WEBVTT - I HAVE THE ICK.... 0:00:00.440 --> 0:00:02.920 I've definitely dated my fair share of douchebags. 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:06.040 My time just get tingling balls. 0:00:06.720 --> 0:00:09.080 Oh I'm spiraling, Oh my God, tell us. 0:00:09.119 --> 0:00:12.080 Everything flame emojis slept frighton center. 0:00:12.560 --> 0:00:15.200 Matt loves a bit of God and. 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:17.599 I need to text you back. I'm really needing with that. 0:00:17.960 --> 0:00:20.479 I know I'm jealous. I'm the most jealous person ever. 0:00:20.760 --> 0:00:23.000 Relationships like a fart. If you have to force it, 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:24.040 It's probably shiit Hi. 0:00:24.120 --> 0:00:25.400 City dot Com for you. 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:27.760 I'll be a bloody single and alone with ten cats 0:00:27.760 --> 0:00:29.480 for the rest of my life. Lie Lie. 0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:32.199 On today's episode of Where's Your Head At, we'll be 0:00:32.240 --> 0:00:34.440 discussing the ick and surviving rejection. 0:00:34.840 --> 0:00:37.440 Stay tuned to hear about all the times the ike 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:45.640 ruined a perfectly good thing we had going on. Where's 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:49.800 Your Head At is a podcast that talks all things relationships, breakups, 0:00:49.880 --> 0:00:53.159 reality TV, trending shows, and everything in between. 0:00:53.440 --> 0:00:56.200 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:56.360 --> 0:00:58.520 intimate details, advice, and much more. 0:01:03.520 --> 0:01:07.920 Anna Anna, Anna, Matthew, Matthew, Matthew. 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:10.840 I tell you what I'd really love, and everyone and 0:01:11.319 --> 0:01:12.640 listening would really love. 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:16.640 What's that? 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:19.680 Matt for you to tell us about the new relationship 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:22.720 milestone you've had with your man Michael. 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:26.360 God, you're going straight into the deep hair I am. 0:01:26.440 --> 0:01:28.160 I'm not here to fuck spiders. 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:32.360 Who didn't come up with this? 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:37.400 I mean, yeah, look I have I'm still not over them. 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:42.679 Related what is it the fucking spiders thing? Yeah, I've 0:01:42.720 --> 0:01:44.920 had another relationship milestone. 0:01:45.080 --> 0:01:46.759 Congratulations, thank you. 0:01:47.400 --> 0:01:51.960 As as you alluded to, there was a love bomb 0:01:52.360 --> 0:01:57.600 dropped by yourself or Michael, Michael dropped the love bomb? 0:01:57.760 --> 0:02:00.800 Okay? Is are you normally the first say it? Or 0:02:00.960 --> 0:02:02.640 is your partner normally. 0:02:02.680 --> 0:02:04.800 I'm never the first to say it, even if I 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:08.639 feel it, I always wait because I just don't want 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:11.400 to get ahead of myself because I, as do you 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:16.920 go a bit headfirst into the deep end, and once 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:18.960 I do feel it, I just wait for them to 0:02:19.000 --> 0:02:19.400 say it. 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:24.200 Okay, So what happens everyone's itching to know now? 0:02:24.440 --> 0:02:27.600 Well, basically, we went on a little picnic with two 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:31.040 of his friends. I met them, We had some cocktails, 0:02:31.880 --> 0:02:36.000 we got a bit tipsy, and after the picnic we 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:39.560 walked home. The sun was setting all around us. It 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:42.680 was pretty romantic. Romantic, had a bit of a buzz 0:02:42.760 --> 0:02:48.720 on from the apparol spritzers, and yeah, it was honestly 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:51.440 so pretty, we'll buy the lake. And he basically told 0:02:51.480 --> 0:02:53.600 me he loved me, and I told him I loved 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:54.280 him too. 0:02:54.720 --> 0:02:56.919 That's really cute. That is a couple of goals. 0:02:57.480 --> 0:02:57.920 That is. 0:02:58.000 --> 0:03:01.000 But this isn't the first time he said the big 0:03:01.120 --> 0:03:01.840 L word, is it. 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:03.480 I don't know if he's going to be happy to 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:05.799 throwing him under the bus like. 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:10.919 This, sorry mate, but we're going to call you out 0:03:11.880 --> 0:03:13.800 yourself to yourself. Brother. 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:16.400 God. 0:03:17.160 --> 0:03:21.440 Yes, I think like four or five dates in he 0:03:21.560 --> 0:03:24.760 said it a couple of times when he was quite drunk. 0:03:25.440 --> 0:03:27.160 And then wait. 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:31.320 Four or five dates, what does that transpire the timing wise, So. 0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:33.440 It was probably like two weeks. 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:38.600 He said it a couple of times, like maybe three 0:03:38.680 --> 0:03:39.960 or four times, and then all of a. 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:42.560 Sudden he stopped saying it. And I was like, oh, you. 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:45.040 Know, they say when you know, you know, so maybe 0:03:45.080 --> 0:03:46.640 he just knew when you know you know? 0:03:46.840 --> 0:03:48.880 I mean hopefully, but I mean I think it is 0:03:48.920 --> 0:03:50.840 probably too early to say. 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:54.720 At the two week monk, it was like a slip. 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:56.960 Of the tongue, you know, when you're really drunk and 0:03:57.000 --> 0:03:59.080 you're like really vibing someone. 0:03:59.160 --> 0:04:01.840 And I did say it back though, to be fair, 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:03.080 but I just. 0:04:03.120 --> 0:04:05.520 You know, look, I'm going to step off my high 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:08.760 horse and I'm going to say I can vibe with 0:04:08.800 --> 0:04:10.119 Michael on this one here. 0:04:11.880 --> 0:04:13.720 So I'm not surprised. 0:04:16.320 --> 0:04:20.480 On the weekend, me and magical date girl, as if 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:24.799 we know whereas we're having apparolls oh low and common 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:25.560 denominator here. 0:04:26.720 --> 0:04:28.920 If you have an apparol here might drop for elbow. 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:31.240 I actually warned her the week before. I said, well, 0:04:31.480 --> 0:04:33.279 we're planning on having a bit to drink here. I 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:35.479 was like, I'm probably going to say something stupid. I 0:04:35.480 --> 0:04:41.040 know how I feel at the moment, but but we're drinking. 0:04:41.680 --> 0:04:44.400 All my roomies were sitting there. Then she started kissing me, 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:47.640 and she was like, I really really like you, Like 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:49.800 I'm so lucky to have you like this sort of stuff. 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:53.760 And I was and I was like, I was like, 0:04:54.000 --> 0:04:59.640 I think I love you. Did not, oh my god, 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:03.840 did not did not get the out word back. I 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:07.720 can't remember exactly what happened, but I remember just fucking 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:10.400 backtracking that quickly. I was like, I really think that 0:05:10.400 --> 0:05:13.640 I could see myself loving you. Oh no, no, So 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:15.479 I just fool put myself in reverse. 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:18.040 So you stepped in it, and then. 0:05:17.920 --> 0:05:22.520 You're just yeah, yeah, so I backpedled quite a bit. 0:05:22.680 --> 0:05:25.320 And to be honest, it hasn't been brought up since. 0:05:25.880 --> 0:05:29.760 So you guys were drunk, you said it, and then 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:32.480 you work out the next day did mention it? 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:35.000 Here's the rug? He is only just sweeping it under. 0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:37.680 I will leave that for another day. 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:40.799 But now you're going to have to have this conversation 0:05:40.839 --> 0:05:43.599 because he just told me and everyone else the story. 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:47.000 Well, she's she's a die hard listener, so I'm sure 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:49.599 after this gets released we'll be having that chat. 0:05:50.240 --> 0:05:53.440 So were you unsweeping this under the rug right now? Oh? 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:53.719 Shit? 0:05:53.760 --> 0:05:55.640 I should probably rethink about what I'm doing here. 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:58.080 You're probably going to have to have that conversation with 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:01.960 her and remind her of you you dropping the big album. 0:06:01.920 --> 0:06:03.880 And just say, look, it might have been a little 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:05.560 bit premature, but that's the only place some. 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:13.320 Yeah, this is a clean podcast. You're dirty. 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:17.919 But what the main thing I'm worried about is have 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:20.000 I given her the ick by saying that? Is it 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:21.760 too soon? Is that what the ick is? 0:06:23.440 --> 0:06:26.640 Let's jump right into that. I'm ready to talk about 0:06:26.680 --> 0:06:26.960 the IK. 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:32.719 Let's do that, all right, Let's dive in. All right, So, 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:35.479 first of all, Anna, what is the ick? The so 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:36.480 called dreaded eck? 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:40.560 So Matt's never heard about the ek, which is surprising 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:43.599 in itself, or hadn't heard of the ik before we 0:06:43.720 --> 0:06:45.200 decided to do this episode. 0:06:45.360 --> 0:06:47.360 But basically, what the ick is. 0:06:47.080 --> 0:06:51.880 Is when you feel instantly repulsed by someone. So you 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:53.800 might have got on a few dates, you might have 0:06:53.880 --> 0:06:56.560 been on one date, You could be with them for seven, eight, 0:06:57.440 --> 0:07:00.280 nine years, it could be a long term relationship. All 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:03.640 of a sudden you get the ick and it's something 0:07:03.720 --> 0:07:07.560 specific that they do that you get cringed out by. 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:13.040 You get this very strong gut reaction. It can be 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:16.400 based on anything. It can be their mannerisms, the way 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:19.480 they blink, the way they breathe, the way they tie 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:24.360 their shoelace. It can literally be anything. So no one 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:25.720 is safe. 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:28.480 So yeah, So what you're trying to say is, never 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:30.040 get comfortable in a relationship. 0:07:30.360 --> 0:07:33.040 Never get comfortable, Never get to be comfortable because you 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:34.920 don't know when the eck is around the corner. 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:37.280 Well, like you said, I had never heard of the ick. 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:40.160 I first heard of it on a TikTok someone said 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:41.760 something when they hit the eck, and I remember sending 0:07:41.800 --> 0:07:43.840 it to you and I was like, what's this ick 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:47.160 people talk about? So I looked a little bit into it, 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:50.280 and yeah, I don't think I've ever had the ick. 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:54.559 Yeah, so mainly girls get the ick most of the time. 0:07:54.600 --> 0:07:56.760 It's a girl thing. So girls get the ick. But 0:07:57.120 --> 0:07:59.680 as it's been spoken more and more about, guys have 0:07:59.720 --> 0:08:02.320 been actually I do get the ick. I think I 0:08:02.400 --> 0:08:04.280 might have got the ick here. They just maybe didn't 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:07.040 know the terminology as well as girls do for it. 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:09.280 But yeah, most of the time girls will get the 0:08:09.320 --> 0:08:10.360 ick over guys. 0:08:10.640 --> 0:08:13.520 All right, So you're telling me that the ick could 0:08:13.560 --> 0:08:15.840 be from the way you laugh or tell a joke. 0:08:15.720 --> 0:08:18.800 Even Yep, it could be literally anything. 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:22.600 See, I think that I may have given some girls 0:08:22.600 --> 0:08:23.080 the ick. 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:24.440 I'm sure you have. 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:27.840 Math. I'm sure you have, because as we know, I 0:08:27.880 --> 0:08:30.640 have a real dry off the cuff sense of humor, 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:33.680 and a lot of girls I've noticed that I'm dating 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:35.880 or seeing really struggle with it. 0:08:36.040 --> 0:08:37.360 Struggle with your sense of humor. 0:08:37.440 --> 0:08:40.120 Yeah, they don't. And I can tell that sometimes when 0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:42.720 I say my jokes off my calf, I can feel 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:44.600 the energy shift in the room and I'm. 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:47.200 Say your jokes just aren't landing very well. 0:08:47.960 --> 0:08:51.840 Yeah, some people get it, some people don't. Yeah, so 0:08:51.920 --> 0:08:54.600 some girls don't get it, and I mean I've noticed 0:08:54.640 --> 0:08:56.880 that a lot of them. A lot of girls have 0:08:56.920 --> 0:09:00.160 sometimes been like some of these things. I've said, how 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:02.600 long does it usually take to catch the ick? 0:09:03.040 --> 0:09:05.360 Well, I mean there's normally five stages. So there's the 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:09.640 getting to know someone stage, there's dating them, whether that's 0:09:09.679 --> 0:09:13.000 a first date or one hundred dates in. Then there's 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:17.559 the realization stage, where you just have this gut intuitive 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:21.760 feeling that something's wrong and you get that intuition that 0:09:21.800 --> 0:09:24.320 you're just a bit repulsed and turned off and a 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:27.160 bit grossed out by that person, and then they head 0:09:27.200 --> 0:09:28.160 straight to the friends. 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:31.559 Does that happen a lot in long term relationships? 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:32.760 I mean, look, I. 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:35.800 Know a few people in long term relationships who can 0:09:35.840 --> 0:09:38.200 sometimes get the ick. And the problem with the ick 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:41.680 is it's so hard to shake off once. 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:42.000 You get it. 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:45.240 So Anna, have you ever had the ick? Then? 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:49.720 I mean it, to be honest, I reckon, pretty much 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:54.959 every guy dated has ended up giving me the ick. 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:58.840 That's probably why it hasn't worked out. I reckon, you 0:09:58.960 --> 0:10:03.000 just get the ick when subconsciously you know that it's 0:10:03.080 --> 0:10:06.240 not right, but you haven't yet admitted it to yourself. 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:09.000 So deep down you know that it's not going to 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:12.360 work out with you and this person, and maybe you 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:15.000 were still seeing them or still going on dates with them, 0:10:15.120 --> 0:10:19.760 and then intuitively your guts like stop wasting your time. 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:25.040 Enough's enough, and you just get this sick feeling in 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:28.440 your stomach and it's just something that you can't look past, 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:32.680 and you're like, you know what, it's over. But yeah, 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:38.439 I definitely have lots of different stories about getting the ick. Recently, 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:42.320 I was dating this guy and we have been seeing 0:10:42.360 --> 0:10:45.880 each other for about one and a half months. 0:10:46.320 --> 0:10:47.760 Okay, so decent time. 0:10:48.000 --> 0:10:52.000 Yeah, super attractive guy, super sweet, super lovely. 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:53.400 He's your type as well. 0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:56.960 He was my type. Like literally, there was nothing wrong 0:10:56.960 --> 0:10:58.120 with him. He was amazing. 0:10:58.760 --> 0:11:00.600 But I think deep down on you that it just 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:04.240 wasn't gonna last, just like values wise, we were kind 0:11:04.240 --> 0:11:08.160 of it was a bit off, and I remember I 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:10.360 remember I was thinking about ending it, but I hadn't 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:12.880 quite done it yet. And I remember I woke up 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:13.560 in the morning. 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:18.240 He was at my apartment and he had a cold, 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:20.920 which is fine, and he started. 0:11:23.720 --> 0:11:27.800 I sound like a huge bitch right now, But honestly, 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:31.160 you can't help getting the ick, like you can't help 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:36.319 it anyway. He obviously was probably not feeling that great. 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:40.880 He started blowing his nose so loudly. When I say 0:11:40.960 --> 0:11:44.439 so loudly, like I can still hear this nose blowing, 0:11:44.960 --> 0:11:46.520 like it cringes me out. 0:11:46.480 --> 0:11:50.600 Like I'm just like, oh, yuck. And in that moment, 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:52.800 I knew that I had the ick. 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:56.280 And after that we stopped seeing each other straight away 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:59.760 or did you keep seeing him straight away like I 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:02.240 the moment I got the ick and that gut feeling, 0:12:02.400 --> 0:12:04.920 I was just like it's done, Like I can't even 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:08.160 keep going anymore, like I tried, it's. 0:12:08.000 --> 0:12:08.920 Not gonna work out. 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:12.520 But just to show you that I'm not actually a 0:12:12.679 --> 0:12:15.600 bad and mean person. If Michael was to blow his 0:12:15.679 --> 0:12:19.880 nose my boyfriend it honestly like I couldn't care less, 0:12:20.080 --> 0:12:22.480 like I don't even hear it. But yeah, just when 0:12:22.520 --> 0:12:25.000 it wasn't right with someone, and I knew that deep down, 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:27.120 I was just totally turned off. 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:29.640 So after you're telling these stories and I was spoken 0:12:29.640 --> 0:12:32.560 about the ick, I actually think that I may have 0:12:32.600 --> 0:12:35.720 got it. Really, So I was dating this girl, and 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:38.000 she was a couple of years younger, okay, And we 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:40.840 were laying bed until we started chatting and she started 0:12:40.880 --> 0:12:44.560 telling me a story from like school, and I was 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:47.320 like fuck, and I realized she was she was like 0:12:47.360 --> 0:12:50.240 twenty one, but I realized how young she actually was. 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:52.760 So it made you feel a lot older because she 0:12:52.840 --> 0:12:54.520 was telling you school story. 0:12:54.640 --> 0:12:57.320 Yeah, and I was like, I was twenty five, So 0:12:57.360 --> 0:13:00.440 I was like school for me was like like what 0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:04.280 eight years ago. I was just sitting there and I 0:13:04.320 --> 0:13:06.840 was like, oh, like, maybe you're a lot younger and 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:09.319 a lot more immature than I thought you were, do 0:13:09.320 --> 0:13:10.800 you know what I mean? So is that sort of 0:13:10.800 --> 0:13:11.679 the ick? I don't know. 0:13:11.920 --> 0:13:14.480 I think so like if you genuinely feel a bit 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:17.160 like you just deep down in your gut, no that 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:20.440 it's not right. So if that's a feeling you got, 0:13:20.480 --> 0:13:23.040 then yeah, maybe you got the ick if this is the. 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:28.120 Girl that I'm thinking about. Though, didn't she ghost you? 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:33.920 Ye? 0:13:37.240 --> 0:13:39.680 Nah she did, We're honest here on this podcast. Yeah 0:13:39.679 --> 0:13:42.120 she did. But maybe she got the ick from me 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:42.920 something I did. 0:13:43.080 --> 0:13:46.800 Maybe she was like this guy's a dinosaur. This doesn't 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:49.080 even remember the school days. 0:13:49.160 --> 0:13:58.880 So I'm out hat you never, okay, Matt. 0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:01.640 So we asked our as your head out listeners on 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:06.720 Instagram what gave them the ig, and honestly, the things 0:14:06.760 --> 0:14:09.959 that people came back with were so funny. 0:14:10.000 --> 0:14:12.120 A couple in particular. But we're gonna start. 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:13.920 I caught a couple of them and I was like, Oh, 0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:16.640 some of these would have even given me the same. 0:14:17.080 --> 0:14:19.240 I was like, actually, now that I think about it, 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:20.960 that probably would give me the egg. 0:14:21.760 --> 0:14:22.080 Okay. 0:14:22.120 --> 0:14:26.320 So the first one is boys eating pasta and having 0:14:26.480 --> 0:14:31.440 sauce over their mouth after the reason why I chose 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:34.680 this one, Matt, is because every time I'm with Matt 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:38.480 and we're having lunch or dinner or whatever, Matt has 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:41.720 crumbs everywhere. So I thought this one was quite funny 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:42.160 to start with. 0:14:42.280 --> 0:14:44.240 I really hope my mum isn't listening. The one thing 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:46.440 I promise her is that I'll have good table managed 0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:49.840 when I'm out, but she's disappointed. 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:52.600 Okay. The second one we have is bad breath. 0:14:52.640 --> 0:14:56.520 I think that overall, like, I think that gives everyone. 0:14:56.160 --> 0:14:56.760 The eat right. 0:14:56.880 --> 0:14:59.800 Yeah, sometimes you give people benefit of the doubts. 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:02.720 Open up bit of morning breath. 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:04.320 Yeah, I feel personally victimized. 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:10.800 Okay, I feel bad because I feel like this one's 0:15:11.000 --> 0:15:14.520 very relatable to you as well. But said he loved 0:15:14.560 --> 0:15:16.080 me after two weeks. 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:19.800 That's not one I won. 0:15:20.240 --> 0:15:22.680 Wasn't that you? Wasn't that your boyfriend as well? Didn't 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:26.000 Did you get the ick? 0:15:27.000 --> 0:15:29.600 No? I didn't get the ick, But lucky for him, 0:15:30.200 --> 0:15:31.880 I was pretty into him, So I mean. 0:15:31.960 --> 0:15:34.640 Yeah, I haven't scared her away yet outside of that. 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:36.120 Fair enough. 0:15:36.920 --> 0:15:41.040 Okay, this one is we were only talking for forty 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:44.240 eight hours and he sent me eleven eleven with nothing 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:45.480 else written at the time. 0:15:48.840 --> 0:15:50.160 Tell everyone the story. 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:55.840 What didn't you used to like send people eleven eleven, 0:15:55.840 --> 0:15:59.200 but you'd make an alarm clock for it, so you 0:15:59.280 --> 0:15:59.800 knew when to. 0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:04.000 Yeah, my ex was pretty into the eleven eleven things. 0:16:04.000 --> 0:16:09.440 So so basically what Matt would do, he'd set like 0:16:09.520 --> 0:16:12.920 a eleven ten alarm on its phone. 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:15.240 Not all the time, I do it occasionally, and then 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:18.000 I'd always send eleven eleven. Make a wish it's meant 0:16:18.040 --> 0:16:18.400 to be. 0:16:19.200 --> 0:16:20.080 I saw it again. 0:16:21.800 --> 0:16:22.280 Cringe. 0:16:23.360 --> 0:16:23.720 Okay. 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:27.480 The next one is he told me he only puts 0:16:27.560 --> 0:16:32.200 deodran on if he's leaving the house, not after every shower. 0:16:33.000 --> 0:16:35.600 Come on, mate, lift your game. Right, you got to 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:38.080 put on every time. It gives me the ick. 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:45.480 Okay, when a guy sits on a chair with his 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:47.840 legs crossed, do you do that. 0:16:49.720 --> 0:16:51.120 My leg uncross my legs. 0:16:52.760 --> 0:16:56.880 Matt's really getting victimized. Yeah, maybe maybe maybe you give 0:16:57.000 --> 0:17:00.400 people the dick more people than life. 0:17:01.000 --> 0:17:05.560 No, No, okay, I saw how many nose hairs he 0:17:05.640 --> 0:17:07.320 had and couldn't do it anymore. 0:17:09.160 --> 0:17:12.119 I mean, groom yourself. Brother, I feel bad. 0:17:12.000 --> 0:17:13.920 Like that's kind of out of your control. 0:17:14.200 --> 0:17:16.560 Yeah, some blokes don't think about that. 0:17:16.600 --> 0:17:19.119 Like get him a nose hair trimmer for Christmas or 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:20.399 his birthday. 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:22.040 Towards it. 0:17:22.160 --> 0:17:24.240 Yeah, but I feel like that can be. 0:17:24.680 --> 0:17:28.119 That's somebody that summed up to bag grooming though, like 0:17:28.480 --> 0:17:30.240 he should probably groom himself a bit better. 0:17:31.400 --> 0:17:33.679 That's a ten out of ten groom I should know. 0:17:33.840 --> 0:17:36.439 Yeah, I know. I keep myself well groomed. So that 0:17:36.480 --> 0:17:37.920 one wasn't directed at me obviously. 0:17:38.119 --> 0:17:40.440 Okay, this one I thought was really funny. 0:17:40.560 --> 0:17:43.720 He had really small hands, so when his hand was 0:17:43.760 --> 0:17:45.520 on my thigh, it felt. 0:17:45.160 --> 0:17:45.919 Like a child. 0:17:49.359 --> 0:17:52.680 Yeah, that's that's really like grow Yeah, that is that'd 0:17:52.720 --> 0:17:53.280 give me the. 0:17:55.080 --> 0:17:56.359 Yeah thinking about it. 0:17:57.000 --> 0:18:01.040 Okay, there's two left I did save the best to last. 0:18:01.440 --> 0:18:03.720 Am I getting victimized again? Or are these well? 0:18:03.760 --> 0:18:05.520 Actually, yes you are, because it's. 0:18:05.680 --> 0:18:07.960 Maybe maybe I should go over these now and not 0:18:08.040 --> 0:18:09.760 leave it to Anna. 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:15.119 Okay, second last one, it's from the Magical Date Girl. 0:18:15.359 --> 0:18:19.439 Oh bullshit, the girl that Matt's seeing get excited. She 0:18:20.119 --> 0:18:25.200 has told everyone something that gives her the ick, specifically 0:18:25.400 --> 0:18:25.920 about that. 0:18:26.680 --> 0:18:30.320 Why she done me dirty? Like this, and it goes 0:18:30.320 --> 0:18:32.280 a little something like this, I don't want to hear it. 0:18:33.040 --> 0:18:35.760 When he talks about Star Wars. 0:18:38.520 --> 0:18:41.840 Nah, all right, so I know exactly what she's talking about. 0:18:41.840 --> 0:18:45.000 The other day, she has never seen Star Wars. So 0:18:45.600 --> 0:18:47.960 I pulled up Star Wars episodes on my TV and 0:18:48.000 --> 0:18:49.640 I had her in bed, and I was going through 0:18:49.640 --> 0:18:51.440 and like she was at school, and I was explaining 0:18:51.480 --> 0:18:53.920 the plotline of each one and how they were made 0:18:53.960 --> 0:18:56.800 and what order, and like who the main characters were 0:18:56.840 --> 0:18:59.400 in each one, and like what's what? And now you're 0:18:59.440 --> 0:18:59.800 getting the. 0:18:59.800 --> 0:19:01.760 Ick you have hearing about it? 0:19:02.040 --> 0:19:03.480 Well, I had to. I wanted to give her the 0:19:03.480 --> 0:19:05.760 background before we started on because you'd never seen him. 0:19:05.840 --> 0:19:07.680 Yeah, you wanted to get her up today because you're 0:19:07.680 --> 0:19:10.720 a Star Wars fanatic In case anyone didn't know that 0:19:10.760 --> 0:19:11.440 about Matt. 0:19:11.320 --> 0:19:14.439 And I keep alluding to my taking her back to 0:19:14.480 --> 0:19:17.600 my teenage room that I grew up in my mum's 0:19:17.680 --> 0:19:23.280 and how I've got Star Wars memorabilia everywhere. So I'm 0:19:23.320 --> 0:19:24.520 going to hold off on that. 0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:27.040 As a friend. Matt. 0:19:27.119 --> 0:19:29.280 If there's one piece of advice I want to give 0:19:29.359 --> 0:19:32.960 you is do not show her the Star Wars memorabilia. 0:19:33.320 --> 0:19:36.199 A huge Empire Strikes Back poster above my bed, my 0:19:36.280 --> 0:19:37.080 limited edition. 0:19:37.760 --> 0:19:40.240 It could go very bad. Okay. 0:19:40.280 --> 0:19:45.959 And the final one is this isn't related to you. 0:19:46.040 --> 0:19:50.199 This is just I thought personally, this was like like 0:19:50.240 --> 0:19:53.719 the VIP comment, basically the MVP comment. 0:19:54.440 --> 0:19:56.840 Yeah, okay, he sent me a. 0:19:56.880 --> 0:20:01.520 Video in the mirror slinging his sick around randomly. 0:20:02.160 --> 0:20:03.119 I was mortified. 0:20:04.040 --> 0:20:07.360 I have never done that, nor sent an unsolicited dick pic. 0:20:07.520 --> 0:20:08.639 So that's not directed at me. 0:20:08.920 --> 0:20:09.920 You know, it's not directed. 0:20:10.640 --> 0:20:13.040 What happens if you'd got that video, then I. 0:20:12.960 --> 0:20:17.160