1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,320 Speaker 1: Fits and whipper revenge hacks. 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 2: I really like these. We've done this before and got 3 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:08,159 Speaker 2: some great callers. If you've broken up with someone and 4 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 2: decided to get back just little things in life, revenge 5 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 2: hacks if you've got any ideas thirteen, twenty fourteen. 6 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: He's a good one. 7 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:17,279 Speaker 2: A woman discovered that her best friend had slept with 8 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 2: her fiance Sarah, so she decided to get revenge in 9 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:23,919 Speaker 2: the most creative way. What she did she bought her 10 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 2: friend a Gucci bag and had a little plark put 11 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 2: on it that said I hope you enjoy my leftoversh 12 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:40,159 Speaker 2: So bought her friend a really nice bag for her 13 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 2: birthday and said, look, I just wanted to give you 14 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 2: this with the plaque that had been screwed on there, 15 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 2: I hope you enjoy my left And that was a 16 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,480 Speaker 2: way of telling him she'll always. 17 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: Remember that bag. Here's a couple of others for you 18 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:52,480 Speaker 1: as well. 19 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 2: A guy over in the States. A woman in the 20 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 2: States found out that her husband was cheating on us, 21 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 2: so she went and got a billboard that said Michael 22 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 2: GPS track of two. 23 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: Hundred and fifty dollars. 24 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 2: Nick on camera with zoom Lends sixteen hundred dollars catching 25 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 2: my lying husband and buying this billboard with our investment account. 26 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 1: Squaw, Jennifer, isn't that awesome? 27 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 3: That's pretty what a beauty? Do you know? 28 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 1: As well? 29 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 2: Do you know that you can get a app called 30 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 2: Spoiled that you put in your ex's phone number and 31 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 2: the app sends them all the spoilers to the latest 32 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 2: television shows. 33 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: For us, they just get a text message saying we 34 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: know who the murder and mayor of Easttown was, and 35 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:39,759 Speaker 1: they tell them. 36 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 3: How footy scores everything. Wasn't there one? And I think 37 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 3: MDG you were across this or something where people were 38 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 3: to get back at their partners. If you found out 39 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 3: you had an STI, you had to register it and 40 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 3: then register the people that you'd seen recently that would 41 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 3: send them a text. 42 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 4: I mean that's not so much a revenge hack as 43 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 4: it is if you get a positive test for an 44 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 4: SCI you have to text the last. 45 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 5: But it's an anonymous you should do you remember we 46 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 5: did it to my brother and then we forgot to 47 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 5: tell him. We stitched him up, and six months later 48 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 5: at Christmas he confessed to me, well, I've had a 49 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 5: bit of a tough six months like I thought I had, and. 50 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 3: I was we forgot about the off. 51 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: Kelly, what was your boss's revenge? Haack? 52 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 6: My boss broke up with his girlfriend and she got 53 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 6: all his clothes and took them to the shop bin 54 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 6: and put all his clothes in there. But it gets 55 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 6: worse after that girlfriend he had another one told her 56 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 6: the story and then they broke up and she did 57 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:49,519 Speaker 6: the same thing, got another new. 58 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 3: War drug pie. How can I say this had happened again? 59 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: Hilace? 60 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 7: Hi? 61 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: What's the. 62 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:01,519 Speaker 8: Boyfriend? And we went on holiday together and on holiday 63 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 8: he broke up with my sister and she was absolutely 64 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 8: devastated and broken and miserable, and I thought, well, this 65 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:12,800 Speaker 8: is not fair. So undernew ruin his holiday and he 66 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 8: brought himself a box of biscuits and picked him in 67 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 8: his bag and I put him and I laid him 68 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 8: with lectuses. 69 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 3: Spiked VICKI always fun. And how did he go? He 70 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 3: came home having lost a few k Well. 71 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 8: He couldn't leave his room for the entire week. He 72 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 8: had to give up his ski pass and he offered 73 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 8: his skia paths to anyone that wanted it. He was 74 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 8: unable to use this and he stayed. He stayed in 75 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 8: his hotel room for the rest of the holiday. 76 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 2: A woman whose husband she was suspecting was cheating on him. 77 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 2: She got a phone call from a woman saying, I've 78 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 2: got your husband at a hotel room and I've tied 79 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 2: him up. And I don't think I'm the only mistress 80 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 2: I found out. There's a couple more so they got 81 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 2: the two other mistresses. The three mistresses went to the 82 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 2: hotel room with the wife and they decided, Sarah, can 83 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 2: you just read out, okay, read that headline. 84 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 5: Fitsy cheating husband's genitals glued to his stomach. 85 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: Straight up. Wow, that's crusal. 86 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 2: I mean imagine rocking up to emergency trying to explain 87 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 2: that one. 88 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 3: You see, there was three girls that walked into a 89 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 3: bar and they. 90 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 5: He must be pretty well endowed to reach his stomach. 91 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 3: Well, is not. That's a family shop. 92 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: Online shopping. 93 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:56,559 Speaker 2: Actually, I'll tell you what they're getting it delivered these days, 94 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 2: is that it was in the paper to days. If 95 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 2: you've ordered some booze this, it's going to take a 96 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 2: long time to get to you at the moment. 97 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 3: A bit busy, are they? 98 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:05,360 Speaker 1: Has anyone heard of aramis? 99 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 3: So this is a delivery service. 100 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 2: It's a delivery ser I've never heard of this, like 101 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 2: a Jimmy Brings, but I've had something that was coming 102 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 2: over from overseas for about three months, fan T shirt, 103 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 2: and this guy was saying to me, have you received 104 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:22,480 Speaker 2: it yet? And I said no, I haven't and he said, no, 105 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:25,279 Speaker 2: well it's landed and I said no, well I haven't 106 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 2: got it. And then I found out it's through this 107 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 2: Aramix right. 108 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: It's this huge warehouse. 109 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 3: But you can't get in contact with it, you know, 110 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 3: because Australia Post. And my wife does a little bit 111 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 3: of online shopping and Tony, the Australia Post guy that 112 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:42,359 Speaker 3: we now know very well, another van's been put on 113 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:44,719 Speaker 3: in the area. So what used to be a casual 114 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 3: shift for him, there's another one buzzing around. Because the 115 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:48,840 Speaker 3: online shopping is so demanding. 116 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 2: There's a lot of articles are about at the moment 117 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 2: as well. I think this has changed everyone for the future, 118 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:58,440 Speaker 2: is getting things delivered now and we don't have to 119 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 2: go into stores. I mean, I still the physical aspect 120 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 2: of going in there and you're around. Actually, BJ got 121 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:07,559 Speaker 2: a bit emotional yesterday because I really missed just going 122 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 2: into David Jones or my just looking around your love 123 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 2: for the food court, have your emotions David Jones food 124 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 2: court miss a food court so. 125 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 4: Much, and David Jones is the most socially distant place 126 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:23,840 Speaker 4: on the planet. You can't find anyone in a David Jones. 127 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:28,600 Speaker 3: Even call three weeks ahead. 128 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 1: Well, that's right, there's no one even works there. 129 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 2: So there's a lot of people that are online shopping 130 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 2: at the moment and getting obsessed in and really straining relationships. 131 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 5: Erah, yeah, Well it's not good to watch someone blow 132 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 5: their salary on an online shop. 133 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 2: So a woman has to put up a bit of 134 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 2: a piece on the internet saying my partner James rarely 135 00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 2: indulged in shopping of any kind apart from the hardware 136 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 2: store and grocery shopping. But now it's really strained our 137 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:56,159 Speaker 2: relationship because he has become obsessed online and he's not 138 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 2: telling me. To the point, I'd love to hear from 139 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 2: people if you've been in a relationship before where you've 140 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 2: had to cut up a credit card, you know, that's 141 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,600 Speaker 2: the one of the few things that I remember from 142 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 2: Useless Crescent and Christie Downs where we grew up and 143 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:11,679 Speaker 2: we got broken into three times in one month. 144 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 1: Is I remember Mum. 145 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 2: And Dad got into this huge argument argument about money, 146 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 2: and because my ears pricked up, and I'm going, okay, 147 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 2: let's find out whatm and Dad's money situation is. And 148 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 2: I remember Dad stormed off and Mum was Mum was 149 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 2: crying and I didn't know what was going on. 150 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: Dad comes back with a pair of scissors and in 151 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 1: front of Mum just cuts up the credit card. You're 152 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: just racking up too much. 153 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but yeah, but me, we've been robbed three times. 154 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 3: We don't have a couch, cari, we don't we don't 155 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 3: have any dining room table. 156 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 2: I just wanted into little bits, so Mum just and 157 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 2: this would have been in the eighties, so that's when. 158 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: Credit cards would have just been introduced. 159 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 5: The problem now is that you just look at your 160 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 5: phone and it does a facial recognition. 161 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: And enter your details. 162 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 5: Like yesterday, I want something that I didn't even mean 163 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 5: too because it had registered everything and I hadn't noticed 164 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 5: it had done it so fast. And then it said 165 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 5: send you a code, and it entered the code by itself. 166 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 3: The purchase get back. I would too, but it's. 167 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 2: Like Scott Scotty Pate we're teaching the boys with Scottie Pay. 168 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 2: We're going to do the free investor three different buckets 169 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 2: on the three different jars where you save one, one's 170 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 2: spending money, and one's giving money. 171 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 3: Right yep. 172 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 1: So but the thing is, I said to bj we 173 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: don't have any cash in that. Yeah, Like we have 174 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: to physically. 175 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 2: Go to a store or a news agency and say, look, 176 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 2: he's fifty bucks. 177 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 1: Can you give us? 178 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I did the same thing, and I went 179 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 3: to the bank and got one hundred dollars in dollar coins. 180 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 3: So now at home there's the money jar, and then 181 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 3: there's Ted's jar and Jack's jar. So I had to 182 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 3: go to the bank to get the coins. That's, you know, 183 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 3: one of the greatest dangers and people will understand this too, 184 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 3: is when the tooth fairy needs. 185 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: Or rough, don't you don't have the cash? 186 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 3: I want carry his cash. I mean Ted went to 187 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 3: sleep with the f pus machine under his head. 188 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 1: I tap and go. But see, this is the thing. 189 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 2: Even Lenny said to me the other day, why do 190 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 2: we need to put it into the jar? 191 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 1: When Dad, you just use your watch. 192 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 3: This old fashion. 193 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 2: And then I dropped Hwie on Friday night. He went 194 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 2: up to Rob's Burgers. He wanted to get his favorite 195 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 2: burger and I said, you go for it. And then 196 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 2: I pulled over and I said you go in and 197 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,319 Speaker 2: get it. And he looks at me and goes, give 198 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:29,680 Speaker 2: me your watch, give me. 199 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 6: Sits in with everything can be known, past, present, future, 200 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 6: am I? 201 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 9: The only. 202 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 3: The topic is are you gay but living in a 203 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 3: heterosexual relationship? 204 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 2: Michael's giving us a call, Michael, were you in a hetress? 205 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 2: How long were you in a heterosecret relationship? 206 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 10: For? 207 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:56,199 Speaker 9: Fifteen years? Three children? 208 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 1: Wow? 209 00:09:57,080 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 3: Okay, who let's go back to the beginning because we're 210 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 3: fascinated by your story. Did you know prior to getting 211 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 3: married that you were gay? 212 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 9: Look, I've always been attracted to men, but I told 213 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:11,080 Speaker 9: myself I was bisexual and found in other excuses not 214 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:13,680 Speaker 9: to deal with it. Came from a very strict Irish 215 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 9: Catholic background where it just wasn't possible. I didn't know 216 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 9: any gay people, so I just sort of tried to 217 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 9: deal with it myself, which has been a big error 218 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 9: really looking back. 219 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 5: Okay, and how would you describe how you felt about 220 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 5: your wife when you met and did you sort of 221 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 5: that whole time? Did you feel trapped in that or 222 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:35,560 Speaker 5: is this someone who you loved in a way anyway? 223 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 9: Definitely the latter. We're still quite close, we see each 224 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 9: other regularly. But yeah, I was trying to live the 225 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 9: sort of romantic dream and you know, some of the 226 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 9: ingredients were missing, and yeah, in a way, it's been 227 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 9: you know, it was the right person but the wrong gender. 228 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:55,840 Speaker 9: Right the summary. 229 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:58,839 Speaker 2: So you were in a relationship with your best mate 230 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 2: and you loved her, But was there someone that came 231 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 2: into your life, Michael that changed it for you, changed 232 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 2: everything for you. 233 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:10,079 Speaker 9: That's the sort of transition person. So I did fall 234 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:14,199 Speaker 9: you know, for somebody at work who didn't reciprocate my feelings. 235 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 9: But that was sort of a precipitating factor. Wow, when 236 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:20,960 Speaker 9: it fell out of the closet, which is and I'm 237 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 9: hoping some of your listeners might sort of take their 238 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 9: own lives into their own hands and actually make some 239 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 9: decisions that I didn't make. 240 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 10: Right, A lesson earlier you. 241 00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 9: Do it, the better it is. 242 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, So Michael, and what did your wife did 243 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 3: she have any idea? I mean, did you speak openly 244 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 3: about it? 245 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 9: We did initially, we when we were getting together, and 246 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 9: we sort of thought we loved each other and that 247 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 9: would be enough, you know, and and you know, sadly 248 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 9: it wasn't enough. Yeah, you've got to line up desire 249 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 9: and romance and the whole bit. 250 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 5: So did you if your wife knew the whole time? 251 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 5: When did you, guys decide to tell the kids? 252 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:04,559 Speaker 9: Well, so when I sold for this guy at work 253 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 9: and she read my journal and so that was Christmas 254 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 9: and we were separated by Eastern Wow. 255 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 1: How were the kids at the time. 256 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 9: Michael, Oh, look, they were, you know, sort of twelve 257 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:19,199 Speaker 9: nine six. 258 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 3: The guy at work, Yeah. 259 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 9: It was it was hard work. 260 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 11: Yeah. 261 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 3: Did you make any advances towards the guy at work? 262 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 12: No? 263 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 9: I thank god. 264 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:32,719 Speaker 3: Yeah. How did you know he wasn't interested because he. 265 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 9: Had a girlfriend and yeah, you had a wife, Yes, 266 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 9: I was clear. No, No, it was fine. You know, 267 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 9: you find you work it out. 268 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 1: Did you have a cheat on your wife? Michael? 269 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 9: No, that's very interesting that you've raised that, because most 270 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 9: of the guys I know in my situation, but I 271 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 9: didn't know. And I'm not claiming any virtue. I do 272 00:12:58,040 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 9: think it's a real problem that the people who are 273 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:04,199 Speaker 9: get HIV or often people like to like myself were 274 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:07,199 Speaker 9: in relationships and who haven't had that discussion, you know, 275 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 9: So I think we're really at a high risk group. 276 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 9: For me, I was pretty depressed that was what was 277 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:13,559 Speaker 9: going wrong. 278 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 10: Yeah. 279 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 3: So Michael, you talk like you're familiar with other guys 280 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 3: in this situation. How big is the community? 281 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:20,199 Speaker 1: How often does this happen? 282 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 9: One researchers estimated seventeen thousand. I think it's a lot 283 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 9: more than that. But while I ran a support group 284 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:28,679 Speaker 9: in Melbourne for it, and there was a group called 285 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 9: Gamma in Sydney too, that's a support group and there's 286 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 9: a lot of us. Yeah, but I think as society's 287 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:40,479 Speaker 9: attitudes changed that people will probably not get into a relationship. 288 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 1: Michael. 289 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 2: What was your parents' reaction when you told them not happy? 290 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 1: Have you had a relationship with them since that? 291 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? 292 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, And my ex wife is still part of 293 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 9: the family, so we've and you know, we do all 294 00:13:57,360 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 9: the family get together. Than everything. I'm to a point 295 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 9: where we're okay about how life's happened. But there's a 296 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:08,199 Speaker 9: website called Dale dot org dot au which is sort 297 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 9: of like a self help thing for people who have 298 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:12,559 Speaker 9: been in my situation. I can highly recommend it. 299 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:14,319 Speaker 1: Gosh. 300 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:16,760 Speaker 3: I mean, there's a lesson for journaling as well, isn't 301 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 3: there if you're trying to keep something secret. 302 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 2: Michael needed the release. You're right through the journal. She 303 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 2: just sneaking away into the journal. Did she just find 304 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 2: it and went through it? 305 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 1: Michael? 306 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 9: Yeah, but I asked myself, why did I leave it out? Yeah? 307 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 9: I think it was was time. You know, it was 308 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 9: a relief for all of us. 309 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 3: In the page three read I am gay, don't tell wife. 310 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 1: She went, there's something going on here. 311 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 3: Thanks for sharing me. Appreciate it, mate. 312 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 2: No worries. 313 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 3: All right, Hey, did you guys want to hear the 314 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 3: story about Gertrude and Herbert? While since we're spoken about 315 00:14:55,600 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 3: Gertrue and Herbert on the show, Gertrude's cracked. They've been 316 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 3: together for ten years and they have a kid. 317 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: She says. 318 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 3: The thing about Herbert is never serious. He takes nothing seriously. 319 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 3: And they've sat down and they've said I think we 320 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 3: should get married. Sorry, she sat down with Herbert and 321 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 3: said I think we should get married. He kind of 322 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 3: just laughed it off. The next thing, you know, there's 323 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 3: some paperwork that's arrived in the mail. Gertrude's taken Herbert 324 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 3: to court. She's suing him for a lack of commitment 325 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 3: and not proposing. 326 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 2: That's pushing her but a bit further away, isn't it. 327 00:15:29,240 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 3: The Herb said, the reason that I've not proposed was 328 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 3: because I do not have the financial security to pay 329 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 3: for a wedding. And I argued that Gertrude had not 330 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 3: been a great partner after all this time and not 331 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 3: given him enough attention. 332 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 1: Well, isn't a kid enough? 333 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 2: Like that's when you've got to get married, isn't it 334 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 2: if you can't save up enough in ten years to 335 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 2: get married? And can I just say as well, how 336 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 2: much more money do you need to get married? Does 337 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 2: he need money for the wedding? 338 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 3: Don't know, I hayn't need that money. 339 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 5: They just go down to the registry. 340 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 3: Look at Mark Zuckerberg. Remember that fifty bucks you spent 341 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 3: on a couple of lights he hooked up in the 342 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 3: back garden. And that was it? 343 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: What a tight word? 344 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 3: You know? Done? 345 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 7: Well? 346 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 2: No, that's you know, that's that's I read the other 347 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 2: day that he doesn't read to his kids when they 348 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 2: go to bed. 349 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 3: They cod do some coding before the best way to 350 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 3: go to sleep. The judge told that reconciliation would be 351 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 3: the best outcome from the pair. Ah. How you know 352 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 3: the other thing when you talk about how long you 353 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 3: can be together without the bloke proposing, I think it 354 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 3: depends on age, doesn't it? Like if you're taking over 355 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 3: the years and you're nudging through your thirties and you 356 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 3: might have done a decade in your thirties and being 357 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 3: with the same person and they won't commit. Greg, how 358 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 3: long do you think it needs to be Because there's 359 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 3: a fine line here where relationships fall apout fall apart 360 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 3: if one doesn't propose. 361 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 10: Well, it took years to get the courage to go 362 00:16:56,120 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 10: down the aisle, and twelve years later there were. 363 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:03,280 Speaker 3: Greg, courage What do you mean courage? Mate? 364 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 10: Well, I had to make sure she was the right one. 365 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:10,119 Speaker 10: You never know, but yeah, she ended up being the 366 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:13,439 Speaker 10: right one. And yeah, twelve years later, where fine, we're 367 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 10: still together. 368 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 7: Greg? 369 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:21,240 Speaker 2: How long into the relationship before the wedding chat started? 370 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 1: Did she want to get married? A lot earlier? 371 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 10: About the first year? 372 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 3: I hold back though, Greg, like, did you need eight 373 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:30,160 Speaker 3: years to be convinced she was the right one? 374 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:31,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? 375 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 10: Well, I've had girlfriends in the past that that kind 376 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:36,120 Speaker 10: of mucked around and stuff. So you know, I wasn't 377 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:39,480 Speaker 10: too sure and I had to make sure you're right one. 378 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:43,120 Speaker 10: Oh yeah, as I said, you know, we ended up 379 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 10: taking a dive and. 380 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 3: Yeah we're right now, Greg. 381 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:48,959 Speaker 2: He doesn't sound like the most motivated bloke to get 382 00:17:48,960 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 2: a wedding and wants to relax. 383 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 3: And you're right, Greg, all a couple of doozies in 384 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:53,119 Speaker 3: our past. 385 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:58,480 Speaker 2: Mate, all right, Lauren has given us care. How long 386 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:00,320 Speaker 2: have you been waiting for your partner to propose? 387 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 1: Lauren? 388 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 9: It's been a long eight years that I've been waiting. 389 00:18:03,680 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 5: How old are you, Lauren? 390 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:06,400 Speaker 11: I just spent twenty nine. 391 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, see I did this, So I waited eight years 392 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:10,359 Speaker 5: in my twenties and then they do it, and then 393 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 5: you get divorced with him two. 394 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:12,880 Speaker 1: I don't know if I tell me. 395 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 3: That, No, I don't plant that in Lauren's mind. 396 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:18,159 Speaker 2: Have you had a chat to your family? Do you 397 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 2: think there will be an ultimatum at some stage? 398 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 11: So my dad actually has the chat with me to 399 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 11: say that it's okay if I wanted to have a 400 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:28,160 Speaker 11: baby out of wedlock, because I thought that maybe that's 401 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 11: what I was waiting for. 402 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 9: Given up on the marriage. 403 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 3: Paid, Lauren, Can I throw some wild advice in if 404 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 3: you want him to propose? Break up with him? 405 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 5: No, I don't do that, Lauren. 406 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 3: Dump him and watch him come running in a minute. 407 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:45,879 Speaker 5: Is he in his twenties as well? 408 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 9: Yeah, he did it. He's nearly thirty. 409 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:49,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's still quite young. 410 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 1: Or sleep with his best mate, Lord, I mean that 411 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 1: would be you can't. 412 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 10: I don't listen to the great ideas. 413 00:18:56,400 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 2: Go if you fall on a sleep at work before 414 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 2: For twenty fourteen, the longtime head of spine surgery at 415 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:08,479 Speaker 2: Boston Medical Center has been reprimanded by state regulators and 416 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:12,680 Speaker 2: find five thousand dollars for leaving an operating room before 417 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 2: the start of an emergency back surgery to go and 418 00:19:16,359 --> 00:19:20,400 Speaker 2: eat in his parked car, where he then fell asleep 419 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:22,120 Speaker 2: and missed the procedure. 420 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 3: I'm glad if I'm going in for a back op 421 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 3: right sensitive, I'm glad that the guys asleep in the car, 422 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 3: because if you're half asked, I'm not into it. 423 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:32,479 Speaker 1: Mate. 424 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:34,439 Speaker 3: If you're tired on the job, I don't want you 425 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:35,000 Speaker 3: on my back. 426 00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 2: How tired do you get to after a big lunch 427 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 2: when you've had a good feed and you're like, oh, 428 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:43,000 Speaker 2: I just I'm I'm comfy now. 429 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 3: I told you about how I used to work at 430 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 3: a used to work at a fashion brand called Deschamp, 431 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 3: and they made casual clothes, but because it was it 432 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:57,560 Speaker 3: spelt de Champ, your Deshamp black muscle Deschamp. And if 433 00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 3: you fell at if you looked at the aisles of 434 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 3: clothes and the boxes of cloth and everything that was there, 435 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 3: you'd just go and lie down on these piles of rags. 436 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 3: Well that and it was as comfy as anything. 437 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 1: That would have been the only use for those popular. 438 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 3: Mate, it was very popular that. 439 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:16,119 Speaker 1: I really remember too many people wearing the shop. 440 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:18,639 Speaker 3: It's about to take off, about to take off, Reese. 441 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:20,119 Speaker 1: Were you caught sleeping at work? 442 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:22,439 Speaker 12: Yeah, mate, I was on a construction site. I was 443 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 12: pretty much a glorified babysitters. All I had to do 444 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:27,160 Speaker 12: was sit there all day. So I thought that I'd 445 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:30,199 Speaker 12: sneak off into the school shed yep, and around the 446 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:32,399 Speaker 12: back corner there was a big pile of mesh. I 447 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:34,159 Speaker 12: call up inside that and pull it out of the 448 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 12: top of me. Well, I'd have a quick twenty minute power. 449 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:37,639 Speaker 11: Up where I was. 450 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 10: Later I woke up to the boss is there. 451 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:41,040 Speaker 12: Enough for him in there for me? 452 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 11: Right? 453 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 3: And you're now TikTok sensation race. 454 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 12: Absolutely, Oh that. 455 00:20:46,840 --> 00:20:49,280 Speaker 1: Is good, Anyboddy? How often do you sleep on the job, Phil? 456 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 7: Oh? My god, newly every day? 457 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:52,719 Speaker 3: Mate? What do you do? 458 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 1: Phil? 459 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:54,199 Speaker 13: So? 460 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:58,200 Speaker 7: I do assembly work and I wanted one star. I 461 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 7: don't want to wrap myself out. But I sit in 462 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:05,640 Speaker 7: a little hole and I thembre air conditioners, very large 463 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 7: air conditioners, a little computer chair and actually covers me everywhere. 464 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:14,920 Speaker 7: I can see people's legs coming, but they can't see 465 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:17,400 Speaker 7: me sleep every day. 466 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 3: Sneaky, sneaky Phil. How many hours do you do in 467 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:21,840 Speaker 3: your little hole? Their? Phil? 468 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 7: Probably at least a good two hours a day. 469 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 3: Nothing's getting done. 470 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:30,640 Speaker 1: How do you How did you get caught sleeping at work? 471 00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 1: Done it? I? 472 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 11: Actually I didn't get caught. I was the receptionist for 473 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 11: a company and we've been out to lunch. We went 474 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:46,720 Speaker 11: back to the office and I was feeling tired, and 475 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 11: the next thing I know, I was waking up with 476 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:53,399 Speaker 11: my head on the desk, and like everybody was aroundy 477 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 11: and nobody anything. 478 00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 3: To men's dribbling on the desk. 479 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: Donna's died doing what she receptionists were fast asleep. 480 00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:06,359 Speaker 3: Shouldn't you been online shopping or something dinner? That is 481 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:10,640 Speaker 3: a good she's falling asleep. 482 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 1: Again, Eric, were you caught sleeping at work? Gas? 483 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:17,240 Speaker 13: Sure it was another one. I used to be working 484 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:20,239 Speaker 13: on the building site. Was I was a spoder at 485 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 13: this time, you know, working underneath the Young Bond deck. 486 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,640 Speaker 13: They were spot wording up the top there. And I've 487 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,080 Speaker 13: got a barricaded area and I've got to keep the 488 00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:30,200 Speaker 13: people out of there. And meanwhile