1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: What you expect in friendships and what you put out 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: in friendships, you cannot expect the same back, and the 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: only person you really have is yourself. Hi, guys, welcome 4 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: to episode two of Hotter Than Yesterday. How we all doing? 5 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 1: How's life? Give me all the updates, Send me a message, 6 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:24,280 Speaker 1: let me know how it's all going, because I'm about 7 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: to give you a full rundown debrief Q and A 8 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: about everything that's going on in my life at the moment. 9 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 1: So I would like to hear yours, like, let's all 10 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 1: have a chat. I'm actually in my bed right now 11 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: in London. You guys are hearing this pretty live time. 12 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: By the time this is out, I actually feel like, 13 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 1: I mean Mick noos, So I have so much to 14 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: update you on after but it is currently the thirtieth 15 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: of June, and I just wanted to give you guys 16 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 1: a massive update everything that I've been doing, kind of 17 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: tell you guys everything, a little bit of a bit 18 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: of a job entry. I feel like I really want 19 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 1: to connect with you guys and fill you in because 20 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: I've been sharing so much content and I've loved the 21 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 1: content that I've created by having this podcast and having 22 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: people that genuinely love me and want to know about me. 23 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: I feel like this is where I'm really going to 24 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: like open up and share with you guys, maybe the 25 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 1: raw side and maybe some stuff I'm leaving out so 26 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: the real ones get to know all the tea over 27 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: here on the potty life has been treating me so 28 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 1: so well. I'm so incredibly happy, and I'm so proud 29 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: of myself for making this leap. And I don't want 30 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 1: to look like I'm first of all, like bragging and 31 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: like rubbing it in your face. That's the last thing 32 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 1: I want to be doing on this podcast. But I 33 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: feel like everyone that's listening is kind of around my age, 34 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: going through similar ebbs and flows with life being so 35 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 1: confused and not really knowing. So I'm kind of like 36 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 1: our guinea pig and you can watch me lifetime figure 37 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: it all out and in hopes of feeling less alone 38 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: and hopefully we can be hotter than yesterday. Emo. Okay, 39 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 1: transitions so proud, but yeah, I low key love this 40 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: little setup I have going on. I just have a 41 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 1: microphone connected to my laptop. I've got my buddy, my 42 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: emotional support that replaces Vinnie at the moment. So say, hey, 43 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 1: he's my little jelly cat that follows me everywhere. And 44 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: I'm just like sitting in my bed on a late 45 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: summer's afternoon in London, and I'm just gonna use you 46 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 1: guys as little little journal diary, and you guys can 47 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: hear into my deepest darkest thoughts. Some a good, not 48 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: so much, but yeah, a little bit of an update. 49 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: I went to Paris over the weekend and oh my god, guys, 50 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: I had the best time. We actually got the plane. 51 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 1: I know, you can get a Eurostar or a plane, 52 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:56,799 Speaker 1: and the plane flights ended up being cheaper, but then 53 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: upon reflection, the uber to and from the airport both 54 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: ways probably then made it break even. And I would 55 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 1: recommend the Eurostar more because you get dropped in the 56 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: city center of both. The Paris airport is a little 57 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 1: bit out of Paris. It takes like an hour, and 58 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: same with London. We flew from Gatwick so it takes 59 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 1: a little bit longer. And yeah, I probably wouldn't recommend that. 60 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,359 Speaker 1: I definitely would just recommend the Eurostar. Apparently have Internet 61 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: the whole time in the Eurostar. And my friend Spencer 62 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 1: got the Eurostar and he was like, I don't know 63 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 1: why you guys are lying, and we were like, yeah, 64 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: we thought we were smarter, like money wise, but we 65 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: ended up not being smarter money wise. Another thing I've 66 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 1: just had to surrender into is spending so much money 67 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: here because the Euro is half the Australian dollar, like 68 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: it's literally point five, so everything that you're doing is 69 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: in double. We went to the famous cafe where you 70 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: do like the hot chocolates and then you put the 71 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: cream in the hot chocolate and the berries and cream 72 00:03:56,360 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: and everything, and I spent sixty Australian dollars on berries 73 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 1: and gream and I got like seven berries. It was crazy, 74 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 1: but like worth the experience. I'm actually probably not worth 75 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: the experience. You can literally go to any nice britisseriy 76 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: cafe in Paris and you have the exact same experience 77 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: for half the price. Still expensive, but half the price. 78 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: When we got there, we ended up meeting up with Jazz, 79 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: which is so so nice. I haven't seen Jazz since 80 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: December twenty twenty four because she's moved to Berlin now, 81 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: so it was like crazy when I saw on her 82 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 1: stories that she was going to be in Paris at 83 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 1: the same time as me was absolutely so much fun 84 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 1: to see her. We went to Gigi's the first night, 85 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: which is like a really famous restaurant, so nice, The 86 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 1: food was amazing, the service was really really poor, but 87 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:50,479 Speaker 1: I think we kind of found that everywhere in France 88 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 1: or in Paris, people are just not friendly and they 89 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 1: don't really care and the service is just not up 90 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 1: to her standards. But I think that's just kind of 91 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 1: every in Europe. I think we're very blessed in Australia 92 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 1: to have such good service. But the first night I 93 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: ended up being like a full storm shower, like half 94 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: of Paris flooded, like it was crazy. We got locked 95 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 1: inside of Gigi's for a little bit longer, but it 96 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: was so nice. Obviously, Jazz and I had so much 97 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 1: to catch up on, so we literally caught up on 98 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 1: the last like eight months of our lives, and there 99 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: was so much to talk about. Because normally Jazz and 100 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: I would see each other every single day in Australia, 101 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 1: like we would go for a walk around the town, 102 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 1: you guys, know, pretty much every single morning. So from 103 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 1: seeing someone almost every single day to then not for 104 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 1: eight months, like it was crazy. It was really wild. 105 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,039 Speaker 1: But I'm so proud of her. She's like made the 106 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: biggest leap obviously, she fell in love. She's moved to Berlin, 107 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 1: and she's truly like so happy, and I feel like 108 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: she's grown a lot. Not that she was a bad 109 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: person before, but she's really like grown up and she's 110 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 1: become so sure of herself. Seeing your friend grow and 111 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: flourish like that is so amazing and rewarding, and I'm 112 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 1: just so proud of her and so happy for her. 113 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: It was so nice to catch up with her, and 114 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: then we went from there to La Avenue, which is 115 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 1: also a really really nice bar, and then we went 116 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 1: from Lett Avenue to Coats Coats. I'm pretty sure that's 117 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: how you pronounce it, and that is another place I 118 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: really recommend really good people watching. We actually ended up 119 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: being there in the middle of Men's Fashion Week, which 120 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 1: was so unplanned, but there was everyone and their dogs 121 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: there obviously because of fashion week, and the people watching 122 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: was insane. Had so much fun. Also bumped into Charlotte 123 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:45,600 Speaker 1: Agu which is nice because she's now living in Sydney 124 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: and she was a Melbourne girl. I just feel like 125 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 1: everyone happened to be there and it was so much fun. 126 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 1: That's like another thing I'm loving about being in London 127 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:55,919 Speaker 1: is I meeting so many people, catching up with so 128 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: many people, putting myself out there a little bit more, 129 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 1: and it's just been so rewarding and everything's come back 130 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 1: and it's just been such a positive sign and I've 131 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,919 Speaker 1: gotten so many good signs from the universe that this 132 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 1: is exactly where I need to be, and it's just 133 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: been so amazing, like so so good. There obviously have 134 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 1: been some hard times, but everything that I really wanted 135 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 1: to get out of this experience of living abroad for 136 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 1: a little bit has really rewarded me and has told 137 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 1: me that I'm in the right place at the right time, 138 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 1: and I'm just like so happy for it. Yeah. So 139 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 1: then back to Paris a bit of a tangent. We 140 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: then the second day we went to we just explored 141 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: the city and then we met up with our friend 142 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 1: Spencer and we went to Bambini, which is so amazing. 143 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: It's like this outdoor restaurant again, another really good recommendation. 144 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: The food wasn't amazing, but the vibes were really amazing. 145 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: The cocktails are really good, and we ended up over 146 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: watching the Rick Owen Show, which is like a once 147 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: in a lifetime opportunity. Like Rick Owens. There was like 148 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 1: people climbing, like scaffolding, swimming in the water. It was 149 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: like crazy, like we literally didn't know and we were 150 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 1: watching a free Rick Owen show in Paris at our 151 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: dinner reservation. Like you couldn't you could not write that 152 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 1: it was crazy, Like Rick Owens, I've had a newfound 153 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 1: love for you. You're so talented. The execution of the show 154 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 1: was absolutely amazing, and it was just so cool that 155 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 1: I ended up getting to see an amazing show at 156 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: Paris Fashion Week for free at my dinner reservation, like crazy. 157 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 1: And then on the Friday, so that was a Thursday, 158 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 1: and then on the Friday, I spent the whole day 159 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: with Spencer. We just explored the city. We probably drank 160 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:47,440 Speaker 1: far too much, but again went in Paris, you know, 161 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: like we went to the Louver. We just rode around 162 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:52,560 Speaker 1: in the line bikes, which is something I'm loving over here. 163 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: Pretty much. My mode of transport is either on foot 164 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 1: or on bike, and I love it. It's the best 165 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: way to get around cities and exploring new cities. And 166 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 1: then we probably took it way too far because then 167 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 1: Mellie ended up joining us at night and we just 168 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 1: again drank way too much, but again went in Paris 169 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 1: and then Saturday was pretty chill. We just went to 170 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: the photo breoth. It was so hot, so we just 171 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 1: like took a chill hung out at Soho house and 172 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 1: then flew home. And now we're here, it's chill. I'm 173 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: getting back into routine before I go to make an Os, 174 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 1: which again is so much fun that you can book 175 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 1: last minute flights, quick little flights, quick little trips, go 176 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 1: to miking On for five days, Paris for three days, 177 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 1: and then just come back and it's so nice having 178 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 1: a home base that you can unpack, repack, do your washing, 179 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 1: cook some food and just like being routine for a 180 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: few days in between. I feel like that's really helping 181 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 1: me not burn myself out. But yeah, anyway, I thought 182 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: this episode will just kind of be me chatting, giving 183 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: you guys a little bit of a life update. Q 184 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 1: and A I asked over on my Instagram story questions 185 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: you guys wanted to know, and I'm here to fill 186 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 1: you all in on all the TEA first question is, 187 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 1: can you see yourself moving to London post trip for 188 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: a longer period of time. One hundred and ten percent. 189 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 1: I always knew deep down that I would want to 190 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 1: move here again. I had never been to London before 191 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 1: I came on this trip, but I have like a 192 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 1: weird calling. I don't know what it was, but I 193 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 1: followed that calling and I've ended up in London. And 194 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:34,680 Speaker 1: originally I was going to stay till mid August. I'm 195 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:38,319 Speaker 1: now staying here until October, so I've extended my trip 196 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 1: for two more months. I'm having the best time, so 197 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:47,080 Speaker 1: I definitely will come home for Australian summer because nothing 198 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: can be in Australian summer. London's going through a heat 199 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 1: wave at the moment and it is unbearably hot. It 200 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: just feels way hotter than it normally does, like back 201 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 1: at home, because you can cool yourself off at the pool, 202 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 1: but people don't really have pools in the middle of London. 203 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,679 Speaker 1: There's no beaches in the middle of the London, so 204 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 1: it's just crazy. You literally just see everyone at the 205 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 1: pub drinking because everyone just like loves to seize the weather. 206 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 1: Everyone's so much more social. There's something on every single day. 207 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 1: Every day is like a weekend in London, like there's 208 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: always something to do, but it's just been absolutely amazing 209 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 1: so far. But I definitely know that if I stay 210 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: here through winter, I'll hate it, and I don't actually 211 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: voluntarily have to do that. So I think for the 212 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 1: next couple of years especially, I will be doing summers 213 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 1: in London, summers in Australia, just like following the sun. 214 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 1: I'm absolutely loving it, Guys. Like, I don't know why, 215 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 1: I just feel like myself, my anxiety, my stress, me 216 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 1: overthinking and everything just suddenly has gone away, and I'm 217 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 1: so much more happier. I just am so much more present, 218 00:11:57,880 --> 00:12:00,959 Speaker 1: at at peace with my life. Like obviously I'm just 219 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 1: a little bit confused, but I don't know. Everything just 220 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 1: seems to be working out and aligning for me here 221 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 1: and I'm just riding that wave at the moment, and 222 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: I'm writing how I'm feeling. And I know that Australia 223 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:17,079 Speaker 1: will always be there. Obviously, my family's always there, and 224 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 1: like my friends are always there and I miss them 225 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: all dearly. But I know that me being here right 226 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 1: now is the best thing for me, and all the 227 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 1: signs are showing that, and all the signs are proving that, 228 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:31,079 Speaker 1: and I'm just going to continue to ride with that, really, 229 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: and I can definitely see myself living here for a 230 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 1: long period of time, maybe forever. Really not going to 231 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 1: jump to conclusion so far, but the question to that is, yes, 232 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 1: I can definitely see myself moving here. A lot of 233 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 1: questions about my relationship with food, my body image, how 234 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:52,679 Speaker 1: do you handle negative food talk, sush being out of 235 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: routine with your normal meals, and I kind of along 236 00:12:56,840 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: the lines of me being in London and everything at 237 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: the moment, like I have been really out of routine, 238 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 1: like you guys know in Melbourne, like I'm super into 239 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 1: the gym, super into fitness, which I definitely still am. 240 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 1: Like I've been going to the gym and everything like 241 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 1: that here, like I'm walking so much more and I'm 242 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:16,679 Speaker 1: definitely living a very active lifestyle, like I still am. 243 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:18,439 Speaker 1: Like that's so important to me and it will always 244 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 1: be innately who I am. But I think I do 245 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 1: put a lot more pressure on myself and everything involved 246 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 1: with that when it comes to the gym in Melbourne 247 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 1: and like my eating in Melbourne, because I think I 248 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 1: have a lot more time on my hands to really 249 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 1: worry about that, and I realize when I'm traveling. I'm 250 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 1: not as so harsh on myself to make sure I'm 251 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:45,960 Speaker 1: hitting my protein and make sure I'm going to the 252 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:48,080 Speaker 1: gym five times a week and everything like that, which 253 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:50,840 Speaker 1: is really important. But I also can recognize and sit 254 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 1: back at this age and realize that I am twenty three. 255 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 1: I am forming some amazing memories, making some amazing friendships, 256 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:02,480 Speaker 1: and with that comes with socializing and eating food out 257 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 1: and drinking a little bit more than usual, and that's 258 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:07,839 Speaker 1: just the life stage that I'm in, and I can 259 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 1: rationalize that all really, really well. And the way I 260 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 1: rationalize that is that memories don't come back. The memories 261 00:14:15,040 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 1: that I'm forming right now around this, around drinking a 262 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 1: little fut too many cocktails a you too many days 263 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 1: a week, or having that boli of fries, or sharing 264 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 1: that cookie in Paris or sharing a crape in Paris. 265 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 1: Like their memories, and I'm going to look back at 266 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 1: them when I'm sixty years old, not being like, oh 267 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 1: my god, do you remember when you were a little 268 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 1: few kilos heavier than what you want to be? No, 269 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 1: you're not going to think that You're going to be like, 270 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 1: oh my god, do you remember when Melita and I 271 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 1: were in Paris and we had the best natyla crape 272 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 1: with strawberries. You're going to remember that memory, and no 273 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 1: one remembers you when you die for how much you 274 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 1: weighed and what you looked like. Of course, I definitely 275 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 1: would be lying and saying that I completely love what 276 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 1: I look like at the moment. I definitely am struggling 277 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 1: with my body image, but that will always come back 278 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 1: and once I get back onto routine. But right now 279 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 1: I'm really just writing the wave of creating memories and 280 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 1: creating friendships and creating an amazing life for myself that 281 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 1: I know that it's not what I look like. And yeah, 282 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 1: I'm definitely having more days than I would love to 283 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: admit that I hate the way I look on camera, 284 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 1: and I'm having a lot of negative self talk. But 285 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:33,840 Speaker 1: I am able to separate that and not let it 286 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 1: affect my everyday life and not let it ruin myself 287 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 1: from experiences, because all I think back is when I 288 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: was really in the root of my eating disorder, I 289 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 1: had no friends, I had no social life. I was 290 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 1: so unhappy. I didn't want to do anything with my days. 291 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: I just was thinking about food constantly, and that's not life, 292 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 1: and that's not living. So if I go back to that, 293 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 1: I'm not going to be happy person either. Yeah, I 294 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 1: might be skinnier, but I'm not gonna be happier. So yeah, 295 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:07,080 Speaker 1: I would rather be a few kilos heavier and probably 296 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 1: what my body should look like and be happy and 297 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 1: enjoy that bowl of French fries and enjoy that crepe 298 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: and enjoy that margarita because fucking how, I'm young and 299 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: who cares like. No one's gonna remember me for what 300 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 1: I looked like. Everyone's gonna remember me for the amazing 301 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 1: memories they had with me. And I'm gonna remember life 302 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 1: not because I was skinny. So I definitely have days 303 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 1: that I'm struggling, but I can separate that and realize 304 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: it's irrational and realize it's silly and not give into 305 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 1: that thought. And that's where I've come really far with 306 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 1: my eating disorder journey, and like myself image journey, is 307 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 1: I can separate rational and irrational and that's just something 308 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 1: I can have to continue working on every single day, 309 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 1: and to be honest, I'll probably have to work on 310 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 1: it for the rest of my life. And I think 311 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 1: it's really hard because everyone says, like, you post photos 312 00:16:56,960 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 1: of yourself in bikinis online, like you must not hate 313 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 1: each other yourself that much. No, trust me, I overanalyze 314 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 1: myself in that photo way more than you think I do. 315 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 1: But posting is my life and you just have to 316 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,719 Speaker 1: get onwards and upwards from it, really and I'm very 317 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 1: good at dissociating from it, which is probably not healthy, 318 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 1: but it is what it is. Someone asked, and I'm 319 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: getting a lot of questions about this as well, how 320 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 1: did you find your com in London? So we found 321 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:27,440 Speaker 1: our accommodation through Blueground, which is like an app. It's 322 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 1: kind of like Airbnb where you can rent for longer 323 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:32,440 Speaker 1: stays and you can rent like an apartment, like right 324 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 1: now we're in someone's apartment. So it's so nice. We 325 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:39,639 Speaker 1: have like a kitchen, living room, two bedrooms, washing machine, 326 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 1: and we have everything available to us. That just makes 327 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:45,440 Speaker 1: it so much easier and makes it feel a little 328 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 1: bit more homely. And because we are staying here for 329 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 1: so many months, you're not going to stay in a 330 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:52,439 Speaker 1: hotel room and that's just like ludicrous amount of money. 331 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:57,200 Speaker 1: But in saying that this accommodation isn't cheap, it's very expensive, 332 00:17:57,800 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 1: and I'm sure there's other ways that you can do it. 333 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,639 Speaker 1: I know the spacebook groups and everything that you can 334 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 1: do that people like supplet their place for a really 335 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 1: long time. But yeah, we did through Blue Ground just 336 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 1: because we wanted that extra security through doing it through 337 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:12,400 Speaker 1: a website. We're both obviously two young girls over here 338 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 1: by ourselves, so we just would rather pay a little 339 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 1: bit more to know that we're in a safe area, 340 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 1: because London can be so incredibly unsafe, and we're doing 341 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 1: it through an actual website, and for me, that is 342 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:28,560 Speaker 1: worth the actual little bit of money and I'm so 343 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 1: grateful that I can be in the opportunity to be 344 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 1: able for that a little bit more. Someone said tips 345 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 1: for healthy skin. Okay, guys, my skin, I'm one for 346 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 1: like lessies more. I've absolutely been loving the Laroche pose 347 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:51,919 Speaker 1: B five cedar blast. I think that's what it's called moisturizer. 348 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:55,200 Speaker 1: It's like a thick moisturizer. It's really helps your skin barrier. 349 00:18:55,480 --> 00:18:58,800 Speaker 1: And because I'm constantly changing climates, I'm obviously like in 350 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 1: London and the waterco not that good. I've been absolutely 351 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 1: loving that moisturizer and the Wily to Skin foods moisturizer. 352 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 1: They're both really thick moisturizers. I have naturally very dry skin, 353 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 1: so anything really rich and nourishing is really really good 354 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:16,639 Speaker 1: for my skin. And yeah, I just try to keep 355 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:21,159 Speaker 1: it really simple. I use the Doctor Denis Gross facial wash. 356 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 1: I got that from Mecca, and then to take my 357 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:26,160 Speaker 1: makeup off, I use the Clinic take your Day Off. 358 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:29,919 Speaker 1: It's like a balm and it's so much softer on 359 00:19:29,960 --> 00:19:34,000 Speaker 1: your skin than like makeup wipes or my salar water, 360 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 1: which both I still really love. I love using my 361 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 1: salar water to take off my mascara, but those skincare 362 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:41,679 Speaker 1: products are like my holy grail at the moment. And 363 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 1: I haven't seen my skin break out, and my skin 364 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 1: barrier always gets really really damaged, like I do break 365 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 1: out in hives quite a bit, like I break out 366 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 1: in a rash. Like I use the Road glazing milk 367 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: the other day and I broke out in these full hives, 368 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:01,920 Speaker 1: like all of my face like it was burning, which 369 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 1: is so weird because I've used it before and I've 370 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:07,639 Speaker 1: never had that reaction. And everyone raves about the glazing 371 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 1: milk and my skin hates it. So those ones I 372 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 1: know my holy Grails, they will won't break out my skin. 373 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 1: And I know you guys didn't ask, but I always 374 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:21,639 Speaker 1: get tips on my hair. I've been absolutely loving the 375 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:26,120 Speaker 1: metal detox range from loreal professionals. If you guys are 376 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 1: traveling Europe, you're coming to London, even if you're going 377 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 1: to Bali, if you're going away from anywhere from your 378 00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:35,920 Speaker 1: original home, you guys need to get this because the 379 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:38,359 Speaker 1: metals in the water at each country that you go to, 380 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 1: especially Europe, because the water the pipes are so old, 381 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:44,879 Speaker 1: there's so much metal in the water, and if you 382 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:47,400 Speaker 1: have any bleach in your hair, your hair will fall 383 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 1: out and your hair will be so affected dry, you'll 384 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,880 Speaker 1: get split ends like your hair will look so much 385 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:55,439 Speaker 1: more duller because your hair is not used to the 386 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 1: amount of metal and the amount of stuff in the 387 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:01,840 Speaker 1: water of that country. So, if you guys are traveling 388 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 1: over this period, one hundred percent, either get the mask, 389 00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 1: the shampoo, the leaving conditioner. Obviously all three would be great, 390 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 1: but I think it can be a little bit pricey 391 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 1: even if you can get one of those things to 392 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:17,960 Speaker 1: help protect your hair. My hair has honestly never felt softer. 393 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 1: My hair feels amazing and it's so good, like I 394 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:26,560 Speaker 1: cannot rave about a product enough, Like it is so 395 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:29,680 Speaker 1: so good for your hair. My hair feels so healthy, 396 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 1: so hydrated. I'm not seeing any damage obviously because I've 397 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:36,119 Speaker 1: got bleach in my hair, like I've got no split ends, 398 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 1: and it just like feels so moisturized, so hydrated. My 399 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 1: curls are thriving. And I honestly believe it's because of 400 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 1: that range that I'm using. It's so good. Is a 401 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 1: social life in UK very different to us, like confidence, 402 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:54,480 Speaker 1: mannerisms and conbos. I have noticed this a little bit. 403 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:58,120 Speaker 1: I think it's because obviously the I'm meeting so many 404 00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:00,760 Speaker 1: people here, and a lot of people aren't born in 405 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:03,720 Speaker 1: London either. People have moved from different parts of the UK, 406 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 1: Like obviously some people are from London, but a lot 407 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:09,920 Speaker 1: of people don't have their immediate family in London. Especially 408 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,120 Speaker 1: the industry that I'm in, in the creative industry, It's 409 00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,320 Speaker 1: so easy to connect with people and so much more 410 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:17,399 Speaker 1: people are open to meeting new people, and that's something 411 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:20,920 Speaker 1: I've really really loved about being in London. You have 412 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 1: to be type A here. Plans can come up last 413 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 1: second and you just have to roll with the punches, 414 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 1: which is something I'm really loving, which is really surprising 415 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 1: because you guys know how type AI am. I'd love 416 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 1: to have everything planned, but you just can't. Obviously you 417 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 1: can have things that you can put boundaries in. But 418 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:38,920 Speaker 1: I think so many people are so much more open 419 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 1: to meeting friends and making friends because they don't have 420 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 1: their family or like people to really lean on. Here 421 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:46,920 Speaker 1: that you make friends as family, and that's something I've 422 00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:51,640 Speaker 1: really really noticed and loved about this confidence wise, men 423 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 1: will shoot their shot like a lot more and they're 424 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 1: a lot more polite, Like just in the way that 425 00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 1: you speak in day to day life, there's a lot 426 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 1: more manners I would say are used in just the 427 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,440 Speaker 1: way you speak it like it's a lot more poshure. 428 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:12,920 Speaker 1: I have not really had any rude experiences besides being 429 00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 1: in France, but I think the French people are known 430 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 1: to be rude. Well that's just what I've heard. Dating 431 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 1: in the UK compared to OZ yet to know, I 432 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 1: got suspended from Hinge and I haven't gone on a 433 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 1: date yet in the UK, so I would love to 434 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 1: report back on that. Hopefully I go on at least 435 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 1: one date while I'm here. But again, it's just not 436 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 1: a priority at the moment. I'm not looking for a man, 437 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,959 Speaker 1: I'm not looking for a sticky situation chip, I'm not 438 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 1: looking for any of that. Like I'm here with my friend, 439 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 1: here with making friends. That's my priority is traveling, working, 440 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 1: producing good content, being with my girls, meeting new friends, 441 00:23:57,000 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 1: getting life experiences that like, yeah, obviously the man came along, 442 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 1: it would be nice, but it's not a priority that 443 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 1: I'm actively looking for. So I'm I'm yet to know 444 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 1: what some advice you could give to a girlie in 445 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:14,199 Speaker 1: her twenties trying to find friends. Shoot your fucking shot, babe, 446 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,359 Speaker 1: Shoot your fucking shot. I obviously came over to London, 447 00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,680 Speaker 1: I had Malita, I knew of a few people here, 448 00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 1: not too many, and you literally just have to message people, 449 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 1: Hey I'm in London. Hey I just came to London. 450 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:27,959 Speaker 1: Well this is what I've been doing, and being like, 451 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 1: we'd love to grab coffee with you, Like so many 452 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,400 Speaker 1: girls have reached out to me. I've met some amazing 453 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 1: people purely on dms on Instagram. If you catch someone's 454 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 1: vibe and you really vibe with them, fucking message them. 455 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 1: So many people in their twenties feel lost and alone. 456 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 1: It is such a normal experience. You literally just have 457 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 1: to fucking message them. You literally just go, I'd love 458 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 1: to grab coffee if you were free soon, Like love 459 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 1: your vibe, Like I saw that you were here, Like 460 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,879 Speaker 1: I'm here too, Wo'd love to message you. You just 461 00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,640 Speaker 1: have to shoot your shot, like and if they don't reply, 462 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,840 Speaker 1: they don't reply, that's okay, they it wasn't meant to be. 463 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 1: But honestly, you have to take it with a grain 464 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:06,120 Speaker 1: of salt if they don't reply. But you will one 465 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 1: hundred and ten percent find girls and meet new girls 466 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:15,640 Speaker 1: and do some amazing things if you literally just message them. 467 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 1: It's actually that easy. And I always said that, but 468 00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,359 Speaker 1: I've really had to do that because I'm obviously not 469 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:25,440 Speaker 1: in a country and in a place that many people 470 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:28,680 Speaker 1: know me and I have my established friendship group here 471 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 1: and everything like that, Like I don't have that, Like 472 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:32,480 Speaker 1: I have my leader, and that's it. So I've really 473 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 1: had to like force myself out of my comfort zone. 474 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:38,879 Speaker 1: Two meet people, two message people, and it's been so good. 475 00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:43,120 Speaker 1: And it literally is just shooting a shot. Stand on business, 476 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:46,479 Speaker 1: be confident in yourself, ask friends out, and then the 477 00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:49,439 Speaker 1: more you do that, the more everyone will reward you, 478 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 1: and the more people will reward you, and the more 479 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,440 Speaker 1: open you become, people will come into your life. And 480 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 1: you just got to be open to having new experiences, 481 00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 1: say yes to things, go to places alone, and you 482 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,199 Speaker 1: will not even realize that you will make friends just 483 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 1: by being a part of things, and you just have 484 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:08,280 Speaker 1: to be open and surrender yourself to that. Someone asks, 485 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 1: where do you see yourself in the next year, anything 486 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:15,199 Speaker 1: you want to have achieved. I think right now, I 487 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:18,160 Speaker 1: just want to keep on going on the road of 488 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:22,800 Speaker 1: self discovery and really figuring my shit out, finding out 489 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 1: what I want in life. I am so young, I 490 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:30,639 Speaker 1: am figuring it out, and I think being open and 491 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 1: honest online about that and figuring that out is like 492 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 1: what my purpose is and sharing that experience, sharing the 493 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 1: highs and lows, and just taking people along that journey. 494 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:44,680 Speaker 1: I love traveling and I really want to touch into 495 00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:46,879 Speaker 1: that and I don't have to have it all rushed 496 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 1: and figured out now, and I just want to keep 497 00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:51,440 Speaker 1: on going on the path that I'm on. And I 498 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 1: think I've really found stuff that makes me happy, and 499 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,199 Speaker 1: I think the biggest thing I've learned as well with 500 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,439 Speaker 1: friendships and all of this stuff that I'm doing is like, 501 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:04,200 Speaker 1: the only person that you have to be responsible for 502 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:07,439 Speaker 1: in your twenties is yourself. And when it comes to 503 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,160 Speaker 1: friendships and when it comes to relationships and everything like that. 504 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 1: I'm going at a bit of attention, by the way, 505 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:16,920 Speaker 1: but you cannot expect the same from somebody else. What 506 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:20,680 Speaker 1: you expect in friendships and what you put out in friendships, 507 00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 1: you cannot expect the same back. And the only person 508 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:29,879 Speaker 1: you really have is yourself, and you cannot get hurt 509 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 1: by what everybody else is doing and what they've achieved 510 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 1: and what you haven't achieved. Like, you are responsible for yourself. 511 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,440 Speaker 1: You do not have to follow somebody else's path. You 512 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,880 Speaker 1: do not have to follow and do what other people 513 00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,520 Speaker 1: are telling you to do. You literally just have to 514 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:47,119 Speaker 1: do you. And that is what I'm achieving at the moment. 515 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,679 Speaker 1: That is what I want to achieve, is do me 516 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,919 Speaker 1: do what Sam wants to do. Figure out Sam, find 517 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 1: who Sam is at her core, and say that she's 518 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,680 Speaker 1: done all of these amazing opportunities. Like my number one 519 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 1: motto is I want to be the mom that has 520 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:05,360 Speaker 1: great memories in her early twenties and be like, well, 521 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,200 Speaker 1: when your mom was young, she went off and did this, 522 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,399 Speaker 1: like your early twenties is for being selfish, and that 523 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 1: is not obviously, don't treat people like shit, but they're 524 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,280 Speaker 1: your choices. You do what you want to do in life. 525 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,919 Speaker 1: You pique what you want to do, and that is 526 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 1: what my goal is to achieve and to take you 527 00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,879 Speaker 1: guys along that journey and to take you guys and 528 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,520 Speaker 1: to encourage you to do it yourself. And that is 529 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:32,400 Speaker 1: like my biggest goal. Obviously I have like money goals 530 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:35,919 Speaker 1: and career goals and everything like that, but I one 531 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 1: hundred percent back myself that I'll be able to do 532 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 1: it and I'll be able to achieve it in a 533 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 1: whatever way possible. Someone said, did you get the youth 534 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,760 Speaker 1: mobility visa for the UK? Can you walk through the process. 535 00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 1: I actually don't have the youth mobility visa. I have 536 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 1: just a holiday visa and you can stay in London 537 00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 1: for up to three months straight. So that's if you 538 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 1: don't go to Paris, because as soon as you go 539 00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:00,160 Speaker 1: to Paris or something, it refreshes you can just like 540 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,960 Speaker 1: you can only stay in the United Kingdom for three 541 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 1: months straight. But you can travel in and out. The 542 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 1: Youth Mobility Visa is amazing obviously because you can stay 543 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 1: up to three years, so you can work here. And 544 00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:16,719 Speaker 1: I'm not employed by anyone in the UK. Like I'm 545 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:20,280 Speaker 1: not earning money in the UK. I'm not like contributing 546 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 1: to their government. I'm not employed by anyone in the UK. 547 00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 1: So if you were earning money, you would need to 548 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 1: be on the Youth Mobility Visa, but I'm not, so 549 00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:30,479 Speaker 1: if that makes sense, i can just kind of like 550 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,120 Speaker 1: travel here and there, and I'm just on a traveling 551 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:35,480 Speaker 1: visa because I am just traveling, if that makes sense. 552 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:37,960 Speaker 1: But if I were to like sign a lease or 553 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 1: anything like that and like stay here long term, that's 554 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 1: when I'm going to get the Youth Mobility visa, if 555 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,080 Speaker 1: that makes sense. So I'm just like on a holiday 556 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:47,200 Speaker 1: visa at the moment, and then I'll go home to 557 00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 1: Australia for summer and then I'll probably apply for my 558 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 1: youth Mobility visa so I can actually like pay rent 559 00:29:52,760 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 1: and everything here and then figure it out from there 560 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 1: or like get a job here or something like that. 561 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 1: Who knows, what are you looking for in a partner 562 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 1: right now? I'm not necessarily looking for a partner, But 563 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 1: if I were to describe what I'm looking for in 564 00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:15,600 Speaker 1: a partner, it would just be my best friend. I 565 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: just want a best friend that I can laugh with. 566 00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:22,280 Speaker 1: Trust and communication is so so important to me. Just 567 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 1: trusting in that they have your best interest. And just 568 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:29,480 Speaker 1: someone I can laugh, create memories with and have fun 569 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 1: with and just like not take life so seriously. And 570 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 1: it's just someone that is my best friend, that thinks 571 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,200 Speaker 1: the world of me, that wants to make me feel 572 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 1: special and loved, and it's funny and kind and generous 573 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:47,800 Speaker 1: and considerate of feelings, and someone who's emotionally intelligent and 574 00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 1: in touch with their emotions. I don't want to play games. 575 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:52,480 Speaker 1: I don't want to fuck around. I don't want to 576 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,720 Speaker 1: be like, oh does he like me? Does he not? Situationship. 577 00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 1: I want someone headstrong, knows what they want, gets me, 578 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:03,200 Speaker 1: No games, no nothing. And that's what I'm looking for, 579 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:07,080 Speaker 1: Just a best friend. How to stop comparing yourselves to others, 580 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:11,080 Speaker 1: especially being in relationships when you're single, guys being in 581 00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:15,440 Speaker 1: a relationship. I think something I've really noticed in the 582 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 1: like the last year and a half of being single, 583 00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:21,000 Speaker 1: especially in Australia. As everyone romanticizes and things that you're 584 00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 1: at the peak of your life and you're the most 585 00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 1: successful when you're in a relationship. Being in a relationship 586 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,800 Speaker 1: is not that fun. Being in a relationship is hard. 587 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 1: You have to choose that person every single day. You 588 00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 1: have to consider that person every single day. Yes, you're 589 00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:35,800 Speaker 1: growing a life with them, but it's not all rainbows 590 00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,960 Speaker 1: and butterflies all the time. There are tough conversations that 591 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,400 Speaker 1: you need to have. It is shit. Sometimes you do 592 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 1: argue it's not that good. It's literally not that good. 593 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,960 Speaker 1: The only person I'm responsible for, the only feelings I'm 594 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 1: responsible for is me myself and I literally if I 595 00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:54,960 Speaker 1: want to fly to ubeat the tomorrow and get a 596 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 1: villa and go off my phone for four days, I 597 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 1: can do that. I don't have to tell my for 598 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,280 Speaker 1: what I'm doing. I don't have to get ease approval. 599 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,800 Speaker 1: I don't have to have this conversation back and forth, 600 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 1: like if I want to go home at eleven PM, 601 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:08,320 Speaker 1: if I want to go home at seven am, I 602 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 1: don't have to tell anyone that it's great. Being single 603 00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,520 Speaker 1: is so much fun. Let's romanticize being single, Let's love 604 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 1: being single, I am figuring myself out, I am finding 605 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 1: my worth. Like I think being single is so good 606 00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:26,360 Speaker 1: because you find out and you raise a level of standard. 607 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:30,440 Speaker 1: Like normalize wanting to be single, Normalize wanting to be alone, 608 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 1: because that is when you find out the most about yourself, 609 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 1: because you are constantly in an uncomfortable environment because you 610 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:38,960 Speaker 1: don't have anyone to fall back on. You only have 611 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 1: yourself and that is a beautiful thing. And don't think 612 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 1: you're behind in life, or don't think you're always happy 613 00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 1: because you're not in a relationship. Fuck that. Fuck that. 614 00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 1: Like no like love being by yourself, love like being independent, 615 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 1: doing those things, because there will be one day when 616 00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 1: you meet someone and your world will obviously it would 617 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,600 Speaker 1: change for good. And being in a relationship is also 618 00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 1: being beautiful and growing life with someone, doing all those 619 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,680 Speaker 1: things with someone is amazing, But also being single is 620 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:11,959 Speaker 1: so amazing. You will never have that time again, Like 621 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,680 Speaker 1: I hopefully I'm in a relationship when I'm twenty eight. 622 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 1: And I got to look back when I was twenty three, single, 623 00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:21,680 Speaker 1: living my best life, traveling around the world, like doing 624 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 1: whatever I wanted because I had no one to consider. 625 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 1: And I think that one helps you grow better as 626 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,160 Speaker 1: an individual. It raises your standards because you don't settle 627 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,600 Speaker 1: for less, because you provide yourself with everything that you want, 628 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:35,880 Speaker 1: that you don't then need a man to give you 629 00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,200 Speaker 1: happiness and to give you everything. So you were so 630 00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 1: much more confident in who you are as an individual 631 00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:44,480 Speaker 1: that you attract a high quality person. That is it. 632 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,200 Speaker 1: You do not need to be single, You do not 633 00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:51,160 Speaker 1: need to be in a relationship. I mean, yeah, were anyway, guys, 634 00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 1: I thought I would wrap up this little episode. I 635 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 1: don't want to drag it on for too much. I 636 00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 1: feel like I've been rambling. Please still give me some 637 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 1: as I try to learn how to podcast by myself, 638 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 1: because it is a massive transition. I want to also 639 00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:08,440 Speaker 1: thank you guys so much for the love and support 640 00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,799 Speaker 1: that I've had on this podcast. It's definitely been a 641 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:14,920 Speaker 1: lot of change, a lot of good change. And I 642 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:16,880 Speaker 1: love that I can take you all around the world 643 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 1: and record from my laptop and take you along all 644 00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:23,000 Speaker 1: the journey live time. I feel like this is literally 645 00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,080 Speaker 1: so much fun. I love sitting down with you guys, 646 00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:27,920 Speaker 1: filling you in with my life. There's something I wanted 647 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:31,680 Speaker 1: to start doing on this podcast, and I feel like 648 00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:36,480 Speaker 1: a lot of podcasts end off their episodes with like 649 00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:38,600 Speaker 1: a quote and everything like that, which I think is 650 00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:42,160 Speaker 1: super amazing. But on hot of than yesterday, we're working 651 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,279 Speaker 1: on being one percent better than every single day. We're 652 00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:47,120 Speaker 1: not taking shit from no one. We are bettering ourselves, 653 00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:49,880 Speaker 1: we are leveling up, we are finding the best versions 654 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,959 Speaker 1: of ourselves. So I'm going to tell you some hard 655 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:57,200 Speaker 1: truths because i feel like another big reason as to 656 00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:01,799 Speaker 1: why I'm sometimes misunderstood online is because I'll tell you 657 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 1: how it is. I'm not gonna fluff around. I'm not 658 00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:07,040 Speaker 1: going to be around the bush. I'm not gonna tell 659 00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:08,239 Speaker 1: you what you want to hear. I'm going to tell 660 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:09,920 Speaker 1: you what you need to hear. And whether you think 661 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,080 Speaker 1: that's hard of the first place, I'm gonna be your 662 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 1: mum and I'm gonna walk you through it, and i'm 663 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,920 Speaker 1: gonna we're gonna get through it together. But because of that, 664 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:18,880 Speaker 1: we need some hard truths. And I'm going to tell 665 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,960 Speaker 1: you a hard truth. Okay, people like you better when 666 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 1: you hate yourself. That is what I've noticed. So that's 667 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 1: my hard truth is people like you better when you 668 00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:34,600 Speaker 1: hate yourself. Just sit with that. And it is so true. 669 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:38,200 Speaker 1: I've noticed people who send me more love when I'm 670 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:42,040 Speaker 1: struggling on the internet, and people feel bad for me 671 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 1: when I'm struggling on the internet, but when I'm happy 672 00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,160 Speaker 1: traveling the world showing you guys how happy I am. 673 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:50,000 Speaker 1: Not you, guys. I just want to say, like preface, 674 00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 1: not you girls that are listening. You guys aren't. I'm 675 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:56,239 Speaker 1: just talking about the haters or people that have such 676 00:35:56,280 --> 00:36:00,120 Speaker 1: loud voices on the Internet that want to bring people down, 677 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 1: even like this whole Indie Clinton movement and everything is 678 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:07,160 Speaker 1: like when she was going through hard time. People want 679 00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:09,640 Speaker 1: to relate to your sadness, and people don't want to 680 00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:13,439 Speaker 1: see other people happy. People like you more when you're 681 00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 1: sad and you hate yourself. Don't be that and don't 682 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:21,400 Speaker 1: let that get to you. When you're happy and you 683 00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:23,759 Speaker 1: figure out what you want and you know what makes 684 00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 1: you happy, it doesn't matter what anybody else is saying. 685 00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 1: And don't let anyone rate on your parade. Don't let 686 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:35,799 Speaker 1: people like you more because you say how much you 687 00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:39,400 Speaker 1: hate yourself. Be confident in what you want, find your worth, 688 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:43,120 Speaker 1: find what you want from life, and stand out for 689 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:46,560 Speaker 1: that shit. It's not bragging. It's not being a narcissist. 690 00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:50,919 Speaker 1: It's knowing what you want. It's standing on business, and 691 00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:55,279 Speaker 1: it's been confident in yourself and be confident. I know 692 00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,040 Speaker 1: that you know who you are. I know that you 693 00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,839 Speaker 1: know what you want, and chase that fucking go get it. 694 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 1: Stand on business, babe, Stand on fucking business. And that's 695 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 1: my hot take. So let me know if you guys 696 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:07,319 Speaker 1: want some more hot takes. I don't really know where 697 00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:09,640 Speaker 1: I was going with that, but yeah, thank you guys 698 00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,840 Speaker 1: so much for coming on episode two of Hotter Than Yesterday. 699 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,839 Speaker 1: I really just felt like we needed to sit down, chat, 700 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:17,879 Speaker 1: have a little bit of a rant. Don't really know 701 00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:21,719 Speaker 1: where this episode went, but I just feel like this 702 00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:25,000 Speaker 1: is like a little late night chat with a girlies 703 00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:28,160 Speaker 1: in bed, having a debrief, having a little chat, having 704 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 1: a little catch up, and yeah, let me know what 705 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:32,160 Speaker 1: you guys want to hear from me. Send me a 706 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:36,040 Speaker 1: message over on the Hotter Than Yesterday Instagram and or 707 00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:39,160 Speaker 1: even on my personal I will check them both. But yeah, 708 00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,920 Speaker 1: thank you guys so much. I love you all so 709 00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,040 Speaker 1: so much. Thank you so much for your support and 710 00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:52,840 Speaker 1: love and kindness, and yeah, see you next week. Bye.