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Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables when you're in the middle of

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Speaker 1: the dirty deed. Yeah, and you know, intimate missionary, you know,

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Speaker 1: because we're crazy like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because we're just you know, you get it, you

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Speaker 2: get it. Yeah, we're crazy like that. Yeah. When did

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Speaker 2: you realize it was lust not love? When the sex

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Speaker 2: started to feel like a chore? Heavy? That's heavy buck.

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Speaker 2: Sex is never felt like that for me. Relatable The

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Speaker 2: Relatables podcast is hosted by myself What you Clark ak

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Speaker 2: My May and my partner in crime or my podcaster

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Speaker 2: are in crime as you like to say, mister Jake

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Speaker 2: Craig aka Daddy Dad there. Yeah, Shirt say I got

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Speaker 2: nine to nine problems and a sweet little treat would

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Speaker 2: solve most of them. Yeah, what's your problems? Man? I

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Speaker 2: don't know. I'm not gonna lie to you, though, I've

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Speaker 2: opened up a can of where do I start? Lately.

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Speaker 2: I was talking about it with Beth last night. Do

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Speaker 2: you ever.

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Speaker 1: Are you ever looking for like an outfit? Because when

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Speaker 1: I come here, I've got a pack, you know, for

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Speaker 1: multiple days, and I'm thinking about, Okay, well what do

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Speaker 2: The episodes? Yeah? Yeah, do you ever look at your

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Speaker 2: clothes and just think actually hate all of them. Actually,

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Speaker 2: I just freaking hate all of it. I'm sick of

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Speaker 2: Like I wear two pairs of jeans and I've got

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Speaker 2: the other pairs and I can't throw them away neither. Also,

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Speaker 2: it is, I don't know. Just late late last night

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Speaker 2: when I was packing, I just was like, I hate

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Speaker 2: everything I have, But if I came in your room

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Speaker 2: with a sweet treat, that would solve that issue. And

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Speaker 2: where I actually was I went off topic of where

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Speaker 2: I originally wanted to go. There, wherever I was originally

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Speaker 2: wanting to go was? I am obsessed with sugar lately? Really,

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Speaker 2: let's your go to currently? It's fucking easter, dude. Really,

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Speaker 2: it's the eggs, bro man, you can only eat them

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Speaker 2: at Easter time. That's what I'm saying. Because it's Easter time. Oh,

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Speaker 2: You're like, eggs are out? Your mentality is like they're

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Speaker 2: not here for long. I've got to eat them well. Wedness, Easter, Wednesday,

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Speaker 2: after Day East. I've known the first Sunday of each April,

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Speaker 2: so it's in a week in a bit. No, No,

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Speaker 2: my parents are coming here for it, and they're getting

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Speaker 2: here on the seventeenth. I've got no idea that's when

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Speaker 2: a long weekend is? Seventeen? Do we get a long weekend?

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Speaker 2: Do we get a couple days off? Boss man young Padawa?

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Speaker 2: We get so the long weekend for everyone else we're working, Babe,

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Speaker 2: from it's Friday to Monday. They get Friday and Monday.

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Speaker 2: After you get a four. I guess I can still

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Speaker 2: pay you that week. Appreciated the extra day, appreciated it.

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Speaker 2: I really appreciate it. But today, Jake, we're starting with

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Speaker 2: a relatables classic, aren't we. We haven't done this in

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Speaker 2: a hot minute. Red flag, Green flag is back. It's back,

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Speaker 2: guy fucking bat. I know better than ever as well,

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Speaker 2: I must say. Maybe. Actually, I don't know. When I

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Speaker 2: I remember we did one once, and we've done a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we had one taken out of context once.

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Speaker 1: And a Daily Mail News article written about us, and

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Speaker 2: because Jake will occasionally send me clips and be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I think, I just I think we need a slight

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Speaker 1: tactical controversy goes to Kayla.

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Speaker 2: it's just so stressful. Oh yeah, I don't want that

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Speaker 2: like a simple life, Jake, a simple life, So don't

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Speaker 2: simple life. No argum men's no no hate or love, alright,

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Speaker 2: just getting through the day. Can I kick this one off?

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Speaker 2: Yes you can, you can. Red Flag Green Flag shares

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Speaker 2: this episode with a friend green as it gets. If

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Speaker 2: we could ask one thing, guys, could you please share

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Speaker 2: this episode with a friend. It's free to do. Helps

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Speaker 2: us out, tell a friend to tell a friend that's

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Speaker 2: your today. That's all you got to do. Mate, Send

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Speaker 2: it to a guy and be like this would help

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Speaker 2: send it to a guy, Like, yeah, so these guys.

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Speaker 2: Joe Rogan recommended these guys fly just to him, he's

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Speaker 2: medlight all the time. Yeah, I don't take it now,

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Speaker 2: he's my actual one one. That's good. Red flag, green flag.

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Speaker 2: can't do it. It's it's no a red flag, damn. Okay.

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Speaker 2: He holds in his farts. But as soon as you

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Speaker 2: leave the bedroom he rips. Asked on your pillow? So

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Speaker 2: there isn't a sound. What it's like yours? So he's respectful,

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Speaker 2: That's just you wouldn't find a pillow. So she doesn't

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Speaker 2: I'm the what's there, If I'm the ignorance is bliss

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Speaker 2: say green. But if I am an outsider, let's say

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Speaker 2: your girlfriend. No, not anymore, it's trained mate. Really, you

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Speaker 2: still try and hold him in? Yeah? Yeah, I let

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Speaker 2: Red flag or green flag? They prefer coke zero to

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Speaker 2: Pepsi Max. So I like to think I can change

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Speaker 2: everyone's opinion on coke zero and Pepsi Max. And if

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Speaker 2: so like if you leave them. This is a great debate, Jake.

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Speaker 2: I think you're fine because you did your due diligence.

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Speaker 2: who gets be selfish? Red flag or green flag? He

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Speaker 2: send me your location? But what yeah? Yeah, leave me alone? Yea,

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Speaker 1: So if you are somewhere and you need someone to

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Speaker 2: tricky out there, all right, Jake, I am very very excited,

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Speaker 2: because Relatable's book club is about to be in session.

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Speaker 2: It is I have in front of me on Amazon

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Speaker 2: a Court of Thorns and Roses by Sarah Jy not Jane.

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Speaker 2: Could be Jane. I don't know, Mats, what do you

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Speaker 2: maybe actually you should do.

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Speaker 2: I never do. No, it's going to be updates on

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00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 2: updates and if you've already read it, good and if

423
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,359
Speaker 2: you don't want to read it fair. Yeah, I think

424
00:22:56,440 --> 00:23:00,199
Speaker 2: I'm thinking of a tactic. Maybe I'm pretty I'm good

425
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:02,639
Speaker 2: at leaving stuff for the last second. I'm thinking I'm

426
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 2: going to read before I go to sleep each night. Yeah.

427
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 2: The only thing I want to do is I think

428
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 2: I want to read it maybe three days before we record,

429
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 2: so then it's semi fresh in my brain. Good idea.

430
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 2: But if I've got are you going to read like

431
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,600
Speaker 2: three chapters? How many pages is three chapters?

432
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:21,440
Speaker 1: I was gonna read chapter, Let's just be so so

433
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 1: fucking for real and just admit that three chapters is

434
00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 1: actually probably nothing.

435
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 2: Like honestly, people will sit down and read a book

436
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 2: a day. Yeah, four book in a day and be

437
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:38,360
Speaker 2: like this is the best day ever. Maybe well three

438
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 2: to start, and then maybe we'll go like five or ten? Ten?

439
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 2: Ten seems like heave, that's more than one a day.

440
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 2: I feel like, isn't there a good thing about like

441
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 2: reading ten pages a day keeps the doctor away or

442
00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 2: something something about ten? What is it?

443
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:51,639
Speaker 1: Maybe part of seventy five hard is like you have

444
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,440
Speaker 1: to read ten pages a day or something. But that's

445
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:57,400
Speaker 1: the vocabularies are going to widen. Yours is already max mate, exactly.

446
00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying is it's maxed out with my

447
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 2: current frontal lobe development, frontal load development. As you know

448
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:08,400
Speaker 2: on Patreon, Jake has been having a lot, a lot

449
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 2: of frontal lobe development.

450
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, if you haven't been on Patreon, head over there.

451
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 1: I guess how much costs per month?

452
00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 2: Five dollars? How much per week? A dollar twenty five

453
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 2: seventeen cents a day in Australia, And Australia's dollar right

454
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 2: now sucks, so if you wait to me. But if

455
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 2: you're from the US, if you're from Canada, if you're

456
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,680
Speaker 2: from the UK, you can basically rob us anywhere in

457
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 2: Europe kind of be like fucking ten cents a day less. Yeah,

458
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:31,639
Speaker 2: literally ten euros. But go find out about Jake's frontal

459
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 2: frontal I don't even know what I said. Yeah, lobo

460
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 2: development was a frontal cortex, what's that? The pre cortex,

461
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 2: frontal cortex. All I know is that the frontal lobe

462
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,360
Speaker 2: is something that's developed by the time you're twenty five.

463
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 2: So I've only got a couple months left, mate, You seriously,

464
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,040
Speaker 2: I'll tell you it hits your heart. Yeah, do'es it.

465
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:52,720
Speaker 2: You'll start fucking. I can't wait for the words to

466
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 2: come out of It hits you hard, bro, I can't wait.

467
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 2: But up next we have ig question of the week. Yeah, buddy,

468
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 2: this one's cool. Gives you an insight in people's relationships, Jake, Yeah,

469
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 2: when did you realize it was lust not love? Prefrontal lobe?

470
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 2: What has lost mean? Just for reference? Last is like, hmmm,

471
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 2: more of you know, maybe you just wanted a bit

472
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:27,200
Speaker 2: of their sex at times? Yeah, you know you liked

473
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 2: the thought sort of blinding. Yeah, that honeymoon phase. Limbrens.

474
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 2: We all know what Limerens is from past episodes. We've

475
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 2: spoken about that before. If you're new here, go listen.

476
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,160
Speaker 2: It's probably called limreates yeah episode so yeah, you'll find

477
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 2: it all right. When did you realize it was lust

478
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 2: not love? When he opened his mouth and spoke away

479
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:53,719
Speaker 2: from the start, No, I reckon. What happened to here

480
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:57,399
Speaker 2: was like one night stand. You're drunk, you're thinking he's

481
00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 2: got game, and you thought he was. You thought you

482
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,880
Speaker 2: were in love, you have sex, Oh, this man's perfect. Yeah,

483
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 2: you wake up and he's like, hey, babe, you want

484
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 2: to go get a coffee? He's got like that, just

485
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 2: thepe vye fucking voice, Babe, you want to go get

486
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 2: a coffee? Maybe?

487
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: And actually, here's one thing. If you didn't really remember

488
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 1: what he sounded like the night prior, maybe it was

489
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 1: a bit loud, right, yeah, and he was so drunk,

490
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 1: had a good time and went back, and then in

491
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 1: the morning he actually had a very high pitched voice.

492
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 2: I don't think that would be worse, babe. Yeah, that's

493
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 2: way worse, way worse. I think as like, I feel

494
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 2: like a deeper voice is attractive for girls. It has

495
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 2: to be. I'm pretty sure that's a thing. Yeah, it's

496
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 2: got to be. Yeah, it's got to be like frequency

497
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 2: decibel talk like that for the rest of give it

498
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 2: a go. When did you realize I'm just deep, go deep?

499
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 2: I go deeper. When did you realize that I feel

500
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 2: like I don't think I can get deep?

501
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 1: When did you realize it was lost not love? When

502
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 1: I was with his family and thought, in quotes, this

503
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 1: is a waste of my time.

504
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 2: That realization would hurt. I've heard a lot that you

505
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 2: would feel terrible. Imagine looking around like everyone's smiling like

506
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 2: they've gotten food bringing out, Like, what am I doing here?

507
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,359
Speaker 2: Just a waste of my time. I've preferred a bit

508
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:33,639
Speaker 2: at home. God to be fair, Like, I can't think

509
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 2: of anything to be fair. That's just hard. No, I

510
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 2: don't mind a bit of family time. Yeah, I've always

511
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 2: been a bit partial. I think it's good for the soul.

512
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 2: You're very good at it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but I

513
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 2: mean I like it. When did you realize it was

514
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 2: lust not love? When we didn't have sex and he

515
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 2: got mad? I was lost on his end? When did

516
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 2: you realize it was lost not love? When he started

517
00:27:56,400 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 2: eating food with his mouth open? Not fair at all? No,

518
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 2: not fair at all. You should look past those little things.

519
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 2: Best always gives me about that. Yeah, we're trying to

520
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:09,960
Speaker 2: get my food down. My sister used to give me

521
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 2: sit about I'm trying to breathe. Yeah, as a guy,

522
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 2: like the food needs to be like consumed quickly. She doesn't.

523
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 2: Yeah too, Look, but she doesn't always give me about it.

524
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:21,639
Speaker 1: I've realized she's made comments and I kind of think, honestly,

525
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: I guess I kind of do think.

526
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I better stuff eat my mouth. But I realized though,

527
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 2: like when I eat with my girlfriend, like really try

528
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:33,679
Speaker 2: and like enjoy the meal. Yeah, But when I'm by myself,

529
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 2: like that meal can go in two minutes. Yeah, I

530
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 2: kind of get annoyed with myself when I'm eating on

531
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 2: my own and it's too quick. Like I start a

532
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 2: YouTube video like a boy and yeah, I see it's

533
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 2: like one minute thirty en I'm like, fuck, I've got

534
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 2: one mouthful. This is yeah, this is this. This is

535
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 2: the mental dilemma that I have quite often. I get

536
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 2: my food ready and I sit down.

537
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 1: I sit my phone or to watch some YouTube, right,

538
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 1: and I start taking a few boats while I'm watching it. Yeah,

539
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 1: And so then I finally find one and I go

540
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 1: boom and then I yeah, I get yeah, I'm one

541
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 1: minute in and I'm like, I'm done.

542
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 2: Well, now I can't see it. I'm lazy. If video

543
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 2: in the middle of the day, I can't keep watching it.

544
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 2: I feel guilty. That is relatable. What are the exact

545
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 2: same thing? Bullshit? Let him enjoy it. Oh, it's annoying.

546
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 2: Let him enjoys YouTube. Yeah, I know. While I's heating

547
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 2: up is when you need to start start looking video

548
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 2: while it was heating When did you realize it was

549
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 2: last not love. When he told me I was interrupting

550
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 2: his scroll time. Shake shake my head, scroll time, imagine

551
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:47,160
Speaker 2: like go go spring summer, So what did you get

552
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 2: up to today? I'm just scrolling, like, can you come

553
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 2: back to me late twenty minutes I'm just in my

554
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 2: scroll time. Imagine that that hurt that heard me saying

555
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 2: it to you. I would actually leave and not say

556
00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 2: anything scrolled. What is my I think one of my

557
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 2: friends calls a quiet time like it's that. I just

558
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 2: call it TikTok tok my me time. Yeah, do you

559
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 2: call it anything? No, I just say I'm going on TikTok. Yeah.

560
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 2: Best when I say like time for non verbal TikTok time. Yeah,

561
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 2: it's like an agreement. It really is brain rot yeah

562
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 2: oh yeah yeah yeah yeah, like we always like every

563
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 2: single person I bet has said this this is relatable,

564
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 2: like oh I saw this thing once, or like I

565
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 2: read a book and it was just a TikTok video,

566
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 2: so really funny meme. Just want to admit that it's

567
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 2: a tikok Yeah.

568
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: I saw it me and it goes this is me

569
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:33,800
Speaker 1: if you even care or like this is me, if

570
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: you ever want to know, and it'll be like, quote

571
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 1: I read somewhere equals TikTok. Yeah, quote I saw somewhere

572
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 1: equals TikTok something, Yeah, everything equals fucking TikTok.

573
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 2: I always have the mental debate when I just like

574
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 2: say I heard the broadcast, Yeah yeah, when I say

575
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 2: something of the podcast, like if I sound smarter? If

576
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 2: I say, yeah, like I read somewhere, I'm not reading anything.

577
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,479
Speaker 2: We're reading a Court of Thorns and Roses. Mate, Yes,

578
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 2: we certainly are. So we actually could be able to

579
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 2: say that I read somewhere pretty soon. Yeah, okay, for that,

580
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 2: I just I need to start. Just the vocabulary needs

581
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 2: to be Oh, I saw on TikTok. But again, remember

582
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 2: how we told we always tell our parents don't believe

583
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 2: everything's in on Facebook? Yeah? Yeah? Should we have like

584
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 2: a code word that we like always say something smarter

585
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 2: but everyone knows that we just saw it on TikTok? Yeah?

586
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 2: Well no, and then what should it be? What's something

587
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 2: we would never do? Article? We would never use that

588
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 2: word I saw on the news. That's pretty good. I

589
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 2: saw on the news. I saw on the news, I

590
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 2: heard on the news, I heard If we ever say

591
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 2: I heard on the radio. Yeah. Yeah, that's because it's

592
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 2: sort of like on the podcast I heard on the radio.

593
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 2: If we ever say that, it means we saw it

594
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 2: on tick Yeah that's yeah, that means it was a

595
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 2: TikTok video I heard on the radio. Okay, that's a

596
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 2: little inside Jake. When when did you realize it was

597
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 2: lust not love? When I saw him without his beard? Oh,

598
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 2: I can that many guys are out here looking ugly

599
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 2: for the ladies on your first date. If he's got

600
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 2: a beard and you think he's hot, you got to say,

601
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 2: I need to see a photo without it. Yeah, it's

602
00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 2: not shallow to know. You need to see if he

603
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 2: has a chin. Yeah, what if it just goes. I

604
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 2: know one of our friends he used to have a

605
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 2: chin and then he got a beard, and then he

606
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:20,959
Speaker 2: put on weight and now his chin's gone. It happened,

607
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 2: It happened. Happens the best of us. You got to know,

608
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 2: it happens to the best of us. Imagine if he's

609
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 2: hotter without the beard too, You like I've just wanted

610
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 2: exactly Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, shaved that shit off. I also,

611
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 2: what are you reconds like kissing a beard? I feel

612
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 2: like it'd be a bit of weird.

613
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: Beth said that, but you know how when you're in

614
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 1: the middle of the dirty deed. Yeah, and you know,

615
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: intimate bit of missionary you know, because we're crazy like that.

616
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, because we're just you know, you get it, Yeah,

617
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 2: you get it. Yeah, we're crazy like that. Yeah. She said,

618
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 2: when you get heavy breathing, you know, you'd be getting

619
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 2: down next to her face just She said that the

620
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 2: scruffiness like burns her face, especially yours. Yeah, because I

621
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 2: actually get it, I get it. You're probably sweet. I

622
00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 2: only get on my chin, yeah, because my chin goes quickly,

623
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 2: but nothing else does. So I need to like focus

624
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 2: on it because this is like perfect length to like

625
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 2: give her Beth like a rash rash nearly you must

626
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 2: be like bad downstairs too, then me. Yeah, like any

627
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 2: guy with like just like the little bit of the stubble, Yeah,

628
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 2: down downstairs. I think just if you let it grow,

629
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 2: it gets bushy. If you've cut it, you cunt it.

630
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 2: I don't know, I've been kind of rocking my nineteen

631
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 2: eighties bush at the moment. I'm not gonna I meant no,

632
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 2: I meant when you're eating pussy that you give her well,

633
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 2: the world now the world I've been for rocking it, Like, yeah,

634
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,239
Speaker 2: I was talking about you needed to be careful when

635
00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 2: you're in pussy because you have maybe big stubble, the

636
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 2: live a rash down there, which is worse than the face.

637
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 2: You feel like it's more sensitive down there. Yeah, definitely.

638
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 2: I was like, why you're telling me about your I

639
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 2: thought I thought you mad. I thought you're like, I

640
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 2: thought you meant that because I'm hairy up here, I

641
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 2: must be hairy down here. And I was like, I

642
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 2: mean everyone is. It's just it's just when he shave

643
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 2: it or not. But no legit lately. I mean, that's

644
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:24,319
Speaker 2: just the year. I kind of plucked out of my head,

645
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 2: like now you've been watching too much bad nineteen eighties

646
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:28,080
Speaker 2: porn star or something that is that what it is?

647
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 2: I think like rocking a bush. I'm not opposed for

648
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 2: a bush. Yeah, thing, it's just maintained, maintained. Yeah I do. Yeah,

649
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 2: I trim it on the highest setting. Okay, moving on,

650
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:49,320
Speaker 2: I think it's yours. When did you realize it was

651
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 2: last not love? When he took his shirt off and

652
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 2: I was happier than when he talked about our future

653
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 2: at least he knows he's ripped. Yeah, she's winning kinda,

654
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 2: so at least she's like it's good sex. Probably like

655
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 2: he whips the shurt, He's like, damn, and then he

656
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 2: says like, I can't wait to have kids with your

657
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 2: shut up. Let's just yeah, let's take a chill, Bill.

658
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 2: When did you realize it was lust not love?

659
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:19,800
Speaker 1: The the bad is gonna have to help us with

660
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:23,439
Speaker 1: this one, because I don't know when the butterflies were

661
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:25,480
Speaker 1: in my vagina and not my stomach.

662
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 2: No, I know that one. Oh what does it mean?

663
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 2: She's got the pussy flutters? Oh, fanny flutters. Yeah, don't

664
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 2: do that face again, anyone who just saw that face?

665
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 2: Don't do that after what you just told me about

666
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 2: your eighties fucking downstairs. Yeah, yeah, she's got the fanny

667
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 2: flutters when she says it not those nervous ones or

668
00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 2: like I love this boy more of like okay, well, yeah,

669
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 2: that's I mean, she answered the question pretty well. Then

670
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 2: when did you realize was lost not love? But fanny

671
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:57,280
Speaker 2: flood is not male equivalent of fanny flood. Fucking bonus.

672
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 2: Fanny flooters is a nice way of saying lady boner yeh.

673
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 2: But I'm thinking, like on a date, do they get

674
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,240
Speaker 2: fanny flotters, Like I'm not out of here just getting

675
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 2: hard on. I don't know whereas I feel like they do,

676
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 2: like they're like, oh, this guy's so nice, like he's

677
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 2: so hot. Maybe, well, I get butterflies my stomach if

678
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 2: you don't get a bone, Like if you're just out

679
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 2: and best look at good, you're not just like oh yeah,

680
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 2: and they're the same. I don't think they get fanny

681
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 2: floods out in public. I did. Ladies are gonna make

682
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 2: a choice for you. I'm going to pretend I know

683
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 2: what you do, and I reckon, they just get normal

684
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 2: butterflies like us, and then you know how you know,

685
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 2: let's be real. As soon as you're in a fucking room,

686
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 2: I got a bone, any touch anyway? Yeah, touches my army, Yeah, yeah,

687
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 2: I dare say, leg yes, one of those fucking old

688
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 2: fashioned doorstops. I reckon, that's when they get fanny flotters

689
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 2: as well. Have you ever had to like leave a room,

690
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:54,040
Speaker 2: you ever boned and you just have to sit down

691
00:36:54,040 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 2: for a couple of minutes. Yeah, but I also don't care. No,

692
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 2: that's not what I was going to say, if you

693
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 2: if you like it's pretty red. I don't remember last

694
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 2: time I was in a public area with like a rage.

695
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 2: I remember more like my house, like because you lived

696
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:22,800
Speaker 2: with your sister, Like you have to walk out, you know,

697
00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:24,960
Speaker 2: you have to leave? Yeah, got my room? Yeah? H

698
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 2: then like I don't know, you have to go get

699
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 2: the water, and you're like, give me like two minutes. Yeah, true,

700
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 2: a shuffle. I can't do anything. Do a couple of

701
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 2: star jumps, get rid of the blood flow, like I

702
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 2: don't care if Beth sees it, obviously from somewhere. I

703
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:37,359
Speaker 2: don't want someone to see it. I'm pretty good at

704
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,359
Speaker 2: you know, you just lifted up the pant puck. Yeah,

705
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 2: you get a living straight up. The teenage boy learns

706
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 2: the pantuck naturally too. Yeah, no one tells you to

707
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:47,840
Speaker 2: do that. Yeah. Yeah, you just tuck it into the

708
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 2: top of your pants and it just kind of looks

709
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:56,359
Speaker 2: like a big Bolt's time put your shirt. See then,

710
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 2: all right, I think it's your n I don't think

711
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 2: it is that. Okay, When when did you realize it

712
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:10,880
Speaker 2: was lust not love? When I realized he was actually

713
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 2: just six four? All he has? Oh yeah, he's just tall. Valid, valid, valid, Yeah,

714
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:22,800
Speaker 2: that's valid. I would get past the cork and stages

715
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 2: if he was like a giant. True. Have you seen

716
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 2: that video of the guy that's like the top zero

717
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 2: point zero it's like an aly fan's mode point zero

718
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 2: zero one percent, it actually is. Yeah, have you seen

719
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 2: the video of the guy that.

720
00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 1: Someone might have made a comment saying, you know, six'

721
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 1: four is not that tall or. SOMETHING i don't know

722
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 1: what the actual thing, was but it's a funny. Video

723
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: when he goes he was, like, bitch he was like

724
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,359
Speaker 1: six to, Two i'll let you do all these.

725
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 2: Things you.

726
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 1: Know he's like six, Two, eli you take me off,

727
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 1: coffee six to, two my, hand six, Two i'll give

728
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:56,320
Speaker 1: you a, kiss blah blah. Blah you, know and he

729
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 1: goes six. Four you've got a criminal. RECORD i don't

730
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: want to know about.

731
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 2: IT i don't. Care he's you know WHAT i, mean next?

732
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:04,879
Speaker 2: Level yeah he's Got he goes to these hole list

733
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 2: and he goes six to. Four, hey go on a.

734
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 2: Record don't EVEN i think. That like when a man

735
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:11,359
Speaker 2: makes me feel, small it's a couple one of our.

736
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 2: Friends i'm, like, fuck you're, big fair and not many

737
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:17,319
Speaker 2: people make me feel. Small, no well you're six two nearly? Six? Three?

738
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 2: Yeah six? Four all, Right, jake let me. Land CAN

739
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 2: i please pitch you? Something? YEAH i. Guess remember in

740
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:26,439
Speaker 2: twenty twenty three when we did six weeks In bali,

741
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 2: TOGETHER i? Do did you have? FUN i? Did, well

742
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 2: that's the first TICK i. Say we go round? Two why? Not,

743
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 2: look it was, fun but going, there booking all the

744
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:42,320
Speaker 2: places and finding the right one was, hard you have to,

745
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:46,720
Speaker 2: admit and we are picky. People we are very picky.

746
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 2: People but you are about to be. Sold airbnb has

747
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 2: this feature called Guests. Favorites it allows you to filter

748
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 2: For airbnb's guests have loved the, most so you know

749
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 2: you'll love it. Too it literally takes all the you

750
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 2: just mentioned out of the. Equation i'm. LISTENING i booked

751
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 2: using guest favorites last year when you left me defend for,

752
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 2: myself AND i debatably had a better. Time let me

753
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 2: show you Poor, yes near the beach, obviously two, bedrooms

754
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 2: a big living room and a room to. Edit. Yep

755
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 2: and then you just clicked the Guest favorites filter and

756
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:22,759
Speaker 2: bang all the most Loved airbanb's by other. GUESTS i told, you,

757
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:26,399
Speaker 2: Man airbnb has us. Covered can we book right? Now? Please? Ah,

758
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 2: fine let's go To. Valley let's. Go when did you

759
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 2: realize it was lust not? Love WHEN i saw him

760
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 2: struggling to cut his? Steak who cooked? It? THOUGH i

761
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,720
Speaker 2: need to know who cooked? It were you at a? Restaurant? Yes? Okay?

762
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 2: Fair if he cooked his own, steak or if you

763
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 2: cooked it for, him you cannot think it's if you

764
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:50,799
Speaker 2: cooked a four of us your. FAULT i don't think it's. Fair,

765
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 2: imagine just like this guy is trying to like he

766
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:55,920
Speaker 2: got a grisly. Bit, yeah he went, like what's it?

767
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 2: Called i'm well? Done? Yeah? Yeah and he's his hair.

768
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 2: Going he doesn't want any blood in? It what is

769
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 2: a big big? Ick WHEN i see some guys don't

770
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 2: know how to use a knife and? Fork, yeah, wit

771
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 2: and they put it in like the wrong, fingers and you're,

772
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 2: like what are you? Doing?

773
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 1: Mate WHEN i am on my own you know how

774
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 1: just before we were talking about eating like you, know

775
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:15,800
Speaker 1: quick as, fuck When i'm on my own.

776
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 2: HANDS i, no, no, BRO i do, that, HONESTLY i don't.

777
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:27,320
Speaker 2: Doubt i'm not, surprised and Save i'm watching, up BUT

778
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:28,280
Speaker 2: I i'll.

779
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 1: Quite often it's like rice and, something AND i quite

780
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 1: often use a spoon When i'm on my own watch

781
00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 1: my YouTube. VIDEO i catch myself sometimes.

782
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:42,399
Speaker 2: Very just very. Barbaric, Yeah i'll be like leaned, over

783
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 2: elbows on the, table bowl just under my, mouth my

784
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 2: phone propped up on, something watching a YouTube, video And

785
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 2: i'm scooping up the fork is in, it LIKE i

786
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 2: don't have agim. Skies it's. Terrible you know how we

787
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 2: talked about your prefrontal lobe has. DEVELOPED i feel like

788
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 2: you've gone back a couple of months. There just why

789
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 2: it's like a dog eating his food and he hasn't

790
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 2: eaten for like a. Week, well we ate in public,

791
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 2: Today how did we? Go it's like we do that really?

792
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 2: Good no one was around. Us sounds. Good, YEAH i

793
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:14,880
Speaker 2: feel LIKE i got a lot of stuff in my,

794
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,520
Speaker 2: mouth a few things on the. Teeth. Yeah and at the,

795
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 2: end you know WHAT i did, DO i put it

796
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 2: on the corner AND i went like this might as

797
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 2: well get it all. Out, yeah it tastes. Great that's

798
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 2: a compliment to the. Chef, yeah compliments they fast. Boy

799
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:32,800
Speaker 2: you don't know this. Yet it's gonna blow your. Mind the.

800
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 2: Gym we just signed up to ten percent of ALL gyg.

801
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 2: Orders we should have done. Today what are you talking?

802
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 2: About he has a deal WITH gyg dare or. Not

803
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 2: how the fuck does some local. Gym when you get

804
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 2: that that's hacked, you you'll get an email about, it

805
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 2: probably today or tomorrow because you signed up. TODAY i

806
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:48,439
Speaker 2: saw it AND i was, like this is the best

807
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:50,439
Speaker 2: thing ever he's, Got like he's got one, flight nutrition

808
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 2: and all that bad. STUFF i was, LIKE, gyg, say

809
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:55,319
Speaker 2: Let's i'm going to bank my money of the. Gym

810
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 2: if a monthly personal. Trainers if a personal trainer is RECOMMENDING,

811
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 2: gyg you and you want it? Right? Yeah his? Hand all?

812
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:04,719
Speaker 2: Right when did you realize it was lost not? Love

813
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 2: right after the post not? Clarity did a guy send

814
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 2: that in, yeah oh. Shit i've never had it like,

815
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:15,839
Speaker 2: immediately like when we're in the same. ROOM i only

816
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:18,839
Speaker 2: get post cut clarity when When i'm. Masturbate i've had

817
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 2: like AFTER i was, like oh that was the, Best

818
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 2: But i've never had been like oh, fuck that's. Chat.

819
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:25,160
Speaker 2: YEAH i suppose some guys like don't listen to their

820
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 2: brain and listen to their willy then they have sex

821
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 2: or person Where i've never listened to MY willi, yeah,

822
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 2: okay that THINGS i got to. Control when does it

823
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 2: sound like it when you've got to leave rooms because

824
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 2: you have a? BONER i Know i've got, control like

825
00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 2: where MAYBE i. Don't when did you realize it was

826
00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:50,319
Speaker 2: lust not? Love when the sex started to feel like a? Chore?

827
00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 2: Heavy that's. Heavy. Fuck sex is never felt like that for.

828
00:43:55,680 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 2: Me heavy, Heavy i'm excited like it's the first time every. Time. Yeah,

829
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:08,760
Speaker 2: NO I i don't Think i'm the most like sexually,

830
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 2: driven but when it comes down to, It i've never

831
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 2: been mid sex thinking oh, god this is you know

832
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 2: What i'm, saying like whenever it Happens i'm in the. Movie,

833
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:20,400
Speaker 2: Yeah i've never thought of it as a. Chure it's, like,

834
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:23,400
Speaker 2: oh you've done with it. Already my. GOD i mean

835
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 2: that was. Sent we haven't been married for like twenty,

836
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 2: years SO i don't. KNOW i hope that doesn't. Happen.

837
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 2: Hopefully maybe what's what's a tactic around? That do you think? Love? Yeah, yeah,

838
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:42,360
Speaker 2: okay no.

839
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 1: Argument you answered my. Question when did you realize it

840
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 1: was lust not? Love WHEN i REALIZED i was just, Ovulating.

841
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 2: Oh, FACTS i don't know how to, Relate BUT i

842
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 2: think a lot of people will find that. Relatable. Heavy,

843
00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:01,360
Speaker 2: yeah very, heavy. Heavy couple. More when did you realize

844
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 2: it was lust not? Love WHEN i craved his presence

845
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 2: at two, am but not his personality at two? Pm

846
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:14,840
Speaker 2: that's fucking. Sick that's a good one, Man and this

847
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:18,879
Speaker 2: one's good, TOO i, mean poor. Guy, yeah Fucking when

848
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 2: did you realize it was last not? Love when he

849
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 2: was no longer in his? Suit oh, stop there's a

850
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 2: thing with girls loving guys in. Suits OH i THOUGHT

851
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 2: i was putting it in as if it's like after their.

852
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 2: Wedding oh it could have been that. TOO i didn't know.

853
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 2: That oh that's. Bad that's worse than WHAT i. THOUGHT i,

854
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:41,880
Speaker 2: thought like he's dressed up and he looks all, dapper

855
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 2: and then they have sex and then he's in his normal.

856
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 2: Clothes he's, like, oh, yeah what's? That but your one's way.

857
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 2: Worse it's the First, yeah, shit why did he takes

858
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 2: his suit? Off honeymoon? Vibe he's, like what HAVE i? Done?

859
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:58,840
Speaker 2: Well should we still more in? Suits to? Work we

860
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,800
Speaker 2: don't go to. Work bring. It, look we don't have,

861
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 2: jobs but we can pretend we work at. Home you

862
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 2: can put a seat. On. No we got invited to

863
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 2: event where it was, cocktail suit and tie and we, said, no,

864
00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 2: okay we're got invite it to an event that was

865
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 2: called what was it called Most Influential? People? Yeah someone? What,

866
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 2: Yeah we're, like we're not going to something called that's

867
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 2: what's the Word i'm looking? For, like tell me your

868
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 2: what's the? Word what do you? Call with arms on

869
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 2: the table before? Decor, yeah there's too much decorum, there. Mate,

870
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 2: no it's like if people are getting to, this it

871
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 2: would have been all, influencers right because it's called that

872
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 2: most Influential. PEOPLE i just think as soon AS i saw, it,

873
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:40,879
Speaker 2: look no, hate no towards. THEM i hope they do. Well,

874
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 2: yeah they're celebrating. Something i'm not one hundred sure what it.

875
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:47,799
Speaker 2: Is BUT i just was, like tell me you're fucking

876
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:49,399
Speaker 2: out of touch without telling me you're out of. Touch,

877
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 2: yeah tell me you're up yourself about telling me your op.

878
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 2: STUFF i don't, know you know WHAT i. Mean, yeah

879
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:54,840
Speaker 2: went in the group AND i was, like that's not

880
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 2: a very good. Name, NO i don't want to go to.

881
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:58,759
Speaker 2: That it's like if you had a birthday party and it's,

882
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 2: said LIKE i don't, know come. CELEBRATE i don't mind

883
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 2: it being a. BIRTHDAY i don't know if someone's. Birthday

884
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 2: if someone's having a birthday and the day about, them

885
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:10,400
Speaker 2: it'd be actually don't. Mind it'd be like it's my

886
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 2: birthday on the. Best but to be honest with, YOU

887
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 2: i actually don't hate. THAT i honestly don't hate. That

888
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:17,719
Speaker 2: but to get invited to an event that's called we're

889
00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 2: celebrating the most influential, people fuck. Off i'm. Sorry i'm so.

890
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:24,640
Speaker 2: Sorry we're not gonna go to. That i'm so. Sorry,

891
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:39,880
Speaker 2: Sorry we're too good for. It that's why next up Is.

892
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 2: Dilemmas you know what to do by. Now it's pinned

893
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 2: in the episode and also link in bio On. Instagram

894
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 2: scroll at the bottom and it says. Dilemmas submit. Them

895
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 2: they're going great and we're trying to get to them.

896
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 2: All and also On patreon there's an Exclusive dilemmas tab

897
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 2: where we get to all The patreon ones on, there

898
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:58,399
Speaker 2: so you're more likely there's like a tenth lesson. There

899
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 2: it's way way. Less yeah yeah, Yeah AND i like

900
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,799
Speaker 2: to read them all On. Beija same. Here we can't

901
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 2: literally not possible all right. Dilemma my boyfriend AND i

902
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,719
Speaker 2: have been dating for just under three, months but we've

903
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 2: been close friends for about fifty six years before. That

904
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,600
Speaker 2: when we decided to take our relationship to the next,

905
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:21,760
Speaker 2: level he was really, affectionate constantly reassuring, me hugging, me cuddling,

906
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 2: me kissing, me doing all. That but, lately, though it

907
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 2: feels like it's become very. Rare the only time we

908
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:32,399
Speaker 2: cuddle is in, bed And i've noticed that he only

909
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 2: seems to do it when he wants to be. Intimate

910
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 2: he's not a fan OF, pda WHICH i totally understand and,

911
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:43,319
Speaker 2: respect But i've told HIM i need more. Reassurance he's

912
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 2: been busy refurbishing his house with his, brother so when

913
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 2: we hang out it's usually with friends or family or

914
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 2: alone or alone time is mostly limited to when we're in.

915
00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:54,879
Speaker 2: Bed right, Now i'm struggling to remember the last time

916
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 2: he kissed me without it being related to. Sex i've

917
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:00,799
Speaker 2: already mentioned THAT i need. Reassurance i'm nervous to bring

918
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 2: it up. Again what SHOULD i? Do, Okay, oh not

919
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 2: gonna lie. RELATABLE i. Know that's why WHEN i read,

920
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 2: THAT i was, like, Damn LIKE i got to take

921
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 2: a couple things away from, that not THAT i do.

922
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 2: It beth And i've had this conversation we we are

923
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 2: nowhere near it's affectionate as we used to. Be AND

924
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 2: i was talking about, it AND i was, like, obviously

925
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 2: you know a little ways in that you have sex

926
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 2: less and, stuff but at the start you're so touchy,

927
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:30,200
Speaker 2: feely the honeymoon stage and all, that and it's AND

928
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 2: i still feel all the. Love But beth AND i

929
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:34,759
Speaker 2: were talking about, it AND i was even saying, LIKE

930
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 2: i need, to you, know kiss you. MORE i want

931
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:39,360
Speaker 2: to come up and cuddle you more and.

932
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 1: Stuff AND i Think i'm trying to think you've said it.

933
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 1: Once i'm sure he said, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah

934
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,720
Speaker 1: but the only THING i can relate to is actually

935
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 1: also having kind of stopped doing, it but BUT i

936
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:54,160
Speaker 1: want to do it.

937
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 2: More it's sound. INTERESTING i think this one's very hard

938
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 2: because it's the extra element of he's only doing it

939
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 2: when he wants, sex so he sort of knows that

940
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 2: that's what he. Should it sounds like he should know

941
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 2: what he's meant to, do but he only does it

942
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 2: when there's sex on the, cards which is hard to.

943
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:17,239
Speaker 2: Hear as the, partner it's, interesting how could, she do, you?

944
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:20,480
Speaker 2: RECKON i was even just, thinking like if you think

945
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 2: his intentions are, good which they could, be and he

946
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 2: could just be an idiot and he, only LIKE i don't,

947
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 2: know puts two and two, together that he has to

948
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 2: kiss when he has, sex but he doesn't understand the

949
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 2: reassurance you, need do, you? Reckon you could just be,

950
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:32,879
Speaker 2: like come over and hug me LIKE i love a long.

951
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 2: Hug me and my girlfriend love a long.

952
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 1: Hug to be, Fair, LOOK i always Hug beth WHEN

953
00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 1: i see, her give her a, kiss but it's in

954
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:44,279
Speaker 1: between then and going to bed where there's no more

955
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 1: of it.

956
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 2: Anymore WHICH i don't think is.

957
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:50,800
Speaker 1: Abnormal but, Yeah i'm just trying to think here BECAUSE

958
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 1: i saw a THING i heard on the, Radio, yes,

959
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:02,400
Speaker 1: okay on the radio that someone smart on this. SCIENTISTS

960
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 1: i love the. Radio that there's different types of, obviously

961
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:10,520
Speaker 1: there's like a bunch of different types of. Intimacy there's

962
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 1: all these different, things, Right and.

963
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 2: Have you ever it's not an abnormal? Thing have you ever?

964
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 1: FELT i think it's a lot more common in women

965
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:26,839
Speaker 1: is when your partner touches. You for, me it's When

966
00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:28,360
Speaker 1: i'm completely caught off guard with.

967
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:28,920
Speaker 2: It, Right.

968
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 1: Not THAT i don't want to be touched by my

969
00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 1: partner and THAT i. Don't it's not THAT i dislike,

970
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:38,919
Speaker 1: it BUT i don't like. IT i get a fight

971
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:41,360
Speaker 1: or flight response When i'm not.

972
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:43,359
Speaker 2: Ready for, it and it's and it's a. Thing it's

973
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:44,840
Speaker 2: like showing.

974
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 1: Intimacy timing is actually a very very huge part of, it,

975
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:50,840
Speaker 1: apparently SO i set on the, radio, Mate uh, NO

976
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 1: i a.

977
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:53,839
Speaker 2: Huge part of. It i've talked to my girlfriend about. Timing,

978
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 2: yeah timing for me is humongous because there's times where

979
00:51:58,560 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 2: AND i think it's very.

980
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 1: Relatable i'm sure the girl that's dilemma in and people.

981
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 1: Listening have you ever had your, boyfriend you, know touch

982
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:08,440
Speaker 1: you and you're, like you get off of.

983
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 2: ME i.

984
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 1: Don't it's not an abnormal, thing like you don't dislike your,

985
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:12,800
Speaker 1: boyfriend you're not not attracted to.

986
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 2: Him it's a timing of. Intimacy so that's a major.

987
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 1: Thing AND i think your, BOYFRIEND i don't want to

988
00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: give him too many what's the word benefits of the? Doubt,

989
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: yeah but MAYBE i know you have said. SOMETHING i

990
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 1: do believe he should act on. It but maybe if

991
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:33,919
Speaker 1: you want, more it's not a bad idea to maybe

992
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,960
Speaker 1: try and work out the, timing have another chat with.

993
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:38,839
Speaker 1: Him it's totally. Fine, say, LOOK i know we spoke

994
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 1: about it. ONCE i really want to try more as.

995
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 1: WELL i heard about this timing intimacy, Thing like what's

996
00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:49,439
Speaker 1: the best thing for? You do you THINK i don't

997
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 1: want to catch you off, guard to make you think

998
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 1: you get off of. ME i want it to be

999
00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: pleasant for.

1000
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 2: You, Yeah, like when's the best time to be intimate

1001
00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:00,920
Speaker 2: without the sexual side of, things because which is. Relatable

1002
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 2: he might be really tired after work and the last

1003
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 2: thing he wants to do is just, LIKE i don't,

1004
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:07,399
Speaker 2: know cuddle because he doesn't LIKE, pda which is, okay

1005
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 2: which is fair if that's what he. Wants but if you, say,

1006
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 2: like when's the best time and he, SAYS i don't,

1007
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:13,360
Speaker 2: know like BEFORE i go to, work and you just

1008
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:15,359
Speaker 2: start giving a little kiss before work or a little

1009
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 2: hug going to kiss before work, timing we're very much

1010
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 2: alluding to the benefit of the doubt that he has good.

1011
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 2: Intentions oh, yeah of, Course, yeah That's i'm hoping for

1012
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:27,279
Speaker 2: the best, here of, course, obviously WHICH i am, Too

1013
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:32,760
Speaker 2: but otherwise bad side of. Things definitely have another conversation

1014
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 2: and if he doesn't act on set, actions it should

1015
00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:36,800
Speaker 2: be fine to have a conversation and be, like this

1016
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 2: is WHAT i need in a relationship and he doesn't

1017
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 2: realize that when you can. Reassess BUT i think the

1018
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 2: timing conversation is really good because it makes him comfortable

1019
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 2: and you, comfortable and also tell him when you want timing. Too,

1020
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:49,920
Speaker 2: yeah you gotta. Do it needs to be it's you

1021
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 2: and him against the, problem it's not you against. Him.

1022
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:54,320
Speaker 2: Yeah i've also had conversations with my girlfriend about like

1023
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:57,840
Speaker 2: timing to have, Sex LIKE i could kiss her or

1024
00:53:57,920 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 2: she could kiss, me and then we're, ron BUT i

1025
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:02,439
Speaker 2: don't don't move quick. Enough, yeah and then ten minutes

1026
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:04,439
Speaker 2: goes past AND i try and it's. Gone, Yeah i'm

1027
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:07,000
Speaker 2: A i'm a shocker with. That. Yeah, Same, okay that's

1028
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:09,520
Speaker 2: one of the hardest things MEN i saw with. Timing

1029
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 2: but here the thing with me IS i could be

1030
00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 2: totally not, horny and then Once beth AND i let

1031
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:25,399
Speaker 2: make out a, Bit i'm, on you can't stop. Him i'm,

1032
00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:30,839
Speaker 2: on and the eighties coming. Out, yeah you're. Kidding it's

1033
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 2: like a. Cushion it's like the PHEROMONES i can. Smell

1034
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:44,000
Speaker 2: MAYBE i shouldn't be. Stuf that's no. Good but yeah that.

1035
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:47,440
Speaker 2: Babe SOMETIMES i think to, Myself, oh why AREN'T i more,

1036
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:52,800
Speaker 2: horny just you, know looking at her from a. Distance you,

1037
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 2: KNOW i JUST i think people get super worried me

1038
00:54:57,200 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 2: included in past. Relationships, YEAH i think people get supper

1039
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,799
Speaker 2: and being. Relatable opposite end of the. SPECTRUM i Think

1040
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:07,919
Speaker 2: i'm too. Horny, Yeah LIKE i get horned just by doing,

1041
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 2: it like looking at my girlfriend and, like oh so.

1042
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, see here's the thing, Is i'm at. Times i'm

1043
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:15,879
Speaker 1: the same at, times but not all the. Time, yeah

1044
00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:18,480
Speaker 1: it's it's sound LIKE i DON'T i.

1045
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:20,480
Speaker 2: Don't like to look at my. GIRLFRIEND i love that.

1046
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 2: Sound you know when the most annoying TIMES i get

1047
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 2: horny is when we're in a fucking public. Place that's the.

1048
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:32,400
Speaker 2: Worst it's so annoying bad in. Public not With. Beth, No,

1049
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 2: No i've done it. Once it's not as good as

1050
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,680
Speaker 2: it is as it's. Like, no it's stressful as fun. Portrayed,

1051
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 2: NO i. Won't i'm going to stop.

1052
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:52,879
Speaker 1: Talking next, dilemma my boyfriend of two and a half

1053
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 1: years now AND i started as friends with. Benefits he

1054
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:59,320
Speaker 1: was still sending nude photos to other girls and kissed

1055
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:03,279
Speaker 1: his friends girlfriend's friend a month before we started going,

1056
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: out when we knew there was more feelings than friends of,

1057
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:11,080
Speaker 1: benefits but we weren't boyfriend and. Girlfriend in the first

1058
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 1: three months of our, relationship he would go out drinking

1059
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 1: with work colleagues and was always posting on females Private

1060
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:19,800
Speaker 1: instagram spam accounts and said things like in, quotes behave

1061
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 1: you to?

1062
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 2: Them sorry to? Them oh pause right, now wherever the

1063
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 2: butter is of this? Bloke he sounds?

1064
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:30,120
Speaker 1: Terrible or the butt, yeah like we're about to find

1065
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 1: out if there's a butt yeah to the am and

1066
00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 1: she said that she would like pass that by she

1067
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,279
Speaker 1: let it. GO i didn't find out about the nude

1068
00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 1: photos scent a month before he asked me to be

1069
00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 1: his girlfriend until a year into our, relationship AND i

1070
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 1: eventually forgave, him even though it hurt me so. Much

1071
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:46,800
Speaker 1: we are two and a half years in now AND

1072
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:49,840
Speaker 1: i still compare myself to these people online AND i

1073
00:56:49,960 --> 00:56:52,040
Speaker 1: just can't seem to get over, it even THOUGH i

1074
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:56,719
Speaker 1: told MYSELF i forgive, it and he's changed everything so. Much,

1075
00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: yeah DO i keep working on getting over? It or

1076
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:01,919
Speaker 1: AM i stupid to have even forgiven him in the first,

1077
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:04,759
Speaker 1: place even though he's changes actions now and hardly ever

1078
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 1: talks to.

1079
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 2: Females do you have any? Advice? Thanks love the. Pod

1080
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:11,360
Speaker 2: by the, Way, okay this is actually very. TRICKY i

1081
00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:13,960
Speaker 2: had a thought to myself the other, DAY i was

1082
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:16,600
Speaker 2: gonna bring it up with my. Girlfriend you can be

1083
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:21,800
Speaker 2: the next best. Thing i'll take. It whatever Was how

1084
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 2: often in relationships do you think people say one thing

1085
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 2: because they think it's the right thing to, say but

1086
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:31,720
Speaker 2: in reality their feelings don't feel the same way as

1087
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 2: what they just, said which is what happened right. Here

1088
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 2: socially a lot because they don't want to face the. Confrontation,

1089
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,520
Speaker 2: yeah WHICH i think is so relatable for me for.

1090
00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:47,720
Speaker 2: Anyone is, like you just want the problem to be,

1091
00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 2: resolved so you say one, thing but in, reality your

1092
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:54,480
Speaker 2: heart or your soul or only things like this obviously hurt,

1093
00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:57,040
Speaker 2: you which is. Fair fucking. Know whatever he did at the,

1094
00:57:57,080 --> 00:58:00,439
Speaker 2: start especially the newdi, thing is weird and insane makes

1095
00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 2: you feel, insecure especially because you're comparing yourself to her.

1096
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:09,840
Speaker 2: Now tips, wise, THOUGH i you know what. Indicase it's

1097
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 2: hard because of the time. Frame, NOW i think it's

1098
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 2: the time frame makes it, hard, right two and a

1099
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 2: half years makes it. Hard but.

1100
00:58:17,520 --> 00:58:20,280
Speaker 1: Maybe something you need to think about is it's been

1101
00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 1: two and a half years and you're still feeling this.

1102
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:24,840
Speaker 1: WAY i, AGREE i was WHAT i was going to get.

1103
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:26,360
Speaker 1: It it's been a year and a half since you found.

1104
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:28,000
Speaker 1: Out it's a four year and a half and you're

1105
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 1: still feeling this. Way do you want to marry someone

1106
00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:31,480
Speaker 1: that you're not secure being.

1107
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:35,360
Speaker 2: WITH i think this is a good exercise to practice

1108
00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:43,200
Speaker 2: voicing your. Feelings, yeah. TRUE i think it's just it's

1109
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 2: probably a really tricky thing for her to bring up

1110
00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:49,880
Speaker 2: there as, well because she has said to him that

1111
00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:55,360
Speaker 2: so he's, apologized he's changed his, actions she has accepted, apologies,

1112
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 2: Right and then, again you Don't she probably doesn't feel

1113
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:01,400
Speaker 2: as though she wants to keep bringing stuff up in the,

1114
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:04,800
Speaker 2: past but she's not one hundred percent over. It Maybe

1115
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 2: i'm not one hundredercent. SURE i don't even. KNOW i

1116
00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 2: guess is it something that you can get over if

1117
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 2: it's been this long is a. Question, WELL i think

1118
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:15,440
Speaker 2: she's looking for some type of closure and if in the.

1119
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 2: Relationship she can't come to this safe environment where she's, like, hey,

1120
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 2: Babe i've just really been thinking about the. PAST i

1121
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 2: KNOW i was a year and a half, ago but

1122
00:59:24,560 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 2: she's been eating me up AND i want to talk

1123
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:28,760
Speaker 2: about it more and like resolve the, issue AND i

1124
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 2: want to tell you HOW i. Feel she can't if

1125
00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 2: she's not in an environment to do. That, yeah is

1126
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:36,000
Speaker 2: that an environment you want to be? In? Yeah even

1127
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 2: if we IF i had a fight with my girlfriend

1128
00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:39,680
Speaker 2: we first start dating a year, ago and then she just, goes,

1129
00:59:40,320 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 2: Well I've i've been thinking about that, fight aldi Like

1130
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 2: i've changed my opinion on, that AND i just dismissed. That,

1131
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 2: yeah that wouldn't be. Good but IF i was, like, okay, yeah,

1132
00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 2: come what's your new, Conclusion like we'll get let's work

1133
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:53,560
Speaker 2: through this, together that's how it should. Be, Yeah i'm

1134
00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 2: trying to think of how i'd feel, if, yeah you

1135
00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:57,480
Speaker 2: had a big, fight because you're allowed to change your opinion.

1136
00:59:57,480 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 2: Too even if they said they're resolved, it then she's,

1137
00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:00,840
Speaker 2: Like i've been thinking about it more and actually really hurt.

1138
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 2: Me which is the right thing to.

1139
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 1: DO i guess if you're gonna do, that, right maybe

1140
01:00:06,400 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 1: one thing you would want to think of is what

1141
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:12,680
Speaker 1: is like the best? Outcome, then, really if you're gonna

1142
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:14,880
Speaker 1: if you're gonna be what is the best? OUTCOME i

1143
01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:16,920
Speaker 1: suppose unless you don't really know the, outcoming you just

1144
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:17,720
Speaker 1: want to work through it with.

1145
01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 2: Him the outcome is to make her feel more secure

1146
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:23,520
Speaker 2: in the, relationship tell, you, oh here we. Go actually

1147
01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 2: it is hard, though because if she said that his

1148
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:30,360
Speaker 2: actions have, changed does that mean that he is making

1149
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:32,760
Speaker 2: a feel more school than secure in the. RELATIONSHIP i

1150
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:34,920
Speaker 2: think at the start of the, relationship what he did

1151
01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:37,920
Speaker 2: before they started dating made her lose trust with, him

1152
01:00:38,680 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 2: and that trust has never been. Regained even though his

1153
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:45,080
Speaker 2: actions are good. Now the thing he didn't start is

1154
01:00:45,160 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 2: worse than everything else he's done in the. Relationship SO

1155
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:50,720
Speaker 2: i guess the only person who's going to know is

1156
01:00:50,880 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 2: can this guy rebuild the? Trust and is this conversation worth? Having?

1157
01:00:56,000 --> 01:00:59,280
Speaker 2: True the thing that's tough as well is that you

1158
01:00:59,360 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 2: found out a.

1159
01:00:59,840 --> 01:01:02,080
Speaker 1: Year so at that point in time you were, Like,

1160
01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:03,680
Speaker 1: okay well we've been together for this whole, Year LIKE

1161
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 1: i need to forgive.

1162
01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:06,959
Speaker 2: Him you probably felt like you had. To what would

1163
01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 2: you do if you, like that's not a nice like

1164
01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 2: you thought you were talking to this, girl, right and

1165
01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:12,400
Speaker 2: then you like found out he was doing all this

1166
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:15,120
Speaker 2: commenting ON i forgot what you, said all that weird

1167
01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 2: stuff about saying like, yeah you're sexuy and then sending

1168
01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:20,000
Speaker 2: news to girls left front and center one month before

1169
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:22,480
Speaker 2: we started. DATING i just want to, say, like, oh,

1170
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:26,160
Speaker 2: no here we. Go what you are feeling is completely valid,

1171
01:01:26,760 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 2: facts and you have complete right to bring this up with,

1172
01:01:31,880 --> 01:01:35,640
Speaker 2: him even though the timeframe makes it. Tricky, yeah, no,

1173
01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:38,240
Speaker 2: AGREED i didn't. Think, YEAH i don't want it's hard

1174
01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:39,800
Speaker 2: to put yourself on someone's shoes when you're not actually

1175
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:43,400
Speaker 2: when you can't actually feel. It, yeah, yeah, yeah trying to.

1176
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 2: Relate but that is hard just because how long it's

1177
01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 2: been and, like but like everyone deals with grief in different,

1178
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:51,560
Speaker 2: Ways like it's taken a year and a half to,

1179
01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:55,960
Speaker 2: realize Like i'm not okay with, this true, True LIKE

1180
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 2: i THINK i should break up with. Him that is an. Option, maybe,

1181
01:01:59,680 --> 01:02:03,960
Speaker 2: Yeah LIKE i don't, know maybe you should bring it

1182
01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 2: up with, him see what his if he's like, mad dismissive,

1183
01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:09,080
Speaker 2: him be like those ARE u go. Bobes that's that's

1184
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:10,840
Speaker 2: not the right. Response that's not what you want to.

1185
01:02:10,840 --> 01:02:12,640
Speaker 2: Hear but if he's WHAT i said before and he's, like,

1186
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:14,480
Speaker 2: okay let's deal this, together, Like i'm SORRY i made

1187
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:15,680
Speaker 2: you feel that. Way that was before we. MET i

1188
01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:18,040
Speaker 2: didn't realize how much of the sickest bit you or. Wherever,

1189
01:02:18,200 --> 01:02:19,760
Speaker 2: yeah if he goes like that, way he's, like let's

1190
01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:21,320
Speaker 2: work through. This how CAN i rebuild your? Trust that's

1191
01:02:21,320 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 2: what did the answer you? Want, yeah a good response

1192
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:24,760
Speaker 2: is how can we work through this together and make

1193
01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 2: a life easier for? You but he's mad dismissive of

1194
01:02:26,800 --> 01:02:29,120
Speaker 2: you and your, emotions which are, valid then maybe that's

1195
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:31,680
Speaker 2: time to realize that you might never trust this man. Again,

1196
01:02:32,280 --> 01:02:35,360
Speaker 2: yeah you know what, audio we fucking did? It all?

1197
01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 2: Right bring it? Up, okay, yeah bring it up in

1198
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 2: the sense OF i know.

1199
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:41,320
Speaker 1: THIS i know, that BUT i need to let you

1200
01:02:41,360 --> 01:02:45,280
Speaker 1: know How i'm feeling right now And i'm not over

1201
01:02:45,360 --> 01:02:49,760
Speaker 1: it and it's still really really really. Hurts and it's his, response,

1202
01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:53,880
Speaker 1: right his initial, RESPONSE i bet, you is going to

1203
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 1: be defensive because he probably doesn't like the fact that

1204
01:02:57,280 --> 01:02:59,240
Speaker 1: he hurt you because he loves. You, yes all, right

1205
01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:03,400
Speaker 1: but his response needs to be very like what he just.

1206
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 1: Said it needs to be how can we work through this,

1207
01:03:05,400 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 1: together because then you can, trust, yes that you can

1208
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:11,400
Speaker 1: bring stuff up with him. Exactly so then there's a

1209
01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:14,080
Speaker 1: little bit of trust rebuilt slow.

1210
01:03:14,200 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 2: Roads it is slow. Building trust is. SLOW i think

1211
01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:19,000
Speaker 2: that's the way he gets a fucking Good, yeah, mate

1212
01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:28,080
Speaker 2: where you? Go if you have good?

1213
01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 1: Luck Battye, okay, baddies thank you so much for. Listening

1214
01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:45,480
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1215
01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:47,640
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01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:50,760
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1219
01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:55,720
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01:03:55,760 --> 01:04:01,880
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01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:04,960
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1224
01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:14,960
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1225
01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:19,360
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Speaker 2: thank you very, Much shay and doing good, day have

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Speaker 2: a lovely. Afternoon bye. Bye oh that was. Nice she

1230
01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:41,959
Speaker 2: was like, prepared she. Was she was just like very, formal,

1231
01:04:42,080 --> 01:04:44,440
Speaker 2: yeah very, good very. Good IF i have the job,

1232
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Speaker 2: INTERVIEW i would hide. Her she's one of the people

1233
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Speaker 2: that you want to have as a fake. Review ye a.

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Speaker 2: Faker what's it? CALLED i don't. Know on a? Resume

1235
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Speaker 2: oh oh? Yeah what are they? Called how you call?

1236
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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah fake, reference fake anyone who wants to

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