1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: This podcast. 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 2: Welcome to the podcast, Fitzy, Whipper and Kate. 3 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 3: Now, I don't want to hail. 4 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 4: No, I'm too depressed to talk about this. Valentine's Days 5 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 4: coming up. I'll never get what I want, never get. 6 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 2: Anything beasting on the front of your face. 7 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 3: No, it's people on my nose. 8 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 5: No, that's his chin. Hey. I celebrate valentine homes Day 9 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 5: because I think he's one of the greatest struggle players 10 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 5: of all time. 11 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:32,279 Speaker 2: Well said, I don't get it. 12 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 5: I always rock up to his house from flowers, Kate, 13 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 5: Valentine Homes does it mind it? 14 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:40,959 Speaker 3: Don't you expect to be expecting some flowers on Valentine's Day? 15 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 2: I don't ever expect anything. I think that you should 16 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 2: never do. You know what the source of all of 17 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 2: our health, the source of all of our disappointments and 18 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 2: pain in life are only are only our expectations. If 19 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 2: you have no expectations and you just think everything's going 20 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 2: to be hit ouse every day, it's only going to 21 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:01,959 Speaker 2: look up from there. 22 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:05,039 Speaker 4: Well said, I'm so glad when you're reading from your 23 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:06,039 Speaker 4: book you've written, can. 24 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 3: You that out? 25 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 5: Maybe I will write a blind visualizing that. Right now, 26 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 5: this podcast is going to be so shit. 27 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 3: Guess what, I bet you we surprised. 28 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:21,960 Speaker 6: This is a fit Friends podcast. 29 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:26,399 Speaker 4: I've got Her talks about the most exhausting decade of 30 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 4: your life, and it's bad news if you're approaching your forties, 31 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:33,479 Speaker 4: because that decade is the most taxing that you will. 32 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 3: Spend on this planet. 33 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 4: Guys, kids, it's well, it's a combination of things, but 34 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 4: kids are a massive one. Obviously, There's changes that go 35 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 4: on inside your body biologically, which makes it really tricky 36 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 4: to navigate. Midlife fatigue hits you over the back of 37 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 4: the head when you least expect it, and you start 38 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 4: to go gray. I've got a couple of grays now. 39 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 4: I don't know if you guys have noticed. You politely 40 00:01:56,680 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 4: said nothing. They call it biologic, call him balancers. Tommy, 41 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 4: you went gray very early, didn't you help? 42 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 5: I was twenty one when I went gray, Right, that's 43 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 5: very early for a girl. Then i's browning your father great, Yeah, 44 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 5: he's gray, and but I died it for probably fifteen years. 45 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 5: The just for men, that's right? 46 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:21,839 Speaker 4: Yeah? 47 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:23,079 Speaker 2: Are you from the pharmacy? 48 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,959 Speaker 5: From the pharmacy? Great? Great product is that? 49 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: Just? 50 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? 51 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 5: Do it at home in your own bathroom. 52 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:31,799 Speaker 2: And no one can ever tell was that a masculating? 53 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 5: Is that the word? 54 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 6: It is? 55 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 3: The word? 56 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 5: Was it? 57 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:37,839 Speaker 3: I look, I was here in the sink at home. 58 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 5: Well it wasn't ideal. 59 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 3: A yeah, single for a long time, oh long time. 60 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 3: He's in a mood. 61 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 5: Today he's sitting over there. 62 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 2: Thinking he's of the world. 63 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 3: George Pony, who knows what ladies think? 64 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 4: Inage Jackson, In your twenties, your body is biologically very 65 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 4: forged giving, and then when you get into your forties, 66 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 4: things take longer mate. Your muscles start to decrease, and 67 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 4: therefore injuries that you might sustain are harder to get back, 68 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 4: you know, to rebuild yourself into doing the normal exercises. 69 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 4: Do you know the saddest thing you read about old 70 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 4: people too is when they say, oh as in forties, No, no, no, 71 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 4: I mean when we go above that, right, when you 72 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 4: go when you look at sort of seventies, that they're invisible, 73 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 4: no one sees them, And that upsets me. 74 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 2: I think that happens a lot younger, especially with like with. 75 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 3: Ghost do you know what? I love that story too? 76 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 3: Fits The other day. 77 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 4: I think we touched on it in France, where they 78 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 4: have libraries. But you can now go into a library 79 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 4: and if you want to read a book on a subject, 80 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 4: you can ask to speak to someone that will come 81 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 4: out and talk to you that has experience on that topic. 82 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 4: So if someone went into the library and said, hey, 83 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 4: I'd love to learn about AFL, they go, hang on 84 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,120 Speaker 4: a minute, pull back the curtain. Good, Hey guys, Frisy, 85 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 4: how are you five? On debut and a ram for 86 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 4: the Swans and the Crows? And you can then sit 87 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 4: down with that. 88 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 5: Well, when I hear at a library in Paris. 89 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 3: I'm just I'm just saying. 90 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 4: I'd love to learn about acting. Well, good news. Do 91 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 4: you remember Sally from Home and Away? Well, she's got 92 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 4: Milcoe with her come out, sal talk to come out. 93 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 3: I've got a great idea talk to them about that. 94 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 2: I actually think you would be very good, thank you 95 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 2: at this job, because you'd also save the library a 96 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 2: lot of money because they wouldn't need twenty people to 97 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 2: be experts on women twenty different topics. They could just 98 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:33,239 Speaker 2: get you because you're an expert on everything, so true, I'd. 99 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 3: Be the encyclopedia. Excuse me, if you got the encyclopedia. 100 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 3: Curtain comes back, Hey, guys, Hey, guys, whip me here. Sorry, 101 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 3: I am like, god, here you going? 102 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 5: Can you throw encyclopedias. 103 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 7: At the person? 104 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 3: You're not allowed to do that? You can? 105 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 2: They don't bruise. 106 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 3: How you get through it? 107 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,479 Speaker 1: This is a fitz Whipper podcast. 108 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 3: What will be four days away from Valentine's Day? 109 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 4: I said to my wife today, are we still doing that? 110 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:04,480 Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean? Do we need that? 111 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,840 Speaker 5: I've been saying it's been overrated for a very long time, 112 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 5: and you've shut me down for the fifteen years we've 113 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 5: been on air. You've shut me down every year, and 114 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 5: now you're trying to get out. 115 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 3: Of it now. 116 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 4: I'm just suggesting, as I've always recommended, you get your 117 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 4: flowers on another day, not on v Day. 118 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 2: I don't think cut it on Valentine's Day if you're 119 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 2: just going to do flowers. Flowers are only fine in 120 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:32,680 Speaker 2: the first six months of dating because they're that's not true. 121 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:36,239 Speaker 2: They're very They're kind of vague. They they're a vague gifts. 122 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:39,719 Speaker 4: They are a secret way. Every girl loves flowers full stop. 123 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 3: Thank you for speaking on behalf of the ladies with 124 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 3: well the. 125 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 4: Work I've done, I can tell you that flowers have 126 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 4: an unbelievable power. 127 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 5: You know whippers, that flower that blossoms at that botanical 128 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:58,599 Speaker 5: garden every four years and it smells like in corpse, 129 00:05:58,760 --> 00:05:59,279 Speaker 5: like death. 130 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be you. I'm trying to think val 131 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 2: trying to think of you as did one kind of flower. 132 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 7: Everybody. 133 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 5: If you gather around with her, it's been four years. 134 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:14,160 Speaker 3: Do you know what you are? 135 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 2: You know, if you were a flower, you'd be You'd 136 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 2: be a bulb, you'd be you'd be any kind of bulb. 137 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 3: I don't know if you're a tulip because it's round. 138 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 4: All know, I would grow into something beautiful. 139 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:34,719 Speaker 2: No, because you just because we we okay, hang on, 140 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 2: if you were going to be anything, you would be 141 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 2: a bulb because we'd barely see you. But when you 142 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 2: finally turned up to do one good thing every year, 143 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 2: we'd have to hear about all the hard work about 144 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 2: your giant I want to talk about but it was okay, 145 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 2: it was a bit long winded, and I can refine it. 146 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:03,359 Speaker 2: I Valentine's Day, fourteenth of February. It's actually my sister 147 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 2: Rebecca's birthday, so Happy Birthday to her for Saturday. So 148 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 2: she usually she will celebrate her birthday rather than Valentine's Day. 149 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 2: There's this thing, and I don't want to call it 150 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 2: Galentine's Day because that means we've kind of stolen the 151 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 2: idea from someone else. But thirteen twenty four ten. If 152 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 2: you do something that's not that is not traditionally Valentine's 153 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 2: Day esque, or you don't have a partner and you 154 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 2: want to shout it from the rooftops that you don't care. 155 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 2: My feeling is if you're shouting it from the rooftops, 156 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 2: they don't care. You really do care, but you might 157 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 2: be getting together and celebrating in another way. There's this 158 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 2: woman who they've spent quite a lot of money and 159 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 2: she's just having a party for all of the women 160 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 2: in her life. She's been married for twenty one years 161 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 2: and she says she's had great Valentine's Days, but the 162 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 2: best one she had was the year before she tied 163 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 2: the nott to her husband twenty two years ago, and 164 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 2: she spent it with a girlfriends. So there's thirty four 165 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 2: women coming, no blokes allowed, and they do things like 166 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 2: and don't say any of these things are safe. 167 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 4: Okay, the bowl would be quiet in the corner of 168 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 4: the room. 169 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 3: I bet you work. I bet you've been fed well 170 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 3: and working really hard. 171 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 2: Over there, she's she's got a bartender and a DJ, 172 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 2: booked our forty five closest friends, and they're putting together 173 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 2: goodie bags for her guests. 174 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 3: Like they're going to be. 175 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 2: This is an opportunity, it says, here to be with 176 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 2: your girls, be silly, do something fun, and just focus 177 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 2: on the friendships you've created and enjoying each other's company. 178 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 2: Do you know there was two girls went to the 179 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 2: day out there because I know what you have to offer. 180 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 5: You know the first thing that you said that they 181 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 5: organized as a bartender, which will be a hot bloke. 182 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's what she said. 183 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 2: The only man that's allowed to come is going to. 184 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 4: Last night, we went to the Nover Red Room, Ryan 185 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 4: Teedo one Republic, and there was two girls that there 186 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:00,679 Speaker 4: were chatting to listen to the show. And they said, well, 187 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 4: actually we went to the Billie Eilish Red Room and 188 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 4: we went along as friends that night. But then we 189 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 4: looked into each eyes, in each other's eyes, and we 190 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 4: just started kissing. I said, Ryan, she said, yeah, Now 191 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 4: we've been together ever since then. I'd suggest as a 192 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 4: lot of the girls going to this party might end 193 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 4: up looking at their best friend differently on that day 194 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 4: and maybe having a bit of a tongue pash with 195 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 4: their friends. 196 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 2: Well in your wild streams you weado, We don't know. 197 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:29,680 Speaker 2: But the thing is, this is what happens. 198 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 3: Is that wrong? 199 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:30,839 Speaker 1: No? 200 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:33,200 Speaker 3: But I want to do to kiss a girl nice? 201 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 2: But I've said it with girlfriends of mine when we're 202 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 2: sitting around, you know, tongues wagging about our partners and things, 203 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 2: and we might say, oh god, we've had our children now. 204 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 2: Wouldn't it just be easier if we all just you know. 205 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 3: What do you think, Jess, you're lesbian, You're happy with this? 206 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 1: Yeah? 207 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 3: I think that policate if you just do yourself. 208 00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 2: Mate, I know you're waiting for the day you are off. 209 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 3: It's not far off. Big announcer on the show. 210 00:10:05,440 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 6: Tomorrow, this is a friend podcast, all right, Jimmy Carr 211 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 6: got a brand new movie I have called Fackham Hall. 212 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:14,320 Speaker 3: I said that correctly. Guys got to be very careful 213 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 3: pronouncing that. Jimmy, we love having on the show. That 214 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,599 Speaker 3: was a little frustrated. He thought last time it was on, 215 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 3: we were a little unprofessional. 216 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 8: Let's have a modicum of professionalism. 217 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 4: Let's do this, Okay, Okay, that's a going to change 218 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:28,080 Speaker 4: for this show, i'd say, Jimmy ed. 219 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:29,079 Speaker 1: I like that. 220 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:32,839 Speaker 5: We're very excited for them. Hall is in Cinemas February nine. 221 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 8: Sorry, I think you'll think you're saying that wrong. What 222 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 8: did you say? 223 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 5: So it's fam, isn't Itackham Hale. 224 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 7: I don't think you can. There'll be children listening to 225 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 7: the radio. It's them, Hallam Hall Kate. 226 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:50,079 Speaker 5: Do you want to have a go on? 227 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: Yeah? 228 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 7: I don't. 229 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:55,320 Speaker 3: I think everybody knows. Okay them Hall. 230 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 8: Well, that's how you got the job. 231 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 5: Oh, do not put. 232 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 3: Rumor Jimmy, do you know? 233 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 4: I mean I love your work and I've seen your 234 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 4: stand up many times. Right, just I loved this movie 235 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 4: to the point of I'm putting in phone calls going you've. 236 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:18,679 Speaker 3: Got to have a look at this. 237 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 7: There's a lot of jokes, and I mean there's a 238 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:22,839 Speaker 7: I think there's two hundred and ninety seven jokes in it. 239 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:26,199 Speaker 7: I mean roughly two hundred and ninety seven. It's like 240 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:29,199 Speaker 7: it's downtown Abbey, Meet's airplane. So the idea is that 241 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 7: you just go it's it's not something you see one time. 242 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:33,320 Speaker 7: It's something you watch the first time and then go, well, 243 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 7: I go back and watch other stuff because there's things 244 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 7: going on in the background. 245 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 5: I don't know that so was the immature jokes that 246 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 5: that was you and your brother growing up. 247 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 7: You wrote this, Yeah, I mean we were with big 248 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 7: fans of like the movies that you watch time and 249 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:49,559 Speaker 7: time again are things like The Naked Gun and Airplane. 250 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 7: And then when you have kids who are excited to 251 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 7: show them those movies, they don't make them like that anymore. 252 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 7: And I was, you know, in the in the lockdowns 253 00:11:57,679 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 7: going now, they don't make movies like that anymore. They 254 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,679 Speaker 7: don't make great common movies anymore. And then well I'll 255 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:03,559 Speaker 7: give it a go. I mean, they're not easy things 256 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 7: to get over the line movies because I don't know why. 257 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:07,959 Speaker 7: It's not like the rest of the show business. But 258 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 7: somehow we got it made and got it out there, 259 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 7: and I kind of figured it'd be a very it's 260 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 7: kind of low hanging through because it feels like Downton 261 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 7: Abbey Is. I love those period dramas. I mean it's 262 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 7: really it's not like a sneering parody. I do love them, 263 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 7: but they are. They are fairly pompous. I mean, if 264 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 7: anything needs needs needs to be attacking. 265 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 4: But what I love about it too in that setting, 266 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,559 Speaker 4: when you talk about a time piece like that, I 267 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 4: mean you can a period piece, is that the minute 268 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,959 Speaker 4: you break the character of that time you're already winning. 269 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 4: It's like listening to a Kiwi. They're naturally funny because 270 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 4: of the accent. So they had that breaking that time 271 00:12:44,280 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 4: period in character, you have an advantage. 272 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:49,000 Speaker 3: That's why it's so much fun to play in that space. 273 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 8: Yeah, I think so. I think you're right. That must 274 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 8: be a first time for you. 275 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 2: Yes, it was quite deeper with me to think I 276 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 2: didn't even understand what you were saying. I didn't follow 277 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 2: that at all, and I was thinking, I'm really keen 278 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 2: to hear how jimmy answer as well, because that didn't 279 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 2: make sense. 280 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 4: What's the line when there's the old ladies sitting at 281 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 4: the table and it's a very royal dinner and she 282 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 4: says something like harsh it's kicking off here? 283 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 7: Well, yeah, yeah, I mean that's yeah, So it's the 284 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 7: it's I mean, the whole thing kind of works on 285 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 7: Bethos because it's it's incredibly high falutin these dramas and 286 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 7: very pretentious and very low stakes. A lot of the times, 287 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,000 Speaker 7: you know someone's coming to dinner and there's a big kerfuffle, 288 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 7: and then if you can put a little bit of 289 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 7: you know, a joke in there, it's it's doubly funny 290 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 7: because everyone's playing it so straight. 291 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:35,079 Speaker 2: I have an eleven year old daughter. You're talking about, 292 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 2: you know, not making film. You know, they didn't make 293 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 2: they didn't make films like this anymore. 294 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 3: Is what's happening bracket? 295 00:13:41,559 --> 00:13:44,959 Speaker 7: Here in my country we would say probably probably sixteen 296 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 7: and up once they finish their initial exams. But Australia, 297 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 7: I would say, like any age. I mean if they can, 298 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:52,600 Speaker 7: I mean read. I don't think you have parental controls 299 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 7: for you. 300 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:55,439 Speaker 4: Not at this stage. No, I'm going to watch it 301 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 4: this weekend with the kids and my young master's five. 302 00:13:57,520 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, but you're very lax with that kind of thing. 303 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 3: I don't agree. 304 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:02,200 Speaker 5: It's funny in that. 305 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 4: They'll pick up on the things that they pick up on, 306 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 4: and mom and dad will get their laugh. 307 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 8: I think as well. I must say I'm in agreement. 308 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 7: I think the idea of having sort of parental controls 309 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 7: on movies now and ages on movies is so it's 310 00:14:14,600 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 7: like it's an analog technology and a digital age, and 311 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 7: people are watching stuff on their phones. The great thing 312 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 7: about a movie like this is you can watch it 313 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 7: together with like teenage kids and it's fun. It's fun 314 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 7: to laugh together at this stuff rather than to be 315 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 7: off on your phone watching it on your own. 316 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 8: Can people don't laugh when they Watcheduff on their phone. 317 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 7: They're kind of you know, they're watching it with their 318 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 7: headphones in, you know, taking it's not getting the most 319 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 7: out of comment. 320 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 5: You are so busy when you get to this level 321 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 5: of fame, I dare say there'd be a lot of 322 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 5: people that would want you to invest in things. The 323 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 5: question I need to ask to me the phone call 324 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 5: that you received from Russell Crowe asking you to invest 325 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:51,840 Speaker 5: into a liquor company. Can you can you take us 326 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 5: through that? Well? 327 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 7: You know it was there's a there's a motley crew 328 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 7: of us involved in this, and we are I would say, 329 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 7: we all have varying issues with the mature and Russell 330 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 7: told us of a town outside Derry in Northern Ireland 331 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 7: called Muff, and we all decided that investing in the 332 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 7: Muff liquor company would be an excellent use of our time, 333 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 7: money and energies. Okay, Russell ed ed sheeran rony keating 334 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 7: or mufflickers. 335 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 8: Right, I'm proud, But. 336 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 3: What about the women? Are women allowed to join the 337 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 3: I don't think. 338 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 7: I think you'd have to be very flexible. You need 339 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 7: some kind of yoga, I would imagine. I'm sorry to 340 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 7: invest in a whisky. 341 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 8: I'm sorry. 342 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 2: I is this? 343 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 8: I mean it feels it feels a special moment. Because 344 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 8: is this a new load for your show? 345 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 5: Richard? Perfectly, that's the tagline, a new load for this show. 346 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 1: This is a whipper cape podcast. 347 00:15:56,160 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 5: This is a podcast ladies. What are you from? The 348 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 5: low ladies of Australia? How small is your partner's friendship group? 349 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 8: You are. 350 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 6: Mate? 351 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 5: Because this is quite a sad. A journalist has written 352 00:16:10,360 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 5: an article. His wife has questioned him, Andrew, how many 353 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 5: friends have you got? And he said, well, Steve's my 354 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 5: best mate. Then I reeled off a shortlist of other 355 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 5: men I knew through work, and a group of my 356 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 5: father's friends whom I met every other week when I 357 00:16:25,840 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 5: went to go watch the footy with him. But really, 358 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 5: Steve's my only big mate, and she said, well, that's 359 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 5: your problem. You're not getting out enough. You've only got 360 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 5: one good friend and that's all you've got. Now, there's 361 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 5: been a study conducted seventeen percent of men had no 362 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 5: close friends. That is quite sad, which is a fivefold 363 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 5: increase since nineteen ninety. Now, this decline happens more in midlife, 364 00:16:55,320 --> 00:17:00,240 Speaker 5: obviously middle aged males. They and there's a there's a 365 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 5: few factors to this as well. The digital space is 366 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:05,639 Speaker 5: a big one, obviously now because we're all on our phones. 367 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:09,119 Speaker 5: But another reason for the decline in male friendships is 368 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 5: that there's you know what, meeting spaces are shrinking at work. 369 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 5: Time spent with others at work are down thirty percent 370 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:20,679 Speaker 5: since the pandemic. Pubs are closing, grassroots sports clubs are 371 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:21,880 Speaker 5: in terminal decline. 372 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:24,200 Speaker 3: Did Steve make this list because he hasn't got any friends? 373 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 5: Fewer men are playing sport, that's another thing. Rising living 374 00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:31,440 Speaker 5: costs also mean many men are priced out of traditional 375 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 5: male social spaces. But you know what, we do get 376 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 5: to a point in our lives as men where we 377 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 5: go I don't want any more mates, Then your friendship 378 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 5: group dwindles and gets lower and lower, and you're too 379 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 5: lazy to find new friends. 380 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 2: That's what I was going to say. I mean, I'm 381 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 2: not a man, so I don't know how men make friends, 382 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:51,879 Speaker 2: but maybe do speak on behalf? 383 00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 3: No, but I'm actually not. 384 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 2: I'm trying not to do what you do. But is 385 00:17:56,359 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 2: it that because the workplace has changed so dramatically and 386 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 2: people are working from home and things like that, that 387 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 2: men are just going to put it out there aren't 388 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:12,119 Speaker 2: as good at making or maintaining friendships if it's not 389 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 2: in a traditional. 390 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 3: Works That's all fair. I think I think that's right. 391 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:16,640 Speaker 7: Do you know what? Though? 392 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:19,879 Speaker 3: When you talk about mental health, they talk about the. 393 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 4: The improvement and your well being if you find and 394 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:28,840 Speaker 4: make the effort to do one on one time with 395 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:30,720 Speaker 4: the mate. Of course, you want to need one mate, 396 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:33,240 Speaker 4: and they talk about if you were to sit down 397 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 4: with them even once a month and grab a beer 398 00:18:35,880 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 4: or whatever it might. 399 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:39,199 Speaker 3: Be, you don't have to have a beer a part 400 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:41,439 Speaker 3: of the jump doing with the t And that's why. 401 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:43,159 Speaker 4: They talk about golf being such a great game as 402 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 4: you get older as well, because you walk alongside your 403 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:48,600 Speaker 4: mate and you don't have to make eye contact to 404 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:50,880 Speaker 4: share the more intimate parts that you want to discuss. 405 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,200 Speaker 5: That's a fair cool, okay, because my mates and I 406 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:55,679 Speaker 5: now have breakfast. So you can't have a beer at 407 00:18:55,720 --> 00:19:00,400 Speaker 5: breakfast because usually traditionally you can. If it's either you can. 408 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 5: If you are you are struggling in life, you've probably 409 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 5: got way too many friends if you haven't appear at 410 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 5: first thing in the morning with the bloody mary, but 411 00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 5: you know, lunch, and it's traditionally you always think you've 412 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 5: got to have a beer in your hand, but well 413 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 5: we'll have breakfast in a coffee and you know what 414 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:18,440 Speaker 5: I mean. Traditionally we don't like to share our feelings 415 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 5: too much. So if this is really sad our friend, 416 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 5: if our friendship groups are dwindling, that means we're not 417 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:26,800 Speaker 5: talking and sharing out. 418 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:29,400 Speaker 4: Do you ever find that it's hard to judge how 419 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 4: close you are with someone you know, Like you put 420 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 4: in a phone corner and go, hey, we should catch up. 421 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, man, we're going to catch up, and then you 422 00:19:35,880 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 3: never catch up, and you go, is that just hot air? 423 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 3: You know, like air kisses? 424 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:44,120 Speaker 5: You know, I think you have you've got your very 425 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 5: close friend that you can confide in. Yeah, well maybe 426 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 5: one day I could get on that list. Rebecca's given 427 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 5: us a call. Hey, tell us about your hubby, Beck, 428 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:53,960 Speaker 5: how many does he have? 429 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:56,399 Speaker 3: Welcome to drive guys? 430 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:02,080 Speaker 1: No worries, none really because he's at work. 431 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 3: So it's like just the worst guys and. 432 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 5: Then just family and me. 433 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:07,400 Speaker 3: But Becker, that's the thing I was going to say, 434 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 3: does that make you his best friend? 435 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 4: I suppose, Well, that's why we got married. 436 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 7: We're best mates. 437 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I don't think there's anything I don't think 438 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 2: there's anything wrong. I don't think there's anything wrong with 439 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 2: being your best friend. 440 00:20:19,119 --> 00:20:22,120 Speaker 4: No, but yeah, do you want to break away though 441 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:24,160 Speaker 4: you don't have something outside of the nest? 442 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:26,200 Speaker 2: I think I think you need to have balance. But 443 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 2: then on the flip side, there are blokes and women. 444 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 2: But if we're talking about blokes who have they've surrounded 445 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:37,480 Speaker 2: their self with this so called mates and they don't 446 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:42,439 Speaker 2: have time to actually have connection legitimately with people. They 447 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:45,439 Speaker 2: just have hundreds of blokes that they've just always got 448 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:47,879 Speaker 2: to catch up with and that that maybe it is 449 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:50,480 Speaker 2: around drinking or sport or I mean, I'm making it up. 450 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 3: And they're not really friends anyone. 451 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:56,359 Speaker 4: But here's the other thing, like, sure, we're stereotyping. But 452 00:20:56,440 --> 00:20:59,320 Speaker 4: in twenty twenty six, I don't see gender Kate, I 453 00:20:59,359 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 4: would see you. 454 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:03,400 Speaker 3: Is one of my best mates. And this is a chance. 455 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 3: You just say bad luck. It's reciproc you say back 456 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:10,200 Speaker 3: to me your best you bet best mate. 457 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:13,160 Speaker 2: You say you bet best mate. 458 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 3: You didn't really say with the right inflection, you bet 459 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:21,240 Speaker 3: best mate. Where a work Well, we're a work. 460 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 5: In progress to go to work colleague. 461 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 1: And he is a fitz whipper and podcast the Queen. 462 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,680 Speaker 2: If you haven't heard of Theme Queen before, let me 463 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 2: introduce you to this wonderful game. 464 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 3: Welcome to Theme Queen. 465 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:45,639 Speaker 2: Unfortunately I introduced myself. I am the host Queen of 466 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 2: the Theme and Chris Hemsworth's favorite team member Kate Ritchie 467 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:54,400 Speaker 2: every week. I actually don't quite like that one. 468 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 3: The game is very simple. You can play along three rounds. 469 00:21:57,320 --> 00:21:59,879 Speaker 2: Each round there are three songs and each of the 470 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:01,400 Speaker 2: three songs are connected by a theme. 471 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 3: You just got to work it out. I love this 472 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,920 Speaker 3: game right, Maybe write the songs down or the artists down. 473 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:08,880 Speaker 3: I mean, how have you best like to play? 474 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 2: Let's get into round one. 475 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:13,120 Speaker 3: We're starting easy. Well that is well. 476 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:16,160 Speaker 2: Casting my eyes over round one, I wouldn't say. 477 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 3: It's simple. 478 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:25,360 Speaker 2: Round one. Song number one, you don't get a point 479 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 2: for yelling out the artist so that. 480 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:27,640 Speaker 3: I'm writing it down. 481 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,920 Speaker 2: What song is that? Okay? 482 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 3: Fruits or something? It's not fruit? 483 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:47,400 Speaker 5: Okay, thank you okay. Song number two, what a great song? 484 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 1: Jeez? 485 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:49,120 Speaker 5: What an ear of the Madonna? 486 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:52,439 Speaker 3: I like burning Up. 487 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 2: That's my favorite Madonna's song. 488 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 5: Stressed is desperately seeking Susan today. I love that outfit. 489 00:22:58,280 --> 00:22:58,879 Speaker 5: It suits you. 490 00:22:59,200 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 3: I don't get it. 491 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 9: Song number three, shout out to my eggs, little mix, 492 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:11,120 Speaker 9: Little mix? 493 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:13,919 Speaker 2: What are you thinking? 494 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 3: It's shout out my ex? 495 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 2: I couldn't stand this song when they first released it 496 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:21,600 Speaker 2: a new kind of line. 497 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 3: Are you asking me to focus on the artist of 498 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:28,160 Speaker 3: the song? Well for you to work out. 499 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,960 Speaker 5: But I'm gonna say, is there a dance involved with these? 500 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,439 Speaker 5: I know there was with Apple, but not like a Virgin. 501 00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 5: I suppose that would be a creepy dance, wouldn't Yeah. 502 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 3: I focused on the names Virgin, Apple, an X. 503 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,880 Speaker 5: Oh that's brands there. 504 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 7: I thought that was. 505 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:53,760 Speaker 3: Hey, it's round number one an X. It's not X. 506 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:57,359 Speaker 3: It's e X for your X. My ex girlfriend is 507 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 3: not ex. Can I just say this. Some people haven't 508 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 3: heard this game before. You're officially ruining it. 509 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 2: So let's just jump on board and make it fun. 510 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 4: For round number two, accuracy, you're more annoying than the 511 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 4: cover ca Okay, imagine dragons. 512 00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 2: Radioactive. Don't get bogged down in that song number two. 513 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 2: Love a bit of Destiny's Child, and then song number. 514 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:50,639 Speaker 5: Three, Destiny's Child, and imagine dragons. 515 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 3: When do you put a dragon on your toes? 516 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:57,679 Speaker 5: Imagine dragons, Destiny's Child, Destiny's Child. 517 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 3: Can we just quick have a little listen, Just listen 518 00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:03,879 Speaker 3: to the song some som One. 519 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:05,679 Speaker 9: The Coup of Co. 520 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 3: Song number two. They're all to do with breathing, losing 521 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:13,320 Speaker 3: my breath. 522 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 2: Some number three. 523 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 3: Well, this isn't about address. They're all giving giving birth. 524 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:21,160 Speaker 1: Real. 525 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:26,399 Speaker 5: I mean there's a there's a sound effect of breathing. 526 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:29,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone, a bit of heavy breathing on the radio. 527 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:31,920 Speaker 3: What it is audible? Breathing audible? 528 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:43,719 Speaker 2: Oh my goodness? Around three song noumble one, we all 529 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 2: know that one. Let's just move on to song number two. 530 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:51,680 Speaker 3: Do we play that Tommy tonight? 531 00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 1: You there? 532 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, look like process? 533 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 2: Yeah? 534 00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,000 Speaker 3: Can we suppose? 535 00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:58,880 Speaker 2: I think sometimes you're like a parent who just says 536 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:00,119 Speaker 2: maybe and that means. 537 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:14,280 Speaker 3: Song number three. All types of beatles, you've got queen beetle. 538 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 5: What's the in excess? 539 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 3: It's a queen bee the leads leads, the. 540 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 5: Lead singer passed away in all three bends. 541 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:26,880 Speaker 2: Goodness, it really is your strength. 542 00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 3: Here's what I reckon. 543 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 2: Next week we play without whip of ruining it for 544 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:33,159 Speaker 2: all of us. 545 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 9: Good fun. 546 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 1: Thank you. 547 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 6: This is a fitzy we bring pat podcast. 548 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:42,879 Speaker 5: Well, this is an interesting one for you. The compatibility 549 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 5: problems divorce experts say that you can come back from 550 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 5: and the ones that you can't, will you survive in 551 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 5: the relationship. I mean the ones that you can't come 552 00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:01,760 Speaker 5: back from are pretty obvious, you know. Toxic relationships in 553 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:05,480 Speaker 5: different content. Contempt is a big one, you know. That's 554 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 5: the old eye rolling, the mocking, the sneering, the sarcastic 555 00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 5: put downs, the name calling. You can't come back from that. 556 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:16,879 Speaker 5: Inflexibility that's another one as well. If you refuse now, 557 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,480 Speaker 5: I'm not gonna do what you tell me what to do. 558 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,159 Speaker 5: You're never coming back from that, Kate, that's over. Your 559 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:22,399 Speaker 5: relationships done us. 560 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 2: Some people live like that for twenty years. 561 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 3: If you hook up with their sister. That can be 562 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:27,280 Speaker 3: hard to come back from. 563 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:30,159 Speaker 5: Do you know what, Let's focus on the ones that 564 00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 5: you can come back from, because it says you divorce 565 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 5: experts say that in fidelity you can come back from that. 566 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:37,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know people that have come back. 567 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 3: From that would take a lot of rebuilding. I would 568 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:40,639 Speaker 3: have thought it is. 569 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 2: That's I think it's a very easy thing to judge 570 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 2: when you haven't been in that situation. I'm not saying 571 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,359 Speaker 2: I had no no what I'm what I'm saying is 572 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 2: it's like I think before, it may happen within relationships 573 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,440 Speaker 2: that I say I would never put up with that 574 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 2: or I never you know, and I don't think you 575 00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 2: can anyway. 576 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 5: Well, loss of designs in there as well, you know, 577 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,960 Speaker 5: and that's sort of midlife crisis as well. Well, you 578 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 5: can get through that. I mean, it's it's tough, it 579 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 5: actually bolsters your relationship. And this is a really interesting 580 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,399 Speaker 5: one that I want to focus on though, is micro cheating. 581 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:17,359 Speaker 5: Micro Cheating is one of the most common problems that 582 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:21,479 Speaker 5: divorce experts in long term relationships, and this is social 583 00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:26,560 Speaker 5: media blurring the lines of what counts is innocent and infidelity. 584 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:31,159 Speaker 5: Now it's the subtle, secretive, or flirtatious behaviors that they 585 00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:34,399 Speaker 5: think don't technically break the rules. I'm not cheating, no, 586 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 5: but they still bruise trust. So it's your excessive liking 587 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:48,400 Speaker 5: or commenting like one okay DM, conversations that feel inappropriate, 588 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 5: deleting messages, you know, all that kind of stuff around. 589 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 5: There's a fair bit of microad shet because people do 590 00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 5: you can that's not cheating, Like, it's fine. I just 591 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,280 Speaker 5: liked her shot. I mean she's down the beach a 592 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 5: good time. What's wrong with that? 593 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 2: And I calm down? 594 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 3: Do you know what I think you should be able 595 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 3: to do in every relationship? 596 00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 4: You should be able to hand your phone over to 597 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:15,680 Speaker 4: your partner with absolute trust and confidence and go if 598 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:19,840 Speaker 4: you were uncomfortable about something, please go through and check everything. 599 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,120 Speaker 3: That's where she'd have two phones. I'm joking. 600 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,520 Speaker 4: You should be able to hand your phone over to 601 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 4: your partner and go whatever you want done, go for it. 602 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I agree. 603 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 2: I think sometimes the first girlfriend said to me, I 604 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 2: just he just I can't like he just wears that 605 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 2: thing with him. 606 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:39,760 Speaker 3: I couldn't get it. He never puts it down. 607 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 5: He's never left very very pretty I've just got a 608 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,600 Speaker 5: text message from Lisa. Actually, she's just written to me 609 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 5: your wife. Relationships aren't static, they evolve, They stretch, they wobble. 610 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:55,720 Speaker 3: What I'm not talking about the person you're in a relationship. 611 00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:57,160 Speaker 5: We're talking about the. 612 00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 3: Relationship relation on the body itself as a strug shut. 613 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 5: Not so much they do over time. They do stretch 614 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 5: and wobble over time, I suppose, don't they for everyone? 615 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,040 Speaker 5: Though theybble a bit more than others. Well they never 616 00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:10,680 Speaker 5: you know, one's always bigger than the other. Are my 617 00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,280 Speaker 5: right sisters? The Wobbles of Wimbledon. 618 00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 3: I used to watch that. 619 00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 5: I loved that. 620 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:23,480 Speaker 3: Wimbled little characters in an old British males. 621 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 2: Males were like little animals like that, like the little. 622 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 5: Well, you're the Australian version of the Wars which is grug. 623 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:35,880 Speaker 4: Not so I've been called his grug. I've been called 624 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 4: a bulb if I was a planned and a wobble 625 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 4: or whatever? 626 00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 1: You are? 627 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:43,320 Speaker 3: Twenty four ten? What do you want to call me today? 628 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 3: I shot? 629 00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,120 Speaker 6: This is the Fitzy Pate Podcast. 630 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 4: For a great shows like this, download the Nova player, Fire, 631 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:52,360 Speaker 4: the app Store or Google Player.