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Speaker 1: Apod Shaped Production.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to another episode about I A Bad Mum podcast.

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Speaker 2: We were just chatting before we put the mics on

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Speaker 2: about our wine consumption, which since having.

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Speaker 3: Kids has you know, is next level increased immensely. One

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Speaker 3: would say, my kid's shamey for drinking wine, like they

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Speaker 3: don't like the smell of it, And that's fine, And

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Speaker 3: I know, you know, in an ideal world, we shouldn't

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Speaker 3: be drinking around them, and it's unhealthy habits and all

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Speaker 3: the rest of it.

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Speaker 1: But it's also like kind of their fault.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know that there's big differences in extremity of

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Speaker 3: what you can and can't do in front of your

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Speaker 3: kids whose days. Yeah, there's a lot worse than going

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Speaker 3: on out there in the world other than us picking

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Speaker 3: up a wine guys and having a simple little wine Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I think so little veno in the evening.

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Speaker 2: But also their generation is growing up to be a

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Speaker 2: lot healthier than we were.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it will be the habit that it

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Speaker 1: is for us.

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Speaker 3: For them, they would have other things. It's just like

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Speaker 3: their generation thinks vaping is healthy.

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Speaker 1: What the fuck, No, it is not.

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Speaker 3: It's not healthy just because it smells like strawberries. You're

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Speaker 3: not vaping fucking strawberries. Talk about extreme parenting though, I've

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Speaker 3: told my girls, every time you think about taking a

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Speaker 3: vape to your mouth, think about a can of fly

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Speaker 3: spray in your mouth and then pressed down on that

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Speaker 3: fly spray and suck it back. I was like, because

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Speaker 3: that's what you're doing, extreme Rachel.

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Speaker 1: Pick your poison. All of it's bad. Everything is bad,

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Speaker 1: bad bad.

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Speaker 2: I found a I was so excited by this, a

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Speaker 2: zero sugar wine red wine.

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Speaker 1: I've tried many over the years.

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Speaker 3: Many and well, this is a couple.

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Speaker 2: And then I'm like, why do I feel so hungover

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Speaker 2: after like a couple of ra I'm like, what have

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Speaker 2: they replaced the sugar with you?

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Speaker 1: Because it makes me feel like shit?

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Speaker 2: Anyway, never found a good one, and I am now

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Speaker 2: enjoying one that I found.

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Speaker 1: It's called bone dry.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I actually emailed them, right because she's desperate.

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Speaker 1: I emailed them and I said, hey, would you be able.

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Speaker 3: To shame I'm really shame for you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, would you be able to send me the

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Speaker 2: ingredients in the pinan noir and whether there are any

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Speaker 2: artificial sweetness used?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: My thing was like okay, So you've taken the sugar out,

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Speaker 2: so where sweetness coming?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And I'm like, do I want to be drinking?

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Speaker 3: No, I'm with you because it's like me, we've talked

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Speaker 3: about this, like having a coke or a diet coke.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's more shit and bad stuff in your diet

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Speaker 3: coke than there is in a full strength coke. Like,

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Speaker 3: don't get me wrong, both bad for you, but this

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Speaker 3: with the wine, I'm one hundred percent with you. If

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Speaker 3: they've got artificial sweetness in there, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Did they reply, Yeah, she did.

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Speaker 2: She came back and she said, thanks for reaching out.

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Speaker 2: We love talking about our wines. Let's dive straight in.

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Speaker 2: To keep things low sugar and high flavor. We harvest

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Speaker 2: our grapes at just the right moment when they're perfectly ripen.

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Speaker 2: Their natural sugars and flavors are spot on. From then,

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Speaker 2: we ferment the wine until it's completely dry with all

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Speaker 2: the sugar converted into alcohol. Some wine makers might sneak

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Speaker 2: in a little residual grape sugar to sweeten the deal,

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Speaker 2: but not us. We keep it real, letting our wines

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Speaker 2: stay dry, low in sugar, and one hundred percent delicious.

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Speaker 2: No shortcuts, no gimmicks, and certainly no additives. Hope that

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Speaker 2: helps you know.

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Speaker 3: Even you just reading that out, I know that that's

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Speaker 3: a chat GBT response.

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Speaker 1: Do you think it's a lie?

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's generic as hell, Like, just read

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Speaker 3: that first line. Hi, let's jump straight in. Okay, you've

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Speaker 3: put us through chat GBT. I could tell you that much. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but it isn't at all. I think she's answered your question.

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Speaker 3: She's beaten around the bush a little bit, just sling

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Speaker 3: it on to other people and what they do.

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Speaker 2: To put that through chat GPT, And you're right now

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Speaker 2: you've brought that to liar.

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Speaker 1: Do you think the same thing. She must have had

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Speaker 1: a lot of people asking.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so she would have had a lot of people

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Speaker 3: ask and then hey, this is what we're getting, this

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Speaker 3: is our product, this is what we're doing. Create me

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Speaker 3: a generic response to these questions, and then that's your

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Speaker 3: chat GPT. And then when you get oh, hi, I

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Speaker 3: just want to know, she goes copy paste, which is

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Speaker 3: it's not doing anything else other than giving you your answer.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so all I needed.

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Speaker 3: My whole thing is, if you're talking about hangovers, you're

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Speaker 3: looking for a preservative free wine. I think it's the

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Speaker 3: sulfate that gives us the hangovers. If I'm right, you

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Speaker 3: want like the one that has either got none or

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Speaker 3: lowest sort of point of sulfate in it and preservatives,

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Speaker 3: So the preservative free is where it's at.

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Speaker 1: Is it interesting how long we can talk about wine for?

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Speaker 3: I know, I was like, what are we even talking

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Speaker 3: about kids today? I gotta even think about the subject.

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Speaker 2: Am I a bad mum for being a tight ass?

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Speaker 3: This is a hot topic in your household with your

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Speaker 3: kids being the age that they're at.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have talked about this before, but I got

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Speaker 2: a text the other day that I was like, I

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Speaker 2: have to bring this up because the text said at

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Speaker 2: the start, mom needs to pay me back. Right, So

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Speaker 2: just a little bit of context, The girls have their

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Speaker 2: own bank accounts. They both have jobs now, and money

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Speaker 2: goes into their bank account and out.

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Speaker 1: Of their back.

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Speaker 2: So often they will grab something from tuk shop or

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Speaker 2: they go to taf on Friday, so they get lunch,

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Speaker 2: drink here and there, whatever, And then they asked me

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Speaker 2: to pay them back. Now, I'm okay with that as

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Speaker 2: long as it's within reason. If you have made a

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Speaker 2: enough food.

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Speaker 1: That's not on me.

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Speaker 2: That's not my problem, that's your problem. So if you

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Speaker 2: need more food and that's for your expense. I have

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Speaker 2: pushed back on buying bottles of water sometimes, Rache, but

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Speaker 2: you haven't taken a water bottle. But you've got so

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Speaker 2: many water You've got the Stanley water bottle.

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Speaker 3: But also not my problem. Old enough you have.

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Speaker 1: A Stanley water bottle.

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Speaker 2: I bought my Camart one, but I'm really a lot

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Speaker 2: less than the Stanley.

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Speaker 1: It was nine dollars. It was on special.

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Speaker 2: I feel like Camart doesn't go on special very often.

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Speaker 2: It's always on special. In this particular day where I

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Speaker 2: was after a water bottle that color, you're dollars instead

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Speaker 3: Yeah, happy days.

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Speaker 1: Yeah so good.

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Speaker 2: Emelia said to me, Mummy should really get a new

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Speaker 2: water bottle. I was like, I'm happy with my water bottle.

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Speaker 3: It goes from the sink to my bedside table and

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Speaker 3: back to the sink. It's good, We're good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good.

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Speaker 3: I don't need sixty five seventy dollars one to do

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Speaker 2: Oh just a side note, yesterday I saw Kim Kardashian

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Speaker 2: walked through her private jet.

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Speaker 1: I looked at a story or whatever.

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Speaker 3: She's another quality Instagram hut that you.

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Speaker 1: Played on Instagram for about five minutes.

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Speaker 2: And that's what you watch, I know is whoever pops

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Speaker 2: up first? I'm like, oh, four stories, and then switch

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Speaker 3: About yourself, Glad. I watched that, Glad, iway.

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Speaker 2: Something inspirational could have you know, had a little look

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Speaker 2: at mel Robbins and what quotes.

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Speaker 1: She's putting up.

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Speaker 2: Now it's Kim Kardashian going through her private jet. But

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Speaker 2: I did notice that she had a Stanley water bottle

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Speaker 2: and she even made mention to yeah, yeah, there's another

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Speaker 3: But I was like, no, no, no, she's got shares

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Speaker 2: She probably aren't it so shares or just being made.

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Speaker 3: But everything she don't know. If you were, you would

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Speaker 3: go in on You probably either created it or you'd

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Speaker 3: have cash in it. You'd invest in it. Look at it.

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Speaker 3: It's a hot fad of large cups, yeah, which always

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Speaker 3: fucking leak. So Kim Kardashian put that on your story.

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Speaker 3: Fix it. Fix the fucking leaking cup.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't mind.

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Speaker 3: No, she doesn't because somebody else will clean it in

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Speaker 2: But someone is carrying that water bottle on there for her,

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Speaker 3: She's on the private jet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then taking it at the end of the day.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you have another one in the car. Anyway, back

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Speaker 1: Text from Holly.

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Speaker 2: Mom needs to pay me back ten dollars missing from

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Speaker 1: I don't know what that means.

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Speaker 2: Five dollars fifty two waters from tuck shop, eight dollars

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Speaker 2: fifty donuts and then in brackets Amelia made me get them.

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Speaker 1: She should lose the money.

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Speaker 2: Twenty three dollars for macas the other day, thirty six

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Speaker 2: dollars from Tafe lunch. I'm pretty sure you paid me

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Speaker 2: thirty dollars, so I'm missing six. Mum also needs to

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Speaker 2: pay me ten dollars five dollars for a shoulder mass

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Speaker 2: side I gave her, and five dollars for putting a

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Speaker 2: video of me going up for a walk on her story.

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Speaker 3: I remember you saying that I.

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Speaker 1: Had to pay five dollars. It was like a funny story.

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Speaker 2: It was like we were going for a family walk

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Speaker 2: and hollidays, so I just come she's bored. I remember saying, oh,

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Speaker 2: that's funny. Can I put it on my story? And

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Speaker 2: she went no, And I went please, I just want

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Speaker 2: to put it on my story and she said na.

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Speaker 1: So all right, I'll give you five dollars.

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Speaker 3: It's like, yes, done.

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Speaker 2: So that's the text I got At the end, it

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Speaker 2: says please xoxoxoxoxoxo.

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Speaker 1: All down that end.

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Speaker 3: What's the damage?

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Speaker 2: Sixty three dollars ninety seven. It's interesting because as parents,

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's a constant battle between wanting them

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Speaker 2: to have as much as you can give them, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: but also not giving them too much, reminding them of

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Speaker 2: how much money is and what it's worth, but also

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Speaker 2: not spending their whole child hammering to them about that's

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Speaker 2: too expensive, we can't afford that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel like that said a lot as well.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I come from a place of going like,

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Speaker 3: if I wanted something, I had to buy it with

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Speaker 3: I should and shouldn't limit things, Do you know what

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Speaker 3: So I think like with Friday lunches and stuff like that,

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Speaker 3: That's real life.

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Speaker 1: Do you know why I did the other real life?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is on the whole how it feels good

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Speaker 2: I feel so good.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I've been telling you this for years.

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Speaker 1: For being rude the other day, and.

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Speaker 2: I've realized it's the only thing that they really care about,

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Speaker 2: because I can go, oh, you lost your.

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Speaker 1: Phone for a day or whatever.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, whatever, they don't care.

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Speaker 2: I deducted ten dollars from Holly's account for being rude,

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Speaker 2: and I said, for everything that you say to me

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Speaker 2: that's rude, I'm going to deduct another ten dollars.

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Speaker 1: You can't do that.

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Speaker 3: That's my money.

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Speaker 1: I've earn that money.

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Speaker 1: So, yeah, no I have. Yeah, it's a fine. It's

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Speaker 3: Well it's funny that you say that, because last night

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Speaker 3: but it's like that's savage, like when they go they

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Speaker 3: do you know what, this is a new rule? You know,

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Speaker 3: when I was a kid, We've talked about this, when

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Speaker 3: I swore as a kid, I got soap in my mouth.

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Speaker 3: Then I've talked to other parents. They do different things.

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Speaker 3: I said, do you know what I'm going to do?

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Speaker 3: You swear? I said, if you call each other a name,

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Speaker 3: I can't be bothered putting soap in your mouth. I

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Speaker 3: I said, but you will be broke. So which one

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Speaker 3: would you like? Gracie, Oh, you can't do that, I said,

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Speaker 3: I can, and you just watch me. Yeah, I said,

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Speaker 3: just watch your account.

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Speaker 1: Get had to do it yet.

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Speaker 3: No, it was only last night that we had this,

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Speaker 3: which is funny that you're literally saying it and I'm like,

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Speaker 3: Katie Amountaane's with. I'm so sick of it. I'm so like,

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Speaker 3: stop just stopping assholes to each other.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, fifty dollars.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it says me I should stood up fifty dollars

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Speaker 3: from my account following the massholes