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Speaker 1: It's the Bloody You Project. It's us, It's you again

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Speaker 1: for the million time. It's thirtieth of January. As we

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Speaker 1: record this, it's two oh three in the RBO. I

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Speaker 1: don't know why I do that. I do. Do you

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Speaker 1: know why I do that? Tip? It's the U project,

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Speaker 1: like station ID time Check. Yeah, I can tell everybody

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Speaker 1: that's currently it's twenty one degrees in our city by

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Speaker 1: the bay here in Hampton over there in Port Melbourne.

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Speaker 1: Where is that where you live? Do you? Thank God?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: You'll not know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know Ellwood, Elwood? What's a temp in Elwood?

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Speaker 1: Right now?

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Speaker 2: I've got no idea I've got. I haven't worked for

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Speaker 2: se N for a million years like you, so I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't slip into time check mode.

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Speaker 1: You know, that's what we need. Station ID time check,

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Speaker 1: weather check and coming up after the break, coming up

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Speaker 1: up on the other side of this, we've got the

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Speaker 1: news and Tip Cook's coming into studio to talk to

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Speaker 1: us about, you know, all things buddy health and wellness

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Speaker 1: more on Melbourne's homosport next.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've just been doing a version of this, which irritates.

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Speaker 2: I mean, when I record a bunch of my intros

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, it irritates me because I do the

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Speaker 2: same thing. We were around. It's the same. I'm like, oh, spew.

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Speaker 1: Isn't it Isn't it funny? How like with this right

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Speaker 1: where there's no well for me or you, there's no

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Speaker 1: pressure for maybe somebody else doing something like this, there

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Speaker 1: might be pressure or perceive pressure. But when you've got

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Speaker 1: to do, like, give me something where I've got to

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Speaker 1: talk for now, no problem. Give me something where I've

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Speaker 1: got to talk for thirty seconds, I fuck it up

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Speaker 1: thirteen times in a row. Yes, you know where you go.

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Speaker 1: You know, let's say I've got to I've got to

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Speaker 1: Oh fuck? And then you know it's like that, you know,

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Speaker 1: do a podcast the other day on a particular topic.

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Speaker 1: I know the topic. Well, I fucked it up literally

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Speaker 1: about I don't know seven times, and then I crack

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Speaker 1: all the toys out of the fucking cot and I went,

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Speaker 1: that shit. Fuck it, And then I sulled.

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Speaker 2: You know what, funny though, I love I actually selfishly

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Speaker 2: love hearing this because the times when we've done like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I know. It's it's funny how we

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Speaker 1: get in our own way. It's that it's that I

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Speaker 1: You know, it's like I feel or I think not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, when you objectively, when I can look at what

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Speaker 1: But in the middle of that objective reality, your subjective experiences,

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Speaker 1: You know I'm not good good enough to I actually said,

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm going to do something new and brave and

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Speaker 2: And then all of a sudden, when you start to

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Speaker 1: But I think there's also strategy. There's also great questions.

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Speaker 1: There's like, oh, well, I'm in a shit spot, all right,

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Speaker 1: Then what's one thing you can do today tif to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just go.

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Speaker 1: Look, I don't know, I don't know. And it's like,

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Speaker 2: with Mike is the research and the deep dive into

428
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Speaker 2: what are my thoughts? Where does this come from? What

429
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Speaker 2: is the research like stuff that I like? Where have

430
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Speaker 2: I drawn this from? And because I want to leave.

431
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Speaker 2: I want yeah, I want to leave people with all

432
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Speaker 2: of the directions I've looked in so they can go

433
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Speaker 2: and look there too, like real clarity around I think

434
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Speaker 2: just even the idea of it's made me go back

435
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Speaker 2: and read books I've read before on specific topics and

436
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 2: bring to mind, get real clarity on why I've landed

437
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Speaker 2: where I've landed with all of this stuff, and what

438
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 2: is the research and other people who talk about it,

439
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 2: what are the things that I've agreed with and disagreed with,

440
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 2: and how can I talk about that to a room

441
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:28,199
Speaker 2: because that's all relevant, Like all of it, all of

442
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Speaker 2: the stuff that's my stuff is just a decision that's

443
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:34,719
Speaker 2: built on stuff that I have agreed with and disagreed

444
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,679
Speaker 2: with and maybe changed my mind about over time. So

445
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Speaker 2: I've loved the process of going back to that and

446
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:45,639
Speaker 2: playing there, but it's just left me in a bit

447
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 2: of a whirlwind of oh, I'm not used to thinking

448
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 2: in this one's being used to thinking in a different way.

449
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Speaker 2: And I know I use my brain a lot in

450
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 2: what I do, but like it physically hurt. I was

451
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Speaker 2: physically at home going my brain hurt feels like I've

452
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:02,520
Speaker 2: done a workout with my head.

453
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Speaker 1: That's funny, Yeah, funny. Can I tell you a little secret. Yeah,

454
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 1: your brain can't hurt because there's no pain receptors in it.

455
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 1: But anyway, you're welcome. That's ten dollars. I'll send you

456
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Speaker 1: the bill.

457
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Speaker 2: You're doing a PhD. You wouldn't have been able to

458
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Speaker 2: kill me that.

459
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 1: But what what I was going to say to you

460
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 1: is what I think is something of a relief for

461
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:35,880
Speaker 1: all speakers, is you're not the answer, like Tiff Cook,

462
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 1: not the answer. Tiff Cook. I can call you a

463
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 1: chick because you call yourself a chick, So please don't

464
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Speaker 1: send me an email everyone Tiff calls herself that you're

465
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Speaker 1: a chick. On the stage in front of a bunch

466
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 1: of other people sharing thoughts and ideas and stories. Some

467
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:52,959
Speaker 1: of them are going to land, some of them are

468
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Speaker 1: going to connect. Some people are going to be fucking inspired.

469
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 1: Some people are going to be looking at their Facebook

470
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Speaker 1: while you're talking. Some people are going to walk away

471
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: and go, she's a gum. That was the best thing

472
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 1: I've ever fucking heard. And a few people will go, ah, right,

473
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: that's what we do. You go in there and you

474
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 1: go I'm going to tell you some stuff that I think,

475
00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 1: some experiences, I've had, some insights I've gained, maybe a

476
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Speaker 1: story or two, and then I'm going to explain why

477
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Speaker 1: I'm telling you all that, and then you're going to

478
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: maybe do something with it or not right. And so

479
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: it's not like I never you know, I would never

480
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: tell someone how to think, but I would talk about thinking.

481
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Speaker 1: I would talk about metacognition and you know, metaperception, all

482
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: of that. I would never tell someone what they should eat,

483
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 1: but I would talk about nutrition. You know, I would

484
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Speaker 1: never tell someone what would be the best job, but

485
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Speaker 1: I could talk about the psychology of work and fulfillment

486
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Speaker 1: and connection and purpose and what tends to work for

487
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Speaker 1: some people in terms of you know, thriving not surviving

488
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Speaker 1: in work for forty years, and you know, so you

489
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Speaker 1: can talk about things without directing people, because there's some

490
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 1: stuff that we know, Like I think we can safely

491
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Speaker 1: say that if you have a job where you feel

492
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Speaker 1: like it's meaningful and you have purpose and you have

493
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Speaker 1: connection with other people and you feel like you're doing

494
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Speaker 1: good and growing and evolving, and well, there's a fair

495
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Speaker 1: chance you're going to like that job. But if you

496
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Speaker 1: get paid a million bucks a year, and I know

497
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Speaker 1: some people that think it wouldn't matter what it was.

498
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Speaker 1: I would fucking love it. You wouldn't love it like

499
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Speaker 1: I mean, if you had a job where you've got

500
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Speaker 1: a million bucks a year, twenty grand a week, but

501
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Speaker 1: you fucking hated every moment of it, guess what your

502
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 1: life is not. That's not success, that's not joy, that's

503
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Speaker 1: just income. And so you know, I think there are

504
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Speaker 1: these things that are broadly relevant, if not one hundred

505
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Speaker 1: percent applicable all of the time. But as I said

506
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Speaker 1: to these kids, yes there's seventeen. Yesterday was day one

507
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Speaker 1: of year twelve. I'm like, what a fucking exciting time

508
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 1: it is for you, you know? And I said, here's the thing.

509
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Speaker 1: You know, No, there's no optimal career. There's no optimal plan,

510
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 1: but there's there's the best plan for you, though, but

511
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 1: your best plan will be the worst plan for the

512
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Speaker 1: person next to you, and the career that blows your

513
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Speaker 1: socks off. I'm like, how many of you want to

514
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 1: be an influencer? Right? And of course no, not all

515
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Speaker 1: the hands. I thought it would be everybody, but a

516
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 1: few hands went up, you know, and you go cool.

517
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Speaker 1: So for some of you, maybe that's what you should

518
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Speaker 1: or could do for Maybe you'll be an architect for

519
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 1: some of you, maybe you'll be a world famous chef,

520
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: or maybe you'll be none of that. Maybe you'll buy

521
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Speaker 1: a truck and you'll have a truck driving business and

522
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 1: you'll transport stuff around it. Who knows, it doesn't matter,

523
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 1: but it's trying to find this, you know, Like what's

524
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Speaker 1: going to work for tif cook won't work for the

525
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Speaker 1: next person. And you know, it's like I say that

526
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Speaker 1: people don't don't do what I'd do because most people

527
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Speaker 1: would hate it because I don't actually have a job

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Speaker 1: or predictability, or I don't have a set wage. I

529
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Speaker 1: don't have you know, I don't have holiday pay, I

530
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Speaker 1: don't have sick pay. I don't have much security in

531
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 1: that sense, or predictability or certainty. Most people would hate

532
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 1: what I do because it's extremely financially vulnerable, you know.

533
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 1: But I thrive in that. But most people don't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And there's so much there's sacrifice in every aspect

535
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Speaker 2: of what we do in life, Like because I'm thinking

536
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 2: about it, you know, I think about that a lot.

537
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 2: I could not fathom the idea of nine to five

538
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 2: again with someone else owning my time, me having no autonomy,

539
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Speaker 2: but also would love someone to pay me super and

540
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Speaker 2: holiday pay. I'd love to be able to leave the

541
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Speaker 2: job at work at five pm and turn my head

542
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Speaker 2: off like there's and you go, well, you get a

543
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 2: choice of what you are willing to pay for that,

544
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 2: and you get to pay it like because seven days

545
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 2: a week, any time of the day, I can go

546
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 2: and walk my dog at my will any day I could,

547
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 2: I couldn't theoretically just do whatever the fuck I want.

548
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 2: And that's the price I pay. Is well, that you

549
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 2: can do that, You've also got to fucking make enough

550
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Speaker 2: money to pay yourself in super so you can eat

551
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Speaker 2: when you're sixty.

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00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, But I don't even think it's a price.

553
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 1: I think it's the joy you get. I'm like, for me,

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00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: there's like it's not even none of me feels like

555
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 1: I'm missing out on I I feel like that. I'm like,

556
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 1: I feel like I've been cheating for forty years. I

557
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 1: feel like the fucking kid who got away with the cake, right,

558
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, just I'm the fat kid in the corner

559
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: with a fucking chocolate cake and I'm just getting away

560
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 1: with it, you know, like my mum, I reckon my

561
00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 1: mum for about the first twenty years, is like, what

562
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 1: the fuck do you actually do? You don't have a job?

563
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 1: You know. She didn't like even when I owned like

564
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 1: a proper business, gyms and stuff, to me, that was

565
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 1: a fucking scam. Like if I didn't own a gym,

566
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 1: m'd be in a gym two hours a day anyway.

567
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 1: And now I could just be in the place I

568
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 1: want to be in and people give me money, and

569
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: nothing that I do feels like a job. I'm around

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Speaker 1: people who are happy, people who are getting in shape,

571
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Speaker 1: people who are having good conversations, people who get excited

572
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:36,120
Speaker 1: to come to see you, people get excited to come

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00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 1: to the place that you work at, and it's just

574
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 1: this fucking massive, kind of amazing energy. And you're like, yeah,

575
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:46,480
Speaker 1: this is not a job. This is a scam. And

576
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 1: I'm in the middle of this scam. I'm making dough

577
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: fucking don't tell anyone. I hope it doesn't catch on.

578
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah it did.

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00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 1: Personal training court on Ah, well oh well, oh well

580
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: that's that. I think. It's just you know, I was

581
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: talking to these kids yesterday. Did you see the picture

582
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 1: I put up of that young kid. No, oh, go

583
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: to my instagram right now. I know this is not

584
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 1: very good. Go to my instagram and have a look

585
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 1: at the photo of that kid. And I now, if

586
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 1: you want to see this kid everyone, his name's Declan.

587
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:28,760
Speaker 1: Just turned seventeen, day one of year twelve yesterday. Now,

588
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not tiny. I'm five ten and I'm

589
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 1: eighty six kilos.

590
00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 2: Dre just above his like your your head comes up

591
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 2: to his mouth with your head comes up to his lips.

592
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I look like I'm fucking four foot seven, yeah,

593
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 1: and fifty two kilos and I'm five ten and eighty

594
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: five or six kilos. And I don't think he would

595
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 1: mind me telling you because dudes don't care. And he

596
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 1: said to me, and he's in good shape. Right, So

597
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:14,359
Speaker 1: he's six five and one hundred and thirty kilos and

598
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 1: he's in good shape, like he's an athletic six five

599
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Speaker 1: one thirty.

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00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 2: When when I hear stats like that, the first thing

601
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 2: I think is wow, I managine how much food he

602
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 2: gets to eat.

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00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 1: Anyway, back to what I you know, Like, the thing is,

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Speaker 1: I was trying to emphasize to those kids, like you

605
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 1: can pretty much do whatever you want, like, I know

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Speaker 1: there are limitations, and but but don't do what mum

607
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 1: or dad necessary. Like if what mum and dad want

608
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 1: you to do is also what you want to do,

609
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 1: well cool, but don't become a fucking doctor because mum

610
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 1: and dad want you to become a doctor. Become a

611
00:34:56,800 --> 00:35:00,399
Speaker 1: doctor because that's what you want. Become a truck driver

612
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 1: or a train driver, or a personal trainer, or a

613
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 1: fucking artist or a street performer, whatever you want. Like oh, yeah,

614
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 1: but you've got to pay the bills. Yeah, you know what,

615
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: You've also got to live and have some joy in

616
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: And the thing is that it's like, well, let's find

617
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: let's get an income, but let's have joy as well,

618
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: and maybe we could do both. Maybe we can make

619
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 1: a fortune and also do the thing that we love.

620
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 1: And just trying to get across to them that you

621
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Speaker 1: don't realize how much potential you have at this time

622
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: in your life. And also you don't need to figure

623
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 1: out the next forty years by Friday week. You know,

624
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 1: it's like this doesn't I talked to thirty year olds

625
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: who don't know what they want to do, and I'm like,

626
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,280
Speaker 1: guess what you've got another fucking fifty years, so chill,

627
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 1: like there is no hurry, like even when I finished

628
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 1: my current study, and like I reckon, I don't know.

629
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Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm going to do, but I

630
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 1: tell you what I'm not doing thinking about winding down

631
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:03,400
Speaker 1: or retire. I'm excited. I'm excited.

632
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:03,719
Speaker 2: I go.

633
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:07,760
Speaker 1: Is there a chance I'll do some more study? YEP?

634
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:11,839
Speaker 1: I probably won't, But could I go and do like

635
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 1: I would go and do a degree in something that

636
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: I know nothing about just because I want to learn that.

637
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 1: And it's never been not easier, but it's never been

638
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 1: more convenient to study now because you can do so

639
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:28,720
Speaker 1: much online. A friend of mine's doing a master's in nutrition,

640
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:32,799
Speaker 1: primarily nearly all of it online. I mean, it's full on,

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Speaker 1: it's a lot of work, but like and just to

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Speaker 1: just to like talk to these kids and go, hey,

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Speaker 1: the world is your oyster, Like there is so much

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Speaker 1: stuff that you can do. But also then too like

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Speaker 1: presenting with them the idea of intentional living, which is

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Speaker 1: having said that, yes, there are so many options and

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Speaker 1: so many roads you can choose, but also you're not

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Speaker 1: going to accident wind up in an awesome place like

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Speaker 1: you need to choose it. You need to do the

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Speaker 1: work you need to. You need to keep getting up,

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Speaker 1: You need to be resilient, you need to, you know,

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Speaker 1: find your reason. You need to outlast the motivation. You

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Speaker 1: need to. So also, it's not all fucking you know

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Speaker 1: roses and you know puppies. It's like there's there's still work,

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Speaker 1: and there's still discipline, and there's still effort and energy

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Speaker 1: and you know, there's all of that. But at the

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Speaker 1: same time, if like most of my listeners do, if

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Speaker 1: you live in Australia right now, it's a pretty fucking

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Speaker 1: good time despite all the doom and gloom that we're

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Speaker 1: exposed to, you know, twenty twenty five, Like, there have

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Speaker 1: been so many periods evolutionary, evolutionarily where humanity has been

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Speaker 1: in a way worse place than we're at now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. Can I share something brilliant on a

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Speaker 2: completely unrelated topic.

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Speaker 1: You can.

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Speaker 2: It's a new discovery. It replaces doom scrolling www dot

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Speaker 2: explore dot org. Harps log onto it right now. This

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Speaker 2: is a website that has live cameras around the world

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Speaker 2: just watching animals. I watched polar bears eating bamboo for

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Speaker 2: ten minutes yesterday instead of doom scrolling and my soul

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Speaker 2: was on fire. You can tune into a puppy whelping room.

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Speaker 2: You can watch the Seals, you can watch Eagles.

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Speaker 1: It's explore dot org.

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Speaker 2: Explore dot org.

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Speaker 1: All right, it's coming up.

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Speaker 2: Oh the pandas are so cute.

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Speaker 1: Let me put on my specs. Oh wow wow, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, this is.

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Speaker 2: Real time and like no humans, just animals doing their thing.

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Speaker 1: Gray Seals currently live. Oh my god. All right, well

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Speaker 1: that fucked me up. Now I want to seal.

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Speaker 2: A look at the polar bears.

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Speaker 1: You really did not need to?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Probably? Yeah. Can you get another six months extension

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Speaker 2: on your board?

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Speaker 1: Board Eagles six streams? Yeah? See, I don't need this

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Speaker 1: in my ah.

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Speaker 3: Okay, oh there's a month feeding little eagles. Rather turn

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Speaker 3: that off because that's noisy. Yeah all right, well that's

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Speaker 3: that's just fucked up my afternoon.

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Speaker 1: There goes my productivity out the window. It's been real

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Speaker 1: cook Thanks listeners. By the way, Feb three, next Monday,

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Speaker 1: we're almost there. It's Thursday. As we're recording. This Monday night,

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Speaker 1: our new mentoring program gets underway. Get the fuck on board.

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Speaker 1: Thanks TIV, Thanks helps