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<v Speaker 1>We would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the

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<v Speaker 1>land that this podcast is recorded on. DLs, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>start of a new month, which means it's time to

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<v Speaker 1>check your boobs. Now, if you're bored of that, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>that's our lot in life. We got tits, we got

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<v Speaker 1>to check them. Okay, so just do it. We're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to give you the whole tutorial because you should

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<v Speaker 1>know it by now. Four quadrants. But it is a

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<v Speaker 1>quick reminder in the shower this morning or tonight, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>check yourself. Or right now at the next red light.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a thousand things to do, but we'd rather

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<v Speaker 1>chat to you. With emails and meetings and husbands and kids,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't have time for this. Just what you need,

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<v Speaker 1>two basic bitches with a podcast. Hello and welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>We Don't Have Time For This. I'm your host, Gemma Pranita, a.k.a.

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<v Speaker 1>Gemma Peanut on the Gram, along. Oh. With my co-host.

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<v Speaker 1>Kate Reeves. And the other harmonizer. They've given me a

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<v Speaker 1>mic and now they regret it. Instant, instant regret. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do a trend. Oh, fun. I love

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<v Speaker 1>a trend. Love a trend. I want to jump on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it a dancing trend? Are we going to do

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<v Speaker 1>it together? Are you learning Corrie? Do you miss the show? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no and no. No Corey involved? Didn't think so. I

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<v Speaker 1>am going to ask you a series of questions and

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to give me a one word answer. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it's us. We're going to yap and we'll probably

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<v Speaker 1>commentate as we go. Okay. And then I want to

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<v Speaker 1>ask in reverse because I want to do each one

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<v Speaker 1>at the time. Wait, when you say ask in reverse,

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<v Speaker 1>you want me to ask you? Yeah. Okay, great. There's

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<v Speaker 1>eight questions and we're going to ask them now of

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<v Speaker 1>each other and you're allowed to give one word answers.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe some have a correct answer, but really there's

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<v Speaker 1>no right or wrong. Here we go. And it's not literal.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll give you an example. The first one is what

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<v Speaker 1>flower am I? Now, it's not my favorite flower. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to get the right answer like you know

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<v Speaker 1>what my favorite. It's like in the essence of me

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<v Speaker 1>as you know me, what flower am I? For example,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you are a pink dahlia.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I know that's not your favorite flower. Your favorite

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<v Speaker 1>flower is sunflowers, but you are a pink Dahlia, bright,

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<v Speaker 1>forward facing, open, like here I am. Okay. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>an example. What flower am I? A poppy. A poppy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very flattered by that answer. Yeah. Very joyful. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>like quite creative looking. A bit bent out of shape.

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<v Speaker 1>A little bit bent out of shape, but fucking beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Wilts easily. Yeah. High maintenance. Not kidding. They are high maintenance.

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<v Speaker 1>And they're just beautiful. And yes, the openness. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest. I had a moment where I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a different flower in mind. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, absolutely not. I had hydrangea in mind. That's

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite flower. It's your favorite flower. That's what I

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<v Speaker 1>defaulted to. But then I was like, no, you're actually

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<v Speaker 1>more of a poppy. Yeah. And I'm definitely not as

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<v Speaker 1>organized and repeat pattern as a hydrangea. I like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a hydrangea belongs to a type A person.

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<v Speaker 1>KD is a hydrangea.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I love hydrangeas. Yeah, but that's not the game.

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<v Speaker 1>Am I a blue one or a pink one or

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<v Speaker 1>a purple one? Pink. Or white. White hydrangeas. Oh, classic. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>When I think of you as a poppy, it's orange. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Great.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I think of you as a dahlia, it's

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<v Speaker 1>that real saturated pink. Love. Yeah. Great. Oh, this is fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fun. I'm into this. Okay, next question. Yes. What

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<v Speaker 1>colour am I? Ooh. I want to say blue because

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<v Speaker 1>you're wearing blue and there's a blue light behind you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you're blue. For some reason, red came

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<v Speaker 1>to mind. Oh, amazing. That's so interesting. Yeah. What color

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<v Speaker 1>am I? Red. Oh, fun. Yeah. Yeah. Like true red.

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<v Speaker 1>Like red lipstick. Red. Like fire engine, that really bright

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<v Speaker 1>pop of red. Some people would call red aggressive. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she's loud and she's present. She's proud. She's not a pastel.

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<v Speaker 1>You're red. Yeah, because I have been told ones never

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<v Speaker 1>wear red to a meeting or a negotiation. Why? Intimidating?

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<v Speaker 1>Because it's aggressive. Yeah. Interesting. I was told as a

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<v Speaker 1>theater director, never wear red ever in a rehearsal room.

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<v Speaker 1>Just to me, you ain't no wallflower. You know, you're red,

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<v Speaker 1>you're present. We know you're in the room. I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>My sister told me I was orange and I told

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<v Speaker 1>her she was red. That's close to red. Orange is

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<v Speaker 1>a gradient, you know, one shade. What I like about

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<v Speaker 1>it is it's just ever so which is what I

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<v Speaker 1>often think with you. Okay. What season am I? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really being thrown by the blue colors. Close your eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>Close your eyes and think of your bestie revs. Autumn. Autumn. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's the correct answer. Yeah. Bit cozy. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Bit cozy. It is very romantic. Yeah. I was thinking

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<v Speaker 1>of New York City in fall. You give autumn. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Pumpkin spice, baby. Yeah. And that's an in-between season because

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<v Speaker 1>you aren't, you're very tridimensional. You're not. Transitional. You're transitional. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>A bit of a chameleon. So you're in between, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of winter and a little bit of spring,

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<v Speaker 1>you know? Yeah. What season am I? Now, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why I know this is absolutely correct because it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like a season I would put you in. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not Thai. It's not Aussie. But you are winter, specifically

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas night. Yeah. Like European winter. Love it. Because even

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<v Speaker 1>Russian winter, I would put you in. It is theatrical.

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<v Speaker 1>It is, it's whimsical. It requires determination to like get

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<v Speaker 1>through it. Do you know what I mean? But it

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<v Speaker 1>also is. Cozy. Also cozy. Cozy, but in a very

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<v Speaker 1>high cozy, you know what I mean? Not like bunker

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<v Speaker 1>down with a blanket cozy. It's like light all the candles. Yeah. Fun. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take that. Winter. Okay. Next question in. This doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to correlate. What weather am I? Weirdly, wind came

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<v Speaker 1>to mind. My least favorite. I know. Wind. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why.

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<v Speaker 2>Wind.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Apologies. That's okay. I'm going off the first inch.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just a storm in her life, you guys. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was more like- Blowing everything around. Tornado came

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<v Speaker 1>to mind. Fuck off. I am not a tornado. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you move like a tornado. You whip things up. You

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<v Speaker 1>whip things up. You know, your life moves fast. Can

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<v Speaker 1>I just be one of those little autumnal baby ones

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<v Speaker 1>on the high street? You're not. It's like, ooh, there

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<v Speaker 1>it goes. You're not. Dancing with the leaves. No. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not. Full tornado. Twister. Like a really strong tornado.

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<v Speaker 1>Weather system. Yeah. The thing is with you, Revs, there's momentum.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the more romantic version of it. Like year of

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<v Speaker 1>the horse, you know, you're a steam train. Like you're just, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be honest. You're not sun. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not. What are the other? There's lots of weather. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what KD, I would call KD, jeans

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<v Speaker 1>and T-shirt weather. Like the perfect 22 to 25. Yeah. Oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>mild they call that. No, not mild.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 1>Not mild. It's like easy. I'd say warm spring day. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, warm spring day. All right. You know my favourite weather?

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<v Speaker 1>Whoring with rain. Everyone lowers their expectations. Oh, true. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so you. This is so Katie. It's wild.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone want less. We're out of life. Everyone's late. Everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>wet and dishevelled. And it's fine. And it's fine. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a reason. Oh, people forget how to drive. Hmm. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>people forget how to drive. All expectations lowered for the day.

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<v Speaker 1>Not over it yet. When you explained it, I felt

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<v Speaker 1>better about it. Momentum. Momentum. There's an energy. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's brewing, you know. Things are brewing all the time

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<v Speaker 1>with you. What weather am I? I want to find

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<v Speaker 1>a way to say sunrise, but that's not weather. That's

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<v Speaker 1>just something that happens every day. But it's a particular, like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fresh. Yeah. But it's going to be warm. Yeah. Sunrise.

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<v Speaker 1>Like a spring sunrise. A spring sunrise. Okay, lovely. I

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<v Speaker 1>know that's not really a weather, but I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>is she a sun shower? But no, that's not right.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no water involved. I know that. Sun shower. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but no, you're not a sun shower. Can I be?

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<v Speaker 1>It's quite cute because rainbows happen in sun showers. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like Raph's a sun shower. It's like, what's happening?

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<v Speaker 1>My God.

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<v Speaker 3>God what is happening never a more accurate thing said

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<v Speaker 3>yeah it's like oh it's like raining and it's sunny

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<v Speaker 3>this is delightful and romantic but it's annoying but what's

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<v Speaker 3>happening and there's rainbows.

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<v Speaker 1>And there's rainbows it's like a lot going on yes

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<v Speaker 1>yeah i love that what whether would you describe yourself

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<v Speaker 1>i could never i have no idea what did your

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<v Speaker 1>sister say you were she said i was a snow

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<v Speaker 1>flurry specifically in new york city At night. Okay, lovely. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>which I enjoy. I called her a balmy afternoon, which

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<v Speaker 1>she is. She is. She's a balmy afternoon, the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of afternoon where you're like, let's get spritzers. Yeah, absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go dinner at the beach, you know, that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of the night. I love being a sunrise. Yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a sunrise, but it's like a really promising part of

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<v Speaker 1>the day. Oh. There's a lot of like optimism and

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<v Speaker 1>anything's possible in that moment. I love that. Yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's like not every day you get to see the sunrise. No.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it's just drizzly or grey or whatever. It's always

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<v Speaker 1>a bit special. A bit special. who's a rare let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you you're never coming back from that okay

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<v Speaker 1>they're rare babe you're rare and people chase them all

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<v Speaker 1>around the world they do and they fucking run to

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<v Speaker 1>ruin lives stop i want to stick to the momentum

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<v Speaker 1>and movement of energy okay i feel like a rip

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<v Speaker 1>might have been better it's not weather what kind of

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<v Speaker 1>day is it i'm vibing it's feeling it's Okay, this

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<v Speaker 1>one's deep. What feeling am I? So ask me, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>This one came straight away to me. The first thing

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<v Speaker 1>that came up was warm. If I'm honest, what feeling?

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<v Speaker 1>A warmth. That's nice. If I'm honoring the first thought

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<v Speaker 1>without psychoanalyzing it and you and trying to find the

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<v Speaker 1>right fit, warmth. Warm. Warm feelings. A warmth. Try and

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<v Speaker 1>say it a different way. What feeling am I? Giggles. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Like giggle fit. Oh, fun. Yeah. Can I tell you

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<v Speaker 1>what my sister said?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Deron really bottled this. He was like, I don't get

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<v Speaker 1>the game. And we were already halfway through. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, we're going to stop. And I've given him

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<v Speaker 1>the challenge. I'm like, you've got one week to come

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<v Speaker 1>up with what flower I am. He's like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know flowers. I'm like, you're in New York. Go to

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<v Speaker 1>any fucking bodega. I die. And take a photo of

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<v Speaker 1>the one that's me. Lou said, I am trust. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's nice. That's really nice. And my feeling for her

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<v Speaker 1>was safety. Like I feel the feeling of safe, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>with her. I love that. And do you know what?

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<v Speaker 1>Warmth ties in with those. Yeah, yeah. Like you can't

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<v Speaker 1>feel warm with someone if you don't trust them or

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<v Speaker 1>feel safe. Okay, next one. I want to play this

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<v Speaker 1>with my kids. I can't wait. What food am I?

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<v Speaker 1>This is kind of adjacent to our menu chat recently.

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<v Speaker 1>Something high-end and expensive. LAUGHTER oh i'm flattered complex in

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<v Speaker 1>flavors oh okay so i'm getting there i'm getting there

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<v Speaker 1>i'm arriving and i struggle with this for you because

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<v Speaker 1>i'm like well there's so many things she likes do

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<v Speaker 1>you know what i mean but it's not about what

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<v Speaker 1>you like it's the essence of who you are i

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you're a seafood linguine that's like a 40

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<v Speaker 1>one and the reason is because there's so much depth

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<v Speaker 1>of flavor there's a richness to it like you're rich

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<v Speaker 1>you're also full at the end you know you're like

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<v Speaker 1>that's enough for You said it, not me. But also

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<v Speaker 1>the seafood is your zest and surprise and delight and, ooh,

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<v Speaker 1>bit of muscle, bit of prawn, bit of crab, bit

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<v Speaker 1>of everything. Yeah, great. Yeah, but then it's also rooted

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<v Speaker 1>in being a classic, which feels like you. I love this. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You're definitely something like zingy or spicy. Can I be

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<v Speaker 1>a Tom Yum? No, you're not a Tom Yum. There's

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<v Speaker 1>not enough to it. It's too light on. Too watery?

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<v Speaker 1>You're not a fucking entree, babe. You're just not an Andre.

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<v Speaker 1>Even though we, as in you and I, force it

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<v Speaker 1>into a main all the time. I seriously feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you are like a crazy restaurant. Like, do you remember?

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<v Speaker 1>What's his name? That chemist restauranteur with the glasses. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>Heston Blumenthal. You are like a Heston Blumenthal. Seriously, where

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<v Speaker 1>it's like it looks like a roast dinner and there's

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<v Speaker 1>a well. And there's like a Yorkshire pudding and peas

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<v Speaker 1>and whatever, but you cut into it and it's cake.

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<v Speaker 1>And then like smoke comes with it. Like you're a

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<v Speaker 1>full gastronomy. Experience. Escape room. Wow. Oh, my God. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like 17 ideas on one plate. Yeah, which is why

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<v Speaker 1>I think seafood linguine is right for you. It's lots

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<v Speaker 1>of things. Yeah, but mine all go together. Yours need

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<v Speaker 1>to be like that doesn't match. And yet some of

0:12:30.300 --> 0:12:35.349
<v Speaker 1>them you've charged me $ 70 for it. No, it's free.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, it comes with a big apology. This one's

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<v Speaker 1>on us. This one's on us. You have it. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I know there's a lot going on, but it will

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<v Speaker 1>be great. Don't you feel full? I love it. What

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<v Speaker 1>drink am I? Oh, champagne. That's the first thought. Three

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<v Speaker 1>for three now. Yep, champagne me. Three for three, I'm champagne.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, that's correct. Celebratory, bubbly. Yes, that's correct. Gives

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<v Speaker 1>you a little buzz. Yep, gives you a little buzz.

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<v Speaker 1>But the fancy champagne. For some reason I'm really aligned.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not pub Prosecco, bitch. No, babe, your def's not. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and in my imagination in beautiful glassware. A bit unique.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like the glass might be a bit fluted,

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<v Speaker 1>might be a colorful glass. It'll be like a champagne

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<v Speaker 1>where you comment on the glass as well as the drink.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my God, the level of detail. I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, my narcissism. Thanks you. What drink am I?

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<v Speaker 1>What bevy? Well, similarly, it's like, I think you're like a...

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<v Speaker 1>It's milky, but it's not expected. Like it's got things

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<v Speaker 1>floating in it. Am I your weirdest friend? Oh, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We've established that. Am I taro milk? Yes, you're like

0:13:40.520 --> 0:13:44.069
<v Speaker 1>taro bubble tea. It's in purple shade. Yep, taro. There's

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<v Speaker 1>maybe jelly floating in there, like blocks of jelly. Delicious.

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<v Speaker 1>And then some kind of foam on top with a

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<v Speaker 1>weird wacky straw. Yes. Fun. Takeaway. Can it be a straw?

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<v Speaker 1>To go. Definitely. To go.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, my God.

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<v Speaker 1>Can it be a straw that loops? Sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>And it may have even arrived on Uber Eats and

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<v Speaker 1>spilled in the bag. Do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>But we're committed. So we drink the drinks. We drink

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<v Speaker 1>what's left. You know? Always. Chaos. Chaos. Chaos. Oh. KDU. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you? What's Katie? A green smoothie. Oh, yeah. Right?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm just water, guys. You're not water.

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<v Speaker 1>There's way more to you than water. Water with hydrolyte?

0:14:22.860 --> 0:14:25.760
<v Speaker 1>Who's water? Oh, no, that's what you would drink. I

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<v Speaker 1>can get behind that. Oh, like an activated water? Yeah,

0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:31.170
<v Speaker 1>activated water. Yeah, it's got all the good nutrition in it.

0:14:31.200 --> 0:14:35.850
<v Speaker 1>You need it. You're hydrating. It's very dependable. Water is accessible.

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<v Speaker 1>Can't live without it. Can't live without it. Everyone loves water.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm converted. I don't think you're water. I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>a smoothie. Why? Just like a lot of things that

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<v Speaker 1>you got to do, like got to have, got to

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<v Speaker 1>get it in there. You need it. Oh, I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast smoothie. I was, I'm seeing a green smoothie. Yeah.

0:14:50.680 --> 0:14:53.260
<v Speaker 1>Like a health smoothie. Yeah. All right. Might pack it

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<v Speaker 1>with some protein. Yeah. Definitely kale. Celery for sure. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Celery in a smoothie. Yeah, it's not what you like

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<v Speaker 1>to drink. Like a green juice, a green juice. All right.

0:15:03.830 --> 0:15:05.690
<v Speaker 1>I do like a green juice. Well, there you go.

0:15:05.750 --> 0:15:08.740
<v Speaker 1>You know who's fond of a green juice? Mel Riccio.

0:15:08.790 --> 0:15:11.680
<v Speaker 1>Loves a green juice. Loves a green juice. There you go.

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<v Speaker 1>It's complex. There's a lot going on, but it's like

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<v Speaker 1>you've got to have it. You need it. You'll feel

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<v Speaker 1>better after it. Okay, next one. We're getting to the end.

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<v Speaker 1>What sport am I? Oh, why did hockey come to mind? Hockey? Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Like women's grass hockey. I got to try and unpack that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going in reverse because I've like, I landed on that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the visual that came to mind. I wonder why.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're an Alpreyski. Alpreyski. 100%. I'm an Alpreyski.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a sport? No. No, it's after the sport. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>My sister told me I was a stroll. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a sport. I'm going strolling. Strolling is not

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<v Speaker 1>a sport. No. I mean, walk running, is that a thing?

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<v Speaker 1>What do they call that? Oh, yes. They do that like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is it called? What is that called? Power walking.

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<v Speaker 1>Power walking. No, I'm not that. I don't think you

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<v Speaker 1>are that at all. Hockey. Well, Doron said I was netball. Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Why?

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, there's strategy, but it's teamwork and you've got

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<v Speaker 1>it like, it's fast paced. For me, team sport definitely

0:16:16.260 --> 0:16:18.760
<v Speaker 1>came up as opposed to individual sport. Yes, I'd say

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<v Speaker 1>an individual sport for you. Oh, really? Really? Which doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>mean you're not a collaborator. I don't like it. I

0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:29.460
<v Speaker 1>feel this way about you a tornado. No, you're definitely

0:16:29.500 --> 0:16:31.480
<v Speaker 1>not a team sport. Yeah, no, you're a team sport.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you're very unique. Like you might throw the team

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<v Speaker 1>off with your moves. But I feel like the reason

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<v Speaker 1>why hockey or like lacrosse came to mind. Playing with

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<v Speaker 1>a stick. Well, yeah, something with a stick. Not golf.

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<v Speaker 1>But again, it's quite a unique. Bit aggressive too. Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a bit of that. Forward energy. Yes. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>women's sport. Like I'm talking women's hockey and women's lacrosse. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not butch. No. Hockey's a bit butch, isn't it?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think of it that way. I don't know why,

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<v Speaker 1>but I keep thinking javelin. What the fuck? Or like

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<v Speaker 1>it's not this but archery or darts. Like it's something

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<v Speaker 1>that requires incredible focus and precision, hyper focus almost, and

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<v Speaker 1>elegance and like a form to it. Like you've got

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<v Speaker 1>to do it right. Oh, like fencing? No, fencing is–

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<v Speaker 1>actually fencing was what told her on he was oh

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<v Speaker 1>yeah a bit zesty but also like theatrical but also

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<v Speaker 1>like precise and controlled yeah but with but with flair

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<v Speaker 1>yeah interesting yeah you're not flair babe i'm not i'm

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<v Speaker 1>not happy something way bigger than flair i'm not happy

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<v Speaker 1>with my sport for you it's not hockey or lacrosse

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<v Speaker 1>well it's like a puzzle where you're like turning all

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<v Speaker 1>the sides to like fit it in and it's not

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<v Speaker 1>quite fitting okay this was a sport I'm thinking about

0:17:47.270 --> 0:17:51.379
<v Speaker 1>the stick sports. Yeah. Like Benny is beach cricket. Hungy P. Right?

0:17:51.400 --> 0:17:53.699
<v Speaker 1>He's bandit. Yeah. Like I know he thinks he's rugby,

0:17:53.740 --> 0:17:56.320
<v Speaker 1>but he's beach cricket. No, he's beach cricket for sure. Yeah.

0:17:56.340 --> 0:17:59.800
<v Speaker 1>He's like, grab everyone, get the esky, Ted to the beach.

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<v Speaker 1>What's Katie? I don't know. I'm stuck on you right now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the discipline. This is where discipline comes in, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>for sport. Ballet? Synchronized swimming. Ballet is not a sport,

0:18:10.750 --> 0:18:12.869
<v Speaker 1>is it? Ballet is 100% a sport. Is it?

0:18:12.859 --> 0:18:12.929
<v Speaker 2>100%.

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<v Speaker 1>Why isn't it in the Olympics? No, no, no. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not a sport. Ballet is the arts, but they have

0:18:19.460 --> 0:18:23.480
<v Speaker 1>athleticism that is matched with athletes. Yeah, maybe gymnastics. Oh, yeah.

0:18:23.500 --> 0:18:28.270
<v Speaker 1>Story checks. Maybe like rhythmic gymnastics actually. Ooh. Oh, really? Rhythmic? No,

0:18:28.290 --> 0:18:32.030
<v Speaker 1>too creative. What's the ribbon? Too creative. Rhythmic. That's too flexible.

0:18:32.090 --> 0:18:34.990
<v Speaker 1>I like to be structured. Yeah, I think actually it's

0:18:35.109 --> 0:18:39.270
<v Speaker 1>the discipline. Yeah. Or floor? Well, they call it artistic gymnastics,

0:18:39.310 --> 0:18:43.210
<v Speaker 1>but I think you're all four disciplines of artistic gymnastics. Oh, yeah.

0:18:43.330 --> 0:18:45.910
<v Speaker 1>All right. Yeah, so there's a lot of like managing

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<v Speaker 1>of all the different apparati. Yeah. But she's not rhythmic.

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<v Speaker 1>That's too creative and zany and not Katie. Yeah, not me. Yeah,

0:18:53.660 --> 0:18:55.240
<v Speaker 1>that's like throwing balls. You've got to stick the landing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I know. Definitely. And I think beam is

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<v Speaker 1>your strength. I love this game. Thank you for taking

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<v Speaker 1>it on wholeheartedly, you guys. Duh. I think we just

0:19:06.380 --> 0:19:10.440
<v Speaker 1>started with dahlias. And now we're at beam is your strength.

0:19:10.859 --> 0:19:14.520
<v Speaker 1>You absolutely nail it in the winter season. You get

0:19:14.600 --> 0:19:17.920
<v Speaker 1>anxiety about the vault. Did you nail Gem Sport? Because

0:19:18.000 --> 0:19:22.760
<v Speaker 1>I think Gem's ultimate frisbee. Ultimate frisbee? Wow. Yeah, real rogue,

0:19:22.840 --> 0:19:25.700
<v Speaker 1>real quirky. Oh, oh, oh, I know what you are. What?

0:19:25.740 --> 0:19:31.710
<v Speaker 1>Roller derby. Yes. Yes. Yes. The outfit. Yes. Yes. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what you are. It's fucking chaos. Yes. It requires strength. Yeah.

0:19:35.690 --> 0:19:38.530
<v Speaker 1>It is a team sport. It's like a tornado. It

0:19:38.570 --> 0:19:42.760
<v Speaker 1>moves like a background. The momentum of it. Music. There's

0:19:42.800 --> 0:19:45.260
<v Speaker 1>music and entertainment. And an outfit. It's a vibe and

0:19:45.300 --> 0:19:49.530
<v Speaker 1>a cute outfit. Oh, my God, yes. And it's feminist. Yes, yes, yes.

0:19:49.570 --> 0:19:54.070
<v Speaker 1>That's it. a little bit butch. Yep. But, oh, I

0:19:54.090 --> 0:19:56.250
<v Speaker 1>was getting worried there. I was like, why am I

0:19:56.490 --> 0:19:58.830
<v Speaker 1>landing on a sport for revs? I really feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you might be Javelin. Oh, my God. It's like one

0:20:02.250 --> 0:20:05.859
<v Speaker 1>degree away from trunchbull. No, it's nothing like that. Yes,

0:20:05.970 --> 0:20:09.710
<v Speaker 1>it is. Javelin is way more precise. Sure. Don't you think? Yeah,

0:20:09.730 --> 0:20:14.650
<v Speaker 1>they're like galloping. It's elegant. Yeah. Okay. Like you're not dressage,

0:20:14.690 --> 0:20:16.649
<v Speaker 1>you know. I want to be dressage. I know you

0:20:16.760 --> 0:20:19.139
<v Speaker 1>want to be. I know. I can see your eyes

0:20:19.180 --> 0:20:22.619
<v Speaker 1>begging me to say dressage, but it's too chic and

0:20:22.700 --> 0:20:25.560
<v Speaker 1>elegant and put together. There's something still a little bit

0:20:25.580 --> 0:20:28.960
<v Speaker 1>scrappy and unruly about javelin. It's like it could go anywhere.

0:20:28.980 --> 0:20:30.359
<v Speaker 1>You know how even when it lands, it goes ding, ding.

0:20:30.990 --> 0:20:34.510
<v Speaker 1>in the ground yeah that's you high vibration oh great

0:20:34.570 --> 0:20:37.090
<v Speaker 1>i'll take that anyway this is a fun game you

0:20:37.130 --> 0:20:39.510
<v Speaker 1>can play with anyone in your life i love this

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<v Speaker 1>it's a good dinner party yes i want to do

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<v Speaker 1>it with my kids yeah definitely definitely and i'm interested

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<v Speaker 1>in their answers i just want to force them in

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<v Speaker 1>a situation where they have to really think about these

0:20:49.540 --> 0:20:52.260
<v Speaker 1>responses and it's so absurd yeah but how fitting when

0:20:52.300 --> 0:20:54.480
<v Speaker 1>you land on the right thing and you just know

0:20:54.510 --> 0:20:57.670
<v Speaker 1>there's a correct answer like champagne, you just know. Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Three for three. Three for three on the champagne. Yeah,

0:21:01.690 --> 0:21:04.300
<v Speaker 1>that's you. I enjoy this trend. People are posting it

0:21:04.400 --> 0:21:05.919
<v Speaker 1>on Instagram. I was like, it's much more fun to

0:21:05.960 --> 0:21:09.460
<v Speaker 1>do like this in a chat. Fun. Anyway, a complete

0:21:09.660 --> 0:21:11.550
<v Speaker 1>sharp turn to the right. You know what I don't

0:21:11.570 --> 0:21:13.570
<v Speaker 1>have time for? What don't you have time for? Being

0:21:13.590 --> 0:21:16.530
<v Speaker 1>a not single, single mom. My brain just glitched. Let

0:21:16.570 --> 0:21:18.710
<v Speaker 1>me just hang on. Let me just follow that through slowly.

0:21:18.830 --> 0:21:22.129
<v Speaker 1>Being a not single, single mom, because you are in

0:21:22.170 --> 0:21:26.830
<v Speaker 1>a relationship, but you are a divorced parent with a co-parent,

0:21:27.250 --> 0:21:30.010
<v Speaker 1>but you house all the responsibility for the kids when

0:21:30.050 --> 0:21:30.570
<v Speaker 1>you have them.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes.

0:21:31.050 --> 0:21:34.990
<v Speaker 1>And you manage an entire household on your own. Got it. Yeah. Okay. Sorry.

0:21:35.020 --> 0:21:37.260
<v Speaker 1>I just needed to say it throughout loud. It's one

0:21:37.280 --> 0:21:39.240
<v Speaker 1>of those things where it's like, so my friend's cousin's

0:21:39.380 --> 0:21:43.480
<v Speaker 1>auntie's sister's best friend. Totally. What? Yeah. I parent on

0:21:43.520 --> 0:21:45.860
<v Speaker 1>my own, but I am not single. And I've been

0:21:45.880 --> 0:21:48.500
<v Speaker 1>a not single, single mom before, obviously. I've been in

0:21:48.520 --> 0:21:50.760
<v Speaker 1>a relationship prior to the one I'm in. So why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you have time for it, babe? I'm done with this.

0:21:53.920 --> 0:21:57.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm really over this era of my life. It's been incredible.

0:21:57.619 --> 0:22:00.260
<v Speaker 1>It's been informative. I have learned so much about myself.

0:22:00.420 --> 0:22:03.860
<v Speaker 1>I have really figured out who I am. I have

0:22:03.920 --> 0:22:07.750
<v Speaker 1>learned great, hard earned lessons. on who I am, what

0:22:07.770 --> 0:22:10.169
<v Speaker 1>I want for my life, what kind of parent I

0:22:10.190 --> 0:22:12.310
<v Speaker 1>want to be, what kind of parent I think I'm

0:22:12.510 --> 0:22:15.050
<v Speaker 1>turning into, what I want for my children, all that

0:22:15.090 --> 0:22:17.450
<v Speaker 1>kind of thing. But I'm really done with this one

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<v Speaker 1>adult household. Ah, okay. It is really fucking hard. Yeah,

0:22:22.680 --> 0:22:25.060
<v Speaker 1>I think you got a taste of it when Daron

0:22:25.080 --> 0:22:26.780
<v Speaker 1>was back in Sydney. I got a taste. What it

0:22:26.820 --> 0:22:29.560
<v Speaker 1>would be like to be a, well, you'd still be

0:22:29.580 --> 0:22:32.330
<v Speaker 1>a not single, single mom. Yes. I think that's the

0:22:32.369 --> 0:22:35.230
<v Speaker 1>wrong name for what you don't have time for. Okay.

0:22:35.250 --> 0:22:36.810
<v Speaker 1>What don't I have time for? I just think you're

0:22:36.990 --> 0:22:40.130
<v Speaker 1>done with not having a companion in your home. Totally.

0:22:40.150 --> 0:22:42.889
<v Speaker 1>A domestic partner. Yes. But you don't want to say

0:22:42.910 --> 0:22:44.169
<v Speaker 1>it out loud because we don't want to run to

0:22:44.190 --> 0:22:46.040
<v Speaker 1>feel bad for being in America. No, I know. We

0:22:46.080 --> 0:22:47.619
<v Speaker 1>can't make him feel bad. Can't make him feel bad.

0:22:47.680 --> 0:22:50.119
<v Speaker 1>I know. I almost was like, obviously I would change nothing.

0:22:50.200 --> 0:22:53.260
<v Speaker 1>We had the most amazing time when he came for

0:22:53.320 --> 0:22:56.399
<v Speaker 1>two weeks. to see the live show and he obviously

0:22:56.600 --> 0:22:59.350
<v Speaker 1>lived with me. And because I was in such a

0:22:59.609 --> 0:23:03.149
<v Speaker 1>hectic work season, being the amazing boyfriend he is, he

0:23:03.190 --> 0:23:05.869
<v Speaker 1>just took on all the things and like took it

0:23:05.910 --> 0:23:08.560
<v Speaker 1>upon himself to make my life as easy as possible.

0:23:08.880 --> 0:23:10.859
<v Speaker 1>And he's also a performer and he understands what it's

0:23:10.920 --> 0:23:13.860
<v Speaker 1>like when you're like in a show. And I've said

0:23:13.880 --> 0:23:15.619
<v Speaker 1>this to her, in a way I'm like, I almost

0:23:15.660 --> 0:23:19.090
<v Speaker 1>wish I didn't get that taste because the way my

0:23:19.170 --> 0:23:23.590
<v Speaker 1>nervous system relaxed, the ease of two adults in the house.

0:23:23.750 --> 0:23:27.880
<v Speaker 1>Being a team. Literally the lower cost of life. Like,

0:23:28.000 --> 0:23:30.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, you don't have to get DoorDash or Uber

0:23:30.680 --> 0:23:32.479
<v Speaker 1>Eats or whatever, because one of you can run to

0:23:32.500 --> 0:23:34.520
<v Speaker 1>the shops. One of you can walk the dog while

0:23:34.540 --> 0:23:36.659
<v Speaker 1>the other one takes the kids to school. Like literally

0:23:36.680 --> 0:23:38.370
<v Speaker 1>I didn't pay for dog walks. I didn't pay for

0:23:38.420 --> 0:23:42.109
<v Speaker 1>doggy daycare. I didn't do emergency groceries. Because he was

0:23:42.190 --> 0:23:44.050
<v Speaker 1>able to be around. He was around and he was

0:23:44.250 --> 0:23:47.710
<v Speaker 1>helping out and like nothing major, just like day-to-day life

0:23:47.970 --> 0:23:50.290
<v Speaker 1>and things like we ate everything in the fridge because

0:23:50.330 --> 0:23:52.220
<v Speaker 1>we had chicken. So we made chicken, you know what

0:23:52.240 --> 0:23:54.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean? And it's just that other human being doing

0:23:55.000 --> 0:23:58.760
<v Speaker 1>the physical and mental load of life with you. I'd

0:23:58.780 --> 0:24:00.060
<v Speaker 1>literally be like, oh, what do we want to have

0:24:00.080 --> 0:24:02.200
<v Speaker 1>for dinner? And he's like, we've got that chicken, you know,

0:24:02.260 --> 0:24:04.700
<v Speaker 1>that kind of back and forth. Yeah, it's not a

0:24:04.800 --> 0:24:08.129
<v Speaker 1>soloist decision. And I just. Every time. Don't think I

0:24:08.270 --> 0:24:12.760
<v Speaker 1>realized how long I'd been running shit on my own. Hmm.

0:24:13.310 --> 0:24:17.970
<v Speaker 1>mentally mostly, but also financially, physically. Like I really have

0:24:18.280 --> 0:24:20.320
<v Speaker 1>been doing it for as long. Like I think the

0:24:20.340 --> 0:24:23.580
<v Speaker 1>single mum part is because obviously before kids I lived

0:24:23.660 --> 0:24:25.699
<v Speaker 1>an independent life as well where I like had my

0:24:25.720 --> 0:24:27.910
<v Speaker 1>own shit together and I cooked for myself and played

0:24:27.930 --> 0:24:29.469
<v Speaker 1>my own bills and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. It's

0:24:29.510 --> 0:24:32.090
<v Speaker 1>just different when you have kids and you're like running

0:24:32.130 --> 0:24:34.990
<v Speaker 1>a household, right? It's a lot on one person. And

0:24:35.050 --> 0:24:37.880
<v Speaker 1>I just, I think I just didn't realize how long

0:24:37.920 --> 0:24:40.260
<v Speaker 1>I'd sort of been muddling through on my own. I

0:24:40.300 --> 0:24:42.139
<v Speaker 1>definitely got a taste of it when I hired a

0:24:42.180 --> 0:24:44.719
<v Speaker 1>nanny this year for a couple of weeks. Shout out

0:24:44.740 --> 0:24:47.710
<v Speaker 1>to Charlotte. We love you, Charlotte. And I actually hired

0:24:47.750 --> 0:24:50.490
<v Speaker 1>a wife and I was like, oh my God, I

0:24:50.530 --> 0:24:53.510
<v Speaker 1>have been really going hard for a long time. And,

0:24:53.550 --> 0:24:55.149
<v Speaker 1>you know, I was in a relationship before, but we

0:24:55.190 --> 0:24:58.129
<v Speaker 1>lived very separately. Like we had very separate homes and

0:24:58.250 --> 0:25:00.410
<v Speaker 1>we looked after our own shit. He was a not single,

0:25:00.450 --> 0:25:02.300
<v Speaker 1>single dad in the same way that I was a

0:25:02.359 --> 0:25:04.620
<v Speaker 1>not single, single mom. So like I didn't really feel

0:25:04.650 --> 0:25:06.240
<v Speaker 1>it there. But like I got a taste of it

0:25:06.260 --> 0:25:08.399
<v Speaker 1>with Charlotte where I was like, holy shit, this is

0:25:08.420 --> 0:25:10.740
<v Speaker 1>what it's like having another adult to like get things done.

0:25:11.160 --> 0:25:13.500
<v Speaker 1>and then yeah Devon being here for two weeks and

0:25:13.580 --> 0:25:15.740
<v Speaker 1>I you know what I really feel I'm done with

0:25:15.820 --> 0:25:19.160
<v Speaker 1>it I'm really ready now to move into another stage

0:25:19.200 --> 0:25:22.459
<v Speaker 1>of life like even just the quiet moments like now

0:25:22.480 --> 0:25:24.890
<v Speaker 1>we're back from tour I've got like those two days

0:25:24.950 --> 0:25:27.729
<v Speaker 1>a week again where I'm there by myself and it

0:25:27.810 --> 0:25:30.889
<v Speaker 1>just feels quieter than ever you know like and not

0:25:30.950 --> 0:25:32.570
<v Speaker 1>in a nice way not in a like oh I

0:25:32.609 --> 0:25:34.430
<v Speaker 1>can hear myself think I can get some things done

0:25:34.470 --> 0:25:36.230
<v Speaker 1>I've got my own me type none of that I'm

0:25:36.350 --> 0:25:39.540
<v Speaker 1>over it like my kids aren't as overstimulating as they

0:25:39.650 --> 0:25:42.240
<v Speaker 1>once were so I miss them I want them in

0:25:42.280 --> 0:25:44.419
<v Speaker 1>the other room reading a book or watching tv or

0:25:44.440 --> 0:25:47.080
<v Speaker 1>doing their homework or whatever like you want them around

0:25:47.119 --> 0:25:50.360
<v Speaker 1>yeah I don't I've maxed out the oh it's quite

0:25:50.420 --> 0:25:53.010
<v Speaker 1>nice to have a little break feeling done finished with

0:25:53.050 --> 0:25:55.869
<v Speaker 1>it you know I'm just really ready to have a

0:25:56.150 --> 0:25:59.970
<v Speaker 1>family house again full time you know and thank god

0:26:00.010 --> 0:26:03.659
<v Speaker 1>for my dog Like, thank God for him. Genuinely, I

0:26:03.920 --> 0:26:07.380
<v Speaker 1>think about this for you with Buster. Yes. You know,

0:26:07.560 --> 0:26:11.820
<v Speaker 1>I'm famously not a dog person, but I often think,

0:26:12.020 --> 0:26:15.080
<v Speaker 1>thank God Revs has Buster. So she's not on her own. Yeah,

0:26:15.100 --> 0:26:17.600
<v Speaker 1>coming home. And just coming home to someone, you know,

0:26:17.700 --> 0:26:19.510
<v Speaker 1>and he's just there and he sleeps in your bed

0:26:19.550 --> 0:26:21.129
<v Speaker 1>and he puts his head in your lap and he

0:26:21.150 --> 0:26:23.310
<v Speaker 1>follows you like a shadow. Like, I'm so glad you

0:26:23.350 --> 0:26:26.050
<v Speaker 1>have that on the days that you don't have the kids.

0:26:26.090 --> 0:26:28.610
<v Speaker 1>Protects me from possums. You know, they're coming to get me.

0:26:28.670 --> 0:26:32.210
<v Speaker 1>He's not letting that happen. Protects you from postmen. Protects

0:26:32.230 --> 0:26:34.870
<v Speaker 1>me from postmen and possums. Yeah, he's good. Like coming

0:26:34.910 --> 0:26:37.730
<v Speaker 1>home from the last show. You know, normally we finish

0:26:37.770 --> 0:26:40.030
<v Speaker 1>the show of tour in Sydney. So we're kind of

0:26:40.109 --> 0:26:42.490
<v Speaker 1>already home. It's actually been more of a soft ease

0:26:42.590 --> 0:26:45.379
<v Speaker 1>back into life. But we came home from Melbourne on

0:26:45.390 --> 0:26:47.670
<v Speaker 1>a flight, you know, on a Sunday afternoon. And I

0:26:47.730 --> 0:26:50.960
<v Speaker 1>came home and I was like, oh. this is weird

0:26:50.980 --> 0:26:55.580
<v Speaker 1>coming home to a quiet, clean house. Like I'm done.

0:26:55.740 --> 0:26:57.740
<v Speaker 1>I don't want it anymore. You know? But what can

0:26:57.780 --> 0:26:59.480
<v Speaker 1>we do about it? We can't do anything about it.

0:26:59.500 --> 0:27:01.300
<v Speaker 1>I have like, I have to just bide my time

0:27:01.340 --> 0:27:04.300
<v Speaker 1>and dig deep and find patience because you know, it's

0:27:04.359 --> 0:27:06.560
<v Speaker 1>not coming anytime soon. I think as well, because I

0:27:06.640 --> 0:27:10.359
<v Speaker 1>feel so in a relationship and so committed, like it's

0:27:10.440 --> 0:27:13.119
<v Speaker 1>just weird to have that dual feeling of I'm deeply

0:27:13.160 --> 0:27:15.700
<v Speaker 1>committed and I'm in something and I'm really want this

0:27:15.740 --> 0:27:18.060
<v Speaker 1>for my longterm, but also it's not in my day

0:27:18.100 --> 0:27:21.780
<v Speaker 1>to day life. That's a weird weird juxtaposition it is

0:27:21.859 --> 0:27:25.550
<v Speaker 1>of feelings yeah because it's like is he my imaginary

0:27:25.590 --> 0:27:29.550
<v Speaker 1>friend like he's not in my day-to-day I can understand

0:27:29.590 --> 0:27:33.250
<v Speaker 1>why you guys are feeling like this now because you

0:27:33.290 --> 0:27:36.730
<v Speaker 1>don't have your next meet-up date we don't and that's

0:27:36.930 --> 0:27:39.870
<v Speaker 1>with purpose like I understand even though we talked about

0:27:39.910 --> 0:27:41.619
<v Speaker 1>on the pod you've got to have the next trip

0:27:41.630 --> 0:27:44.139
<v Speaker 1>yeah you can't always have it booked Yeah. But sometimes

0:27:44.160 --> 0:27:46.740
<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of uncertainty in terms of career and

0:27:46.800 --> 0:27:49.080
<v Speaker 1>work and what you guys have going on or what

0:27:49.119 --> 0:27:52.220
<v Speaker 1>he's actually got going on. It doesn't make sense yet

0:27:52.280 --> 0:27:55.100
<v Speaker 1>to fully commit to a date. But yeah, I think

0:27:55.119 --> 0:27:58.100
<v Speaker 1>that's why you're feeling a bit uneasy about it. Yeah.

0:27:58.160 --> 0:28:00.770
<v Speaker 1>Because what is the timeline and what does that actually

0:28:00.810 --> 0:28:02.889
<v Speaker 1>look like? And could it come sooner, you know, for

0:28:03.290 --> 0:28:05.370
<v Speaker 1>work reasons or is it going to be pushed back

0:28:05.510 --> 0:28:07.490
<v Speaker 1>or are you going to do three months apart till

0:28:07.510 --> 0:28:10.070
<v Speaker 1>you see each other again? Also, like I think because

0:28:10.109 --> 0:28:12.210
<v Speaker 1>of the tour, I haven't seen my kids nearly as

0:28:12.250 --> 0:28:14.440
<v Speaker 1>much as I have wanted to and I miss them

0:28:14.460 --> 0:28:17.240
<v Speaker 1>so much. Yeah, you're yearning for them. But, yeah, like again,

0:28:17.300 --> 0:28:20.659
<v Speaker 1>now that they're older, like I feel their absence so

0:28:20.780 --> 0:28:24.070
<v Speaker 1>much more because they are like a quiet place. not

0:28:24.430 --> 0:28:27.689
<v Speaker 1>always quiet fuck they're often fighting like tearing up the

0:28:27.710 --> 0:28:30.510
<v Speaker 1>yard or whatever making a mess in the kitchen like

0:28:30.530 --> 0:28:33.189
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to plate them as some placid Victorian

0:28:33.230 --> 0:28:36.430
<v Speaker 1>children braiding hair in the corner and painting yeah but

0:28:36.510 --> 0:28:39.810
<v Speaker 1>like they are like a beautiful present like I'm never

0:28:39.870 --> 0:28:42.930
<v Speaker 1>happier than when my home is full of my children

0:28:42.970 --> 0:28:46.600
<v Speaker 1>my dog the groceries we're cooking dinner there's music on

0:28:46.640 --> 0:28:48.560
<v Speaker 1>like I want that now like I want that and

0:28:48.620 --> 0:28:54.340
<v Speaker 1>it feels really deafeningly quiet when but That's not there. Yeah.

0:28:54.400 --> 0:28:57.290
<v Speaker 1>And I'm done. I'm really done. And I feel like

0:28:57.350 --> 0:28:59.210
<v Speaker 1>I'm at the age where I should be done. You

0:28:59.230 --> 0:29:01.670
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? Like I've had five years now

0:29:01.870 --> 0:29:05.400
<v Speaker 1>of every second weekend being mine. Yeah, so the novelty

0:29:05.480 --> 0:29:08.080
<v Speaker 1>is well and truly gone because I do know for

0:29:08.240 --> 0:29:13.700
<v Speaker 1>newly single couples, Parents, they crave that space to breathe,

0:29:13.770 --> 0:29:17.030
<v Speaker 1>to regroup, to regather and to kind of like gee

0:29:17.050 --> 0:29:19.290
<v Speaker 1>themselves up. And to have some fun as well. Of course.

0:29:19.410 --> 0:29:21.670
<v Speaker 1>All of that. When you're on, you're on. Yeah. When

0:29:21.690 --> 0:29:24.020
<v Speaker 1>you're on, you're on. Do things for you. Yep. Go

0:29:24.060 --> 0:29:26.360
<v Speaker 1>to Pilates. You know, I've been through all the seasons,

0:29:26.400 --> 0:29:26.680
<v Speaker 1>you know.

0:29:26.700 --> 0:29:26.860
<v Speaker 2>You have.

0:29:27.220 --> 0:29:28.820
<v Speaker 1>Like I remember I was like, oh, this is my

0:29:28.840 --> 0:29:30.680
<v Speaker 1>Pilates days. The ones where I don't have kids where

0:29:30.680 --> 0:29:33.040
<v Speaker 1>I can just go after work and whatever. Or like

0:29:33.040 --> 0:29:35.660
<v Speaker 1>when you're dating, you're like, cool, I can date this

0:29:35.660 --> 0:29:38.410
<v Speaker 1>weekend or I can meet up with these girlfriends and

0:29:38.410 --> 0:29:40.050
<v Speaker 1>we can have a big night. And I don't have

0:29:40.070 --> 0:29:42.250
<v Speaker 1>to worry about parenting the next day. I'm over it all.

0:29:42.330 --> 0:29:44.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm done with it all. I don't need it anymore.

0:29:44.710 --> 0:29:47.060
<v Speaker 1>Like I've done like a good chapter of my life

0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:50.220
<v Speaker 1>now with all that perceived freedom and I don't want

0:29:50.260 --> 0:29:53.700
<v Speaker 1>to be free. I want... I don't want it. That's

0:29:53.740 --> 0:29:54.680
<v Speaker 1>a hard one, Rebsi.

0:29:54.740 --> 0:29:54.820
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:29:54.860 --> 0:29:58.140
<v Speaker 1>Because that's not going to change. I know. The frequency

0:29:58.220 --> 0:30:01.280
<v Speaker 1>of how much you have the kids. No, it's not.

0:30:01.360 --> 0:30:03.180
<v Speaker 1>So what can we do for you? I don't know.

0:30:03.220 --> 0:30:04.780
<v Speaker 1>And it feels like a fruitless thing to say as

0:30:04.800 --> 0:30:07.640
<v Speaker 1>well because I also know people who are deep in

0:30:07.760 --> 0:30:10.100
<v Speaker 1>it with young kids are like, what do you mean?

0:30:10.360 --> 0:30:12.660
<v Speaker 1>That sounds like heaven. What I would give, I'd give

0:30:12.720 --> 0:30:14.790
<v Speaker 1>my right tit for a weekend off. Do you know

0:30:14.810 --> 0:30:16.790
<v Speaker 1>what I mean? It's like how we talk about long-haul

0:30:16.830 --> 0:30:21.670
<v Speaker 1>flights without kids as being every parent's dream. It's like, oh. God,

0:30:21.710 --> 0:30:25.330
<v Speaker 1>a nine hour flight sounds kids dream. Yeah, I still

0:30:25.370 --> 0:30:27.730
<v Speaker 1>can do a long haul flight and be fine. Like

0:30:27.970 --> 0:30:30.690
<v Speaker 1>if there aren't kids there, like love it. Same. Absolutely fine.

0:30:31.710 --> 0:30:34.790
<v Speaker 1>No one's annoying me. It's more the comms. You get

0:30:34.810 --> 0:30:37.150
<v Speaker 1>to catch up on your shows. Am I alone here?

0:30:37.390 --> 0:30:39.770
<v Speaker 1>I actually think there shouldn't be Wi-Fi on a plane.

0:30:40.790 --> 0:30:44.350
<v Speaker 1>I 100p agree. Call me old-fashioned. Yeah. But I actually

0:30:44.390 --> 0:30:47.710
<v Speaker 1>think it's the one, it was, the one space left

0:30:48.040 --> 0:30:49.880
<v Speaker 1>in the world where you can be like, I'm going

0:30:49.900 --> 0:30:52.940
<v Speaker 1>to be on a flight so I'm uncontactable and now

0:30:53.040 --> 0:30:56.300
<v Speaker 1>you can be. It's like, fuck that. So my husband,

0:30:56.660 --> 0:30:59.340
<v Speaker 1>who travels a lot for work, this is a change

0:30:59.440 --> 0:31:02.220
<v Speaker 1>that has been a huge inconvenience for him too because

0:31:02.300 --> 0:31:04.760
<v Speaker 1>now there's an expectation. To be working on the flight.

0:31:04.780 --> 0:31:07.640
<v Speaker 1>To stay on comms and keep working when you do

0:31:07.700 --> 0:31:10.590
<v Speaker 1>a long-haul flight. Oh, yeah. And he's like, it used

0:31:10.610 --> 0:31:13.890
<v Speaker 1>to be my sacred space where I could tune out,

0:31:13.930 --> 0:31:18.970
<v Speaker 1>watch my shows, sleep, have a glass of champagne, nod off, whatever.

0:31:18.990 --> 0:31:23.130
<v Speaker 1>And now it's like, well, you're not incontactable, so you've

0:31:23.150 --> 0:31:26.360
<v Speaker 1>got to be on. Or at least checking. Yeah, checking emails.

0:31:26.380 --> 0:31:29.960
<v Speaker 1>So you never get that full respite. Oh, time. Yeah.

0:31:30.020 --> 0:31:32.700
<v Speaker 1>I know that's old fashioned of me probably, but I'm like,

0:31:32.760 --> 0:31:35.630
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to scroll. Yuck. I'm like, I don't

0:31:35.670 --> 0:31:37.050
<v Speaker 1>want to, I don't know. I just don't want to

0:31:37.070 --> 0:31:39.810
<v Speaker 1>be on text. None of it. It was the one

0:31:39.850 --> 0:31:42.130
<v Speaker 1>little bubble where you could be like, I'm out. You

0:31:42.170 --> 0:31:44.900
<v Speaker 1>can't read. I can't be reached. Are you disciplined enough

0:31:44.960 --> 0:31:47.960
<v Speaker 1>to not connect to the plain wifi if it was

0:31:48.440 --> 0:31:52.680
<v Speaker 1>available to you? Because I am. Yeah. I can say no. Yeah.

0:31:52.900 --> 0:31:55.940
<v Speaker 1>Because if it's a process, if it's not automatic and

0:31:55.960 --> 0:31:59.420
<v Speaker 1>it requires steps, I can say no to it. And

0:31:59.460 --> 0:32:02.960
<v Speaker 1>often it's not good Wi-Fi. It's always very average. You know,

0:32:02.980 --> 0:32:05.560
<v Speaker 1>like you can refresh a few videos on your Instagram

0:32:05.580 --> 0:32:07.220
<v Speaker 1>but it never plays all the way through. Oh, yeah.

0:32:07.240 --> 0:32:10.450
<v Speaker 1>You know, that happens sometimes. I certainly would never pay

0:32:10.530 --> 0:32:12.790
<v Speaker 1>for it. Yeah. You know, when it's like $ 16 for

0:32:12.850 --> 0:32:15.550
<v Speaker 1>full Wi-Fi. Yeah, I might on a quick flight, but

0:32:15.610 --> 0:32:19.430
<v Speaker 1>a long haul flight, nah. Nah. See ya. Yeah, I

0:32:19.450 --> 0:32:22.520
<v Speaker 1>would love to just sleep and movie and whatever. So

0:32:22.740 --> 0:32:26.540
<v Speaker 1>are you in a stage of now sort of romanticising

0:32:26.780 --> 0:32:30.400
<v Speaker 1>what you had with Daron around? Well, no, I actually

0:32:30.740 --> 0:32:33.140
<v Speaker 1>find myself hardening up and trying not to care so

0:32:33.180 --> 0:32:35.220
<v Speaker 1>much or not want it so much because, again, like

0:32:35.280 --> 0:32:38.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure like what the timeline of our lives

0:32:38.320 --> 0:32:40.160
<v Speaker 1>is going to be and it could change at any

0:32:40.220 --> 0:32:43.240
<v Speaker 1>moment and I'm getting that. Oh, the cancer crab shell

0:32:43.330 --> 0:32:46.790
<v Speaker 1>is hardening in self-preservation and protection. Well, he told me

0:32:46.850 --> 0:32:49.830
<v Speaker 1>sometimes I look like Iron Man when the armour, you know,

0:32:49.870 --> 0:32:52.870
<v Speaker 1>that armour comes from the behind and goes... all around.

0:32:53.010 --> 0:32:55.350
<v Speaker 1>And it is often when things are so good that

0:32:55.370 --> 0:32:58.010
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, nope, can't get used to this. Can't rely

0:32:58.110 --> 0:33:01.310
<v Speaker 1>on this. And there's the hyper independence. Yeah. And I'm

0:33:01.550 --> 0:33:04.990
<v Speaker 1>done with that too. I'm just done. I'm really done

0:33:05.040 --> 0:33:07.400
<v Speaker 1>with it. I feel like, I know I even said

0:33:07.420 --> 0:33:10.140
<v Speaker 1>to the good mom, like, Oh God, looking into a

0:33:10.200 --> 0:33:12.540
<v Speaker 1>future of a lot of unknowns at the moment, like

0:33:12.580 --> 0:33:14.640
<v Speaker 1>things are really changing. And she goes, well, you've never

0:33:14.660 --> 0:33:16.380
<v Speaker 1>had a problem with that in the past. I was like, yeah,

0:33:16.420 --> 0:33:18.860
<v Speaker 1>so why am I feeling it now? I haven't, I've

0:33:18.880 --> 0:33:21.770
<v Speaker 1>always loved change and unknown and possibility. Yeah. But the

0:33:21.810 --> 0:33:24.330
<v Speaker 1>difference is you were in the driving seat of that change.

0:33:24.910 --> 0:33:27.330
<v Speaker 1>You've always been in the driving seat of that change,

0:33:27.390 --> 0:33:29.750
<v Speaker 1>whether it was moving back from Scotland or, you know,

0:33:29.770 --> 0:33:33.640
<v Speaker 1>like whatever it is, this, you have no control. So

0:33:33.680 --> 0:33:36.340
<v Speaker 1>it puts you in a unique situation that you're not

0:33:36.400 --> 0:33:39.700
<v Speaker 1>comfortable in. Yeah, that's true. And it's harder to sit

0:33:39.780 --> 0:33:43.100
<v Speaker 1>comfortably in it. It's harder to be like, okay, this

0:33:43.140 --> 0:33:45.360
<v Speaker 1>is my reality. Yes, it's full of uncertainty. Yes, I

0:33:45.380 --> 0:33:49.190
<v Speaker 1>like change. But hey, Revs likes change. Yeah, yeah. For me.

0:33:49.950 --> 0:33:51.850
<v Speaker 1>For you. When I'm ready, when I want it. When

0:33:51.930 --> 0:33:54.210
<v Speaker 1>you're ready. Yeah. You like to pivot. I also think

0:33:54.230 --> 0:33:56.710
<v Speaker 1>with the age my kids are at, like I'm finding

0:33:56.770 --> 0:34:00.540
<v Speaker 1>it's just different for them. They're also maturing and wanting

0:34:00.820 --> 0:34:03.880
<v Speaker 1>their same things and their same friends. And, you know,

0:34:03.980 --> 0:34:04.720
<v Speaker 1>like that's... What.

0:34:04.640 --> 0:34:05.140
<v Speaker 2>Do you mean?

0:34:05.360 --> 0:34:08.509
<v Speaker 1>Like, I think... Because they're moving between two households. Is

0:34:08.530 --> 0:34:10.770
<v Speaker 1>that what you mean? Yeah. And like this again, why

0:34:10.810 --> 0:34:14.489
<v Speaker 1>even muse on it? Because there's no alternative. There's no alternative.

0:34:14.690 --> 0:34:17.029
<v Speaker 1>Like it is what it is, but I'm like, I've

0:34:17.070 --> 0:34:19.560
<v Speaker 1>noticed a change in them where they're not as wanting

0:34:19.600 --> 0:34:22.719
<v Speaker 1>to move around as much as well. You know? Yeah.

0:34:23.020 --> 0:34:26.140
<v Speaker 1>I think we're all ready for a bit more roots. Yeah.

0:34:26.410 --> 0:34:30.430
<v Speaker 1>Which is really, that's so funny because most people would

0:34:30.450 --> 0:34:33.149
<v Speaker 1>be like, I'm ready for something to change or whatever.

0:34:33.170 --> 0:34:34.890
<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, I'm kind of going in reverse. I

0:34:34.930 --> 0:34:40.110
<v Speaker 1>want stability and roots and a little bit of predictability

0:34:40.210 --> 0:34:43.990
<v Speaker 1>even maybe, you know, but it feels all very quiet

0:34:44.010 --> 0:34:46.950
<v Speaker 1>at the moment and I'm not into it. And I

0:34:46.969 --> 0:34:48.759
<v Speaker 1>think when you're quiet you do sit alone with your

0:34:48.800 --> 0:34:52.680
<v Speaker 1>thoughts a little bit more and you sound ponderous about

0:34:52.739 --> 0:34:55.200
<v Speaker 1>it all and I think that's okay. Yeah. To bring

0:34:55.239 --> 0:34:57.630
<v Speaker 1>that to the pod, vocalise it, you know, get it

0:34:57.730 --> 0:35:00.030
<v Speaker 1>out of your body. One thing I do enjoy though

0:35:00.050 --> 0:35:02.930
<v Speaker 1>is we've talked about this so often, people treat you

0:35:02.969 --> 0:35:06.540
<v Speaker 1>differently when you're single. And now I can say things like, well,

0:35:06.580 --> 0:35:08.460
<v Speaker 1>my partner, and if I don't know them that much,

0:35:08.480 --> 0:35:11.049
<v Speaker 1>I don't explain the whole situation. Who lives in New York?

0:35:11.150 --> 0:35:14.350
<v Speaker 1>Who I met two manicures ago? Who's 32? I don't

0:35:14.370 --> 0:35:16.310
<v Speaker 1>do all that. I just go, oh, my partner, blah, blah, blah, blah.

0:35:16.350 --> 0:35:19.339
<v Speaker 1>And then there's like a comfort. People are very open

0:35:19.380 --> 0:35:21.100
<v Speaker 1>to you. They're like, oh, yeah, yeah. And then you

0:35:21.140 --> 0:35:24.020
<v Speaker 1>can have those conversations. find this fascinating yeah it's very

0:35:24.120 --> 0:35:27.310
<v Speaker 1>real yeah I I believe you it's just that I've

0:35:27.390 --> 0:35:30.670
<v Speaker 1>never felt any type of way about someone being single

0:35:30.730 --> 0:35:33.590
<v Speaker 1>versus if they dropped the sentence oh my partner and

0:35:33.690 --> 0:35:35.790
<v Speaker 1>I and I feel at ease with them I don't

0:35:36.070 --> 0:35:38.339
<v Speaker 1>have that experience with people in the world I know

0:35:38.420 --> 0:35:41.339
<v Speaker 1>you've observed it I wonder I have I've observed it

0:35:41.400 --> 0:35:44.980
<v Speaker 1>in other people how people talk about newly separated women

0:35:45.080 --> 0:35:47.660
<v Speaker 1>particularly women I do wonder if this is Benny's should

0:35:47.700 --> 0:35:49.350
<v Speaker 1>I try and call him let's Let's call Show Daddy.

0:35:49.410 --> 0:35:51.370
<v Speaker 1>Let's call him. I'd just love to know if he

0:35:51.510 --> 0:35:54.930
<v Speaker 1>gets this. Or if it's all female. Yeah. He's called

0:35:54.989 --> 0:35:55.890
<v Speaker 1>Ben Wood. I can't get to the phone.

0:35:56.130 --> 0:35:56.840
<v Speaker 2>Nah.

0:35:57.160 --> 0:36:00.299
<v Speaker 1>Well, anyway. Shame. We will ask. Unless he calls back

0:36:00.320 --> 0:36:02.779
<v Speaker 1>before this episode ends. Yeah, I feel like it can

0:36:02.800 --> 0:36:05.760
<v Speaker 1>be quite woman to woman. Okay, interesting. Actually, no, that's

0:36:05.780 --> 0:36:07.430
<v Speaker 1>not true. Man to woman too. I just feel like

0:36:07.489 --> 0:36:09.570
<v Speaker 1>people kind of don't know what to do with a

0:36:09.590 --> 0:36:11.910
<v Speaker 1>single mum. You know, they want to know like, why,

0:36:12.050 --> 0:36:14.390
<v Speaker 1>why is it like this? And what's your situation? And

0:36:14.450 --> 0:36:16.350
<v Speaker 1>are you looking, you know, it's just very, you can

0:36:16.390 --> 0:36:19.400
<v Speaker 1>just get, people can get uneasy around you or you

0:36:19.420 --> 0:36:22.759
<v Speaker 1>don't get included in the same things that someone who

0:36:22.980 --> 0:36:27.859
<v Speaker 1>is partnered up does. And I'm really enjoying being back

0:36:27.920 --> 0:36:30.230
<v Speaker 1>in the land of I don't know, I guess no threat.

0:36:30.290 --> 0:36:32.190
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what it is, but just more welcomed

0:36:32.330 --> 0:36:35.210
<v Speaker 1>into things as someone who's had a partner. Yeah, you'll

0:36:35.250 --> 0:36:37.150
<v Speaker 1>see it now. Now that like I talk about it,

0:36:37.150 --> 0:36:39.250
<v Speaker 1>you'll see it everywhere. But people do treat, I don't

0:36:39.290 --> 0:36:41.160
<v Speaker 1>even think it's just single mums. I think it's single

0:36:41.200 --> 0:36:45.020
<v Speaker 1>women get treated a little differently in like group behavior.

0:36:45.200 --> 0:36:46.580
<v Speaker 1>But I guess it just comes out a lot with

0:36:46.600 --> 0:36:48.380
<v Speaker 1>like school events or whatever. Yeah.

0:36:48.540 --> 0:36:50.259
<v Speaker 2>I feel, I don't know, Gemma, if you feel the

0:36:50.300 --> 0:36:52.480
<v Speaker 2>same way, but as a married woman, you are more

0:36:52.560 --> 0:36:55.629
<v Speaker 2>interested in a single person's life. Like they've got more

0:36:55.690 --> 0:36:58.450
<v Speaker 2>stuff going on, whether they're dating or doing it all

0:36:58.530 --> 0:37:00.370
<v Speaker 2>on their own or stories.

0:37:00.410 --> 0:37:04.009
<v Speaker 1>I'm always fascinated by their stories and their life. I

0:37:04.050 --> 0:37:06.370
<v Speaker 1>don't know if the word they're in a transition period.

0:37:06.410 --> 0:37:08.029
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's right or fair to say

0:37:08.070 --> 0:37:11.150
<v Speaker 1>that or their choice. to be and remain single.

0:37:11.170 --> 0:37:11.310
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:37:11.390 --> 0:37:14.470
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, because I've got friends who've been single

0:37:14.489 --> 0:37:17.450
<v Speaker 1>for a long time, very comfortable in their singlehood. It's

0:37:17.489 --> 0:37:21.100
<v Speaker 1>a choice. And then I've, I know people who they're single,

0:37:21.120 --> 0:37:23.700
<v Speaker 1>but they seem unseated in it and like a discomfort

0:37:23.719 --> 0:37:25.820
<v Speaker 1>in it. And they want to be in a relationship

0:37:26.100 --> 0:37:28.680
<v Speaker 1>and it feels more seasonal because they're on the hunt.

0:37:28.880 --> 0:37:32.320
<v Speaker 1>Like they're actively searching for a partner. Yeah. Yeah. I

0:37:32.340 --> 0:37:35.160
<v Speaker 1>guess it feels different, but I've never, I've never, uh,

0:37:36.280 --> 0:37:39.279
<v Speaker 1>really perceive single women as a threat. No, but people do.

0:37:39.460 --> 0:37:42.820
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure they do. But I like, I find that fascinating.

0:37:42.860 --> 0:37:45.360
<v Speaker 1>And I like, you have to watch how you talk

0:37:45.400 --> 0:37:48.040
<v Speaker 1>to people, like particularly men, how you're talking to men

0:37:48.120 --> 0:37:50.700
<v Speaker 1>and stuff, because you don't want anyone to assume you're

0:37:50.760 --> 0:37:55.020
<v Speaker 1>flirting or being too familiar or, you know, like, yeah.

0:37:55.060 --> 0:37:59.319
<v Speaker 1>And that's all very boring and very exhausting. But yeah,

0:37:59.340 --> 0:38:01.819
<v Speaker 1>so I'm glad to not be in that. anymore at

0:38:01.840 --> 0:38:05.770
<v Speaker 1>least yeah fair yeah but I was reflecting recently I

0:38:05.810 --> 0:38:07.770
<v Speaker 1>think because we've just wrapped up live shows and it's

0:38:07.790 --> 0:38:10.189
<v Speaker 1>been four years and the podcast has been five coming

0:38:10.230 --> 0:38:12.870
<v Speaker 1>up to six can you believe it's coming up to

0:38:12.989 --> 0:38:16.279
<v Speaker 1>six yeah holy shit yeah and like I think I've

0:38:16.340 --> 0:38:19.700
<v Speaker 1>just been really reflecting on the era of because the

0:38:19.780 --> 0:38:22.040
<v Speaker 1>shows are almost, I think we'll always think of this

0:38:22.120 --> 0:38:23.090
<v Speaker 1>as the live show era.

0:38:23.239 --> 0:38:23.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:38:24.360 --> 0:38:27.040
<v Speaker 1>And it's made me think about my life and how

0:38:27.100 --> 0:38:29.340
<v Speaker 1>it's changed so much in the last. I think I've

0:38:29.360 --> 0:38:31.969
<v Speaker 1>been a bit reflective too. And in our chats in

0:38:31.989 --> 0:38:35.850
<v Speaker 1>the office, I find we are being much more reflective. Yeah.

0:38:35.870 --> 0:38:37.690
<v Speaker 1>Because it is the end of an era. And then

0:38:37.730 --> 0:38:39.790
<v Speaker 1>I think my daughter going to high school next year,

0:38:39.870 --> 0:38:42.450
<v Speaker 1>like that's the start of a new era. Yeah, it's massive. Yeah,

0:38:42.469 --> 0:38:44.690
<v Speaker 1>I just feel very much in like coming to some

0:38:44.750 --> 0:38:48.130
<v Speaker 1>place in a chapter, you know, and it's really interesting. Yeah. Yeah,

0:38:48.150 --> 0:38:50.450
<v Speaker 1>I remember thinking a few years ago, like I'm really

0:38:50.469 --> 0:38:52.420
<v Speaker 1>going to enjoy this time with me and Isla and

0:38:52.440 --> 0:38:54.799
<v Speaker 1>Teddy because who knows what the future holds and like

0:38:54.840 --> 0:38:57.580
<v Speaker 1>this might be our only time. Yeah, I still, I

0:38:57.960 --> 0:38:59.779
<v Speaker 1>have that feeling, but I also feel like I want

0:38:59.820 --> 0:39:02.570
<v Speaker 1>more for us, you know. I want more. I don't

0:39:02.610 --> 0:39:04.630
<v Speaker 1>even know what it is. I can't even name the feeling,

0:39:04.790 --> 0:39:09.770
<v Speaker 1>but like we're just, yeah, ready for settledness, commitments or something,

0:39:09.930 --> 0:39:15.080
<v Speaker 1>you know. I don't know. Ben's just said, I'm in rehearsals, babe. Oh, okay. Anyway,

0:39:15.120 --> 0:39:17.759
<v Speaker 1>I'll ask him and report back if single men get

0:39:17.800 --> 0:39:21.560
<v Speaker 1>this same attitude. Like a bloke's a bit wary of you.

0:39:21.560 --> 0:39:25.850
<v Speaker 1>Like what's your deal? Interesting. I'd love to know. I'd

0:39:25.850 --> 0:39:29.280
<v Speaker 1>love to hear his experience. yeah I want to ask

0:39:29.320 --> 0:39:32.830
<v Speaker 1>you Katie like what's your experience of single women.

0:39:32.980 --> 0:39:35.700
<v Speaker 2>Well, I actually think that maybe it's just because I

0:39:35.760 --> 0:39:38.260
<v Speaker 2>know that life, but it feels as though the married

0:39:38.280 --> 0:39:40.279
<v Speaker 2>people in my life are like, oh, what's going on

0:39:40.320 --> 0:39:40.540
<v Speaker 2>with you?

0:39:40.560 --> 0:39:42.820
<v Speaker 1>Oh, same old, same old work, kids.

0:39:43.060 --> 0:39:45.640
<v Speaker 2>You know, that kind of life. Whereas the single people

0:39:45.680 --> 0:39:47.299
<v Speaker 2>in my life, they have a lot more going on.

0:39:47.340 --> 0:39:50.279
<v Speaker 2>There's a lot more interesting stuff happening. But maybe that's

0:39:50.320 --> 0:39:52.300
<v Speaker 2>just because I'm coming from a married perspective.

0:39:52.400 --> 0:39:56.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah. Anyway, fascinating. Hit me with your not spawn.

0:39:58.040 --> 0:40:00.879
<v Speaker 1>That's it. Hit me with your not spawn. You know what?

0:40:00.940 --> 0:40:04.029
<v Speaker 1>Hit me with your not spawn because Why? Because I

0:40:04.070 --> 0:40:06.069
<v Speaker 1>know what it's going to be. I know what it is.

0:40:06.090 --> 0:40:10.090
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you take delight in my weird non-spawn offering.

0:40:10.110 --> 0:40:13.549
<v Speaker 1>I have all day spoken about how not judgmental I am,

0:40:13.650 --> 0:40:17.259
<v Speaker 1>and yet I'm about to put on my judgy little

0:40:17.300 --> 0:40:19.719
<v Speaker 1>hat and be like, what the fuck, explain it to me.

0:40:19.840 --> 0:40:21.600
<v Speaker 1>I think it's like if you're this kind of person,

0:40:21.640 --> 0:40:23.859
<v Speaker 1>you'll get it, and if you're not, you won't. 100p,

0:40:23.920 --> 0:40:27.060
<v Speaker 1>but judge away because this is not for revs. You

0:40:27.180 --> 0:40:29.650
<v Speaker 1>are not the audience. Of my not spawn.

0:40:29.690 --> 0:40:32.770
<v Speaker 2>It's not for anyone who likes to use their time efficiently,

0:40:32.830 --> 0:40:33.270
<v Speaker 2>I might add.

0:40:33.290 --> 0:40:36.870
<v Speaker 1>It's also not for Katie. Fuck off. Fuck off, both

0:40:36.910 --> 0:40:39.210
<v Speaker 1>of you. Go on, Gem, what's your not spawn? Hit

0:40:39.270 --> 0:40:42.030
<v Speaker 1>us with it. If you are a crusher of candy

0:40:42.340 --> 0:40:45.900
<v Speaker 1>like me, if you play Bejeweled, if you're that way inclined.

0:40:45.920 --> 0:40:49.780
<v Speaker 1>If you like a silly little iPhone game. Who said silly? Me. Why?

0:40:50.320 --> 0:40:54.120
<v Speaker 1>It's not silly. They're just games. It's a way of self-soothing.

0:40:54.360 --> 0:40:58.370
<v Speaker 1>If I brought a little packet of Lego... onto a

0:40:58.430 --> 0:41:01.140
<v Speaker 1>flight and just started building i don't know a little

0:41:01.180 --> 0:41:03.140
<v Speaker 1>town it's not the same why is.

0:41:03.120 --> 0:41:05.220
<v Speaker 2>That's better for you actually because you've got your fine

0:41:05.280 --> 0:41:07.100
<v Speaker 2>motor skills i'm 40 i.

0:41:07.280 --> 0:41:10.160
<v Speaker 1>Don't need my fine motor skills to roll it bro

0:41:10.440 --> 0:41:15.050
<v Speaker 1>i do not need my fine motor skills to roll

0:41:15.170 --> 0:41:19.049
<v Speaker 1>it something you say to a four-year-old okay okay gems

0:41:19.110 --> 0:41:22.180
<v Speaker 1>in a leap We need to soothe her and put

0:41:22.219 --> 0:41:24.460
<v Speaker 1>her to bed. Yeah, it's a soothing. So I would

0:41:24.500 --> 0:41:28.890
<v Speaker 1>liken this to mind numbingly scrollings, TikTok or Instagram. But

0:41:28.930 --> 0:41:32.049
<v Speaker 1>it's not that because I find that really boring. Like

0:41:32.090 --> 0:41:34.870
<v Speaker 1>I said, back to bejeweled candy crushing. And show daddy's

0:41:34.910 --> 0:41:36.970
<v Speaker 1>one of these people. He likes to crush candy. Yeah,

0:41:37.050 --> 0:41:40.719
<v Speaker 1>and so is my husband and I gave him one

0:41:40.760 --> 0:41:43.500
<v Speaker 1>turn of this game and next minute he downloaded it.

0:41:43.560 --> 0:41:45.980
<v Speaker 1>My kids watch us play it, next minute they're downloading

0:41:46.060 --> 0:41:48.180
<v Speaker 1>it on their iPads. This was all on a plane ride,

0:41:48.219 --> 0:41:50.700
<v Speaker 1>by the way, which is where I play this the most.

0:41:51.060 --> 0:41:59.130
<v Speaker 1>It's called Bus Traffic Fever. I actually can't even say it.

0:41:59.230 --> 0:42:04.730
<v Speaker 1>I've zoomed out. What's it called, Gem? Bus Traffic Fever.

0:42:05.640 --> 0:42:08.810
<v Speaker 1>You know how exciting it is to organise bus traffic? Oh,

0:42:08.830 --> 0:42:09.250
<v Speaker 1>you don't?

0:42:09.930 --> 0:42:10.149
<v Speaker 2>Oh.

0:42:11.140 --> 0:42:17.020
<v Speaker 1>Gem, give us the pitch. And she said she was 40. Oh, dear.

0:42:17.340 --> 0:42:21.600
<v Speaker 1>I actually live saw Gem first witness this game and

0:42:21.660 --> 0:42:23.820
<v Speaker 1>I have never, I don't think this is an overstatement,

0:42:24.340 --> 0:42:27.359
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I've ever seen her so excited and delighted. Yeah,

0:42:27.489 --> 0:42:29.759
<v Speaker 1>it's great. It's a goodie. Simi, who is in our

0:42:29.800 --> 0:42:32.290
<v Speaker 1>show fam, was like, hey, Gem, Gem, I'm like really

0:42:32.310 --> 0:42:33.969
<v Speaker 1>addicted to this game and I really need to get

0:42:34.010 --> 0:42:37.129
<v Speaker 1>off it. And Gem was like, what you playing? No,

0:42:37.170 --> 0:42:39.109
<v Speaker 1>she got me even better. She was like, oh, I'm

0:42:39.130 --> 0:42:41.089
<v Speaker 1>stuck on this hard level. And I went, on what?

0:42:42.050 --> 0:42:45.250
<v Speaker 1>because i reckon i could assist you i hear heart

0:42:45.290 --> 0:42:47.890
<v Speaker 1>level i feel the challenge and i was like what

0:42:47.950 --> 0:42:50.090
<v Speaker 1>is this game she's like you gotta organize the buses

0:42:53.030 --> 0:42:57.760
<v Speaker 1>my idea of hell it is fucking terrific it's really

0:42:58.040 --> 0:43:01.759
<v Speaker 1>it's soothing on the brain it's really soothing um like

0:43:01.820 --> 0:43:03.960
<v Speaker 1>i said if you're a tetris girlie like it's the

0:43:04.060 --> 0:43:07.739
<v Speaker 1>same if you're a tetris girlie There will be many

0:43:07.820 --> 0:43:11.250
<v Speaker 1>DLs who will be appreciating this offering from the podcast.

0:43:11.270 --> 0:43:14.629
<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm taken back 25 to 30 years when

0:43:14.690 --> 0:43:17.330
<v Speaker 1>Gem used to really, and I mean we all liked

0:43:17.390 --> 0:43:20.700
<v Speaker 1>playing Snake, I guess, on our phones, but Gem really

0:43:20.760 --> 0:43:25.700
<v Speaker 1>liked Snake. Yeah. Like high school. Used to have sounds

0:43:25.739 --> 0:43:27.120
<v Speaker 1>coming out of her phone that none of us had

0:43:27.160 --> 0:43:31.270
<v Speaker 1>heard before. Yeah. Real high levels of snake. Yeah, I

0:43:31.350 --> 0:43:34.770
<v Speaker 1>enjoy it. It is. It's like my version of reading

0:43:35.050 --> 0:43:38.060
<v Speaker 1>or self-soothing. Whatever it is, it's people's vices. Maybe it's

0:43:38.100 --> 0:43:40.160
<v Speaker 1>my alcohol if we want to go there. I don't

0:43:40.180 --> 0:43:43.739
<v Speaker 1>think reading is a vice for anyone. It can only

0:43:43.860 --> 0:43:47.190
<v Speaker 1>expand your mind. Is it your hobby? Mmm. maybe it's

0:43:47.210 --> 0:43:51.230
<v Speaker 1>your leisure rest yes yes it's leisure rest okay it's

0:43:51.270 --> 0:43:53.279
<v Speaker 1>not the same as reading because i love listening to

0:43:53.320 --> 0:43:55.739
<v Speaker 1>podcasts and audiobooks and i can't put them in the

0:43:55.760 --> 0:43:58.140
<v Speaker 1>same no i the times i see you reach for

0:43:58.160 --> 0:44:01.859
<v Speaker 1>your little games is when you're wrecked yeah That's when

0:44:01.930 --> 0:44:07.169
<v Speaker 1>I'm like I want to mung the fuck out. It's that. Anyway,

0:44:07.210 --> 0:44:09.150
<v Speaker 1>it's a really good game, guys. I know it sounds

0:44:09.390 --> 0:44:11.629
<v Speaker 1>like we can joke about it, organizing buses, whatever. No,

0:44:11.690 --> 0:44:14.650
<v Speaker 1>I can now hear your self-consciousness in your voice and

0:44:14.670 --> 0:44:17.090
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry we yucked your gum. No, it's fine. No,

0:44:17.150 --> 0:44:19.410
<v Speaker 1>yuck it because I get it. Another game Gem has

0:44:19.450 --> 0:44:26.290
<v Speaker 1>was unspooling yarn. Like it's like a knotted ball of yarn. Yeah,

0:44:26.310 --> 0:44:28.469
<v Speaker 1>it didn't sustain me as long. The other game I

0:44:28.489 --> 0:44:33.450
<v Speaker 1>enjoy is water sorting. What the? Where you have test

0:44:33.510 --> 0:44:37.359
<v Speaker 1>tubes with different colors of liquid and you have to

0:44:37.380 --> 0:44:40.900
<v Speaker 1>sort them. Anyway, there will be a percentage of DLs.

0:44:41.000 --> 0:44:43.000
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate it. Oh, no, I know. No, I don't

0:44:43.020 --> 0:44:47.360
<v Speaker 1>think it's that niche. You will honestly love bus traffic fever.

0:44:47.440 --> 0:44:49.720
<v Speaker 1>And I'm fussy with my games. I don't like games

0:44:49.739 --> 0:44:53.109
<v Speaker 1>where there's a million ads. This doesn't have that at all.

0:44:53.469 --> 0:44:55.850
<v Speaker 1>It's great. 10 out of 10, can recommend. Maybe 11

0:44:55.850 --> 0:44:57.750
<v Speaker 1>out of 10, actually. Is it free? It's free.

0:44:57.790 --> 0:44:57.910
<v Speaker 2>Oh.

0:44:58.550 --> 0:45:00.790
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And that's what I mean. You two can sort

0:45:00.810 --> 0:45:05.230
<v Speaker 1>your traffic for free. I just think sometimes like unspooling,

0:45:05.350 --> 0:45:07.910
<v Speaker 1>like unpicking a knot in yarn. No, it's not a knot.

0:45:08.180 --> 0:45:09.690
<v Speaker 1>It's not a knot. I know the game you're thinking of.

0:45:09.700 --> 0:45:12.360
<v Speaker 1>There's no knots. That's why it's easy. It's low touch.

0:45:12.500 --> 0:45:15.959
<v Speaker 1>You just tap. It sounds like untangling the, like the

0:45:15.980 --> 0:45:18.170
<v Speaker 1>Christmas tree lights. And that would, to me is like, I,

0:45:18.840 --> 0:45:20.990
<v Speaker 1>I resent that once a year. I would not opt

0:45:21.110 --> 0:45:23.069
<v Speaker 1>in to do something like that. It is nothing like that.

0:45:23.110 --> 0:45:26.310
<v Speaker 1>Like you talk about building Lego too much. This is

0:45:26.430 --> 0:45:29.130
<v Speaker 1>tapping and things move and go into place and it's

0:45:29.270 --> 0:45:33.840
<v Speaker 1>very satisfying. So it's about organizing chaos. It is. Okay. Yeah,

0:45:33.880 --> 0:45:37.700
<v Speaker 1>but it's gamified. So it's like coins and points. Coins. Levels.

0:45:37.860 --> 0:45:40.600
<v Speaker 1>What do the coins buy you? Like benefits. Like more

0:45:40.620 --> 0:45:47.890
<v Speaker 1>parking spots. say it again we didn't hear you sorry

0:45:47.930 --> 0:45:55.219
<v Speaker 1>what benefits did the coins buy more parking spots more

0:45:55.260 --> 0:46:09.060
<v Speaker 1>parking spots guys It's absurd. It's true. You buy more

0:46:09.080 --> 0:46:14.009
<v Speaker 1>parking spots or you unlock a VIP parking spot. I

0:46:14.030 --> 0:46:16.510
<v Speaker 1>think we need to move on to your not spot.

0:46:16.710 --> 0:46:22.049
<v Speaker 1>I'm actually embarrassed now. Oh my God. Hit me with

0:46:22.090 --> 0:46:27.620
<v Speaker 1>your Mine's a beauty thing. Okay, on brand. We're in

0:46:27.660 --> 0:46:30.880
<v Speaker 1>our lane. It's not embarrassing. It's really nice and you

0:46:30.900 --> 0:46:34.000
<v Speaker 1>will love it. It's another Embryolisse product. I think I've

0:46:34.020 --> 0:46:36.910
<v Speaker 1>had a few Embryolisse on here. I can get behind this. Yes,

0:46:37.030 --> 0:46:40.170
<v Speaker 1>Melly brings Embryolisse into our lives. She uses a lot

0:46:40.210 --> 0:46:43.109
<v Speaker 1>of these. They have an amazing hydrating mist if you're

0:46:43.130 --> 0:46:49.010
<v Speaker 1>into mists. They have like their moisturiser is all time.

0:46:49.140 --> 0:46:52.040
<v Speaker 1>But they have this thing called Éclat de Regarde. All

0:46:52.080 --> 0:46:55.540
<v Speaker 1>I can describe it is like a cooling under-eye stick.

0:46:55.739 --> 0:46:58.180
<v Speaker 1>It is the most incredible product I've ever tried in

0:46:58.200 --> 0:47:01.219
<v Speaker 1>my life. It's like a balm. I don't understand how

0:47:01.300 --> 0:47:04.000
<v Speaker 1>it stays cold. You don't put it in the fridge.

0:47:04.140 --> 0:47:07.420
<v Speaker 1>I assume it's something like Tiger Balm adjacent. I don't care.

0:47:07.460 --> 0:47:11.720
<v Speaker 1>It's fucking amazing. It de-puffs under your eyes. It's delicious.

0:47:11.739 --> 0:47:14.509
<v Speaker 1>It just feels so good. It is so nice. It's

0:47:14.570 --> 0:47:17.630
<v Speaker 1>basically like a thick like chapstick. Yeah. It's kind of

0:47:17.650 --> 0:47:19.610
<v Speaker 1>like and you wind it up and you rub it

0:47:19.670 --> 0:47:22.590
<v Speaker 1>under your eyes. It's almost like part gua sha, part balm.

0:47:22.610 --> 0:47:25.129
<v Speaker 1>But it's clear. It's clear. It goes on clear. Yeah,

0:47:25.190 --> 0:47:27.460
<v Speaker 1>and it's fine to be under makeup, under sunscreen, all

0:47:27.480 --> 0:47:30.040
<v Speaker 1>of those things. but it is cool. Like it's been

0:47:30.160 --> 0:47:32.560
<v Speaker 1>in the freezer. It's like putting little spoons on your

0:47:32.640 --> 0:47:35.080
<v Speaker 1>eyes or like your eye mask or like those stick

0:47:35.120 --> 0:47:38.850
<v Speaker 1>on eye things, but instant. And it is skincare in

0:47:38.910 --> 0:47:42.230
<v Speaker 1>little tube, but it like de-puffs your eye bags. I

0:47:42.290 --> 0:47:46.279
<v Speaker 1>back this brand so hard. Like the face moisturizer that

0:47:46.320 --> 0:47:48.920
<v Speaker 1>Belle puts it on like under the primer. And I

0:47:48.960 --> 0:47:52.819
<v Speaker 1>don't like fragrant products when it's too flowery or too

0:47:52.840 --> 0:47:56.110
<v Speaker 1>whatever this is fragrant but subtle it's the perfect amount

0:47:56.160 --> 0:47:58.589
<v Speaker 1>of fragrant for me it's so fucking french it's so

0:47:58.890 --> 0:48:02.410
<v Speaker 1>chic yeah it's like a french pharmaceutical like it's got

0:48:02.450 --> 0:48:07.040
<v Speaker 1>that like french pharmacy vibe yeah anyway it's gorgeous embryo

0:48:07.080 --> 0:48:09.719
<v Speaker 1>lease eclat du regard if you want to say it

0:48:09.760 --> 0:48:14.100
<v Speaker 1>in another french way Stunning, stunning. Must have. Yeah, I

0:48:14.140 --> 0:48:16.359
<v Speaker 1>back Revs on that one, even though she doesn't back

0:48:16.420 --> 0:48:21.640
<v Speaker 1>my bus traffic fever. I couldn't think of anything worse. DLs,

0:48:21.680 --> 0:48:24.750
<v Speaker 1>that brings us to the end of another episode. But

0:48:24.790 --> 0:48:27.669
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<v Speaker 1>Best gift ever. That's a really good gift for a friend.

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0:49:29.790 --> 0:49:32.350
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<v Speaker 2>And for all of those DLs asking, are we doing

0:49:47.820 --> 0:49:51.920
<v Speaker 2>a Backstage Pass episode? We did a mega, mega Backstage

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0:50:04.850 --> 0:50:07.290
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0:50:07.310 --> 0:50:11.160
<v Speaker 1>the shit we put over there. It's deep, dark and

0:50:11.200 --> 0:50:14.020
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0:50:14.080 --> 0:50:16.710
<v Speaker 1>embarrassing than bus traffic fever. All right, we're going to

0:50:16.730 --> 0:50:19.500
<v Speaker 1>wrap that there. We love you, DLs. As always, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>Bye.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye-bye.