1 00:00:01,360 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: It is the City and with Cable Ki podcast. 2 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 2: Now I want to talk about hygiene this morning. 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 3: You've got a friend who has a hygiene issue. 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,120 Speaker 2: What actually actually, let me start with the fact. 5 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: And I don't know if this has happened to anybody else, 6 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 1: but I do have a deodorant problem at the moment, 7 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: because I'm not going to say which deodorants, right, but 8 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: I haven't used I use a roll on deodorant and 9 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: I've used this. 10 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: I love it. 11 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 4: How do you use where do you use it? 12 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 2: Under my arm? 13 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 3: A lot of people use it more than just under 14 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 3: their arms. 15 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: I do know some people who have put it under 16 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 1: their arms, under their busies if they are heavier on 17 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:40,880 Speaker 1: the top. 18 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 3: So that's a friend of yours. 19 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:47,520 Speaker 5: Again, No, not me, I heard. 20 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 4: I have not heard for ages. 21 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, someone said it to me the other day. Not 22 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 2: I mean not to you know. It was just whatever. 23 00:00:56,400 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 1: Anyway, And so I've been using the same deodorant for 24 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: like years and years, and I don't know what has happened, 25 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: but I've changed and it just doesn't work. Is it 26 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 1: that your body gets used to using a particular I 27 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 1: think a d deodorant anyway, that's by the bio like, 28 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 1: that's not what I want to talk about. This is 29 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 1: about the grossness of sharing things in the house and 30 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 1: maybe something you would never share, so give us a call. Thirteen, 31 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: twenty fourteen. Some people are weird about the toothbrush. You 32 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 1: shouldn't share toothbrushes with your partner, for example, Well. 33 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 4: You would with your family, with your wife or your husband, 34 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 4: you would it. And the kids. You let them use 35 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 4: your toothbrush on holidays sometimes, don't you. 36 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 1: Well, I think so if you've left it behind, because 37 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 1: they always get you at the airport, don't they if 38 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 1: you've forgotten your toothbrush. 39 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 3: I'm a bit funny about the toothbrush. But then Lisa 40 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 3: is fine to use my toothbrush, and she will if 41 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 3: she needed to, But then she won't use her towel 42 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:00,559 Speaker 3: if I've accidentally used it. What what's wrong was sharing 43 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:01,160 Speaker 3: a towel? 44 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: Maybe because you're hairy, so when you use the towel, 45 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 1: your towel would be soaking. 46 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:09,239 Speaker 4: Where he needs three towels. 47 00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:11,639 Speaker 2: He does one for the bat. Anyway, we don't need 48 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 2: to go through it. 49 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 1: So this mother, and maybe it's a sign of the times, 50 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: she doesn't want to spend a lot of money her 51 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: husband is disgusted because he's looking for his deodorant. One morning, 52 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: comes into the bathroom. 53 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 2: She's in the shower. 54 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: Where's mighty odoran? And she said, like, I don't know 55 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: the kids room. He said, oh, that'd be right. 56 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 5: You know, little Bobby's. 57 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: Probably stolen my deodorant again. Why can't you buy his own? 58 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 1: And she said, well, I'm not that's his deodorant as well. 59 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 2: He said, what do you mean. She said, well, we've just. 60 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 1: Been We all share our role on deodorant, which I 61 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: guess is different to the spray because there's no body 62 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: contact with that. 63 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 2: But he's like, just go and spend the money. 64 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: She said, it costs a fortune now, I've just been 65 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: googling it does well. A spray cans about ten and 66 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 1: a roll on about three to four dollars if you're 67 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 1: not buying it at the airport. 68 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 4: Obviously, refuse to pay full price for deodorant. You wait 69 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:08,959 Speaker 4: for half priced. 70 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 3: There's always two for one costco police say it, but then. 71 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 4: You've got it. You've got to always switch them up, 72 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 4: so you may get Dave one minute, then you get 73 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 4: your rex on a net. 74 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 1: I can't do that. This is the thing I've got 75 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: to start. I've got to stick with the same one. 76 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: I would rather use someone's toothbrush than their role on deodorant. 77 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 4: No, you wouldn't. 78 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 3: I would because brush in your mouth, well, not you 79 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 3: guys in your mouth, but my. 80 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 1: Partner, like a partner or yeah. 81 00:03:38,320 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 4: So the mouth, you don't. 82 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 2: I'm fine with the mouth, but not with the underarm. 83 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 4: So you're less considered with the mouth and the underrup. 84 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 4: That is, I'd be the other way around. For some reason, 85 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 4: I would find the underarm a. 86 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 5: Little bit weird because I think of sweat. 87 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 3: See, I'm not fixed on one deodoran either, because I'll 88 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 3: use my something sport, you know. But then I'll use 89 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 3: Lisa's thirty three sexy Boutique bouquet, which I think she 90 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 3: has at the moment. 91 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 2: She doesn't. 92 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 1: Lisa is never using anything called sexy. 93 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 3: Really, what was the. 94 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 2: One you'd use? I don't know if it's still on 95 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 2: the shelves. Actually I think it is. 96 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you go into like the gym, in the 97 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: gym and it just it thinks worse than body odor. 98 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 3: The fits and with Kate Bridgie podcast. 99 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 4: This is very, very exciting. This is an amazing story 100 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 4: of Elizabeth Lee Miler. She was an American photographer and 101 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 4: photo journalists, and during World War Two she was a 102 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 4: war correspondent for Vogue magazine, covering some horrific events. The 103 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 4: lady that portrays her in the latest movie Lee is 104 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 4: the magnificent Kate Winslet and she joins us. 105 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 5: Now, Okate, we welcome the serves. 106 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 3: Kate Winslow. 107 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 5: Oh, such a pleasure to have you here. I feel 108 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 5: very at home. 109 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 6: The tone of your show, I have to say I 110 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 6: can already it's a lot like Chris Evans, a brilliant radio. 111 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 5: Chris. Yeah, you guys are a lot like Chris. 112 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 3: I'm not sure that we've ever can We certainly haven't 113 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 3: had you here in the studio, and this show has 114 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 3: been on for fourteen years. You decide to come here, 115 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 3: and then the royal family trump you will turn up 116 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 3: at the time. Have you wrung the King and said, 117 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 3: come on mate, this is my time? 118 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 5: I don't know. I met King Charles years ago. 119 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 6: He came to a Royal premiere of Sense and Sensibility 120 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 6: when I was only twenty and I do somewhere have 121 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 6: a photograph of me shaking his hand, And actually I 122 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:29,479 Speaker 6: was a little bit concerned because I remember I was 123 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 6: wearing a really lovely velvet coat, but underneath the velvet coat, 124 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 6: I was wearing quite a lacy black. 125 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 5: O oh, really nice sort of a jumpsuit. 126 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 6: But I suddenly realized as I was about to meet 127 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 6: the King that I think it might have been a 128 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 6: little bit see through, and so I just literally I 129 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 6: just crowded myself with. 130 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 3: For his eyes darted. 131 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 5: No, not because I had successfully covered covered. 132 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 6: Myself in this velvety thing, but I did have this 133 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 6: proper moment of sheer panic, think, oh my goodness, I'm 134 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 6: about to curtsey in front of the King. 135 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 4: Can I just say though, that you are You're here 136 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 4: at the same time as the King in Couin, but 137 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 4: you've beaten the Gallagher brothers because they've just called an 138 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 4: Australia to her. So okay, even before have you met 139 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 4: the Gallagher brothers before? 140 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 6: I only I met Liam once. I was on Graham, 141 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 6: not in a talkture in the UK. 142 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 5: I was. I was on the on the sofa as 143 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:25,039 Speaker 5: one of the I remember the episode once. Yeah, yeah, 144 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 5: I didn't really get to actually chat to him much. 145 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 5: But yeah, let's. 146 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 3: Talk the film, because I mean it is a beautiful 147 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 3: film and as a story is extraordinary. You must have 148 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 3: been so inspired by the bravery of one person. 149 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:37,839 Speaker 5: Yes, I absolutely was so. 150 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 6: This film covers a decade in Lee's life, just before 151 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 6: during an immediately after the war, when she used that camera, 152 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 6: her Rolliflex camera that hangs around the neck and sits 153 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 6: in front of the heart. It doesn't typically come up 154 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 6: to the eye, and by using her camera in this way, 155 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 6: she could look down into her image. Has quite a 156 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 6: wide lens, and once her frame was set and her 157 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:02,599 Speaker 6: focus was in place, it then enabled her to lift 158 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 6: her eye and meet the gaze of the person or 159 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 6: the people that she was photographing and therefore be present. 160 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 5: You know. 161 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 6: That's why her photography was so unique. 162 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 4: The one that I want to and I hope that 163 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 4: I'm not giving too much away here, but there's a 164 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 4: very famous photo Kate of where she found herself in 165 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 4: Hitler's house. And this is after who had passed, and 166 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 4: she found herself in the bathroom in Hitler's bathroom. She 167 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 4: took a very famous photo out of her taking a 168 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 4: bath in Hitler's bath Can I ask you was that 169 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 4: sort of a moment of triumph for her? 170 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 3: Do you think that that. 171 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 4: Was a photo that she needed to take to say 172 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 4: that we had triumphed over Hitler. 173 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 6: Well, I think there are many things to say about 174 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 6: that particular image, which is such an extraordinary image. It is, 175 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 6: as you point out, it's probably one of the most, 176 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 6: if not the most iconic photograph of Lee Miller. In fact, 177 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 6: taken by her buddy Davy Sherman, who was a photographer 178 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 6: for Life magazine. So on the day of the liberation 179 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 6: of Dachau, Lee and Davy bribed their way into Hitler's 180 00:08:02,880 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 6: Munich apartment, only to discover that there was already an 181 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 6: entire regimen in there, pretty much having a party and 182 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 6: helping themselves to drinks and having cocktails, and yeah, there 183 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 6: was a bathroom. Lee and Davy absolutely stank. They hadn't 184 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 6: changed their clothes for six weeks. They hadn't touched hot 185 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 6: water for six weeks either, So when they ran that 186 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 6: tap and found that the water was hot, yeah, she 187 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 6: got in that bath and she had a damn fine soak. 188 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 6: And then I think in the moment she thought to herself, 189 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 6: hang on a minute, this is a scoop. But what 190 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:36,680 Speaker 6: is significant about that image, most significant of all is. 191 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:38,320 Speaker 5: The mud from her boots. 192 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 6: She stamped it into the lemon yellow bath mat belonging 193 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:47,439 Speaker 6: to Hitler, treading the dirt of his crimes, the dust 194 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 6: of Dachau where she had been that morning. She left 195 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 6: that mark behind, and that to me was extraordinary thing. 196 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 3: Kaywin's look, we started an initiative here, a social initiative 197 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 3: called thirty six months, and you have been so fantastic 198 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 3: in pointing out to the world the dangers of social media. 199 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 3: So thirty six months is the idea of changing the 200 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 3: law here in Australia allow thirteen to sixteen oho, and 201 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 3: we've made fantastic progress. Oh great, you've spoken so beautifully 202 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:19,319 Speaker 3: on this topic. A message for the Prime Minister about 203 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 3: how important this is. 204 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 6: I slightly shy away from giving messages to important political figures, 205 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 6: but what I would certainly say is that the fact 206 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 6: that there is a conversation about it that is gaining 207 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 6: momentum in this country is incredibly important because what that's doing, 208 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 6: it's making families feel seen and heard. And if parents 209 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:46,679 Speaker 6: feel that they can bump into each other at the 210 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 6: school gates and have an exchange about what they're going through, 211 00:09:50,040 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 6: I think matters more than anything else for families. 212 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 5: That's really important. 213 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:55,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, kat, we know how busy you are. 214 00:09:55,920 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 4: Your portrayal of Ley Mila is unbelievable. The movie is 215 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 4: out in cinemas. Thank you so much for your time 216 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 4: and making your way into the studio here. It's been 217 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 4: a highlight about you. Thank you very much. 218 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 5: Kay, thank you for having me. 219 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:10,479 Speaker 3: It fits in with Herridgie podcast. 220 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 2: I cannot believe this story has an entry for worst bloke. 221 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 5: Yeah. 222 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:18,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, ever, I mean, I'll let you be the judge 223 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 1: because she doesn't seem to have a problem with it. 224 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:27,080 Speaker 2: How about this? This is the headline. Woman takes care 225 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 2: of paralyzed husband for six years, gets dumped after he recovers. 226 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 2: I mean, talk about. 227 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: Payback or some kind of you know, appreciation, gratitude for 228 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 1: what somebody has done for you. 229 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 2: Okay, I'll talk you through it. 230 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:46,079 Speaker 7: Give me the details. 231 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 2: Story is coming out of Malaysia. 232 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 1: This guy's been awfully injured in a car accident but paralyzed. 233 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:58,840 Speaker 1: She is doing absolutely everything for him. In fact, she 234 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: documents his recovery on Facebook and shares her journey with 235 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:10,560 Speaker 1: the world. Like forty thousand followers or something. She's documented 236 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 1: their entire daily life for six years and people have 237 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: really encouraged her, and I mean she's basically mother to 238 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 1: raise her so he gets better and they drop off 239 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 1: the face of the earth the Facebook for a while there, 240 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:30,439 Speaker 1: and now she's come out congratulating whatever his name is. 241 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 1: Let me just try and find it. 242 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 2: In a Rule. 243 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: Congratulating her ex husband and his new bride. In a 244 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: Facebook post, she says, congratulations to my husband. I hope 245 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 1: you are happy with the one you chose. 246 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 2: Ipha and Ifa, please take good. 247 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: I've got a few things to say about this. Please 248 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 1: take good care of him like I did. I am 249 00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:00,040 Speaker 1: done with him now. Now it is your turn to 250 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 1: take over now. 251 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 3: Of course, people are worst bloke ever ever, Honey, if 252 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 3: the job you've done has actually been too good, I'm 253 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:15,959 Speaker 3: even better than I was before and I'm hitting the town, babe. 254 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 1: This woman, as I said, her level of forgiveness and 255 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 1: acceptance is incredible. You hear these stories quite often and 256 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:29,559 Speaker 1: it so disheartening. And I'm not likening. It's just popped 257 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: into my head there. I'm not I'm not saying that 258 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 1: these people are like no Rule and this lovely wife 259 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 1: in Malaysia. But didn't we talk recently about the people 260 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 1: on the block where there was the relation. He was 261 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: having the relationship with the woman and he went and 262 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:51,199 Speaker 1: participated on the block, left his business to the girlfriend 263 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 1: to look after, won the block or something, I don't 264 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 1: know what he did. 265 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:59,679 Speaker 2: He came out and then he had begun a relationship 266 00:12:59,679 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 2: with the. 267 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:02,080 Speaker 3: Cup Hartistan, that's wrong, Yeah, see you later. 268 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 5: So she was heartbroken because she's good time on the show. 269 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 2: Stood by him over. 270 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:08,560 Speaker 3: One of the other entries we've had on the show 271 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 3: for worst bloke ever. 272 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 1: Was the guy who, Sorry, I'm not saying that guy's 273 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,679 Speaker 1: the worst. 274 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 7: He's definitely a submission and worst bloke over well done 275 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:21,560 Speaker 7: on the block. It was the guy who they didn't 276 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 7: realize until the Hen's party that all their friends were 277 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:27,680 Speaker 7: pregnant at the same time. Two sisters and a best 278 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 7: friend were pregnant at the same time to the one 279 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 7: guy worst and they only put it together when it 280 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 7: was the Hen's party and they said, you know what, 281 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 7: why don't we do cupcakes and things at the start 282 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 7: and then our men can come and join us. Towards 283 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 7: the end of the Hen's party, Sorry, baby shower is 284 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 7: a baby show. Towards the end of the baby shower, 285 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 7: the dad can turn up. Dad turned up all three 286 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 7: of them. No straordinary, worst bloke ever. 287 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 2: Oh look, I'm sure there are lots of people listening thinking, 288 00:13:57,400 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 2: I know the worst workover. I was in hospital having 289 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 2: our child and he was off with Amanda. 290 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:02,679 Speaker 4: Was he? 291 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:05,679 Speaker 1: I don't know who Amanda is. 292 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 7: Oh my god, what a twist. 293 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 3: Sits in Whipper with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast 294 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 3: walk great shows like this. Download the Nova player, Fire 295 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 3: the app Store or Google Play the player