. And
Speaker 2: we were going to get a top made for me
Speaker 2: with like Tammy and then the different photos you know,
Speaker 2: those ones that come from the TikTok, I.
Speaker 3: Definitely one of them.
Speaker 2: When definitely definitely the bucks and hens. That's exciting. When
Speaker 2: when's your hens?
Speaker 3: So I don't.
Speaker 1: Actually I'm having my hands in April, and I think
Speaker 1: it's literally just the bridesmaids.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I'll take that as a hint, but I'm
Speaker 2: not planning it.
Speaker 1: I haven't planned anything. You guys might still be invited.
Speaker 3: I'm not sure.
Speaker 1: What's your plans?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm living it up.
Speaker 2: To my sister, yeah, my best man.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think we're going to do something separately and
Speaker 3: then come together.
Speaker 1: Oh nice, that'll be cute.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm thinking just the groomsmen and just like the
Speaker 2: bridesmaids sort of the same sort Yeah, same vibe, same vice.
Speaker 2: So then we all I'm getting the hint. I'm yeah, yours,
Speaker 2: they'll obviously be extra ones shucked around, and then it's
Speaker 2: not up to me. I'm gonna make it and then
Speaker 2: like we'll meet up, and then I think it'll be
Speaker 2: good for both wedding parties to get to know each other.
Speaker 2: I can have that almost like drinking session like sort
Speaker 2: of thing, because obviously drinking bonds everyone.
Speaker 1: It really does. Does we love We love a tequila Shark? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. One of the last things that I think
Speaker 1: we've not touched on was I wanted to know how
Speaker 1: you thought Matt was with your kids.
Speaker 3: He's really good with my kids.
Speaker 4: My kids love him, like obviously not trying to put
Speaker 4: him into like dad role or anything like that, but
Speaker 4: they he's really.
Speaker 3: Good with it.
Speaker 4: Wolf is especially obsessed with him, really like coffy things
Speaker 4: that he does and stuff, really really tries to impress him, like.
Speaker 3: That, will have his hat backwards and then put his
Speaker 3: hat back. You've never done that.
Speaker 2: When okay, downstairs the other day, what did he say?
Speaker 2: It was so funny. He was like, Matt, tell me
Speaker 2: a little bit about your browser or something, and he
Speaker 2: was trying to like sell me this browser for my phone.
Speaker 2: Took upstairs. It was like talking me through. Yeah, he's fine.
Speaker 2: I love Posy as well, and obviously sask here as well.
Speaker 2: Love them all very very sweet, good kids. And yeah,
Speaker 2: I get along with them all so cute.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love to hear it. Should we finish on
Speaker 1: a quiz? Guys, there's this a bit of an impromptu quiz.
Speaker 1: Not know what's coming.
Speaker 2: If it's something, how well we know each other? I
Speaker 2: reckon you? Yeah, I don't know. I always go blank
Speaker 2: on this sort of It's okay.
Speaker 1: If it goes really bad, it will be out. So
Speaker 1: if you're hearing this right now, it went good. I'm
Speaker 1: going to just go Mat to Tammy, Tammy to Matt
Speaker 1: as we answer them. Okay, so I'll just like point
Speaker 1: at you, guys, Okay, describe each other in one word,
Speaker 1: kind loving kid. We're getting a bit more tricky. You
Speaker 1: can't look at each other this time. Look at me.
Speaker 1: Color of each other's eyes.
Speaker 3: His eyes are like hazel, they're like brown and green?
Speaker 3: Yeah blue?
Speaker 2: Well that Taylor Swift song. Oh, I'm going to Taylor
Speaker 2: Swift with Tamina, are you?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: So excited? Borught a Travis Kelcey Jersey to Melbourne? Yeah,
Speaker 2: in Melbourne.
Speaker 1: I would not be surprised if Matt like brings a
Speaker 1: sign about Travis. He's so obsessed with him.
Speaker 3: Not normal.
Speaker 1: Okay, how does your partner like their coffee.
Speaker 2: If it's a weekend, first of all, both always iced,
Speaker 2: never normal. If it's a weekday, just a straight long
Speaker 2: black iced if it's the weak end and arm and
Speaker 2: ice latte with caramel syrup.
Speaker 1: Is that right?
Speaker 2: Wow, that's impressed.
Speaker 3: He usually just has like a soy latte. He's a
Speaker 3: simple guy.
Speaker 4: Well, I am always like your soy milk because I
Speaker 4: hate it. So now he started drinking.
Speaker 3: Almond milk or oat milk. Okay, it's regular switched out
Speaker 3: and the occasional long black.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So you guys are doing very well so far. This
Speaker 1: is going out. Okay. Your partner's favorite color, he likes.
Speaker 3: Red and black and gold.
Speaker 2: Is that yeah, that's my favorite. Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I was.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's pretty good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah that's very good.
Speaker 2: Pink.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love pink. I'm a pink girl.
Speaker 1: Yeah, love love pink.
Speaker 2: That's pretty cool. You remember.
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure you told me on like your first day,
Speaker 3: and like I think.
Speaker 2: I've You're like, it was so weird that you remember that.
Speaker 2: It's my football team since a kid. It's a football
Speaker 2: team winning the Grand Final.
Speaker 3: Say that I have a really bad memory. So that's impressive.
Speaker 1: Okay, favorite TV show at the moment, your partner's favorite
Speaker 1: TV show at the moment.
Speaker 2: At the moment Vampire diarries yours is also Vampire, because yeah,
Speaker 2: that's what I'm forcing. I can't even look at my
Speaker 2: phone or anything.
Speaker 3: If he starts going on his phone.
Speaker 2: I'm like literally like or pauses it and just stay
Speaker 2: I pause it.
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh wait, that's what I do. But that's
Speaker 3: so good.
Speaker 1: You used to complain all the time that like you
Speaker 1: hate when people use their phone, like even like if
Speaker 1: your mum used her phone.
Speaker 2: I did, and that's why I went. But then when
Speaker 2: one time you're the culprid. We were on the couch
Speaker 2: and you did it, and I was like, fuck, we
Speaker 2: are too much alike. I was like, we're seriously too
Speaker 2: much alike. And she was having like telling me off
Speaker 2: my phone.
Speaker 3: Okay, we have it.
Speaker 1: Two more. What's your partner's signature dish that they cook
Speaker 1: that you love?
Speaker 2: Breakfast record pancakes?
Speaker 1: Pancakes?
Speaker 2: Okay, are you deep frying something? Don't you deep from something?
Speaker 3: You on a pan?
Speaker 2: But wasn't it don't isn't there something like extra butter
Speaker 2: or some thing you said? But yeah, and then you
Speaker 2: put something extra in the whip cream.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I put maple syrup. I do whipped butter with
Speaker 3: maple syrup. Yeah, Matthew, have you ever cooked me? Ever?
Speaker 1: I don't think south being out.
Speaker 2: I don't think I cooked you.
Speaker 1: That needs to be on your list of something to
Speaker 1: have not.
Speaker 2: Cooked a barbecue for something nice.
Speaker 4: You never cooked anything for me, but which I'm fine with, Like, yeah,
Speaker 4: we haven't really had that much of a chance to
Speaker 4: like actually cook through.
Speaker 3: We just go out to.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what do we even eat? Sometimes? I'm not even.
Speaker 3: Like restaurants.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's also like honeymoon phase. I feel like that's
Speaker 1: so normal.
Speaker 2: Have not cooked you?
Speaker 3: You've never He's like, surely with me, Yeah, but I'm not.
Speaker 2: I don't. It's very well offing on this podcast. I don't.
Speaker 2: I'm not be fan of cooking full stop.
Speaker 3: Yeah that's that's I don't really want you to cook
Speaker 3: for me.
Speaker 1: That okay, probably best cook for you, Okay. Last one
Speaker 1: is your partner an introvert or an extrovert or both.
Speaker 2: I think Tammy is an introvert at heart. Like, even
Speaker 2: before we came in this podcast, she was very nervous
Speaker 2: and very shy, like everyone would you think, with who
Speaker 2: Tammy is and all that sort of stuff, that she's extroverted,
Speaker 2: but she's not. Really. She does well for an introvert
Speaker 2: to be out there so much and put herself out there.
Speaker 3: I feel, Yeah, you're.
Speaker 4: Definitely extrovert, like the loudest person I've ever met in
Speaker 4: my life.
Speaker 3: Always like good balance.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we are so happy for you both. You guys
Speaker 1: make an incredible couple. All of the haters can go
Speaker 1: fuck themselves because seriously, you guys are so magnetic, so
Speaker 1: in love, and it's been really nice having you on
Speaker 1: the podcast and just witness it in here today. Thank
Speaker 1: you so much, Tammy for coming on the podcast.
Speaker 2: I've never had, like I said, like, it's been a
Speaker 2: big deal to bring you on the podcast. I don't
Speaker 2: know how nervous you were, and I really appreciate you
Speaker 2: coming on.
Speaker 3: Thank you guys for having me. It's been fun.
Speaker 2: I wanted to tell our stories, anything else I want
Speaker 2: to tell how good I am.
Speaker 3: Thank you, Bye bye.