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Speaker 1: Shut the fuck up, bro, you literally can? You literally can? Alright?

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Speaker 1: Just chill out, big guy. Relatable The Relatables podcast is

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Speaker 1: hosted by myself, Audie Clark aka Mummy and my partner

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Speaker 1: in crime, mister Jake Craig aka Daddy.

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Speaker 2: And Odious Mummy because he's the one you go to

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Speaker 2: when you need some help with a fit.

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Speaker 1: Check and giving something away. There. Jake is Daddy because

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Speaker 1: he always says yes to the fit checks.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and you guys are the baddies. So we wanna

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Speaker 2: we want to talk about something quickly.

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Speaker 1: Something big that is live. It would it just happens

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Speaker 1: that we are wearing both things that are live. The

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Speaker 1: merch is live, guys, and it is doing very well.

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Speaker 1: We are selling a few, but we want everyone to

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Speaker 1: it'll be linked into the description. Yep, and get your

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Speaker 1: a tee.

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Speaker 1: Simple, Staple collection. We're wearing them. Yeah and if and

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Speaker 1: they're fucking comfortable. Dude. Wait, Beth said that we did good. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Death said they're like inside of the jumpers is fluffy,

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Speaker 1: Blues and Greens, Harry, our old drop. Ye got a

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Speaker 1: hoodie because he came for my birthday. Yeah, and he

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Speaker 1: very happy, very happy. We're not biased at all. We're

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Speaker 1: not bias one single bit. We don't get the.

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Speaker 2: But if you guys head to there's a link in

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Speaker 2: the description to go by the merch it's the Staple Drop.

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Speaker 1: We or do your favorite thing. You'd love to give

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Speaker 1: shop and it actually works, and it actually works and you.

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Speaker 2: Will be on the website. Yeah no, but thank you

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Speaker 2: very much for supporting. We wanted to finally do our

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Speaker 2: in the first day we sold out half.

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Speaker 1: So hopefully when you watch this. There is still some left.

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Speaker 1: We want to rate this stuff like what you're about

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Speaker 1: Hello Casey, it's jaking only for the Relitables podcast. How's

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Boyfriend Olympics.

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Speaker 3: See, I think it was very strategic because I couldn't

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Speaker 1: You're confident in it. He just loves you for you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: on purpose. Yeah, he doesn't know that it was on person.

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Speaker 3: Love it. He did, he did well. I'm proud. I'm proud.

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Speaker 1: Last episode, we're gonna pose it to all the baddies

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Speaker 1: listening to vote whose boyfriend had the best response.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I love this. It's up to the baddies like baddies,

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Speaker 3: absolutely unite and like you tell us the verdict.

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Speaker 4: I love it.

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Speaker 1: Audionized opinions mean nothing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we mean yeah, they often don't.

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much, Casey, and best of luck. Hopefully

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Speaker 1: we see you in the metal matches.

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Speaker 3: Yes, oh I can't wait. Thank you so much, Lesions.

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Speaker 3: It was so good to chat with you.

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Speaker 1: You do have a good day, but thank you too.

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Speaker 4: Bye, guys.

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Speaker 1: Damn whoa good start, good start, great start, Holy crap,

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Speaker 1: Casey and will combo for only three months? Good combo?

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Speaker 1: Though I would have said what he said, so would

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Speaker 4: Hello, am I speaking?

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Speaker 1: Hello Emma, Welcome to the boyfriend Olympics. How are you going? Hello,

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Speaker 1: I'm good, Thank you? How are you We're going great?

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Speaker 1: You are the second caller, so how are you feeling okay?

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Speaker 4: Well, I hope the other person's proud than.

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Speaker 1: Are you excited tone with you and your boyfriend? Unknowingly?

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Speaker 1: Yes, very excited.

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Speaker 4: This call a week.

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Speaker 2: We have a We have a few questions for you initially,

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Speaker 4: His name is Brodie and we've been together just over

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Speaker 2: Give a little bit, give a little bit away to you.

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Speaker 2: You'll probably listen to it next week. But the call

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Speaker 4: So okay, this is yeah, how this is going to work?

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Speaker 4: So I was going for something that was like not

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Speaker 4: All like looks fun like I wasn't offended or anything

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Speaker 1: He was just thinking, I'm glad I'm not with her today.

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh, I don't want to.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I would say the fit you wore, I would

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was. It was giving Toddler a little bit

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Speaker 1: Okay, unlucky that he was. This is a bad one

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Speaker 1: So if she's if she'll go what do you think

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Speaker 1: We absolutely nothing. We are the dirt under your shoes

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Speaker 2: Baddies. Also, we need to correct myself from last week.

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Speaker 1: Be week four. So there's three group stages. This is

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Speaker 1: group stage two. There will be another challenge next week,

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Speaker 1: week five will be Bronze silver and then the gold

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Speaker 1: medal match. Yes, two challenges in one episode. Yes, so

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Speaker 1: We've had to give ourselves some power in that situation. Yeah. Wow,

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Speaker 1: I did have my birthday.

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Speaker 2: You are officially twenty five, twenty five frontal lobe development

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Speaker 2: bro and my twenty five. On the Instagram, I said

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Speaker 1: Jake got me a cake that said thirty one on it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: was really nice and icing bro tastes amazing. Yeah, slap,

438
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 1: But also what I wanted to say sharp left turn

439
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:33,040
Speaker 1: kind of was as we get older, I think this

440
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:36,160
Speaker 1: is really really really relatable as you sort of get

441
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:40,680
Speaker 1: to realize who your friends really are. Ah, this is

442
00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 1: a sharp left turn. I don't want to put a

443
00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:44,720
Speaker 1: Debbie downer on my birthday because it was definitely still

444
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 1: a very fun day. Yeah, and I loved where we

445
00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:48,359
Speaker 1: went for lunch. It was really fun. Actually had a

446
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:50,879
Speaker 1: great day. But food, bro, we'll talk about We'll talk

447
00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:52,880
Speaker 1: about where we went for lunch after time. I know. Yeah.

448
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:58,240
Speaker 1: So with birthdays, I actually was going into this thinking,

449
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 1: whoever doesn't say happy birthday too, Yeah, I'm not considering

450
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,720
Speaker 1: a friend anymore. Yeah, it's not that hard. It's not

451
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:06,360
Speaker 1: hard at all. And a lot of friends didn't at all,

452
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:11,399
Speaker 1: but one, which was quite a harsh reality was I

453
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 1: still don't mind saying it on here because fuck him,

454
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 1: it cares for my birthday. I booked a fancy restaurant

455
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:20,159
Speaker 1: in Sydney about two months out. I invited everyone so

456
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 1: they could plan their lives. That's what you do when

457
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 1: people are getting older, because people have a lot of

458
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:29,360
Speaker 1: things on. And then anyway, about a week out this

459
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 1: one friend asked me how I was getting there, and

460
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,719
Speaker 1: I was coming from the Blue Mountains because I did

461
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 1: a little farm stay with Cassie, my girlfriend, And he

462
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,919
Speaker 1: just didn't reply to me, and then he messaged me

463
00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 1: at ten forty the booking was twelve thirty. He would

464
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:45,719
Speaker 1: have had to leave his house house probably half an

465
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 1: hour after texting me within twenty minutes, didn't say happy

466
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,119
Speaker 1: birthday to me on my birthday. Going to lunch was

467
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 1: the day after my birthday. No happy birthday, and goes,

468
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 1: I've got another job. Don't think I can make it.

469
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:59,000
Speaker 1: Fuck don't know. And this guy's job is the most

470
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:02,679
Speaker 1: flexible thing I've ever scene in my life. And I

471
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:05,199
Speaker 1: just didn't reply to him. But I also considered this

472
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:09,399
Speaker 1: guy really close. Mate. Pissed me off a fair bit. Yeah,

473
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:11,360
Speaker 1: but it's sort of like the harsh reality of some

474
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 1: friends just don't want to make the effort. No, give

475
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 1: him fucking two months notice. Two months. I was pissed. Ay,

476
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 1: I was like, what a fucking dog? Rightfully, so, yeah,

477
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 1: pissed right eye was pissed. And he didn't even call

478
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 1: me and have the decency to say happy birthday. Mate,

479
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 1: I've been called. If you had actually been called to

480
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 1: a job, like an emergency job, if he was like

481
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 1: super apologetic, yeah, I been like this, I have to

482
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,200
Speaker 1: go there or else something bad is going to happen.

483
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 1: Like happy happy birthday. I hope you have a good time.

484
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 1: We should catch up when you get back. No, the

485
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,680
Speaker 1: sheer little text doesn't even say hey at it. I

486
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 1: know crazy. It's fucking wild, isn't it. But I thought

487
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 1: that was relatable too, because the older you get, you

488
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 1: start to realize who your actual friends are. Yeah, and

489
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 1: when I was eighteen nine and I was thinking all

490
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 1: these mates were going to be my right old diet

491
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 1: who I was fifty, I lost fucking eighty percent of them.

492
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:57,920
Speaker 1: Bro I thought the exact same.

493
00:24:58,119 --> 00:24:58,439
Speaker 4: Yeah.

494
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 1: I remember thinking that, like, fuck, I'm lucky to have

495
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,400
Speaker 1: a friend group. And it was really nice. A couple

496
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 1: of people who you don't expect come out of the

497
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 1: woodworks and say happy Birthday. Every year that happens some

498
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: random person I haven't spoken to you, Like, the only

499
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 1: time you speak to them that year is so you're

500
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: either bump into him in the street or at like

501
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 1: the shops you say hi, I have a nice or

502
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:18,440
Speaker 1: chat how you going, haven't seen you for a while,

503
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 1: or they'll send you a nice happy birthday message. Yeah,

504
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 1: well do it? Richo who rich Dylan I barely talk to.

505
00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 1: I still consider him a close mate. We went traveling

506
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,560
Speaker 1: up the East Coast Australia with him for a little week.

507
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: He was there for a week with him. He was

508
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:34,880
Speaker 1: there for a week and I still consider him a mate,

509
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 1: but like not as close as these guys. Happy birth

510
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 1: I have a good one mate. And he was like

511
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 1: the third person to do it. It's not like this

512
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 1: guy's a fucking legends, not hard at all, and he

513
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:47,920
Speaker 1: remembered it's and also also it's everyone remembers everything because

514
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 1: everyone has social media, and you don't have an excuse

515
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 1: because relatables I know you have seeing it. Yeah, everyone

516
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:56,880
Speaker 1: remembers everything, Bro, there's no one has an excuse. Every

517
00:25:56,880 --> 00:26:01,919
Speaker 1: single person knew it was your birthday, either from Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram,

518
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:05,879
Speaker 1: something right, and then they saw it and they probably thought, oh,

519
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 1: it's on his birthday and actively made a decision not

520
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 1: to say it. So it's a fair point. I was

521
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: thinking that is so relatable. Hey, and now I've sort

522
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: of like reassessed my friendships. I use this a little

523
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 1: bit of a case study, and I'm not going to

524
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:24,399
Speaker 1: put the effort into those relationships that I was prior

525
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 1: because they don't put it the effort into my side

526
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 1: of things.

527
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,879
Speaker 2: I haven't remember last time I put effort in, to

528
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 2: be completely honest with you, But the friend that did that,

529
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 2: you invited him fucking and he did that, I thought

530
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,640
Speaker 2: that was I was just like, fuck, that's average, bro.

531
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:44,680
Speaker 1: Soever. I was like, that is so. The only other

532
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 1: bad thing, too, is he's probably unbeknownst to doing something wrong.

533
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 2: He wouldn't like he's The thing is, I don't think

534
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 2: he's an idiot. I think that he knew, like he

535
00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 2: knows it's rude. I think he knows that. And what

536
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 2: makes I think it's I think it's worse that he

537
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:12,880
Speaker 2: knows that, Like he would he would have come. If

538
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 2: it was a night out and it was like a

539
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 2: big night and we're drinking, and we were drinking and

540
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:21,239
Speaker 2: we were gonna have like a fucking mad time. I

541
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 2: reckon he would have come. Probably, honestly, I think he

542
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 2: would have come. He didn't think that, you know, just

543
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 2: a lunch at Toddy's in Roselle was a good enough

544
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:33,959
Speaker 2: thing to come to, even though it was your birthday.

545
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 2: And that's the thing is, like he knows that he

546
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 2: actively made that decision. He had two months notice to

547
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 2: tell his dad he works for his dad. He had

548
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 2: two months notice to say this Saturday, I literally.

549
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 1: I'm not working.

550
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 2: So take calls if you want, but you're going to him.

551
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:54,640
Speaker 2: That's the easiest thing. It's the easiest thing ever. And

552
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 2: he lives with his fucking dad. He could have said

553
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 2: it to him in person. He doesn't even have to

554
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 2: like text him or so. It's just a lack of effort. Yeah,

555
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 2: and it's You're right, it's a fucking harsh reality.

556
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,919
Speaker 1: It is too, but I guess that's also depictive of

557
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 1: This is the first birthday I've never drunk, and I

558
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 1: think that's part of the frontal lobe development. But that's

559
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 1: what I wanted to do. That's my birthday, the one

560
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 1: day that I get to be selfish. Mate. Yeah, that

561
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: was a prime birthday for me. Yeah, exactly. It's perfect. Actually, actually,

562
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 1: it's probably one of my favorites. Yeah, the frontal lobe

563
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: was developing, we had heaps, good food, friends. I was happy.

564
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: I was really I was like, well that was really good.

565
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:37,160
Speaker 1: It is. You're not walking away the next morning feeling like.

566
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 4: Ah fuck.

567
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 1: It's tough pill to swallow, but really tough. I guess

568
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: the quicker you get it down, the quicker you just

569
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 1: fucking go, oh, whatever it is, what it is? Oh yeah,

570
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 1: men always say this what it is?

571
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 2: It isn't what it isn't. Let's be fair. It's not sorry,

572
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 2: it's not it is what it is. But yeah, the

573
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 2: quicker you you just accept it and you fucking move

574
00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 2: on and you go fuck it. I lost a friend

575
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 2: and Cassie was saying she would have either ghosted or

576
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 2: messaged and said like, hey, hey girl, Like this is

577
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 2: so disrespectful.

578
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 1: Can't even drive an hour and half your friend on

579
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 1: their birthday? Like I don't even consider you a friend

580
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 1: anymore if you can't do this for me, What did you? Did?

581
00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: You choose ghosts? I've chosen ghast, Yeah I would. I

582
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:20,440
Speaker 1: would also choose ghosts.

583
00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd choose ghost And also, you know you no

584
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 2: longer get a reply from me because you also no

585
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 2: longer get a single ounce of my time because you

586
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 2: couldn't give me a single ounce of your time. Like

587
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 2: it's fucking crazy to fathom the it's crazy because it's like.

588
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say any more. But it's almost like if

589
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 1: I did it to you genuinely, this friend is like

590
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: this friend would have been like second in line, would

591
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,120
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So it's it's almost like

592
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: if I fucking did that to you prior to the pod,

593
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 1: he was on part of you.

594
00:29:55,360 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, like legitimately he was like literally, And so that's

595
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 2: why it's so fucking hard to like fathom, because it

596
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 2: is literally imagined. If I fucking did that to you, yeah, yeah, yeah,

597
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 2: you'd be like what heartbroken at it's fucked by Yeah,

598
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 2: but hey, I guess such his life.

599
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 1: We grow up and we learn. But okay, with a restaurant,

600
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 1: we went to Toddies called Toddies. Anyone that lives in Australia,

601
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:24,719
Speaker 1: there's this restaurant called Toddies. There's one in Bondai, one

602
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 1: in Rosella and one in the Sydney CBD. They've expanded.

603
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 1: It's Italian. Their use codes stay bad at check use

604
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: fucking code. We wish it's delicious. Brute whatever they do

605
00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 1: to the bread, So how would you explain the bread

606
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: that they cook in the oven? It's like puffed up.

607
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 1: It's cold wood fired bread. They chuck that shit in

608
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 1: the oven and it blows up like a balloon. They

609
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 1: bring it out or blown up like a balloon, and

610
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 1: you just start ripping it and tearing it to shreds

611
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 1: and you dip it in your fucking barrata cheese. Also,

612
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 1: brata cheese has no flavor their's had flavor. You dip

613
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 1: it in the barrata cheese, add some sh whatever you want.

614
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 1: I said to Cassie, the barrada around here tastes like

615
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 1: fucking Camembert, whereas the brada there was like crack cocaine.

616
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 1: He's okay. Brada cheese to me usually just normally don't

617
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: like it. It tastes like thick. No, it tastes like

618
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 1: yogurt without flavor. Because it's like a thick cheese and

619
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: you dips it in, it always just tastes like nothing.

620
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 4: To me.

621
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 1: This braada cheese tasted like something. Yeah, I'm honestly going

622
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 1: to book myself in like a couple of months after Paralier.

623
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 1: Just go for lunch and only get that pizza thing too.

624
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 1: Oh you know, Beth and I have said it minutes

625
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: for your hour less. Yeah, you chose the best one.

626
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: It's a five minute drive, bro. So I couldn't get

627
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: in the Bondo, I know, Yeah, the Monday one, the Toddies,

628
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: So the Rosette one's honestly nice still, But Beth and

629
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: I've said a Paul, we've been there for dinner once

630
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 1: and you could just go there on a quick little

631
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 1: walk in fingers crossed. They have a two seat table

632
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,000
Speaker 1: or you could sit at the bar or something and

633
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 1: just get the bread.

634
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 4: Yeah.

635
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 1: Crazy, And the bread is the most affordable bit.

636
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 4: It was good.

637
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 1: All the mains are pretty expensive, to be fair, like

638
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 1: it must be nice restaurant. Yeah they are, but they aren't. Yeah,

639
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 1: but the bread was not the cheapest thing. The thing

640
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 1: that got expensive, but they got they hit us with.

641
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: It was Saturday. They hit us with a service fee.

642
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 1: You're going to be open anyway. Why you hit this

643
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 1: with a service fee? It's not a public holiday. I

644
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 1: was like, fuck, it's like seventy bucks just for service.

645
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 1: Tipped him to. I know. I was just a bad idea.

646
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: The lady. That was our way. It was nice to

647
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 1: be fair. She was good, but no, it was fuck.

648
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 1: It was good for That was my twenty fifth birthday.

649
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 1: Yeah and frontal lobe. Ask me anything and I'll know it.

650
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 2: Go, oh shit, what is the meaning of life?

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Speaker 1: Twenty two? The day was born? My birthday? Maybe I'm developed, batties.

652
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Speaker 1: It is time for dilemmas? Where myself daddy? And what

653
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Speaker 1: are you over? Hear mummy?

654
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 2: We read out your current life dilemmas and we try

655
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 2: and help you out. You can also very easily submit

656
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 2: one via the link in the description. It's all anonymous.

657
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Speaker 2: You can also go to the our Instagram bio. Just

658
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Speaker 2: don't think it's relatables on Instagram.

659
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Speaker 1: I don't do that. Don't do that because there are

660
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661
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Speaker 2: Just go description of this video. There is a link

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Speaker 2: and you can submit and all anonymous. There was heaps

663
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Speaker 2: of submission. There's a lot. Here's what I want to say.

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Speaker 1: If it's urgent, I very highly.

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Speaker 2: Recommend going and signing up to Patreon and using that

666
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 2: one because Patreon has their own dilemmas link where there

667
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Speaker 2: is a fraction of the.

668
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 1: Amount of dilemmas. Yeah, let me use my frontal lobe

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Speaker 1: to get a percentage for you. So on the main

670
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Speaker 1: episode right now, we have about three thy five hundred dilemmas,

671
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 1: but on Patreon we have about four hundred. Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: percentage is you have a sixty five percent more chance

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Speaker 1: of getting written read on Patreon. I don't know if

674
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Speaker 1: that's true, but sixty five more chances are good number.

675
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Speaker 1: I honestly think it's like eighty maybe, I don't know.

676
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Speaker 1: We've both done stupid right now, or maybe I just

677
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Speaker 1: do who cares?

678
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 2: But yeah, head over there and if you have an

679
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Speaker 2: urgent dilemma go over Also on Patreon you get on Monday,

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Speaker 2: you get the book Club five days early. On Thursday,

681
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Speaker 2: you get a whole extra episode just like this, lots

682
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Speaker 2: of fun and games and over there right now, shit,

683
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Speaker 2: we have the season finale of season one of the summer.

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Speaker 2: I turn pretty audi and ize live reactions goggle Box style. Baby,

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Speaker 2: it was good and it was let me just say.

686
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Speaker 1: A tear jerker. It was emotional role.

687
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Speaker 2: This was us all the whole time, emotions like this.

688
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 2: We were going up, we were happy, and then we went.

689
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Speaker 1: We pulled omitted below the line. We started at bro

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Speaker 1: And might I say, this is all for five dollars,

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Speaker 1: five dollars a month, a week, five dollars a month. Also,

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Speaker 1: first month of your afraid of your patron pays for

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Speaker 1: two months. There you go, But time for dilemmas.

698
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Speaker 2: This I got a long one but bit of also

699
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:31,759
Speaker 2: a more serious, bit of a deeper one. Ready, Hey,

700
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,320
Speaker 2: Jake and Oddie, She said, if you're open to talking

701
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 2: about abortions on the podcast, i'd love your opinion. Setting

702
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 2: the scene, my boyfriend and I have been dating for

703
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 2: just over two years. We are both nineteen. Last year,

704
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,400
Speaker 2: I found out I was pregnant before i'd even processed it.

705
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:50,240
Speaker 2: My boyfriend assumed i'd get in a boy get an abortion,

706
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 2: which was my choice in the end, but he never

707
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 2: even asked what I wanted. He was going away with

708
00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,359
Speaker 2: his family in a week and didn't want to tell them.

709
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 2: They're quite strict and Christian, so I didn't tell my

710
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 2: family either out of respect for him.

711
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 1: Oh wild.

712
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:11,240
Speaker 2: I was stressed, overwhelmed, and unsure how I felt about

713
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:14,320
Speaker 2: ending the pregnancy. I missed the cutoff for a medical

714
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 2: abortion and had to book in a surgical one before Christmas.

715
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 2: Throughout the whole thing, he wasn't really there for me

716
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 2: emotionally or physically. On the day of the procedure. Instead

717
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 2: of helping me with practical stuff and staying with me,

718
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 2: especially after because the Earth said someone would need to

719
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 2: be with me, he went to a work dinner ended

720
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 2: up paying for the abortion because his mum monitors his

721
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 2: bank account. He promised to pain me back, but it

722
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 2: took six months and multiple reminders. For me, it wasn't

723
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 2: about the money. It was about feeling like the least

724
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 2: he could do was support me financially since he wasn't

725
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,839
Speaker 2: able to in any other way. Now months later, I've

726
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 2: realized how unsupported I felt during the whole experience. I've

727
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 2: tried to talk to him about it, but since it's

728
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 2: in the past, he just says he can't change it.

729
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 2: He has apologized for after I told him how I

730
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 2: felt about it, but it kind of felt disingenuous. I

731
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 2: don't know if I should let it go, especially because

732
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 2: he has paid me back, pay me back now, or

733
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Speaker 2: see this as a sign that he's not the partner

734
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Speaker 2: I need. I just don't know, because it's one bad

735
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 2: situation and we are both we are both you not

736
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 2: gonna lie and learning as it's our first relationship new

737
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,439
Speaker 2: both new and learning as it's our first relationship, it says,

738
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 2: and we are both.

739
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Speaker 1: Ng I don't know.

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Speaker 2: This is this is very much a shortened virgin. I

741
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 2: need your opinion. What do you guys think from I

742
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 2: might leave her name out of it. Also love the podcast.

743
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 2: It's my go to hotgirl walk on audio. So when

744
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 2: I read that initially, I was like, that's heavy, But

745
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:50,280
Speaker 2: I wanted to fucking talk about it because.

746
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: A couple things. I think.

747
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 2: Look, whatever decision you make with your body is the

748
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 2: right decision because it's your body. But I don't think

749
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 2: you should ever feel as though you can't tell anyone

750
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 2: about the pregnancy just because his family is quite strict Christian. Right,

751
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 2: once you're pregnant, it is in my opinion that the

752
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 2: person that got you pregnant doesn't have a single say personally.

753
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:29,479
Speaker 2: Oh so like if you guys had unsack unprotected sex right,

754
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:35,839
Speaker 2: even if it was obviously fully consensual, and you get pregnant,

755
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:40,319
Speaker 2: it is in my opinion that anything that goes is

756
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 2: your say. Like, I don't think his opinion matters because

757
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 2: it is literally your body.

758
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 1: I think the opinion is always hers, no matter what.

759
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 1: But also his opinion does matter to a certain extent.

760
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 1: But everything he did in this is completely wrong and

761
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 1: it pissed me off completely. Yeah, I don't want to

762
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:01,319
Speaker 1: say the man has zero say, because if you are

763
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:03,319
Speaker 1: in a loving relationship, you want your boyfriend to have

764
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:06,360
Speaker 1: an opinion and you appreciate that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean, oh,

765
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:09,840
Speaker 1: you can certainly ask his opinion. Yeah yeah, yeaheah. Everything

766
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: about that fucking pissed me off, And it also highlights

767
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:18,479
Speaker 1: a much larger problem, which unfortunately is relatable, where when

768
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 1: men do get their partner pregnant or the couple gets

769
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:26,720
Speaker 1: pregnant at a young age, they go distant and don't

770
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 1: know what to do, and as a result, you feel

771
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 1: isolated and confused and make decisions or your hand is

772
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 1: forced because these men are immature or don't know how

773
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: to deal with the said situation, which pisces me off

774
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 1: because I've heard things almost word for word the exact same,

775
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,279
Speaker 1: three or four times same. That's why I was like, fuck,

776
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 1: I've heard this before. Yeah. So firstly, like sorry you

777
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 1: had to go through all that, Yeah, like in the

778
00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:58,839
Speaker 1: way you did it, like with him, like he wasn't

779
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: a supportive per and in any means, like fucking finances

780
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:04,399
Speaker 1: should be the last thing you want someone by your

781
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 1: side going through this. It is a traumatic experience, and

782
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 1: you want someone by your side who can support you

783
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 1: emotionally and just fucking be an arm to lean on. Yeah, look,

784
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 1: as simple as that, like, finances should come last. Obviously

785
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:17,719
Speaker 1: he should take the run of it, but fuck you

786
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: give the fuck about the finances at the.

787
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 2: End of the day, there were so many red flags

788
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 2: before the finance.

789
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:26,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, like number one.

790
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 2: If he so, it's like, how dare he assume that

791
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 2: you're going to get an abortion? It's like, if you

792
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 2: get pregnant, he can want you to get an abortion. Yeah, exactly,

793
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,400
Speaker 2: but also he should be like, you know, you come

794
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 2: to him, you sayre pregnant, He's like, Okay, what do

795
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 2: you want to do?

796
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 1: Exactly? That's the first thing, is the first thing you

797
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:43,279
Speaker 1: want to do.

798
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 2: Okay, let's deal with this however you want to deal

799
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 2: with it. If you want to keep the kid. He

800
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 2: can have his opinion of you. He would prefer you

801
00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 2: to get an abortion, but also doesn't matter. Secondly, he

802
00:40:56,000 --> 00:41:02,959
Speaker 2: just wasn't fucking there for you, crazy badly you choose

803
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 2: to get an abortion. Again, this could just be my opinion,

804
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:08,879
Speaker 2: but personally think he.

805
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 1: Pays the whole thing. Well I think so too. Yeah, yeah,

806
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:16,919
Speaker 1: so what's the actual dilemma she wants to know? She's

807
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:20,279
Speaker 1: just like, should I let it go? Fuck? Don't? Fuck no,

808
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 1: you should let it no, don't let it go. Yeah,

809
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 1: I can give a very mummy answer to avoid this

810
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:32,239
Speaker 1: for other baddies. Not to highlight this baddie right now,

811
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 1: but I've learned this is when you start having sex

812
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 1: with someone, you should have the conversation around what how

813
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:44,400
Speaker 1: do you feel about if you did fell pregnant and

814
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 1: have the conversation before it happens, and then you get

815
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 1: to see a man's reaction. Yeah, and you can avoid

816
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 1: all this because these guy's are trash dude fucking oath here. Yeah.

817
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 1: And the fact that he's just scared of his fucking

818
00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 1: parents and they manage his bank account another red flag.

819
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:03,439
Speaker 1: He can't get insane, he can't get money out. What's

820
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: an abortion? It's like a grand or something, isn't it.

821
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: It's probably more. I actually don't know. I know that,

822
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 1: to be fair, surgery is more than the surgery is

823
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 1: a lot more. It's a literal surgery.

824
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 5: Ye.

825
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, here's my like.

826
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 2: I think that it's a major red flag when someone's

827
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:26,800
Speaker 2: boyfriend has their fucking bank account monitored by their parents.

828
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:28,799
Speaker 1: I don't care how old you are.

829
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're fifteen, okay, fair, Right, they open the

830
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 2: bank account for you.

831
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 1: They have access to it. Cool, like you're fifteen, if

832
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 1: you're eighteen and up and your bank account is monitored

833
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:44,359
Speaker 1: by your parents. But what he should have done you

834
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 1: are not ready for a relationship one, And what he

835
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:51,840
Speaker 1: should have done in this exact sceno minus all his decisions,

836
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:54,759
Speaker 1: is gone to his parents and said, hey, I have

837
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: got so and so pregnant. I need to help her

838
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 1: to finance the abortion. If that's what she wanted. If

839
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 1: that's the conversation, I'm taking away everything he did that

840
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 1: was wrong at the start. And he goes, I need

841
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 1: to pay for this. I need my money right now

842
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 1: to help her out worst case, you know. And I

843
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:12,920
Speaker 1: want to say it again, money is the last thing.

844
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 1: It's fucking insane to me. If you can't get a

845
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 1: handle on your own money and your parents are looking

846
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 1: at that ship for you, I'm sorry. You cannot be

847
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:29,240
Speaker 1: in a relationship that is insane.

848
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 4: Yeah.

849
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 1: I want to put emphasis on the batter you sent

850
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 1: this in, like, I am so so sorry. Okay, Well

851
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 1: I'm saying break up with him. I can't look past it. No,

852
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 1: I'm this is deal breaker. Yeah, central, think about how

853
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:51,840
Speaker 1: you feel. You're still feeling it and he still is

854
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:53,880
Speaker 1: kind of like it's in the past. You know, we

855
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:56,880
Speaker 1: can't change it. That's insane. He has zero fucking ar

856
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 1: it's zero empathy. He doesn't give a fuck. It's in

857
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:04,879
Speaker 1: the past, like it is what it is. Please break

858
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 1: up with them, Yeah, yeah, at the bare minimum, Like

859
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:09,919
Speaker 1: you need to tell him how this made you feel.

860
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 1: She did, she did that, she did, and it was

861
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:14,799
Speaker 1: just it was just like disingenuous. Sorry, she said. I

862
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 1: told him like, yeah, yeah, you can do so mu

863
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 1: I've tried to talk to him about it. You can

864
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:20,280
Speaker 1: do so much better. He just says it's in the past.

865
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 1: He doesn't want to hear about it. He doesn't have

866
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 1: time to hear about the way you feel. Did you

867
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 1: know what that fucking does to the human body?

868
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 4: Yeah?

869
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:32,399
Speaker 1: I hate everything about it. We've set out peace. Yeah,

870
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 1: I just wanna say, he's the fucking dirt underneath my shoe,

871
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 1: that bloke. He is the type of person where that's

872
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: a tire slashing. Yeah, this is where I would get

873
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 1: my fix of wanting to slash a tira honestly true, Well,

874
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 1: there is there is things that I would fucking do.

875
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 1: This guy I hate too. That's rather relatable. I know, well, Okay,

876
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:57,439
Speaker 1: my dilemma is wearing a condom possible in a long

877
00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:02,720
Speaker 1: term relationship? Can I answer that? Sure? Yeah, the LENMS

878
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:06,359
Speaker 1: is done to lendless done for Hey, guys, thank you

879
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: so much for the pod. I love you both for

880
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: your open mindsets as well as the respect you show

881
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 1: to everyone. My question is quite simple as above. For context,

882
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:18,360
Speaker 1: I'm a competitive athlete and compete internationally in my sport.

883
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 1: I train hard and being physically fit is a big

884
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:23,960
Speaker 1: part of my lifestyle. I don't do drugs, I don't drink,

885
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:27,839
Speaker 1: I eat well, So for me personally, I wouldn't want

886
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 1: to go on any sort of birth control that could

887
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,719
Speaker 1: mess with my hormones as it plays such a big

888
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 1: part of my health. And having a period is a

889
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:38,960
Speaker 1: great indicator of overtraining, I guess, and not having a

890
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 1: period is a great indicator of overtraining. Yes, yes, that's true.

891
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,760
Speaker 1: There's also a lot of breast cancer in my family,

892
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 1: and I feel like a guy wrapping up is a

893
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 1: little easier than all the risks that come with birth control.

894
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 1: Call me crazy, not at all. Having chatted to a guy,

895
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 1: he said that using a condom just won't work in

896
00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 1: a long term relationship because the second isn't the same.

897
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 1: I understand his point. I get the spontaneity of sex

898
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:10,799
Speaker 1: would be impacted, but I personally haven't had a long

899
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 1: term relationship because I haven't met anyone and I'm happily

900
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 1: single and know what I want in a relationship, so

901
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: have no experience in a long term draw ha ha.

902
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 1: My sport is pretty male orientated and I do get

903
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:25,839
Speaker 1: quite a lot of attention from guys within it, so

904
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 1: anything short term I wouldn't feel would be an issue

905
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 1: in finding. But do guys really care about this in

906
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:34,799
Speaker 1: the long term? I feel if it was any of

907
00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 1: my close guy friends, they wouldn't care because their girlfriends

908
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 1: would be the priority. But what do I know. Maybe

909
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 1: it's naive of me, but it just seems unfair, But

910
00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 1: I understand the guy's point of view. I wanted another

911
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 1: opinion and thought maybe some girls would have value on

912
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:51,799
Speaker 1: this guy's perspective. Thank you so much for all your time.

913
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 1: Lots of love from the UK.

914
00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:57,799
Speaker 2: Damn, I was gonna say, there's a thing in Australia.

915
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:02,360
Speaker 2: There's been like a theme that I think we've both noticed,

916
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:06,000
Speaker 2: and it's that men don't seem to give a fuck

917
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:09,560
Speaker 2: about the risks with sex, not at all. And it's

918
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 2: it is worldwide probably, but for some reason there's a

919
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 2: lot like I think we've had dilemmas from Europeans where

920
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 2: they are like Australian dudes just don't want to wear condoms,

921
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:24,920
Speaker 2: but this is an Australian but like and apparently it

922
00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 2: seems to me like the theme at least that I've

923
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 2: noticed from my own experience is that over the European

924
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 2: countries it is more of a thing where it's like

925
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 2: more knowledge of the dangers, but with out aside though

926
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:39,320
Speaker 2: in a relationship.

927
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:44,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, again, relatable, dude, say I don't wear I don't

928
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 1: want to wear a common it doesn't feel good, it

929
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 1: doesn't feel as good. Just get a feather light one bro. Yeah.

930
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 1: And also like, irrespective of all the very valid good

931
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 1: reasons you said, it should be as little as I

932
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: don't want to go on the pill, he should have

933
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 1: to wear a condom, simple as that. You don't have

934
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 1: to have a reason at all. No, Yeah, And like

935
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 1: the solution of wrapping your willy compared to taking this

936
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,239
Speaker 1: drug that does mess with all your hormones and if

937
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:13,320
Speaker 1: You're lucky you don't have any side effects, but majority

938
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 1: of people do. I think should be an easy of course,

939
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 1: I will wrap my willy up.

940
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,239
Speaker 2: Look that guy that said that to you just obviously,

941
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 2: I mean, I know you don't want to date him. Yeah,

942
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 2: but yes, yeah, it's just not the right dude.

943
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 1: Yeah. But the harsh reality of this too is I

944
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 1: think majority of men would have the same mindset. Yeah. Yeah,

945
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:38,359
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, yeah, I'm just under the I I

946
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:41,719
Speaker 1: just think that if Beth said, you know, no, I

947
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 1: want to wear a condom, I want you to wear

948
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:47,719
Speaker 1: on them. And it's just like, of course, everyone's like,

949
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:50,359
Speaker 1: let me just say something, let me just say something, right,

950
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 1: Guys are like, it doesn't feel as good without a condom.

951
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 1: It doesn't feel good without an I won't be able

952
00:48:55,520 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 1: to finish if I'm wearing a condom. Shut the fuck up, bro,

953
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:06,280
Speaker 1: You literally can you literally can? All right, just chill out,

954
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 1: big guy. You can literally finish with a condom one.

955
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:14,440
Speaker 1: It's not fucking difficult. And also, after like two times,

956
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 1: you'd be used to it. Fucking oath all right, You're like, wow,

957
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:23,400
Speaker 1: this is kind of the same, Like it is literally.

958
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, that's what I'm saying. All I'm saying is

959
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 2: you canfensially commu Yeah.

960
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 1: And it's also about like finding a man with an

961
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:37,000
Speaker 1: open mindset, because this man who you asked it about

962
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: immediately went to the negative. No, it doesn't feel lose good.

963
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 1: But if you find a guy, it can be a

964
00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 1: sexy thing for you to put a condom on his

965
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:46,360
Speaker 1: willie and get in the mood like that's hot. You

966
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 1: can use it as an opportunity to be more sexy,

967
00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 1: like he's like, sure, let's have some fun. Why not,

968
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 1: let's try it for colors. Fucking just try to try

969
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:56,920
Speaker 1: glow on the dark ones. Some just find a dude

970
00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,880
Speaker 1: with open mindset, like, oh man, this one kissed me

971
00:49:59,880 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 1: off too. It's weird that someone has the nerve and

972
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 1: audacity to say that. Yeah. And it also seemed like

973
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 1: she kind of needed to justify why she had the

974
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:14,439
Speaker 1: reasoning behind wanting a dude to wear a condom. You don't, Yeah,

975
00:50:14,520 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 1: you don't have just fight. There's the thing is like

976
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 1: I would say, like I'm guilty of saying, like it

977
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:23,359
Speaker 1: it feels better without a condom, right, And because when

978
00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 1: you do have sex without econdom, yeah, and then sex

979
00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 1: with econdom.

980
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 2: It's like when you really like deep it. Yeah, it

981
00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:36,880
Speaker 2: doesn't feel it's not night and day difference, Like it

982
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 2: feels different, but it's not night and day.

983
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 1: But it doesn't make it feel bad. No, it's not

984
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:46,160
Speaker 1: like yeah, yeah it doesn't. This isn't a chore now. Yeah.

985
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:50,359
Speaker 5: Like it's gone from like a ten out of ten

986
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 5: to a nine point two yeah yeah, and you can

987
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:54,919
Speaker 5: train it up to a ten yeah yeah yeah where

988
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 5: it's fucking hell.

989
00:50:57,280 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 1: Did you see the clip that was going viral about

990
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:04,959
Speaker 1: they were asking men if there was male conscerception, would

991
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:07,839
Speaker 1: you take it as like a pill form? Yeah, they

992
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 1: didn't specify which, and then one of the guys was

993
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 1: just like probably not at the side effects. It went

994
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 1: fucking viral.

995
00:51:17,280 --> 00:51:20,879
Speaker 2: Oh I mean, I reckon I'd do it?

996
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I reckon, I would.

997
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:25,719
Speaker 2: I fucking be because Beth can't take the pill. She

998
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 2: has like gnari pcos, so she actually can't take the pill.

999
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 2: And if this thing came out where it's like because

1000
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 2: in Akatar that's immediate redrinks a tonic. Yeah, and that's

1001
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:36,040
Speaker 2: his contraception.

1002
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:37,399
Speaker 1: Fucking earth, they do that shit?

1003
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1004
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:42,360
Speaker 1: Are you serious? Yeah? Why not? What's it going to

1005
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 1: do to me? It would be good if the option

1006
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:48,480
Speaker 1: was there that was equal. What's it gonna do to meet? Like,

1007
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 1: just give me some mood swings, give them to me.

1008
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:52,400
Speaker 1: I don't have any. Yeah, yeah, yeah, But do you

1009
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:55,480
Speaker 1: know how it always falls on the lady for some reason.

1010
00:51:55,560 --> 00:52:00,400
Speaker 1: To be protective, I guess guys should offer thee But

1011
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:04,080
Speaker 1: if the option when they started making pills was there

1012
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 1: was an option, you and your couple go through the

1013
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 1: side effects of both people and you get to make

1014
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:11,239
Speaker 1: a choice together if're obviously in a healthy relationship. But

1015
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 1: it's always fallen on the girl since whenever the pill

1016
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,839
Speaker 1: was invented. Oh, I'm sure that there has been a

1017
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:20,399
Speaker 1: male contraception invented, like an actual like pill form. It's

1018
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:26,760
Speaker 1: like so it's like I'm also sure, So why hasn't

1019
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 1: there been one yet? No, there's like this thing and

1020
00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 1: it's a it's a male contraception. I'm sure of it.

1021
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:33,399
Speaker 1: I might do some research on it, maybe talk about

1022
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:37,280
Speaker 1: it next week. But they like inject a gel into

1023
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:40,520
Speaker 1: the is it called your urethra? Yeah, and it makes

1024
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 1: it infertile.

1025
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 2: Well just you still like come, but it's just it's

1026
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:50,440
Speaker 2: a it's a contraception. And then it's a thing that

1027
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 2: they've done a bunch of studies on obviously because it's

1028
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:57,520
Speaker 2: coming out where it after like two years it dissolves,

1029
00:52:57,640 --> 00:52:59,320
Speaker 2: so you can have like two years of contraception.

1030
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:01,879
Speaker 1: Yeah. So it's like sort of similar to the robbed

1031
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:04,840
Speaker 1: inner sense and legit like that.

1032
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:08,720
Speaker 2: Still, Yeah, it's a legit thing, like you're still fucking

1033
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 2: producing testosterone. You're still producing all that shit. It's just

1034
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:14,279
Speaker 2: like blocking it. And then I don't I don't know

1035
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 2: how it actually works, but like you know what I mean,

1036
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 2: it's like a forseect me. Get a refect me. You

1037
00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 2: can get that shit reversed. Can you can get a

1038
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 2: reverse repected me? Bro, I don't know if you get

1039
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:24,480
Speaker 2: it like untired. Yeah, I don't know that.

1040
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:26,319
Speaker 1: Well, I don't know if they tie it, but they

1041
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 1: you can get I know a guy that's had a

1042
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 1: reverse repect me because I wanted to have another kid

1043
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:31,840
Speaker 1: because one of their kids passed away. And it works.

1044
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:33,799
Speaker 1: Very sad, but and it worked. He had another kid

1045
00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 1: and then got another vaseectomy, and he said it, Bro.

1046
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: He came to work a couple of days after and

1047
00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 1: it was he was he was a trady and he

1048
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 1: was like waddling. I remember when I was like cool,

1049
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:46,360
Speaker 1: sorry mate, playing soccer. One of my coaches got to

1050
00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:48,080
Speaker 1: viseect me and he rocked up and he go, guys,

1051
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 1: I'm not moving. Yeah, I'm not fucking moving. When you

1052
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:53,240
Speaker 1: think about it, right, it's like a visectomy is paying

1053
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:58,319
Speaker 1: for a week, two weeks. The pill is change in

1054
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 1: hormones the whole time you have the pill. Yeah, let's

1055
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 1: weigh up the option. Something doesn't compute here, it doesn't

1056
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 1: compute here? Yeah, okay, bad, he's big, sorry big, apologies,

1057
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 1: You've run out a bit of time today. So the

1058
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:22,799
Speaker 1: IG question it is there, but we're gonna have to

1059
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,320
Speaker 1: put it in Patreon. We are. Yeah, now, we're not

1060
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 1: even asking you to go sign up. We're just letting

1061
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 1: you know. That's where it is. Time for some comments.

1062
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 1: Let's do it. I got Spotify in front of me,

1063
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:36,000
Speaker 1: I've got YouTube. So this is last week's episode, and

1064
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:39,480
Speaker 1: there is a lot of comments about who's won last

1065
00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 1: week's Olympics. But we both have a couple that are

1066
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 1: not about that. Yeah, so I got Taylor Larsen said

1067
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:50,240
Speaker 1: big back equals fatty? Oh is that what it means?

1068
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:52,160
Speaker 1: We did ask him to tell us. Yeah, we thought

1069
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:54,319
Speaker 1: it meant big ass, but it just means fatty Like

1070
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 1: big back could mean like, yeah, you're a juicy fucking

1071
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: fat with the phr yeah, but no, but it also

1072
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 1: means just like fat fat, big back means your fab

1073
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:09,439
Speaker 1: that day. It's crazy, Okay, interesting, wild, Okay, I've got

1074
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Speaker 1: I've only got one because all the rest are about

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Speaker 1: the results from the thing over.

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Speaker 2: Her name is zoom Rad Chaker. She said that reference

1077
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Speaker 2: to Lady in the Tramp being old and proceeds to

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Speaker 2: state early two thousands has me feeling old. It was

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Speaker 2: released in nineteen fifty five.

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Speaker 1: Really bushit day. There's no way did they have when

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00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 1: it was Lady and the Cartoons back then. Lady in

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00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 1: the Tramp was released in United States features in the

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Speaker 1: in June twenty two, nineteen fifty five. The film also

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Speaker 1: had a world premiere in Chicago on June sixteenth, nineteen

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Speaker 1: fifty five. Okay, let me just see that must be

1086
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Speaker 1: a blanket? Did that? Am I dumb? When did color

1087
00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 1: TV come out? Oh? When did let's ask it?

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Speaker 2: When did color TV come out? Mid nineteen fifties?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, well I want to find out when did

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00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:19,240
Speaker 2: the Lady and the okay, when did lay in the tramp?

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Speaker 1: Let's just admit animation that we were wrong. There's but

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00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:26,600
Speaker 1: I just accepted it. It's so good though. How did

1094
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:30,959
Speaker 1: they get animation that good? Dude, it's nineteen fifty five.

1095
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 1: It must be remastered. Just accept it. I can't believe

1096
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 1: how good the animation was in nineteen fifty five. They

1097
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:41,799
Speaker 1: might have redone it the one you saw. I dare

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Speaker 1: say you didn't see the one made in nineteen fifty five.

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Speaker 2: I've got to say Disney. Disney has fucking built animation

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Speaker 2: movies from the ground up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what nineteen fifty I couldn't accept that. I'm sorry

1102
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Speaker 1: for taking so long to accept that. My last one,

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Speaker 1: Julia the new merch is great. Oh thank you. All right, guys,

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Speaker 1: so it is now time to call one of you

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Speaker 1: lovely baddies to sign off the episode. Today we will

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Speaker 1: be calling Ella. Hello. Hello, is that Ella?

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Speaker 4: Yes, this is Ella speaking.

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Speaker 1: It's Audie and Jake from the Relatables podcast. How's it going?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, No way, I'm actually at UNI right

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Speaker 4: now wearing one of your shirts as well.

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Speaker 1: No way, crazy, let's go. How are you.

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Speaker 4: I'm good. I'm good. I'm currently watching a lecture outside

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Speaker 4: enjoying the sun. Oh, because it's rating.

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Speaker 1: Finally, finally the yeah the sun's out. Well, we're calling

1115
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 1: to ask if you could please sign off our episode

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Speaker 1: with some advice, a quote, a music lyric, anything you want.

1117
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Speaker 4: I think, well, actually to do with like sitting outside,

1118
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Speaker 4: I think, go outside and enjoy nature. Don't get stressed,

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Speaker 4: just go for a.

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Speaker 1: Walk, get grounded, you know, let's go speak about language. Yes,

1121
00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: thank you so much. That's great advice. Thanks Sella, and

1122
00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 1: no worry, it's a rocking our merchant Uni.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, represend, yeah, yeah, wrapping it.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy the rest of your day.

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Speaker 4: Awesome. Thanks, thanks so much.

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Speaker 3: You too.

1127
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 1: Oh we call the right person when they pick up

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Speaker 1: and they're like, oh yeah, I like going there. Thank

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Speaker 1: you guys for listening. We love your stay bad