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Speaker 1: This is the Fitting in with Her with Kate Richie podcast.

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Speaker 2: Kate, I have one wish on this Friday, you tell

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Speaker 2: me more about your dreams. I have so many dreams.

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Speaker 3: Do you decay? You a heavy dreamer?

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Speaker 2: Oh you mean like what I dream at night? Not

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Speaker 2: about my hopes and dreams for the future. Well, I

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Speaker 2: wouldn't be coming in here every.

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Speaker 3: Day the opportunity for a bit of fleetwood, man, if

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Speaker 3: you do have, well, don't.

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Speaker 2: I was going to do I dream dream of time

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Speaker 2: gone by?

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Speaker 3: That would have been the wrong chores.

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Speaker 2: Could you find that place?

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Speaker 3: Ures?

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Speaker 2: I used to sing that when I had singing lessons.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, Oh sorry, I've gone Susan Boyle.

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Speaker 2: Maybe a bit of Barbara streisand or something. Didn't she

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Speaker 2: sing it as well? No doubt she would have. We've

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Speaker 2: done a lot of dream a lot of dream chat.

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Speaker 2: This week you were talking about your dream.

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Speaker 3: And the way it was today an ex girlfriend. I

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Speaker 3: miss you, Laura God.

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Speaker 2: I still dream. I sometimes dream. I never dream about boy.

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Speaker 3: Dream about a boyfriend right now?

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Speaker 1: Tough?

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Speaker 3: Tough when you're in an institution. Well, yeah, go and

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Speaker 3: see them.

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Speaker 2: Well, I can never pick, I could ever pick which

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Speaker 2: one stod is that what you're doing. Is that what

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Speaker 2: you're doing, let's pick up those pieces. Yeah, that was

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Speaker 2: about and acting. Yeah, I love ad lib acting. Jess

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Speaker 2: said something about how you never have a phone.

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Speaker 3: In a dream. You never see a phone in a dream.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and maybe it's because you're desperately trying to get

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Speaker 2: help and you can't find the phone. I think I

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Speaker 2: have dreamt about a phone, but it's not a mobile.

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Speaker 2: It's like the dial or the I dream about the

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Speaker 2: phone we used to have, Yeah, the landline in the

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Speaker 2: hallway or something. But there is an article that we've

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Speaker 2: since found revealed the five things You'll never see in

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Speaker 2: a dream and why, and one of them is a phone.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Phones electronic devices, they say, don't tend

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Speaker 2: to appear in dreams. But I don't know if that's

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Speaker 2: a generational thing, because we are of the generation that

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Speaker 2: didn't always have phones.

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Speaker 3: No chare okay, so you reckon younger kids would would

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Speaker 3: see phones.

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Speaker 2: Well, maybe scientists are saying it's because phones don't fit

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Speaker 2: in with the function that dreams have evolved to play

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Speaker 2: content that would have been of the most relevance to

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Speaker 2: humans over ninety five percent of their evolution when they

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Speaker 2: were living a tribal life on the savannahs is over

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Speaker 2: represented in modern dreams.

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Speaker 1: Dream phone do they well?

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Speaker 2: I don't think so. I mean they would have, you know,

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Speaker 2: been in the money if they invented the phone because

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Speaker 2: of the dream.

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Speaker 3: I reckon, if you're dreaming of scrolling, you've got a problem.

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Speaker 3: You've got a problem.

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Speaker 2: Maybe imagine if you've woken up scrolling, you would have.

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Speaker 3: Had Yeah, I'll bet.

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Speaker 2: You have number two right.

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: Writing Apparently one of the strangest features in a dream

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Speaker 2: is if you are writing and you will read, it

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Speaker 2: will rarely appear in a dream. I wonder why that

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Speaker 2: is too detailed? Well, I don't know. Stop asking, because

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Speaker 2: I haven't read it properly.

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Speaker 3: Never makes sense, though, Kate, Do they.

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Speaker 2: Well, some of them do. Don't you think they are related?

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Speaker 2: Not not exactly the circumstances, but the emotion related to

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Speaker 2: the dream. So I will often dream, and this is

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Speaker 2: not a joke. If I'm anxious about something, I will

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Speaker 2: still dream about. I'll still dream about the summer Bay House,

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Speaker 2: and I will be standing in the hallway that we

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Speaker 2: would have to stand in, where I would wait for

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Speaker 2: my queue to walk in and go Hey, Pip off

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Speaker 2: to school. Yeah, something like that. Or I'm taking the

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Speaker 2: sheets out to the caravan park. Can I do anything else?

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Speaker 2: He's dead, Yeah, something like that. Michael's drowned in the river.

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Speaker 2: And I can't remember my dialogue. I can't hear my queue.

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Speaker 2: People come into the hallway, the first ad comes in

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Speaker 2: and yeah, absolutely not jump And that's that's that's anxiety. No,

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Speaker 2: because I think this is this means morphits this means

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Speaker 2: that's you longing to go back to the bay.

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Speaker 3: I don't think can you start doing that back to

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Speaker 3: the bay?

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Speaker 2: Well, and maybe it is go home, but I don't

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Speaker 2: have a nice time when I go back there, So

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Speaker 2: what is that telling for me to come home? You

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Speaker 2: don't dream about numbers, You don't have smells or tastes

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Speaker 2: in dreams. No, no, And apparently you don't dream about yourself.

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Speaker 2: It's a popular misconception, but it isn't actually true that

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Speaker 2: you can't look in a mirror in your dreams. However,

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Speaker 2: the science of seeing your reflection in dreams is actually

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Speaker 2: even when people do see themselves in mirrors, they almost

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Speaker 2: never see their reflection as it would be in waking life.

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Speaker 1: That would be weird.

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Speaker 2: You see yourself differently in the dream.

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Speaker 3: Is there an expert Tommy that we can get on

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Speaker 3: to decipher dreams? We just did very interesting in a

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Speaker 3: Boiled egg?

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Speaker 1: Is an expert me? I'm listening and I'm assuming I'm

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Speaker 1: speaking to the dream Expert panel because I have a

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Speaker 1: question about dreams. So my dreams often, and I think

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Speaker 1: this is unusual. Is you know when something scary is

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Speaker 1: happening in your dream, like you're falling or you're running,

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Speaker 1: but nobody ever catches you, if you're being chased, or

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Speaker 1: you never actually land when you fall. It's just the action.

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Speaker 1: And then that's kind of what prompts you to wake up.

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Speaker 1: Can you help me with that? Guy?

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Speaker 3: Is the wake up point always the capture or because

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Speaker 3: there is, that's the hope hatched. So all of the.

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Speaker 2: Dream is the fear leading up to the event or

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Speaker 2: the like, the fear of what is to come. What

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Speaker 2: it means is is that you can get yourself out

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Speaker 2: of this sticky situation. You will only ever be given

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Speaker 2: what you can handle. You never give too much, no

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Speaker 2: matter how much it is. Expert found what did you?

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Speaker 3: I've just looked it up and it says here Nick,

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Speaker 3: that it's it's a song that you don't trust, and

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Speaker 3: it also says here, Nikki, you need to trust, and

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Speaker 3: it says if you could just stay on the line

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Speaker 3: and give me your pin number, Really is that the

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Speaker 3: trust might be able to solve that dream for you.

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Speaker 1: You've gone from therapist.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sounds like you need a lot of help. Nick therapy,

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Speaker 2: free therapy. You can push Nigain talking you in.

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Speaker 1: With FITZI just after night.

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