WEBVTT - Hayesy Is 'Coming Around' On This Controversial Parenting Technique 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:06.400 We get morning every day every lazy adelaides, I don't 0:00:06.440 --> 0:00:10.600 know Jod's. I'm seeing the same headline more and more often, 0:00:11.119 --> 0:00:13.640 and each time I see it it shocks me less. 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:14.040 What is that? 0:00:14.200 --> 0:00:15.880 And as because I'm a parent of a five and 0:00:15.920 --> 0:00:18.680 a three year old, here's a headline mum slammed after 0:00:18.680 --> 0:00:25.160 putting toddler on a leash? Is that shocking? Not any 0:00:25.200 --> 0:00:27.840 more for me? By a social media mum of one. 0:00:27.960 --> 0:00:31.840 Rachel Butcher has hit back critics after using a common 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:33.680 parenting tactic to prevent her child from running way in 0:00:33.680 --> 0:00:36.640 crowded areas. She shared a photograph of her son with 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:42.279 a backpack on and rain's attached. She explained stopped him 0:00:42.320 --> 0:00:45.080 from running off when they are at the shops. Kids 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:47.680 on leashes. Thoughts on it get involved thirteen twenty four 0:00:47.680 --> 0:00:51.760 to ten. As a youngster, and particularly without kids, I 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:53.320 used to look at some of these kids and be like, 0:00:53.360 --> 0:00:56.160 what is going on? And parents pull your head in. 0:00:56.640 --> 0:00:59.800 Now I'm still not at that stage, but I'll tell 0:00:59.840 --> 0:01:02.480 you what. Brothers and sisters certainly open to it. 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:05.920 I actually don't hate it. I mean it's a safety thing. 0:01:06.800 --> 0:01:11.520 It's super safe because toddlers will run off anytime, anywhere, 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:13.479 and you have absolutely no. 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:14.120 Control over it. 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:17.119 Yes, like our kids are the worst, particularly your kids. 0:01:17.360 --> 0:01:21.640 Oh my, we at that level we can insult each 0:01:21.640 --> 0:01:22.600 other's kids, I think so. 0:01:22.840 --> 0:01:24.880 I think you do it quite regularly, So that's fine. 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:27.960 But no, if you're concerned about the safety of your kid, 0:01:28.200 --> 0:01:29.080 chuck them on a leash. 0:01:29.200 --> 0:01:31.520 Yeah. The other day, I was watching my three year 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:34.040 old daughter and just define gravity. I don't know what 0:01:34.080 --> 0:01:35.679 was going on. She was walking on the roof, like 0:01:35.880 --> 0:01:39.800 upside down on the roof. You think kids care when 0:01:39.800 --> 0:01:42.200 you say, don't run across the road line, that's dangerous. 0:01:42.280 --> 0:01:43.119 She needs a leash. 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:46.480 Yeah, they genuinely don't understand danger. You have to teach them. 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:49.000 And if that involves hooking a leash onto their neck, 0:01:49.200 --> 0:01:49.760 so be hitten. 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:52.400 Yeah. So what one message would be is to the 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:55.080 youngsters who are like, oh jeez, I would never do that. 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:57.320 You just got to put yourself in a situation where 0:01:57.320 --> 0:01:59.360 you get a five and a three year old. I'd 0:01:59.360 --> 0:02:02.160 like several leaf a leash for every single occasion of 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:03.400 my son and my daughter. Yeah. 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:05.720 Do you know what this is akin to people who 0:02:05.760 --> 0:02:09.400 have never had children, like I want six kids, just 0:02:09.480 --> 0:02:11.800 have one, and then see where you sit with it. 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:14.600 If I had six kids that have three leashes each. 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:18.640 I baby sit seven kids quite often. But in saying that, 0:02:18.680 --> 0:02:20.920 it's usually at someone's house. I don't take them all 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:23.440 out together. I'm in the camp of like, oh my god, 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:25.560 that's so ridiculous. But one time I went to ANDHL 0:02:25.600 --> 0:02:27.880 shopping center and I walked in and there was these 0:02:27.919 --> 0:02:29.880 kids trying to climb the ice cream thing, and this 0:02:29.960 --> 0:02:31.400 guy goes, these your children? 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:33.519 And I was more trying to thought, ye are you serious? 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:34.040 Number one? 0:02:34.040 --> 0:02:35.560 Do I look like a mother? And number two? Do 0:02:35.600 --> 0:02:38.920 I look like I'm from the North. Oh I'm not anyway, 0:02:39.000 --> 0:02:41.120 So they definitely needed a leash. So look as I 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:44.240 get older and probably once I have little, tiny darling babies, 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:45.240 oh probably. 0:02:45.360 --> 0:02:47.640 Do you know what the irony of that story is 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:49.720 is that you're at Underhale shopping center and you were 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:53.360 on a leash. Those kids were guiding you around. 0:02:53.520 --> 0:02:54.799 Nobody can ever leash me. 0:02:56.560 --> 0:02:58.480 So now at the stage where someone says to you 0:02:58.520 --> 0:03:00.240 when you're kids, I'll put it on a leash, like 0:03:02.480 --> 0:03:06.040 it's a good idea. Every now and then, as a man, 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:08.400 you sit there and you think, wow, what would I 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:11.600 do in a particular situation, like a really confronting situation. 0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:14.160 Would I man up? Or would I just squirm out 0:03:14.200 --> 0:03:16.600 the back like a little weasel and forever feel like 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:18.359 an absolute pussy cat? You know what I made? 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:21.160 So, for example, if you were to be confronted with 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:22.560 someone who wanted to fight. 0:03:22.960 --> 0:03:25.880 Yes, or if your family was in danger, yes, say 0:03:25.880 --> 0:03:27.240 someone intruded into your house. 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:27.840 Yeah. 0:03:27.880 --> 0:03:30.680 I saw this study on the weekend which I found 0:03:30.840 --> 0:03:34.200 very very entertaining, but also like, I wonder, what's a 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:37.000 category I've been It turns out that almost ten percent 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:39.560 of men think that if they got into a fistfight 0:03:40.040 --> 0:03:50.000 with a line, that they would win with an actual line. 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:51.760 Have seen that meme? 0:03:51.840 --> 0:03:53.720 In fact, I think I sent it to your wife 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:56.680 where there's a woman standing at the kitchen sink, and that's. 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:57.280 A thought double. 0:03:57.440 --> 0:03:59.320 So there's fifteen different thoughts about O, I'm got to 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:00.800 do the kids homework, I've got to pack the lunches, 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:01.800 I've got to do this, I've got to. 0:04:01.720 --> 0:04:03.600 Do this for work, blah blah blah. And then it 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:07.040 flips to a man. It was like, could I take 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:08.080 on a bear in a fight? 0:04:08.240 --> 0:04:08.440 Yeah? 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:09.600 This is the thing. 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:12.240 Yeah, absolutely is the thing. So not only do we 0:04:12.240 --> 0:04:13.800 think about it, we think what are our chances of 0:04:13.800 --> 0:04:16.120 actually winning? And would I be brave enough to even 0:04:16.160 --> 0:04:16.920 take part in it? 0:04:17.000 --> 0:04:18.760 Okay, all valid questions. 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:22.440 So there was a particular moment in my household quite recently, 0:04:22.480 --> 0:04:24.320 which I am not proud of at all. 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:24.720 Yeah. 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:27.920 You always wonder, in a split moment, say if someone 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:31.600 broke into your house and you came face to face, Wow, 0:04:31.760 --> 0:04:32.400 what would you do? 0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:32.960 Wow? 0:04:33.440 --> 0:04:35.480 I think I think most blokes have thought about this, 0:04:35.880 --> 0:04:37.920 and blokes say, look, I've got weapons under the bed, 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:40.039 or you know, I'd punch him in the face and 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:44.160 i'd grab him, I'd time up all those sorts of things. Yeah. 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:47.200 The other night, it was about one o'clock in the 0:04:47.200 --> 0:04:50.080 morning and it was stinking hot. Oh yeah, so, and 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:52.679 I was asleep, but I don't think I was fully asleep. 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:55.000 And you know when you wake up and you get 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:57.600 startled and there's that sort of moment in between reality 0:04:57.640 --> 0:04:58.960 where you're still sort of half asleep. 0:04:59.040 --> 0:04:59.240 Yep. 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:02.520 There was one particular moment where the mirror, it's a 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:05.479 big mirror in our room fell off. Oh no, so 0:05:05.520 --> 0:05:07.560 he was attached to the wall and it completely fell off. 0:05:07.600 --> 0:05:11.080 So much so that when it hit the ground, one 0:05:11.240 --> 0:05:13.960 it's smashed, and then two it's fallen front ways, so 0:05:14.000 --> 0:05:14.960 then it's smashed again. 0:05:15.279 --> 0:05:15.640 Right. 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:19.320 So there was a small moment, like a really really 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:21.919 small moment, where I genuinely thought that we were getting 0:05:21.920 --> 0:05:26.240 broken into I'm in bed with it, my wife and 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:28.800 my three year old daughter who still sleeps with us. Yeah, 0:05:28.839 --> 0:05:32.000 and in my moment where I'm really tested on whether 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:33.520 I'm going to be a man or not and whether 0:05:33.560 --> 0:05:36.320 I'm going to protect the family. This is basically all 0:05:36.320 --> 0:05:42.320 that came out of my mouth. It was dense at 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:48.000 of miment. My thoughts were on here. Instead of jumping 0:05:48.040 --> 0:05:51.000 out of bed and jumping into a fighting position, all 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:57.559 I could do was go And I had my wife 0:05:57.600 --> 0:06:04.039 Car literally say to me or he can't, it's just 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:08.000 a mirror that's falling off the wall. And then the 0:06:08.040 --> 0:06:10.560 next day, I think at one stage a little bit 0:06:10.560 --> 0:06:12.080 of time to pass it. And then Car I had 0:06:12.120 --> 0:06:17.400 to say, can we just address your reaction? Did the 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:19.960 mirror falling off the wall last night? I think Car 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:21.919 is ready to go, Like she cocked the fist and 0:06:21.960 --> 0:06:24.800 she was ready to go, And I was in the corner, 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:26.640 hiding behind my three year old daughter. 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:35.880 Do you know the worst pub about this story? You 0:06:35.960 --> 0:06:37.680 put that mirror on the wall you thought you did 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:37.960 a grad? 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:41.560 Yeah? On top of that as well, she's what a guy, 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:47.440 not handy and also an absolute pussy. I remember a 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:49.280 few days ago and we spoke about Kelly Clarkson, how 0:06:49.320 --> 0:06:52.640 she told us what she likes to do in the shower. 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:57.160 Remind me, yeah, you a fish? She said she likes 0:06:57.200 --> 0:06:58.760 to and she can't help, but she likes to quite 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:02.560 regularly urinate in the shower. That's classic, classic dirty bird, Kelly. 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:03.880 Cloves, classic Clarkson. 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:05.400 And I told you how much I like to eat 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:07.320 in the shower and also drink beers in the shower, 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:10.520 because the shower's there for much more than just washing yourself. 0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:10.840 Yeah. 0:07:10.920 --> 0:07:13.000 Well, guess what. There's another celebrity that jumped on board 0:07:13.000 --> 0:07:15.320 the shower train, and that is living your life in there. 0:07:15.880 --> 0:07:17.360 So can you take a shower with me? 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:19.000 Oh? 0:07:19.080 --> 0:07:21.200 I highly recommend you do. Don't take this the wrong way, 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:22.880 but come on, take this little journey. But let's have 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:27.239 a shower. Oh, there it is. Jessica. Bill's the latest 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:28.600 to come out to do something in the shower. 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:29.440 What does she like to do. 0:07:29.760 --> 0:07:33.120 She's offered an insight into a daily routine by revealing 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:36.360 her peculiar habit of eating in the shower, which is 0:07:36.400 --> 0:07:38.400 divided opinion, of course, but she's taken it the next 0:07:38.400 --> 0:07:41.720 step up. She said in a recent TikTok post that 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:43.920 she likes to eat and drink in the shower shower 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:49.160 privatey arthans like cereal or yogurt, tea popsicles, to which 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:51.320 she said, I know melk factor right, but safe? You 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:54.040 know anything that drops, you're good. Love that from Jess. 0:07:54.480 --> 0:07:56.080 I love your just beal impression. 0:07:56.280 --> 0:08:00.000 Oh. Basically, what she's saying is you can do absolute 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:03.600 utely anything in the shower, and I mean anything. I 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:05.600 don't think you understand what goes on in the haze 0:08:05.680 --> 0:08:07.080 household inside the shower. 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:08.720 Do I want to know while we're showering? 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:10.360 Do you think? What do you think Car and I 0:08:10.400 --> 0:08:11.400 get up to in the shower? 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:12.040 Oh? 0:08:12.080 --> 0:08:14.280 Wow, what do you go and have a guess it's escalated? 0:08:14.480 --> 0:08:14.760 Go on? 0:08:15.320 --> 0:08:16.840 Well, the kids home or the kids out? 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:19.520 The kids they might be home, they might be out. 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:23.000 I'll tell you anyway. Number one, Car and I actually 0:08:23.000 --> 0:08:26.240 got married in the shower, which is nice. Number two 0:08:26.320 --> 0:08:28.240 Car gave birth to all three of our kids in 0:08:28.240 --> 0:08:30.760 the shower. That's how much we get around the shower. Yeah. 0:08:30.880 --> 0:08:33.400 Number three, the kids are homeschool, so we teach the 0:08:33.480 --> 0:08:36.880 kids in the shower whilst they're showering as well. So 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:39.319 basically what we do in the shower is everything except 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:41.920 for wash ourselves. Yeah, so that's just that's just a 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:43.480 bit of an insight into what happens in the haze. 0:08:43.640 --> 0:08:45.120 That's a real twist on showering things. 0:08:45.800 --> 0:08:47.400 You can get involved as well to your bunch of 0:08:47.400 --> 0:08:50.240 dirty birds. I for dou below nine one nine because 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:53.079 Jess bills come out and she's bang on board, especially 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:55.120 the pop school thing and the coffee thing, and everything 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:56.840 hits the floor. I'm not sure if she's eating it 0:08:56.840 --> 0:09:00.760 once hits a floor. Showers are free goes, aren't I don't. 0:09:01.640 --> 0:09:03.720 I'm not sure about eating yogurt in the shower, Like, 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:05.320 what if the water gets into the yoga? 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:08.640 Yeah, just turn it up or not. Let me get 0:09:08.760 --> 0:09:12.840 on your back there, yoa, it's what have you been doing? 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:16.240 I've never suggested showered together ever again. 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:18.360 Dirty back, give that a bit of a scrub please, 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:22.400 this may take well, folks. Let's get to the break. 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:29.080 Quite the fort What the fork. 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:29.680 The Love edition? 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:31.480 Yeah, the luck because we love love. 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:35.160 But we thought we'd flip this thing on its head 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:39.920 for Valentine's Day and talk about specifically the things that 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:43.480 your partners do that drive you insane. I mean we 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:45.600 could have got around, you know, all the lovey dovey 0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:48.480 stuff and the beautiful romantic things, but no, screw it. 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:50.319 Yeah, I mean you need to know the things you're 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:53.000 doing wrong in order to delete those things you can 0:09:53.280 --> 0:09:54.760 keep on going in a good direction. 0:09:54.920 --> 0:09:55.840 Yeah, that makes sense. 0:09:55.880 --> 0:09:59.640 So this feels like a maths experiment. So we are 0:09:59.679 --> 0:10:03.679 the ex Yes, so we have approached both of each 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:07.400 other's respective partners and asked for a list of things 0:10:07.800 --> 0:10:11.280 that they think we do wrong in a relationship, the 0:10:11.320 --> 0:10:14.360 things that we do I e. You and I that 0:10:14.440 --> 0:10:17.360 drive our partners insane. And at this point I'm very, 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:19.800 very nervous about what Gregotty has had to say. 0:10:19.880 --> 0:10:21.280 Yeah, would you like me? Would you like to rip 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:23.720 the band? If you want me to go first, sure, Okay, 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:25.079 I've got a list right in front of me, and 0:10:25.160 --> 0:10:30.080 get straight to it. Firstly, extremely erratic. Secondly, consistently shoplifts 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:35.440 and sword money laundering. No, I made them up. I'm 0:10:35.440 --> 0:10:38.000 not sure if that's sure or not, but this has great. God, 0:10:38.000 --> 0:10:42.479 he's list of things. Let's almost call them ix of Jerdyoti. 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:46.240 Number one leaves garage door up and just walks inside. 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:48.440 I'm even irritated by that. 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:51.000 I know. Sometimes I think I've put it down, but 0:10:51.080 --> 0:10:51.880 I actually haven't. 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:54.000 And the worrying thing. 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:56.920 About that is that our garage, if it's up, goes 0:10:56.960 --> 0:10:59.040 straight into the house, so anyone can walk off the 0:10:59.120 --> 0:10:59.520 lame way. 0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:02.400 How'd you get in? I just walked straight through. 0:11:02.280 --> 0:11:04.600 It, straight into the open garage. 0:11:05.160 --> 0:11:07.360 Gets mad at me for not listening when I am listening, 0:11:07.480 --> 0:11:12.400 or don't need to listen because I've heard it before. Yep. Ah, jeez. 0:11:12.440 --> 0:11:15.439 I think I can understand exactly where Greg's coming from there. 0:11:15.280 --> 0:11:19.120 But he fails out mid conversation. Honestly, he's a shocker. 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:21.400 I'll stop, I'll just stop talking. You're not listening, are you? 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:25.080 And just need I'll be halfway through a sentence and 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:27.280 he'll just walk out of the room, like, where did 0:11:27.320 --> 0:11:28.240 that conversation go? 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:28.920 Where are you? 0:11:29.080 --> 0:11:31.520 He's trying to move on? Yeah, I stopped living the past, 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:34.280 Jae're trying to go forward? Yeah, right, And lastly from 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:37.960 greg otdy keeps signing up to play netball. Some people 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:42.840 don't know when enough is enough. Make col Greg oh, 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:46.000 it's late night netble. Your achilles and your acls must 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:47.800 be sitting there hanging by a thread. 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:49.600 I know, and I just signed up for winter two. 0:11:49.720 --> 0:11:52.000 I bet you did every Saturday winter. 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:54.120 So there's your list from greg Otty for you to 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:56.680 self improved. No doubt you really really listening to that 0:11:56.720 --> 0:11:57.840 and make some adjustments. 0:11:58.000 --> 0:11:59.960 I've been in contact with Kara Hayes and her list 0:12:00.320 --> 0:12:03.320 is extensive. I asked for three dot points and she's 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:06.120 gone over and above and given me four. Well, so 0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:08.439 firstly claims to be the clean tidy one, but he's 0:12:08.440 --> 0:12:11.680 tidying means throwing everything into the closest copboared slash draw, 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:14.760 in turn creating more mess. He's never touched a mop 0:12:14.880 --> 0:12:17.080 or spray and wipe in his life. 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:21.920 Excuse me very much, my beautiful wife, car Yeah, ah, okay. 0:12:21.240 --> 0:12:23.480 Interesting where would you find Where would you find the 0:12:23.520 --> 0:12:24.600 spray and wipe in your home? 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:29.000 What's in the home? First and four months? Sometimes it 0:12:29.080 --> 0:12:31.520 jumps from different spots, does it? I think it's under 0:12:31.520 --> 0:12:33.040 the sink. I assume it's under the sink. 0:12:32.960 --> 0:12:35.200 The spray and white playing hide and seek with you. 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:37.400 Maybe I know the kids probably put it somewhere. 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:40.520 This one, this next one is infuriating. What about this 0:12:40.640 --> 0:12:44.160 eats the snack size packages brought specifically for the kids 0:12:44.280 --> 0:12:48.280 lunch boxes, I e Tiny teddies, but does so at 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:49.640 night when no one's around. 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:51.439 So I go to make lunches at six a m. 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:53.920 And I have nothing chure. 0:12:54.000 --> 0:12:55.520 Yeah, I can absolutely agree that you should see me 0:12:55.520 --> 0:12:57.240 on Friday night as well, after three or four beers. 0:12:57.960 --> 0:13:03.000 The amount of tidy teddies I've murdered entire population in 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:05.080 one hundreds of them. 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:07.440 You're just sitting on the couch with tiny teddy's in 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:08.760 a headlock, just biting their heads off. 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:10.439 Oh head first. 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:13.080 Okay, what about this one? This is gross? 0:13:13.679 --> 0:13:17.440 Uses my toothbrush and acts like I'm the outrageous one 0:13:17.440 --> 0:13:19.440 when I get mad or you deny. 0:13:19.320 --> 0:13:22.040 Doing it because they're not your germs. They're not my germs, 0:13:22.080 --> 0:13:26.600 they're our germs. And just in response to all of 0:13:26.640 --> 0:13:29.280 these things, absolutely all of these things I didn't know 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:33.280 that I just time, thank you, thank you for. 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:35.440 We might as well go one more because I would 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:39.240 hate to lead the list incomplete. The fourth it needs 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:41.680 me to tell him how to help when it is 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:46.559 blatantly obvious. I e. A full basket of washing, needing folding, 0:13:47.000 --> 0:13:49.720 kids still in their pjs when we're going out, kids 0:13:50.280 --> 0:13:54.360 needing teeth brushed at bedtime? Does she have does this, poor, 0:13:54.400 --> 0:13:57.280 poor long suffering wife of yours have to spell those 0:13:57.280 --> 0:13:57.679 things out? 0:13:57.720 --> 0:14:01.440 Do you get one? And it's solid directions? Absolutely I 0:14:01.480 --> 0:14:03.880 need directions. I expect me to read the room. Just 0:14:03.880 --> 0:14:05.680 tell me what to do when I'll do it. Wow, 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:07.200 very simple creature. 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:07.600 Okay. 0:14:07.640 --> 0:14:09.840 They teach this in primary school, probably about year two 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:10.280 or three. 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:11.800 It's called initiative. 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:15.400 And this is the problem with men across the board, 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:17.840 the country, universe, the worlds. 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:23.600 All right, let's do this thirteen twenty four to ten. Please, 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:27.480 What does your partner do that drives you absolutely insane? 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:30.320 What the hot? What the. 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:34.000 We love love. 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:37.520 What we thought we'd do is flip this script on 0:14:37.560 --> 0:14:40.280 its head and just talk to people who've been married 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:43.080 very very very very long time, or those people who 0:14:43.120 --> 0:14:45.680 have broken up and are spending it alone, those people 0:14:45.760 --> 0:14:48.360 who still have the ick. 0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:49.120 Over their ex. 0:14:49.680 --> 0:14:52.560 And we've asked the question this morning, what does your 0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:53.040 partner do? 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:54.160 That drives you insane? 0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:57.240 Yeah, I mean it's a beautiful open space. Maybe use 0:14:57.280 --> 0:14:59.840 this to air your problems so you can fix them. 0:14:59.840 --> 0:15:02.680 And that's good. That's good because you invent, you get 0:15:02.720 --> 0:15:03.440 it all out. 0:15:03.280 --> 0:15:03.800 In the open. 0:15:03.880 --> 0:15:05.360 It's cathartic, and then you can move on. 0:15:05.840 --> 0:15:09.720 And what does your partner do that drives you crazy? 0:15:10.640 --> 0:15:10.840 God? 0:15:10.880 --> 0:15:11.640 I love this segment. 0:15:11.680 --> 0:15:12.200 It's amazing. 0:15:12.240 --> 0:15:13.600 I've got so many I can. 0:15:13.560 --> 0:15:17.440 Leave the biggest one for me, the biggest graph I have. 0:15:17.800 --> 0:15:20.440 Yes, that's with me, it's looking after my children. 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:22.200 But for him, it's babysitting. 0:15:23.760 --> 0:15:28.560 Well yeah, wow, Emily, what's his name? 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:32.000 That may be May. 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:33.840 Yeah, I'm going to call it out. 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:37.760 Okay, do you know what? I was just jumping abot 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:40.720 for the great man. I'm sure that he's learning this 0:15:40.760 --> 0:15:42.360 for the first time, and he didn't even know that 0:15:42.400 --> 0:15:43.480 it was Nick of yours. 0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:46.520 I'm pretty sure we heard about it. 0:15:46.800 --> 0:15:47.440 Yeah. 0:15:47.520 --> 0:15:50.320 Yeah. I just feel like if you, well you didn't 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:53.280 actually physically Birthday's child, but you had a real big 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:54.320 part in creating them. 0:15:54.840 --> 0:15:56.400 It's sitting when it's. 0:15:56.280 --> 0:15:59.040 Your own children. It feels like sometimes, doesn't it. 0:16:01.040 --> 0:16:07.080 WHOA, I'm just trying to contribute, Tim, what did you 0:16:07.160 --> 0:16:09.280 probn to do that drives you insane. 0:16:10.600 --> 0:16:12.040 Buives horses. 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:16.560 Likes in like a genuine horses. 0:16:17.080 --> 0:16:20.160 You got it, you got absolutely crazy. We have over 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:21.440 twenty horses. 0:16:23.640 --> 0:16:24.680 You put them. 0:16:25.760 --> 0:16:30.120 I least two properties for it, and it's crazy. And 0:16:30.160 --> 0:16:34.240 she also has eight horse rugs, which I call mount Rugmore, 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:35.520 which gets used. 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:38.000 Tim. 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:40.040 So she'll just go out. Will she call you and 0:16:40.040 --> 0:16:42.000 say I've seen a horse? Do you mind if I 0:16:42.040 --> 0:16:44.160 buy it? Or she just does it? Well? 0:16:44.200 --> 0:16:46.800 She says she's going out to buy a horse, and 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:49.120 I say yeah, that's fine, and then she comes home 0:16:49.160 --> 0:16:55.000 with three Yeah, yeah right, Oh oh god, that's annoying. 0:16:55.040 --> 0:16:56.160 I can't even buy a beer. 0:16:58.400 --> 0:17:01.120 Imagine imagine Tim view we had to buy a by 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:04.160 and you came back with three. She'd be so angry. 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:06.360 Oh you got it. You nailed it on there. You're 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:06.920 right with that. 0:17:07.359 --> 0:17:09.680 Yeah, thank you, Tim, thank you so much. Hey Scherie, 0:17:09.760 --> 0:17:11.480 what does your partner do the drugs? You insane? 0:17:12.040 --> 0:17:15.880 We work together and he'll as open up the door 0:17:16.080 --> 0:17:19.000 and just let my roop and then close the door. 0:17:20.520 --> 0:17:22.679 Was sitting next to me and she just looks at 0:17:22.680 --> 0:17:27.080 me and goes. Honestly, the twelve year old boy and 0:17:27.320 --> 0:17:29.439 he will just do it like multiple times a day. 0:17:29.960 --> 0:17:30.920 It's hilarious. 0:17:31.359 --> 0:17:33.879 There you go. That's just boys meaning boys, isn't it. 0:17:33.880 --> 0:17:34.840 We're just trying to do our best. 0:17:35.080 --> 0:17:38.000 Yeah, show me he loves me. 0:17:40.080 --> 0:17:46.840 Affection. Oh my goodness, Well that's outstanding, CHERI. 0:17:47.359 --> 0:17:49.000 I feel like all these people now are in a 0:17:49.119 --> 0:17:51.280 much happier place because I've got off the chests. 0:17:51.359 --> 0:17:55.560