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Speaker 1: do it again. Hi guys, welcome back to hear me out.

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Speaker 1: I am your host is an hermitage We've got like

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Speaker 1: my You're really the robin to my Batman.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's so.

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Speaker 1: I'm the batman. I'm Robin to your batman.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, either away, I feel I don't care for the

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Speaker 1: Where batman and batwoman.

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Speaker 2: I like that.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you just said you don't care for the

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Speaker 2: Maybe we're just bad. I'm also not aggressive about that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm happy to read away this week is This

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Speaker 1: week's quite a chill week for me organization mode. I

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Speaker 1: feel like I'm trying to do what I've never done

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Speaker 2: How's that true?

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Speaker 1: Like I'm a pack the night before girl. Never in

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Speaker 1: my life have I done it any differently. And I

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Speaker 1: that helps me, because then I'm not pulling stuff out

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Speaker 2: So it's a different type of trip as well. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't think too deeply on it. Just I'm

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Speaker 1: picking things up and like putting them aside, like going

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what's coming. So I'm

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Speaker 1: So that's fine, and I'm happy to do it, happy

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Speaker 1: to provide. Last night, I thought it would be funny

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Speaker 1: That's what was happening. The way I straighten everything out,

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Speaker 1: So then when I finally put that pregnancy pillow over

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Speaker 2: We'll get there. Well done on remembering those each morning.

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Speaker 2: I've not even like navigated a friendship with you, even

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Speaker 1: Like I've like gone on like, there's been guys I've

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Speaker 2: I do you remember that my actual hear me out

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Speaker 2: people that have to eat at allocated times and they

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Speaker 1: Like you're making my life hard. I'm not ready to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I so understand routine, And no, who am

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Speaker 1: Like, do you mean obviously, Like it's when you're working

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Speaker 2: My pop who was like he passed a few years ago.

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Speaker 2: We love him, but he was such a type, Like

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Speaker 2: what's right?

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Speaker 1: So it's like not because I'm absolutely starving and I

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Speaker 1: I need to eat now, it's eat tome twelve. I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that would definitely make traveling and holidays hard. Yeah, Like

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Speaker 1: I'm definitely gonna eat when you're hungry person, Like last night,

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Speaker 1: It was so performative. And I knew that because when

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Speaker 1: It was white. He goes look me in the eye.

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Speaker 1: Anyone that asked me if their eye contact makes me nervous, no.

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Speaker 1: Even now I'm being I'm so acutely aware of like

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Speaker 1: my life. I've said that to his fascet. I got,

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Speaker 1: what if they were looking at me? And like, I

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Speaker 2: Loud, and it's like, who are you proving this to?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and bear in mind, this is a guy I

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Speaker 1: fucking massive ego because I've never seen anything like that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: makes my skinkhole thinking about this guy. I actually feel.

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Speaker 2: Sick after knowing all your teas and seas, Like if

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Speaker 2: I'll put that on the list of like things my calves.

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Speaker 2: Like I was telling I was telling Noah something about

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Speaker 1: He's like what, Yeah, I'm like, there's so many people.

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Speaker 1: My mom didn't even realize that I can't burt. It's like,

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Speaker 1: why would she? I just don't, Like, I don't I

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Speaker 2: You know this is actually important to nobody. But I

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Speaker 2: because I have never burped in my life either. Really,

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Speaker 2: but I can have busy drinks. That's what I'm trying

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Speaker 1: Like where does the ego?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I don't know. I hate toilet humor. That

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Speaker 1: I do not think farts are funny. No, nah, like

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Speaker 1: someone fought haha. No, No, it's not funny. Look occasionally, Okay,

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Speaker 1: the only fart videos I think are funny, and I

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Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's never landed.

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Speaker 1: I need to show you a compilation of this because

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Speaker 1: it's actually like one of the funniest things.

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Speaker 2: I want to show you. But this is really bad. Ah.

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Speaker 2: The producer and Carlin Jackieo posted like an elevator video

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Speaker 2: and he's farther than the lift.

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Speaker 1: Every morning, Oh, I would fade away.

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Speaker 2: And everyone's commenting like haha, I'm just like I can't

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Speaker 1: Okay, So on today's episode, we asked you guys to

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Speaker 1: send us in the craziest thing a man has said

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Speaker 1: you done to you? Just men? Yeah, because why not

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Speaker 1: stay on the man hate train. I'm kidding. I love

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Speaker 1: lots of men, just not all number one. I started

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Speaker 1: then again because he was thinking about his sick Nana.

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Speaker 1: I think the fact that you continued the sex after

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Speaker 1: two things you should not be thinking about. So that sucks.

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Speaker 1: And I think I pissed in the shower with me

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Speaker 1: in it, then lasted two minutes, farted loudly, and so said, well,

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Speaker 1: I guess we're getting comfortable tonight. That's fucking disgusting. My

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Speaker 1: I think it's completely normal. I like, do not be

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Speaker 1: I don't want anyone else. I compete in the shower

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Speaker 1: of my own shower when I'm alone. You can't peel

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Speaker 1: while someone else is in the shower. Good, But I

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Speaker 1: don't think there's a problem with peeing in the shower

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Speaker 2: I just get worried about tiles. I have white ties.

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Speaker 1: I am very okay. I don't want to put this

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Speaker 1: visual and anyone said so, I'm trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: how to word it. I need to like clean everything,

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Speaker 1: you know, what I mean, don't just finish and get

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Speaker 2: So many people don't clean their legs. It's such a

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00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:08,359
Speaker 2: nice feeling for me cleaning your legs. Yeah, Like people

435
00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:09,399
Speaker 2: don't put soap.

436
00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:13,280
Speaker 1: No I get I watch like everything feet included, like

437
00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:17,000
Speaker 1: bottom of my feet. Yeah, because like they're walking around

438
00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:19,200
Speaker 1: all day, Like I don't know what's anyway. My brother

439
00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:20,560
Speaker 1: was barefoot in the kitchen the other day and it

440
00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:23,160
Speaker 1: made me sick. Okay, I went to meet a guy

441
00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:25,760
Speaker 1: at three am. He fell asleep, left me strinds it

442
00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:29,399
Speaker 1: enrichment with no battery. Fuck that sucks. My friend had

443
00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:30,760
Speaker 1: to come. I feel like that would happen to so

444
00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:31,320
Speaker 1: many people.

445
00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:32,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, my.

446
00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:33,960
Speaker 1: Friend had to come rescue me. The next one he

447
00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:36,000
Speaker 1: says sorry, then ask me to come over so he

448
00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:38,600
Speaker 1: can fuck me real good, and tells her to send

449
00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:42,720
Speaker 1: him a nude. The audacity is insane. I think that

450
00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:44,879
Speaker 1: would happen to so many people. Like maybe not a

451
00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:46,920
Speaker 1: lot where they leave the house and then get fallen

452
00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:50,119
Speaker 1: asleep on but like you might be discussing with someone too.

453
00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:52,680
Speaker 1: I love how my socks are gray and my shoes away.

454
00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:55,439
Speaker 1: Usually it's like the other day around you'd be like

455
00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:58,000
Speaker 1: discussing maybe to go over there, see I have not

456
00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:03,240
Speaker 1: done that, or like in like since maybe ever. I

457
00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:05,080
Speaker 1: think I've only ever like spoken that way with maybe

458
00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:08,000
Speaker 1: ex boyfriends, like when I shouldn't have seen them, and

459
00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:09,600
Speaker 1: then someone might fall asleep and then you kind of

460
00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:11,320
Speaker 1: just have to like say I met, like you can't

461
00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:13,119
Speaker 1: go over there exuse they're asleep. But like having leaving

462
00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,439
Speaker 1: your house and having that hap and like sucks. I

463
00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:17,119
Speaker 1: was really hoping that some of these were like text,

464
00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:19,440
Speaker 1: but you know how like men, I saw this fucked

465
00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:23,760
Speaker 1: text message the other day. I saw this crazy message.

466
00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,320
Speaker 1: Oh I found it. I found it. I found it, Okay,

467
00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:29,200
Speaker 1: I'm that fast, Yeah, because I knew it to search

468
00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:32,399
Speaker 1: up yep. And it was sometimes you just got to

469
00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:34,920
Speaker 1: read your situationships text and go on about your day.

470
00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:37,119
Speaker 1: And that's kind of like what I guess we were

471
00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:39,000
Speaker 1: wanting to do with this, Like whatever was the fuck

472
00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:41,720
Speaker 1: thing about I said to you this, He almost won

473
00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:47,080
Speaker 1: the situation by sending this message. He goes, she's cut

474
00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,080
Speaker 1: up most of our message, but she's like protect my

475
00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:50,920
Speaker 1: own peace. I realize you can't provide the respect that

476
00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:53,160
Speaker 1: I deserve, which really upsets me. I know you think

477
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:55,359
Speaker 1: I'm dramatic or whatever, but I'm not going to allow

478
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,159
Speaker 1: people to say in my life who constantly make me

479
00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:02,240
Speaker 1: feel small. She obviously ending it. He goes, You're gonna die.

480
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:06,440
Speaker 1: It's so bad. Fair, so sorry. I thought I could

481
00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 1: balance a four girl roster, but I'm just so busy.

482
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,879
Speaker 1: And obviously you live in Brizzy, which is like super inconvenient.

483
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,199
Speaker 1: You honestly were just getting outperformed by the other girls.

484
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:18,560
Speaker 1: Good on you, though, for finding some standards. I love

485
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,720
Speaker 1: seeing my girls grow xx all the best love.

486
00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:26,040
Speaker 2: Oh my god, good.

487
00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 1: On you for finding some standards though, oh my god

488
00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 1: getting outperformed. I love seeing my girls grow. This guy's funny.

489
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:38,639
Speaker 2: It's like I wouldn't know how to react to a

490
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 2: message like that, because like, of course you might be

491
00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,720
Speaker 2: hurt upset. Yeah, but like i'd have to be like,

492
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:47,159
Speaker 2: oh my fucking.

493
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 1: Friends, like someone goes, damn exit interview turned into a

494
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:56,920
Speaker 1: performance review, like I can't. I thought that was fucking hilarious. Anyway,

495
00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:00,440
Speaker 1: My long distance boyfriend asked to borrow three three hundred

496
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,440
Speaker 1: dollars for fuel to come visit me, and then another

497
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:04,959
Speaker 1: one hundred dollars after the trip. I asked for it

498
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,399
Speaker 1: back and he said I forced him to come visit me.

499
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,080
Speaker 1: It's been two years and I've never seen that money again.

500
00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:14,879
Speaker 1: I hope he's your export friend, honey. Yeah, please like

501
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 1: force you to visit me. I bet she sees him

502
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:21,119
Speaker 1: like every fucking week and he never asked for fuel money.

503
00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 2: And like, how far away is this place? Because I

504
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:26,160
Speaker 2: know it feels expensive at the moment, but.

505
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 1: It's definitely not okay. Number four. So I was talking

506
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 1: to this guy, let's call him Daniel, for eight months.

507
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,359
Speaker 1: We hung out every day basically, and we said I

508
00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:38,479
Speaker 1: love you, and we were not dating. I know, please, boomy,

509
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:41,199
Speaker 1: I deserve it. But this man was obsessed with me.

510
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,760
Speaker 1: He wanted to be around me constantly, and he claims

511
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 1: he could literally feel my emotions. If I was upset,

512
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 1: he was upset. If I cried, he cried. It was

513
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 1: actually giving weird, but my dumbass thought it was love.

514
00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 1: I think that's valid. Like I think initially you'd be like, oh,

515
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:57,199
Speaker 1: that's really sweet, but yeah, it to be odd. Then

516
00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 1: last month he started pulling away, and unfortunately the second,

517
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 1: and there was a chase. My interest skyrocketed. Someone needs

518
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,919
Speaker 1: to tell me this psychological reason behind why we do that,

519
00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 1: behind why the moment someone's not interested, everything changes, do

520
00:23:10,760 --> 00:23:13,159
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Someone's obsessed with me and

521
00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 1: I'm like mm m, and then they start repining and

522
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:19,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, wait, hello, are you still there?

523
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 2: It's a crulest trap.

524
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:25,399
Speaker 1: It's so unfair. So I confronted him. This man had

525
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:29,640
Speaker 1: a full dramatic breakdown, pacing, sobbing, slapping his own head, oh,

526
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 1: saying he's shutting down because he's scared of how strong

527
00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 1: his feelings are and if I feel if this is

528
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:36,199
Speaker 1: how I feel about you now, and then how am

529
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,400
Speaker 1: I gonna feel if this goes no longer? Like wouldn't

530
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:41,640
Speaker 1: you feel good? He decides to end it then and there,

531
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,040
Speaker 1: but still sleeps over the next two nights, crying himself

532
00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:46,160
Speaker 1: to sleep because he's so sad this is over, as

533
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 1: if this isn't his choice. I don't know why they

534
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:52,200
Speaker 1: do it. After this, he's messaging me every excuse he gets,

535
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 1: reminding me not to taint my angel image for him. Honestly,

536
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 1: what a fucking wido. We don't talk for months, then

537
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 1: his best friend, Steve messages me begging me to reach

538
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 1: out because Daniel is at his lowest and he can't

539
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 1: deal with getting over me any longer. Then he drops

540
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:10,680
Speaker 1: the most insane information I've ever heard. Daniel has slept

541
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:13,440
Speaker 1: with a dozen girls since we've ended things. But that's

542
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:16,679
Speaker 1: not even the insane information. He can only sleep with

543
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,880
Speaker 1: the girl if they have the same hair color, same

544
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:21,920
Speaker 1: body type, same skin tone as me, and he can

545
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,640
Speaker 1: only finish if their face is hidden, because he's pretending

546
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 1: it's me that's giving cereal killer.

547
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,399
Speaker 2: That is very unsettling, my friends.

548
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 1: He goes on to show me his hinge profile and

549
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 1: all the prompts are describing me to scope. These girls

550
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 1: are easier now. Steve keeps telling me how badly I've

551
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 1: messed up Daniel, and I'm confused because he's the one

552
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,720
Speaker 1: who ended it, and I feel like he thinks I

553
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 1: should find this romantic, but honestly, it just is the

554
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,400
Speaker 1: most fucking gross compliment I've ever received. What do you think?

555
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 1: I think it's psychotic, like I think it's insane, and

556
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,640
Speaker 1: I feel like he's giving someone that if he did

557
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 1: like you more, he probably would talk you till the end.

558
00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:01,400
Speaker 1: Of the earth and potentially could have murder charges if

559
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 1: things went south.

560
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:03,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean.

561
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: That's terribing.

562
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:09,920
Speaker 2: We talk about types, but not replicas. No, Like, that's

563
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 2: just foul.

564
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,120
Speaker 1: What do you think when you see that someone's dating

565
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 1: someone that looks really similar to the ex like really similar.

566
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 1: I don't actually ever think it's really like like I

567
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 1: just think they obviously probably have a type. I don't

568
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 1: think it's like ever that they're trying to find their

569
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:26,480
Speaker 1: X again.

570
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably is.

571
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 1: I think it's very situation. The situation.

572
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm actually shockling just to think of a scenario.

573
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 2: That's probably why I don't have a clear answer. I

574
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 2: don't know. I just find it really funny that we

575
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 2: live in a society where everyone's so like, this is

576
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:41,719
Speaker 2: my type, this is my type, but then people are

577
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 2: shocked when that happens. It's like, oh, well, it's kind of.

578
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 1: That's what their type is.

579
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 2: Like what are you writing? Was on the walls?

580
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think it's ever really like, oh, they're

581
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 1: trying to find some of it looks exactly like their X.

582
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 1: It's like if they wanted.

583
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 2: That, they'd go to X X. Oh that'd be this man.

584
00:25:56,280 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, or they would do. Alright, is he I've

585
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 1: got one for you because this is both the wildest

586
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: thing a man has ever said and done to me. Okay,

587
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 1: this is a long year, so this is about my

588
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 1: ex of three years. He's a redhead relevant info, I'm kidding,

589
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 1: it's not, which honestly should have been my first warning.

590
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,720
Speaker 1: And has been going to the gym for about six years,

591
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,160
Speaker 1: but somehow looks like he's been going for about two

592
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 1: according to most people. I thought she was gonna say

593
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 1: it looks like he hasn't gone at all, I know,

594
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,679
Speaker 1: according to most people, and had the ego of a

595
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 1: man who thought he was God's gift to women. You

596
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 1: spoke about that earlier, fucking worst thing ever sprinkling, a

597
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 1: little bit of sexism, a little racism. Somehow I didn't

598
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:38,719
Speaker 1: pick up on it at the start, and you've got

599
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:45,119
Speaker 1: the picture to a bad stuff. My hair's piercing me

600
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 1: off today. I don't know how. It's just like usually,

601
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:53,159
Speaker 1: I just have it all behind me. I like yours out, huh.

602
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 2: I like to singing ear and all my girlfriends always

603
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,680
Speaker 2: like should I show my ear cover? I'm like, I

604
00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 2: think it looks nice.

605
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 1: I don't mind. Like one ear maybe, yeah, a lot

606
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,160
Speaker 1: of them, you just do one on one. There were

607
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:06,120
Speaker 1: red flags that I absolutely ignored. For example, his best

608
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,239
Speaker 1: friend at the time would repeatedly hit on me, like

609
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:11,680
Speaker 1: openly flirt with me in front of people, and even

610
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,919
Speaker 1: ask to sleep with me on a few occasions. It's

611
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 1: fucking discussing. I would tell my ex about it every

612
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 1: single time, and he would just do nothing about it,

613
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 1: didn't confront him, didn't care, just let it happen, which

614
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 1: looking back, was a pretty insane dynamic. You think I

615
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: would honestly really hate if that was happening to me

616
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 1: and my partner at the time wasn't saying anything. It's like,

617
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,199
Speaker 1: do you even give a shit about me that your

618
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 1: friend can just like hit on me and say he

619
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:37,679
Speaker 1: wants to sleep with me and you don't care, Like

620
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 1: there's levels of jealousy.

621
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 2: But like I instantly thought as well, I was like,

622
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,719
Speaker 2: why is he so okay with this? Is this a

623
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 2: normal thing? Is keeping it in the group? Yeah, yeah,

624
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,360
Speaker 2: I guess, And like, obviously this guy sounds really unhinged.

625
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 2: From the one paragraph we know, I'm not ruling anything out.

626
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, well see how we go. But the weirdest thing

627
00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 1: was how close he was with his mum. Mother son

628
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 1: relationships sometimes are a bit interesting. She would constantly call

629
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: him attractive, touch his muscles, hype up his looks, and

630
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 1: at one point they almost made out as a joke.

631
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 1: What I remember being like, I'm sorry, what, But every

632
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: time I said maybe that was a little weird, he

633
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 1: told me I just don't understand because my mum had

634
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 1: passed away, so I don't know what a normal mum's

635
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,359
Speaker 1: son relationship looks like. Wow, oh my god, why did

636
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: hit her where it hurts? Bud, which is a bold

637
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 1: thing to say to your girlfriend. Anyways, about three years

638
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: into God, you put together with this scuff for a while.

639
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: About three years into the relationship, I fractured my spine

640
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 1: while I was in Europe, pretty life changing injury. I

641
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 1: couldn't train properly for a while. I gained a bitter

642
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 1: weight while recovering, which I thought was fairly understandable considering

643
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 1: my spine had literally been fractured at the time. He

644
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: acted supportive of the whole don't worry about it, focus

645
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 1: on healing routine. Then, after a few months, we had

646
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 1: a nun sex in a while, and I finally asked

647
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: him why, And after a painful amount of digging because

648
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 1: this man communicated like a brick wall, he admitted that

649
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 1: he was losing a try action to me because I

650
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 1: gained weight and he didn't want to sleep with me anymore.

651
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 1: Men will sleep with anything. I'm like, shut up, Yeah,

652
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 1: that's bullshit. Do you know what I mean?

653
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 2: And have you stayed in impeccable shape and you're looking

654
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 2: true to form.

655
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: After six years at the gym and it doesn't look

656
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 1: like it. And she's just had a broken spine.

657
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 2: Come back to us.

658
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 1: People can't lose weight when they break their spine, bud, Yeah,

659
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: unless you want to start her, which please probably do,

660
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 1: then casually added for the past few months, he'd also

661
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 1: been thinking about sleeping with other people because he was

662
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 1: curious since he'd only slept with me and a couple

663
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 1: of other girls. We're both twenty three, by the way, Like, relax,

664
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 1: you're not a war veteran like one person a couple

665
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 1: other girls. The twenty three is fine. Anything is fine.

666
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: Oh I hate this man. He apologized after that conversation,

667
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 1: and then a week later doubled down and told me

668
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 1: that to be healthy and attractive to him, a woman

669
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 1: needed to be size six to eight and the example

670
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 1: he used to be explain this my ex best friend,

671
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 1: a girl who really hurt me in the past, with

672
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 1: an ex who he had recently started working with, which

673
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 1: he obviously knew would bother me. Naturally, we broke up

674
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: after that. Well, he dumped me half an hour before

675
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 1: I had to go to work that day.

676
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 2: What a fucking douche.

677
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 1: Then he asked for me back the same afternoon, after

678
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: yelling at his parents, who we lived with after Europe,

679
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 1: and rejecting me all day over text. Yes, I begged

680
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: for him back. You know what it happens. But I

681
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 1: held off for about a week because I thought maybe

682
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 1: he'd actually realize how insane everything he said was. Spoiler

683
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,120
Speaker 1: he obviously had not. We got back together and ended

684
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: up moving to Melbourne together because he promised to change.

685
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: Three months later, I tried on a top one day

686
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 1: and he made a comment about my arms looking fat.

687
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: I would not even know where to begin if a

688
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 1: partner said that my arms looked fat. Do you know

689
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 1: what I mean? I I think I would just my

690
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: jaw would hit the floor and I would I would

691
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:48,959
Speaker 1: be speechless.

692
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, I feel bad saying this because it

693
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 2: just hasn't happened to me, But like, yeah, you read

694
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 2: these things and like there are some men that are

695
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 2: just so casual and happy to make comments and critiques

696
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 2: about women's bodies or anyone's bodies for that matter, and

697
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 2: it's just yes because they feel like I'm actually like

698
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 2: gtting you right too. Yeah, I'm feeling heated, like stress.

699
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I started crying, and instead of apologizing, he says,

700
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 1: the reason I'm upset is because I'm insecure and I

701
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: don't understand what a real relationship is, because apparently this

702
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 1: is just how real couples talk to each other his words,

703
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 1: not mine, which I'm fairly confident is not true. Also,

704
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: just to around out the character profile, this man is

705
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 1: a huge Donald Trump supporter and Andrew Hate supporter. Side note,

706
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 1: we'll touch on this doco after this. Yeah, please, Andrew

707
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 1: Tate was involved in it, but the worst person in

708
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 1: the world, both of them, who believes immigrants are ruining

709
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 1: the country in Australia. So they were definitely other stupid

710
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: things he said along the way, but the weight saga

711
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: was my father craziest. We are now thankfully broken up.

712
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 1: Unfortunately we share custody of a dog, so once a

713
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 1: month I still have to deal with him and be

714
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 1: reminded that I dated this man for three years, and yes,

715
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 1: he still stands by a lot of what he did.

716
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 1: And when he found out I started dating after we

717
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: broke up, he slut shamed me immediately, classy, predictable. So

718
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 1: morrawl of the story is he never dated a man

719
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: with an ego, but especially Nevi dated redhead with an

720
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 1: ego who's weirdly close with an ego, who's weirdly close

721
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 1: to his mum and loves Andrew Tate. Honest, I note

722
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: about Andrew Tate. Yeah, Blake and I were just speaking

723
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 1: about there was a new Luither Thero documentary that came

724
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,719
Speaker 1: out on Netflix called them into the manisphere. Firstly, I

725
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: fucking love Louis throw Adore and if you haven't seen

726
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 1: any of his I think I've watched everyone. If you

727
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 1: haven't seen any of his documentaries, I reckon. Some of

728
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: my favorites are I think it was Louis and the Nazis.

729
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 1: He's incredibly interesting, like he basically picks fucked people that

730
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 1: think that they are like incredibly that they are in

731
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 1: the right. A lot of the time and kind of

732
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 1: exposes them and makes them look like idiots, and it's

733
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: really quite satisfying.

734
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's never in an hour would weigh or

735
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 2: an obvious way.

736
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 1: He kind of like they don't realize it's happening while

737
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 1: it's happening.

738
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 2: He lets him make their own bad Yeah.

739
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 1: Completely, Yeah, it's great. Like I know, I think one

740
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 1: of the better ones is a most hated family in America.

741
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: That's the one I'm talking about. Also, Lewis the gambling

742
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: in Las Vegas one is really it's kind of sad

743
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 1: and really interesting. Miami Mega Jail is so interesting as well.

744
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: I think there's two parts so that if I'm remembering correctly,

745
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 1: it's like the biggest jale like I think in America

746
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: or something like that. But it's like right in the

747
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 1: middle of the city and it's really really interesting. Like

748
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 1: the prison ones that he does, Twilight of the Porn

749
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 1: Stars is also quite interesting. All the like sex work

750
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: ones he does looks quite interesting. He has some amazing ones, and.

751
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 2: I'll give you a shout. He also has a podcast

752
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 2: now I think that launched last year of the year before.

753
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 2: One of my favorites is just an interview one and

754
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 2: I actually interview he's had Pink pantherest Jeanett mccurty. Because

755
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 2: I actually don't know many of the people that he interviews.

756
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm going to listen, and I always.

757
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 1: Enjoy Michael Sarah right ed Sheeran. Okay, So it's not

758
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 1: like it's like famous people not like yeah, right, okay,

759
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 1: but basically inside the manospheres about like those men like

760
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 1: that are part of like the red pill. Fucking what

761
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 1: would you call that? That's like a the red pill

762
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 1: blue pill is like something from the matrix where it's

763
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 1: like basically all these men believe that like the society

764
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 1: is kind of tricking them into like society trying to

765
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 1: make them like earn no money and not be successful.

766
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 1: And they're basically like, we need a fuck society and

767
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 1: fuck what everyone's telling us, and like do things differently.

768
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:41,879
Speaker 1: And but they're incredibly misogynistic a lot of the time,

769
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 1: very homophobic and racist, very they're anti somatic hectically, and

770
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: that was very prominent on the show as well, which

771
00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 1: in recent times is like hearts has even watch that

772
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: and hear the way that they talk about Jewish people.

773
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 1: But they're all very much believers in one side of monogamy.

774
00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 1: So they might have a girlfriend, but the girlfriend is

775
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 1: not allowed to even look in the direction of other

776
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 1: men men, but they're allowed to because what they believe

777
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 1: is that I've.

778
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 2: Already got their excuse. Yeah, men are born with more

779
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 2: testosterons to them or horny.

780
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, and when men really love a woman, they don't

781
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 1: want to look at other men. Yet for them, you know,

782
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 1: it's not about that. They're just big believers in like yeah,

783
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:21,760
Speaker 1: they're deep down just misogynistic, fucking assholes, but they become

784
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 1: what's scary is how many fans they have and how

785
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:29,280
Speaker 1: many young guys, young boys watch this stuff and aspire

786
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 1: to be like that with the views that they're pushing online.

787
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 1: Like even you know, one of the guys owns an

788
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:39,840
Speaker 1: agency that manager's only fans stars, and he's saying how

789
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,839
Speaker 1: he thinks it's fucking disgusting work and he would disown

790
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 1: his daughter if she ever did anything like it.

791
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:46,760
Speaker 2: But it's also one's und up with a virgin.

792
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:49,360
Speaker 1: Yes true, and he's not, but he's not above earning

793
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: money from it. He's not above earning money from only

794
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 1: fans workers. But there's no way in hell he'd ever

795
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 1: let his daughter be one, and he disown his son

796
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 1: if he was gay, but he has a gay.

797
00:35:57,239 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 2: Friend based on homophobia because he.

798
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 1: Has a gay friend. And then like one of the

799
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 1: guys I think his name is Martin, no Marlon, no, no,

800
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 1: that's that hot num. He's not into the manners for

801
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 1: you guys. He was saying that this guy whoever likes

802
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 1: about to say, I'm saying that he wants to have

803
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: like multiple wives. I'm like, that's polygamy. That's fucking illegal, dude,

804
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 1: waits polygamy illegal, But it isn't like Utah and shit

805
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:23,359
Speaker 1: like the fls like it aren't allowed to like, that's

806
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 1: illegal to Myron gaines Is, who were sorry, Marlin the hotty,

807
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:36,399
Speaker 1: we're not talking about you. But Myron brings girls onto

808
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 1: these podcast episodes and berates them like it is, calling

809
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 1: them attacking their bodies, attacking what like everything, what they

810
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,720
Speaker 1: look like, how they work like it is fucking vile.

811
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 1: And then he'll get all these stupid little fucking mini

812
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: red pill cunts online, all the little kids probably fucking

813
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 1: younger than twelve, typing all these disgusting comments about these

814
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: women as well, and read them out on the podcast

815
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 1: to the women they're talking about, and it's like they

816
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 1: do this every week, Like multiple girls go on this

817
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 1: show just to probably be berated by these men, And

818
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:12,240
Speaker 1: like I would don't understand why anyone would put themselves

819
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:14,319
Speaker 1: in that position, but a lot of these girls, you know,

820
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 1: definitely hold their own, but they're up against men that

821
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 1: literally just view them as lesser than them, so they're

822
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 1: going to just obliterate them.

823
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's not an unbiased audience, Like this audience

824
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 2: is coming from their echo chamber. I believe their podcasts

825
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:27,920
Speaker 2: were getting live streams so that.

826
00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 1: All, yeah, these people watching it are on the side

827
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: of the men in the menisphere. Yeah, I just think

828
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 1: it's creating such a scary, dangerous world, like to have

829
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: so many men. It's like it's almost like the in

830
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:43,839
Speaker 1: cell kind of community where they just believe that they're

831
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 1: they're worthy and they deserve to have a woman that

832
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:49,439
Speaker 1: just is submissive and does whatever they want. They feel

833
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 1: like that's odd to them.

834
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's so many parallels between them and in.

835
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 1: Cults, and it's incredibly dangerous. Yeah, they're just giving like

836
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 1: an incel that like happens to have a decent body

837
00:37:58,120 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 1: and got a chance.

838
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, how do you feel watched?

839
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 1: Because it made me sick. My jaw was on the

840
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 1: floor the whole fucking nime.

841
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 2: I was so anxious the whole time. The first four

842
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 2: minutes he refers to his girlfriend as, Oh, this is

843
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:09,360
Speaker 2: my dishwasher. I had to pause.

844
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: That's not even his girlfriend. I was just a roundom

845
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 1: fucking too good. I want to stand the girl's profiting

846
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,960
Speaker 1: off and being around these people. Either I don't mean to, like,

847
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 1: you know, talk shit on that, but it's like one

848
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 1: of the girls is in one of the live stream

849
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 1: videos and she's an only fans and Louis like, oh,

850
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 1: how do you feel that he thinks the only fans work?

851
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 1: Is like disgusting? Yet, like you're still in this video

852
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: and she's like, I don't care. It's like, why don't

853
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:32,919
Speaker 1: you care?

854
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, But then there was one partner who originally was

855
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 2: not allowed on cameraan was not commenting, and then when

856
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:42,239
Speaker 2: her partner started getting grilled, she suddenly was available for

857
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:45,839
Speaker 2: sit down interview with Louis. So I think they are

858
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:46,800
Speaker 2: very yeah.

859
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 1: Saying that she doesn't mind because when he's with other

860
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:49,439
Speaker 1: girls it's turnding for a night.

861
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think they're getting fed a lot of these things.

862
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 1: A lot of them are being controlled, you know, and.

863
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:56,760
Speaker 2: I can't even imagine what the dynamic.

864
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I really one of these guys was I love

865
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 1: women like Myron. That guy goes, I love women, and

866
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 1: then Lily goes, oh, do you think you know what's

867
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 1: good for them better than they do? And he's like, yeah,

868
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:09,319
Speaker 1: I do. Yeah, I believe I know what's better for

869
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:10,760
Speaker 1: them than they do.

870
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 2: And mine do you. What really shocked me is like

871
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 2: they would always disclose their age. All these men were

872
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 2: in their twenties, and I was saying to my household,

873
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 2: I was just like, I didn't think I would ever

874
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 2: feel confident like imparting wisdom life advice until I am

875
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:27,359
Speaker 2: well over forty and even then.

876
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 1: But these are mentally ill people, of course.

877
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 2: But it's just like so actually insane to me how

878
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 2: these men are so set in their ways but also

879
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 2: not open to change or not open other perspectives or

880
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 2: just knowing how the world works.

881
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 1: And like best BELLI if I like search up some

882
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 1: of the guys that were on this show and saw

883
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 1: that like people and you followed them about this girl

884
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 1: from You're Disgusting, Yeah, babe.

885
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 2: I think I felt really good after watching it, though

886
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 2: I have seen a bit of criticism and I do

887
00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 2: agree with it in the sense I feel like the

888
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 2: documentary could have captured the whole online space and the

889
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 2: role these men's men carry in a day to day Yeah,

890
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:13,879
Speaker 2: but like, I do find similarities how people expect when

891
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 2: you interview Bonnie Blue, you want to get right to

892
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 2: the crux of the truth, and like what makes you

893
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 2: do this? But I don't think there's an answer, and

894
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 2: I think it's an imperfect problem that we have that

895
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 2: just like there are no answers, we are just doomed

896
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 2: with things like that.

897
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like one of the guys interviewed Bonnie

898
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,240
Speaker 1: and it's like, you guys are the male and female

899
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: versions of each other.

900
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:35,240
Speaker 2: But then they're really upset by Bonnie.

901
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 1: They don't and then you fucking hate Bonnie. I'm like,

902
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 1: you are Bonnie.

903
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:39,240
Speaker 2: None of it makes sense.

904
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: You are like Brandon Blue, You're like the male version,

905
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 1: but like, get the fuck out of my face. I

906
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:48,400
Speaker 1: hate them all anyway. It is incredibly interesting, but I

907
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: think it. Yeah, it's something that it's like, yeah, watch it,

908
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: but I feel like, fuck, I just wanted to how

909
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: has the Internet not fucking banned these men?

910
00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 2: Well, like some of them are off platforms, make their

911
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 2: own n The last.

912
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 1: One in the doc I've got his fucking YouTube platform

913
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 1: back after that video would come out.

914
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:06,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a lost cause.

915
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 1: Discussing like honestly, some of the shit they spew and

916
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 1: that's creating like racism, homophobia, anti semitism, like the shit

917
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 1: they're spewing on these young impressionable boys that think that

918
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 1: these guys are the coolest guys on earth and they're

919
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:22,399
Speaker 1: fucking not. Anyway, it really gets me fired up. And

920
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: I watched around men and see how they react to it.

921
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 2: Please Yeah, and also check if they follow.

922
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:34,320
Speaker 1: Follow these ma'am. Yeah, fucking hs tiki talkie, fucking loser. Anyway,

923
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 1: that's the end.

924
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 2: That's the end.

925
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 1: Love you guys. Sorry about that depressing end, but we

926
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:41,919
Speaker 1: just had to be had to be said.

927
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 2: It's our rack, it's your homework as well.

928
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 1: I just think it's good to be across it.

929
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:49,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I will say that whenever I sent it to

930
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,360
Speaker 2: one of my girlfriends, I said absolute trigger warning because

931
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:54,760
Speaker 2: me as a gay guy watching that, I was really triggered.

932
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like watching it and my brother was

933
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:58,160
Speaker 1: like cleaning the kitchen as I was watching it, and

934
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 1: like I paused that show every two seconds ago. Did

935
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 1: you fuck any what? He said? Casey's like, I've got

936
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 1: my headphones and shut up.

937
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 2: I'm trying to cook.

938
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,360
Speaker 1: No, but he's like, I can't watch. I was like

939
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 1: watch it with me, Like I'm so angry right now.

940
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: I need someone to sit next to me so I

941
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:13,919
Speaker 1: can like talk about it with And he's like, I'm

942
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: not putting myself through that. Those men are disgusting, Like

943
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 1: I'm not listening to that.

944
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:17,360
Speaker 2: We love Casey.

945
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 1: We love Casey. Stand for Casey. All right, guys, well

946
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:22,720
Speaker 1: love you and I will chat to you next week.

947
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 1: By