Speaker 1: We get morning every day every lazy adelaides, I don't
Speaker 1: know Jod's. I'm seeing the same headline more and more often,
Speaker 1: and each time I see it it shocks me less.
Speaker 2: What is that?
Speaker 1: And as because I'm a parent of a five and
Speaker 1: a three year old, here's a headline mum slammed after
Speaker 1: putting toddler on a leash? Is that shocking? Not any
Speaker 1: more for me? By a social media mum of one.
Speaker 1: Rachel Butcher has hit back critics after using a common
Speaker 1: parenting tactic to prevent her child from running way in
Speaker 1: crowded areas. She shared a photograph of her son with
Speaker 1: a backpack on and rain's attached. She explained stopped him
Speaker 1: from running off when they are at the shops. Kids
Speaker 1: on leashes. Thoughts on it get involved thirteen twenty four
Speaker 1: to ten. As a youngster, and particularly without kids, I
Speaker 1: used to look at some of these kids and be like,
Speaker 1: what is going on? And parents pull your head in.
Speaker 1: Now I'm still not at that stage, but I'll tell
Speaker 1: you what. Brothers and sisters certainly open to it.
Speaker 3: I actually don't hate it. I mean it's a safety thing.
Speaker 3: It's super safe because toddlers will run off anytime, anywhere,
Speaker 3: and you have absolutely no.
Speaker 2: Control over it.
Speaker 1: Yes, like our kids are the worst, particularly your kids.
Speaker 1: Oh my, we at that level we can insult each
Speaker 1: other's kids, I think so.
Speaker 3: I think you do it quite regularly, So that's fine.
Speaker 3: But no, if you're concerned about the safety of your kid,
Speaker 3: chuck them on a leash.
Speaker 1: Yeah. The other day, I was watching my three year
Speaker 1: old daughter and just define gravity. I don't know what
Speaker 1: was going on. She was walking on the roof, like
Speaker 1: upside down on the roof. You think kids care when
Speaker 1: you say, don't run across the road line, that's dangerous.
Speaker 1: She needs a leash.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they genuinely don't understand danger. You have to teach them.
Speaker 3: And if that involves hooking a leash onto their neck,
Speaker 3: so be hitten.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So what one message would be is to the
Speaker 1: youngsters who are like, oh jeez, I would never do that.
Speaker 1: You just got to put yourself in a situation where
Speaker 1: you get a five and a three year old. I'd
Speaker 1: like several leaf a leash for every single occasion of
Speaker 1: my son and my daughter. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Do you know what this is akin to people who
Speaker 3: have never had children, like I want six kids, just
Speaker 3: have one, and then see where you sit with it.
Speaker 1: If I had six kids that have three leashes each.
Speaker 4: I baby sit seven kids quite often. But in saying that,
Speaker 4: it's usually at someone's house. I don't take them all
Speaker 4: out together. I'm in the camp of like, oh my god,
Speaker 4: that's so ridiculous. But one time I went to ANDHL
Speaker 4: shopping center and I walked in and there was these
Speaker 4: kids trying to climb the ice cream thing, and this
Speaker 4: guy goes, these your children?
Speaker 5: And I was more trying to thought, ye are you serious?
Speaker 5: Number one?
Speaker 4: Do I look like a mother? And number two? Do
Speaker 4: I look like I'm from the North. Oh I'm not anyway,
Speaker 4: So they definitely needed a leash. So look as I
Speaker 4: get older and probably once I have little, tiny darling babies,
Speaker 4: oh probably.
Speaker 3: Do you know what the irony of that story is
Speaker 3: is that you're at Underhale shopping center and you were
Speaker 3: on a leash. Those kids were guiding you around.
Speaker 5: Nobody can ever leash me.
Speaker 1: So now at the stage where someone says to you
Speaker 1: when you're kids, I'll put it on a leash, like
Speaker 1: it's a good idea. Every now and then, as a man,
Speaker 1: you sit there and you think, wow, what would I
Speaker 1: do in a particular situation, like a really confronting situation.
Speaker 1: Would I man up? Or would I just squirm out
Speaker 1: the back like a little weasel and forever feel like
Speaker 1: an absolute pussy cat? You know what I made?
Speaker 3: So, for example, if you were to be confronted with
Speaker 3: someone who wanted to fight.
Speaker 1: Yes, or if your family was in danger, yes, say
Speaker 1: someone intruded into your house.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I saw this study on the weekend which I found
Speaker 1: very very entertaining, but also like, I wonder, what's a
Speaker 1: category I've been It turns out that almost ten percent
Speaker 1: of men think that if they got into a fistfight
Speaker 1: with a line, that they would win with an actual line.
Speaker 2: Have seen that meme?
Speaker 3: In fact, I think I sent it to your wife
Speaker 3: where there's a woman standing at the kitchen sink, and that's.
Speaker 2: A thought double.
Speaker 3: So there's fifteen different thoughts about O, I'm got to
Speaker 3: do the kids homework, I've got to pack the lunches,
Speaker 3: I've got to do this, I've got to.
Speaker 2: Do this for work, blah blah blah. And then it
Speaker 2: flips to a man. It was like, could I take
Speaker 2: on a bear in a fight?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 6: This is the thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely is the thing. So not only do we
Speaker 1: think about it, we think what are our chances of
Speaker 1: actually winning? And would I be brave enough to even
Speaker 1: take part in it?
Speaker 2: Okay, all valid questions.
Speaker 1: So there was a particular moment in my household quite recently,
Speaker 1: which I am not proud of at all.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: You always wonder, in a split moment, say if someone
Speaker 1: broke into your house and you came face to face, Wow,
Speaker 1: what would you do?
Speaker 3: Wow?
Speaker 1: I think I think most blokes have thought about this,
Speaker 1: and blokes say, look, I've got weapons under the bed,
Speaker 1: or you know, I'd punch him in the face and
Speaker 1: i'd grab him, I'd time up all those sorts of things. Yeah.
Speaker 1: The other night, it was about one o'clock in the
Speaker 1: morning and it was stinking hot. Oh yeah, so, and
Speaker 1: I was asleep, but I don't think I was fully asleep.
Speaker 1: And you know when you wake up and you get
Speaker 1: startled and there's that sort of moment in between reality
Speaker 1: where you're still sort of half asleep.
Speaker 6: Yep.
Speaker 1: There was one particular moment where the mirror, it's a
Speaker 1: big mirror in our room fell off. Oh no, so
Speaker 1: he was attached to the wall and it completely fell off.
Speaker 1: So much so that when it hit the ground, one
Speaker 1: it's smashed, and then two it's fallen front ways, so
Speaker 1: then it's smashed again.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: So there was a small moment, like a really really
Speaker 1: small moment, where I genuinely thought that we were getting
Speaker 1: broken into I'm in bed with it, my wife and
Speaker 1: my three year old daughter who still sleeps with us. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and in my moment where I'm really tested on whether
Speaker 1: I'm going to be a man or not and whether
Speaker 1: I'm going to protect the family. This is basically all
Speaker 1: that came out of my mouth. It was dense at
Speaker 1: of miment. My thoughts were on here. Instead of jumping
Speaker 1: out of bed and jumping into a fighting position, all
Speaker 1: I could do was go And I had my wife
Speaker 1: Car literally say to me or he can't, it's just
Speaker 1: a mirror that's falling off the wall. And then the
Speaker 1: next day, I think at one stage a little bit
Speaker 1: of time to pass it. And then Car I had
Speaker 1: to say, can we just address your reaction? Did the
Speaker 1: mirror falling off the wall last night? I think Car
Speaker 1: is ready to go, Like she cocked the fist and
Speaker 1: she was ready to go, And I was in the corner,
Speaker 1: hiding behind my three year old daughter.
Speaker 2: Do you know the worst pub about this story? You
Speaker 2: put that mirror on the wall you thought you did
Speaker 2: a grad?
Speaker 1: Yeah? On top of that as well, she's what a guy,
Speaker 1: not handy and also an absolute pussy. I remember a
Speaker 1: few days ago and we spoke about Kelly Clarkson, how
Speaker 1: she told us what she likes to do in the shower.
Speaker 1: Remind me, yeah, you a fish? She said she likes
Speaker 1: to and she can't help, but she likes to quite
Speaker 1: regularly urinate in the shower. That's classic, classic dirty bird, Kelly.
Speaker 2: Cloves, classic Clarkson.
Speaker 1: And I told you how much I like to eat
Speaker 1: in the shower and also drink beers in the shower,
Speaker 1: because the shower's there for much more than just washing yourself.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, guess what. There's another celebrity that jumped on board
Speaker 1: the shower train, and that is living your life in there.
Speaker 1: So can you take a shower with me?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: I highly recommend you do. Don't take this the wrong way,
Speaker 1: but come on, take this little journey. But let's have
Speaker 1: a shower. Oh, there it is. Jessica. Bill's the latest
Speaker 1: to come out to do something in the shower.
Speaker 2: What does she like to do.
Speaker 1: She's offered an insight into a daily routine by revealing
Speaker 1: her peculiar habit of eating in the shower, which is
Speaker 1: divided opinion, of course, but she's taken it the next
Speaker 1: step up. She said in a recent TikTok post that
Speaker 1: she likes to eat and drink in the shower shower
Speaker 1: privatey arthans like cereal or yogurt, tea popsicles, to which
Speaker 1: she said, I know melk factor right, but safe? You
Speaker 1: know anything that drops, you're good. Love that from Jess.
Speaker 2: I love your just beal impression.
Speaker 1: Oh. Basically, what she's saying is you can do absolute
Speaker 1: utely anything in the shower, and I mean anything. I
Speaker 1: don't think you understand what goes on in the haze
Speaker 1: household inside the shower.
Speaker 2: Do I want to know while we're showering?
Speaker 1: Do you think? What do you think Car and I
Speaker 1: get up to in the shower?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: Wow, what do you go and have a guess it's escalated?
Speaker 1: Go on?
Speaker 2: Well, the kids home or the kids out?
Speaker 1: The kids they might be home, they might be out.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you anyway. Number one, Car and I actually
Speaker 1: got married in the shower, which is nice. Number two
Speaker 1: Car gave birth to all three of our kids in
Speaker 1: the shower. That's how much we get around the shower. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Number three, the kids are homeschool, so we teach the
Speaker 1: kids in the shower whilst they're showering as well. So
Speaker 1: basically what we do in the shower is everything except
Speaker 1: for wash ourselves. Yeah, so that's just that's just a
Speaker 1: bit of an insight into what happens in the haze.
Speaker 2: That's a real twist on showering things.
Speaker 1: You can get involved as well to your bunch of
Speaker 1: dirty birds. I for dou below nine one nine because
Speaker 1: Jess bills come out and she's bang on board, especially
Speaker 1: the pop school thing and the coffee thing, and everything
Speaker 1: hits the floor. I'm not sure if she's eating it
Speaker 1: once hits a floor. Showers are free goes, aren't I don't.
Speaker 3: I'm not sure about eating yogurt in the shower, Like,
Speaker 3: what if the water gets into the yoga?
Speaker 1: Yeah, just turn it up or not. Let me get
Speaker 1: on your back there, yoa, it's what have you been doing?
Speaker 2: I've never suggested showered together ever again.
Speaker 1: Dirty back, give that a bit of a scrub please,
Speaker 1: this may take well, folks. Let's get to the break.
Speaker 2: Quite the fort What the fork.
Speaker 1: The Love edition?
Speaker 2: Yeah, the luck because we love love.
Speaker 3: But we thought we'd flip this thing on its head
Speaker 3: for Valentine's Day and talk about specifically the things that
Speaker 3: your partners do that drive you insane. I mean we
Speaker 3: could have got around, you know, all the lovey dovey
Speaker 3: stuff and the beautiful romantic things, but no, screw it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you need to know the things you're
Speaker 1: doing wrong in order to delete those things you can
Speaker 1: keep on going in a good direction.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense.
Speaker 3: So this feels like a maths experiment. So we are
Speaker 3: the ex Yes, so we have approached both of each
Speaker 3: other's respective partners and asked for a list of things
Speaker 3: that they think we do wrong in a relationship, the
Speaker 3: things that we do I e. You and I that
Speaker 3: drive our partners insane. And at this point I'm very,
Speaker 3: very nervous about what Gregotty has had to say.
Speaker 1: Yeah, would you like me? Would you like to rip
Speaker 1: the band? If you want me to go first, sure, Okay,
Speaker 1: I've got a list right in front of me, and
Speaker 1: get straight to it. Firstly, extremely erratic. Secondly, consistently shoplifts
Speaker 1: and sword money laundering. No, I made them up. I'm
Speaker 1: not sure if that's sure or not, but this has great. God,
Speaker 1: he's list of things. Let's almost call them ix of Jerdyoti.
Speaker 1: Number one leaves garage door up and just walks inside.
Speaker 1: I'm even irritated by that.
Speaker 3: I know. Sometimes I think I've put it down, but
Speaker 3: I actually haven't.
Speaker 2: And the worrying thing.
Speaker 3: About that is that our garage, if it's up, goes
Speaker 3: straight into the house, so anyone can walk off the
Speaker 3: lame way.
Speaker 1: How'd you get in? I just walked straight through.
Speaker 3: It, straight into the open garage.
Speaker 1: Gets mad at me for not listening when I am listening,
Speaker 1: or don't need to listen because I've heard it before. Yep. Ah, jeez.
Speaker 1: I think I can understand exactly where Greg's coming from there.
Speaker 3: But he fails out mid conversation. Honestly, he's a shocker.
Speaker 3: I'll stop, I'll just stop talking. You're not listening, are you?
Speaker 3: And just need I'll be halfway through a sentence and
Speaker 3: he'll just walk out of the room, like, where did
Speaker 3: that conversation go?
Speaker 2: Where are you?
Speaker 1: He's trying to move on? Yeah, I stopped living the past,
Speaker 1: Jae're trying to go forward? Yeah, right, And lastly from
Speaker 1: greg otdy keeps signing up to play netball. Some people
Speaker 1: don't know when enough is enough. Make col Greg oh,
Speaker 1: it's late night netble. Your achilles and your acls must
Speaker 1: be sitting there hanging by a thread.
Speaker 3: I know, and I just signed up for winter two.
Speaker 3: I bet you did every Saturday winter.
Speaker 1: So there's your list from greg Otty for you to
Speaker 1: self improved. No doubt you really really listening to that
Speaker 1: and make some adjustments.
Speaker 3: I've been in contact with Kara Hayes and her list
Speaker 3: is extensive. I asked for three dot points and she's
Speaker 3: gone over and above and given me four. Well, so
Speaker 3: firstly claims to be the clean tidy one, but he's
Speaker 3: tidying means throwing everything into the closest copboared slash draw,
Speaker 3: in turn creating more mess. He's never touched a mop
Speaker 3: or spray and wipe in his life.
Speaker 1: Excuse me very much, my beautiful wife, car Yeah, ah, okay.
Speaker 3: Interesting where would you find Where would you find the
Speaker 3: spray and wipe in your home?
Speaker 1: What's in the home? First and four months? Sometimes it
Speaker 1: jumps from different spots, does it? I think it's under
Speaker 1: the sink. I assume it's under the sink.
Speaker 3: The spray and white playing hide and seek with you.
Speaker 1: Maybe I know the kids probably put it somewhere.
Speaker 3: This one, this next one is infuriating. What about this
Speaker 3: eats the snack size packages brought specifically for the kids
Speaker 3: lunch boxes, I e Tiny teddies, but does so at
Speaker 3: night when no one's around.
Speaker 2: So I go to make lunches at six a m.
Speaker 2: And I have nothing chure.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can absolutely agree that you should see me
Speaker 1: on Friday night as well, after three or four beers.
Speaker 1: The amount of tidy teddies I've murdered entire population in
Speaker 1: one hundreds of them.
Speaker 3: You're just sitting on the couch with tiny teddy's in
Speaker 3: a headlock, just biting their heads off.
Speaker 1: Oh head first.
Speaker 2: Okay, what about this one? This is gross?
Speaker 3: Uses my toothbrush and acts like I'm the outrageous one
Speaker 3: when I get mad or you deny.
Speaker 1: Doing it because they're not your germs. They're not my germs,
Speaker 1: they're our germs. And just in response to all of
Speaker 1: these things, absolutely all of these things I didn't know
Speaker 1: that I just time, thank you, thank you for.
Speaker 3: We might as well go one more because I would
Speaker 3: hate to lead the list incomplete. The fourth it needs
Speaker 3: me to tell him how to help when it is
Speaker 3: blatantly obvious. I e. A full basket of washing, needing folding,
Speaker 3: kids still in their pjs when we're going out, kids
Speaker 3: needing teeth brushed at bedtime? Does she have does this, poor,
Speaker 3: poor long suffering wife of yours have to spell those
Speaker 3: things out?
Speaker 1: Do you get one? And it's solid directions? Absolutely I
Speaker 1: need directions. I expect me to read the room. Just
Speaker 1: tell me what to do when I'll do it. Wow,
Speaker 1: very simple creature.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: They teach this in primary school, probably about year two
Speaker 3: or three.
Speaker 2: It's called initiative.
Speaker 4: And this is the problem with men across the board,
Speaker 4: the country, universe, the worlds.
Speaker 3: All right, let's do this thirteen twenty four to ten. Please,
Speaker 3: What does your partner do that drives you absolutely insane?
Speaker 7: What the hot? What the.
Speaker 2: We love love.
Speaker 3: What we thought we'd do is flip this script on
Speaker 3: its head and just talk to people who've been married
Speaker 3: very very very very long time, or those people who
Speaker 3: have broken up and are spending it alone, those people
Speaker 3: who still have the ick.
Speaker 2: Over their ex.
Speaker 3: And we've asked the question this morning, what does your
Speaker 3: partner do?
Speaker 2: That drives you insane?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's a beautiful open space. Maybe use
Speaker 1: this to air your problems so you can fix them.
Speaker 2: And that's good. That's good because you invent, you get
Speaker 2: it all out.
Speaker 6: In the open.
Speaker 2: It's cathartic, and then you can move on.
Speaker 3: And what does your partner do that drives you crazy?
Speaker 8: God?
Speaker 5: I love this segment.
Speaker 9: It's amazing.
Speaker 8: I've got so many I can.
Speaker 2: Leave the biggest one for me, the biggest graph I have.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's with me, it's looking after my children.
Speaker 8: But for him, it's babysitting.
Speaker 3: Well yeah, wow, Emily, what's his name?
Speaker 2: That may be May.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I'm going to call it out.
Speaker 1: Okay, do you know what? I was just jumping abot
Speaker 1: for the great man. I'm sure that he's learning this
Speaker 1: for the first time, and he didn't even know that
Speaker 1: it was Nick of yours.
Speaker 7: I'm pretty sure we heard about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I just feel like if you, well you didn't
Speaker 3: actually physically Birthday's child, but you had a real big
Speaker 3: part in creating them.
Speaker 2: It's sitting when it's.
Speaker 1: Your own children. It feels like sometimes, doesn't it.
Speaker 3: WHOA, I'm just trying to contribute, Tim, what did you
Speaker 3: probn to do that drives you insane.
Speaker 7: Buives horses.
Speaker 1: Likes in like a genuine horses.
Speaker 7: You got it, you got absolutely crazy. We have over
Speaker 7: twenty horses.
Speaker 1: You put them.
Speaker 7: I least two properties for it, and it's crazy. And
Speaker 7: she also has eight horse rugs, which I call mount Rugmore,
Speaker 7: which gets used.
Speaker 6: Tim.
Speaker 3: So she'll just go out. Will she call you and
Speaker 3: say I've seen a horse? Do you mind if I
Speaker 3: buy it? Or she just does it? Well?
Speaker 7: She says she's going out to buy a horse, and
Speaker 7: I say yeah, that's fine, and then she comes home
Speaker 7: with three Yeah, yeah right, Oh oh god, that's annoying.
Speaker 7: I can't even buy a beer.
Speaker 1: Imagine imagine Tim view we had to buy a by
Speaker 1: and you came back with three. She'd be so angry.
Speaker 7: Oh you got it. You nailed it on there. You're
Speaker 7: right with that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you, Tim, thank you so much. Hey Scherie,
Speaker 2: what does your partner do the drugs? You insane?
Speaker 8: We work together and he'll as open up the door
Speaker 8: and just let my roop and then close the door.
Speaker 8: Was sitting next to me and she just looks at
Speaker 8: me and goes. Honestly, the twelve year old boy and
Speaker 8: he will just do it like multiple times a day.
Speaker 8: It's hilarious.
Speaker 1: There you go. That's just boys meaning boys, isn't it.
Speaker 1: We're just trying to do our best.
Speaker 2: Yeah, show me he loves me.
Speaker 3: Affection. Oh my goodness, Well that's outstanding, CHERI.
Speaker 1: I feel like all these people now are in a
Speaker 1: much happier place because I've got off the chests.
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is how I showed my lab show your
Speaker 3: love by squeezing it in.
Speaker 1: You know, I feel like we have much gas than
Speaker 1: you guys. By the way, We've got to expel it more.
Speaker 1: I've never once in my life heard my wife pass win.
Speaker 2: Really.
Speaker 1: Yeah, gosh, I can't hate me. You have saying that too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, God, that's weird. She calls me up all the
Speaker 3: time and fucks into the phone.
Speaker 5: You know why you have moore gas because you're so
Speaker 5: full of it?
Speaker 1: Yes, so true, big big cheerio, and welcome to all
Speaker 1: the teachers listening this morning. Oh my goodness, she say,
Speaker 1: do a good job.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's it's probably not rewarded.
Speaker 3: Enough when you spend an inordinate amount of time with
Speaker 3: your children. God, you appreciate teachers today because you're like
Speaker 3: I've got four of them. They've got twenty eight in
Speaker 3: a classroom.
Speaker 1: Good lord, you have to say right now, they're sitting there,
Speaker 1: just canned down the day. It's just rocking back and forth. Monday.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what about this? A teacher in the
Speaker 1: US has sparked an online debate by sharing a list
Speaker 1: of thirty two band words in her classroom. Yeah, she said,
Speaker 1: her name's miss t. If you get caught using these words,
Speaker 1: you'll write a short essay explaining why you chose to
Speaker 1: use the words in an academic setting to express yourselves,
Speaker 1: basically saying, be better.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Do you want to hear some of the words.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but for words you don't want to hear from
Speaker 3: a teacher, go write an essay.
Speaker 1: Go write and says four thanks you hang on is
Speaker 1: an essay? Two words? Even I know that I made
Speaker 1: a fasty eight. Here's some of the words. There's thirty two.
Speaker 1: Are not going to go through all them. Number one
Speaker 1: is brah excuse me broh. That makes sense. Number three,
Speaker 1: which I'm still getting my head around, is ooh we
Speaker 1: ski ye skie I'm reliably told is a song by
Speaker 1: Sexy Red.
Speaker 2: Oh there we go.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Number six is that's cap. That's very American, isn't it.
Speaker 1: Number nine, Oh my god, Miss t oh my god,
Speaker 1: Miss t oh god. Number eleven on my Mama. Number
Speaker 1: twenty was Gangang twenty seven. I'm just trying to imagine
Speaker 1: kids saying it's in the classroom as well. Number twenty
Speaker 1: seven were Big Dog, So you can imagine there's some
Speaker 1: when Miss t and probably hyper intelligent as well, just
Speaker 1: trying to educate the future. And all of a sudden
Speaker 1: she hears a driver around the bend.
Speaker 3: We've got an expression in our home that I can't
Speaker 3: quite get my head around. I'm reliably informed it's from Tiktop.
Speaker 3: But there's a lot of this because I obviously live with,
Speaker 3: you know, a lot of girls.
Speaker 2: This one slay girly pop.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, what don't they don't make me dislike
Speaker 1: your kids, because right there, I love them.
Speaker 2: That'll say to me all the time slay gurly pop.
Speaker 3: What what does that mean?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Slagh girly pop.
Speaker 3: Sleigh means sort of go off, and girly pop I
Speaker 3: think is someone who's pretty cool, like pretty chilled, right,
Speaker 3: has a nice attitude.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, the girls and ages, what are we talking
Speaker 1: to your girls once again.
Speaker 2: This is the oldest ones.
Speaker 3: Oh not even the four year old says it so
Speaker 3: for ten and twelve sleeve girly bop right.
Speaker 1: Okay, so slagh girlypop band in your house. Keep it
Speaker 1: to a.
Speaker 3: Minimum, I wish, But it's only because I half think
Speaker 3: that they're calling me cool that I allow it.
Speaker 1: What she is, Mum's dancing again. She has no idea
Speaker 1: what's going on? Look at the big dog. In our house,
Speaker 1: we've banned all references to KFC. The marketing has absolutely
Speaker 1: gripped our kids, right. This is a lot of you
Speaker 1: very casually on the couch.
Speaker 3: It down.
Speaker 1: So say I don't care. I think that's cool. They
Speaker 1: genuinely think that's cool. It is cool around and say that.
Speaker 3: Oh that's so sweet.
Speaker 2: Play that again please.
Speaker 1: Un So say I don't care. I love sewing in
Speaker 1: a shut up and take my money as well. I
Speaker 1: love it.
Speaker 3: How she's like I love it? She doesn't love it,
Speaker 3: she loves it.
Speaker 1: This is the only KFC references accepted in our house.
Speaker 5: Do you think?
Speaker 1: Perfectly reasonable? Question from old school back in the day.
Speaker 1: If you've got some for double nine one nine nine
Speaker 1: on nine, what are the words that are banned in
Speaker 1: your house because sometimes kids and if you give them,
Speaker 1: I know sometimes when Henry says something and I'll slightly
Speaker 1: giggle and he's like.
Speaker 2: I'm on here, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, And you're.
Speaker 1: Going to hear this for the next two to three months.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of this in our house.
Speaker 3: You can say that in here, but don't say it
Speaker 3: outside the house.
Speaker 1: Thrust that they're going to stick to those. Yes, I mean,
Speaker 1: sure we're competitive, and sure there's one hundred dollars faster
Speaker 1: about oup for grabs, but it doesn't need to be
Speaker 1: this personal. We'll say that much.
Speaker 6: Yeah, no it doesn't.
Speaker 1: Jade's watch is going off as.
Speaker 2: Well because my heart beats so high? Is it genuine?
Speaker 1: It's asking you if you're having a heart attack.
Speaker 2: Well no, okay.
Speaker 3: People think we muck around, ju miss, but I honestly
Speaker 3: get anxious you do, because I can't don't cope with
Speaker 3: the aftermath when you win and you carry on.
Speaker 1: Because my shirt gets itchy. That's not take it off.
Speaker 3: Urge to punch you in the face is so overwhelming
Speaker 3: to me.
Speaker 1: I dodge it.
Speaker 6: Okay, let's yeah, please come on.
Speaker 1: Even I admit that I'm very obnoxious in this space.
Speaker 1: Extremely's self aware.
Speaker 6: It's good.
Speaker 3: I just said to him, if you win, don't carry on,
Speaker 3: don't carry on, and you went, I will.
Speaker 1: Every time I'm over the top, I always lose. Yeah,
Speaker 1: actually that actually sits well with you if I'm really.
Speaker 9: Let's hope you both straighten up and get on with it.
Speaker 9: There is a fast pass about your on the line,
Speaker 9: same as always overhits, throwbacks orchestralized.
Speaker 6: We've got Sarah.
Speaker 9: Sarah has picked Jodie before, so she's gone with Hazy today.
Speaker 1: I don't you know, Sarah, I'm glad to be your
Speaker 1: runner up. That's completely fine. Welcome, finally, welcome to the
Speaker 1: good side.
Speaker 11: Thank you, and good luck.
Speaker 3: Good luck Sarah. And I hope that your fearless captain
Speaker 3: Andrew Hayes is gracious if he does, in fact take out.
Speaker 6: Very much doubt it.
Speaker 1: Let's let's glote together, Sarah.
Speaker 6: Well, Joe's on your team. You've got Daniel.
Speaker 3: Hello, Daniel, Okay.
Speaker 2: I like these PEP talks.
Speaker 6: Like them a lot. Supportive listeners, Yes, all right, all
Speaker 6: song number one, let's go here we go listen? What
Speaker 6: is it?
Speaker 1: This would be? You got yeah? Black Eyed Peas song name.
Speaker 2: This is interesting.
Speaker 4: Why why half break through.
Speaker 3: Did you have to turn to me and go, don't
Speaker 3: dance like a stripper.
Speaker 6: I'm so glad this isn't visual.
Speaker 1: Hang on, hang on? What do you mate? What was
Speaker 1: your question there?
Speaker 2: Just halfway through?
Speaker 3: Did you have to stop and look at me in
Speaker 3: the eye and say, have you got it?
Speaker 2: When you knew you had it?
Speaker 6: Don't worry?
Speaker 1: Come on enough, hey, so pull it on the line.
Speaker 6: Please, No, you.
Speaker 9: Should move on because Joe's redemption is around the corner.
Speaker 9: It's right around the corner. Song number two, I.
Speaker 6: Don't know I did. Come on, Jad's.
Speaker 1: A what go on?
Speaker 6: Song?
Speaker 1: Name?
Speaker 6: Artist?
Speaker 1: That is?
Speaker 6: It's true?
Speaker 1: What do you doing?
Speaker 6: I'll count you down.
Speaker 1: It is Vanessa Carlton.
Speaker 6: Song name A thousand miles.
Speaker 2: I'm honestly, how.
Speaker 1: Honestly how no one is supporting me in this team.
Speaker 1: So all I'll say is, Sarah, we did a baby.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I'm really angry about this one. That was That was
Speaker 2: a good ten seconds.
Speaker 6: I looked at you Jo's you didn't have it?
Speaker 3: Now?
Speaker 12: How do you know?
Speaker 2: I genuinely had it?
Speaker 3: But I was waiting for him, but he had He
Speaker 3: took ten to fifteen seconds there and I'm going to
Speaker 3: run a timer over and you're going to allow this
Speaker 3: as the adjudicator?
Speaker 5: Are you going to allow this?
Speaker 9: I've said it before, I'll say it again. No adjudicating
Speaker 9: the adjudicator.
Speaker 6: All of you?
Speaker 3: Good?
Speaker 1: Cal Hey, do you want to play the last one?
Speaker 6: Just for yeah? Definitely not really, don't know.
Speaker 3: No, I would refuse just for you know what gigs. No,
Speaker 3: I absolutely will not. And I'm contemplating an email to
Speaker 3: the International Song Song Song Federation.
Speaker 2: Because that was a joke.
Speaker 1: Well, just just rewarn of the federations been a little
Speaker 1: bit tardy recently. Might take seven to eight days.
Speaker 2: For you to get back, really, you know what.
Speaker 9: It does make things a little bit more interesting though,
Speaker 9: because it's been four four but now it's five to
Speaker 9: four in favor of Hazy.
Speaker 1: Yes, it's all happened for beautiful day today, isn't it.
Speaker 3: Ah? Yes, Nust, let's talk about this and I will
Speaker 3: want everyone to get involved. On thirteen, twenty four to ten,
Speaker 3: checking your partner's phone. Text from one of our beautiful
Speaker 3: listeners saying it's an anonymous one saying I would love
Speaker 3: to know what people think about going through your child's
Speaker 3: phone and what age it's not appropriate anymore.
Speaker 1: It's a very interesting one.
Speaker 3: Spicy, and it reminded me of a conversation. I was
Speaker 3: in Teltra for the better part of two hours the
Speaker 3: other day swapping upgrading my phone, and I was listening
Speaker 3: to a seventeen year old girl in a conversation with
Speaker 3: her dad. Now he was obviously buying her phone and data,
Speaker 3: and so it got to the point where she was like,
Speaker 3: and she's got a hand up in her dad's face,
Speaker 3: like stop, stop, and he's going listen, I have enough
Speaker 3: data on my phone. She's like, yeah, but I use
Speaker 3: it for work. And he's going listen, I have the
Speaker 3: same amount of data and I use it for work
Speaker 3: all day, every day and that's enough. And she's like, yeah,
Speaker 3: but you don't need to check Instagram.
Speaker 1: Anah, got you there, Dad, check Mates a flipbul time.
Speaker 3: Which brings me to my point on these I think,
Speaker 3: if you're paying for your child's phone, you can check
Speaker 3: that thing whenever and however you want to, however old
Speaker 3: they are.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair of interesting.
Speaker 2: It's technically your phone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, thirteen twenty four to ten, what age is appropriate
Speaker 1: to stop looking at your kid's phone? My kids are
Speaker 1: only five and three that I have mobile phones. Yes,
Speaker 1: they're sort of dabbling in some iPad use of tablet
Speaker 1: loot use. And Henry knows how to send text now
Speaker 1: via the iPad. An he sent it to me and mum,
Speaker 1: But that's fine. Yeah, I sort of wonder what happens
Speaker 1: if I just sort of let him go and didn't
Speaker 1: text or check his phone or his tablet at all.
Speaker 1: Because if you don't keep up to date with what's
Speaker 1: going on, all of a sudden, you just sort of
Speaker 1: four down and fifteen years ago by, and all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, you've got one of these little fellows on
Speaker 1: your hands. Say my name God, that's how it starts.
Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. You can never be too careful, little Heisenberg.
Speaker 3: I have to say I did have a parent approach
Speaker 3: me from one of the extracurricular activities that one of
Speaker 3: my kids does outside work, and she said, you might
Speaker 3: want to check the group chat because there's.
Speaker 2: A bit going on.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's where they really let loose.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I'm sort of, I don't know, I'm a
Speaker 3: little bit afraid to check it sometimes because I don't
Speaker 3: really know if I'm going to like.
Speaker 2: What I'm going to find.
Speaker 1: I'm bagging you.
Speaker 6: My mom's such a me.
Speaker 1: Thirty twenty four teen, What age is appropriate to stop
Speaker 1: looking at your kids phone?
Speaker 10: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I genuinely think if you're paying for that phone, then
Speaker 3: it's practically yours and you can have access to it whenever.
Speaker 3: And it is really important to check what your kids
Speaker 3: are up to online, because you know the internet is
Speaker 3: not a safe space.
Speaker 2: Se sure, Yeah, I'm positive.
Speaker 1: For example, what we discovered when we were at school
Speaker 1: as well, even though there were filters on the Google
Speaker 1: search engines, if you spaced out the letters, it would
Speaker 1: get through, wow, and then you'd be able to look
Speaker 1: at sports webs In twenty fourteen, what age is appropriate
Speaker 1: to stop looking at your kids' phones? We'll take calls
Speaker 1: next we're.
Speaker 3: Talking about should you check your partner's phone? I would
Speaker 3: love to know what people think about going through your
Speaker 3: child's phone and what age it's not appropriate anymore? I
Speaker 3: reckon if you're paying for that thing, you've got full
Speaker 3: access for as long as you like. Hey, Claire, Hi,
Speaker 3: what do you think?
Speaker 6: How old are you?
Speaker 5: For a start? I?
Speaker 10: Twenty four?
Speaker 2: Are? Okay?
Speaker 10: No? I completely agree with you. I think that your
Speaker 10: parents are paying for your phone that they can go
Speaker 10: into it. I never got a phone until I was eighteen.
Speaker 10: My parents wouldn't let me have one until I could
Speaker 10: pay for it myself. Yeah, so they never checked my phone.
Speaker 10: But I if I went out somewhere, I just had
Speaker 10: a little knockier brick that I had to hand in
Speaker 10: when I got back.
Speaker 2: That's so cute.
Speaker 1: Who knock did you have? By the way? Was it?
Speaker 1: Was it a big old fifty one to ten?
Speaker 12: Oh?
Speaker 10: No, but it was. It was a brick Like I,
Speaker 10: I couldn't do anything but tech coumm and dad on
Speaker 10: it and say can you come pick me up? Because
Speaker 10: I didn't know how.
Speaker 1: To use it? Can't get out to know good on
Speaker 1: the internet? Old school knock out.
Speaker 3: And she's playing she's playing Tetris too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's playing snake. Yeah, trying to crack a thousand.
Speaker 3: I say the big dogs with do thank you, Claire.
Speaker 3: Let's go to Jack from Highbury. Jack, what are your
Speaker 3: thoughts on this one? How old are you kids when
Speaker 3: you stop checking their phone?
Speaker 12: I reckon fifteen sixteen. It's a bit of a milestone
Speaker 12: for a lot of things. So fifteen, I'll stop checking
Speaker 12: your phone I'll stop thinking about it. You can, you know,
Speaker 12: start just be coming out all halfter that.
Speaker 1: Okay, Jack, you've got three daughters ages.
Speaker 12: Yeah, so they are eleven, six and one. So I
Speaker 12: got my hands pretty full.
Speaker 1: Yes you do, sir, Yes you do.
Speaker 12: You've got to be pretty on the ball.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 12: Some people start not you're right do that, or say, well,
Speaker 12: I had the kid, she's my daughter, so until they're eighteen,
Speaker 12: I make good decisions.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, i'd argue Jack that your wife technically had
Speaker 3: the kid.
Speaker 12: Well, happy they come out of me too, y'h.
Speaker 1: So true, that's so true. It takes two to tango.
Speaker 6: Yes, so true.
Speaker 2: Thank you, Jack. Let's go to Danny from Sky. Hey, Danny, Hi,
Speaker 2: how are you going good?
Speaker 3: Good? What are your thoughts on this one?
Speaker 11: Well, I'm a school teacher, so I spent a lot
Speaker 11: of my time putting kids as families with social media issues. Yeah,
Speaker 11: and I'm a really strong believer that you should be
Speaker 11: checking your kids' phones until they are eighteen.
Speaker 2: Yeah right, okay, you're having.
Speaker 11: The same passwords. You should be regularly checking their phone.
Speaker 11: And if you built up a relationship. I got two
Speaker 11: teenagers at home and they'll come and tell me, you know,
Speaker 11: and I ask me, is this okay, I've got this message?
Speaker 7: What should I do?
Speaker 11: But if you've got it, that trusting relationship, it's really important.
Speaker 3: So good because I guess, Danny, one of my biggest
Speaker 3: feezs as a parent is that there's some bullying stuff
Speaker 3: going on behind your back and your kids the recipient
Speaker 3: of it, and they're not saying anything.
Speaker 2: I bet there's a you've seen a fair bit of that.
Speaker 11: Absolutely, they don't want to dub on their friends. But
Speaker 11: you know, if true friends, they wouldn't have sent the
Speaker 11: message in the first place.
Speaker 1: It was words.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that time we had a voice of reason on
Speaker 3: this show.
Speaker 1: It feels good.
Speaker 6: It's quite refreshing, isn't it.
Speaker 1: Definitely key message and all this, I think and two
Speaker 1: very very key words private browsing. Joe's. Whether you're paying
Speaker 1: a mortgage or you're trying to get into the rental market,
Speaker 1: it's really really tough out there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it is extremely tough to find a rental property
Speaker 3: at the moment.
Speaker 2: There's a rental crisis Andrew.
Speaker 1: House, Yes, and particularly in Melbourne, Sydney, and you see
Speaker 1: some of these open houses there's like hundreds of people yeah,
Speaker 1: looking at say one room.
Speaker 2: Oh, I know that would be so disheartening.
Speaker 1: This little story has gone viral on the Internet's about
Speaker 1: a certain gentleman from the States who's renting I think
Speaker 1: it's in Sydney, and it's really drawn some interesting opinions,
Speaker 1: not just from his housemates but the public in general.
Speaker 1: He's asked his housemates to cover the water, gas and
Speaker 1: electricity bills while he takes a three month holiday. Bear
Speaker 1: in mind, he's still paying rent. He just doesn't want
Speaker 1: to pay the extra bills, right. She's also said, though,
Speaker 1: old chip in and I'll pay my share of the internet,
Speaker 1: but the other bills I shouldn't have to pay because
Speaker 1: I'm not there.
Speaker 3: Well, my first thought on this is quite emotional, like
Speaker 3: la di da, You're taking a three month holiday and
Speaker 3: yet you don't want to pay your water bill.
Speaker 1: Come on, man, well that's actually quite a point. Yeah,
Speaker 1: your experience in the rental market.
Speaker 2: Well no, I don't.
Speaker 3: Well, I was just explaining to you offer that I
Speaker 3: was married at twenty one twenty two, so I basically
Speaker 3: went from home straight into the marital home. So I
Speaker 3: haven't had a lot of experience in this area, but
Speaker 3: I would assume that if you're sharing a house, you
Speaker 3: need to share the responsibilities and utilities.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so what you think that he should have to
Speaker 1: pay even though he's not there using the plants, he's
Speaker 1: not using water, he's not using electricity.
Speaker 3: I kind of do, because it's like swings and roundabouts.
Speaker 3: Some stage someone else might go on a holiday. Well,
Speaker 3: and then they turn around and go, I'm not paying
Speaker 3: it like and they're going to say it exactly that.
Speaker 1: You know, it's like speak English, we can't understand what
Speaker 1: we're saying. Maybe write it down.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: These things just work in waves. Sometimes someone's going to
Speaker 3: pay more, sometimes someone's going to pay less.
Speaker 2: Am I right?
Speaker 1: Apps?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 2: And no, no, I thought you were going to stay.
Speaker 5: In my experience, which there's been a lot.
Speaker 4: If I ever was to go back and rent now
Speaker 4: with people, I would. I'm a fan of like split
Speaker 4: the whole lot up and pay weekly. And what I
Speaker 4: mean by that is you don't pay for the room
Speaker 4: that you're in, look at the whole house and you go,
Speaker 4: how much is the house costing us?
Speaker 5: How much is bills costing us?
Speaker 4: Let's split that up and let's pay X amount every week,
Speaker 4: so it's all covered no matter what.
Speaker 5: Right, I'm not a fan.
Speaker 4: I look back at all the issues I've had with
Speaker 4: living with people, and there was always problems with bills
Speaker 4: would come in, people wouldn't pay them on time.
Speaker 5: People owed you that sort of thing.
Speaker 4: So the last few places I stayed in Queensland, it
Speaker 4: was always your rent and your bills, and it was
Speaker 4: you don't say it was rent. Was two hundred and
Speaker 4: fifty coverage your bills a week and that's what you paid.
Speaker 3: Okay, SAME's fair and reasonable.
Speaker 5: Which I think is fine.
Speaker 4: But yes he's not there, but bad luck, like he's
Speaker 4: still living out of home.
Speaker 5: I think he's still got to pay it.
Speaker 1: If it blows out, Like say, if you're trying to coverything,
Speaker 1: but you use more water. For example, you have a
Speaker 1: little tears and beers. Not on Friday night, just an
Speaker 1: hour back at first, you're using more water.
Speaker 2: If you describe your last Friday night, it was.
Speaker 5: Love Friday night, too busy.
Speaker 4: Maybe he's got to say, look, while I'm away, you know,
Speaker 4: I pay a quarter.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I don't know. This is a hard one, but my
Speaker 5: thing is just paid all together.
Speaker 1: Zoe's a renting expert, your thoughts on this.
Speaker 6: I'm a share house expert for sure.
Speaker 9: Absolutely not. He doesn't have to pay bill as well
Speaker 9: he's away. I know it goes against the ground, but
Speaker 9: he's not using them bills. I mean, in my experience,
Speaker 9: we pay bills as they come, so we split it evenly.
Speaker 9: But if I were to go away for three months,
Speaker 9: Eddie would cover the bills, I'd cover.
Speaker 3: My rent yeah, yeah, right, Okay. What I would like
Speaker 3: is if Zoe just stopped coming to me and saying,
Speaker 3: can you pay my electric?
Speaker 2: That would be so nice.
Speaker 1: The message I got out of this is just avoid
Speaker 1: the rental market, give yourself a great, nice and earlier