1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. Sometimes, if I'm feeling like big 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 1: emotions sadness, frustration, blah blah blah, the thing that I'm 3 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:09,959 Speaker 1: thinking in my head that i want to say is 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:12,880 Speaker 1: not the right thing to say, because I'm not thinking straight. 5 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 2: When you articulate with your mouth when you're in like 6 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,279 Speaker 2: these states of frustration or sad it's really hard to 7 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 2: get out what you're thinking, and because emotion takes over 8 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 2: and you say something you don't really mean. But the 9 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:24,639 Speaker 2: easiest way to like actually do it is write it 10 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 2: down how you're feeling. The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, 11 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 2: Oddie Clark aka Mummy and my partner in crime we 12 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 2: found Out Patrick to my SpongeBob, Jake Craig aka Daddy, 13 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 2: I have been living up to that lately. I actually have. 14 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 2: For those who don't know, Jake is back from Canada. Yes, 15 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 2: and get lagged, that's what he's calling it. But I 16 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:02,959 Speaker 2: say his true colors are shining through a little bit. 17 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 2: I'm saying jet lagged. I've been. I had a couple 18 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,960 Speaker 2: of days of struggle with just like I didn't even 19 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 2: feel that tired. 20 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 1: I just had a couple of days of struggle with 21 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: I would say, just being an idiot. 22 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 2: Main one, yeah, main one. 23 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:18,680 Speaker 1: Was it was my stepmom's birthdawn Saturday night, two days 24 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: after I got home. 25 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 2: My dad goes. 26 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:24,119 Speaker 1: My dad invites us obviously Macbeth and I and I'm like, yet, 27 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:28,960 Speaker 1: we can go? And then I text him and I say, oh, 28 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: what time's dinner again? And he texts me six pm 29 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: and he says the place I thought it set a 30 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 1: place called ed Along Diggers, which is like, not nice. 31 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 2: It, not to shit on it. 32 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: But and I was like in my head, I was like, okay, 33 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:50,559 Speaker 1: we get there at six sign in and like Beth 34 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: forgets her id and she says, this whole debacle was 35 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: signing into this place, because that's how you have to 36 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 1: do it. Here and again, and I'm looking for him 37 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: and she goes, can you see him? And I'm like, nah, 38 00:01:57,840 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: I can't see him, and she goes, oh, check the tees. 39 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: Maybe he said six thirty, and I look at it 40 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: and I was like fuck. He said he wrote Empire 41 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: Bay Taverns. 42 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 2: This is a completely different restaurant. Completely. It was like 43 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 2: ten minutes away. I was, and I had to call 44 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 2: and I was like, we came here I couldn't, like, 45 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 2: I'll tell you what's worse. Man. When so his step 46 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 2: mom is a twin. So they're gone for his birthday 47 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,639 Speaker 2: and he goes to his step mom happy birthday, and 48 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 2: her twin's there. He doesn't say happy birthday, just says hey, 49 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 2: hey god. Oh. Firstly, so I get into this restaurant 50 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 2: in all a fit of a and I'm in shambles 51 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 2: because I went to the wrong place to start off with. 52 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 2: And I get in, I go see my mom, my stepmom, 53 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 2: and like happy birthday, Happy birthday. And I didn't say 54 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 2: even say hi to anyone else. I just like kind 55 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 2: of walked away. I was like, yeah, it's over and 56 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:44,519 Speaker 2: done with. And then I was like, oh, oh shit, 57 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 2: and I went and said hideways. I was like, sorry, I forgot 58 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 2: to say hid Jake's got a big family too. That 59 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 2: a few people there. 60 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 1: I was like, I went and had to say high 61 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: like four more people. And then halfway through dinner, it's 62 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: when I went over to birth and I was. 63 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 2: Like, oh, it's Fiona's birthday as well. Yeah, man, and 64 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 2: we were like fuck. So if Jake says something a 65 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 2: bit dumb today, we'll give him a little bit of 66 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 2: an excuse. Ye, I need benefit of the give a. 67 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 2: I'm a few days in, but I'm sleeping good, sleeping great. 68 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 2: But I mean I've had a dog in the bed 69 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:14,800 Speaker 2: because Henry fucking sleeps in the bed. Now Beth has 70 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 2: just been letting him sleep in the bed. And while 71 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 2: I was away, I was like, I was like, does 72 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 2: he can even sleep in the crate anymore? Is he 73 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 2: just gonna cry? And she was like, no, he can, 74 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 2: he can, he can. And then when we got here, 75 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 2: I caved and I was like, yeah, you can just 76 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 2: sleep in the bed. Parenting mate, parenting. But today, Jake, 77 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 2: I want to start something off. I wanted to know 78 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 2: this happens to me all the time. I wonder if 79 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 2: this is relatable, and I want to know when I 80 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 2: lose my spatial awareness. Ah. So you've had to have experiences. 81 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 2: Everyone listening most of our demographics like twenty Yeah, so 82 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 2: you go to the shops. Shops is the main place 83 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 2: that happens. Might be anywhere though, and you're going to 84 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 2: like going through the aisles and there's someone there with 85 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 2: big trolley and they're standing right in front of you 86 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 2: and you're just waiting there and they just take about 87 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 2: it has to be a couple of minutes. And how 88 00:03:57,840 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 2: do they not know that you're there? Do you mean 89 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 2: at what age are you gonna lose your special away? Yeah? 90 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 2: Like I swear I can see other people special awareness 91 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 2: of them not knowing that someone's right behind them, and 92 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 2: I see it and then I'm like, I've been standing 93 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 2: here for a sold forty five seconds, dude, Like just move. 94 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: I That is one of my biggest pet peeves is 95 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: and it always happens to me in for some reason, 96 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 1: I rarely buy spices. 97 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, never buy spices old these and spices, and so 98 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 2: whenever I do, just go buy some onion powder or 99 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 2: something I don't know because I'm too lazy to cut 100 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 2: of onions. I'll go over and I'm looking for it, 101 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:32,479 Speaker 2: and there is always yeah someone never I had never 102 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 2: twenty They're never twenty years old. Everyone our a haes 103 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 2: special awareness. Like if someone if I'm like looking for someone, 104 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 2: I'm looking at the calories and someone walks behind me, 105 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 2: I see they're there, and I'm like, oh, here, go 106 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 2: get in. What I'm looking at is these people just 107 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 2: put that trolley there. They stand there and just pog 108 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 2: the whole thing up and you can't just reach over 109 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:50,599 Speaker 2: because the whole trolley's there is. 110 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 1: It's something about Okay, I don't want to just give 111 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,040 Speaker 1: shit to old people, but there is something about them. 112 00:04:54,080 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 1: If there's something, there's some sort of entitlement when you. 113 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 2: Get to an age of I was thinking, do they 114 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 2: just not care? Is it growing up as a boomer? Maybe? 115 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: Well, because I feel like they grew up in this 116 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 1: day and age where they were they just were so 117 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: like boomers. Apparently there's this whole thing in boomers where 118 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 1: like bigger is better and all that. So they almost 119 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: have this entitlement where they want to be the best. 120 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,280 Speaker 1: And so that must just mean like I'm not being 121 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: Oh I'm. 122 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 2: Not being fucking nice, because even if you think about it, 123 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 2: like when I worked at a restaurant, I don't recognize 124 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 2: anything to do with being nice. I reckon, they don't 125 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 2: know you're there. Oh really, I reckon, they have no 126 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 2: idea you're there. I have a feel. I've always thought 127 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 2: it's like, oh, they'll like sure, they don't care, and 128 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:34,280 Speaker 2: in their head it's like I got here first, they 129 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 2: have to wait their turn. Oh that's what That's how 130 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 2: I've always thought. I've always like you're just so fucking rude. 131 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 2: Maybe I really like old people not shitting on them. 132 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:43,919 Speaker 2: But I've always just thought like, at like age like 133 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 2: thirty five, I'm just gonna lose some sense in the 134 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:47,719 Speaker 2: back of my head and I'm like people around me, 135 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 2: but I don't know that exist anymore. Sometimes they will 136 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 2: be like, oh, sorry, sorry, and then they'll move. But 137 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 2: sometimes even like a dad who's like forty and you're 138 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 2: just there and he's like looking at them, I feel 139 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 2: like that makes sense. Oh, I have funniest thing happened 140 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 2: the other day. I don't know what he was buying 141 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 2: is he was in the I was looking at the 142 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 2: soap aisle and that's like the feminine aisle. Yeah, yeah, 143 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 2: for all the girl products. And there's this guy on 144 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 2: the phone and our coles has terrible reception. He's like 145 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 2: yelling into it, trying to find this female product, and 146 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 2: he's like had to be fifty. It's like, I don't 147 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 2: know what I'm looking for. And it was like just 148 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:19,919 Speaker 2: he was in like the Tampa and I in like 149 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:22,840 Speaker 2: that one. It was just so funny, like what some 150 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:26,919 Speaker 2: extra large I was like, this is like a movie 151 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 2: out of the movie. Yeah, how old were you when 152 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 2: you found out there were sizes for tampons? Oh, I 153 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:34,239 Speaker 2: remember finding I think it was like year twelve. Yeah, 154 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 2: I feel like I found out later than I should have. 155 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 2: Maybe it was on TikTok time. Maybe it was later. Yeah, 156 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 2: there's a trend on TikTok that went about it wasn't 157 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 2: it we? 158 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,559 Speaker 1: And also I know I found out from an Adam 159 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 1: Sandler movie. Really, So there's this Adam Sandler movie. 160 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 2: I don't know which one it is, but he's a 161 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 2: single dad I don't know, and he's always just like 162 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 2: I see he's Adam Sander's always a single dad or 163 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 2: something in a movie, and he just gets hot chicks. Yeah, 164 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 2: because he writes ally on movies. And his girl, his 165 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 2: daughter in that too. He's like he's worth like five 166 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,919 Speaker 2: hundred million dollars. It's like, yeah, it work. But so 167 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 2: he's in this movie and he's a single dad and 168 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 2: his daughter gets her period. So he goes to like 169 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 2: a chemist and he's looking at them and they have 170 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 2: these wild names, and then the love interest shows up 171 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 2: and helps him out, and he's got this extra large 172 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 2: and he's like, oh, I didn't know there was si. 173 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 2: I remember the scene now, so I'm thinking like, oh, 174 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 2: neither did I fucking weird. We live in different worlds. 175 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 2: We fully do another thing. 176 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to call out and like I'm talking 177 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: about guys and differences between guys and girls. 178 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 2: I don't want to call it my girlfriend. 179 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 1: But this morning, so I find, at least from my relationship, 180 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: my girlfriend overthinks more than I do. I think I 181 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 1: don't have enough power to overthink. 182 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:47,120 Speaker 2: So that's just about it. I don't think you've the brain. 183 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 2: I literally don't. It doesn't shit into my REGI run 184 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 2: for my money. Oh yeah, she falls asleep quick though. 185 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 2: She's not like you. 186 00:07:56,080 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 1: But so I think this morning I asked her if 187 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: she was okay, because I was like, I don't know. 188 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 1: I sent something with a little off and I was like, 189 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 1: I'll just ask her, and so she. 190 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 2: Said yeah, and I was like can. She goes, oh, 191 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 2: I just feel like you're. 192 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, she said, I feel like I'm annoying you 193 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: today and I was like, oh no, I don't worry 194 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: about that today. 195 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 2: It's ten o'clock. Yeah, yeah, yeah, this morning, maybe I 196 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 2: was giving off vibes. 197 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, so she feels like She was like, I feel 198 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: like I'm annoying you today and I was like, no, no, 199 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: don't be silly. And then I said to her, she goes, oh, yeah, 200 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. I just feel like I was like, okay, 201 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 1: think about this, because then she said, I don't want 202 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 1: you to get sick of me, or she's like, I'm 203 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 1: really sicking me. I don't know, and so then I said, 204 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: we think about this, like would I would you ever 205 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:38,320 Speaker 1: get sick of me? And she's like no, and I 206 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 1: was like, so why would. I? Like I love you 207 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 1: as much as you love me, So whenever you think 208 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 1: that I'm getting sick of you, just think like, oh wait, 209 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 1: but am I getting sick of Jake? 210 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 2: You brought logic into that. I had to bring logic 211 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 2: into the equation to settle it down. She wasn't worked 212 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 2: up or anything. She was fine, but I was like, 213 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 2: it's like, please, don't stress, don't stress. But I think 214 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 2: that yeah, girls definitely over. I feel like we're living 215 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 2: on this. I feel like guys waking up in the morning, 216 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 2: especially me, and I think you have it too when 217 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 2: we used to live together, like we'll come across as 218 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 2: like angry or frustrated or she took it as off her. Yeah, 219 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 2: but we're just like mute and just like this is 220 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 2: like the morning. I don't really leant to talk anything, 221 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 2: but I don't have any feelings towards it. I'm just 222 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 2: waking up. Yeah, I feel like, Yeah, it's like my 223 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 2: body wakes up and starts doing stuff before. Yeah, other 224 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 2: things start to get like there's no emotion in it. 225 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 2: But we might have come across as like I'm angry 226 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 2: already or like pissed. Yeah, like I feel like that's 227 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 2: a dou's thing. No, definitely, it just takes us like 228 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:33,680 Speaker 2: a couple of hours to wake up sometimes, but sometimes 229 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 2: we work up and we're fine. 230 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:36,559 Speaker 1: I go into that never changes, Yeah, no, not at all. 231 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 1: And also, what's with how long have we existed knowing 232 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 1: how different we are as genders and we haven't worked 233 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: it out? Is that not something that like that's really 234 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 1: only just crossing my mind. I'm thinking about it now, 235 00:09:48,559 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 1: like how have we not worked it out? 236 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 2: Well, it's because we haven't been trying to work out 237 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 2: equality the whole time? True, Yeah, when men have been 238 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 2: like you know, been like fucking what's it called, uh, misogynistic? Yeah, 239 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 2: misogynistic this whole time up until I mean, it's still 240 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:07,440 Speaker 2: a pretty misogynistic world. I trying to get there, so 241 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 2: that's probably why is getting better. But up until, like 242 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:12,839 Speaker 2: I've maybe the eighties is when it's a shift. Actually 243 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 2: don't know when the shift too. I don't know. I 244 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:17,840 Speaker 2: feel like it maybe started shifting in twenty twenty. Yeah, 245 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 2: that might have been too early fucking now. But you 246 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 2: know who does have good special awareness? Who our baddies, 247 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 2: our bad Yeah? Thanks, thanks everyone for tuning in. You 248 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 2: Know What to Do. There's more episodes on Patreon for 249 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:34,320 Speaker 2: five dollars a month. It's cheap as chips. 250 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: You Know What to Do an ex episode every week 251 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 1: and there's an extra episode. 252 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 2: There's more content, vlogs, dilemmas, episodes. We're stunning a community 253 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:45,199 Speaker 2: over there. So I actually recently got first time, first 254 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 2: person to ever call in on a Patreon episode coming 255 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 2: out this Thursday. That was actually juicy episode and it's 256 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:53,839 Speaker 2: off the Patreon trailer episode we did that was her 257 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 2: Oh shit, So if you listened to oh we accidentally 258 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 2: tea that up, that's sick. Okay, So a thirty two 259 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 2: year yeah and a twenty one year old got together. 260 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,559 Speaker 2: We find out what happened after yeah, shit, it's good. 261 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 2: It's good, it's good. But otherwise when jump into it, 262 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 2: let's do it. Okay. 263 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 1: So while I was away, best got me a present, 264 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:19,120 Speaker 1: and it's like, I don't know if I've probably shown you. 265 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 1: I've got a real Stanley cut, like the Stanley brand. 266 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 2: That must be nice. Yeah, yeah, I say, no leakage, mae, 267 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 2: no leakage. It's a little heavier, drinks cold for longer. 268 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 2: I gotta say, money well spent. But we were in 269 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 2: the car actually coming here, and. 270 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 1: I was because the straw comes out and you can 271 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 1: like flip the top and make it so you can 272 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 1: drink out of it, like just sip it like out 273 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 1: of a straw like a mug. So I was like, oh, 274 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 1: so you can have hot drinks out of it, and 275 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 1: she was like yeah. And I was like, I mean 276 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:52,199 Speaker 1: it's not you can't have hot drinks out of the 277 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 1: other ones that don't do that. But I was like, 278 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:57,439 Speaker 1: it should be illegal to drink a hot drink out of. 279 00:11:57,400 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 2: A straw out of a straw, yeah yeah, And so 280 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 2: then I started talking about it and I was like, ship, 281 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 2: what else feels illegal? So then I was like, fucking, 282 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 2: let's start writing some of these down and so yeah, 283 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 2: like things that feel illegal but aren't. And is drinking 284 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:16,679 Speaker 2: a hot drink out of a straw? I don't even 285 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 2: do that as a kid, No, I think thinking about 286 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 2: it's crazy. You always sip like a hot coffee out 287 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 2: of the cup of the little sippy hole but true, 288 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 2: yeah mug, Yeah, you never have it out of a 289 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 2: sick Yeah, and you never drink I feel like you 290 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:32,559 Speaker 2: never drink a hot drink out of like a bottleneck, 291 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 2: not even have a glass yeah, oh yeah, yeah, drinking 292 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 2: out of a glass if it has a handle, maybe, yeah, 293 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 2: but you can't drink out a normal glass. Yeah. So 294 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 2: things that feel illegal but aren't. Yeah, all right. 295 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:47,200 Speaker 1: I'll go complaining to a boomer about the cost of 296 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:48,719 Speaker 1: living and not being able to buy a. 297 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 3: House, because the first thing they're gonna say is you 298 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 3: don't know hard work, but it comes up to your 299 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 3: door and fucking knocks it down. Have you been seeing 300 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 3: those things on TikTok and it's like they interview like 301 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:03,079 Speaker 3: what's the best piece of advice you have to buy 302 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 3: a house and then like start saving man, and like 303 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 3: how much did you have to buy your first house? 304 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 3: And it was like cost me one hundred and fifty 305 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 3: thousand dollars. I saved twenty grand. 306 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 2: I was making fifty grand a yearah, one hundred and 307 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 2: fifty grand, so it was only three times your salary. Yeah, yeah, 308 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:19,680 Speaker 2: it makes sense. Yeah, it makes fucking sense. I'll spend 309 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 2: a million dollars on some bang average house in the 310 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 2: most average suburb. It's fucking ridiculous. Oh yeah, that's relatable. 311 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 1: That is Oh okay, things that feel illegal, but aren't 312 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 1: putting a recyclable object in the rubbish. 313 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah that's good man, that's good little 314 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:41,439 Speaker 2: tip too. You feel guilty, yeah you do. But sometimes 315 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 2: are you ever walking and you have an empty bottle 316 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 2: and you're like, I need to get rid of this bottle. 317 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,680 Speaker 2: The only thing is the rubbish pan. You gotta do it. Yeah. 318 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 2: Even guilty at home too, though, Like sometimes some I 319 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 2: won't watch something completely and I'm like, oh, that's putting 320 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:00,280 Speaker 2: in the red bin. Oh and then you were taught 321 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 2: you how to recycle. I didn't even know you had 322 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 2: to wash the yogan out of a fucking plastic yoga 323 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:06,319 Speaker 2: container to recycle it. Yeah, like, what do you think 324 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 2: having to do it? I reckon so many people don't 325 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 2: know that. Yeah right, I honestly think so many people 326 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 2: don't know that. Ah, things that feel illegal but aren't 327 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 2: putting anything in someone else's been, especially your dog's poop. 328 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 2: When you go for a walk, feeling you're like checking 329 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 2: shoulder to shoulder and you're just like, nay, I'm good, 330 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 2: I'm good, walk you actually do? I feel like I 331 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 2: used to check, like if it was like is the 332 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 2: bin still coming? Like the bin man's still got to come, 333 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 2: so he his rubbish, we get cleared. I'm not like killing 334 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 2: up he's been with my rubbish. 335 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 1: And then you know it's funny is whenever I get 336 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: if the bin's been like taken, the rubbish being got 337 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 1: taken by the truck, and I I sometimes will open 338 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: the bin just to make sure because it's sometimes not 339 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 1: always full. So the bin's closed and it's been taken. 340 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 1: But then someone's put dogs in there, and I'm like, oh, that. 341 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 2: Fuck mad, And I'm like if I caught them, I 342 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 2: caught them doing that any sort of rubbish. After you 343 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 2: check it to see if it's been if the rubb 344 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 2: you're like, oh, who did this? This is my bin? 345 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 2: How could they? But then if I have a bin. 346 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 2: If my bin's too full, I'll literally go find a 347 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 2: bin and just put my full bag of rubbish and 348 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 2: someone else spend like to get picked up tomorrow. Yeah, 349 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 2: it doesn't even matter. Things that feel illegal but aren't 350 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 2: doing anything when a police officer is around. Oh yeah, 351 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 2: I'm always my thing is at cool when you're driving. Yeah, 352 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 2: I feel like I look more suspect when the police 353 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 2: officers around then when I when then one isn't around 354 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 2: thee The best feeling is have you ever been on 355 00:15:29,600 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 2: your phone while driving and then simulation driving? Yeah, playing 356 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 2: video games, video games, and then you put your phone 357 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 2: down and then a police officer drives bas Yes, Yeah, 358 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 2: you're like, yes, sometimes that's what I believe in. God, 359 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:49,880 Speaker 2: I'm like I got away with that one touch what 360 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 2: I don't want to. I've got a good system. I've 361 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 2: got a good system gone at the moment. Things that 362 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 2: feel illegal but aren't taking a photo when a random 363 00:15:59,920 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 2: is in the background, it's so weird. Well, we vlog 364 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 2: and it's just like you, like you sort of get this. 365 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 2: We have good space awareness and were like, there's people 366 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 2: we will wait. I didn't the other day when we 367 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:12,720 Speaker 2: were when we were at golf mid golf. I was 368 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 2: standing on someone's whole filming you and Cassie was like, 369 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 2: Jake moved and I was like, oh, I'm so sorry 370 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 2: because they didn't say anything that does feel legal. And 371 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 2: one day you're going to get it, like a Karen 372 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 2: is going to be like I don't want to be 373 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 2: in your photo. You like taking a photo of you? True. 374 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 1: You always see those videos on TikTok of yeah, like 375 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 1: a Karen coming up and being like I'm not in 376 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 1: that video, am I? 377 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 2: And a person's like no, and they're like delete it, 378 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 2: delete it now, blah blah, deleted. 379 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 1: And have you seen Dave Portno, he does the pizza 380 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 1: tasting yea he I've seen videos of him getting in 381 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 1: like yelling. 382 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 2: Fights of pizza. It's crazy. And then he goes you 383 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 2: know what zero and then that business will literally go 384 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 2: out of business because of David. I feel like the 385 00:16:57,360 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 2: good thing about Australia is were so lax and relaxed 386 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 2: that majority of the time no one's going to care. 387 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 2: But a point America, especially New York, they're like more 388 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 2: entitled a little bit. I feel like it must be. 389 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 2: I wonder what it is Likelia's relaxed. 390 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:17,639 Speaker 1: Canada was like, Canada's like Australia, They're pretty I would say. 391 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 1: One thing I noticed is we went to a grocery shop. 392 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:25,680 Speaker 1: I was with my mum, and the lady serving us 393 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:27,920 Speaker 1: at the counter got a phone call and she said, 394 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry I have to take this, and my 395 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 1: mom didn't reply, and in my head I was like, 396 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 1: just tell her it's okay. 397 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 2: Yeah she said, she was like, I'm so sorry I 398 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 2: had to take this. 399 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:36,919 Speaker 1: And then she she hung up and she went on 400 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 1: to be like I'm like, I'm not even kidding. 401 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 2: She was like, I'm so so sorry. 402 00:17:39,400 --> 00:17:40,919 Speaker 1: Like just there was a guy he's waiting for a 403 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 1: curbs I pick up and I had to steer him 404 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 1: in the right direction and my mom. 405 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 2: Still didn't reply, and I was like, this is so awkward. 406 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:50,199 Speaker 2: This poor girl's like apologize. She feels so bad. And 407 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 2: then we got out there and I was like, Mum, 408 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 2: you could have at least said it's okay. And she 409 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 2: was like what And I was like, what do you mean? 410 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,880 Speaker 2: You were fucking so rudeous. Then she's just like give 411 00:17:57,920 --> 00:18:00,840 Speaker 2: me in my fucking smood. Next man, no special were 412 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 2: Maybe that's what it is. You didn't even realize you 413 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 2: should be serving me. I'm the one in front of 414 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:09,159 Speaker 2: you right now. Literally, where are they okay? Things that 415 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 2: feel I legal? 416 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 1: But aren't leaving clothes in a change room at the shops? 417 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:16,159 Speaker 2: What do you mean? I mean? Or when you like 418 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 2: a General pants try prevans on you like, I don't 419 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:21,680 Speaker 2: like these? Leave me the chain that's my I don't 420 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 2: feel I feel fine that wrote this down. I mean, 421 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 2: I'll say it, but I don't give a fine. Isn't 422 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 2: that where you meant to leave it? Because I'm like 423 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 2: wrinkled them. 424 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 1: And ship That's what I thought, Like I worked at 425 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 1: a at a retail store and I never cared when 426 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 1: someone did it. 427 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:36,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I'd thought like I tried it on and 428 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:38,359 Speaker 2: then like I've fucked up. I don't know how to 429 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:41,439 Speaker 2: hang up pants, especially that's it's like a system unknown 430 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 2: to me folding anything properly. 431 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:46,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, like packing my bag to go to Canada. I 432 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:47,639 Speaker 1: was trying to think of waste of like how do 433 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 1: I fold this button up shirt that I'm going to 434 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:51,880 Speaker 1: wear on my brother's graduation without fucking it up? 435 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 2: Without needing to iron it? When you applied, you used 436 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 2: to work at General pants. Then Universal Universal at the 437 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 2: job interview, did they have like heaps of clothes and 438 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:04,159 Speaker 2: you had like a folding test? No? Really, no, no 439 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 2: what they do so they go into a blind thinking 440 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 2: you know how to fold? They do. I had to 441 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 2: be tought out of I remember being torn out of 442 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 2: fold not for gold. 443 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 1: But I remember going to the Universal. It's a group interview. 444 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:21,200 Speaker 2: I remember going and I hate that it was gives 445 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 2: me dude, it was the biggest egg and I think 446 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 2: I must have went in there and I was like, 447 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 2: I'm just gonna fucking not care what anyone thinks. And 448 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:30,679 Speaker 2: then I mean I got it. 449 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:33,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right this one. I actually things that feel 450 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:36,679 Speaker 1: I llegal, but aren't. Deciding you don't want something in 451 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:39,160 Speaker 1: the grocery store and just leaving it in a random spot. 452 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 2: That does feel illegal. That is so, especially when it's 453 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 2: a cold item. That's so you don't do it. I 454 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 2: gotta go. But I see them, that's I've seen cold. 455 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:50,480 Speaker 2: I've seen like a pack of frozen chips in like 456 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 2: the snack Alan. I'm like, who did this? This is 457 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:54,919 Speaker 2: that's going away? They may all give them to you 458 00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 2: for free now. And I know what I always do 459 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:58,120 Speaker 2: when I'm with someone in the store. 460 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 1: It's quite often Beth, obviously, and it never fails to 461 00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:04,159 Speaker 1: get a little chuckle. Is when you go somewhere and 462 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 1: you're in like maybe a healthy part and you see 463 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:09,120 Speaker 1: someone's put a bag of lollies for a protein by, 464 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:10,560 Speaker 1: like someone made a choice here. 465 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:14,360 Speaker 2: Always gets a lot, always gets a lot. I sometimes 466 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,719 Speaker 2: feel so guilty that, like, if I see the product 467 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 2: after I've already put it in my basket, I can't 468 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 2: be bothered to go back. I'll just get both. Yeah, true, 469 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 2: it's like eat it. Yeah, yeah, he'll get eating a bally. 470 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:27,440 Speaker 2: Oh that's all mine. I had one that I wanted 471 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 2: to go off it. I think tops all of yours. Really, 472 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:33,840 Speaker 2: this is the most feels like the most illegal thing 473 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 2: in the world, but isn't okay. So I was at 474 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:37,919 Speaker 2: the gym the other day and you know, me like 475 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:41,120 Speaker 2: to keep hydrate at the gym, So mid gym workout, 476 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:43,439 Speaker 2: I like to take a go take a piss, and 477 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 2: in the piss is a sauna. Normally someone in there. 478 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:48,439 Speaker 2: Don't think anything of it, right, go in there and 479 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 2: I just see a glimpse of this guy sitting in 480 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:57,439 Speaker 2: the sauna, fully clothed shoes, socks, pants, T shirt, and 481 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 2: I walked down. I was like, that is so fucking 482 00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,959 Speaker 2: should put a sign on their Yeah, and I was like, 483 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:07,159 Speaker 2: what the hell did you get a photo? Obviously not 484 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:10,879 Speaker 2: that ruined my workout, I was thinking to myself. I 485 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 2: just walked out literally still thought Jake came up with 486 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:14,359 Speaker 2: this idea, but I full had this one. I was like, 487 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:19,560 Speaker 2: that's so illegal. Put a sign on here. I would 488 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 2: have ruled my workout. And I also wouldn't have select that. 489 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:24,560 Speaker 2: I was like, what and you know what? It was? 490 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:28,879 Speaker 2: A boomer? Was it? Yeah? It was clothes. I was like, 491 00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 2: maybe the first time he's in a sauna, but surely 492 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 2: you know, like you start sweating and like your shoes 493 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:38,479 Speaker 2: were just going to be dripping. Oh that's that's I 494 00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 2: can't imagine anything more uncomfortable. I get uncomfortable in a 495 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 2: sauna wearing just bodies or just undies. Yeah, it's wild. 496 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:50,400 Speaker 2: That's another thing that boomers do. Saunas didn't exist obviously, 497 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:57,879 Speaker 2: Sorry guys boomers. Bro I mean my grandparents and boomers, 498 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:02,280 Speaker 2: but boom, what do Z? Where Z where? Like? 499 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:05,120 Speaker 1: I've got a hope Joanna's gen z. She's like as 500 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,119 Speaker 1: early gen Z as you can get. And then my 501 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 1: younger brother, he's he's fourteen, he's about as I think 502 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 1: he's about a late gens are. 503 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:14,200 Speaker 2: They're still z yeah, and they with us were doomed, 504 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:15,879 Speaker 2: were doomed. 505 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:19,159 Speaker 1: And then but the one after that, I have a 506 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 1: feeling it's called like Jen alpha. 507 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:24,520 Speaker 2: That's just beta if you like Jen a point two, 508 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 2: let's just call it nothing like Okay, there's boomers. And 509 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 2: then gen X went, then millennial, then gen Z. Like what, 510 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:38,080 Speaker 2: I'm confused, where's the theme going? I don't understand now 511 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:42,240 Speaker 2: alpha and Jen alpha alpha beta, bet you it's beta. 512 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,679 Speaker 2: I'm not even he probably is wild fucking ridiculous. 513 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna switch this up. I'm gonna go like 514 00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:58,960 Speaker 1: left turn from the theme of the current episode. And 515 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 1: the other day, so I wanted to bring this up. 516 00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: So the other day I was drive, I was in 517 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:08,640 Speaker 1: the cold Beth and I randomly I don't know why, 518 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 1: I don't. I can't even believe. I asked her. I 519 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 1: was like, I just said to her. I was like, 520 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 1: do I ever seem sad to you? And she was like, oh, 521 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 1: what do you mean? I was like, do I ever 522 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 1: just seem sad and she said no, not really, And 523 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:23,959 Speaker 1: then I said, oh, because I feel like I don't 524 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:29,959 Speaker 1: really get sad like I do. And her and and 525 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:33,119 Speaker 1: she's she said a situation. She was like situation And 526 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 1: she's like, were you sad then? And I was like 527 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 1: it was obviously a sad situation. I was like, oh, 528 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,280 Speaker 1: yeah I was then, and she was like, yeah, what 529 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 1: makes sense, Like people just react differently to certain things. 530 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:46,119 Speaker 1: And so then I think the other day, you know, 531 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 1: champagne problem, you and I were just like talking about 532 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,399 Speaker 1: stuff with the potty blah blah blah, and we like 533 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 1: kind of stressed ourselves out a bit. And I kind 534 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:57,119 Speaker 1: of feel like because Beth was saying, like, some people 535 00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:58,120 Speaker 1: get anxious and. 536 00:23:58,040 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 2: They cry and they get sad. That's how they deal 537 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 2: with it. 538 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 1: And she's like, when you get anxious, you turn to like, ah, oh, 539 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,120 Speaker 1: let's fix it, because I sti't sick of feeling anxious. 540 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:10,720 Speaker 1: Logic yeah, And I was, yeah, that's fair enough. Like 541 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 1: she goes like, you get frustrated. She said she noticed 542 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 1: it when I'm anxious, I get frustrated or nervous or 543 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:17,360 Speaker 1: something like that. So I was thinking, I honestly think 544 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 1: I would. 545 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:21,399 Speaker 2: Really I wish I could just cry. Oh okay, you 546 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:23,159 Speaker 2: know what I mean. I understand that I wish I 547 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:24,720 Speaker 2: could just get I don't want to. 548 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:26,920 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be mean to anyone, no girls 549 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,439 Speaker 1: or emotional people or anything like that. And I'm not 550 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 1: trying to say I don't get sad. But sometimes I 551 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:36,200 Speaker 1: wish when I'm feeling a little worked up, I could 552 00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 1: just walk away cry and then kind of come back 553 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,439 Speaker 1: because from the there is times where it's where I've 554 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: had times where I am so waked up that I 555 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 1: cry and it. 556 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:49,080 Speaker 2: Helps so I can't but I physically say, you don't 557 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:51,399 Speaker 2: like your body's coving mechanism and being sad. No, I 558 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,320 Speaker 2: feel like I'm not a fan of the how I 559 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 2: cope to being anxious and how I cope to being Yeah, 560 00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:59,680 Speaker 2: Like that's a very male thing. I also don't know 561 00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:02,080 Speaker 2: if you most of the time cry and then you 562 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 2: immediately feel better after. Yeah, But for some reason, to me, 563 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 2: it's like a quick like you feel kind of relieved 564 00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,680 Speaker 2: for a second. Well, it's being in touch with your emotions. 565 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:12,000 Speaker 2: And I feel like I don't let emotions out because 566 00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,920 Speaker 2: my girlfriend, she's very in touch of emotions and little things, 567 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 2: not little. I don't want to say little or not 568 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:18,560 Speaker 2: make them seem like they're not important to her. But 569 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:20,960 Speaker 2: some children cry out of like if her friend does 570 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:21,679 Speaker 2: something to her. 571 00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,880 Speaker 1: Well, things that are little to you and I yes, 572 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 1: are a thing that would make her cry, same as 573 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,960 Speaker 1: like my sister or same as my girlfriend. Like things 574 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:31,680 Speaker 1: that are little to you and I we think, oh 575 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 1: that wouldn't like why are you yes? 576 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 2: And at works I could, Yeah, you know, I am 577 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 2: pious because I'm like, it's quite beautiful how in touch 578 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 2: she is with her emotions and how like she can 579 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:44,359 Speaker 2: articulate what's going on in her body and it makes 580 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 2: her feel this way. She cries and she's like, oh 581 00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,120 Speaker 2: really that made me really sad. She cries, and we're 582 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 2: going to say when we say, oh that made me 583 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:52,159 Speaker 2: really sad, were like frustrated or I don't even know 584 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 2: how to deal with it. I feel like I feel 585 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:54,639 Speaker 2: like something's wrong with me. 586 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like when I left Canada, I was giving my 587 00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:00,639 Speaker 1: mam a hug and she started crying and I was like, oh, 588 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 1: I kind of I could cry now because like her 589 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 1: crying seeming like I don't even want her to cry. 590 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,880 Speaker 2: How do you get in touch with emotions? Is it? Dude? 591 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 2: I don't like, why are girls better at it? Like 592 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 2: is it a biological thing? Or is it just like 593 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,159 Speaker 2: the massive be hormones? But is it? Or is it 594 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 2: because we're brought up in They're brought up in the 595 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,120 Speaker 2: environment where their parents say, or their mum especially says 596 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,040 Speaker 2: it's okay to let it out and cry, whereas like 597 00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 2: when we cry, we always like just like, come on, 598 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,920 Speaker 2: you don't need to cry. Come on, this wasn't that bad. 599 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I know what you mean, Like societal norms 600 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,679 Speaker 1: from being when we were brought up would definitely I 601 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:34,159 Speaker 1: guess steer you in the direction we end up in 602 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,520 Speaker 1: because I guess because it's every guy's pretty much the 603 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 1: same as us some guys. 604 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I think we're a bit better than majority 605 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,560 Speaker 2: of males as well, Like we're able to articulate how 606 00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,200 Speaker 2: we feel. At least a lot of men can't even 607 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 2: tell you that they're sad. 608 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:49,440 Speaker 1: I think, like, you're right, I think we are better 609 00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,919 Speaker 1: than some, but I still struggle to articulate how I feel, 610 00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:56,639 Speaker 1: mainly because I feel like sometimes if I'm feeling like 611 00:26:56,760 --> 00:27:00,679 Speaker 1: big emotions, sadness, frustration, blah, blah blah. The thing that 612 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 1: I'm thinking in my head that I want to say 613 00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 1: is not the right thing to say because I'm not 614 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 1: thinking straight. 615 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,160 Speaker 2: So I feel like I'm not thinking straight when I'm 616 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,640 Speaker 2: sad or anxious or something like that. So if someone 617 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:14,159 Speaker 2: asks me what's wrong and someone is annoying me, I 618 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,719 Speaker 2: don't want to be like, oh, you're annoying me, because 619 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,320 Speaker 2: what if they actually aren't and I'm just not thinking straight. Well, 620 00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:20,919 Speaker 2: I have to tell you. That's one thing that's kind 621 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,679 Speaker 2: of works for me, and I think it works for 622 00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:24,960 Speaker 2: a lot of people is when you articulate with your 623 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,760 Speaker 2: mouth when you're in like these states of frustration or sad. 624 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:30,120 Speaker 2: It's really hard to get out what you're thinking. Yeah, 625 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 2: and because emotion takes over and you say something you 626 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,440 Speaker 2: don't really mean. But the easiest way to like actually 627 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:38,800 Speaker 2: do it is write it down how you're feeling, because 628 00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:40,960 Speaker 2: once the time it takes you to write it out, 629 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,119 Speaker 2: it actually gives you time to think about it, and 630 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 2: you don't just spit something out. Because I'm one hundred 631 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:46,880 Speaker 2: percent guilty when I'm like sad or frustrated or angry, 632 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,560 Speaker 2: I'll say something not in the way my brain was 633 00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:51,360 Speaker 2: thinking it, and I kind of sometimes I can't even 634 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,720 Speaker 2: put the words how my brain's thinking things. My brain's 635 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 2: thinking so quickly and my word can't my mouth can't 636 00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:57,640 Speaker 2: keep up. So if I write it down and think 637 00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 2: about it, it's like so much better. 638 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 1: I definitely I find I need to try that because 639 00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 1: I find in the past, having like a little love 640 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:07,879 Speaker 1: tip with a girlfriend or something like that, I get. 641 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:11,119 Speaker 1: I try really with Beth. I've been really trying to. 642 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 1: I don't use the words you like, well you did this, 643 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 1: blah blah blah, and but I do find that I 644 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,520 Speaker 1: bite my tongue a lot because in the past, when 645 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:23,000 Speaker 1: I have like big emotions, I'll say something and it's 646 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,359 Speaker 1: not what I meant, but now I've said it, so 647 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,680 Speaker 1: it seems like I meant that, and so then I'm 648 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:29,119 Speaker 1: kind of like, fuck, where do I go from here? 649 00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:30,640 Speaker 1: And now I have to apologize because I did say 650 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:32,159 Speaker 1: something really mean, but I really didn't mean it, and 651 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:33,719 Speaker 1: I can't just be like, oh, well, I can tell 652 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,239 Speaker 1: her I didn't mean that. It came out wrong, but 653 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 1: fuck I said it like fucking weird. 654 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 2: Oh it's it's wild trying to figure out I don't 655 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 2: know why your body doesn't process things, and then when 656 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:45,200 Speaker 2: it does, you just spit some a mount and hurts 657 00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:45,840 Speaker 2: the other person. 658 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, my mom, so my stepdad, he's sixty two, he's 659 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:54,040 Speaker 1: a bit of an old fellow. And then my mom's dad, 660 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:59,160 Speaker 1: he's his eighties. But she was saying that they are 661 00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 1: emotional now, so maybe and she thinks it might have 662 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 1: come with age, because obviously they have like probably fuck 663 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:09,280 Speaker 1: all testosterone now. So I was wondering if if guys 664 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 1: just have to wait for age, because I think guys 665 00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:15,440 Speaker 1: produce estrogen obviously, but not much, but then we kind 666 00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,760 Speaker 1: of lose a lot of testosterone, but maybe keep the. 667 00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 2: Estrogen or something. 668 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 1: So that could be something to do with like being 669 00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 1: in touch with emotions and shit. 670 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 2: A testosterone takes over a little bit. I haven't noticed 671 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,360 Speaker 2: my dad here, like my biological data. He's fifty some. 672 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 2: I can't say I've seen him emotional at all. Though 673 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:34,120 Speaker 2: later there probably actually is theory behind that, because my 674 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 2: dad has cancer and he had to do chemotherapy and 675 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 2: it sucks all you up, your testosterone and everything like that. Yeah, 676 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 2: and although it's a very traumatic time and you could 677 00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:44,880 Speaker 2: understand if he was crying, I think he's also been 678 00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 2: a lot more emotional. Does he just because of what's 679 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 2: going on? Obviously, but I think just he's not got 680 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 2: his mailing self in his back pocket like he usually would. Yeah, 681 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:58,360 Speaker 2: well he probably Maybe it's hard to say because what's 682 00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,760 Speaker 2: going on is so traumatic, but it's also like I 683 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 2: can see a slight demeanor change in him that he's 684 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 2: more in touch with his emotions because I think it 685 00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 2: Tesla Shone's been stripped away from him a little bit probably, man, Yeah, 686 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,000 Speaker 2: is he more heartfelt? Yeah? I think so. You can 687 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 2: see you can see he's like things like are a 688 00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,840 Speaker 2: little bit more meaningful to him. Yeah, Like she's just 689 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:19,920 Speaker 2: like he takes his time a little bit more, like 690 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:21,880 Speaker 2: like try to appreciate little things a little bit more. 691 00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 2: How is he? Oh he's good. Now he's in remission. Yeah, 692 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,640 Speaker 2: so like he's on the way up and like that. 693 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 2: But it's I don't know, cancer's cancer. It always eventually 694 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 2: comes back. Cancers fucked. 695 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 1: I mean everyone probably has it in their body and 696 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 1: just like it doesn't come out. Eh yeah yeah luckily 697 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 1: unluckily Sorry for your dad just did. 698 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 2: But yeah, that was Yeah, I think that's relatable, especially 699 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 2: for I wish it's a male listeners. I made that 700 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:45,960 Speaker 2: video the other day yesterday about it. 701 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:47,920 Speaker 1: But oh yeah, I want to say something about that, 702 00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 1: so to interrupt you. But even that, like I feel 703 00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:52,680 Speaker 1: like I kind of wish I could cry from happiness 704 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:53,680 Speaker 1: for that, you know what I mean? 705 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:55,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I can't. I watched it and I showed 706 00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 2: Beth and I was like, this is so nice. So 707 00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 2: this is awesome, and she's like, oh, that's so she 708 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,600 Speaker 2: would she watched it and she was like she's like, 709 00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:03,440 Speaker 2: that's actually my favorite one and I was like, yeah, 710 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,680 Speaker 2: it's good. And then but all I can say is 711 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,360 Speaker 2: like appreciate it, like I love it too, and it 712 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:10,400 Speaker 2: is that I love you, Yeah I did, But like 713 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 2: and like, I think even that's a step in the 714 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 2: right direction, being able to say it, but I think 715 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,120 Speaker 2: it's I don't know, being able to get emotional about it. 716 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,920 Speaker 2: I feel like I really context I gave. I made 717 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 2: a video for Jake and I two years journey was 718 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 2: just came up about. But you know, I wouldn't be 719 00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:26,880 Speaker 2: able to say any of those things or not like 720 00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:29,520 Speaker 2: to the extent that I did if I was facing nah, 721 00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:31,880 Speaker 2: like right now, if I could say that and articulated 722 00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:33,240 Speaker 2: the way I did because I had time to sit down, 723 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,760 Speaker 2: I type that out and then I said it. But also, 724 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 2: you wouldn't even let's say you wanted to say that 725 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,840 Speaker 2: to me, you wouldn't. And I'm not saying that you're 726 00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:42,320 Speaker 2: not a heartfelt because of it, but I'm like, I 727 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 2: know I wouldn't do it, Like neither one of us 728 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:47,600 Speaker 2: would ever write something like that like that down and 729 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,320 Speaker 2: then just come read it to our face. Like for 730 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:50,959 Speaker 2: some reason. 731 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 1: To me, it's just it means just as much for 732 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 1: you to post it then it would for you to 733 00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 1: come say to my face. If you said to my face, 734 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 1: I'd be like I probably struggled or like hold straight face. Well, 735 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,640 Speaker 1: the good thing about this, this potty in a way, 736 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:10,360 Speaker 1: has made me think about thoughts and ideas and emotions 737 00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:12,400 Speaker 1: in a whole different way because you have to write 738 00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 1: it down. I never did that prior to the podcast, 739 00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 1: and it's like sort of become a healthy little outlet 740 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,240 Speaker 1: and giving me a voice beyond words, I guess, no, 741 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,080 Speaker 1: a voice be on my own voice in words. 742 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,440 Speaker 2: Yeah that makes sense. Yeah, which is funny. I think 743 00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:28,400 Speaker 2: that's a useful tip, especially for men. But yeah, and 744 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 2: like I was saying, I wish that off that video 745 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:34,080 Speaker 2: though a lot of We've got a few comments saying 746 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 2: like I've got a girl, A lot of girls were 747 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:36,800 Speaker 2: going through tough times with boys in their life, and 748 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 2: you may me realize that there's nice guys out there 749 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:40,360 Speaker 2: who can talk about their feelings and stuff like that. 750 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 2: But I also wish like there was more men in 751 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 2: the here who knew it was normal for us to 752 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 2: have these thoughts. The thing about us is we're in 753 00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 2: a healthy relationship where if you come if you come 754 00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:52,479 Speaker 2: to me and say like you don't know how to 755 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,880 Speaker 2: cry and feel sad, like I'm here to like be like, 756 00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 2: oh yeah, how do we get through this? I'm supportive 757 00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 2: in a way, like we talk about it normal. There's 758 00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:03,040 Speaker 2: a lot of friend male friend groups, Like some guys 759 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,959 Speaker 2: wouldn't thinking that there'll be a nightmare to goes to 760 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:06,680 Speaker 2: some of their friends. 761 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,200 Speaker 1: But like they wouldn't even think to bring it up. Yeah, 762 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 1: we have friends that I would never bring anything up them. 763 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah exactly, And it's just like being 764 00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:14,720 Speaker 2: in that supported network. So I was like, I was 765 00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 2: just like I was thinking back an, I did wish 766 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:18,240 Speaker 2: a few more guys like we should think of a 767 00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:20,200 Speaker 2: way to target the male audience a little bit more, 768 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 2: because I think it would be beneficial for them to 769 00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:24,440 Speaker 2: know that it's okay to be sad and talk about 770 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 2: your feelings and like even you then you wouldn't have 771 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:28,680 Speaker 2: known where that conversation was going. You would just like 772 00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:30,080 Speaker 2: to say that, Yeah, I just wanted to bring up 773 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:31,680 Speaker 2: I was like you just wish I could cry? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 774 00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 2: yeah exactly, but also wanted to know, like we're in 775 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,320 Speaker 2: a very weird stage with the potty because we wanted 776 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 2: to be a very good listen And you probably notice 777 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 2: the thirty minute shift and it's sort of like, do 778 00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 2: you like the more talkative based like this where we 779 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:45,600 Speaker 2: don't really know where we're going on a little bit 780 00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:47,680 Speaker 2: of a tangent left right left right, who knows where 781 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,640 Speaker 2: we're going to turn? Or do you like the more structured, 782 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:51,960 Speaker 2: like you know what you're going to get, like send 783 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 2: us a message. We really we like doing what we 784 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 2: want to podcasts with the people. Yeah, yeah exactly, so 785 00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:00,760 Speaker 2: to enjoy it. This one was a bit more conversations 786 00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:02,840 Speaker 2: and we like doing but yeah, definitely, I mean, I 787 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:04,960 Speaker 2: guess the beauty of two episodes is one can be 788 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 2: it can be one, one can be the other. Yeah, 789 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 2: exactly tell you what if you like the other, go 790 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,799 Speaker 2: on Patreon, well this one you man, if you like 791 00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:16,759 Speaker 2: this one, Patreon's like, this one's there and Jack's there, 792 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,319 Speaker 2: Uncle Jack. Yeah, who was on camera for the first 793 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 2: time that see if he looks all right, I want 794 00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:31,720 Speaker 2: to go first. Then you do your best one, Jake, Okay, 795 00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:34,200 Speaker 2: what are you doing? Guess where If you fake cry, 796 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:37,520 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna do it. That's the opposite of what 797 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:45,200 Speaker 2: I was going. Okay, okay, you gotta give it that 798 00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:51,360 Speaker 2: thing I forgot the Thanks everybody for tuning in once again. 799 00:34:51,920 --> 00:35:06,040 Speaker 2: We love you all, love you, bye bye.