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Speaker 1: Apote Production.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to another episode about I Bad Mum podcast

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Speaker 2: another term.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 2: The next holidays are September October school holidays.

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Speaker 3: I took the kids to the show on the weekend.

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Speaker 4: I took them to what is our version of like

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Speaker 4: the show, it's a little bit more country the Samba Show.

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Speaker 4: And I gave them that prep of going, hey, Gracie,

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Speaker 4: you know how you were like schooling me about you've

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Speaker 4: never been to the Echo. So she gets a lift

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Speaker 4: with one of our friends, Christy, to school every few days.

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Speaker 3: And Christy happened to message me and go back, your

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Speaker 3: daughter this morning was cracking up in the car. I

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Speaker 3: was like, oh gosh, what is it?

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Speaker 4: She was banging on like the most what would the

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Speaker 4: word bed hard.

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Speaker 3: Dumb by under it?

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Speaker 4: Like she's so underprivileged, whatever that would be like because

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Speaker 4: she's never been to the Echa.

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Speaker 3: Now, for everyone listening, the Echa is.

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Speaker 4: The actual I think it would be like the Brisbane Show,

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Speaker 4: the Royal Brisbane Show if.

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Speaker 3: It's in comparison to everywhere else.

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Speaker 4: And my children, yes, I'll own they are ten and

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Speaker 4: twelve and they have never been to the Echo the Echa.

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Speaker 2: I've been many a time, yes too. Yeah, and it's horrible.

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Speaker 2: People love the Echo.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, either love it or you don't. Oh, there's nothing

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Speaker 4: in between. There's nothing in between two people.

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Speaker 2: It's too I remember when the girls were younger and

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Speaker 2: you would say no to more than what you said

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Speaker 2: yes to.

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Speaker 1: H Yes, everything's so expensive.

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Speaker 2: There's rides as ponies everything.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so get this on the weekend.

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Speaker 4: Took them to the show and I've given them the

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Speaker 4: brief the night before. Mate, if I take you to this,

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Speaker 4: I don't even want to hear a peep.

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Speaker 3: I got hustled to try and go to the mum. Please,

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I can't believe you didn't tell us

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Speaker 3: it was on.

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Speaker 4: I was like, I'll take you Sunday for a couple

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Speaker 4: of hours. Only do not mention the ecka. This will

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Speaker 4: be the same amount of money dropped. Don't tell me

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Speaker 4: that you've never been an echa, and don't school me

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Speaker 4: to other.

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Speaker 3: Parents mmm saying take me to the Echo. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So I took them to that, Katie, Like, apart from

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Speaker 4: the fact that you've got to pay to get in

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Speaker 4: the gate, the most expensive I was twenty five dollars

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Speaker 4: a ride. One ride then we proceed round and I'd

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Speaker 4: fed the girls.

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Speaker 3: Now there's structuring behind this.

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Speaker 4: Knowing me, you know that there's always got to be

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Speaker 4: a win for me if there's a win for them,

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Speaker 4: kind of vibe. I took them at eight thirty in

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Speaker 4: the morning. I fed them on the way. I was like,

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Speaker 4: let's get a hot chocolate and a bacon egg burger

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Speaker 4: on the way.

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Speaker 3: Then we get in.

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Speaker 4: I said to them, you can go on like two

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Speaker 4: three rides max. Until I saw them charging twenty five

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Speaker 4: dollars a ride, I'll say, and you won't be going

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Speaker 4: on that.

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Speaker 3: Then we got to show bags. Can we talk about

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Speaker 3: showbags quickly?

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Speaker 1: Showbags are so expensive.

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Speaker 4: Remember birty beetle used to be two dollars fifty, it's

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Speaker 4: now twelve to fifty.

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Speaker 3: Same amount of shit in it.

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Speaker 2: You can buy that shit from Camar. I've spoken about

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Speaker 2: this so many was fifty bag of plastic shit from Camar.

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Speaker 3: So my agreeance was this one you get one twenty

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Speaker 3: bucks is max.

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Speaker 4: Make it work. If you can't make it work, not

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Speaker 4: my problem. Elsie got two, which is fine. Did Welsh

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Speaker 4: picked the two she wanted twelve dollars eight dollars? Happy

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Speaker 4: days twenty bucks. Gracie, I want that one forty dollars.

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Speaker 3: Are you kidding me? No, I'm not buying that. That's

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Speaker 3: the only one I.

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Speaker 4: Wanted, had all this plastic stuff I could have got

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Speaker 4: from anyway, forty dollars No, okay, well what about this?

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Speaker 4: I was like looking, and they've got a whole standard,

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Speaker 4: not that La Booboo doll, the ugly doll that everyone's got.

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Speaker 3: It's for booboo.

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Speaker 4: It's like the ripoff of the La Boo boo. So

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Speaker 4: she goes, oh, I want one of those twenty five dollars.

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Speaker 4: I said, you want that instead of a showbag? I said,

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Speaker 4: your sister's got two show bags for twenty bucks.

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Speaker 3: No, that's what I want. Okay, right, oh get home.

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Speaker 4: She goes, oh, I made the worst decisions.

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Speaker 2: I always say to the girls, would you buy that

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Speaker 2: with your own money? And I'd say nine out of

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Speaker 2: ten times they'll go no. But then I'm like, well,

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Speaker 2: I'm not getting it.

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Speaker 4: On top of all of that, we're leaving. It's eleven thirty.

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Speaker 4: I said, I'll be out of here by eleven thirty.

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Speaker 4: Any later you'll be walking home.

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Speaker 3: And then the last thing as you go is like

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Speaker 3: a big slushy store. Do you know how much of

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Speaker 3: slushy was?

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Speaker 1: Well, I'll tell you how much I think it should be.

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Speaker 3: A slushy five dollars. Yeah, fifteen dollars for a slushy.

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Speaker 3: Bro go to seven eleven. I can get a large

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Speaker 3: for two dollars. Like what all they were?

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Speaker 1: Dollar?

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Speaker 2: It's fifteen dollars ice and preservatives. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Dad, at that I was like fifteen dollars a girls, please,

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Speaker 4: And I was like, absolutely not.

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Speaker 3: I have said yes to way more than what I

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Speaker 4: I've dropped a bomb and now you ask me for

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Speaker 4: a fifteen dollars slushy.

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Speaker 3: You're kidding yourself. All these kids walk around with a

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Speaker 3: fifteen dollars slashy.

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Speaker 1: You're the one.

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Speaker 3: Your parents are fools. They got done. Am I a

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Speaker 3: bad mum for letting them watch it?

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Speaker 4: Our house is like pretty on screen time right, been

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Speaker 4: very open about it, spoken about it many of times.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 4: When I say screen time, I'm talking devices. They get

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Speaker 4: to watch TVs. They have Netflix, they have every streaming

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Speaker 4: thing on that TV that you can think of. Disney

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Speaker 4: they've hustled from somebody else. I think they got another

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Speaker 4: one from all these logins from all my Based on.

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Speaker 1: That, how do we end up with so many subscriptions?

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Speaker 2: I devided to add them all up, you know, five

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Speaker 2: dollars here, dolls there.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm like, you're broke. That's so much, so much,

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Speaker 3: and I don't know how to get rid of them.

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Speaker 1: And also so much but never anything to watch.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 4: I went on there the other day. They downloaded some

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Speaker 4: brand new movie thirty five dollars.

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Speaker 3: What the fuck? Who said you can have this?

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Speaker 1: We also should be sharing passwords? Everyone does it.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, just can one?

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Speaker 1: Why pay for every single one?

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Speaker 4: Anyway, short story of this is I allow them to

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Speaker 3: That's fine.

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Speaker 4: They've got their own profiles on Netflix, are gone in

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Speaker 4: and there's this obsession with K pop now not only

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Speaker 4: do I have to listen to K pop music in

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Speaker 4: the car. For some that's wonderful, it's liberating. For me,

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Speaker 4: I do not find it liberating. I find it highly

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Speaker 4: repetitive and I want to turn it off. And I

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Speaker 4: go in and Elsie's in there watching K pop the

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Speaker 4: movie k Pop Demons.

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Speaker 3: I think it's called.

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Speaker 4: Very done up. You can see like everything is super skinny,

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Speaker 4: and what do you watch Oh it's Capop. It's just

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Speaker 4: a movie. You told me to put a movie on. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: but does this look like it's really good for your brain?

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Speaker 3: I meant like, oh, like put Home Alone on or something.

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Speaker 1: Lelon Stitch.

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Speaker 4: Now, I have watched this morph over the last month,

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Speaker 4: and all of a sudden something has clicked and changed

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Speaker 4: for Elsie Valentina And now we are in.

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Speaker 3: Front of a mirror a lot.

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Speaker 4: This is my child that does not care, but now

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Speaker 4: we're in front of a mirror a lot. We found

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Speaker 4: a new hairstyle that we love. Like it's becoming obsessive.

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Speaker 3: You know, when you.

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Speaker 4: Watch your children change personality wise, we sort of morph.

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Speaker 4: We're starting to morph like it's ten going on twenty five.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh Katie, I feel.

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Speaker 4: Like I'm out of control and I am blaming it

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Speaker 4: solely ONK pop, solely on capop.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I've noticed K pop taking over to by the way,

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Speaker 2: Like I will often listen to just the Australian top

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Speaker 2: forty oh yeah, I forty to fifty whatever it is

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Speaker 2: just with some background music.

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Speaker 1: Every other song is K pop.

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Speaker 1: Every now and then I'm like I'm doing some.

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Speaker 3: You're like THEE but you can't even just tolerate it.

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Speaker 4: In the background, you're literally like triggers, like the whole Like,

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Speaker 4: what the fuck is this?

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Speaker 3: Why are they singing the same thing over and over again?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's too much, too much, it's too.

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Speaker 3: The girls my girls got Oh, mom, how do he

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Speaker 3: even not know?

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Speaker 1: Cats eye?

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Speaker 3: What? What are you talking about? I don't consider myself

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Speaker 3: behind with that stuff.

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Speaker 4: My mom was the most boring human being when it

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Speaker 4: came to music in the car. I'm talking like my

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Speaker 4: passion of disliking John Denver was just so strong as

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Speaker 4: a kid because that fucking music drove me nuts. My

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Speaker 4: mom was like, nope, I'm listening. I'm driving, you listen

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Speaker 4: to my music.

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Speaker 3: It was horrible, Katie horrible.

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Speaker 4: So I think it like and morphed my way of going, well,

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Speaker 4: that's fine, we'll listen. Everyone gets a song, like, we'll

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Speaker 4: just keep rotating between everyone's songs when you're going through

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Speaker 4: K pop days.

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Speaker 1: I had my playlist on the other day. This was

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Speaker 1: Sunday afternoon rage.

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Speaker 2: We had a roast cooking, I had a glass of little.

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Speaker 1: Something something, and.

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Speaker 2: I had my playlist on Spotify. Both the girls what

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Speaker 2: the hell is this? It's my playlist it's horrible.

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Speaker 1: Excuse me, this is my I'm sitting there.

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Speaker 2: I want to relax in my own lounge room on

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Speaker 2: my Sunday afternoon. Why does it always have to be

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Speaker 2: everything about you? They changed the music rage. She took

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Speaker 2: control of it on her own phone over road, my

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Speaker 2: phone playing Spotify through the speaker and then put their

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Speaker 2: stuff on.

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Speaker 4: I was like, excuse me, okay, well, number one, you're

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Speaker 4: ruining my vibe. Number two, I'm now drinking more because

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Speaker 4: because of it.

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Speaker 3: Your music is sending me.

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Speaker 1: I love Gabrielle and streams. I love it some of

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Speaker 1: my favorite songs. Look at me, baby bag you.

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Speaker 3: Oh God, guys, I'm Sunday fighting right here.