1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. I am no man's peace. I 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: see why I did good. I am no man's peace. 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: I can guarantee you I'm better than him. Her maybe, 4 00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: but he has something you don't. And what's that? My attention? 5 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:19,799 Speaker 1: Now go away at least real? I love that one, dude. 6 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:21,919 Speaker 1: That one's that. I was like, fuck, where's this girl? 7 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: And she was leading him? 8 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 2: Relatable The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself, Jake Craig 9 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:45,479 Speaker 2: aka Daddy, and my partner in crime, Bodie Clark aka Mummy. 10 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 3: You put me under the pump. You're like hey, I 11 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 3: was like, what guys, Jake, what do I What do 12 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 3: you say? When I say I really appreciate you as 13 00:00:57,720 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 3: a friend and our friendship together and this podcast and 14 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 3: the bond together, I. 15 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 1: Say thanks, I really appreciate it too, and I love you. 16 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. 17 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 3: You know what time it is? It's time to play. 18 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 3: Make them say oh you with me? So you didn't 19 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 3: even know. 20 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: He was playing? You were doing that to me. I 21 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: was like, I was like, this isn't how we're starting. 22 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: We did not agree. We did not agree to this. 23 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:29,479 Speaker 1: Make them say is back, guys. 24 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:32,759 Speaker 3: This is where we call a lucky listener to either 25 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 3: we get to give them a free heart if they win, 26 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 3: or or. 27 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 1: We just give them happen, don't even play it. Yes, 28 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:39,840 Speaker 1: we want to keep everyone on their toes. What are 29 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: we doing today? We're giving them a hat? Yeah we 30 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 1: felt terrible last week or mkaylee kaylee. 31 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 3: So we're not going to play. Make them say there's 32 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 3: no random word generator call. 33 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 1: Sorry to interrupt, but because that was the first time 34 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: we did it, like and played, make them say, yeah, 35 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: I bet you everyone listening if they get a call 36 00:01:58,240 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: like you've won a hat, they're going to be like, okay, 37 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: well not let them walk me into this one, because 38 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: we we just hook line sink I walked her into it. 39 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: She wasn't ready. She was the first one to get 40 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 1: play of the actual game. She got played. She got 41 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 1: literally played. So this time we're gonna be nice, gentlemen. 42 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 3: Are we gonna and we're going to pretend like we're 43 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 3: playing but we're not really. 44 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:20,080 Speaker 1: Let's just have a conversation with her. Okay, Today's winner 45 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: is Hannah. Hannah. Let's give her a ring. 46 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 3: Hello, Hannah, this is Jake and Otie from the Relatables podcast. 47 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: How are you going? Thank you? That's so funny. I'm 48 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 1: literally listening to the podcast now. Damn. Did you submit 49 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: a form to win a relatables hat? 50 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 2: Yes? 51 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:42,480 Speaker 1: I did? 52 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 3: Well, congratulations. You just want a hat? What color would 53 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 3: you like? Pink or blue? 54 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: Pink? A mummy hat? Pink. Yeah, it's a good pick 55 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 1: if you ask me. Thank you for submitting. Hannah. What's 56 00:02:56,600 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: what are you doing? Are you working? Driving? Work? I'm 57 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: actually on my I have I'm a lotch breaks. Now 58 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: take my dog for a walk. Cool, We're going to 59 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:08,239 Speaker 1: take the dog for a walk on a lunch perfect timing. 60 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 1: Oh what do you call those things? Just now you've won. 61 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 1: We won't we won't mess with you. I want to 62 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 1: say thank you for listening and have a good rest 63 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 1: of your day. Thank you guys for much no worries. 64 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 1: Was sending to your willship it to you? 65 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 2: Bye, Thank you bye. 66 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 1: It was actually good. Yeah, that was very very nice. 67 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: We are a nice guy. 68 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 3: We are we could be nice guy. Lex last week's 69 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 3: one from an excited young listener. Oh well that was 70 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 3: that was actually a good way to start. 71 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 1: I feel good. I feel like I feel generous. Yeah, 72 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: so do I. We have to remember to ship that 73 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: off now. We'll do it. 74 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 3: Now, we'll do it, Okay, Jake and everybody listening. If 75 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 3: you've been listening for a while, you would know that 76 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 3: I may have a little bit of an addiction to Guzman. 77 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 1: I thought you were going to say porn, and I 78 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 1: was about to agree. How would the listeners know? How 79 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: do you know? 80 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 2: How do I know? 81 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: I don't have an addiction to porn? Mate? 82 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 3: All right, but so you caught me off my game. 83 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 3: Now made me flustered. I have an addiction to Guzman, 84 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 3: white guy Mas. But I wanted to ask you, at 85 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 3: what point should you be concerned or should you be 86 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 3: concerned of how many times you go in there per 87 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 3: week and they start to notice you. Oh, is there 88 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 3: a certain number? 89 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: I reckon because of the nature of the restaurant. Yeah, 90 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,840 Speaker 1: it's not like it's a coffee or something like that. 91 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,840 Speaker 1: So if you go in and you see a girl 92 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 1: or a guy that taking your order, that's taking your 93 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:53,040 Speaker 1: order a couple of times and they go, oh, just 94 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 1: the usual, you start to think I'm even thinking my 95 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 1: moral compass, like I'm going in now, think they remember me, 96 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 1: Like I'll see yesterday they one hundred percent remember last week? Yeah, 97 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 1: I went three or four times. I think my record's three. 98 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 1: So you're three in a week. Yeah, wait, three in 99 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:15,119 Speaker 1: a week's chill. I record three times a week is chill. 100 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 1: The only thing is that it's like six it's like 101 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: twenty bucks. Yeah times, it's like sixty bucks a week. 102 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 1: It adds up. Don't say that to me. I haven't 103 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: done the mass mine. You have the thing? You earn points? Yeah, 104 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: I earn points. What do the points go towards? 105 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 3: I get ten to you get a certain amount of 106 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 3: point and you get ten dollars off. Okay, it's actually good, 107 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 3: Like after like three or four orders you get ten 108 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 3: dollars off. Really, I'm basically making money girl by eating there, 109 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 3: I'm making money. 110 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 1: Think about it like that, dude. So basically here you go. Okay, 111 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 1: So if you're going, like I reckon, my average order 112 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:55,039 Speaker 1: is about twenty bucks. Yeah, so if you get let's 113 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 1: say that means it's probably every fifty bucks you get 114 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 1: ten bucks off. Then I assume it's got to be 115 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: something like that. So every fifty bucks you're actually only 116 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: spending forty or do you go three times, spend sixty 117 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:09,479 Speaker 1: and then the next time someone Okay, I don't track 118 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 1: this track of that how much? How many? How many 119 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:13,720 Speaker 1: times have they gone to you? Oh, you have ten 120 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 1: dollars to spend? Do you want to use it? No? No, no, 121 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: it's on the app. I just look on the app. 122 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 1: They don't and then you order on the app and yeah, 123 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 1: y negative, yeah yeah. I don't like talking to people. 124 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,720 Speaker 1: So could you go in and with that ten dollars 125 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 1: and just get something for free against nine bucks? Yeah? 126 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 1: Oh then that then that's free. Yeah, I know. I 127 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: don't know why you're not doing it. I don't know 128 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 1: what girl maps just made complete sense to me. I 129 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:37,919 Speaker 1: don't know why it took so along in the process. 130 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's that's actually genius. 131 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 3: But I'll tell you something I don't want to come 132 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 3: across as facetious. But so starting this podcast, one thing 133 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 3: I didn't realize is some people may notice you a 134 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:51,599 Speaker 3: little bit more because you have a social media present. 135 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:53,720 Speaker 1: Oh ye yah yeah yeah yeah. So there's one girl 136 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: there we walk in she goes podcast. Guys, I'm like, 137 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: you guess. 138 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 3: Whereas if I was just like someone of the general 139 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 3: public is the general trading, they would be like trading guy. 140 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: No, yeah, you couldn't be like Also, he's a question 141 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: for you. Is it rude? All right? So if there's 142 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: a line, you're in the line, they see you and 143 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: the like I remember him. When he comes up to here, 144 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, I'm gonna say to him, like, oh, 145 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 1: just the usual. Is it rude to do that to 146 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 1: a customer because you're making it look like in front 147 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 1: of everyone else, you're making it. 148 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 3: Here that's like a power play the usual, especially because 149 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 3: because it's like that borderline between fast food unhealthy and healthy, 150 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 3: it's like right in the middle. It's not bad for you, 151 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 3: it's not good for you, like they're not really no, no, 152 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 3: like he'll get you over line like a burrito and 153 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 3: like some ross like decent enough. 154 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 1: It's definitely you know, like it's better than eat like 155 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 1: a pizza. Yeah, yeah, better than macasin KFC. But it's 156 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: definitely not like I don't know, there's probably better in 157 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 1: subway too, but subways fucked for you. Yeah, yeah, no, 158 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 1: subway is not good. My younger sister worked there for 159 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 1: a while, yeah, and she doesn't work there anymore, but 160 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: she said that, Okay, the tuna starts off as like 161 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 1: dust really, and then I think you mix water into it. 162 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 1: Oh that's fucked up, like stub stuff. Nothing's fresh. Like 163 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: the Subway's slogan is subway eat fresh. In all the 164 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 1: ads subway eat fresh. It's not fresh, not fresh. Yeah weird. 165 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 3: I'll tell you one thing that I didn't realize growing 166 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 3: up is that how that many big companies rely on 167 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 3: cheap child labor because they're going to know there's more 168 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 3: kids coming through macas Like subway. You go in the subway, 169 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 3: they'll be like a fifteen year old worked by there. 170 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, Subway. They need cheap labor too, because you and 171 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 1: I got maybe me and he one do we got 172 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:49,439 Speaker 1: two lunches foot longs under twenty bucks. Yeah it's good 173 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 1: a but still and then like KFC, like they don't 174 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:54,079 Speaker 1: they can't hire like thrown thirty year olds and paying forty. 175 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: I don't remember the last time I saw an eighteen 176 00:08:56,000 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: year old in KFC. Yeah, it's like those younger younger 177 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 1: AFC is crazy, bro, I do not remember the last 178 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:05,599 Speaker 1: time I saw someone that was eighteen in KFC. The 179 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: manager is seventeen, the manager is fifteen. Sometimes how do 180 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 1: they get away with that? I don't know, Like they're 181 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: making opportunities for fucking the young people. But apparently Macas 182 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 1: and places like that, they just stop giving you shifts 183 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 1: when you turn nineteen. Yeah, I've heard that too, because 184 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:24,199 Speaker 1: you are you, you make more than the minimum wage 185 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 1: of a fifteen year old. 186 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, h minimum match for fifteen is like twelve bucks. Men, 187 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 3: I know, eighteen year old is like twenty five. 188 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 1: Isn't it crazy that they're straight up they're fully okay 189 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: with just like traumatizing a young fifteen year old. I 190 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: guarantee you people have gotten in literal anxiety. 191 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 3: Oh I never did you apply for many fast food places? 192 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:48,720 Speaker 3: I applied for Macas and KFC, really denied from both. 193 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 3: I refuse my like I can't be in those placeres 194 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:54,679 Speaker 3: my like, I don't know, I just get over stimulated 195 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:56,959 Speaker 3: and I hate them and my parents are luckily didn't 196 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 3: force me to do anything. I had a job at 197 00:09:58,440 --> 00:09:59,959 Speaker 3: a general shop when I was young that would have 198 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 3: nice and just like washing dishes and clanned the floor, 199 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:04,839 Speaker 3: which was chill. But like anything hospitality like that, I 200 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 3: get over stimulated. Especially maccas is like. 201 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:13,200 Speaker 1: Even to go to order, there's it's Maccas is actually 202 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: a terrifying place to go into, yeah and order because 203 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 1: it is it's like I'm assuming each beep means something different. 204 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 1: Oh it's been six seconds since this order should have 205 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 1: been ready, something crazy like that, And it's like terrifying. 206 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 1: I guarantee you there's like people would be dreaming about 207 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 1: taking it back. 208 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 3: So imagine I went and just started myself a nice 209 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 3: landscaping business, you know, starting off, Yeah, good thing, let's 210 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 3: go higher. A bunch of fucking fifteen year olds to 211 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:40,559 Speaker 3: go shovel my dirt for me. 212 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 1: You'd be you'd be labeled as a fucking slave laborers 213 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 1: between Macas just been them twelve bucks an hour, yeah, 214 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 1: and I'm charging out at sixty that's the same thing 215 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: as the profit margins they make of McDonald's ship. Yeah, 216 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 1: that's such a good point. Yeah, everyone lets it slide, 217 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 1: just just because it's Macas and AFC and the kids 218 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 1: have no concept of money, Like at fifteen, twelve dollars 219 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:05,199 Speaker 1: is a lot of money, and for some reason like 220 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:07,880 Speaker 1: oh yeah, he's okay, twelve dollars. Actually, twelve dollars an 221 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 1: hour is a lot of money, or fifteen dollar an 222 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 1: hour is a lot of money when you're fifteen. Yeah, 223 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 1: but you're doing you're doing thirty dollars an hour worth 224 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: of workheah, because I understaff it to save money on labor. 225 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:25,199 Speaker 1: It's ridiculous. Yeah, I can't even begin to imagine what 226 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:26,839 Speaker 1: it would be. I'm so happy I got denied from 227 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: both because I ended up working. So I got denied 228 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 1: from both of them. I got a job at Coal's, 229 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 1: pushing trolleys. Worst job I've ever had. Really hated it, 230 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 1: hated hated hated it. I was fifteen, Like think, okay, 231 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 1: I was fifteen at the time. I obviously thought I 232 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:46,439 Speaker 1: was old it like I'm fifteen, yeah, but now that 233 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: I'm twenty four, fifteen, a fucking kid, A kid, Yeah, 234 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 1: I'm fifteen years old, all right. Working at Kingcomber Coals. 235 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:54,439 Speaker 1: I swear it's the busiest coals in the world. I 236 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:59,040 Speaker 1: swear to God holds is ridiculous. And so there's the 237 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: type of trolleys that families use because you're getting like 238 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 1: a big four hundred dollars shot. And then there's the 239 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: trolleys that we use. We're about half the size. Those 240 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 1: trolleys go like literal hot cakes on an early morning bakery. 241 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 1: Fucking like, I'm telling you right now, speed those little 242 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: fucking trolleys are like gold. Okay, so I'm running around 243 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 1: They're all in the shopping center being used. I'm getting 244 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 1: barked at, like Jake, we need more trolleys, and I'm like, 245 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:31,719 Speaker 1: do you want There's none outside. There's fucking none out here. 246 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 1: And I was like, what the fuck? And then another 247 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: part of my job they did, yes, yes, it was 248 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 1: didn't keep walking back. Not chill, not chill at all. 249 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: And it was Another part of my job was that 250 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 1: I had to clean the trolleys. No, no, no, no, 251 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 1: like the fucking like the chicken oven really that they 252 00:12:56,600 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 1: made the roast chickens in, and the glove they I 253 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 1: had to clean that, the trays in it, and the 254 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 1: fucking gloves they give you they go out to your 255 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 1: like your shoulder. Yeah, but they had holes in them 256 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: and the washing product was so powerful that it gave 257 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:13,319 Speaker 1: me rashes, and they didn't give a fuck. It was 258 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 1: actually the weirdest place to work. So the trolley boy 259 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 1: gets to yeah, clean chickens. It's the weirdest place to work. 260 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 1: It was so odd. And then when I left there, 261 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 1: I was like I couldn't. Thank God I'm leaving. I 262 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 1: think I got lucky. 263 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 3: Hey, I did, so I did a general stop at 264 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 3: Max until I was like, I think I was like fifteen. 265 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 3: I did that till like twelve to fifteen, like this 266 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 3: young nothing, and then I got a job at added 267 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:38,079 Speaker 3: a stadium, so go stadiums like they called it an usher, yeah, 268 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 3: and you just show people to your seat, and then 269 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 3: I get to watch the soccer. So I didn't even 270 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 3: know where people see, so I just like down there 271 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 3: to I just remember down there left or right, that's 272 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 3: all I'll say. 273 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: Just go down there to the left. It's like, you 274 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 1: don't need anyone to show you. Just show me the 275 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 1: section I'm in and I'll look for a letter. And 276 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 1: occasionally someone would come there with like their ticking back. 277 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:57,079 Speaker 1: Do you know where this is? 278 00:13:57,160 --> 00:13:58,839 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, over that way somewhere, just go 279 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 3: find another usher new But I hated it. I hated it, 280 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:02,959 Speaker 3: but because I played soccer, and I thought it was 281 00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 3: so embarrassing that I was like, They're like I don't 282 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 3: know paying, like I was getting paid to be there 283 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 3: whatever not watching. 284 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 1: It or something. I was like, please don't see anyone 285 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 1: I know from soccer. Oh, really funny when you're a 286 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 1: kid like that, Like I hated seeing people I knew 287 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 1: when I was working. It was the worst thing ever. 288 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 1: And then my second job was I worked at High 289 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 1: Tide Fish and Fish, and that was like high pace 290 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 1: fish and chips. But it was good because I was young. 291 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 1: They didn't expect a lot from me, and I kind 292 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 1: of was just cooking chips the whole time. And every 293 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: time I was cooking chips, you take them out of 294 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 1: the fryer, chuck them into bowl salt, and accidentally two 295 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 1: or three would fall out of every time, and I'd 296 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 1: just be eating the whole fucking day. 297 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 2: Like I'd be. 298 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 1: Like every time I went in there, it was like 299 00:14:49,560 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 1: just free food. And that's where me and my friends 300 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 1: used to eat like all the time. That's actually, yeah, 301 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 1: Jaggle hooked me up with some chips if I'm down there. Yeah, 302 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: like every day in the summer we used to go. 303 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 1: I had a little phase with some friends where we 304 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 1: go smoke weed, all right, buy chips and oh yeah, 305 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 1: buy chips and then just go like to the over 306 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 1: and play soccer. High weirdest thing ever, but we love it. 307 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 1: It's funny. I'm just thinking nostalgia of thinking back of 308 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 1: like your childhood and all those little yeah, yeah, yeh yeah. 309 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 3: It is the little things in life that you appreciate it. 310 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 3: Oh fuck, life was so simple. 311 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 1: So I remember my first job. I've got seven dollars 312 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: an hour for the first job I had. Okay, my 313 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 1: very very first job was paper run and I didn't 314 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 1: get paid per hour. I got paid it was like 315 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 1: forty bucks a week. It was like I had one 316 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 1: of them. My brother did and I shared it with him. 317 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 1: How many layers I think I got paid for? How 318 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 1: many layers of paper were in my role? Yeah? And 319 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: he wait, paper run? I was fourteen paper run. I 320 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: was like stressed, all right. So so on Sunday av 321 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:52,160 Speaker 1: we go to this house in Kincomber. Yeah, and the 322 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 1: lady that ran into the paper route she would I 323 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 1: got given my zones in the town I lived in. 324 00:15:56,760 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 1: It was around here, I remember that, And I got 325 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 1: heels bro so many hills I was And so Dad 326 00:16:01,600 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 1: would go with me pick him up and sometimes it'd 327 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 1: be like three in one. One time went and picked 328 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: them up fourteen different pamphlets in one role, and I 329 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 1: was like, no, fuck me. And so we get home. 330 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 1: I'd go it was like where I lived at the time. 331 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 1: We'd go downstairs we'd said Dad would help me set 332 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 1: them up, and then I just had to sit there 333 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 1: and just go one that roll up and then I 334 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 1: had to do it until they were done. Crazy, And 335 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 1: I'm telling it there is like I swear there was 336 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: fucking two hundred of these of each one put into 337 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: a fucking thing, and I'd chuck them behind. 338 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 3: Me, pile telling your child labor man, Yeah, piles and 339 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 3: piles off for forty we should get some I was 340 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 3: my vos. 341 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: After school were done, let's get some kids. And then 342 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 1: one time I was so livid about doing this thing 343 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 1: and I was like, I had done like fucking fifty 344 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 1: rolls and no dent was made. I made a roll 345 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 1: it was, it was all elastic banded up and got 346 00:16:56,240 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 1: it and I was pissed, threw it behind me hole 347 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 1: in the wall. Yeah, my dad was man's fucking livid. 348 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 1: And I used to also just really not want to 349 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 1: do it. So eventually I think I had to. I 350 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 1: was riding my bike to do it, and you're supposed 351 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: to put him in the mailbox, and I was just. 352 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:17,640 Speaker 3: I saw a TikTok, a livid on cost a living 353 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 3: crisis or whatever, and some guy put him on TikTok. 354 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:22,440 Speaker 3: He's like every single week, the guy whoever has the 355 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 3: paper run near his house. You know how they will 356 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:26,800 Speaker 3: come in the pamphlets. Yeah, like fifty, like five different 357 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:29,919 Speaker 3: packs of different Audi he said. He puts them all 358 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:31,640 Speaker 3: in his bin and he's just like, I don't mind. 359 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:33,480 Speaker 3: Game is a game good on if he wheels his 360 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 3: bin in, So the bins gets picked up on a 361 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 3: Sunday or whatever, this guy will come through of all 362 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:38,520 Speaker 3: the pamphlets, put it in his bin because he knows. 363 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:40,960 Speaker 3: This guy doesn't complain. Yeah, and he's gotten tiktoks like games. 364 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:42,240 Speaker 3: The game I don't care, And he just pushes it 365 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:42,880 Speaker 3: down and puts. 366 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 1: I need to find a fucking little kid that's doing 367 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 1: what I was doing. Yeah, I'm gonna say, hey, you 368 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:49,159 Speaker 1: just come put every single one of them in my 369 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:52,080 Speaker 1: bin and I won't tell a soul. You'll be getting 370 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:54,960 Speaker 1: paid and I don't give a fuck. Give me five bucks, Yeah, 371 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: just five bucks a week, Maybe that's what I want. 372 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 1: Give me half, give me half, give me that AUDI pamphlet. Actually, 373 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 1: like looking at those, you know what you're gonna get. 374 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:07,160 Speaker 1: You could get a rocket ship for a fucking PlayStation. Fact, 375 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:10,639 Speaker 1: you get appears five for twenty bucks, called like a 376 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 1: PS seven or something. All right, due two. I thought 377 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 1: you were going to say juicy juice. I'm saying, due 378 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 1: to popular demand, we have a recurring segment. We do 379 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:36,119 Speaker 1: do recurring, but I don't know if it's usually this 380 00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:39,440 Speaker 1: freaquentist quick. I'm surprised how well this went out. Fun, 381 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: very very good, fun, very good. Okay, this is I 382 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:45,880 Speaker 1: am no man's peace. I see why I did good. 383 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:52,840 Speaker 1: I am no man's piece. Okay. Him to her, I'm 384 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:57,120 Speaker 1: toxic af I know her and ugly, so you shouldn't 385 00:18:57,119 --> 00:19:01,640 Speaker 1: be acting like that. I love when they do better 386 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:04,720 Speaker 1: around the bush's ugly. He just said, what question was? 387 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 1: It's just too ever had like I don't know, like 388 00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:17,920 Speaker 1: somebody's not that attractive or whatever. He shouldn't be acting 389 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 1: this way. Fact bro, fact bro Like I always always 390 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 1: will think of like a girl complaining about a dude 391 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:31,879 Speaker 1: and then you see a photo of the dude and 392 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:35,160 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, babes, he is. He's got to hold 393 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:39,679 Speaker 1: over you somehow, and I don't know how fucking hell. Okay, 394 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:43,400 Speaker 1: him to her, Okay, but what if we were a thing? 395 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: Question mark her? No thanks him? What why her, I 396 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:52,359 Speaker 1: missed my ex situationship him. What the fuck? I can 397 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 1: guarantee you I'm better than him. Her maybe, but he 398 00:19:57,200 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 1: has something you don't. And what's that attention? Now go away? 399 00:20:03,480 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 1: At least real? I love that one. That one's that. 400 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 1: I was like, fuck, where's this girl? And she was 401 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:13,720 Speaker 1: leading him. I was just like my attention. I was thinking, like, 402 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:20,879 Speaker 1: so good? Are they real? Well? I mean, hey, as 403 00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:23,399 Speaker 1: far as I know, they're real, as far as I know. 404 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:27,880 Speaker 3: Anyone listening, if you have some eye of no man's 405 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 3: piece and some text message change like this, Oh, if 406 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:32,680 Speaker 3: you've ever sent someone something this crazy, send it. Yeah, 407 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 3: because I'm finding these. I want you to send him 408 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:36,680 Speaker 3: to much or if you want to, yeah, start doing 409 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:37,679 Speaker 3: it and send it to us. 410 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 1: If you guys were to start doing it to like 411 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 1: trash dude, Yeah and send it to us, nothing would actually, 412 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 1: it's literally nothing in the world would make me happy. 413 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:53,320 Speaker 1: Nothing her. Can I ask you a question him? Yeah? Her? 414 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 1: Are you genuinely this incompetent and unable to do the 415 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:01,680 Speaker 1: bare minimum? Or do you put intentional effort into being 416 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:02,920 Speaker 1: this fucking useless? 417 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 2: Oh? 418 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 1: My god, she went ham Dude. That was intense that's fun. 419 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 1: You couldn't say that that's fun. 420 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,959 Speaker 3: I actually do think some guys put in more effort 421 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:16,600 Speaker 3: to do less than the bare minimum, yeah, than they 422 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,119 Speaker 3: do than actually doing the bare minimum. 423 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:22,920 Speaker 1: We had a friend recently I won't say any names. Ah, 424 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:27,200 Speaker 1: ask us. He was messaging a girl. Yeah you know 425 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: who I'm talking about. Ask us if he should do 426 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 1: the thing where he leaves it a while to make 427 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 1: it look like he's busy. Yeah. We're like, fuck it though, 428 00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 1: don't play games. Just tell her you like her. Yeah, 429 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 1: you knowiced who he is exactly. 430 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:40,879 Speaker 3: We also told him a brilliant first date plan, like 431 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:43,240 Speaker 3: like get a couple of items to make it good. 432 00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it was just like, no, that's like ballsy. No, no, no, 433 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 1: like it's too much. It's not too much. No, it's 434 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:50,920 Speaker 1: never too much. You have a good idea, go do it. 435 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:56,640 Speaker 1: Never too much. Him to her, tell me about yourself. Her. 436 00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't go about 437 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,520 Speaker 1: at night. I go to bed at ten pm, wake 438 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 1: up at seven am. Quiet and calm him. You're a 439 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:08,840 Speaker 1: good match for me. When I get out of prison, 440 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 1: everything's going to be different. I thought I thought it 441 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,119 Speaker 1: was gonna say, tell me about yourself, and it was 442 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 1: just like, I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't party, 443 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 1: and I don't like you. I was gonna say, oh man, 444 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:31,920 Speaker 1: Him to her, it's over, okay, him, good luck with 445 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:35,959 Speaker 1: your new boyfriend. Who said he's new. He's been there 446 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,600 Speaker 1: the whole time. He was my guy best friend. That's 447 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:41,679 Speaker 1: what he was. I think this was my favorite one. Okay. 448 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:47,440 Speaker 1: Him to her, I fucking hate your guts, Ashley, her 449 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 1: the same guts you couldn't reach. 450 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,960 Speaker 3: There's one thing that hits a guy where it hurts, 451 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 3: and it's penis size. 452 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 1: See what that would have worked? Oh yeah, that really 453 00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:05,680 Speaker 1: would have heard it, he told me. I did. Okay 454 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 1: this one. You need to know the times the text 455 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:12,200 Speaker 1: were sent. It's the last one. Her to him at 456 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:16,119 Speaker 1: eight twenty two pm, a photo of a pair of 457 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:21,399 Speaker 1: dire high heels, and then straight away her, can I 458 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:25,520 Speaker 1: have these please? Not even a minute goes past? Never 459 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 1: mind bought that shit myself. Him. You didn't give me 460 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 1: time to reply. One minute later you used my card 461 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:43,679 Speaker 1: question mark. That's that's good. That was good from her. 462 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:46,760 Speaker 1: I love these days. I have no man, say, I 463 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 1: know what you should do out there, girl's be no 464 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:52,359 Speaker 1: man's peace. Actually fact, yeah yeah, why not? I would Actually, 465 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:56,600 Speaker 1: I just genuinely there's times if anyone's ever asking advice 466 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:58,320 Speaker 1: where I'm like, oh, fuck, I wish I could really 467 00:23:58,359 --> 00:23:59,879 Speaker 1: tell you what I want you to say. You kind 468 00:23:59,920 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 1: of actually like, noah, you say this, yeah, but after 469 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,400 Speaker 1: that last night a year, what I was One thing 470 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:11,320 Speaker 1: I think I would really like in life is, let's 471 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 1: say you're either you're going shopping, or it's your sister's birthday, 472 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 1: or your brother's birthday, or your girlfriend's birthday, your mom's birthday, 473 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah. Although like all these people, 474 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,639 Speaker 1: well I don't really know anyone super materialistic, but everyone 475 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 1: likes new things. How cool would it be to take 476 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 1: like your girlfriend? All right, it's a massive shopping center, 477 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:34,680 Speaker 1: massive more Miller, Sydney Pitt Street, give me your card 478 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 1: and be like, oh, like literally, no matter what you 479 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 1: spend won't make a dent in my bank? Are you 480 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:45,359 Speaker 1: you love your money? Like? I understand you're lying if 481 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:46,679 Speaker 1: you say if you don't think that, if you're kind 482 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 1: of good and just going like here like actually. 483 00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 3: Go for your life to be you said, you don't 484 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:54,160 Speaker 3: know anyone materialistic. I don't think I would want someone 485 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:55,440 Speaker 3: who would do that. 486 00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 1: Oh you mean if so, like let's say you did 487 00:24:58,280 --> 00:24:59,680 Speaker 1: it with you girlfriend, she goes okay and did it 488 00:24:59,920 --> 00:25:01,919 Speaker 1: h like ten grand yeah, yeah, and would you be like, oh, 489 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 1: I didn't think you're actually gonna do that. I would 490 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:04,600 Speaker 1: not for a bit. I would. 491 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,200 Speaker 3: I prefer a girl in my last who like doesn't 492 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:08,720 Speaker 3: need that materialistic stuff. 493 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 1: That's in saying like no one needs it, but it'd 494 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 1: be so cool for it. 495 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 3: I've never understood that like American thing where like they 496 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 3: go and buy their girl like a ten thousand dollars 497 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,440 Speaker 3: chain and then that's what and like a de Or 498 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 3: bag and then whatever like a Gucci ring and then 499 00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:23,440 Speaker 3: they do stuff every single week Like is they know 500 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,399 Speaker 3: more about connection than materialistic items? 501 00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, some people know, but yeah yeah, but you 502 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 1: know call her daddy. Yeah, the girl that she used 503 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 1: to do that podcast with. These were two hosts Alex 504 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 1: still has called Daddy, and then the other girl was 505 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:42,199 Speaker 1: named Sophia, so she didn't do it anymore. So they 506 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,399 Speaker 1: had like a falling out and then Alex kept it. 507 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 1: So this Sophie girl or whatever she has her own podcast, 508 00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:52,280 Speaker 1: but there's a clip of her going around where she's like, oh, 509 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 1: on first dates, I asked to see the guy's bank account. Really, 510 00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,639 Speaker 1: and if it's not a high enough number, she won't 511 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:04,440 Speaker 1: date them. Weird, isn't that cool? That's so crazy, crazy 512 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 1: way to live? Like, to me, what's important? 513 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 3: I would wait prefer like I don't know, save your 514 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,359 Speaker 3: money together with a girl and like I don't know, 515 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 3: renovated house together and paint the walls together and like 516 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 3: do all that kind of stuff and design and pick 517 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 3: things out together. Even though she picks more like that 518 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:20,920 Speaker 3: kind of cuteness rather than me having a million dollars 519 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 3: and going to buy her stuff every single weekend. 520 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,680 Speaker 1: I can. That's so much more beautiful than what life's about. Yeah, 521 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 1: some people were just totally fine with loving with conditions. Yeah, 522 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 1: loving without conditions is like obviously what you want. But yeah, 523 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 1: so basically, like if she was to get with a 524 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,199 Speaker 1: guy that had enough money at the start, what if 525 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,399 Speaker 1: you lost everything? People live everything, And what if. 526 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:41,720 Speaker 3: He gets old and he stops working, he's got to 527 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 3: like retire and then he's got to downgrade his mansion 528 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:45,080 Speaker 3: to a normal house. 529 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:49,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, what happens what happens. It's such a fucking weird world. Weird. 530 00:26:56,520 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 1: I have a question for everyone. You know, I'm the 531 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 1: only person who can reply right right now. Yeah, now, 532 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:08,480 Speaker 1: it's this is a question for guys and girls. It's said, 533 00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:13,400 Speaker 1: it's the way the questions asked. I could actually ask. Okay, ready, 534 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 1: The question is if they lost the ability to speak, 535 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 1: would you still feel loved by their actions alone? 536 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 2: Hmmm? 537 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: Interesting? Do you want me to answer? Oh? The people? No, 538 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:30,119 Speaker 1: I'm not asking you about your relationship. I'm just saying that, Like, 539 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,280 Speaker 1: I feel like it's a question that everyone needs to, oh, okay, 540 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,879 Speaker 1: to are by their actions alone? Yeah. Yeah. A lot 541 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 1: of guys, will you know, or girls in relations will 542 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,760 Speaker 1: be like oh, like they'll say I love you, but 543 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,080 Speaker 1: their actions don't do anything. Their actions aren't actually showing 544 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:45,840 Speaker 1: their I love yourself. They lost the ability to speak 545 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: and they acted the same way, would you feel loved? 546 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:51,120 Speaker 1: I think it's also a good question of self reflect Yeah, 547 00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 1: and ask if you do enough outside of words for 548 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,680 Speaker 1: the relationship you're in or situationship you're in. And I 549 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 1: think a lot of people would say, oh shit, I 550 00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,040 Speaker 1: don't do enough. Yeah, no, I I when I first 551 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,800 Speaker 1: read it, I was asking myself that question, and even 552 00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 1: if I do think I do enough, it kind of 553 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 1: made me want to do a little more. Yeah, that's 554 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,440 Speaker 1: what I was just thinking the same, maybe I could 555 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 1: do a little bit more. You can always do more. 556 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,440 Speaker 1: When was the last time I bought flowers? When was 557 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:18,960 Speaker 1: the lin Like, Yeah, I think so too. It's all 558 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 1: you can always do more. And that's a good way 559 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 1: to put it as well. 560 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:26,680 Speaker 3: I think, especially the longer relationships get on, the I 561 00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:30,000 Speaker 3: feel like the less romantic you get it. And some 562 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 3: people think that's normal, but like the romance can be 563 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 3: there forever if you make it. It's all downe to effort. 564 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 1: I I personally think it's a bit like I think 565 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 1: romance I definitely should always be there. Yeah, but I 566 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 1: think that the honeymoon phase ending is a thing. Well, 567 00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 1: I think so. I think like the honeymoon phase is 568 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:53,280 Speaker 1: like to be fair like the honeymoon phase to me, 569 00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:58,240 Speaker 1: funnest thing ever, but like it's not sustainable in my eyes. 570 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:05,040 Speaker 1: I think the honeymoon's stage progresses into more than that. Yeah, 571 00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 1: so it ends. 572 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:08,840 Speaker 3: No, no, no, it's not not that like, so there's 573 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 3: no like blank line of ending. There's a finish line, 574 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,480 Speaker 3: honeymoon stage is over. Pete's out yet, Yeah no, but 575 00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 3: I think it peters out into something more. 576 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:15,280 Speaker 1: So. 577 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 3: The beast thing about honeymoon stage is there's so much emotion. 578 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 3: Everything you do is amazing. Is the first time you 579 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 3: get to hear hear a laugh, smile. Bet the sex 580 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 3: is bang because the first time you're seeing everything, is 581 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 3: feeling everything, It's unreal. Yeah, but I think that Honeymoon's 582 00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:34,960 Speaker 3: stage transitions, if you do it rightly, into love and 583 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 3: then all those things you appreciate less. But it still 584 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,000 Speaker 3: brings a little bit of a smile to your eyes 585 00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,640 Speaker 3: and your smile to your face. Sorry, which is the same. 586 00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:48,600 Speaker 3: But I also think it all comes down to, like 587 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 3: your attitude towards things we had. We had someone in 588 00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 3: there before, and as guys do, we talk about sex. 589 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, And he's been in a relationship for 590 00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 3: a while and we can I can admit there's certain 591 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:04,280 Speaker 3: things you do in sex for the opposite party. And 592 00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 3: he said he's been in a relationship. He's like, nah, 593 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:08,200 Speaker 3: I don't do that anymore. Like, yeah, he says, I'm 594 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:08,640 Speaker 3: past that. 595 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 1: I'm past that. But was he joking? 596 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 3: Nah? But even if he warts, and a lot of 597 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:14,480 Speaker 3: guys have the same attitude to that, Like they've been 598 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 3: in a relationship for three five years, they stopped doing 599 00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:19,240 Speaker 3: things for the opposite person because it's I'm past that, 600 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 3: they've passed that honeymoon stage on past that at putting effidence. Yeah, 601 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:24,960 Speaker 3: And I thought bit my tongue. I was like, you're 602 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,400 Speaker 3: I was like, no, like you do that for them 603 00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:28,880 Speaker 3: because you love them, Like, you don't do it just 604 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 3: because like the honeymoon phase is over. 605 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,880 Speaker 1: And here's one thing I reckon. A lot of people 606 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:39,800 Speaker 1: shoot themselves in the foot with is so the honeymoon 607 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:43,959 Speaker 1: phase doesn't have to be like a lot of gifts 608 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 1: and and a lot of it's because I think it's 609 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:49,760 Speaker 1: a it's a time to set boundaries at the same time. 610 00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:50,960 Speaker 1: So it's like the honeymoon phase is going to be 611 00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,200 Speaker 1: the honeymoon phase no matter what. Like every time you 612 00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 1: see each other, even if it's only once or twice 613 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,160 Speaker 1: a week, you're gonna it's gonna be like hot, heavy, 614 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,280 Speaker 1: greatest time ever, bla blah blah blah. Sup appreciative. But 615 00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,360 Speaker 1: I think it's some people shoot themselves in the foot 616 00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 1: where they're like they say almost date. It's like they 617 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:06,400 Speaker 1: say yes to everything, or they want to go out 618 00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,440 Speaker 1: for dinners quite a lot, spend a lot of money, 619 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. And so then when when they come 620 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:13,400 Speaker 1: to a point where they realize that's not sustainable, is 621 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:15,640 Speaker 1: when it's like, oh, a girl will be like or 622 00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:19,000 Speaker 1: a guy will be like or start of the relationship, 623 00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:22,040 Speaker 1: they seemed so into me. They seemed so willing to 624 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,400 Speaker 1: do these things. There was so much fun. And now 625 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:25,840 Speaker 1: they seem like a different person. And it's like on 626 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 1: it right now they are who they really are. Yeah, 627 00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 1: then they were just trying to impress you. So I 628 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 1: think people shoot themselves in the foot or they go 629 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:32,959 Speaker 1: they do everything, and then they back off, and then 630 00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 1: they back off, which is fair, like you need to 631 00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:36,200 Speaker 1: back off, but at the same time, in the honeymoon phase, 632 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:38,840 Speaker 1: you need to set boundaries as to what's expected or 633 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: what can be expected. I agree too. And it's also 634 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 1: like putting in Oh, how do you say it? 635 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 3: It's like, I don't know, it's just little thing they 636 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,080 Speaker 3: all add up like there's no The honeymoon phage is 637 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 3: all about those gestures at the start, but also like 638 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 3: the simplest actions of like what I I do. Just 639 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 3: when I'm leaving my girlfriends tells, I find a little 640 00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 3: bit of piece of paper and write like I love 641 00:31:58,040 --> 00:31:58,760 Speaker 3: you and heart at somewhere. 642 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,440 Speaker 1: Takes me thirty seconds. She ever not found it? Nah, 643 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:05,760 Speaker 1: put it somewhere like under the fridge. Hopefully she finds this. 644 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,880 Speaker 1: It somewhere. It takes me thirty seconds. Yeah you go. 645 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 1: You know what? He's the next hides spot. You bet 646 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 1: you've done this. But opened a cupboard, fold it, close 647 00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:15,720 Speaker 1: the cupboard. When she opens it falls out. 648 00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 3: She's also oblivious to a lot of I'll do things 649 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 3: in it, and I'll be like, I can't wait, like 650 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:22,600 Speaker 3: an extra couple hours, did you check mind your billow? 651 00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 1: I can't wait till she goes to it. 652 00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:34,479 Speaker 3: But it all comes down attitude and like you as 653 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:37,760 Speaker 3: a person, I think, and as you know everyone. But 654 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,360 Speaker 3: it's also I think it's also okay, like I'm a 655 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 3: person who expects that and also puts that in. I 656 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 3: can understand the other end of this other end of 657 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 3: the spectrum where two people who both don't like putting 658 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:54,520 Speaker 3: effort in are in love with each other and they 659 00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,360 Speaker 3: both don't do anything for each other and that's all 660 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,040 Speaker 3: they expect I can get why that works, but that 661 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 3: a lot of the time you have one person like 662 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:04,480 Speaker 3: me and then a male who is doesn't like to 663 00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 3: put in any effort. 664 00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's all he does, but he puts in 665 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 1: effort in the honeymoon fit. Yes, exactly presses. Another thing 666 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 1: I wanted to say was I don't know if it's 667 00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:17,120 Speaker 1: really it's still about relationships and stuff, but so the 668 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,280 Speaker 1: whole thing of like if they could, if they lost 669 00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 1: the ability to speak, would you still feel loved by 670 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:26,480 Speaker 1: their actions alone? Another thing I want to like ask 671 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:28,760 Speaker 1: some people is I don't know if we've spoken about this, 672 00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 1: but so a lot we'll get it. We'll get dilemmas, 673 00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,320 Speaker 1: or a lot of time it's just a dilemma where 674 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 1: they'll be like, oh, the relationship was so good, but 675 00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,200 Speaker 1: I don't know, like it ended, or like they wanted 676 00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:46,000 Speaker 1: to go on a break or this or that, and 677 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:49,920 Speaker 1: now they're on this break and they're like they've kind 678 00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,480 Speaker 1: of just completely changed. And a lot of the time 679 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:54,880 Speaker 1: they'll be like, oh, but they're such a nice guy 680 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 1: or like such a nice girl. Perfect otherwise, but it's 681 00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:01,280 Speaker 1: perfect otherwise, like otherwise they're perfect, but it's just this 682 00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:03,520 Speaker 1: one thing, And I think I just want to point 683 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,560 Speaker 1: out that just because someone is perfect in every aspect 684 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:08,440 Speaker 1: and then they do this one thing, I don't think 685 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,719 Speaker 1: you should just forgive that one thing just because they're 686 00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:12,720 Speaker 1: perfect in every other aspect, Like they shouldn't be given 687 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 1: leeway just because they are. Like they say, this guy 688 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,879 Speaker 1: might be a good guy, but he's kind of being 689 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,000 Speaker 1: a dick right now, Like they need to be called 690 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:22,560 Speaker 1: out as well. 691 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,359 Speaker 3: We get dilemmas all the time and they're like, he's 692 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,000 Speaker 3: perfect otherwise, but he does this one thing and you 693 00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:31,719 Speaker 3: see it as one thing, but it's all these other 694 00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,360 Speaker 3: little elements added together, and you just say it's like 695 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,600 Speaker 3: one thing given the benefit of the doubt because he's 696 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:38,319 Speaker 3: just like a good guy. 697 00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:39,799 Speaker 1: And I guess that's like. 698 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:44,720 Speaker 3: Being like, what's the word self about boundary for yourself 699 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:48,480 Speaker 3: like sort of thing and like putting yourself first and 700 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 3: not brushing it under the carpet. 701 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I agreed, definitely. I think it was a 702 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 1: good question to self reflect on if you're doing enough, 703 00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:57,759 Speaker 1: if you think that your partner's doing enough. 704 00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,759 Speaker 3: And it's a good, big thing because I remember it 705 00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,440 Speaker 3: in the talking stage, like you would say all these 706 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:04,919 Speaker 3: things and not doing that's actually one of my things 707 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:06,560 Speaker 3: that I like try to live by. I don't want 708 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:08,920 Speaker 3: to say things that I don't my actions don't do, 709 00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,160 Speaker 3: so I try and always live up to my actions. 710 00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:12,879 Speaker 1: Yea yeah, yah yeah, yeh yeahich is a lot people 711 00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:14,880 Speaker 1: like to sell you the moon and then they'll come 712 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:16,640 Speaker 1: to you with a fucking they won't even have your 713 00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:21,880 Speaker 1: card door for you. There you going with it? Pretty good? 714 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:23,400 Speaker 1: Pretty good? Pretty really pretty good. 715 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,960 Speaker 3: I reckon my stats are gone up till like seventy percent, 716 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,560 Speaker 3: But any romantic occasion, I'm there. Yeah, But like if 717 00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:32,319 Speaker 3: we're like together all day and then like we're going 718 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,000 Speaker 3: to calls together sometimes, yeah, it's. 719 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,320 Speaker 1: Fair enough on romantic occasions when it kind of counts 720 00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,560 Speaker 1: more anyway. Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, because I was one 721 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:42,880 Speaker 1: more thing, something we're kind of embarrassing happened the other day. 722 00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 1: We're not embarrassing actually, but it's something I was like, oh, fuck, 723 00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:52,879 Speaker 1: my girlfriend's mum listened to an episode and that could 724 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:54,960 Speaker 1: be your worth aright, mare or your bad And I 725 00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:56,600 Speaker 1: initially when she was on the phone with my mum 726 00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,200 Speaker 1: and she was like, I listened to one of Jake's 727 00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,399 Speaker 1: episodes over the good one. I set a couple of things. 728 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:04,239 Speaker 1: It was the episode where you asked me about is 729 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 1: your girlfriend your girlfriend's You have gave me this scenario 730 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,040 Speaker 1: about you get to kiss your ex, save your girlfriend 731 00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:13,359 Speaker 1: or you girlfriend dies. Yeah, and she goes she said. 732 00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:14,839 Speaker 1: She laughed at it, and she was like, and then 733 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,719 Speaker 1: she goes on. Then I asked my husband whatever. I 734 00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 1: was like, oh, how do you go to the gear owe? 735 00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:20,480 Speaker 1: He goes, oh no, he just said he'd kiss the 736 00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 1: most attractive girl in the world or something like that, 737 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,239 Speaker 1: like one of those questions like oh no. It was 738 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,279 Speaker 1: an episode where I said to you, you get to 739 00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:31,520 Speaker 1: kis your girlfriend now for ten thousand or the most 740 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,640 Speaker 1: attractive in the world for a million, And he chose 741 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 1: the most attractive girl in the world for a million. 742 00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 1: And then she goes. She starts going, oh, yeah, she 743 00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:43,319 Speaker 1: was explaining something. She goes yeah, and then and then 744 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,240 Speaker 1: your colleague had a funny answer, and I was like, colleague, 745 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:50,200 Speaker 1: what are you talking about? Colleague? She said, colleague, it 746 00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:51,920 Speaker 1: was a funny thing fast and I was laughing. I 747 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:54,839 Speaker 1: was like, colleague, yeah, we met that we were brought 748 00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,919 Speaker 1: together people like scouted us would be good at talking 749 00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,000 Speaker 1: that happens, yeah, out of the podcasts, and then they 750 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:02,680 Speaker 1: get brought together and they don't know each other. It 751 00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:04,800 Speaker 1: doesn't work. Yeah, they don't know each other other than that. 752 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:06,960 Speaker 1: And then yeah, they just get told what to say 753 00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,000 Speaker 1: the whole time. How shit that that can't be good. 754 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:09,440 Speaker 1: I'll tell you. 755 00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,120 Speaker 3: We should make like an episode for like the mums 756 00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:13,880 Speaker 3: or something with the biggest green flag energy just biggest. 757 00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:16,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought this one's for the mums. Yeah, that's 758 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:17,719 Speaker 1: good the moms out there. 759 00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 3: All right, everybody, thank you very much for listening. Unfortunately, 760 00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:32,440 Speaker 3: this week's Spotify episodes are over, so if you want 761 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:35,960 Speaker 3: some more content, there's an extra episode every single. 762 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,880 Speaker 1: Week on Patreon. That's where you go together and how 763 00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:41,120 Speaker 1: much is it a week? Five dollars a month? That's 764 00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:43,520 Speaker 1: oh that's a month, sorry, twenty five a week. That's 765 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:45,920 Speaker 1: seventeen cents a day. He got excited. 766 00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 3: And they're an hour long opposed to these thirty to 767 00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,759 Speaker 3: four forty minute episodes. 768 00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,799 Speaker 1: And we can't get canceled over there, so they're even 769 00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:56,360 Speaker 1: more fun. They're more fun. And there is vlogs. There's logs. 770 00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:58,360 Speaker 3: You go up a tier and your dilemmas, there's a 771 00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,480 Speaker 3: four hour long dilemmas every fortnite, and that's if you're Yeah, 772 00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:04,080 Speaker 3: if you want your dilemma's red, go on Patreon because 773 00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,239 Speaker 3: there's an extra Google doc over there where we read 774 00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,440 Speaker 3: them all sort of kind. 775 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:10,879 Speaker 1: Of most of them. Yeah, so yeah, we love ya