1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: The City and Whip with Kate Ritchie Podcast, Tom. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:06,360 Speaker 2: Ever look at him with his smug little smile over there. 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: What have you got for us? We haven't done this 4 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:08,800 Speaker 2: segment for a while time. 5 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 3: We're going to do the Citsium Weather with Kate Ritchie's. 6 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 4: Everything Can Be the Past, Present Future? 7 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:21,840 Speaker 2: Am I the only one? Are you the only one 8 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 2: wearing a handed scarf with a pop collar today? Yeah? 9 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 4: Well, thank you so much for the opportunity to wear. 10 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 4: I've got a I've got a box in front of me. Kay, 11 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:32,840 Speaker 4: you haven't done this before, haven't. 12 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 5: I'm intrigued in the music, is it? It's so captivating 13 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 5: that box open? Come on, So, I've got this box 14 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 5: in front of me now inside. There's a question that 15 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 5: was submitted by one of our listeners, sent to us 16 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:48,880 Speaker 5: on our Instagram page. So DMed us and he wants 17 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 5: to know. 18 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,839 Speaker 4: If he's the only one listening right now, who this 19 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 4: has happened to. Let's pull it out of the box. 20 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 4: How the only one who has died. 21 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 2: For twenty minutes? What? Oh? 22 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 1: What? 23 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 4: That is a huge question to ask, and it came 24 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 4: from Phil, who joins us on the line. 25 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:14,960 Speaker 2: Now, Phil, are you there? 26 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: Yes, I am guys, Pixy with er and Coda boy. 27 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 2: How are you thanks for joining us? Filthy phil Philip, 28 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 2: I'm correct, this happened not that long ago. 29 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: I was last year in November. But yeah, it's not 30 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: that long. No, I got it now. 31 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 2: Time flies, Time flies when you're dead. How long were 32 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 2: you actually did for phil? 33 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 1: Ah some way to go? Twenty eight minutes, But that's 34 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: in and out, back after back. After the paramedics arrived 35 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 1: and they told me so that I was okay, but 36 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: he reckons that they just don't have the reassuring because 37 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: they were still giving the dec pumping my chest a 38 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 1: bit afterwards. So they got me into the ambulance to the. 39 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 2: Hospital twenty eight minutes. 40 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 5: Tell us what what happened just before that twenty eight 41 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 5: minute started? How did you actually die? 42 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: Had a cardiac risk? Of course by naneurism on the wall. 43 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: I was playing basketball, doing my thing up and down 44 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: the court, running around. No signs, no symptoms apparently, like 45 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: they say, I just dropped. 46 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 2: Wow, like white men can't breathe? What which is an eye? 47 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 1: An eye guy? 48 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 2: The sequel that over took off? 49 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 5: Who was there with you at the time. Did you 50 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 5: have a team where you were just like doing drills 51 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 5: on your own. 52 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 1: No, we're playing a game. That'sual game. Come with scorekeeper 53 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:32,959 Speaker 1: and his scorecas for our team. So he was there, Yeah, 54 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,800 Speaker 1: he was there. He was there. Yeah, he pad smartest 55 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: thing he's ever done. 56 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 3: Who was the one person that did keep it going 57 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 3: and that kept you alive? Before the ambulance. 58 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: Got there, a nurse had come rushing over from one 59 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 1: of the other courses, was playing basketball and off Judy nurse. 60 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 2: Wow. 61 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: He started the procedure, and then I think you got 62 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 1: a few others because it's quite hard work rotating and around. 63 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 2: Phil, Can I ask when you'd passed away, what did 64 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 2: you see? Was the light there were You're told to 65 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 2: go back talk us through what it was like being dead. 66 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 1: That that's the way everyone wants to know. My answer 67 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 1: is I always say, look, I used to term a 68 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:11,799 Speaker 1: bit out of body, right, no lights, no angels. 69 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 2: So you were looking back at yourself, Phil, standing. 70 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 1: There watching it or like watching a movie telling everyone. 71 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: One of the big big things that I recall after 72 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 1: a wake up and sticks in the head that I 73 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 1: was like standing there, Josh, what are you doing on 74 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:28,959 Speaker 1: your phone? Get off at phone? Tripple that's to be 75 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 1: fun because he's always on his phone. 76 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 2: My god, was there a sense of fear? 77 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 5: Like when you're watching the scene unfolded, did you know 78 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 5: you were going to come back? 79 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 6: Well? 80 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't know it was me. My vision 81 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: says that I didn't know it was me. And yeah, 82 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: there's the nurse coming over. Okay, the paramedics is here. 83 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: It's all good. I can go and leave it in 84 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: everyone's stands. 85 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 2: Now, that's the sense. He doesn't know that he's that's 86 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 2: made up movie. But he doesn't know. 87 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 5: I don't think it's anything like Philms. 88 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 2: It's exactly liked. 89 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 5: Since having an experience like this, what are you doing differently? 90 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 5: Like how has it changed your life? 91 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 2: Not just the health stuff. 92 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 5: Obviously, like I've got to do a bit more of 93 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 5: this and a bit less of this, but how has 94 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 5: it changed your mindset, mindset? 95 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: I'm feeling a bit blessed, guys, Yeah, so you should be. 96 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 1: So I'm feeling a bit like, well, you know, he listened. 97 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 1: There was fifty minutes of basketball time that could have 98 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: happened anyway. Yeah, it's got to be so there's got 99 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 1: to be someone up and looking after me. 100 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 3: Oh did they finish the game, Phil, who won doesn't 101 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 3: really matter. 102 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 5: I think you're the winner. 103 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: The first guys exact question at that time, were up 104 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: on or something? The game we've got so. 105 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 5: You weren't faking a turn because you were behind? 106 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 2: Did throw the game? Did you feel you're stuffed at. 107 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 4: Your hardest take? 108 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 2: Stuffed for the time? They laugh too. I feel you'll 109 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 2: die again. 110 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 1: No, when I saw that we won the. 111 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 2: Game, that is fascinating, mate, world done. 112 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 3: God, that's why we need a DEFIB at every sporting events. 113 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: At all sporting events, everyone do their CPR. It's so vital. 114 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 1: People need to get out there and do That's that's 115 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 1: a serious message. Part can only feel. 116 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,719 Speaker 2: Are we looking for people who have just passed away? 117 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 2: Tom and come back? 118 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 1: All? 119 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:16,479 Speaker 3: People who have died for more than twenty minutes. That's 120 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 3: going to be tough. 121 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 2: That's going to be tough. 122 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 4: So is Phil the only one who has died and 123 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:26,239 Speaker 4: come back before? Bring in your great stories now, Col Yeah, well. 124 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 2: Thanks Peel, Lucky, Phil, Ali and Thorney. Welcome to the show. 125 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 2: You're a nurse, but you actually died for two minutes yourself. 126 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 6: I did, I did? That was only seventeen years old. 127 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 6: And I was on the operating table and I had 128 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:45,600 Speaker 6: a cardiac risk and so good. 129 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 3: So can I. I mean, you would not be being 130 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 3: under you wouldn't remember too much, but obviously did you. 131 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 6: Remember it all? 132 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:53,919 Speaker 2: Wow? So what were you like? 133 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 3: Phil? 134 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 2: Looking over? 135 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 3: It was an outer body experience looking over and seeing yourself. 136 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 6: Absolutely absolutely was. When he was talking, I was smiling 137 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 6: because I don't know anybody else that this has happened to, 138 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 6: And it was. It was exactly the same. Although I 139 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 6: was looking down on the sea, but I had no 140 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:19,119 Speaker 6: sensation of floating or anything like that. I could see 141 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 6: and hear everything that was happening. And the unusual thing 142 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 6: about it that I realized later was I was completely calm. 143 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 6: I was just I guess you could say, mildly curious 144 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 6: watching everything going on. 145 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:39,040 Speaker 2: Well that's what Phil said. Real it was almost almost 146 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 2: like it wasn't him that he was looking at. Is 147 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 2: that how you felt? 148 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 6: No, I knew it was me watching, but I and 149 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 6: I knew I do know it was me on the 150 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:53,679 Speaker 6: table too. It was just it was just the whole 151 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 6: thing was, like I said, out of body. 152 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:00,479 Speaker 5: But it was very peaceful and at the end of 153 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 5: the two minutes then is there a feeling of kind 154 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 5: of coming back or a jolt back into your body 155 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 5: where you know you stop. I mean you said you 156 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 5: weren't floating, but when you're back in your body and 157 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 5: you know everything's okay. 158 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 6: No, No, it was just it was almost like a dream, 159 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 6: you know, when you're looking down over a scene. But 160 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 6: I myself didn't have any sensation of floating. 161 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 2: Telly, why were you on the table? 162 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 6: I was having an operation? 163 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 3: Do you do you know whose fault it was? Was 164 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 3: it the anethetist or what was it? 165 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:38,679 Speaker 2: Ali? 166 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 6: No, Well, this is back in nineteen seventy three and 167 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 6: no open disclosure wasn't a big thing. Then nobody told 168 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 6: me no, and you know they told my mother and 169 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 6: my mother said, or don't tell her, and it wasn't. 170 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 6: I was back at the surgeons in six weeks having 171 00:07:56,680 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 6: a check up and I said him, you know, did 172 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 6: anything happen during the operation? And he said what he means. 173 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 6: So I reeded word for word what he did and 174 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 6: what he needed to said, and what he looked like 175 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 6: at where he was and everything, and he was absolutely godsmakes. 176 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 6: He said, well, you had a cardiac rereer. OK. 177 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 5: So when you were saying that you repeated back what 178 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 5: the doctor said. Were they having a conversation about the 179 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 5: fact that you would die, were dying or you? 180 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 6: No? No. I actually can't tell you what was certain 181 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 6: said because he was swearing, but in amongst it was no, 182 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:35,679 Speaker 6: oh no, and that sort of. 183 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 3: Said, oh my, this is unbelievable, Alie, because that's what 184 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 3: I was going to ask you. I mean, there was conversations, 185 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 3: but you can't recall anything that they were saying, but 186 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 3: you can remember word for word what they were saying, 187 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 3: and that he would have been in shock. The doctor 188 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:52,679 Speaker 3: when you told him, he was. 189 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, well it'd probably a bit worried. 190 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,319 Speaker 6: Well, I said to him, were why didn't you tell me? 191 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,040 Speaker 6: And that's when he said, because. 192 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 3: Oh god, I mean, did you come out of that 193 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:07,439 Speaker 3: with any special superpowers? 194 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: Ali? 195 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 3: Like, can you play the piano or could you speak 196 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 3: a different language? 197 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 6: Oh? Mate, I could already play the piano, but I 198 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 6: have absolutely no fear of dying. 199 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 2: Wow, good on you. Thanks for your story, and that's 200 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:28,679 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, but she's just trumped Phil. I don't 201 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 2: know about the two to twenty eight. You delivered it 202 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 2: well low twenty. 203 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:35,079 Speaker 5: Eight, but being able to recall an entire conversation. I 204 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 5: do agree, though, I think back then there were things 205 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:42,320 Speaker 5: that would happen. I have a family story where my 206 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 5: grandmother passed away on the operating table, and I don't 207 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 5: think anyone ever really got the. 208 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 2: Full Did she come back? 209 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 3: No? 210 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 5: Oh, so that's that's a story for a different phoner. 211 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 2: See I Or when did your granny die? 212 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 5: Yeah? 213 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 2: See this is to bring it all down or you 214 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 2: don't know pot. 215 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 3: When I had my my third or fourth nee reconstruction, 216 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 3: I asked, can I get a Is there any chance 217 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 3: I can get a video just to see what you 218 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 3: guys are doing in there? 219 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 2: And they looked at me. 220 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:12,959 Speaker 3: With what us videotape ourselves doing surgery on your body? 221 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 2: I think when your career died Gone with Kate Ritchie 222 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 2: is a Nova podcast. 223 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 3: For more great comedy shows like this, head to Nova 224 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 3: podcast dot com. 225 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 6: Jodd, are you