1 00:00:05,921 --> 00:00:13,201 Speaker 1: Apogee Production. Welcome to the She Rises Podcast. I'm Ashley 2 00:00:13,281 --> 00:00:14,001 Speaker 1: and I'm Tiana. 3 00:00:14,361 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 2: This podcast is about female empowerment and encouraging you to 4 00:00:17,361 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 2: be your biggest, boldest, and most authentic version of yourself. 5 00:00:20,961 --> 00:00:23,281 Speaker 1: We help you shed the shame, grow to a new level. 6 00:00:23,321 --> 00:00:26,241 Speaker 1: We're gonna laugh, cry, and talk about the topics everyone 7 00:00:26,281 --> 00:00:27,801 Speaker 1: else is too afraid to talk about. 8 00:00:28,401 --> 00:00:30,761 Speaker 2: Get ready for your next level of self? 9 00:00:31,721 --> 00:00:37,041 Speaker 1: Hello everybody? Do we have a really fun episode. It 10 00:00:37,161 --> 00:00:40,001 Speaker 1: is our bucket list and also things that we would 11 00:00:40,161 --> 00:00:42,721 Speaker 1: never do. What's list? 12 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:44,361 Speaker 2: Oh? You know what? The first thing that comes to 13 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:47,801 Speaker 2: mind when we have this conversation is Egypt. You'd love 14 00:00:47,921 --> 00:00:50,881 Speaker 2: to go to Egypt. I've seen posts people on social 15 00:00:50,881 --> 00:00:56,321 Speaker 2: media having gone and the artifacts or just everything that 16 00:00:57,241 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 2: it's incredible. It feels very spiritual, and I think for 17 00:01:01,281 --> 00:01:03,921 Speaker 2: me it's more of a curiosity. It's like a curiosity 18 00:01:03,921 --> 00:01:05,681 Speaker 2: in the each that I've got a scratch, like I 19 00:01:05,721 --> 00:01:09,241 Speaker 2: would love to go and experience what would feel like 20 00:01:09,681 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 2: to be there in that energy, to be near the pyramids, 21 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,761 Speaker 2: to be near the sphinx, Like it's a big cat. 22 00:01:15,881 --> 00:01:19,881 Speaker 2: I would love to understand more about Egypt, and I 23 00:01:19,961 --> 00:01:22,361 Speaker 2: know that there's so much history there in terms of 24 00:01:22,681 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 2: you know, extraterrestrial beings and who was previously there and 25 00:01:27,321 --> 00:01:29,161 Speaker 2: different species and stuff like that. 26 00:01:29,321 --> 00:01:33,801 Speaker 1: Just steam wrent not last year the year before on 27 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: a solo trip and I. 28 00:01:35,401 --> 00:01:37,041 Speaker 2: Loved it a solo trip too. 29 00:01:37,121 --> 00:01:38,961 Speaker 1: Yeah, he absolutely loved it. I just didn't have this 30 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:41,961 Speaker 1: to go there. And he also heard it was really 31 00:01:42,081 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: dangerous for women. 32 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:43,881 Speaker 2: Yes, I have heard that. 33 00:01:43,961 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: So he was like, I'll go on my solo trip 34 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: and yeah, I wasn't that keen to go. And then 35 00:01:46,961 --> 00:01:49,561 Speaker 1: he came back he still said, yeah, it is quite dangerous. 36 00:01:49,801 --> 00:01:51,401 Speaker 1: Even on some of their tours they had to like 37 00:01:51,441 --> 00:01:53,721 Speaker 1: pull to the side or go a different route because 38 00:01:53,721 --> 00:01:56,681 Speaker 1: they were wary of things or they'd heard something oh 39 00:01:56,761 --> 00:01:59,761 Speaker 1: yeah on the different wherever they went. But he absolutely 40 00:01:59,761 --> 00:02:02,441 Speaker 1: loved it, loved it, Which brings you to my next 41 00:02:02,521 --> 00:02:04,281 Speaker 1: one minds to go to Africa, and yours is on 42 00:02:04,321 --> 00:02:06,641 Speaker 1: that you wouldn't want to go to Africa. I've always 43 00:02:06,641 --> 00:02:09,881 Speaker 1: wanted to go to do a safari and there's just 44 00:02:09,881 --> 00:02:11,761 Speaker 1: some beautiful orphanages over there that I would love to 45 00:02:11,761 --> 00:02:13,321 Speaker 1: go and volunteer my time for a couple of weeks 46 00:02:13,361 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 1: and actually stay with the kids and play with them. 47 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:17,921 Speaker 1: There's a couple of Uganda that I follow on TikTok 48 00:02:18,041 --> 00:02:20,561 Speaker 1: and I just my heart just feels pulled to go there. 49 00:02:21,001 --> 00:02:22,641 Speaker 1: So I would love to go there one day. 50 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:25,001 Speaker 2: You have shown me a few of those videos. Actually 51 00:02:25,001 --> 00:02:26,841 Speaker 2: it's really really heartwarming and sad. 52 00:02:27,401 --> 00:02:29,361 Speaker 1: I mean it's happening in every country. Yeah, I've been 53 00:02:29,401 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: to one in India. They're everywhere. I've been to the 54 00:02:32,001 --> 00:02:33,921 Speaker 1: one in Bali. There's so many in Bali as well, 55 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,361 Speaker 1: and you can take supplies and go hang with the kids, 56 00:02:36,401 --> 00:02:38,601 Speaker 1: and I've done that in Bali and India. But yeah, 57 00:02:38,601 --> 00:02:40,481 Speaker 1: I don't know something about Africa. I just feel pulled, 58 00:02:40,761 --> 00:02:42,441 Speaker 1: I think because of all the videos, and I talk 59 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:44,641 Speaker 1: to one of the guys that runs the orphanage over there. 60 00:02:45,201 --> 00:02:47,161 Speaker 1: They just share all of their stories and you see 61 00:02:47,201 --> 00:02:49,361 Speaker 1: the kids' faces and you feel them. I just want 62 00:02:49,401 --> 00:02:50,841 Speaker 1: to go and give them all big hug. Yeah. 63 00:02:51,161 --> 00:02:54,401 Speaker 2: So you have like an emotional connection to going to Africa. 64 00:02:54,121 --> 00:02:56,881 Speaker 1: Specifically and to these specific orphanages that I found. 65 00:02:57,081 --> 00:02:58,401 Speaker 2: What do you think that you would want to do 66 00:02:58,481 --> 00:03:00,041 Speaker 2: while over there, if you would just stay for a 67 00:03:00,041 --> 00:03:02,081 Speaker 2: couple of weeks, What do you think that would look like? 68 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: Just assist whether they need me for, whether it's holding 69 00:03:05,041 --> 00:03:08,321 Speaker 1: the babies, feeding the babies, I don't know, playing games 70 00:03:08,361 --> 00:03:11,761 Speaker 1: with them, taking over books and teaching them English anything, 71 00:03:12,041 --> 00:03:14,361 Speaker 1: taking them over lots of goodies, and just giving my time, 72 00:03:14,441 --> 00:03:17,641 Speaker 1: my love, my energy. Yeah. Yeah, and a lot of 73 00:03:17,641 --> 00:03:20,041 Speaker 1: them have health conditions that they have no idea what's 74 00:03:20,081 --> 00:03:22,921 Speaker 1: wrong with them because they don't have medical support there. 75 00:03:23,401 --> 00:03:25,481 Speaker 2: You know, realize the contrast until you see it, until 76 00:03:25,481 --> 00:03:26,641 Speaker 2: you're in it and you're looking at it. 77 00:03:26,721 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 1: I see mister Beasts go over there all the time, 78 00:03:28,441 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 1: into lots of different countries. And one of his most 79 00:03:30,561 --> 00:03:33,481 Speaker 1: recent videos he went over to a few different countries 80 00:03:33,601 --> 00:03:36,921 Speaker 1: and got two thousand people walking again that had like 81 00:03:36,961 --> 00:03:40,281 Speaker 1: no legs athletics, and you heard all of their stories 82 00:03:40,361 --> 00:03:43,081 Speaker 1: and it was I was just like, fuck, that's so cool. 83 00:03:43,281 --> 00:03:44,361 Speaker 2: Wow, that's cool, so cool. 84 00:03:44,361 --> 00:03:46,921 Speaker 1: When you've got the resources and the time and energy 85 00:03:46,961 --> 00:03:49,401 Speaker 1: that you can give back. Yeah, it's really heartfelt. 86 00:03:49,561 --> 00:03:51,321 Speaker 2: Oh that's cool. 87 00:03:51,361 --> 00:03:53,721 Speaker 1: He's gone to another country and repaired like one hundred 88 00:03:53,761 --> 00:03:56,081 Speaker 1: clefts as well. So I just think, if I've got 89 00:03:56,081 --> 00:03:58,481 Speaker 1: a platform, I've got the resources, if I can find 90 00:03:58,521 --> 00:04:01,041 Speaker 1: the time and be able to get over there, I'd love. 91 00:04:00,921 --> 00:04:02,001 Speaker 2: To Oh that's cool. 92 00:04:02,121 --> 00:04:03,561 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. 93 00:04:03,921 --> 00:04:06,601 Speaker 2: See, I don't know much of about Africa, but I 94 00:04:06,681 --> 00:04:09,001 Speaker 2: have heard that it's quite unsafe. I've heard that especially 95 00:04:09,041 --> 00:04:09,761 Speaker 2: for women. 96 00:04:09,521 --> 00:04:11,641 Speaker 1: I've had, it's worse in South Afrigot. I could be wrong. 97 00:04:11,961 --> 00:04:14,721 Speaker 2: I'm not sure. Especially when you think about solo traveling, 98 00:04:14,761 --> 00:04:16,121 Speaker 2: it's not a place that you would want to go. 99 00:04:16,601 --> 00:04:17,841 Speaker 2: And I think I'm a bit of a scaredy cat 100 00:04:17,881 --> 00:04:19,721 Speaker 2: when it comes to being overseas as well. My mum 101 00:04:19,801 --> 00:04:21,881 Speaker 2: was always drilled into my head like just be super 102 00:04:21,921 --> 00:04:25,001 Speaker 2: cautious when you're overseas. She literally made me watch Taken 103 00:04:25,121 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 2: one time before I traveled for three times. 104 00:04:27,081 --> 00:04:27,801 Speaker 1: Bad move, Mum. 105 00:04:28,201 --> 00:04:30,961 Speaker 2: It made me so anxious, but it's good to know 106 00:04:31,001 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 2: what can happen. 107 00:04:31,681 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: A way to have ye'd be street smart and be aware, 108 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:37,481 Speaker 1: stay in good locations. Like even when I went to Paris, 109 00:04:38,121 --> 00:04:40,161 Speaker 1: Beth helped me book my whole trip, and she was 110 00:04:40,201 --> 00:04:42,361 Speaker 1: showing me on the map the areas that you cannot 111 00:04:42,361 --> 00:04:44,641 Speaker 1: stay and you cannot go. Wow, some areas that are 112 00:04:44,761 --> 00:04:48,241 Speaker 1: so dangerous for pickpocketing, for kidnapping, for all the things. 113 00:04:48,281 --> 00:04:50,481 Speaker 1: And then there's certain areas and they're all numbers. So 114 00:04:50,521 --> 00:04:52,721 Speaker 1: she's like, don't stay in area number nineteen, but you're 115 00:04:52,721 --> 00:04:54,841 Speaker 1: safe over here at number nine. So she helped me 116 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,441 Speaker 1: book my accommodation according to where it was safe. Oh 117 00:04:57,481 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: my god. And she only learnt this because she didn't 118 00:04:59,761 --> 00:05:01,521 Speaker 1: know the first time she went and stayed in a 119 00:05:01,561 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 1: really unsafe location and got robbed. 120 00:05:04,081 --> 00:05:04,281 Speaker 2: Yeah. 121 00:05:04,281 --> 00:05:06,441 Speaker 1: I think each country you really have to do your research. 122 00:05:06,801 --> 00:05:08,601 Speaker 1: And I don't think i'd like to travel solo. I 123 00:05:08,681 --> 00:05:10,201 Speaker 1: used to think I wanted to, but I'd always want 124 00:05:10,201 --> 00:05:13,041 Speaker 1: to travel with someone or a group of people. But yeah, 125 00:05:13,081 --> 00:05:15,921 Speaker 1: I have heard it's really dangerous as well. What else 126 00:05:16,001 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 1: is on your list? The Northern Lights, all the Southern Lights, 127 00:05:18,841 --> 00:05:21,921 Speaker 1: with the Southern Lights down in Tasmania, they're around. Yeah, 128 00:05:21,961 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 1: it's just as pretty as the Northern Lights. Apparently, I 129 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,001 Speaker 1: haven't been. I've never heard of that, I know, right, 130 00:05:26,001 --> 00:05:28,121 Speaker 1: And they found out recently as well. A girl on 131 00:05:28,201 --> 00:05:29,721 Speaker 1: Instagram swiped up when I said I wanted to go 132 00:05:29,761 --> 00:05:31,081 Speaker 1: to the Northern Lights. She's like, you have to travel 133 00:05:31,081 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 1: all the way over there. We've got it right here. 134 00:05:33,041 --> 00:05:34,921 Speaker 1: What do you mean, Yeah, I have to look you 135 00:05:34,961 --> 00:05:35,361 Speaker 1: at your phone. 136 00:05:35,401 --> 00:05:37,601 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my god. Maybe we should go 137 00:05:37,601 --> 00:05:38,601 Speaker 2: to Tasmania. 138 00:05:38,161 --> 00:05:40,801 Speaker 1: Southern Lights Apparently, the peak I think is around September, 139 00:05:41,721 --> 00:05:43,201 Speaker 1: and they look so beautiful. 140 00:05:43,561 --> 00:05:47,561 Speaker 2: Oh my god, have I never heard of it? 141 00:05:48,361 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: I only recently heard. Yeah, just as good as overseas. 142 00:05:51,001 --> 00:05:52,841 Speaker 2: That's insane. I wish you guys could see the photo 143 00:05:52,841 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 2: that I'm looking at right now. 144 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:56,601 Speaker 1: Just google Southern Lights and see what comes up, because 145 00:05:56,601 --> 00:05:57,681 Speaker 1: it looks amazing. 146 00:05:58,001 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 2: I've never been to Tasmania, haven't you know? You have before? 147 00:06:01,761 --> 00:06:03,761 Speaker 1: Yea twice once for a wedding and we took our 148 00:06:03,801 --> 00:06:04,601 Speaker 1: tour there as well. 149 00:06:04,641 --> 00:06:07,961 Speaker 2: That's called Yeah, yeah, I know. I've never been beautiful there. 150 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:10,321 Speaker 1: I'd love to go to the Northern Lights or Southern Lights, 151 00:06:10,361 --> 00:06:11,921 Speaker 1: but I don't get to the Northern Lights. I would 152 00:06:11,961 --> 00:06:13,001 Speaker 1: just go to the Southern Lights. 153 00:06:13,041 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 2: Do you think that you would want to do the 154 00:06:14,681 --> 00:06:17,001 Speaker 2: Northern Lights anyway? Because it's like the snow and it's 155 00:06:17,041 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 2: the experience and you can stay in those little cabins 156 00:06:19,641 --> 00:06:23,241 Speaker 2: igloos and it's underneath the lights and the glu. They 157 00:06:23,241 --> 00:06:25,001 Speaker 2: look incredible, right goals? 158 00:06:25,281 --> 00:06:26,041 Speaker 1: Oh yeah? 159 00:06:26,161 --> 00:06:31,041 Speaker 2: Could you imagine the content the podcast and igloo Oh 160 00:06:31,081 --> 00:06:34,521 Speaker 2: my god, that would so far. That would be hectic. Yeah, 161 00:06:34,641 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 2: I've always wanted to do that, but that would be fairsome. 162 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 163 00:06:37,681 --> 00:06:40,801 Speaker 2: Something else I would love to do is the hot 164 00:06:40,841 --> 00:06:41,561 Speaker 2: air balloons in. 165 00:06:41,521 --> 00:06:43,241 Speaker 1: Turkey looks incredible. 166 00:06:43,561 --> 00:06:44,681 Speaker 2: Is it Cappadocia. 167 00:06:45,241 --> 00:06:45,801 Speaker 1: I don't know. 168 00:06:45,921 --> 00:06:48,361 Speaker 2: I don't know if that's correct. I probably really butchered that. 169 00:06:48,521 --> 00:06:51,761 Speaker 2: It looks incredible and I would just love to experience 170 00:06:51,921 --> 00:06:54,601 Speaker 2: that in that country in the air I've always. 171 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:58,481 Speaker 1: Wanted all around. My girlfriend Jess just did that last year. 172 00:06:58,641 --> 00:07:00,361 Speaker 1: She didn't go up in the hot air balloon. She 173 00:07:00,681 --> 00:07:03,241 Speaker 1: got a hotel that was very high and in the 174 00:07:03,281 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 1: background was all the hot air blowing, so they could 175 00:07:05,481 --> 00:07:07,841 Speaker 1: just watch them all rise up. There was hundreds of 176 00:07:07,841 --> 00:07:10,801 Speaker 1: them in her photos. Would beautiful, which was what I 177 00:07:10,841 --> 00:07:12,441 Speaker 1: would do because I wouldn't go on a hot air below. 178 00:07:12,481 --> 00:07:15,321 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's right. You know it's not high, so 179 00:07:15,561 --> 00:07:18,601 Speaker 2: nothing with heights is scratch off the list of Yeah. 180 00:07:18,641 --> 00:07:20,361 Speaker 1: I got a voucher for Steven Tage to go on 181 00:07:20,401 --> 00:07:22,161 Speaker 1: a hot airble and and they absolutely loved it. But 182 00:07:22,481 --> 00:07:24,001 Speaker 1: as I were going up, I said, that is my 183 00:07:24,161 --> 00:07:26,761 Speaker 1: worst nightmare. You're floating in the air in a tiny 184 00:07:26,801 --> 00:07:30,761 Speaker 1: little picnic mask. He trusting that this is going to 185 00:07:30,841 --> 00:07:33,361 Speaker 1: hold you. Guy, Like, no, it's a hard. 186 00:07:33,201 --> 00:07:35,841 Speaker 2: No, I can understand why that would give you the. 187 00:07:36,241 --> 00:07:39,401 Speaker 1: But in Turkey looks beautiful. I'd really love to see 188 00:07:39,401 --> 00:07:42,161 Speaker 1: an active volcano, so probably have to go to Hawaii 189 00:07:42,161 --> 00:07:45,241 Speaker 1: for this. Oh yeah, I would love to see that. 190 00:07:45,441 --> 00:07:47,801 Speaker 1: And you can actually go to the very very like 191 00:07:47,841 --> 00:07:51,601 Speaker 1: the highest part of Hawaii and the stars. Oh you 192 00:07:51,601 --> 00:07:53,201 Speaker 1: should see this on YouTube. Look it up with you 193 00:07:53,241 --> 00:07:55,761 Speaker 1: guys in your computer after this episode. Look up like 194 00:07:55,801 --> 00:07:59,721 Speaker 1: the sky at the top of Hawaii. It's like just millions, 195 00:07:59,721 --> 00:08:02,161 Speaker 1: Like you've never seen stars like it in your life. 196 00:08:02,401 --> 00:08:03,921 Speaker 1: So that's top of my bucket list. 197 00:08:03,961 --> 00:08:04,881 Speaker 2: That's really beautiful. 198 00:08:05,361 --> 00:08:09,041 Speaker 1: An active volcano would be so incredible to see watching it. 199 00:08:09,321 --> 00:08:12,681 Speaker 1: A lava, oh be so cool. Nature is just incredible. 200 00:08:12,841 --> 00:08:15,441 Speaker 1: I would love to see a live tornado. Not gonna happen, 201 00:08:15,521 --> 00:08:18,161 Speaker 1: but I just think it's crazy watching that stuff. 202 00:08:18,161 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 2: You go to the US, you might yeah, and anyone 203 00:08:20,641 --> 00:08:22,121 Speaker 2: who lives in the US might disagree. 204 00:08:22,281 --> 00:08:26,561 Speaker 1: Yes, this, but on YouTube we're fascinated by We watch 205 00:08:26,601 --> 00:08:28,761 Speaker 1: it all the time. Another one of my bucket lists 206 00:08:28,801 --> 00:08:31,681 Speaker 1: speaking of nature is Portugal to watch them massive big 207 00:08:31,721 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: wave surface. We've spoken about that. It can be like 208 00:08:34,201 --> 00:08:36,641 Speaker 1: fifty to one hundred foot waves and not many people 209 00:08:36,681 --> 00:08:39,561 Speaker 1: surf them. But when they do, it's just that's suicide 210 00:08:39,561 --> 00:08:41,881 Speaker 1: to me. How do they get on there? But it's 211 00:08:41,921 --> 00:08:44,321 Speaker 1: so incredible to watch, Steve and I could sit there 212 00:08:44,441 --> 00:08:46,081 Speaker 1: for days watching those kind of waves. 213 00:08:46,161 --> 00:08:48,761 Speaker 2: But you have to go in the season pretty incredible 214 00:08:48,841 --> 00:08:52,441 Speaker 2: that there are people game enough with enough obsession for 215 00:08:52,761 --> 00:08:55,081 Speaker 2: it's real, Yeah, to be able to actually do that 216 00:08:55,321 --> 00:08:56,841 Speaker 2: and to feel confident to do that. 217 00:08:57,161 --> 00:08:59,521 Speaker 1: And it's not just them, it's the jet ski riders 218 00:08:59,521 --> 00:09:01,281 Speaker 1: with them, because they have to rescue them once they've 219 00:09:01,281 --> 00:09:03,761 Speaker 1: come off the wave or if they tumble over. The 220 00:09:03,841 --> 00:09:06,361 Speaker 1: jet ski has to get entire time before the next 221 00:09:06,361 --> 00:09:09,081 Speaker 1: wave comes and grabs, and if they are three seconds 222 00:09:09,081 --> 00:09:11,561 Speaker 1: too late, they're all gone. Wow if they get flipped 223 00:09:11,601 --> 00:09:15,041 Speaker 1: off their jet ski. So it's so they're dangerous. 224 00:09:15,041 --> 00:09:17,001 Speaker 2: They would have to have such skill. Even the people 225 00:09:17,361 --> 00:09:18,161 Speaker 2: on the jet skills. 226 00:09:18,241 --> 00:09:21,721 Speaker 1: Well they're just as important, yeah, if not more important. Wow. 227 00:09:21,801 --> 00:09:25,001 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's crazy to watch such high risk, isn't it 228 00:09:25,121 --> 00:09:25,721 Speaker 2: high risk? 229 00:09:25,921 --> 00:09:27,121 Speaker 1: These guys are dad devil. 230 00:09:27,321 --> 00:09:29,641 Speaker 2: The ocean is scary on a good day. I know, right, 231 00:09:29,841 --> 00:09:31,441 Speaker 2: if a wave is a slightly too big, I get 232 00:09:31,481 --> 00:09:34,361 Speaker 2: nervous too a wave, girl, because I know I get 233 00:09:34,361 --> 00:09:36,801 Speaker 2: thrown around, you know, and I have before. 234 00:09:36,641 --> 00:09:40,921 Speaker 1: And yeah, they're fine, but they're also so fascinating. 235 00:09:40,401 --> 00:09:42,281 Speaker 2: To watch the duality of the ocean. 236 00:09:42,401 --> 00:09:43,561 Speaker 1: Exactly. It's so real. 237 00:09:43,921 --> 00:09:45,721 Speaker 2: It's like the most beautiful thing you've ever seen and 238 00:09:45,761 --> 00:09:51,041 Speaker 2: the most terrifying, so true crazy. Okay, line dancing, Yeah, line. 239 00:09:50,881 --> 00:09:51,761 Speaker 1: Dancing is happening. 240 00:09:51,921 --> 00:09:55,361 Speaker 2: Nashville will making it happen in twenty twenty six. Bucket list. 241 00:09:56,041 --> 00:10:00,761 Speaker 2: Get our cowgirl boots, cowgirl hat, little belt, and go 242 00:10:00,881 --> 00:10:01,801 Speaker 2: line dancing. Yeah. 243 00:10:01,801 --> 00:10:03,561 Speaker 1: It was just a random conversation we were all having 244 00:10:03,601 --> 00:10:06,121 Speaker 1: one day, me, you and Meg and all three of 245 00:10:06,201 --> 00:10:07,921 Speaker 1: us have wanted to do it, and we're like, oh 246 00:10:07,921 --> 00:10:08,961 Speaker 1: my gosh, we're going to do this. 247 00:10:09,001 --> 00:10:11,681 Speaker 2: It would just be so fun, so fun, and country 248 00:10:11,721 --> 00:10:14,761 Speaker 2: music is well. We both said, this is just so nice. 249 00:10:15,041 --> 00:10:18,401 Speaker 2: It's not there's no derogatory language, there's no swearing, there's 250 00:10:18,441 --> 00:10:19,281 Speaker 2: not a story. 251 00:10:19,321 --> 00:10:20,321 Speaker 1: It's mostly about love. 252 00:10:20,401 --> 00:10:22,881 Speaker 2: It's mostly about love, yet it's love stories. It's really 253 00:10:22,961 --> 00:10:25,441 Speaker 2: nice to listen to and then dance into. It is 254 00:10:25,601 --> 00:10:27,801 Speaker 2: just that next level fun. 255 00:10:27,721 --> 00:10:29,601 Speaker 1: So fun. Sees me to Nashville and said it was 256 00:10:29,681 --> 00:10:33,841 Speaker 1: so fun. Everyone's just so alive. It's such a cool vibe. 257 00:10:33,921 --> 00:10:36,641 Speaker 2: I also really love Americans same. I feel like they're 258 00:10:36,761 --> 00:10:38,241 Speaker 2: very nice, but are so nice. 259 00:10:38,241 --> 00:10:40,041 Speaker 1: I was talking to my girlfriend Sarah this morning about it, 260 00:10:40,081 --> 00:10:43,321 Speaker 1: because she's over there now and everyone is just so friendly. 261 00:10:43,441 --> 00:10:46,161 Speaker 1: And I've got a friend that lives in South Carolina 262 00:10:46,681 --> 00:10:49,321 Speaker 1: and there's no top poppy syndrome over there. He's lived 263 00:10:49,321 --> 00:10:51,241 Speaker 1: in Australia and over there. And if everyone over there 264 00:10:51,241 --> 00:10:54,081 Speaker 1: wants to celebrate each other, help each other. Over here, 265 00:10:54,121 --> 00:10:56,441 Speaker 1: if you're an influencer, cringe. People are like, oh, you're 266 00:10:56,441 --> 00:10:57,041 Speaker 1: an influencer. 267 00:10:57,041 --> 00:10:59,201 Speaker 2: Over there, it's like, oh my god, you're an influencer. 268 00:10:59,241 --> 00:11:00,521 Speaker 1: What do you do? Like, what do you talk about? 269 00:11:00,561 --> 00:11:06,521 Speaker 1: It's celebrated. Yeah, Wow, everyone's so much more supportive. 270 00:11:05,281 --> 00:11:07,401 Speaker 2: To be able to witness the conversation of that happening, 271 00:11:07,961 --> 00:11:08,921 Speaker 2: to see the contrast. 272 00:11:09,001 --> 00:11:11,441 Speaker 1: I know Americans are very friendly. 273 00:11:11,961 --> 00:11:15,121 Speaker 2: I feel like some people have different viewpoints on that, 274 00:11:15,161 --> 00:11:16,881 Speaker 2: and some people are like, oh my god, Americans are 275 00:11:16,921 --> 00:11:18,881 Speaker 2: not n I saw really. Yeah, I've heard it one 276 00:11:18,961 --> 00:11:21,681 Speaker 2: or two times, but mostly for the most part, Yeah, 277 00:11:21,721 --> 00:11:24,041 Speaker 2: people have had really good experiences with Americans. 278 00:11:24,161 --> 00:11:27,001 Speaker 1: I've been to America probably five times now. I always 279 00:11:27,201 --> 00:11:30,521 Speaker 1: just thought they were so lovely. Yeah, they also love Australians. 280 00:11:30,241 --> 00:11:32,001 Speaker 2: That's what I was going to say. I feel like 281 00:11:32,041 --> 00:11:32,681 Speaker 2: they're biased. 282 00:11:33,201 --> 00:11:35,201 Speaker 1: As soon as they hear an Aussie accent, they're like, oh, 283 00:11:35,761 --> 00:11:37,881 Speaker 1: Like when we hear an American accent, we're like, hey. 284 00:11:37,881 --> 00:11:41,521 Speaker 2: Yes, so it's reciprocated for sure. I remember this one 285 00:11:41,561 --> 00:11:43,281 Speaker 2: time I was in New York. I stayed there for 286 00:11:43,321 --> 00:11:45,921 Speaker 2: a month and I was staying a couple of blocks 287 00:11:45,961 --> 00:11:48,801 Speaker 2: away from Times Squares, was right in the center. It's 288 00:11:48,961 --> 00:11:51,881 Speaker 2: so beautiful. It's like living out a girl's dream. And 289 00:11:51,921 --> 00:11:54,321 Speaker 2: I remember going to Starbucks. This is so random, by 290 00:11:54,361 --> 00:11:56,801 Speaker 2: the way, and the way that they pronounce my name 291 00:11:56,881 --> 00:11:59,281 Speaker 2: is crazy. It's like Tayana. 292 00:11:59,761 --> 00:11:59,961 Speaker 1: Oh. 293 00:12:00,241 --> 00:12:01,841 Speaker 2: And the way that they spell it as well. There 294 00:12:01,841 --> 00:12:04,321 Speaker 2: was this one woman that's a cute name. She spelt 295 00:12:04,361 --> 00:12:07,161 Speaker 2: my name on a cop pick up t e y 296 00:12:07,521 --> 00:12:11,801 Speaker 2: u na like Tayana. And I was like, oh, I 297 00:12:11,801 --> 00:12:16,041 Speaker 2: thought it was so bizarre because Tayana and she said 298 00:12:16,041 --> 00:12:19,121 Speaker 2: it with the sass and that was the best thing ever. 299 00:12:19,321 --> 00:12:20,161 Speaker 1: That's so cool. 300 00:12:20,201 --> 00:12:21,641 Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought it was hilarious. 301 00:12:21,841 --> 00:12:23,401 Speaker 1: I've never even heard that as a name, but I 302 00:12:23,401 --> 00:12:25,601 Speaker 1: don't mind it. Yeah. I love teen names. As you know, 303 00:12:28,241 --> 00:12:29,281 Speaker 1: I'm a part of that. Tana. 304 00:12:29,401 --> 00:12:33,921 Speaker 2: You are so loved so cute. That's your next one? 305 00:12:34,041 --> 00:12:35,841 Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of travel for me. I have done 306 00:12:35,841 --> 00:12:38,401 Speaker 1: a lot of travel, but Steve and I have booked 307 00:12:38,441 --> 00:12:40,561 Speaker 1: Europe twice for me and him to go to and 308 00:12:40,601 --> 00:12:43,201 Speaker 1: the first time got pregnant, I had to cancel. The 309 00:12:43,241 --> 00:12:45,001 Speaker 1: second time was going to be for Levi's wedding and 310 00:12:45,001 --> 00:12:47,921 Speaker 1: then COVID hit we had to cancel again. So we're 311 00:12:47,921 --> 00:12:51,361 Speaker 1: planning this year to go back over to their Maufi coast. 312 00:12:51,361 --> 00:12:53,161 Speaker 1: That sound number one. I would like to go to 313 00:12:53,201 --> 00:12:57,121 Speaker 1: Germany or Poland to go to the camps, just history. 314 00:12:57,241 --> 00:12:59,001 Speaker 1: We've both read about it a lot, not saying I 315 00:12:59,001 --> 00:13:00,361 Speaker 1: want to say as a bucket list, but just to 316 00:13:00,401 --> 00:13:02,961 Speaker 1: learn all about it and being that energy. I'd love 317 00:13:03,001 --> 00:13:05,721 Speaker 1: to go, and they were deciding on the third place 318 00:13:05,721 --> 00:13:08,561 Speaker 1: we'd like to go. Portugal is on our list, but 319 00:13:08,681 --> 00:13:10,841 Speaker 1: when we are plenty on going, it's not the big 320 00:13:10,881 --> 00:13:14,121 Speaker 1: wave season. The big wave season, you almost need to 321 00:13:14,281 --> 00:13:16,361 Speaker 1: be a last minute trip. When they report that the 322 00:13:16,401 --> 00:13:18,041 Speaker 1: big set's going to come anywherest need to book a 323 00:13:18,041 --> 00:13:18,441 Speaker 1: flight and go. 324 00:13:18,641 --> 00:13:21,441 Speaker 2: Yeah, which is hard when you've got kids, totally. 325 00:13:21,201 --> 00:13:23,601 Speaker 1: But that's on bucket list. So yeah, European vacation with 326 00:13:23,721 --> 00:13:26,681 Speaker 1: Steve this year and then We've always said once Taje 327 00:13:26,721 --> 00:13:29,681 Speaker 1: turned four, it was a lot easier to travel with 328 00:13:29,761 --> 00:13:32,721 Speaker 1: him and we felt like he could do more things. Yeah, 329 00:13:32,761 --> 00:13:34,961 Speaker 1: he was tall enough for certain things. He understood it more, 330 00:13:34,961 --> 00:13:37,521 Speaker 1: he wasn't having a day app he was more regulated. 331 00:13:37,601 --> 00:13:41,081 Speaker 1: It just was more enjoyable. So once Tyler turns four, 332 00:13:41,161 --> 00:13:44,041 Speaker 1: I think will go hard on family trips. Oh, that's 333 00:13:44,041 --> 00:13:44,521 Speaker 1: so yeah. 334 00:13:44,681 --> 00:13:46,841 Speaker 2: That such good experience and everyone. 335 00:13:46,601 --> 00:13:49,041 Speaker 1: Especially over school holidays, to be able to go away 336 00:13:49,081 --> 00:13:50,361 Speaker 1: for a month. Yeah. 337 00:13:50,401 --> 00:13:52,761 Speaker 2: Is there any place that you have in mind full 338 00:13:52,801 --> 00:13:54,121 Speaker 2: family trips specifically? 339 00:13:54,201 --> 00:13:56,841 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're like love to take them Europe for sure, 340 00:13:57,121 --> 00:13:58,761 Speaker 1: go on like a month adventure. And I'd love to 341 00:13:58,801 --> 00:14:01,721 Speaker 1: take them to the Orlando Disneyland in America, one of 342 00:14:01,721 --> 00:14:05,001 Speaker 1: the biggest Disneylands. That'd be really cool and mal dies 343 00:14:06,161 --> 00:14:06,681 Speaker 1: that's nice. 344 00:14:06,801 --> 00:14:09,321 Speaker 2: That's so fun that it's part of the experience. I've 345 00:14:09,321 --> 00:14:11,961 Speaker 2: heard it's quite expensive to stay there. 346 00:14:12,241 --> 00:14:15,081 Speaker 1: We were going to stay there in Paris and it 347 00:14:15,161 --> 00:14:17,561 Speaker 1: was going to be eleven and a half thousand dollars 348 00:14:17,641 --> 00:14:21,961 Speaker 1: for two nights. Wow. Or we could stay ten minutes 349 00:14:22,041 --> 00:14:25,801 Speaker 1: down the road in a Disneyland village and catch a 350 00:14:25,801 --> 00:14:28,001 Speaker 1: little shuttle in there and that was fifteen hundred dollars. 351 00:14:28,641 --> 00:14:31,441 Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, it's cute as a Disneyland room. 352 00:14:31,601 --> 00:14:34,481 Speaker 1: Yea'd be. I'd rather put that money towards something else. 353 00:14:34,361 --> 00:14:37,881 Speaker 2: Of course. Yeah, holy shit, Wow, what a contrast. I know. 354 00:14:38,161 --> 00:14:39,761 Speaker 1: And the village we stayed in was really cool because 355 00:14:39,801 --> 00:14:41,681 Speaker 1: it had a water park, had on these restaurants. It 356 00:14:41,761 --> 00:14:43,961 Speaker 1: was literally like a kid's village. 357 00:14:43,961 --> 00:14:46,201 Speaker 2: It was epic, had everything that you needed there away. 358 00:14:46,281 --> 00:14:47,241 Speaker 2: I still had the theme. 359 00:14:47,441 --> 00:14:50,561 Speaker 1: Yes, really really cool. So yeah, a lot of travel. 360 00:14:50,841 --> 00:14:52,161 Speaker 2: I'd love to go to Paris. So if len I 361 00:14:52,281 --> 00:14:53,601 Speaker 2: end up going to Paris, we're gonna have to get 362 00:14:53,601 --> 00:14:55,841 Speaker 2: Beth to help us out to stay in the safer location. 363 00:14:55,961 --> 00:14:56,601 Speaker 2: That would be awesome. 364 00:14:56,681 --> 00:14:58,921 Speaker 1: Even where I stayed, I would recommend both those locations 365 00:14:58,961 --> 00:15:01,401 Speaker 1: where I stayed. Yeah, one's opposite the big lou Verton 366 00:15:01,521 --> 00:15:03,081 Speaker 1: building and it's right in the middle of all the 367 00:15:03,081 --> 00:15:05,761 Speaker 1: shopping and everything. And the pullman was the view of 368 00:15:05,761 --> 00:15:09,521 Speaker 1: the Eiffel Tower. Both were incredible, very safe. That's very cool. 369 00:15:09,721 --> 00:15:11,281 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would love to go there, So that's on 370 00:15:11,321 --> 00:15:13,641 Speaker 2: my bucket list. I've got Italy on my bucket list 371 00:15:13,721 --> 00:15:16,041 Speaker 2: as well, so I've been to Venice before, but I 372 00:15:16,161 --> 00:15:17,841 Speaker 2: haven't explored what are the other ones? 373 00:15:18,681 --> 00:15:20,721 Speaker 1: Yes, Rome, yes, oh yeah? 374 00:15:20,761 --> 00:15:24,201 Speaker 2: All those different places. Where is it where people have weddings? 375 00:15:24,241 --> 00:15:27,001 Speaker 2: What's it called? Like comos like that. I'd love to 376 00:15:27,041 --> 00:15:29,041 Speaker 2: go visit all of that. I think it'd be so incredible. 377 00:15:30,041 --> 00:15:32,441 Speaker 2: Greece I've never been to, which I would love to see. 378 00:15:32,681 --> 00:15:34,801 Speaker 2: I would love to go to Japan actually, oh yeah, 379 00:15:34,841 --> 00:15:38,121 Speaker 2: Like I'm not a snowboarder or skier and I've only 380 00:15:38,121 --> 00:15:40,241 Speaker 2: done it probably like once or twice. But I would 381 00:15:40,321 --> 00:15:42,521 Speaker 2: love to go to Japan and go have that experience. 382 00:15:42,801 --> 00:15:45,881 Speaker 2: I've heard it's incredible. But outside of that, I would 383 00:15:45,961 --> 00:15:49,801 Speaker 2: love to build a villa in BALI have different like 384 00:15:49,841 --> 00:15:51,561 Speaker 2: holiday homes in different locations. 385 00:15:51,601 --> 00:15:51,961 Speaker 1: Epic. 386 00:15:52,201 --> 00:15:53,201 Speaker 2: That would be a dream. 387 00:15:53,561 --> 00:15:54,361 Speaker 1: That'd be so fun. 388 00:15:54,481 --> 00:15:56,761 Speaker 2: I actually saw something on social media the other day 389 00:15:56,961 --> 00:15:59,161 Speaker 2: of a woman and she said, it's the best thing 390 00:15:59,201 --> 00:16:01,561 Speaker 2: and obviously a luxury to be able to have a 391 00:16:01,561 --> 00:16:05,281 Speaker 2: holiday home and not have to unpack. So she had 392 00:16:05,641 --> 00:16:08,161 Speaker 2: she had her home, and then she had a holiday home, 393 00:16:08,241 --> 00:16:10,561 Speaker 2: and she had bought stuff that she has in her home. 394 00:16:10,841 --> 00:16:12,001 Speaker 1: She just rocks up and it's there. 395 00:16:12,081 --> 00:16:14,321 Speaker 2: All she takes is a seven kilo carry on bag 396 00:16:14,361 --> 00:16:16,761 Speaker 2: and everything's already there, and she was like, this is 397 00:16:16,881 --> 00:16:20,561 Speaker 2: absolutely a luxury. That's something I've worked towards for so 398 00:16:20,801 --> 00:16:23,521 Speaker 2: long since He's always been a dream of mine. And 399 00:16:23,601 --> 00:16:26,161 Speaker 2: she showed her wardrobe was you know, she had like 400 00:16:26,201 --> 00:16:28,801 Speaker 2: pajamas and going out clothes and heels. 401 00:16:28,481 --> 00:16:30,201 Speaker 1: And flat holiday one. 402 00:16:30,321 --> 00:16:32,761 Speaker 2: Oh I can't remember, yeah, but it was somewhere overseas. 403 00:16:33,361 --> 00:16:34,001 Speaker 1: I thought that was. 404 00:16:33,961 --> 00:16:35,321 Speaker 2: Really incredible, so cool. 405 00:16:35,441 --> 00:16:38,481 Speaker 1: I love that, so fun to my bucket list. Well, 406 00:16:38,521 --> 00:16:40,441 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just think it'd be really fun. 407 00:16:40,561 --> 00:16:43,401 Speaker 1: I would love to do Dancing with the Stars or 408 00:16:43,521 --> 00:16:46,521 Speaker 1: a fun reality show. So I have said this in 409 00:16:46,521 --> 00:16:48,481 Speaker 1: the podcast before, so if you've heard it, I apologize. 410 00:16:48,561 --> 00:16:51,201 Speaker 1: But I did it to go through two interviews with 411 00:16:51,321 --> 00:16:54,561 Speaker 1: Big Brother just before COVID hit and didn't get through, 412 00:16:55,161 --> 00:16:58,321 Speaker 1: and I was asked to be on sas said no instantly. 413 00:16:58,601 --> 00:17:02,681 Speaker 1: It's hectic. So they are challenging you mentally, physically, emotionally. 414 00:17:02,721 --> 00:17:05,400 Speaker 1: They'll almost kidnap you and throw you into room with 415 00:17:05,481 --> 00:17:07,761 Speaker 1: loud music, or they've taken a helicopter and then you've 416 00:17:07,761 --> 00:17:09,441 Speaker 1: got to jump out and swim and find your way 417 00:17:09,441 --> 00:17:14,321 Speaker 1: in this massive safari. Oh my god, it's fucked like contense. Yeah, 418 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 1: people break bones. It's just very Yeah, it's really physically, 419 00:17:19,120 --> 00:17:22,360 Speaker 1: mentally and emotionally challenging with I would fail first episode. 420 00:17:22,360 --> 00:17:24,360 Speaker 1: If they put me on anything with heights, I would 421 00:17:24,360 --> 00:17:27,481 Speaker 1: silk and be out. I'm scared of the dark. I'm postrophobic. 422 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:29,801 Speaker 1: I would be an epic fail and I'd be the 423 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:30,961 Speaker 1: laughing stock of the show. 424 00:17:31,441 --> 00:17:33,400 Speaker 2: But you make for good TV, babe. You know, I 425 00:17:33,441 --> 00:17:35,880 Speaker 2: could definitely see you one Big Brother. 426 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:38,361 Speaker 1: Cool big Brother. There's another show called Million Dollar Island, 427 00:17:38,681 --> 00:17:40,521 Speaker 1: but I've only done one series. I'm guessing it didn't 428 00:17:40,521 --> 00:17:42,241 Speaker 1: do very well. Like one hundred people going to an island. 429 00:17:42,241 --> 00:17:44,360 Speaker 1: They've all got a ten thousand dollars brace on and 430 00:17:44,481 --> 00:17:49,121 Speaker 1: just through building relationships and fitness challenges and just fun challenges. 431 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:51,521 Speaker 1: They all compete and you've got to gather up lots 432 00:17:51,561 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 1: of braces over the time they can get taken off you. 433 00:17:53,681 --> 00:17:57,961 Speaker 1: And yeah, it looked really cool. It was very relationship building, yeah, 434 00:17:57,961 --> 00:18:00,561 Speaker 1: and connecting. But while you're on an island altogether. It 435 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:02,321 Speaker 1: only went for a month, which would be cool, not 436 00:18:02,360 --> 00:18:04,401 Speaker 1: because some shows go for like three months. Three months. Yeah, 437 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:06,281 Speaker 1: I'd hate to be ware from the kids for that long, sure, 438 00:18:06,561 --> 00:18:08,161 Speaker 1: but dancing with the Stars. I just used to dance 439 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:10,681 Speaker 1: when I was younger, and I love dancing. I'm definitely 440 00:18:11,001 --> 00:18:13,001 Speaker 1: not that great anymore, but I wonder if it'd be 441 00:18:13,001 --> 00:18:14,680 Speaker 1: a muscle memory once I got into it, would I 442 00:18:14,681 --> 00:18:15,281 Speaker 1: pick it up again? 443 00:18:15,360 --> 00:18:15,801 Speaker 2: I think so? 444 00:18:16,521 --> 00:18:18,521 Speaker 1: Would my body cope with it? Because it's I heard 445 00:18:18,561 --> 00:18:20,801 Speaker 1: it's like eight to twelve hours of training a day 446 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 1: learning the dance because you have to learn a new 447 00:18:22,241 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 1: one every week and then perform it at the end 448 00:18:23,681 --> 00:18:26,360 Speaker 1: of the week. Wow, body intense. Yeah. 449 00:18:26,681 --> 00:18:29,281 Speaker 2: So obviously you only see the highlight reels. 450 00:18:28,961 --> 00:18:31,801 Speaker 1: Exactly, don't see the hours and hours behind the scenes. 451 00:18:32,561 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 1: So yeah, I just I don't know. I'd love to 452 00:18:34,241 --> 00:18:36,281 Speaker 1: be challenged in a really different way. I think I 453 00:18:36,561 --> 00:18:38,961 Speaker 1: grow a lot as a person and aout myself. 454 00:18:39,041 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would love to see you on TV. Yeah, 455 00:18:42,001 --> 00:18:43,440 Speaker 2: and dancing to you'd be in your element. 456 00:18:43,481 --> 00:18:45,561 Speaker 1: I would love it. And all the costumes. Yeah, it'd 457 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:46,201 Speaker 1: be really cool. 458 00:18:46,241 --> 00:18:46,880 Speaker 2: It'd be fun. 459 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 1: So I don't know if that will ever happen, but 460 00:18:48,481 --> 00:18:50,121 Speaker 1: I've just got on my list to put it out there. 461 00:18:50,120 --> 00:18:52,360 Speaker 1: If some when it comes along, that'd be cool. 462 00:18:52,521 --> 00:18:54,680 Speaker 2: The feelers out there vague, Yeah, you know, what. I 463 00:18:54,721 --> 00:18:57,001 Speaker 2: remember thinking I would love to go on a TV show, 464 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:59,160 Speaker 2: but I remember thinking it was either Big Brother or 465 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:01,041 Speaker 2: like Amazing Race, or something that. 466 00:19:01,001 --> 00:19:02,681 Speaker 1: Would be great and amazing race, you know, I mean 467 00:19:02,681 --> 00:19:03,281 Speaker 1: like something. 468 00:19:03,041 --> 00:19:06,881 Speaker 2: That's not Love Island Block. Even I remember thinking stuff like. 469 00:19:06,801 --> 00:19:09,160 Speaker 1: That would be so the block. Being an ex builder. 470 00:19:09,521 --> 00:19:11,521 Speaker 2: My sister and I, because we were both carpenters, we 471 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:14,441 Speaker 2: joked years and years ago when I was about eighteen, 472 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,440 Speaker 2: that we should go on the block and apply for it, 473 00:19:16,521 --> 00:19:18,801 Speaker 2: but we just never ended up doing it. Oh, it 474 00:19:18,801 --> 00:19:21,241 Speaker 2: would be super fun, but yeah, something like that. Yeah, 475 00:19:21,281 --> 00:19:22,880 Speaker 2: I definitely don't think I could go on like a 476 00:19:23,001 --> 00:19:25,921 Speaker 2: dating show or Married It First Sight or any of those. 477 00:19:26,120 --> 00:19:27,761 Speaker 2: I think it's not really my thing. And no judgment 478 00:19:27,801 --> 00:19:30,680 Speaker 2: to anyone who does. It's super entertaining, it's just not 479 00:19:30,961 --> 00:19:31,200 Speaker 2: for me. 480 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,360 Speaker 1: You don't know how they're editing you, and they editing 481 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:35,961 Speaker 1: you to make you look like a character. They're choosing 482 00:19:35,961 --> 00:19:37,321 Speaker 1: who's going to be the villain, who's going to be 483 00:19:37,360 --> 00:19:39,521 Speaker 1: the slotty one, who's going to be the ditch that's crazy, 484 00:19:39,681 --> 00:19:42,481 Speaker 1: So they're going to paint you in whatever way they want. Yeah, 485 00:19:42,761 --> 00:19:46,161 Speaker 1: married It First Sight or I mean being the bachelorette. 486 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:49,041 Speaker 1: Imagine having twenty minutes choose from. If you're single, even 487 00:19:49,120 --> 00:19:52,401 Speaker 1: that is your pick. I feel like it could be fine. 488 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:54,921 Speaker 1: It sounds fun on paper, but maybe in real life 489 00:19:54,961 --> 00:19:55,721 Speaker 1: it's not so fun. 490 00:19:55,761 --> 00:19:58,321 Speaker 2: You know what I think I could do? What is 491 00:19:58,400 --> 00:19:59,880 Speaker 2: be a host for one of those shows. 492 00:19:59,921 --> 00:20:00,400 Speaker 1: It's becose. 493 00:20:00,441 --> 00:20:03,360 Speaker 2: I would find that really entertaining. I remember I worked 494 00:20:03,360 --> 00:20:06,321 Speaker 2: for this TV channel. One of the women who worked there, 495 00:20:06,360 --> 00:20:08,001 Speaker 2: she was a stylis Stay. She's a good friend of mine, 496 00:20:08,041 --> 00:20:09,840 Speaker 2: and she was going to help me, like learn and 497 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 2: train to become a TV host. So cool, and I 498 00:20:12,041 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 2: just remember thinking like, maybe. 499 00:20:13,360 --> 00:20:15,881 Speaker 1: I could do that. That's cool, how fun. I never 500 00:20:15,921 --> 00:20:17,120 Speaker 1: know what opportunity will come up. 501 00:20:17,120 --> 00:20:19,360 Speaker 2: Hey, like maybe I should apply for something like that. 502 00:20:19,481 --> 00:20:21,561 Speaker 2: You know, like Sophie Wrong, She's such a babe, and. 503 00:20:21,481 --> 00:20:23,961 Speaker 1: What a fun show to be a host. Oh yeah, 504 00:20:24,360 --> 00:20:26,681 Speaker 1: so cool. I've never actually watched that show, but I've 505 00:20:26,721 --> 00:20:28,920 Speaker 1: heard she's quite a vible on there. So she do 506 00:20:29,001 --> 00:20:30,480 Speaker 1: Love Island? Is that what she hosts? 507 00:20:30,561 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 2: She used to do a Big Brother at one point, 508 00:20:32,241 --> 00:20:34,561 Speaker 2: she did multiple I've seen her in many different things. 509 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:35,200 Speaker 1: It's funny. 510 00:20:35,201 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 2: She's good at what she does. 511 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:39,640 Speaker 1: I would love to renew my vowels with Steve. Oh yeah, 512 00:20:39,761 --> 00:20:41,801 Speaker 1: I don't know. When I was thinking around the twenty 513 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:44,241 Speaker 1: year mark then is it twenty years married or being 514 00:20:44,281 --> 00:20:45,801 Speaker 1: together twenty years? I don't know. 515 00:20:46,041 --> 00:20:46,961 Speaker 2: You get to make it up. 516 00:20:47,041 --> 00:20:49,201 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd like to do that one day, and probably 517 00:20:49,281 --> 00:20:51,200 Speaker 1: just asking the kids. Now I have like a whole 518 00:20:51,241 --> 00:20:54,081 Speaker 1: big ceremony thing, just asking the kids, go do something special. 519 00:20:54,761 --> 00:20:58,961 Speaker 2: Yeah, you ever have another wedding? No, do an updated wedding? Nah? 520 00:20:59,201 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 1: Nah? Yeah, I feel that's pretty sacred the first time, like, 521 00:21:02,761 --> 00:21:06,601 Speaker 1: but renewing is similar, but a lot more intimately. Yeah. 522 00:21:06,681 --> 00:21:08,481 Speaker 2: Yeah, it just gets to be about just you guys. 523 00:21:08,321 --> 00:21:10,721 Speaker 1: And the yeah, the love and how far we've come, 524 00:21:10,801 --> 00:21:13,200 Speaker 1: how much we've grown to celebrating that, and with our 525 00:21:13,281 --> 00:21:14,921 Speaker 1: children because they obviously weren't born there. 526 00:21:15,001 --> 00:21:15,241 Speaker 2: Yeah. 527 00:21:15,561 --> 00:21:18,281 Speaker 1: So yeah, oh that's beautiful like that. 528 00:21:18,481 --> 00:21:21,641 Speaker 2: I could definitely live overseas for a little while. Yeah, 529 00:21:21,921 --> 00:21:23,761 Speaker 2: I've want to take it off my bucket list. I've 530 00:21:23,761 --> 00:21:26,521 Speaker 2: been wanting to do it since I was probably sixteen. 531 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:29,640 Speaker 2: When I was sixteen, I had like this big dream 532 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:32,440 Speaker 2: of living in New York City, and then I went 533 00:21:32,481 --> 00:21:34,201 Speaker 2: and visited New York stay there for a month. 534 00:21:34,201 --> 00:21:36,041 Speaker 1: That's so cooled you did that. It was awesome. 535 00:21:36,241 --> 00:21:39,321 Speaker 2: It was the best thing, and yeah, reasonably priced as well. 536 00:21:39,321 --> 00:21:40,721 Speaker 1: What did you do for work when you're over there. 537 00:21:40,761 --> 00:21:43,561 Speaker 2: I was doing carpentry at the time, so Dad allowed 538 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 2: us to take off a month of work. 539 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:46,001 Speaker 1: To go over there. 540 00:21:46,281 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, cause super flexible, very grateful for that. 541 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:50,241 Speaker 1: That's awesome. 542 00:21:50,761 --> 00:21:53,041 Speaker 2: But yeah, I remember going over there and being like 543 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:55,360 Speaker 2: saying to myself, Okay, cool, we're going to do three 544 00:21:55,360 --> 00:21:57,281 Speaker 2: to six months. Yeah. I remember at the time, I 545 00:21:57,321 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 2: actually wanted to go to college over there. I was thinking, 546 00:21:59,880 --> 00:22:01,801 Speaker 2: maybe I can go and do a term over there 547 00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:05,041 Speaker 2: and study something so that I could experience the cold. 548 00:22:05,521 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 1: Oh that was experience. 549 00:22:06,921 --> 00:22:08,880 Speaker 2: I know. I always used to see it on TV. 550 00:22:10,041 --> 00:22:12,001 Speaker 2: I mean that never ended up happening. I feel like 551 00:22:12,001 --> 00:22:15,720 Speaker 2: I've gotten so close to living overseas multiple times, but 552 00:22:15,801 --> 00:22:17,481 Speaker 2: for some reason, it just wasn't the path I was 553 00:22:17,521 --> 00:22:19,321 Speaker 2: meant to take. Either that or I bitched it. I 554 00:22:19,360 --> 00:22:23,721 Speaker 2: can't tell. It's like I wasn't ready to take the leave. 555 00:22:23,801 --> 00:22:26,041 Speaker 2: So I remember in Covid I almost moved to Costa 556 00:22:26,120 --> 00:22:28,080 Speaker 2: Rica with my best friend and my partner at the time. 557 00:22:28,761 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 2: Then it was we were going to go to Austin 558 00:22:31,120 --> 00:22:34,680 Speaker 2: in Texas with my best friend then Dubai almost so. 559 00:22:34,721 --> 00:22:36,401 Speaker 2: But when I moved to the Gold Coast from Sydney 560 00:22:36,441 --> 00:22:39,321 Speaker 2: a year and a half ago, I was this close 561 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 2: to moving to Dubai. I was looking at apartments, I 562 00:22:41,521 --> 00:22:43,601 Speaker 2: was looking at pricing. I was like about to reach 563 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:45,961 Speaker 2: out to realtors and then it didn't work out. 564 00:22:46,001 --> 00:22:47,041 Speaker 1: What made you go nut? 565 00:22:47,120 --> 00:22:48,321 Speaker 2: I met my partner at the time. 566 00:22:48,441 --> 00:22:50,241 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Yeah, so I'd moved. 567 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,041 Speaker 2: Up to the Gold Coast and I kid you, not 568 00:22:52,120 --> 00:22:54,441 Speaker 2: like five days later I met him. Cool, obviously, I'm 569 00:22:54,441 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 2: meant to be here, yes, for whatever season this is 570 00:22:56,961 --> 00:22:58,721 Speaker 2: going to stund purpose for And. 571 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:01,801 Speaker 1: Where else was another place you nearly moved Bali. 572 00:23:01,761 --> 00:23:05,321 Speaker 2: It's just never happened. And Miami, Miami would be for 573 00:23:05,321 --> 00:23:05,880 Speaker 2: a little while. 574 00:23:06,041 --> 00:23:09,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, love, but Miam is just a 575 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,521 Speaker 1: big Gold coast so similar. 576 00:23:11,201 --> 00:23:12,200 Speaker 2: But full of Americans. 577 00:23:12,561 --> 00:23:16,041 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's quite a party lifestyle though, that's true. Yeah, 578 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,801 Speaker 1: there's a lot of partying. I'm sure there's different size 579 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:19,241 Speaker 1: to it too. 580 00:23:19,321 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 2: I've heard there's a lack of a better word, conscious 581 00:23:21,761 --> 00:23:22,321 Speaker 2: community there. 582 00:23:22,360 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: I suppose it would be anywhere you go. 583 00:23:24,120 --> 00:23:25,681 Speaker 2: They're Austin, Texas. 584 00:23:25,561 --> 00:23:28,401 Speaker 1: Austin that's so known for it, isn't it. Yeah, I'd 585 00:23:28,441 --> 00:23:30,561 Speaker 1: love to go there. That's cool. I'd love to do 586 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,801 Speaker 1: a stint in Bali. I'd love to escape an Australian winter. 587 00:23:33,961 --> 00:23:36,400 Speaker 1: Even though winters are not bad compared to New Zealand 588 00:23:36,481 --> 00:23:38,921 Speaker 1: and other places. However, I just don't like the cold. Yeah, 589 00:23:38,921 --> 00:23:40,200 Speaker 1: So I'd love to even just do a month or 590 00:23:40,241 --> 00:23:43,801 Speaker 1: two in Bali, like June July. Go over there and 591 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:45,441 Speaker 1: just be in the heat and live the lifestyle. 592 00:23:45,721 --> 00:23:49,201 Speaker 2: Being on scooters, living in a villa. I know, good 593 00:23:49,201 --> 00:23:51,961 Speaker 2: food all the time, yeah, having a cleaner every day, 594 00:23:52,201 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 2: not having to make your bed in the morning. 595 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,321 Speaker 1: How good. We're talking to mix about this the other 596 00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 1: day though, and she was saying, I wonder if I 597 00:23:58,001 --> 00:24:00,561 Speaker 1: lived over there, would it lose the sparkle that I 598 00:24:00,561 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 1: love about it, which you kind of get a little 599 00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,920 Speaker 1: bit used to it or over it when you go 600 00:24:05,041 --> 00:24:07,841 Speaker 1: for a holiday. It's so exciting. I wonder if you'd 601 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:09,681 Speaker 1: lose that, would it just be like, oh my god, 602 00:24:09,721 --> 00:24:12,801 Speaker 1: this is so epic. Every day is cool, just such 603 00:24:12,801 --> 00:24:13,640 Speaker 1: a fun lifestyle. 604 00:24:13,721 --> 00:24:15,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. I feel like it takes all the things that 605 00:24:15,241 --> 00:24:19,321 Speaker 2: we value as well. It does fitness, good quality, sun, 606 00:24:19,921 --> 00:24:24,241 Speaker 2: you know walking around the swimmers, very relaxed lifestyle. It's 607 00:24:24,281 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 2: not very fast paced, not city like a city. 608 00:24:28,721 --> 00:24:30,321 Speaker 1: She didn't have that rat race energy. 609 00:24:30,721 --> 00:24:34,081 Speaker 2: And everyone there, I feel, is very community based there 610 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:37,121 Speaker 2: as well, which is really nice. They're very kind, they're 611 00:24:37,201 --> 00:24:40,321 Speaker 2: very grateful. That's the big one for me. They they're 612 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:42,921 Speaker 2: so grateful and they receive so little. It makes me sad. 613 00:24:43,001 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 1: Even the nanny that we've hired two trips have been 614 00:24:45,201 --> 00:24:47,680 Speaker 1: with the kids. We've hired the same money. She's beautiful, 615 00:24:47,721 --> 00:24:50,761 Speaker 1: her name's Phoebe, and they just get paid such little. 616 00:24:50,801 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 1: It's seven to ten dollars an hour, and both times 617 00:24:54,281 --> 00:24:56,440 Speaker 1: we've just given her so much extra. It's like you 618 00:24:56,481 --> 00:24:58,360 Speaker 1: deserve it. You're looking after our children. Do such a 619 00:24:58,360 --> 00:25:01,640 Speaker 1: beautiful job. And then through COVID they lost all their work. 620 00:25:02,041 --> 00:25:03,561 Speaker 1: Steve and I just send her a bunch of money 621 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,640 Speaker 1: because we knew she had no work. Yeah, that's a 622 00:25:05,761 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 1: livelihood so beautifully, you guys, and they're just so lovely. Yeah, 623 00:25:10,321 --> 00:25:11,240 Speaker 1: sad when that happens. 624 00:25:11,281 --> 00:25:12,160 Speaker 2: It's so hard. 625 00:25:12,241 --> 00:25:15,281 Speaker 1: They work very hard. They're very hard workers. So yeah, 626 00:25:15,281 --> 00:25:16,801 Speaker 1: I'd love to do a Stinton Balley. 627 00:25:16,561 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 2: Good work ethic. Yeah, maybe I'll put it on the 628 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:19,721 Speaker 2: plane somewhere down the line. 629 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:24,321 Speaker 1: Yeap, what would you not do? Hands down? Nothing can 630 00:25:24,321 --> 00:25:28,641 Speaker 1: convince you otherwise. Fuck no hard, no hard, no. 631 00:25:29,001 --> 00:25:29,601 Speaker 2: Bundee jump. 632 00:25:29,761 --> 00:25:30,441 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm with you. 633 00:25:30,561 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 2: I can't do it. I can't run my head around it. 634 00:25:32,360 --> 00:25:34,441 Speaker 2: I jumped out of a plane before, but I won't 635 00:25:34,481 --> 00:25:36,521 Speaker 2: bud you jump. Yeah. I don't know why. I know 636 00:25:36,521 --> 00:25:38,761 Speaker 2: they're very different, and I'm free falling when I jump 637 00:25:38,801 --> 00:25:41,440 Speaker 2: out of a plane. But skydiving I didn't have the fear. 638 00:25:41,481 --> 00:25:43,881 Speaker 2: But bundee jumping for some reason, the thought of knowing 639 00:25:43,921 --> 00:25:46,880 Speaker 2: that something has got me and then it snaps potentially, 640 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:49,160 Speaker 2: I've just seen way too many things go wrong with 641 00:25:49,241 --> 00:25:52,160 Speaker 2: that stuff. Whereas skydiving, maybe I just haven't heard. I 642 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 2: haven't heard any bad stories. 643 00:25:54,441 --> 00:25:56,481 Speaker 1: I've had bad stories with both. I think because the 644 00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:00,321 Speaker 1: Dean's partner base jumps, yes, and skydives, So I've heard 645 00:26:00,521 --> 00:26:03,681 Speaker 1: a lot of bad, sad stories. There are three things 646 00:26:03,681 --> 00:26:06,521 Speaker 1: I wouldn't do. Bune jump, sky dive or base jumping. 647 00:26:06,921 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 1: Oh we're talking about that flying one. Yeah, they just 648 00:26:09,281 --> 00:26:11,481 Speaker 1: jump off and stop flying. They've got those wings suit, yeah, 649 00:26:11,761 --> 00:26:14,680 Speaker 1: suits of space jumping. I would never use. Someone offers 650 00:26:14,681 --> 00:26:17,360 Speaker 1: me twenty million dollars tomorrow. I still couldn't do it. 651 00:26:17,961 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 1: There's just no amount of money that could ever make 652 00:26:20,801 --> 00:26:22,960 Speaker 1: me do any of that. It's endorphins too. Like my 653 00:26:23,001 --> 00:26:25,440 Speaker 1: girlfriend whose partner does it, he almost gets like a 654 00:26:25,441 --> 00:26:26,840 Speaker 1: bit of a low state if he doesn't get to 655 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 1: go and do it. She's described it. She's like, you 656 00:26:29,281 --> 00:26:30,360 Speaker 1: know when you go to the gym and you have 657 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,360 Speaker 1: those dolphins flowing, and if you don't go to the 658 00:26:32,360 --> 00:26:34,321 Speaker 1: gym for two weeks, you start to feel like, oh 659 00:26:34,360 --> 00:26:36,641 Speaker 1: that is good. Yeah, that's what he gets, Like, Wow, 660 00:26:36,761 --> 00:26:39,961 Speaker 1: it's the adrenaline, the dolphins, it's the thrill, it's the freedom, 661 00:26:40,001 --> 00:26:42,161 Speaker 1: it's the nature, it's the whole thing. It's a package 662 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 1: for him, and he just loves it. 663 00:26:43,201 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 2: You can see why people chase it. 664 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, and every day must seem a little bit boring 665 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,801 Speaker 1: compared to doing something so extreme like that. It's almost 666 00:26:49,801 --> 00:26:51,001 Speaker 1: like a drug that they need their. 667 00:26:50,961 --> 00:26:53,921 Speaker 2: Hit totally and need adjust as well to that level 668 00:26:53,961 --> 00:26:56,961 Speaker 2: of adrenaline. Yeah, and then every day might seem like mundane. 669 00:26:57,080 --> 00:27:00,080 Speaker 1: Literally, all right, do you guys hope you enjoyed that episode. 670 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:01,801 Speaker 1: Let's start a thread in the forum. I would love 671 00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:03,680 Speaker 1: to know other people's bucket list. Yeah, I can get 672 00:27:03,721 --> 00:27:06,761 Speaker 1: some inspiration off there. That'd be cool, that would be amazing. 673 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,761 Speaker 1: We'll do a post in the forum when this episode 674 00:27:08,801 --> 00:27:11,200 Speaker 1: comes out, and if you're not in the forum, just 675 00:27:11,241 --> 00:27:14,641 Speaker 1: search she rises on Facebook and you eyde yourself in amazing. 676 00:27:14,801 --> 00:27:15,561 Speaker 2: Bye bye,