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Speaker 1: This is the fitsy and with her with Kate Richie, podcast's.

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Speaker 2: Going to explain to us how love could possibly be

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Speaker 2: tied into a dorito. I mean, I get it, you

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Speaker 2: can love a dorito, but how can a dorito translate

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Speaker 2: human form of love?

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Speaker 3: What's your favorite kind of dorito? Oh, there's there.

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Speaker 4: You go for the hotter one.

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Speaker 3: It gives you a bit of a kick, cheesy, tasty cheese.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't want it too heavy, but I certainly

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Speaker 2: want the flavoring on my lips. You know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: Do you know what my sister had? I'll get to

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Speaker 5: the I'll get to the theory in a minute. What

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Speaker 5: was No, it wasn't Rebecca. It was my other sister.

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Speaker 5: She had chips that tasted like prawn cocktail.

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Speaker 2: Impossible, absolutely impossible.

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Speaker 3: They were like Smith's or something. They weren't.

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Speaker 2: No, they would have been like a sticky chip from

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Speaker 2: the Chinese shop.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no.

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Speaker 5: No no, they were actually like a brand that you know. Anyway,

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Speaker 5: let's get to the derrio theory. Not pron cracker, No,

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Speaker 5: not pron crackers. That's what I thought. Okay, I want

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Speaker 5: to talk about the dorrito theory, and I will let

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Speaker 5: this woman explain it. You know, love can be an

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Speaker 5: absolute mind filled out there, so it's great to get

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Speaker 5: a few little tips to help you along the way.

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Speaker 3: But basically, what it's saying is that's okay. I let

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Speaker 3: her explain the dorito theory.

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Speaker 6: The idea is that only experiences that aren't truly satisfying

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Speaker 6: are maximally addictive. So imagine eating doritos. When you eat

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Speaker 6: a dorrito and finish your bait, you're not fully satisfied.

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Speaker 6: It's not the same as eating a steak. Eating potato

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Speaker 6: chips is addictive because the peak of the experience is

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Speaker 6: kind of when you're teasting it and not after. There's

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Speaker 6: kind of nothing that exists. Actually, once the experience is done,

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Speaker 6: it's kind of the moment of having is the satisfying part.

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Speaker 3: How about that in life?

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Speaker 2: I don't think it is absolutely anything to do with

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Speaker 2: excitement or experience.

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Speaker 5: No, I don't think it is saying that because I

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Speaker 5: think what they're saying is that wanting more. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 5: but you never fully you never fully satisfied except in

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Speaker 5: that very moment. So after the fact, you don't continue

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Speaker 5: to be satisfied and think, gee, that's actually a really healthy,

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Speaker 5: great relationship that I continue to have wonderful feelings about

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Speaker 5: after the fact. It's like that sitting on the couch

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Speaker 5: and you're with them and it's mildly entertaining. Well, I'm

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Speaker 5: going to keep chasing it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree with it.

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Speaker 4: It's a relationship.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 4: So it's a relationship that is so once you're having it,

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Speaker 4: you're having such a great time, but then afterwards you're

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Speaker 4: not thinking about it at all? Are you?

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Speaker 3: With the derita? You are, Kate?

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Speaker 4: Like, I can't have one dorito and then sit on

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Speaker 4: the couch.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, but it's because it's right there. It's because

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Speaker 5: the dorrito's there. Yeah, But like the dorrito wasn't there,

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Speaker 5: you wouldn't be thinking about the dorito.

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Speaker 2: I see what you mean. But with love and dorito's

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Speaker 2: for me, if I will eat so many, I feel sick.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's a problem in a relationship. That's my issue.

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Speaker 4: Sucer involved here at all, Kate, I'm not a selfser girl.

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Speaker 2: That's interesting.

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Speaker 3: No, what about nachos?

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Speaker 6: Not?

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Speaker 3: Oh my okay, wrong with you? Where do I begin? Claire?

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Speaker 2: What do you think about the dorrido idea? I think

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Speaker 2: it to be rubbish. Well, Claire is one of those

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Speaker 2: things where you feel like, in that moment, if you're

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Speaker 2: there with a love interest, that you can just have

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Speaker 2: it there and not need all of it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you need a variety of chips stepting around.

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Speaker 5: I don't think you're listening, confused, Thanks for getting involved,

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Speaker 5: So Claire.

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Speaker 3: That's all right?

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Speaker 4: I well, I agree that you need to try every

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Speaker 4: different flavor of chips.

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Speaker 3: Relationship bored with me?

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Speaker 5: With the dorito here, you haven't supported it at all,

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Speaker 5: and I don't think you fully understand.

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Speaker 3: Don't get it? Can you give it?

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Speaker 2: Just I don't really get it?

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Speaker 6: All right?

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Speaker 4: Your last relationship, Kate, when you do this to a chip?

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Speaker 3: Is it a cheesel?

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Speaker 4: So your last relationship, Kate, what did it end up like?

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Speaker 3: Was it like a Do you mean like a burger ring?

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Speaker 1: I love burglaring?

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Speaker 3: You put one on every finger, you can only eat

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Speaker 3: five and then they're all gone, Like to lock in

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Speaker 3: for a tip version.

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Speaker 2: Of your last relation.

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Speaker 5: I'm not going to liken any relationship to a chip.

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Speaker 5: But I'm I'm a classic and I keep going back.

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Speaker 3: To the same boring standard potato chip. Yeah, but good

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Speaker 3: the orige, the og.

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