Speaker 1: Like you're wearing earrings now, like I would never see
Speaker 1: those are earrings at a shop and go I'm going
Speaker 1: to get them. Okay, No, no, no, I'm not being.
Speaker 1: I'm not being. I'm not being. I am so hung over,
Speaker 1: I'm going articulating. Problem. Well I'm trying to say is I.
Speaker 2: Would never get the earrings that you're wearing right now?
Speaker 2: Where's Your Head At? Is a podcast that talks all
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Speaker 3: Hi.
Speaker 1: I'm Anna and I'm Matt, and we are now too
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Speaker 1: Which is Good morning, Anna, and welcome to Where's your
Speaker 1: Head At?
Speaker 3: Morning.
Speaker 2: It's a love week. It's Valentine's Day this weekend. I'm excited.
Speaker 2: I love Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: Yes, I think the girls are a little bit more
Speaker 1: than the dudes. I feel.
Speaker 2: Is that do you reckon? Because we get a bit
Speaker 2: more treated.
Speaker 1: Yes, I do. I mean what a guy I asked
Speaker 1: before on Valentine's Day, I haven't asked like I remember really.
Speaker 2: Want to well, I mean sexy lungerie. Yes, I feel
Speaker 2: like guys should be getting around it.
Speaker 3: Potentially, I don't know, not everyone might be into that.
Speaker 1: But are you doing it? You're pregnant?
Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know. I haven't actually thought.
Speaker 1: About it, but well, yes, I am feeling I'm feeling
Speaker 1: not as hungover as we thought I would be today.
Speaker 2: Actually, Yes, a little recap for anyone who hasn't been
Speaker 2: following the podcast. Matt is a huge and when I
Speaker 2: say huge, I mean huge super Bowl fan. Yesterday was
Speaker 2: a Super Bowl. I didn't even know if today was
Speaker 2: going to happen. But he has arrived forty five minutes late.
Speaker 2: But I'm taking it because you're here.
Speaker 1: It was a huge day. It always is with the Boys.
Speaker 1: Because I obviously speak about on how we play like
Speaker 1: the fantasy football. Not going to go into theaet house
Speaker 1: about that, thank you. Yeah, but I love the game.
Speaker 1: I have like fifteen years now. It's amazing. Was it
Speaker 1: was actually the game wasn't Actually it was shit? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it wasn't good. I was about to say it was suck.
Speaker 2: I literally put it on like midday or something, and
Speaker 2: it was zero to the Chiefs and forty five to
Speaker 2: someone else.
Speaker 1: Patrick Mahomes got to rock off. He forgot it was
Speaker 1: at the Super Bowl. But I'm not going to go
Speaker 1: into that. It was a fun day, I know, with
Speaker 1: all the boys, a lot of banter, a lot of
Speaker 1: drinking games. Yeah, and I feel like I get targeted
Speaker 1: a bit in them. So I was. I was actually
Speaker 1: in bed by eight pm.
Speaker 3: It's pretty good. But I mean you were.
Speaker 2: Literally you sent me a photo of you with a
Speaker 2: beer in hand at like eight ams to do the mask.
Speaker 1: It's a big day. It was fun. It was a
Speaker 1: good day.
Speaker 2: When you say you get targeted, I actually do feel
Speaker 2: like you get targeted. Every year at the Bowl they
Speaker 2: bring back you when you were in Love Island and
Speaker 2: you're like crying and you have this like ugly crying face,
Speaker 2: and they printed off every single year and.
Speaker 3: Put it onto a card for you.
Speaker 1: Well this year as well, they took the piss because
Speaker 1: recently I posted for oxy Tread and did you see
Speaker 1: the video of me running?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it looks good. I liked it.
Speaker 1: All the boys were using that as a meme this year,
Speaker 1: and they were like me running to Super Bowl Day
Speaker 1: or like, they just were making all this funny stuff
Speaker 1: with that running video of me that's polarious. So they
Speaker 1: printed that off and they were getting stuck into me
Speaker 1: about that as well. It was a good day. How
Speaker 1: was your weekend?
Speaker 3: It was good.
Speaker 2: It was very busy. Honestly, I woke up this morning
Speaker 2: and I felt like I'd been hit by a bas
Speaker 2: I feel like the baby is growing a lot at
Speaker 2: the moment, and I just feel like I'm so exhausted.
Speaker 2: Like this morning, I was like, oh my god, do
Speaker 2: I have to go to the podcast? But now that
Speaker 2: I'm here, I'm happy.
Speaker 1: Did you still do a video you're doing with Michael
Speaker 1: every day?
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's TikTok one. Don't give me shit about that.
Speaker 3: I could give you so much shit about your tea tooks.
Speaker 1: I just was asking. I'm just asking if you're still
Speaker 1: doing it every day.
Speaker 3: We've been doing it most days, Like.
Speaker 1: Because you wake up feeling like shit, you might have
Speaker 1: wanted to skip a day.
Speaker 2: I did do it today, but like it to be fair,
Speaker 2: just for context, me and Michael are trying to do.
Speaker 2: I think it's very cute video every single day of
Speaker 2: the pregnancy.
Speaker 3: But we started like later on.
Speaker 2: I think we started twenty twenty five the first day
Speaker 2: of twenty twenty five, so like for this year. But yeah,
Speaker 2: we have missed a few days. It's a bit hard,
Speaker 2: especially if you're not feeling well.
Speaker 1: That's what I thought you might have wanted to escipt it.
Speaker 2: I'm not giving a shit about your teatok.
Speaker 3: By the way, I feel.
Speaker 2: Some of your dancing is hilarious, but I do love
Speaker 2: it how you get really into it.
Speaker 3: But it is funny.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't dance. I don't know why people try
Speaker 1: to make me dance.
Speaker 2: No, but it's so good because it's like it's like
Speaker 2: you don't give a shit, which I kind of love
Speaker 2: about you. Yeah, you know, like I feel like if
Speaker 2: it was you, like embarrassed and awkward.
Speaker 1: It wouldn't be it wouldn't hit as well, Like and
Speaker 1: you go get hips.
Speaker 3: Just don't lie. It's just wiggling left.
Speaker 1: Embarrassed. While we're talking about Valentine's Day on today's episode,
Speaker 1: we asked people about their horror stories on Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2: Do you have any personally horror stories. I mean, I've
Speaker 2: been asked to be people's Valentine's.
Speaker 1: And said no before, so it's their horror story.
Speaker 2: Sorry, I don't necessarily have any horror stories, but I
Speaker 2: have some like cute stories about Valentine's Days. You have
Speaker 2: horror stories about Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: I've said it before on the podcast One Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: I had a court case.
Speaker 2: That's right.
Speaker 1: And more to the point, it was Super Bowl Day
Speaker 1: as well, which sucked.
Speaker 3: That was your worst.
Speaker 1: That was the worst of my life, double hit. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I lost that court case. Then I went out
Speaker 1: with the boys.
Speaker 2: So you're a felon.
Speaker 1: No, it wasn't. I'm not a felon. I'm not a
Speaker 1: convicted criminal. I just some guy accused me of crashing
Speaker 1: into him and I didn't and I didn't have insurance
Speaker 1: at the time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good lesson for everyone.
Speaker 1: Well, it is a good lesson.
Speaker 2: Take a car insurance guy.
Speaker 1: Well, no, I had a company car, and I took
Speaker 1: my car on a date with a girl, Like, I
Speaker 1: don't really want to take the company car, can't be
Speaker 1: able to cleaning it out. So then I took my
Speaker 1: car and he accused me of hitting him, and I
Speaker 1: was like, fuck, I don't know if I have insurance.
Speaker 1: It was like Peak because you weren't using Yeah, like
Speaker 1: Peak in and out of lockdown as well, So I
Speaker 1: never used that car.
Speaker 2: So the lesson is, don't be lazy and clean the company.
Speaker 1: Yea clean out? Yeah, clean that car?
Speaker 3: Okay. Well, should we get into our Valentine's Day episode?
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do it, okay, Anna, So what do you
Speaker 1: and Michael have planned for Valentine's Day? I know it's
Speaker 1: up to the guy to plan it. Well, it likes
Speaker 1: me up to the guy too, So do you have
Speaker 1: any idea? Is he surprising you or yes?
Speaker 2: So Michael is actually taking me away on a little
Speaker 2: stay k this Valentine's Day. Valentine's Day this year is
Speaker 2: falling on a Friday, which is, in my opinion, one
Speaker 2: of the best days for Valentine's Day to fall because
Speaker 2: then it kind of gives you the weekend to have
Speaker 2: a little loved up romance fest. So, yeah, we're going away.
Speaker 2: I don't know where we're going, but he said it's
Speaker 2: about an hour and a half away, so yeah, yeah, do.
Speaker 1: You have any idea? If you not, just try to
Speaker 1: search where an hour and a half away, is right, but.
Speaker 2: There's like so many places here. He actually sent me
Speaker 2: the cutest message, you know how, at the moment it's
Speaker 2: kind of trending that you need to ask someone to
Speaker 2: be your valentine. So Michael asked me in the cutest way.
Speaker 2: He sent me a little poem and then that kind
Speaker 2: of like told me that we were going away.
Speaker 3: Do you mean to get it up?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Read it out. I was going to say, is
Speaker 1: it too private or can you read it out?
Speaker 2: He's probably going to kill me for reading this out.
Speaker 1: But also it's cute. I'm sure he won't.
Speaker 2: Okay, so I've got it. It says on the other
Speaker 2: side of the bay, there is a place in which
Speaker 2: we'll stay. You can see the ocean behind the green.
Speaker 2: The food looks amazing from what I've seen. The clues
Speaker 2: will continue if you continue to play. So be my Valentine.
Speaker 2: What do you say? You are my all? You have
Speaker 2: my whole heart, So please say yes so the fun
Speaker 2: can start.
Speaker 1: That's very cute.
Speaker 3: That is so cute.
Speaker 1: Chat TVT. You helped him with that, right, he's good? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that is very that's very cute. I was listening to
Speaker 1: the clue so it's on the other side of the bay.
Speaker 1: I reckon, you're going to like talkie.
Speaker 2: Or something then potentially, I mean yeah. He was like,
Speaker 2: so did you do you do you know where it
Speaker 2: is because of the clues, and I was like, honestly,
Speaker 2: I was just.
Speaker 1: That was just like that's very cute, or it could
Speaker 1: be the other sides, like Sorrento could be Sorrento. I'm
Speaker 1: down that way this weekend.
Speaker 3: I yeah, I thought you were going back to GC.
Speaker 1: I am after this and I fly back down on
Speaker 1: Friday for what Mate's wedding. I'm an agreement.
Speaker 3: You are too.
Speaker 1: What to Day, So that's Saturday. So I'm playing down
Speaker 1: on Valentine's Day because I've got to be the early
Speaker 1: Saturday morning. So Tammy and I are celebrating February thirteenth, lovely, Yes,
Speaker 1: we're doing it the day before. I've booked that gondola
Speaker 1: right that you were talking.
Speaker 2: About, Oh my god, it's so good. You guys are
Speaker 2: going to have the best time on the Gold Coast.
Speaker 2: There's this gondola and it's so romantic and they play
Speaker 2: like the cheesiest but most romantic songs ever and it's
Speaker 2: just so good. Cheese platter.
Speaker 1: I'm excited. So I got a hotel room around that area,
Speaker 1: So we're going to go from there to the gondola,
Speaker 1: then from there to dinner.
Speaker 3: How nice?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't wait to have a nice steak dinner.
Speaker 1: I've had a steak in like a week?
Speaker 2: Did you always have seven?
Speaker 3: Every time I talk to you?
Speaker 1: Having I know that I've seen a week, So I'm
Speaker 1: craving on. So I'm excited for that.
Speaker 2: Well, Matt, I obviously I don't even know.
Speaker 3: You know that I lived in America.
Speaker 1: Right, Ah, yes, you can name all the states.
Speaker 2: I can name all the states in alphabetical order because
Speaker 2: it was part of my history project when I went
Speaker 2: to school in America. But I think one of the
Speaker 2: key takeaways from living in America was the fact that
Speaker 2: they celebrate everything to the extreme, and as a kid
Speaker 2: living there, it was this magical land. Everything was so
Speaker 2: hyped up, whether it was Christmas or Halloween. Halloween was amazing.
Speaker 2: But I specifically remember celebrating Valentine's Day in America. We
Speaker 2: spent a week in school creating these boxes where people
Speaker 2: would leave us cards.
Speaker 1: So this reminds me of that Simpsons episode. Surely you've
Speaker 1: seen this one. You haven't seen the one last Simpsons.
Speaker 3: I love it.
Speaker 2: How you have this catalog of every Simpsons.
Speaker 1: I learned, I reckon my life culture like everything from
Speaker 1: the Simpsons. Really yeah, the one where Ralph oh yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I to choose you or whatever, that's.
Speaker 2: Probably one of the only ones I do know. That's
Speaker 2: pretty cute.
Speaker 3: But yeah.
Speaker 2: So we spent like a making these boxes. And then
Speaker 2: on Valentine's Day you could write like notes to people,
Speaker 2: and this guy called Bradley who went to my school.
Speaker 1: Very head sounds so American.
Speaker 3: So American.
Speaker 2: He wrote me a Valentine's Day letter and it was
Speaker 2: like the greatest moment in my life, my young life.
Speaker 1: He was your first Valentine?
Speaker 2: Who was your first Valentine?
Speaker 1: That? Oh geez, I reckon it was my first girlfriend.
Speaker 2: So you didn't have like a young one.
Speaker 1: Before that, I don't think so, no, I don't know did.
Speaker 1: I went to school in Australia, so we didn't make
Speaker 1: boxes and people hanging out well.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Australia is obviously.
Speaker 1: Not as but I think they're getting into it with
Speaker 1: like we said, to it a.
Speaker 2: Little bit more, which I do love. Like Halloween was
Speaker 2: really good this year. Christmas is great, but it's just
Speaker 2: it doesn't quite hit the same. But I have a
Speaker 2: question for you. How much do you think Australians are
Speaker 2: going to spend on Valentine's Day this year? If you're
Speaker 2: a betting man, which you're not, which I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm not. I mean, if what I've spent means anything,
Speaker 1: they're going to spend a fair bit I reckon altogether. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So if you're out of all of the Australian spending
Speaker 2: money on Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: Pah, millions. Give me an you want to give you
Speaker 1: an example, right? Five point eight.
Speaker 2: Million, Yeah, five hundred and thirty five million dollars is
Speaker 2: going to be spent this year on Valentine's Day onlike.
Speaker 1: Just dinners, cards, presents, jewelry, like all the.
Speaker 2: Gifts literally, yes, all the gifts. I think the gift
Speaker 2: preferences that people normally like flowers is forty eight percent.
Speaker 2: So the florists do eight killing they do on Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: I think. I think flowers is a standard thing that
Speaker 1: you put in your presence. Yeah, as a guy.
Speaker 2: Second, forty one percent of people are spending money on chocolates.
Speaker 2: I like chocolates. I actually think i'd prefer like one
Speaker 2: rose and chocolates as opposed to like a whole bunch
Speaker 2: of red roses, like it's nice, but they die, whereas
Speaker 2: I can eat the chocolates. I guess the chocolates the chocolate.
Speaker 1: Do you remember how I used to say. I used
Speaker 1: to say I don't support the flower industry because they're
Speaker 1: just killing flowers before they get to live their whole
Speaker 1: full life. Toxic, So toxic, get out of buying flowers.
Speaker 2: Next is thirty five percent of people are going to
Speaker 2: spend money with Valentine's Out on dining out or getaways,
Speaker 2: which falls into the me and Michael category mean as
Speaker 2: well and you exactly, But yeah, I think people are
Speaker 2: kind of moving more towards like experiences making memories with
Speaker 2: their partner.
Speaker 1: I'm surprised jewelry is not on there. I feel like
Speaker 1: women like jewelry on.
Speaker 2: Valentine's po do like jewelry, and jewelry definitely should be
Speaker 2: on there. It's also twenty three percent planned to purchase
Speaker 2: like sweets and candy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I don't get I wouldn't get tammy chocolate.
Speaker 1: I get a chocolate every time I fly back from Melbourne.
Speaker 1: That's so nice, and I leave it on her bedside table,
Speaker 1: but they're in her wardrobe. There is a pile of
Speaker 1: them because I've been traveling for a bit recently, so
Speaker 1: she's got like a pile of them. She can't keep up.
Speaker 3: So you're going to like change the gift or you're
Speaker 3: just going to.
Speaker 1: Get a nice same thing, just a cute thing I
Speaker 1: buy from the airport when I'm there. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think people are definitely moving more towards experiences, Like
Speaker 2: I think it is nice to get like a rose
Speaker 2: from someone, but I think it's nice to go out
Speaker 2: to dinner, do a little get away, whatever it might be.
Speaker 2: Sixty four percent of Australians are planning to celebrate with
Speaker 2: a restaurant dinner, and twenty one percent are considering alternate
Speaker 2: celebrations like a travel experience.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, okay, well I'm doing the dinner, so I'm
Speaker 1: in that twenty one percent.
Speaker 2: What else is nice to do on Valentine's Day? Hot
Speaker 2: air balloon?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you've done a hot airbluone so fun? Yeah right, okay?
Speaker 2: What about outdoor movies or drive ins?
Speaker 1: We're going outdoor movies apparently, Well, it's booked for Bridget
Speaker 1: Traone's Diary the day before. It's twelfth and Brisbane.
Speaker 2: Yeah, can classify that as your Valentine.
Speaker 1: I could say, I don't worry about tomorrow night. We're
Speaker 1: doing this. Have you are you excited for any project? Zones?
Speaker 2: I actually am. I love Bridget Jones, such a good movie.
Speaker 1: I want to rewatch him.
Speaker 2: I don't remember I've rewatched them all recently.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, lucky I wanted to. I can't remember him
Speaker 1: like completely as an adult adult the last ten years.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think like the first one was like her in
Speaker 2: her like single girl, full blown era. Second is like
Speaker 2: her changing from one guy to the next guy and
Speaker 2: they go to Thailand and she gets locked up and
Speaker 2: blah blah blah. It's a bit of a wild story.
Speaker 2: Third one, it's the baby. This one it's like her,
Speaker 2: I think with kids.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's like in a date a younger guy,
Speaker 1: the guy from the White Lotus. Yeah, i'll tell you
Speaker 1: what anna talking about Valentine's Day. There's a new horror
Speaker 1: movie called Heart Ice, Heart Eyes, where there's a guy
Speaker 1: going around killing couples. Do you reckon? You'd watch that
Speaker 1: for me?
Speaker 3: With Michael Party always want me don't watch.
Speaker 1: It's like you don't even care about my life and
Speaker 1: my interests.
Speaker 2: Your life can't just be based around movie watching.
Speaker 1: It is. Look at the top I'm wearing. It's my
Speaker 1: favorite horror movie from last year, Late Night with the Devil.
Speaker 1: It's my favorite horror movie from last year.
Speaker 3: Look how happy you are?
Speaker 2: Okay, I have a question for you. Obviously you're now married,
Speaker 2: so it's not actually relevant, but would you ever propose
Speaker 2: on Valentine's Day?
Speaker 1: Wow? No, my mate, who's wedding I'm going to this weekends?
Speaker 1: So and someone else I was talking to, their anniversary
Speaker 1: is Valentine's Day. That's why they're having the wedding this
Speaker 1: weekend because their anniversary is the day he proposed.
Speaker 2: Right, So he proposed on Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so they wanted to do it all the same day,
Speaker 1: so they have the same anniversary. And Tammy's pa was
Speaker 1: telling me the same thing. Their anniversaries Valentine's Day as well,
Speaker 1: So she's like, do we celebrate that one? Like? Do
Speaker 1: we have our wedding around that? So we have the
Speaker 1: same anniversary day? And I was like, well no, because
Speaker 1: you're gonna make it really hard for the rest calm
Speaker 1: and how Valentine's revolves around your wedding. Yeah, so no,
Speaker 1: I would not propose. Why do people propose?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: So, approximately five thousand couples in Australia get engaged on
Speaker 2: Valentine's Day each year, so your mate is just one
Speaker 2: of them. But it is. It is so cute, to
Speaker 2: be honest, Like, every time I've ever had a boyfriend,
Speaker 2: I pretty much thought they were going to propose on
Speaker 2: Valentine's Day and I was always disappointed.
Speaker 1: What's going through a girl's because.
Speaker 2: It's like the day of love And honestly, I've never
Speaker 2: felt more I never throughout the whole year. I feel
Speaker 2: like I feel the most loved up on Valentine's Day
Speaker 2: and I day. Yeah, and you have these nice memories
Speaker 2: and like you're doing romantic things and everyone's in the mood.
Speaker 2: You know, it's like cute. Okay, So a lot of
Speaker 2: people say that Valentine's Day is all about the females,
Speaker 2: all about the women, like treat your girl. But as
Speaker 2: a male, do you expect to receive a Valentine's Day gift?
Speaker 1: Personally? No?
Speaker 3: You don't.
Speaker 1: No, I don't. I don't know.
Speaker 2: So you're willing to like splash out the cash, but
Speaker 2: you have no, you're not willing. You don't want anything
Speaker 2: in return.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think you know my personality. I'm really
Speaker 1: not the gift giver or receiver, Like I never grew
Speaker 1: up with that, So I don't gifts.
Speaker 2: So I just say that, But I don't think that's true.
Speaker 1: I think it's just easier to say that sometimes, and
Speaker 1: then if it's like a gift doesn't land, I'm like, well, yeah.
Speaker 2: But I think that's I don't think that's right. Pop up, Yeah,
Speaker 2: well I think you do like giving gifts. You are
Speaker 2: so like thoughtful.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like a thoughtful gift more than that.
Speaker 2: Then you're you're a gift, big gift give most people.
Speaker 1: True, true, but I wouldn't know. I don't expect anything
Speaker 1: in return. Do you know what?
Speaker 3: I annoys me?
Speaker 2: You know what it's triggering to me because my ex
Speaker 2: is to say it and you like both bully me
Speaker 2: together and being like you don't need any gifts. We
Speaker 2: don't give gifts. Some guys don't give gifts. And I
Speaker 2: was like, shut the fuck up.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So the fact that you're still on that band when
Speaker 2: you do give out a lot of.
Speaker 1: Gifts, Yeah, mine them more like sentimental sort of gifts.
Speaker 1: Like I also got tammy It one. You know how
Speaker 1: those coffee table books. I got one printed off of Finland. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and all the honeymoon pictures in there.
Speaker 2: It's so cute.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm more sentimental than yeah.
Speaker 2: That you do like GIFs. Anyway, this is not about me.
Speaker 1: It's about a guy. I wouldn't think a guy would
Speaker 1: expect a gift on Valentine's Day. I don't think it's
Speaker 1: about the guy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's actually about both. I feel like
Speaker 2: Michael got me like a beautiful Christmas present, and I
Speaker 2: kind of was a bit slack this year. Just hold
Speaker 2: my hands up and say it. So I want to
Speaker 2: get him a nice present this year. Yeah, right, ideas
Speaker 2: or what do you think I was thinking of getting him?
Speaker 2: Maybe like some sneakers and some outfits. Yeah, well that
Speaker 2: because it's something that he will.
Speaker 1: I think that's an easy one for a doesn't.
Speaker 2: Buy it clothes for himself, So I feel like the
Speaker 2: only time he gets new clothes when I buy it
Speaker 2: for him. But gender based spending is so interesting because
Speaker 2: on average, males spend one hundred and sixty two dollars
Speaker 2: on Valentine's Day?
Speaker 3: But women still spend? Is that all? Can you well
Speaker 3: about average? Matt's pissed?
Speaker 1: Geez, that's that's not even covering the roses. That doesn't
Speaker 1: even cover roses.
Speaker 3: How much do you you're spending?
Speaker 1: Ah, easily a couple of hundred straight off of that.
Speaker 1: That book was like two hundred, little bit more.
Speaker 3: I'm more than two hundred.
Speaker 1: We took a lot of photos. We took a lot
Speaker 1: of photos on the honeymoon.
Speaker 2: Okay, so males are spending one hundred and sixty two
Speaker 2: dollars on average females Guess how much females are spending
Speaker 2: on average?
Speaker 3: You tell me, you tell me, I want.
Speaker 1: You to get two hundred. It's less than male, so
Speaker 1: one hundred, one ten, one ten, Okay.
Speaker 2: So feels are still spending. Yeah, So I think I
Speaker 2: personally think it's nice to do, you know, get each
Speaker 2: other something. It doesn't need to be something super expensive.
Speaker 2: It can be a really nice card with some really
Speaker 2: nice words in it, or like you said, like a
Speaker 2: photo book.
Speaker 3: Obviously your photo book wasn't that extense. I mean, what's
Speaker 3: really expensive?
Speaker 2: But it doesn't have to be is what I'm saying. Right, Okay, Matt,
Speaker 2: we have a hotline of someone's horror Valentine's Day?
Speaker 3: Should we listen to that?
Speaker 1: Let's chuck it on. Okay, So this hot line comes
Speaker 1: in from Laura.
Speaker 4: So I'm not really one that would get annoyed if
Speaker 4: my partner didn't celebrate Valentine's Day or not. But this
Speaker 4: was back when I was fifteen. So I had this
Speaker 4: partner and he was a twin and I work at
Speaker 4: Machas and he came the drive through and he gave
Speaker 4: me this like bracelet with a heart lock on it
Speaker 4: and it would have like a sky glue chain in it. Anyway,
Speaker 4: he handed it to me and it was like, there
Speaker 4: you go, Lauren, love, you have a good day.
Speaker 3: My name's Laura.
Speaker 4: So that was like the first kind of thing. I
Speaker 4: was like, what the fuck? And then as I turned
Speaker 4: around his so his brother also worked with us, and
Speaker 4: he had dated a girl in that worked at Macisville
Speaker 4: named Chantell. Anyway, the bracelet that my boyfriend at the time,
Speaker 4: Mark had given me, he didn't actually get for me.
Speaker 4: It was his brother's bracelet that he had gotten for
Speaker 4: this Chantell girl. So he just like recycled the gift. Yeah,
Speaker 4: it was so weird, Like it wasn't even the fact
Speaker 4: that it wasn't brought for me or whatever, you know,
Speaker 4: the thought that counts. But it was like being called
Speaker 4: Lauren and then having this girl like, what the fuck
Speaker 4: have you got my old bracelet for so fucking weird?
Speaker 4: It ruined Valentine's Day for me. And now that I
Speaker 4: look back, I can laugh, But in that moment, I
Speaker 4: was mortified.
Speaker 1: So I thought that her name was actually Lauren and
Speaker 1: I'd read it wrong. She said that I was so Laura.
Speaker 1: It's Laura.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: Recycling gifts, I hate that is bottom of the barrel.
Speaker 3: You can't be recycling.
Speaker 1: I've never regifted anything.
Speaker 3: I've never regifted. Oh have I regifted anything.
Speaker 2: I've not regifted it as a gift. But I've maybe
Speaker 2: like given people gifts that I've gotten that I'm not
Speaker 2: going to use. I've done that, like pajamas that maybe
Speaker 2: don't fit.
Speaker 1: Or nice exactly. I was about to say that I've
Speaker 1: done that as all. So I've given people about not
Speaker 1: being like here happy birthday. Yeah, you know we've got that. No,
Speaker 1: nothing like that. I've just given people stuff that I haven't.
Speaker 2: Needed Okay, called her the wrong name. I have a
Speaker 2: friend called Laura and she hates more than anything being
Speaker 2: called Lauren's.
Speaker 3: Like, it's not my name.
Speaker 1: My sister's called Laura and she hates more than anything
Speaker 1: being called Laura as well. See that happens all the time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's like really annoying.
Speaker 1: So how long were they together for it? If he's
Speaker 1: calling her the wrong name?
Speaker 3: I don't know why ask question?
Speaker 1: I know I asked questions. I asked you the questions
Speaker 1: like you know, I'm sorry, guys, I am.
Speaker 2: Maybe it's pretty lame. But they're dating, supposedly, and he's
Speaker 2: going through the drive through.
Speaker 3: To a gift, like is he not some other time
Speaker 3: where they can catch.
Speaker 1: Up, Like, well, that's her fault for working on Valancine's day.
Speaker 1: I know that's probably the only time he had.
Speaker 2: He should make some more time, like it's not on
Speaker 2: he's getting like a free cheese furger and then giving
Speaker 2: the gifts.
Speaker 1: Like a fu I could really go a double Chase Figer.
Speaker 2: Every time we talk about food on this podcast. That
Speaker 2: literally goes straight away together.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got the other day. That's the worst subway
Speaker 1: ever though.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it sucks.
Speaker 1: No one sucks.
Speaker 3: I didn't get it, but you told me no.
Speaker 1: It was just not good. They didn't put enough branch
Speaker 1: resting on it. But we please, when we get distracted.
Speaker 3: Can you tell thembou tongue over today?
Speaker 1: I want that double cheese burger.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, that's a shitty Valentine's Day. That would that's
Speaker 2: honestly ground through this.
Speaker 1: I was about to say, what would you do, Anna,
Speaker 1: that's a deal breaker.
Speaker 2: I'd like be fuming and probably throw the bracelet and
Speaker 2: say take back your second hand bracelet.
Speaker 1: With a sky blue color through it? Is that in
Speaker 1: Tiffany and co Won? Isn't that?
Speaker 2: I mean it could be, but I feel like she
Speaker 2: would say that jewelry is so hard to buy for women.
Speaker 2: Jewelry is hard to buy for because you need to
Speaker 2: know the color. Like I'm a gold person, so if
Speaker 2: someone brought me a silver gift, it's instantly.
Speaker 1: I think your husband should know your gold. I know
Speaker 1: Tammy's gold, but I just think it's hard, Like I
Speaker 1: don't know what she likes, like sometimes she wears ear rings,
Speaker 1: or like you're wearing earrings now, Like I would never
Speaker 1: see those earrings at a shop and go, I'm going
Speaker 1: to get them. Okay, No, no, no, I'm not being.
Speaker 1: I'm not being. I'm not being. I am so hung over.
Speaker 1: I'm saying articulated problem. All I'm trying to say is
Speaker 1: I would.
Speaker 2: Never get the earrings that you're wearing right now.
Speaker 1: I would never go. Oh, okay, that's what I'm going
Speaker 1: to you know what I'm trying to say. I know.
Speaker 1: Do you know, like I never go oh, sounds.
Speaker 2: Good to have a female best friend because and I'm.
Speaker 3: Like, what about this?
Speaker 1: Yeah you did apparently.
Speaker 3: One time.
Speaker 2: Okay, guys, we hope that you have a beautiful Valentine's Day,
Speaker 2: celebrating with your partner. If you're not celebrating with your partner,
Speaker 2: make sure you have a Gallantine's Day. I still had
Speaker 2: a Galantine's Day dinner with the girls this weekend and
Speaker 2: it was lovely. It's so fun celebrating your friendships.
Speaker 1: And until next time, Thank you Anna for carrying today.
Speaker 2: Bye.