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Speaker 2: Oh, welcome to the podcast. It's an absolute honor.

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Speaker 3: Have you tuning in?

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Speaker 2: This is an interesting one. I know we've all dealt

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Speaker 2: with the frustration of a call center. I'm always trying

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Speaker 1: What do you think?

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Speaker 2: Well, sometimes it sounds like it could be someone who

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Speaker 4: Have you ever rang a call center? What's that look like?

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Speaker 4: And you speak to someone who's really cool on the

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Speaker 4: other line, Hey, what's going on?

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Speaker 5: Man?

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Speaker 4: What's your problem?

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Speaker 1: There's only one of me. I wouldn't get to all

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Speaker 1: the core.

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Speaker 4: I love so much.

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Speaker 1: It's really good.

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Speaker 2: Got a great story around call story?

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Speaker 1: You've got a story.

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Speaker 2: Got an awesome story. You know what I mess that

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Speaker 2: you're hearing on the podcast.

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Speaker 3: This Cape podcast.

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking twice about now talking about this space.

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Speaker 4: House in your house?

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Speaker 1: Well, that's if you've been looking at our socials, you

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Speaker 1: would have seen that. Over the course of this week,

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Speaker 1: Lovely Shay has put together the trend of Hey mom,

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Speaker 1: what were you like in the nineties? Or hey Dad,

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Speaker 1: what were you like? In fact, I put it one

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Speaker 1: and up the other day, the home and away early years.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you follow them. They also had

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Speaker 1: what was home and away like in the nineties, And

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Speaker 1: oh my goodness, it took my breath away the way

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Speaker 1: the teenagers spoke to everybody, or not even mole wasn't.

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Speaker 2: The worst B word the female door.

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Speaker 1: S word, not the S word I won't ever say,

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Speaker 1: but the other s words anyway, So that you can

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Speaker 1: have a look at ours. Part of the process, of course,

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Speaker 1: was bringing in photos from the nineties. And I didn't

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Speaker 1: want Shay to use all of the photos that are

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Speaker 1: only be home and away picks. Thought, I'll bring in

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Speaker 1: some of my own. I know this is going to

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Speaker 1: come as a surprise to you, but I have about

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Speaker 1: seventy three boxes of photos loose photos of yourself, no,

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Speaker 1: of my life, of my life that isn't necessarily home

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Speaker 1: and away. I've got shoe boxes, I've got plastic boxes,

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Speaker 1: and I even have big thick photo albums where I've

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Speaker 2: So much well, that's what you did many horders file things.

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Speaker 2: You're a filing hoarder. Yeah, it sounded wrong to say.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it took a lot of dedication and it

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Speaker 1: is what you'd love to see. Well, I did come

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Speaker 1: across something, you find. I knew that they were shocking

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Speaker 1: flicking through my photo album, the photos were turned around.

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Speaker 1: And it's a very sad story. And I don't know

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Speaker 1: you know, I've come a long way with loving myself.

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Speaker 2: And they were the darkiers?

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Speaker 6: Were they?

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Speaker 4: It? Was it a bikini sheet? Can I be honest?

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Speaker 4: Is it something like that that you felt uncomfortable doing

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Speaker 1: Why would I feel uncomfortable having photos of myself in.

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Speaker 4: The way?

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Speaker 1: You said?

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Speaker 4: No, Nah, you have your You voiced your concerns back

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Speaker 4: in those days about what when when you were asked

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Speaker 1: If I can jump, why would I not be happy

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Speaker 2: Back, returned to help you out because I think what

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Speaker 2: Fitzi's referring to, as you've openly said before on the show,

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Speaker 2: that you never did one swimwear scene on Home and Away. Now,

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Speaker 2: that's twenty years of TV show based around a beach

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Speaker 1: I think maybe there was one day and then it

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Speaker 1: debutante are you formal?

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Speaker 4: Awesome? So how old were you at the time.

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Speaker 1: You're in year ten when you do your deb and

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Speaker 1: that glorious period where I'd been to Lema and had

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Speaker 1: it's not the mullet that I'm most concerned about. And

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying that I don't love her.

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Speaker 2: And who did you take to your formal or promo?

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Speaker 1: Some poor bloke called Ian car He is in some

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Speaker 1: poor bloke good James, And I've never seen a boy

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Speaker 2: We need to see the photos.

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Speaker 4: Look, we are going a long time. Can we come

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Speaker 4: back and talk about this more. There's so many questions

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Speaker 4: that we have for you from your deb photos before

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Speaker 4: we release the fire.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know, but that's the whole thing. I

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Speaker 2: Because a whole lot more questions. So go to your house,

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Speaker 2: go out and get the photos and bring them back.

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Speaker 1: You can't go into my house unannounced. You have to

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Speaker 1: call Gary. Get out Hay podcast.

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Speaker 4: I wanted to talk about Nuns. This is one of

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Speaker 4: the greatest movies of all time, sound of music. My

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Speaker 1: I could only watch it until they went to war.

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Speaker 2: Anyone been there where Austria where they filmed it?

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Speaker 1: No, have you?

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Speaker 4: Nope, I thought you were going to.

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Speaker 2: No, but we had we had one of the guys

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he played one of the von I know who

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Speaker 1: We weren't in the same scenes. But were you.

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Speaker 2: To share credit in the sound of music.

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Speaker 1: If I'd been born fifty years earlier?

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Speaker 4: He could. It was a sad sort of clanging from

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Speaker 1: Dear I want.

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Speaker 4: I'm fascinated by the life of a nun and dedicating

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Speaker 4: yourself to the Lord, and look it is. It's a

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Speaker 4: It's a life that you just have to be ready

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Speaker 4: for and you can't do anything wrong. So over in

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Speaker 4: Miami in the US, there's been a dispensary shop that's

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Speaker 4: But there's been a clip from a helicopter of the

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Speaker 4: so they're all getting arrested. The thing is, though, Kate

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Speaker 4: What she's in handcuffs as well, So we don't know

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Speaker 2: The law is angry, the Lord's not so so.

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Speaker 4: I just I'm fascinated by this because I mean, do

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Speaker 4: people become do women become nuns? Knowing that I can

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Speaker 4: Okay, one word. I haven't listened to Sister Mary Margaret.

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Speaker 4: This was over in the US. This was a news

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Speaker 7: Sister Mary Margaret Crooper is a Catholic nun who was

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Speaker 7: federal prison. Prosecutor say, the eighty year old nun embezzled

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Speaker 7: James Catholic School in Torrance, California. And what is a

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Speaker 7: Sister Mary's plea agreements, I'd.

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Speaker 2: Say she's got a bad habit.

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Speaker 4: At. Her name is sister Mary Margaret Croupia.

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Speaker 3: It is.

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Speaker 4: Out of it again.

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Speaker 8: Mary Margaret Cooper is.

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Speaker 2: Close enough for the story.

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Speaker 3: This is a Fitzy with Friends podcast.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever had somebody come and stay and they

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Speaker 1: just won't go home?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, family members, mate, they're what are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: May she's eleven and she's she plans on staying. About

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Speaker 1: I know. I brought her home from the hospital in

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Speaker 1: twenty fourteen and she is still there.

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Speaker 2: Can't flicker.

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Speaker 1: This is a very funny story because I thought this

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Speaker 1: a very funny story coming out of Florida and a

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Speaker 1: hospital is seeking a court order to remove the former

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Speaker 1: patient who is who? They say, is you know, taking

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Speaker 1: up valuable time and resources because they've come in to

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Speaker 1: They were discharged on October six of last year, and

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Speaker 4: I couldn't think of anything worse horrible food.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but maybe if you have a better alternative outside

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Speaker 1: the hospital, then you're keen to go home. But some

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Speaker 1: people may not clean. A shower and toilets and food

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Speaker 1: being brought to you might be better than what you're

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Speaker 1: getting at home. If you have a home, else.

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Speaker 2: You get that prison. You know where you hear people

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Speaker 2: and they come out of prison commit another crime to

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Speaker 1: It's not for the bed.

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Speaker 4: Was not for Brooks. He was institutionalized.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 4: He didn't want to leave as such a sorry be

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Speaker 1: I think if this show ever falls, you.

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Speaker 2: Go to jail.

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Speaker 2: Don't see me in a way? RM, please please, I

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Speaker 3: This is a fitz Whipper podcast.

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Speaker 2: You need to call somewhere, right if it's a call center,

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Speaker 2: let's say it's a tell co that you need to

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Speaker 2: get onto. Maybe it's an electricity or a gas company,

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Speaker 2: and you've got to make those annoying phone calls where

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Speaker 2: a good half hour before I get through to whoever

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Speaker 2: It sounds human, amazing, It sounds talk but just not

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Speaker 1: Didn't know what that was like? You're right?

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Speaker 4: Fits like you're tonight? How many people know this? But

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Speaker 2: Sure that's not just stop.

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Speaker 1: They're quite ferocious? They yeah, they are if you get

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Speaker 1: You need a hobby?

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Speaker 4: Where you go again?

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Speaker 2: We're live at the moment.

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Speaker 4: Can we go one more? Bring any This is the

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Speaker 2: Hey, dad, how was your day? What did you get

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Speaker 5: Podcast Attentional Passengers, Line the Gap.

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Speaker 1: Oh, we love this. It's time for another round of

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Speaker 1: our game Mind the Gap. I actually thinking. I think

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Speaker 2: A little bit of thinking.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll get your thinking caps on. We're going

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Speaker 8: Here we go three two one glasses.

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Speaker 1: Okay, says Collingwood. Holly, Hollywood, Hollywood and whip glasses.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hen's what kind of glasses you're thinking about. You've

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Speaker 4: That was actually really I don't know why I said, Clooney,

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Speaker 1: That's okay, we have he does drink out of a

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Speaker 8: Now, three two one a mile.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even hear what fits? He said, what did

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Speaker 4: Vogue?

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Speaker 1: And you said a mark.

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Speaker 2: A mile fashion and George clue, okay, I stepped in,

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Speaker 1: We're going to move on. I'm going to take you

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Speaker 1: on fits. Is that alright?

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Speaker 4: Let's do it.

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Speaker 1: Here's a countdown, three two one one.

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Speaker 6: War.

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Speaker 2: You're a long way about lip balm and war.

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Speaker 1: I've got no idea find a link between lip balm

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Speaker 2: I think there's a link.

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Speaker 4: Okay, no idea, lip balm and war.

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Speaker 4: Nah, Okay, it's we're going to be no.

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Speaker 8: One, poor, poorist.

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Speaker 2: He's going to have to say it to one.

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Speaker 5: Lips a.

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Speaker 5: Them three two one paper.

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 1: Well an expensive rolllex is gold went.

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Speaker 2: So we have gold and grand prix.

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Speaker 1: What grand prix and goals? Okay?

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Speaker 8: Three two one?

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Speaker 2: Threw a tilton don't worry about it. We don't have

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Speaker 3: This is a fitz Whipper and podcast.

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Speaker 4: Can I continue that obstration break that we did from

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Speaker 4: last week the Doctor Give Me the News Love Well funny.

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Speaker 4: You should play that song because this is really interesting.

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Speaker 1: Oh is that ma.

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Speaker 2: He says, there's a lot of women.

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Speaker 2: Don't you have feelings for him?

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Speaker 1: go and you see your baby for the first time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you should look at your husband for the first right.

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Speaker 2: Look what we made obstetrician about this.

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Speaker 1: If you have an obstetrician, there are some partners that

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Speaker 1: don't even go to those appointments.

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Speaker 4: Tell me your wife had a connection with her patrician, didn't.

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Speaker 9: She His name was Stephen, And every time we speak

457
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Speaker 9: about scuba.

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Speaker 1: Does she get all girly and kind.

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Speaker 9: Of giggl yes, and the countdown to the appointments that

460
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Speaker 9: you'd go to like every month or so.

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Speaker 4: She was fizzing.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, she was fizzing at the proverbial. And she was

463
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Speaker 9: almost more excited about seeing the obstetrician than she was

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Speaker 9: about seeing the baby.

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Speaker 4: You can't take that coffee baby, And how long has

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Speaker 4: she been with him?

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Speaker 2: She wants another kid?

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Speaker 4: Tom, Stephanie's given us a call, Steph, is this a

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Speaker 4: real thing amongst women?

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Speaker 6: Well, I personally haven't had a kid, but my best

471
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Speaker 6: friend is pregnant with her first. She seven months pregnant,

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Speaker 6: and all I hear about is her ob Like, I

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Speaker 6: think she's going to have another kid, just so she

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Speaker 6: can say honestly if she doesn't, she's just about going

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Speaker 6: to leave her.

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Speaker 2: Husband for the Oh my god, if you think it starts, Steph,

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Speaker 2: just with the trust, because you're putting your entire being

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Speaker 2: in that person's hands.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, And as Kate said, it's a massive moment

480
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Speaker 6: and you need comfort. And also it's the uniform right.

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Speaker 1: Now, you know you're cheapening that whole seed. I think

482
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Speaker 1: you know what it is it's when you're that heavily pregnant.

483
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Speaker 1: You're seven months pregnant, and your feet hurt, and you've

484
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Speaker 1: got all the pain, and you're growin and all that

485
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Speaker 1: really lovely stuff. You just want to go into a room.

486
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Speaker 1: Somebody offer you to lie down and ask how are you?

487
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Speaker 4: No, you don't though, you don't just breathe calm down.

488
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Speaker 1: You just want us to calm down.

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Speaker 2: A lot of people.

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Speaker 4: The moral of this break is fellas if you love

491
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Speaker 4: your lady, he's becoming obstruction to medical school.

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Speaker 3: This is a Friends Podcast.

493
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Speaker 2: Dating expert explains why it's almost almost always a bad

494
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Speaker 2: idea to get back with your ex. My God, Tommy,

495
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 2: this is bad news for you. The girl that shaved

496
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Speaker 2: her head that you went out. There's no chance you guys,

497
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Speaker 2: are ever going to even if decides to fall in

498
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Speaker 2: love with that account and because she really likes that

499
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Speaker 2: meant she mentioned on the weekend, if she takes off

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Speaker 2: with him because he's got a Porsche, I still don't

501
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Speaker 2: think you'd get back with the girl that shaved her head.

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Speaker 9: Well, and I should preface that she didn't shave her

503
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Speaker 9: head for charity, No, and she didn't give.

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Speaker 4: Me any warnings and she just rocked up out the

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Speaker 4: front of the.

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Speaker 1: Sho did you go out with brittany O?

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Speaker 2: Tommy thought someone had broke it into the apartment. Then

508
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:39,399
Speaker 2: he walked in and there was sort of a girl

509
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Speaker 2: on the couch. Should have shaved her head.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's probably not funny. She was probably having a

511
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Speaker 1: really rough time well dating.

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Speaker 2: Me, no doubt, Tommy, I'm so sorry to hear about that.

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Speaker 1: One tell us about getting back with your ex and

514
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Speaker 1: whether it's a good.

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Speaker 2: Bad there has to be a really substantial change in

516
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Speaker 2: who in both of you, so that the article goes

517
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Speaker 2: on to say it's only human, especially if it was

518
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Speaker 2: a longer relationship, that the comfort of an X makes sense.

519
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 2: And if you're going out and about and you're getting lonely,

520
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Speaker 2: you're thinking about flicking out that text message just to say, hey,

521
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Speaker 2: you haven't forgotten me, have you?

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Speaker 4: It's giving on desperado.

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Speaker 2: Well, they say that it's a bad idea because unless

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Speaker 2: there's major fundamental changes, unless that person has really changed,

525
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Speaker 2: then what's the point.

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Speaker 4: I disagree like yet, that you go through different stages

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Speaker 4: in your life, Kyla l you might not be ready

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Speaker 4: for a relationship. That's the thing at that time that

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Speaker 4: you break up with them, you know what you mature

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Speaker 4: a few years later, you might be ready.

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Speaker 2: Is that the fundamental change?

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Speaker 1: Well, and sometimes people don't. Maybe they didn't break up

533
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Speaker 1: because they're needed to be fundamental change. Maybe they broke

534
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Speaker 1: up because it just wasn't right. Timing is bad can work.

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Speaker 4: So if he's given us a call, have you back

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Speaker 4: with your ex?

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Speaker 5: The story with my ex?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god?

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Speaker 6: Got back together?

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Speaker 9: Too many times?

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Speaker 8: Okay?

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Speaker 1: How many? How many? Look?

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Speaker 3: I got judged for it?

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Speaker 9: Probably out three or four, I think.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I see.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I got I got quite a bit of judgment

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Speaker 8: for it.

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Speaker 1: That's okay. What Yeah, what kept bringing you back? I

549
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: don't know, because it was just we kept thinking it

550
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: was like wrong place, wrong like wrong place on time

551
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Speaker 1: on post wrong time, and just thought, all right, we'll

552
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Speaker 1: come back to it in a couple of months and.

553
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Speaker 2: See how we go.

554
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Speaker 4: But then it just didn't work out each time, and

555
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Speaker 4: now we've like completely broken up.

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Speaker 6: So it's okay.

557
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 2: So, yeah, were you arguming? Did it always end in

558
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Speaker 2: an argument? Was that the issue within the relationship?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, the fagus as well, And we got a bit

560
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Speaker 8: over dramatic about it. I think thinking back at it, and.

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Speaker 1: It was now, yeah, I think you can miss someone,

562
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Speaker 1: you can miss someone, and I mean, what what what

563
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Speaker 1: might happen is that if you've kind of you've missed

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Speaker 1: that person and you want the company, and then as

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Speaker 1: soon as they walk in the door, you just can't

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Speaker 1: stay and them again.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you realize why it feels.

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Speaker 1: The feel exactly makes sense.

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Speaker 2: And so if you were saying off here you never

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Speaker 2: liked his family either.

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Speaker 4: Well, we've got the uncle on now, Uncle Steve.

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Speaker 2: Thanks, So I appreciate the.

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Speaker 3: Call this podcast.

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Speaker 1: I need to talk about Tinder.

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Speaker 2: You're back on.

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Speaker 1: I've never been on.

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Speaker 2: If anybody is wondering, you'll find her on Raya, which

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Speaker 2: is the celebrity?

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Speaker 1: Is that correct?

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Speaker 3: Is it?

581
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Speaker 1: Me and Harry Styles? Apparently I've never even heard it

582
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Speaker 1: put this way that young people don't like putting in

583
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Speaker 1: the hard graft when you're on the hunt for someone.

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Speaker 1: What do mean like a bit of hard work? Okay,

585
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Speaker 1: that's what That's what is typed here. And so Tinder

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Speaker 1: have realized that day procedures have changed, and so they've

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Speaker 1: brought in a few new functions because the people who

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Speaker 1: are now dating right and are very or should be

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Speaker 1: in that age group of being active on Tinder were

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Speaker 1: growing up and had their formative years during COVID, and

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Speaker 1: so they weren't as social generally anyway. Things were really different.

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Speaker 1: So you weren't going out to night clubs and going

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Speaker 1: on dates and things like that for quite, you know,

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Speaker 1: quite a few years. So they're more hesitant.

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Speaker 2: About getting out and about getting.

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Speaker 1: Out and about. But one on.

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Speaker 2: One, okay, they're not comfortable.

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Speaker 1: No, so that the old fashion date one on one

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Speaker 1: putting in the hard yards, isn't They're not quite as

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Speaker 1: keen about that.

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Speaker 4: Sad, isn't it.

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Speaker 1: They would rather just maybe hang out of bed maybe,

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Group of friends and the text.

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Speaker 1: And I think we spoke about it on the show

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Speaker 1: the other day where in the US people are going

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Speaker 1: jelly and wrestling. No, not jelly wrestling, Yes, speed dating,

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Speaker 1: but wrestling wrestling.

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Speaker 4: No, they're not actually competing themselves. They're going to watch

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Speaker 4: it ow.

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Speaker 1: They have. They want to offer low pressure dating. And

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Speaker 1: so there is a new function called the double date.

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Speaker 1: And I'm talking about this like I know all about it.

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Speaker 1: So if you're actually on Tinder and you've seen this

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Speaker 1: double dating feature, correct, me if I'm wrong, and I'm

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Speaker 1: so sorry if I am getting it wrong. You don't

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Speaker 1: go on your own. You don't just go with one

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Speaker 1: other person. Maybe you take a friend. Maybe there's two

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Speaker 1: of you that meets up with another two. I see

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Speaker 1: scrolling through his fault see whether there is a double

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Speaker 1: date feature.

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Speaker 2: Is he loves a dating app? He's not afraid of it,

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Speaker 2: and in fact, he's dominated Grinder for years on grind

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Speaker 2: and you why not? I just don't like grind? So

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Speaker 2: when do you go as a gay man if you're

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Speaker 2: not on Grinder? I'm not a Oka'm sure you want

627
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Speaker 2: to keep that private. But do you feel the intensity

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Speaker 2: of the the pressure of one on one?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely. And Tinder's awful.

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Speaker 2: You will swipe on Tinder and you get a match

631
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Speaker 2: and then nothing, nothing happens.

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Speaker 4: People are becoming lazier and lazier, aren't they? And I

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Speaker 4: think there's a majority of people that are on there

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Speaker 4: that only want one thing? Kate, what's that a meal?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 4: Necessarily a meal that you get at a restaurant.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I thought it might be. I think if they

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Speaker 1: were only after one thing, it might be that you

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Speaker 1: might feel their petrol tangle I mean, that's what everybody's after.

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Speaker 2: Was that story about girls that got into the routine

641
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Speaker 2: of going on a date every night of the week.

642
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 2: Traditionally the guy would pay, and that's how they would

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Speaker 2: get their dinner. About that, Yeah, habitually got into this habit.

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Speaker 2: And it might have been three nights a week, Kate

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Speaker 2: Richie Wednesdays, a lot of work, a lot of free

646
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Speaker 2: feed that, but it's.

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Speaker 1: Not free, can I say? And we've also spoken about

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Speaker 1: this for okay, I'm generalizing, but for a woman to

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Speaker 1: go on a date for an occasion, the guy, the

650
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Speaker 1: guy comes home, he may not even get He may

651
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Speaker 1: even just change his shirt in the car on the

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Speaker 1: way home from work or at the train station. A

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Speaker 1: woman has probably dropped easy two hundred bucks that week

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Speaker 1: on fake tanning and nails and a blow dry, and

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Speaker 1: maybe she's bought new underwear all of that staff or

656
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:45,799
Speaker 1: even like long term investments as well. So I think maybe,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't expect anyone to pay. I don't

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Speaker 1: know the last time somebody bought.

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Speaker 2: Me, took out for dinner and didn't pay.

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Speaker 4: Do you reckon?

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Speaker 2: There's a chance of date number two forget about its.

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Speaker 4: Red rooster and to Kate Richie, She's there in the

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Speaker 4: flat hung.

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Speaker 1: Have a warm chicken roll in the back of the Sigma.

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Speaker 4: You have to turn up.

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Speaker 3: This is the Fitzy with Friend Kate podcast.

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