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Speaker 1: This is the fitting and with her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 1: What have you done? Mate? What have you done? You

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Speaker 1: have some shockers sometimes sometimes so you know, I get

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Speaker 1: the call up sometimes for school pick up. Right, and

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Speaker 1: so this was last Friday long going into the long weekend.

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking about the long weekend we're going to do.

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Speaker 1: This's going to have such a good time. BJ goes, well,

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Speaker 1: if you've got the afternoon off a couple of hours

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Speaker 1: up your slave, why don't you go pick up Lenny.

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Speaker 1: He'd love that. I said, yeah, all right, sweet, no worries.

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Speaker 1: I'll go pick him up from primary school. Pick him up.

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Speaker 1: We have a bit of a chat. Look, I just

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Speaker 1: get down on the down low. He's still he's still

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Speaker 1: got his girlfriend, all that kind of stuff. So we

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Speaker 1: having a chat. So I drive back from school to

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Speaker 1: our house. It's about ten minutes, right. I get back

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Speaker 1: home and BJ texts me and she goes, just by

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Speaker 1: the way, Jesse, just tell Jesse that the keys to

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Speaker 1: his house they're outside underneath the mat so he can

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Speaker 1: get in through that way. And I ring her straight

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Speaker 1: away and go what are you talking about? She goes, Oh,

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Speaker 1: my god, Ryan, every time you pick up Lenny. We

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Speaker 1: always have to pick up his friend, Jesse. This is

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Speaker 1: the thing. You'll wear friends with their parents, they're friends

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Speaker 1: with us, and we always pick up their kids. So

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Speaker 1: I've just looked at the time and realized that Jesse's

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Speaker 1: at the school. He's been at the school for twenty

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Speaker 1: minutes waiting for me to pick him up, one lonely

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Speaker 1: kid there at the gate. Anytime now, someone that cares

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Speaker 1: for me will be here to pick me up. So

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Speaker 1: I'm driving back, going oh no. And then I have

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Speaker 1: in my mind, I think to myself, I wonder how

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Speaker 1: loyal my children's friends are to me? Right? Would they

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Speaker 1: have left Lenny there? You mean? And I've always thought

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Speaker 1: about this, you know, when you're growing up and you're

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Speaker 1: hanging out at your mate's house and you might in

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Speaker 1: their mom and dad. How chummy were you with the parents, like?

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Speaker 1: And would you do anything for the parents? And I

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Speaker 1: was just I thought I might test this relationship, just

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Speaker 1: to see. I've known Jesse since birth, you know, I'm

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Speaker 1: good friends with his dad. We grew up together, and

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Speaker 1: Hayley the mom as well, And I thought, well, I'm

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Speaker 1: going to try this. So when he gets in the car,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to start recording, just to see if he will,

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Speaker 1: if he will come up with a story and get

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Speaker 1: behind me when he gets home to his mum and dad.

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Speaker 1: So I ring his dad keeps and I go keeps.

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Speaker 1: This is what I'm going to do. So you need

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Speaker 1: to record when he gets home on your So Jesse

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Speaker 1: gets in the car twenty minutes later. He was fine,

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Speaker 1: He had a smile on his face. One of the

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Speaker 1: school teachers was there going, oh, you're in a bit

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Speaker 1: of bloody grubble. When I picked him up, Jesse gets

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Speaker 1: in the car and here's the conversation. I'm so sorry man.

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Speaker 1: So I was about twenty minutes late then, But Jesse,

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Speaker 1: can you please do me a favor. You can't tell

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Speaker 1: your mum and dad about this, Okay, you know what,

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Speaker 1: They'll probably probably looking at the time, going where is he?

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Speaker 1: Where is he? So even if they ask why you're

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Speaker 1: so late, you just please don't tell them because I'm

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Speaker 1: really nervous that they might get a bit angry with me.

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Speaker 1: Or okay, okay, so you would do that for Fitzy

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Speaker 1: or you don't sound too confident, are you? Are you sure? What?

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Speaker 1: Are you one hundred percent sure? I don't know what

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Speaker 1: to say if they ask me. If they asked, just say, oh,

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Speaker 1: I was just playing with Blake on the playground. We

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Speaker 1: just played on the playground for a bit longer. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: is that alright? And with Lenny up very well? Well, no,

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Speaker 1: that's not bad. But then I did, and then I

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Speaker 1: realized that basically it sounds like that I had to

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Speaker 1: wait for twenty minutes while he was playing on the

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Speaker 1: play Now deserve an apology, do you? So? Then my

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Speaker 1: mate Coops starts recording. He starts recording when he gets out,

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Speaker 1: and Coops goes a bit hard on his son, saying, well,

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Speaker 1: you made Ryan wait for that long war, And I'm thinking,

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Speaker 1: is Jesse going to stick up for me? I said,

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Speaker 1: he is going to. I mean he's going he's got

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Speaker 1: to be brittle at some stage and he's got to

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Speaker 1: give up the story. But haven't listened to how well

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Speaker 1: he went. Jessie pause, I need to speak to you.

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Speaker 1: So you slap made Ryan wait twenty minutes? Yes? What

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Speaker 1: you weren't looking out for him? We were able to

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Speaker 1: see him. I think we're just playing and then when

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Speaker 1: we look he was probably doing like a lack around

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Speaker 1: for twenty minutes he must have done like twenty laps.

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Speaker 1: Don't apologize to me, You're gonna apologize to Ryan? Who

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Speaker 1: was it? You and Blake and LENNI Well, Lenny wasn't

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Speaker 1: even looking at for his dad either, or we were

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Speaker 1: what we lost? You lost track of time, that's for sure.

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Speaker 1: He's so good, that's like, that's Jason Bourne level. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm quite stoked that he's prepared to do. I'm also

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Speaker 1: rapped that your mate refers to you as Ryan, but

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Speaker 1: in the car you're talking yourself up. Yeah, it's fitzy

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Speaker 1: fitzy see. And the thing is, now, I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: work out what I need, what I need to get

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Speaker 1: him for sticking up for me now, Like I'm talking

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Speaker 1: hundreds of Pokemon cards here, or I don't know what,

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Speaker 1: some b Bucks or a slabber beer. There's something in it. Well,

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Speaker 1: it's good to know that when we go on that

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Speaker 1: contigue to it, he's going to keep everything. Whipper with

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