1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: This podcast is being recorded and produced on gadiicol Land. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 2: We pay our respects to the traditional custodians of this 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: country and elders past present. 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 1: We extend our respect to any First Nations Aboriginal and 5 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: Torres Strait Islander people joining. 6 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:16,439 Speaker 2: Us today, always was, always will be Aboriginal Land. 7 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 1: We're eating cheesecake once again today. 8 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:27,159 Speaker 2: Hmm. There's not often a record we have here that 9 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 2: we don't have a cheesecake lately or something. We've got Domini's, 10 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 2: We've got cheesecakes, but little birthday cake because obviously it 11 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:37,480 Speaker 2: was my birthday early this week or last week now, 12 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 2: but it was my birthday party on the weekend, and. 13 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 3: I thought in this Close Friends episode we could talk 14 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 3: all about it because I love talking about myself and 15 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 3: I love stretching out my birthday for as long as possible. 16 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 2: This week, by the way, you would have seen if 17 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 2: you haven't, on my Instagram and my TikTok, I've been 18 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 2: putting up all the content. I'm going to have a 19 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 2: little highlight on my Instagram profile if you want to 20 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 2: go and look that. And then I've been doing reels 21 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 2: all week of like you know, the house that we 22 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 2: stayed at and the the actual event itself and all 23 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 2: the table decor and all the rest of that. And 24 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 2: let me say, because you know, earlier this year we 25 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 2: spoke in a Close Friends episode, I think about this year. 26 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:20,639 Speaker 2: I just wanted quiet celebrating. I didn't want the big 27 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 2: bash with you know, Originally we were going to do 28 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 2: the whole rooftop party thing, invite two hundred people, make 29 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:33,040 Speaker 2: it this whole show, and have a big bash, and 30 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:34,960 Speaker 2: I just, first of all, it was going to be 31 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 2: way too expensive. I thought it was absolutely ridiculous. I 32 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 2: thought it wasn't going to be that much. And then 33 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 2: when I did the math and actually looked into it, it 34 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 2: was going to be like thirty thousand dollars. And I went, 35 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 2: that's a stupid can't afford to do that a wedding. 36 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 2: That's a wedding. And I decided instead that the vibe 37 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 2: at the moment for me, which is very unlike me, 38 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 2: but the vibe is quiet, quiet time, quiet time. I 39 00:01:58,440 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 2: just feel life so busy. I just wanted to have 40 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 2: a nice little quiet, you know, max thirty people, which 41 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 2: there were thirty of us all up. I hired a 42 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 2: venue down in Kangaroo Valley. It was called saddle Ridge. 43 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 2: It was absolutely beautiful. You can type saddle Ridge into 44 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 2: Google and it will come up. Hosted the event lunch 45 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 2: and there had a three course meal, had that catered. 46 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was really young. 47 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 2: Oh it was delicious, and I was so happy with 48 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 2: the service and everything. They brought a bartender and a 49 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 2: waiter and a waitress and obviously had the chef there 50 00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 2: Brook as well, So it was dining by Brook Silk, 51 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 2: which was recommended to me by the venue that I booked. 52 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 2: And I'm just so glad. I'm just so happy with 53 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 2: how everything went. Like, you know, given my life, Brittany 54 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 2: and how chaotic it is, I expected so many things 55 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 2: to go wrong. I just thought in my heart of 56 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 2: hearts that it would be pissing down rain all day. 57 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 2: It wasn't. You could not have asked for a better day, 58 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 2: you know what. 59 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: The weather was so good. My middle part is red raw. 60 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, the sun was a little too hot. 61 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 2: We did have to get some of the pool umbrellas. 62 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, we brought them out, but it was too late. 63 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 1: My fucking scalp is red raw. And now it's gonna 64 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: you know what it's gonna do. It's gonna peal and 65 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: then it's gonna look like I have the world's worst dandroid. 66 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: But it's my peeling scalp. I just have my head 67 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 1: down and Ellie's in the studio and she goes, is 68 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 1: your scalp burn? Yeah, it's fucking sins. 69 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 2: My bald patches are is red raw as well. So 70 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 2: I'm with you on that one. But yeah, fabulous time. 71 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 2: I couldn't be happier. 72 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm just laughing at you because we were dressed 73 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 1: up for our main episode is one another and Matt 74 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 1: still has wing liner and like massive lips but normal clothes. 75 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: It's giving tragic. 76 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's awful, and we don't even have a makeup white. 77 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 2: So we're driving home like this in the in the 78 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 2: elevator in my apartment, Halla, how are you welcome? Come 79 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 2: on in? Yeah? What level are you? Press the button 80 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 2: for you? Anyway? Yeah, I just thought like a million 81 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 2: things would go wrong given me and my life, and 82 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 2: that's fine. I'm very happy to adapt when things go 83 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 2: wrong in my life. I'm very resilient. And I also 84 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 2: think everything is content and everything for the plot, you 85 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 2: know what I mean, If things go wrong, God, it's 86 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 2: going to be a good story, you know what I mean. 87 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:17,919 Speaker 2: But I'm sad to report, but I'm also thrilled that 88 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 2: literally this was just like the most perfect day ever 89 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 2: and that not a thing went wrong, which is crazy. 90 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 2: The weather was perfect, the vibes were perfect. Everyone was 91 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 2: in the best mood. Everyone just mingled with each other, getting. 92 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: A lot chat and having a good time. 93 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 2: It was like we were one big friend group. And 94 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 2: there were so many people from so many different parts 95 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:39,040 Speaker 2: of my life that. 96 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 1: Have never mentioned to your friends. 97 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 2: You've never met any You've never crossed paths in my life. Yeah, 98 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 2: I have school friends, obviously, had a family. I had 99 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 2: friends from the gym and dance class, and I had 100 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 2: friends from social media. Obviously, I had friends from I 101 00:04:56,240 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 2: had different parts of my family there. Oh, it was 102 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 2: it was great. It was great. Everyone really gelled well together. 103 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 2: And the vibes just from the get go, I mean, 104 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 2: the property was so stunning that as soon as everybody 105 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 2: got in they were just like, oh my god, what 106 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 2: the heck is this? And straight away that everyone was 107 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 2: just in a good mood. And I was like, yes, darling, hello, welcome. 108 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 1: It was kangaroos hoping by. Yeah, there was no. 109 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 2: Leopards, no no leopards. 110 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: And baby monkeys if you know, you know. 111 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 2: But yeah, did you have a good time? 112 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: I had the best time. It was just vibey, like 113 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: just the perfect event. And I think the weather really, 114 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: you know, when it's just like a fucking beautiful day, 115 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 1: Like nothing makes me happier than when the weather is good. 116 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 1: I've realized this lately. My mood is really dependent on 117 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,719 Speaker 1: the weather. If it is a gloomy, yucky day, I 118 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 1: feel like your day just isn't the same. But like 119 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 1: the venue that we were at, the sun was fucking shining. 120 00:05:57,360 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 1: There's only a couple of little clouds that went by 121 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 1: every now and then. Then we had the music going, 122 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: the table set up in the middle of nowhere. It 123 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: was stunning. It was just like you couldn't have a 124 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 1: bad day there, I know, And everyone was just she 125 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: had a chattering mingling. The food was fucking yum yeah yeah. 126 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 2: And there was no seafood, no seafood, no, no, no, yeah. 127 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 2: Some of our scrollers in the broadcast channel were like, 128 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:22,359 Speaker 2: where's the seafood, because Brittney posted a photo of the 129 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 2: menu in the broadcast channel and everyone was like, where's 130 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 2: the seafood? First of all, hate seafood. Also, one of 131 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 2: my friends who was there does have a very high 132 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 2: allergy to seafood. So fair, I mean, I obviously would 133 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 2: have just if I wanted seafood, made sure that she 134 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 2: got the correct thing. But I was just like, I 135 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 2: hate seafood anyway, so it's just easier to not have any, 136 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:44,920 Speaker 2: and especially on a hot day like that, I think 137 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 2: the time and place for seafood. We were in Kangaroo Valley, 138 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 2: where nowhere near the sea, where no one ney of 139 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 2: the ocean. We're out in the bush. Babe. I can't 140 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 2: imagine having salmon sashimi in the fucking bush. Nothing worse 141 00:06:56,040 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 2: to me than that. It just didn't fit the vibe. 142 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:03,840 Speaker 2: We had kangaroo on as the entree. What entree? Did 143 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:05,800 Speaker 2: you get the goats cheese panacotta or. 144 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, the goats cheese panocotta. But I tried a little 145 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: bit of the kangaroo as well, which felt a little 146 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: bit bad, like felt a bit wrong because there was 147 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 1: kangaroos jumping. 148 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 2: Well, I knew we were in Kangaroo Valley, so when 149 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 2: I obviously got the menu. So how it worked with 150 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 2: the chef was she just sents through. This is my menu, 151 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 2: and there were like six options for each thing, and 152 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 2: then I just picked two to do alternating and I 153 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 2: picked the kangaroo because we're in Kangaroo Valley, and I 154 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 2: thought that's really fun. Then when we got to the property, 155 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 2: there are about fifteen kangaroos that actually are on the problem. 156 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 1: That was their fucking brother. And I know because I 157 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 1: saw there was one missing. 158 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, it's a little too on the 159 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 2: nose for me. You know. Originally I was like, this 160 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 2: is camp. We're in Kangaroo Valley, the entree can be kangaroo. 161 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 2: That makes sense. That's so fun. And then when I 162 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 2: got there and they're actually kangaroos bounding by while people 163 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 2: were trying to eat their kangaroo. This is just what 164 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 2: makes me. 165 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 1: Question like who I am as a person. Right, So, 166 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: if you've listened to this week's main episode, I cried 167 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 1: over a photo of a leopard and a monkey, and 168 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: I felt bad in that instance, But then I ate 169 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 1: kangaroo on the weekend. So where do I draw the 170 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: fucking line of what I feel bad for and what 171 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:09,480 Speaker 1: I don't. 172 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 2: And what main did you have? 173 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: I had the steak nice? 174 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 2: How was that? Because I didn't actually get a chance 175 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 2: to eat the steak. I had the chicken, which I wanted. 176 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 2: I told them, I said, can you just make sure 177 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 2: I swapped with star? 178 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: Okay, nice, I gave her my chicken. I'm a red 179 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: meat girl. 180 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 2: Okay nice see, but like. 181 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 3: What you know? 182 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: I cried over a photo of a baby monkey and 183 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: then I eat steak, like make it make fucking sense. 184 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 2: And then for dessert, we obviously had sticky date pudding. 185 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: Which was fabulous, but there was no ice cream. 186 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's my fault because I actually didn't specify 187 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 2: that so that dessert. Brooke was like, oh you can 188 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 2: here's my dessert options, or I can just do whatever 189 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 2: you'd like. And all I said was, can you just 190 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:52,480 Speaker 2: do your take on a sticky date pudding? I didn't 191 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 2: clarify I wanted ice cream and cream, but it's still worse. 192 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 1: Oh, it was delicious. I put that in the broadcast too, 193 00:08:58,400 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 1: and everyone was gone with the. 194 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 2: Ice c Yeah, the ice cream would have been a 195 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:05,439 Speaker 2: great little addition, especially given the day, but it didn't 196 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 2: need it. 197 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: No, it was fucking yum. 198 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:12,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then the vibes were good. The first hour 199 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 2: we just had exclusively speak now and Fearless from Taylor Swift. 200 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 2: The second two hours we had all of my favorite 201 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 2: songs but the acoustic version, so that the first hour 202 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 2: was arrivals. The next two hours was to sit down lunch. 203 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 2: We had a playlist full of all my favorite songs, 204 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 2: you know, like only Girl in the World, but the 205 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:31,439 Speaker 2: acoustic guitar. 206 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: Version, which I was really pleased about because when Kate 207 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 1: and I were driving, we were talking about what songs 208 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: do we think Matt's going to play, and I was saying, 209 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:41,599 Speaker 1: I hope it's going to be like chill vibes, like 210 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: acoustic or even like Italian Hinterland, I don't know vibes. 211 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:48,319 Speaker 1: But then we're like, now, it's probably just going to 212 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: be Kylie and Lady Guy. But then we got there 213 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:53,680 Speaker 1: and it was, but it was acoustic version. Yeah, So 214 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, you hit the nail on the head. 215 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 2: So spinning around was playing Dancing Queen obviously, but all 216 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 2: the acoustic versions. That was such a nice vibe. Loved that, 217 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 2: except the sun was so hot my phone was overheating 218 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 2: and the music the music kept stopped playing and I 219 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:09,079 Speaker 2: was like, bloody ells. We had to get out the 220 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:11,200 Speaker 2: pool umbrellas. Some of the big strong men in the 221 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:13,760 Speaker 2: family went over and got the pool umbrellas and brought 222 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 2: those over and then everyone I think, was content once 223 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 2: that had happened. And then for the last hour it 224 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:22,959 Speaker 2: was like party songs. And then that's when I was 225 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 2: in the pool. Everyone started leaving, people were people were 226 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 2: leaving things like that, and then I got in the pool. 227 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 2: I opened some of my presents. 228 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: We did like a freaking baby shower present open. 229 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 2: It was awkward. I find opening presents at a party 230 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:40,960 Speaker 2: a little bit tacky, like I didn't want to do that, 231 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 2: but then so many people gave me just such perfect 232 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:46,319 Speaker 2: gifts that everyone was kind of like, I want to 233 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 2: see your reaction to my gift. I would have opened 234 00:10:48,640 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 2: them later on in the night, away from everyone, but 235 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 2: you know, so many people like, for example, you and 236 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 2: Kate got me some things for my bookshelfs and books 237 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 2: and then a little press to press into my books 238 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 2: that says like the library of alright, hay, which was 239 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 2: just my reaction to opening that was so fabulous. And 240 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 2: then the funniest part is to other people. My cousin 241 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 2: and also my best friend also got me the exact 242 00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 2: same thing. Yeah, so now I've got three, so I'll 243 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 2: have to do some sort of rating system with my 244 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:15,560 Speaker 2: books when. 245 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 1: I stamped them, because they're all different at least. 246 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:21,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then my friend Seemy got me the most gorgeous. 247 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 2: When I opened the box and it said Camilla on it, 248 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 2: I was like, oh my gosh, what the heck? And 249 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:29,679 Speaker 2: it was this gorgeous Camilla towel. And then obviously I 250 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:34,120 Speaker 2: was gifted the Smeg kettle and the Smeg toaster, and oh, 251 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 2: I just got spoiled, like I really like everyone went 252 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 2: above and beyond with their gifts. That was all really thoughtful, 253 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,480 Speaker 2: and so I enjoyed opening them in front of people 254 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 2: and letting them see my reaction. But usually I wouldn't 255 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 2: do that, but it was funny. It was like everyone 256 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 2: just gathered around in a circle and there I was 257 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 2: on this concrete slab in the middle of the bush 258 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 2: opening all these gifts. And of course I got the 259 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 2: Olivia gen Coin purse. This world nice. That was nice? 260 00:11:59,360 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 1: You did? 261 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was just it was it was great, It 262 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:03,359 Speaker 2: was gorgeous. 263 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 1: I got very wholesome thirty. 264 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 2: I've got plenty of a lot more presents, and I 265 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 2: didn't expect that because obviously, I you know, coming down 266 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 2: to Kangaroo Valley which is about two hours south of 267 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 2: Sydney for anyone who doesn't know, and it's not an 268 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 2: easy drive. 269 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: The reason I'm down the fucking side of this huge 270 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 1: mountain cliff. I'm getting motion sick and my ears are blocked. 271 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 1: Like that's how steep and windy this fucking mountain was. 272 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 1: But it was worth it. It was a nice view. 273 00:12:31,960 --> 00:12:33,960 Speaker 2: I've just eaten some cheesecas. 274 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 1: I know, I just scoffed my whole piece down now 275 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 1: for sick, like it's sitting in my chest like I 276 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:37,439 Speaker 1: need to vomit. 277 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 2: You know what we're happening after this? Pies, Baby Pies. 278 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, actually I could do with the pie. 279 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 2: Ellie go Google girl, come on in as an outsider. 280 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 2: I know you haven't seen lot a lot of the 281 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 2: content from this week yet it's all going to be 282 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 2: posted this week and then by the time this episode 283 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 2: comes out, everyone would have seen it. But as someone 284 00:12:57,080 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 2: who sorry wasn't at the birthday party, what what questions 285 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:04,439 Speaker 2: do you have? 286 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 1: I want to know the most famous person that was there, 287 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:10,559 Speaker 1: probably like who were the salt? 288 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 2: Who are the names that I've known the names I 289 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:17,200 Speaker 2: need to drop well, Brittany, Tanya Hennessy, Tanya Hennessy, Kate 290 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 2: Dedicated Lifestyle, We had Olivia White, we had Luckie McIntyre 291 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 2: and we had Star and was that they were all 292 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 2: the famous people. 293 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 1: I think pretty much. 294 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 2: My dad, My dad's quite famous. 295 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:30,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, your dad was. Cutie did a really nice speech. 296 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 2: It was gorgeous. Yeah. And then I have a question 297 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 2: for you, Brick, because did you share a room with 298 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:39,080 Speaker 2: someone the night before? I know? 299 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 1: So I stayed with Kate. So we had this whole 300 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 1: fucking debarcle of like what our travel plans were going 301 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 1: to be because Kangaroo Valley was three and a half 302 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: hours for her and it's like four hours from me. 303 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:52,839 Speaker 1: But I came to Sydney in between. So there was 304 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 1: this whole thing like what are we gonna do? Where 305 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 1: we going to stay? So we went and stayed in 306 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 1: Kangaroo Valley on the Friday night. But we had a 307 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: two bedroom place. Why I thought you were like sharing 308 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 1: a room with someone and I was like, God, that's so, 309 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 1: how could you do that? Well, you couldn't share a 310 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:08,680 Speaker 1: room with someone. 311 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 2: I don't know, Matt, Like, would you share a room 312 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 2: with a friend now, yeah, for sure, I had a 313 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 2: mom So when you get away you're like yes, I'm. 314 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 1: Like no, let's know. So Kate and I stayed in 315 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 1: a two bedroom place, but for hours in the night, 316 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 1: like I was in the room with two single beds, 317 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 1: and she just like she's like, can we hang out together? 318 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 1: And so we were just hanging out, laughing in bed. 319 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 1: It was actually really good that we did that because 320 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: when we haven't seen each other for a while, because 321 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 1: everyone's just fucking busy. And so that night, Matt like, 322 00:14:41,760 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 1: I got to Kangaroo Valley before Kate and I went 323 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 1: to Cohl's before and got like all the stuff of 324 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 1: the platter. I made a platter. Kate got there like 325 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 1: an hour after me, and we sat in the little 326 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 1: lund room of this thing and we didn't look at 327 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 1: our phone for like two hours and we just talked 328 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 1: and it was like so good for both of us. 329 00:14:57,520 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 1: We just did like a big catch up. We vented 330 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 1: about our life issues, our family problems. It was just 331 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 1: fucking great vibes for us. 332 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 2: And that's actually what I liked about the area as well. 333 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 2: As there wasn't any reception and there was there was 334 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 2: Wi Fi at the house, but obviously I didn't give 335 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 2: that to every guest that came for the luncheon, but 336 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 2: we didn't. 337 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 1: We weren't on our phones around the day. 338 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 2: We weren't enough phones all day. You know. We made 339 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 2: that fun little Domingo reel and like that was fun. 340 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 2: It took us five seconds. It was literally a one take. 341 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 1: That was our first take and that was the winner. 342 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 2: And yeah, there was just like no reception or anything, 343 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 2: so no one was on there phones. I feel no 344 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 2: one got bored the whole time, which is a hard 345 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 2: thing as well. The other thing I will say is 346 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 2: I feel I didn't spend enough time, like I feel 347 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 2: even with you Breed. I mean, you stayed after the 348 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 2: celebrations were done, you hung around for a couple hours. 349 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 2: I got to spend some time with you then, But 350 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 2: I just don't feel like I spent enough time with you, 351 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 2: Kate Starr Locky, Like I didn't get a chance to 352 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 2: really like, do you feel like I spent it in 353 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 2: the actual. 354 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: Time of No, I didn't see you all day. 355 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, even like like yeah, people like, oh 356 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 3: my god, I feel like I didn't even speak to them, 357 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 3: but you must And I was trying to mingle with everyone. 358 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 2: But it's just one of those things, isn't it. When 359 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 2: you throw a party like that, You just can't get 360 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 2: around to everyone and give everyone the time of day. 361 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 2: But I try. I'm my best. Have you had. 362 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 1: Anybody message you offended that they weren't invited? 363 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 2: No, that's good. No, But I think I only invited 364 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 2: the people who should be there. I mean there's a 365 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 2: few other friends who I'm like, oh, maybe I could 366 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 2: have invited them, But if they weren't there, we're not. 367 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 2: We're not close friends in my eyes. Sorry if you 368 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 2: think we're besties, but clearly we're not, because I I 369 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 2: meticulously went through that list one hundred times. The seating 370 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 2: plan was the most stressful thing in the world. Oh, 371 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 2: there were a few people who I invited who couldn't 372 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 2: come though, Sorry, so there was so I mean, I 373 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:00,800 Speaker 2: don't want to say that about everyone, but there are 374 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 2: a few people who I invited who didn't come. But also, 375 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:05,679 Speaker 2: if you didn't come and make the effort, well are 376 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:07,639 Speaker 2: we even friends anymore? Anyway? I don't know, you be 377 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 2: the judge. I'm so petty, you know, all I asked. 378 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:14,480 Speaker 2: I I just asked on one thing and a few 379 00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:17,680 Speaker 2: people as well who said they couldn't come. I feel 380 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:20,440 Speaker 2: I've gone above and beyond for them in my friendship 381 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 2: and they just didn't give me a good enough excuse. 382 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 2: I'm okay if you've got an excuse, if you've got 383 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:27,439 Speaker 2: a wedding on or something like that, like two of 384 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 2: my friends Jess and Andy, they had weddings, totally get it. 385 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:34,639 Speaker 2: Of course that's already locked in. I'm not offended. You 386 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 2: don't have to come, and please don't feel bad for 387 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 2: not coming. It's not them. But there are other people 388 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 2: who just like were like, nah, sorry, and then you know, 389 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 2: I see what they did on the weekend and I'm like, oh, 390 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 2: so that's what you didn't come to my birthday for no, 391 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:49,160 Speaker 2: and hope you had fun. Never speak to you again 392 00:17:52,040 --> 00:17:54,119 Speaker 2: like that. I'm sorry. I put a lot of effort 393 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:55,000 Speaker 2: into my friendship. 394 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:57,120 Speaker 1: But I think I feel like that's you sometimes, Matt, 395 00:17:57,200 --> 00:18:01,000 Speaker 1: Like I think you go above and beyond, you know, 396 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 1: for people that maybe wouldn't. 397 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:06,400 Speaker 2: You're saying, maybe I do too much for people that 398 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 2: I'm blind to it. I agree. I feel like I 399 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 2: have been like that my whole life. And it's either that. 400 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:16,359 Speaker 2: It's either I go above and beyond for people who 401 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:18,320 Speaker 2: don't do the same to me, or I go above 402 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:21,879 Speaker 2: and beyond and they don't see it as above and beyond. 403 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 2: Like I feel like I've got I do like so 404 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:28,200 Speaker 2: much and I'm like, fuck, I'm a really good friend. 405 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 2: But to them, it's like the minimum, you know what 406 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:33,240 Speaker 2: I mean. So it's funny how that works, isn't it. 407 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:36,159 Speaker 2: But anyway, everyone who was there, I absolutely love on 408 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 2: the door and I was very happy that everyone took 409 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:41,280 Speaker 2: the time to come out, and I just you know, 410 00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 2: I made my little speech, and I you. 411 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 1: Made three speeches. 412 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:50,719 Speaker 2: I kept forgetting things because because what the problem was, 413 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 2: I had just written down dot points on my notes app, 414 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 2: but because of the sun, I couldn't fucking see my 415 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 2: phone screen. So I've stood up to give my speech 416 00:18:57,760 --> 00:18:59,399 Speaker 2: and I've looked down at my phone and the sun's 417 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:01,480 Speaker 2: so bright that I can't see what I've written down. 418 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 2: So I kept forgetting. I had people to thank, and 419 00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 2: I forgot to thank them in the first speech, so 420 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 2: I had to make a second speech to thank them, 421 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:10,280 Speaker 2: and the third speech was just to thank the chef 422 00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 2: and the stuff. 423 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I think I got a mention all two 424 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 1: which I was just stoked about as well. 425 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 2: Because I mentioned I was mentioning. So for anyone who 426 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:19,919 Speaker 2: wants to know what happened in my speech, you know, I, 427 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 2: you know, set all my achievements in the past a 428 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 2: couple of years leading up to thirty because I do 429 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:29,439 Speaker 2: feel like, you know, for me age and getting older, 430 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:31,719 Speaker 2: I really don't care about it. Like the only thing 431 00:19:31,760 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 2: I've noticed is that, like my body is definitely getting older. 432 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:37,119 Speaker 2: Like I'm like, fuck now I'm geriatric, love, but my 433 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:40,199 Speaker 2: attitude is not geriatric at all. Like my attitude is 434 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 2: like life is only just really beginning. I kind of 435 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 2: look at my twenty eight and twenty nine years as 436 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 2: in like while I was twenty eight and twenty nine, 437 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:50,679 Speaker 2: I did more things in those two years than I 438 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 2: think my entire twenty seven years before that, you know 439 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 2: what I mean. And I'm like, it really is only 440 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 2: just kind of like starting, and I'm only just doing 441 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 2: all of these fabulous things. And yes, you're mention was 442 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 2: that we won People's Choice Award for the podcast. That 443 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 2: was the mention you got. I spoke about my protein 444 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 2: water collab with Muscle Nation. You know, I've been doing 445 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 2: this for how long? That's the first kind of product 446 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:13,359 Speaker 2: collab that I've ever done. All these things I just 447 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:17,440 Speaker 2: like of only just starting to do, and that makes 448 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:19,399 Speaker 2: me feel good. So the premise of my speech is 449 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 2: I just want to let everyone know that I'm very 450 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 2: genuinely happy with my life and like the direction my 451 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 2: life is going and the people who are surrounding me. 452 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 2: And I also wanted to thank everybody, not only for traveling, 453 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 2: but it was really nice because for the people who 454 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:38,359 Speaker 2: were there, the response from every single person who was 455 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,879 Speaker 2: there was like when I invited them, they were like, 456 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 2: of course I wouldn't miss it for the world, Like 457 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 2: of course I'll be there, of course, Like it wasn't 458 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 2: a question to them that they wouldn't be at my birthday. 459 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:52,520 Speaker 2: And that honestly really surprised me because I do feel 460 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 2: in my life I've had a lot of really lackluster 461 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 2: friendships that I've just let go on too long, and 462 00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:02,040 Speaker 2: I've always been second, third, fourth priority to these people. 463 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:04,920 Speaker 2: And so for people to just go, oh my god, 464 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,720 Speaker 2: of course I've already booked accommodation. Yeah, I'll sort this out, Yep, 465 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 2: got the babysitter, yep, yep, yep, done, done, done, I 466 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 2: was like, Oh my god, Wow, Like these people really 467 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 2: care a lot about me, and that was that was 468 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:16,720 Speaker 2: really nice. So that was the premise of. 469 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,400 Speaker 1: My speech, Welcome to your thirties. 470 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:19,920 Speaker 2: Matt just wanted to let them know. 471 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,880 Speaker 1: Welcome to your thirties. I honestly see our twenties as 472 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 1: you think you know what you're doing, you think you've 473 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 1: got your life sort of doing all these things. But 474 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 1: I reckon our twenties is honestly fuckery. Like I think 475 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:34,880 Speaker 1: it's you think, like literally in your brain in your twenties, 476 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:37,000 Speaker 1: you think you've got it all sorted out. I thought 477 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:39,439 Speaker 1: the same, But I think it's honestly just a trial 478 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 1: period of you still figuring out who you are. And 479 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:44,440 Speaker 1: I reckon, our thirties are going to be the best 480 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 1: years ever, and then I think forties is going to 481 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:47,120 Speaker 1: be even better. 482 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,440 Speaker 2: I reckon, We're going to get to forty and go, oh, thirty, 483 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,439 Speaker 2: thirties was a trial, right, yeah, and now we know 484 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:53,239 Speaker 2: what we're doing, and then you get to fifty and 485 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:55,159 Speaker 2: you go, I'll still don't know what I'm doing, but 486 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:56,879 Speaker 2: fuck it, let's just enjoy life. 487 00:21:56,880 --> 00:22:00,960 Speaker 1: Thirties like realizing like who matters? Who doesn't? Like, you know, 488 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 1: all these thoughts and feelings that you're having after your birthday, 489 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 1: like that's part of growing up and like maturing. 490 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:12,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, I know. I'm in my I'm in my 491 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,640 Speaker 2: cutoff era. I mean, I can't be bothered. I mean, 492 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 2: I can't be bothered, era, I can't be bothered. I 493 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 2: can't be bothered. If you, I'm very scratched my back 494 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:27,000 Speaker 2: scratch your back. Yeah, you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours. 495 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 2: I've always been that type of person. You do a 496 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 2: favor for me, I'll never forget that. I'll do that 497 00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:33,119 Speaker 2: favor for you whenever you need it, you know what 498 00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 2: I mean. And Yeah, Unfortunately, throwing a birthday party like 499 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:40,200 Speaker 2: this really puts himTo perspective. Who will scratch your back 500 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 2: and who won't? And so it was. It was very 501 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 2: eye opening, but honestly, nothing could have ruined the day. 502 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,359 Speaker 2: It was absolutely perfect. It was so fabulous. I was 503 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 2: in this gorgeous little billy jay dress and everyone nailed 504 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 2: the brief. Everyone nailed the brief. 505 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 1: We did. Everyone look great when you showed up. When 506 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:00,359 Speaker 1: we showed up, and you coul see everyone's stand around 507 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 1: and they're like spring vibes outfit. It was just giving 508 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:06,159 Speaker 1: like movie. 509 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm glad because even the people I was worried 510 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 2: about with the dress cod I was like, oh god, 511 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:10,679 Speaker 2: what are they going to wear? That actually nailed it. 512 00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:14,119 Speaker 2: So I was very very happy with everyone because you know, 513 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 2: as I don't know if you knew, but in the 514 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 2: on my stories, I was saying I'd given everyone a 515 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:22,680 Speaker 2: mood board, and I was like, oh, it's very stressful 516 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 2: because I didn't want anyone to sholf in dark colors 517 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,439 Speaker 2: or black. You know, we wanted like spring florals and 518 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 2: light colors and white and linens and blah blah blah. 519 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,200 Speaker 2: And yeah, everyone did really well. I was like, God, 520 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,439 Speaker 2: it's just going to throw everything else, everything off if 521 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 2: someone rocks up in a black pants or black shirt 522 00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 2: or something. But yeah, everyone did a very good job. 523 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 2: So I'm very happy. So there we go. I'm stoked. 524 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 2: Thank you for listening. You can see all of the 525 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 2: content on my Instagram, my TikTok and Instagram highlights as well. 526 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:51,480 Speaker 2: I'm sure you're all across it though. I did a 527 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:53,720 Speaker 2: house tour, I did the table to call, I did 528 00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:56,719 Speaker 2: Oh what else do I do? I can't even remember, 529 00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,439 Speaker 2: but anyway, you'll love it so thanks for listening to 530 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 2: this episode, Scrollers. I hope you've enjoyed joining us for 531 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,679 Speaker 2: close friends, and Brittany, we. 532 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:07,680 Speaker 1: Will see you next Tuesday. 533 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:11,440 Speaker 2: See you next Tuesday.