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Speaker 1: Hi, guys, welcome back to hear me out. I'm your

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Speaker 1: host is the Armitage today we're here with it.

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Speaker 2: Believe Hello, Princess, I've.

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Speaker 3: Gone too much without you. I've been feeling really sad

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Speaker 3: about it.

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Speaker 2: I know, I'm like, what have I done the past?

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Speaker 3: Where even is he might need to who I am.

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Speaker 1: It's been a big couple of weeks that I just

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Speaker 1: have finished the F one, the big f one weekend.

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Speaker 3: I honestly, oh, my mom is leaving my feet. It's

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Speaker 3: a fucking bad and they tell me not to where

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Speaker 3: he will be. Let's be on the point. I was

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Speaker 3: so sad because.

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Speaker 1: It's like a whole other year till it gets to

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Speaker 3: But I'm really hoping this year I get to.

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Speaker 1: Go to some more around the world, which I feel

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Speaker 1: like could be a possibility because I'm going to be

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Speaker 1: in America at the time of the Miami and stuff.

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Speaker 1: Been saying that though my mom's not over the moon

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Speaker 1: about me going to America in the current climate, and

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Speaker 1: I will agree, you know what I mean. I think

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Speaker 1: America is just not a place that tends to feel

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Speaker 1: super safe on a good day.

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Speaker 2: I was going to say, on a good day, and.

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Speaker 1: With everything going on and me being someone that doesn't

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Speaker 1: fully comprehend it everything going on, it's like shit, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, and it's walking that fine line. And I know

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Speaker 2: it's such a privilege not to be fully tuned into

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Speaker 2: some things and some issues, but it actually is sometimes

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Speaker 2: like how much of this can I be across?

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Speaker 1: I think I need I need to do some some research,

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Speaker 1: and like things are unfolding and changing every single day,

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Speaker 1: so I think, you know, while I say yes right now,

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Speaker 1: I definitely still am going, you never know if in

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Speaker 1: a week that might be a completely different story. So

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Speaker 1: I just need to, I think, keep my wits about me.

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Speaker 1: And I would just be like, oh, I really want

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Speaker 2: Remember how I told you I've been wanting to go

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Speaker 2: to Europe for five years?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well you can't even I don't know what's

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Speaker 3: going on? What's going on in Europe?

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Speaker 1: Well I think, oh, even leg said to me, she

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Speaker 1: sent me something about like people urging people not to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my whole family's at me. I'm like, Okay, I

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Speaker 2: get it. It's a very scary time. I so understand,

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Speaker 2: like I'm actually across it. I just haven't been verbalizing

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Speaker 2: that much with my boyfriend. I don't want to stress

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Speaker 2: myself out by thinking I'm not.

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Speaker 1: Yelling Like I was like, oh, fuck, we do you

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Speaker 1: have to cancel Europe? And I'm like, let's just see

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Speaker 1: how this plays out. It's like a privilege for us,

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Speaker 1: and there's people who are in these situations and living

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Speaker 1: these do you know what I mean that us potentially

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Speaker 1: losing our travel plans when people are like losing their homes.

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Speaker 2: Like I have a really close girlfriend and have family

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Speaker 2: so over that at the moment living there, so like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there are people so it's like, oh boo, who

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Speaker 1: I don't get to go to America. I will fucking survive.

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Speaker 1: But there are people who are like living in a

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Speaker 1: really tumultuous time right now. So I think I just

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it.

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Speaker 1: Is very scary, and I'm sending anyone love that's in

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Speaker 1: we'll obviously hear me out. I kind of made to

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Speaker 1: make a little fun, positive, little pocket of your day.

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Speaker 1: So we're going to try and keep today as light

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Speaker 1: as we can, and we'll get into some more debates

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Speaker 1: further back in the episode.

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Speaker 3: But I guess we might as well start with some hearmeouts?

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Speaker 1: Are we here?

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Speaker 3: Do you have one for us? Blake?

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Speaker 2: So we've got a listener on but me or is

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Speaker 2: he don't have one?

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Speaker 3: You don't have one? But I always get jogged same.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm hoping. I don't want to set myself up

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Speaker 2: for failure, but here's hoping one comes. So we'll start

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Speaker 2: with the listener on hear me out. Pretending you don't

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah, like yeah, as in knowing that you

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Speaker 1: like you may as well like chances that they've seen

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Speaker 1: you as well, so you might say hello. My thought process, though, is,

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Speaker 1: don't stop moving if I am we're walking past each other,

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Speaker 3: Going to like hug, keep moving, Hi, how are you going?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Good? Great? Okay, bye? Keep walking past each other.

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Speaker 1: If one person stops and then you're like, ah, I

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Speaker 2: Do you have to do or if or if they

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Speaker 2: don't really say hi, and I'm just like I didn't

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Speaker 1: Guys keep going say hello and keep going and then

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Speaker 1: it's like how are you and then they're like you're like.

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Speaker 3: Fifty meters like yeah, good, okay good. But that's that's

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Speaker 3: works for me. No, I much, it absolutely works for me.

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Speaker 2: So I do agree that, like it probably is easier

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Speaker 2: some mechanics scare me away from that. I'm like, I'm

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Speaker 3: All the time.

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Speaker 1: I hate it, like unless it's obvious, unless I'm going

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Speaker 1: as well. I'm just not and people would think I'm

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Speaker 1: a huge extrovert. So I had a retail job like

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Speaker 1: right before I started getting into this and yeah, everyone's like,

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Speaker 1: not with strangers, Like I worked there for seven weeks

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Speaker 3: Because now I haven't been fired.

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Speaker 1: So for me, it was like the customers walk in

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: They'll say you're good, and I'm like, that's good. Can

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: And then when they need to bring something to the change,

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Speaker 1: I'm comfortable with what they required of me. And what

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Speaker 1: I randomly physically could not do is ask people things like, oh, what.

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Speaker 3: Are you shopping for? What do you need it for? Oh?

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Speaker 1: You're going to a wedding? Oh my god, where's the wedding? Like, oh, wow,

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Speaker 1: Like that is something that is not ingrained in my

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Speaker 1: to be rude because I'll always say hello, I'll always

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Speaker 3: Be like, ooh, you can't talk to boys for fucking shit,

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Speaker 3: Like watching your float is so embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: So I think stuff like that has like made me

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Speaker 2: I feel like I've come out of that, but I

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Speaker 1: Had that like drilled into me by a friend, And

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Speaker 3: Like, I don't know what to say.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's honestly, unless I'm on my own on

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm embarrassing myself. And it's literally because

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Speaker 1: Basically, be mindful of your words when you think of

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Speaker 1: time it will actually affect you. Anyways, back to the

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, guys, like I'm trying. I'm bear in mind.

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Speaker 1: I have three shifts a week, and two of them

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, let me stop you. That one month

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Speaker 1: l and I'm going to leave right now. And I go, okay, fine,

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Speaker 1: happy days.

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Speaker 2: I'll just take the resignation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll take the resignation. And now here I am

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Speaker 3: The exact same.

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Speaker 1: I would be a babbling idiot and I wouldn't be

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Speaker 1: and I fucking love it, like it makes my day. Guys,

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Speaker 1: So please don't take this as a reason not to

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Speaker 1: talk to me, because I.

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Speaker 3: Need to learn. I don't know what task anyone.

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Speaker 2: OHI guys, how are you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Good?

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Speaker 3: How's your day?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, so know that I feel awkward because I'm awkward.

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Speaker 1: It's not you, guys, but.

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Speaker 2: Literally, just to use your mind, Like whenever you meet God,

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Speaker 2: I don't want to pump your ties too much. No, okay,

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Speaker 2: I will, but you always reject it when I do.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, I'll take the company.

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Speaker 2: Okay. So when you meet a famous person, you yes,

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Speaker 2: you remember that interaction for a hot minute. But when

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Speaker 2: you tell everyone and you're like, oh my god, I

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Speaker 2: what did she say? Or they're not going to recount

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Speaker 2: what you said. They're like, oh, but she's really nice.

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Speaker 2: So I think people are just happy to just be nice,

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Speaker 2: high back and just be a polite yeah, nice human.

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Speaker 3: She said, she come on the voga.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's get her. I love her, thanks for telling me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Sorry my mom. She literally just called me like

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Speaker 3: Sorry. I just read a dext message of Jakie's and

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Speaker 1: And they're just like staring and they're like really confused.

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean, Oh yeah, especially at an

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. And she ate it after, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I was like, I kind of

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Speaker 3: But she's like, I'm.

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Speaker 3: She probably has a better immuneist than I do.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, it was really funny.

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Speaker 1: But I think we'll definitely get Yaner on, so you

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Speaker 3: But she doesn't live.

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Speaker 2: Here, annoying, we can we can line something up she's

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Speaker 3: She's probably on my favorite people I met this weekend.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't.

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Speaker 3: I have so many nice things to say about it.

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Speaker 2: We'll have to go on a Gold Coast trip.

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Speaker 3: We'll have to go to Gold guys. Oh, we'll have

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Speaker 2: So I've thought of it. Hear me out, O, hear

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Speaker 2: me out. Every time you screenshot something on Instagram, it

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Speaker 3: It doesn't, but you know that it doesn't notify them.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but every time I feel sick.

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Speaker 1: Oh, and you know what I realized, which I feel,

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Speaker 1: I guess it's PTSD from stamp Chat and shit. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: No, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: And Instagram if you turn on disappearing messages, you know,

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Speaker 2: See, it's just because it's not clear enough that I'm like,

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Speaker 1: Someone will be like, oh, send me this person's story

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, we are going to get into part

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Speaker 3: That we did with Riley two weeks ago.

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Speaker 1: Now, Yeah, from the stip, it's like, I'm fucking guys,

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Speaker 1: I didn't even drink it.

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Speaker 3: The funny you guys proud of me.

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Speaker 2: I'm proud.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm just I tell people I can't drink two

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Speaker 3: I'm like some alcohol and like I am not. I

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Speaker 2: I can actually dispel this for you because I've known

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Speaker 2: we bonded because we both like rose.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 2: I'm a wine coen thrilling through. I even drink it

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Speaker 2: literal for joy. I've been trying to tea up wines

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Speaker 3: And unless it's a weekend, I won't do it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you like you don't really do dinners with a drink.

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Speaker 2: You've come to my house for dinner once and I won't.

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Speaker 1: I don't drink unless I'm going out and it's only

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Speaker 1: I just like, to me, that's not enjoyable. I don't

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Speaker 1: and the film was honestly fucking incredible.

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Speaker 3: Shut up.

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Speaker 1: Thank you to Rimmle and Cadillac. I've had so much

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Speaker 3: I love the f one. I really do. Thanks guys.

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Speaker 1: Okay, number one, how is he loving the pod? I've

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Speaker 1: got a debate for you. Should you split the bill

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Speaker 1: very I have an opinion on this. If we're drinking,

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Speaker 1: again and again and again. You know, they'll buy me

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Speaker 1: I'll literally just go buy it for them just to

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Speaker 1: I think it's sweet. I don't expect it on a

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Speaker 2: Like right, yeah, I'm in a few minds. I feel

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Speaker 3: It's chivalrous.

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Speaker 2: It's sweet, yeah, definitely, and I yeah, I love it

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Speaker 2: Hot. Love that.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 1: I think actually in saying round varroun, I will offer

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Speaker 1: to be going, oh, I bought this one. It's your turnitzy,

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Speaker 1: I just think it's a nice gesture if you are

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Speaker 1: I think it would be a deal breaker if I

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I don't think I've ever had to actually split

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Speaker 1: also don't agree that it's whoever organizes the date, because

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Speaker 1: I'm someone that like will ask someone out on a

442
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Speaker 1: date happily, and I still would like to guy to

443
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Speaker 1: pay for it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and organizing how much organizing.

445
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Speaker 3: I'll ask you out.

446
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Speaker 1: I'll say you, do you want to get a drink?

447
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Speaker 1: You say yeah, now you figure out when and where?

448
00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:47,320
Speaker 2: I like that. Yeah, yeah, I'm not good at choosing.

449
00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:49,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I have no shame in asking someone. Everyone's like, oh,

450
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Speaker 1: he hasn't answer you though, why are you asking him?

451
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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, maybe he doesn't think i'd want to go. Yeah,

452
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Speaker 1: so I'm going to ask myself.

453
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Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of like my final thoughts on

454
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Speaker 2: each like part of these questions. I don't think it's

455
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Speaker 2: a red flag.

456
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Speaker 3: It's not a red flag.

457
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Speaker 2: I think it's I sound so so like I don't

458
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Speaker 2: believe what I'm saying, but I'm like, it's also a

459
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Speaker 2: green flag if they do pay, so it's like, it's.

460
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Speaker 3: Not a red flag.

461
00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:16,080
Speaker 1: If they don't, will it keep me interested? Potentially not? Well,

462
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Speaker 1: I find it a little bit of an ick.

463
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

464
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Speaker 1: Maybe if they ask me to split the bill, it's

465
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Speaker 1: not a red flag.

466
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Speaker 3: Don't love it though.

467
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but then I think if they're being all marchoh,

468
00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:30,159
Speaker 1: or I'll get you, then I say i'll get you

469
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Speaker 1: the next drink, or I just go buy one for them,

470
00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:32,560
Speaker 1: and they're.

471
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Speaker 3: Like, what, look, you paid, Like, relax, it was ten dollars.

472
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Speaker 2: I also just to spin this on its head. I

473
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Speaker 2: also have a real struggle with like man when you're

474
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Speaker 2: like no, no, no, I'm I will pay or I'm

475
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Speaker 2: happy to pay, no not, and they get really defensive

476
00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:47,000
Speaker 2: over it's like.

477
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Speaker 3: You're making me emasculated. Well, that sounds like a U problem, Bud,

478
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Speaker 3: calm down, come down, fine by me. Dinner. I think

479
00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:54,919
Speaker 3: dinner and drinks is very different.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and yeah, if I have to split the bill

481
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Speaker 1: in front of the waitress, I'm gonna be it's not

482
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Speaker 1: going to be ideal.

483
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Speaker 3: It's also a little bit embarrassing, like you're going, yeah,

484
00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:07,920
Speaker 3: just sixty for me, sixty for her, that's the first

485
00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:10,879
Speaker 3: and last eight bud. Yeah, I wouldn't love it. I

486
00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:13,080
Speaker 3: don't love it. The more I think about it, the

487
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Speaker 3: more I realize I'm not the biggest fan, Hi is he? Okay?

488
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Speaker 3: Here's a debate my ex and I could never settle.

489
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Speaker 1: Is disrespecting women basically the same thing as sexism? For example,

490
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Speaker 1: treating women like objects, expecting them to do the cooking

491
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Speaker 1: and cleaning, judging their weight or what they wear, or

492
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Speaker 1: just having completely different expectations.

493
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Speaker 3: For a woman in a relationship than men.

494
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Speaker 1: My take is that if you're consistently treating women as

495
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Speaker 1: less than that's pretty much the definition of sexism, right.

496
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Speaker 1: My ex, however, argued that it's just disrespectful and it's

497
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Speaker 1: not sexist, which is ironic because he seems to apply

498
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Speaker 1: these downards to basically every woman in his life. The

499
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Speaker 1: debate is, when does the disrespect towards women actually cross

500
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Speaker 1: the line into sexism or is it the same thing?

501
00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:54,640
Speaker 1: This is like obviously a big, big debate, and I'm

502
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Speaker 1: not like the most politically like, I'm going to try

503
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Speaker 1: and what this the way that, like I can I

504
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Speaker 1: think even some of the things you just said I

505
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Speaker 1: would classify as two different like levels, you know what

506
00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:07,360
Speaker 1: I mean, Like judging a woman on their weight.

507
00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:10,080
Speaker 3: That's disrespectful. That's not sexism, do you know what I mean?

508
00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:13,280
Speaker 1: Whereas expecting a woman to do the cooking and cleaning,

509
00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:16,600
Speaker 1: that's sexism. So I find it varies on depending what

510
00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:19,280
Speaker 1: it is. I think if you're expecting women to sit

511
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Speaker 1: like at a lower level than you and you kind

512
00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:23,199
Speaker 1: of want to be the man of the house and

513
00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:25,439
Speaker 1: be the you want someone submissive and you want to

514
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Speaker 1: be able to tell them what to do and stuff,

515
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Speaker 1: that's sexism. But like, then there are guys that I

516
00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:32,480
Speaker 1: think are just nasty towards girls, but then it's because they.

517
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Speaker 3: Think they're less than them.

518
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Speaker 1: It's like I had a lot of guys growing up

519
00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:37,760
Speaker 1: that we're just fucking rude to women in general. And

520
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Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't really have the answer for that

521
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Speaker 1: because I don't really know like the solid definitions for

522
00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:43,720
Speaker 1: like maybe each of them.

523
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Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?

524
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Speaker 2: Okay, I just don't like it.

525
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Speaker 3: I think it's rude and I think it shows a

526
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Speaker 3: lesser man.

527
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Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's just like, oh, I won't go.

528
00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:51,159
Speaker 3: Tyson on maths.

529
00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:53,679
Speaker 2: Oh my god, that is a sexist prick. Can we

530
00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:54,920
Speaker 2: talk about that later just a.

531
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Speaker 3: Whole Yeah, but I honestly haven't seen okay anything in

532
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Speaker 3: the last two weeks.

533
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Speaker 2: Me too, and then we'll talk about it.

534
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Speaker 3: But he just walked off last night, didn't he.

535
00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:04,840
Speaker 2: Oh yeah he did, actually someone told me that.

536
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Speaker 1: But like, he wants a submissive woman, he wants to

537
00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:08,080
Speaker 1: be the man in the house.

538
00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:08,720
Speaker 3: He wants a woman.

539
00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:10,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, he wants her to be ambitious, but he doesn't

540
00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:11,760
Speaker 1: want to have a job because he wants her to

541
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Speaker 1: be home cooking and cleaning.

542
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Speaker 3: He's sexist, Yeah, very sexist.

543
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Speaker 2: I mean, it was funny when you were reading this

544
00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,040
Speaker 2: submission out. I was like, God, I love myself on

545
00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:23,160
Speaker 2: Debate episodes, Like I was just so, oh no, that's

546
00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:25,399
Speaker 2: absolutely fucked and you need to piss off. So my

547
00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:29,160
Speaker 2: take is one, you shouldn't be asking your ex boyfriend

548
00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:34,159
Speaker 2: what the definition of sexism is and what fits into that. Yeah,

549
00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:35,600
Speaker 2: you know, queen, like do not?

550
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Speaker 3: I personally think they're both bad?

551
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Speaker 1: Like why does they Why do they need to be

552
00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:42,360
Speaker 1: different categories? It's like they're both something you wouldn't want

553
00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:44,400
Speaker 1: to be around any guy that's doing either of those things.

554
00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:47,640
Speaker 1: So just fucking off. Regardless. I actually sorry, really clear

555
00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:52,679
Speaker 1: my video the other day it was about is misogyny

556
00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:56,640
Speaker 1: deemed like worse or something than what's the male version

557
00:20:56,800 --> 00:21:03,360
Speaker 1: and mass andry and someone was like, mm, misogynally misogyny

558
00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:07,720
Speaker 1: kills women. Yeah, mass andry like annoys men or something,

559
00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:10,760
Speaker 1: and it was like they're not on the same level.

560
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Speaker 1: Like a misogynistic man like will kill a.

561
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Speaker 3: Woman, yeah, you know what I mean?

562
00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 1: And a chick that doesn't like fucking men just defend

563
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:19,560
Speaker 1: like we're just offending you do you know what I mean?

564
00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:20,600
Speaker 3: I kill you?

565
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,000
Speaker 2: And like, let's look at this in real life practice.

566
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Speaker 2: You had to ask me what the word was. Not

567
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Speaker 2: many people even know the word miskee.

568
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Speaker 3: I only heard massandrei for the first time in that video.

569
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Speaker 2: Yeah I didn't because I'm like.

570
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Speaker 1: Fucking who, get over it, Like we're not going out.

571
00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 1: There's like females are actually scared to like leave their

572
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Speaker 1: house at night and walk around, and you think that

573
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Speaker 1: what you could potentially be experiencing is like that or

574
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Speaker 1: even anyway shape or form on the same level. Like

575
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Speaker 1: my brother last night it was like dark and he goes,

576
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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna walk to walls quickly, and I'm like,

577
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Speaker 1: how long are you going to be when are you

578
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:53,399
Speaker 1: going to be back? Like be sure you want to

579
00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 1: walk like and he's like, why would I not? Yeah,

580
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,840
Speaker 1: Whereas like I would never fucking walk toward words.

581
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Speaker 2: In the middle of the night, even I think even

582
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:04,240
Speaker 2: women nowadays, and you know, it just keeps escalating. And

583
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 2: my mom works in domestic violence, so I just weirdly

584
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 2: know a lot about things going on in that.

585
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 4: Well.

586
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:11,520
Speaker 3: But even do you just get better and better? Oh

587
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:12,639
Speaker 3: my god, don't you be straight?

588
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 2: And people keep asking, But my mum even now, I

589
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,639
Speaker 2: think it's daylight. Examples, like she came to visit me

590
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,160
Speaker 2: in Melbourne. I wanted how to come and see my office,

591
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:24,919
Speaker 2: so I ordered her an Uber from Richmond to my

592
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,119
Speaker 2: office and she was like, oh my god, I had

593
00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:29,320
Speaker 2: to message you that whole time. I was so anxious

594
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:30,760
Speaker 2: in being in a car with the stranger.

595
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

596
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Speaker 1: I hate getting an ubers when I'm dressed lastly or

597
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:35,199
Speaker 1: I'm wearing a short skirt. Yeah, but I don't like

598
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Speaker 1: getting in and out of ubers because I'm worried they'll

599
00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 1: like fucking see up my skirt.

600
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I mean.

601
00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 1: It's not the same thing because men like act on

602
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 1: those things, you know what I mean, Like when they

603
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Speaker 1: think lesser of women, they think we're like objects and

604
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:50,639
Speaker 1: like less than and that they can like do whatever

605
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:51,119
Speaker 1: they please.

606
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Speaker 3: I just don't. I don't know.

607
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 1: But women hating men, it's like boo fucking hoogar, we

608
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:58,680
Speaker 1: hate you. Not all men, It's like, yeah, well most

609
00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 1: of them plays me off anyway.

610
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 2: But we're seeing women die every single day.

611
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 3: And because a man doesn't.

612
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 2: But like even like in your Instagram comments when men

613
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:09,960
Speaker 2: kick off, like I do find the comments always like

614
00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,720
Speaker 2: girls won't take a look at me for ten seconds

615
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 2: because of things you say. I'm like, oh my god,

616
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:16,959
Speaker 2: life must be so hard having a woman assert her

617
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 2: boundaries and you have abby chatfield pop.

618
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 3: Up on your go fucking abby at this right? But

619
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 3: someone as to say it.

620
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 2: Yeh scroll passa though, if it's safect.

621
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 1: I actually saw one of my comments the other day

622
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 1: during obviously F one week, I'm getting a lot of

623
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 1: comments of like do you even watch the F one? Firstly,

624
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,920
Speaker 1: yes I do, But secondly someone goes, would you be

625
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 1: asking her this if she was a man? Yeah, no,

626
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 1: you wouldn't be asking me if I enjoyed like you did.

627
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 1: You ask any of the boys that got invited through

628
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:44,159
Speaker 1: social media to the F one if they actually like.

629
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Speaker 3: The F one?

630
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:47,399
Speaker 2: All the men in media, the presenters, the one's on

631
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 2: TV radio, any of.

632
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,199
Speaker 3: Those, Oh, do you actually enjoy the F one?

633
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 1: Someone goes, how do you feel about the new regulation changes?

634
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 1: Are you asking a man that they probably don't fucking know? No,

635
00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 1: I probably know more about F one than a lot

636
00:23:58,080 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 1: of the boys that were invited to.

637
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Speaker 3: But do you think any of you are ever going

638
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 3: to ask them that? Maybe?

639
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,359
Speaker 1: Just little things like that. It's like, Oh, this is

640
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 1: the debate I was talking about. I found it was

641
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 1: this one.

642
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 4: I don't think I can find mill ground on this

643
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 4: because misogyny literally kills women. And I mean that that

644
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 4: statement in itself a very present you misunderstood me speak

645
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 4: the hatred of women kills women? Would you disagree with

646
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,520
Speaker 4: that hatred of I mean, yeah, hatred could lead to

647
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 4: kill The definition of misogyny is the hatred of women.

648
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,119
Speaker 4: So the misogyny, yah, kills women.

649
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:34,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just the same thing.

650
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 2: The hatred of men, teaching them who they are as.

651
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,439
Speaker 3: Being toxic could lead to them ending their own.

652
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 4: Minds because some because some men might have a misunderstanding

653
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 4: of what massandry is, and they might kill themselves. And

654
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 4: that's the same thing as men killing women because being.

655
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like men might kill themselves because women dislike

656
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 1: them is the same thing as like men killing women.

657
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 3: Like, no, it's not.

658
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 2: Anytime a clip like that pops up as a person

659
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Speaker 2: the cross from the person, I'm like, I can't even

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Speaker 2: keep watching for you because I can't take it.

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Speaker 3: I think liberals versus Republicans.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I wouldn't be surprised.

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Speaker 1: I mean not liberals Republicans West Democrats.

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Speaker 3: Is that, Yeah, it's the American one anyway. I don't

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Speaker 3: think it the definition.

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Speaker 1: There's aularly marchas I think, if a boy wants to

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Speaker 1: treat a woman like any of those things that you

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Speaker 1: just listened, give him.

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Speaker 3: The flicks, put him in the bin. You're done. Hazey

670
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Speaker 3: love the podcast.

671
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Speaker 1: I genuinely get insided whenever I decided what is happening

672
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Speaker 1: to me?

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Speaker 2: Excited every time I listened.

674
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Speaker 3: I guess I was excited whenever a new episode comes out.

675
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Speaker 1: I want to write in about something that's been a

676
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Speaker 1: bit of an ongoing debate in my family growing up.

677
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Speaker 1: My mum was very into homeopathic in natural medicine. She

678
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Speaker 1: really avoided conventional medicine. Once again, I just I'm like

679
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Speaker 1: not speaking brobly to him. We were really discouraged from

680
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Speaker 1: things like patanol and eurofin And when I got into

681
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 1: year seven, I realized I'd never had any vaccines and

682
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Speaker 1: I thought that wasn't good.

683
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Speaker 3: As I got older, I.

684
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Speaker 1: Could make my own decisions, which my mum would always encourage,

685
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Speaker 1: and I started going to a GP when I was

686
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 1: sick because I personally felt more comfortable with that approach,

687
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Speaker 1: although she would always encourage the natural way first, and

688
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,440
Speaker 1: just to say, I'm not dissing anyone who loves natural medicine,

689
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 1: it just isn't for me. And it also thinks that

690
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Speaker 1: think it depends on the extent of the sickness. My sister,

691
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Speaker 1: on the other hand, really believes in my mum's approach.

692
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 1: She got glandular fever a few years ago and eventually

693
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,879
Speaker 1: turned into chronic fatigue. She's had cysts, autoimmune, and the

694
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 1: list goes on. Instead of actually seeing doctors or specialists,

695
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 1: my mum took her to naturopaths and kinesiologist to try

696
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 1: and treat it. It's been about six years and she

697
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 1: still goes through these cycles where she feels like she

698
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Speaker 1: can't do anything because there's something new wrong. She'll go

699
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 1: the naturopath, they'll find five new issues and it reinforces

700
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Speaker 1: that mindset. Then she'll get a new supplement, magnet therapy

701
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 1: or some treatment, which feels much better for a while,

702
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 1: but a few months later something new pops up again.

703
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Speaker 1: What makes it confusing for me is I also had

704
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Speaker 1: glandular fever at one point. I went to my GP,

705
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,879
Speaker 1: followed medical advice, and recovered normally. I know everyone's body

706
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 1: is different, but sometimes I wonder if seeing a doctor

707
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Speaker 1: or specialist earlier might have helped her, and maybe things

708
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Speaker 1: wouldn't still be going on six years later. I guess

709
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:04,400
Speaker 1: it's like, what's the right path to go? Or like, look,

710
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: my mom's very into natural medicine. I remember every week

711
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Speaker 1: I used to have to go to the acupuncturist with her,

712
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,399
Speaker 1: and I remember sitting in that fucking waiting room for

713
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: months basically altogether. Like if you put in the time

714
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Speaker 1: I stand in that fucking actual acupunctual waiting room, it

715
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 1: would have been like a month. I'm set very much

716
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Speaker 1: like I believe my body heels naturally on my own.

717
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Speaker 1: Like I have a friend that like will go to

718
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Speaker 1: the doctor every time they have a cold, and like,

719
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Speaker 1: I don't like that.

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Speaker 3: But I also like pound the.

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Speaker 1: Planet olive i'm sick, or the neurofin like I'm no,

722
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Speaker 1: I'm not like shy with those at all. I do

723
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Speaker 1: think going to a doctor is great. I also pair

724
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Speaker 1: it with things like the nature path though, like I

725
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,520
Speaker 1: go to the doctor every time I'm sick because I

726
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 1: do feel like Western medicine is there for a reason.

727
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 1: I think it is really helpful. However, they couldn't figure

728
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 1: out what was wrong with my skin. I went to

729
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 1: a naturopath, and now my hives have cleared up because

730
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Speaker 1: of some of the supplements I've been given. I believe

731
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Speaker 1: that that's the only correlation as to why my eyghs

732
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Speaker 1: have gone away. So I think in conjunction and I

733
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Speaker 1: think if it's something that's potentially I think you should

734
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: absolutely see a Western doctor, is my thought. I get

735
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Speaker 1: And vaccinations are good, yeah them.

736
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Speaker 2: Let's encourage protect.

737
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Speaker 3: Other people around you and get vaccinations.

738
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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't have too much experience on

739
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,680
Speaker 2: the natural medicine side. I did get into acupuncture and

740
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 2: a few other things at one point, and I still

741
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Speaker 2: love it. I do agree with you, it's in conjunction.

742
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 2: I just find it funny when people on either side

743
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 2: are very like whole and this is the only.

744
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Speaker 1: One or the other. I think you can do them

745
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,400
Speaker 1: in conjunction and they're good for different things.

746
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Speaker 2: Yeah. It's like once I think I had a virus

747
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 2: and I spoke to someone and I was like, oh, yeah,

748
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to get a doctor's appointment. They're like,

749
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Speaker 2: why the fuck would you get a doctor's appointment. Western

750
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 2: medicine does nothing. I'm like, it does.

751
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Speaker 3: It literally does.

752
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 2: But I'm like, even if you had your own stimulus

753
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 2: that perhaps said that that was true, you shouldn't be

754
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,320
Speaker 2: enforcing that on every single person in your life. Let

755
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 2: them figure that out for themselves and let them make

756
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Speaker 2: informed choices.

757
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Speaker 3: Like are we gonna be like Bell Gibson from I.

758
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Speaker 2: Don't Love That? That's what I thought of the whole

759
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Speaker 2: time you were reading.

760
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Speaker 1: Yes, I'm like, I think you need to go to

761
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Speaker 1: a doctor figure out what's wrong. You know, down the line,

762
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 1: you feel like that's maybe not working for you, fine,

763
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 1: give something else to go. But I'm like, I don't

764
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: think you should be enforcing that on anyone. And I

765
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 1: think everything in moderation. Yeah, and I think you need

766
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 1: to do both. And like your sister should, probably got

767
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Speaker 1: to all western nocked at mine now between six years

768
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 1: and these things aren't being fixed.

769
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Speaker 3: Same.

770
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Speaker 2: And one last thing I will say is I do

771
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 2: find people who solely go the natural route, like they

772
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 2: do come with all these Oh yeah, I had this

773
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 2: and it led to this and now I have this.

774
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, whoa Like, I've never known myself to have

775
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 2: that many problems.

776
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Speaker 1: At the same time, it's like you, I think you

777
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 1: absolutely need to do both or it just ends up

778
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 1: like a fucking but yeah, I can't say that I

779
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: don't believe in homeopathic and stuff because I do really

780
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Speaker 1: believe that seeing my nature path has really helped with

781
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: my skin. So you knows is my opinion. Okay, showers

782
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 1: are a must when you first work up up and

783
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Speaker 1: one when you go to bed.

784
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Speaker 3: I am a big shower. Have I always been like that?

785
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Speaker 1: No, I think that's come from when now that I'm

786
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Speaker 1: a bit of a gemophobe.

787
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 3: Well, I'm not a bit of a gemaphobe.

788
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 1: I'm a lot of one, and I lean into it,

789
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: and I give into it, and it makes it worse.

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Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?

791
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Speaker 1: Because then if I start showering every morning and every night,

792
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Speaker 1: and once in the middle of the day after I

793
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Speaker 1: do something that I feel like it makes me sweaty.

794
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: Now I'm like, well, if I do that yesterday, I

795
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: have to do that today. I'm cleaning today as I

796
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Speaker 1: was yesterday.

797
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

798
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, but I think if you're gonna do one,

799
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Speaker 1: it's a night shower.

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Speaker 2: Interesting, I mean, different perspectives. I just do it to

801
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 2: wake myself up in the.

802
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, makes you clean. Morning showers wake you up. Yeah,

803
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 3: that's what I think. Because I'm not dirty, I've slept

804
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 3: in my bed. I will do both.

805
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, if you are debating on which one's

806
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: the better one to do for cleanliness factor, imagine going

807
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 1: into your bed after the whole day has touched you ill.

808
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, disgusting.

809
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 2: Or the transpot to work.

810
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Speaker 1: I don't even lean against bus seats when I'm like,

811
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Speaker 1: I like, well, hold myself up.

812
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 3: But I'm like, oh my god. You know how a couple.

813
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: Weeks ago, I was talking about how there was a

814
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: naked guy sitting on a bus bench I was driving

815
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Speaker 1: pass is he back, No, But I was passing that

816
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: same bus stop and I was at the light, so

817
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: I was right next to it, and there were a

818
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 1: bunch of girls sitting on the bus seat, and I

819
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 1: just wanted to wind that window down.

820
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:21,240
Speaker 3: And be like girls, I hate to tell you there

821
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 3: was a naked man on that seat a couple of

822
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 3: days ago.

823
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 2: Bullsack on.

824
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I didn't. But I'm like stuff like that.

825
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 3: They would have no idea. So I really hope they

826
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 3: showered before they went to bed.

827
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 2: I pray.

828
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 3: Yeah.

829
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 1: I don't think it is necessary to shower morning at night.

830
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: I think some people like to do it because it

831
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 1: wakes them up and it makes them feel clean.

832
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 2: Before bed and not achievable for everyone.

833
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 1: And when I was really depressed back in the day,

834
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 1: I did not like when I was in like year ten, eleven, twelve,

835
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 1: I would shower once a day if that, because I'm like, fuck,

836
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 1: I don't care how clean I am.

837
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 2: And then your rot days, Yeah, I am.

838
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 3: Rock all day.

839
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 1: Like I would wake up hungover and I just wouldn't

840
00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 1: shower all day. Now I couldn't even dream of that.

841
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 1: But I don't think you should feel guilty if you

842
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 1: are in a phase of life where showering twice a day,

843
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 1: even showering one today is something that you don't feel

844
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 1: like is doable for you, Do whatever makes you feel good.

845
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 3: Girl.

846
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 1: Okay, my sister and I were having a fight many

847
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: years ago, and I smacked her forearm, and her involuntary

848
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 1: reaction made her release her phone out of her hand

849
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 1: and it landed in a bowl of water in the kitchen.

850
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 3: Think I ran off because I was scared.

851
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 1: She was so angry because her phone broke and ended

852
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 1: up kicking up a hole, kicking a hole in my

853
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 1: door because I locked myself in my room. To this day,

854
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 1: we can't agree who's at fault for the phone breaking. However,

855
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: I believe it's canceled out due to her kicking a

856
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: hole in my door.

857
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:33,479
Speaker 2: That helps.

858
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry girl.

859
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 1: That phone would not be in that bowl of water

860
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 1: if you didn't hit your sister. If my sister hit

861
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 1: me and I threw my phone into a bowl of

862
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: water because she hit me, it's her fault because my

863
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 1: phone would be friendly in my hand if she didn't

864
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: hit me.

865
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 2: I think you are right. The only like caveatte I'll

866
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 2: throw in hair is like, did she actually check if

867
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 2: her phone was broken or not before just.

868
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 3: Rowing at Well, I think by now they would have known. No,

869
00:32:58,680 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 3: she didn't.

870
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 1: Like they hit her and it made her release her

871
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 1: phone into the.

872
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 3: Bowl of water. Yeah, do you know what I mean?

873
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 1: Like it was like a reaction to being hit, like

874
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 1: made her throw that phone. Yeah, it's your fault, sadly,

875
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 1: but I hope that's years ago now and it shouldn't

876
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 1: be an issue.

877
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 2: But hopefully it's a lot.

878
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 1: I forget how durable phones are these days. I dropped

879
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 1: my phone in a toilet last year and the toilet

880
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 1: was clean, like I hadn't used it yet, and I

881
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 1: freaked out immediately, And imagine how hard this was for me.

882
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 1: Stuck my phone in the hand in the toilet bowl,

883
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 1: pulled my phone out, and just ran it under the

884
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 1: sink and cleaned it with water.

885
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 3: And everyone was like, why are you fucking washing your phone?

886
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 1: And I'm like, because it's waterproof, and bear in mind

887
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: there was I was really hoping that that was the case.

888
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 1: Like I was like washing my phone, being like please

889
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 1: still work, Like, please tell me that I'm not. Like

890
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:51,719
Speaker 1: I'd rather have a clean phone that doesn't work than

891
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: a toilet, water phone that doesn't work. So I was washing,

892
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: literally imagine washing, seeing someone like wash their phone under

893
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: a sink and it was fine.

894
00:33:57,480 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 2: And you're like, please work, just be clean.

895
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 3: I got to keep it for another like six months.

896
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: Say ye, So if you're if you're fine, falls in

897
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 1: a toilet, just wash it and don't put your phone

898
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 1: in your back pocket of your jeans or it will

899
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 1: form the toilet. My sisters won't Fini the airport toilet

900
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 1: before we were about to go on holiday and it broke. Okay,

901
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,239
Speaker 1: what the fuck is the right thing to say after

902
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 1: having sex, like slay no, definitely, definitely not slay or

903
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 1: nothing at all, and carry on about your day like

904
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 1: you like, we don't know what to do once you've

905
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 1: just been railed and then bam, would you like water

906
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 1: or tea or silence? And doom scroll we cannot deal.

907
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:39,319
Speaker 1: I don't think you almost acknowledge it.

908
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, do you know what I mean?

909
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,879
Speaker 1: I think you just chat like normal, like you both

910
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 1: are aware that it's just happened. Good job or that

911
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 1: was great, that was great. I don't think is that bad? No,

912
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say it, but I think I don't think

913
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:57,279
Speaker 1: I would feel terror like icked out if someone did

914
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: say it.

915
00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,840
Speaker 2: I think I think it's like saying that and conversationally

916
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 2: like in the moment, I think that's fine.

917
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 1: Yeah slay no, oh yeah, like wow, I can't even

918
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:08,839
Speaker 1: think about it.

919
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 3: I would say the best way is to like kind

920
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 3: of just go about things, is normal.

921
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think overly speak about.

922
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 3: It, like yeah, that's fine. Yeah, guys, it's been a while.

923
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 3: I don't want to know.

924
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 2: I don't want to expose myself. And I'm even like

925
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 2: trying to.

926
00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:24,919
Speaker 1: Think sex might have changed by the time I last

927
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 1: had it, So I don't actually know.

928
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 2: I think it's okay to say, you know, was that good?

929
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 3: Was that good? Didn't ask you for you?

930
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 2: For you no?

931
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 3: Or like that was like I feel sick. I don't

932
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 3: wonder about it anymore. I don't know what the right

933
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 3: thing is. Whatever feels right for you.

934
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:44,319
Speaker 2: Just run.

935
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 1: Just don't say don't say like killed it or like slay, like,

936
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: don't don't say any TikTok.

937
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 2: Phrase and that that phrase could die, so like any

938
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 2: any phrase like it? Oh my, yeah.

939
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 1: Just try and try and be back on to normal

940
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 1: top existent as you can, because yeah, you're both away

941
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 1: that it just happened and it doesn't really need to

942
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 1: be acknowledged.

943
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, we're.

944
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,479
Speaker 1: Gonna end on that note because I feel like sick

945
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:09,920
Speaker 1: and I need to No, I mean I need to vomit.

946
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 1: I don't need to vomit. I don't mean. I just

947
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,720
Speaker 1: meant when I said sick, I need to go to the bathroom.

948
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: I don't mean I need to like shit.

949
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 2: Anyway, Just to clarify, Just to clarify, imagine if that's

950
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 2: how you left them, You're like, bye, guys, I'm taking

951
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 2: a ship, taking shit, and that's how they think of you,

952
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 2: the whole ship.

953
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you know it made me sick. Pause

954
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:30,880
Speaker 1: side note back to I said that they were friends

955
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 1: that I had back in the day that were really

956
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: just gross towards women, and I just like hated the

957
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 1: way that they treated us. One of them would always

958
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: be like hot girls don't shit, and like cot girls

959
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 1: don't fart whatever, but like this boy, Like fully, I

960
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: remember someone one of the girls fart it once, like accidentally,

961
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: and they were so fucking rude to her, like they didn't.

962
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:52,720
Speaker 1: It wasn't like a haha, oh my god, it's so funny.

963
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: I don't particularly find part it's funny, but I don't.

964
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 3: I'm not like you're.

965
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 2: Discussing get don't make them feel too bad it.

966
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 1: Boys like made her feel so bad about it for

967
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: so long. And then that same guy also, no, not

968
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 1: that same guy, one of the other guys. They were

969
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:12,280
Speaker 1: all very fucking horrible towards females refused to talk about periods,

970
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:13,839
Speaker 1: like if they were brought up in front of him,

971
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 1: He's like, disgusting stuff, disgusting. I don't want to talk

972
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:18,719
Speaker 1: about it. I don't even want to think about it.

973
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, you are foul. And now he has a girlfriend.

974
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 3: I really hope that.

975
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 1: He's impoved, because I really hope he's not making it

976
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 1: feel shit much faith.

977
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 2: That sounds like a lost cause yeah they are. Yeah. No, Now,

978
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 2: I like, it's actually funny. I've never had I'm not

979
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,240
Speaker 2: saying you've recruited this person in your life.

980
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 3: But I've actually they're gone their way.

981
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:40,800
Speaker 2: I had a presence like that, So I actually quite

982
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:43,359
Speaker 2: struggle to answer that question before because I was like, wait,

983
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 2: it's just like.

984
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 1: I had some really shitty presences in my life when

985
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 1: I was growing up, like the people I was around,

986
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 1: and I think when you're younger, sometimes you just fall

987
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 1: into a friendship group and you're not really particularly choosing

988
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 1: your friends the way you would in this day and age.

989
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 1: Not in this day and age, just with growing older,

990
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: get your friends a little bit more so you're around

991
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 1: them just for the sake of being say you're part

992
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 1: of that group, or being around the girls that you

993
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 1: do like or the guys that you do like.

994
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:10,440
Speaker 3: It's like there's people that just come with that you know,

995
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,479
Speaker 3: and that was that was them.

996
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,439
Speaker 2: But and it feels at that age if you cut

997
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 2: one of them off or have friction.

998
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 3: With you, you're going to be cut out. Yeah you

999
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:18,920
Speaker 3: don't want to hang out with that boy, Okay, you're

1000
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 3: not invited.

1001
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 2: Into the whole group. So it's like, yeah, there's a lot.

1002
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:24,239
Speaker 1: That you will tolerate back then that you wouldn't now

1003
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 1: as you get older. But I hope that none of

1004
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 1: us are tolerating that stuff too much these days, because

1005
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:31,319
Speaker 1: a sure as I wouldn't anymore. And those boys have

1006
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: gotten the come uppins. And I have written them to

1007
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 1: show many occasions since we were younger to treat me, and.

1008
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 3: I'll do it again for a check. Anyway. I love you, guys,

1009
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 3: and I'll seik you next week. Bucke