1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: Now, as I was saying just before the break, it's 2 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:05,560 Speaker 1: been revealed a seven year old boy down in Mount 3 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:09,160 Speaker 1: Gambia brought a kitchen knife to school this week and 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: threatened to kill classmates. It occurred at the Mount Gambia 5 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: at North Primary School on Monday. The school went into lockdown. 6 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:18,439 Speaker 1: No one was injured. Police spoke to the child and 7 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 1: his parents. He's been suspended, other parents notified of the incident, 8 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: and the Education Department of course involved investigating, providing support 9 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: to the school, the teachers and other students there as well. 10 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: But certainly concerning doctor Darrel Cross, psychologist Daryl good morning, 11 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: thank you for your time. 12 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:38,959 Speaker 2: Good morning, Matthew. 13 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 1: What would prompt a seven year old to do this? 14 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 2: Look, Matthew, this is just the icing on the cake. 15 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 2: This is not a one off for this child or 16 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 2: children like him. This child would have been identified long 17 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 2: ago at kindergarten, preschool, year one, year two as having 18 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 2: behavioral problems and a child at risk. So normally what 19 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 2: we find is this child would come from a chaotic background, 20 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:16,839 Speaker 2: a dysfunctional background. I don't know anything about this child, 21 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 2: but in my experience, there may well be domestic violence, alcoholism, drugs, 22 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 2: and certainly the parenting style would be a shambles. So 23 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 2: we would have identified this child in the school system 24 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 2: very early on, but resources being stretched, not much would 25 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 2: have happened. And sadly, Matthew, what I would say to 26 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 2: you is that this child will probably go on to 27 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 2: juvenile offending and later criminality as morning follows night. We 28 00:01:56,200 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 2: can expect that if there's no real intervention. And I 29 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: don't mean just the odd behavioral program. I mean that's 30 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 2: just a band aid and a joke. We need serious intervention. 31 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 2: And he's not alone. And this is one of the 32 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 2: reasons too, why teachers are leaving in drones, because behavior 33 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 2: problems are escalating and it's hard enough teaching in any 34 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 2: any in anyone's language, let alone having major behavior problems 35 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 2: and children who have special needs. 36 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: Now, Darryl Okay, you say you don't know this, this child, 37 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: this your your assessment of all of that comes from experience. 38 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: I imagine what you've seen. 39 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 2: Yes, what I certainly, and I would have thought this 40 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 2: child had a string of behavioral problems before this. This 41 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 2: just would have been the one that that really came 42 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 2: to the four that's created havoc in the school. But 43 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:57,959 Speaker 2: my experience with suggest that this child has a string 44 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 2: of behavioral issues would have been brought to the notice 45 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 2: of the school leaders and the teachers early on in 46 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 2: his schooling. This is not a one off event. I 47 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 2: can assure you of that absolutely. 48 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 1: Now seven year old, you'd think he's in maybe year two, 49 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: year three, the juvenile offending. You say that it is 50 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 1: likely to follow if things aren't address. Is that still 51 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: the case now, he's certainly been brought to everyone's attention. 52 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,519 Speaker 2: Yes, that is still the case, because the attention he's 53 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 2: going to get will be if I can call it 54 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 2: mickey mouse or band aid, and if they were really serious, 55 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 2: and if education was really serious about addressing these issues, 56 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 2: it would be And I've said this on your program before, 57 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:46,839 Speaker 2: it's called early intervention, Matthew. And early intervention doesn't mean 58 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 2: a bit of counseling for the child and the parents 59 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 2: and suspension. Early intervention means a withdrawal program in a 60 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 2: withdrawal unit that is multidisciplinary. And we had one of 61 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 2: those in essay in Melbourne Street where Ronald McDonald House 62 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 2: is now. It was staffed by education and it was 63 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 2: started by an allied health team from the Children's Hospital 64 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 2: at that time, and it brought these children into a 65 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 2: classroom setting, it worked with them individually with psychologists and 66 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:29,280 Speaker 2: social workers. It worked with the parents individually, it worked 67 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 2: with the teachers individually, and it had the students in 68 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 2: there for at least the term, maybe two terms, three terms, 69 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 2: until we turned around the child and the parents and 70 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 2: gave the teacher skills. Now that's a withdrawal program. That's 71 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 2: appropriate intervention, because without that sort of intervention, you're whistling 72 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 2: in the wind. Nothing's going to happen, and the rest 73 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 2: of it is band aid and talk, and I can 74 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 2: assure you that with absolute guarantee. 75 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 1: So really, what you're saying is the child to be 76 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:03,919 Speaker 1: taken away from the family for a while and re educated. 77 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 2: Well, he needs to be not necessarily taken away from 78 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 2: the child from the parents, but taken away from the 79 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 2: school in a withdrawal program with other children who experienced 80 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 2: similar problems, intensive interaction with teachers and school assistants, teacher age, 81 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 2: whatever you want to call them. And at the same time, 82 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 2: the parents and the students and the teachers all get 83 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 2: behavioral help on how to manage this child. I've seen 84 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 2: the behavior change, I've seen them go back into the classroom. 85 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 2: I've seen the parents get some schools under their belt, 86 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 2: and I've seen this program work. But every school ought 87 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 2: to have a withdrawal program, and if they can't, then 88 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 2: there ought to be a local withdrawal unit, which is 89 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:56,119 Speaker 2: a feeder for a number of schools in the local area. 90 00:05:56,680 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 2: So it's definitely a withdrawal unit. He or she would 91 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 2: go back to the parents at night, but they would 92 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:08,039 Speaker 2: come into a special school, a special restraal unit during 93 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 2: the day for intensive educational help and intensive therapy from 94 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 2: an allied team. 95 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 1: Now, there'd be a lot of children who are raised 96 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 1: in the type of environment you describe at the start 97 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: of our chat, shambolic essentially, who don't turn to violence. 98 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: What makes the small percentage you do do that? 99 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 2: Look, we'd probably say that that's a miracle. Yes, you're right, 100 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 2: occasionally it's rare, Matthew, But occasionally, and we don't really 101 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 2: know what the trigger is for that or what the 102 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 2: recipe is for that. It just seems that somehow or other. Normally, 103 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 2: what we do find is there might be a one 104 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 2: person in that child's life who's taken an interest in them. 105 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 2: It could be a sports coach, it could be a teacher, 106 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 2: be a next door neighbor, or it could be a grandparent. 107 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 2: But generally speaking, the children who bucked the mold, if 108 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 2: we can express it in that way, have generally got 109 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 2: someone in their background who's supported them, or been their ally, 110 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 2: or been their role model, because without that, it's highly 111 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 2: unlikely that they'll make it through without moving into criminality. 112 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: Of some thought, is it a cry for help? Is 113 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:28,119 Speaker 1: that what we've seen this week? 114 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 2: Oh? Definitely, this is a family who's dysfunctional. I would expect, 115 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 2: as I said, I don't know the family, I don't 116 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 2: know who the child is, but I would expect it's 117 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 2: a child who's deeply, deeply distressed. Because of the acting out, 118 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 2: this child is highly troubled, and I expect the family 119 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 2: is too. The family would be in chaos, and there 120 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 2: would be trauma surrounding this family. And I can say 121 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 2: with some assurance that this is not a one off event. 122 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 2: There would have been other events that would have marked 123 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 2: this child out as a distressed child. 124 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: Darryl, Look, let me just put this to you. A 125 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 1: caller has texted in. A listener has texted in saying 126 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 1: that my TV only had on commercial stations the week 127 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 1: of the stabbing. I presume they mean the terror attack 128 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago in the church in Sydney. 129 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: I blame that for the copycat stabbing. They repeated it 130 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: over and over, five or more views at a time, 131 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: was often in child viewing time. This must stop. So 132 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 1: basically that's from Rosie. We're basically saying what's shown on 133 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 1: the news, we need to think more about that, and 134 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: maybe news becomes not so much G but very much 135 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: PG or M viewing. 136 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 2: Well. Look, I've often said when I was dealing in 137 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:56,199 Speaker 2: the child therapy area, I often said to parents, don'tly 138 00:08:56,280 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 2: your children watch the news. Children can't handle that kind 139 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 2: of information. Remember, Matthew, their brains are very concrete, literal. 140 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 2: They can't engage in abstract thinking. I mean, if you 141 00:09:07,960 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 2: ask your child to think about next week, they'll say 142 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 2: to you within ours is next week here? Yet you try. 143 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 2: A child can't visage how far Christmas is or etc. 144 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:24,439 Speaker 2: So they only have concrete, literal thinking. So to expose 145 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 2: them to issues on the news. And I've said to parents, 146 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 2: you want to watch the news, record it and watch 147 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 2: it once the child goes to bed. So yes, I agree, 148 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 2: that doesn't help, but that doesn't explain the action necessarily 149 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 2: that we're seeing. Because there are lots of children who 150 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 2: bring knives to school and other instruments as well. 151 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 1: They will appreciate your insights this morning. 152 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you, Matthew. 153 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: Psychologist Daryl Cross speaking from experience on this type of issue,