WEBVTT - IT'S A NEW YEAR, BABY 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.640 I want the fairy tale. I want the prince charming. 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:06.000 She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of 0:00:06.040 --> 0:00:07.000 my kissing style. 0:00:07.520 --> 0:00:10.600 We boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. 0:00:10.680 --> 0:00:11.680 He's in a trash bin. 0:00:11.760 --> 0:00:13.560 He's non recyclable, catching the. 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:17.239 Mut I love being love, I love love. 0:00:17.880 --> 0:00:20.440 On today's episode of Where's Your Head Out, we are 0:00:20.480 --> 0:00:23.920 celebrating the year that was twenty twenty two and reflecting 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:25.720 on our last twelve months. 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:28.520 We'll also be chatting about our plans for the new year, 0:00:28.680 --> 0:00:31.360 our twenty twenty three resolutions, and how we'll be spending 0:00:31.400 --> 0:00:33.880 the New Year's Eve. We'll also be discussing New Year's 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:36.479 Eve anxiety and how to stick to our resolutions in 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:37.280 twenty twenty three. 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:40.000 Stay tuned to hear how to have the best New 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:40.880 Year Ever. 0:00:45.920 --> 0:00:48.479 Where's Your Head At is a podcast that talks. 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:53.120 All things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, and everything 0:00:53.200 --> 0:00:53.720 in between. 0:00:54.000 --> 0:00:56.720 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:56.880 --> 0:00:59.040 intimate details, advice, and much more. 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:06.320 Good morning Matthew, Good. 0:01:06.120 --> 0:01:08.520 Morning Anna, our last show for the year. 0:01:09.040 --> 0:01:09.840 Very excited. 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:11.240 I snuck up, didn't it. 0:01:11.240 --> 0:01:13.320 We're looking at the date before and I was like, gee, whiz. 0:01:13.440 --> 0:01:16.000 It's literally twenty twenty three at the end of the week. 0:01:16.200 --> 0:01:18.319 It's been a big year for us, Like we had 0:01:18.319 --> 0:01:22.520 our first live show, amazing, we hit our first million listens, 0:01:22.760 --> 0:01:26.080 Thank you guys, Thank you guys. And it's just the 0:01:26.120 --> 0:01:31.240 podcast has really taken off. We got out Spotify recap 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:35.120 and it said that we've grown sixty five percent of 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:37.880 our audience this year. So, I mean, it's just been 0:01:38.160 --> 0:01:39.880 a wild year for Where's your Head Up? 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:42.360 That was amazing getting our Spotified recap and seeing all 0:01:42.400 --> 0:01:44.880 those starts actually there. I say that a lot to people, 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:46.880 you like, we're so focused on what we're going to 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:49.160 do next that we forget to what's the expression and 0:01:49.160 --> 0:01:51.480 stop and smell the roses and see the actual success 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:52.480 that's coming with it. 0:01:52.640 --> 0:01:55.520 Yeah, and we always say this, it's really like when 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:58.920 you are building something and when you are working towards goals, 0:01:59.040 --> 0:02:02.640 you really need to sellbrate the small wins, right agree. 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:05.640 We had our we had our Christmas party, we had 0:02:05.640 --> 0:02:09.280 a little celebration. But I think definitely one of our 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:12.240 goals of the new year is to really stop and 0:02:12.320 --> 0:02:13.240 smell the roses. 0:02:13.400 --> 0:02:15.400 Definitely, well that I might add that to my list 0:02:15.480 --> 0:02:18.519 because I have my list. We'll get to the list later. 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:21.400 But mine's mine's mine is a Mine's a good one. 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:23.239 Did you get your goals written down? 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:24.320 There are a couple. 0:02:24.600 --> 0:02:28.040 I'm really mindful with news resolutions because I feel like 0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:31.840 I just never follow them. So yeah, there's goals that 0:02:31.919 --> 0:02:34.320 I definitely want to achieve. I've made a list and 0:02:34.320 --> 0:02:36.320 we're going to share that with everyone later. Do you 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:37.760 have any news e flans map? 0:02:38.840 --> 0:02:43.720 Still nothing, still nothing, getting a little shitty charity. They're saying, 0:02:43.840 --> 0:02:47.160 let's go to be on the valley. Let's I just 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:49.359 I don't. I don't put any emphasis on news. I 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:50.440 don't think it's another. 0:02:50.240 --> 0:02:52.600 Day to me, like, it's not guys Matt says this, 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:54.680 But I bet you we're going to look on his 0:02:54.800 --> 0:02:56.840 Instagram story and he's going to be out beyond the 0:02:56.880 --> 0:02:59.079 valley absolutely blind. 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:01.680 Have a good life. There is a fair chance. There 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:04.400 is a big chance. But I don't know. 0:03:04.800 --> 0:03:08.520 I well, the invitation is still open to come to talkie. 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:10.600 I know that's not at the top of your. 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:13.760 List, and it's where would I crash. 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:16.799 You'd get a hotel room because everyone's got their own 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:17.400 hotel rooms. 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:19.919 Not booked out, No, not yet not going ahead to 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:20.799 toe with you and Michael. 0:03:21.600 --> 0:03:25.360 No, no, you won't be sleeping in bed with us, all. 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:27.640 Right, So there's no spare, there's no couch in your one. 0:03:30.720 --> 0:03:32.320 We're not even that. It's just I just I don't 0:03:32.320 --> 0:03:34.679 want to go spend New Years by myself in bed 0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:35.400 by myself. 0:03:35.720 --> 0:03:36.119 I know. 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:37.480 Well, there's lots of people there. 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:40.640 There's going to be my best friend, Michael's best friend, 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:41.440 my brother. 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:44.120 I could probably bunk with your brother. 0:03:44.560 --> 0:03:46.640 I mean to be honest. I mean he might want 0:03:46.680 --> 0:03:47.880 to bring your homes. 0:03:49.320 --> 0:03:50.240 He'll bring me home. 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:53.160 Well, what did you do last year? Because obviously this 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:54.600 year is a lot different. What did you do in 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:55.240 the last year? 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:58.240 Well, when I say that this year has been a 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:01.200 big year, I really mean it, because if we cast 0:04:01.240 --> 0:04:03.920 our minds back to news. 0:04:04.040 --> 0:04:05.720 I'm sure I asked the question. I just remembered what 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:06.040 you did. 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:08.840 I was in lockdown in Thailand. So that's how I 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:10.000 started this year. 0:04:10.280 --> 0:04:13.880 That feels like literally yesterday, does it? 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:16.919 That feels like a lifetime ago to me, Like I 0:04:16.960 --> 0:04:19.359 feel like so much has happened. 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:21.560 So much has happened, but it's gone so quickly. 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:22.239 Yeah. 0:04:22.520 --> 0:04:24.760 Literally genuinely feels like yesterday that we were recording that 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:26.599 episode in the studio. 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:29.600 Yeah. So what I did yesterday is I actually went 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:33.080 through my videos, which I do every year. It's kind 0:04:33.080 --> 0:04:34.800 of like a little ritual that I do, and I 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:37.400 kind of like make like a little end of year 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:40.320 kind of wrap up video doing it to that sound 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:43.839 what sounds the twenty two rapper? 0:04:44.640 --> 0:04:47.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah, I thought about it, but. 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:49.320 Then last year was you know that song and it 0:04:49.400 --> 0:04:51.960 was like thank you for the happy Yeah. Yeah, that 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:54.279 was a really bad singing the happiest year of my life, 0:04:54.360 --> 0:04:54.840 remember that? 0:04:55.040 --> 0:04:55.480 Yes, I do. 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:57.640 Yeah, So I did a wrap up there and I 0:04:57.680 --> 0:04:59.160 started doing that yesterday. 0:04:59.240 --> 0:04:59.840 You should do what? 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:02.479 Yeah, I will. You know what I'm going to do 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:02.880 one as well. 0:05:02.960 --> 0:05:03.400 Do you know why? 0:05:03.400 --> 0:05:05.640 It's good because you kind of it reminds you of 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:08.240 everything that's happened in the year. So I started off 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:10.680 with like my COVID experience and then. 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:13.280 You know there was Bali trips, Michael and I went 0:05:13.320 --> 0:05:14.000 to Europe. 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:15.640 Did you do it in chronological order? 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:16.080 Yeah? 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:19.240 Yeah, So video to video, I like put them into 0:05:19.279 --> 0:05:22.440 the video editing app and I'm gonna start editing that. 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:25.600 So that'll probably be up soon. If it's not already 0:05:25.720 --> 0:05:28.839 up by the time this comes out. But yeah, so 0:05:29.080 --> 0:05:31.880 it's I mean, it's nice looking back because you forget, 0:05:32.160 --> 0:05:34.279 like a year is a long time, right, A. 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:37.080 Lot has happened this year. Well, say, your favorite bit 0:05:37.120 --> 0:05:38.160 from this year was. 0:05:38.800 --> 0:05:41.160 I just have to say my engagement like literally the 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:45.000 best day moment of my whole life. I actually was 0:05:45.040 --> 0:05:46.479 saying to Michael, I'm like, I don't know if we 0:05:46.520 --> 0:05:49.480 can top this year, Like it was pretty unreal. 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:51.480 I reckon your marriage would come in. 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:52.240 Do you reckon? 0:05:52.400 --> 0:05:52.679 Probably? 0:05:53.240 --> 0:05:54.840 It's just like when you get engaged. 0:05:54.880 --> 0:05:56.960 I feel like it's like because I didn't know it 0:05:57.040 --> 0:06:00.320 was coming, it was such a shock and surprise. I'm like, 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:02.560 you know what I mean, I'm like, do you ever 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:04.960 top that feeling? I mean, probably having a kid or 0:06:05.640 --> 0:06:10.039 you know, like those kind of like milestones, the milestone events. 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:13.520 Probably a wedding, maybe my engagement party next year. 0:06:14.560 --> 0:06:15.120 Who knows. 0:06:17.600 --> 0:06:20.400 Speaking of our engagement parties, I see you got your 0:06:20.400 --> 0:06:22.000 engagement photos last week. 0:06:22.279 --> 0:06:24.520 Yeah, so I have been wanting to do this for 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:27.960 a while. So our friend Rachel is an amazing photographer, 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:31.920 So we went down to Campbell Point House so beautiful, 0:06:32.000 --> 0:06:34.960 Like if anyone wants to have a wedding in Melbourne 0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:36.400 or just outside of Melbourne. 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:37.760 Highly recommend that place. 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:41.400 It was stunning, looked amazing from the photos and content 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:41.920 I've seen. 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:46.120 Yeah, and we just got our photos back, so super exciting. 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:49.239 They're actually gonna be the photos that I use for 0:06:49.360 --> 0:06:52.160 our engagement party invite, which is coming out this week, 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:53.360 So keep your eyes peeled. 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:57.080 How to put that into my time tree? Yeah, So 0:06:57.120 --> 0:06:59.040 how did Michael go? He's obviously been Has he done 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:01.320 this many photo shoots since before he met you? 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:02.240 Or have you just got to know? 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:04.839 And do you know what's funny if someone like messaged 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:07.200 me on Instagram being like, oh so did Michael used 0:07:07.240 --> 0:07:08.279 to be a model also? 0:07:08.440 --> 0:07:11.040 And I was like, no, he's just a very good sport. 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:14.040 Did you have a twist his arm? Or did he 0:07:14.120 --> 0:07:15.000 jump straight in at the. 0:07:15.920 --> 0:07:19.360 You know what? Like, Michael's pretty like he jumped straight 0:07:19.400 --> 0:07:22.239 into things, don't you reckon? Like he's pretty like open 0:07:22.320 --> 0:07:24.440 to doing anything, like he's been on the podcast a 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:28.120 couple of times. He's a pretty confident guy. And I 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:30.600 don't think he hated it. I think he secretly loved it. 0:07:30.800 --> 0:07:33.360 I was saying before before he jumps on, I loved 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:35.840 the tie set up. The bow tie. I don't know. 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:38.160 For some reason, I've always wanted a bow tie and 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:41.560 a photo shoot like that. Yeah, just like down But 0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:44.280 I've always had a tie that was already tired and 0:07:44.280 --> 0:07:46.760 you cliff On, it just didn't get the same impact. 0:07:47.960 --> 0:07:49.080 So I thought that was cool. 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:51.640 Yeah, we had a lot of Pinterest photos that we 0:07:51.640 --> 0:07:53.600 were trying to replicate and that was one of them 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:55.880 that I just thought, that's so hot. Right when the 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:59.440 bow tires are done, it's like end of the name then, 0:07:59.760 --> 0:08:03.560 but it's a bit sexy. 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:07.160 Pretty well, So what about your gold dress? That was 0:08:07.200 --> 0:08:08.200 a title number? 0:08:08.440 --> 0:08:13.520 Yeah, yeah, I well, okay, full disclosure. For the engagement shoot, 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:15.360 we also so we did two looks. 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:16.280 So the first one was. 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:19.200 Obviously for the engagement invite and then obviously I'm going 0:08:19.240 --> 0:08:22.200 to post the photos on my social media accounts. But 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:25.120 then we did a secondary look and that's gonna be 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:26.720 for our wedding invite. 0:08:26.920 --> 0:08:29.800 So yeah, I can't wait to see them. 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:36.480 Yeah, very exciting. Those will be coming out pretty soon, Okay, Matt. 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:39.360 So there's this new phenomenon that everyone seems to be 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:43.520 talking about at the moment. It's called Newy's Eve anxiety. 0:08:43.559 --> 0:08:44.320 Have you heard of this? 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:47.400 No? I haven't. What does it mean? They get anxious 0:08:47.400 --> 0:08:47.760 about the. 0:08:47.920 --> 0:08:50.680 Not Well, it's kind of more like people have this 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:54.040 like feeling that they need to have like the best 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:56.760 night ever on New Year. They want to make like 0:08:56.800 --> 0:09:00.120 the best plans. They're like, everyone is having fun and 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:01.880 I'll look like a bit of a loser if my 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:04.520 night is an amazing So it's just like a lot 0:09:04.559 --> 0:09:08.160 of pressure from feeling like you need to have the 0:09:08.200 --> 0:09:11.040 most amazing night. Do you feel that, look, I wouldn't 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:15.160 say I would necessarily correlate it with having anxiety. I 0:09:15.240 --> 0:09:18.920 do always like try to make fun plans or New 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:22.079 Year's Eve, like I always it's a very symbolic night 0:09:22.120 --> 0:09:25.080 for me, Like I'm like, I want to have a 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:27.760 really fun night. I want to close the chapter of 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:30.520 the year that's been and I want to really start 0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:33.520 the new year off with a bang. Obviously, last year 0:09:33.559 --> 0:09:37.000 I was in the hotel quarantine lockdown, so I couldn't 0:09:37.040 --> 0:09:40.439 do that. But other than that, I've always had plans 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:42.960 like I'm always going to a festival or I've booked 0:09:42.960 --> 0:09:45.360 in to do like a party, And to be honest, 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:47.920 I always have a great New Years Eve, bar one. 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:50.760 I literally I can't. 0:09:50.880 --> 0:09:53.360 I can't realize that I have bad anxiety. But I've 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:56.760 never thought about it in that way, Like I would 0:09:56.760 --> 0:09:59.720 always get my tickets to a festival, or would go 0:09:59.760 --> 0:10:02.640 to a mate's house and that, but never, never, It's 0:10:02.640 --> 0:10:05.640 just another night to me. Yeah, I don't think anything of. 0:10:05.559 --> 0:10:06.720 It like that. Yeah. 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:09.680 Well, for the people out there who are feeling a 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:12.200 bit of New Year's Eve anxiety, there are a few 0:10:12.200 --> 0:10:15.040 things that you can do to kind of relax your 0:10:15.120 --> 0:10:18.520 mind to feel less pressure. And the first one is 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:20.800 is just to do what you want to do rather 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:23.200 than what you think that you should be doing. 0:10:23.559 --> 0:10:26.640 Right, I agree, and I think that, Yeah, like me, 0:10:26.840 --> 0:10:27.679 just take a leaf. 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:29.280 Out of my book and I reckon. 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:31.800 Another one would be don't worry about what other people 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:33.680 are doing for their New Year's Eve, like they could 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:36.880 be posting all over their socials, like like who cares? 0:10:37.000 --> 0:10:40.280 Like social media isn't all it claims to be anyway, 0:10:40.360 --> 0:10:40.880 and from. 0:10:40.800 --> 0:10:43.240 Us, it isn't everything it claims to be. Like my 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:46.800 mates last year went to a festival and I went 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:49.120 out for dinner and had like a nice relaxing night 0:10:49.160 --> 0:10:52.160 and watch the fireworks by the beach, and I did 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:54.640 not get any farmo. Like I genuinely did not, Like 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:56.800 I just was chilled out and I was like, this 0:10:56.840 --> 0:10:58.200 is fun, Like this is what I want to do, 0:10:58.280 --> 0:10:59.320 so I'm going to enjoy it. 0:10:59.440 --> 0:10:59.880 Yeah. 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:02.440 I feel like people also get a bit of news 0:11:02.520 --> 0:11:06.200 eve anxiety in regards to their resolutions, like they think 0:11:06.240 --> 0:11:08.400 they need to have like all of these things kind 0:11:08.400 --> 0:11:10.679 of set out and they need to be making all 0:11:10.720 --> 0:11:14.480 these big changes. But I guess just be really mindful, 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:17.559 make small resolutions if that's something you want to do. 0:11:17.640 --> 0:11:21.200 But you don't have to partake in doing New Year's resolutions, right, 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:22.520 I mean, you don't. 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:24.920 Have to partake, But I think it's a good way. 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:28.199 And I think everyone should have resolutions and goals set up, 0:11:28.280 --> 0:11:30.440 and I think what's the perfect time to start in 0:11:30.520 --> 0:11:31.040 the new year? 0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:34.240 Absolutely, just as long as they're achievable though, Right. 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:40.960 Well, let's talk about resolutions after this and twenty twenty 0:11:40.960 --> 0:11:43.760 two was a massive year, but twenty twenty three is 0:11:43.840 --> 0:11:46.760 just around the corner. Yes, let's kick it off with 0:11:46.840 --> 0:11:49.200 some resolutions for the new year. Let's hit it hard. 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:51.880 What should we what should we set? The resolutions for 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:53.080 this podcast what should they do. 0:11:53.440 --> 0:11:53.680 We had a. 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:56.000 Discussion what's the difference between the resolution and a goal. 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:57.240 I think there isn't much. 0:11:57.440 --> 0:12:00.000 No, I think it's the same thing. It's the same thing, absolutely. 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:00.559 Well. 0:12:00.600 --> 0:12:04.520 Look, my first resolution for this podcast is that we 0:12:04.640 --> 0:12:07.800 bicker a little bit less because in the past couple 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:10.120 of weeks we've had a lot on in regards to 0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:13.720 the podcast, and we've been a little of bit snippy 0:12:13.960 --> 0:12:14.720 with one another. 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:19.000 So I think just airing our dirty laundries everywhere. 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:21.120 So I think that we could be a bit nicer 0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:23.080 and a bit more mindful towards each other. 0:12:23.320 --> 0:12:26.560 I agree, I said before, we're too snappy people, so 0:12:26.840 --> 0:12:27.920 like we're two reactives. 0:12:28.840 --> 0:12:32.960 I don't call us snappy, We're two reactors, both react. 0:12:32.760 --> 0:12:34.000 To like situations. 0:12:34.040 --> 0:12:36.840 So I think that maybe, and I think this goes 0:12:36.880 --> 0:12:38.439 from my everyday life as well, that I need to 0:12:38.440 --> 0:12:40.959 be less of a reactor and more of a more 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:42.920 of a chiller, more of a person that goes. 0:12:43.200 --> 0:12:43.719 You know what I mean? 0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:47.520 Do you reckon I've got like less reactive in this year, 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:49.880 Like if you don't know what from the start of 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:52.679 the year, I wouldn't say so, no, really. 0:12:52.520 --> 0:12:54.679 No, I wouldn't say neither of us have gotten any 0:12:54.720 --> 0:12:55.280 less reaction. 0:12:55.880 --> 0:12:58.400 I reckon that we had way more hectic fights at 0:12:58.440 --> 0:13:00.720 the start of the year. As a year, I reckon, 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:02.840 I barely react to you now. 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:06.000 I think we've set boundaries, that's all. I wouldn't say 0:13:06.000 --> 0:13:08.320 that we haven't like we've expected like do you know 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:10.400 what I mean? We had a chat about at mid year, 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:12.040 and now we've like do you know what I mean, 0:13:12.080 --> 0:13:14.280 We've set like what we expect sort of thing. 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:16.920 I wouldn't say we're less reactive. I wouldn't say that. 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:18.599 I would say at the start of this year, I 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:21.199 would fly off the handle way more at ear than 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:23.640 I would now. Like now I just kind of leave 0:13:23.720 --> 0:13:26.960 it and I just deal with it by myself. 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:30.520 Pillow or yelling at a whall. 0:13:30.640 --> 0:13:32.800 Do you know I'm way less reactive now? 0:13:33.280 --> 0:13:37.079 Would you say I am? Well, I would say, because 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:39.400 I'm not like flying off the handle at you, then 0:13:39.440 --> 0:13:40.679 you're not flying off back. 0:13:41.559 --> 0:13:43.800 That's probably. Yeah. Every Like I've said this. 0:13:43.720 --> 0:13:46.280 Before, Now you have to give me some credit here 0:13:46.400 --> 0:13:47.520 because I'm feeling. 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:49.680 Like, Okay, maybe as a whole we've gotten better since 0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:52.240 the I agree, as a whole, yeah, but. 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:54.720 We can still do better. And we will do better. 0:13:54.559 --> 0:13:56.839 Obviously, Well, yeah, we could do better. Let's let's get 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:58.160 it down to no reactions. 0:13:59.200 --> 0:14:01.080 But I reckon it to. 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:04.160 Get it down to just being nice to each other constantly. 0:14:04.400 --> 0:14:07.480 Well, we are nice, it's just that we we're both 0:14:07.559 --> 0:14:10.640 two people. I think we've addressed it that just are 0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:13.400 stubborn and we have our ways and it's just fucking. 0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:15.280 It's kind of like in a relationship when you have 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:17.920 two reactive people, it doesn't work out because there's just 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:22.760 constant fighting. In like a healthy relationship, which this kind 0:14:22.760 --> 0:14:25.400 of feels like a brother sister relationship, so it's not 0:14:25.440 --> 0:14:27.600 like a relationship, but in a healthy relationship, you normally 0:14:27.600 --> 0:14:30.480 have someone who's like reactive and it's someone who's the 0:14:30.560 --> 0:14:32.920 chill one, and then you just like blend really well, 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:33.720 like me and Michael. 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:34.280 Yeah. 0:14:34.680 --> 0:14:37.640 I was saying the other day that, like in chemistry class, 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:38.680 did they say that every. 0:14:38.560 --> 0:14:39.880 Reaction has a reaction? 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:43.720 Yeah, well, forget what you learn in chemistry. Not every 0:14:43.760 --> 0:14:47.520 action needs a reaction. Sometimes you can just chill out. Well, 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:51.120 my newest resolution for the podcast is more a goal. Yeah, 0:14:51.160 --> 0:14:53.520 I would love to do a because I loved the 0:14:53.560 --> 0:14:53.960 live show. 0:14:54.000 --> 0:14:54.600 It was amazing. 0:14:54.680 --> 0:14:56.920 That's why we loved the live show. 0:14:57.120 --> 0:14:57.520 Loved it. 0:14:57.560 --> 0:15:00.320 I would love to do one in each state or 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:03.760 multiple states in Australia, so people in Sydney can view 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:05.560 us and people in Adelaide can come watch us in 0:15:05.600 --> 0:15:06.160 a live show. 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:08.360 It would be so awesome to do an Australia tour 0:15:08.400 --> 0:15:12.640 for the podcast. I mean, we have listeners literally everywhere. Actually, 0:15:12.640 --> 0:15:15.240 in our Spotify wrap up it said we had listeners 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:18.960 in eighty five different countries, which blew my mind. 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:22.680 I couldn't even list eighty five countries at the top 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:24.800 of my head. I think that's amazing. 0:15:25.080 --> 0:15:27.800 Yeah, so definitely one of our goals is to do 0:15:27.840 --> 0:15:30.720 an Australia tour for the podcast, and then if that 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:33.000 goes well, who knows where we could end up. 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:38.000 We could be in your backyard. It could be in America, England, Greece. 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:40.240 We could do one from Greece. When you do your wedding, 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:45.280 my wedding. Yeah, okay, So what's your personal New Year's resolution? 0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:45.520 Then? 0:15:45.800 --> 0:15:45.960 Oh? 0:15:46.680 --> 0:15:48.880 I just want to keep evolving as a person. 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:51.760 I always say, kind of like at the end of 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:54.280 the year, I really like having a look back at 0:15:54.280 --> 0:15:57.480 my year and seeing the changes I've made. I feel 0:15:57.520 --> 0:15:59.400 like if you've not made a lot of changes, if 0:15:59.400 --> 0:16:01.400 you're kind of in the same place you were as 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:04.680 a year before, maybe you haven't done enough that year. 0:16:05.040 --> 0:16:07.800 So I always want to keep evolving and growing and 0:16:08.240 --> 0:16:11.960 bettering my life, setting your goals and doing new things. 0:16:12.040 --> 0:16:15.080 Like obviously, like we said, the live show was very 0:16:15.120 --> 0:16:17.640 out of our comfort zone last year, but now we 0:16:17.640 --> 0:16:19.760 can say we've done a live show and we couldn't 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:22.080 say that the year before with the podcast. So yeah, 0:16:22.160 --> 0:16:25.000 just keeping like evolving and growing. Obviously, I want to 0:16:25.040 --> 0:16:27.760 be super healthy, going to the gym more, just because 0:16:27.760 --> 0:16:30.040 I feel like my energy is so bad at the moment. 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:32.400 And yeah, just being really happy. 0:16:32.640 --> 0:16:35.360 That is literally the same as mine. But I've put 0:16:35.400 --> 0:16:41.040 all mine into two words which I want to strive on. 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:45.240 It's be better, you know what I mean? Like do better? 0:16:45.400 --> 0:16:48.520 Be better, like the same thing, like get healthier, like 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:51.080 getting a better frame of mind. Just like if I 0:16:51.160 --> 0:16:53.920 have two options, it's do the better one, the one 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:56.760 that's going to get me most satisfaction or the most 0:16:57.200 --> 0:17:00.960 reward ripple effect down the past. Absolutely mine is the 0:17:00.960 --> 0:17:02.680