WEBVTT - Would You EVER Have A "Back Up" Partner?! 0:00:00.520 --> 0:00:08.200 We got get you the morning every day adelaides backup partners. 0:00:08.280 --> 0:00:11.840 Apparently this is a thing, particularly in amongst the ladies. 0:00:12.320 --> 0:00:14.360 There's two ladies in this room right now. Can you 0:00:14.400 --> 0:00:16.720 get your thoughts on this one? And Lucy and Jody. 0:00:17.239 --> 0:00:19.160 So a survey of one thousand women found that nearly 0:00:19.160 --> 0:00:22.279 fifty percent in relationships that's married or unmarried have a 0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:25.599 backup partner in mind in case the current relationship ends. 0:00:26.720 --> 0:00:29.600 So these backups are often old friends who previously showed 0:00:29.680 --> 0:00:33.960 romantic interest through some women named ex boyfriends, colleagues, or 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:40.040 acquaintances like gym buddies. The common thread is emotional familiarity 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:42.199 and the belief that the person would be ready and 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:44.800 waiting if the current relationship were to fail. 0:00:45.440 --> 0:00:47.839 Oh they're interesting, isn't it with the current partner? 0:00:47.960 --> 0:00:51.960 Okay, I just think if this marriage doesn't work out, 0:00:52.040 --> 0:00:53.480 I'm not doing marriage number three. 0:00:53.560 --> 0:00:56.080 I'm not doing that categorically. I'm not. 0:00:56.800 --> 0:00:59.600 I will probably become a lesbian because I think women 0:00:59.760 --> 0:01:03.240 get each other better, uh, and or be single for 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:05.280 the rest of my natural life. I don't have a 0:01:05.319 --> 0:01:05.960 backup partner. 0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:09.800 I feel like I'm your beautiful husband, your current husband, 0:01:12.400 --> 0:01:15.880 the current Greek, Forever Greek. I feel like you get 0:01:15.920 --> 0:01:17.640 comfort in knowing that that you're either going to be 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:20.560 single or you can switch. 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:21.280 The other side. That's good. 0:01:21.440 --> 0:01:22.800 I know it's good for him, isn't it. 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:25.320 What about you, Lucy, because we had this conversation off 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:27.400 air and it's got you thinking. 0:01:27.200 --> 0:01:27.640 Didn't it. 0:01:29.200 --> 0:01:29.400 Yeah? 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:31.080 I didn't know this was a thing that was surveyed. 0:01:31.120 --> 0:01:33.520 But has it crossed my mind to have a backup partner? 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:34.520 Yeah? 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:37.440 God, it has I don't. 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:40.320 I don't have one in mind, okay, but it has 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:44.840 crossed my mind that if if Josh were to carcke 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:47.920 it as they say, yeah, would I have a backup partner? 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:48.680 Yeah? 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:50.560 That's a boss Josh. 0:01:50.560 --> 0:01:55.480 By the way, yes, she's dating the boss, shall we? 0:01:56.840 --> 0:01:59.240 But I do understand the emotional factor. 0:01:59.320 --> 0:02:01.639 Girls are emotional beings, and I don't hate the idea 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:03.000 of switching side. 0:02:03.080 --> 0:02:04.400 No, because girls get girls. 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:05.120 No, I get that. 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:06.080 Maybe I would do that. 0:02:06.160 --> 0:02:08.840 I've just watched The Hunter's Wives over the weekend, so 0:02:09.080 --> 0:02:10.440 it looks quite attractive to me. 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:15.200 Well, when you think of sport and you think big 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:19.040 milestones straight away from me, I think of some previous milestones. 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:21.160 I think of Scott panety four hundred. I think of 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:23.640 Travis Spoke three point fifty. I think of Taylor Walker 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:26.360 three hundred coming up in a few weeks time. But 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:28.160 then all of a sudden, a milestone pops up on 0:02:28.160 --> 0:02:30.240 your desk and you're like, wow, it trumps all of them, 0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:34.800 put them all together. It's got nothing on this particular milestone. 0:02:35.040 --> 0:02:36.560 What'd you do on the weekend, Joe? Just take us 0:02:36.560 --> 0:02:37.600 through it, Take us through it. 0:02:38.840 --> 0:02:41.399 I might have filled in for the Adelaid Wildcats see 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:43.919 one's why why do you ask? 0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:44.280 Okay? 0:02:44.440 --> 0:02:46.519 And was it some sort of significant day? Was it 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:48.400 a bit of a milestone? Was it something on the calendar? 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:50.960 It should have been circle for family and friends? 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:57.240 I played my one hundredth games. 0:02:57.680 --> 0:03:01.400 Oh wow, jeez, what are you talking, Banner? I have 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:03.680 many tickets you have to get as well for fair friends. 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:04.640 I know that's always. 0:03:04.919 --> 0:03:05.919 I'm super exciting. 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:10.840 Like so many people came out to Court sixteen at 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:11.840 Priceline Stadium. 0:03:11.840 --> 0:03:14.480 It was incredible. No, actually there was no one there, 0:03:14.480 --> 0:03:15.639 so we weren't invited. 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:17.560 No did I miss that invite? 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:17.720 No? 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:20.360 I missed the invice? Well are there lockers at Court sixteen? 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:23.160 Where is your name now engraved? On the locker, and 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:23.840 what number. 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:26.800 Are you guess how long it took to notch up 0:03:26.800 --> 0:03:30.239 one hundred games for my beautiful beloved Adelaide Wildcats. 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:30.880 Well, usually I. 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:32.960 Reckon sort of twenty twenty five games a season, like, 0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:34.960 if you really go through injury free, can probably knock 0:03:34.960 --> 0:03:35.520 it up in four. 0:03:35.680 --> 0:03:37.440 But I'd say max five years. What are we talking 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:39.960 twenty five years? Five years? Very good? So here we 0:03:40.000 --> 0:03:41.520 go again. That's what they're talking. 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:44.840 About, twenty five years. 0:03:45.360 --> 0:03:48.040 Who's county? Who was counting along the way? 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:49.560 Someone was I didn't know. 0:03:50.040 --> 0:03:51.720 Did you tell them as you one hundred? Did they 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:52.080 tell you? 0:03:52.200 --> 0:03:55.640 She told me that it was a thing in my defense. 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:58.240 Okay, so if you average that out, that's four games 0:03:58.240 --> 0:03:59.120 of netbuller year. 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:02.720 It's a really slow insteady. 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:05.640 It is. It's consistent, though, you have to give it that. 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:09.960 It's commitment, it's consistent. It's okay. Yeah, I didn't know 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:10.920 it was a happening thing. 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:14.640 But nonetheless I rocked up on Saturday and there were 0:04:14.920 --> 0:04:17.760 some big silver balloons with one hundred. 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:21.320 That's good, you take that. That's really not a cake, 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:22.000 not a bottle of. 0:04:22.040 --> 0:04:24.600 Champagn or, no, nothing like that. Just the balloons. 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:26.680 Lucia makes a very good point. I didn't know about it. 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:28.800 Why didn't no one know about it? How come we 0:04:28.839 --> 0:04:30.440 didn't celebrate? How come we didn't tell us? 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:32.760 Why are we celebrating after the fact? Hang on, did 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:33.080 you win? 0:04:33.600 --> 0:04:35.680 We won? Thank god? 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:37.040 Factory story. 0:04:37.320 --> 0:04:40.000 Was the best thing about my one hundredth game for 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:43.680 the Adelaie Wildcats is the fact that the opposition were last, 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:44.680 So that was good. 0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:45.440 That was a good start. 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:49.000 And also they only had six players, so. 0:04:49.400 --> 0:04:52.039 The duration of my one hundredth game, I didn't have 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:52.600 anyone on me. 0:04:52.760 --> 0:04:54.120 That's perfect. That's perfect. 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:55.719 That's what you get in your hundred and what I 0:04:55.760 --> 0:04:57.400 did like as well Jode's is that I saw it 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:58.000 on social media. 0:04:58.040 --> 0:04:58.760 Greg put it up there. 0:04:58.800 --> 0:05:01.000 Yes, yes he did. And then I asked that, texting 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:03.120 me what the hell where was the invite? And he said, 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:04.560 all good, she's going to play our two hundred and 0:05:04.600 --> 0:05:05.320 twenty seventy six. 0:05:06.560 --> 0:05:08.440 I need to know, I need I need to know. 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:10.640 I need to know. I need to know what's in. 0:05:10.640 --> 0:05:11.560 The news today. 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:13.919 This is what you need to know. 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:15.400 You know what you need to know. 0:05:15.680 --> 0:05:18.000 With Jody and Hazy sec turn. 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:21.280 Bat Live contest. 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:29.320 But those Adelaide fans Exerside confers it's a Premiership. 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:32.520 Friend play Ooh you're damn right. It is gross fans 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:33.440 getting pretty sad. 0:05:33.640 --> 0:05:36.080 It is so very hard not to get carried away. 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:39.560 Okay, from your point of view as a sports reporter 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:43.000 for Channel seven, how is the final series going to 0:05:43.040 --> 0:05:45.279 play out for the Adelaide CROs. 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:48.760 I'm telling you right now the Pies are falling. Yeah, 0:05:49.000 --> 0:05:51.080 the Pies are absolutely fading. 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:52.200 Get what's going on there? 0:05:52.279 --> 0:05:53.400 And what I don't understand as. 0:05:53.279 --> 0:05:55.240 Well is that's how we speak to all the experts 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:58.880 who are very much based east in Melbourne. They're like, oh, 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:02.520 I still like the West and Bulldogs. I think Brisbane 0:06:02.600 --> 0:06:06.120 are the best. You're like, why is everyone just ignoring Adelaide. 0:06:06.320 --> 0:06:08.760 They're on top of the ladder as we speak. Show 0:06:08.760 --> 0:06:10.600 them some respect and saying that, I'm pretty sure the 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:13.320 Crows be very happy to go under the radar somehow, 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:14.280 even when you're on top. 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:14.720 Of the ladder. 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:18.080 So if they finish top two, which they probably will 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:20.880 at this point, how does the final series play out 0:06:20.880 --> 0:06:22.520 for them? So that's a home. 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:24.719 They'll get a home final, yes, yeah, obviously get a 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:26.720 double chance and they'll get a home final, So that's 0:06:26.839 --> 0:06:28.599 the perks of finishing the top two. 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:32.000 That feels very hard to beat Adelaide Crows at home 0:06:32.040 --> 0:06:32.520 at the moment. 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:35.320 It does so, and they've got at least two games 0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:38.320 which they're going to absolutely destroy on the run home. 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:41.480 They've got West Coast and North Melbourne, which I'm not sure, 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:44.159 Like Dead said, there is a chance that you rest 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:46.159 a couple of players and still win quite comfortably. 0:06:46.240 --> 0:06:48.800 Do you rest Texts because. 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:50.839 Well, I don't know if you do rest text because 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:53.680 he's on track to play three hundredth in the final 0:06:53.720 --> 0:06:55.440 game that'll be over in Melbourne. 0:06:55.480 --> 0:06:57.360 But still yeah, right, terms of males done, I think 0:06:57.360 --> 0:06:58.000 you probably. 0:06:57.720 --> 0:06:59.040 Want to do a milestone like that before you get 0:06:59.040 --> 0:07:00.800 into the finals, so you can really constraint on the finals. 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:02.280 I'm not really sure they do have the pies in 0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:04.040 a couple of weeks though. Here that's gonna be huge. 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:07.040 Okay, we are getting a little bit ahead of ourselves. 0:07:06.640 --> 0:07:10.200 But so were the airlines because Crows fans, dreamy of 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:13.560 a grand Final birth are already preparing to buckle up 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:17.600 for sky high airfares. So after that epic win against Hawthorne, 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:21.000 flight prices were jacked up for the AFL Grand Final 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:24.720 on September twenty seventh. So guess how much it's gone 0:07:24.760 --> 0:07:28.280 a costure on Virgin one way to get to the 0:07:28.560 --> 0:07:30.480 Grand Final upwards? 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:32.160 Off, I'm going to say one hundred and. 0:07:32.120 --> 0:07:35.480 Twenty seven hundred and ninety one dollars. 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:37.200 I'm sorry say that again. 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:39.240 Seven hundred and ninety one dollars. 0:07:39.400 --> 0:07:41.720 No, ridiculous. 0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:45.400 Yeah, seven hundred and eighty five dollars on Quantus and 0:07:45.560 --> 0:07:47.760 three hundred and fifty dollars on Jetster. 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:48.840 Wow. 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:51.280 But if you want to go the week before, if 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:55.080 you want to be like super prepared, flights are available 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:58.520 for ninety nine dollars or seventy two on Jetstar. 0:07:59.120 --> 0:08:00.960 And what if you don't know someone over in Melbourne? 0:08:00.960 --> 0:08:02.440 You can't stay for free for a week and you 0:08:02.520 --> 0:08:05.040 got to pick yourself up for accommodations not cheap in Melbourne. 0:08:05.120 --> 0:08:06.880 What happens with hotel prices too. 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:09.160 Well that's going to absolutely spark as well, I imagine, 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:12.600 doesn't matter what happens. AFL Ground Final week in Melbourne 0:08:12.600 --> 0:08:13.640 would be out. 0:08:13.480 --> 0:08:17.440 Of control, absolutely outrageous. Okay, So if you don't want 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:18.880 to fly, you can take the train. 0:08:19.000 --> 0:08:27.880 Nice days is Brenton raglis driving the train. Let's go ragging. 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:29.920 I don't know that it's a steam train. 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:33.599 I don't know what a journey that would be. 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:36.320 So that costs one hundred and forty five dollars, but 0:08:36.400 --> 0:08:38.400 a daytime trip will take eleven hours. 0:08:38.760 --> 0:08:42.320 This is what I don't understand. Eleven hours. For goodness sake, 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:44.640 you could probably drive there for quicker. 0:08:45.280 --> 0:08:46.920 Yeah, couldn't you. I think you could? 0:08:47.160 --> 0:08:51.120 Yeah, Or or you could take the bus from Franklin 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:54.319 Street for just sixty five dollars, but that will take 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:55.560 twenty one hours. 0:08:55.720 --> 0:08:59.080 Wow, four twenty four hours. What's going on? They push 0:08:59.160 --> 0:08:59.560 in the bus? 0:08:59.600 --> 0:09:00.640 Oh? 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:03.800 I just feel like them powered busk you. 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:04.800 A hotel price? 0:09:05.120 --> 0:09:05.320 Oh? 0:09:05.520 --> 0:09:05.800 We go? 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:06.000 Good on. 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:08.800 Then I've just picked a random IBus Melbourne, one of 0:09:08.800 --> 0:09:09.839 the ones in the city. 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:12.440 One of the fancy ones. Then loose igs are. 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:14.680 Known as the family friendly and budget friendly. 0:09:14.840 --> 0:09:17.280 Yes, but if you fly on that Friday and so 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:19.600 the Friday before the Grand Final Saturday night at the 0:09:19.600 --> 0:09:22.600 Grand Final Friday Saturday Night will start at six hundred 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:23.040 and ten. 0:09:24.800 --> 0:09:27.120 Said the ibis in Melbourne six hundred and ten dollars. 0:09:27.200 --> 0:09:29.320 So if you are planning on going, maybe see if 0:09:29.320 --> 0:09:33.160 there's like a caravan site around somewhere near the OPG. 0:09:33.600 --> 0:09:36.880 We were saying this, this is price gougic. 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:39.880 Yeah, one hundred percent. Aren't their laws against that? 0:09:40.160 --> 0:09:41.839 Thinks to paint that sort of money to start the 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:47.400 bin chicken dickas believable prices anyway, Lid's off, let's go 0:09:47.440 --> 0:09:49.120 gross support. It's got to get yourself there somehow. 0:09:50.000 --> 0:09:52.880 Jo job, That is a good job. 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:55.840 Monday morning joke off. 0:09:55.920 --> 0:09:57.880 Yeah, best right, the best way to start. Wait, just 0:09:57.880 --> 0:09:59.920 a bit of a humor. It's a short little jet 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:02.160 right in the fum bank you mau. 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:05.400 Let's go in the bumb Is that your preferred method. 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:06.760 It's a third spot too. 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:09.520 When you're getting injection. I can't really feel it. Ah, 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:10.760 makes your arms sort of dead. 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:13.040 Yeah, and you want injection, you won't right in the 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:15.440 glute well, because there's so much muscle there, you know 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:15.839 what I mean. 0:10:15.880 --> 0:10:16.120 That's it. 0:10:16.400 --> 0:10:16.719 That's it. 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:20.120 Yeah, okay, sometimes a fat as you know too. 0:10:20.160 --> 0:10:23.560 It's all you're on the assumption that you've got an ass, 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:23.800 you know. 0:10:24.000 --> 0:10:25.480 Yeah, there was a little bit of extra skin there. 0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:28.680 I'll kick it off. Laddie's if that's all right? Sure? 0:10:28.800 --> 0:10:29.320 Ready to go? 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:30.200 All right? 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:32.480 Well, my partner and I recently broke up. Oh can 0:10:32.480 --> 0:10:33.000 you believe me? 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:36.560 Yeah, probably due to my obsession with football. It's actually 0:10:36.600 --> 0:10:40.880 quite devastating because we just ticked over three seasons together. 0:10:43.720 --> 0:10:45.680 Got I'd like. 0:10:45.720 --> 0:10:47.079 To go next, I'll go next. 0:10:47.960 --> 0:10:49.560 Don't have high hopes for me today though. 0:10:49.679 --> 0:10:51.559 Okay, did you hear about. 0:10:51.400 --> 0:10:53.040 The guy who got hit in the head with a 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:53.960 can of lemonade? 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:55.160 Sweet Jesus not. 0:10:55.679 --> 0:11:00.440 He was just lucky it was a soft drink. I 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:02.040 see what you did that lemonade banter? 0:11:04.200 --> 0:11:04.400 Yeah? 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:07.280 Yeah, I just feel like it when you need to 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:09.559 woman explain your joke, it's probably. 0:11:09.240 --> 0:11:13.320 Not that good. I know, I'm okay. A man finds 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:14.440 a lamb and rubs it. 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:17.200 A Jennie appears and says, you have three wishes, but 0:11:17.240 --> 0:11:21.080 whatever you wish for your ex wife gets double. That's 0:11:21.120 --> 0:11:23.320 a very important part of the joke. The man thinks 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:25.000 and says, Okay, I want a mansion. 0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:25.840 Puff. 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:29.640 He gets a mansion somewhere. His ex wife gets two mansions. 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:30.640 Fine. 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:33.720 He says I want ten million dollars. Puff, He gets 0:11:33.760 --> 0:11:37.600 ten million dollars, She gets twenty million dollars. He pauses, 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:40.959 thinks for a while, and then says Jeannie, I want 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:42.160 you to scare me half to death. 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:45.080 Thank you? 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:50.160 Yeah, good, it's not bad for the X wife and 0:11:50.160 --> 0:11:57.480 thank you so much. Shout GPS sealed section with tiff 0:11:57.559 --> 0:12:01.360 one from Jen's first Yeah she is overseas from ten 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:04.240 years first back and ready to go. 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:06.920 Yeah, you can turn a mark onto anytime you like that. 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:11.559 You're testing one, two, three, Good Morrow? How was Europe? 0:12:11.760 --> 0:12:15.199 Oh, Jingy's It was amazing because. 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:17.719 It's so good, so good. You're so brown. I know, 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:24.199 brown is a beaver. No, okay, you're browner than Andrew Hayes. 0:12:24.240 --> 0:12:25.880 I know because he doesn't see the sun anymore. 0:12:26.000 --> 0:12:27.760 No. Yes, And what I said to you off air 0:12:27.840 --> 0:12:29.800 was that because you're browner than me, you've got a 0:12:29.840 --> 0:12:32.040 more tam. It means you're clearly healthy. Though healthy, we 0:12:32.080 --> 0:12:35.320 shouldn't go by that logic. There's nothing healthy about a town. 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:40.559 Okay, but it looks real good. Welcome back to h 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:42.040 What you got for us today? 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:46.079 This is one we've been musing upon relationship etiquette. I 0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:48.640 think it's a changing landscape. I'm not the expert on it, 0:12:48.679 --> 0:12:50.160 but here we go. Okay, back when I was an 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:53.600 eighteen year old, was courting a boy. He was courting 0:12:53.640 --> 0:12:55.679 me and he said to me, point blank, will you 0:12:55.679 --> 0:12:58.320 be make gel fink? And I said, yeah, you're not 0:12:58.480 --> 0:13:01.600 in that voice. Yeah, we were chill dren teens, God, 0:13:01.600 --> 0:13:04.319 well you be my by whatever? I was sure, why 0:13:04.320 --> 0:13:08.079 not fast forwards? Now thirty plus a bit older, I'm 0:13:08.080 --> 0:13:11.640 in a beautiful relationship now. And when we entered into 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:14.800 said partnership, those words weren't exchanged. Okay, we did have 0:13:14.840 --> 0:13:17.600 a grown up chat to say we'll be exclusive unto 0:13:17.640 --> 0:13:20.600 no others, but we didn't use the terminology boyfriend girlfriend. 0:13:20.600 --> 0:13:21.600 And then one day we just. 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:23.400 Were ok so, how to go down? What was a 0:13:23.440 --> 0:13:25.760 conversation was that are we in a relationship or. 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:28.480 We just knew? We just knew in ourselves. It was 0:13:28.559 --> 0:13:29.199 just implied. 0:13:29.920 --> 0:13:31.960 We had the chat to say I'm going to see 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:34.960 you and no one else, and that was that, and 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:38.880 then that just escalated into in love. 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:42.400 I can't imagine there was a time though, where either 0:13:42.440 --> 0:13:44.320 one of you were seeing other people at the same 0:13:44.320 --> 0:13:46.720 time that you were seeing each other. Although I guess 0:13:46.760 --> 0:13:48.760 some people do that. I guess that happens, does it? 0:13:48.920 --> 0:13:51.199 Yeah, some people, for example, on the apps, they might 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:54.520 be seeing multiple people dating multiple people and then they 0:13:54.559 --> 0:13:56.880 don't really know where they lie, or they just talking. 0:13:56.920 --> 0:13:58.520 There's a lot of talk these days. The kids say, 0:13:58.520 --> 0:13:59.600 we're in the talking phase. 0:13:59.679 --> 0:14:01.200 Did you on a dating app? We you're on a 0:14:01.240 --> 0:14:03.880 dating app before you guys become exclusive. Was your partner? 0:14:04.280 --> 0:14:04.480 No? 0:14:04.640 --> 0:14:06.320 Okay? So is that Well? 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:08.040 I think if you're if you're obviously seeing someone and 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:10.040 you take yourself off a dating app, I'd assume that's 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:11.560 probably solid sign. 0:14:11.920 --> 0:14:12.560 That you're into it. 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:15.400 You can do not do it? They stay on Oh, 0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:16.880 dirty birds, dirty Bert. 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:19.680 Can I ask you this question, Andrew Hayes, because back 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:21.960 in the day down at glen Orchy Primary School, if 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:23.760 I want to just like go out with a boy, 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:26.720 it was very simple. It was you would write on 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:29.120 a piece of paper will you be my boyfriend? And 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:32.760 there were two little boxers, yes or no tick either one. 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:34.680 Did you have that at Beckham Primary School? 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:36.920 Well, I was a little bit different because. 0:14:36.640 --> 0:14:37.600 You were the only one in the year. 0:14:37.640 --> 0:14:39.800 I was the one the year above. 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:42.600 So yeah, I didn't unfortunate to get a girlfriend to 0:14:42.600 --> 0:14:44.240 the round about the age of sixteen. But even when 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:46.600 I was sort of sixteen seventeen, probably first couple of 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:49.200 girlfriends it was a genuine look, will you be my girlfriend? 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:49.880 Right? 0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:51.880 So the question was asked, it was like it was 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:52.440 a proposal. 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:55.160 Yeah yeah, it was all now the old my friend 0:14:55.240 --> 0:14:56.640 likes you. Will you go out with my friends? 0:14:56.640 --> 0:14:56.760 Oh? 0:14:56.800 --> 0:14:57.720 You a good one? 0:14:57.840 --> 0:14:58.040 Yeah? 0:14:58.200 --> 0:14:58.960 Other good one? 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:01.040 And if they say no, you go. I was just kidding. 0:15:01.720 --> 0:15:03.600 It was my friend mucking around. 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:06.280 So you get you've got your mate to do the 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:08.680 dirty week to do thirty twenty four ten? 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:11.160 What are the rules these days? What happens? 0:15:11.200 --> 0:15:13.560 How do you know you're someone's boyfriend or girlfriend if 0:15:13.560 --> 0:15:15.520 you don't explicitly say well you be my boy friend 0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:17.280 like that in that tone? 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:19.600 Yeah, how do you know? Or is it just when 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:19.800 you know? 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:20.040 You know? 0:15:20.120 --> 0:15:22.240 That was my experience, but I know for some people 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:22.520 it's not. 0:15:22.640 --> 0:15:25.680 They'll they think they're exclusive, and then the fellas seeing 0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:28.280 four other cheap ladies on the side, How would you be? 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:30.800 This is modern day relationship etiquette. 0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:33.360 Leah, did you have the chat? 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:36.000 Oh my god, it's so funny. So I'm thirty nine. 0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:38.040 Divorced, divorced, we've both got kids. 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:40.960 I've been seeing each other for a while and our 0:15:41.040 --> 0:15:43.720 friends have been going and he gave official and we'd 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:45.960 had a few drinks one night and I got in 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:49.480 the cabs and I was like, will you be my boyfriend? Yeah? 0:15:49.520 --> 0:15:51.800 And then in the morning I woke up. I was like, 0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:54.880 I did not say that. I can't feel and I 0:15:54.920 --> 0:15:58.080 pretended it didn't happen. And then like a week later, 0:15:58.240 --> 0:16:00.640 he came to my house and Okay, I've. 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:02.440 Got to ask you something for a moment and I'm 0:16:02.440 --> 0:16:03.240 like well, and he's. 0:16:03.120 --> 0:16:05.880 Like, do you remember in this tacte? I was like yeah, 0:16:05.960 --> 0:16:08.080