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Speaker 1: Hi guys, Welcome back to Hot Than yesterday Tuesday's episode.

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Speaker 1: How are we all miss chatting to you?

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Speaker 2: I went to Italy. It was amazing. I think Italy

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Speaker 2: is my favorite place. I think it is.

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Speaker 1: It's absolutely stunning. I had the best five days with

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Speaker 1: Maddie and Brie.

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Speaker 2: It was so relaxing.

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Speaker 1: It was just when I needed a few cocktails at

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Speaker 1: night the sun. Ashton Earl ended up being there at

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Speaker 1: the same place, which was like pretty cool. Didn't see her,

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Speaker 1: but we were in the same place. She was there

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Speaker 1: for a wedding, which was really really cool. The wedding

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Speaker 1: looked insane, but oh my gosh. We went to Sorrento

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Speaker 1: and it was just beautiful, like just beautiful. There's nowhere

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Speaker 1: in Australia that is as beautiful and like as old

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Speaker 1: and think He's got so much history and culture and

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Speaker 1: just beauty like Australia can never But I do love Australia. Like,

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Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, I love Australia. I love Sorrento

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Speaker 1: in Australia. Yeah, I literally go there every summer. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: just the Amalfi Coast is beautiful. We did Positano for

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Speaker 1: a day. Oh my God, the stairs, Like, don't bother

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Speaker 1: working out because you'll be working out on the StairMaster

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Speaker 1: in real life.

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Speaker 2: Like that. Shit's crazy, crazy, crazy crazy.

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Speaker 1: I actually logged it all on YouTube, so I'll be

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Speaker 1: editing and uploading that hopefully this week. Keep me accountable, girls.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, it was lovely. It was just what I needed.

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Speaker 1: It was no partying, which is again, is just what

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Speaker 1: I needed. As I'm coming off my anxiety medication. I'm

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Speaker 1: not really in the headspace to party. I've partied myself

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Speaker 1: out of this Europe somewhat, which is kind of good.

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Speaker 1: Ready to lock in, and now I'm really ready to

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Speaker 1: get home and get into my routine. And just like that,

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Speaker 1: like my head just feels everywhere. I just feel like

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Speaker 1: I can't get anything done, and I'm at like this

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Speaker 1: weird like crossroad, not really knowing what I'm doing.

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Speaker 2: Because it's been really hard. This podcast.

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Speaker 1: I launched it obviously when I came over here, and

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Speaker 1: I'm just like, don't know what you guys want to

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Speaker 1: hear from me, don't know what I need to update

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Speaker 1: you guys on, Like I just like can't figure it out,

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Speaker 1: and I just feel like it will be so much

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Speaker 1: easier and like, this podcast will be so much better

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Speaker 1: when I'm back in Australia.

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Speaker 2: So I'm so sorry that the podcast has kind of

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Speaker 2: started on like this, but I.

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Speaker 1: Do want to keep it up. I do want to

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Speaker 1: make it better. I do want to do so much

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Speaker 1: more with this podcast. It's just been weird doing it

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Speaker 1: on the other side of the world, with like my

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Speaker 1: team all the way over in Australia and everything with that.

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Speaker 1: So I apologize, but it's gonna get way better. We've

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Speaker 1: got this, We're gonna get hotter, We're gonna get better.

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Speaker 1: You've got to start somewhere and yeah, but apart from that,

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Speaker 1: there's literally not much to update you guys.

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Speaker 2: In my life.

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Speaker 1: I've really been laying low, staying off my phone, just

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Speaker 1: like trying to be present and enjoy the moment. My

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Speaker 1: phone is stressing me out quite a lot, so I

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Speaker 1: just take content and then put it down. Really, I'm

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Speaker 1: not much of a scroller at the moment. But I

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Speaker 1: saw this TikTok and and I thought it would be

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Speaker 1: really fun for today's episode of Moral Dilemma Questions. And

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Speaker 1: I'm going to read out the moral dilemma and I'm

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Speaker 1: going to answer it about how I would answer it.

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Speaker 1: And I want to preface that there's no right answer

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Speaker 1: for these. They're meant to be moral dilemmas, and they're

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Speaker 1: meant to be like really really hard. It's like a scenario,

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Speaker 1: and my justifications as to why I pick that. It

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Speaker 1: could be wrong, it could be morally wrong, and it

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Speaker 1: could also not morally align with you. And I would

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Speaker 1: like to hear your reasonings or justific justification as to

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Speaker 1: the other one, or like what would you do in

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Speaker 1: I read out your dilemmas, but like these are like

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Speaker 1: moral dilemmas, if that makes sense of like the world.

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Speaker 1: And like I'm not saying all my opinions are right,

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Speaker 1: Like opinions are like ourseholes. Everyone has one, you know.

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Speaker 1: So I just thought we were jump straight into it.

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Speaker 1: I searched up on the internet some of moral elements,

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Speaker 1: makes these questions dilemmas is an individual's definition of right

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Speaker 1: when many question our national moral character, pondering what to

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Speaker 1: do in various situations can be a positive exercise preparing

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Speaker 1: an individual for worst and best case scenario. In this article,

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Speaker 1: we look for some examples of moral dilemmas to help

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Speaker 1: us define what a moral dilemma is. When we look

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Speaker 1: A moral dilemma is a conflict in which a person

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Speaker 1: help you understand exactly what it is meant by our

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Speaker 1: moral dilemma, we've provided some examples. Some are which more

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Speaker 1: are classic moral dilemma. So this website has provided us

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Speaker 2: I feel like this is really good dinner party.

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Speaker 1: It depends who you're with, obviously, but I feel like

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Speaker 1: this is a really good dinner party activity to either

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Speaker 1: moral implications. You know what I mean, Okay? Number one

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Speaker 1: the unfaithful friend. You go out for dinner with your

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Speaker 2: Now, this is so hard, and I.

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Speaker 1: Feel like all of us, like girls, like we always

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Speaker 1: But if I see something, it's like you want to

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Speaker 2: My way of going.

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Speaker 1: About the situation was I would go to the husband,

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Speaker 1: So I'm going to provide mister cheaterah over here with

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Speaker 1: You know. Number two an office theft. You're in charge

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Speaker 1: You realize your coworker has been pocketing the additional cash.

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Speaker 2: To tell your coworker you're suspicious.

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Speaker 2: I would say, if you know that.

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Speaker 1: Your coworkers taking the cash, I would say, like it

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Speaker 1: if you're not cashing in, I'm not going to protect

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Speaker 2: I'd fucking I'd dub on them straight away. Are you

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Speaker 1: Number three midnight death. You've worked years to be successful

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Speaker 2: report it. I think there is enough.

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Speaker 1: If I had enough evidence that I think child abuse

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Speaker 1: is going on, I think I would report it. I

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Speaker 1: also think I would go to the neighbor on the

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Speaker 1: other side and see what they're thinking, and maybe we file.

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Speaker 2: The report together.

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Speaker 1: Because child abuse is really, really, really horrible. And if

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Speaker 1: I'm hearing a kid in such despair constantly, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: report it because I think if you go to the

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Speaker 1: neighbor and go, hey, I'm suspecting this, then they're just

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Speaker 1: gonna keep it and it is child abuse. They're gonna

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Speaker 1: just like shut the kid up and keep abusing it.

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Speaker 1: I would go to my neighbor other neighbor on the

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Speaker 1: other side and.

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Speaker 2: File the report.

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Speaker 1: You're at a party out of town with your best friend,

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Speaker 1: They've had way too much to drink, and you will

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Speaker 1: not let them drive home.

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Speaker 2: What do you do? I hide their keys.

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Speaker 1: I've done this so many times because drunk driving is

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Speaker 1: such a big thing at parties and so many people

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Speaker 1: do it and they.

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Speaker 2: Always justify that their self's okay.

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Speaker 1: Road accidents and one of the biggest death told things

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Speaker 1: in Australia contribute to the most deaths. Like I will

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Speaker 1: hide someone's keys and tell them the next morning before

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Speaker 1: I ever let them get in the car, because if

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Speaker 1: I let that person get into car knowing they had

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Speaker 1: way too much to drink and they've told me that

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Speaker 1: they're okay, I couldn't live with myself if something bad

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Speaker 1: happened to them. I would hide their keys. I don't

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Speaker 1: give a fuck if you think I'm bitch. I don't

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Speaker 1: think if a fuck if you think I'm a can't

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Speaker 1: you yell at me that night? You'll thank me in

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Speaker 1: the morning because nothing bad happened to you and you

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Speaker 1: got home to your family safe. You really like your

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Speaker 1: neighbors and they think they're a great couple. The only

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Speaker 1: problem is that they throw wild parties occasionally. You think

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Speaker 1: they're into drugs, maybe even dealing.

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Speaker 2: What do you do?

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Speaker 1: Not my problem? I'm staying out of it. Now my problem.

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Speaker 1: If you're dealing drugs, you're dealing drugs. I don't want

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Speaker 1: anything to do with it. I don't want to know.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to know how you're doing. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to know how much money you're owning. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to know anything. Not my problem, not my horse,

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Speaker 1: not my show. Your friend is excitingly shared that she's

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Speaker 1: got a new love in her life. Unfortunately, you know

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Speaker 1: the guy and he's a narcissistic player who only stays

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Speaker 1: with them and as long as he's getting what he

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Speaker 1: wants from the relationship. Do you try to convince her

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Speaker 1: to drop him or let her learn her lesson on

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Speaker 1: her own. Let her learn her lesson on her own,

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Speaker 1: because sometimes it takes the right person to make that

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Speaker 1: person change. I feel like everyone deserves a free round,

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Speaker 1: Like I just don't think you should sabotage your relationship

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Speaker 1: that you're not a part of if he hasn't given

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Speaker 1: her any red signs. If he's given her red signs,

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Speaker 1: I'm obviously gonna warn her and be like, I've heard

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Speaker 1: this about John, but I'm not gonna self sabotage it's

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Speaker 1: not my relationship. I would let her know I've been like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I've heard some iffy things about John, but I don't

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Speaker 1: think it's fair for me to sabotage a relationship. I'd

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Speaker 1: let her be aware, but I would either let her

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Speaker 1: learn her own lesson because he might not do that

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Speaker 1: to her. I think everyone I don't think you should

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Speaker 1: bring in your past trauma from a relationship into a

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Speaker 1: new person or a new relationship.

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Speaker 2: And I don't think you should use what.

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Speaker 1: Someone did in their last relationship against them unless they're

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Speaker 1: like a constant cheater. I'd probably let my friend know that,

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Speaker 1: but then again, he could learn from his lessons. I

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Speaker 1: think everyone can learn from lessons, so anyway they are

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Speaker 1: my answers to moral dilemmas. I want to know what

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Speaker 1: you guys think. I want to know what you want

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Speaker 1: to hear from me as well. Please tell me episodes

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Speaker 1: you want to hear. I think I'm going to book

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Speaker 1: a studio next week and get a very special guest in,

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Speaker 1: so that will be really, really fun. And yeah, I

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Speaker 1: love you guys so much. I'm excited to get home

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Speaker 1: to Australia and really work hard for you guys, And

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for staying by me and supporting me.

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Speaker 1: And it doesn't go unseen, but yeah, thank you guys

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Speaker 1: so much. And I'll see you guys next week. Bye,