WEBVTT - LOOKING BACK AT 2022 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.040 I want the fairy tale, I want the prince charming. 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:06.000 She how do I put this? Isn't a fan of 0:00:06.040 --> 0:00:07.360 my kissing style. 0:00:07.720 --> 0:00:10.879 With the boyfriend and girlfriend for about twelve hours. He's 0:00:10.920 --> 0:00:13.760 in a trash bin. He's non recyclable. Catching him mu. 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:17.239 I love being love. I love love. 0:00:17.840 --> 0:00:19.799 This week on Where's Your Head At, we are going 0:00:19.840 --> 0:00:22.400 to be looking back at some of our favorite moments 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:24.120 on the pod from twenty twenty two. 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:26.400 Some of these are our favorites, and we asked you 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:28.120 to tell us some of your favorites as well. 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:30.200 So let's jump in and have a look back at 0:00:30.280 --> 0:00:37.640 twenty twenty two. Where's Your Head At is a podcast 0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:42.559 that talks all things relationships, breakups, reality TV, trending shows, 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:43.839 and everything in between. 0:00:44.080 --> 0:00:46.800 This is your new go to destination for laughs, gossip, 0:00:47.000 --> 0:00:55.280 intimate details, advice, and much more. And twenty twenty two 0:00:55.440 --> 0:00:57.640 was a massive year on the podcast. We had so 0:00:57.680 --> 0:01:00.800 many great guests, We did so many great top When 0:01:00.880 --> 0:01:03.080 you asked me what my favorite bit was, I was like, 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:05.880 you know what, all of it? I enjoyed all of it, 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:07.720 and you know me, every time we finished recording, I 0:01:07.920 --> 0:01:10.080 that's unreal. New favorite episode, your favorite. 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:11.399 Best episode. 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:14.440 Yeah, every time we record, no matter how no matter 0:01:14.440 --> 0:01:16.440 how you feel about it, I'm like, best one. Yeah 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:18.880 I killed it. I'm like, good luck editing that you'll 0:01:18.880 --> 0:01:20.080 save it. But yeah, unreal. 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:22.120 Sometimes I feel like you should just give a little 0:01:22.160 --> 0:01:24.800 bit of that self confidence to everyone who's listening, because 0:01:24.880 --> 0:01:26.120 you have so much of it. 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:27.920 You just got to know what you're worth and you've 0:01:27.920 --> 0:01:28.679 got to go with it. 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:29.640 I love it. 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:32.480 So what was your favorite moment though of twenty twenty two. 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:35.840 Well, obviously, the best and biggest moment of my life 0:01:35.880 --> 0:01:38.640 happened in twenty twenty two, and that was getting engaged 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:42.200 to the love of my life, Michael. We flew back 0:01:42.200 --> 0:01:44.520 home from Bali and the first thing we did was 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:47.000 come to the studio to record an episode. It was 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:50.120 called Marry Me Honey. We put it out on October 0:01:50.160 --> 0:01:53.600 the twelfth, and it was really special just sharing with 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:57.760 everyone who listens to the podcast exactly what happened. Michael 0:01:57.840 --> 0:02:01.080 came in and it's a real special memory that I'm 0:02:01.080 --> 0:02:02.720 going to hold close to me for the rest of 0:02:02.720 --> 0:02:03.120 my life. 0:02:03.200 --> 0:02:07.720 All right, so let's give it a listen now. 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:12.760 Wildly, on the day that Michael proposed, I got a 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:18.400 heart tattoo for him that same day. 0:02:17.760 --> 0:02:20.920 That is tricky. Do you reckon? That was fatal? 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:23.720 That was just that's just like the universe like colliding 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:27.080 together to be like this is the correct like things 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:29.440 like this is a right moment, Like I don't know, 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:30.320 that's crazy to. 0:02:30.280 --> 0:02:32.639 Me and think about it. His commitment was pretty big 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:34.440 as well to you on that day. It was even 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:36.200 bigger than a tattoo. Who a do you reckon? Was more? 0:02:36.480 --> 0:02:39.000 I mean they're both very up there. 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:43.320 So yeah, so like that was my day. And Michael, 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:47.000 so his story, or his alleged story, was basically that 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:50.680 he was doing this charity walk from Men's Mental Health 0:02:50.720 --> 0:02:52.120 and he was turning his phone off and he was 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:55.880 going up to the Dandenong Rangers, which is about an 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:57.680 hour and a half outside of Melbourne I think, and 0:02:57.720 --> 0:03:00.480 he was going to walk from there to the city, 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:03.480 which I was like, that's a bit of a random story. 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:05.639 But I was also like, you know what, so I've 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:07.960 got the flat holes here, why would you turn your 0:03:07.960 --> 0:03:08.519 phone off? 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:10.960 Because it's about well this is what he said, because 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:13.080 it's about men's mental health, so they all want to 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:15.760 talk about their feelings. That's what I said. And then 0:03:15.760 --> 0:03:16.680 he came back with that, and I. 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:20.720 Was like, okay, okay, check he's walking to the city. 0:03:20.720 --> 0:03:22.000 How's he getting back to his car? 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:24.480 Oh my god. I didn't even think. 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:26.280 So many flat holes in this. 0:03:26.520 --> 0:03:28.880 That's so smart. I didn't even think about that. 0:03:28.960 --> 0:03:30.280 Well last time. 0:03:30.600 --> 0:03:32.320 I didn't think about it too much. I could have 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:35.720 really quizzed him about that. So after I showed him 0:03:35.880 --> 0:03:38.840 her tattoo, I messaged him and I was like, Babe, 0:03:38.960 --> 0:03:41.600 I just got a tattoo for you. And he did 0:03:41.640 --> 0:03:47.080 a reply, and I was like, the audacity this guy. 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:49.280 He was on the flight, so he wouldn't have seen it. 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:51.720 He was on the flight, but then he obviously landed 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:54.040 a by he had a really early morning flight, but 0:03:54.080 --> 0:03:55.680 he kept just saying, oh, I just got to like 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:57.520 a toilet. I just quickly turned my phone on to 0:03:57.640 --> 0:04:00.360 message you, but then it's it said that it had 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:02.440 delivered the message of like, babe, I just got a 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:05.680 tattoo for you. No response. I was like, was this 0:04:05.720 --> 0:04:09.520 a really bad idea? Like fuck? And he didn't respond 0:04:09.520 --> 0:04:11.160 to it the whole day, to the point where I 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:15.760 was getting like mildly annoyed. I was like, a bad 0:04:16.040 --> 0:04:16.880 was this a mistake? 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:19.919 So did you like have when that was happening, did 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:22.520 you have any inkling, like any suspicion that he would 0:04:22.560 --> 0:04:23.600 have been there coming. 0:04:23.520 --> 0:04:27.080 Like obviously i'm the FBI. Yeah, So the answer is no, 0:04:27.279 --> 0:04:29.960 I didn't have any inkling, but meeting the FBI, I 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:33.080 was kind of like could he be? And then I 0:04:33.160 --> 0:04:37.000 was like two, it's a stretch, like no way, and 0:04:37.040 --> 0:04:39.159 I was like plus someone a girl's trip, Like I 0:04:39.279 --> 0:04:43.080 doubt he's gonna come over. But it ended up being 0:04:43.560 --> 0:04:49.480 the best surprise proposal ever. Like I was shocked, I 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:52.640 was blown away. It was incredible. 0:04:53.360 --> 0:04:57.440 So did the timing of this? Obviously thirteen months into 0:04:57.480 --> 0:04:59.920 a relationship, do you reckon this was the perfect timing? 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:00.680 Absolutely? 0:05:00.720 --> 0:05:02.040 What made it the perfect timing? 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:04.400 Then, I don't know, I just feel like we're more 0:05:04.640 --> 0:05:07.480 in love than ever, and I do feel like it 0:05:07.520 --> 0:05:10.840 was the right time. I don't know, I just feel 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:13.080 like when you know, you know, and I feel like 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:16.800 we both knew that we knew, if that makes sense. 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:20.160 So it kind of just felt like, you know, yeah, 0:05:20.279 --> 0:05:23.039 fuck it, Like let's like what are we waiting for? 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:26.720 If we know, Like, let's let's be engaged, let's get married. 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:29.240 The ring is obviously amazing and beautiful. 0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:31.360 It is amazing. 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:33.800 Weighing your hand down. Did he get the right one? 0:05:33.800 --> 0:05:37.080 Had you dropped any hints to him? Or like, yeah, 0:05:37.120 --> 0:05:38.280 how did he get the right one? 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:44.479 I had actually sent him a photo that's extremely similar 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:47.320 to this, so he and like this ring that I 0:05:47.440 --> 0:05:50.200 now have on my finger forever, which is wild in itself, 0:05:51.279 --> 0:05:54.800 is even better. Like he exceeded all of my expectations 0:05:54.839 --> 0:05:58.599 and some with the ring. It's absolutely gorgeous. I feel 0:05:58.680 --> 0:06:01.120 so lucky that I get to wear. It's so sparkly, 0:06:01.279 --> 0:06:03.680 Like look at that. It just sparkles and glistens in 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:07.120 the light. But honestly, when he proposed, like the ring 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:09.279 was like the last thing I thought of, Like I thought, 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:12.440 like in my head, I was like, okay. When he 0:06:12.480 --> 0:06:15.320 finally proposes to me, like it's like it's a strong 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:17.280 yes from me, I already know it. I'm going to 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:20.039 be focused on the ring. But in the moment, I 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:23.800 was so overwhelmed with like love and shock and just 0:06:23.880 --> 0:06:26.599 like some like a little bit of disbelief, being like, 0:06:26.680 --> 0:06:28.679 oh my god, this is the moment. This is happening, 0:06:28.839 --> 0:06:31.400 like I've waited so like it's what feels like for 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:33.800 so long for this moment to happen in my life. 0:06:34.640 --> 0:06:38.840 Thirty and yeah, I just like I didn't really like 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:41.440 look at the ring until like I don't know, I 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:43.240 was hugging him and I kind of like looked over 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:44.840 his shoulder just to double check, and I was like, 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:45.960 oh my god, it's massive. 0:06:46.040 --> 0:06:48.200 I just watched the video before you sat me down, 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:49.839 and you showed me the video of the engagement, and 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:51.359 that was literally the one thing I said. I was like, 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:53.400 you haven't even put the ring on for like your 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:55.800 yeah out, and you didn't even bother with the ring, 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:58.200 and I forgot to say, yes, did you really? 0:06:58.320 --> 0:07:00.480 I just like hugged him and just like we had 0:07:00.480 --> 0:07:02.320 a bit of like a makeout because I was just 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:05.360 like so overwhelmed, but like I don't know, like I 0:07:05.400 --> 0:07:08.240 wasn't expecting to get proposed to, so it was just 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:11.840 like the last thing that I thought of. I was 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:14.000 just like, I just like I knew that he knew 0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:16.640 it was a yes, so just didn't even cross my mind. 0:07:16.640 --> 0:07:18.960 And then halfway through he's like, so is that a yes? 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:22.320 And I was like, oh, yeah, yeah. 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:24.000 Oh And I listening to that still brings a tear 0:07:24.040 --> 0:07:27.600 to my eye. Okay, So the next clip is it's 0:07:27.600 --> 0:07:29.520 probably one of my favorites. It's definitely up there. Like 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:31.800 I said, I don't pick favorites. I love all my 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:35.360 children the same. But this one's from the Do You 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:38.760 Fuck on Your Period? On June eighth, where we dive 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:41.080 into that taboo topic of fucking on your period. 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:44.880 Yeah, we'd never really crossed the line of doing a 0:07:44.880 --> 0:07:47.000 bit of a risk gay episode. It was kind of 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:50.760 the first one we trialed, and the reception was crazy. 0:07:50.880 --> 0:07:54.680 You guys loved this, you loved hearing our opinion, and 0:07:54.760 --> 0:07:56.880 I think from then on the podcast got a little 0:07:56.920 --> 0:07:57.679 bit more naughty. 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:01.360 I know my sister his friend told me that I 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:04.040 actually taught him a thing or two about having sex 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:06.120 on a girl's period. So I was like, you know what, mate, 0:08:06.920 --> 0:08:10.320 You're welcome, You're welcome, Enjoy, enjoy. So let's have a 0:08:10.320 --> 0:08:16.040 listen to Do You Fuck on Your Period? From June eighth. 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:19.640 Okay, Matt, I have a few questions for you because 0:08:19.680 --> 0:08:23.520 I just want to gauge your knowledge on periods, because 0:08:23.760 --> 0:08:27.000 you know, women have periods once a month. It's pretty normal. 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:29.640 It's part of your life, it's part of my life, 0:08:29.680 --> 0:08:32.679 it's part of everyone's life. And it's really weird to 0:08:32.720 --> 0:08:35.800 me that it's not spoken about that much, like it's 0:08:35.880 --> 0:08:38.480 kind of this taboo thing, but then it's not, but 0:08:38.559 --> 0:08:38.920 it is. 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:41.280 I don't know why it's taboo. I disagree with it 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:43.200 being taboo. I grew up in a house obviously with 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:46.640 three women, so for me, talking about a period was 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:49.560 literally like normal. We would always speak about it. There's 0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:52.200 a cupboard in my hallway. You open and it is 0:08:52.320 --> 0:08:54.040 literally full of tampons and pads. 0:08:54.040 --> 0:08:54.520 I love that. 0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:56.800 Like I opened it one time to find toilet roll 0:08:56.840 --> 0:08:58.440 and I was like, Jesus, what the fucking year just 0:08:58.480 --> 0:08:59.400 closed it? You know what I mean? 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:02.200 Supplace Central, Yeah, we love the supply. 0:09:02.520 --> 0:09:05.360 Yeah, like three women with it. I never really thought 0:09:05.360 --> 0:09:08.240 of it as a taboo topic. So we're also completely open. 0:09:08.520 --> 0:09:11.440 So let's see what I know about it, which I 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:13.360 should know. But I'm a little bit nervous about this, 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:15.560 and it's got the question. She has not written any 0:09:15.640 --> 0:09:19.520 answers down on my script, so let's see how I. 0:09:19.480 --> 0:09:22.480 Go with this, Okay, Matt, So the first question is 0:09:22.840 --> 0:09:24.680 how long does a period last? 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:27.679 Well, it's once a month and it lasts for a week, 0:09:27.720 --> 0:09:30.360 but then there's always like that PMS stage, isn't there? 0:09:30.800 --> 0:09:32.000 And how long does that last for? 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:36.200 Okay, so, on average, a woman's period lasts two to 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:38.240 seven days. Did you know that? 0:09:39.000 --> 0:09:41.640 What exactly are they classifying by that? Just the actual 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:45.720 flow of bleeding? Yeah, the bleeding the more. 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:48.920 You know, I so is that new information to you? 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:51.440 I knew it was a week, but I knew that, Like, 0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:53.520 there's a heavy couple of days at the start, and 0:09:53.559 --> 0:09:55.520 then it should probably die down and it's just a 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:56.360 little bit by the end. 0:09:56.440 --> 0:09:59.520 Everyone's different, So like some people can have a two 0:09:59.559 --> 0:10:02.920 day period, some people have heavy flow, light flow. I'm 0:10:02.920 --> 0:10:05.240 sure you've heard of these terms be thrown around. 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:08.920 Heavy flow. Yeah, that's the mean girl's quote, heavy flow. 0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:12.480 And you're going to say that, Okay, how long is 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:13.680 a mental cycle? 0:10:13.720 --> 0:10:13.880 Now? 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:16.040 A month? Jesus? 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:17.400 Do you want to think about that? 0:10:17.720 --> 0:10:19.520 Am I right? Or am I wrong? Okay? 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:23.560 So a mental flow occurs every twenty one to thirty 0:10:23.600 --> 0:10:27.240 five days, and as you get older it becomes more regular. 0:10:27.559 --> 0:10:31.480 Okay. Well, I've known girls that have been at one 0:10:31.600 --> 0:10:35.760 level and PM messing like completely, Like I mean one 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:37.839 I would turn off a light before I get into bed, 0:10:37.880 --> 0:10:39.360 and they would go off, you know what I mean, 0:10:39.400 --> 0:10:41.280 And then the next night I wouldn't turn off the 0:10:41.360 --> 0:10:43.320 light and they would get angry like that sort of thing. 0:10:43.360 --> 0:10:45.160 And then I've had people in my life that are 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:47.720 the complete opposite and like you wouldn't even know that 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:50.320 they were per messing. So I think it changes from 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:50.880 every girl. 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:55.920 Yeah, like everyone experiences PMS differently. Everyone has, you know, 0:10:56.559 --> 0:10:59.760 very hormonal like when you get your period, and I 0:10:59.760 --> 0:11:02.760 think it's important to have people around you who can 0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:06.240 be sensitive to that. And that's not saying like women 0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:11.280 are these like irrational, crazy, totally erratic people, Like we're 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:14.960 very capable, but at the same time, like we do 0:11:15.080 --> 0:11:18.360 have moments of explosion naturally. 0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:21.360 I sometimes have my own when I get really irritable, 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:23.880 when I'm really tired, hungry, or haven't even had my nap. 0:11:24.080 --> 0:11:26.080 Oh yeah, mad, have you not had your nap? It's 0:11:26.120 --> 0:11:26.440 not good. 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:28.360 So I can relate to that. Well, an I telling 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:30.719 you about the first time you had your period. 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:35.840 Then yeah, well okay, so I was in year nine 0:11:36.080 --> 0:11:38.480 when I got my period, which is actually really late. 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:42.000 So yeah, that's quite late, like I think people get 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:46.880 it year seven eight ish anyway, so everyone else in 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:48.800 my whole year level had got it and I was 0:11:48.840 --> 0:11:53.920 the last one. And I used to I'm not even religious, 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:55.360 but I would like go to bed at night and 0:11:55.400 --> 0:11:58.640 be like, please, God, let me get my period. 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.719 No, no, I can relate. I was quite late to 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:04.360 the table as well with that sort of stuff, So 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:06.640 I was lately. Yeah, I was desperate to get it 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:12.640 as well. Get what puberty? Not my period? Okay, So 0:12:12.679 --> 0:12:15.880 the next clip comes from fuck we Got Matching Tattoos? 0:12:16.160 --> 0:12:18.920 Great episode, one of our most listened to. 0:12:19.240 --> 0:12:21.920 It was a talk about we got How I got 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:25.880 matching tattoo? How Michael would write you poems? 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:26.720 Yeah? 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:29.240 He actually wrote me a poem the other day, one 0:12:29.280 --> 0:12:31.960 for our engagement, and I think one for like a 0:12:31.960 --> 0:12:35.959 big what was it. It's like our eighteen month meeting 0:12:36.040 --> 0:12:37.880 anniversary or something crazy like that. 0:12:37.960 --> 0:12:40.520 Can you guys celebrate everything? Do you celebrate the first 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:41.840 time you made eye contact? 0:12:42.920 --> 0:12:45.520 For sure? It's Michael. He's so good with dates. He 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:47.880 just remembers things and he's always like, hey, babe, did 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:50.920 you know that it's our five hundred and seventy sixth 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:53.120 day knowing him to her? I don't even know, but 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:55.240 you know what I mean. He's very sentimental, and I 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:56.240 love that about him. 0:12:56.280 --> 0:12:59.240 It is a good quality. I'm sentimental myself. So let's 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:04.040 have a listen to this one. Okay. 0:13:04.080 --> 0:13:06.400 So there are other ways to show your love without 0:13:06.480 --> 0:13:08.920 saying it. The first one that we're going to touch 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:12.400 on is giving someone your full attention while speaking to them. 0:13:12.400 --> 0:13:15.280 So that's giving a lot of eye contact, not scrolling 0:13:15.320 --> 0:13:16.920 on your phone. 0:13:17.280 --> 0:13:19.920 Yeah. Look, I think I've said it on here before. 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:23.040 With my ex, literally she would just scroll on her 0:13:23.080 --> 0:13:26.000 phone the whole time Instagram, actually view her own stories 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:28.120 over and over again, believe it or not, while you're 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:30.040 talking to her. And it was just, yeah, it's so 0:13:30.120 --> 0:13:32.520 uncomfortable and it's so disheartening and all that sort of stuff. 0:13:32.559 --> 0:13:33.640 How did that make you feel? 0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:38.000 Not valuable? What I'm saying is not valid, like just valuable, Yeah, yeah, 0:13:38.200 --> 0:13:40.160 just not like what I'm saying is not worth it, 0:13:40.240 --> 0:13:42.240 not worth the time. Yes, I ended up just not 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:44.000 even really talking to it, and we just would just 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:45.880 sit there and just scroll her phone and even then 0:13:46.120 --> 0:13:48.440 trying to spend quality time together and she just was 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:49.880 on her phone the whole time. That's one of my 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:51.040 pet hates that. 0:13:51.440 --> 0:13:55.120 Yeah, and like actively listening as opposed to listening whilst 0:13:55.120 --> 0:13:57.880 you're on your phone, and like, multitasking is such a 0:13:57.960 --> 0:13:58.559 different thing. 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:01.640 I don't care what anyone said. You're not fully giving 0:14:01.679 --> 0:14:02.960 someone your attention if you're on your phone. 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:03.320 I agreed. 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:06.000 If someone says, oh, I'm multitashed, No you're not. Yeah 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:07.800 you're not. You'll always miss a bit of the story. 0:14:07.800 --> 0:14:10.520 You'll always miss a bit, and you always it's noticeable 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:12.840 when they go, wait, what, Yeah, like, well you weren't listening. 0:14:12.880 --> 0:14:15.600 And I mean even like we've spoke about this before 0:14:15.720 --> 0:14:17.839 on here, like when you're on a day and just 0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:21.000 having your phone like not even on the table, just 0:14:21.200 --> 0:14:24.480 so that someone feels like they're here to talk to me, 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:26.680 listen to me, they're giving me their full attention. 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:27.200 Yes. 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:30.920 Another thing that I like is sending cute messages or 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:34.240 texts or even a handwritten no. Every once in a while. 0:14:34.000 --> 0:14:36.800 You love a handwritten note. Don't you know what. 0:14:36.720 --> 0:14:38.800 Michael did which was actually really cute. I don't think 0:14:38.800 --> 0:14:41.440 I've told you about this. So he actually has made 0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:44.840 me like my own poem book. And then anytime, because 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:46.760 he loves writing poems, he's so good at it, and 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:50.600 anytime there's like a special moment in our relationship, like 0:14:50.760 --> 0:14:53.080 the moment that he said I love you to me. 0:14:53.200 --> 0:14:56.000 He writes in the books, it's like an ongoing presence. 0:14:56.080 --> 0:14:58.360 So like we have our first date and then he 0:14:58.360 --> 0:15:00.560 wrote a poem about that day, and and like when 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:02.720 he first saw me, he's like written about that. It's 0:15:02.760 --> 0:15:06.040 so special to me. Okay, Matt. The next clip is 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:08.880 from a Whiskey Dick Explained, which went out on the 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:13.640 twenty ninth of June. Everyone can relate to this. Everyone 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:17.120 seemed to really get around this. People had lots to 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:20.680 say about whiskey dick and how to get over whiskey dick, 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:24.000 how to be comfortable when someone gets a whiskey dick. 0:15:24.240 --> 0:15:27.080 It was widely talked about on our TikTok and Instagram. 0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:30.520 Well, everyone has suffered from this. No guy has ever 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:33.040 gone on a night out, brought a girl back, come 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:36.040 home to their girlfriend and not had a whiskey dick. 0:15:36.480 --> 0:15:39.440 And we normalized it, right, we did, So let's jump in. 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:46.120 They do say that three is generally the golden number 0:15:46.240 --> 0:15:50.840 of drinks, so one is customary kind of like release 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:54.320 the nerves. Second drink can be used to feel your 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:56.600 date out a bit more kind of open up a 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:59.680 little bit, and then three is kind of like reserved 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:03.119 the dates when you're kind of into. 0:16:02.840 --> 0:16:04.960 Each other and it's going a little bit further, it's. 0:16:04.840 --> 0:16:07.920 Going a bit further. Things are kind of warming up 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:08.360 a little. 0:16:08.640 --> 0:16:10.560 If you're onto your third drink, you might be feeling 0:16:10.560 --> 0:16:12.000 a little bit horny by then as well. 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:18.520 Drinking can make you horny, like, we can't deny that. 0:16:18.840 --> 0:16:20.840 Oh no, it definitely does. I don't know. Why does 0:16:20.880 --> 0:16:22.920 it make your blood flow everywhere? I don't know, because 0:16:22.920 --> 0:16:24.120 I feel like when you start. 0:16:23.960 --> 0:16:27.600 Drinking, and I mean, drunk sex is really fun and 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:30.440 inhibitions are lowerd It's good. 0:16:30.960 --> 0:16:34.400 Drunk sex is fun if you're not too drunk. And 0:16:34.440 --> 0:16:37.840 we have the problem of whiskey dick, or also referred 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:43.360 to as I've learned as Foster's floff over there gave 0:16:43.440 --> 0:16:49.720 us that one. All right, let's touch on whiskey dick next. 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:52.880 Okay, Matt, we all know what whiskey dick is that 0:16:53.000 --> 0:16:56.000 I want to hear from you. What is your definition 0:16:56.680 --> 0:16:57.600 of whiskey dick? 0:16:57.760 --> 0:17:00.680 All right, So before I get into what a whiskey 0:17:00.720 --> 0:17:02.800 dicky is, I'm going to touch on some other names 0:17:02.800 --> 0:17:05.920 that it might be called oh God. For other listeners 0:17:05.960 --> 0:17:09.520 that are like hang on, is that this? It is shot, 0:17:09.600 --> 0:17:16.280 pull with a rope, Bong dong, brown party liquor, Foster's Floppy, 0:17:16.960 --> 0:17:24.640 Southern poison, taffy pulling, rubber knife, Jackie ending, Richard whiskey. 0:17:24.720 --> 0:17:29.200 Okay, yeah, we're going to start there, pushing rope, softy punch, 0:17:30.000 --> 0:17:32.360 bottle of jack everlasting, gummy. 0:17:32.080 --> 0:17:37.080 Worre beer, pickle, whiskey, trick there. The list goes on, 0:17:38.280 --> 0:17:42.040 Jesus cry, but essentially it can have a many names, 0:17:42.040 --> 0:17:44.320 but essentially it is when a man has drunk too 0:17:44.359 --> 0:17:47.159 much and he cannot get an erect penis. All right, 0:17:47.280 --> 0:17:50.640 So everyone knows alcohol can slow your reaction time. So 0:17:50.720 --> 0:17:52.840 what it does is it makes it difficult to focus 0:17:52.840 --> 0:17:56.359 and concentrate. So when a man is having sex, their 0:17:56.600 --> 0:17:59.800 central nervous system isn't working like it normally would if 0:17:59.800 --> 0:18:05.040 they were sober, which then can affect and how hard 0:18:05.160 --> 0:18:08.080 it erects. Right, So it can affect the blood flow 0:18:08.119 --> 0:18:08.760 to your penis. 0:18:08.960 --> 0:18:10.639 I don't even know if I want to ask this question. 0:18:11.160 --> 0:18:12.320 Has this ever happened to you? 0:18:13.680 --> 0:18:16.560 I think every man can safely say yes, it has. 0:18:17.160 --> 0:18:18.879 It's common, right, I'm. 0:18:18.760 --> 0:18:21.760 Sure have you had a man have a whiskey dick before? 0:18:22.200 --> 0:18:26.040 I don't know, not in recent times. I think maybe 0:18:26.119 --> 0:18:29.240 when I was younger, it's more just like you just 0:18:29.280 --> 0:18:32.000 wouldn't have sex because they're like, I'm too drunk. Yeah 0:18:32.880 --> 0:18:36.639 that we're trying, and they're like, oh, whiskey dick. I 0:18:36.640 --> 0:18:38.280 don't know, do you call it out? Is that a thing? 0:18:38.800 --> 0:18:39.440 Whiskey dick? 0:18:40.440 --> 0:18:42.600 Hey, I can't get hard. There's no blood flow into 0:18:42.600 --> 0:18:46.760