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Speaker 1: Apoday production.

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Speaker 2: We begin today by acknowledging the traditional custodians of the

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Speaker 2: land on which we gather today and pay our respects

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Speaker 2: to their elders past and present. We extend that respect

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Speaker 2: to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people's here today. Welcome

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Speaker 2: to the Grow and Glow Podcast. I'm Ashy, I'm Kiara.

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Speaker 2: This is a podcast where we learn, laugh, and level

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Speaker 2: up together.

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Speaker 1: Let's go deep, let.

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Speaker 2: The emotions flow, and find the lessons to grow and Glow.

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Speaker 3: Nothing is off the table with Grow and Glow and

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Speaker 3: we're here to be your expander.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, We've got a fun funny episode coming up

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Speaker 1: for you guys. Yeah, sit back and relax. But Share

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Speaker 1: of the week, what's yours?

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Speaker 2: I'm going to talk about this foundation but I've never

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Speaker 2: ever tried before. It has been around for a very

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Speaker 2: long time coming just take me the song to try

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Speaker 2: it so loreal, true match. It literally goes on like

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Speaker 2: water like, so easy to blend, move around. The coverage

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Speaker 2: is nice and I just love it. It feels great

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Speaker 2: on my skin. So yeah, that is my share of

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Speaker 2: the week. New foundation, which is crazy.

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Speaker 1: And when Kia was telling me about this, I've got

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Speaker 1: the dupe of it, So the MC beauty tinted serum

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Speaker 1: is apparently the dupe of that, and I love it.

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Speaker 3: It's so good. I just got mine from like wool Worse.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really nice in the skin and it's got

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Speaker 1: highly watery acid in it.

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Speaker 3: It just feels really nice. Hey, it does.

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Speaker 2: It's like the consistency everything else that I use watery

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Speaker 2: or something. It's a bit more watery for sure, but

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Speaker 2: it's really easy to work with. And I just layer

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Speaker 2: a good thick like layer of moisturizer underneath first and then.

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Speaker 3: Just like, oh, so nice.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like it doesn't even feel like I'm

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Speaker 2: wearing makeup.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I love it all.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to share something that I've been doing with Tala,

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Speaker 1: and it's nightly affirmations. I'm going to play it just

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Speaker 1: freaking cute. She obviously can't talk free well because she's two,

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Speaker 1: but this is what we do each other, and I

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Speaker 1: just I've had people offer to send the affirmation cards,

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Speaker 1: but I like saying them just as they come up

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Speaker 1: for me more, I don't know, genuine and special to her.

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Speaker 4: I am strong, I am loving, am I am curious,

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Speaker 4: I give it. I am fantastic, I mean, I am caring.

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Speaker 4: I am kind, gay, I am determined, I am incredible.

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Speaker 4: I am gable, I am smart, I am alive.

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Speaker 5: I am healthy, I mean healthy. I am a good dancer.

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Speaker 5: I am full of love. No nice send the morning.

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Speaker 2: Her little voice is the cutest thing I have ever heard.

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Speaker 2: I am determined, So.

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Speaker 1: She can't say it. She's trying to say in the tone.

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Speaker 1: And if you watch me on Instagram stories and I

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Speaker 1: put it on my heart, I am incredible, lift my

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Speaker 1: hands up. In the end, she does the exact same.

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Speaker 1: I just think those first seven years. And apparently I've

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Speaker 1: seen more videos lately because we follow somebody parenting pages.

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Speaker 1: But age three to seven is really important. But age

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Speaker 1: one to seven it's like where they get all of

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Speaker 1: their belief systems from. So if you're constantly telling them

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Speaker 1: how amazing they are, how smart they are, how capable

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Speaker 1: believing that their confidence will be through the roof. Whereas

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Speaker 1: my mom down. So important the language and words that

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Speaker 1: we put into our kids' brains, they are little sponges.

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Speaker 1: They really are. Well finishing the night night that with

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Speaker 1: ever tried to tell her otherwise, she'd be like, I've.

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Speaker 2: Been telling myself every day that on the opposite, so

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Speaker 3: Sure I'm dumb. I'm smart as.

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Speaker 1: I'm fantastic. Like can you imagine that was? I want

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Speaker 2: Miller loves doing them. Yeah, we were doing the car

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Speaker 1: Because it would bed with the goodbyes on.

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Speaker 2: Their mind as well.

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Speaker 1: When they're going to meditation I really like that, So

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Speaker 1: we're actually good an episode. It's like would you rather,

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Speaker 1: but more serious ones. But before we get into it,

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Speaker 1: Kiara and I were having a conversation about star signs

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Speaker 1: and I got up a little thing to see how

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Speaker 1: compatible we are. Kiara, do just know about this?

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited, I know.

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Speaker 1: So I've just sent Kiara the article as well. We're

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Speaker 2: So it says Virgo and Sagittarius friends can be incredibly

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Speaker 2: helpful to each other. Virgo, due to their perfectionist nature,

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Speaker 2: trust their work is another matter. Both these signs also

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Speaker 2: personalities brings dynamism, which increases the Virgo and Sagittarius friendship capability.

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Speaker 2: Virgo Sagittarius friendships can be weak at times when Virgo

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Speaker 2: tries to direct Sagittarius actions too much. Sagittarius can be

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so similar to this part I'm reading. While Virgo

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Speaker 1: For one thing, virger Is particular, Sagittarius is a lot

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Speaker 1: Virgo may find themselves frustrated with sagas disorderly antics. You

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Speaker 1: that's why the friendship works. And I've said it from

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Speaker 3: I was blown away.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, here I am being

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Speaker 3: I would have just rocked up to the studio and just.

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Speaker 1: Like you know, winged it. But I love how organized

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Speaker 2: It's a good balance, such a good balance. It is

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Speaker 2: a good balance because then you as well, you're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: that's just like right now, let's just chuck this in there,

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Speaker 2: and it makes it more interesting and fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like you're organized and create a lot of certainty

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Speaker 1: and we know we can get shit done. And then

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Speaker 1: sometimes I feel like I bring the adventure of the

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Speaker 1: risk taking and the playfulness.

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Speaker 2: Definitely, it mixes so well. It does mix so well,

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Speaker 2: especially with work. I feel like I'm quite analytical.

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Speaker 1: I do remember you saying you struggle if Kurt and

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Speaker 1: I are more assertive yes, and like dominant yes. Whereas

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Speaker 1: I think from what I've read of Sagittarians who we are,

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Speaker 1: we can be quite leaders and try and take control

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Speaker 3: So that's been something for me to like.

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Speaker 1: It's good feedback to go, oh, just be cautious, to

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Speaker 2: It's so funny though, because I only find it in

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Speaker 2: so long. You do everything your own way, and then

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Speaker 2: I need to consider how we do this and how

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Speaker 2: I don't know about that, and they're like, oh shit.

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Speaker 2: But because you're so used to being like doing stuff

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Speaker 1: Well, definitely, and I get it. If I don't take control,

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Speaker 2: We honestly, honestly probably have both got a little bit ship.

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Speaker 2: But then I feel like I've got that wounding too,

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Speaker 2: So when we're both in that masculine energy and one

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Speaker 2: because you need one being more the masculine, more the feminine,

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Speaker 1: You to think like, oh, she just you've never done

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Speaker 2: I think we balance it perfectly right now. I feel

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Speaker 2: like the last few months, the way we've been doing

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Speaker 1: And it was also I think we're getting better at communicating,

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Speaker 1: I really need you to lead a lot of these conversations.

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Speaker 1: And even though it still felt really even, I just

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Speaker 1: And this time you were like, oh, I feel like

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Speaker 1: I haven't had much time to prep, and I was like, cool.

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Speaker 2: Go in me. I'm like I need a prep. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I was like sitting back and relax, like I've got this,

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Speaker 1: like everything out, I'm feeling and confident. It's really flowy

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Speaker 1: episodes like We've got this all, you know. So I

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Speaker 1: think we've just gotten so much better at communicating. Whether

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Speaker 1: we're ever bad, no, But when you have a friendship

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Speaker 1: and you're entering a business and work dynamic. Things can

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Speaker 1: change and you have to learn to be communicating. Wear

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Speaker 1: both hats quite well. It is.

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Speaker 2: It's the switch on switch off, isn't it?

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Speaker 1: It really is so good, so good.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, that was a well apparently our communication compatibility is

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Speaker 2: sixty percent sixty They would be hoped to be higher

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Speaker 2: than nothing. Fine, I think we're high.

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Speaker 1: We're not.

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Speaker 2: Actually, I think we I think there's not much. It

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Speaker 1: Unsaid no, and it's always very respectful, yeah, and very

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Speaker 2: It's always us taking accountability. Yes, like all this has

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Speaker 1: Would you rather be in a job that you hate

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Speaker 3: Point far out. That's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Also, how nice would have been win a million dollars?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Would you rather be okay at most things? Or

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Speaker 3: What about you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm the same, You're the same. Would you rather

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Speaker 1: But if you have the job you hate, you can

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Speaker 1: Probably ah, so hard, Probably the dream job. But then

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Speaker 2: But then also like, could you pick up a side gig?

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Speaker 2: Look at us bending the rules.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm in two minds about this one. I think

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I'd do the same honestly.

440
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Speaker 1: Even with more money, Like you can help more people,

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Speaker 1: which fulfills a massive need of mind like a love

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Speaker 1: making impact and contribution.

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Speaker 3: H But then you can do that with the dream

444
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Speaker 3: job in other ways.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But then to only have enough money to have

446
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Speaker 2: a necessities, like you couldn't buy a house, Yeah, you

447
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Speaker 2: could just putn't travel, you couldn't go out for dinners,

448
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Speaker 2: all those things. You know.

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Speaker 3: I do value a lot of that.

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Speaker 1: I'll go the first one.

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Speaker 2: I think I'll go the first one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is a funny one. Would you rather have

453
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Speaker 1: your mouth take for one year and not talk or

454
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Speaker 1: have your hands tied for one year and not be

455
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Speaker 1: able to use your hands?

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Speaker 2: Well, I need to get rid of my hands so

457
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Speaker 2: I can keep it on the podcast. Yeah, I think,

458
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Speaker 2: you know what, I'm pretty good at using my feet,

459
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Speaker 2: Like I can pick stuff up with my toes, like

460
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Speaker 2: I can walk past an eygrass likens, pick it up

461
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Speaker 2: my toes. There you go, and then I put it

462
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Speaker 2: in my hand mouth and even then, like how do

463
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Speaker 2: you eat? You know?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: But I think about Bethany Hamilt from the girl that

466
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Speaker 1: like her arm got in by a shark. Yeah she changes.

467
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Speaker 1: She has four kids, now she changes. You just get

468
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Speaker 1: used to it, wouldn't you still got one arm, but yeah,

469
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Speaker 1: you would get used to it. Not talking it would

470
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Speaker 1: be really hard. But if you couldn't talk, you could

471
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Speaker 1: write what you wanted to say. I know how long

472
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Speaker 1: would that take?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And you feel so disconnected. I feel like I feel

475
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Speaker 2: so disconnected not talking, honestly, I feel like that's like, yeah, that.

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Speaker 1: Would be really uncomfortable to sleep though.

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Speaker 2: I know, but like, can you imagine not doing to.

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Speaker 1: Any like your kids are not hearing your voice?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not shit, or even just like trying to

480
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Speaker 2: communicate something when you're like frustrate. It'd be so hard, Steve,

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Speaker 2: give me that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, that makes sense which would you choose?

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Speaker 3: I think the same.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. Would you rather always be twenty

485
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Speaker 2: minutes late or two hours early?

486
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Speaker 1: Two hours early?

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Speaker 3: Pretty early in most things?

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Speaker 2: Two hours though, Yeah, because I.

489
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Speaker 1: Can put my time, I can read a book, I

490
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Speaker 1: can meditate and go for a walk.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a laundromt lately because my washing machines broken.

493
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Speaker 1: I walk in between the Washington drum or feel it? Okay,

494
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Speaker 1: I feel like I'm changing. I feel like I was

495
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Speaker 1: always super early. I feel like I'm becoming an on timer.

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Speaker 2: So I would say, if it's out of two hours

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Speaker 2: and twenty minutes, I'm taking the twenty minutes.

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Speaker 1: But then you're gonna let your kids hang around at

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Speaker 1: school when no one else is around because you're twenty

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Speaker 1: minutes late to pick them up and there's strange danger

501
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Speaker 1: lever us.

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Speaker 2: They'll be in their classroom.

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Speaker 1: Still, what do they not come out to meet you? No,

504
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Speaker 1: to got into the classroom to pick them up?

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Speaker 2: Well, no, they know who is so you put in

506
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Speaker 2: you're picking them up the classroom. They all lot to

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Speaker 2: lead to you there.

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Speaker 1: So tar does they all come out the front, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: some of them do that. So you're doing okay, to

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Speaker 1: hold your teachers up twenty minutes every single day. Well,

511
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Speaker 1: they're there anyway.

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Speaker 3: What if they want to go home and all the

513
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Speaker 3: kids have gone except for yours.

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Speaker 2: They're there till four o'clock. But yeah, I think if

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Speaker 2: I had shoes two hours early, that's so much time

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Speaker 2: out of.

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Speaker 3: A dad, so much for yourself.

518
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Speaker 2: But you're there so like you're in your car.

519
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Speaker 1: But you can go for a walk, you can meditate,

520
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Speaker 1: you can read, do all your emails, create Google docs, eat,

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Speaker 1: you can eat, you can eat eating, go get some GYG.

522
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Speaker 2: Chips, GYG chips home to honestly, can we can we please?

523
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Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna go twenty minutes you otherwise?

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Speaker 3: What am I doing?

525
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Speaker 5: I know?

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Speaker 2: Well, I used to always be that person too.

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Speaker 1: We were both really early. You know what, I'm agreeing

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Speaker 1: with you.

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Speaker 3: I'm on time at the moment. I'm not super early.

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Speaker 2: It's like we both have in but it's nice because

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Speaker 2: we're not.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not one of us super It's uncomfortable though.

533
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Speaker 3: I don't like to be late.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, as long as the person knows so, like, I

535
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Speaker 2: will always say to you, like even this morning for example, right,

536
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Speaker 2: And she was gonna be at seven forty five, and

537
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Speaker 2: I said, I will leave my house around seven, so

538
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Speaker 2: I'll let you know like when i'm leaving, because it just.

539
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Speaker 1: Depends, and I don't care if you're late.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then she knows, She's like, sweet, I'll make

541
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Speaker 2: sure that I've got stuff there that I do, you

542
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Speaker 2: know what I mean, coffee. But I don't like when

543
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Speaker 2: people show up and don't let you know. Yes, I

544
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Speaker 2: feel like they're not respecting your time, because I would

545
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Speaker 2: call the school if I was going to be twenty minutes, like,

546
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Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, I'm going to be twenty mines late.

547
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Speaker 2: But imagine having to that every day? How embarrassing? Not

548
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Speaker 2: like you?

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Speaker 3: How many excuses can you come up with?

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Speaker 1: My god, okay, last one that I've got if you

551
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Speaker 1: had to chew one, would you rather all of your

552
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Speaker 1: text messages leaked, every single one of.

553
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Speaker 2: Them, or all of your photos and videos text messages?

554
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Speaker 3: Really?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've got some deep conversations with you with everyone

556
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Speaker 1: them we do often redially. We actually taught all of

557
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Speaker 1: my friends to do the same thing.

558
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Speaker 2: Yeah, delete them off.

559
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Speaker 3: Let's say we haven't.

560
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Speaker 1: Okay, so there's like our deepest like we're vulnerable.

561
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Speaker 2: But then there's also like my deepest things on photos and.

562
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Speaker 1: Video sexy videos, Steve, I did not want that.

563
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Speaker 2: I would choose text messages.

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Speaker 1: I don't care about photos, to be honest, like, okay, cool,

565
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Speaker 1: you see my boobs whatever, Yeah, like anything else.

566
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Speaker 2: But even like photos of like I've got photos of Kurt.

567
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Speaker 2: It's like he's privacy. He's got cheeky one like we'vet

568
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Speaker 2: cheeky ones gets out of the shower like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I don't have those of Steve.

570
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Speaker 2: But yeah, I think I choose text messages. Yeah, I

571
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Speaker 2: feel like a lot of my deepest conversations happen in

572
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Speaker 2: person anyway, or some low voice messages.

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Speaker 1: With you, you know. Yeah, my friends, we've always messaged

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Speaker 1: a lot. Yeah, like me and Megsie, me and Deanie,

575
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Speaker 1: me and Sarah me. Yeah, I think I'll go photos,

576
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Speaker 1: you go photos.

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Speaker 2: But then there's I needed to deleat some videos, even

578
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Speaker 2: photos of like the kids nude and stuff I really

579
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Speaker 2: take better as my kids neuds like fro when they

580
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Speaker 2: were little, when they were younger, I've.

581
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Speaker 3: Always got nappies on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, i feel like I've got ones from like when

584
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Speaker 2: our kids are really young. Like in the bath together.

585
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Speaker 3: And stuff like that.

586
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Speaker 2: In the bar, yeah, in the bar, or like in

587
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Speaker 2: the pool because like we always like they will do

588
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Speaker 2: noody swims and stuff.

589
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so much to think about.

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Speaker 3: Yep.

591
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Speaker 2: Never have a home or never go outside? What so,

592
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Speaker 2: never have a home, so you have to like live

593
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Speaker 2: at other people's houses, like go places or never go outside?

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Speaker 3: Oh my friends okay for me to stay at their house.

595
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Speaker 2: Well, they might tell you they are.

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Speaker 1: I'd love to live with my friends. Yeah, oh I

597
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Speaker 1: think never have a home. Never have a home, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: not being able to.

599
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Speaker 3: Go outside, I know.

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Speaker 1: I'd happily live with a couple of my girlfriends and

601
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Speaker 1: their families. Yeah, so you have to kind of just

602
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Speaker 1: move around.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right. And last one, be able to remember

604
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Speaker 2: everything you learn or remember clearly all of your most

605
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Speaker 2: fond memories, and able to relive them whenever you want.

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Speaker 3: That last option, last option.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I can always relearn stuff, and some stuff

608
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Speaker 1: that I've learned I don't even need.

609
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Speaker 3: The memories are way more special. Same with you. What

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Speaker 3: are you thinking, I'm thinking it's a hard one to answer.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm thinking it'd be really amazing to be

612
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Speaker 2: able to remember everything you can learn, because I feel

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Speaker 2: like you'd be able to, like fucking imagine the knowledge

614
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Speaker 2: you could have and the lessons you could teach others

615
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Speaker 2: and what you could bring to the.

616
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Speaker 3: World because you're learning so much at the moment too.

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Speaker 2: Oh imagine you just read everything. I feel like I

618
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Speaker 2: literally like read a book, do an audiobook on it

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Speaker 2: as well, and then like listen to a few podcasts

620
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Speaker 2: on it, and then like, after like a year, I'm.

621
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Speaker 1: Like, what was that about again?

622
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like it's so hard to keep remembering info but

623
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Speaker 2: then living your fondest memories like Christmas mornings with the kids.

624
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Speaker 1: As you get older than.

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Speaker 2: Your children, I think I'd have to choose that I

626
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Speaker 2: would the pain.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to experience it, but like I'd love

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Speaker 3: to birth.

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Speaker 2: So you're not in the pain, it's just the memories

630
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Speaker 2: you're reliving it.

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Speaker 1: So to birth your kids again, oh love to my gosh,

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Speaker 1: that'd be amazing. That'd be amazing.

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Speaker 2: PS To attract better, you have to become better. You

634
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Speaker 2: can't do the same things and expect change. Transform your mindset,

635
00:26:32,441 --> 00:26:36,041
Speaker 2: upgrade your habits, think positive, be hopeful and consistent with

636
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:39,081
Speaker 2: your evolution. It all starts with you and how you

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Speaker 2: feel about yourself.

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Speaker 3: That's beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Ps, don't sabotage your future peace because familiar chaos is comfortable.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's a good one.

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Speaker 3: So good.

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Speaker 2: Guys.

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Speaker 3: We'll see you on Wednesday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, leave us a review if you haven't yet.

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Speaker 1: Screenshot the episode uploaded to your stories us. We love

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Speaker 1: seeing you guys upload our stuff.

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Speaker 2: I know it makes that, ah it does.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks guys. Bye,