1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,080 Speaker 1: This is the fits in and with Her with Kate 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: Richie podcast. Let's talk about the dating trends of twenty 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: twenty five, and there's a new one here that I 4 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:08,960 Speaker 1: want to discuss, being described as one of the more 5 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: dangerous trends so single people. Of twenty twenty five, the 6 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: number one trend getting around was the love bomb ghosting. 7 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: What do you know this one? This is the arena. No, 8 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: this is the over the top of tension very early 9 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: on and then you disappear off the face of the earth. 10 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the love bomb that happened to me. I 11 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 2: hate that And to the point, Kate, where I needed 12 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 2: an answer I. 13 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: Wanted to do. 14 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 2: You're not getting away with it. You can't just not 15 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 2: pick up your call. 16 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 1: Nobody loved bombs fits so you can that. 17 00:00:44,640 --> 00:00:48,559 Speaker 2: I knew one of her friends and I rang the 18 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 2: friend and said, Wow, it's luck I was back in 19 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 2: primar school. Can you can you ask her to see 20 00:00:54,720 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 2: what's going on? Then the message was relaid back. She 21 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 2: doesn't want anything to do with you. 22 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 3: Were you were you in primary school? 23 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 2: Yeah? I was eight at the time. 24 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: That's hard. 25 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 3: That's hard. 26 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: Bread crumbing is another one very popular on tiktook this year. 27 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: It's when you give an individual enough morsels, small morsels 28 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:20,680 Speaker 1: to keep them interested, but you're already in a relationship 29 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: and without any intention of really becoming something together. Sounds 30 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: pretty mean. 31 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 3: Right, Well, you just keep them hanging on. 32 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 1: Fubbing is another one that when you're at home fubbing. 33 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: So that means when you're choosing your phone instead. 34 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 2: Fubbing. But where does the fubbing come from? Phone phs? 35 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 3: In phone phone, Yeah, the trend occurs snubbing. 36 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, So I didn't know that. 37 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 2: Your phone. You've been fubbing your brains out, haven't you. 38 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: The trend occurves with a person talking to snubs you 39 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: in fa for their beloved phone instead fubbing yourself silly. 40 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 3: Subbing yourself silly on the like on the couch beside 41 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:12,239 Speaker 3: your partner right there, but you cannot even see. 42 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: That whatever floats your boat. Submarining this is another one too. 43 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:22,839 Speaker 1: It's where somebody from a past life then reappears they've 44 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: been submerged for a long. 45 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 3: Long time submarine and then you're like, oh my goodness, 46 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 3: they're like not in a dream, but actually in the street. 47 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: They later resurface and say, hey, how you been out 48 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 1: of the blue. Here's the new one, which is dangerous. 49 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: It's called zip coding. We'd probably call it postcoding. So 50 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: what happens here is you have a rule where you 51 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 1: might date somebody within your zip code, within your postcode, 52 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: but the minute you step out of that postcode, you're 53 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: single against. 54 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:59,359 Speaker 3: That relies on people not leaving their supper. 55 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: You know who does this, Veya, who works in the integration. 56 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 2: I don't throw vague post code you are. 57 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: I'm not going to go into it. But when she's 58 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 1: at home in Castle Hill, she's like, man, I got 59 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 1: my man. And then when she steps outside of that. 60 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 2: And she's fubbing her head. 61 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 1: Off, she's clubbing and fubbing and she's bread crumbing. She's 62 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: loved bombing. 63 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 3: Why are you saying that, poor Veya? She sit there 64 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:24,519 Speaker 3: in the book, she's. 65 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: An animal on the dating scene. We know that sits 66 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: in Whipper with Kate Ritchie is a Nova podcast walk 67 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: great shows like this. Download the Nova player by the 68 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: app Store or Google Playing the player