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Speaker 1: the future. Have you about day Jake? And one and two?

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Speaker 1: Happy about day two? You relatable? The Relatables podcast is

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Speaker 3: Happy birthday, Jake, Well, Happy birthday, Jake. Have a birthday, Jake.

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Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Jake, we love you. Happy birthday, Jake. Happy birthday, Jake,

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Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Jake keeps laying bad, which you knew. The

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Speaker 3: Have birthday, Jake. Celebrating you and amazing person you are.

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Speaker 1: Sending you a lot of love on your speechiday. Happy birthday, Jake, Hoorday,

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Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Happy birthday. Thank you so much. That's so

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Speaker 1: If you guys like The Girl's Bathroom. It's good to know. Well, shit,

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Speaker 2: I'm the same decisions would have been made, I remember,

436
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 2: but I don't remember having any sort of mental battle

437
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:35,679
Speaker 2: with it.

438
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,479
Speaker 1: You know that switch. I talked about how I'd never

439
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:41,160
Speaker 1: opened up to anyone before. Yeah, you've had girlfriends previously,

440
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 1: I've had Yeah for two. Do you reckon your switch

441
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 1: turns like my switch has a lot of grease on it.

442
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 3: Yeah.

443
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:51,359
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, do you think your switch like

444
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 1: turns on and off easier or do you think you

445
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 1: don't open up as much in previous relationships? Ah, that's

446
00:22:57,760 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 1: a good question.

447
00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 2: I feel like maybe well, in previous relationships, I would say, not.

448
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 1: That they weren't serious. I don't know if it was

449
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 1: that like, I don't know if it was.

450
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 2: That they weren't serious, or if it was that maybe

451
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:13,639
Speaker 2: just young, I don't know, it was weird like in

452
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:16,679
Speaker 2: previous relationships, I would say, Okay, last time I was.

453
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 1: Vulnerable was probably when I was vulnerable with myself.

454
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:24,160
Speaker 2: And then I guess also, like Beth included but maybe

455
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,120
Speaker 2: when I made like the full on decision where I thought, oh, yeah,

456
00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:28,480
Speaker 2: I want to take the leap and live with Beth.

457
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 1: I'd never lived with a girl friend before. I don't

458
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 1: live with it yet, I was going to say, but

459
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:35,159
Speaker 1: we made a conscious decision to do that.

460
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 2: So yeah, and we have a time of when, like

461
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:38,880
Speaker 2: her leases up where she is now is when we'll

462
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:40,880
Speaker 2: start looking because she'll go month to month from then

463
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:43,200
Speaker 2: and then find a place. And yeah, she's the first

464
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:44,919
Speaker 2: person where I've thought like, yeah, actually I want to

465
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:46,639
Speaker 2: do it and not be scared because I had a

466
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 2: girlfriend once where we were together for long enough where

467
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:51,960
Speaker 2: it could have been a thing, but I just was

468
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 2: like young, and it was like and I was like, nah,

469
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 2: I gotta fucking go travel on and so okay, basically

470
00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:58,040
Speaker 2: the thought I have now with Beth is like if

471
00:23:58,040 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 2: I was to go traveling for.

472
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:01,679
Speaker 1: A long time, we'll best will come. Yeah. But when

473
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 1: I was a little younger, I was.

474
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:04,440
Speaker 2: Like, I want to go travel for a long time,

475
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 2: like with Oddie, so you can't come.

476
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 1: It's like terrible to say out loud, but like you

477
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Yeah, you're finding And it was

478
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 1: more of like.

479
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,639
Speaker 2: Just like thinking like, no, why would I do that.

480
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,640
Speaker 2: It's like I'm too young to like not have experiences

481
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 2: with our friends. But yeah, I mean plenty of people

482
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 2: probably do it from a young age, so I'd say maybe, yeah,

483
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:23,120
Speaker 2: last time I was vulnerable when I was like, yeah.

484
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 1: You've obviously mad sured, But do you reckon? You know

485
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 1: how you had that toxic mindset and the argument at

486
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,199
Speaker 1: the start do you reckon? When we're young, we have

487
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:33,199
Speaker 1: that mindset a lot more about being independent and we've

488
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:34,879
Speaker 1: got to figure out everything ourselves, and when we do

489
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 1: figure ourselves out, that's when we're able to be vulnerable. Yeah.

490
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 1: When I was young, I thought there was a right

491
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 1: way to do everything. Yeah.

492
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,199
Speaker 2: Same, Yeah, and then when you get out even just

493
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 2: like I'm only a few years older now, and you

494
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 2: figure out obviously, like every every single way you do

495
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 2: something is the right way to do something because it's

496
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,439
Speaker 2: your life. But at the time, I was like, no,

497
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,600
Speaker 2: the right way to do it is like it's like, look,

498
00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,159
Speaker 2: I've got a girlfriend. Now, I'd love that girlfriend, but

499
00:24:58,320 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 2: the right way to do it is that I need

500
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 2: to go travel with my I need to be the

501
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:02,640
Speaker 2: go alone or I need to go with a friend.

502
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:04,879
Speaker 2: What everyone says you need to do that. Yeah, I

503
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,639
Speaker 2: know everyone that's done that says you need to do it.

504
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 1: But what about the people that haven't done it. I

505
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,439
Speaker 1: just haven't spoken to them. When we're young, we're so

506
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 1: like easily compromised.

507
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 2: Oh but me, yeah wait, I was I want I

508
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,120
Speaker 2: don't know, I could watch a YouTube video.

509
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,160
Speaker 1: I could watch a YouTube video and want to change

510
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,679
Speaker 1: my career. Literally, I reckon that is so like my

511
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 1: fucking When.

512
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 2: I was like eighteen, I was like halfway through my

513
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 2: carpentry apprenticeship, and I knew and I was not liking it.

514
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:38,159
Speaker 2: And I just I used to love watching YouTube. That

515
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 2: was like my little just you know, happy place or whatever.

516
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:43,400
Speaker 2: As a lot of young people, I still like watching YouTube. Yeah,

517
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,679
Speaker 2: and I just, for some reason up on my trending

518
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:48,360
Speaker 2: page became this real estate guy. I started making vlogs,

519
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:51,479
Speaker 2: and for him, it was obviously just to sell more

520
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:53,680
Speaker 2: real estate, but he would just do a vlog every

521
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 2: now and then. I like, what it's like to be

522
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:56,439
Speaker 2: a real estate agent, what I do? How much I

523
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 2: worried all this stuff, and I just I would just

524
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,639
Speaker 2: watch all this guy's real estate agent flogs. I was

525
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 2: like dude, I want to have a crack at real.

526
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 1: Legit. I got fucking inforced by YouTube. I still have

527
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,160
Speaker 1: to catch myself out now, Like even with comments, someone

528
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 1: will say, oh that was shit or like something like that,

529
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 1: and then I rethink our whole Yeah that's like literally,

530
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 1: but I have the like mental capacity to catch myself out.

531
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,439
Speaker 1: But previously, when I was younger, old have been like

532
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:21,440
Speaker 1: maybe I am shit.

533
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 2: Like what, no, fuck, I fully agree with you nice

534
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 2: scary stuff, I will. I refuse to read the social

535
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 2: media comments for that reason. Yeah, and we very recently started.

536
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:35,959
Speaker 2: For what you're gonna say, I refuse to read full stuff.

537
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,159
Speaker 1: I just fuck. I don't know what it is like.

538
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:43,919
Speaker 2: I just refuse to read so the social media comments

539
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:45,200
Speaker 2: for that exact reason, because.

540
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 1: Is this bad at that I've given you the job

541
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:49,439
Speaker 1: of replying to YouTube? No? No, no YouTube. I don't mind.

542
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually don't mind because we get all all

543
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 2: the comments on YouTube.

544
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:56,160
Speaker 1: I reply to.

545
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 2: YouTube comments and they're all like quite nice, and I

546
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 2: don't want to let anything go in my head. But

547
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 2: it's like I would much prefer to see a comment

548
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 2: like loved this episode and I just say thanks, love

549
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 2: youa like instead of seeing someone go like just like

550
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 2: pick apart every little thing that I did. Like, you know,

551
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 2: when we when we record an episode per se, or

552
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 2: let's say an artist writes a song. I watched the

553
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,879
Speaker 2: Vechy documentary. I watched it too. We'll talk about that

554
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 2: in a second. Okay, so let's we'll use us for example,

555
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 2: we record an episode that we're like, oh, we were

556
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 2: like thee where we recorded songs.

557
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, we hope you translation and caught in my thoughts.

558
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, we loved that episode because we would work into

559
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 2: the songs. Yeah, we got to listen to them. We

560
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 2: were all tough that we actually wrote a song. They're

561
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,119
Speaker 2: like some of the worst performing episodes. Yeah, and we

562
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 2: were like, well fuck, like yeah, and if they did well,

563
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 2: what's the bet we would have written two more by now?

564
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,680
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. It's so funny. I wanted

565
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 1: to talk to you about this off the podcast about

566
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:49,640
Speaker 1: a vach how fuck.

567
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 2: It, let's talk about the past. It's so good, it's

568
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 2: it's so sad, it's depressing as fuck.

569
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:57,360
Speaker 1: But what you just brought up I wanted to bring

570
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 1: up off the pot and it was that I wanted

571
00:27:59,920 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 1: to create something that makes us feel something yeah, and

572
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 1: makes the people listening feel something, feel something, which is

573
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 1: like the songs, like we made that because we felt

574
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 1: love for what we were doing exactly. Yeah. And then

575
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,679
Speaker 1: I think that's such a better way to make content.

576
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 1: And that's why his songs are so good, because he

577
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: made his feelings come out through his songs and he

578
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 1: made people feel the same way he was feeling. And

579
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 1: that's what I want to do with this like content.

580
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: And the last six months we've talked about being lost

581
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 1: and like we're doing things for like views and money,

582
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: and other people were saying this is what you had

583
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 1: to do, yeah, and like we weren't doing it because

584
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: this is what we love. Yeah.

585
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,160
Speaker 2: No, we all the advice we were getting, we were like, fuck,

586
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 2: well we probably need to take it, yeah, even though

587
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 2: it's like our gut's telling us, nah, that wouldn't be

588
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 2: that fun, yeah, exactly.

589
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 1: I don't know.

590
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 2: There must be times in places in this world where

591
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 2: advice where it isn't what it feels good in your gut,

592
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 2: is good.

593
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 1: But I don't know.

594
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 2: I'm I'm going to live by go with your guy

595
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,239
Speaker 2: one hundred percent, but I mean you try to put

596
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 2: the vechi thing on the other night and she just goes, oh,

597
00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 2: like I heard that's good, exact same thing out of

598
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 2: that's really good, and I go, oh, sick a looking

599
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 2: sickt And I didn't realize, Man, I remember his songs,

600
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 2: I remember when he died.

601
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 1: I actually remember that the news had lights time out

602
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: of when he died. I didn't realize, dude, little warning.

603
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,680
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that he like properly killed himself. Mate,

604
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: he fucking apparently he did it with a shot of glass.

605
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,480
Speaker 1: It was wine bottle. Oh yeah, we looked it up.

606
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 2: Fucking insane, So so I thought it was a drug over.

607
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 2: It must get homann or some shit.

608
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And it like really was really sad and

609
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 1: a little bit confronting, and like his career was so

610
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 1: amazing and he just didn't have a good group of

611
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 1: friends around him. There's the scene, so everyone in that documentary,

612
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 1: I had a bad vibe about really every single one.

613
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: His best friend, his other friend.

614
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 2: The best friend that like laughed like that guy was Sus.

615
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 1: His manager, His manager was Sus.

616
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 2: Okay, his manager was Sus even though everyone said he wasn't. Yeah,

617
00:29:56,400 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 2: and then what about that dude that like was kind

618
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 2: of just sitting on the lamps like this, talking like this,

619
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 2: like he was on drugs and he couldn't really speak.

620
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 2: I was like, this guy, apparently they're like best friends,

621
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 2: and I was just like, the vibe you get from

622
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 2: a Vicy's voice in this whole thing compared to everyone

623
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 2: else's is like and what a VICH was saying, he's

624
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 2: like doesn't match the vibe.

625
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 1: No, not at all. But my takeaway from it was

626
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: like he was like the top of the pyramid and

627
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 1: then just like petered down and everyone was like using

628
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 1: him to the best of their ability because he was

629
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: so skilled.

630
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 2: But it seemed like to me at the point where

631
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 2: he finally was like because they had an intervention with him,

632
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 2: Like it wasn't like an Elvis thing, where so like

633
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 2: with Elvis and shit, he was on drugs to keep

634
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 2: him going, and so was a VICH.

635
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 1: His name is Tim, and so it was Tim.

636
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 2: Whereas the ELK with Elvis, all of his management, even

637
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 2: his family and stuff like that, they wanted that to

638
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 2: keep going because of how much money he was making

639
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 2: and how much he was making there.

640
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: But with with a VICH, they actually had an intervention

641
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 1: with him of like no, no, no, we want It

642
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 1: wasn't a money thing.

643
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 2: It wasn't amazing, so I don't think it was a

644
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 2: full money thing. But like, for instance, he one of

645
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 2: the best scenes in the show is like, so I

646
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 2: didn't realize how big he was.

647
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 1: Man, he fucking was. I didn't realize how much he

648
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 1: blew up out of nowhere.

649
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 2: He was like eighteen and then like his his fame,

650
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 2: he's eighteen to twenty nine. He died when he was

651
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 2: twenty nine, yeah, or something like that. So for ten years,

652
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 2: it's not a long, very long time. So like from

653
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 2: eighteen he was nobody.

654
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, and to go up he was the biggest in

655
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: the world. Barck Obama said his name listening to like

656
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: one of his songs. Yeah, that's crazy.

657
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 2: They've got like fucking Tiesto in there, and they've got

658
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 2: David Gadder. Yeah, and David Gadder's in there doing like well.

659
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 2: When he showed me this album, I knew the world.

660
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 1: Was going to change. He just saw things in a

661
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 1: different way than anybody musically, and it was mane. He

662
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 1: was so talented in the way like we're able to

663
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 1: see how his brains sort of thought, and then the

664
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 1: music that came out of it, like because he created

665
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 1: when they were showing the live like recordings of singing

666
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 1: all the songs like hey.

667
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 2: Brother, insane and so if each he doesn't like he's

668
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 2: not a lyricist, he admits he's like, I don't play instruments.

669
00:31:58,320 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 1: I don't know how to write songs.

670
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:02,719
Speaker 2: But when I get like the right beat and stuff

671
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:07,239
Speaker 2: from the computer stuff, and then when someone he's like,

672
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 2: I know the melody, I want something sang in. And

673
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 2: every single person that was like a massive, massive star

674
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 2: was like, I've never met anyone that has melody like him. Yeah,

675
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 2: I've never met a single person that can that can

676
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,600
Speaker 2: get a melody out of me like ag and.

677
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 1: The way he made those other people sound yes, because

678
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 1: like you hear the live versions of them singing like

679
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 1: this is okay, nothing special. Then you hear the song

680
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: and you're like, how the fuck did he do that?

681
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 2: It's fucking brilliant.

682
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 1: You hear that bloke singing live, you're like, this is

683
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 1: so mid And then you hear the song, You're like,

684
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 1: this is one of the best songs I've heard my life. Mate,

685
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 1: It's crazy.

686
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 2: Where it got me though, was like, so he blew

687
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 2: up started obviously, he was like in clubs and then

688
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 2: bigger clubs, and then in like amphitheaters and then big

689
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 2: outdoor amphitheaters, and he was doing shows them all these people.

690
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 2: And then he was like headlining ultra like massive like

691
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 2: DM festivals, and.

692
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 1: So he was.

693
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 2: He starts going on about how he's like, I was

694
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 2: living the dream to what everyone else looking in thought, right,

695
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 2: And he was like, and I was living my dream

696
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 2: as well, and he's just like, but I just was.

697
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 2: He's like, I've never done it for the money, and

698
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 2: I just wasn't happy.

699
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 1: And the thing that.

700
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 2: Stuck with me the most was when he goes, he goes,

701
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,479
Speaker 2: I've never done it for the money. As soon as

702
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 2: I could get a cab anywhere I wanted without worrying

703
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 2: about it. Is when I was like happy with the

704
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 2: amount of freedom I had, and I was like, and

705
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 2: now you can fly hen fly in private jets and shit.

706
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 1: That resonated with me so much as well, because it's

707
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 1: so easy, like anybody listening to get caught up in

708
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 1: how much money you can earn in certain jobs, and

709
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 1: like especially for us as well, because it's such a

710
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 1: it's a bit of a similar industry what we're in.

711
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 1: Just like how you earn money is with like yeah,

712
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 1: Brandel's views whatever views listen, same, same sort of stuff.

713
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: And when he said that too, and I was like wow,

714
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 1: like that's such a good takeaway message, like as soon

715
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 1: as we're able to live off doing this, like I

716
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: don't care about like a man and a Lamborghini, Like

717
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 1: I just want to be able to live and do

718
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 1: this day.

719
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's fucking crazy. Like you can tell he is experience.

720
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:08,879
Speaker 2: He experienced what a lot of people experience where it's

721
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 2: like and and I obviously like we're not at that level,

722
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 2: but I just I would like I want to catch

723
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:15,759
Speaker 2: it before we get there.

724
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:16,319
Speaker 1: And it's like.

725
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,360
Speaker 2: He was saying yes to a lot of things he

726
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,800
Speaker 2: wouldn't have wanted to say yes too, because he thought

727
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:27,280
Speaker 2: that's what he had to do. So it's like whenever

728
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,879
Speaker 2: we do have a moment of like do we really

729
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 2: align with this brand or do weah, it's like I

730
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 2: would much prefer to just like be like no, I

731
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 2: don't care how much money it is, Like I don't

732
00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 2: want to just like do something that's going to make

733
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 2: me feel like shit just because they've thrown a big

734
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:43,360
Speaker 2: fucking paycheck in your face.

735
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 1: And like he said, don't lose yourself. What do you

736
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 1: say that?

737
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 2: He said something He said something about like there's like

738
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 2: an art in staying true to yourself or I have

739
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 2: no idea, but he basically is just like no matter what,

740
00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 2: just be you trying to say that.

741
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 1: I think like the best role model Weekend Lookout is

742
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 1: Hamish and Andy. I was thinking about Hamy Shandy while

743
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:06,839
Speaker 1: I was watching this, because we've talked to them, like

744
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:10,240
Speaker 1: we talked to Andy once, yeah, and like we consume

745
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 1: all their content and they really they're one of the

746
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 1: biggest like duos in Australia. Yeah, and they would have

747
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 1: had the decision to make like to go like global

748
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 1: and take it to America and become like a list celebrities.

749
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 1: They were at that stage where they could have done it,

750
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 1: and they stayed true to himself and said, now we

751
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 1: learned it. We earn enough money and we do what

752
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 1: we want and we do what we love, Like why

753
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: don't we just keep doing that in Australia and like

754
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,839
Speaker 1: have the sickest life ever. It's fucking crazy, Like they

755
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 1: caught themselves out at that point Whereout is rising the

756
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,879
Speaker 1: fame and it's so smart, like they've been offered more

757
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 1: money for the even just like the podcast they do

758
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: now yeah, and they're like nah, just with yeah, like

759
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 1: we have a good system and it makes me right.

760
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 1: Now cut yourself out, cut yourself out. And I mean

761
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 1: to be fair, you and I actually aren't too bad.

762
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 2: Like I think we were open about it on the

763
00:35:56,560 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 2: podcast when you Talk and we had chats with distribution networks. Yeah,

764
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 2: and like they offer you, some of them off you

765
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 2: a minimum guarantee and it's kind of nice to see

766
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 2: that where you're like, oh, then you know exactly how

767
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 2: much minimum.

768
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're going to get every month, and you kind

769
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:12,879
Speaker 1: of like, oh, that'd be nice. But we just kind

770
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:17,239
Speaker 1: of were like, oh, there's something of artwork and doing

771
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,280
Speaker 1: it yourself, isn't it. Yeah, we're still an independent podcast,

772
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: and we made that decision because we actually love doing it.

773
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 1: Like with those networks, you hand off certain jobs and

774
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: like recording and editing and everything like that, and like

775
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 1: it's good maybe in the long run when we want

776
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 1: to have kids and family and we need money, but

777
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 1: we don't need money. We just need enough to live,

778
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:35,799
Speaker 1: pay rent, pay for the pay the bills, and then

779
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: we're happy. So we're like fuck it. Let's just stay

780
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:40,760
Speaker 1: independent and have fun and enjoy I suppose the process

781
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 1: of being vulnerable taking it back around circle is like

782
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 1: I feel like we're enjoying the process and like being

783
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 1: happy having the hustle. Oh yeah, no, And I'm so

784
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 1: appreciative of it.

785
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been trying to be a lot more appreciative

786
00:36:55,520 --> 00:37:00,080
Speaker 2: of it, appreciative of it lately. Like our biggest issue is, like,

787
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:01,720
Speaker 2: I don't know, losing an episode.

788
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think it's good to like catch yourself

789
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: out when you're like, because it's so easy to get

790
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 1: stuck in that hustle, that mindset of being so tough.

791
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 1: And also that documentary was really good and like there's

792
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 1: so many good takeaways.

793
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 2: Very very sad though, yeah, very sad. I knew what

794
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:20,320
Speaker 2: was coming, still sad. I just didn't know how it happened.

795
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, Yeah I knew.

796
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 2: I yeah, you can tell when they were leading up

797
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 2: to it. I just didn't think that when that guy

798
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 2: goes so he flew to Oman and that was the

799
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 2: last time I ever spoke to him.

800
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I was like, did you want to cry? No,

801
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 1: Cassi did? Did she know? Dude?

802
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 2: I could have they when they were showing the video

803
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 2: of the big massive funeral they had in that stadium.

804
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 1: I couldn't have gone to that. I couldn't have gone to that.

805
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:43,279
Speaker 1: There was they just had videos of people's faces crying. Yeah. No,

806
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 1: so sadly, okay, I.

807
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 2: Brought something to the table for this episode, mate, and

808
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,919
Speaker 2: I saw one comment talking about I thought we talking

809
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:01,000
Speaker 2: about comments that we were talking about earlier. I saw

810
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 2: one comment a couple months ago. He said somewhere, what

811
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:04,800
Speaker 2: do you guys want to see in the episodes? And

812
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 2: one person said bring back Reddit segments.

813
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 1: This is going to be Jake for like the next

814
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:11,839
Speaker 1: couple weeks. So I saw one comment say no more.

815
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 1: I saw don't take advantage of this guy. I don't

816
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:17,839
Speaker 1: take advantage of him.

817
00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 2: I'm a hamster read it is my wheel, okay, but

818
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:26,840
Speaker 2: I did find a good one. So I found it

819
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,319
Speaker 2: was the question on Reddit was people who let their

820
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:30,359
Speaker 2: intrusive thoughts win?

821
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:31,399
Speaker 1: What did you do?

822
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 2: And there was some good a couple of good ones,

823
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 2: and then I've got three of my own okay that

824
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 2: I remember doing just when I was younger. So people

825
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 2: who let their intrusive thoughts win? What did you do?

826
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,800
Speaker 1: This guy said, I didn't pull out. Now I have

827
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: a kid. I did not see that coming. Oh yeah,

828
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:56,759
Speaker 1: that is an intrusive thought. I know we only have

829
00:38:56,840 --> 00:39:00,919
Speaker 1: ten percent listeners, but my god, is that related? Yeah?

830
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,399
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't know. I mean every now and then,

831
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 2: like I gotta say, like I reckon. Girls would probably

832
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:09,479
Speaker 2: be like maybe he's about to say, like I'm about

833
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:10,479
Speaker 2: to finish, and.

834
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 1: She'll go fuck it, just do it in me. Oh.

835
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:13,839
Speaker 1: I couldn't hear those words, by the way, but that's

836
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 1: the hardest thing. I'd finished quickly to finish, and like,

837
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,359
Speaker 1: you've got to make the conscious decision when your whole

838
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:22,320
Speaker 1: body's tonguing. No, yeah, you know you're like, think of

839
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 1: the future. Sometimes you're like, I wouldn't mind a little bit.

840
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: I've never thought of that. Fuck people who let their

841
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 1: intrusive thoughts win. What did you do?

842
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 2: Two days after I turned eighteen, I got a tattoo

843
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 2: below my hip that says, in quotes, eat me.

844
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 1: Oh oh god, I shouldn't have let that one win.

845
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:49,760
Speaker 1: Shouldn't have let that win.

846
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that was a mental battle. You've lost, eat me.

847
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

848
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: Okay.

849
00:39:56,440 --> 00:40:01,720
Speaker 2: After my husband cheated, I grilled some of his football memorabilia.

850
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 2: Don't worry, the grill was unharmed. I took his phone

851
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:10,000
Speaker 2: out of his pocket, texted his girlfriend as him told

852
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:10,879
Speaker 2: her to quit her job.

853
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 1: She did? What that? Maybe I don't think that's an

854
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 1: intrusive thought. It that's called revenge? Yeah? I think this

855
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 1: is just called revenge.

856
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 2: Is it taking it too far to tell the person

857
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 2: that he was cheating with to quit their job as

858
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:32,239
Speaker 2: him to.

859
00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 1: Be like, I'm gonna come take care of you, like

860
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 1: I'm leaving my wife. I think I'm all for Like

861
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 1: I would kind of feel good. Oh yeah, you would

862
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:41,760
Speaker 1: feel good. I feel more for like life takes revenge

863
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 1: rather than you taking revenge. Yeah, like that'll get what's theirs?

864
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:46,360
Speaker 1: I mean? Yeah? True?

865
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 2: I mean but if I can, if I can speed

866
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:54,319
Speaker 2: that up. People who let their intrusive thoughts win, What

867
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 2: did you do? I was left alone for a couple

868
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 2: of minutes in a friend's house and I licked one

869
00:40:59,920 --> 00:41:01,480
Speaker 2: of those pink salt lamps.

870
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 1: It was exactly like I was hoping, And I know

871
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: I won't be able to buy one for myself now.

872
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,279
Speaker 1: I always one of the pink salt they like.

873
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,840
Speaker 2: It's just like a full block assault with a light.

874
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 1: In it and the salt like sweats, Yeah, saying that's

875
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 1: kind of cool. I always, I was gonna say, I

876
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:20,880
Speaker 1: always have the intrusive thought of synism in like a

877
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:22,720
Speaker 1: friend's house or something that leave me in their bedroom

878
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 1: or something. I'm like, I feel like I need to

879
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 1: go for their draws or something to stop. No way, obviously,

880
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 1: never do it. Joanna, you better not high stuff.

881
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:35,799
Speaker 2: Kidding, kidding, she doesn't listen to this, But I have

882
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,240
Speaker 2: gone into Juanna's room once and stolen some coat hangers

883
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 2: and I was like, drawers open.

884
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 1: I don't even know what's in my drawer right. Oh,

885
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 1: my dad's of accumulation.

886
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 2: My dad might be coming to stay here tomorrow for

887
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:50,400
Speaker 2: two nights because he has to do something at his

888
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 2: like local hospital before it gets transferred up to Queensland.

889
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,799
Speaker 2: And he and I'm gonna let him stay in my

890
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 2: bed because he has like a bad back.

891
00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 1: And see Pa breathing sun. Does he ever think we should? Yeah?

892
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: And so I'm going to sleep on the lounge. When

893
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:09,839
Speaker 1: your dad is a sleepover. He has like his bag

894
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 1: of clothes and he has his sneep asleep avery machine.

895
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 1: He takes it overseas really he takes it. He took

896
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: it camping once. That's how's your power? Had to bring

897
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:22,359
Speaker 1: a battery? That's such an it is such at least

898
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 1: he uses.

899
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:25,839
Speaker 2: He gets a good sleep, brings that everywhere, and so

900
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 2: I'm going to sleep on the lounge.

901
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 1: But the last thing I want is my dad leaned over.

902
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: He just goes through my drawers. Oh yeah, yeah, the

903
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 1: moving it. Yeah, okay, should leave a little note and

904
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 1: be like dad, don't in case, I should get a hold.

905
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,360
Speaker 2: Actually get a bit of cardboard and cut it to

906
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 2: the perfect size of the open drawer and just ride

907
00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 2: in text.

908
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:49,320
Speaker 1: He thought you'd look to block everything. Lost my trust,

909
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 1: get out? Okay. People who let their intrusive thoughts me in.

910
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 1: What did you do?

911
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 2: Not my intrusive thought? But when I was a kid,

912
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 2: my friend and I were sitting in a sauna when

913
00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 2: he said, what would happen if I piss on the

914
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 2: hot rocks? And it turns out it just makes the

915
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:08,480
Speaker 2: entire complex smell like burnt piss.

916
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 1: I would have known that and immediately gets you bare.

917
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 1: That is so dumb. That is the dumberest whenever.

918
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 2: This.

919
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 1: Okay, people who let their intrusive thoughts win what did

920
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 1: you do last? One? From Reddit?

921
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:21,840
Speaker 2: I snorted a packet of chicken noodle seasoning in high school.

922
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 2: One time I've had that intrusive thought, lost the use

923
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 2: of a nostril for a week. Everything smelled like chicken

924
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 2: soup as well. That's kind of a win, to be fair.

925
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 2: Your smell is like more than half of your taste,

926
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 2: is it not? You could eat anything. I've told you

927
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:40,120
Speaker 2: my story. When I'm in year six, I was gonna

928
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:41,479
Speaker 2: say off that I have a Sherbet story.

929
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. Really.

930
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 2: One time in year seven I had a friend over

931
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,919
Speaker 2: for a sleepover and he was about to leave, and

932
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 2: for some reason we decided to snort Sherbet.

933
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:51,879
Speaker 1: Straws I did in year six.

934
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so we decided to snort Sherbert straws. We

935
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:58,279
Speaker 2: both got got the flu. Yeah, we both got sick

936
00:43:58,320 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 2: as fire.

937
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 1: Remember I got a mad running yeah yeah yeah yeah.

938
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:07,399
Speaker 1: Fucked us up. Sorry, fucked us up now thinking about it. Okay,

939
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 1: I have.

940
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 2: Three personal ones, girl, Okay, it's my own personal intrusive

941
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 2: thoughts and win.

942
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:13,799
Speaker 1: I let these win.

943
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 2: One time, I think I've told this before a while ago.

944
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 1: One time I was home.

945
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 2: Sick from school and my mom took me to a

946
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:23,760
Speaker 2: bakery and to get me something to eat.

947
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 1: And I was sick with the flu.

948
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 2: She brought me in and she was like, don't touch anything,

949
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,240
Speaker 2: and she's ordering and I turned around and in Canada,

950
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,360
Speaker 2: like you when you get a coffee, it's just a

951
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 2: black coffee. You turn around and you do what You

952
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:38,399
Speaker 2: mix everything over on another bench. And I look over

953
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 2: at that bench and there was a cup of straws

954
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 2: and I was like that.

955
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 1: I was like, I have to and.

956
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:43,799
Speaker 2: I just want to like this, and I picked up

957
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 2: every single Oh my god, my mom turns around, she goes,

958
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,400
Speaker 2: what are you doing? And she had to pick up

959
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 2: the fucking couple of straws, take it over and be like,

960
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:51,840
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. My son has a flu and he

961
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 2: just touched all of your straws.

962
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god. What a good mom. Yeah, so good

963
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 1: thing she didn't like to spread the flu. I was

964
00:44:56,600 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 1: a parent of let's get out. Okay. This is another

965
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:02,600
Speaker 1: intrusive thought that I.

966
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 2: Had when when I was younger again, I was living

967
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:09,399
Speaker 2: in Canada. I scratched my name into my mum's car

968
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 2: with my fingernails. No, you did it because I wanted

969
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 2: to see if it would work. Oh, and I got caught.

970
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:17,359
Speaker 2: And the way I got caught was like I didn't

971
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 2: get caught in the act. But I remember my stepdad.

972
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 2: He comes in and he calls my name and he's like, Jake,

973
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 2: come here. And I didn't know I was in trouble.

974
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:26,120
Speaker 2: And he takes me out to the garage and he

975
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 2: goes on. He looks out, he points out it and

976
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 2: he goes, did you do that? And I was like no.

977
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 1: He was like, yes you did, Jake, Jake, I wrote

978
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: my name. No, yes you did. He's like, yes you did.

979
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 1: And I was like no.

980
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 2: He's like and I was like, I just want to

981
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:40,399
Speaker 2: see if it works or whatever, and he goes, it's

982
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 2: gonna take some real elbow grease to get that out.

983
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 1: Today I found out what elber grease was. Ah, it

984
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:45,759
Speaker 1: was a weird He taught me something.

985
00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll tell you one thing didn't get it out.

986
00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 1: This one's fucked. This last one's fucked. Okay.

987
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 2: I was in I would have been like thirteen, and

988
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 2: so if I'm thirteen, my younger brother would have been

989
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,879
Speaker 2: four or yeah, I think it would have been about four.

990
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:02,800
Speaker 1: Okay.

991
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:06,760
Speaker 2: So we were walking, we were on a little holiday

992
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 2: somewhere and we were going for a walk to a

993
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,880
Speaker 2: cafe and my dad was in front of me, my

994
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:12,839
Speaker 2: little brother was next to me, and I was behind him.

995
00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 2: And my little brother starts to walk along this like

996
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 2: garden bed little thing to balance walking line. For some reason,

997
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:22,359
Speaker 2: I thought it would be a good idea to kick

998
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 2: out his back foot and he just ate shit, bro

999
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 2: and he just literally and I was just like, I

1000
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:28,759
Speaker 2: did it and I.

1001
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:29,400
Speaker 1: Didn't even like.

1002
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:33,359
Speaker 2: The intrusive thought took over, like a demon took over

1003
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:35,400
Speaker 2: my body, and I kicked out his back foot. He falls,

1004
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:37,840
Speaker 2: he trips over, gets a cut, and my dad's like,

1005
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 2: what the fuck did you do that for?

1006
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 1: And I was like, I actually don't know. I think

1007
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 1: I've done something similar. I was like, I actually have

1008
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 1: no idea. I just had to see if it would work.

1009
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 2: It was the intrusive thought that legit, I don't I

1010
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:49,839
Speaker 2: actually don't know what overcame me that day.

1011
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:51,799
Speaker 1: I think the only one I can think of off

1012
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: the top of my head, which is like reoccurring. He's like,

1013
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: is that hot? And I know it's hot? And I

1014
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 1: touched anyway then, but my finger like two many noodles,

1015
00:46:59,920 --> 00:47:03,359
Speaker 1: like the hot water is it hot? And obviously? Yeah, water,

1016
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 1: I do it with that. I do it with my oats.

1017
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:08,240
Speaker 1: This morning, I was like, that's hot, but I'll be fine.

1018
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 1: Yeah my tongue. I always do it with the fucking

1019
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:13,759
Speaker 1: air fryer. Yeah, so what I go to pick something

1020
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:15,839
Speaker 1: out of it? Same like, I don't want to get

1021
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: a parent hold obviously it's been two hundred degrees for

1022
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: past twelve and so long. And then you're like, is

1023
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:21,720
Speaker 1: that hot? Obviously?

1024
00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 2: And then your mom's like, oh would you do? It's

1025
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 2: like nothing, Oh, man, I reckon. I've got to have

1026
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 2: more intrusive thoughts that I've let win.

1027
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 1: But I just same. I can one.

1028
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,320
Speaker 2: Maybe we should try and think of a few. What

1029
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 2: what's everyone's intrusive thoughts they've let win? We should make

1030
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:37,799
Speaker 2: that an ig question one day. I could be or

1031
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:41,399
Speaker 2: comment below this is here, comment below what intrusive thoughts?

1032
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 1: Read them so you'll get excited reading it.

1033
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:46,919
Speaker 2: So YouTube, I'll read Spotify audio reads. We'll both bring

1034
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 2: our own intrusive list of intrusive thoughts to the episode.

1035
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:55,720
Speaker 1: I like that. I like that a lot, Bodie.

1036
00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:59,479
Speaker 2: I have to give credit where credit is due, all right.

1037
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 1: A couple months ago. Odie comes to me, says, got

1038
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 1: a coach. Yeah. I was like, fuck ship, Like I'm

1039
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:09,839
Speaker 1: doing a cut. I want to get as like as

1040
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: actually cut as I've.

1041
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 2: Ever been, Like I want to be as ripped as

1042
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 2: I've ever been.

1043
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 1: And I like, hadn't. I just like was like, obviously

1044
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 1: that's sweet, Like you know, I believe in you. Yeah.

1045
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 2: Cool, And just like every now and then, I don't know,

1046
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 2: just like I haven't asked how it's going. I think

1047
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 2: I've asked, like what's the training, Like it's different, you

1048
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:29,439
Speaker 2: like the training like you're doing your videos. I watched

1049
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:32,799
Speaker 2: your videos, like, wait, if anyone here has any sort

1050
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 2: of connecting to men's health, Like, what the fuck are

1051
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 2: you doing?

1052
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 1: Yeah? They did get me on the front cover. Such

1053
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:42,560
Speaker 1: a bullshit. Yeah, hit us up, us up, hit up and.

1054
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 2: On the front. The first actual progress photo I saw

1055
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 2: was yesterday on your story.

1056
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:50,839
Speaker 1: And bro, what the fuck? Thanks man?

1057
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 2: Put it up for you.

1058
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:53,719
Speaker 1: You edit this. I'm gonna make kids more editing. Put

1059
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:55,799
Speaker 1: it up on the screen. I could do that. He's

1060
00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 1: fucking good. How do you feel, thanks man? Yeah, you

1061
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:02,719
Speaker 1: should feel good. I actually bringing it back to like

1062
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:05,880
Speaker 1: vulnerability and enjoying the process. It's really really hard to

1063
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:10,800
Speaker 1: enjoy the process of losing weight. Fair yeah, fair. Also

1064
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:13,880
Speaker 1: because I see myself every single day. You obviously you

1065
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 1: don't see me every single day with my shirt off.

1066
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:20,959
Speaker 1: I hope not. Anyway, I know where you live. But when.

1067
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:23,840
Speaker 1: Because my coach sent me that photo before he posted

1068
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 1: it that I shared his reshared his story, I was like,

1069
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 1: oh shit, I have been doing some work.

1070
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:29,799
Speaker 2: It's fucking night and day.

1071
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. And it's in the same bathroom, the same lighting

1072
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:36,719
Speaker 1: and everything. There was no tricks played. It's so it's crazy. Yeah.

1073
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 1: It's almost five kilos down in six weeks. That's insane.

1074
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 1: And it looks like it's only fat being lost, yeah,

1075
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 1: which is really really good. It's a little shorter in

1076
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:49,280
Speaker 1: the second one. Mate. The fat makes you look bigger

1077
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 1: than mate, looks bigger than I am, bigger everywhere. Yeah yeah, yeah,

1078
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 1: but thank you very much. Man. I'm I want to

1079
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 1: say I'm enjoying the process. I'm enjoying the results. Yes,

1080
00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 1: the process is very very hard. The good thing about that.

1081
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 2: Is is it pro feels good that you stick in

1082
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:03,359
Speaker 2: to it.

1083
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:06,799
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. And after that photo and

1084
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:08,839
Speaker 1: like you and a couple other people swiped up saying

1085
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 1: you look great and stuff like. It's obviously motivated me

1086
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 1: even more. And my goal to get on the front

1087
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:15,960
Speaker 1: cover of Men's Health is actually motivating me a lot,

1088
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 1: because sometimes I'm thinking, like, fuck, this last week that

1089
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 1: just went by, I was struggling with my diet. Like

1090
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 1: the first five weeks, I was cheering, I was motivated.

1091
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 1: This last week I was like, fuck, I just want

1092
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 1: to eat that really? Yeah, like like an all time low.

1093
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 1: I'm talking my coach. I don't know if it's it's

1094
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 1: appropriate to telling you my libido's gone way down. Ah,

1095
00:50:32,960 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 1: well you know why? Yeah, yeah, I know why. I

1096
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 1: was thinking, like is there anything you could do, like

1097
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 1: foods like fat white or something. I don't know. It's

1098
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:41,239
Speaker 1: like your a little prescription for something. I no, no,

1099
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 1: don't you have you got something? Is is that what

1100
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 1: those eyes we before? But this last week I had

1101
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 1: like an all time shift. I think in like food,

1102
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:54,400
Speaker 1: I've been struggling your bodies, like I need food. And

1103
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 1: then really my libido. Normally I'm quite high on the

1104
00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: old libido scale, and this week I was like, I

1105
00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:03,239
Speaker 1: just I'm no horny at all, like ever, wow, which

1106
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 1: is like very unusual for me, even like when I'm

1107
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 1: with my girlfriend, I'm always I'm like, well I know

1108
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:08,400
Speaker 1: why obviously, yeah yah, yeah yeah, And I'm like, well,

1109
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:09,800
Speaker 1: this is a bit weird. She annoyed or is she

1110
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 1: kind of like she probably don't even notice, be honest.

1111
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 2: So funny funny, Well, I mean that is something that

1112
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 2: comes with it.

1113
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 1: But I was also going to say, I was going

1114
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:24,640
Speaker 1: to say, this is one of my videos that I've

1115
00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:29,320
Speaker 1: been posting on TikTok and Instagram. But obviously everyone doesn't

1116
00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:30,680
Speaker 1: have to have the goal of to lose weight or

1117
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:32,440
Speaker 1: anything like that, but everyone wants to be the healthiest

1118
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:34,800
Speaker 1: version of themselves. And the best tip and take away

1119
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:37,839
Speaker 1: from this I've been doing and I've done it before

1120
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 1: and you do it is tracking your food. I think

1121
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 1: a lot of people listening right now I probably have

1122
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: never tracked food before. And you don't know the protein, fats, carbs,

1123
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:48,279
Speaker 1: and calories within said food that you're eating. And you

1124
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:49,759
Speaker 1: don't not necessarily have a goal. We have to have

1125
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 1: a goal to lose weight or game weight or anything

1126
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:53,920
Speaker 1: like that. But just I'm saying, like, by a scale

1127
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 1: for a day or two, this track what you eat

1128
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 1: and you'll realize, oh shit, this is doing this to me,

1129
00:51:58,320 --> 00:51:59,520
Speaker 1: or shit, this is doing this to me, And it's

1130
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:01,839
Speaker 1: such a help little like trick to having your brain

1131
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:05,480
Speaker 1: and your second guess eating the peanut butter with like

1132
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 1: layering it on your toast rather than having vegemint.

1133
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:10,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, such an Australian thing. Yeah, I fucking blew Joanna's

1134
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:13,359
Speaker 2: mind last night. She's getting into exactly what you're saying

1135
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:14,920
Speaker 2: right now because my whole a.

1136
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 1: Lot of people don't know it and we take it

1137
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:16,720
Speaker 1: for granted.

1138
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 2: It's yeah, I was, I've thought it was crazy, right.

1139
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 2: So I've been weighing all my stuff purely just like

1140
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 2: I don't have any goal because my first goal of

1141
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 2: the year is to fall in love with the gym again,

1142
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:28,359
Speaker 2: and so part of that process, I was like, I'm

1143
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:29,480
Speaker 2: going to eat the same thing every day. I'm just

1144
00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 2: going to make sure I know what i'm having. I

1145
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:33,400
Speaker 2: want to have just really protein's my main thing and

1146
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 2: calorie I guess. But Joanna started to track her. She

1147
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 2: wants to have you having like one hundred and twenty

1148
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 2: grams of protein a day, and I was like, that's

1149
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:42,080
Speaker 2: a good goal. So she was tracking her like She's like,

1150
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 2: how do I get to be more protein blah blah blah.

1151
00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:46,560
Speaker 2: And then she's talking about She's like, I love fruit,

1152
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:49,600
Speaker 2: but it's just and I know there's no calories in it.

1153
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:52,040
Speaker 1: And she was putting grapes into a container and I

1154
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:52,840
Speaker 1: was like no calories.

1155
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:55,959
Speaker 2: I was like, funny, you say that. Look strawberries, Yes,

1156
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 2: barely any calories. Like I was named it and I

1157
00:52:58,120 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 2: was like, grapes, stranda, I'm sorry that the high.

1158
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:01,879
Speaker 1: She was like, no way.

1159
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 2: I was like yeah, like it's not a huge amount,

1160
00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:06,240
Speaker 2: Like one hundred grams of grapes is like seventy calories,

1161
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 2: but just compared to other things, like in terms of volume,

1162
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:10,880
Speaker 2: mango is pretty hard to Yeah, and she and she

1163
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:12,920
Speaker 2: brought she was like no way, And she weighed out

1164
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 2: one hundred grams of grapes and she's like it's like

1165
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 2: ten fucking greats.

1166
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 1: She was pissed, and I was like yeah, yeah. Like

1167
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:19,600
Speaker 1: once you weigh out like a bag of shapes or

1168
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 1: a bag of chips, you're like, oh shit, that's like

1169
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:23,320
Speaker 1: a third of my or fourth of my calorie intake

1170
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:25,239
Speaker 1: in just these bag of chips I'm eating. Like you're

1171
00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:27,080
Speaker 1: like oh shit, and you second guess it way out

1172
00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 1: of serving of cereal.

1173
00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:30,319
Speaker 2: Oh, cereal is terrible, A lot of cereal, A lot

1174
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:32,760
Speaker 2: of servings of cereal that the serving size is thirty grams.

1175
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's nothing. Some of these companies serving sizes. They

1176
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 1: are having a laugh. Oh. I wanted to finish on

1177
00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:42,840
Speaker 1: because I've been posting videos on like TikTok and Instagram.

1178
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 1: I've been looking at the algorithm a lot. Yeah, and

1179
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,720
Speaker 1: also obviously a big part of our business. The podcast

1180
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 1: is TikTok and what's been happening is the ban bro

1181
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 1: in America. Yeah, the TikTok ban. I fucking We were

1182
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:55,319
Speaker 1: talking about it heaps leading up to it.

1183
00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:57,200
Speaker 2: We didn't talk about it on here, and I kept

1184
00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:59,399
Speaker 2: on saying I think it's gonna go through, and ad

1185
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:02,200
Speaker 2: he kept on saying, no, I believe it when I

1186
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 2: see it.

1187
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 1: And it went through. Yeah, And so last night it

1188
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:09,759
Speaker 1: went through and I sent it to Jake and I

1189
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 1: was like, oh, damn it. I was actually I didn't

1190
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 1: say you were right, but I was like, oh damn it,

1191
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 1: It's happened. And then twelve hours audio is I believed

1192
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 1: in Trump? Yeah, because I've saw seen so many videos

1193
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 1: because Trump's marketing strategy was the up. He won like

1194
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:25,000
Speaker 1: by like ninety percent in people aged like eighteen and

1195
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:26,879
Speaker 1: twenty four. Yeah, And I was like, and he said

1196
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:28,400
Speaker 1: there was a video of him saying I love TikTok

1197
00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 1: because his son's like part of his marketing plan and

1198
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:32,400
Speaker 1: he's like twenty four or some shit. Yeah, And I

1199
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 1: was like, Trump loves TikTok. It's not going anywhere. And

1200
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:37,319
Speaker 1: then twelve hours later, after getting a band, Trump said

1201
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 1: something about like everyone knows the're right to fucking do whatever.

1202
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 1: And then it's back and I'm like, I knew we

1203
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 1: had the power. I fucking woke up this morning. I

1204
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:44,680
Speaker 1: saw a video from Alex Earl.

1205
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's like, I was on hick Why did

1206
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:48,319
Speaker 2: I cry a couple of days ago?

1207
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:50,719
Speaker 1: If I'm just back. It stressed me out. TikTok's like

1208
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:52,840
Speaker 1: sixty percent fucking American. I know, actual kind stressed me

1209
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:54,399
Speaker 1: out as well. I'm not gonna lie downloaded red note

1210
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 1: in process the video as soon as it went because

1211
00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 1: it was ever gonna happen and I wasn't stressing at all.

1212
00:54:58,080 --> 00:54:58,879
Speaker 1: And then I saw the band.

1213
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 2: I actually had liked a couple funny videos about the band.

1214
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 2: This is from Chris Olsen. He said, this whole thing

1215
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:05,880
Speaker 2: feels like when you're dramatically saying goodbye to someone on

1216
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:07,760
Speaker 2: the street and then you realize you both have to walk.

1217
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 1: The same direction. It's like in the supermarket, and then

1218
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 1: you've both gone down the same eye. Yeah, you say

1219
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 1: hi in the first and you keep on crossing part.

1220
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 2: And then there was another one and it was Paramount

1221
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:20,799
Speaker 2: Pictures fucking posted this on TikTok, and it was and

1222
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:22,640
Speaker 2: there's that yeah, and you know the scene in wul

1223
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 2: for Wall Street where he's supposed to be quitting his

1224
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 2: job because they find out what he's doing is illegal,

1225
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:27,680
Speaker 2: but if he quits, it's all good. And he goes,

1226
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:29,680
Speaker 2: everyone's like, thinking's about to get up and announce it

1227
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:31,240
Speaker 2: he's quitting, and he goes, I'm.

1228
00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:31,759
Speaker 1: Not fucking leading.

1229
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 2: They've just got TikTok over to me, like I'm not

1230
00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 2: fucking leaving.

1231
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:37,359
Speaker 1: I never thought it was ever going to happen too,

1232
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:41,000
Speaker 1: because TikTok in America is the number one amount of users,

1233
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:43,040
Speaker 1: has like one hundred and eleven million users. I think

1234
00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:45,440
Speaker 1: it's one hundred and fifty and the amount of people

1235
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 1: and businesses that rely on TikTok in America. I was like,

1236
00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 1: their economy is going to plummet if they ban like,

1237
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:54,400
Speaker 1: and I know America's all about fucking money fat Like,

1238
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, there's no way they could logically do this.

1239
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:58,840
Speaker 1: There is a conspiracy. What is it? I wanted to

1240
00:55:58,840 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 1: bring this up.

1241
00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:02,880
Speaker 2: Okay, So the whole thing with the band, right was

1242
00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:06,720
Speaker 2: America is saying it's it's it's a national security issue

1243
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 2: about China because China owns TikTok. Right, So they were like,

1244
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:14,600
Speaker 2: TikTok can stay if you sell it to us. They're like,

1245
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:17,279
Speaker 2: no Elon Musk probably I think offered to buy it.

1246
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 2: Mister Beast is like, TikTok, sell it to me, we

1247
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:23,879
Speaker 2: can keep it here. So he's like doing that, right,

1248
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:28,920
Speaker 2: there's a conspiracy that fucking Zuckerberg bought it.

1249
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:30,280
Speaker 1: Oh really, I didn't tell anyone.

1250
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:33,920
Speaker 2: No, So no, I don't like Facebook's gone down here.

1251
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 2: I don't want to okay here quickly, we're nearly done here.

1252
00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:43,280
Speaker 2: So the government people it's like a full insider trading conspiracy.

1253
00:56:43,360 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 1: Right.

1254
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:46,480
Speaker 2: The government is like, nah, we don't want TikTok. But

1255
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 2: all the people in government that can make this decision,

1256
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:51,879
Speaker 2: they're all big stakeholders in Meta, which is Facebook, right,

1257
00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:56,120
Speaker 2: and they're like, sell TikTok to us, and well, you

1258
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:58,759
Speaker 2: can have it here. And now there's this whole conspiracy

1259
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,359
Speaker 2: because people in the US the day before the band,

1260
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 2: we're getting these things coming up on their Facebook. They'd

1261
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 2: go into Facebook, and Facebook had this thing of like

1262
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:09,319
Speaker 2: link your Facebook to your TikTok so people can discover you.

1263
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:11,120
Speaker 2: And they're like, why the fuck would Facebook do this

1264
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:12,560
Speaker 2: now when they know it's going to get banned?

1265
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 1: This is sus.

1266
00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 2: And then some people keep coming across this TikTok Facebook

1267
00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 2: account that has three hundred and something thousand followers and

1268
00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 2: it's already verified, which is crazy, by the way, because

1269
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:24,640
Speaker 2: we aren't even fucking verified, but we're doing it for years, right,

1270
00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 2: Facebook verified already unless they're paying for.

1271
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 1: It, I don't know.

1272
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:32,760
Speaker 2: But basically now, also, the guy that owns TikTok, that

1273
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 2: shoe guy from Singapore, he used to have he has

1274
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 2: an account and it used to say TikTok ceo taken

1275
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 2: out of his account.

1276
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:42,400
Speaker 1: Oh it's gone, it's gone, right, So.

1277
00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:45,040
Speaker 2: There's this whole conspiracy that all the fucking shareholders in

1278
00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 2: Meta were like zuck In.

1279
00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:49,479
Speaker 1: You go purchase it and they're going to slowly letter

1280
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 1: from by about part of metaw or some share Facebook.

1281
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:54,160
Speaker 1: I know it's probably not, but it feels like he's

1282
00:57:54,160 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 1: dead in my life.

1283
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 2: Facebook's dead from our Facebook label about it.

1284
00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:01,920
Speaker 1: Other than Facebook is good two things Facebook groups and

1285
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 1: buying shit marketplace marketplace and like anything for like renting

1286
00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 1: or like community groups. Anything to do with a group

1287
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:11,680
Speaker 1: is really good. And Villa's fucking like anything to do

1288
00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 1: with like buying shit and like building a community great,

1289
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 1: but like the actual like looking for videos and stuff.

1290
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 2: Okay, guys, thank you very much for coming along with

1291
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 2: This would be the first week we're going to call

1292
00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 2: one of you wonderful listeners, one of you baddies, one

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Speaker 2: of the baddies, if you wanted to be, If you

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Speaker 2: would like to be part of the list of baddies.

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Speaker 2: It gets a phone call from us to sign off

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Speaker 2: the episode. The link will be in the description of

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Speaker 2: this episode.

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Speaker 1: Yes it will, and when I get around you, it'll

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Speaker 1: be on the link in Instagram bio. But not yet.

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Speaker 1: So let's call Brittany and I was going to sign

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Speaker 1: off the episode.

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Speaker 3: Hello Britney speaking.

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Speaker 1: Hi Brittany, it's already and Jake from the Relatables, how

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Speaker 1: are you going? I am going great that you picked up. Yes,

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Speaker 1: we have a little bit of a faiver. Could you

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Speaker 1: please sign off our episode in whichever way you see fit.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, no pressure or anything. Oh my god, no,

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Speaker 3: now I'm stressed.

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Speaker 1: It's easy. We're bad at it as well. No pressure

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Speaker 1: at all, no wrong answers.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thanks for listening. Tune in next time for more

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Speaker 3: great advice and some toxic behaviors.

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Speaker 1: Are Thank you, Brittany. Thanks Brittany, I have a great day.

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Speaker 3: You're welcome you too.

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Speaker 1: Bye. Oh that was good. That was actually good. And

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Speaker 1: the suspense we said it at the start. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you everybody for listening. And someone said it in

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Speaker 1: your video. Stay bad