WEBVTT - Erm Gen Z's aint got nothing on Millennial's!

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<v Speaker 1>Appociate production.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to another episode about My Bad Mum podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes I feel like I need to change up the

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<v Speaker 3>intro a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone said to me the other day or the other

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<v Speaker 1>week I think it was, and they were like, imagine

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<v Speaker 1>if you started it, and I was like, I balk

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<v Speaker 1>it it every time. I go, oh, I can't start that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not me, that's not my place, that's my role,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not my role. And then I sort of like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you practice it, and I was like, it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't even sound the same. Can't even sound the same.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd have to probably sing my way into it or

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<v Speaker 1>something like that. Well, I just wanted to touch base

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<v Speaker 1>with the fact that I don't know if you can

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<v Speaker 1>see my pants. Yes, do you remember these? Look at this, Katie.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're a true mum from our age, Yeah, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>you remember these?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, clip pants. Yeah, they're back. They look very comfy.

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<v Speaker 1>They're so comfortable, and Elsie was like, mom, I love

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<v Speaker 1>your pants. I was like, I get it. I used

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<v Speaker 1>to love my clip pants too when I was when

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<v Speaker 1>were the clip pants in like nineteen ninety Isn't.

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<v Speaker 2>It funny because obviously it just it's just recirculating even

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<v Speaker 2>when scrunchies came came back. Also, our kids obviously they

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<v Speaker 2>don't remember the first time around, or you know, probably

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<v Speaker 2>the tenth time around.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, maybe it's and it's only our second.

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<v Speaker 3>They're all recycled.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's funny how our kids think it's like a

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<v Speaker 2>brand new thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. But that's what I loved about it, because

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, Mom, I love your pants and I'm thinking, mate,

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<v Speaker 1>I used to unclip them all the way up to

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<v Speaker 1>the top here. Yeah, like full spice girl. Yes, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the spice girl. But these these might be a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more fine, so they only go to the knee,

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more Mum conservative from country road. But

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<v Speaker 1>looks like them looks like they go to the top,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're not.

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<v Speaker 3>But they're just fake buttons.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, these are just fake. You're a mom that I

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<v Speaker 1>hide that.

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<v Speaker 3>Am I had Mum for enjoying them getting it wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>This gives me actual joy.

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<v Speaker 2>This is actually not dissimilar from what we were just

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<v Speaker 2>talking about in terms of things being old fashioned and

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<v Speaker 2>then coming.

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<v Speaker 3>Background again kind of things.

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<v Speaker 2>So Amelia was talking to me about this guy, so

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<v Speaker 2>she used the word fit.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, okay, So.

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<v Speaker 3>She was like, he's really fit.

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<v Speaker 2>And then she jumped in with, oh, by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>that's gen Z language for hot.

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<v Speaker 3>I went, oh no, And then I really enjoyed.

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<v Speaker 2>Saying this because I went, ha ha, No, it was

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<v Speaker 2>always fit in the day, we always used to use

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<v Speaker 2>the word fit.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not gen d that's very millennial.

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<v Speaker 1>Not being new right now. And you didn't also need

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<v Speaker 1>to just give me a little hate.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a dick. Yeah, that was a dig. Yeah, because

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<v Speaker 3>I get that a lot. Oh mum, you're so millennial.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'd used that the other way round.

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<v Speaker 2>Recently, when the girls were talking about how one of

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<v Speaker 2>their friends was smoking cigarettes semi formal after party, and

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<v Speaker 2>I thought about it for a second and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>how do I make that really uncool? And I turned

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<v Speaker 2>around to them and went, How'm millennial of her? She

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<v Speaker 2>was smoking cigarettes?

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<v Speaker 3>Howm millennial?

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<v Speaker 1>I know? And then you have that moment and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>rather probably smoke cigarettes than vapes, So sure, yeah, do.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that apparently vapes are so toxic that they're

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<v Speaker 2>not supposed to go into landfill.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've told you before. What I've said to my

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<v Speaker 1>girl is like nothing like scare mungering, But I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>when you pick up a vabe and your friends say

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<v Speaker 1>just try it, it tastes like strawberry. I said, what I

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<v Speaker 1>want you to picture, like, really envision it. Close your

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<v Speaker 1>eyes and envision at putting that can of martine in

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<v Speaker 1>your mouth and then just spraying it in your lungs.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, because that's what you're doing, oh mom?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, no, that is what you were doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, if mortine smelt like strawberries, that's what

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<v Speaker 2>you're doing. Yeah. I've read a lot about and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>certainly not encouraging anyone just starts making cigarettes if they don't.

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<v Speaker 2>But at least with cigarettes you have the ability to

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<v Speaker 2>rejuvenate your lungs if you stop, Whereas I think once

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<v Speaker 2>you vaped, the damage is.

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<v Speaker 3>Done and repair it.

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<v Speaker 2>So I've heard anyway, I mean, I'm an expert, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not a scientist.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to really go down that track? Because

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I was talking about with my girls

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<v Speaker 1>that is not repairable.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even don't start talking about alcohol in your liver.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to hear that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it was actually about babies, but my child is

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<v Speaker 1>such a funny conversation and it was only the three

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<v Speaker 1>of us girls at the dinner table, but I had

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<v Speaker 1>that same conversation where I was like, yeah, but you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, those muscles around your vagina, they're repairable, they

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<v Speaker 1>bounce back. You can restrengthen those. I was like, but

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<v Speaker 1>the ones in your bottom, you can't restrengthen those, So

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<v Speaker 1>you can't have a baby out of your bottom?

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<v Speaker 3>What hell?

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<v Speaker 1>We somehow got into like who wants to have kids?

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<v Speaker 1>Who doesn't want to have kids? And I'm sitting there going,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously you're ten and twelve. I was like, can we

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<v Speaker 1>just let's talk about this in twenty years? No rush, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk about it when you're thirty or something, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like twenty eight thirty. Oh mom, you were you were

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<v Speaker 1>twenty eight when you had me. Like I was like, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk about it when you're twenty six. Let's not

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<v Speaker 1>talk about it now. No one's having kids.

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<v Speaker 3>Early.

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<v Speaker 1>One of them turns to me, he goes, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to have a baby, but I don't want to have

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<v Speaker 1>it out of my vagina, And I thought, where the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck is it going to come from other than the

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<v Speaker 1>And I was waiting for her to just go I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have it like you, I'm gonna have it to

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<v Speaker 1>cut out of my tummy. And then she goes and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want it to be cut out of my

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<v Speaker 1>tummy because that just scares me so much. And I

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<v Speaker 1>went when I just laughed out loud. I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>where are you expecting the child to pop out from

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<v Speaker 1>like this? And she goes at my bottom and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, obviously the other one was laughing her head off.

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<v Speaker 1>But I did lead down to the road of going

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<v Speaker 1>vagina muscles bounce back, but your bottom muscles don't, So

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<v Speaker 1>don't do that. That's irreparable, Like it's a.

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<v Speaker 3>Choice, just on that.

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<v Speaker 2>How nice that they are still at the stage where

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<v Speaker 2>they will talk to you about that stuff though I

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<v Speaker 2>know I'm embarrassing, mom, don't talk about that.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that there will be a time. And this

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<v Speaker 1>is like, you know, obviously coming from other moms with

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<v Speaker 1>like older kids, older girls in particular, as well, like

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<v Speaker 1>the in between age of like mine and yours sort

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<v Speaker 1>of going like there is a distinct age where it

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<v Speaker 1>all starts to drop off a little bit, like where

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<v Speaker 1>you are actually so uncool. Yeah, and no way I

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<v Speaker 1>would ever talk to mum about that, And that's probably

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<v Speaker 1>one part where I go. I really look forward to

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<v Speaker 1>that part. I know that I'll have to do some

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<v Speaker 1>work around my self esteem.

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<v Speaker 3>Then, yeah, you feel shit about yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was like, you go from being like hot property, Yes, mum,

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<v Speaker 1>you're cool. I want to see it. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>chat with you. Let's have a laugh about such random

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<v Speaker 1>things that probably are highly irresponsible of being a mum

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<v Speaker 1>talking to your daughters about but then to nothing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>not needed.

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<v Speaker 3>Nah, you really do have to do some work on yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what you do with your time when you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have anyone to talk to. That's what I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>be like Katie. I'll just be like I'm sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>at the dinner table and they both won't talk, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I'll just be like, no, wonder people talk.

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<v Speaker 3>Talk At one point, they will talk. Eventually, it will be.

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<v Speaker 2>Eleven pm where you want to be asleep, and then

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<v Speaker 2>they'll tell you about the whole entire day. What's happening

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<v Speaker 2>with friendship groups, what happened at school, everything. I'll tell

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<v Speaker 2>you everything, but it won't be at a time you

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<v Speaker 2>want it to be.

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<v Speaker 1>Sam tends to be the same. I will be a

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<v Speaker 1>asleep and then be absolutely annihilated from the day of

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<v Speaker 1>what it was. Plus I would have gotten up at

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<v Speaker 1>four point thirty to train like all of the above

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<v Speaker 1>in the one day, and then comes in and wakes

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<v Speaker 1>you to want to talk No, and then makes you

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad for not wanting to talk. I just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about the day.

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<v Speaker 3>While you're asleep.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Katie through the room.

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<v Speaker 3>The room.

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<v Speaker 1>See I'm seeing you get it? He goes, oh, like

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<v Speaker 1>storms out. Oh, this is on you. You're not communicating.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm asleep. I'm asleep.

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<v Speaker 2>I've got a very strict don't wake me up for

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<v Speaker 2>all in my house. Moms deserve to sleep when they

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<v Speaker 2>can sleep.

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<v Speaker 3>They need to be just to sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>I do things around the house that might slam things.

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<v Speaker 1>Slammy Slammerson comes out, especially if you've fucked with my sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>So now I'm gonna fuck with yours.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I haves